Trade it while holding a prism scale <| sep |> I appreciate your feedback . I think you have an interesting way to look at it . But here ' s the thing . I don ' t mind her spending time with family . In fact , I highly supported the idea of staying at her Uncle ' s place . During a vacation together , you try to include the other person as much as you can . Imagine you go to a foreign place and your spouse goes , peace out , and kind of leaves you behind . My thinking is yes , spend time with your cousin . If it were a couple hours of gossipingtalking , I ' m totally cool with that . But when it ' s 57 to the whole day . It becomes a little unbearable . I don ' t think you should neglect your spouse and the plans that were made . I ' m definitely not glued to the wife but I do agree with you 100 percent , going to Pakistan I was very dependent on her and that was my biggest mistake . Thanks for the insight .