I am not impressed . They take a lot of unnecessary risks two abreast through a doorway , bumping into one another , only posing for the camera pretending to be alert but lowering their guns immediately afterwards , walking in front of people pointing their guns , bunching up and not keeping their optimal spacing in dangerous places etc . , communicate badly or not at all and they seem to lack discipline and a clear command structure in the field . <| sep |> At least he works for a living and doesn ' t rely on handouts like Joe cumia and big A <| sep |> Thank you so much for your concern . I ' ll definitely reevaluate this relationship , and find a therapist to discuss this more indepth with . What you said about the condom really resonated with me .