Not everyone wants to be part of a union . If you are paid better than a union employee and the union offered you membership if you paid them why accept ? <| sep |> how is digital marketing manager wanted that job at one point <| sep |>' Member when we went to a bowl game ? Yeah I ' member . <| sep |> Why does that chick hate you lot so much ? <| sep |> Seriously OP , there ' s a reason why this is in the Bible . Pay attention to it , pray to God for help resisting raise that shield of faith knowing God has a better way quenching the fiery darts of the evil one ! Trust in God and use this situation as a way to love your gf even more . You want it , but you have you to take up your cross and deny yourself dude . It ' s hard , i know , but keep at it . I ' ll be praying for yah !