It ' s a trap question if you answer it sincerely . A woman wants to be with a man that she thinks is better than her , should you actually answer her honestly and your count is higher than hers it ' s hamster fuel that you ' re a player and you ' re not committed this isn ' t the same as dread , since dread is covertly communicated . It ' s just a huge nightmare . Don ' t do it . If your count is lower than her , you ' re a bitch and not as attractive as before . Additionally , it ' s none of her fucking business . Why would you tell her ? Women want a little mystery in a man . They don ' t want you to answer every question . An answer that works is confident but doesn ' t disclose anything except the notion that you perceive yourself as better than her . I would tell you but I don ' t want you to feel bad about yourself afterwards .