You are a legend , thank you <| sep |> I think you need to talk with him about this directly . I totally get how those things can lend credence to your thought that he has more ? feelings for her . If you guys are potentially going to get married , then you ' ll both need to lean on one another at some point . Sometimes we ' re insecure , or a parent dies , or we ' re fired . Get working on that communication and see how he can reassure you about his small history with her . You won ' t be able to move forward if you ' re always wondering if she could steal him away at a moment ' s notice . <| sep |> This gif sums up my opinion of how these have been going . I can ' t believe that there are people who think that Next Girl or Howlin ' For You are better than These Days . I ' m mainly lashing out of confusion , are people just voting for their favorites , or do people in this sub just have the exact opposite taste as I do ?