Unidamned if you do , Unidamned if you don ' t <| sep |> Final fantasy xv , Persona 5 <| sep |> Follow this man ' s advice ! Use a tie tack tie pin if you want , but it may leave a hole in your tie . Do not wear a tie clip with a waistcoat as it is redundant your waistcoats accomplishes the same thing as a tie clip . Make sure your knot is proportional to your collar . Don ' t do anything ridiculous , like a trinity knot , unless you ' re looking for mad upvotes on The Fedora Lounge . <| sep |> I actually think the term tone policing gets abused a lot and in this case it doesn ' t actually apply . Obviously someone who is so frustrated at their life to be spewing hate like fuck white ppl or fuck men that is in a bad place , but having your support network supposed allies telling you it ' s not helping others join the cause is like the least helpful thing to say in that situation , know what I mean ? Anger needs to be expressed before there can be healing and reconciling and oftentimes it seems white people want to skip all the anger and go straight to the kumbaya . It ' s not going to happen .