You ' re stretching very common there . One poorly designed website that doesn ' t look like it gets much traffic doesn ' t make it very common to have a damn handkerchief with a map on it . Did you Google search map handkerchief like I suggested ? If so , you will see how common the practice actually is . there are plenty of different map handkerchiefs out there , it ' s not just one poorly designed website . I only linked to that one because they provide a customized map handkerchief service . You also forgot where she mentioned I THINK there might be a map on it . If you look at one of those , you don ' t think there is a map . You know there is a map because it takes up the entire handkerchief . It ' s possible she said think because she couldn ' t actually recall what was printed on the handkerchief . She could ' ve discovered it daysweeks ago and only glanced at it for a moment , and was trying to recall what was actually printed on it without being certain . Why would someone also mention playing Dominos on pasta , and cheese to him ? Is that just another coincidence ? Are they literally playing dominos on top of cheese and pasta ? No , and i ' m sure you know that . There is something going on in these emails . I ' ve already addressed this one multiple times elsewhere , so I ' ll just paste my interpretation again here . emailsemailid 30613 Miss you Herb . Happy Holidays and see you in 2016 . On Thursday , December 24 , 2015 , Sandler , Herbert hmssandlerfoundation . org wrote Mary and John I think you should give notice when changing strategies which have been long in place . I immediately realized something was different by the shape of the box and I contemplated who would be sending me something in the square shaped box . Lo and behold , instead of pasta and wonderful sauces , it was a lovely , tempting assortment of cheeses , Yummy . I am awaiting the return of my children and grandchildren from their holiday travels so that we can demolish them . Thank you so much . I hope you and your gang are well . I miss you both Best wishes fro a merry Christmas and Happy New Year . Herb Ps . Do you think I ' ll do better playing dominos on cheese than on pasta ? Ok let ' s dissect this email and try to figure out what they could be talking about even though clearly we don ' t have the entire context of their l i v esrelationshipstraditions . I think you should give notice when changing strategies which have been long in place . I immediately realized something was different by the shape of the box and I contemplated who would be sending me something in the square shaped box . Lo and behold , instead of pasta and wonderful sauces , it was a lovely , tempting assortment of cheeses , Yummy . So from this we can gather that they have a tradition of receiving a box of pastasauces as a gift from this person , which seems to come in a differentlyshaped box than the one they just received containing cheese . I am awaiting the return of my children and grandchildren from their holiday travels so that we can demolish them . Demolish is a term often used to describe the consumption of food , so this is pretty straightforward . They are waiting until their children return from vacation so they can share the cheese with them . Ps . Do you think I ' ll do better playing dominos on cheese than on pasta ? As stated previously , there has been a change of strategy involving the shape of the box that they are used to receiving . Since he ' s asking whether he ' ll do better , I ' m assuming it ' s just light banter regarding a tradition they have of playing dominos together on the pasta box that he receives as a gift each year when they get together . Perhaps it ' s just some competitive fun they have , and he ' s accusing the giftsender of changing strategies because he lost last year on the pasta box but is hoping to win this time because of the differentlyshaped cheese box . There ' s just no way we can know for sure what he meant by that since we DON ' T KNOW these people or their traditions . But why would people jump to such wild conclusions involving having sex with children when there are many other innocent explanations that are more likely ?