Level it up in Vast Poni Canyon <| sep |> Next time you should play around Silver Bolt <| sep |> Oh , that ' s even better . <| sep |> Being able to establish rapport as early as possible . Also trying to get the other person to establish rapport with you and not you seeking rapport from others . If you can master that everyone will try to win your friendship over , not you fighting for theirs . Also learn how to bypass the critical factor will allow you to get the job done easier and faster . Take a look at NLP if you ' re struggling with others liking you . It really has nothing to do with being liked or nice , it ' s how you hold yourself . You can use niceness to win over people but remember nicenesslikability if people don ' t respect you , your friendship , or your time . You just become a doorstep .