damn dude looks like i hit a nerve <| sep |> You know , I ' m sure its no accident that it is onions that she hates . Like you said , the one ingredient that ' s in everything . There are people who are allergic to onions , and its terrible for them , because they are in everything . But obviously , your mother is not really allergic , or she ' d be sick all the time . But she does get the chance to complain a lot and make it all about her . How convenient . My BPD mother would always have a panic attack while she was cooking , and then she would say it was ruined and cry it wasn ' t , and we were all supposed to tell her how good it was to make her feel better . And then she ' d get a headache and have to go lay down . Man , I ' m so glad I don ' t have to deal with her anymore . Hang in there everyone . Happy dramafree Thanksgiving !