Interjecting your unwanted useless opinion is an annoying habit , you should quit . <| sep |> You ' re gonna get dumped on by salty cowboys fans but you are correct <| sep |> I ' m going to get deep on this one . I recently got out of a 7 year relationship , real bad and ugly started questioning my worth and what I was doing in life . I stumbled across a podcast call the MFCEO project and I ' ll tell you what , it ' s changed my thinking process DRAMATICALLY . Just how complacent we are with our mundane lives and not doing a thing to make it better . Being in a relationship exacerbates that mentality , how much we don ' t know , what we can learn . For example I ' m taking piano lessons and hitting the gym HARD , reading books , and just in general take care of myself . I look around and see 80 % of people just obese and unhealthy , and think why are they happy looking like that ? I know this will go over most peoples head , especially those in a relationship because I ' ve been there , people are afraid to be alone , but there ' s a different in being lonely and being alone .