You should get a Dog a big one too protect the cats <| sep |> Also . And done . <| sep |> I ' m not a parent , so I can only give you very general advice . In my experience , the things you regret the most are the things you DIDN ' T do . Even if you experience some pain from seeing your daughter again , that ' s better than wondering about her for the rest of your life . Besides , she ' s the one who initiated the contact . So presumably she ' s not out to get you . And it sounds like you could benefit from some closure on this issue . I think you should agree to meet her once . If things don ' t work out , you don ' t have to do it again . <| sep |> No it means we are going to savage you fucks in your safe spaces . <| sep |> Rolling Stones , The Doors