why does he have a 1060 and a 1070 ? you can ' t SLI different models ! This lad is mad ! <| sep |> The writing is on the wall . At this point you need to accept that while you ' re ultimately doing the right thing , you will be seen as the douchenozzle in this matter . Prepare yourself by planning what post breakup you is going to do . Put your finances into order , think about moving housetowncity or even country for a while since your lives seem to be quite intertwined and try to start putting that into action without being too obvious coz if SO finds out . , maybe start reconnecting with old friends outside the social circle you shared if you shared all the same friends . This might seem cold , premeditated well , yeah it is actually ! uncaring but truth is you wont be getting a lot of sympathy after u drop the bomb . Even though you ' re suffering just as much lets not quibble over this . Just my two pence . Hope it helps and you get through this not too scathed .