I don ' t like calling it a trick but look you always know exactly what you want . The only reason you don ' t even get a chance is because you are thinking to much about it . If you see a girl you find attractive and you want to talk to her . Just go . Do it . Stop letting your dreams be dreams . Stop thinking about all the negative stuff . Look if you go to a girl and tell her she is cute she will like it . If she doesn ' t want to talk she will send you away but at least you tryed and she most likely won ' t mind that you tryed . See you didn ' t cat call or something . You just honestly expressed an interest In her . That is a good thing . When we are about to die it is the things we didn ' t do that we regret most not the ones we did . Also no reason to feel sorry and if you ever need someone to talk to send me a message .