Jean as in the French form for John . The author is a male . <| sep |> Are you not having PIV sex ? I ' ve never been able to get off from a hand job or blow job even the best . for some reason . It ' s always been like that and back when I was in high school I used to have slight PE issues . I ' d last maybe 3 minutes PIV . But I just could not get off from a HJ or BJ . I worked through the PE with a girl I dated for a little over a year she was great and patient , she helped me and now I have full control over it Anyways tell her that making her come gives you a ton of pleasure to make her feel better . That ' s personally true for me . Sometimes if I just can ' t come due to stress or whatever I don ' t fake it or anything I ' m honest with her . But I tell her that getting her off is enough for me to be more than satisfied and that ' s the truth . Although if it happened every time it would kind of suck .