meh . weather is out of sync <| sep |> Oh , if your broke , you dont have to participate <| sep |> And no , I would not be OK with her seeing other men , that is a line in the sand for me . If that ' s what she wants , then it ' s over . why ? It seems like you are afraid you might have to realize that she simply isn ' t sexually compatible with you and some other guy floats her boat . If my husband came to me and suggested a one sided open relationship , I would tell him to go fuck his self absorbed ass . How can you call it a deal breaker for her to be with another man , but you expect her to accept you will be with another women ? yeah , it is total hypocricy , and smacks of insecurity I ' m afraid , like you don ' t want to find out that some other guy gets her off . sorry for being blunt but you are selling bs