Also just your attitude can make a huge difference . Worked three years at a grocery store and loved it . Pay wasn ' t great but I enjoyed talking to people , making friends , and didn ' t mind the actual job . Actually managed to keep some weight off pushing in carts every day . Looking back , yes the job was crap in general courtesy clerkbag boy but I have so many moments to look back on . <| sep |> Sadly in school helping means give me the answer you asshole because I hate you or I will cut you in your sleepJust because I ask them the questions I asked myself and expect them to think , ah well I guess I ' m an asshole <| sep |> Death can come when you least expect <| sep |> Depends on your demographics . Attractive and live alone in town ? Tinder is great . Like people in their 30 ' s Especially with kids ? NZDating is your scene . Homosexual ? Grindr or Surge .