nothing shes just exposing herself for being a fraud . just like bernie . bye bye jill . no trump postion for you bitch . <| sep |> Whys that ? They received him in a trade , not free agency . Is there some asinine NBA rule I ' m forgetting ? <| sep |> So since the patch you didn ' t need to change it . It is on by default right ? <| sep |> Gishki Emilia . But am I only able to talk to her ? <| sep |> I ' m doing okay . I ' ve been well versed in death since my close uncle died when I was 7 , my only grandpa at 12 , my dad ' s brother at 16 , then my dad at 18 . It didn ' t make it EASY , but it made it easier . 3 deaths cause you to get acclimatized to your mourning process . I also had a friend and a few second cousins in between there , too . My best advice is to learn how to grieve . Figure out things that help you feel better . Do you prefer to talk about the lost loved one ? Do that . Would you rather forget they existed and not talk about them ? That ' s fine too . Don ' t let anyone tell you that you ' re doing it wrong . For me , I avoid things that remind me of my dad , since it causes unnecessary stress . That said , sometimes you ' ll have hard days that are going to tear you down no matter how hard you try . Let them . Allow yourself to have a couple hours to cry and remember them . In the early weeks I would go out to the woods and just scream because it destressed me . Now , that feels unnecessary . Instead I ' ll listen to his favorite music and cry a while . It ' s okay to idolize a fallen loved one . It ' s okay to choose not to remember the bad times with them . Fill your head with good , happy memories and look at them with hope that you can use them to grow as a person . They ' re gone , but they ' re influence on you is not . I ' m not a believer in a traditional afterlife , but if you are , it may help to consider that you ' ll see them again . DON ' T let regrets take hold . My dad ' s death was sudden happened over the course of a week and I was so angry with him that he wouldn ' t go see a doctor even though he was clearly sick I didn ' t hug him goodnight the last week he was concious . That tore at me like nothing else . Don ' t make my mistake . Regret earns you nothing . Let it go . If you EVER need to talk about this sort of thing , I ' m always open to messages . Tweet at me , whatever you want to do , but if you need support and don ' t have a friend to talk to , I will always try to get back to you within the week .