when you nut but she keep suckin <| sep |> I mean go ahead and look the statistics if you like . <| sep |> I ' m pretty sure most parents would feel like horrible monsters if they had to admit raising kids wasn ' t worth it . Or that birth control didn ' t work . Or that abortion wasn ' t accessible or affordable , or even acceptable . Sometimes those reasons are the reason why someone decided they had to raise a kid , because who wants to admit they didn ' t or couldn ' t afford the option to not parent ? People make mistakes and thats cool . However I imagine it could be severely consequential in some cases if you never wanted to parent and had to face parental shame for having to get an abortion , or even be able to afford one because birth control was the 1 % chance it failed . I would totally understand that maybe parenthood isn ' t all cracked up to be what people expect it to be , but after you ' ve invested several years into raising another human being .