without sounding like a SO , clean your bong <| sep |> Is the corporate phone really 666 ? Lol <| sep |> They need to wake up for themselves , put their big boy pants on , and go tell gran that the church is not just a deception but a damaging one . Imagine living with a person who goes out and screws strangers at the pub every night , but they comes home you pretend it isn ' t happening and your relationship is okay , and you shut up for the benefit of the familyWell , guess what , thats no relationship . It is the TBM partner who is choosing the church ahead of their marriage , NOT the other persons fault . It is a sham relationship , a sham marriage , and they are entitled to their own identity and authenticity . I ' ve seen for years everyone and their circumstances . Mum is dying , don ' t want to hurt feelings , wife will leave me , won ' t get a cheap degree from the CV shit stain that BYU is . etcThey don ' t need my support , they need to break free .