holy shit , awesome . thanks man <| sep |> The horror . Can you start a gofundme for a cane to chase them off your lawn ? <| sep |> No we don ' t . I ' m all for not being pc but that ' s just 100 % racist <| sep |> Generally , there ' s no reason NOT to ask someone out unless you are certain they have a boyfriend . If they do , in most cases they will be honest about it . They will either tell you straight up , I ' m sorry , I ' m seeing someone , or they will find a more subtle way to mention it , like , Oh my boyfriend and I finished up our shopping yesterday . One option when discussing the topic of Xmas shoppingHey , would you like to go Christmas shopping with me ? I ' m not much of a shopper it would be so much more fun with you there .