Fair enough , but they go on about the whole ' psychological advantage ' thing way too much to the point of ennui . Crofty isn ' t as good as Ben Edwards on Sky he makes mistakes a lot less and was actually a driver a long time ago and is much more detailed in his commentary . I just get bored listening to Croft . And Ted is a straight up fanboy his insights used to be interesting but now I cringe whenever he starts gushing about his favourite driver . <| sep |> I would deal with this by trying to find the good side . The good side of this is that you are not going to be that person with them . Just see them for whatwho they are . The thing about them blowing you off ? It is not personal . It is at best bad training and at worst , alcoholism . You did everything right by being a good steward of both , your friendships and your bodysobriety . Now just find creative ways to store and use all the leftovers and then smile to yourself during every single bite . It doesn ' t matter who else showed up to your party , you did . And you did it sober ! Build on that and next year I bet you can have some new people in your life that WILL show up .