You should stop using your penis enlarger pump on your lips ? <| sep |> I have always been the black sheep in my family , and my sister was the golden child . Like your sister , mine never really accomplished anything , but she has and always will be the fabulous beloved child . I just stopped trying . I went on very low contact with my parents . But what it took for me was my having kids myself , because my parents carried the favoritism over to the next generation . I had been programmed into being second rate and not loved from the day I was born , but by God I was not putting up with my kids being treated poorly while my parents obsess over my sister ' s kids . I try to focus on my husband and kids . It is very hurtful being treated like this , but you can ' t change people . You can ' t make them love you and value you . Just limit your exposure to them . If it hurts to read crap your mom writes on Facebook , stop following her on Facebook .