There can ' t be bias when it comes to attraction you are either attracted to someone or not , it ' s a feeling , a chemical reaction and hormones in your body , you don ' t control it and there is no right or wrong way to be attracted , hence no biased and objective attraction . There simply is attraction or no attraction . If someone feels no attraction towards you this isn ' t some kind of bias he has for your looks , it ' s just that your looks don ' t provoke the chemical and hormone reaction in his body that makes himher attracted . That person isn ' t guilty that he doesn ' t feel attraction for you and has no bias to answer for . He isn ' t making you a victim , you ' r just not causing himher to be attracted to you . I know it sucks to rationalize and accept that , but that ' s reality . It ' s not always good vs bad , sometimes life is just like that without you being a victim of someone conspiracy , bias or other people ' s faults . They aren ' t at fault for not feeling attracted to you , accept that .