You have to go where the men are . That could be an app but it could also be a bar , a sports team , a gaming group anything that brings together gay men . What won ' t work is hoping to meet someone at the supermarket or in class . It just doesn ' t work that way for us since we ' re too few . <| sep |> are you sure the maze logo is not visible on the coffins that are in the trains , in all shots , those with William and those without ? I recall checking for this and thought it was visible , or at least there is a carving in the same spot where the maze carving is otherwise clearly shown . I have my doubts about the maze being Ford ' s idea . Principally , bc it seems the show is pointing us toward Arnold and Dolores discussing the maze , not Bernard and Dolores . The little girl did you find what you were looking for Dolores ? early days . Also , in E 6 Ford seems surprised to see maze carved into a table . He then goes home , and opens Arnolds notebook to find image of the maze , a strong indication to me he is not planning this maze thing .