I don ' t hate it , you ' re entitled to do whatever you want . Just seems kind of mean to me and I don ' t respond to people who put that on their profiles . <| sep |> tells me she matched the istikharaWell you make istikhara it ' s like a prayer to ask God to tell you whether its a good choice or a bad choice . Hmm jeez this is complex . So look my usual stance is never convert . You ' re doing a disservice to religion and your self . Unfortunately that ' s not as easy to get across I ' ve started by telling my parents from now that I don ' t believe in converting for marriage . If you were here in South Africa you ' d probably be fine . Our indian community is so close hindus and muslim marry all the time without a hitch . If you ' re moving away somehow that ' d be great and maybe fake converting is a valid choice . He ' d still financially support them but otherwise it ' s gonna screw up in terms of how you live your life since thinks like naming kidscircumscionswhat holidays you celbrate come into play . It really has to be something that comes from him though otherwise you ' re the shedevil that made him a shaitan , I dunno hey