I got that after my divorce before I sold the house . A man and his son showed up at my door and told me how much they missed me at church . Funny thing is , I hadn ' t been there in months , and they ' d moved in after I stopped going . That ' s when I realized that people are fungible to the church . My old ward full of my friends didn ' t actually care enough to send people to my door that I even knew , much less send people I had actual good feelings towards . Instead , they sent a man to lie to me in front of his son because the church literally didn ' t care enough to pick someone I might know . <| sep |> This is so sad . My family is having our traditional vegetarian Thanksgiving on Monday and we ' d be more than happy to have you along .