That it puts a strain on relations and Germany isn ' t OK with being spied upon by an ally . Merkel shut up about that quick though , once it came out that Germany was doing the same to its a l l i e s r e p o r t e d t obespyingonusothersafterm . Every state spies on everyone they can , that ' s just the way things work . Any state that doesn ' t is putting themselves at an information disadvantage . <| sep |> birth controls can either lower sex drive or raise them . it depends on how the body responds to the hormones in the pill . so this is likely the reason for the change in your sex life with her . if she ' s off birthcontrol now it could take a while for her body to get back to normal after being on birthcontrol for so long but definitely will be corrected at some point very soon just be patient ! good luck on the baby making soon ! !!!!!