I ' m gay , I live in a small isolated island where almost nobody says they are gayI have plans for leaving , but who knows how long it will be until then <| sep |> Can ' t take a little car themed banter ? <| sep |> I think it just happened . My wife was peeling a pear using a knife and I asked her why she wasn ' t using the peeler ? And she said to me , I didn ' t think I could use a vegetable peeler on fruit . We ' ve been together 16 years . This is my life . <| sep |> Whenever you and other people repeat misinformed hyperbole like this , our chances of getting OUR money back in retirement gets weaker . I implore you to spot spouting off vitriolic disinformation like this and calm down for five minutes . Social security is OUR MONEY . That ' s why they call it entitlement spending . Because we hold title to it . You put a few dollars in every paycheck , it is invested for you , and then you get your money out in retirement . You want to know what the social security conspiracy is ? I think there is an astroturfing movement that you might damn well be a part of to weaken people ' s understanding of social security . Every time people like you start spouting off about how it ' s a scam and how we aren ' t getting any of our money back INCREASES the chances of that happening a self fulfilling prophecy . Comments like yours are grooming us to accept it whenif someone raids the social security trust fund of OUR MONEY . So please , stop ranting , and get outraged like me whenever someone talks about social security going bankrupt , or raiding the social security trust , or cutting benefits , because it ' s OUR FUCKING MONEY and belongs to us .