Now you keep changing your measure and the goal post . This why I don ' t debate with children . <| sep |> I thought he always was having visions of his death since he was ' born '?<| sep |> Putin Russia on the Map Again <| sep |> but throw in sex and the immersion is suddenly brokenWell , yeah . When you ' re sitting down for a serious story or a romance and they decide to put in some porn right in your face , that would kind of do the trick . No one is objecting to characters being sexually active , it ' s the actual gratuitous showing of it that ' s up for debate . It ' s not about purity or any of that , at least not for a good chunk of people making this point , but that actually showing the sex doesn ' t serve the writing in any way whatsoever . It ' s purely there to get the reader off , and thus when the reader isn ' t there to get off , it ' s just in the way .