A lot of women are just choosing to not datemarry anymore , but the majority are still marry attractive guys who have both beta and alpha qualities . By attractive you mean above average in looks ? And both beta and alpha qualities you mean sort of the best of both worlds ? Self confident without being an obvious asshole , independent , decent job , etc ? You would think such guys who are unmarried and in the correct age range say 3050 would be quite rare , yet you are saying there is an abundance of them . So many that most women who reach their 30 s without marrying , and want to marry , can easily find one . Logically though , you ' re probably wrong . A great many women are either going to have to settle or just remain single .