Apparently , LBJ would make White House staffers come into the bathroom with him and have them watch him shit . <| sep |> I didn ' t notice the wrong spelling in the first place , but we can add on that that I ' m not a native speaker . <| sep |> You look at them as a whole complex person , who has done good and bad . You also look at the cheating and decide what that means in terms of your relationship were they acting out a desire , was the relationship in a bad place , do they not love you anymore and figure out if it ' s a deal breaker or not . If not , you look at everything else and remember why you love them . You get to decide how your relationship works . Just because you have been told cheating is unforgivable doesn ' t mean you can ' t forgive if that ' s what you want . If that isn ' t what you want , then absolutely leave them . You have every right .