OK GOOGLELIE TO MEKanye <| sep |> Over got the same problem with my DH . Every time I ask him , it ' s whatever you ' d like to do babe , I ' ll back up your choice , I trust you . Well , that ' s great dear , but dammit why are you dumping every single decision that has to be made about anything on me ? !?! I find it incredibly frustrating . I finally had him text my SIL back saying We love you all very much . We will not be participating in any gift exchanges this year . Now if I can just get him to send that to his mother , with an add on of We will not be traveling for the holidays this year . , I ' ll be set . <| sep |> You try checking out 20 different kinds of produce at 7 am in the supermarket after gettingo ff an international flight 2 hours before . I loathe self checkouts .