What psychological analysis have you done in this campaign of yours ? I ' m far from a PhD in Child Psychology or something , but it seems intuitive to me that approaching your child especially on an issue as sensitive as sex from a standpoint of I love you but don ' t hurt anyone instills certain selffear that can be debilitating to his selfesteem and ego when he approaches relationships in the future . Even in college I ' ve gotten this bull that young men need to be quarantined and educated , like you ' re talking about a horny German shepherd . Start caring more about your son leading a fulfilling life and being proud of his accomplishments instead of making his behavior revolve around how it affects women , you ' re trying to build a person not save womanhood from one . Regardless , I ' d be happy to hear any info you got on the psychology of such talks .