I am chill . I ' M TOTALLY CHILL ! !!<| sep |> Alright , so . I don ' t know if me uninstalling and reinstalling fixed it , or the fact that they might ' ve sorted some kinda server issue out , but it works , yay ! I ' m just glad it wasn ' t a system issue on my end . <| sep |> I cannot say mythbusters . I am not sure myself anymore if its a joke . <| sep |> I am an adoptee , found my biofamily altho my mom was already deceased . All I wanted was information to fill in some blanks . I ' m one of 8 children although I was also an only in my afamily . My bdad totally rejected me . A couple sisters , an aunt and a cousin were talking to me . I found out most of what I wanted but was willing to maintain an arms length relationship . One day , everyone of them ceased communicating with me . I never found out why . Their loss . You need to be in a really stable place , you really have no idea how it could work out and it can be very emotionally draining . I ' d wait till after the wedding , but that ' s just my . 02 !