The eyes look a bit unusual for Mavis but it looks great overall . <| sep |> Judging by the first request I assume it ' s the latter . <| sep |> My ex told me the same thing . He said he would make my life a living hell . He said he would make sure I didn ' t get my kids . And I believed it . And I stayed for way longer than I should . But eventually I left . Its been a year . And those threats were empty . He was emotionally and verbally abusive . And that will beat you down . But eventually I realized that if I stayed it would destroy me and my kids would learn that this dynamic I was showing them was normal and that their relationships would be like mine . That ' s when I knew I had to go . And the courts will not let him take your kids . He would have to prove you are unfit . And it takes a lot to do that . There are support systems out there to help women get out of abusive relationships , even if it ' s not physical , although you have eluded that it is . You can do this . Just know that your children see more than you think and are learning from it .