Beer . So . not much change really . <| sep |> rhapas is useful as part of a spectrum of perspectives . I certainly don ' t feel like I ' ve taken harm from it , and instead learned quite a few things from it . It ' s also been a catalyst for beneficial conversations in real life for me . It doesn ' t have to be universally pretty to do those things . There ' s much danger in only seeking out opinions that confirm your beliefs and are convenient for you . Actively seeking out challenging viewpoints with humility now and then gives you a broader view and better tools for life . Chosing to respect someone who criticizes you , instead of reacting defensively , can be one of the best moves you can make . The sub is a place which allows that to happen , which is major .