Phil Collins stole my fucking dog . <| sep |> You can build a shed and put heatair in it for a pretty good price . I have a small house so that ' s how I got my man cave . <| sep |> Cheers mate , I used what you said tonight and its fair to say I reckon it went very well . Thanks for the help mate <| sep |> Hope you find that one day <| sep |> ok , I see where your concerns arise . it sounds to me like you ' re at the edge of the proverbial cliff . the first thing you need to do is get more involved socially . from the way you worded this I assume you ' re going to college . or at least in the last years of high school . Join some clubs . chat with random people . just interact . The more you do the better you will get . I used to be so incredibly shy and withdrawn that I wouldn ' t talk to anybody but my parents for weeks . then came late highschool and I forcefully broke down that barrier . there was a day where I gave a hug to literally every person in the school . it may feel awkward . it may feel uncomfortable . you WILL mess up . but the thing to remember is to mess up like you meant to do it . this is exactly what I did . and now my friends regard me as one of the most outgoing and charismatic people in our group . then number two . if you like a girl . ASK HER OUT . don ' t mess around . now this doesn ' t mean to just walk up to every decent looking girl and ask them out . start up a conversation and build up some rapport first . and if she says no . move on . and if she wants to go as just friends use that as social leverage . the best way to meet somebody is through mutual friends .