As a woman I like it when I guy says towards the middleend of date hey I ' m having a terrific time but I ' m a taking it slow kind of guy . And keep repeating this at the appropriate moment I would love to come home with youcome to my place as long as you are ok with just cuddling making out and eating some ice cream . And if they pressure you for sex and question your sexuality tell them in a firm even tone I don ' t appreciate what you are saying and I don ' t want to sleep with you . As a woman I hope you can understand how your behavior is unhealthy and manipulative . You might want to practice saying this in front of a mirror . <| sep |> Pretty dumb reason imo . Only stuff you ' re using in apples ecosystem uses the default , so yes safari will open with a mail link . Not that big of a deal and can be fixed with jailbreak Down vote me because I ' m giving a solution instead of relying on Apple to do it .