I thought it was a reference to the Yves Montand movie Wages of Fear 7 FPmlJUiVfU <| sep |> Exactly what I thought . Weddings are about joy , not guilt . You and your husband are the only people that need to be there everyone else invited is gravy . Don ' t invite toxic gravy . <| sep |> Ah . Excuses . There ' s always time to grab a coffee with someone or hit up the beach with some friendsHaha . The lead up was so stressful as you can imagine . I can ' t believe I had the balls to go get her from her chair and ask if she wanted to go dance jump around , not like slow dance haha . Also kind of looked at it with the mindset that everything I was doing was friendly and if she were to say no to me , she would ' ve been the one that looked bad because I was being just being friendly . No reason to not go for it ayeOh no man . That ' s not good . Have you talked to anyone about it ? Friends ?