Yea , but why is it so difficult for you to show me which one you use in your argument that pedophiles cannot be changed or treated because of their structural brain differences ? And child molesters do not always remain child molesters . But you preached to me that they can ' t be changed because their brains are different and permanent . Curing depression or anxiety doesn ' t involve changing one ' s sexuality . Sexuality is permanent . It ' s a state of the mind . Sexuality is just as abnormal as depression and anxiety . Sex is normal and natural . I mean , all animals who can masturbate do it all the time , isn ' t that proof enough that it ' s a natural instinct ? Animals are not fantasizing . They are experiencing the physical world .