This basically says around 30 % of people are dirtbags . That ' s a low estimate in my opinion . <| sep |> Next to Kind en Gezin you can also call the helpline 1712 . It ' s a part of the ' Vertrouwenscentrum Kindermishandeling ', they handle cases like this one discreetly , and only contact police or other authorities after they contacted the family and regular social assistance etc . doesn ' t work anymore . I think this might be the best option ! They also make sure that you stay anonymous btw , so don ' t worry about that <| sep |> I mostly pvp so I always use gear with the highest iLv because it impacts me in arena the greatest . however each week I complete a mythic for the box . This week I was in a 12 with another ele shaman and he was pulling about 100 k dps 450 overall vs my 350 more than me . here is a link to my armory hollowLoolooloolsimpleHe had 9 more iLvs and had the bracers and belt whereas I have the belt and boots . we had the same spec and rotation . When I asked in the instance he said it was my trinkets i ' m I am assuming my gear ' s secondary stats are causing a massive dps decrease too because i ' m taking anything with a higher iLv and not just intcrithasteetc . edit my artifact weapon is lvl 34 is and he did not have his 35 th trait unlocked yetMy question is can you explain how trinkets effect our dps which are best in slot i was told some like the devilsaur shock baton have no ICD so they add an huge increase in dps regardless of stats , and is there a good addon you would recommend to calculate stat weights for upgrades for pve regardless of iLv