No , you ' re being blind to your own benevolent sexism . And you ' re moving the goal posts now with the rational comment . Of course murdering your children because you hate your ex is irrational , but irrational behavior does not equal mental illness . If a man murdered his children out of revenge against his ex , you would not be rushing to absolve him of responsibility with some bullshit about mental illness . You would rightly assume he ' s an evil piece of shit in the absence of other evidence . Simply doing something evil and wrong isn ' t enough to conclude mental illness , no matter the gender . <| sep |> Initially I was interested in Methallylescaline , but last I poked around on Erowid , I lost interest after seeing more negative than positive reports .