If you ever get stuck , pull the ebrake and hold it , then start going and let the ebrake off once the car already has some push . <| sep |> Well based on their attendance numbers for 10 , I think it might be nice to make a change . <| sep |> You could look up Leslie Feinberg who had a very unconventional transition pathway . There are definitely times in life where zir identified as female while being on T . I think zir ended up identifying in a broadly genderqueer sort of way , but anyway look Feinberg up as a model of ? ???? transition . Repeating super helpful advice I read here a month back you can go on T and continue to identify as female . And i think it ' s really useful for people who are transitioning to not make this big , old fashioned decision between being your birth gender OR 100 % transitioning to the other gender , but breaking it down into small questions . So for now , my advice would be don ' t worry about changing pronouns , or even identifying as male if that feels complex . You want to go on T , and that ' s totally OK as is top surgery it ' s your body , it ' s exactly the same a choosing to get a tattoo do you want to do it ? Go for it ! Maybe at some point in that process , you ' ll want to change pronouns , or maybe not . The key is , one step at a time . I hope this is helpful !