I ' m not entirely sure I ' d want to try to talk it over , but he ' s obviously got it completely wrong . Maybe he ' s just super scared and trying to shelter himself . Maybe . The only people who can break a relationship are in that relationship . No third party can do that . He has to , or you have to . So , you can ask him whether he cheats when he gets attention . If he doesn ' t , lead him to the thought that he is deciding not to cheat . Then turn that around to illustrate the same applies to you . You make the decision , not whoever finds you attractive . If he gets it and still insists it ' s gonna happen , then the simple fact is that he doesn ' t trust you . And that ' s not gonna be a good relationship . <| sep |> Come on Duke