Best case scenario is that he lied to impress you and then it snowballed and he didn ' t know how to fix it . To me thays a huge red flag and the only way I can see you guys getting through this is if he gets some help dealing with whatever made him to insecure to be honest with you . Taking a step back from the relationship until he does is honestly the best thing you could do for him . If he isn ' t willing to makr a change or keeps making excuses for his lies you need to walk away . <| sep |> Happy Wedding and Happy Life ! !!<| sep |> Greystone 23 games from master skin . <| sep |> Of course , lots of them do . <| sep |> I had no idea that was a John Hughes movie . Explains why I thought it was so great as a kid <| sep |> I love them . My brother is severely autistic with no sense of selfpreservation . He also loves buses . If he saw a bus no matter where he was he ' d run to look at it . If we didn ' t have him on leashes in his toddler days he would have been hit by a car . I see Parent reflexes all the time . Where a toddler is running and about to eat a face full of pavement when a parent tugged on their leash and saved them . We call them reins in the UK and they are awesome .