Your husband doesn ' t sound like much of a partner . He ' s avoidant , no job , and refused to address the DB until you had effective left . Do you actually think he will permanently chsnge ? It ' s OK to tell hi that he did too much damage by refusing to address the issue for years that his offer now is too little , too late . and that you can ' t even trust it because he broke your trust in him long ago by not addressing the DB . <| sep |> Yes I know that , was just waiting to see what LordNelson was gonna say . <| sep |> Yeah but instead of worksheets not getting filled out he was being such an ass to innocent customers who had nothing to do with it all . Kinda a dick move . <| sep |> Would you have it say Toronto or Blue Jays ?