I ' m thankful for Evan Longoria <| sep |> Well the father in the third family was maimed by a fucking bomb . If you ' re close enough to an explosion to take off both your legs and most of a hand there ' s no way it didn ' t cause brain trauma . I ' m not surprised he has a lot of trouble learning a new language and finding work , Iraq and Syria aren ' t exactly known for quality mental health rehabilitation . So there ' s basically just the mom trying to take care of 5 people and find a job and attend English classes , with her husband alone probably needing full time care . I don ' t think them complaining about it rather than asking people for advise is right either but it ' s not as cut and dry as they ' re just lazy .