Lol I totally agree ! Finding the balance is key . <| sep |> I ' m so sorry . But you ' re right , if that ' s how he reacts you don ' t need him . He ' ll drag you down . It took me a long time and a lot of abusive relationships til I found someone that truly supports me . When I turn down his advances which is frequently , he holds me instead . It ' s out there and you ' ll find it . Sending you love and lots of strength . <| sep |> That ' s nice ! I got the cards around the same . I always test em seperatly too , i once had an epic chip on a 980 FTW and the other was a true dud , when that happens it ' s awful in SLI since you just know you ' re losing out . But this time , practically equal . <| sep |> I feel like I ' m at a waypoint , soon to be choosing one of many ways how to go on with my life . I wouldn ' t want to lead someone with seeming like someone that might change soon , for better or worse .