Um , the monolith ? <| sep |> Got it the first time literally sitting at my desk at work a few days ago . Got it a 2 nd , 3 rd , and 4 th time on my way to work just half an hour ago , and then again just now , again sitting at my desk . <| sep |> Haha . Yeah , I think Black Library confirmed it <| sep |> He is so small , for real . His OPness takes all the place . <| sep |> I ' m going to give you slightly different advice to others . I don ' t think you should talk to her . I ' ve learned that almost always when I think someone has a problem with me , they were preoccupied about something else and weren ' t giving me a second thought . People aren ' t usually thinking about you as much as you think they are ! My thinking is that if you reach out at this point you may come off as needy , and spoil your burgeoning friendship . I personally suggest trying to take your mind off your anxiety by focusing on other things and just living your life . Next time you see her , focus on having a nice conversation , and if you STILL feel like she ' s being off at that point , maybe then you can mention how you feel . But personally I would leave it for the moment .