You need to have a serious talk with her about it but don ' t do it from a point of blame or anger . Don ' t make this a fight . Maybe she should do some own research into her health and ability to have a child at her age with her doctor . It ' s harsh but I didn ' t invent biology . If she is healthy and will have zero trouble conceiving and still wants a child , divorce . If she cannot conceive , what ' s the point of throwing away an eleven year , and by your accounts , a great relationship for something that might not be possible or won ' t be possible without a huge investment of time , money and quite possibly heartbreak ? <| sep |> h ? Skal se om jeg finner . <| sep |> Until recently , getting shot at and shooting at people .