If Ryan and Kelly watched The Office , Kelly would say they were like Jim and Pam . <| sep |> Anywhere in Amelia Island <| sep |> Idk about Britain , but in the US waitresses are paid a little less than half of minimum wage . Basically , customers have to pay their wages . It ' s this fucking guilt tripping process . It ' s ridiculous . I just want to go eat food , not have a dilemma on if my waitress deserves to eat tonight or not . <| sep |> Honestly , this is why I place importance on finding ways to be happy on my own without the need for physical strength like producing music or reading and learning something new , writing , meditation or any other artform along those lines . I feel like there are still many ways to live a happy life even if you aren ' t physically able to rock climb . This is a great book if anyone is interested . P o w e r I n trovertsWorldTalkingdptel