Nah man . Refs are trying to give us this game according to rnfl . <| sep |> which guy ? <| sep |> Dude , you ' re good . Temptation is always at the door . Temptation doesn ' t make you a bad guy . Acting on it does . Good on you for telling her no . Good on you for staying faithful ! How come you haven ' t gotten married yet ? If you ' re faithful to your girlfriend and love her , why not ? I mean you ' ve been together for 7 years , so something is obviously going well . Idk . Think about it <| sep |> altleft jackboots seem to run this site . pity . <| sep |> Fair enough . I never look people in their eyes . It just feels awkward and makes me uncomfortable . <| sep |> I ' d go Wind Up Bird personally , especially if you ' re after some typical Murakami surrealism . If however you ' re after some slightly more typical fiction Norwegian Book is maybe a good option . I have seen some other people recommend Hard Boiled Wonderland And The End Of The World . This is by far my favourite so if you ' re open to other suggestions I ' d be reading that ! !