You keep looking for extra meaning in everything he does . It seems like you have always wanted it to be more but he is only into this when nothing better is coming along . I really think you need to stop looking for evidence of him caring because the evidence that he doesn ' t is a mountain . Whether he ' s trying to oneup you , just isn ' t interested , is trying to gey distance or is trying to get with someone else , he ' s made it clear he is not interested in more wkth you . I wish you happiness outside of this situation . <| sep |> It ' s basically like Pearl Harbor , different agencies had picked up different pieces of intelligence but due to bureaucracy and general incompetence the pieces were never put together in time . That ' s why the DHS was created to bring those agencies and their data together .