A Panda Disguise <| sep |> German Shepherd Dog <| sep |> You would be judged by some people but you would also meet some friendly people . It would be a good way to get to know people and if some of them judge you that is their problem . I think some would appreciate that you are interested in their culture and these would be people that you could become friends with . You really should try it since you are in Sweden and have the opportunity to immerse yourself in the language . If nothing else it would occupy your time and give you a valuable lifelong skill that will help you in all areas of your life . I think maybe you have developed a poor selfimage and you ' re asking people to invite you places as if it ' s an act of charity . What I mean is it makes asking you out feel less like going out to have fun than it feels like doing you a favor . I hope I ' m explaining this right . You ' re not doing anything wrong and you ' re probably a decent person , but if you had a better feeling about yourself I think it would change everything . I think instead of waiting to be invited you should invite people out . There is a book called How To Win Friends And Influence People that might help . You can find the pdf online free . It ' s more for business but it teaches you to see other points of view and it couldn ' t hurt to give it a try . Again , I have to say you ' re not doing anything wrong and I don ' t want to give you something else to worry about , but try to remind yourself of your good qualities and remember that you have things to offer potential friends . Good luck .