A 401 , using cups as a measurement instead of weight , Amendments ? 1 to 5 , are there any more ? <| sep |> I didn ' t really talk about it for years . Right after it happened i briefly considered talking to her about it but I choose not to because she was a massive feminist who knew more about things like sexual assault and rape then I did . She had just gotten me into feminism and I guess I just trusted her implicitly . If she had done it to me then it couldn ' t have been wrong , right ? I thought if I asked her about it she would just fly into a rage as she was prone to do and I would end up being the one to apologize to her . It was only earlier this year when I realized that it wouldn ' t be okay for me to do something like this to someone and so I asked myself ' why it was okay for her to do this to me '. It was only after I asked myself this question that I realized that it wasn ' t okay at all . After i realized this i slowly started confiding in my friends about it . At this point I ' ve spoken to most of my close friends about it . I even ended up confronting her about it . But I don ' t think she really gave a shit TBH .