Actually I think his family lives across the bay in the crossroads area . <| sep |> this guy does some weird shaking method . Every time I ' ve seen baptisms , it ' s been either sitting in water with some water sprinkled on your head , or full submersion . but not upside down . and certainly not with a fucking baby . <| sep |> Guys , some of these are funny and others are pretty damn racist . Don ' t go down their level <| sep |> Somehow I missed that , whoops <| sep |> Most of these problems autocorrect if you just put yourself out there often enough . Aha , well there ' s something I could call advice . Though it ' s still a bit generic , I think that sentence has way better advice than what shakerattleandcurl wrote . The difference is that you talked about the how while she only talked about the what . But at least to me the what is aready obvious . It ' s the how that gives me trouble . Though I will say that your first two paragraphs are not really helpful . If you can ' t act cool and confident then learn to be cool and confident . Oh really ?