It is actually useful for me and the top comment described it perfectly why it is . <| sep |> Dissipation is part of the SCH opener and is situationally useful depending on the fight . I wouldn ' t want it gone , myself . <| sep |> Yes , not finding somebody is the issue . I feel like I ' m missing out on having someone in my 20 ' s to spend nights with , go on dates and events with work functions , family eventsholidays , etc , travel with , build a home with , etc . I ' ve been dumped a few times and I just want someone that I like to give me a chance . I think I probably do move too quickly when I start dating someone , but this time I was under the impression that we were moving at a good pace because she continuously told me that our feelings were mutual whenever I told her that I liked how things were going . Becoming an adult is scary . It would be nice to have someone to do that with . I want to travel , and I want to buy a home , but I don ' t want to do those things by myself . I understand that I should just try going on dates for fun , and that sounds nice , but I just want to find someone to settle down with and it takes a lot of time and effort to find someone like that . It ' s stressful . I don ' t want to settle for someone that I find less than amazing .