Shout out for the Arab love ! Still way too rare to my taste . <| sep |> My nowex wife we ' d been together for about 9 years , married about 7 , 3 kids and I had been having problems with a total lack of affection or sex in our relationship . I found this tough to deal with , tried to talk to her MANY times about this , she would always just get angry and refuse to talk to me . Asked her to come to marriage counselling with me Nope . Until one day when I tried to talk to her about it again , find out what was going on and she turned around and said she was sick of talking about it , she didn ' t love me that way any more , the honeymoon period was over and her skin crawled when I touched her . I was stupid if I didn ' t think this day would eventually come , it wasn ' t that big a deal , this was my life now and I just had to get used to it . And she didn ' t want to ever talk about this again , and if I tried to raise the subject again she swore she would walk out the door . So yeah , a few days later I moved out .