He doesn ' t get too much flashing out on my playthroughs lolBut yeah , he is interesting , I just don ' t like him much . It ' s kinda like Luke from Abyss . I don ' t like him , but he ' s a well done character . <| sep |> We beat the Steelers with 45 seconds left . <| sep |> I ' ve had my trusty gamecube controller since ' 01 and it still works perfecly m 8 <| sep |> I considered it but in the end I didn ' t do it and I didn ' t have any perineal tears I had a 2 nd tear on my labia though . Afterwards my perineum was so bruised and swollen that I couldn ' t pee for hours after the labour . I had to be catheterized to empty my bladder <| sep |> Yeah its never good . Go to virtue for good deals <| sep |> For what you indicated , mainly just a talk about what ' s OK to try and what isn ' t . People have things they know they like , soft limits which they ' d be willing to try , and hard limits which are not acceptable . Now , specifics might be hard to come by without having experience , but you should have a general notion of what she ' d be OK with and what she isn ' t . This covers communication , there ' s also trust . She needs to trust you to stop when she tells you to and you need to trust her to safeword if something is wrong and you can ' t tell . Let me give you an example . My partner is sexually masochistic and submissive . I will dominate her , inflict pain on her , and restrain her . It can get pretty intense . But even though it was difficult to get her to really talk about her desires at first , eventually I learned how to ask the right questions . Humiliation is not something she wants in any shape or form . Different people want different things and don ' t want others , and without an idea of what these things are you have no basis on which to try things out because you don ' t know what ' s offlimits just as much as what isn ' t .