But who looks at a mother who brings one well behaved , quiet child to a college class and thinks , oh I can bring my THREE wildly misbehaving hellions to class ! They won ' t bother anyone ! It ' s like the difference between bringing a well behaved nonmember friend to the library and then someone else thinking it ' s ok to conduct a Sunday sermon there . <| sep |> It does in scotland we say loch similar to how van gogh <| sep |> well i asked if she wanted to , she said her parents were across the hall and i said we ' d be quiet and she said sure . she was just nervous about her folks waking up . i ' m not an asshole enough to pressure her or any lady if they ' re not feeling up to it because A . it ' s a dick move andB . i don ' t want to be the only one enjoying myself or else it just feels like i ' d be getting rid of an urge which can be degrading to the other person .