First of all it ' s an American invention is just retarded . Sorry that ' s the only way I can put it second of all , of course it ' s fair to judge another ' s culture . It ' s how we , as a species , weed out the dangerous cultures . That ' s kinda how it works . Too bad there are some dangerous cultures who sorta slipped through the cracks . <| sep |> Lived in Poland for 12 years , you ' re talking out of your arse . <| sep |> Bisexual doesn ' t have to be half and half . I can kind of relate to you I was definitely into girls when I was younger , but unlike you when I started checking out guys I was in self denial it . Finally figured things out at 23 thanks Dan Savage ! and , while I still identify as bi , it ' s honestly been a while since I had a crush on a girl . So yeah , I was into girls middle school age , started noticing guys in high school , now I ' m pretty effectively gay , to the point where I told my parents I was gay easier to have the born this way argument with them than the choose to date women argument with my religious parents . tldr you ' re not alone , read on rbisexual about people talking about their bicycle