You came to the right place . For me , checking into this site has really helped . You can get a badge on the sidebar I find it helps me when I ' m feeling like I might drink , to see that number and think of the folks here . Seeking answers is a great step . You will find them or make them for yourself . There are many paths to sobriety and none of them are wrong . Some folks trip up and decide to take another path , others hike the same trail without fail . I think the important thing is to keep seeking answers , keep not taking that first sip . That ' s the only drink I need to avoidl the first . Also , in the side bar under books in Annie Grace ' s Naked Mind . I feel like this is totally worth the read . It took me a bit to get into it , but I found it very helpful . Hope to see you here often ! Welcome .