Outcasts comprise the disfigured and mentally ill , disabled , minorities and poor . It ' s a constant statistical fact along all social groups and cultures . it ubiquitous in all of us . You know nice is a lot more than just getting along with people who are exactly like you . Everyone can do that . You ' re thinking along the lines of ' The guys in my socioeconomic dating group are easy to get along with . ' When it comes down to it , everyone thinks they ' re much nicer than they really are and that doesn ' t just include ' nice guys '. Every group of people gets along with itself , that ' s why its a group . Do you consider your group of friends to have standards above or below average ? If they ' re above average then most women don ' t date as nice guys as you do , and I ' m thinking you don ' t date below average men . I ' m speaking as a guy that ' s known some women who are down on their luck , not someone complaining about the local scene , no offence .