I ' m starting the tradition of weekendafter holidays early in my family . All major holidays are postponed until the weekend . Does not bother me or the family in the least to eat a big dinner on Saturday instead of Thursday . <| sep |> The part of this that doesn ' t make sense is the very low incidence of pedophilia in the population . For there to be pedophile rings , you need a density of pedophiles that simply isn ' t there . <| sep |> Thank you for this ! ' I am slowly getting there . I feel like at this point , my parents are aware . I think my dad sympathizes , but my mom is in denial just like yours , but they were both INC since kids . But you ' re right , I have to live my life . I will live by those words . Thank you again for sharing ! I ' ve been so depressed over this , specially now that I found someone special .