This was my life for a year . You should go read my old posts they ' re identical . You ' re not alone and I commend you for staying as long as you have . You must really love him . However , if your man loves you he needs to protect you and nurture the relationship . Leave . He will realize you were serious all those times you said you couldn ' t tolerate it . It could strengthen the relationship . Find a place to stay and you guys can talk about it amicably without his mother listening . You will be able to share feelings more honestly this way and get to the crux of the problem . You can move forward or end it after that but you have to get out first for your own wellbeing . <| sep |> GIFV linkI am a bot . bot