It is an odd and difficult thing to recognize the complex humanity of another person without projecting one ' s own perspective onto it . We easily forget that we are as much supporting characters to someone else ' s life as they are to ours , and that our thoughts and motivations are independent of one another . This doesn ' t justify the uglier facets of daily life or erasure of who you are . I ' m glad you ' ve found understanding of yourself , and hope you continue to explore it . I hope those around you do the same and seek to find understanding of you rather than project their own . Sooner than 2200 would be good for all of us , I think . <| sep |> I totally forgot to check if the Grimer has ShadowSneak , please check it .