Even IF , New york STATE AS A WHOLE had less than 7 million votes cast . The idea that the cities would run away with the electorate without the protection of the electoral college is ridiculous . <| sep |> Many times . It ' s something most of us have to deal with in life . It ' s awful , just awful . But sometime ' s it has to be done . Noone wants to continue living a lie . But as a comfort , I can tell you this . I still have dear relationships with most of my rejects we ' ve grown up and developed on our own and almost look back at it as a mile stone in our lives . Yes , I ' ve been rejected too , hurt like hell . but now . I ' m kind of glad it happened . You either die or you grow OP ! <| sep |> The Electoral College doesn ' t vote until December !