I believe the reason why this is being looked at it because often it ' s used as a form of harassment towards those who are trans or gender fluid , etc . The easiest way for a person who is transphobic to undermine someone who is transitioning or has transitioned is to refer to them by the incorrect gender . That ' s why this is an issue that ' s being looked at in this manner . Infidelity really isn ' t the same thing because harassment and discrimination don ' t factor into it . <| sep |> You ' re creepy looking , learn how to smile because whatever your doing is not a smile . You need a haircut and to workout . You ' re not ugly but you are creepy . <| sep |> The white Cody Zeller <| sep |> I would give SMU a nod to a decent season , but .