Big Mom needs her kids to marry who she wants in order for her system to work , but Lola didn ' t think Big Mom was mad at her at all . There ' s no way she would give the vivi card to Nami if she thought it would get them in more trouble and not help them . It ' s clear that Lola is one of Big Mom ' s favorites and she allowed Lola to run away but she had to keep up appearances with the rest of her crew other wise all of her other kids would want to marry who they want which would be bad . Not to mention Big Mom still has Lola ' s dad alive in the seducing woods . Why not just kill the husband of the child you hate right ? Instead she keeps him around while no other husbands have been revealed . Last point . If someone like Buggy is able to get Giants on his side Big Mom should be able to have a few giants fighting for her . Maybe not the whole kingdom but one or two . This leads me to believe that Giants not being on Whole Cake was a choice by Big Mom because of something they did to her or Lola