I guess my wisdom is this everyone starts somewhere , with someone , and it ' s not always meant to be forever Or a total disaster . It ' s just the start . It doesn ' t have much to do with your later resultssuccess . It most certainly doesn ' t need to be perfect . I remember when I was becoming sexually active at 18 I felt deeply delayed compared to my peers . I felt so far behind the curve . At 20 I felt confident enough to take a 24 year old ' s virginity , and he felt like he was abnormally inexperienced . And he was great ! Now I ' m over 30 and looking back I really don ' t feel like I was that much of a late bloomer . <| sep |> She stIll capItalIzed the I ' s even though she dIdn ' t know what Laura was talkIng about . That ' s precIous . X X X