Doesn ' t regret it anymore . He ' s over at TD right now , courting a new hero complex . <| sep |> This is just what I had been doing . Reading some of the suggestions here like yours has given me some insight though and I ' ll probably do this now if I get pulled over . <| sep |> Replacing Shannon with Bastet isn ' t going to improve your success rate right now . The key to improving is identifying where the failure points on your team are . Do you have 45 % acc on your att breakers ? Do you have 45 % acc on Bella ? Do you have 45 % acc on Shannon ? Do Vero and Bella have 180 speed ? <| sep |> Hobo with a Shotgun <| sep |> It comes down to classic representation of masculinity and femininity . Shyness and awkwardness is not a masculine trait , as such most women see it as unacceptable , whereas , since it is a feminine trait , most men see it as acceptable . Since men are the opposite of shy and awkward usually , men see shyness and awkwardness in a female as making them more masculine , and making the female more feminine therefore it would be considered cute in a female from a patronizing perspective . At the same time , shy and awkward men make females feel less feminine as they expect masculine traits from a man , so being shy and awkward as a man is considered repulsive .