I ' ll drink to that , cheers ! <| sep |> I did that , check my history I ' m pretty heavily downvoted on every ProTrump comment . That said I still find this place a pretty hard sub to have conversation in . Like when there are serious news articles posted in here I go in comments to check opinion of people and all I see are Trump quotes and such , no real conversation besides a few comments here and there . <| sep |> I think you ' re in the wrong place . If you have questions about things permanently affecting your sex drive IMO unlikely but possible , go see a doctor . Stress is a notorious libidokiller . Being a mom is a notorious libidokiller . Scheduling times for sex and pushing through until it feels good is the usual recommendation . Couples therapy is the usual recommendation if you feel unsupported by your partner .