I think it ' s butter made from AVB ? <| sep |> Your SIL is probably dreading the visit . Call her up and ask if she wants support . And then strategize on ways to support each other and your parenting . You don ' t have to put up with Grammy ' s rules . I have a behavioralissues child myself and it is pure hell to try to control said child after being given permission to go wild . On a couple of occasions , I ' ve had to stick with my child the entirety of the visit to keep everything on an even keel . I ' ve also had to take said child out of the house for a bit for calming . Do whatever you need to as a parental reinforcement of good behavior . <| sep |> Hey , thankyou ! I can add as many as I want , just wanted to prevent clutter since I ' m working on a system to show only the ones you want to see .