Why would you ask an obviously rhetorical question , the answer to which you already know ? Besides , it ' s a trolly comment . <| sep |> He did not say any of that . He responded specifically to children mess everything up with you were a child once . I read it as how can you hate something so much when you once were one not you were once a child so you should have one . That makes absolutely no sense and I have no idea why you would take it that way . Everyone is so touchy about this having children thing . Nobody is forcing you to so stop being so defensive . Everyone feels pressure to have children its part of being a human and not some new societal construct that you can rail against in hopes of changing it . It is physiological as much as societal so maybe blame parts of your brain and chemicals .