I can do that 11 <| sep |> His answers were no . I believe him . I just don ' t trust the ex ' s intentions . But to be honest I ' ve never met this man , and i ' m about to . As much as I know him online . i ' ve had several in person relationships that I ' ve trusted that ended badly . This guy is still different , which is why I ' m still around . Obviously there ' s uncertainty otherwise I wouldn ' t be asking here . That stems from my insecure side but to be honest I feel like a lot of people would feel this way . However , I can really only judge how he may be and react in person . when we ' re together . And see if he ' s constantly talking to his ex or talks to him on a daily basis . Cause I truly don ' t know . If it is I ' ll have a sit down with him and ask him what he wants with me and communicate how I feel to his face . P . S . We are monogamous . He got mad when I had sent a gif of a hot guy taking his shirt off as joke , asking why I had sent it with a sad face .