My extended family are new exmos fallout from the November policy and aren ' t comfortable with drinking , although my sister mentioned she did some wine tastings the last time she went to Europe . I did feel comfortable having coffee with the pumpkin pie but I was the only one . DW is still TBM , however , so I don ' t drink mainly for her sake . I ' ll admit I ' d like to try it sometime , but I ' d rather avoid all of the carbs if possible without drinking something really strong like vodka . <| sep |> The power of Grandmothers , it ' s said that they have mystical powers , I ' m convinced now . <| sep |> When it comes to weight and how society pressures beauty , sure they are . Show me a women who isn ' t concerned with how they look and I ' ll show you a liar . Obviously this applies to men , but they are able to laugh it off a lot better .