How was this discovered ? <| sep |> Your family should understand your job situation . Just explain it . <| sep |> I have a pair of ATHM 50 x headphones . They ' re pretty great all around . Deerhunter sounds amazing in them . Somehow , I even snatched them for $ 85 . <| sep |> If you don ' t care about people enough to remember their names , assign funny nicknames . Then they ' ll wanna be your friends and you can open credit cards in their name and make some money lol <| sep |> Definitely , you can only care so much about someone that has other priorities . Eventually they ' ve got to move on , but they weren ' t at fault for caring that much in the first place . <| sep |> So only the coasts should matter ? <| sep |> I would have said third person a few months ago but I read Mr Penumbra ' s 24 hour bookstore and loved it so I wouldn ' t like to say either way . For general storytelling I ' d say third person , but for when an innermonologue is more interesting than the events around the character I think maybe first . For example I ' m toying with the idea at the moment of somebody who returns from work to a surprise party , but the way he describes people at the party is the focus for the opening chapters so it would be first person .