Thanks for sharing <| sep |> Yeah but whens the last time tool released a video . <| sep |> Ahahaha , what can I say ? We ' re simple people . <| sep |> The best thing I ever did was to stop caring , in a way . I ' m not particularly shy anymore , I ' m just a quiet person , and I don ' t really have a lot of hobbies that get me out of the house . I learnt to casually enjoy my solitude . If I ' m at uni and want to get a coffee , I ' ll ask the people around me if they would like to come as well , but I ' m happy going by myself if need be . If I see people I know , I ' ll say hi , but I won ' t force a conversation or overstay . I have never had a best friend , and I always thought of my ' friends ' as more ' acquaintances ', but now I ' m defining it the other way around . I would consider many people as ' friends ' now , because I can be sure that many people in the world are actually nice , and will help you if you need it . You ' re probably trying too hard to put up a good front , and it ' s tiring . Not only that , but who you are is a perfectly acceptable character to play . Have you ever met people who just seem bland and without substance ? It ' s probably because you ' re interacting with the character that they have constructed for social interaction . The most interesting people are the ones who don ' t hide their personality it makes them more approachable .