Thank you ! It was such a fun fight , I have no regrets about pushing myself to finish it . <| sep |> This is the way I feel my situation will work out for me as well . It ' s been two months and already am moving on . My story is very similar . You did your part . She will find someone eventually . I too would be very hesitant . Remember that your decision of not being with her will also be good for her in the long run , she may not see it now . I wish you the best of luck . I <| sep |> Ok . here ' s a northern Arizona road trip to complete over a few days . Start at Hoover Dam . After taking that in , go down to Kingman . From Kingman you can head east on the longest stretch of original Route 66 left in existence . Stop at Grand Canyon Caverns . The tours have gotten a bit pricy but it ' s a neat place . After the caverns continue East on old 66 . When passing through Seligman , if the old Snow Cap Drive Inn is still open , stop there . Continue east on I 40 . When you get to Williams , take Arizona 64 north to the Grand Canyon . If you like , stop by and check out Bedrock City amusement park there ' s not much going there but you can walk through it and check out a piece of old roadside Americana . I think it ' s $ 5 admission . Visit the Grand Canyon , making sure to check out the west rim drive viewpoints , and then take the east rim drive out of the park to Cameron plenty more viewpoints . You might find a frybread stand there , depending on the whims of the locals . At this point you have two choices . One is to head north to Page , where you can check out Glen Canyon Dam and Lake Powell it ' s about 80 miles north of Cameron . Or you can skip that side trip and go straight to Flagstaff . From Flagstaff , it depends what you want to do . You can go see Petrified ForestPainted Desert which is about an hour and a half east if you do that , get lunch at Joe Aggies in Holbrook and stop at Meteor Crater and take the tour . Or , you can take 89 A south and go see Sedona . After Sedona you can continue south , past Cottonwood and into Jerome . You obviously don ' t have to do this road trip as described , but there ' s a lot of places to check out listed there . How about a southern Arizona road trip ? Start in Tucson . On the south fringe of the city , see San Xavier Mission . It ' s mostly restored and absolutely beautiful . It is still a working church , so occasionally the inside is being used for Mass , but the artwork in there dates back a couple of centuries and was very carefully restored . If you want , grab some frybread outside . After the mission , head south on I 19 . You can stop by the Titan Missile Museum off of I 19 in Green Valley check ahead of time which is a decommissioned Titan II missile silo that you can tour . Keep going south on 19 , and you ' ll come to the artist village of Tubac . It ' s worth a wander . Follow the east side frontage road south out of Tubac , and in a few miles you ' ll come to Tumacacori . This is another mission , but this one is preserved , not restored . It provides a nice contrast with San Xavier since you can see what happens when a church is left to the elements for around 200 years . After you ' re done there , stop by Santa Cruz Chile Spice just across the way if they ' re open . Not too far south on I 19 in Nogales . You could cross into Mexico here , but you need a passport to get back into the US I ' d skip . Take 82 East out of Nogales . You ' ll go through the village of Patagonia , and then Sonoita and the grasslands of the high desert . Stay on 82 east , past the highway 90 intersection , and you ' ll get to Highway 80 just outside Tombstone . You can check out the town there , and then head a half hour south into funky old Bisbee .