We should blow it up for a guy like Kendrick Perkins instead . <| sep |> Same ! She loves it <| sep |> I ' ve tried a few things that didn ' t work for me at all Aneros , vibrators , and other pspot toys . What I found that works for me is a pretty large , girthy realistic dildo . It takes some relaxation time to get it in and really fills me up . That seems to put enough pressure on me that I ' m in a good spot . A dozen thrusts and I can just move my pelvic muscles and kegel to dump prostatic fluid almost ondemand . It takes quite a bit of work , riding that dildo , to build myself up to a fullblown orgasm , but I can do it . A little attention to my penis and it ' s almost painful how hard I cum . The downside is how quickly my body switches from holy shit that that big thing in my ass feels so good to holy shit that big thing in my ass hurts so bad .