Her having a penis usually does the trick . <| sep |> An ethical issue because he didn ' t prioritize gender and sexuality ? How dare you say that he has to prioritize what you want especially when it ' s so unimportant in the grand scheme of things . How entitled are you when you think that a video game using a quick and dirty romance system is an ethical thing . <| sep |> All the guys i ' ve been with treated me like shit , got raped by the first guy I dated can ' t call it dating he refused to call it that , but still bought me food and fucked daily for a while . The following dude I was into tried to kill himself and after someone called the cops he kinda blamed me and cut me out of his life , which drove me into hopeless depression , because I ' m pretty sure I loved him . this all happened a week after the rape . kinda traumatized to be honest , haven ' t met anyone I ' m attracted to , but I ' m finally starting to get back to normal after having my heart shat on , so fuck no , I don ' t want to experience that again . I got some self esteem issues , I wouldn ' t want to be with anyone anyway , people take my lack of self love as an opportunity to fuck without strings attached and I get way too attached , and honestly I ' m too good for this , lol , maybe not a typical person , but I ' m not letting anyone take advantage of me anymore , I just don ' t need the pain . I ' m actually finally kinda happy for once now that i ' m all alone .