Okay a few questions . Do you masturbate ? It ' s fine to masturbate when you have a healthy sex life , but if you ' re having a libido missmatch , hold off on taking care of yourself and save your horny for your SO . I ' ve been there and I understand where she ' s coming from . There ' s this really weird idea that men are always horny , so it makes sense that women who are with men that aren ' t jumping at sex every night get self conscious that it ' s their fault . She needs to learn that it ' s not her , but compromise is good too . She wants sex let ' s say 6 x a week and you want is 2 x a week , so compromise on 4 time . Honestly this problem can be solved with communication and compromise . <| sep |> Look at Nevada , how does that go blue