Why did u have a pic of cloondog ? <| sep |> It ' s a very interesting social phenomena in expatriate communities . It generally goes like this . Mom and Dad are working professionals from a 3 rd world shit hole like say India or China . They move to a nice place with good money like NZ , Australia , US , UK Canada . They then move their elderly parents who have no appreciable skill and have no desire to learn English but are happy to look after bubs and do some light chores around the house . Grandies get access to welfare and citizenship kids get spoilt and young professionals get a collective approach to their wealth . It is so prevalent that NZ for example are putting limits on Visas for this . 1 objectid 10887537 However if anyone gets a divorce or if it turns to shit or if some one is very ill . it turns to custard pretty quickly . Tough shit if you don ' t like baby sitting there is fuck all else to do .