Cool thanks , I ' ve kind of fallen off The Amity Affliction train after Chasing Ghosts and haven ' t listened to their past two albums much but I ' ll poke around the new one and find some good ones <| sep |> No he got released when otw players where still in packs . <| sep |> I ' m a male ENFP lurking here on the INFJ forums because I ' ve met an INFJ that I ' ve found myself falling for scary fast . I ' m in my late 20 ' s , and have been in enough relationships and had enough crash and burn out quickly because of my desire to go 0100 in a few seconds flat , to know that I need to temper this tendency . She and I seem to be heading in the same direction and are already involved in a couple of church groups together . The rational side of me is like hold on , this could be a problem if it doesn ' t work out , because we run in the same circles . But the Ndom part of my personality is like , green light , this has a lot of longterm potential for that exact reason . I ' ve been cautious but not overly so , and so far it seems like a good approach . Both of us have our own busy lives , and I think part of what ' s attracting us to each other is exactly that fierce independence . We ' ll see what happens . This forum is helpful though ! I ' ve fallen in love with the INFJ mind because it ' s so similar to my own !