It ' s not petty at all . I completely understand where you ' re coming from because Sour Faced Sue my FMIL did the same thing and I was just as upset maybe more annoyed than upset as you are . I don ' t understand the reasoning behind it . Unless they want the little ones to enjoy being at their house more than at home and they think that ' s how to do it ? SFS seemed to be scared I wasnt letting LO play with anything she bought her . She ' s a very paranoid woman though . <| sep |> it does not matter if you have private or public insurance . You can go to an orthopde yourself whenever you like , no need to visit a Hausarzt first , especially when you are in pain . source did that my self several times , and know several people who did