Guys it ' s the power money that spawns in the base . It ' s not about giving the money to scout at the beginning . <| sep |> I have always been child free my entire life . I had to become an adult way too early and be a parent to the adults around me . Even without that , I just don ' t find children cute , amusing , or interesting . Plus , I have a lifestyle that I would never give up I travel a lot and I am an adventurethrill seeker . You are going to have to talk to her . But if you don ' t want kids , don ' t waver . While you are worried she will resent you , you would resent her if you gave in . You are going to have to lay out the options which from what I can see are staying together and no kids or divorce and she may have the opportunity to have have a child but it ' s not guaranteed . If someone wanted children , that is my biggest deal breaker . I love my fianc to death but if he told me he wanted kids , I wouldn ' t marry him and I would end the relationship . My ex said he never had wanted children but I always get he did . After I left him , he told me he wanted children . I don ' t think he ever resented me for that part of the relationship though . He fully intended to be with me forever and not have children . It ' s a decision she made when you two got married . For her to flip the script is a potential deal breaker . It really is a decision for her to make since you made your stance clear . You don ' t hold her destiny , she does . She knows where you stand and you just have to reaffirm it and let her decide as she wishes .