Oh , the battleship is called Dredbot ? ?? Wow . Thanks D . <| sep |> Thanksgiving was good , my first major sober holiday . However , towards the end , Mom got mean for NO apparent reason and started screaming at me . I emptied my plate , took my apple cider up to my bedroom , put on relaxation music , lit my little Christmas tree and a candle , got on SD , and gracefully walked away from the situation without drinking . Then I heard my sister yell at her in my defense , ' she takes care of you 247 and look how awesome she ' s doing . how dare you yell at her ! '. And that was the end of it . Mom knew she was wrong , sis put her in her place , and I easily walked away knowing that I don ' t need to drink and be miserable over something so petty , and actually stupid . BUT , if I was still drinking ? A bottle of chardonnay would have been gone in an hour .