Your grandmother is an unwise person <| sep |> He played Trust at my show ! So so incredible <| sep |> But my drains still clogged . <| sep |> That ' s what I ' m trying to figure out . I think I could rebuild that trust , and he ' s willing to work to earn it again . But at the same time there ' s a lot of pain to work through . Not only did he cheat on me , but he cheated on someone else with me about 4 months ago . I wasn ' t aware that he was dating someone else until after the fact . The fallout from that finally triggered him to get into therapy to work on his personality flaws that led to his cheating behavior . All in all , this situation is entirely fucked up , and I feel insane for even considering giving him another chance . For what it ' s worth , he asked for another chance a couple weeks ago , and I said no . He has no idea that I ' m rethinking that decision . I think I just need to write it all out so that I can truly see how bad of a relationship I had with him so that I don ' t waver on my initial decision .