So normalizing murder is okay but not rape . <| sep |> Don ' t worry 3 <| sep |> That ' s just ham , right ? <| sep |> You are correct . I am ashamed to say that the last time I encountered this I did nothing . Some old geezer from my apartment complex saw me at a grocery store , and eventually started rambling about those people and why are they here . I just nervously chuckled and left . I still feel the shame of that over a year later . <| sep |> She ' s been on antidepressants for about a year , and they ' ve upped her dosage twice . Anytime anything of any kind goes wrong is a possible depression spike for her . Sometimes it ' s something as simple as there not being enough milk for her cereal in the morning , and it ' ll initiate a downward spiral of emotions ending in crying and selfhatred and loss of appetite by the end of the day . All that said , I know her and I know when she ' s putting in the effort . And when I talk to her about the intimacy in our sex , I can tell she really does want things to improve . They ' re just not .