Doesn ' t mean he ' s qualified either way though <| sep |> but did it have good moves or IVs ? I have one dragonite but its like 55 % with steel winghyper beam and about 1500 cp so I haven ' t spent any dust on it . Although I just caught my first dragonair today . still never seen a dratini lmao . <| sep |> I haven ' t scouted that yet . Heard it ' s owned by the same company tho . Any good ? <| sep |> This is from my fet journal . There is absolutely nothing incompatible with feminism and consensual power exchange . My wife and I have a 247 dynamic and it is honestly the most equal and feminist relationship I ' ve ever been in . Ds doesn ' t mean I walk all over you and do whatever I want because you are a subby little doormat . I ' m sure it means that to some posers who live in their parents basement and read MRA blogs but that isn ' t what it is to any actual long term Ds couples . Our power exchange is based in our need to define our roles and formally commit to fulfilling them . It is an incredible tool for communicating with your partner and understanding their needs . My wife craves discipline and structure . I crave control and devotion . I lead , she follows , but she is not following blindly , she is following because I know her better than anyone else in the world , and I ' ve proven over the years that I ' m on her side and always have her best interests in mind , especially when she doesn ' t . Left to her own devices her attitudes and behavior can tend towards the self destructive . Without the devotion and unquestioning loyalty she gives me by kneeling I become listless and overbearing . Our power exchange is a formal recognition of these facts , and a codification of rituals and protocols that address these needs . There is never ever any of that passive aggressive nonsense between us , no festering resentments , no taking each other for granted . She is focused on being a good girl and pleasing her daddy , and I am so fulfilled by her devotion that it keeps me grounded in the moment , and continually improving myself so I can be the leader and protector she needs . Our number one rule is to be open and honest about your feelings , especially when she thinks I ' m making the wrong decision , or I ' ve done something wrong . Being on the left side of the slash doesn ' t give anyone magical powers or make them infallible , despite what some fools might try to sell you on . She ' s has struggled with it though , because she will feel like she ' s not being a good girl when she resists me , so it ' s incumbent upon me to reinforce that she is doing the right thing and that even though it may not feel like it , she ' s doing exactly what I want her to do by calling me out when I ' m wrong . That ' s the equality part of the dynamic , it goes both ways , she is also the person that knows me best , and I need her to help me be the best I can be . One of the things that has helped us is learning to adopt the language and rituals of our dynamic even in situations where there is resistance . Facing when I ' ve made a mistake and tacking in another direction becomes much easier for me when I look into her beautiful eyes and see the place of love and devotion that her resistance is coming from . Some people will try to tell you that resistance is not submissive , but that is bullshit . I know myself well enough to know that I need her to resist me when she knows in her heart that I ' m wrong . She does it because I ' ve told her to , even though it goes against her natural instinct to please me by giving me anything I say I want in the moment , at any cost to herself . So in that way it is a most difficult submissive act , and I am forever grateful to her for being strong enough to do it .