We come from the UP , we stay in Ludington at The Best Western . Nice rooms , good breakfast . <| sep |> John Oliver is a better journalist than most and his main job is comedy . I know he ' s better than you . . . And me . <| sep |> Well . thats good to hear . I filled out the Origins and BFZOGW sets and was working on SOI when I lost interest in the game . But now I ' m more interested in Kaladesh anyways , so Gold seems to be the way to go with that . I ' ll reach out to them on Monday , I assume they are off for the American thanksgiving holidays . <| sep |> ayyyyy much love <| sep |> he works for the russians now <| sep |> Definitely . That ' s how I ended up as a janitor after getting my liberal arts degree . <| sep |> It isn ' t about what you say at all , it ' s about persevering . Stick in conversations and learn that people like you just for you . Start conversations even though you are scared . Say that thing anyway . And again . And again . People , and especially men , who shy away from this because they are afraid everyone is afraid will have a much harder time or may even be ALONE . And stop telling yourself negative things like you can ' t do it , people don ' t like you , you don ' t know what to say , etc . Only tell yourself that you can do it . Knowing from experience that people like you is confidence . Not gimmicky confidence , but KNOWING because you ' ve seen it . Just like you KNOW a shoe will hit the ground when you drop it . Things like that are what you can be confident in .