Take it off the menu except for special occasions . He ' ll appreciate it that much more , especially if you can bring yourself to act like it ' s your favorite thing when you do still do it . I don ' t know a good way to do that without eventually telling him that you don ' t like it . He sounds like a good guy but it ' ll probably still be a bit of a blow to him . I could live without it but it would definitely be missed . It ' s possible that you might be able to do other oral techniques on him that aren ' t so much penisinmouth but more mouthonpenis . Licking is fantastic . Balls , perineum , the underside of the shaft , the frenulum understead of the head , anywhere around the head , etc . Or maybe you can be happy with just the tip barely in your mouth and letting your hands give him the sensation of depth and pressure .