Rocktape that shoulder yo . Cancer is . not great . Im slowly learning about that in my family along with heart disease and diabetes . <| sep |> Well , Mystery Show was probably the best podcast ever made RIP . Heavyweight is fantastic and the internal startup episodes are pretty fantastic . <| sep |> You ' re upset because your MIL did something cruel and abusive to your child on your child ' s birthday . An extended timeout say six months will give her time to think about what she ' s done . Also I ' d make every effort to obtain a Paw Patrol playset for home so that the baby can play with it on all those days they aren ' t going to Grandma ' s . <| sep |> I bet in her mind , she didn ' t consider it fat shaming because she wasn ' t shaming Christian Bale . She was talking about how she got a role where she could kiss this amazingly attractive actor , but he ' d had to make himself ugly for the role . To most people , that may not make a difference , but in her mind , since she wasn ' t shaming a person , just a fictional character , she probably rationalized it . Edited to fix autocorrect