Amber Abdullah ' s first career carry was a 24 yard touchdown . <| sep |> Sounds to me like she broke up with you so she could sleep other with other dudes , but she misses the security and comfort that you provide for her . Don ' t be a doormat , man . If a woman does not respect you , it ' s hard for her to be attracted to you . By all means , sleep with her if that ' s what you want , but I advise you not to try and make it a relationship again . But that ' s your choice . Good luck . <| sep |> It ' s true though <| sep |> Contact the cops . Set up a meet up and inform the cops . When they show up to the meet up with your phone the cops will take it from there . That is your best bet . Do not recommend the police station car park , that will sketch them out and they will stop talking to you . If you go to the cops and explain everything , and say they want to meet up , the cops will be at the meet up and out of sight , and they will move in once the phone is shown . I know you may not want cops involved , but they stole from you and deserve to face the legal consequences for that .