Wanting to see the person you are going to chat with is not my concern , if that ' s what your requirements are then have at it . But just for a minute look at it from an outside perspective if you will . A person who spams the sub multiple times a day with consistent downvotes wants a live face pic which you have asked in the past , states they may or may not respond , and multiple people complain said individual never actually responds . Now you may be a girl but no one who has ever responded to one of your messages has ever corroborated it to be so . Now besides all that spamming the sub is what is annoying as fuck . 1 or 2 x a day is fine but 7 x , come now <| sep |> Agreed . Nghtmre is insane lol saw him again since buku fest . It ' s like a war zone .