No standard hc ? Damn , i was hoping to select that answer for a joke . <| sep |> The music makes it weird , I ' m a little sad now , it was somewhat touching , don ' t know why exactly . I guess I ' m tired . <| sep |> In the right relationship for you or really , any relationship that isn ' t as crappy as this one ! at 2 years you should be deliriously happy still , planning to move in together , talking about the future . Not dealing with the new development of being ignored and having to hear about the waitress ' s ass ! Your relationship should be improving , not deteriorating . You already suspect it ' s RPy in nature . Do you want to be one of the sad people with no self esteem that that kind of behavior works on ? Finally you can ditch him . You can . This isn ' t your husband of 40 years , it ' s a guy you ' re not even living with that has suddenly decided to ignore you and ogle other women in front of you . In short , fuck him .