am a black person and I agree with this statement , also this us amd them mentality is wrong , what happened to we are all human beings and when one of us is hurting . <| sep |> Ugh , me too . What ' s this 8 AM business ? That ' s not binging time ! <| sep |> And another great tidbit about CT , exemplified by this comment , is that people like to complain endlessly about living in CT while living here Bethel is a nice small town , there bars and stuff like that but no major museums or anything . Ridgefield is about the same , just a bit more affluent . Norwalk is becoming a bit more of a city , lots of apartments being built , younger crowd moving into sono . The general traffic flows south in the morning and north at night , so if you can go reverse of that the commute will be less frustrating . Definitely do research about neighborhoods in any large cities , even just going to google maps and looking around should give you and idea of the neighborhood . definitely bring your car , it really opens up a whole world of possibilities . Most of the charm of CT are the small hidden spots scattered across the state that are off the beaten path so public transit wont get you there . Good luck !