Yeah I completely agree with you , I just really like the look of having all the same brand , idk . Honestly I ' m glad all the major companies are so similar because since I can find cymbals I like from everyone , I can start deciding on which cymbals I like by things like how they look and how ethical the company is and not just sound . <| sep |> This might get biblical . Stock up on Ammo <| sep |> Thanks for the input . I think the best thing you could do is have the guy on the other end of the trade speak up . I always hate it when people veto a trade just because they think it ' s one sided without actually having evidence that it ' s collusion . Good luck ! <| sep |> But I don ' t understand why even if I do so much for her she wouldn ' t do the same when I ask for it . Because she probably doesn ' t enjoy doing it and is generally selfish in bed . It ' s really up to you on how much that affects your relationship . With that said , generally when a person expects something all the time without giving anything in return , their selfishness extends outside of the bedroom . Definitely a red flag .