I have retro mega man for trade ! <| sep |> seeing implies a dating situation . I ' m talking about a random encounter type situation , at a clubbarparty , wherever people go to pick up other people . Yes , of course . I was talking about a relationship situation . If a person says no to a stranger then it ' s over , this is it . If someone in a relationship has to read tea leaves to guess what the other person is thinking then it ' s not about body language or anything else anymore . It also ceased being a relationship . The relationship I had simply ended in total indifference and without saying a word . I would ' ve handled a no and even would ' ve been happy for a breakup text message . But an end like that just isn ' t decent and only makes closure more difficult . But about dating It ' s my eternal fear of appearing obtrusive or annoying to someone without picking it up . Or failing to read the signs . A lot of it is probably overthinking . But each person is different and what might be nice for one person might be too much for another one . I also don ' t know if that person would be happy to start a conversation or just wants to be left the hell alone atm . This is especially the case when it ' s about approaching a stranger in public , like a grocery store or even a college library . Edit You may actually write me what about my post is wrong or why I ' m dumb instead of just conveniently push the downvote button , you know ?