Is it me or did Tolzien go all video game ragdoll in the final yards there ? <| sep |> One person that shows love and tells the truth can easily dominate groups of people that seek authority and control . Anyone that is angry is in a losing argument . They know it , and that ' s why they twist things , lie , and resort to personal attacks . Logic always wins . Only a clear mind that is not angry can be logical . Anyone that stops thinking and resorts to anger , authority and violence looks weak of mind compared to those that show love , patience , humility , and kindness . The trick is to focus the mind away from emotional pain , and point it back to love and joy . The only real emotions that we have are love and joybased , and this is because we live within an illusionary reality that often contradicts the ego ' s perception of how it should be . Any emotion that is negative , fear , and hatebased is phony and unreal . It ' s based on illusion . We never die . We existed before this human life experience . We are always joyful and loving deep down . All human beings are strong , because all of us face our own illusionary deaths , and the illusionary deaths of those we care about . It is very emotionally taxing to have no control over what our experiences are in the physical plane . The more real that we are , the stronger we become . A loving person can never be defeated in logic . It can never happen . Anyone that wants to possess a superior mindset has to tell the truth . They have to be loving and kind to all people and animals , otherwise , they ' ll never be as smart . It sucks to be outsmarted , so if you don ' t feel as smart as some other people on the planet , it ' s time to grow . Humor , truth , and love is the way out of all of the illusionary emotions .