If she doesn ' t want me to go , why would she want me to stay especially if we ain ' t banging ? It ' s not up to her , it ' s up to YOU . <| sep |> Instead of using violence and beheadings , you could sell drugs in a civilized , cooperative fashion in which all benefit and none lose . We all know there are enough profits to be made for all of us . There is no need to fight amongst yourselves when you already have to fight the DEA and scores of undercover informants . You could unite and benefit enormously and not die so much if you wanted to . No one is stopping you from adopting more humane business practices but yourselves . I think it is more likely the local culture and not the existence of the drug trade that leads to violence in the business endeavors of certain groups and individuals .