And how is your brilliant sibling expecting you to explain your absencerefusal to attend ? You ' re 14 years old . You ' re not at an age where you really have the autonomy to make decisions like that without a good and valid reason . I have a 14 year old and if she informed me she would not attend her brother ' s wedding so she could take her pal on a date I would be incredibly concerned . <| sep |> I found some information from the Vivaldi community forums extensions 9 You could try to see if it ' ll work without the extension . I think it ' s worth a shot ! <| sep |> 1 . What ' s the interest rate on your private loan ? You ' ll probably want to pay that off first . 2 . Everyone with a Pharm D , but you ' ll be OK . Other people have similar debts if you compare their student loans to their incomes .