do they announce via twitter , and is it just weight towards certain players or is it increased pack weight in general , higher chance at IF etc . ? Thank you , thats how I remembered it but just double checking . <| sep |> The pain of rejection is less than the pain of regret . Do it . The worst case scenario won ' t matter very soon . Plus part of being a guy is getting rejected a lot . Get some good rejections under your belt early . Not saying she definitely will reject you just pointing out the worst case scenario is not bad at all even if it doesn ' t seem like it now . So either 1 . She says yes . Great ! 2 . She says no . No biggie . Approach it like this you ' re awesome and a prize to be won . Dating you would be awesome for her . Have the mindset that you could walk away from this and be cool , because you will . If she says no , be the absolute coolest guy ever about it . Smile , say something like Okay ! Just wanted to ask . We ' re still friends right ? And then behave as such . Treat her the same , be kind and move on . Don ' t bring it up , hang out and just treat it like a small bump in the road . Because that ' s what it is . Not worth agonizing over , plus agonizing over it makes everything worse . You ' re cool and bigger than that . There ' s a chance she may come around when she sees that level of maturity , but trust me just assume she won ' t . You need to be the bigger guy and make sure that friendship isn ' t lost . YOU DON ' T WANT HER TO FEEL BAD ABOUT REJECTING YOU . On the off chance that people give you shit for it , realize it ' s about them not you . Don ' t let them see you sweat . Maybe even laugh with them . Simply stay frosty and kind and be like oh yeah , I asked and she said no . Oh well ! We ' re still friends , no biggie . The best part about this is that it ' s true . You have nothing really to lose here . Go for it . Stay frosty . You ' re great . Think about what it ' s like for her , so no pressure on either of you . Good luck , young padawan . EDIT Another note . Be willing to take your time and let this relationship grow . It can ' t be forced . That song by George Harrison set on you ? Listen to that . Patience and time . Ask her about the things she ' s doing , be interested . LISTEN . She ' s not a prize to be won but a person you want to grow closer to . She ' s seen you in some embarrassing situations ? Cool . Take the time to let her see how much you ' ve grown . If you haven ' t noticed most of this is about you being happier with you . Everyone says be yourself . They forget to say find yourself and be comfortable in that first . I ' m like really invested in this working out for you now .