If they didn ' t want me to shop it wouldn ' t be open <| sep |> Awesome , will get immortal call asap ! tyvm <| sep |> Relax . do what you have to do out of state . when you get back into town get back in touch . if and when you do go out for that beer , don ' t go in thinking that this will be the start of anything . you are just reconnecting . Do your best to read the situation during the night but don ' t push too hard as he might not be ready to jump back into a relationship right a way . If you think he is the one then take it slow it will be worth the wait . <| sep |> I thought the prob . of drawing the own name is for the first person 110 That ' s right , but didn ' t you want the first 8 people to not draw their own name ?