High possibility , unfortunately I don ' t remember anything from those years thanks to Smirnoff Ice and hairspray fumes . <| sep |> I was just joking . The media really played up that arm grab . <| sep |> It shouldn ' t matter how nice and polite someone is . If they ' re finding ways to contact you after you blocking them multiple times , not taking no for an answer and digging around to find out personal information about you , draw a line . Just tell them straight up I have told you multiple times I ' m not interested in a relationship or even staying in contact with you . I ' ve screencapped all our prior communications and I will go to the relevant authorities if you continue to contact me . And yes , it sucks just how little privacy we have these days with social media , which is why you should always be careful what you put online . An online friend of mine actually sussed out my real name and photo from an old blog which I haven ' t updated in 5 years just based on the username he knew me as . Tbf , he was genuinely curious about me when I called him out on it , but goes to show how easy it is for people to dig up info about you .