I ' m not saying it ' s a good option , but one forces one more step to putting it in the net ! <| sep |> Looks pretty good to me , depending on the prices of course . A generic round , a government coin , a gold coin , and a 10 oz bar , plus some holiday crap . Seems solid ! <| sep |> Sorry what was the error ? <| sep |> As an American this stuff just doesn ' t affect me in the same way . I am in a postshame country , sadly . <| sep |> Fair fax Virginia will tell all . <| sep |> I ' ll pretend that my opinion swayed your decision . Anyway , I ' m glad you figured it out . Oh , and ouch for the Metagross . Good luck ! <| sep |> How selfish to make a unilateral decision for both of you that intimacy will no longer be a part of your life ? Intimacy is one of the basic human needs . Frequency with my SO I ' m female , he ' s male waxes and wanes as with all relationships . But I ' ve always told him that if there ever comes a time when I simply no longer desire sex which I can ' t imagine happening , but you never know or am ill andor unable to have sex for a long period of time , that I would be aok with him getting his sexual needs met elsewhere . Sex isn ' t quite as important to life as air , water , food , sun . But it ' s right up there . If you don ' t see things changing anytime soon , think about what you need to do to change your situation . If that means getting your needs met elsewhere discreetly to maintain your sanity then so be it . If divorce makes more sense , then start that process as well . Otherwise , you ' re going to be 10 years down the line and still in the same situation . If you don ' thaven ' t read Dan Savage ' s advice column , I strongly recommend it love 2015110423103343 savagelove