A few years ago she would have been considered very fat A few years ago women my size 100 pounds and skinny were bullied for being fat so the threshold for male harassment on the subject is hardly relevant . She is not fat . How is that considered fat ? Have you never seen hips before ? She ' s not unattractive either . Maybe by your standards , you don ' t speak for everyone though and a lot of really thin people are unattractive . And how do you even know if she ' s short of breath , unable to do certain activities which is BS , not everyone can do everything , or higher risk for anything ? You ' re not her doctor and you can ' t tell stuff like that by looking at someone . You ' re just saying all of that to be an asshole . What ailment ? There ' s nothing wrong with her . You are bullying this poor girl just for existing . You don ' t care about her happiness , you just want to rail on her for her weight . How can you be a huge jerk to a girl behind her back then say oh I care about her . No you don ' t .