Yes please ! edit Here ' s a wiki link to anyone else who ' d never heard of Flxible before this post <| sep |> Season 3 Episode 2 . <| sep |> Yeah , I didn ' t say that . At all . But great observation . <| sep |> Get a stop here ! <| sep |> Several things . I know you say he sees you as a perfect daughterinlaw figure , but you mentioning having better conversations with him coupled with him inviting you on what sounds like a much more intimate trip than a daddaughterinlaw trip throws up some red flags to me . Even if you ' re 100 % sure there ' s nothing more going on here , there ' s the issue of you taking a step backwards as far as trying to move on from his son . Like you saidI know that it ' s just perpetuating the breakup pain caused by the separation between his son and me . And then beyond that , if you and the ex ever did possibly get back together , now you ' ve got this huge secret that would make him feel betrayed by both of you . Honestly regardless of the dad ' s true intentions , his invite is really inappropriate .