. What ? ! Why the hell would Kawhi be the primary defender on Smart . <| sep |> Unfortunately it ' s a really delicate balance between properly protecting victimsprosecuting aggressors and ensuring that false charges aren ' t brought to bear . Here ' s a fucking idea when someone texts Paul I love you do me in the butt , we admit it as evidence and don ' t treat Paul Nungesser as guilty of rape when the cops don ' t think he ' s guilty . No actual rape victim would text her attacker to do her in the butt , and treating Sulkowicz as a victim is insulting to actual rape victims . See Jocelyn Zichterman , I Fired God . Zichterman was sexually abused by her father , and she didn ' t want to be anywhere near him . Regret sex is not sufficient reason to throw out the Bill of Rights .