Yeah . Gun rights are cool , but the gun culture is . very weird , creepy almost . <| sep |> No therapy , but she has a lot of family who live nearby . Whenever he tries to leave she starts crying and saying '' why do you hate me , my life is over , there ' s nothing left for me , I spent my whole life with you and now you ' re abandoning me they ' re childhood sweethearts but she ' s only 30 , why am I not good enough , I have nothing left to live for ''. Eventually he relents and suddenly she ' s fine , back to demanding to know his every move and not letting him see friends . We have to meet him in secret and she frequently breaks into his phone and blocksdeletes people . He just feels responsible for her , which he shouldn ' t but after over a decade with her I ' m not surprised . We need to convince him that staying longer won ' t help and he needs to go now before he wastes any more time or energy on this dead relationship .