Yet the laws are not being enforced . The motivatuon for enforcing the law doesnt matter . We do not employ thought police . This is the same lofical disconnect behind hate crimes legislation . Why does it matter if someone was killed for their money or because they were gay ? Why does one crime have a harsher sentence ? We need to stop hiding behind the argument that enforcing the law is racist because racists support it . Change the law or get it to the supreme court meanwhile enforce it including federal marijuana law even though i am for decriminalization <| sep |> I haven ' t watched the video yet so I ' m not sure if this point is addressed , but it depends on what we mean by obsession . Some cultures have a huge focus on sex , but the way they perceive it is different from how it is perceived in the west . For traditional societies with a strong sense of a spiritual philosophy , such as Tantra , it ' s about connecting to our Divine Feminine and Masculine energynature through each other , and thereby connecting with each other as well . It ' s a means towards healing and enlightenment . I don ' t call that obsession . Obsession is more about neurotically chasing it for validation . It ' s a strong inclination for people to chase sexual validation in order to arrive at an inherent sense of selfvalue . Validation is like a drug , so it ' s easy to become obsessed with it . On the other hand , there is a lot of sexual shame in the postmodern world , especially in the west . But at the same time we live in a hyper sexualized environment that valorizes this narrative of sexual validation . So the obsession in the west is this deep craving for it in order to be satisfied in life , attaining it but not feeling satisfied , then craving an even deeper experience to become satisfied , and so on . It is basically what is described in Buddhism ' s three poisons ignorance , attachment craving , suffering . It ' s not just the west , another poster mentioned Japan , which I think is true . All of this arises out of sexual repression . Sexual repression is not about not having lots of sex , it comes from sexual shame .