Huh . So the stereotype of the high achieving male that is sexually submissive really does hold ? This is something I have always felt at odds with about myself . In my nonsexual life I would say that I am fairly dominant and high achieving I will likely finish my PhD from a respectable institution before I am 24 , if that gives you any indication . Yet sexually my preferred demeanour is completely reversed . It is almost as if , because I don ' t really experience failure in my work , it is a great release to happily succumb to failure in my sexual role ? Does this situation sound similar to any of the couples you have worked with ? <| sep |> Thanks for the reply ! About GOG . com , did you say that they had games from all wannabe Steams ? I ' m mostly looking to play Siege and BF 1 . it ' d be awesome if I could get a deal on those ! I ' ll be sure to look out for the sales , the Autumn Sale is going on right now , right ?