# uSPEZ IS # NOTMYCEO <| sep |> With a button next to a tiny speaker that plays HOOOOOOW ? !?! when you press it <| sep |> Seems like you ' re just salty you didn ' t win . <| sep |> I forgot to mention don ' t encourage her to go to marriage counseling or for him to go to therapy . Often that makes abuse worse marriage counseling is for couples who are both causing problems with the relationship he will end up making things a lot worse . Also , therapy will not help him because his problem is not with emotions or a mental illness . Personal therapy will arm him with new excuses for his behavior and ways to blame her ie ' I hit you because I ' m depressed ' and ' I ' m feeling suicidal because of you '. Find a program for rehabilitating abusive men . Lundy Bancroft goes into much more and better detail , but the bottom line is this is not an emotional problem , so involving counselors abd therapists people who focus on emotions won ' t help .