It ' s probably that he is fine to be back and they don ' t give a definite date before as people get too excited . <| sep |> Just tell her that you do mind and that you won ' t provide her with a reference . If you ' re close you could soften the blow a bit like Oh , you must be confusing me with Dave . We worked on different teams , remember ? but that doesn ' t seem like the case here . <| sep |> Oh my god I have never had a comment resonate with me so much . They are so , so pretty and beautiful . I wish I could be beautiful . <| sep |> Because that takes work and doesn ' t give them warm an fuzzies like the potty of strangers on the internet does . So many weight related issues in the sub the last few days , all of which could be solved by loosing so weight , with the exception of one girl that was already in the underweight category .