I had a similar experience recently . A female friend of mine made all these plans with me to make food for tailgating and cooking dinner the night before the game . When I showed up , she was wasted already . She drank more for about an hour , then passed out for two hours . I tried to wait it out , but when she got up , she was just belligerent and it got worse when her boyfriend got home . I ended up leaving very much pissed off . I haven ' t talked to her much since then , and I doubt that I ' ll hang out with her anymore . It ' s an unfortunate situation , but being sober helps you navigate the waters of judgment regarding who you should allow to be close to you and take up your limited time in life . Good on ya for staying the course .