It ' s an ER and a lab . <| sep |> I would love to but my husband has told me that he is justified in verbally abusing me because of all of the transgressions that have occurred the past 4 years of marriage , like asking him to help change our kids diaper or being offended when he cusses me out because I don ' t thank him enough for doing household chores . This was after I asked him if we could be civil to each other for the remaining time we have left together for the sake of our son . My parents are coming midDecember to see the baby for the holidays , so the minute the fucking doors are open on January 2 , I ' m filing . <| sep |> Gotta give it to get it . <| sep |> Yes , I was really hoping he went home last night . I ' m really getting annoyed by him , but to be fair I never liked him from the first episode .