Totally . Oh you can do IVF ! Don ' t have 50 k to spend on infertility treatments ! You can adopt ! You have one kid ? When ' s the other coming ? When is the third ? It never ends . Family wants to see family continued . they will always focus on it . It also sucks to feel like you have to give a reason , like infertility . Oh hai , I ' m dealing with this thing and feeling a lot of discomfort around it . But sure I love talking about it at holiday gathering , that ' s awesome . I have a lot of shame around my health issues already , so the inability to procreate is just another awesome thing to add to the pile . Then we have language like barren women , which is also very awesome and totally not misogynistic at all . <| sep |> That ' s pretty good too , but can be expensive at times given its song count compared to the other two I mentioned .