You must be new at this whole trolling thing bb . <| sep |> I ' m like TT <| sep |> Which elgifs in the merit point store wroth it ? <| sep |> This is insane . <| sep |> Honestly , I totally get where she ' s coming from here . IMHO , a holiday dinner , presumably with spousesso ' sfriendskidswhomever present , is not the time or place for an intervention . Having been the recipient of Do you really need to eat that ? and its ilk multiple times honestly , what do people expect ? You to put your fork down and exclaim Why , no , I don ' t . Thank you so much for pointing out to me I didn ' t need to eat x . I never would have realized it without your help ! ?. There is a time and a place for an intervention , and at a dinner table with lots of people present isn ' t really that time . I wouldn ' t have brought up my ex ' s crack addiction at Thanksgiving dinner either , regardless of my genuine concern for his health .