My family is from New Jersey and from what I see there ' s a pretty thriving upper middle class . Every state is going to have kids who fend for themselves . It ' s entirely possible to choose a hardend selfsufficient kid from NJ and someone like me from vt I ' m weak , I hate the outdoors , bright light blinds me , I have chronic fatigue , and without my antidepressants I would probably kill myself before anyone else could . You ' re just more likely to pick a winner from VT or a loser from NJ . No absolutes . WHAT I CAN SAY for the upper middle class in NJ is that they will do ANYTHING to get into the right college . Maybe even win the hunger games . Who knows . It sounds fucking brutal . <| sep |> don ' t do it . There isn ' t any good in it . You will only get angry at them and start losing the fun in this game