I ' ve been playing 352 for the last few weeks and it is great against the narrow formations , against wide formations such as 433 I struggle on the counter attack , however I don ' t think it ' s too much worse than 4 atb . I play defenders at LMRM to give my team better balance . <| sep |> Not getting invited to things is my thing . Get your own . <| sep |> Just get both ! <| sep |> Ogres are pretty fast from what I remember , and had great charges since everything got stomps . But yeah they were dumb with low WS and average armour . <| sep |> define gender fluid <| sep |> I know exactly what you mean glad talking it through a bit could help you process . Feel free to PM me anytime you need to vent . I have to deal with that same unpredictability but to a smaller scale . That ' s usually when I say I don ' t know why X is upsetting you when yesterday you found it funny . I ' ve literally had the sabotaging other people ' s creativity to be the only writer in the family thing ! I took her and my sister to an event for the first time , and she immediately got princessy when I wouldn ' t scamper around and buy her a coffee and whatever , and put me down in front of other people whilst I was trying to network for an upcoming feature e . g . Fellow poet to mum You ' ve raised a wonderful daughter Mum Hmm I think she raised herself actually . On the drive home she started with the you were swanning around that event acting like you ' re better than me bullshit . I ' ve never said anything about it since , but to invite her into a safe space for me and have her try to poison the well for me and damage my prospects was the clincher for changing my approach to managing her . You ' re not an insensitive person at all , you ' re trying to preempt irrational outbursts and avoid inciting them with a person whose emotional responses are completely unmappable . You ' re likely constantly on guard because when anything and nothing you do can trigger an outburst , you have to be perfect all the time and even then , it may not work . Maybe it helps to realise that literally the only reason your mother flips shit at the drop of a hat is because she wants to . She ' s a grown woman , she knows how to be resilient with other people presumably she has a job and friends and interacts with enough people she can behave around ? . but she is choosing to flip out with you because , well , she can . She has a learned helplessness around you where she ' s given you all this power to wound her , but she ' s actually playing you like a fiddle to appease her emotional instability , which allows her to dictate the power dynamic . It ' ll be way healthier for both of you once she ' s essentially trained out of expecting attention what the people in rraisedbynarcissists call N Supply whenever she throws a shit fit . Really do check out that sub it ' s extremely helpful for tips in managing a difficult , but loved , parent . And I mean it about PMing me if ever you like