She ' s not a rapper <| sep |> We have used extremes to teach kids safety measures for decades , guys . Regardless of Gary ' s potential to manipulate , Leah was going to get the seatbelt lecture at some point and he was probably going to go about it all wrong . My dad was a DARE officer when I was young and he recently explained to me that DARE relies on extremes to keep kids away from drugs , but those extremes are actually detrimental . He said it hurt his conscience to tell kids that smoking marijuana just one time would send them into a drugaddicted spiral , because it ' s not true . Regardless , he still told that lie because the whole idea is to scare the kids away from the harder stuff cocaine , heroin , etc . But what happens ? The kid tries marijuana and literally nothing happens . They don ' t even feel high . Natural conclusion ? If the DARE officer lied about weed , they lied about the other stuff . I get why Gary would show her this stuff , but if Amber is ever in a small fender bender isn ' t wearing a seatbelt , Amber will Lord it over both of them . See BewBew ? My car is all dented up but nothing bad happened to me . Implying , of course , that Gary was wrong about serious car accidents and seat belts and fatalities . We need to stop saying shit like If you have sex you will get pregnant and die and start saying If you have unprotected sex there is a good chance you could catch an STD and possibly conceive . It is more palatable and gives the adult more credibility to use realism rather than scare tactics .