Sad , isn ' t it ? <| sep |> Hitler had an idea too . <| sep |> Just playing with you because you said actually twice and very close to each other . I didn ' t doubt you . It seems really dumb that I did that now <| sep |> I would just go for it and use the advice above . The likelihood that you wouldn ' t get a bid is pretty low , especially if you can show that you can contribute more than just academics and a pretty face ! Don ' t confuse not getting a bid with getting a bid to a chapter that might not be as popular on campus . I know so many girls who did this and ending up being upset that they didn ' t have a college experience with Greek Life when they definitely could have joined a chapter ! From my experience , everyone has pretty much the same experience in their different chapters so don ' t stress about it too much !