Baby has been really active these past couple of days . The other night she was kicking so hard I could feel it in my dreams . I keep feeling like I have to wait forever to meet her , then an instant later feeling like we don ' t have anywhere near enough time to prepare . I think we pretty much have all the clothes she ' ll need for the first few months , but there ' s still a lot of work to be done in the nursery , and we haven ' t gotten any nappies or anything like that . I don ' t really know what we need , which is kind of freaking me out . Like , why isn ' t there just a list somewhere that you can go through and tick off the things that need doing . I really wish I could feel more prepared ! <| sep |> normalized violating behaviors What behaviours would those be , exactly ?