Holding out hope . Been an hour now , still nothing . Have the $ 0 . 10 test charge plus the full order charge on my CC . Probably gonna have to hold this L . <| sep |> Even more ironic is that it IS their land thanks to the Treaty of Fort Laramie in 18511851 <| sep |> That ' s a tough situation . Honestly there may not be much you can do other than get to Al Anon . If he does want to perhaps talk to someone from AA , an experienced Al Anon might have some contact with some good AA members that might be willing to do a 12 step call to tell him how they recovered . As far as treatment is concerned contact your local council on drug and alcohol abuse google can probably help with the contact info they may be able to point you towards a state funded treatment center . Worst case , you could take him to the hospital for a supervised detox . in my town they dry you out over 72 hours and then the social worker provides information on treatment . But in the end , you ' re pretty powerless if he doesn ' t want help . It has to become his idea ! !! I ' m the meantime , please save yourself I ' ll be praying for y ' all .