No fertility issues , just kind of a fetish I guess . Which is why I ' m reaching out for other opinions on the topic . <| sep |> Also , Princess . It ' s gonna be alright . <| sep |> i ' m pretty sure you got that all wrong . metal rails bend en flex , absorbing energy . concrete doesn ' t absorb anything , it redirects . so anything short of a head on collision will result in a car being thrown back into traffic . <| sep |> My first rule of getting out of debt is to cut nonessentials . Sometimes that is needed , sometimes it is not . Remember that you have to live with yourself while getting out of debt . If it costs $ 5 a month to make your life tolerable , spend that money . Don ' t forget marginal utility . If he needs an extra $ 5 to pay his bills , that $ 5 can come from ANYWHERE in his budget . Maybe keeps Spotify but eats more rice and beans to make up that $ 5 deficit . But , sometimes temporary sacrifice is needed to make meaningful progress . Pay attention to your needs and wants . both are important .