Boy oh boy do I hate the Starkiller . Neat picture though OP ! <| sep |> Source 2 must have a built in novid option . <| sep |> its always feel good when u return to home and your dinner waits you <| sep |> But it isn ' t a rejection of you it ' s a rejection of piv sex . For the sake of your relationship and any future ones , you need to realize that other people do take it as a rejection of them . Especially since you are rejecting something they can ' t get from anyone else . What do you like from your partner ? How does she show you that she loves you in a way that no one else can ? Because that ' s what you need to imagine . Imagine her saying she no longer really felt like showing that special affection you needed but she also wasn ' t okay with you getting that affection elsewhere . That you have to be without your need because she was tired or not in the mood . Empathy .