You can ' t . I can ' t even get people to use firefox let alone be more secure . I had a woman hysterically yell at me for putting firefox on her machine . It comes with the system image we put out . <| sep |> Yes , I have looked at the statistics . It is not common and , again , not more common than I think it is . And can I get some detail on your claim that women are more comfortable harming children than men ? It isn ' t relevant to this conversation it appears given that we were talking about the likelihood of murder over divorce , but I ' m curious nonetheless . That ' s quite a claim . It was a study I read awhile ago , I don ' t remember exactly where I found it so digging it up might be tricky but basically women feel it ' s okay for them to hurt children more so then men do and by hurt I don ' t necessarily mean abuse , stuff like grabbing them by the ear would count in the parameters of the study if I remember correctly . Plus , I ' m confused by your differentiation between harm and abuse . If , perhaps , you are saying it is more likely that a mother would spank her children than a father , I would want to know some details about the studies . Do they take into account who was appointed the family disciplinarian ? Or the fact that women are much more likely to be at home with their children when they misbehave ? Basically , it seems unlikely that one gender is just more inclined to do harm . There is far too much variability for that to be a sound claim . I wish I could link you the study or even find it myself but I can ' t , every search I try I just get a bunch of unrelated bullshit .