Pics or it didnt happen . But also , has she shown interest in combat sports , martial arts or self defense of any sort ? If not , why try to convince her to do bjj if she ' s already physically fit and so probably already has her own fitness regime or sport going on ? <| sep |> Don ' t get the idea in your head that you ' re so special that shit only happens to you . Plenty of people had kids they didn ' t get along with growing up , too . You ' re not special in that regard so spare me the excuses . Most people had someone in their lives they considered a bully , but that doesn ' t mean we relentlessly stalk them and keep up with every minute detail in their lives long after the school days have ended because that ' s fucking creepy . That you were bullied in the past and maybe still bothered by it has NOTHING to do with your current behavior being so obsessed with this person even after leaving school . Quit being obsessed with this person . Let . It . Go . There would be nothing about her to vent about if you weren ' t so obsessed with her life . You ' re here venting about past bullying , but mostly you ' re here to gossip about all the dirt you ' ve uncovered that has nothing to do with anything . The level of detail shows some serious obsession .