I ' m going to be in your situation in a few years . Honestly , I would say just tell her the truth . If she loves you at all , she ' ll try to maintain some contact with you , as much as her brainwashed mind will allow her . <| sep |> Thats what I was wondering . The fact that it came AFTER that hit NYT seems fishy . <| sep |> New ? They ' ve been arguing this way for decades . It used to be that being called an antiSemite was the worst thing they could do to a person . They realized how successful it was , so they started applying it to other labels . <| sep |> Blah blah blah . <| sep |> That ' s how they establish dominance <| sep |> Yeah my 2000 student college did research , but none of the departments are large enough to be called schools let alone colleges