Looking for the right one . I think people compromise way too much . Facebook created an interesting dynamic IMO . It allowed you track acquaintances over a lengthly period of time and their relationships . The people I knew over a long period , I was aware passively of their romantic endeavors . It seemed the ones who never or rarely dated were the first ones to get married and have kids to that one and only significant other . I ' m fully convinced this is why divorce is so high . People find anyone and lock it down out of desperation or just lack of options because they are at that age and because they are dating a person in that window of when it ' s socially the correct time to get married they do it . Like it ' s not the right person but it just happens to be the person I ' m dating at that time . My ex two girlfriends ago , wanted marriage immediately . We had nothing in common and it was a rough relationship . We even broke up and got back together , don ' t ask me why , she still 100 percent would have married me . I have a handful of married friends and the ones I ' m close to seem really unhappy . I ' ve dated a ton am the few single ones left and I ' m very happy with this . Marriage is extremely tough and no need to rush it .