True , but when there is evidence like this is it not good to share it ? Firstly , it ' s not evidence and it ' s tautologous . Sure you can share it , but we don ' t learn anything meaningful from such tendentious overreaching . If anything , it ' s more likely to spread misinformation . <| sep |> Aren ' t you the optimist . <| sep |> Enough of this heresy ! <| sep |> We didn ' t save ourselves for marriage . We were having sex outside of marriage for years . We just happened to fall deeply enough in love to get married . However , my wife is a very monogamous person , and I ' m all about monoamory but I ' ve always wanted a polysexual relationship . I decided that my love for her was more important than figuring out my sexuality . You ' re right , in that way I did make my bed . edit also , yes , she ' s on antidepressants .