I understand that mindset as well . It does show more faith going for it then settling , but overall I stand by my statement . <| sep |> Because I am strangely attracted too people whom are a mess . I get to know them on a deep personal level , they confide in me , and then we both realize we should not be together . But i don ' t have the time to pursue other relationships , because I still feel morally obligated to be there for the friends that have opened up to me and i consider that more important than finding a relationship . <| sep |> I know that ' s the reason for her symptoms and the fact that she herself cannot enjoy sex . What I mean is , if she does not like to please her husband because she physically feels like shit , or because she herself cannot enjoy sex .