We are also having a name problem with the inlaws . Unbeknownst to everyone , we have chosen a Turkish , his sidefirst name at this point and are only searching for a English , that ' s memiddle name now . My in laws continue to give us Turkish suggestions , his mom just yesterday gave us a name book with thousands of choices . Which is useless for us because it only has Turkish names , which we have already chosen . but they don ' t know that , and we don ' t want them to know that we ' ve already decided . We know they ' re all trying to be helpful , but we didn ' t ask for that help . so it ' s just annoying . Like please , this is one of the first decisions we make as parents . Let us do it ourselves . plzzzzz . And then there ' s my dad who keeps dropping hints that his own name would make a great baby ' s name . except he ' s not at all subtle , so I shouldn ' t call them hints . He is well aware that the baby ' s first name will be Turkish . lol