Is there any other kind of server ? <| sep |> I love Anna Kendrick , but she ' s way too old . Squirrel Girl was like 14 in her first appearance and is currently 18 . Do a SpiderMan and cast someone the right age . <| sep |> We had what felt like a traditional wedding to me , but seems to have been relatively nontraditional for my crowd as people are still telling us how different it was we got married in May . We had a civil ceremony which , in the UK , means there were certain things that were required to be said and done . I ' m Jewish , so we incorporate Jewish elements in the few ways we could . Following that we had cocktail hour and did speeches during cocktail hour . We all went down to dinner together no grand entrance , which was three different types of food stalls mac n cheese , southern US , and korean steamed buns . We had cupcakes for dessert and didn ' t do anything special to open up the dessert table i . e . no cake cutting or anything . No bridal shower , no engagement party , no bouquet or garter toss we couldn ' t have anyway , I forgot to put on my mom ' s garter , which was my something borrowed , no grand entrance or announcements , no open bar just one red , one white , one beer , and two cocktails . Also no spending the night before apart we stayed together , had breakfast in bed , and watched TV together before I left to start getting ready . My anxiety couldn ' t have taken spending the night apart !