Children with such behavior often are sent to Martial Arts Schools . The routine of the class becomes a friendly environment . When they do patterns or forms , they will often do them precisely , slowly , and without extra movements . In sparring , there is more difficulty because the environment is rapidly changing , but when they understand there are limited responses to a given attack sequence they then do better with that part of the training . They are a lot of work , but you can ' t allow yourself as the instructor to show the least bit of irritation or hand out too many push ups or allow other students to comment on their behavior . When they do well the instructor gets an extra boost to his or her selfesteem .