If she goes for a handshake , then do it , of course . With a complete stranger and not in a mutualfriend or professional setting however , can ' t see myself offering one . If she ' s walking in front of you then get next to her and initiate conversation . Just remember it ' s all about the confidence <| sep |> CRogues all the way , no slop please ! <| sep |> Do not enter not even in winter . <| sep |> i 7 4790 k , GTX 770 , 8 GB RAM . Make sure you free up about 6 GB RAM before launching the game . Your processor is definitely the weaker link , so make sure it ' s running at 100 % or overclocked a bit if you can . Here ' s my settings 1600 x 900 FullScreenEffectsQuality 2 OverallQuality 1 TextureQuality 2 ShadowQuality 1 FloraQuality 1 RenderDistance 1066 . 000000 UseDepthOfField 0 . 000000 Gamma 0 . 000000 MaximumFPS 144 UseLod 0 a 0 Smoothing 0 SpeedTreeLOD 0 ModelQuality 2 FogShadowsEnable 0 AO 0 InteriorLighting 0 VerticalFOV 65 LightingQuality 0 ParticleLOD 2 Make sure to free up about 6 GB RAM before launching the game as well . Then restart the game once per hour . Don ' t play on 1920 x 1080 , it will be a struggle for the system . You can adjust the FOV to your liking as well . 70 should be fine . Can try ShadowQuality at 2 , for some people its about the same FPS and looks nicer , but for me I lose about 5 FPS .