alright give me 1015 minutes to do two trades before yours and breed it <| sep |> Family holiday gatherings are either worth putting up with , or they are not . If they are torturous , as outlined by FAs , then it is probably time to start making different holiday plans . There is no law that says you have to spend the day with your family . Otherwise , you just have to act like an adult and put up with the foibles of your relatives . <| sep |> Did you find the primer ? Are you okay to go ? <| sep |> I couldn ' t disagree more . The goal is to prevent as much crime as possible and by not treating people and placing such a heavy stigma on pedophilia people can ' t get help . You can throw them in prison but they get out in 1015 years with no meaningful employment , no friends or family and no therapy because why try ? That ' s not a way to prevent the harm of children . I have young children and would be devestated if I ever found out something happened , but I want a system and a society that tries it ' s best to prevent it , not a seek and destroy witch hunt that in the end will never fully work .