I am with you there OP , he always was a great contributor here , and BCG was also good though looks wise was showing it ' s age . <| sep |> Ye they have them at those local shops I ' m in SF right now they might not be that common everywhere but you can deffo get them here <| sep |> SEIKO will send you linkscollarspins for free if you call and ask them . However , I happen to have a surplus of these things and will mail you whatever you need for free . I ' d likely be faster than SEIKO . <| sep |> You say that you went only to apologize , then you went home . Not that you went to enjoy the party . And it took you 3 hours to get to that point . The party next door started and Josh wouldn ' t budge . We were expected and he couldn ' t care less . Friends called several times and he always said I ' ll be there in a short while . That should have been your final straw , if you wanted to leave before that . Josh says I ' ll be there in a short while and you should have said OK , cya then and then left by yourself . Instead , you sat around waiting on him even though it was pretty clear from the getgo that he wasn ' t planning on going . And now you blame him for ruining your night when you , as a grown woman , had a million chances to go to the party by yourself .