There are multiple routes to Rome . It ' s of course not a necessity , but a woman wants to feel attractive to you before she ' ll sleep with you . The easiest way for her to feel sexy towards you is to tell her and show her with the way you pay her attention , look at her body , and touch her . Your friend could have very well complimented her nonverbally , which is even more powerful than a verbal compliment . Simply looking at her body her boobs , ass , face , etc , and smiling and letting her know you absolutely enjoy her , is enough . Those are all compliments to her and she knows it . If you combine it with confident verbal compliments so fierce eye contact , not looking away , smiling etc it makes it so much even more powerful .