Yeah I would just upgrade now <| sep |> Make I want is on one of those does not exist on highscores OS or rs 3 , has never been a member . Prolly being sold for gp on a gold site as we speak <| sep |> It ' s also like losing molars . <| sep |> I don ' t think she did anything wrong either . 1 . You wanted her to equally split her time with you and her family who she has to travel overseas to see . It ' s a bit selfish to me that you seem to hold it against her that she spent more time with her family than you on a vacation . It ' s not like she ignored you she just spent more time with her overseas family members . Can you really not handle not having your wife ' s equal attention for a while ? 2 . You seem to think she should have stayed glued to your side entertaining you in doing what you wanted to do . It ' s not like she pushed you off to the side or shoo you away when conversing with her cousin . You were welcomed to talk with her and the cousin instead you basically pouted and sulked whenever you disliked the conversation topic as if it was beneath you . 3 . You gave her the silent treatment . To me that is just a childish immature way to handle issues . I think it ' s time to honestly reevaluate how dependent vs independent you want to be in this relationship and whether your wife matches up to what you want in a partner .