What ' s appalling about cuck as it ' s used here is that it ' s a generic , contentfree denigration of its target ' s masculinity by implying that he ' s unable to keep his woman in line . Pure rhetoric , no substance , no relationship to its target ' s behavior , guaranteed to generate more heat than light , a concept which can only blunt your thinking . Racist can be used that way , too , of course , but it also has a specific meaning in reference to its target ' s behaviors , attitudes and ideas , and has widely accepted ethical implications . When it ' s used in reference to those things , it can lead to useful discussion . <| sep |> Oh my god who the hell cares ? He wasn ' t being capricious these people were abusing him . People are dying to paint themselves as victims here and it ' s painfully transparent