It ' s not that she ' s upset that people care , but it ' s the constant asking and nagging . It ' s having that reminder that she had a miscarriage every single time somebody brings it up . She probably already feels like an unfit spouse , child , partner , mother because she couldn ' t carry her baby and having friends and family in her face trying to encourage her probably makes her feel even worse that she couldn ' t give them what they want a baby . People care , but they don ' t know how to express it with these things . People think it ' s easy for couples to just try and try for a baby because , It will happen when you least expect it . No , it won ' t . You ' ll go through a thousand heart aches and give up on life before you might get a chance at motherhood AND THERES STILL A CHANCE IT CAN BE TAKEN AWAY . AGAIN . So yeah . People care enough to be nosy , but they don ' t care enough to respect her wishes not to talk about it any more . Edit mucho typos