send some my way homie <| sep |> She also asked if I was going to forbid her from dressing a certain way now too . Hmm . You care for her so you get jealous makes sense . She gets defensive because it implies you don ' t trust her makes sense . She knows that line above will make you guilt trip for being jealous odd . Instead of attempting to understand your behavior she shoves your genuine behavior of jealousy down your throat and make you feel guilty for showing it . Honestly , she either takes you for granted or doesn ' t treat you as equal partners and this probably shows its way through anytime she lets her guard down in emotion . Its condescending and not at all empathetic . <| sep |> Tell you what , you grow up being abused by people who never should have been parents , treated like shit at school , and never getting any support from anybody . You try letting go when the absolute last thing you want is for someone else to be bullied like this or raised by people who shouldn ' t be parents . You ' re doing nothing but getting downvotes and I ' m sorry about that . Also when I am hearing about this all the time from other people it ' s not like I can let go when each day it ' s bad news about her . I ' m fucking worried and this sub gets to constantly rant about bad parents . This sub has been holding on to things way more minor than this and I don ' t see people telling them off . And if you want me to let go , then maybe I need the chance to actually vent about it .