Yes , because that ' s what the fuck Google needs to spend time on right now . <| sep |> Lingard is no slouch . His finishing has really improved . <| sep |> My road thus farSeason 1 Plat 1 Season 2 Plat 1 Season 3 Plat 1 Season 4 Plat 1 I probably should play more or stop playing with just my friends I guess <| sep |> Well granted my choice of words wasn ' t entirely appropriate . I don ' t use any social media and have only ever taken selfies with other people if they asked for it . That makes me more than the people in question the exception in our technological , social media era . What I was trying to say is that , in my opinion , I find it normal for people to take pride in their appearance . To put time and effort into it . Taking a picture of those days that you look your best is something I completely understand especially since we often put in most effort on those days that we have fun activities planned as well . The point where I draw the line between healthy behaviour and unhealthy mind you I ' m no psychology expert by any means is the goal . If you dress up and think . Wow I look great , I wanna take a picture , I ' ll probably get lots of compliments etc then sure . Nothing odd about it . However if you go I wanna dress up real nice today so I can take a picture and post it . Then continue to spend hours of your time doing so . And then think . Hmmm I need to photoshop this . Then I think it ' s not alright anymore . You are only dressing up to please people and get their approval . Dressing up nice sure , picking a flattering poseexpression sure . But if you are starting with ' photoshoots ' that can take half an hour or more minus getting ready for the purpose of posting them online . And then find they need to still be altered digitally to distort reality . For me this is not healthy behavior . It is going out of your way only for the purpose of impressing people . Dressing up and looking nice can make you feel good about yourself . And compliments are always nice . However you should not be depending on the approval and compliments of others to feel good . If you are having miniphotoshoots or photoshopping your pictures just for the purpose of other people seeing them online then , to me , it doesn ' t sound very healthy . Before anything else you should dress for you , not for anybody else . You should share a picture because you like it and want to share . Not JUST to impress other people . If a young girl uses photoshop to enhance her boobs on a picture so she can put it on facebook , this behaviour I call abnormal . But I mean abnormal in ' not right ' or ' not healthy '. It ' s got nothing to do with feeling proud or beautiful anymore . It ' s about feeling insecure and ugly . She ' s not enlarging her boobs in that picture for herself , she ' s doing it for other people . TLDR I used the word abnormal where really I meant and should have said not right or not healthy .