yeah figured every thing out exept for the average but i cant see to be able to flair as solved soo <| sep |> Oh no , maybe that was someone else . I don ' t go into attics lol . I ' m terrified of falling though ceilings ! <| sep |> Divide and conquer , it ' s the elite ' s oldest and most effective strategy . <| sep |> Dude . This is perfectly normal . The 2 second crotch grab is a vital part of the pat down , as it is one of the most common places drugs are hidden along with inside the socks . Context is key . It ' s within the context of a police pat down , therefore it ' s not considered sexual assault . An officer that doesn ' t properly grab the crotch isn ' t doing an effective pat down which is why criminals tend to hide drugs there because some officers will halfheartedly pat the crotch and possibly not notice the drugs .