I ' d love to see Lebron always playing against mantoman defenses . With the strength he has , I don ' t know if anyone would be able to stop him , not even the 8889 pistons <| sep |> I met someone new about three months ago , and he is so , so wonderful , but I am scared to commit . This is great ! Well , the meeting someone new part , anyway . I ' ve found the best thing to mend a broken heart is just time . and distraction . You had a wonderful few years with Jarred , and I ' m sure in that time you ' ve grown , changed and learned in ways you otherwise wouldn ' t have . How exciting that you have the opportunity to put that knowledge and experience to use with someone new ! At least , with someone who won ' t drive away to leave you crying with his mom . Exes are , weirdly , kind of a gift . I can think of two exes I have that , when the relationship ended , I thought my entire world had crumbled . It took a long time to get over them , and most of it was faking it ' til I made it out of that dark hole . Looking back now , I ' m so grateful to have had those years with them , to know what ups and downs are going to be in a relationship , and oddly enough , for breaking my heart . I am a better person for having gone through it and coming out the other side . The key was just to keep moving forward , though , and not letting the relationship ' s memories drag you down in one miserable spot like quicksand . Whatever mantra you need to keep moving on , use it .