If their misery comes from the fact that the rule of law is not being broken and political dissidence isn ' t being suppressed , I ' m not gonna hold back from laughing at them to protect their feelings . After all , the altright loves to pretend they ' re for reals over feels and mock people who get offended . <| sep |> I ' ve used this analogy elsewhere , so perhaps you ' ve seen it . For the HL partner , sex is 4050 % of the physical and emotional side of the relationship . For the LL partner , sex is perhaps 10 % of the relationship . So if everything else is perfect but there ' s no sex , then the HL person is getting MAYBE 60 % of hisher needs met , while the LL person is probably getting 90 % of their needs in the relationship .