truly relieved to hear read all of this . tears upexwcd elite looking to lend a helping hand when asked . <| sep |> Well Crabbe has certainly fallen from grace since Harry Potter <| sep |> Throwaway for obvious reasons . My wife and I were paying half of her exmotherinlaw ' s mortgage which she had taken out to help finance a failed business venture . After a few years of paying , we asked for the bank statements to see when we ' d be done paying our half . Turns out she ' d borrowed from the mortgage again and not told my wife . I calculated the value of interest and principal paid , considering the interest rates over time , and figured out that we had one more month to pay . I took the calculation to an accountant , who confirmed that I ' d done it correctly , so we sent her a letter telling her that we ' d paid off our half , and would be stopping now . She tried to guilttrip and threaten my wife in the same letter .