We ' ve had a rocky year . I have asked him to go to counseling he won ' t do it . he said he doesn ' t believe that it helps at all . 😐 <| sep |> Well dayum , no more self defence classes for me D <| sep |> well exactly . Where did I ever say I was good cause of my rank or any of this ? ??? All I said is i like to rank up and get lootboxes lmao . This guys has some issues , needs to learn english . <| sep |> Lol that ' s what I ' m doing today I ' m napping Netflix and Pokemon kinda blows fast food places are closed <| sep |> I ' m curious if she has snacks after lunch ? Sometimes they can get full from those or you could purposely give her more snacks so you ' re reassured she ' s had enough when the dinner refusal thing happens . I am remembering the stress of feeding toddlers and with my oldest I sometimes had to walk away to destress so I really congratulate you just on keeping your cool . This little human is the most important thing and you have to keep it alive lol , so seemingly minor things can feel so big and that ' s normal . The good part is when she ' s older you can tease her all you like about her banana monster days 😊 My only thought about what I ' d do in this situation agrees with the commenter that said not to offer the banana at all , or if she pushes you that far not at all for awhile . This seems mean and I don ' t know that it ' s the right thing to do , only that from the earliest age our children are trying to see what they can be in control of , and it ' s a challenge to stay on top but worthwhile so you aren ' t fighting bigger battles later . This depends on parenting style , but teaching them that mom is nice and gives options , but push it too far and mom takes away the options is a good learning experience just tough on the parents to follow through . Good luck