Potter is on 9 GO for me . <| sep |> It kind of sounds like she is dating someone who she isn ' t exclusive with yet but likes more than you . I know that everyone is different and not all 18 yearolds are that immature but 18 is pretty young . Let her go , plenty for fish in the sea . Also , you might not be looking for that serious of a relationship but chances are if you find it with this girl she might not find it with you if that makes sense . A lot of eighteenyearolds think their shopping for their future husband or we but they don ' t know that they ' re not . <| sep |> Yeah , if I ' m having to beat around a bush I ' m probably going to gently suggest a trim . <| sep |> Again , more assumptions . Continue assuming things please . Who ' s really the moron here ?