That ruby ball jumped like six funnels from last to first right at the end . <| sep |> Awesome you win best comment <| sep |> As someone who has been reassured several times throughout pregnancy that the father himself wanted to be included and be supportive , but proved so otherwise , I would simply advise that you focus solely on both yourself and your child for now . It probably hurts , but it ' s for the best that you found out now rather than later on when so much more is invested . Someone who doesn ' t follow through in their actions and leaves you isn ' t worthy in my honest opinion , and there are plenty of people who are willing to be there to support and love you , such as your mom , during this time . You ' ve got this ! Sending lots of hugs your way !