It ' s better then nothing . <| sep |> Break up because she really fucked up . But dude , it sounds like you started and escalated this conflict . Why wouldn ' t you just get up and go to bed ? Why would you ask her for space and then force closeness ? I think it would be helpful for you going into future relationships to think of ways you could have stopped the conflict before it got to the grabbing each others phones . EDIT But seriously her reaction was fucked up and insane , for your physical and mental safety , you gotta get away . <| sep |> Greetings , fine gentleman . I speak on behalf of my people . FUCK YOU . <| sep |> I know right ? Since that happened , I set out to have every significant financial thing in writing the reason the inheritance was drawn out that long was because my grandfather didn ' t have an official will . He wrote down that everything should go to my grandmother if he passed away first so she could continue living as she did , but it wasn ' t official , so my aunts could fight the validity of it in court . So I got married with a prenup , and I will get a will as soon as there are children . That ' s all very unromantic , but my aunts taught me people can become monsters turning on their own parents when money is involved .