Knew I was missing something . <| sep |> because everyone speaks the languageit ' s the language of meme magic <| sep |> Nice . I will give those a go . I ' ve had Laphroaig , but not that one . <| sep |> Sorry , don ' t see anything I need , thanks though <| sep |> I ' d say just make sure you ' re prepared pads , heat pads , ice packs , pain meds , comfy clothes , etc . That way of you can still go out and just be ready to get yourself home if it starts then . As far as telling them , we told parents alone first . I ' m currently miscarrying my second pregnancy in 5 months , so we ' ve had to tell them twice . I would suggest talking to parents first and in private . We let them ask questions and grieve with us . We asked them to tell our siblings in their own time , so that we didn ' t have to keep going through the trauma of announcing over and over . In terms of what to say , just tell them you hoped it would be a different announcement , but that you unfortunately found out you ' re losing the pregnancy . Tell them to be patient with you , that you may not be ready to try again for a while . Be honest with them and let them know what you needdon ' t need from them . Just allow yourself to be firm with your own boundaries and what makes you comfortable , you don ' t have to tell anyone . I hope you have a good support system in place , and that your family helps you through this . I ' m sending you positive thoughts , I ' m so sorry . Happy Thanksgiving .