We don ' t need to imagine it . They actually did play together . <| sep |> Got married on Tuesday it was great ! , then announced to my husband ' s family on Wednesday , since only his parents knew . However , I failed to let MIL know what I was comfortable with . I was barely comfortable telling his family . I kind of just want to live out my pregnancy in secret and pop out of the closet with a shiny new baby , but husband nixed it . She announced my pregnancy over facebook without asking me and now every single person she ' s ever met knows , including all of my husband ' s exes , random high school friends I don ' t talk to , and dozens of people I ' ve never met . My own grandparents and a few close friends don ' t even know yet . But literally half of this tiny town knows now , and it felt really . exposing ? Husband pointed out that she never would have announced publicly if she ' d known we didn ' t want her to , it just never occurred to me that this was her announcement so I didn ' t think to mention it . Her facebook feed is blowing up with congrats on being a grandma ! from people I ' ve never met , almost nobody extended their congrats to us . It ' s her moment in the spotlight and I wish I was okay with it .