I have a coworker that I used to be very close with . There were always stories about her and how she had slept with a few guys at my work , but I just assumed she wasn ' t into me . A big reason I persisted in hanging out with her is because she was an alcoholic and popped pills . I felt like I could help her in some way , which is pretty naive . There were a few instances where she attempted to advance on me . All of them while she was drunk . The first was when we went together to work to check out the schedule while she was completely hammered , to the point where she was stumbling all over herself and required me to keep her upright . When we got back in her car I was driving , she turned to me and asked me if I wanted to make out . I have a girlfriend , so that was a definite no . The second time she tried anything , she was drinking wine and asked me why I don ' t drink . I just don ' t have any desire to and I refuse to drink , especially if I have to drive later and if someone is pestering me to . This girl kept telling me to just have a drink in front of one of our other coworkers and finally slammed the bottle against the couch and said , MizziumMan , you ' re going to have just one glass of this wine or I will try and have sex with you . I ended up having the wine . On New Years Eve , she drunk texted me and told me that I should come over after he boyfriend left . I tried to let her down gently and say that I was going to be with my girlfriend shortly , but she persisted . I turned my phone off and saw three missed calls and several more texts after the fact . The last straw was when her boyfriend of three years yes , that ' s right broke up with her and I drove to her house after she told me she ' d driven on the freeway to another town and back going 90 mph on the freeway , all while drunk . I drove over to make sure she didn ' t do anything rash , like driving again . I followed her to her roommate ' s room , where she knew he had whiskey . She slumped down on the bed and seemed to be passed out . I had taken a seat on the opposite side of the bed . That ' s when she got up , had her third shot of whiskey also , she ' d finished a whole bottle of wine before I had arrived , and proceeded over to me and straddled my lap and practically shoved her tongue down my throat and pushed me down . I managed to push her off and tell her no . Being a sucker , I stayed until she threw up in the toilet . I held her hair back so she wouldn ' t get vomit in her hair . She ended up telling all of my coworkers that we had sex and caused an extreme strain on my relationship . Luckily for me , none of them believed her and my relationship is currently very strong . I stopped talking to her for a very long time after that , but have since started being friendly with her again , but I never bring that night up and never text her or get involved in her life at all .