Immigration would be a Tory killer , but noone wants to risk pissing off the UN . <| sep |> My coldest winter was a summer in san francisco . <| sep |> Yeah well , since you moved in his life has become more tolerable you ' re taking the brunt of his mother ' s narcissism . You ' re his meat shield . He ' s probably not even conscious of it . Stop . Caring . She is beneath you . So stop caring what she says . Stop listening when she talks . Ignore her . If she follows you and deathglares , there is nothing that would irk her more if you just continued doing what you ' re doing and ignored her . She does all of this to get a rise out of you , to feed her ego . If she can affect you she has worth , in her mind . What ' s the worst that can happen ? She kicks you out ? Oh no , then you ' ll have to move and then SO will have to make a choice . Maybe she ' ll kick you both out . How terrible ! When you ' re alone and she ' s being a bitch just be a bitch back . My husband left me ! you Maybe its because you ' re a bitch . Put her down . Watch the meltdown . Get a lock on your door . If she tries to kick you out do not go . As a tenant , which you are , you have rights , and one of those is that she is required to give you notice . You have to have my grandsons circumcised ! you What makes you think you ' re ever going to see my children ? If SO complains , well , its of his own making as he ' s forcing you to live with his mother , even knowing she ' s a bitch . Give back to her what she gives to you . Stop . Caring . Just stop .