god damn I have not read this yet and as a life long die hard fan im honestly scared to <| sep |> They ' re ok . They ' re probably winning 85 games again , until the historic FA class of 2018 lets them surround the baby bombers with good talent . <| sep |> us a vowel as well . like how both d and b are consanents would both be the same <| sep |> I don ' t think it matters much . Like , it ' s really silly to follow all of the rules for being the perfect human specimen , that ' s why most of us don ' t . She ' s not unhealthy . As far as we know , there ' s nothing wrong with her medically , so like let ' s just leave her be . MOST women are around her size . I asked several guys there how telling her she ' s a fatty and can ' t be attractive until she ' s skinny enough for their standards could ever help her . None of them had an answer . Encouraging healthy lifestyles doesn ' t have to be hey , lose weight . Like , you can just encourage them in alternative ways . Come for a run with me , I ' d love the company . Wanna try this new recipe with me ? If they don ' t want to lose the weight , then live and let live , who cares ? Being skinny I hear people tell me all the time what I need to do with my body and I can only imagine how much more cruel and hurtful it would be if I was on the big side of the spectrum . A friend of mine about that girl ' s size cried in my arms like a baby because she was worried her boyfriend could never love a Fat girl , and it ' s ridiculous . When society drives people to selfharm and selfhate and even suicide over their weight , you know it ' s gone too far .