Exactly this . I rather someone leave and cancel the match than proceed to get ass raped by the enemy team . 5 v 6 is possible it ' s also demoralizing and those five have to play a lot better than the six . <| sep |> I think it ' s great that you care about your ex and I think it really shows you have a big heart and a lot of empathy . However , your ex isn ' t the one ruining your relationship right now . You are . He desperately wants to get back together , So he does the one thing he knows will keep your attention . He ' s holding himself hostage until you come around . I get that you ' re concerned for him and like I said , it ' s not an inherantly bad trait . But how long are you going to make his mental problems your problems ? If Jason is The One , you have to sever contact with your ex . Call his friendsthe copswhoever if you think he ' ll harm himself , then cut him off . Jason isn ' t going to wait very long for you . You can probably measure the time in days , not months and certainly not longer . You are going to lose him if you can ' t prioritize him . Choose which relationship you want to save . If you decide on your ex . well , why not just date him again ? You ' re going to let him goad you into driving off every other man you date if you give in to this behavior any longer .