Shut your fucking mouth . It ' s the first quarter ! <| sep |> OK , seriously , two questions what did your DH do when your MIL showed your child the emptiness inside the box and name her ransom ? And what did your DH do when you broke down after everyone left ? These two questions will tell you how you will have to react to protect your child ' s happiness from here on out . <| sep |> But it ' s not really fat it ' s loose skin . <| sep |> unfortunately there is no common we . <| sep |> Your eyes might be the least important part of your vision . If we suddenly saw exactly what our eyes took in , you ' d be surprised how much work your brain does to filter and enhance what you see . Dyslexia , for example , isn ' t anything wrong with the person ' s eyes . It ' s their brain struggling to process that input . Also many cultures historically didn ' t differentiate between blue and g r e e n g reendistinctioninlanguage . Since their brains weren ' t wired to see the differences , they used the same name and considered them the sale color . Consider Japan they didn ' t differentiate between blue and green until after WWII . Their eyes are still the same , it ' s the wiring in their brain that changed .