I got an Icares who is pretty much useless . Am I still scum ? <| sep |> my bad , it opens just fine for me , but ill edit it . <| sep |> No problem ! The other thing to remember is that you ' re a relatively young guy this is coming from a relatively old guy ! . I think expectationsstandards change over time , which is an awesome thing . I kind of went in reversemy standards went up over the past 10 years , because I married somebody I knew I wasn ' t compatible with for fear of being alone ! But it was a completely different ball game then , as I mentioned earlier , and fortunately it all worked out ok . The point is , I think it ' s great to have standards , and sooner or later standards and realities meet each other one way or the other . I have a friend who is constantly single , and constantly whining about it , but keeps setting this ridiculously high bar . Either that bar has to come down , or he has to be fine with being alone unless somehow he meets somebody . I have the bar set pretty high now , but most of the time I ' m fine with the consequences . Good luck !