# They done goofed . <| sep |> Indeed , I should have phrased it better worth in my context includes space , which is at a premium in this shoebox condo we call home . I ' d also read that keeping it clean was a bit of a hassle but I can definitely see how it would help LO fit better . I ' ve just stuffed a blanket in there for now . I figure I can toss it in the wash pretty easily . <| sep |> Wait , he says he had the mental breakdown BEFORE he knew about your date ? Sooo . random mental breakdown and then when you mention your cancelled date he suddenly decides that that was the cause , even though he had no clue BEFORE or DURING the breakdown that you had a date ? That is super fishy . Either he made up the breakdown to make you feel bad , or he believes he had a premonition ? , Or . I don ' t buy his story . Reduce contact way way down . He doesn ' t sound particularly stable .