we have sex about once a week , but that already not enough for me . We have sex 23 times a week , but she claims it ' s not enough for her . She wants it daily . he would like to have more sex , but that I don ' t do anything that puts him in the mood . Not to be rude , but you are doing it wrong then . My only advice I can give regarding this is that you figure out what turns him on , and do it when you want sex . He is afraid to tell you his true desires and fetishes because of the dynamic of your relationship . You need to stop being shy , and try new things until you see what gets him going . Dirty talking is a must , for me . Tease him . I like being the dominant one , but it can be hot when she is . For all you know , he wants to be told what to do . Tie him down , blindfold him , he ' s most likely shy and will pretend like he doesn ' t like it but watch his cock . His cock won ' t lie . Experiment . I would never tell a girl that I like my balls played with or my ass grabbed , but a good lover figures those things out by your body reactions . You can ' t blame him for your inability to be sexy and arousing . Yes , you are both to blame here , but you aren ' t helping anyone by blaming him . Also , make sure he isn ' t looking at porn and isn ' t masturbating . That can quite easily destroy his sex drive for you when he ' s using it on thousands of hot women .