blah blah blah I only program for myself . <| sep |> Ah shit . What happened ? <| sep |>' People had sheets of ice hanging off them ' Only the ones who tried to push through the police line , and then stayed in the range of the water cannons . <| sep |> Meteorologicus is very visible at night , during daytime it looks like candy floss <| sep |> Please can you write verify <| sep |> As a fellow introvert who struggles with the pressure that comes from constant social invitations , this would be my advice Compromise between cutting back and sucking it up it doesn ' t have to be all or nothing pick and choose the events that you can either find ways to enjoy drinkingcentric events if you drink , for example or that you know will mean the most to your friends and family that you attend . Do the math how much happiness will you get for making others happy and be realistic sometimes we assume people will be devastated by our absence and force ourselves to attend when really they ' ll survive just fine if you choose to make yourself happy and balance it with how much relaxationhappiness you get from skipping the event . Then , give yourself permission to not attend anything with a net negative effect . Figure out your limits and set your boundaries clearly and then don ' t let others bully or guilt you past them . Give yourself lots of time to recouperaterest alone too I go home for Christmas but find it a lot easier to deal with when I have a way to escape from it all , whether that ' s going for a walk , running to a coffee shop for a few hours or just staying in my room all afternoon only to emerge for dinner . If you ' re planning to travel long distance to a house that ' s going to be packed with people , splurge on staying at a hotel the money spent is worth sanity saved .