I ' m giving thanks that you don ' t live in the US . We don ' t need another asshat . <| sep |> After reading his wiki page , I ' m about 90 % sure it was written by him . <| sep |> people are literally down voting this because she ' s wearing a Hillary sticker which I believe she ' s only dressing up as her which does not indicate her support for her anyway . There ' s no hope for us . <| sep |> My highest was 1300 <| sep |> Perhaps she has experienced some kind of sexual abuse in the past , and being in control of sexual situations is the only way she feels comfortable . I don ' t know her and I ' m not trying to make assumptions , but some of the behaviors you ' ve explained fall in line with behaviors of victims of sexual assault and people with PTSD . If that is the case , it isn ' t something I would push , as it could only make the situation worse . I truly hope thinks work out for the best for the two of you .