I ' ll send you a message <| sep |> It will likely be fully confirmed now seeing as you ' re having an anal abscessfistula . Maybe the doc can lance it and let it drain and give you antibiotics , and sometimes they heal on their own that way , or you can get on Remicade which heals fistulas . Good luck bud a lot of us have been there and it ' s a supremely bad feeling but it will get better and you ' ll be normal again sooner than it seems now . I know that hard feeling part , I had it in my abdomen once and it was an abscess under the muscles , so at least yours is in your butt instead of the front where it could do worse things to you . <| sep |> But how do we know it was them ? <| sep |> Thats exactly my point , most of these articles adress the same thing , that empolyer discrimination doesn ' t cause the wage gap . Yet they claim that this means the wage gap doesn ' t exist . It ' s paradoxical , but thats capitalist journalism for ya .