My 3 rd catch after it was added , was ditto . In the UK , 3 more since <| sep |> Women . With the wrong ones you can set yourself up to lose half your stuff money included as well as having to pay support going forward . You don ' t get to see your child whenever you want to because you share custody so it rips your heart to the core . If she cheats on you and she is everything it will devastate you . Basically she has the ability to crush your soul , potentially . But when I ' m broke AF , I can deal with that unemotionally and realize I need to work harder . You can control money but another person is a variable with free will and emotional investment . Don ' t get me wrong , I would take the gf over money because it ' s more rewarding but I was only answering the question not a risk vs reward analysis .