Yeah , I would frustrating that he didn ' t figure that out before dating you for 10 months , I ' d be pretty PO ' d about that . <| sep |> It sounds like you must have done A LOT of side quests during the first playthrough to have been 37 . I usually wind up at 30 max by the time I beat the Warrior , and then I ' ll do Captain Scarlets DLC better loot . Then I ' ll usually just blow through TVHM because any side quests completed in TVHM aren ' t available in UVHM so only do ones that don ' t give unique rewards , then I ' ll just do what ever in UVHM . If I ' m somehow not at 50 by the end of TVHM I ' ll do some more DLC . Just make sure you do Scarlets for the loot , not to spoil anything , but the loot at the end of Tourges is bugged and you barely get anything Tourges campaign is way funnier though .