I was talking with 2 of my friends about this recently . We are all the HL partner in our relationships I ' m bi , married to a woman one friend was bic f , married to a man other was gay m , ltr with m . We all expressed frustration with our LL partners , but none of us could imagine being the LL in a relationship . <| sep |> I mean , some of us don ' t own phones for personal reasons I owned one but no one calledtexted me and I never calledtexted anyone else and I ' d rather go online on a laptop or desktop , plus the whole social anxiety thing that means I can ' t even speak on the phone to family without freaking out and completely freezing and barely talking so . <| sep |> I was listening to this song 82 when I clicked the gif . It was perfect .