which I am ok withStop being so dependent on this guy . You want more , he doesn ' t . Time to move on . Should I confront him again ? I went no contact for 1 week already but this pain is unbearable . Only he can tell you what ' s going on . To me it looks like he ' s just stringing you along . You ' re one among several girls , not more . So yeah , go no contact , get a new hobby and start meeting other people more . <| sep |> If you ' re the type of person that would even consider sleeping with someone else because your significant other is very ill and probably isnt going to make it , you shouldnt be married . This is why the marraige failure rate is so high . Nobody is twisting arms or putting guns to their head to get married maybe a few rare circumstances . Marraige is a big deal . Your promising to be that persons best friend , protector , and lover for good . You ' re giving them your word and expecting them to trust you as you ' re expected to trust them . If you cheat on them your word is shit . Its completely useless . No one says you cant live the life of a playboy and date or screw as many womenmen as you want . Just dont get married .