I forgot I was subbed to this sub . <| sep |> Og de gr hnd i hnd med bottle flips <| sep |> I was a nanny for a family for 2 days . Lots of red flags from the beginning asking to lower my hourly pay , asking to lower my mileage pay rate , adding duties that had not previously been discussed , etc . but the final straw was when the mom invited me to stay for dinner that I was cooking and when I went to join them at the dinner table , she said , No , you eat in the kitchen . I declined and requested payment immediately . Told her that I was a family nanny I eat meals with the family , I put little notes in lunch boxes , I buy birthday presents I am not told to eat in the kitchen . I offered to come in for the next two weeks so they could have time to find someone . She was offended , and said they most certainly would not need me . The next day , she emailed to ask if I was still available because they actually do need me , and I said no way ! I had already found a new job with a family that I am still close with to this day !