Ironically it is pretty clear to me in the gospels that Jesus would have likely been a Bernie supporter . <| sep |> Try spraying vinegar on it and he ' ll eventually learn <| sep |> I ' m actually really fortunate in this regard My family is Christian and his is Buddhist . So he comes with my family to T h anksgivingEasterChristmas , and I travel to his for Chinese New Years . I like the idea of setting the tone as a married couple and doing a Christmas at home with each other , and traveling as a couple from there out . You can do thanksgiving at one and Christmas at the other , or visit one early and the other late while spending Christmas at home , etc . It might take some trial and error to find what works best for both of you , but I ' m sure there ' s a compromise somewhere !