First off , actually read my comment because I never interjected my ego into it by saying I ' m a good person and I shouldn ' t feel guilty . Obviously you didn ' t literally say those exact words but the implication was there . You could argue democrats lost and entire presidential election based in part on identity politics and the labeling of anyone who disagrees with them as racist . This reminds me of those gay allies who think they ' re entitled to gay people worshiping them because they ' re not homophobic . If people choose to act out against the interests of POC whenever confronted with the idea that they ' re not great allies or have possibly done something racist , then they weren ' t real allies to begin with . Actual racism permeates our criminal justice system , where blacks are thrown in jail at a disproportionate rate than white . Actual racism with voter ID laws dissproportionately effects POC . But only wanting to have sex with your own race exclusively ? That ' s a hard sell placing in the same category of racism . Last time I checked , the same kind of negative sexual stereotypes about black men being aggressive and hypermasculine are the same stereotypes to cause black men to get racially profiled by police . The negative sexual stereotypes about all Asians being submissive and passive are the same stereotypes to cause entitled white men with Asian fetishes to sexually assault or rape Asian people you know because they ' ll just take it since they ' re all so passive . Lets not act like these things are not in any way related . There can be levels of racism but I guess according to you , we have have to reach a certain arbitrary threshold in terms of importance before something can be defined as actual racism .