The why should I pay for you ? Mindset is ducked up , yet I hear it all the time . <| sep |> moving to the US , this one confused me the most . <| sep |> Yeah ! Much better than I expected , really . <| sep |> Tell them you have seen the let and accepted your new Lord and Savior , Dan Bailey . <| sep |> How do you know that none of your posts haven ' t been edited ? That ' s the damage . <| sep |> Can we get a graph of this for rdataisbeautiful ? <| sep |> As others have touched on , it ' s hard to say exactly what your friend needs . Best thing I can recommend is to go to your local pro shop and see if you can get him a gift certificate for a starter pack this usually means an entrylevel reactive ball , shoes , a bag , and drilling for somewhere around $ 150 . The specifics ball choice , weight , fit , etc should definitely be handled by the pro shop , as they will be able to diagnose exactly what ' s needed much better than random people on the internet like myself Hope this helps a bit fire back if you have questions !