None of the hype around TSM in international tourneys appears to be justified . <| sep |> Our wedding was very nontraditional . We got married at the courthouse beforehand , which left us free to plan our wedding as more of a big family BBQ . We had it at a private pavilion in a park , close family only , 50 guests . There was no aisle and we didn ' t do a formal grand entrance my husband and I just walked up the path to the pavilion together . We did a little ceremony that was just our parents doing a reading and then us reading our vows no exchange of rings or anything we did that at the courthouse . There was no dancing and actually no music at all , bc the pavilion didn ' t have electricity . We had lawn games , and people hung out and talked . Dinner was BBQ from a local grocery store and bundt cakes made by my MIL . We had beer , but our families aren ' t big drinkers so not much of it got drunk . The whole thing started at 2 and people left by 7 . It was awesome and very us , and we do not at all regret not making it more traditional !