Unfortunately many of us don ' t have the wagon option on the 6 <| sep |> The fact that he needs so much protection goes to show the craziness of all this . <| sep |> Not everything rests on strength of will alone . I realised I was trans and lurked asktg etc for years before I ever managed any real steps . Don ' t get down on yourself just because you haven ' t managed to come out yet . <| sep |> Wow , you guys really do have no idea how the other side thinks . The conflicts of interest existed before the UK said I want a divorce ! and the Leave vote changes nothing , as was the case with Denmark and Ireland , until and unless Article 50 is triggered . The EU now has the opportunity to demonstrate it isn ' t an abusive partner , continually bulldozing UK interests and concerns as it has been doing since even before Maastricht . If it does , maybe it won ' t collapse in on itself quite so swiftly and if it doesn ' t the inevitable end will simply come as soon as Germany realises it can ' t bankroll the rest of Europe ' s corrupt and profligate spending .