It is for me . Aspies don ' t misunderstand me . They don ' t always think I ' m hinting at something , they don ' t think I ' m being rude if I don ' t fulfill social requirements , etc . They interpret my words as words , exactly as it should be . However , I had to gain a certain amount of selfawareness to be able to realize that I was being misunderstood by NTs all the time . You really think NTs have no difficulty hearing our words and taking them literally ? They have lots of difficulty doing it . How do you not see it ? <| sep |> The emails didn ' t make sense , but they made more sense than this leap of illogic . <| sep |> Hmm , I did not know that . Never really thought about it , but yea , guess you guys get all the good things first .