Yes and being 20 you ' re only beginning your adulthood and are still at some stage of adolescence . Claiming to know what you want for the rest of your life when you have not even physically or mentally stabilized yet makes no sense . But denying all this is what youth is all about . As many creationists learn . When you ' re fighting evolution you ' re gonna have a bad time . In my experience being CF isn ' t obvious . You ' re picking one set of pros and cons over another . If you have no pros to having kids it ' s likely you have not really considered it yet which at 20 is pretty likely . <| sep |> Seriously this should be higher . One of my top 3 . Also I ' m enjoying the Tell me something I don ' t know Podcast <| sep |> Read the post . It isn ' t about the coral , it ' s about being dismissed without any effort on their part .