As a dude who would only run with a monogamous relationship , I ' d be pretty upset if this happened to me . I don ' t think it makes you a puritan to not want other dudes seeing your girlfriends tits . I get naked isn ' t always sexual but I wouldn ' t want a bunch of drunk dudes ogling my girl unless I was there , and even then maybe not . If she didn ' t tell me beforehand I ' dpersonally be livid , not happy with it even if she did . I don ' t think this opinion is a character flaw . You can move past this for sure though , just tell her exactly how you feel about it . <| sep |> Yeah . you clearly haven ' t tried trucking . Sigh . Ok . at the federal level truckers and agricultural workers got left out of the 1937 federal law that created minimum wage and the 40 hr workweek with overtime . At the federal level this never got fixed . The abuses newbie drivers go through are legendary . Weeks where you end up owing money are not uncommon through various games and bullshit . For guys in their first year , takehome pay of about $ 500 a week for 70 hrs driving in an 8 day period is not uncommon , sleeping out on the road in the back of the truck for up to a month at a time with a couple days off a month . We stick with it because after two years the money can be very good . lawyerlevel good . Assuming we don ' t crash out in part from the financial stress . Ever seen a really heavily decorated truck with way too many lights going down the road ? That ' s the trucker gleefully proclaiming he owns that fucking thing instead of some screwsthedriver company . So what happened here is , California did a fix for a lot of this shit and most of the trucking industry such as WalMart didn ' t get the memo . $ 54 mil won ' t affect WalMart any but it ' ll scare the shit out of the smaller trucking companies . Good . Fun fact out of all the semis you see on the road not one has airbags . Care to guess why ? In an accident we ' re expected to keep steering that monster out of people ' s way until we die . 80 , 000 lbs of rolling chaos doesn ' t stop quickly or gracefully . Source last month a dockworker at a grocery distribution plant accidentally spilled curry powder on my leg . Now I ' m a seasoned trucker .