Don ' t encourage them in their pedophilic habits , please . <| sep |> One of these days I ' m going to look up the lyrics to one of their songs but I am afraid they ' re so verbose <| sep |> The sub even dictates the order ! How do people keep messing it up ? <| sep |> breaking up a family doesn ' t sound like a very good solution either . From the last sentence of the articleJapanese immigration officials told Reuters that such offers were only ever put on the table if the families first raised the idea . If that ' s really the case , this is what the family felt was best for them given the circumstances , and it ' s hard to imagine a more fairly balanced outcome punish the mom , don ' t punish the son . I ' ll admit though , it doesn ' t sound like this son has any guardians around and sending him through high school alone hardly sounds like the ideal situation to me , but who knows .