I did not know of this until now . That ' s the sorta thing I mean when I feel like a lot of zen gets lost in translation . L . Ron might not have even made it up intentionally , but just got really confused and was trying to make sense of a seemingly jumbled mess of mistranslated data . <| sep |> Awesome , thanks for the share ! <| sep |> but but Firea said . ba ce mizerii de oameni <| sep |> It can be excruciatingly painful . Try this Get the sphincters as loose as you can using fingers , dildo , etc and use lots of lube . Once penetration has started , push out like you ' re taking a dump , which should help relaxing the inner sphincter . Once you have penetration , only stay in for a minute or so , then withdraw , wait 5 minutes , plus or minus , relube , and slowly go in again . Also , yes , douche out within an hour of fucking it lessens the chances of an accidental fecal episode . These fecal accidents aren ' t the rule , but they do happen . Once you get the hang of anal and have some simple procedures down , it will be fine