I know how you feel , I had a real bad breakup after 5 years of relationship and engaged , with plans for the housekids etc . Wouldn ' t say I was clinicaly depressed but I was REALLY bummed out , I went out every night to drink a few beers , ate takeout food every other night , wouldn ' t be bothered to cook , bored my friends to death with my stories etc . This was all 1 year pretty much day for day now . You now what happened in 2016 I bought my own flat I found a better paidcloser job which I should start at the beginning of next year I hooked up which a bunch of girls a few ended up being small relationships I started workingout , lost about 8 kg of fat and swapped it for muscle and I ' m frigging addicted to it now I ' m genuinely enjoying life being single and I KNOW that I ' m a good catch NOW . Would I like to have someone to snuggle to at night ? Sure I would but I wouldn ' t swap it for what I have right now ! I ' m busy being AWESOME , and so should you !