I know it ' s random There is your answer . From immidiately get the perk 3 times in a row to never see it again untill lvl 9001 <| sep |> It ' s the purple shirted eye stabber ! <| sep |> My boyfriend comes from a home where he was doted on by his mother who is a housewife and does absolutely everything for him , but he gets ignored by his dad a lot as he is always working . When he stays at mine , I have to remind him that he needs to do things for the next day , otherwise he will forget or assume it will be done for him . Some things I don ' t mind doing for him , for example if I ' m making my lunch for the next day I ' ll make his as well , then there ' s no need to get stuff out of the fridge twice . But things like washing up ? That ' s his responsibility . We ' ve talked about getting a place together and agreed we would each have a job he would do dishes and I would do washing that we do every day but the other person doesn ' t nag , because it ' s not their responsibility . He ' s getting better and it ' s improved our relationship . When I ' m at his parents house I notice his dad usually listens to the sister more and so when my boyfriend is telling a story and he ignores him , I sit there and say I ' m listening , don ' t stop and I think he needs that sometimes . Just to know someone is listening .