Have you been on a dating website ? Fit , slim , curvy , more to love . Translation fit , slim , fat , obese . Fit is muscular , slim is anything from skinny to roughly 18 % bodyfat . At this point , you are becoming fat . 20 % of your body weight is the starting point of fat . You have no muscular definition , your risk of disease increases . Once you hit 26 % 28 %, you are considered obese . Your health risks dramatically increase . Now , this is for men . A comparatively similar woman looks much slimmer than a man . This girl looks like she ' s approximately 3134 % body fat on comparison charts , male equivalent of 22 %. That means she is officially fat . It ' s science , not subjectivity . If you ' re trying to justify it as a comparison of yourself , and you think you ' re not fat , I have bad news .