When he sat me down after work one day very shortly after our 7 year wedding anniversary to express how he hadn ' t been happy for a while , he didn ' t think I was happy either and he wanted a divorce . I knew it was over once I asked two questions 1 Can we go to marriage counseling to find out what ' s going on ? No , he wouldnt and didn ' t want to . then I asked 2 Was there someone else ? Yes , there was and he had been seeing her already for 6 months , they had been fucking while we were still having sex even though it wasn ' t terribly often and he was in love with her and not me . Once I learned these 2 things I sobered up toward the idea of divorce and forged ahead in life . Edit a word <| sep |> Ign reaperDeposited male LVL 4 spinarakRequest lightning rod cubone