It doesn ' t sound at all that you ' re turing him against his family . It sounds like he ' s realized he doesn ' t like them much and that ' s why he wants to distance himself . If it hadn ' t been his relationship with you that showed their true colors , it would ' ve been something else . <| sep |> Yeah but what use is responsiveness if the vast majority of people can ' t afford it in the first place ? Are you really so inconsiderate of other people who don ' t have the money to pay for treatment for a lifethreatening condition that you have to resort to these statistics to prove your point ? Surely the European system where everyone is taxed for universal healthcare is more effective at providing the healthcare people need and deserve . Side note I couldn ' t read the article as it is sitting behind a pay wall , so I don ' t know what is mentioned . I ' m merely speculating from the title .