Thinking id love to have sex with her and whatever that means to you or talking about it with other people should never make anyone feel guilty . That is basic human desires . Almost every man has these thoughts and the ones who say they don ' t are lying or asexual . Think what you want . I don ' t care . You are a vile human being if you equate that with sexually assaulting unwilling women . You specifically since those are your words . Very gross man . Learn to have some perspective . We know the women don ' t like to hear us talk like that , unless you know you really get into the intricacies of sex but that is whole other topic which you probably have rash and crazy biased stances on . But yes they don ' t like to hear that which is why you talk about it with your friends or keep it to yourself . Some aren ' t embarrassed by it though .