You know as well as I do , It ' s only one sided . <| sep |> It ' s okay but I think I have arthritis <| sep |> We ' d be benevolent kidnappers . There would be beer pong , whiskey , SoCo , and Sadie cuddles . <| sep |> 85 years old , just so i can truly learn to appreciate my good health , mobility , and my youth in general . cuz it certainly ain ' t gonna get any easier as i age ! ! the time to be grateful for all of the little things which are really the big things is NOW ! <| sep |> Yes , i will hop online too <| sep |> Yeah I ' ve been browsing this sub since I got engaged in April and it was mostly people planning for 2017 weddings . If my fianc ' s parents had their way we would be getting married next year too , but no one is fronting the money . So taking our time to save up both for money and vacation time since I just started a new job .