I ' m glad you guys are working it out so I just tried looking up stuff I was thinking of on tumblr and it ' s not working out atm so I ' m just gonna explain it I ' d recommend looking up ' gentle femdom ' or ' role reversal ', but basically lately I ' ve been getting into stuff online that ' s more heavily focused on nurturingrelationship femdom dynamics rather than what you typically see in ' femdom ' porn . I sometimes see feminization type stuff going on in things people draw lots of maid outfits , tbh , and the focus seems to be more on the idea of dressing the sub upmaking him cutemaking him flustered or embarrassed rather than the more aggressive take of humiliationemasculation . Idk , it just seemed related if she ' s lovingly calling you her girl while pegging . Reminded me of that more protectivenurturing take on dominance . I can recommend blogs and stuff if you want . gentlefemdomlass . tumblr . com is the one who pops up in my feed the most .