Why don ' t you use logic . A partnership is between two people . I will use heterosexual relationships for my point So if a women gets into a relationship , it is with a man . Women aren ' t dating themselves . Just because you find it difficult to meet someone , doesn ' t mean every other guy is . For a women to be in a relationship , another person is also in one . It takes two for a relationship yet you seem to think women are in relationships and men aren ' t . Who are these women in relationships with ? Certainly not themselves . <| sep |> Hey another notnormalsitter ! I almost never sit regular on chairs or couches . It ' s almost automatic for me to tuck one leg under myself , or both if there ' s enough space . I can do it with pants on or a blanket over my legs , but in shorts it ' s a very unflattering pose , which is something I hope to change ! Here ' s to us both eventually being able to sit weird in any chairs and any outfit ! We can do it ! 😀