If I had 17 keys I ' ll get them from you lol I only have 10 <| sep |> Derherrr they troll politicsWell pol is supposed to be about politics , which is what my political opinions fall into , also it was a default sub so suck it <| sep |> If it was 1 % for intelligence I ' d take that but as it is attractiveness is the better option . <| sep |> Anger clouds my judgement . <| sep |> OP , it ' s entirely possible that he wants it to be your decision on whether or not you tell them . If you have a past with hiding it and feeling shame about your PTSD , he may be not telling them because it ' s not courteous for him to do so , it ' s your business . It ' s entirely he may not be ashamed of you , but is looking out for your best interest . He probably thinks you wouldn ' t appreciate him telling them unless you were comfortable with it , and doesn ' t want to ask you if you ' d be comfortable telling them as to not stress you out . Talk with him OP , the most important thing about a relationship is communication and letting each other know when you ' re hurting . I ' m sorry you ' re going through this .