I unfortunately can ' t cut contact with her , literally forced to speak with her . I am thinking about telling her that we should postpone , but I want to sleep on it and speak with some friends first . Just wanted to get more opinions so posted here too . I appreciate it . <| sep |> Heater with Insane vocals made by uinfade <| sep |> My dad was that guy . We didn ' t hunt . We did other things equally bonding . He was alpha and I chose alpha as well . I miss him . <| sep |> Already reached the goal but you can still preregister , they might extend the goal . I think the extended Mobius Global goal . <| sep |> So does people in UK . We ' re going to Europe for the weekend . But UK is a part of Europe already ? !<| sep |> I have no advice , but just a general observation about how life has played out for me . People change . When you are young , your perspective is totally different . When I was in my 20 s , I was totally against having kids . I had friends all over the planet , had done a couple of backpacking tours through Europe , and I just wanted to experience life and travel every inch of this planet . When I got married , that was still the plan . But our plans went awry with a totally unexpected pregnancy right around when I was near 30 . At the beginning , we wanted to terminate it . But something happened suddenly inside . I don ' t know what . I cannot describe it . We are not religious at all , but the thought of termination just physically made me sick and it was the same for my wife . We decided to have that baby she threw me into several compromises . I had to compromise on all my plans , financial , career plans , had to scale back and even give up hobbies , and several of my single life friends drifted away . Then , she turned out to be the sweetest and finest girl for us . Parenthood opened up new things . Teaching her , taking her to the school , and experiencing life through her all over again as kids was a different experience . New friends were made , new plans were made . Now , our financial and life plan consisted of having only one child . I slowly started getting back on track to my aggressive career moves . We were a few years late , but so what . We could still do our things and raise her in the process , no problem . Except , last year , it all broke down . The emptiness of having only one child was too much to overcome . Our sweet daughter was growing up , and the thought of having a loan child who won ' t ever have a sibling was finally starting to turn us around . So this time , we actually planned for our second child , and had another fantastic baby daughter . All our plans have simply evaporated at this time . Now , we live life , we don ' t plan for anything . In the end , it was important for us to meet our own children than traveling the world and meet new people . This can happen . I am neither advocating your wife ' s side , nor giving you any specific advice . I am only bringing about the fact that she totally meant it when she said she didn ' t want to have kids , but the switch has now flipped in her . It hasn ' t happened for you , maybe it never will , but it has for her , and the urge to have kids is very strong , and very real . For us , we were both aboard fortunately , but for you guys , you need to be aware of this , think from her perspective and go from there . I wish you the best .