Thank you for this detailed response , you ' ve given me some things to think about . Recently I have been having another crisis where I ' m questioning my gender again . Originally I decided that I wasn ' t trans because I wasn ' t really able to commit to the idea of taking hormones , and so I ' ve been making do with being androgynous and occasionally crossdressing . I think it ' s possible that I have a hard time separating my own gender from my sexual orientation i . e . maybe I want to be the women in trans porn , not have sex with them . It ' s difficult to untangle this . <| sep |> Powering past liljegren on that first one <| sep |> This right here is absolutely brilliant . <| sep |> Sorry , I needed a few minutes to write it .