Some of the facts are stupidly obvious . I think I ' ve found some people mentioning this particular fact , and as well as the BernardArnold person is wearing clothes completely different than what we usually see him wears . But for me , there are so many cluessigns that reveal so much of what ' s going on , that the only thing left is to just finally say it . <| sep |> You ' ll love it . Nuff said . <| sep |> I always love this kind of nonsense . I ' m descended from both European and American Indian stock . So , do I get a happy Thanksgiving or no ? <| sep |> I totally get that . I guess the key is to figure out what you have control over vice what you cannot control and focus on that . You cannot take away his misery . Repeat that to yourself as you need to . Only he can do that . His problems and unhappiness at work and life are bigger than you . Focus on doing what you can but leave the rest behind . Do your best and be okay with that . I ' m not sure if that helps you , but I hope it gives you a realistic sense of your role .