If you vote for a guy who is going to appoint white supremacists to White House staff positions then yeah , you have pretty much endorsed racism . <| sep |> First , retain a lawyer . Greed has a habit of changing people . You need to make sure that you are legally protected . Second , she left it to you . You do not have to give it to anyone . It ' s up to you how it ' s spent . Third , I ' d wager that not matter what you did with the money , some of your family would be upset . <| sep |> To be clear I ' m not from the US but have lived there and was there recently . You get used to the more comprehensive service and it ' s nice mostly , even if it takes a bit of getting used to . The other side of the spectrum is sometimes in Europe it ' s a fight to just even get a menu or get my order taken , especially in pubs casually doing food too .