Personally , I ' m not a fan of pack and plays because it seems like they ' re always too firm or too large and are therefore uncomfortable andor difficult to pack with . I really prefer to just pack with a basic packer and then switch to something else for sex , but I do understand that that can make some people really dysphoric . With packers , especially 2 or 3 in 1 s , you really do get what you pay for . If you want a good pack and play , you ' re going to have to shell out some money , and there ' s no way around it . There are lots and lots of reviews of all kinds of them on rftm , Tumblr , and Susan ' s Place , and I recommend looking into Peecocks , ECProsthetics , Emisil , and Freetom . Reelmagik and Sinthetics are the super high end but super nice ones if you have the money for them . A fair warning on Freetoms , though some people love them , but I ' ve heard so many bad things about their products and their customer service that you ' re probably best off avoiding them .