Honesty goes a long way <| sep |> I ' ll repaste as I used the pea method which didn ' t net me any positive results . <| sep |> That if anyone is bothering you , you should ignore them or tell a teacher . Obviously the former often isn ' t the best way to deal with problems and I guess the latter doesn ' t work too well in the adult world either . A couple of years ago I realised I ' d never really stood up for myself or learnt assertiveness . I have learnt to be assertive in certain situations but I still struggle with this a lot and I certainly won ' t be teaching any kids I have in the future to react in this way to something that ' s bothering them ! <| sep |> You sound as though you are analyzing art , but in reality you are analyzing crap .