It is bizarre how fast it ' s moved isn ' t it ? From the mtbs 3 d days , which seem like last week pretty much , to finding myself at work today , in a Hong Kong cafe watching a couple pass a gear VR between themselves sharing some pics or a video , and having a blast . and most strikingly , this being a completely normal thing to do . It ' s pretty mindblowing when you take a step back and see how far this has come . <| sep |> Time for what it ' s passed mate , it ' s done . <| sep |> 1 . I was unclear . I ' m never allowed to be alone with my boss where no one could disturb us , niddah or not . Its from a separate prohibition . Niddah is relevant with my husband , specifically . 2 . Some people shake , some people apologize for the rudeness . 3 . The halachic literature on homosexuality is very sparse . I agree that it ' s surprising . There are a lot of topics relevant nowadays that we have so little written about . Times were very different , once .