Not in this case . And that ' s two words , anyway . <| sep |> The only way I can think of improving is more people . Should we promote this sub on other subs that may be interested in fidget spinners ? Like rEDC or rKnives <| sep |> why dont you ? <| sep |> who dis nig <| sep |> Rule # 1 for everyone in relationship with partner who has mental disorder andor illness she needs to undergo therapytreatment . Mental disorders are serious matter , be it OCD , narcissm , BPD or depression . They affect the suffering person and everyone arond them , but given therapytreatment patients can often live relatively normal lifes . and I don ' t know if I can deal with the control . Yes , you can . If she makes demands you can ' t fullfil , you first talk about it . Then , if it doesn ' t work , you say you ' re not fulfilling these demands . Then , if it doesn ' t work , you leave the relationship . After we graduate she wants to be with me in college , I love her a lot and I ' d like to see that happen however I have no idea how we would be able to function in college , as her OCD is so crippling it would distract us both from pursuing our goalsOf course it would , you dirty pervert . From looking at other girls , right ? Otherwise why would you be against the idea of going to the same college , same class , same table ? Well , at least this is how your relationship might turn out if you start giving into outlandish demands . Her obsession is about control over herself and to her probably it seems like a right thing to do to do things perfectly . And , while she probably can ' t really do it , she ' ll be expecting same from you . I have been watching porn since I was 11 years old as it ' s convenient and provides an outlet for when she ' s not present . On a side note , consider quitting it and using that pressure you ' re feeling to push for less convenient outlets , pick up lifting weights andor running . It ' ll pay off , I assure you . But that ' s just a proposition , do what you want with it .