Excuse me father , might you please give me some penis ? What ? What what ? Pass me that mufukin dick bro , no homo <| sep |> Facehuggers can still get ya if you run <| sep |> Whn I listened to his podcasts I didn ' t get the impression at all that he 1 Advised people to leave their family . 2 For relatively small infractionsHis point was , as far as I could tell , that it wasn ' t at all obvious that you should forgive your family for being abusive and that you could benefit greatly from leaving them behind . The examples I heard where not small infractions at all . He was also very clear that you should do this with the help of a therapist . I disagree with Stephan on many points , but I agree with him greatly that societies standard for what constitutes abuse is ridiculiusly high . So called spanking really is physical abuse , and actually does harm . It ' s certainly not at all obvious how this builds a support group as you call it .