Nowhere in this did he allude to contributing real value . We aren ' t talking about a sports commentator here . You ' re pulling this into your own narrative that doesn ' t relate to what my point is . Standing by and judging others for doing shit you ' re afraid of or intimidated by is not productive . It ' s cowardly . <| sep |> for his fourth flight to get his IFR rating , yes he already does have a license <| sep |> Honestly , whatever uni you go to , people won ' t force you in to going out on nights out . This is especially true in Engineering where you ' ll meet a lot of introverts . It ' s a social thing and more to do with which people you hang out with in your group of friends than which uni you go to . If you want to go out , go out . If you don ' t , don ' t . There ' s this image from american media that uni is all about getting drunk . It ' s optional .