I believe I can fly <| sep |> Presumably then Adam would have remarked that he took a day off as well . Also , looking a bit more into Adam ' s words , he said that Barry did come back different , implying that Adam stayed put while Barry took his gap day . <| sep |> I don ' t see the point , you can ' t even read criticism of something you wrote without freaking out and insulting someone over it . I can already tell how the rest of the discussion will go . <| sep |> The guy sounds like an absolute piece of shit and there ' s a solid chance he still is . The heart of what people are trying to say here is that you have to let go of these things in your past or they ' ll stay with you forever and inhibit your ability to further yourself , the forgiveness required is just trying to no longer feel hatred when you think of that person , and then you ' ll think of them less and less .