If a Polish terrorist killed a British MP then yeah no doubt , but a Polish rightwing terrorist killing a Polish leftwing politician would probably garner more sympathy from the DM than a Black British terrorist , that ' s what I ' m getting at . They seemed fairly conflicted on Breivik , they posted articles on him like this one on Mair , but they also bemoaned the Norwegian legal system for being too soft and the like . <| sep |> I think this happens in every city . I made friends with people at the gym instantly . I took me over 2 years to meet good friends I see regularly . It took me 7 years to start hanging out with co workers outside of work . Making friends can happen anywhere at anytime . what I notice is that when I put the time and effort in making friends it happens . if you are too busy with work and school , people will get the sense you are too busy for them . I believe in what you put in is what you get out .