Hmm yeah that ' s not great . will have to change those pillars I think . Grind her while you can D <| sep |> Go to the library and take out books on CD . Cop dramas and mysteries are pretty reliable but suit yourself . <| sep |> Let prayer hit that shit damn , set the new record in the D <| sep |> Sweet , glad everything turned out okay . <| sep |> New York City <| sep |> Sounds like he brainwashed her into treating you like that . Of course she ' d go along with him , she was probably afraid he ' d dump her or worse . Isolation is the primary tactic abusers use to guarantee they have a readily available victim , and the way he isolated her from you was probably by coaching her to think of you as a negative influence on her life . Oh , irony . The fact remains that she is deeply wounded . Read up on domestic abuse and the emotional hoops victims jump through to justify the relationship . It ' s pretty chilling what people can tell themselves in order to survive . Meet her somewhere public . If she wants to apologize , let her . She ' s probably got a lot of pentup anger and sadness inside her , so this wouldn ' t be a good time to tell her how she made you feel because that could drive her right back to him . Find a shelter you can take her to . Tell her that you missed her and that you hope things can get better , but that you aren ' t qualified to help her right now and you will get her to someone who is .