Mate the whole point of this sub is for people who screwed up . It ' s Today I Fucked Up not Today I Was A Perfect Offspring . <| sep |> occupancysensorThe sensor can be configured as either a security sensor , which activates the alarm when triggered , or an occupancyvacancy sensor , which controls home automation or lighting functions via the system automation controls . <| sep |> I am so sorry to hear about your loss . When my cat , Gizmo , passed away in July my grandmother gave me some advice that helped . Make a list of about 10 things that you loved the most , either happy or sad . When I wrote my list I started to cry but I pushed my way through . It did help me in the coming weeks . I have a picture of him , along with the lyrics to the song that I sang to him .