I feel like this must be done , because you did it once , there ' s a possibility you could do it again . You ruined a perfectly good relationship with a girl you loved and a girl who loved you , because of a few hours apart and outside opinions from friends . This is all your fault , don ' t blame your friends , don ' t blame anything except yourself . You ' ve done an incredibly stupid mistake , that has ruined an amazing relationship Added amazing to make you feel guiltier , don ' t know if it ' s actually amazing and you might never get such a good relationship in the futur . Funny how the few words you ' ve said to her might ruin you for a few monthsyears . So , I hope I got my point across , sorry for being rude . Now , I honestly think you ' ve ruined your relationship , but you might still have a chance of getting it back on tracks , I ' ll help you out . 1 . You bring all her stuff to your meeting spot , shows her that you will accept whatever decision she makes . 2 . Bring some flowers if she likes those , they have to be white They don ' t really have to be white , but in my opinion , white sends your message across , unlike red . Don ' t buy anything else for her , you ' re not buying her back , you ' re asking for forgiveness and a second chance . 3 . Don ' t plead for forgiveness , don ' t get on your knees and ask for a second chance . 4 . Don ' t kiss herhug her . No physical contact until you know she forgives you . You ' ve fucked up big time , physical contact will just make you look bad . 5 . Don ' t mention how you feel like your life will turn to shit if you don ' t get back together , and that you ' ll end up being depressed , unless you start crying . If you have a few tears , you feel like talking is getting harder and your voice is starting to break , tell her all about how your life will be shit without her , normally , you ' ll be crying a lot while telling her those , your true feelings will be apparent . It adds honesty . I ' ll be completely honest with you , when I comment on this sub , I don ' t usually give real tips . I feel that you should be able to make a decision by yourself , I ' ll just explain what will happen after they make a certain decision . But , in your case , I feel like it was an honest fuck up . Best of luck . P . S Sorry for the incredibly long post . EDIT Mind PM ' ing me after your meetings and the end result ?