My day consists of cleaning my apartment , going to work , coming home late and unwinding by getting caught up on Netflixvideo gamescomics . I just don ' t have timemake time to meet people . <| sep |> You ' re raping her every time DThe only times where it ' s not okay to proceed when the other party isn ' t saying no andor fighting back , that I remember , are a they ' re drunk drugged though this is a controversial topic , if you ' re female doing this to a male it seems it ' s okay for some reasonb they ' re mutec they ' re paraplegicd they ' re dead <| sep |> I ' d say you have 2 options 1 Contact your local news station . Once a story like this becomes public , either the police will be forced to help or the news station ' s investigation will help solve the problem if they find to lady . 2 Hire a private investigator . If you have enough information for them to be able to track down the woman , you could confront her .