Looking good ! we all know that looking good is more important than looking where you ' re going <| sep |> This is likely why a lot of people have asked for an estimate of when it ' ll be done . If it ' s going to take days , people may wait till it ' s done . If it ' s likely to be ongoing into the new year , then they might take the plunge and start syncing now . <| sep |> That is not a hummingbird it is a small horsefly . They both like those sugar feeders . <| sep |> Agreed . If my childhood friend would try to talk to me again , I wouldn ' t be interested as well . As I said , using our condition against us like that says a lot about that person , and how they don ' t really respect us for who we are . <| sep |> This made me laugh so much . I relate , although I really do miss them . Weird jumble of feelings . Grateful to not have to put up with their expectations of me but missing their company and the good times !