This is great . R . I . P Mr . Nimoy . Live Long and Prosper <| sep |> Especially when they ' re none of that low fat meme nonsense <| sep |> Haha , I feel like everyone has a different opinion on what sex is . I would agree that fingering counts , but the woman I dated really convinced me that it ' s oral , especially because it was being withheld . <| sep |> That isn ' t treason . <| sep |> maybe one of the saleens ? <| sep |> I really agree with the other comment here . If someone has clear ill or selfish intentions , it is nearly impossible for me to forgive them . I ' m truly a very forgiving person , I simply choose to never forget the wrongs people have dealt to me so I may learn from them and judge their future behavior accordingly . Forgiving someone is the most difficult thing you can ever do . There are people I have still not forgiven who have wronged my nowdeceased family , and not me directly . On the other hand , I have forgiven my abusive ex for hitting me and emotionally manipulating me . Forgive what you can and what you feel is right , and don ' t stress over what you cannot forgive . There ' s no definitive line as to what should be forgivable and what shouldn ' t , it ' s going to vary from person to person . Just do your best and let time handle the rest .