Tell them they are smart and intelligent and to trust their feelings ! <| sep |> Weird seeing all these players I grew up with and remember debuting in the late 90 s start to retire or come to the end of their careers . One of the best players in his position of his generation . Makes me feel old and I ' m not old . <| sep |> Aaaaand that ' s why I sleep constantly . <| sep |> Here are the real facts As soon as any person refuses contact of any kind and the predator continues contact , that is assault . If that contact is sexual in nature then it is sexual assault . It doesn ' t matter if they are dating . It doesn ' t matter if they are married . It doesn ' t matter what anyone ' s gender is in that situation . It is immoral and illegal to force anyone to endure touching or contact that they have refused . 1 in 5 w o m e n i n u s surveyreportsexualassault . htmlNearly 1 in 5 Women in US Survey Report Sexual Assault , By Roni Caryn Rabin . December 14 , 2011 . problemRAINN Scope of the Problem StatisticsRAINN ' s statistics sourcesDepartment of Justice , Office of Justice Programs , Bureau of Justice Statistics , National Crime Victimization Survey , 20102014 2015 . Department of Justice , Office of Justice Programs , Bureau of Justice Statistics , Sexual Victimization in Prisons and Jails Reported by Inmates , 20112012 2013 United States Department of Health and Human Services , Administration for Children and Families , Administration on Children , Youth and Families , Children ' s Bureau . Child Maltreatment Survey , 2012 2013 Department of Justice , Office of Justice Programs , Bureau of Justice Statistics , National Crime Victimization Survey , 20102014 2015 Department of Defense , Fiscal Year 2014 Annual Report on Sexual Assault in the Military , 2015 Department of Justice , Office of Justice Programs , Bureau of Justice Statistics , Female Victims of Sexual Violence , 19942010 2013 National Institute of Justice Centers for Disease Control Prevention , Prevalence , Incidence and Consequences of Violence Against Women Survey 1998 United States Department of Health and Human Services , Administration for Children and Families , Administration on Children , Youth and Families , Children ' s Bureau . Child Maltreatment Survey , 2012 2013 Department of Justice , Office of Justice Programs , Bureau of Justice Statistics , Sex Offenses and Offenders 1997 Department of Justice , Office of Justice Programs , Bureau of Justice Statistics , Female Victims of Sexual Violence , 19942010 2013