I really have no problem with ghosting at the point things are just a conversation . In fact , ghosting early is far preferable to what seems to often happenSeveral days of good backandforth conversation with a girl that I ' m into , and she seems in my range and into meMe So , we should meet up ! How about 7 PM tomorrow at O ' Irish in Springfield ? Her Yeah that sounds great ! next day around noonHer Oh my gosh , I ' m going to have to work latemy dog is sickI ' m feeling under the weather , I can ' t make it tonight , so sorry , rain check ? Me No problema couple days passMe Hey , want to meet up maybe Saturday for lunch ? Her Ohhh , I ' m going out of townshoppinghave a volunteer thinghave to work , maybe a different time ? I really want to hang out , I ' ve just been so busy lately ! Me No worries , just text me when you ' re free and want to hang outI never hear from her againWomen reading this , if you ' re not interested in a guy , just ghost him early before he ' s rearranging plans and sinking a lot of time into you .