You can , but if the defense hits you . Then the ref CANTSHOULDNT call a penalty <| sep |> Oh that is strange , I had better give it a try wit the narcotics myself then . Hopefully the bugs and kinks will be ironed out and there won ' t be any issues . Thanks for the reply ! <| sep |> I have to agree with this . I would , however , make a point of planning something for the three of them to do together , and maybe shortly after the party . After all , it ' s their friendship that ' s important , not this particular party . In the friends ' defence , sometimes having to limit party invitations is necessary but really sucks , so I would just leave it as it is and do what you can to preserve the long term relationships on your own terms .