While the general description of Unitarian Universalism includes discussion of spirituality and such , the congregations at different locations vary pretty wildly . The church my wife and kids attend in our area north metro is almost entirely comprised of humanists , and there ' s little in the way of the usual churchy stuff outside of comparative discussions Buddhists believe X , Sikhs believe Y , etc . The services are structured much like a Lutheran church as that ' s what UU branched off of , just take the god stuff out and insert conversations on social issues instead . In our local church there ' s a Sunday schoolstyle option for kids , this year the theme is Dr Seuss as many of his stories have a humanist bent , last year was based on Harry Potter . The social and community thing is pretty heavy at UU churches I keep using quotes as the one by me calls itself a society instead , and many of the members get their hackles up when the place is called a church . They have monthly potlucks , gatherings to celebrate weddings and mourn deaths , etc . I ' d say a lot of the members that attend weekly do so as much for the coffee and snacks social time after the service as they do for the service itself . If the word spirituality gives you the galloping eyerolls , you may be thinking of crystals and auras , but it ' s not that at all . It ' s more about finding what ' s important to you as a human going through life . If you are willing to say the general area you ' re moving to , I could probably recommend a few nearby UU locations that you could check out .