Not sure if she ' s a audio savvy like people here and actually care about the quality over style or anything . Or don ' t know how old she is . But she would appreciate bose or even beats over these headphones . These are not very stylish to most of people and not very mobile at all . Sound quality is way better though . <| sep |> Here ' s the thing . people aren ' t looking specifically to have a harder life . I ' m a fairly ambitious person and I would want the person I end up with to not only want the same things in life , but be willing to contribute to achieving those things . Of course money plays a part , but for a lot of people the money is evidence of a certain level of ambition and hard work . Many of the women I know including myself have partners who earn less than them , but their partners work hard in professions , so it ' s not an issue because we know that their determination will pay off in the end . I really think you ' re hanging out with the wrong women . The easier path is often gained through ambition and hard work . A lot of women respond to that .