Right one is the best <| sep |> Only the good cancers . <| sep |> If it was after I cooked it and he fucked the turkey ? I ' d probably stab him too . Y ' all underestimate the amount of effort it takes to make the perfect turkey . If it was before I cooked it ? I ' d just throw the little freak out of the house . I would have a heart and let him keep the turkey . <| sep |> It ' s been 4 days now lol . <| sep |> Stomp on the brake . ABS pumps them for you . <| sep |> yeah she only made $ 135 M last year , she ' ll be doing porn any day now <| sep |> From a theoretical standpoint , yes , being more resistant to adversity is more helpful than not . Being stoic and emotionless would be beneficial . But the real world isn ' t so convenient that people can just cast aside their emotions . More often than not , stoicism is swallowing emotions , internalising them and dwelling on them , rather than actually dealing with them in a healthy way . Your arguments sound nice on paper , but to a kid who ' s been bullied every day this week and will probably be bullied for every week of the next few years , they ' re probably not actually helpful . I ' m glad it worked for you , but again , your circumstances aren ' t everyone ' s . So someone calls you a poofter faggot I got that in school and I wasn ' t even gay , whoopty do ! You know that ' s not really comparable , right ? To you , it ' s just being called a name . To a gay kid , it ' s having your identity denigrated . You can separate yourself from the insults , the gay kid can ' t . I ' d recommend you consider taking a mental health first aid course . Something they teach is the realisation that it ' s not your thoughts and value judgements on the matter that are important , it ' s how the person in distress is thinking and feeling . How you think they ' should ' feel is completely immaterial .