Man , i feel your pain . I level up to 20 just by vacation and that is so painful . I thought the daughter would at least feel bliss but instead unemployed ! ! failure as a parent <| sep |> Frankly you shouldn ' t really need to give them too much reasoning , just say something along the lines of , I want to thank you again for presenting me this opportunity , would you be able to extend the offer for 1 week so that I can fully consider the role . Something that shows you want more time to think on it and don ' t want to make a rash decision . Also shows thoroughness of thought process on yourself . <| sep |> He was somewhat successfully playing both sides as recently as last week . It must not have completely fallen apart .