Ok fine , here ' s a like to balance that out . <| sep |> No . Read Karl Jung on male and female archetypes Iron John by Robert Bly is pretty good too . Talking about inherent gender is important and should not , I believe , be removed from psychological discourse . It ' s also important to note that this in no way excludes transgender people , nor does it penalize anyone for not conforming to societal gender norms . This is beyond what society deems proper for the genders , it is not biologically deterministic it is in the realm of myth and psychology . <| sep |> I have the social skills of a mime with chronic alcoholism . <| sep |> How would you estimate the cost and complexity and realistic prospects of an American who is not wealthy and has no unique skills , emigrating to your country ?