We take weekdays , you take weekends <| sep |> Seriously , just the other day I said something along the lines of , and that ' s the difference between a bad paladin and a good one after watching a stream of a team lose because of the tank skill gap . He asked what he was doing wrong , then the whole channel and I gave him advice for the next 20 minutes . Two sides to everything . If you look for shit , you ' ll find shit . If you ask people why they think you are doing bad , most of them will probably have a civil conversation with you . In game is really light compared to games like WoW though because of how strict they are with banning namecalling . <| sep |> Fiance passed away from drug overdose a month before our wedding . I was depressed for the entire following year . Then I ended up marrying a woman I have zero feelings for just to get my mom and her mom off my back . Had nothing going for me so I decided to give it a shot . A few months in , my ex wife cheated on me with another man and we divorced . I was honestly pretty happy we did . But she lied to everyone that we divorced because she caught me with a prostitute . Everyone believed her . Her family swore they will kill me the next time they run into me . My mom stopped speaking to me for more than a year after . My dad tried to played nice , but was pretty disappointed in me too . They all fell for her lie . My last relationship , my ex gf cheated on me with another guy for the latter 8 months during our 1 yr relationship . She ended up having the guy she cheated with kick me out of her apartment one night when I came home while she hid in the bedroom . I lived in her place that her parents bought her . Before I could leave for good , she came out and decide to tell me I was the most boring person she have ever met and that I will be alone forever with my boring personality . I haven ' t been in or tried to another relationship since . I have mild social anxiety as well .