IIRC coke was 1 million dollars apart of the Blue Brothers budget . Correct me if I ' m wrong <| sep |> Best case she is being nice , worst case she is using you to feel acknowledged or feeding some other part of her ego . Any case it is a callous handling of your emotions . She actually knows that you ' re not over her , and contacting you is not in your best interest . With regards to the closure it doesn ' t sound like it was closure you basically reiterated what you had already said , and honestly what kind of closure do you really need in this ? You should not only not write her back , but block her number social media etc . Going no contact is damn hard , but do so until you have actually dealt with this . no contact also means that you cannot receive her messages just to see , what if something happens , or she changes her mind etc . all of that is negotiating with yourself about the end of the relationship .