for Tom Jones to stick it in someone <| sep |> Why bother moving to Civ 4 if he still likes playing Civ 3 ? <| sep |> Thanks for the advice ! I know my weightloss will come through diet , so I should probably focus on that . I thought about doing a reward thing lose 10 lbs , treat myself to a fitbit . <| sep |> The problem is time wasting . Many girls would gladly be entertained by a text conversation even though they have no intentions of meeting in person . So guys will waste hours texting or messaging on Tinder before asking for a date only to get flaked on or ghosted . Also , guys have trouble discerning between a quality text conversation and needy behavior . Some girls have better things to do all day than text a guy they barely know , if you respond 2 minutes after they take hours or if you double text , you ' re demonstrating needy behavior . This can be avoided by only texting for logistics . This also provides the benefit of Cat String Theory . You seem more unavailable by not texting too often . I find that after you have sex , you can pretty much text whatever and whenever you want . But the girl is playing the game just as much as you are before then , and I think they ' re better at it when it comes to texting .