Agreed , it ' s pretty rad . <| sep |> Of course , they must all be assholes . Literally every last one of them . It is selfevident that the possibility that the problem is you is ~ 0 %.<| sep |> Stay in the house . Grab whatever you need for yourself , and set yourself up in another roombedroom . You can get away from her if you need to , and you won ' t be seen as abandoning the children . Also remember that they are YOUR children too , and she can ' t keep you from them . That was seriously some messed up shit . You need to seek a lawyer as soon as possible . I had something happen similar on Christmas eve a few years ago , I understand how much it can hurt . Just make sure that you ' re doing the right thing for you and for your kids .