If you aren ' t already , I highly recommend listening to Dan Savage ' s podcast Savage Love . It ' s a sex and relationship advice podcast , but he has a couple of catchphrasesGGG It stands for Good , Giving , and Game . Meaning you should be Good to your partner and good in bed for your partner specially not being a lazy lover , giving pleasure and not always talking it , and game to try anything . That being said , he instituted a caveat a fetish too far . Because the intent of GGG was to have people keep an open mind , within reason . It sounds like watersports is a fetish too far for you . You should tell him that . <| sep |> Mouse Rap , instead of building a huge contraption with pieces to catch a mouse figurine . You build an empire for lil ' cheezy the hottest mouse rapper in history .