Hey , I saw this episode of South Park . <| sep |> REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE YOU NAZI WHITE SUPERMACIST HOW DARE YOU . WE ALL DREAM OF A WORLD WITH OPEN BORDERSNATIONS ARE IMAGINARY SOCIAL CONSTRUCTSDisclaimer This user cannot verify whether or not this comment has been edited by uspez <| sep |> What makes fury better for m ? Better aoe ? <| sep |> FUCK PAGANO AND FUCK GRIGSON HOPE ANDREW LUCK LIVES LONG ENOUGH TO SEE HIS CHILDRRN <| sep |> Aside from the other posts , which I agree with , I think you understand yourself that you have desensitized to it , which means those actions have effected you . Being physical with anyone is wrong , and that is why we have laws against such a behaviour . it is a very demeaning way of treating another life , not to mention human beings . Violence doesn ' t resolve anything , but perpetuates pain and dysfunction . Violence is never an ok expression of anger . There are multiple healthier ways of expressing anger , like taking time out to calm down and then have construction conversations about it . It might see odd to you that a simple slap could lead to people wanting to breakup or divorce however , you have to understand that a lot of domestic abuse begins with a simple slap . Then it escalates to much more violent behaviours , similar to what your mother had experienced . Im very sorry for your and your mother ' s experiences , as that is not normal nor healthy at all . I hope both of you are able to get away from that abuse and able to seek help . You have to understand that normal relationships doesn ' t involve any times of abuse . I would recommend you to google how to build a healthy relationship , how violence impact the family and relationships . You will understand more as to why we take slaps and shoving very seriously and consider them to be a red flag in relationships .