I tend not to because I am really lazy . <| sep |> You would think after 12 years people would stop assuming shit they have no idea about <| sep |> same here , but male . my mother did this all the time , and her constant talking about myself was having a negative impact on my esteem and consciousness . so I told her don ' t talk to me before I ' ve drank two cups of coffee . when she broke that boundary , I barked at her . reminded her of some awful things she ' s done , and I suggested her morning could be much worse than a few . moments of silence . now she gives me space and time to wake up . this is important . i will always have my depression , no one is so rich they can afford self pity and anxiety , but as a man , I have to shrugg it off and go work hard for money , or I ' ll never have a girlfriend