My wife left me 4 months ago after 9 years and it gets better . I didn ' t see it coming and was devastated . Begged her to give working it out a shot and she wouldn ' t even hear it . Decided she wanted to leave the country and start a new life I guess . I exercised some more and hit up the dating apps and it was great for my self esteem . Starting a new job this week too . Still having thanksgiving with just my mom but I ' m ok with it . All I ' m saying is a lot of times a divorce is actually better for the person that gets dumped in that they get a fresh start on life . At 27 too you ' re young enough to still get so much done . <| sep |> I dont know if it is selfish not to fill out evaluations , I did the evaluations and evaluated carefully anyway . It ' s just the fact that this might not benefit me at all unless I retake the course . See , those evaluations are only viewed by professors , so they are different from ratemyprof . com , which might not help student who decided to take the course in the future as much in terms of avoiding some profs .