Of course he did ! You know his good sides but also his bad sides . You ' re real life . She ' s fantasy . She never has to ask him to do something twelve times , deal with him when he ' s sick , take care of errands and taxes , point out the inconsistencies in his stories and lies . They ALL say that . If they told the truth about you , they ' d have to admit they were a cowardly , awful , betraying backstabbing person . Your SO was just stupid enough to commit to to writing . I heard that I was a controlling bitch . Every time I have to make a decision in our lifemarriage anymore , that pops into my mind . If only I had been more sweet , more demure , more easily led , right ? <| sep |> It is amazing how much history has changed in 20 years .