Possibly , but I always imagine that as less voluntary . <| sep |> I am a building inspector that often has to inspect homeless to housing transitional places , most of them would rather live in the streets then in those filthy roach amd vermin infested places . Just provideimg shelter does nothing to change the habits of the chronically homeless . Edit im all about helping but it has to be comprehensive to really help them turn their lives around , they also have to want to be helped <| sep |> samplemaker , right here . This is , basically , a description of what I do and what you ' re looking for . I get a sketch , then , I make whatever is in the sketch among other things . <| sep |> I ' m sorry you ' re having to deal with this . It sounds like she ' s looking for a reaction from you like she gets from everyone else , so yeah I ' d do what you could to not give her one . Good luck .