Don ' t know about as a whole but I take Kyrie if I ' m picking a franchise player . <| sep |> Problem you ' re describing is not about being introvert . Introvert is about I get tired from much social interaction and I prefer to relax by spending time alone or with one person . Introvert doesn ' t mean you can ' t be outgoing and flashy , it means you don ' t behave this way all the time . Introvercy is an innate energy characteritic , it doesn ' t acquired with bullying . What you ' re describing is more alike social anxiety . It manifests itself through fear and shame . Try to notice when you feel them and look how you act and think with them . Try to stop for a second and think what is the motive that drives fear . I ' m afraid he will hurt me , I feel shame because I think he thinks I ' m not good enough in some way , etc . Will he realisctically hurt ? Does he really think you ' re not good enough ? Or does he think that you ' re just different from what he wants ? Are you supposed to be liked by everyone you meet ? Why ? Why is being rejected considered so bad ? Do you have right to reject people ? Do people have right to reject other people ?