Wow , that ' s terrible . I hope you find some sort of solution , this has got to be extremely difficult . Are there any foods that don ' t affect you so quickly ? <| sep |> Always upvoting Alan Watts <| sep |> Could use some red arrows and yellow text . Happy Thanksgiving mates ! <| sep |> Thank you so much for all the great advice ! ! Our number one rule from the very start was that we should under no circumstances be drunk at all . As we are getting a bottle of champagne with the room , we decided that it will be the only alcohol we will be consuming , because one glass will help with the nerves , and more booze will ruin it . Drunk sex is already a mess when it ' s only the two of you , it can only be disastrous when you add a third person to the mix . DYou touched very nicely on the jealousy issue . This has been my main concern from the start . Yes , by nature I am not jealous or possessive at all unless there is an actual threat and the situation calls for it , but of course this is so much different . Just the idea of watching him have sex with another woman to the point of orgasm , turns me on more than any other scenario ever has I ' ve concluded that I have somewhat of a serious cuckquean fetish going on here . As a test run , I took him to a stripclub , and got him a lapdance while I watched . To see what my reaction would be . I was ecstatic when I didn ' t feel any pangs of jealousy while watching a gorgeous girl wave her naked hoohah in his face . My main worry is the fact that fantasy and reality are two vastly different things . Yes , thinking of it now makes me all happy in pants , but what if I get to that moment and it ' s just too much to handle to see him make love to another woman . I doubt that it will have me freaking out completely , but I do expect to feel somewhat jealous . But we do have a very open and honest relationship , and the lines of communication are always flowing . We discuss every detail surrounding this decision , are setting ground rules and boundaries every day , and it ' s a continuing discussion about our feelings and our expectations . We ' ve arranged to meet our unicorn a few times before Dday also , so she could give us her rules and boundaries too , what she allows , what she doesn ' t , and to make sure that there is attraction from all parties and everyone feels comfortable around each other . I opted not to go for any friends or close acquaintances , cause I felt it would be a bad idea . I don ' t want awkwardness or suspicion between friends when we happen to be at the same party . I ' m so excited about this , I can hardly wait . I ' m just very nervous about the unknown basically . But if it ' s a success , I see many more threesomes in our future ! ! 😬