'' Misschien zijn we in het proces wel doorgeslagen in de terugkoppeling naar klanten , meent Woelders . Dan weet je al wat voor vlees je in de kuip hebt . <| sep |> Many places default to the mother for custody or making decisions for the child . Just watch a man and woman taking their baby to the doctor . The nurses and doctors will direct almost every single question and comment towards the mother and just about ignore the father . It ' s really quite disgusting to watch . <| sep |> I haven ' t used breadwallet before so not sure if they have an option to override the fee , and unless it also has replacebyfee support then there isn ' t really anything you can do other than wait it out . The unconfirmed transaction backlog is starting to dwindle finally , down to around 15 K unconfirmed so probably won ' t be all that much longer for you to get some confirmations . If JM bouillon cancels your order because it ' s taking too long , you would have to contact them to get a manual refund .