I ' m very interested in people and what makes them tick . I was very interested to know how their thought process worked . As a film major I am always interested in what makes a character who they are . Have you ever been in a conversation with someone who doesn ' t let you get in a word in edgewise ? That ' s what happened to me on those dates . There wasn ' t any point getting into how annoying or unfavorable someone was being on the first date . If something annoying is happening on the first date there probably means there isn ' t going to be a second one . And the first date is where you begin to establish the bonds of communication and trust so that you can share what you find annoying or unfavorable . But it was apparent with these guys in particular that their communication was onesided . It ' s an extreme example but unfortunately too common . Again , the question posited is asking women what men things do that are unattractive but they think are .