Welcome to cosmic horror . <| sep |> That is the one thing it doesn ' t specifically say change a users postIt still stands that this is not a public forum . However it does say they can delete or suspend for whatever reason they choose , if they so choose . <| sep |> A fairly basic silk Madewell dress navy with pokedots , back cutouts that can be hidden by cardigan when appropriate that covers a wide range of events , from the may potentially need to look nice to mildly dressy , and also doesn ' t restrict around the stomach in any way . Might put some leggings under it as it ' s looking a little chilly , and ankle boots so I look , again , nice but they can be kicked off if that ' s what we ' re doing . My family can never agree on formality levels and the aunt hosting dinner is on the dressier end of the debate , so I try to cover a broad swath of possibilities . I have to look nice enough to not embarrass my mom when I leave her house , but not too ostentatious to look like I ' m trying to embarrass the people who show up in graphic tees . Also I ' m always the only one without a date one of my cousins is bringing her ex boyfriend this year ? ?? so I gotta give off that like a fish needs a bicycle air of selfsufficient awesomeness .