Not really looking to blame lack or surplus of success on anything . I am doing just fine , but thanks for your concern . <| sep |> That ' s the craziest thing I ' ve read this week ! <| sep |> Yes , I do . If you could afford this car then you wouldn ' t need a loan . Found the rpersonalfinance user . <| sep |> Not to discuss it ? Argh . I have the same issue at my work . Shit that I need to talk to other employees about because I need to know if I ' m the only one treated like shit or not . turns out , it ' s not just me . But don ' t discus anything with anyone . When I say anything , I ' m not even allowed to ask people what time they finish , or what they ' re doing . I ' m not allowed to talk about the boss which I ' ve never done , until she told me not to even though I ' ve got it from everyone that she talks shit about me and everyone else . So I found a new job . Kind of not related . But yeah . I hate it when people say don ' t discus it . It ' s my life . It ' s a free country . I ' ll discuss whatever the hell I want .