And that ' s how they all became the Brady Bunch <| sep |> Hey man I know how it feels and you ' re not alone . It probably sucks right now and may seem like you ' re coming off the fun part of life and it ' s gonna be nothing but hardship but I think the whole point of it all is to find happiness in places and times it wouldn ' t seem to be . There ' s definitely joy in life when you ' re an adult and it ' s not something you find but make yourself . I ' m not saying you ' re not trying hard enough or that it ' s your fault , it ' s just happiness always seems like a foreign crazy topic to anyone not experiencing it but trust me it ' s there . You have to find what makes you happy though and that ' s not something you can do overnight . Instead of worrying about the future worry about YOU . Maybe you ' re worried about how bad the future will be because you ' re not satisfied with yourself right now and think there ' s nowhere else to go but down and we ' ve all felt that at least once . But if you just focus on bettering yourself through your actions today and really find what makes you happy and work on that then you ' ll have no problem in the future . That sucks about your friend group but just remember two things it ' s never too late to go back and there ' s always others out there . Even if it feels like you have no serious friends or someone to really be yourself with don ' t fret because in such a big world there ' s millions of others just like you that you ' d be great friends with , you just have to make an effort to find them . So don ' t worry about the future , focus on the present and who you are and what makes you happy and by the time the future actually hits you ' ll wonder why you were so scared in the first place .