Yeah this sounds exactly like him . last time he stayed with me , we had two nights together . The first night , we had awesome sex . The second night , we slept in the same bed and didn ' t even touch we were really exhausted and it was a unspoken understanding , but I woke up to him holding me and playing with my hair . It ' s the most confusing situation . I don ' t want to play emotional games , but Im just as confused as far as what I want relationship wise right now . I ' m very independent and don ' t even know if I want marriage , but I also feel so passionately about him . He ' s coming to visit me in December with our mutual friend so I guess we ' ll see how it goes <| sep |> Dude is legit part of the end game for us . He D is phenomenal .