caring takes a lot of effort , time , dedication and , i imagine , money and resources that most people don ' t have . and taking on the government is not exactly an activity with a track record of success i . e . you are probably going to be wasting said time , money , etc . <| sep |> It ' s called winter brah . s <| sep |> I ' ve got a lot of baggage from past relationships that were really unhealthy . A lot of guys aren ' t willing to deal with it . <| sep |> but does anyone have ANY idea what I should saydo when she starts in on the Fat Talk ? Uh . How about listen to your fucking doctor and accept that your deliberate ignorance is killing you ? How can people allow themselves to be physically crippled by their weight and still refuse to stop drinking the kool aid literally and figuratively ? At what point is it enough to admit that maybe your fluffiness is actually toxic visceral fat choking you from the inside ? Do you have to be on the actual brink of death ?