The second example , well there ' s good rationale for that even if it ' s taken to extremes . Stops people from being exploited . Stops shelfstackers from having to clean toilets . Stops random odd jobs from eventually becoming a permanant part of your job description . I ' ve read stories about IT Technicians being the go to furniture movers for a company . <| sep |> That ' s pretty much exactly what I said in another comment Also , disincentivize <| sep |> Honour murders are quote common in Kurds . They marry for life . So They are sticking to their tribal roots . <| sep |> Where was it bought ? <| sep |> I get the treating as equals , absolutely . But why the debt of gratitude ? I ' m honestly ignorant I have no idea why the gratitude