Being able to wear colourfulsuper bold eye makeup was the best unexpected glasses bonus , lol <| sep |> To steal and paraphrase a quote from the Super Bowl winning coach of my old favorite team , We will rally around Scott Tolzien and we will play good football . <| sep |> Damn dude , sorry to hear about it . I haven ' t been in your exact situation but i have a brother who is extremely lazy and it screws his life up . We were also raised by a hardworking single mom and it pisses me off to see him just sit around and do nothing . He ' ll get a job and then quit after a month because the people at work were mean to him or some similarly bull shit excuse . I feel you . I never had to live with him so i can ' t really imagine , but is there any way you can move out ? Do you pay the rent single handedly ? i know he is your brother , but he ' s not your responsibility , and if he ' s over 18 he ' s not exactly your mom ' s responsibility either . It sounds like he needs some tough love . As far as what you can do to not get so angry , have you ever tried mediation or deep breathing exercises ? Honestly both have completely changed my life . It wont change the fact that you resent how lazy your brother is , but it will at least calm you down and not allow you to get so angry . It can also put you into that more psychedelic state of mind that weed provides , without the weed . Really great for relaxing and gaining a new perspective on things .