Yeah we should instead encourage shitty practices and applaud all the PHP developers for their bravery <| sep |> I ' m glad that you were honest with me and said exactly how you felt , no sugar coating ! <| sep |> License and registration , chicken $# er <| sep |> The official reason is that she wants a recount because she thinks votes were flipped from her to Clinton . Shes trying to get over 5 %. The real question as stated here already , is , Where is she getting all this money all of the sudden ? <| sep |> Dude , sorry to say it but she is acting like you are a placeholder . It ' s like she has a pokemon she is keeping until she finds a better one . This Might not be exactly what she is doing but it ' s close enough . Meeting guys for drinks with the expectation the other dude ' s that she is available is just wrong . If she wants to do that she can it ' s called being single . Can ' t really advise much except to say don ' t follow her . Wait for her to come home and say , in NO uncertain terms , that if she is going out with other guys , pretending she is single , then the relationship is going to be over . After saying this wait and see what happens next . If she continues then break up and go NC .