Its not something I would personally do . I have never tried it but I dont ever intend to , not because of the horror stories but to me it ' s not a very romantic way the process is what I am referring to to meet an SO even if they are the love of your life . Not against it , but its not for me <| sep |> dude , you ' re ruining the moment . <| sep |> iam gonna die with 2 middle fingers . <| sep |> Are you wearing a sign that says you ' re a lesbian ? How are they to know until they approach you ? Most men follow the instinct that says to chase women . They ' ve mostly been trained by modern society that the way to appropriately begin this chase is to walk up and talk to the woman . You ' re probably going to get that your whole life , since women don ' t typically approach men . You shouldn ' t let it stop you from going to the gym .