I ' m a gay female and I used to know another lesbian who would systematically target other women who were smaller than she was and in vulnerable situations . She ' d flatter them , but then two drinks , and then roofie them on the third drink . People don ' t realise that lesbians are in the highest percentile for volatile and abusive relationships , but because it ' s two girls they ' re not seen as being threatening . I ' m terribly sorry this happened to you . No one deserves to be used that way no matter who the perpetrator is or who the victim is . <| sep |> Went down the stairs to the basement and got scratched by a loose metal wire on my back . The wound was skin deep , but it left behind a somewhat lengthy line you can barely see in parts . Not really impressive , but it ' s the largest one .