Have a goal , work for it , learn to be independent for your happiness , don ' t centre your happiness around someone else , know who is worth your love and care , and compromise only for those . Otherwise be on your own and do it well . I am saying this while Even I am still working on that and it ' s hard . <| sep |> 90 % will dismiss it because they don ' t believe in conspiracies , even though they happen every day . Even though the are so bold with them that they play them out dramatically in our news and in our entertainment , people do not see it . They need to be educated . They can be shown the door , but they have to open it . We cannot change the way people think , or erase their indoctrination . They have to change the way they think , but first they have to want to , need to . Hmm . Can we give them a need ?