I could always make you a mother so you can get your friend back . <| sep |> Exactly . I have a friend who , one year after we met , told me he was in love with me and had been from the start . I didn ' t see it coming and didn ' t feel the same , and the first thing he said was ' so all this time was a waste ? ' Like , thanks , dude . I had genuinely thought he was a super nice guy and after I ' rejected ' him I noticed more and more how he had been bending over backwards to seem nice and super great all the time and now his real personality was coming out . We ' re still friends , but I know now that while he was trying to impress me he constantly lied and pretended , even pretending to get into feminism because I said I was a feminist when really he didn ' t care at all .