Educate yourself and hone your skills early on or you might find it difficult to progress into the midgame . God help me . <| sep |> The grind is real , waking up stiff sucks ! Nights are my favourite for stretching . <| sep |> I ' d say you definitely look nice , but my first thought really was that you look like you ' re already married and settled down . That is not necessarily a bad thing , because you still look good and if my gf would look like you after we ' re married , I ' d be happy . But if other guys feel like that , then they will definitely not ask you out , because they ' ll think it ' s no use . How to ' fix ' that ? No idea . But you can always ask someone out yourself of course , or hint in conversations that you are single but not too subtle , most guys don ' t get that .