why is this even fucking news . <| sep |> Is Glatt wearing the C ! ?<| sep |> Damn brother , I ' m going to be you in the not so distant future . My best friend f , 41 just initiated divorce proceedings after 3 . 5 years of marriage and it ' s almost guaranteed we ' ll be together once it happens . So far we have managed to keep it entirely platonic but we ' ve more or less acknowledged our feelings towards each other and have often said that but for the timing of when we met , we ' d be together right now . My instinct is to give her some space maybe a few months to get her head on straight again before she jumps back into a LTR . I suppose that would be my suggestion to you too just be her friend and be there for her like you would any other . Try to keep it light , fun and pressure free . Let her know that when she ' s ready to take the next step you ' ll be there for her because she ' s worth the wait . Short term pain for long term gain . No matter how welcome a breakup is , the first few months after a LTR are a psychological minefield . Jump right into something new and you ' re both bound to step on some booby traps .