I ask because I care . <| sep |> I don ' t think people were worried about whether or not he has the ability , but they ' re worried about the fact that he actually abused that ability . <| sep |> Forest green looper saffron vortex <| sep |> I subbed to many , but I ' ve abandoning some . I upvote comments that I find good or anyone talking to me . Usually I downvote wrong stuff , people being assholes , I ' m sure I will be downvoted but extremely popular opinion . I usually don ' t downvote in cc , this place is calm and nice . <| sep |> I dated and lived with a girl for two years who was like the OP ' s girlfriend . The longer I stayed with her the more resentful I became . I finally had enough of the onesided nature of the relationship and moved on . We had been compatible in every aspect of our relationship except sexually but that became a deal breaker . I would like to say I immediately found someone else with whom I was as compatible in our day to day life as I had been but it took a couple of years to find someone else . I eventually did find someone and it was worth the effort . My advice is not to try and change the girl you are with because if she doesn ' t enjoy those things , and does them just to please you , then she will eventually resent doing them , and you for making her do them and I said making her because that is the way she will see it . It ' s time to take a bold step for your own happiness , and look for someone with whom you are truly compatible .