That ' s great to see , its a shame they have to choose between living and caring for their baby in most states . <| sep |> The developers blog mentions an issue with 32 bit operating systems . I wonder if that ' s your issue . <| sep |> Sorry if I worded it poorly . OPs problem is , he would like to be accepted as male . He ' s bummed out at being not seen as male , and as far as I can tell his options are 1 take steps out of the closet and take steps to live as male in his current social groups 2 attempt to be stealth in contexts which aren ' t school , with all the trouble that brings . 3 find a way to be OK with not being seen for now . I didn ' t mean that his only option is to be 100 % stealth , but if he wants to be seen as male he ' s going to have to come out to somebody . People can fuck off and they are not your friends is easy to say when you ' re not 14 at high school . If people don ' t accept me , I block them on Facebook and don ' t call them again . If you ' re at school though , you ' re stuck with these people daily for years and years , so if it goes badly the stakes can be really high . Especially if you don ' t want your mother to find out , especially in some places in the world . With those things in mind , taking steps to pass and making friends as male not at school might be a good way to go . I ' m sorry for not expressing myself so well , did I explain it a bit more clearly ?