I ' m sorry , but I think if he was wonderful , he ' d be spending time with you while you ' re out and not giving all of his time to his friend . When I ' m out on a date , I get upset if the woman is on her phone all of the time . If they make a fuss about it , I just tell them if I wanted to date a phone , I ' d use my own . If they continue to do it , I drop them like a hot rock . There ' s too many other women out there to have to deal with one that ' s broken . That ' s the view you should be using with your wonderful guy . No one should have to put up with unacceptable behavior if they can help it . <| sep |> I was having just a shit day and wanted to go home , curl up , and die . As soon as I turned my car on , Comfortably Numb came on and it just made life a lot better for a little while .