Most would just give in and have kids with herMost men who don ' t want kids , maybe , but most men who actually come here , or describe themselves as antinatalist ? The fact that she wants to be with someone who is so controlling over her makes her seem a bit pathetic and desperate to meI don ' t think it ' s that controlling . You picture having a girlfriend who admits she ' s completely not over her ex and that you can ' t replace him . <| sep |> Yes , and that the situations you described are not unique to retail employees . I think we ' re talking about 2 different things . You ' re taking about cash registers being thrown at people ' s heads , I ' m taking about retail employees with attitude and a general unwillingness to do their job .