Don ' t come with the mindset that everyone is going to be an asshole . Just be yourself and see how people treat you . A lot of people assume everyone in America is an asshat . Really , most people I ' ve met have been kind and genuine , even in cities like New York where the stereotype is that everyone is a jerk . Sometimes you run into rude people , but that ' s not the majority . <| sep |> So Arkadia is a big fire spider ? <| sep |> Escalate how ? I ' m genuinely curious as someone who was victim for bullying all through middlehigh school and had every teacher on my side yet there did not seem to be anymore they could do besides offer me the choice of in or out of school suspension . <| sep |> The word is spelled correctly . It was not used properly . Is that not grammar ?