I feel like my boyfriend ' s parents are the same way with me . I ' m vegetarian , prediabetic and have some food allergies and sensitivities . I also don ' t eat much saturated fat , refined sugar , carbs or dairy due to my body reacting very poorly to them . I can sense the eye roll coming when she offers me food and I say I can ' t eat it due to my diet . My boyfriend also recently told her I have an appointment for a salpingectomy consultation and she was crushed . His older sister just came out as a CF lesbian after two failed engagements and I guess his mom put all the baby eggs in her basket . Now she ' s going on about how I ' m not normal and should want children . She had a stillbirth for her first child so I ' m not sure why she pushes kids on people with health problems either . Because I ' m older , watch my weight and am very active , and don ' t want children his mother thinks of me as the devil . Everything I do is wrong or weird especially because I ' m heavily modified . Nevermind that I ' m the most educated in their family and will have a fantastic engineering career when I graduate . Props to you for having a calm day to yourselves . You two deserve it !