Don ' t believe everything you read on the Internet . <| sep |> I ' ve taken personality tests and I constantly score INTJ , every time . While I love my strengths in being super analytical . Maybe you ' re actually an INTP ? rmbti lists John ' s Personality Test on the side bar . For profiles , rentp recommends . I don ' t like any one person around meThen no , you ' re barking up the wrong tree . Don ' t waste time with people you don ' t like or respect . Find people who make you feel good . Make effort to develop a comprehensive mental picture of acquaintances and the basics of what their lives are like . I ' m talking theory of mind here . Once people realize that you ' get them ', some will warm up to you and it helps you engage emotionally . For dating , nothing beats a formal introduction as an icebreaker . Friend of a friend thing . Say for instance , you ' re at a wedding and you ask a friend to introduce you to someone you find attractive . Avoid approaching total strangers . That can be annoying . A little small talk won ' t kill you . It ' s how people feel each other out and explore relationship potential . Appearances matter . Shoot for a sharp well groomed look that lets the world know how competent you are . There are subs for that . And pay attention to your car , keep everything clean and tidy .