I ' m doing fine . Hopefully you start feeling the effects of the 6 MP ! <| sep |> Yes , it ' s too idealistic . You need to work on yourself , by yourself , and he needs to do the same , both with professional help . This is not normal and you two should have no contact with one another whatsoever . If it got this bad , it ' s because it wasn ' t that good . You probably had great chemistry and a lot of fun when things were good , which is making you think he ' s the one . But that ' s seriously just chemistry , and you can find that with other people trust me , it feels super special and unique right now , but almost everyone has felt that way , often with lots of different people . You did not treat each other well . You were bad partners . You both need counseling . And you need to separate yourselves entirely from each other .