No , she does not get to guilttrip you into doing things her way . It ' s your party . Message her saying , Look , you know I want you there , but it ' s an adult party and I wouldn ' t feel comfortable having a child attending , it ' s just not appropriate . I really hope you can come but you cannot bring the kid and that is not negotiable . It ' s my party and it ' s not going to be a childfriendly environment . And this is just me personally , but I ' d call her out when she tries to guilttrip you . You ' re not a bad person here . Shut down all her bullshit . <| sep |> I personally would not trust Kelly for the remainder of the season . I traded him away simply due to his strength of schedule from now on . If theo plays I ' d start him but even if he doesn ' t , Martin is super solid so it wouldn ' t be a big deal