They speak in third person . If they don ' t want to speak in person , they should just convey me general arguments . Currently as it works I listen to what players try to say and then just to be sure make a roll on my event dice . That ' s bunch of dice in my system that determine if nothing went awry , and they have 3 difficulty levels or how likely they are to roll failure , so judging their argument I grab difficulty that matches or just let it slide . Forcing everyone to speak in 1 rst person is wrong , and anyone who ever tried getting more than 5 people into this hobby and actually wanting them to begin and enjoy this should know that . Only things that are forced at my table is respect between players or at least some form of decency .