OUR ALEX SMITH IS BETTER THAN YOUR ALEX SMITH . <| sep |> During the reception , if the groom leaves the room for any reason , other men are allowed to kiss the bride , and vice versa . Mmmmmmmmmmmm . ok . Jamen det har jag varit med om . Om ngon i brudparet gr p toaletten s plinkas det i glasen och s ska man springa fram och sno en kyss av den som r kvar . <| sep |> Amber I ' m so sorry you ' re going through this . I don ' t have many words of wisdom because my well is so dry right now , but I just wanted to thank you for being so comforting to me during my own loss while you were also going through yours . I ' m so inspired by your strength and resilience . You can get through this one day at a time , we both will . No need to make a decision right now . Just be kind to yourself thank you for being you .