damn , was hoping they might this year <| sep |> She cheated on you as much she cheated on him . As covictim of this cheater , you own one to this guy . <| sep |> At least by now you should know the fights ! <| sep |> That ' s a bunch of good stuff right there . <| sep |> That ' s your opinion , and it ' s unpopular because it ' s wrong . Any number of evil things are done by extremely good looking , kindly , dashing friendly men . And friends and family . There ' s no way to profile and rule out if you approach and catcall or how you doin '? or smile baby , or nice shirt , you are standing out from among the crowd and alinging yourself with a long tradition of men who encroach . It ' s reflex to look around and assess safety and intent immediately . If the environment looks like it warrants and can foster safe interactions , and the guy looks safe and clean , then there ' s a reassessment to see if what was said was creepy . Handsome might factor in but never over and above safety . Walking down the street is never , ever the kind of environment where comments from handsome men are welcome . At a gym it ' s an uphill battle to convince us you ' re not unsafe , even if handsome . Especially if handsome .