Old enough that when the family takes pictures and says , ok now a picture of just the adults I don ' t know if I should leave or not . <| sep |> Good thing she ' s got a Fitbit . <| sep |> Chiwu is my 1 st nat 5 but i was early in the game so i never appreciated him . Now 10 months in , boy he is good i mean above average good , chloe comps are insta reck . Still contemplating on feeding him devilmons though . <| sep |> I ' m so sorry to hear you ' re going through this . I think it is very sweet of you to want to make your dad ' s life as happy and joyful as possible . You have really good ideas ! You could write and play a song for him , go to the park to play frisbee , cook meals together , watch funny movies , etc . You should also get your family together if possible . I have never gone through this , but I do know that the best thing you can do is make them as comfortable as possible . The hospital and staff will try to do this , but nothing beats your own family love . I don ' t think reminiscing on the past will be depressing . Yes , it will be super emotional so you don ' t have to do it ALL the time . But if you have memories you would like to share with him , do it . He will look back on his life and realize what a wonderful journey it has been . I highly recommend that your dad sees a counselor for when he needs comforting or if he is scared . They go to school for this and they can really help in situations where you do not have the answers . I hope this helps . Take care !