I ' m in the same boat . I do drink a ton of water at all times during the day and night and chalk it up to that . Sometimes I think it ' s rather mind boggling how I ' m able to wake up so many times without my body still being in sleep paralysis mode . Must be between REM cycles . <| sep |> If you ' re 35 , she ' s going to just be confused . Nobody actually imagines that the guy they ' re talking to is a 35 yearold who has never had sex . So women will assume I ' ve had sex at least a few times ? ! Who knew things would get better the older I get , LOL . <| sep |> Getting enough sleep <| sep |> Red is a bitch to cover up . If she did her hair herself I don ' t blame her for that slip . <| sep |> A little more than a year before people started making comments . Only about 34 months of that was lifting with compounds . Should mention that I started from decent diet and 8 years of yoga , though .