Precisely . It ' s like saying Remember to be nice even through all the craziness because they are gonna be having a worsethanusual day <| sep |> that means he can now fuck all them bitches without getting one pregnant <| sep |> To be honest , the incel mindset probably isn ' t the most healthy , but I also realize that you ' ve probably been told that a thousand times . In my experience it ' s usually pointless to talk to people from that board , but since you ' re here . It may seem like everyone is having a good time but you , but it isn ' t true . You ' re just paying the most attention to people you perceive as being happy . I am a guy who has had sex more times than I am proud to admit after a while it gets shameful , especially when alcohol is involved , and it has done nothing to help my anxiety and depression . Some of the people you label as chads are just as miserable as you , though perhaps in different ways . I don ' t have the magic solution to your problem , but putting the blame on people you don ' t even know just because they seem happy isn ' t a good way to go through life . Then again , I ' m not really the expert on being happy either . Hope you feel better soon .