My abusive family always used that line on me . Or something similar like ' family is all we have in this world ', ' family always accepts you as you are '. Y ' know it turns out in healthy families they don ' t need to blackmail people in order to hang out together . They want to see each other . Shocking ! I think I overcompensate sometimes too and I ' m not sure doing so occasionally is unhealthy . People who ' ve been through what we have . there ' s a lot of things that are very heavy about it . In order to counterweight that , occasionally weighing the other side of the scale seems to make sense . <| sep |> Haven ' t found any of my favorite ones ported yet , maybe they can be used safely after saving them in SSE CK but haven ' t looked into that . Keep an eye out for Reduces the amount of loot in general , from chests etc , basically makes resources more scarce , which is desperately needed for skyrim . Reduced Gold rewards for quests Another fantastic mod , pretty ridiculous how you get paid 500 gold for bringing someone a letter or delivering a steel sword for them , with this the quests make a lot more sense . These two combined with Morrowloot Ultimate and iNeedset food to scarce makes gold a lot less common , which makes the world a bit harsher and realistic in my experience .