I don ' t doubt that she said it deliberately . It wouldn ' t be the first time she has tried to drive a wedge between us , but it never works . While wedding planning she called one of them and told them that I told her that I didn ' t want them there if they couldn ' t make the rehearsal dinner . I had to do some major damage control and I am pretty sure their relationship has been on the rocks ever since . Thank you . I still don ' t 100 % know how to process it . Like , I always knew she never really loved them or anything but I guess it was just weird to hear it come out of her mouth so nonnonchalantly . <| sep |> It doesn ' t matter WHO this was targeted towards , silentundocumented editing of comments is NEVER allowed and ALWAYS wrong , deleting is acceptable and maybe even editing with a comment but this silent bullshit ? Nope .