Edit never mind <| sep |> They put wayyyy too much importance on image and appearance . It wasn ' t until I was in college and my roommatebestfriend asked , Why does your family care so much about their looks ? I stopped wearing makeup that day in an attempt to learn to love myself as I was , without frills . That was 4 years ago and I only recently started wearing makeup again for funspecial occasions . My family will still often comment on my homelysickly appearance and i ' m learning to accept that and maybe be an example that attractiveness does not equal happiness . <| sep |> Tree Wizard is finally becoming ultimate . <| sep |> ESTJRyan Adams with Kurt Vile at Red Rocks sounds like a Clue answerComplicated emotions about a girl . typical