Gonna take a crack at thisThe AMWW couple is based in more healthy , natural notions of why people should form relationships . Most likely neither racial ' side ' was implied to be inherently inferior to the other , and as a result the children have a positive impression of both of their parents . The WMAW relationship is grounded in and affirms the perceived supremacy of White males and Whiteness in general . It ' s an unequal power dynamic where the mother defers to the father because of his race . Hell , it ' s likely that being white was the only criteria needed for her to start a relationship with him . Needless to say this will be reflected in their home life and parentage . Kids are not stupid and will pick up on these sorts of things , and view the mother as being of an inferior , more ugly race . Hence the completely ruthless comments .