Can you send me a link to the other post that you are referring to <| sep |> But they are extremely important , like as in the basis of the game important . <| sep |> Nonsense . The system was designed to work exactly as it did work . <| sep |> Congrats ! I ' m still hopeful that I will get one ! <| sep |> Read them in the Primary voice . <| sep |> He ' ll come back to life after he hears how horrendous six feet under is now <| sep |> uduckyswims I don ' t know where your example went . I was in the middle of replying and it disappeared . First , did you explicitly ask him to go shopping with you once he let you know that he is off ? Here is my issue with this particular thing . You had expressed your desire to go with him , he knew . He can ' t shop with you at all tomorrow ? He has to go with his grandma all day ? Secondly , it was incredibly immature that he asked you if he gets to be upset with you about something that had already passed since you were upset with him . That ' s a technique called , ' moving the goalposts '. He says one thing is ok and then changes his mind and moves the standard . That ' s not ok . I didn ' t get to read the rest before it went away . But it really seems that he is being incredibly manipulative towards you . It doesn ' t matter how you express things . He just doesn ' t seem to want to deal with any displeasure and takes it all very personally . It also doesn ' t seem like he takes your desires into consideration . He seems very selffocused . It makes sense that you are upset about this . I hope your example will reappear so that I can read and respond to the end of it .