You sound absolutely ridiculous to me . You have a couple of stripes on your white belt . How long could you have been doing this ? What do you know about injuries and longevity ? What do you know about the tolls this sport takes on your body ? And who are you to tell anyone to train something else ? Who made you God Emperor of jiu jitsu ? It ' s very simple . If someone wants to have a nice relaxed and fun roll and take it easy on their body . Then that ' s their decision to make . Manage your own training and destroy your own body however you like . I ' ll for one will be sitting on the sidelines rolling my eyes and cringing at the thought of how I was once the same way . <| sep |> Thanks for the kind words ! Yeah , I won ' t give up at all she was just really . harsh ? I guess , and quite rude over all , if you add my pregnancy hormones on top of that . Let ' s just say I cry a lot . Even the vets there regard her as the resident bun expert , she has been at every bun related appt I ' ve ever had there , so I guess it stung a little more than usual . I ' ve secured Brans pen so Rickon can ' t jump in and get hurt again but they ' re still right next to each other . They don ' t fight at all through the bars , they just lay side by side mostly , and groom each other as much as they can . I don ' t think it ' s gonna be impossible , or even hard necessarily , seeing how affectionate they still are . Arya is gonna be a tough cookie to crack though ! She has only met the boys once , by accident , and she haaated them . This was almost two months ago though and before her spaying so hopefully when everyone is not hormonal she might soften up a bit . I ' m gonna wait until new years or after that to start tentatively trying , would you recommend doing dates with all three of them or just two at a time ? I was planning on putting them in the tub for a little stress bonding . I ' ve never tried bonding a trio before so I don ' t really know how to go about it !