Yeah like for example when tinker oil rotated out , blade flurry got deleted <| sep |> Thank you for your insight . I am always telling him that I ' m there for him and always try to be . Of course that fix it felix mentality is going to be there , because I care about him and I am also quite clueless . I just don ' t want him to feel guilty about asking for help , something he now does . And obv I don ' t want him to hurt himself and many self harm articles written by self harmers talk about alternatives , like rubber bands which to me sounds safer than cutting . I also understand that if he self harms he might feel guilty about it , so perhaps there is a more direct way that is still subtle enough without embarrassing him , like leaving him a rubber band or smth