Walk into a unused classroom and close the door . <| sep |> So is a hoagie with a hinge remaining on the bread an open faced sandwich ? No because that ' s dumb <| sep |> Chiming in here with a couple of points . I want you to consider some of your verbiage . You refer to putting out and giving your virginity to your high school sweetheart , as though having sex is some kind of gift or reward to the man . While I ' m sure this attitude cones from your strict upbringing , I ' d like to point out that sex should be mutually desired , agreed upon , and enjoyable . You didn ' t give that guy your virginity . Does he keep it in a safe deposit box somewhere ? Yes , he was your first , but again , having your first experience shouldn ' t be considered some sort of gift to the man . Have sex with a man when you want to , for you , not because of any sort of expectation . It should be a gift to yourself , if anything .