The best advice I could give you is to not go looking and to go with the flow however cliche that sounds . I know it ' s so much easier said than done but time is a healer . Right now you might feel like shit but I can guarantee you one day you ' re going to wake up and realise that there ' s no point in being upset or worried about something that is completely out of your control , in due time you will find someone that ' s a hell of a lot better for you than someone that ' s going to just walk out of your life and straight into somebody else ' s . Seems like a blessing in disguise to me that it happened now and not years down the line . Think of the positives my friend and keep that positive energy flowing , however hard that may be right now .