He ' s way too committed and nice to you . This has turned off your instinctual desire to attract and keep him . Try fantasizing that you are not married to him , that he has other attractive female options and that they frequently make themselves obviously available to him . <| sep |> Most of those states like Montana , Wyoming , South Dakota that you always thought seemed like they were boring as fuck are truly boring as fuck <| sep |> He ' ll just change it then . <| sep |> The teams that win the Stanley Cup have no more skilled lines than any other team . They have such skilled rest of the team that when they play their 4 th line it ' s in the most beneficial situations . Pittsburgh ' s 4 th line isn ' t any more skilled than Toronto ' s is , but their opponents aren ' t as worn out because they aren ' t defending Crosby , Malkin , and Kessel for 50 minutes a game . In the Playoffs everyone blocks shots and plays hard , but good luck getting to the Playoffs with players that don ' t . Toronto doesn ' t have the TopEnd talent that Pittsburgh or San Jose has . When there is very little differential in player skill you are always gonna pick the one who works harder or who is more physical . Giving up shots isn ' t a bad thing if they aren ' t going into your net . I ' m not saying that you don ' t play your 4 th line . I ' m saying you don ' t play your 4 th line if they are just an inferior version of your 3 rd line . In Pittsburgh ' s case they didn ' t have a traditional 3 rd line because of their insane forward depth . In Toronto ' s case you are suggesting they play two 3 rd lines . Why play Holland when you could be playing Matthews or Marner or Kadri or Bozak or anyone else on the team ? Playing skill players just because they are more skilled doesn ' t make your team more skilled .