Ended up waiting a few hours after finishing the quest to sync it with reset <| sep |> Thanks for this post ! I ' m a little confused as I put $ 117 on my YOYBuy account but didn ' t withdraw it when I cancelled my order . I ' ve emailed them explaining the dilemma and now we will wait . I ' m slightly paranoid as there ' s a few posts claiming YOYBuy is suspect <| sep |> I get it . I agree with everything people are saying , and it doesn ' t seem like there ' s any reason for you two to combine finances at this point . The 4060 proportional split is very fair , in fact , truly more than fair if you think about . You don ' t get that with just a roommate . But , I think I understand how you feel . Does it make you feel like he doesn ' t see you two as a forever item ? While there ' s absolutely nothing wrong with it , the constant tallying of costs makes everything seem really transactional . And like he ' s always keeping score . But , money is a big deal . And you both have different approaches to handling it . You said you ' ve talked about how you ' d combine money if you marry . How did that go ? Did you come to a resolution you can both agree on ? That truly might have to suffice until the time comes .