Exponentially ? Really ? You may be overreacting a tad . <| sep |> Just saw , what is considered to be , a casual conversation in another place here like this always stunned me . Trying to be as chill as possible , cutting out all things edgy and awkward this unnatural concept of ' awkward ' must be eliminated , and just convey ones mental state and interest for one another . The last message feel free to pm me is especially brisk in my opinion . Playing as the trophy she must earn , she has now the permission to extend this conversation . Like if he ' gets them all ' and yeah cool , wanna talk ? yes ? okay , wait a second . no ? yeah whatever . . Seemingly without any fear and just as much respect as needed he talks to her casually . Doesn ' t apotheosize her , sees her as a normal person , or at least tries to make it sound that way . This touche with accent thing jersey girl he uses probably comes from pop culture , songs , movies or so building a personality by imitating fictional behavior , duuude . Maybe people WANT to be lied at . So , you must be turning off your brain in a conversation if you are a goody in talking nonsense . But when you are more of that kind , who thinks human interaction should be Platonic in the original sense of trying to reach a higher purpose , lifting each other up spiritually , not just brainless entertainment without any target except for eventual copulation , then you must imitate and master the nonfictional art of nonsensical small talk . If you have ' too much ' respect for other people , remember the tremendous wisdom of Turnip Pumpkins . In his book , he described rubbing his hand on his groin before meeting a potential rival or exploitable money giver , and shaking their hand with his juiced one to ' give himself an advantage ' in privately mocking them and losing feargiving respect . Not that i recommend this , but try to not give a fuck in general . amirightyesimright . Pee . eS . Before i already have forgotten it i read , that women like it , when you give them attention . So starting a conversation , even if all forces of fleeing in your brain tell you otherwise and you risk stuttering and talking crap crap is good , see above , being first at verbal defecation in the approaching conversation already gives you 20 points !