What kind of person accepts random strangers on the internet over multiple valid sources ? Tell your friend he ' s an idiot <| sep |> Nicely said . So true . Keep using perspective like that to your advantage . It helped me a lot in dealing with my mother passing away when I was 17 and my father moving for work half a year later remarried after about a year and in living alone for the last 6 years . It wasn ' t enjoyable , but I still had a home and a lot of other past and present privileges some others surely didn ' tdon ' t . <| sep |> ok friendo <| sep |> I ' m so sorry for you , all my wishes and sympathies are with you . I know the words of a stranger don ' t mean anything and I don ' t want to say it ' s all going to be ok because when people have said that to me on tough times it didn ' t really help , but if you need someone to talk to know that many people are there and please reach out .