They banned a few in regards to the new rules . There are some posts in rgrandbakchodi about rbakchodi bans . <| sep |> That ' s so awful . In no small part were they raised by their parents that way , I ' m sure . <| sep |> Yeah they do the same with names . I have to take names for every order . I ' ve skipped this step plenty of times and I swear my managers can sense it , and they start bugging me about how I have to take names for every order . So when there ' s only one customer in the entire store and I ask for their name , they either look around like why ? There ' s no one else in here or get angry with me over it . I just give them the dead mackerel eyes and tell them it ' s policy . <| sep |> If I had said in person you can see what biological sex people are that would probably be even more problematic , would it not ? Pronouns are not used to denote biological sex . They are used to denote gender . Notice I said gender , not gender identity . Gender is socially determined . One changes one ' s gender to match one ' s gender identity by means of adjusting one ' s name , dress , appearance , behaviour , speech , etc . , so that people can look at you and at least know , if you don ' t pass , that you are signalling one gender or the other .