Hey explain to us nonlisteners why every time this podcast gets mentioned all the reply comments are just people listing brand names . <| sep |> I am still pending after 45 minutes , was in around 1002 . First time doing this , do I just keep waiting ? Does the confirmation come over email or pop up on screen ? I am on a laptop not mobile . Thanks ! <| sep |> Oh my goodness , your poor mom . 4 losses after 20 weeks ? Goodness I ' ve had 2 that late and feel completely alone in my history , so I cannot imagine how isolated she must have felt . I ' m sorry that doesn ' t make her more sensitive to you and that you ' re afraid of hurting her . I know I often worry that if I had a daughter , the worst thing would be for her to bear these painful losses as well .