I can relate , I am a Marylander , I hate this football team with passion . These fans are so fair weathered the part where I am from at least , I can count on my hand the number of jerseys I have seen out and about . But let the Ravens actually start winning and you will see nothing but purple . God I hate this team . <| sep |> Thanks for adding your opinion , you are right trans people aren ' t a monolith by any means ! I think it is safer to assume people will be insulted than not , what do you think ? I am actually not trans but am an ally as I have a very close friend who is trans . Should I as a cis person make sure not to reference passing as a positive thing until I know the person ' s individual feelings ?