Seriously , let me reiterate . Focus on YOU . If you have even the slightest chance of getting back together down the line , it ' s only going to be because you guys grew as people , seperately . That ' s it , your only chance . So , focus on yourself and grow . If you two don ' t get back together , chances are by focusing on yourself as much as possible you ' ll end up in a different placeas a different person anyway , maybe even end up with a different person . Everyone will agree , first loves are the mother fucking crucible . It ' s the hardest , most desperate and painful thing to deal with . On the up side , after the first love , everything gets easier . <| sep |> What did I just watch ? <| sep |> It ' s OK sadpepe , here , have a coat it ' s cold this time of year .