I like both Coleman and Cooks to have big games at home . <| sep |> Of course that ' s a thing . And it ' s adorable . <| sep |> What ' s your steam ? Imma gift you bad rats <| sep |> Don ' t worry , you ' ve already got those traits . But surprise ! That ' s not the way to get a girl if you want a healthy relationship . People can ' t care about you first if you don ' t initiate contact and aren ' t genuinely interested in getting to know them . Friendships are things that you work on , not quarters that you pick up off the street . I do have a bunch of years where I had to teach myself social skills without much help at all . It ' s not easy . You can look at someone else and feel bitter bc you think his life is easier than yours or you can actually branch out and make some friends that will make your life more fulfilling and interesting . But if you are committed to this dark triad personality disorder nonsense , you ' re stuck . Coming from someone with a personality disorder who actually has two other people with two other personality disorders in my family . My brother had that dark triad . He never had a healthy relationship , was more attractive than you and died of a drug overdose . Be careful what you wish for and practice makes perfect so be careful what you practice .