You ' re right , it would work for you if you had their money and fame . Rich famous people are allowed to be assholes . You ' re not rich or famous , though . Either set your mind on getting rich and famous , or don ' t think about it , because what they do doesn ' t matter . You know why all of those misogynists still get women ? Because they ' re not actually misogynists . They believe that women are people , and they don ' t hate women just for being women . Just because they say things like that doesn ' t mean they ACTUALLY hold those literal beliefs . The guys who think Trump ' s comment is hilarious ? It ' s all in good fun , or at least they ' ve convinced themselves andor the people around them that it is . Guys who like Chris Brown ' s music ? Those aren ' t the type of people who think deeply about song lyrics , and the girls around them don ' t give a shit . Men in the hood ? Calling women bitches is basically a cultural thing at that point . It ' s not to them what it is to us . A lot of what we see as misogyny in the hood is just the way they live there , and the people are okay with it . Hate preachers ? The women who DO follow their rules , the only women they ' d be okay with marrying , have chosen that life , so of course they ' re okay with being treated the way women are treated in that religious sect .