Congrats on the engagement ! !! Here ' s to a happy and full life together ! Now , onto the gross stuff . ugh . Our nmoms sound like twins , really . She uses exact phrases like there ' s no going back and it ' s always accompanied by you ' ll miss having a family and everyone will know you ' re cold hearted and soulless because you don ' t talk to your parents . Don ' t try and find logic in it . There ' s none to be found . You ' re being reasonable and offering contact in exchange for her seeking professional help which is a double benefit to her . She ' s offering nothing and asking for everything . Don ' t put up with that shit . Don ' t respond . Let it be known that you ' re serious . <| sep |> Woah no indents in their loops ? The absolute mad men .