Do you understand how American elections work ? <| sep |> My ex was pretty awful in bed . Dated for four years , and during that time he never got better . I cut him some slack our first few times . But after 3 ish years he was still a minute man . I suggested we do foreplay . His foreplay was him licking like a dog with peanut butter in his mouth . He was a bad kisser . In the sense that he would pretty much dislocate his jaw trying to swallow my face . Or he would try to stick his tongueface into my mouth . If I corrected him he would get upset and say it was me ! That I was awful . We broke up . Thank goodness . I then slept with hismy friend . I couldn ' t feel a thing . I suggested we switch positions . Tried it 3 different ways . I was holding a kegal just trying to feel SOMETHING . I ended up feeling awful like maybe it was me . Well then I met my fiance . mind blowing sex . For the first time I actually came . He is patient and receptive . He eats like a champ and honestly tries . Difference between good sex and bad sex is finding someone who will listen .