Ya I hear ya . Oh well . Still going to be amazing . <| sep |> Women generally want to feel more feminine than their partner . Men generally want to feel more masculine . Is this really so alien or different ? If you look at this from a relationshipdynamic perspective , it is because it basically means one part strives to be dominant , the other to be submissive . And if you have been raised in a very progressive manner and have been reminded 247 that women totally absolutely undeniably want an equal relationship without a power imbalance and actually have nothing against taking charge in a relationship because they ' re so Strong and IndependentTM , this will severely impede your perception of their motivation .