Well fuck me . That was also rad ! !!<| sep |> NMS getting an update is a great thing no matter how you look at it . Don ' t know whats the point of base building , I want exploration to be more fun . Well , lets hope they get more out . <| sep |> This isn ' t the real world we ' re talking about . It ' s a digital platform . I am capable of uploading only the most flattering pics just like they do . Looks are really beside the point on Tinder though . I rate 410 on okcupid type sites but then again , don ' t we all . When girls just want to have harmless fun on the other hand , looks are secondary to characteristics . They want to know they won ' t have to respond to endless texts afterwards . They want to know the guy is experienced but not demanding . They have a set of criteria to meet before they are willing to randomly hook up that are pretty much the EXACT opposite of the criteria for datingrelationships . The fact is , if you are able to talk to them on tinder , you have already passed the attraction threshold , they swiped right after all . After that it ' s the approach that matters and sadly , most guys inevitably treat it like a dating site and attempt to get to know them . They ' ll convince themselves this is the ' smart ' course of action . She obviously wants to know a bit about me and vice versa before we get to sexy time . So they revert to the same patterns they use when dating . The other side of the coin is the guys who treat it like a virtual strip club where they can just demand what they want . Neither of these approaches will work if you are just wanting casual sex . Believe me or not , I don ' t really care . I ' m just trying to inform people of the unbiased truth . I ' ve lived both sides of the coin . I can have incredible luck getting laid by hotties on tinder but anything beyond meaningless sex is impossible with them . Most are way to shallow to actually be seen in public with me . They just want me to come over at 1 am and not wake the roomie . I can experience that while also getting completely ignored or ghosted on actual dating sites by anyone under 200 lb . Different set of criteria and in that world I don ' t rank high enough . I ' ve had my fill of relationships at this point . Nearly had my fill of pussy too . Regardless my point stands . In this modern culture sex is easy to come by , it ' s love that is impossible to find . The main reason my experience is different from yours boils down to approach . Stop treating it like a dating app , stop asking them questions period and you ' ll have much better results . Location may affect this , small towns that are 90 % fatties will obviously hinder you