i only met her dad since the rest of the family is gone or just dickheads and he loves me and i love him , he respects me a lot and i cant wait to see him everyday different country <| sep |> Use one MLB harp as filler . It will take awhile to fully uncap all your guns at least 3 months unless you get really , really lucky . <| sep |> That ' s spot on . I ' m American and think I can give some perspective on this . A lot of it has to do with our history as settlers and explorers of new territory , and the cowboy culture that goes with that . Remember that our country is relatively young compared to a European country , and has a distinct origin and early history story , which we mythologize as showing that grit , determination and individualism are vital American qualities . Whatever the cause is , I definitely think there is some truth to the notion that , in much of American culture , accountability is seen as more important than compassion . Note that this is probably more true on the abstract level , ie in how people want their government to distribute wealth to people on the far side of the country who may look and act very different from them , than oneonone , where basic humanity comes more into play . This may be why the contrast between individual social behavior and politics seems so stark . The fact that we have such a nonhomogenous population , in terms of race as well as culture and values , likely also contributes to the feeling that we are not really one community .