Holy shit stop spreading false info , 4 is well received . It ' s even in the top 3 loved part on the recent poll <| sep |> While its is very human to want to get more info on him or to to talk to him or see if he is okay that could be a bad idea . The straight legal advice is to not contact him , notify your insurer and let them handle it from there . If it helps you feel better consult with an attorney about any possible charges that might be brought against your mom though it sounds like those are not likely to happen even if things do take a turn for the worse . There is always the possibility of his family suing your mom civily if he passes away . In either outcome let your insurance company do all the interacting with the other party . OTOH i can understand wanting to know if he is okay . It might be better for everyone if you are able to go through a 3 rd party though . Maybe the officer you talked with would be willing to call or stop by the hospital to see how he is doing depending on how rural you are and their workload attittude heh .