Big X ' s don ' t discourage me <| sep |> For sure . I heard about that on here . I haven ' t watched that episode since it first came out hit close to home , and must have remembered a song from a different scene . I just got Netflix , I ' ll have to rewatch it . <| sep |> Last time was 2011 and this needs to happen . <| sep |> Service jobs pay better ? <| sep |> What genre are you guys ? Nerds ? Hipsters ? Normies ? Stock brokers ? Gutter punks ? Gangbangers ? Hard to recommend without knowing your genre . There ' s the theater but don ' t go to a movie on a first date . First dates should be about getting to know each other and movies are about sitting in silence . Movies are good for a gf but not a 1 st date . The drinking bird is probably what i ' d pick if I had to pick a place over there because it ' s like right next to pequods and has good mood lighting , cocktails , nice decor . Stay away from brightly lit bars on a first date . Local option is a chill little bar I like which is a 10 min walk east on webster from pequods . It ' s a place to go if you guys are into craft beers and if she thinks dive bars are cool . It ' s not really a dive but if she ' s normie she will think it is . The other thing to keep in mind is where she lives . It ' s often advantageous to be near the girl ' s apartment on a first date . Puts her at ease that she can ditch your ass if you suck and she can also invite you back to her place if things go well , or at least do the walk her home kiss her goodnight thing . But usually better to make your move before the walk back to her place . So if she lives far from pequods you might want to plan on ubering to a bar in her hood right after the pizza . The other thing to consider is proximity to a 4 am bar from the 2 am bar . You two might want to keep drinking if you hit it off and time can fly on a first date . 4 am could buy you some extra time to make a move andor continue the makeout sesh that had just started and then got interrupted at the 2 am bar when the bartenders flipped on the lights and yelled last call at you and your girl .