When you say care about do you mean ones we designate ? I think making it most played would be a hugr misstep . <| sep |> It is more than a little upside down . In my blue pill days , I thought it was because women wanted and escape clause . They want the option to dump at any time , for any reason . Now , I know that is not quite all of it . For men that care , and I count myself among them , there doesn ' t seem to be any justice . We just have to accept it because it is not within out control . <| sep |> hi im SZA and my own journey with voices is different to the norm or so i feel . i had some extream moments where i now looking back had voices and some no so mutch that i put down to my internal voice arguing with me . so , in general i say i don ' t have voices . You say the cats out the bag and yes it is but you can work with your drs to have a productive life its not over just yet as you young . Accept it and work to get the help you need is the best i can recommend . what happens is in the future . good luck