Used to be even lower , too <| sep |> You don ' t accept caring for someone ' s pet , including administering medication , and then not do it , lie about it , and have others lie about it too . You tell them what you can and cannot do outright and let them choose . Seriously , just because he left his dog behind doesn ' t mean it ' s okay to get the whole family to lie about giving his dog cancer treatments that he cares enough to pay for . They were both wrong , but she ' s on a whole nother level of wrong for what she did . His was harmless , if inconvenient . Hers is cold and cruel , especially to involve others in the deception . Where was the medication he was paying for even going ? Was she just throwing out chemicals ? Was she doing it in a responsible way ? I ' d bet pretty much anything he would have completely understood her concerns and found another option . It probably makes the situation that much worse for him because he probably didn ' t realize he had even done anything wrong and that ' s how he was treated .