You can let go of some sexual urgesI can DEFER them but not forever . If you come downstairs at night and feel horny thinking about something while unloading the dishwasher , it shouldn ' t be up to your partner to drop everything and have sex with you . Drop everything and fuck at that moment ? No . Sometime THAT WEEK , or that month ? Absolutely . The problem is that the average LL partner and they ' ve admitted this in this forum several times ! would just as soon NEVER have sex again . <| sep |> They don ' t want any part of the feats of strength . <| sep |> no one expects me to do anything <| sep |> That is exactly what I was hoping to see ! ! Thanks a tonne ! This is exactly the kind of sequencer I was looking for thanks again D