If you are okay with that . Personally I would want my wife to be mine and not have to share her <| sep |> I think most men pay for it one way or the other . For example I pay for a hotel room to have sex . I guess I have a super cheap , but very sexy escort if I want to look at it that way . For $ 70 I get 23 sex sessions , endless blowjobs and can cum anywhere I want for about 45 hours . And if I don ' t want to talk at the end or in the middle , it ' s totally ok . I have on occasion not got a room because I didn ' t want to spend money for an hour and just masterbated instead . We have met up for an hour quickie and felt like I was usedwhich is fine . I just don ' t want to pay $ 70 for an hours use of a room . She ' s not into car play and I don ' t like paying for a room for just an hour . I kind of look at it like I just paid for a prostitute . We ' ve had arguments about this and I tell her to pay for the room instead and then her attitude changes . Anyway , I won ' t pay for a prostitute for something I can take care of myself . just to get off .