If you are stuck there , then your partner must think of secrecy as the solution , but it sounds like it ' s ruining your day to day life . Instead of trying to push your partner , I would put your foot down , that you are no longer willing to hide and life a double life . Sure , word will get around , maybe to her dad , but it has to sooner or later . Maybe that will get her to face the truth for herself as well . <| sep |> Oh man there is so much going on here . Something about allowing iphones to access petabytes of RAM ? Iphones running on teraflops ? Also terrible punctuation , almost no sentence structure . <| sep |> That is a beautiful dog ! They don ' t need to look aggressive because they can just growl and show you there teeth if someone tries to hurt them .