It angers me that your parents aren ' t paying for your medical things and wig . I ' m sorry you ' re in such painI hope your condition improves and one day you can be independent of your parents At least you have come to the conclusion that you owe them nothing and this may help you break free of them in the futureI hope your conditions improve . Physical ailments are horrible in how they make us feel a prisoner of our bodies . I ' m in physical pain tonight over something different and that with my depression is driving me crazy . I hope you can feel better and that you can do your best to lead a happier life . You sound like a strong person to have endured so much and kept going . <| sep |> I don ' t think she said , or implied , that . Very few people would appreciate being told that they are now in x , y , z diet or must do a , b , c fitness thing . Inspiring your partner to change and wanting what ' s best is very different than being told that you must change