Its a good tutorial , thanks ! <| sep |> Add a little citrus cleaner and you pretty much have these branded ones . It ' s what I used to to back then . I ' d even take a jar I could fit everything in and just drop them in one night a week , lightly shake , leave it over night , fish it out with some tongs , rise and brand new . Used the same container 45 times , throw it out once the golden color looks brown , then make another $ 4 mixture . <| sep |> My STBX was very controlling and isolated me from old friends and family . I kinda dreaded yesterday because for years , my husband made me believe everyone hates meI ' m a bitch , I suck , etc . But , now they are learning of my divorce , I ' m getting so much support . Yesterday a cousin told me he ran into an old friend of mine who adores me and never liked my STBX because he didn ' t think he treated me well . Wow . It was eye opening and gave me a new perspective on how much better I will be when I ' m out of this abusive relationship and how I really do have friends and family out there who care about me . So yesterday was truly a blessing .