That I ' m Space Efficient . Explained it was because I was really smart but I fit all that braininess into such a tiny little body . I ' m quite short , and was in better shape at the time . <| sep |> Firstly , great username ! I would actually say definitely put some pictures of the chair in . Pictures of you having fun and loving life . You ' re afraid people will be turned off that it is a handicap , you have to demonstrate that it is indeed no handicap to your ability to live an awesome life ! The problem I ' m seeing here is that you ' re almost owning it . Confidence is always sexy , so own it SmartWheels . Everyone has their own cross to bear , so as Tyrion Lannister once said to Jon Snow , wear it like armor ! Also , do be sure to beef up your profile in general . Own the chair , but as a rule of thumb don ' t let any one single trait define your profile . You want to be multifaceted and engaging . Anecdote I dated a very very good looking girl on okcupid once . While it didn ' t work out in the long run , we remained friends . She is now happily married to a wheelchair bound guy , making dudes jealous everywhere .