On mobile , so let ' s see if I get this right . <| sep |> All they have to do is take you to court . Then you have to pay for a lawyer , and deal with that headache . That ' s reason enough for most people to take down a negative review . <| sep |> The best way I ' ve seen potlucks for food and drinks go , is when the hosthostess informs everyone what they will be providing , and that other drinksfood are more than welcome to round it out . you could even make it something about the two of you joining together to become one , and you ' d love for all your friends to join together to become one family of friends through the union of food and drink . make the symbolism of a potluck and joining together work for you , so that more people will also want to contribute . I would also suggest having a websitefacebook group so that everyone can claim what they are bringing it helps to not have 10 salads and no dessert