You don ' t have to become an atheist to not be indoctrinated . The Muslim New Zealanders I know bring up their kids in an way that tries to imprint their values on them , but they also have a level of respect for their kid ' s ability to arrive at their own conclusions too . You know , like most good parents . The exMuslim New Zealanders I know certainly don ' t have their parents or Muslim friends trying to kill them that ' s absurd . Trying to make them fit a mold based on your interpretation of their religion is just ignorant . People are way more nuanced than you ' re suggesting . <| sep |> It ' s a thought ! I live in NYC though , so I think every store is going to be busy no matter what the merchandise . Maybe I will stroll by and do some recon to see if it ' s worth the time .