He ' s not suicidal . This is a ploy . He ' s controlling , manipulative , and has the potential to be quite dangerous if he manages to get any closer to you . Even is he IS suicidal , that ' s quite frankly not your problem . He doesn ' t get to go around abusing people and then acting like a victim . The comment I love you and I never hurt you made my skin crawl . I think it was Louis CK who said something like if ' someone says you hurt them , you don ' t get to decide that you didn ' t . ' Get as far away from this psycho as possible . I hope you find a way to manage your depression , and start feeling better soon . My intuition tells me that once this guy is gone . you ' ll start feeling a little better <| sep |> As a Pakistani woman and just as a human being , i want to thank you and your boyfriend from the bottom of my heart for giving them that haven . People think it ' s no big deal and no one is really going to get hurt or whatever . but the reality is that these sorts of threats are now tolerated in daily conversation and that ' s heartbreaking for everyone involved . I ' m really glad I dont hear about this BS violence in my daytoday against fat people , but it certainly grinds my gears that anyone out there , somewhat educated , privileged enough to have an internet connection . can say anything like this with a straight face .