I ' ve had a couple relationships in the past , and they were my one and only confidant at the time . I don ' t feel comfortable settling for less than that , for their sake as well as mine . No , that isn ' t for their sake at all . Depending on one person for all of your emotional support , romantic and platonic , is a completely unreasonable amount of pressure on them . It takes an exceptionally stoic or exceptionally oblivious person to not break under that strain . Who do you go to for a sounding board when your issue is with them or your relationship ? Who do you lean on if a crisis affects you both ? And so on . <| sep |> then the guy walking in the street gets run over by a car . <| sep |> I ' ll see what I can do . Drazzan smiled cheerily , glad that he was able to help Orys in a political sense , instead of just as a bodyguard and champion . I ' m , sure he ' ll be overjoyed to have you .