Hell , I can ' t even get mine to hop me to a different server . <| sep |> James didn ' t have the choice to live . Lily did . Voldemort would have killed James regardless of whether he would ' ve stand aside , run , gotten under the bed or stayed to fight . To die was not a choice , Voldemort had already decided to kill him . Whereas he gave Lily the opportunity to stand aside and live , because Snape had asked him to spare her . He would ' ve let her live , and he gave Lily the choice , but she decided to die for Harry . That ' s the key difference . <| sep |> sausage party ? what about it ? That ' s the term people use for your parties that have nothing but 20 retarded guys milling around drinking beer and not one fucking woman seen for miles . I ' m surprised you ' ve never overheard your friends use that phrase .