I made this upgrade a few months ago 660 1070 was well worth it . Enjoy your new frames ! <| sep |> you ' re right about that red flag . kiddo only tells me to leave the room when she ' s planning to do something she doesn ' t want me to see her doing , like wiggling which is fine , but we ' ve drilled into her that it ' s for doing in private or turning the TV to some youtube garbage which is not fine . i will straightout ask her do you want me to leave the room because you want to wiggle ? or because you want to put on youtube ? knowing that i ' m onto her , she ' ll usually admit what she ' s planning . if you ' ve already brought up eldest asking you to leave and mom is brushing it off , that seems to suggest she ' s ignoring the signs herself . maybe the better question is why is eldest dealing with youngest in the first place ? it ' s not his job to discipline his siblings even when they are acting up , and he certainly doesn ' t need privacy to do so . his behavior towards youngest isn ' t assertive , it ' s aggressive . for what it ' s worth , i was never that rough aggressive towards my little brother . we got along for the most part , and while i remember one time that i punched him in the nuts because he tore a poster off my wall , we didn ' t yell , grab , drag , smack each other around . and i definitely didn ' t talk about dealing with him if he was acting up i tattled to mom and let her handle it . so i do think you have good reason to be concerned , but i ' m afraid bringing it up to mom won ' t go anywhere because she seems to have already shut her eyes to it .