I play with 170 ms ping . <| sep |> Stability and patience is also so important . I was sent to a family who owned an inhome childcare . People coming in and out at all hours of every day . Unfortunately there was a lot more going on but I remember always crying when a family would leave and not come back . I did that until I was probably 18 or 19 and i also hoarded food and was horrible in school . My foster mother would always scream at me for stuff like that because obviously it didnt stop me . When a kids already been taken away from their parents the last thing they need is to feel like there isn ' t a place for them . Imagine not having a specific place to call home and imagine how terrifying that is to a kid that isn ' t even old enough to get a job . They need parents to teach them everything and place that ' s calm , loving , and safe . They need people around them welcoming them and making them feel at ease . And yes just like everyone else says make sure you always tell them you love them and make food available .