loads gun . <| sep |> As a woman , you should not be directly involved in a this issue . Her abusive boyfriend could just as easily harm you . Give her DV shelter information and and also you can call the police especially if you are aware of abuse currently in action . Her shitty treatment of you is likely connected to his treatment of her and could have been his dislike of you being forced to express itself through her under the threat of violence . It ' s not an excuse for her behavior but a little bit of perspective . The fact the she is reaching out to you means you are likely the person she trusts the most . You ' re free not to help her out but it could end up being deadly for her as she will likely not reach out to anyone else after you reject her . It generally takes a lot of courage and trust for DV victims to reach out to someone else for help .