Your doing nothing wrong , what she is doing is wrong . Pressuring someone for sex is never okay . That is a big red flag , its your body and your girlfriend should respect that . Your sexually incompatible and your girlfriend sounds very immature . A relationship should never feel suffocating and unsatisfying . I ' m sorry but its time to leave and find someone who will take the time to build a stronger connection with you , who will listen to your needs , who will give you a chance to miss her . And who won ' t PRESSURE you to have sex . <| sep |> Tempting if I do say so myself but I ' m a bit short on cash at the moment . <| sep |> Ahh . nice ! ! Might be worth a shot then . Thx ! I just ordered two of them so . fingers crossed .