I am sure you are attractive enough , so don ' t worry about that ! You can keep on with the online dating but don ' t focus on it too much . meetup . com can be a decent resource for finding groups in your area . You might meet some ladies that way as well . Try taking some classes that interest ladies who are your age , I know that might be hard if your not into things like art and drawing etc . but in any art class I have taken there are ladies there who are your age . comedy improve classes are also a great way to meet people in your age group , both guys and girls . book clubs can be a good place as well . I am just trying to think of places young ladies hang out these days . Another thing to try , I know it might sound silly but next time you need to get some cash out of the bank have a look inside and if there are some tellers about your age get in line , don ' t use the ATM . Just say you need something other than 20 dollar bills . I was a teller when I was 25 and this is how one of the girls met her husband ! He was going to use the ATM but saw her so he did the I need some 5 ' s and 10 ' s trick . Of course he did not ask her out right then and there but he came back a few times and eventually asked her out for coffee . Point is its just something to try and at least meet some ladies your age . If I can think of anything else I will post again . Good luck .