Me gusta que me sepas leer tal cual . Abrazo chabn . <| sep |> Great picture . I love your turquoise background . <| sep |> Having worked at Canada ' s equivalent of bestbuy , this isn ' t necessarily the case . If something was put on the shelf accidentally before the street date , the system literally won ' t ring it through and there ' s nothing you can do to get around it . <| sep |> There probably a auburn is actually a town in Georgia joke in there somewhere . <| sep |> argh I ' m not skinny enough for them <| sep |> This too shall pass as they say . I was married to my college sweetheart for nearly 10 years , together for nearly 14 . So the idea of dating , flirting , etc . scares the daylights out of me . I told my therapist I ' m just gonna own the phrase Forever Alone . She told me to pump the breaks and just wait . Then she reminded me that most therapists will always recommend waiting a year before putting yourself back out there because that first year after divorce is when you have all of this firsts on your own , and it ' s actually healthy to learn to be ok on your own and deal with your baggage from your failed marriage . That way when we do decide to maybe open ourselves up we are in a place to have a healthy view of relationships and what we want out of them . The funniest thing she told me was to maybe get comfortable with the idea of having liaisons with men before jumping into a relationship . This made me laugh as I ' ve only ever been with my exh . She told me she recommends this for people like me so we can learn the difference between love and sex and that while both are possible , it won ' t always happen so I don ' t get emotions involved where there are not any and set myself up for more hurt . I ' m not there , yet . But I ' m starting to understand her meaning . We will all get there . Just give it time . You don ' t need to be ready or even try for a long damn time . Don ' t let anyone rush you .