Most weeks our menu is drawn up Saturday so I can make sure we have everything to hand and there ' s no time spent trying to figure out what to eat each night . Tomorrow is Pizza night , home made dough is thawing in the fridge now . <| sep |> How do the White House selfguided tours works ? I request them , and then they give confirmation like a week or two before the date ? Is there like a specific time slot they ' ll give us ? Or we just go in between open hours ? <| sep |> I would need an executor to avoid giving her everything at once , and I don ' t really trust anyone besides her . Hence the dilemma . Also , I ' ve mentioned it over the years . I know she ' d be completely receptive to what I say , but eventually she would give in . I just want to prevent that .