This advice may be coming a bit late , but never sit and suffer silently when you know what it is you want . Text your partners and say hey , it ' s Thanksgiving , I kinda had an expectation of spending time with my family instead of alone , is there anything you can do ? and give them the opportunity to do something about it . Otherwise you ' re going to grow resentment at them for a thing that they ' re thinking you consented to . <| sep |> I feel slippery for the rest of the day <| sep |> BrickFoleyIf you want to play Gears or Siege add me . I like talking shit and cracking jokes . <| sep |> This kind of shit is exactly how they ' re gonna destroy evidence and just move away <| sep |> That made me want to stab myself in the face .