This was my exact reaction . I gagged a bit <| sep |> It ' s honestly really hard to explain unless you ' re in depression . I ' m feeling better and forgot what my depression was like two days ago . Edit Fuck , it ' s coming back . <| sep |> Saying there ' s no meaningful difference between trans woman , transgender woman , transsexual woman , transgender female , transsexual female , male to female and MTF has nothing at all to do with throwing nonbinary people under the bus . Most of those terms aren ' t even of nonbinary people , and given that this is the gender field I consider it more transphobic to consider trans women to be a different gender from cis women . And given that this is a dating app , it just made it easier for cis people to specify that they don ' t want to date trans people based on whatever stereotypes they have , and to accuse trans people of ' deceiving ' them and actively lying if they didn ' t state they ' re trans when given that option .