I think undergrad here refers to med school . Most countries don ' t require a separate bachelors degree and just do all of med school as a single program . <| sep |> That is very true though . <| sep |> The part about that specific fan site owner is not really bad or anything , but if there is prejudice about which fan site owners they work with because of how well off they are then yeah that ' s kind of shady . <| sep |> I ' ve tried to contact admissions but the phone is perma engaged . I ' ve filled out all the necessary documentation and completed my nbt etc . Can ' t think of how to get this fixed . <| sep |> I don ' t think that its enough to simply state your intentions ahead of time and then take her to your room . You would still be sending mixed signals . As most girls will tell you , if you aren ' t ready then don ' t create the conditions for sex . Sure if someone violates your consent that ' s wrong but why place yourself in the situation in the first place . Just don ' t make out with girls you don ' t want to have sex with in your bedroom