Unfortunately only a handful of people find a long term partner out of online dating websites , so don ' t put too much faith in it and don ' t use OKC as your only source to meet women . Keep living your life the way you would if online dating websites didn ' t exist and don ' t focus on whether or not you ' ll get a gf out of what you do , just live your life . <| sep |> Yeah gtfo dude . Reporting and moving on doesn ' t remove the problem , it only removes me from the situation in particular but it does nothing to prevent the person from doing it again and from me experiencing it over and over again online and in real life . It ' s a problem that needs to be discussed about , not ignored . Ignoring it only lets the shitty dudes continue to be shitty .