Need to add me as friend first <| sep |> Hell is just torture training for CIA trainees , then Satan sends them back . <| sep |> Okay , personally , I agree with your last line what makes you confident is more important . Newsflash what makes you confident is going to be the most attractive look to him anyway ! !!!!! My boyfriend kind of sees makeup as fun thing that doesn ' t affect my attractiveness so I don ' t think there are particular looks that turn dudes on or off . The dark lip thing yeah that ' s an impractical logistical thing that I ' d save for a formal occasion but nothing to do with attractiveness IMO . I love wearing my HG products to a first date with a smoked out eye , pinky nude lip and heaps and heaps of highlight but a light contour . I love the way I look in selfies with this and so I feel like a total princess when I rock up to the date . No man I meet can ever say anything negative about highlighter this is a must . I think men who are not involved in the makeup world probably don ' t understand a lot of the instagram trends but then again I do not know many people looking to wear a super harsh contour , fade brow and overlined lips to a soft romantic date so I can kinda get that . If you want to wear instastyle makeup to a date though , kudos to you . Just because they don ' t understand a lookaren ' t familiar with it doesn ' t mean it ' s unattractive .