Use the fb group like a normal person fam <| sep |> Fake seller . Avoid . <| sep |> It sounds like MIL might have gone to an RBN forum or something similar , and had that lingo thrown at her . Narcs and other abusers have a habit of appropriating official sounding language when applied to them in a negative fashion and projecting that shit . Not gonna work in this instance , because FIL specifically asked to speak to you . Was this text before or after his dramatic announcement ? Because after all that , I ' d just block them on everything , no exceptions . <| sep |> Exactly . Our system needs criticism if it ' s going to improve . Sitting around pretending everything is perfect and that America is a utopia is just idiotic . The whole point of freedom of speech is so that we can spread our ideas about what needs to change .