They ' re gonna get what ? <| sep |> Not possible sadly <| sep |> Well you ' re definitely in a bit of a pickle , that ' s for sure . I ' m not sure how you expected him to react when you said you must marry someone else and now you ' ve shown that you were lying about that too . Either way , he probably thinks you were leading him on and this is you trying to manipulate him further , so it ' s no surprise he ' s blanking you . He also might not want to get involved in such a sticky situation at work , especjally now that you ' re bringing relationship woes into the office don ' t get him a gift , it ' ll be awkwardhe might think he owes youa gift won ' t change his opinion of youit ' s unprofessional . If I were you , I ' d be happy that you ' ve broken up with the abusive guy but stay away from this other guy chalk it up to a learning experience . Also , the time of year that his parents fucked at will have no impact on his personality or actions . The people he ' s exposed to will have a far greater effect than the stars or the time of his birth , and you were close to him and fucked him over so don ' t look to astrology for an explanation of the situation you caused .