Well , he lived with my grandma . I don ' t believe has a job , just watches tv all day and smokes . They split the house 3 ways , and mom and aunt want to see even to him , if they have to , to get their part , because neither want it and honestly , mom desperately needs the cash . It ' s getting to the point that mom ' s about to bring in outside help to get him to get a move on . It ' s been almost 4 years . Mom . isn ' t in the best health . She works super long hours at horrible times of the day , and her knees and hip need to be replaced , desperately . She almost died during the first and so far only surgery almost 3 years ago , and is just now going in to get the second surgery . She ' s only just been now able to afford it . She ' s been living in pain for over 20 years . It just makes me so mad . For the first time in her life she had a chance to get ahead . But it turns out sis is the type to use her kids to get what she wants . She knows mom wouldn ' t kick her out with a newborn . And when the first got old enough , she had another . She ' s 30 . She should know how to use a condom . She wasn ' t even supposed to be able to have kids but after the first one you ' d think she ' d know that it ' s actually possible . And she got pregnant around the time mom was starting to get around to kicking her out . I honestly think it was on purpose . The first one was such a handful , she can barely care for him . Always angry at him . He ' s a lot better around my mom , behavior wise . But she got her tubes tied , so there ' s that . I hate seeing how tired mom looks when she comes and visits .