Says who ? Not liking Trump doesn ' t mean I like Hillary . Cut the us vs them team hivemind shit . <| sep |> Why didnt they do an open bid ? My point is nobody is forcing these countries to do this . <| sep |> Great yeah this is the same one I saw . Thank you <| sep |> To backpack on this I ' m going to share my experience . For too long I was the armchair in the room . At first there would be times where they would talk about memories and forget I was there . Understandable because I didn ' t talk much , and didn ' t have any desire too . It was kind of a bummer to be forgotten like that . With time I ' ve learned to talk enough that I have an impact on their lives , but not enough to drain myself . We live far away from each other now , and I am learning to step out of my comfort zone and go downtown to see them . Slowly I ' m fading from their lives , and that ' s ok . But I do miss their friendships , and hope I can muster more strength to step into the extroverted realm and keep my friendships strong . Becoming forgotten can be a huge bummer at times , but working towards stronger bonds with fewer people can be very rewarding .