derp All I know about the UK is rain , funny accents , and driving on the wrong side of the road . <| sep |> Hey , you know what ? Even if you are being hormonal that ' s ok . You know why ? You just pushed a human being out of your vagina . You just gave birth . YOU . JUST . HAD . A . CHILD . Was DH expecting you to just magically flip a switch and not be hormonal ? Fuck . I ' m sorry , but even if you are being ridiculously stroppy DH should know better . Being hormonal after having a child is perfectly normal and acceptable . So if DH is accusing you of this , or you are worried of it yourself , it is not a consideration . Its like , would he be angry at the baby for crying ? No , of course not , LO is a baby . It doesn ' t matter , either way . Leaving your wife and brand new child on a holiday about family , eating with others without them when you know they ' re waiting for you at home having struggled all day to get everything prepared ? That is beyond selfish . That is cruel . That , to me , shows that he didn ' t even think about you . That , to me , shows that he just took you for granted . That , to me , says that he thought only about himself . Now look , you nottodo 12015123 j a d e d o n t justifyarguedefendexplain with your GMIL and that needs to stop . Don ' t sugarcoat things to be polite . People take advantage of it . Don ' t justify things , people latch on to your justifications and try and wriggle out of what they did . Don ' t argue , state facts . Don ' t defend the way you feel , you have no need to no one gets to dictate your feelings but you . Don ' t explain if they don ' t understand then its because they ' re not listening , its not up to you to make them do that . But what it comes down to is that your husband didn ' t even think about you and his own child . Tell him to make his choice and make it soon .