When HRT is looking even slightly enticing , you know they fucked up . <| sep |> I think wands fit perfectly into the world of The Elder Scrolls . I never modded them into Oldrim but I would definitely be interested in this kind of mod for SE . <| sep |> I doubt , for instance , that transgender women would be satisfied with being merely treated like ciswomen by society . That ' s part of it , but mostly we just want to change our assigned sex . If I ' m not mistaken they want a female physique and lipstick and handbags ! You are mistaken . I want female physique because seeing male stuff on my body makes me cringe on a soul deep level . But other than that I ' m pretty much all jeans , flannels , shoulderbag , minimal makeup kind of girl . Gender identity has nothing to do with gender roles . IMO your confusion comes from the fact that until very recently it was literally REQUIRED that you be superduper feminine in order to transition as a trans woman . Cis people imposed that restriction . That ' s why most older transgender people are like that and say things like that . But for those younger than ~ 30 , we ' re free to express ourselves like any other women . Some are femme , some are butch , some are andro and so on . Still is in the UK , where I am .