Well , you have to stop caring . If your fiance loves you then he will have to face what his mother is doing to you . If he doesn ' t want to face it then you need to reevaluate your relationship , frankly . Stop following all those social norms stop being polite , stop avoiding her , stop letting her win . Make plans to leave . If your fiance doesn ' t want to come with you then leave alone . You can ' t continue living with her this way . What kind of things does she do ? need a bit more information and it might help you to vent <| sep |> Hey now , a little thing like hypocrisy has never stopped an NDP supporter from taking the smug stance of moral superiority . <| sep |> I just wanted to take this opportunity to wish you and your family a Happy Thanksgiving , you cocksucker .