Well it won ' t be illegal so I guess that ' s a bit of an improvement if you ask me . <| sep |> I never referred to a grown man as Sugar before him . Reporting in . My favorite as well . <| sep |> Why is this a psa <| sep |> The usual way in Germany is like school until 18 , apprenticeship till 21 , maybe university after till 2425 for a Bachelors degree . You can worry about kids and building a house at 30 . And no debt whatsoever . I ' m not ready for 100 k debt with 26 . And I won ' t be with 30 . <| sep |> What is keeping you in the Bay Area instead of moving away ? It sucks to that you feel the way you do , living paycheck to paycheck is never a good feeling , please PM anytime if you need someone to talk to . I ' ll be your friend ! Happy Thanksgiving as well