I kind of agree with you about the fact that is more than on person getting abuse . However , we also need to think about the one are being abused as far as hurting them self . Sometimes we think we are helping by doing somethings or think we are fixing something when we come to realized that we are making it worse . I think the right thing to do would be to involve a professional and that somehow can make her understand that she need to do this not only for her but for hers . I believe we need to take a series of things into consideration in this case . I will say it again . The main thing is to help HER in this . one way or another they need to take her into consideration . Yes , it would be the right moral thing to do , however , in cases like this you need to think about the whole picture and find ways to do it indirectly . I don ' t know if my English is making sense . English is not my first language .