Yeah , I seem to work in the one building that still has power . But slightly concerned that we ' re going to lose it , so sitting this one out in case I need to start powering off servers etc . I want to go home . <| sep |> This should be at the top , I don ' t know why it isn ' t . It ' s easy for everyone to scream cut him from your life . While I understand the feeling and the anger it ' s not the best choice . What happened to being the bigger person ? I ' m not saying it ' s easy but like said above , it ' s a biological survival mechanism and it ' s really difficult to ignore . Besides while I agree this is an asshole thing to do and I ' ve dealt with similar things , like my mom throwing my presents away one year at Christmas because I don ' t believe in god , it ' s a little much . I agree that you should fight to make it work . It sounds like you love your father very much , otherwise his words and actions wouldn ' t cut so deep . That ' s something that a lot of people don ' t have , fight for it . Maybe your father just has a lack of understanding or lack of viewpoint . It ' s worth trying .