Car runs like a dream . Shop said car isn ' t actually misfiring . <| sep |> Yes you did . Its basically preplayoff college football <| sep |> My cat does the same thing , he sits right next to my Keurig and watches it intently . Once the brew is done , he goes over and sniffs the cup of coffee and then get ' s the most surprised face , everytime lol . <| sep |> What does it mean not to wallow ? I took my day off school today and I don ' t know what to do . Ive been in breakups before but those were little 2 month relationships which . just don ' t mean a thing in comparison to a 4 year relationship . I don ' t know what to do . Is it okay to sit around all day crying like a bitch ? Do I try to distract myself and play games ? I just don ' t actually know whats best to do . There is no hard and fast rule about this , it ' s all personal and it depends on what works for you . It ' s completely healthy to be down , to cry and grieve and take some time out for as long as you need . No one can tell you exactly what to do or for how long , it has to feel natural to you . In my view , wallowing in it is when people stay stuck in this mindset for years and it prevents them from moving on or ever forming new healthy relationships with other people . It can become unhealthy and self defeating . It doesn ' t sound like that is what you are doing , it ' s not even something you need to worry about right now , it ' s more something to think about in the future to make sure you are keeping yourself mentally and emotionally healthy . I ' m really glad to hear you ' ve got good people around you .