So . the Dice are male , and Harp are female ? It ' s hard to imagine a guy named Harmonia , Triana , or even Celia . <| sep |> Yeah what they ' re defining as norm reads more like something broken and toxic . Its kinda ironic that masculinity is apparently a bad thing in academia these days , yet femininity isn ' t . The reality is , for both masculinity and femininity , many of the traits we look upon as being good , when taken to an extreme are negative . but that doesn ' t fit with rhetoric coming out of academia these days . everything masculine is evil and bad , anything feminine is positive and good . Its pretty funny at a few levels . We ' ve went from seeking equality to looking to promote our own class to being a special snowflake . regardless of if that class is sex , race , sexual orientation , or religion .