I always thought this was such a sweet moment . Dennis always shits on Dee but when she needs help , he actually tries his hardest to get her what she wants . <| sep |> Victim blaming is harmful and completely ignorant . A human being should be able to have the expectation of being respected when heshe says no andor doesn ' t give their consent . An invitation to meet , via an online website does not warrant rape . Please don ' t spread the false notion that this action is an invitation to rape , IT IS NOT . A statement like , this is why you don ' t use Grindr without being careful , completely omits the responsibility that belongs to the perpetrator solely . We should aim to shame the rapists , not the survivors of sexual violence .