I think it ' s a machodominance thing . Notice how they go there and don ' t move . It ' s like they ' re challenging you to step near them . <| sep |> I could half commit to roomie status . <| sep |> OP , first of all , don ' t stress about being 19 and a virgin , a lot of people don ' t lose their virginity well into their 20 ' s and as much as sex is nice and it feels good , it ' s waaaaaay blown out of proportion and people put way too much significance into it . It ' s really , REALLY , not that big of a deal . I promise . Second , a huge part of sex is that sometimes , you might not climax , it ' s as true for girls as it is for guys . If there ' s too much on your mind , if you ' re too stressed about doing it right , or if you ' re just generally not really feeling it , it ' s probably not going to happen . But that ' s still okay . It doesn ' t mean you or who you were with did anything wrong . Not to mention , since your experiences are over skype , there ' s plenty of reasons as to why you might not be as into it as you would be if you were in person , cyber sex is definitely not for everyone . My boyfriend and I are long distance and when we ' re together , he can ' t keep his hands off of me , but when we ' re separated for long periods of time , he ' s usually not up for doing anything like skypephone sex , and while sometimes it sucks for me , it ' s still okay , because I know it ' s not something I did or something he did , it ' s just the situation . Anyway this got long so TLDR Don ' t stress about sex , don ' t stress about not climaxing , it happens when it happens .