Ralof ' s sister Take what you need within reason . Me Takes Ralof ' s sister <| sep |> It took awhile . I guess it ' s only the one guy Chad who works on them and he said he was swamped . He did provide updates when I emailed him . One box took 2 weeks and the other took a little over 3 weeks . <| sep |> Before I got married and was on dating sites , if a girl had anything on her profile with the word drama , it was an automatic no . <| sep |> 100 % agree with your reasons . It ' s not just saying this is too hard a child with those issues will have little quality of life , and need constant care . The typical thought when having kids is that you raise them and 18 years or so later , they become adults . I would abort if it was going to have life long severe issues .