Today I got a fedora so i ' m an official nerd <| sep |> As I mentioned in my other reply , none of these methods are foolproof . None of them work 100 % of the time . There simply is no way to have sex without the risk of pregnancy short of surgical procedures which often carry their own risks and which many people are unable to afford . what does that matter , though ? There ' s no 100 % safe car , either . The only way to assure you don ' t have a kid is to not get sperm up in dem eggs . Otherwise you are consenting to risk having a child ! Why is rape wrong ? Because it is a violation of a person ' s bodily autonomy . Why is forcing a woman to continue a pregnancy she doesn ' t want wrong ? The exact same reason . No it ' s not , because 2 people are involved here . That ' s like saying , using your analogy , that the man can rape the woman because he wants to use his body one way and another body can ' t get in the way of what he wants to do with his . if that makes sense . Once you create a human life , you are responsible for it . The rape situation , though , I have to admit , is insane . such a gray area . this definitely isn ' t black and white . There have to be some abortions , right ? People can die from complications , people can be raped by their fatherunclehorrible stuff . To me , though , the fact that more black babies were aborted than born in NYC I think it was is very telling . We can ' t have a culture where we have promiscuous sex without any regard for the repercussions