To not disappoint my parents , I knew it would ruin their lifes and that was the reason for my staying alive . Im glad I didnt do it , it always gets better and nothing is unsolveable . <| sep |> that ' s not the point , it ' s a financial abortion . meaning the father isn ' t responsible for the child . Actually , they don ' t say that ' Fathers are held financially liable and emotionally responsible if the baby is born , they are expected to love and nurture their children , yet they are expected to remain silent if an unborn child is aborted without their knowledge or consent . ' source Irish Examiner a r t i c l e f a t h e r i s f o r l i f enotjustconceptionfathers 4 j usticecampaignwillgoahead 431672 . htmlThey are literally complaining that someone can get an abortion without the father ' s consent . Which means they think the father should be able to choose if someone gets an abortion .