Ace was his plot armor <| sep |> No , CBT does not cure anyone . It can sometimes act as a temporary crutch to jerry rig the system . Sure , use it as an emergency bandaid while actually doing the work to find out what deficiency andor toxicity is from Maslow ' s hierarchy . But if you act like CBT andor drugs work , then you ' re doing more harm than good . <| sep |> This is likely only true at Division I colleges and universities . <| sep |> How is this same joke on the front page every 2 days ? It was kinda funny the first time , now it ' s just stupid . <| sep |> Why not simply tell her the truth and let her know that you care for her and value her , but she comes across a judgemental and it make you uncomfortable ? Iif she is feeling confused by your withdrawal , I bet that she literally has no idea how she comes across . She might be upset offended at first , but she will certainly run the accusation by others in the group who will probably be honest about that tendency of hers when asked directly . It could lead to a real aha moment for her .