Also the locked out bit , if you choose to chat you should be able to say to do it as a guest or that you don ' t have an account . They will need your email address to pull up the account but you can sort that after the contact with them has started . <| sep |> What are EMCs ? <| sep |> While I don ' t necessarily agree with a lot of what ' s written in this post you hit a nail with the define comment . Sex is nothing more than a mechanical act that our bodies can engage in . Letting ones life be defined by that mechanical action is , imo , the opening of the door to sin . There is no value in coming closer to God outside of the original design of the action of having sex . Engaging in sex acts outside of its original boundaries isn ' t a sin in the concept that it ' s evil , but in the concept that it is a path that leads nowhere . And potentially opens the door to letting you define your life in a way that has no value . One is not called to be defined as gay , straight , or anything in between . We are called To something more than what we can do with our physical body .