Could be the camera ancle , but it seems like you ' re not locking out correctly on your DL you seem to keep a slight bend in the back at the top . Otherwise the liftoff seems fine imo . <| sep |> I don ' t have a strong visceral reaction against it ? At its core I think it means well If you ' re going to have kids , a lot of young people , who are unfortunately having the kids , dont always fully consider the partner they ' re choosing and how their actual life would go . At a young age physical appearance and other less important traits can dominate a relationship . Also ideally you ' re attracted to your spouse so saying she ' s good looking is something I ' d expect ? Personally though , that said I ' m as feminist as they come and overall the blatant assumption of your woman will raise your kids is sexist and annoying and also fails to recognize the father should be involved in raising them as well .