If I could have a kind of relationship where it ' s like having a bfgf but without the expectation of romantic feelings , it would be ideal . This honestly sounds a little like me , and I ' m aromantic . I ' d love a relationship for the sake of having someone to depend on and share my life with , but I could do without the kissing and physical affection , and I ' ve never felt romantically attracted to someone . What I really want is a queerplatonic relationship . I ' m writing a webpage on QPRs and it ' s not done yet , but briefly , it ' s a form of relationship that queers the boundary between platonic friendship and romantic . I don ' t know how specific you get with labels , but there ' s a flavour of aromantic called cupioromantic , which is wanting a romantic relationship , but not experiencing romantic attraction . post ruborismyfavouritecolour . tumblr . composttel 5 postruboraromantic is another concept you might want to think about . Unfortunately the only information on it on the web is two or three posts floating around Tumblr , but it ' s something .