inb 4 OP ' s main fishing for cheap karma <| sep |> Wow . Reading your post made me feel angry . That guy sounds like an asshole to me . Doesn ' t want you touching his wife but will screw yours in front of you . What a fucking prick . And sounds like your wife wants to fuck him and have his wife involved so it ' s doesn ' t look too personal . She sounds selfish . He sounds like a prick . Shut it down or say something . <| sep |> It ' s cute ! <| sep |> Ok first of all stay safe . Do not stop using condoms until she moves onto real birth control . Loss of periods is not a good enough form of protection . They ' ll come back . Second of all good for you for trying . I ' m really hoping she ' s open to trying new things as well since she ' s also very young . It ' s difficult to say this is what I like at that age and be set on it . Things change as you discover more things . You ' re going to have to mostly work this stuff out by yourself . But the best thing you can do right now is be clear on stuff you do and do not like after they happen . Tell her I thought this was really great , I wasn ' t keen on this and I ' d like to try this . That ' s the best way to learn .