That is kinda the same as saying if you ' re not bi , you ' re homocis phobic . You just have a preference for guys or girls , but if you completely rule out one or the other you ' re sexist . Some traits prevalent in certain races , some people just don ' t find attractive . Never seen dark skin that doesn ' t sexually turn me off to be honest , and I find that as fair a thing to feel about as someone ' s hair colour , height , and within reasonable proportions weight yet those are all things that are fine to not be attracted to . If you judge them outside of that , yeah , its bad . If you make a rule that you can ' t date those people so its never an option ok , a bit of stereotyping for the wider race , how racist that is depends on what it is you ' re generalising . Judging them from their race outside of simple physical appearance yeah , racist . Just not being attracted to an omnipresent physical feature of a race though ? I think that ' s fair enough . You can ' t control what gets you hard , and if a certain race doesn ' t do it for you , they don ' t do it for you .