I tend to be naturally picky and the way you are describing this does sound like aromanticbisexual . It doesn ' t sound like what I tend to do which is mainly internal screening and listening to what they say and how they treat others . My question is have you ever actually had a relationship before ? What is your home life like and the example your parents have set ? A lot of your history tends to influence your dating capabilities too sometimes . Also why do you think you get bored and start finding flaws ? <| sep |> No homo with modi ji . Pls control yoru feelings . <| sep |> Hmm . I love Nude . <| sep |> 420 graze it <| sep |> And you don ' t see what you ' re doing here as needlessly divisive ? I as a black person do not enjoy being used as a rhetorical gotcha in this way . If we have double standards where talking a certain way about men is considered a reasonable critique while talking that way about black people is considered hateful racism , isn ' t this switching men for black people a revealing and valid way of showing that ? If not , what do you suggest as a more revealing or more valid way of showing the double standard ?