well like i said , for the actual physically handicapped guys . Idk what the solution is . But i think most of you guys aren ' t sub 6 facecels , or lookcels or wristcels . I think you are just average looking dudes with body dysmorphia and social anxiety . I ' ve had full blown arguments with guys on this sub who i KNOW are not ugly but they call themselves ugly and say everyone thinks they are ugly . Its like a skinny girl who pinches fat on her thighs and thinks she ' s fat and thats why no one loves her but its really the fact that she ' s super unapproachable and makes no effort to connect with people . But in her head she ' s fat and disgusting and unworthy of anyone . That girl i think could be helped <| sep |> I hear most people saying Black Flag or revelations , any idea where would be a good place to start ?