I ' m curious where you live ? I think climate , culture , diet and physical activity levels have a lot to do with it . I live in Western Canada . I typically shower every other day and wash my curly hair about twice a week . I usually have a bath but am trying to shower more to cut down on my water consumption . Now if I ' m doing something super sweaty like hot yoga or if I go swimming or even if it ' s just really hot and sweaty in the summer , I might shower daily but not more than that . However , I lived in Quebec for a summer and often showered twice a day because it was super humid and hot and I just felt absolutely groady by the end of the day . I have no problem with having sex and smelling awesome . My vagina smells pretty great and tastes good too . Guys tend to smell stronger than women on account of Testosterone so they may want to shower more frequently . My fella showers once a day . When I do shower once a day or more , I find it wreaks havoc on my skin . Washing yourself too much is not good for you . Soap has a basic pH and the human body has a natural acidity layer that is meant to protect your skin . Also your body produces oils to help moisturize and keep your skin healthy . So too much washing can mess up your body pH and also dry out your skin which makes it more prone to flaking , cracking and breakouts which are kind of the opposite of sexy IMO . Here are some articles on the science around why you shouldn ' t shower too much 6 r e a s o n s y o u s h o u l d s t o p s h o w e r i n g e verydayaccordingtoscience d o n t h a v e s h o w e r everydaydermatologistssay