TLDR Went to a party at a lame fraternity . Assumes all are like this . <| sep |> Our FA pickups . <| sep |> What distro you using ? Your talking about videos drivers right ? <| sep |> I think this sort of thing is common with people who don ' t feel a very strong mindbody connection . Also if what your fantasizing about things you don ' t feel capable of it might be more comfortable to putting someone else in the scenes . Have you tried watching porn ? You know for science . You might try looking around a bit and see if anything jumps out at you and go from there . Sometimes just watching it without the intent of getting off can be thought provoking . <| sep |> But they may not have been able to drink in the location it was filmed .