Gee , this wouldn ' t have happened if they had just banned TD like everyone wanted . <| sep |> C ' est gnial ! I ' m so proud of you ! !!<| sep |> Fuck my life <| sep |> OK , good to know . It ' s difficult to tell the difference . He purposefully withheld information and let me continue thinking it was all in my head , which made me think it might be gaslighting . Good point about trust . I definitely don ' t trust him at this point . I ' m worried that these might be '' oneoffs '' even though there are two , and that we could work through it . I think it ' s more challenging where it ' s my first relationship . <| sep |> All if this is completely wrong . Minimum wage in Germany is 8 . 50 which makes about 1400 a month assuming 40 hweek . Also tipping is generally expected and normally 10 % is considered fair , if you do not tip at all in a German restaurant everyone will think of you as a colossal cunt .