I silently judge teen moms . It ' s a love hate thing . I used to moderate a forum for teen moms and would always do my best to help , give out information on benefits they could get , solutions to childcare problems etcBut I secretly judged them . Thinking they were all stupid people who didn ' t have enough sense to use contraception . I always imagined them to be low class people who were choosing to struggle and make a child struggle . My judgement was misguided . I was simply seething with jealousy because I can ' t get pregnant . The more teen moms I spoke to , the more I became bitter , all the while putting on a facade of being helpful . They don ' t deserve to get pregnant why them and not me I could give more to that baby than them congrats on your shitty life , poor kid etcReally shitty stuff . I ' m over it now . I ' m just glad I was never mean to them . I had enough sense to keep all my shit to myself .