It would not start WWIII , so false analogy there . Frankly it was stupid of us to freak out over Cuba . <| sep |> Wow I can ' t believe it ' s been that long . Seemed like just yesterday I was stoked to fire up the chainsaw for the first time . <| sep |> Many years ago at a party when I was slightly obsessed with blink 182 I decided to take note and take a poo in the hosts bath tub . I was a drunkhigh twat and thought it was hilarious . One of the many reasons I don ' t do drugs or drink anymore . <| sep |> I totally get that it hurts , I really do . But she didn ' t really do anything wrong , so the feelings you ' re having are something you need to work through whether you continue dating her or not . Take this as a lesson to be more clear about your expectations . And by the way , it ' s fine to want your partner to be monogamous , it ' s just one of those things you agree or disagree on . If she doesn ' t want to be monogamous outside of threesomes and swinging , break up with her .