As ubadadmin said those are relative coordinates . No change on the X east west , plus 20 on the Y height , no change on the Z north south . <| sep |> I think that applies to every country except the US . <| sep |> But what big site has done it ? <| sep |> I am female . I am straight . When I was 1516 I was raped by another female . She came out as gay , all her friends abandoned her , and she groomed me for months before trapping me in a bad situation that I couldn ' t see my way out of . Then I was forced into maintaining a pseudorelationship with her while she threatened suicide if I didn ' t go along . This girl is psychotic she had a shrine in her bedroom for me . She stole little trinkets and collected things , basically anything I ' d touched or used became sacred . She gave a bunch of them to me and a if we break up note that quoted her undying love for me . I spent a year of my life as her puppet as her toy . There was a guy I liked , shit you not she went out of her way to date and bang him , while still holding me hostage with her suicide threats . To be honest I still believe to this day that she probably would have killed herself , I just wish she had now . She also started cutting after I finally broke free . I questioned my sexuality for a long time . Eventually I decided that sex is sex . It doesn ' t entirely matter who the two people are or what they do . I also decided that I was really only attracted to males for relationships . I could have sex with another girl , sure , but I wouldn ' t date her . I don ' t think I can trust another female wholeheartedly . For a long time I was ashamed , raped by a girl . and I ' m a girl . At some point , I got over the shame and it turned into just anger . Raw , unquenchable anger at how I was abused . I ' d have episodes of panic , nightmares , and just mental breakdowns . How I could let it happen and how she could do that to someone . Eventually I let that anger go . I wish I had found someone to talk to about it . Now almost 15 years later , it ' s a shitty thing that happened to me . It ' s so distant that it almost feels as if I ' m recalling someone else ' s life story .