catalog of women ' s clothing and accessories finds from AliExpress <| sep |> She sounds like a complete Aisling <| sep |> OK ? It isn ' t . <| sep |> A fair dinkum mate , right there <| sep |> Could be worse . <| sep |> She ' s not coming to those occasions because she ' s NC or LC with her folks and she knows they ' ll be there . She knows you ' re leaving the door open and sending these invites because you would love to include her but she can ' t include herself as long as her parents continue to shit all over her life decisions . Even if they are shitty life decisions , they are hers to make . And ladies , she didn ' t abandon a 7 and 4 yo . She left behind a 17 and 15 yo who didn ' t want to come . I probably wouldn ' t have done it , but I ' m actually happy she didn ' t say No , fuck you and your autonomy and friendships and education etc . You ' re coming with me to the flavour of the months house ! . Sometimes shitty people are bad parents . Other times shitty people are good parents . My 2 cents .