Yeah , I played around then as well and climbed from high 2500 to mid 2800 . Also played the last 3 days , which completely ruined the progress I had made and put me back at around 2540 ish . Same situation , mostly uncooperative teammates . Like we have a Soldier and Mccree locked in , yet they play reaper or hanzo and refuse to swap off , even later when it obviously isn ' t working . <| sep |> Oh god yes , I know what you mean . Actually I ' ve noticed this behavior in so many situations , not just with babies but it ' s worse with them because there seems no stopping and always boomeranging back to the topic of baby . I remember one friend having been so unfortunate to have a birthday party one day after ALL the guests had just been to a LARP together including me . She ' s not into Larp at all and bf and I tried for hours to make people change the subject but they always came back to it . I learnt then and there that my friends can be really shitty , socially clueless and egocentric . I got to suffer the same thing when I was invited to another birthday party . I ' d say half of the guests were parents who also brought their kids and domineered every topic for hours and in every conversation found a way to get back to the topic of kids again . Wouldn ' t have been bad if it had not been for hours really . The host , a father himself , then changed tune and said enough of the kids talk , we don ' t want to bore you . What have your been up to ? Are you still role playing ? Admittedly that was a kind and nice gesture and we talked for a bit about other stuff but I had already been kinda steam rolled . It ' s not that easy to open up and be chatty suddenly after the having been entirely unimportant and out of the loop for hours . It ' s not that I didn ' t try to have other conversations , SO and I really did , but eventually people hijacked them again . I guess I ' m a bit off because obviously the birthday wasn ' t about me . However , I ' m still miffed that people don ' t seem to understand anymore that social gatherings come with certain rules of sociability and engagement still . And it ' s even worse when the purpose of a gathering is something as special and determined as a goodbye party ! I ' m sorry for your friend . IShe ' ll obviously live but I could understand it if she saw it as a rather pointless and wasted evening and was hurt by being , in the end , rather unimportant to all the people .