You may have missed signs from someone who doesn ' t want to make obvious signs but the issue there is that those signs are ambiguous and could simply be you misinterpreting things . I ' ve noticed obvious signs a couple times China ! blonde hair does most of the work there . Even if you ' re used to years and years of not seeing anything directed your way , odds are you ' ll notice it quick when it happens . <| sep |> The traditionalist conservative virgin woman model works fine , but in constrained groups , generally of a religious origin . Strictly observant , conservative Jews , conservative Muslims , and some Christian groups like the Amish have this model . It works for them . But for most in Western society it cannot work . The reason is that feminism and Leftism have introduced women and immigrants into the national economy , and wages have been driven down . There is no going back , and outside of the limited communities I mentioned , it is not reasonable for a man to support a housewife . The man works like a slave and because of labor saving devices , the woman in the house works hardly at all , even within the household world . Hardly any Western man wants to take up such a traditional way of life . It is too suffocating . MGTOW is a better way to go .