Wow ! A lot to say ! I ' m not going to read it . Good luck in your future trades and happy thanksgiving . <| sep |> They are . if you play enough . I have a few friends who get byes at GP ' s now . <| sep |> I ' d give up porn if my country could be rid of guns though . <| sep |> My MIL and FIL were trying to insist on being in the hospital room with us , even though we sort of ' convinced ' them and they agreed not to I still didn ' t fully trust them so I made sure the hospital staff knew I wanted no guests at all , just my husband and me . I ' m so sorry this happened to you , but your husband is a little right , theres nothing that can be done about it now . If its really eating away at you maybe you could try to bring up how upset you are over this , but try not to take it too far because there really is nothing it can change about what happened . Take it as a lesson in boundaries for the future , maybe trust them a little less or set stricter boundaries than you may have before this when it comes to the baby . They messed up , they did it on purpose against your wishes , they tried to keep it a secret so they could ' get away with it ' remember this , and remember they will use the same way of thinking when they are with your child . Boundaries will be very important going forward .