As i thought <| sep |> Hey just chiming in as a woman . I would never expect a man to pay for me . I think it ' s an outdated and sexist concept . Ask yourself what you think . Do you think you should have to pay ? If the answer is no , then do you want to be with someone who expects you to pay ? Treat this date as a learning to tool . I ' d say take extra money just in case if she doesn ' t bring any money and you don ' t have enough to pay for both that could be really awkward . You can offer to pay , or you could ask if she wants to split . Best relationship advice I can give , communicate EVERYTHING . Including these little things , it makes everything so much is easier and clears up confusion . <| sep |> I ' m actually playing Dead Money right now , I see it ! Looks good .