Obama has a near 60 % approval rating , one of the highest ever for an outgoing President . So no , most people are quite happy with how Obama has been doing . And based on the popular vote being so high for Clinton , most voters wanted to continue that direction . A tiny minority of rural blue collar workers completely went against what the majority of the country wants based on their own ignorance and stupidity . And yes , Republicans cheated . They just got called out for it in Wisconsin by the Federal courts . <| sep |> get out haha <| sep |> RSFNow that ' s a name I haven ' t heard in a long time . <| sep |> But but but sylvanus is shit tier <| sep |> These mean there ' s no major faults on the marriage on his side We have a good life . No major stresses , financially secure . I ' m the bread winner . I make a lot of money . I cook , clean and get groceries . I ' m not ugly . She ' s a sahm . We go on multiple vacations a year . She gets flowers a few times a month . He ' s doing his part . Maybe too much his part . On the other handWe ' ve had what I would consider a mild dead bedroom since our first son was born . Sex once or twice a month . Mostly perfunctory on her part after she notices I ' m getting anxious or bring it up . hey , we haven ' t had sex in awhile . I haven ' t had really received what I felt like genuine desire from her for a decade . I bring it up , that we need to connect more that I want to feel loved . Do I make her feel loved ? yes . She doesn ' t want him . And the holy shit momentWe ' ve tried counseling . She went twice . I ' ve continued for the last 5 years . She really , really has no interest in this marriage . He works , she doesn ' t . He cooks , he cleans , brings her flowers . She does nothing . He tells her he ' s lonely , she DGAF . He goes to therapy for their marriage for five years ! She goes twice . There ' s a pattern here . With that as a context , this is a clear wishing she took a different path moment . She might as well have just told him I love you but I ' m not in love with you . Cut to the chase , a few weeks ago , we were reminiscing about when we met . The people we were then . She was dating a lot before we got together . I was a few months out of a 2 year relationship . When we first started dating , she was seeing two other guys . Bill is one of the guys and she said that after she and I got serious Bill was very upset with her . She and Bill were part of the same friend group . She said she liked Bill but the only reason she didn ' t pursue him further is because her BFF had a crush on Bill and she didn ' t want to upset her friend . If the rest of the stuff hadn ' t happened , I ' d tell him to laugh it off . This is a clear , crystal clear message . It means I wish I chose someone else .