You missed the complaints about inconsistent notation . You might be forgiven for that because it ' s below the fold . <| sep |> I don ' t see my situation changing drastically as I care for an aging mother I am 11 years younger than my brother and he ' s so far out of the picture I don ' t even know what he ' s like now . So unless something massive happens , then yeah no , not happening here . There ' s a slim chance I could win the lottery or something , but for a lot of us , our lives are in a very particular spot . While a lot of stories have people who have money and have everything in order , some of us don ' t . When I get bingoed I hate having to admit how my life is just because people will be so nosy that I have to basically shame myself . It ' s not even for lack of trying to be like everyone else , I fell through the cracks of society because of a lot of things , and none of them drugs or booze or anything . It was actually my own father holding me back . Sure people can change their mind , it still doesn ' t make it rude as fuck to remind them or try to force their minds into it . Yeah sure that tattoo someone got at 20 was pretty fucking stupid , but it was their decision .