I ' m a masochist and can be bratty at times . Definitely something that works on me is denial of things I like . She may be bratty because she is seeking more pain , so teach her that if she wants more pain she ' ll have to be a good girl and may have to beg for it . Take away a toy she loves , especially a painful one , for a time . no flogger for a week now . <| sep |> It is interesting to see all the Hillary supporters who completely dismissed Bernie supporters when they complained about the superdelegates system and told them Bernie knew the system when he decided to run now up in arms about the Electoral college . I ' m pretty sure Hillary knew about the electoral college when she decided to run . Her campaign focused on nonsense like celebrity endorsements which almost no one cares about outside of California . It gave them a massive lead in california but it does not matter how great your lead is you get the same amount of electoral college votes if you won by a single vote in California . It was a complete waste of time and resources to build that lead in California . Drop California from the popular vote tally and she actually lost the popular vote pretty badly .