Ah ce mme monde ou la plupart des trafiquants sont noirs et arabes et o l ' on s ' tonne qu ' un wesh se fait plus souvent contrler qu ' un CharlesHenri ? Non mais franchement . <| sep |> Might as well just not be on the internet with that logic . What you could do instead is accept that sometimes you see things you don ' t like , block the new thing , and move on with your day . <| sep |> It looks like he ' s dealing with a lot right now , and he ' s doing it the best he can . You ' ve been in touch with him and he HAS responded to you maybe not as much as you ' d like . All you can do is let him know you ' re there , which you have done in various ways , and hope for the best . Maybe send him one more message , asking to go for a cup of coffee , or to go to a film . If he isn ' t ready yet , then it should be up to him to make the next move . If you keep badgering him , it might not help either . Let him know you ' ll be silent and you ' re waiting for him to be ready and reach out .