I never outright asked her what I could do to make her feel appreciated , but I do almost all of the cleaning and I cook about half the time . But , like you said , I don ' t know if she thinks the same way I do about those things . I try to be appreciative but , given the state of our relationship , it ' s hard and mostly forced because I don ' t have the emotional energy to argue . I don ' t know . <| sep |> unlock the taskbar <| sep |> I ' ve never understood the bashing of bands that aren ' t still touring or haven ' t put out an album with a huge hit on it recently . Very different from blink but I was telling a couple coworkers about a 311 show I was going to and they gave me some snotty response about how they haven ' t been big in a long time . Idgaf I think they kick ass .