Hey OP ! I think you have great photos that show your personality pretty well . That being said the rest of your profile needs some work . For starters it ' s waaaaay too wordy . Show don ' t tell . Instead of saying I only like action movies , etc etc just give a list and it ' ll be pretty obvious . For example , you ' ll know a girl is heavily into romcoms if she lists The Notebook , How Lose a Guy in 10 Days and 16 Candles . You explained so much in your profile that by the time I reached things I ' m really good at I was ready move on and ran out of a few conversation starters . Leave a little mystery . I can ' t ask you about your job because you already told me all about it . I ' d cut the second paragraph of your self summary . The first is great and to the point . I ' d say the lettered personality stuff has so big of a negative connotation that it hurts your rather than helps you . Furthermore , the part about being old fashioned starts off good and then becomes slightly holier than thou . Saying your old fashioned and chivalrous is great . But adding on being on time and keeping promises seems a little for lack of a better word selfimportant . If you didn ' t mean it that way , I ' d suggest dividing that sentence in half so that it doesnt seem like you are suggesting that people who aren ' t old fashioned are liars and are late . I also suggest cutting that entire last sentence of your typical friday night paragraph . Moving on , the profile is about you , not what your friends say that you are . If you truly believe you ' re funny and mature then it doesn ' t matter what your friends think . Overall I think you were doing pretty good and I might have messaged you up until the you should message me if part . IMO people who feel the need to stress that they don ' t play games are people who tend to typically be involved in games . For example , if a girl is saying I WANT A RELATIONSHIP WITH NO DRAMA then she typically is the girl that is routinely attracted to people who cause drama or causes drama herself . Lastly , the part about not messaging back is a little hostile and negative . Overall OP , I think you have some potential and at the end of the day , this is entirely my opinion . I ' m sure there will be people here who disagree with what I have said . So take everything with a grain of salt .