It ' s still an important thing . I ' m a straight a dude and would never want to have sex with someone that was previously a dude . It ' s not called being transphobic , it ' s called having different tastes . The dude should have 100 % been told , end of story . There is no morally grey zone here . She is 100 % in the wrong . <| sep |> Honestly you are confusing me . The smoke and mirrors comment from Bret comes well after David ' s comment about ' raise your hands '. A decent bit after . It comes on the heels of Bret getting into it a bit with Ken . I literally just rewatched this so I ' m very confused . The ' raise your hands ' comment followed by angry Zeke and Bret is actually fairly early in tribal . Truly I don ' t know what to make of what you are saying bc I just rewatched as well after reading your comment . How are we seeing this differently ? Or are we speaking about 2 different comments ?