Just keep reminding yourself you can ' t make him change . I think if you get yourself in the frame of mind that he can ' t be changed if he doesn ' t change himself , it ' s going to make this easier on you . You said multiple times you can ' t go on like this . That , for me , is the biggest indicator that you should split . You deserve more and your kids certanily deserve more . Right now you ' re modeling for them what an unhealthy relationship looks like . It will be better for them to see a strong , independent woman who can take her of them than to see a mom and dad unhappy and fighting all the time . <| sep |> Idk , I don ' t have league pass so I can only watch so many games . <| sep |> I never brought myself to finish Arkham knight because the very obvious spoiler was spoiled by my own dumb luck before I ever got too far