Thank you all for great feedback ! And yes , haha . That cable was still in the blockout stage . <| sep |> If the plains get boring to you like they do to me , try the mod great forest of whiterun hold <| sep |> You need to live your own life dude , and stop thinking about this girl . You don ' t need to cut contact but you need to stop being her emotional support , it not fair to you , her , or her current boyfriend . This isn ' t a close friends situation , this is you are basically in a relationship on all levels but physical . I would consider this a emotional affair on her part . Is her boyfriend okay with how much you guys talk and how close you are because I can ' t seeing many guys being alright with this situation . If you were in a relationship with her and she was talking to another guy this much how do you think you would actually feel ? Probably pretty shit right If you ever want to date this girl in the future you have to leave her alone , and stop being there whenever she wants you , stop texting her back when she ' s bored and just wants to chat , or just don ' t reply to her texts that are unimportant . You gotta distance yourself from her and get involved in your own life . She won ' t admit this herself but she wouldn ' t date you because its too easy , you already act like her boyfriend , its like there ' s no challenge in the relationship . To put it simpler if she showed up at your house tomorrow and said I broke up with my BF so we could finally date you would probably just immediately say yes . See the problem here there ' s no mystery no risk involved , she knows dating you would be easy but with no excitement . Now on the other hand if you start distancing yourself , putting yourself out into the world meeting new people new women and dating some other girls , she could start to see you as more attractive as you ' re no longer so involved with her life , not talking to her all the time and cheering her up when she ' s down . This can work because it will make you seem more interesting as its clear your interest is no longer in just her , so if she wants your attention now she ' ll have to get it .