They should still be called the Las Vegas Ladies of the Knights <| sep |> I think I know how <| sep |> You can have a 64 bit kernel and 32 bit userland . Debian SPARC used to do it and GNU Hurd aims to do it eventually . <| sep |> spooked me <| sep |> Wow , red flag ! Anyone who asks you to choose between himher and someone else , is likely controlling and an emotional abuser . They don ' t start as abusive the first day they meet you , they gradually become more abusive as time goes on and as they determine you are dependent upon them . Abusers don ' t want you to have close relationships with anyone because then , as abuse gets worse , you ' ll have someone who can help you . So he gradually started the process of separating you from your brother . Then , when he thought your commitment to him was strong enough , he asked you to choose between him and your brother . But he miscalculated . He was expecting you to choose him . But you chose your brother . So he ' s backing up and being charming again . He will bide his time and wait until you are more attached again , and then he ' ll try to separate you again . Stay away from this guy .