The rainbow shirt of scouting and the felt Kecks or some other variant of keck are what i can recognize <| sep |> Nahh you can talk to people like regular folks on okcupid . It is strange to accelerate your flirt with strangers on an already unnatural medium . Actually , the most nonsuggestive conversations will seem suggestive just by the context . If anything , your job is to normalize it . Hey you don ' t have to talk to women you think you ' re too good for . I think , generally speaking , it ' s not rude to talk to be friendly to people . They want to be talking to you , but they ' re not guys they ' re not gonna get hung up on not falling in love . You are just an okperson , you gotta remember that . 95 % of conversations lead no where . It ' s easy to converse with that in mind . Your problem may be that you take this whole thing too seriously .