So if your GF was sick you ' d just let her be sick ? That is super shitty IMO . If it keeps happening , you talk about it . You help them plan out their shit better and work with them . You don ' t pull that ' tough love ' shit on your partner . If you keep talking and working on it with love , not condescension and they still end up begging time after time , you break up . Locking up your shit Having them sit in withdrawal knowing you have the power to make them unsick anytime if you wanted to is just a slower way to kill the relationship . Speaking from experience . If you ' re locking up your shit to hide it from your partner , the relationship might as well be over then and there . <| sep |> I would be down with 4 . 5 mil av for 6 years honestly