Do not approach this , Jesus . You honestly think these people went out of their way to cook food you wouldn ' t like ? That ' s insane . It is unbelievably childish to even consider , especially because kale , quinoa , and , spiced sweet potato are all very normal , popular foods . You cannot go to someone else ' s house and demand they make what you want . And the fact that you ' d rather not spend the holidays with your inlaws at all rather than eat frozen lasagna is ridiculous . Sharing a meal is about more than eating , it ' s about spending time together . If you ' re so concerned there won ' t be anything for you to eat , make some side dishes for everyone and bring them along . <| sep |> How did they honor the glorious history of North Korea ?