The patron saint of Cultural Appropriation . Given what it was she was holding on to , things from other cultures , that ' s actually dead on . <| sep |> Bullshit . Lucky ? I worked my ass of to get where I was and unlike the guy in your story , I have attacked and conquered my insecurities , my quirks and my depressions . I have worked my ass off to leave all the shit of my life behind and move out of the victim role that this individual so masterfully portrays . I am the one who has the choice how to live my life and anyone who says that they don ' t and call others lucky should seriously consider their on point on view of life . I refuse to be called lucky cause you and others are too weak to challenge yourself further than asking others to either sedate you or to comfort you that this is not your fault . I am utterly disgusted by that attitude and will not accept such failures to call others lucky . Everyone in this world has a choice to either take control of their lives , or to be a puppet of other peoples choices . I have continuously and purposely stepped out of my comfort zone on a daily basis , cause I wanted to be develop myself and be a better me . I have faced my fears and insecurities cause I did not want these fears and insecurities to define me . And here is this weakass guy , who hasn ' t stepped out of his comfort zone once , calling me lucky ? Fuck that . if he would have gotten out of his comfort zone and had aimed to change himself for the better , he wouldn ' t be such a pathetic excuse of a human being right now . Talking about triggered , arguments and reasoning as such piss me off as its a choice , an attitude .