Ok . since when did I agree that any of this is right ? <| sep |> DAAAAAAAAAMN that ' s a nice car <| sep |> I did have 2 wonderful relationships during this time , one asked me to marry him i fled due to commitment phobia and being paranoid about him wanting my money . The other it just didn ' t work out . Keep your finances separate ALWAYS and get a prenup . Better yet , put all your assets into a Inter Vivos Trust so if divorce occurs , they can ' t get it because the assets technically don ' t belong to you . In addition , you avoid the question about the prenup which some people will take offense at . <| sep |> In recursive mode , wget is parsing files for all linksscriptsimages , so it needs to download everything . Keeping them in ram only is also not an option as you can have very big files that need to be flushed to disk .