Oh I totally get that I have that in real life all the time too assuming everyone else is right , I ' m wrong , and overdefending my thoughts and actions . And I ' m 43 ! ! It does get better . If you can , don ' t take this troll personally . If he had legitimate advice , he could have given it without personally insulting you and breaking rules . He had lots of opportunity to edit his comment to remove the offensive bits and make any actual content more clear , and he didn ' t take it . Personally I don ' t see your story as narcissistic . Best wishes for a better future . <| sep |> Because technically it ' s all IDE , itself a leftover term from when drive controllers were located on the motherboard or a separate controller .