First time ever ' D <| sep |> You make sure it doesn ' t happen again by doling out consequences for it happening the first time . Why would they suddenly decide to respect her wishes next time ? <| sep |> Never change loledit to the person who left a comment , PM me so we can talk about that . <| sep |> So many fuckers have done the whole lol wouldn ' t it be funny if I did the whole God touching Adam thing but with X ? that it ' s basically a meme at this point . <| sep |> If you hover over them , you get all the information you need . Also , some POPs might revolt if you ignore their reform demands . <| sep |> China being a very hierarchical society , criticism doesn ' t happen very often , especially not upwards , except for Foreigners . As a Foreigner , you fall out of the whole hierarchy class thingy , you are sort of an anomaly and people don ' t really know how to treat you . That means social rules don ' t apply to you , there are no social expectations from you but people also don ' t have to abide by social norms when dealing with you . For Foreigners , it ' s open door to both criticism and praises . It ' s okay for people to point out your flaws too fat , too big nose , etc . which they don ' t do to each others by fear of repercutions . There is a simple way to counter that , point out their flaws in return , they hate it because Chinese aren ' t used to be criticized and some may totally lose it if you tell them that they are fat or that they have black teeth . I mean in a public environment , not corporate .