Can you explain the part about needing to register to ensure you get the full 60 k miles ? Do they mean actually applying for the card or is it just a matter of creating an account on their website where you receive emails from them and whatnot and then , later , when the card is available , they ' ll let you know and you can apply for it ? <| sep |> EDIT Tomorrow we are hanging out . I am going to tell her that if she is pushing me away then I ' m going away . I do not enjoy dating a ghost and strung along . Good for you . It takes a lot of strength to stand up for yourself when you care so much about the person you ' re standing up to . While it makes sense that she ' d be nervous about relationships given her past experiences especially since you ' re both pretty young , at some point you have to learn to overcome those fears and allow yourself to be vulnerable to have a meaningful connection with another person . If she can ' t do that , then a relationship can ' t progress . Which is unfortunate , but it says nothing about you as a person .