You are a pleasant guy ! <| sep |> Because people like the wife compromise the likelihood of getting sterilised . basically encouraging everyone to pat themselves on the back for shitting all over bodily autonomy . People are different . That ' s the difference between me and that poor guy ' s wife . I ' m 25 F and I know I will never change my mind . What do I know that she doesn ' t ? I know that I ' m an antinatalist and I believe that it ' s grossly unethical to bring a child into the world . Someone once told me that by giving life , mothers are also giving eventual death . For me , giving birth is as reprehensible as murdering someone . Just as I can tell you that I have no desire to murder anyone , I can tell you that I will never have the desire to have a baby . People are CF for different reasons . It ' s really condescending for people to make assumptions about this lifestyle and try to claim that we have no idea wtf we ' re doing with our lives .