I ' m thankful how friendly this community is ! !<| sep |> I get what you ' re saying , but everyone there bussers and servers were paid minimum wage despite how long they worked there . The person they ' d hire to replace me would be getting paid the same as me . The only people paid more of the servers and bussers were servers who were qualified trainers . That being said , the turnover rate for employees there is pretty decent , so it really was probably no loss to them financially , seeing as how they already budget for those who quit , hiringtraining of new employees , etc . <| sep |> Are you leaving out shyness to make your argument work ? Because that was half of the adjectives that we are currently discussing . Do you expect people to be confident in their shyness as well ?