Can the attacking Ditto use Struggle if it wants ? I know there was a thing with Struggle where the bars disappeared . Is it now unusable , or what ? <| sep |> What you need to do is move on from this guy . You guys don ' t seem compatible at all , not only are you guys not on the same page but also it seems that he ' s just not that into you as you are with him . If he were , he would put in the same amount of effort getting to know , talkingseeing you . Don ' t waste any more time on this guy , this guy doesn ' t want a relationship , this guy doesn ' t seem for you . You ' re better off using this time finding someone whose more suitable for you and not only will meet you halfway but exceeds more of your expectations . Good luck !