Not native lands . <| sep |> I wish I could call Jerry Jones daddy , then he ' d buy me all the shiny things . <| sep |> Well you ' re not gonna get any matches with a shirtless pic unless you ' re model status so there ' s your first fuck up lol . Think of Tinder as a bar . It ' s a place where there ' s an abundance of women to approach . You find many attractive , and a decent percentage of them also find you attractive . So you open some of them , and a decent percentage reciprocates conversation . You manage to number close a small percentage . And you manage to get a date with some of those number closes . Very analogous . But you have to present yourself well . I ' ve dated a bunch of girls from Tinder , none have been crazy , and many have been great friends and awesome lays . Whatever your opinion of Tinder , you ' ve got some frustration going on my man . If real life approaching works better for you , then do that . But it is clear that you did not present yourself well on Tinder . There ' s guides all around this sub , you might consider checking one out .