Soon as i saw the chinos suggestion i knew something dank was coming , instead it was dope updoot for chinos <| sep |> The reaction is setting the boundary so how should you respond ? The same way an INFJ would like someone to respond to their boundaries . Just respect the boundary and let them know that you see they have very deep feelings about this matter and you will respect the boundary . Isn ' t that what anyone who sets a boundary wants and what you would like someone to do with your boundaries ? Maybe , hey , I ' m sorry I didn ' t realize that that meant that much to you . I know you are very tolerant and don ' t ask for a lot or ask for petty silly things and this is something you ' ve obviously prioritized asking for which must be very important to you for you to make an issue of it . I will respect that boundary in future . If you want you can tell me more about why it is important to you and how it plays into your values .