Are there any DIY tutorials for cool effects like this ? <| sep |> I would say think long and hard about what it is draws you to this other man . You don ' t know what he is like in a relationship . Is he going to pay attention to you ? What if he ' s not affectionate ? Doesn ' t like the same type of movies as you ? What if he ' s a cheater ? Financially irresponsible ? I think you have grassisgreener syndrome . You don ' t know what he ' s like when he ' s stressed from work or if he cleans up after himself , talks to exes more than you ' d like . Spends too much money on things he doesn ' t need . Uses too much alcohol or abuses too many drugs . There are many things that you may not like about this man but don ' t think about right now because of your infatuation . I ' d suggest to tread carefully , avoid this man , and rekindle your relationship . Only leave if you ' re not happy in your relationship , not because of another man .