Also one was 18 years old and the other is 19 years old . Any comparison has to factor that into account . <| sep |> Very interesting , this transaction has a fee of 0 ether <| sep |> Haha perfect timing on that pic <| sep |> Man I been reading your stuff over the months . It ' s hard to sit harboring all the pain when one fucking conversation could turn remorse to a dull sense of loss and let both people go about their lives with a modicum of happiness instead of ever unfinished business that haunts you forever . I hope your story turns out for the better someday <| sep |> Saying that to you is flat out emotional abuse . I ' ve had it done to me , and when i left there was of course no follow through . Its a basic method to force you to stay , as it prays on your kindness and empathy instead of his now failed physical means . If you do break up with him and you are worried , call a suicide watch number for a patrol put on him . Im sure he is fibbing , but if it comforts you then its worth it . Now , i dont want you to think of it this way , but he is sort of replicating the conditions previously . He was kind when you first met him yes ? And then once he knew you were in love with him , he began to become aggressive . It ' s a very common abuser method , and i fear he may be doing it again . If all follows suit , he most likely will wait until after the court date which honey that itself is going to cause its own problems until he begins to be forceful again . Pushing is one thing , doing a swinging clothing chokehold is another and is too dangerous . Do you think that you want to break up with him ? I personally believe you should for your own safety and wellbeing .