Usually because cults have strong devotions to their leader and wild delusions about their leaders abilities . <| sep |> I hate to lay this truth on you , but dating someone like her is what makes you a loser . Like literally , you are losing out on the good things in life by being with her . No I don ' t think you are a loser , but by walking away strong you are showing you value yourself . You dont need to be in a relationship to be happy or successful at life . especially at age 20 . I mean it ' s more socially acceptable to be single and exploring yourself and developing yourself at this age than it is to be in a relationship <| sep |> I can ' t blame the guy he ' s new to the server and pretty hyped for 3 . 0 I understand what you mean though Posey .