If someone can only juggle having a relationship or getting their life together , that is not a good sign for the future . It ' s not like life gets so much simpler after 25 . Even as a total introvert , I ' ve had 2 relationships by 22 . One I met in high school , together 3 . 5 years . Another I met in college , we ' ve been together nearly 3 years now . I also went to school , got my engineering degree , worked a job , and stayed active with other interests . If I waited until 25 to start dating , I would probably be less confident in myself and in evaluating a potential partner , making any relationships less stableEdit with all that said , I would definitely wonder how someone got to 25 with never having sex . I wouldn ' t automatically judge them , but I would definitely be curious .