Right on the money with this one . Ha , puns are fun ! <| sep |> Relationally , I feel that I have the most in common with my dad and brother , both INTJs , my mother the ISFJ and I almost always get along , but we can ' t get into either deep emotional or deep theoretical conversations that I feel I need to have to understand a person , my sister the ENTJ and I just constantly butt heads and can ' t seem to find anything to agree on or any way to talk to each other that makes the other feel understood or maybe she doesn ' t care ? Sharing INxJ seems to let me feel like I understand their thought patterns and their attitude toward things logical or emotional . just not their motivations . Sharing IxFJ seems to let me feel like I understand her fears and joys and motivations , just not anything else , I feel like I have no idea how she perceives the world . Aaaand ENTJ just vexes the shit out of me . I can ' t predict anything about her except that she won ' t do anything that doesn ' t also clearly benefit her .