It ' s almost like beta inclined guys prefer to get to know their partners in intimate one on one or two on one settings . But nah , obviously everybody prefers a good cold call , because whatever you don ' t see , instantly ceases to exist . You are the dreamer . <| sep |> Got it to lvl 50 , damn I swallow mana pots whole . <| sep |> You don ' t need to maintain someone closely , but a pie at holiday time for someone who might let you borrow their tractor to till up your garden plot in the spring . A pie for your neighbor who watches your cat when you go out of town , a pie for your cousin the accountant who files your taxes for you for free but only if you do the leg work for him , etc . Gifts are powerful interpersonal incentives .