Stick to your day job <| sep |> Well I did , But in my defense I was nine . <| sep |> Marry rich is your only hope . lolHopefully your income will increase as you get older to cover their needs as well as your own . <| sep |> It doesn ' t . It ' s just the victimcomplex rightwingers who thinks it does . <| sep |> For those who want to argue with doubters , I ' ve found a car accident analogy makes sense to people . No one says don ' t wear a seatbelt . Your best safety measure is to drive safely , defensively , be aware if your surroundings , etc . Accidents can happen to anyone no matter how careful they are . Some accidents will be survived even without the seatbelt . Some will kill you even if you are wearing one . That is irrelevant , what matters is that your chances of survival go up if you wear the seatbelt . If you take a random 130 pound woman and give her the skills and fitness of an average blue belt , her chances of stopping an assualt go up significantly . Can she stop an attack from a 220 pound college wrestler or a black belt ? Probably not , but that is the head on collision with an 18 wheeler of our analogy . Each increase in skill from blue to black is like an added safety measure in you car lap belt , shoulder belt , front airbag , side airbag , etc . With each one , there is a potential situation that you now will survive . Imagine some of the crazy accidents you see race car drivers walk away from . You see a car flip in the air , roll a few times , then burst into flames . Those drivers have double shoulder harnesses , flame proof suits , helmets , and roll cages so it usually takes a major accident to kill them . This is where someone like Dern fits into the analogy . You can kill her but it won ' t be easy . Just some random thoughts .