It may not be your wedding , but it is YOUR baby . You get to decide what ' s best for your kid , and she ' s not a flower arrangement she ' s a human being . They are being rude and arrogant you have every right to say no . No . That won ' t work for us . You aren ' t required to defend or explain . Stay strong , Mama , and balls to them . <| sep |> Oh gosh , I ' ve been meaning to buy AC 3 . Hooray for them giving it away for free ! <| sep |> Hi ! I ' m new here . Thought I would add an additional tip for those that suffer from rolling veins like myself . If you have rolling veins , it helps to tell the nurse ahead of time and let them know , if you can ' t , handle multiple attempts . I ' ve been straight up with them and told them they need to be confident or experienced with rolling veins , otherwise I ' ll wait for another nurse . This has come from too many times individuals not knowing how to handle rolling veins , leaving me very sweaty , bruised and exhausted from high levels of anxiety . Also , learned my left arm rolls more than my right . Always good to have a favorite