Just be careful using portable kerosene heaters or portable butane stoves . There ' s been multiple TIFU ' s where people almost get CO poisoning recently <| sep |> Listen to MrsSpice . Take action immediately . It sucks that the mother of your child fucked up so bad but you gave her a chance and she blew it . You need to be strong for yourself and your daughter . Reach out to your family for help , you said you work 60 hours . When this goes to court they ' ll want to know that you have a strong support system helping you and your daughter . I wish the best for you and your daughter . <| sep |> I think this would only be a turnoff to strictly monogamous people . Otherwise , what does it matter ? <| sep |> no worries , on my way