Better to be a blue taco than a blue ham sandwich . <| sep |> Oh I just mean that a good majority of the looking to date posts on here are by guys who claim to be shy , insecure , introverted , suffer from anxiety , depression etc . They and many , many other gay guys on apps share your concern , so there will be a lot of guys on apps who have all of that in common with you , so you shouldn ' t be so worried about it as you say you are and should be able to find someone who won ' t hold any of that against you . <| sep |> In the arms of the angelFly away from hereFrom this dark , cold hotel roomAnd the endlessness that you fearYou are pulled from the wreckageOf your silent reverieYou ' re in the arms of the angelMay you find some comfort here