Alright ! Added you . Not too sure how to use the plaza yet . Haven ' t done anything with it past the little into bit . <| sep |> Most surface ships would never fire their main gun in actual combat . There ' s a reason they ' re called guided missile destroyers . <| sep |> You could go the other way around and attempt to be unattractive . Step 1 Become UnattractiveStep 2 ? ?? Step 3 Profit <| sep |># SPICY SALTY KEK TO MAGAPEDESall you fuckers are teaching me , and I remain a learner . <| sep |> 38 sooper best sooper <| sep |> It ' s just so hard to deal with . If my longtime best friend is feeling down , I OF COURSE want to hear whats up and offer solicited advice , a shoulder to cry on , or to just be cynical with them if it ' ll cheer them up . But if someone new to my life immediately unloads their woes on me and always sad , like . I don ' t have the time or mental resources to deal with that . I ' m not a free therapist . Had a friend of a friend from college who talked to me sometimes when we ran into each other around campus . Mentioned topics were his anxiety , his low self esteem , his troubles with his dad wants him to get a job , do more chores , move out , how he wants a gf , how kids in high school called him gay , etc . I hardly knew the dude , and he was unloading all this shit on me . I avoid him now . edit a word