Speak for yourself . I often refuse to wear helmets dispite the armor defense that I ' m missing out on . <| sep |> The title does seem rapey as shit . I ' ve known girls who casually wear collar like necklaces that are sort of normal , some who don ' t seem to sexual . Some who are absolute kink freaks , etc . I ' ve put a collar on a girl and she was certainly thinking just about sex while we were fucking around but she was still a human being . The comment that is the title is a real fucking neckbeardy scummy thought . I mean Jesus . It ' s not even , oh yeah wearing that collar like that you must be thinking only about fucking which is questionable sure but falls into the realm of some nasty ass dirty talk that people say and it ' s cool . Why does the title need to feel so detached and descriptive in a non heat of the moment sort of the way ? It ' s fucking weird and gross .