OKC in about a game or 2 <| sep |> Based on this post , you sound paranoid and controlling at best , and emotionally abusive at worst . Telling her you want to use her phone for a game and proceeding to snoop in her block list and then CALLING a random stranger to investigate the nature of their relationship is straight up absurd . Unless she has a history of cheating , that crosses so many lines . It ' s not okay . Forget the former coworker , apologize to your WIFE . Seek help for your issues . I know you said you guys are broke , but look for low cost or free options in your area . If you care about your wife at all , find a way to do this . <| sep |> Why would you want to do that ? <| sep |> It ' s also very exfoliating . Your skin may not be suited for it to be used often . I myself started breaking out badly when I tried to use the harsher exfoliants DA , Movis and AoBS daily .