Just not smoking at all is a good idea . <| sep |> I find this as being harmful to the outcome that your anticipating . He ' s 14 . Don ' t tie something like this to a birthday . Not at that age . Life is going to start sulking for him soon and your just making it happen sooner . My grandparents did this to me and said wait until your 18 and buying a car . We ' ll I gained a whole $ 7 on what they had put in . And then they took it away when I told them I didn ' t want to become a lawyer . <| sep |> Except that what you did was intentionally contract smallpox to prevent the cancer from spreading . <| sep |> read the mod said EXACTLY what i told it was MODS who deleted comments <| sep |> I don ' t know but I am using this strategy first time .