They are saying that because it is extremely overpowered . Just think of the influx of free expresources from an average of x 4 x 5 multiplier . <| sep |> eh life doesn ' t stop you know . you can say marriage is a sacred bond and all that but we ' re still biological creatures with evolved instincts and desires . some people really struggle with even the idea of no intimacy . i wouldn ' t judge them too hard plus cancer is super hard to deal with . it ' s practically a delayed death sentence . imagine watching the person you loved slowly change and waste away . most people also flip personalities and become really unpleasant to live withas evinced by your uncle saying only two of his relatives made him happy i guess he was kinda a crabby dude the rest of the time . i ' m not blaming the cancer victim but most people ' s wedding vows don ' t include i will stay with you as you waste away with sickness and become increasingly bitter and emotionally frail for a reason . most people can ' t cope my aunt ' s husband also cheated while he was with hershe didn ' t know . he married the other lady a couple of months after she died . life moves on , it ' s hard to judge these things