So only fucking people who can barely afford to be fucked by you ? <| sep |> That sounds dope actually . Now I want it also . Thanks <| sep |> A fella called Leon seems trustworthy . What name would you choose if you were the opposite gender ? <| sep |> Please do you have the glyph ? <| sep |> You know what , I think I might have a little idea of what you mean by stretched . You probably mean the aspect ratio is a bit off . We have noticed that on some phones depending on the focal length . I ' m adding a task to check on that . <| sep |> Wall of text warning , there is a tldr at the bottom if you ' re lazy Look , as an actual server , we do not make a shit load . And yeah , attractive people get better tips . It ' s shitty , but true . That ' s not the ONLY reason they get better tips though . I know some ugly motherfuckers who make great tips where I work . For an hourly wage , the minimum is $ 2 . 13 an hour . Any tips we get from credit card transactions are automatically taxed , so most of that hourly wage goes to just paying taxes . We get cashed out at the end of every night , so I don ' t really see any of that hourly wage . All except maybe the occasional $ 25 $ 30 goes to taxes . If people stop tipping , wages will not go up . They will just find better servers because in the service industry , not making good tips is equated with being bad at your job . Yes , it is required for them to make sure we at least make minimum wage , but like you said , most people go in to serving so they can make good money . I can make more than minimum wage working in fast food , there would be no reason to be a server at that point . The quality of service would decrease because only people willing to work for minimum wage would take the job . And when you make minimum wage , you don ' t give a shit . The way tips work in the service industry is disgusting in my opinion . I like serving , but I would prefer hourly . I think it ' s ridiculous that it ' s accepted that restaurants essentially make the customers pay their employees . But that ' s how our system works right now . At the end of the day , you ARE paying my wages with your tip money . That ' s all I really get from that job . If you don ' t tip , then I am basically serving you for free . I agree that it sucks , and I hate tipping when I go out to eat just as much as everyone else . But what you have to keep in mind is that servers are just people too . We get stressed , and we forget things , and we have tables talking to us and we can ' t be rude to them and also food is coming for another table so we have to find a way to politely get out of conversation to run someone ' s food , but then the table next to that one is looking around , and you know they need a drink refill , etc . Etc . Etc . And throughout the whole process , you know that one mistake , or one table having to wait an extra minute or two for a drink refill will determine whether or not you make enough money to pay your bills that week . Being a server has its upsides , but the attitude of everyone should just not tip and then the market will fix itself is honestly just dehumanizing to hear . The path to fixing this lies in legislation in my opinion . We are just normal people going to work whether we feel great or terrible . I ' ve had to stop myself from having panic attacks in front of tables , but I still have to do my job , and when I run to the restroom for a breather so I don ' t start sobbing from stress or any kind of personal issue , it really sucks when I get stiffed because I took care of myself before refilling someone ' s water . Just try to have perspective and know we are the same as you . We hate it too , but in that job , it ' s all you get . TL , DR 1 We agree the tipping system sucks but most likely only legislation will change it . If you just stop tipping , all you will do is completely fuck over anyone who waits on you and it will not change the system in any way . 2 tips do not solely depend on whether you are attractive 3 people don ' t serve to make minimum wage 4 servers are people . Please don ' t grade us with your tips . It ' s how we pay our bills , and it ' s all we get .