' Always keep your towel handy ! '<| sep |> I love Steigy and Bob , man . They make the Pens feel like family . Yeah they ' re homers , but I can be subjective on my own , I ' ll let them be homers because they live and die with the Pens like the rest of us . <| sep |> I would like something more than until June . I ' d rather not have to move more than I needwant to <| sep |> Unless you ' re going to try to deconvert her , I think the best course of action is to get through to her that According to the gospel of Jesus Christ , his yoke is easy and his burden is light . If she is doing the best that she can , she should not feel such guilt she is beating herself up to much and needs to relax and let things go . Because all the seemingly perfect people in the church are just acting the part and are tortured souls themselves , or they are psychopaths . Either way , she has to learn to let it go and not be so hard on herself . Forgive the self and don ' t sweat the details . That ' s probably the best you can do try to tell her that she is fine and to let go of perfection and don ' t buy into the act that others are putting on they have problems she doesn ' t know about .