Anyone got a link to the mnf in question ? <| sep |> got back into the race ! <| sep |> I ' ll throw in a word , do not be an emotional partner for her if she fails to do so for you ie don ' t take her out and let her tell you her problems if she doesn ' t take you out and enjoy your accomplishments . No one ever thins that their SO might end up being a bad person , but many men have gone into an open relationship and been destroyed by seeing their love fuck other dudes and then try and play them . I would never do it personally , if you don ' t want commitment than tell her , but keep dating in a fun , on and off way rather than let it be open . <| sep |> It really did feel like she was setting him up so that his answers would have more impact .