What . If you ' re failing items that would have added to your tet stack onto your tri stack instead , yes you ' re losing several million often more than 70 m depending on how far your tet stack is to pen in potential value . Are you actually trying to argue that this is not the case . ? You ' re starting to lose me , man . <| sep |> To starve out the ad $$$?<| sep |> I would suggest NOT offering to pay . Ask yourself , what do you hope to get out of this relationship ? Does it matter whether the girl expects you to pay or not ? Would you prefer it one way or the other ? If a girl isn ' t willing to continue dating you because you didn ' t offer to offer to pay for her , you might want to reconsider whether that ' s someone you want to be in a long term relationship with .