45 still can ' t believe how early we found out this time last time we didn ' t know until almost 6 wks I was skeptical so didn ' t bother testing . It feels like it ' s going to be forever until my first ultrasound and I don ' t think I ' m going to be able to sleep properly at night until we get through that . On the other hand , while I was going through my last loss my OB did promise to book me in for an early ultrasound in my third pregnancy , even though there ' s over 10 years between the 2 MC ' s and different fathers so he sees no increased risk . He ' s a gem . Yesterday the nausea was EXTREME so I hope I can keep from tossing up while at thanksgiving dinner today or everyone ' s going to know soon enough . We ' ve only told our parents at this point . My MIL is under STRICT instructions not to breathe a word , under threat that if she does and this turns out to be another lossbaby , next time she ' ll be the last to know . I know she means well , but last time I had strangers coming up to me saying congratulations and I was kind of angry in my responses . Usually they came out like actually , my baby died so fuck your congratulations . What ever happened to unless you see a baby coming out of her , or she told you personally she is , you don ' t know she ' s pregnant . ? Edit I counted wrong . I ' m not 44 , I ' m 45 !