I would strongly suggest not getting married in the first place if you ' re even thinking about a prenup . They can easily be thrown out , and if you ' re wanting to maintain independence with respect to your finances then keep it entirely separate by not joining them in the first place . You ' ll save yourself time , energy and money by just ignoring the legal process of marriage entirely . Citizenship can be handled separately and so can name changes . Imo , it ' s an easier route to avoid it . Just my two cents . <| sep |> my favorite ASMRtist uploads new content right before my bedtime . <| sep |> I honestly don ' t know how The Dick show hasn ' t been mentioned , or No Such Thing as a Fish is fantastic too <| sep |> You can have your opinion , but it ' s not the unpopular one . You ' ve just created an echo chamber .