Your ex showed his true face , be happy about that . No way i ' d go back to such a guy . <| sep |> Are you sure you understand why there are expressions like don ' t dip your pen in company ink ? There is no riskfree solution . Does a potential relationship with Ann outweigh the negatives of an immediate rejection or breakup down the road ? <| sep |> Okay . Have one kid . Enjoy the best of both worlds . But I have seen people with three or more kids arguing that parenting is the best thing in the world . It ' s a God given gift . I know people Buying their kids better things and having nothing for them . I am not totally Child free yet . I am jumping between CF and one kid . Have a few more years to decide . <| sep |> all stocks and no bonds is not a very diversified portfolio