Just the fact that you are thinking about these things suggests that you aren ' t likely to end up like a bunch of the other white guys who fetishize and view Asian women as being inferior or submissive . You ' ll find all sorts of Japanese women , in my opinion . It seems that you are attracted to the mentally strong and independent , nonclingy type . You ' ll find them . Lots of them . Relax . Enjoy your youth and remember that relationships are a twoway street . As long as you respect women as individuals , you ' ll be fine . <| sep |> I just came on here to post about this . It ' s fucking annoying as hell . <| sep |> I had hoped more people had caught that c . <| sep |> Ya it used to be a month or so ago , shortened it to spiff tho