Don ' t you think they would notice . <| sep |> As a lesbian I am super careful not to hit on women who aren ' t interested especially straight in case they get uncomfortable . When I was bi I would hit on guys without much thought . But with women , no way . I go through great lengths to make sure they ' re gay and potentially interested before saying anything more than friendly . Even though all my straight friends insist they would be flattered by someone as respectful and nonthreatening as me asking them out . There are definitely women who would be freaked out by it . I feel like it ' s my duty to never freak people out with my gayness . <| sep |> It definitely is more common than it used to be since the Halloween event . I ' ve had many Grimers and Porygons pop up in my radar ever since and caught two of each on my daily walks to the subway , which isn ' t even 500 meters away .