also could you reccomend a cooler ? I was thinking the NZXT X 62 but I really dont know much . Know any black or white ones which work amazingly ? <| sep |> I made a quick throwaway for this . I don ' t see anything in the sidebar about throwaway commenters so , maybe it wont be deleted . I have problems with alcohol and take medication for ADHD ! It should be noted that I have only started Adderall in the last 6 months and am 31 I was on it at 11 as well , but was pulled off . I don ' t think this has anything to do with his ADHD or medication and everything to do with his alcohol abuse . The medication is a red herring . He is a physically abusive alcoholic . That ' s the end of the story . Stay away please . If you are curious about me . My alcohol use is generally under control but I could be doing better . I probably need to move to abstinence but I ' m OK for now in my mind . Im down from a six pack of premium beer a night for about 8 years straight to a six pack on nonwork nights only last 4 months . It was fucking hard to convince myself it was best because I was functioning at work . It was best for my relationship is what I figured out in the end . At the same time I am not a violent or angry drunk and a six pack spread from 5 pm to 11 pm never got me truly sloshed . As to ADHD , my fiance and my arguments are no different then before only a bit less common . This is mostly because I remembered to pay the power bill this month and I vacuumed like I said I would . At the same time my definition of the word ' argument ' and yours is likely very different . Most arguments for me don ' t include harsh words or heavily raised voices let alone yelling , just the knowledge that one of us could have done better . I write all of this to get across that neither the lack of medication nor the presence of alcohol are ' causing ' his physical abuse . He is , ' him ' as a person is doing it .