He would only be jew if his mother was jewish though right ? <| sep |> Your comment was my tipping point I ' d been firmly on the fence and you tipped me to no lol . I don ' t think $ 10 hour is worth my time . I didn ' t mention in the post , but I ' m actually a grad student in a very rigorous program . I don ' t have my schedule yet for next semester , so I don ' t know that I won ' t need to spend that day studying . I don ' t have class on Fridays , so the date doesn ' t conflict with that , but I would never bail on her wedding once I had commited because that would be rude and stressful . However , I might get myself in trouble if I do commit and take that day off ! Plus , I ' d be sooo slow . Six people at 2 . 5 hours each would be 15 hours ! !! That ' s so unrealistic for a normal human . I ' d definitely need help , and I don ' t even know who to ask for help ! So I told her I was flattered but I didn ' t think I could physically pull it off . I told her how to find a quality MUA in our area .