Yes . that sounds familiar . <| sep |> Had a bunch of best friendsister type girl friends in the past , this is all I can say man . It ' s gonna be tough . Don ' t let the negative thoughts bring u down . Know their normal and that like every human , it ' s ok to have feelings for another person when you talk to them all the time I don ' t get how girls think . You ' ve been her friend for a while , so maybe it would be good to just be her good friend , be her side help , be supportive and don ' t be pushy . Let everything happens as it happens . If she gets back with him , cool , if she leaves and finds someone else and is happy , cool , if she falls for you , cool . Let whatever happen , happen . In the mean time be a good friend , focus on yourself , important shit like school working out keeping yourself cool and happy , and keep yourself open to new girls who may come up in life . God bless