You asked . <| sep |> Okay , I will try that . <| sep |> No its not lol <| sep |> That was their main talking point this entire campaign , and certainly not them just saying the government claims that reading the Wikileaks papers is illegal . I can ' t remember a single waking moment that CNN wasn ' t telling people it was illegal . Oh wait , that ' s not true at all . <| sep |> That must have felt terrible to receive . I can only imagine what shame and guilt might have come up for you from that letter . That ' s a reality that I will never know and may never be able to fully understand and honestly nor will the person that wrote that letter to you . You ' re posting in rdecidingtobebetter I ' m assuming because you felt exactly how the letter was intent ended to make you feel however guilt and shame are shallow motivators . They only work when other people are around to help you feel it . The truth is you may never see that person again and you are allowing them to control how it is you act and behave . Possibly the first sustainable step to becoming better is finding a place of motivation that does not rely on other people . Finding the ' why ' to your motivation that is deeper than any insult from any passerby . Some motivation that even in times like now you can look to and be inspired by . So why is it that you want to be better ? Also , as a side note , i ' m imagining a young male 1625 that literally has nothing better to do than to shame a random person for their clothing choices . Defying the expectation of the male gaze isn ' t as much a crime as they would lead you to believe , I promise . It ' s both sexist to assume that they can have a say in how you dress and also sexist to assume how you dress should appease them . There are far more people out there who don ' t care about your clothing choices than those that do . Most sane people don ' t .