I just don ' t have the time or the want for a boyfriend right now . I ' m juggling 2 jobs and school and when my day is over I just want to go home and sleep , not go and throw on makeup and get dressed up to go out . <| sep |> Just gonna give you a small little fun bit here . You ' re quoting the books you belittle them for beliving , not realizing that 99 % of the things taught in both books are barely followed in the modern world by current practitioners , and you can ' t come up with actual examples of those things happening . Can you point me to stories about a religious head being so incensed by a follower leaving that they have a team of PR people defame them in the media , follow them and harass them in their daily lives and suing them for revealing secrets of the program they follow ? And have you heard of a family being told by a wing of their church that if their daughter leaves , they must cut her out of their lives under the penalty of actual forced internment at what basically amounts to a black site ? What about members of a religious order who begin to speak out , and then just . disappear . From everything . You want to draw these parallels to words in a book that aren ' t followed and related them to an actual cult because you think that any organized religion is no better than a cult , and it just really shows that you ' re the kind of person who ' s more than willing to take pieces of the whole to present them as the end all so you can keep believing that .