I can eat a lot of popcorn , but it makes me so puffy I can barely get my shoes on ! <| sep |> Yep . This confirms that you serious issues that you need to address . YOu need to realise that just because the women are not interested in you suddenly means that they are slutty . You are a classic example of Nice Guy Syndrome . I bet that you were that guy that was always nice to women in the hope that they will see how ' nice ' you are to them and then suddenly be attracted to you . Unfortunately this not the case . All it does is shows how needy you are . You need to let go of this anger you have against women before you can ever be successful with them . I talk from experience dude . uvampirefeminist You are absolutely correct and I can confirm that everything you have said id true froma guy POV , but in the case with OP , he has serious underlying issues that can not be overcome by just trying to implement the characteristics you describe . He needs to overhaul his entire way of thinking .