I swear , we need people to monitor incorrect meme usage <| sep |> I can ' t say anything about Jack ' s motivations , but people can be incredibly mean at your age , even if it turns out that it ' s a misunderstanding . In your meeting with the head , I ' d ask for some adult mediation for talking directly to Jack , because he does not understand that you are trans and have a right to come out too , even if that offends him . Trans people don ' t get a say in who else is trans . Still , I ' m hoping that he ' s angry because the person who told him distorted your story , and you ' ll come to a quick resolution . Is there a counselor at your school you ' re comfortable about talking with ? If there is one and you can talk with them , perhaps they could confidentially advocate for you . And if the head threatens exclusion , you can ask whether there is a procedure to file a grievance or a protest . In your meeting with the head , try to be assertive but polite , and make sure to listen . Just because you have this meeting doesn ' t mean you ' re in trouble , and hopefully this person is a good enough educator to recognize that you have rights to be yourself too .