I ' d keep it to texting . She could be tired of her boyfriend and looking to move on but that ' s the wrong way to go about it . Keep her at a distance . <| sep |> What were the egg moves , and what were you interested in trading for ? <| sep |> Looks like such a happy place ! <| sep |> Personally , I try to give until it seems unwise debatable , I know . Honestly , I don ' t try as much ex don ' t go actively searching for beggars , don ' t give to every single beggar most of the time I find I can give alot without ever incurring penalties ex Dharma gifts a link to a text , a book , etc are the very best because they show the path to liberation as opposed to giving a kidney , which will not directly result in the receiver being closer to liberation . There are alot of texts on giving , I ' ll leave a couple of refs from Venerable Master Hsuan Hua ' s commentsSutra in 42 sections search for giving Store Sutra The Conditions and Comparative Merit and Virtue of Giving