Chad Jackson and RasI Dowling . <| sep |> Look at Z positioning , creates the space like a baws ! <| sep |> About time the same reason the ClevelandBoston games were not as funny the 2 nd out in divorce court and he ' s rushing his move a team and DFA the rest . <| sep |> I just want to echo what bella said . Get back into the dating game ASAP whilst improving your SMV as you go . These things can go simulataneously . It wasn ' t until last week during a challenge that I started wearing more makeup . I ' ve been in a relationship for a year now . You don ' t have to start out at an SMV of 10 in order to get a GOOD man . You need to start out at The best you are right now and never stop improving . I think after 5 years of selfcare it is now just a crutch if you don ' t start to date soon which could be a red flag for guys . It might already be a red flag for some . As to surrendering when dating . the gist is to be lighthearted and go with the flow and open minded about who you date . That does not mean to stop vetting . Ultimate surrender ONLY happens when you have found a good man .