I checked mine as a bag and the airline charged me the normal bagage fee . If it ' s especially large , they may charge you an overage fee though . <| sep |> Vaestread is dumbstruck by her , her beauty has him floored as he ' s trying to maintain his composure . He points to Nix , stammering out a group of words in an attempt to create speech . Uhhhh , hhe ' s over ththere . <| sep |> You did very well . They were upset your son wasn ' t there because it would distract from the talk you need to have . You are not a child and will not be treated as one . If they can ' t show you basic respect , they won ' t see your son . IDGAF if you ' re old or Korean . You ' re in America now so neither of those things buys you squat . I think you may need to send your parents something in writing since they won ' t listen when you see them in person . Simple rules that , if violated , will result in you ending a visit and not seeing or speaking to them for a week . You don ' t have to go completely NC if you ' re not ready .