Well , my first match was boring . Joined , got matched against german team says all , then two of my team left within like 5 rounds and it was pretty much 3 v 5 all match . <| sep |> I never even think to tell guys I ' m dating about it until something comes up and I ' m like OOOOHHHH ! yea . I have ADD . Sorry about that . I think that phrase doesn ' t really mean anything to anyone until they have seen the repercussions over and over and then for the first time in their life they have a ADD is real moment . <| sep |> Another graphic designer here , listen to himher . <| sep |> That ' s not the video . <| sep |> Except it did leak . <| sep |> What are some methods of having a prostate orgasm without going in there . As others have pointed out , there is a pressure point on your perineum , midway between your scrotum and anus . However the pleasure is not nearly as good as when accessed through the rectal wall . how can i ask her without weirding her out ? Just as I did with my wife many years ago , I said something along the lines of I read that prostate stimulation can be very pleasurable for guys and lead to amazing orgasms . Can we try it out ? My wife thought it was weird at first , but once she saw how much pleasure she can give to someone she deeply cares about with just her index finger , there was no more discussion about it being weird . I feel very different and strange when it ' s the other way around . I ' ve been married for a couple of decades to the same amazing woman and I ' m about as straight as you can be . I ' ve never been with a guy , or want to be with a guy . The point ? I too greatly enjoy anal and prostate play . Enjoying anal andor prostate play does not define you sexually it ' s just another source of pleasure . You shouldn ' t be stigmatized for exploring how your body works and maximizing pleasure . It ' s amazingly pleasurable an intimate for my wife and I . If this is something you and your girlfriend want to explore , I wrote a short guide to prostate play that may be of interest .