People without situational awareness piss me off to no end . For example if you ' re in the quiet car on the train and people are clearly sleeping around you , you should not be yelling on the phone . <| sep |> I legit thought I was in rmetalporn <| sep |> Let me ask you something are you arguing against tolerance or that it shouldn ' t be expected ? <| sep |> Two people have said similar things to me , about not loving or missing people who have died . My mum when her parents died I was ten and I loved them so much and my husband when his dad died . Both times it wasn ' t true . Both times they acted surprised when I brought it up later , as though they couldn ' t remember saying it . Maybe it ' s something very griefstricken people tend to lash out with ? It doesn ' t make it hurt any less , though .