This . If he doesn ' t care about YOUR feelings , then you shouldn ' t care that much about his . I ' d reconsider going out with your friends on Saturday and telling him he can take care of his guests . Your life does NOT consist of being a docile housewife . You can decide to cook for him , you can decide to help him cook , but if you don ' t feel like doing it , nobody ' s forcing you to do it ! I would stay firm and tell him that you won ' t cook alone and you WILL go out with your friends Saturday and that he should take care of the guests that day . End of the story . You are NOT a servant . If he wants to host his friends , then let him take care of them . You shouldn ' t have to run around the house so he can just sit and enjoy an easy life . He ' s an adult , he can take care of him and his guests .