Britain STILL Brought to a Halt by TWO INCHES of Snow <| sep |> Seriously paging uspez , please close that paren when you get a chance <| sep |> Not a compelling argument in my opinion . When Tom applies for a loan , Tom is accepting responsibility that he has agreed too . When the opps baby happens , Tom did not agree to financially support the child . Jane retains bodily autonomy until she has the child , after which she forfeits it in exchange for the child . Tom does not have that luxury and therefore it is a violation of his bodily autonomy . I know what ' s coming next , Tom accepting that he would pay child support when he had sex with Jane . No , no he didn ' t . Just as Jane did not accept that she would be raising a child when she had sex with Tom . Jane has an optional forfeit of her bodily autonomy , whereas Tom has a required one . This is a violation of Tom ' s right .