I ' ve got a couple reasons . My friends and I don ' t really go out . We normally kinda just chill at our places and do whatever there . I really enjoy going out , but they don ' t , so I ' m kinda stuck hanging with them and not meeting new people . I don ' t think going to a bar by myself would really work out . I ' m not very great at talking with someone new . I never know what to say to anyone new regardless of who they are . I ' m god awful at catching hints . Example A pretty attractive Tinder girl said she was only in town for the week and really wanted me to show her around . We talked a bit but we never met up because I couldn ' t figure out why someone would want to hang out with someone that they would probably never see again . About a month later I realized what I missed out on . Either that or murder .