I know on his birthday when he got back he told me they asked why they haven ' t met me yet and he told them I ' m crazy , that I can ' t meet people because I freak out too much and run away . So i guess the reason why I haven ' t met them yet is because he thinks ill freak out due to my severe anxiety . I casually mentioned to him the other day that my family keeps asking why I haven ' t met his yet and he said did you tell them its because your crazy ? and i said I don ' t think it ' d be good to tell them I haven ' t met your family because you think I ' m too crazy but he said he didn ' t mean he thought I was , that he meant I ' m always too scared to go . When I said he ' s never invited me , he was just like oh I thought I did .