Just sent a friend request . lvl 50 , 200 k CP <| sep |> You are not a monster . Furthermore , if she refuses to go , call the police and have her removed . You have that right . I know it ' s hard , and I ' m sorry you had to put up with the events whatever the details at any time , let alone a holiday that ' s supposed to be about being thankful for what we have . It ' s clear that you are very upset about the situation , but understand that the moment she showed up at your door without asking , you had the right to ask her to turn around and go . It is YOUR house . Period . Ask yourself what would you do if a stranger did what your mother did . Would you call the police ? Would you kick her out ? If you ' d call the police if a stranger did it , you have the right to call the police if your mother does it . Being the woman that give birth to you does NOT give her the right to violate you , your boundaries , or your home . It does not give her the right to crouch in your house without an invitation . That ' s call unlawful entering , btw . If she doesn ' t leave , you call the cops . That ' s what you do . And if it comes down to it , you show the cops the note you left telling her to get out . Once you have it down in writing , that ' s it . She doesn ' t get a choice . She can get out , or go to jail for trespassing . So I ' ll say it again . You are not a monster .