Wouldn ' t that be a reason for people to consider prebirth life ? <| sep |> Oh , you remember , back in the 50 ' s , when white men were free to refuse employment , housing , and service to anyone they wanted to , and didn ' t have to use the same restaurants , bathrooms , and water coolers as those nasty other people , you know , the good ole days . Source Am old white man . <| sep |> Well if the servers are willing to work for 2 $ an hour plus tips then why not let them ? Honestly it seems to usually work out , all of my friends who are servers make WAY more then i do . <| sep |> OMELETTE AU FROMAGE SCREW YOU DEXTER <| sep |> oh sorry I ' ll finish it . And . having a clear diagnosis really helped me . I wasn ' t hurt or sad by it , I was relieved to know . I always knew something was severely wrong and it wasn ' t just depression . Having a diagnosis enabled me to get help that was specific to my problem . It ' s really hard to get past that first hill . I hope your mother eventually sees that things can change and that she has the power to create that change .