I haven ' t yet either haha I think you just need to go online to the festival plaza and ill need to know your trainer name to search by . You should be getting a trade for player Ritchie <| sep |> It depends where you are in the ranks . The game has a way of frustrating newer players who think they are the next kuxir or something . I recommend trying to find a decent gaming group that hangs out on teamspeak or discord and trying to build your friends list . If you play with a random who is nice why not try to add as a friend ? Keep at this and over time you should have some people to play with . I agree that the game can be very toxic but always playing alone multiplies the problem . There are solutions you can do yourself with a little effort . Psyonix tries but ultimately it is up to you . They can ' t force people to act in certain ways .