This does not look like lolita at all . More towards the '' steampunk '' direction . You can totally wear corsets with lolita though . Some examples are the queens coach skirt from AATP which i personally own . Or '' Vampire reqiuem '' skirt also from AATP . However when coording corsets you need to balance the outfit out and often it looks better if its actually sewn into a skirtdress . Some brands also release mini corsets that are just for the waist and i ' ve seen some goths coord them with gothic lolita . Also i would suggest the tumblr blog '' lolita tips '' guide to beginners . Read up on what defines lolita as a style in general . <| sep |> I think you are looking for oxymoron . I ' m not sure if this is a good example , it assumes that chocolate is by definition brown .