I ' m so sorry . The holidays can be really stressful and stress is of course rough with any marriage but especially a new one . The first year or two of marriage was pretty rough and it took us time to get into a groove . You have a lot on your plate the next few days but it will pass . I wouldn ' t tell people if I were upset I ' d wait until I could relax and appreciate the well wishes . Maybe after you can sit down and eat . and if you don ' t want to you don ' t have to at all . It ' s ok to need to get your mind right . I would do whatever will stress you out less <| sep |> No , those players are rewards cards , you get to keep them . You receive them at particular stages of progress beating 10 games in the schedule for example , kind of like how you would receive a reward card after beating every stage of the road to the finals challenges last year .