Yeah , because a doctor doesn ' t have a phd in mattress . D <| sep |> I know part of this is validation . You ' re right he is an ass and your mom is enabling him . It ' s shitty that you ' ve had to deal with that in the past and are continuing . Here ' s the thing though , you can ' t win this with them . Nothing you say or do will convince them that you ' re right . They are not working with logic . You have to look out for yourself . Distance will help . All your life they have shown you how they will behave , and you cannot change that . Only they can . Take care of yourself and your emotional needs . That ' s all you can do . <| sep |> Can we fucking not ? <| sep |> Isn ' t there also no law that says electoral colleges must vote for Trump which is why people suggest they shouldn ' t vote for him ?