Is Tory all that much different than Doug ? I ' m asking honestly . <| sep |> I get it , really . You don ' t want to think of yourself as mutilated , you want to be happy with your body . Also , chances are you love your parents and can ' t bear the thought that they had you mutilated . By all means , keep a healthy body image , but break the cycle . Don ' t have your son circumsised just so he ' ll look like you or because you don ' t want to feel bad about your own body . <| sep |> You look really pretty to me . You ' re the kind of person if I saw regularly I ' d start thinking about asking out for coffee or drinks . Y ' know if it wasn ' t too busy telling myself I ' d be rejected or ignored . I ' m not good at asking out people I don ' t know a bit . It ' s tough feeling ignored or rejected , I feel like there is only so far you can get just reassuring yourself but remember your value isn ' t at all tied to other people ' s opinions . There isn ' t anything wrong with you , it ' s other people who are missing out by rejecting and ignoring you ! Also I don ' t know if it ' s just the light but your eyes look really dark and deep , and I can ' t think of a none cliche way to say how interesting and attractive they are .