Damn that is nice . <| sep |> Not the end of life . He is a rich man can afford people to arrange property sale , which is never a problem in NY <| sep |> 60 to 70 gives like 10 k BR <| sep |> Old Walter has two moles on his face . New Walter does not . <| sep |> 8 Acts of Service 8 Quality Time 8 Receiving Gifts 4 Physical Touch 2 Words of AffirmationI know these seem pretty odd for a dead bedroom , and some people say they mean I don ' t even love my husband . The truth is they mean more to me because I rarely get them . We are poor , so I rarely get a gift out of the blue , so when it does happen it means a lot because I know he sacrificed somewhere to get it for me . The same goes for acts of service , he has a disability so the rare times an act of service happens it means a great deal . I spend quality time with him all the time , that is how that got so high . The thing is , though , with physical touch , he does that . We cuddle a lot . That type of touch is what being intimate is to him . Sex , as he says , is just a dirty drive with no intimacy or meaning . That is why he prefers to jerk it and be done with it the few times a month he even has such inclinations . Our thought processes are so different I can ' t even remotely explain to him why that hurts my selfesteem . I actually don ' t like words of affirmation at all , it doesn ' t surprise me it is so low . I have never been able to take a compliment . they are hard for me to take at face value when I can think of a million ways I could have one better .