I have no problem with a really good impression . I think there ' s a wonderful benefit of preserving the mind of someone like Hawking or even Einstein back in the day . I think it would be amazing if those minds could continue to work on problems and add to the conversation . But the idea that Einstein , his essence , his conscious , is now living in the cloud or some circuit board would be a misconception . That ' s where I ' m drawing the line . <| sep |> You really articulated my reservation with telling her . If history repeats itself , and it probably would , she would tell Chance . I ' m not really concerned about him being angry with me , he ' s the one that fucked up . But I also don ' t want him to have time to cover his tracks andor flee or anything like that . I also do think that the affair will probably be brought to the surface in all of this . It wasn ' t part of the original report made but I have a feeling that it could tie in . I do see how not telling is a matter of selfpreservation . Thank you for chiming in . This sucks .