My ex wifes family all did this , but their Thanksgiving were different . Every family was assigned a dish to bring . Grandparents did the turkey , someone did pies , and so on . We had the ham every year . Mainly because the ham is my favorite part of the meal , and I always brought a 2530 pound ham . Pretty big gathering of people . Everyone always brought food containers to take some home . That way it didn ' t all go to waste . <| sep |> Walt tripping hardEdit <| sep |> You forgot to mark this ' nsfw ' for my foot fetishing coworkers <| sep |> How does FCC existing stop you from doing that now ? If you did it in a short burst they couldn ' t locate it <| sep |> Sent ! Please put on the right message next time . <| sep |> Yeah . it is part of why I took so long to confront the matter . My advice ? Break it down do little things , experiment with the small details , and let those experiments build into the knowledge you need to determine if transitioning is something that is right for you . and keep an open mind . Know that quite literally any answers you arrive at are okay as long as they are the right answer for you . Some examples of small experiments imagine yourself in the future , paint toenails , shave legs , clearcoat fingernails , let hair grow out , be cleanshaven , experiment with more feminine clothing in private if you are able . The process can be amazingly daunting if you try to imagine it all at once , but really ? You can break it into a lot of smaller steps and figure them out there is no need for a complete and perfect answer right away .