Hi my name is Tristin . This is the story of my father . When I was 2 , I guess my parents weren ' t getting along , and at one point , my father beat me and my sister for spilling pancake batter on the floor because we got really hungry and wanted to eat I guess it was mid day and he was still sleeping . My mother comes home from work to hear us both still crying from him beating us . She gives my sister a bath to wash off the pancake batter , and finds that she has really bad bruises on her . She finally decides to leave as far as she tells . She heads back to her hometown in Pennsylvania and meets up with her highschool sweetheart who is also a dick , for the record . I don ' t remember this . I do remember at least two boxes of stuff he ' d send with no consistent mailing , not sure why . One contained a giant gorilla doll I pretended was Lord Farquaad when the Shrek movie released . I don ' t remember much else . Around the time I ' m in first grade though he did do a visit before that I barely remember , he decides to visit us and try to win our feelings with physical objects , like pet snails , toys , and food . I didn ' t go to food with them because I wanted to watch my snail . I regret that . He stays for a week or two maybe less than a week and then leaves again . I hear from him from some kind of facetime chat with my mom , but they slowly become more infrequent , to the point they stop around the time he leaves . I do not hear from him again . I do not get a birthday card from him on my birthday that year . Or any other years ! I do not get a get well card from him when I was sick in the hospital in second grade after they removed an absess . I got more love from my 2 nd grade bully , at least they sent me a get well card , though I don ' t remember the content . I didn ' t hear from him until 2007 , when he died in a car accident on a highway when he collided with a semi truck . I don ' t know why I should feel bad for the guy ! He was abusive , and he didn ' t seem to care for me ! Fresh Prince basically helped me with these feelings when I saw this clip , but it ' s implied Will ' s dad decided to walk out on Will ' s life , not that his mother left because he was abusivegMNsMdnSBIk