Honestly , blame the media . For years they always portrayed gay men as hyper flamboyant queens . I ' m not a STRAIGHT male , but a male who is straight . It doesn ' t define me . Same with gays . Not gay men , but men who are gay . There are people that use their gayness as a crutch for having a lackluster personality , but every sexuality , race , gender , religion have people like that . <| sep |> I use a wooden spoon that I measure with . Just put the spoon to the bottom of the pot , mark the line on it and use it to measure . <| sep |> anyone know which one this is ? <| sep |> Except we kind of do because New York and California are famously liberal , in culture and politics . And these people were the kinds of people that hated him the most With popular vote there is no ifs and or buts . It ' s straightforward , more Americans voted for this person . That ' s why it ' s more fair than the electoral college .