Keep working on it . Cause I ' ll tell you a secret . Charm is all you need to to make that beta vibe into a alpha vibe <| sep |> I run for 40 minutes Stress TEST 3 dmark and clock was 4 ghz stable without drops . So i guess its fine ? <| sep |> I ' m on mobile , maybe it ' s not showing up on mine but i can ' t see it . Or do we have to put a code ? <| sep |> Unless you want to become her permanent therapist and allow her to slowly consume your entire life with her drama , I would start distancing yourself ASAP . Half of the time I don ' t really believe her . I don ' t believe her in the sense that a lot of her thoughts and rationalizations are ridiculously irrational . Trust yourself on this . My friend invented so many pity stories about herself to get my attention . It never ended . It ' s not about seeking or caring about your actual advice . It ' s about manufacturing drama so she can secure your constant reassurance . When you present her with realistic advice , does she have a million reasons why she can ' t do that ? Almost like she prefers being the victim ? She would rather remain in these situations or invent problems so she can complain to you , because you ' re apparently offering her really good sympathy and comfort . That is like a drug to a person with BPD , and I promise it will slowly drain the life out of you . The kindest thing you can do for her AND yourself is to stop giving her this drug .