He ' s actually not <| sep |> I can drink mine <| sep |> People at school <| sep |> Seriously mods if the community runs the sub , then the community wants to ban this partisan dolt and everyone like him from either side . Please do as we wish . Signed , The Community <| sep |> When i was in my early 20 s I probably got flaked on 50 % of them time . I thought something was wrong with me . Id always beat myself up trying to figure out why they would flake at the very last second . and then after a while you just get used to it and honestly come to except it . So you know what I did ? I started to plan multiple dates and hangouts with different girls because I had so many flakes . Sometimes both or all 3 dates would flake . Ive had my Friday , Saturday and Sunday girls flake all back to back . I think in the last 8 years of scheduling multiple girls for the same night I had to make a choice and flake on one maybe once or twice and it felt great .