I recorded quite a bit of me doing it , hoping to make a timelapse of it later . I haven ' t done that yet , but here ' s a bit of me finishing it in a livestream on Oct 12 th <| sep |> My boi I ' m hyped <| sep |> Hold on if Barry could see him and so could Julian . Is Julian a speedster ? <| sep |> Maybe I should also just be as easy going as you were and I ' ll get it <| sep |> And at which point did you explain all of this to your friend ? Now it may simply be that it was omitted from your story , that you called him up and told him Sorry , I forgot my grandmother was visiting , but I ' ll try to make it to you . If so , then you did what was courteous letting him know that you couldn ' t make the planned event . No biggie , things come up . But from the way you wrote your story , it reads like you never clued in the other guy as to your intentions or reasons for not showing up . And if you didn ' t , think about it from his perspective first , he invites you to the birthday party . You agree to come , but you don ' t show . Next you invite him to the movies . Good way to patch things up except you don ' t show for that either . When he asks why , instead of giving him an explanation I completely forgot that my family had plans to visit the grandparents you blow him off with I never said we ' ll never go , but not today . Um , what ? You made plans previously , then you stand him up and somehow he ' s supposed to be psychic and deduce that something happened ? Now , at this point , if I ' m your friend , I ' m starting to wonder if you ' re just stringing me along since you ' ve bailed on two planned events without even an apology or an explanation . But hey , I ' m willing to give you another chance , so I invite you again . and again . and again . and now I ' m told I ' m being a bother and that you ' re busy . Uhoh . This is the first time I ' ve been told that you ' re busy , now you say that I ' m bothering you when you ' re the one who hasn ' t kept his promises to me , and I still can ' t get an explanation out of you . Look , all of this could easily be avoided with communication instead of assuming that he ' d figure out your thought process on his own . At the very least , you owe him an explanation and an apology with the way you ' ve been acting , if your account of this is correct . I suggest something along the lines of , I am very sorry that I treated you as a nuisance instead of a friend . This is entirely my fault because I forgot about previous commitments on our scheduled days and doubly my fault for not informing you before or after . And frankly . I ' d say he deserves at least one free punch on you .