I didn ' t dismiss the sub ? I stated it clearly . That not all people do it . However take a read at the comments and some of the logic and mental gymnastics people perform in regards to the topic . <| sep |> I don ' t feel secure enough with my career to try and make that kind of commitment first year high school teacher at 22 . Also , I live out in the middle of fucking nowhere . I downloaded Zoosk for shits and giggles and the closest match was 95 miles away . Fml <| sep |> Definitely see if you can get to a doctor alone . Even a free health walk in clinic . It ' s urgent for you . I say this because I have a friend who used certain mess he was prescribed and it caused similar issues when he was a teen . Now that he ' s 27 , those side effects are still there and they do affect quality of life .