Inpropable isn ' t a word , it ' s spelled ' improbable ', which is what he was referring to . There ' s no need to be condescending . The parent commenter fixed it , though . <| sep |> It ' s not though , just don ' t make life about relationships , because that shouldn ' t be your goal in life imo . <| sep |> I think if your Q stuns , the mana cost should be refunded . It would help with her huge mana costs , help her sustain , and incentivize hitting the Q even more <| sep |> she now suffers struggles with her selfesteem . We don ' t have the money or time to invest in her body image . You say selfesteem and body image , I say a husband who ' s not as attracted to her as he thinks he should be is contributing to a bout of postpartum depsression . She just had a baby , is living in an incredibly stressful situation , moved to a new country . it doesn ' t matter that your son was born a year ago or so , your timeline is unclear , she should talk to her doctor about this . So should you . I know , I know , broke finances college student poor but listen . Your priorities are different now . 1 Your son . 2 The mother of your son . 3 College . Find a way to get her help . If that means you drop out of college for a while and work a better job , then that ' s what it means . You need to doubledown on finding her attractive . Obviously something about her was good enough to bone , so focus on that . Try to ignore other women . You ' re never not going to be attracted to other attractive women , so now ' s a great time to learn to ignore that . Cut down on masturbating and spend the energy you would have spent lusting after people who are your type on S instead . I ' m sorry sex is monotonous but you two have a baby . Exciting sex and hot bodies is in your past until the kid is older and you two are more stable . Right now , you need to make any sacrifice you need to make to help your family .