East or West ? <| sep |> You can ' t get a job , or get a business license in the US without proving your citizenship first . Employers know exactly who and what they are hiring . The fault lies with them , not the WOPs . <| sep |> Wie heit nochmal diese Philosophierichtung Konsequentalismus ? Jetzt stellt euch mal vor diese 600 Geschichte wrde tatschlich eine Verhaltensnderung auslsenDas Geld das all die Leute die diesen Kommentar so toll finden sparen , sie kaufen ja jetzt kleinere Portionen , kann ja in Straen und Khlketten investiert werden . Damit weniger Menschen verhungern whrend 100 km weiter das Zeug auf den Feldern verrottet . <| sep |> The line If you get killed , I ' ll at least have something from you ! is what bothers me the most out of this . What , the memory of you as her own child isn ' t fucking enough for her ? From what I gather from the whole your child will be a bastard line , I ' m assuming she ' s somewhat religious . That makes this even worse , as many of those individuals never change their behavior . Then again , there are people like that who aren ' t religious at all , so yeah . I would suggest having a sit down talk with your mom to let her know that what she is doing is making you guys extremely uncomfortable and unhappy , but I ' m sure it goes through one ear and out the other with her . If sitting down and talking to her doesn ' t work , you should kick her out . It ' ll be difficult because she ' s your mom , but it may be your only option if she doesn ' t want to be considerate of your views , especially when she ' s living under your roof . Maybe an information diet might be a good approach here , since limited contact isn ' t an option in this case . Obviously she ' s too good to accept your help in her financial situation . She ' s basically taking you for granted , thinking she can treat you like crap under your own roof . You and your SO deserve better than this . It should be up to the couple themselves if they want kids , not the parents of the people in the relationship . They may be family , but they should have no say in what you do with your life once you ' re on your own . And if they ' re accepting financial help from YOU , you have every right to stop giving them help if they ' re not going to appreciate it . She may be your mother , but you shouldn ' t have to take this treatment from her as a grown adult . It ' s actually more selfish of the parents to demand grandchildren from their kids who don ' t want to have them than it is for said kids to not procreate . Especially if they ' re gonna act like this . If I can offer any advice , continue going for your dreams . You ' ve come this far , why not keep going ? Keep living your life the way YOU want to . Some people will never be pleased with what you do in your life , no matter what it is . Hell , they ' re kids could become royalty themselves , and that STILL wouldn ' t be enough for them . It ' s petty and stupid , but you ' ll regret it if you give in to their unrealistic demands . So just keep your chin up and keep doing what you ' re doing . If she ' s not gonna support you in what you ' re trying to accomplish , it ' s ultimately her loss . She ' s the one who has to live with the fact that she ' s damaged your relationship with her , and she has nobody to blame but herself for it . And if she asks why you aren ' t talking to her , make damn sure she knows what she did .