Our favourite is Cake Beauty ! Receive 40 % off all of your CrueltyFree Cake Beauty favourites until noon on Saturday 26 , 2016 at USE Checkout code CAKEFRIDAY 40 ! !<| sep |> Vaude Brenta 40 L for most UL trips . I use my MEC 65 L if UL isn ' t a concern or if I need extra food or more clothing . This is Hubba , Xtherm , and soon to be EE quilt as well as canister cooking . <| sep |> It could be that he is afraid of change . He ' s used to you being home all the time , and is worried about the stresses your job could bring , or you not being home to tend to chores and run errands during the day . You report this is unusual behavior for your husband , so I would be inclined to just wait and see how he adjusts when you start work . But I would also point out that desperately wanting a partner to stay home and not be selfsufficient can also be a red flag and controlling behavior . Just something to be aware of .