Yeah , people ask me to help them lose weight . Maybe this is why . <| sep |> I just checked all the Weiss posts for the last month and I didn ' t find this image . So yeah , I don ' t know . <| sep |> I had very low expectations for today , and I ended up being pleasantly surprised . It was my first holiday away from home as well as my first holiday without her in two years . It ' s crazy how much a few good friends can keep you grounded . For the first time I felt like I ' m capable of functioning without her . <| sep |> It ' s the fact that she ' s seen her mother have the same cycle . Are you missing the fact where he is deliberately tearing down her self esteem ? That she ' s going out with friends but he just wants her to stay in all the time ? Partners can do things independently and quite frankly even if he had concerns he went about them like a douche there is no excuse for being that cruel .