You have already lost him . He isn ' t going to stop wanting a romantic relationship with you . If you continue living and spending time with him he will be tortured and probably keep trying to nice guy his way into your pants . <| sep |> First of all , to me it ' s not possible to put all politics aside this is fundamentally a political struggle , the same political struggle natives have been facing for centuries . Secondly , this whole narrative of It ' s legal so they shouldn ' t protest it is very troubling to me . Numerous UN representatives have spoken out on this being a violation of human rights . What the police are doing is against the law . But even if no laws are being broken isn ' t that precisely the problem ? That the law is unjust ? That the police are upholding exploitation ? You could apply this argument against Civil Rights demonstrators that police were just following orders , laws were laws etc . Yet that is precisely the problem , that what is happening is legal . What are the police supposed to do ? Not go to work . Go on strike . Anything but the disgusting violence that they are currently perpetuating against native people .