If I ' m drafting today he is my # 1 overall . Then again I have him in one of my leagues and neither of the other two RBs but from what I ' ve seen he has been the best FF asset this season <| sep |> It ' s not a lack of talent that makes them bad defensively . Its just a lack of knowledge of how to play NBA team defense . They likely get lost on pick rolls , help comes late , people don ' t rotate , etc , etc . Looks like its taking time for Thibs to drill these young guys . <| sep |> I give thanks for not being damned yet . <| sep |> As someone who is in a similar situation , please understand that this type of information is shocking . My dad recently found out he fathered a son 56 years ago before he met my mom , before they had my sister and me and it has unfortunately changed our family dynamic . Your daughters and wife need to know and be shown that they won ' t be relegated to a lower standard to make up for all of the lost years .