Weell , I ' m a little late to the discussion and I personally wanna hear udreadspace ' s opinion , too , but here ' s my two cents as a human with a uterus and shitFor me , it ' s not the porn part . Hell , I barely watch porn , if at all it ' s all audio for me , yo ! Like what uSamuelEnderby said , there is extreme intimacy in deciding to make a baby togetherand how uUKRexCordium mentioned , Ownership , submission , possessionI think it ' s definitely an intimate thing to do with another person . It ' s basically a biological need this can be disputed , and please do I love hearing other perspectives ! that ' s ingrained into the animalistic part of our brains . I , for one , have had this kink literally as long as I can remember it was my very first kink , actually dunno precisely why think it might have to do with some very big childhood events that literally shaped the course of my life and I , I dunno , and this is the romanticized bit on my end it ' s just mind blowing for me to imagine that there ' s someone out there who ' d enjoy my company enough to want to have a kid with me ? ? shrugsI ' m not gonna go into the reasons why as that is a complicated , personal and convoluted series of events that would take a long fucking time to explain , but just theidea of being so in love with someone that I would consent to carrying their child , feeling it grow and move and stuff inside of me , is just . so incredibly arousing ? ?? IDK . I have no plans to have a kid or multiple any time soon , but I probably will have at least one kid before I die . Gotta pass on the freckles and red hair , after all !