I see what you did there . smite singed support <| sep |> Then sit on the stove . <| sep |> For genealogy I ' d recommend checking out rgenealogy and their wiki . Lots of good resources there . <| sep |> I agree with other posters . You can ' t keep ~~ fucking ~~ making love to the same person and not develop ANY feelings . It ' s the case for both men and women . I read scientific paper a while back , and it claims that levels of endorfins , oxytocin are raising once you see a person you had sex with MORE THAN TWICE . It ' s you body ' s biochemical response it ' s just how we work . After sex with same person few times our bodies are correlate this person with pleasure , sex , and yes , feelings . The only way FOR ME to deal with this is to compartmentalize , and every single day repeat the following mantra yes , sex with XYZ person is great . she ' s amazing . But I know that this is all its ever going to be . I know that it can end anytime , and I accept it . I will enjoy it while it lasts , and will cherish a memories of it when it ends . And It will end . There is no happily ever after here . So I kind of going into it with end in sight whether it ' s tomorrow or in a year . I know kind of fuckedup view , but helps me keep my sanity . Also , at least for me , makes every time we see each other special , and I go at it 100 %. In a way every time we fuck , we fuck like it ' s last time ! !!!