I also refused to lend he and a mutual friend a cell phone to call a friend of theirs to ask for the money my phone had money on it , but I didn ' t want to lend the phone for that purpose , so I said it didn ' t , our mutual friend wanted me to show him my phone jokingly but I refusedHowever , I also don ' t want to lose this friendship because he ' s dealing with a lot on the inside , and seeing the kind of advice all his friends are giving him , I realize I might be the only real friend he ' s got . Yeah , you ' re not a good friend to put it nicely and I would be suprised if he still wanted something to do with you . You don ' t care about his problems , you don ' t respect his decisions , you only want to push your beliefs on him despite you claiming the oposite . You could have just said that you don ' t have the money , but no you had to make your beliefs loud and clear .