My experience is that they are incredibly welcoming and supportive . I guess our stories cancel each other out . <| sep |> how is that throwing shade , you ' re an idiot <| sep |> Fun fact . I was named after HG Wells ' great niece . <| sep |> Refusing to get along is part of the problem , not the solution . Who cares who the leader is , everyone needs to open their minds and get along , by refusing to do so you are encouraging the very problem you claim to fight against . We need to stop having policy swinging left and right and have a dialogue that makes everyone kind of happy . It sucks that as it currently stands , half the country is always unhappy . If anything the author should be praising Trump , after he said such terrible things about Obamacare , he met with Obama and said it had opened his eyes . This means he listened to Obama , a man he disagrees with on many levels . I think if people embrace him , we could have a successful dialogue . People like Sanders and Warren are the example we need to follow , who will work with him on what they agree on , and fight on stuff they don ' t . We need more of this thinking right now , not the block everything because it came from Obama attitude we have right now , and the Not my president voices we are hearing . We are all in this together , you can disagree fundamentally with everything someone says , but if you sit down and have a dialogue , you guarantee that one group won ' t feel alienated , and everyone ' s voice will be heard .