Giving a name for a term is not explaining it . <| sep |> I missed it how long was it ? <| sep |> Oh for fucks sake just take my upvote <| sep |> Now , that being said , she still criticizes you because her opinion of what is considered socially adept is non negociable sign of BPD . She believes in an idea of how to be good in social situations , but you are doing something different thus she criticizes you . I really love your whole post , though this part in particular stood out to me . She ' s also big into moving goalposts , so part of me thinks no matter how well I perform socially in her mind , there will always something to get upset about and always something to try and make me feel worse . <| sep |> The whole WEEK will be !