Not even close . After shooting out the light the gun goes under the pillow , not in the night stand . <| sep |> It ' s not always easy because of ego but I try to be super open minded about it , gracious , humble , consider their point of view . And if there ' s any truth to it accept it and acknowledge it and let them know what I will do in the future about it . If I disagree , i may state why I am not clear about their perspective , or I may just brush it aside . It ' s good to get more detail about what they are talking about though , because sometimes they aren ' t good at explaining the first time . Either way , the less you take any of this personal , the better response you will be able to give . When you take it personal , you will often come off as being defensive or upset .