We don ' t know that but i see your point very strongly . maybe because am Indian living in USA lol <| sep |> I have caught two around the court house downtown . You might try there ? <| sep |> Down side of car anti theft systems . Car jackings . Hopefully they catch the individuals responsible for such a violent crime . <| sep |> Have you asked yourself if he is actually physically okay right now ? I don ' t know him , but it sounds weird that someone you ' ve been with for 5 years would completely ignore you for days . Do you know that he ' s alive and well first and foremost ? Another explanation could be that the death of your family all of his problems have completely overwhelmed him . I struggled with depression , and I am also almost too empathetic . So when something bad happened to someone ELSE , even if it didn ' t affect me , I felt that their pain was mine as well . No , this does not excuse the fact that he ignored you . But even though this death directly affects you more than him , keep in mind that this would indirectly affect your SO too .