I ' m thinking that in a lot of places this would result in the dad going to jail . I live in Canada , and if my dad had this done to him about my sister , my dad would have knocked the dudes teeth out . <| sep |> Oh god not Linus recommendations <| sep |> It was unclear . <| sep |> Dez be like rLBUd 3 r 1 y 3 I <| sep |> I ' ll be genuinely shocked if Messina doesn ' t get poached before Pop retires , which I why I think Hammon is Pop ' s successor . I know some Spurs fans who actually have enjoyed Hammon ' s coaching more than Messina ' s , too . <| sep |> Yes . It is the only avenue to sustenance in a modern economy . It is an inherently unequal and coercive bargaining position to be in . <| sep |> Right . So imagine how much worse it will be with her ? I dont mean to rain on your parade , but i ' ve been there too . You will always be reminding yourself how you got together , how she had drunken hookups , etc . its not about her per se , its about knowing yourself . She will constantly trigger you .