Thank you ! !! 3 <| sep |> This is my same view . Everyone agrees we would never hit a child but what people don ' t get is that abuse and neglect have a far finer root . betrayal of trust . I would never , for example , pretend to hand my baby something and yank it away when she reaches for it . I value her trust too much . I think Daddy ' s role is more teasing and storytelling because that is what helps protect you from the world . But that has to be within a trust relationship . I did not have santa growing up but my mom constantly betrayed my trust growing up and that ' s the thing I will not allow in the next generation . <| sep |> I used to just boil it , skim the resin off the top , and resmoke it . <| sep |> Sorry man , Mine had like 30 didn ' t care for them though lol