Yes , various times for various reasons . One skill I ' m thankful I ' ve developed as I ' ve gotten older is the ability to sense craziness from women based on the first few moments of interaction . In general , I would categorize the attractive ones I passed on as I could sense they were crazy or a drama magnet Ones that were married Times I was in a relationship Times I was busy with my work and didn ' t want to break focus Got a golddigger vibe or sensed some ulterior motive Personality killed it for me I didn ' t like her friends or social circles Just exited a relationship and didn ' t want a rebound fling <| sep |> I , for one , appreciate when an opponent shows me the card they ' ve been sitting on , even though the game has already been decided . It shows me whether my assumptions about their play style were correct or perhaps whether there was a card I hadn ' t even considered . If you are bothered by this , please remember that your opponent might not consider this bad manners at all . In case of a lost game , conceding is always an option if you just want to get to the next game ASAP .