My question is , was the custody agreement already set up ? Do you have a lawyer for court ? Get custody and visitation set up , get a better schedule , and then see if your girlfriend would be willing to get back together . <| sep |> I can but I would want a piece or two . <| sep |> Three things about it 1 It made me realize that my anxiety was not NEARLY as bad as the writer ' s , and he ' s a very successful person who has somehow manged to live and thrive despite having several types of major anxiety . So if he can do it , I can do it . 2 But it also made me realize that there are no easy answers , and may not be any answers at all . It may be something you just have to cope with using various strategies . 3 SSRIs , SSNIs , etc . , that docs love to give , have not been shown to lessen anxiety . I knew that from experience , but it was nice to see it with quoted evidence .