I should preface by saying i ' m a guy . I ' m in a similar situation as you atm . If I were you at this point , I would message her asking how her thanksgiving went . She replieshopefully . Ask her if she ' s free to do anything this weekend . She replieshopefully . If she sounds flaky again , call her out on it and ask if she ' s still interested or not . If she says ' yes I am ! we should find a time to chill ! ' or we but doesn ' t say yes to this weekend , then tell her ' okay cool , well whenever you find some free time to hang , give me a heads up and i ' ll be down '. Never text her again after that and let her make the move . Future advice . If a woman is mutually interested in you , regardless of schedule , she will find time to see you promptly . And as of this moment she is either playing games with you , or isn ' t too interested .