Team have figured out how to beat us . Short , quick passes and running the ball . <| sep |> I am 100 % convinced this is some Alan Resnick bullshit in the making . He ' s doing this deliberately . <| sep |> He sounds incompatible . You are happier without him . He does not take the time to consider you , your feelings , or the person you are . He does not take the time to see to your pleasure , I assume this is mentioned because you want reciprocity . He thinks you should , or are obligated to , support him and that he does not need to make contributions . I would feel better after a time with that weight off my chest too ! Move out , or have him move out , tell him you are happier this way . You have finally found a way to cope with your stress . What does he do for you that you think this is love , or a mutually beneficial relationship ? I think that is what you need to ask yourself . The stuff with the ex is odd , but all the more so because he expects to come to you with less than before . He wants you to financially support him running around and living it up with his friend . Regardless of who it is that is not ok , all the more so since it is an ex .