Also , Luke only forgave Vader in the end because Vader sacrificed himself for Luke . Luke forgave his father when he went to him on Endor before he saved Luke . He surrendered to him and showed him compassion . His inner struggle was keeping to that and not falling to the dark side . The man who killed her parental figure , mentor and partner Han soloYou must have seen my Reylo Bingo card . This one is on there . How can Rey forgive Kylo , who tortured her friends ? The man who stood by while he watched the destruction of 5 planets full of people ? the man who scarred Finn ' s back . Guess we ' ll have to wait and see . Han forgave him for literally stabbing him in the heart . Han must have known things we don ' t .