no u cant use it on occupied provinces , trust me i ' ve tried lol . you gotta control it AND own it <| sep |> I think they should deffinetly add some more interresting rewards for such a requirement heavy quest . I like your ideas , Especially the building of deathmarkers and additional gloves . <| sep |> Oui c ' est peu prs ca <| sep |> So anyone who is self harming or has how would you want someone to approach you about it if at all ? I ' d prefer it if people didn ' t approach it at all . With this kind of behavior , it ' s not as important for you to know what he ' s doing as it is for him to know you ' re there for him even if he ' s doing it . Cutting often causes immense guilt , and the added shame of being called out for it will only compound the problem . This can change when the behavior stops , but while it ' s going on , the cutter ' s goal is usually to hide what they ' re doing . I realize this view won ' t be popular , but if he ' s doing it , you ' re not going to stop him . Check out one of the self harm subs and you ' ll see plenty of proof of that . It ' s in our nature to fix fix fix , and people will tell you to intervene or recommend support groups , but you simply don ' t have control over what someone else does . What you do have is influence . You can affect that influence by being supportive . Let him know that whatever he does to cope with how bad things are , you will understand . Tell him that when things are desperate and he feels like there is no release , to call you . If he ' s cutting , he ' ll probably read between the lines of what you ' re saying . If he ' s not , you ' ll just be perceived as supportive .