Well , I can ' t comment on that as I have no proof . But they are both cucksP <| sep |> Im so sorry since you wrote this 8 hours ago , I hope the worst of it has passed . It felt an awful lot like labor for me too , and then a really intense weight on my cervix until the biggest clots pasSed . Once you get past the sac and the bigger clots you ' ll feel a sense of relief but may still have contractions of diminishing intensity for a few more hours . If it ' s not already over for you , it should be soon . FWIW , T 3 didn ' t help me . I spotted on and off for several weeks , so that was something that I didn ' t expect . I recommend those thinx underwear that you can just wear all the time to absorb any random bleeding but so you don ' t have to constantly wear a pad . Tampons or other objects in your vagina isn ' t allowed for six weeks . That ' s really all the practical information I have but emotionally , I want to say to take care of yourself today and in the upcoming weeks and months . A miscarriage after infertility is hell on earth , and you have every right to grieve and do whatever you need to do for yourself to get through this next period of time . Hugs .