Both of mine were near pokestops . <| sep |> Could happen sure . But I didn ' t think it would . I am sad to say I didn ' t think the south would double down on the right like they did . <| sep |> Honestly this article is so smart I can ' t believe WWE actually thought like this <| sep |> This is part of the reason I no longer have a family . My half siblings they just allowed me to take care of Dad by myself while he was getting elderly and ill . I was here in the same state so why not ? The few times I asked them for help they just didn ' t . Every year one set of siblings would come down . They ' d spend a couple of hours on two different day with Dad and most of that they ' d be on their damn phones . The rest of the time they were on vacation . That was it . Never once did they offer to have him stay with them for the weekend to give me a break . Dad lived for those visits but at the same time he was usually pissed when they left at how little time they actually gave him and how little regard they really had for me . They spent more time gambling and at the beach and that then they ever did with him . The first couple of times they showed they bitched because I wasn ' t coming for lunch or whatever . Dad basically ordered me to be nice so I stayed and sat with them while they visited , had lunch . Next thing I know they ' re telling Dad that I ' m too much in the way and they wished I hadn ' t been there apparently while they visited . Damned if I did , damned if I didn ' t , that ' s how it was with them . That comment it made me feel really loved . Clearly I was just furniture , convenient sometimes , but not really wanted . They ' d sit there and say nice things , apologize for not being more in touch , but I just didn ' t buy it . They had 30 plus years to establish a real relationship with me . They simply could not be bothered . I gave up giving a shit after a while . By the time Dad died I was feeling so upset with them and disconnected from them that I didn ' t even want to know them at all . They knew how ill I was but they still let me do it ALL for several years . While I was playing nurse and that I was handy . That ' s the only reason they ever tried to be nice to me . I ' m not stupid . I saw right though them and their bullshit . They didn ' t care that I was that ill and really struggling . They just let me anyway and I paid a very heavy price for it in the end . I did the right thing but it cost me . I got double pneumonia from Dad before he died and I just could not fight it off . I spent the whole damn year and almost every penny he left me , which wasn ' t much , just trying not to die and to keep a roof over my head . Now it ' s all gone and I ' ve been sick for so long and was out taking care of him so long that I ' m unemployable despite mad skills computerwise and that . I gave up what might be the last decade of my life to take care of him . I don ' t regret doing it . I promised my Mom I would , and I can look at myself in the mirror and stand myself , but I do regret what it cost me . My blood family they can all go fuck themselves so far as I am concerned . I might as well not even have blood relations for all they ' ve ever really loved me or cared about me . I ' m not a hypocrite than I am going to pretend otherwise . I was nicer than that but I let them know after Dad died that I was done with them . I have NO room for toxic people in my life . Sometimes you just have to cut that cord , blood or not . They don ' t want to get it . Bottom line ? They like you doing what they need you to do when they need you to do it . You have to say NO and keep on saying it . That ' s just it .