And now when your parents ask a question , you aren ' t sure if it ' s directed to you or the cat <| sep |> If you see a polar bear , you ' re already dead . They ' ve been following you for miles and are only letting you see them because it ' s too late for you to get away . <| sep |> No , this is far from the best we ' ve got but so are all the ugly Hillary posts that have reached the front page . It ' s pettiness in response to pettiness . <| sep |> Walls of silence are relatively weak . It only takes one person to stand up and say it happened to me for the wall to collapse . Football is a toxic environment of macho heterosexuals who like nothing more than being lads and overtly straight . There ' s a lot shame in the game about males having feelings about anything other than the game , and it ' s partly that that has allowed abuse to be quite widespread . Hopefully this will flush the abusers out and these men and boys can get the help they need whilst their attackers are put through the due process of law and punishment .