I just got married and I ' m terrified of this situation . My husband ' s parents are very traditionally Russian , and they already have expressed their disapproval of me as a wife to their son and their disappointment over their son ' s nontraditional values . They chose to make it clear that they felt this way in spite of how they feel about me as a person , which I did appreciate . I ' m absolutely dreading the moment they start asking about having kids . I had a medical emergency that required several surgeries and a two month stay in hospital , and it resulted in my inability to carry a child . They haven ' t started asking yet , but it ' s just a matter of time , I ' m sure . I ' m worried for my husband , and his relationship with his parents , because it ' s just going to be another black mark in my column another huge reason for them to disapprove and another thing for them to be disappointed by . I hope this gets better , OP , and I hope you ' re having an easier time with this . I honestly can ' t believe that in this day and age we ' re still , as wives , struggling with this issue .