I am research <| sep |> Sunderland should never be classed as favourites unless it ' s favourite to lose <| sep |> I really enjoy being chubby . I used to be selfconscious about it and wear the traditional baggy clothing to try to hide it . It was actually only a few weeks ago that I fully stopped being selfconscious . The words that fully changed my mind were these Just because you don ' t look like the type of people you are attracted to doesn ' t mean that you aren ' t attractive to other people . After hearing that message I let go of my desire to look like the people I am attracted to . Instead I began looking at other people ' s reactions to being around me , which are largely positive . Those reactions are how I judge myself now and it ' s been a huge confidence boost . I now enjoy eating , I enjoy not restricting myself , and I enjoy being around people . If you have more questions or would like to talk further pm me and I ' d be happy to talk .