Not really . If you have a Hanzo hitting shots on DPS targets he ' s a finisher . <| sep |> Met my husband when I was 17 . We got married when I was 22 . By age 29 he asked for a divorce . We separated I moved back closer to my family 1 hr away instead of 5 hrs away . The ex was the only guy I ever dated or had a relationship . I , too , had the what if there ' s someone better for me out there ? thoughts . After a few months of resettling in a new area I started a bit of online dating . I dated all sorts of different types of guys because I really didn ' t know what type of guy I liked . Anytime I would realize something didn ' t feel right about the guy or if he reminded me of how my ex behaved or treated me I would break it off . Eventually I met a guy who was also recently divorced who didn ' t give me the this isn ' t what I want feeling . I realize now , 3 years into our relationship , he ' s sort of an amalgamation of all of the good traits characteristics of the guys I dated before him rolled into 1 person . He ' s NOT who I thought I would want but now I know I ' m glad for the experience . It gave me the opportunity to learn how to look for what I want , when to say no , how to not settle , and that it ' s okay often encouraged to step outside of your comfort zone .