Thanks for your thoughtful reply I did indeed reply to his text , but in a ' goodbye ' manner , i . e . things are over now . I think he wanted this to be the point where I was like ' no ! wait ! I love you let ' s keep trying ', but I just know the relationship is not good for me . Since then , I emailed him the tickets to an event we were meant to go to , so that he could go to it with his friends , and he sent me a really shitty email in response . Like clockwork , I could have guessed he ' d be really rude and shitty ! That ' s what I ' ve been dealing with the for the last 3 years , despite loving him , and it has really just worn me down . I took it as proof that he hasn ' t changed . We haven ' t spoken since and I don ' t think we will again anytime soon . I ' m looking forward to moving so at least I ' ve got that !