Monogamy is a set of intimacies you only share with one person within that is sex . Monogamy is not the same thing as celibacy . If I ' m monogamous with you , then you and I have sex together . If we have very little sex together , then it isn ' t monogamy . <| sep |> I ' m surprised it ' s not higher . I have a military friend with PTSD that struggles with suicidal thoughtsdepression . He gets excellent care paid for by the government and a 100 , 000 $ plus cheque for being handicapped for life . He started improving allot when he got his medical marijuana . I heard a statistic that more troops killed themselves then were killed in the war in AfghanistanIraq . That was probably an American statistic though where veterans are treated like shit