Why does the ex wanthave to take the daughter with her ? I have a feeling there ' s more to the story . Does your Ex have sole custody ? She might not have an option other then taking her with himher . My sister HAD to take her kids with her to China . She was really worried about the air , but she had no choice . BTW , My niece went . She was a mess . The air was bad and she spent the whole time inside and sick . But there wasn ' t anyway she could avoid it . Also , Major cities in China have modern medicine . And probably cheaper then the US . I won ' t worry about that . Travel health insurance is really cheap . I think , my dad got one for a few dollars when he visited S Korea . So don ' t worry about that part . <| sep |> 2 songs in but the chances that it ' s better than Blonde are slim as a matchstick .