it ' s mint ! <| sep |> This . The charismatic character is not persuading or intimidating a person or monster . They must instead remove the roadblocks that exist in the NPCs mind to why it won ' t listen to the PC . E . g . , It ' s not persuading them to run , its convincing them that the PC has a better deal than punishment from their boss the true obstacle . <| sep |> I am 57 M and have been watching this stuff 40 years . Something it took me a while to learn is that you just don ' t date liars . The first time they are shady about an ex or whatever , just leave . It never gets better , and they never stop . They just get better at hiding it and the more time you invest , the worse it is . <| sep |> Even more 2000 s than these thingsThey should bring back that look