The only winning move in this war was not to play . <| sep |> It ' s simple if a condom is needed then it could be a deal breaker for the arrangement . No different than requirements for a job . it means that you do not get the job and toy move on to the next opportunity . Some guys want that feeling of intimacy that you cannot get with a condom . If i was into condoms then I would just hire an escort . <| sep |> I ' m confused Modems always used an RJ 11 which was exactly the same as the standard phone cable , just a twisted pair . Occasionally the twisty cable between handset and phone would have a slightly smaller plug , but not the one from the phone to the wall socket or modem to wall socket . Ah Ireland . always tryna be difficult like that .