This is the right answer . Ian needs to know that James is being a crap friend to him . <| sep |> You ' re right . I worded it poorly . I should explain what I meant . FUCKING AGAIN ! ! Yes , I would make my kid give it back . By doing this , that toy is being taken away , although passively . The point of this whole hypothetical situation was that any punishment I do isn ' t permission for my kid to do the same . I ' m the authority figure , he ' s not . <| sep |> Well this hurt my feelings . But now you mention it , i do have a story i ' d like to share . My Romanian buddy Marius is a former 62 kgcategory national boxing champion . A few years ago he retired from professional boxing and moved to England with his girlfriend . I asked him a while ago how he met her , and his story is actually quite sweet . He was single through most of his career , but his buddy wanted to set him up with his niece . While waiting at a bar , Marius saw this random lass and that ' s how he met his girlfriend never met the niece . I didn ' t say it was a good story ! Anyway , Marius ' s girlfriend is a 5 ' 2 ball of adorable tenacity . Seriously , she ' s got a meanstreak to make Jared Leto jealous . They work together and are one of the funniest couples i ' ve seen . They ' re both still learning English , and this lass used to be really shy at work but now she ' s just full of confidence . The other day , Marius tried teaching me some more Romanian and got me to say tu ccat pe tine . Easy enough sounds a bit weird . Then it dawned on me ccat . I ' ve heard that before . Marius , does that mean shit ? ! Yeah ! D It means ' you shit on yourself '! Tu ccat pe tine ! Say it to ! Challenge accepted . As soon as i saw her , i said Hey ! Ce faci ? Tu ccat pe tine ? . That got a laugh , and she started shouting random things at me in mixed Romanian English . They love making me say cinedog , because it ' s pronounced Ceeeney and i cannot make that sound . A while later , she jumped out on me when i walked through to the packing room at work . She shouted Tu ccat pe tine ! Tu ccat pe tine ! ! D ! and i nodded , said Da ! Yes ! Tu suge pula ? ! Did you eat a dick ? D and she looked at me mortified ! P 0 s ! Who taught this word to you ? !? O . . . . You did ! Those two are perfect for each other ! uMarcelRED 147 uspontaniousthingy uTwoggles