Seriously asking , I thought abayas were womens clothes ? This doesnt look like the abayas Ive seen before . Can you elaborate on what it is and the significance of it for men ? <| sep |> I ' m an outlier here . I didn ' t go to college right out of high school . I waited a couple decades . I was a raging alcoholic in the years between , which I don ' t recommend to anybody as a way to spend the decades between high school and college LOLI went back to school right after I got sober and I got involved in a relationship around the same time 😲 So I will have to say don ' t make too many big changes all at once . Wait til you get to college and see what you actually NEED . See what others wear , what ' s trendy there if being trendy matters to you , that is . A lot of the people I went to college with were straight out of high school , and wore the same stuff they did in high school , or they went even more casual and showed up to class in pj pants and a Tshirt . I kept doing my thing with the dressy clothes I had been wearing all along , because I couldn ' t afford to go out and buy a bunch of new stuff just to wear PJ pants to class LOL or I wore my ' work uniform ' of showblacks because stagehands wear a lot of black clothes and black work boots . The big transition for your wardrobe will likely need to occur as you ' re getting ready to transition to life after college . Internships , job interviews , clinical hours , and so onthese are the things that will help you decide what to transition TO . Good luck at college !