I would like to have a theme to my aquarium , so it isn ' t just mess of random decorations and plants and such . Do you have any suggestions on this ? <| sep |> coming from moa ? ouch <| sep |> This is mine <| sep |> Wow ! 16 hours and 24000 comments later and I went through every top level comment not one guy mentioned give birth . <| sep |> What ' s up with that glass ? <| sep |> Most people don ' t know what her first name is off of the top of their heads though . Granted , I do , but only because I am a frequent user of BrantSteele <| sep |> I ' ve already gotten in the habit of snacking so using something like this shouldn ' t be a problem . Appreciate the help . <| sep |> I wouldn ' t pursue this but I probably would change pediatricians . She seems like she might have poor judgment . Unfortunately sometimes parenting comes with negative emotions , often due to the words or actions of others . Can ' t do much about it but try and work on your own reaction and recovery time , so you aren ' t stewing and missing out on enjoying your kids . Congrats on the baby !