load NewGame Error No save NewGame foundDamn it . <| sep |> You just broke it to me . nearly three decades living a lie as a Hispanic female . I . I don ' t know what to do with all this white privilege . Help ? ? P . S . How do I break this to my family ? They ' re all latinos and will hate me because I ' m the white devil now . <| sep |> I wouldn ' t say he ' s super weird about things . Many of the things he is doing make perfect sense to me , although the written tracking combined purchases is not something I ' ve bothered to do myself . I wouldn ' t combine finances with someone I wasn ' t married too , and even if I was married I ' d only make the combination limited in nature ie I ' d keep an individual separate bank account for me no matter what . Sounds like he ' s careful financially . Doesn ' t sound like a big issue to me . He ' s pulling his fair weight by paying the 60 per cent . I don ' t think you have much grounds to complain , personally , although obviously everyone has different preferences . Ask him what his plans are about marriage and the related finances . It ' s important for you guys to be on the same page about financial plans for marriage , even if there ' s a bit of compromise involved . Basically you both need to know where the each other stands on this issue .