You haven ' t helped me , and I ' m pretty sure I can ' t get an answer from you . Nice of you to delude yourself for typing all that , but you don ' t have any real answer , and I won ' t wish to reply any further . The only person who made any legitimate answer is the first poster . Which is why I followed her question with why marriage is necessary if not for financial reasons because I knew this was a prevalent reason . I just told you , I understand polyamorous people exist , what part of that can does not go through your thick skull ? The fucking point isn ' t that people can be polyamorous , the point was why a paper was necessary to make a promise . My questions weren ' t poor , you ' re just contradicting what you said . If you read through my post , like you said , you would see I asked the person above and below you why marriage in this case is necessary . And please , don ' t delude yourself into thinking you ' re intelligent when you have no real answer , or knowledge on the matter . You can ' t even answer to the point . You keep giving your generic why do you care about other people bullshit . That ' s not my question . And I don ' t expect a legit answer from you . Go be ignorant and generic on someone else ' s post .