I totally get this . The early days are so , so hard and I feel like no one acknowledges this . It feels like all you do is feed . At family gatherings with lots of people , I take her in another room and it sucks to hear everyone laughing . I realize that I lucked out but since about 4 weeks my baby only wakes up once a night most nights . My husband gets up and changes her before I feed . He brings me water and goes back to bed and it makes me feel less lonely . <| sep |> You ' re totally right . You spend hours trying to perfect your miniatures , doing highlights and so on , and nothing is visible on your picture ! angrymode <| sep |> Shit I must have messed up the memes sorry <| sep |> God I fucking hate Snopes now . What a tool of the evil doers