VVV . Bought the album . It ' s worth the purchase . <| sep |> In this comment you ' ve accepted that officers will have to use their judgment , which you ' ve described as undesirable . You can ' t have your cake and eat it too . I think this idea of yours accomplishes nothing . <| sep |> Join the club . We can ' t afford jackets . <| sep |> When a girl doesn ' t return your messages , she ' s hoping you ' ll take the hint and leave her alone . It takes under 30 seconds to respond to a text message . If she were interested in you , she ' d easily make this minimum effort . She ' d welcome your attention and want to extend the conversation with you . Quit bothering her . She doesn ' t want you texting every couple of days checking on her , asking how she is , sending her wellwishes . You ' re annoying and you ' re socially clueless and you ' re not taking the hint , and if she actually has to directly tell you to quit bothering her , you turned what was supposed to be an easy transition for her into an uncomfortable confrontation . If you care about her , why are you trying to push things toward an uncomfortable confrontation ?