All this ' married with kids ' stuff makes me sad , so I ' ll post mine hopefully to make the rest of the crowd feel better about themselvesSince announcement . I ' ve been through 2 relationships with the wrong people , one that fell apart after 4 years right about the time I was ring shopping I ' ve had massive personality changes and developed severe depression and PTSD as a result of point # 1 Got in the best shape of my life , and maintaining it Moved across the country with a girl , left my family and friends for something that didn ' t work out . Now i ' m stuck 4000 km away from them all with 50 k in debt Met some of the most genuine peoplebest friends in my life Got the most amazing puppy ever , then lost him Went from being an irresponsible dropout living with his parents to working at my dream job being prepped to take on an executive position Apparently went up quite a few points in the looks department . Bought my first condo , then gave it up in a breakup . Bought my first car , now trading it in for a newer one Went from an unhappy computer programming student to a pretty decent artist working in the field I was meant to be in