You are disgusting and are a terrible friend . Doesn ' t matter what you in all of your selfrighteous and stalkerapologist glory ' find out '. It doesn ' t matter because she does not owe YOU any explanation . You are not part of the relationship . that has now dissolved . Where did I say I was owed an explanation ? Point that out to me ? YOU DON ' T KNOW WHAT THEY DISCUSSED IN THEIR RELATIONSHIP . THAT IS BETWEEN THE TWO OF THEM . IT HAS ABSOLUTELY NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU . YOU DONT KNOW IF HE AGREED TO HER BEING AN ESCORT . IF HE DID , PERHAPS HE ACTUALLY KEPT HER CONFIDENCE ABOUT SOMETHING SHE WANTED TO KEEP PRIVATE . I have already said I ' m not going to tell him yawnAlso , you keep conveniently skirting this , but there is no excuse for video taping a partner without their knowledge or consent . Even if you suspect cheating . Even if you are correct . That is criminal behavior . I have said multiple times I do not agree with what he did in anyway , and I still don ' t . It doesn ' t matter whether what she said or didn ' t say to you is true . You aren ' t part of their relationship equation . It ' s none of your business . Point is this guy could be someone who has legitimately been fucked over by her . But I decided it was too dangerous to say anything incase the accusations are true . I got the message , not to say anything .