An egg is not a bird anymore than it is a human . <| sep |> Xbox has been doing it for longer though so maybe he upgraded when PlayStation wasn ' t doing it yet . <| sep |> THINGS COULDN ' T POSSIBLY GET WORSE <| sep |> My laptop is literally falling apart and I still want both , but I haven ' t had any of the troubles other people have so I am biased a bit <| sep |> No . Just no . He didn ' t say he was codependent . He said he was grayA . Human beings are social creatures . Malefemale sexual coupling is the cornerstone for those who have that desire . To suggest that he should simply deny himself that experience because he is somehow less mature than people whose sex drive switched on , is insulting . He might CHOOSE to deny himself that experience . He might not . But he stated earlier that he DOES experience sexual attraction after a long courtship and that he has the desire to act upon it . Desire . That means he wants it , at least a little . He is a delicate mixture of sexual desire and asexual tendency . Don ' t shut him down , just on general principle . Each of us has our own path , and he must be free to explore his . Just as you were free to explore yours .