It looks so smooth and shiny ! <| sep |> I love the attention you put on details . very polished ! <| sep |> No one in the real world gives a shit what the gender of the ' invisible ' person in the meeting isWhat the hell are you talking about ? The real world ? Have you only ever worked in companies with a shitty self defeating culture ? Each employee is costing you time every fucking second . Maximise them . the ' invisible ' person in the meetingI have watched the ' invisible ' best junior developer in an agency walk right out the door because management didn ' t see her . The well known media company she went to next didn ' t seem to have the same problem recognising her talents . Junior working at a senior level is win win . She is well senior now . I have seen a woman ' s comments overlooked in meetings as she maintained a calm demeanour the only thing worse than being overlooked as a woman is being seen as shrill or crazy . I remember this because I made a point of saying I want to hear what said , that seemed like the right direction when the conversation ignored her . Turns out she was on the money . Also , some people seemed to realise what they were doing when it was pointed out like this on the spot a few times . This was at a mid to high level in a Bank , and she was the head of a smaller department . I have seen women overlooked for management roles they are already performing and then they continue to perform that role when the middle aged white guy has literally no understanding of the business whatsoever or any idea how to proceed . But he gets on with the CEO reeeally well .