Except regulations themselves aren ' t lax in China . Hahahaha , sure . Regulations aren ' t shit if they aren ' t enforced . <| sep |> Is this what democracy feels like ? <| sep |> Ask her why it ' s so important ? Ask if she ' d still love you if you were infertile , or also gay ? Remind her that life ' s really short and that you really have to focus on what you have now . After all , some people get to have grandchildren and then outlive them . Your mother has children who love her , and that IS something and it DOES matter . Maybe she expected more , maybe she feels like she ' s failed as a mother if that branch of the family tree stops , but hopefully she can be helped to see that she ' s done fine . <| sep |> What about using it for findreplace in your code editor ?