You said brother but i think you meant son . <| sep |> Cool beans . Have fun with that , though this is funny . If you want to join in the conversation , please feel free to . <| sep |> Omg ! That sounds terrible . Glad it ' s recovering now . <| sep |> The fuck are they seeing ? !?!<| sep |> I don ' t think that ' s what he ' s talking about . I share his exact sentiment I don ' t want to discuss aspects of my life with certain people that I ' ve had years of philosophicalideological differences with . As in , I ' m fantastic at navigating the social quagmire of family members that all live in an echo chamber with each other I ' m perfectly pleasant and decent , but I do my absolute best to say nothing about who I really am internally because I ' ve seen what they do and heard what they say about people they disagree with . And I can only say I ' m fine it ' s fine we ' re fine so many times before it starts to wear me thin . Because nobody wants me to drop the bomb that I ' m not actually fine and I don ' t want to talk about it .