Hello good sir , I ' m here to ask for advice , I ' m 874 , I sim at around 390 k but on Ursoc and training dummy I can ' seem to go higher than 310 k , I have trouble having a good uptime on SR and MF and using BT with Rip and Rake <| sep |> Now I wish we had something other than Waffle batter to mix up . Our cinnamon rolls are great , but we ' ve got a perilously low stock of them so I didn ' t feel right indulging today <| sep |> The point is in a paid one you end up having much less cleaning to do . <| sep |> I agree with ThumpaMonsta , if you let your insecurity show then he may also start to feel this way too , but if you ' re honest about it or try to power through this anxiety , then that shows your own confidence too . Besides , I definitely think opposites attract . When I was shy I loved the guy to be confident and take the lead . Now that I ' ve gotten more confident , I like shy guys who compliment me with their differences . Your partner likes you , and as long as you ' re both happy , I wouldn ' t say there ' s much need to worry