I ' m talking about academic skills , not looks . Lookswise , I ' d rate myself 6 . 510 . Personality , I ' d put at 310 due to Aspergers . Academically , I had to be performing in the top 2 or 3 percent in order for women to talk to me like they ' d talk to other guys that were average if we were working on a group project . I only know one other guy that is seen as a creep just for trying to talk to women . It ' s not very common at all . I ' ve seen guys that were fat , guys that were pretty ugly , guys that were 5 ' 3 all talk to women and work with them on group projects without getting ostracized . You have to be fairly marginalized for that . It ' s not being a Beta male and not getting many dates but women wondering if you are a pedophile or mass murderer and shunning you outright . I had a very hard time working with women on group projects . Most men just don ' t have that experience . I am 5 ' 7 145 pounds , bench 190 squat 250 deadlift 300 and 15 % body fat . Face is average or maybe a little worse . Looks are not the problem guys worse looking than I did not have to deal with the same shit I deal with .