Yes , that is what I meant . I read it was the mods who are the users in question ? Or are there users as well ? <| sep |> She was a complete bitch . I realized that about a month later when she was staying over at my dad ' s house with me . He ' d had three heart attacks in the past and started having chest pains . He refused to let me call an ambulance , so I asked the neighbors to drive him to the hospital . In the time it took to go to their house , then get him in the car and gone , and call my mother from the neighbor ' s house his phone was shut off because he was moving , she took the opportunity to steal every single cent she could find . Paper money out of an envelope that he was saving for a new place , pocket change from a jar , whatever was laying on a counter , my stash from under my bed , even the money out of my purse . She must have made off with at least two thousand dollars . Of course , I didn ' t notice at the time because I was more concern with my possibly dying father . He was a dick , but he was still my dad . A few days later , I tried to buy my mother a birthday present , only to find my wallet was empty . I figured I ' d just left the money at my dad ' s in the chaos , even though I couldn ' t remember taking my wallet out there . Once he was home , he called and asked if I had moved his money envelope . I said no and went up to help him find it . That was when we realized all of our money was missing . She was the only person in the house other than my dad and me . She even stole makeup out of my makeup bag and one of my shirts . Anything she wanted , she took . I confronted her about and , of course , she denied it , vehemently . That was when I decided that she was not my friend and had been using me for material gains the whole time I ' d known her . She was moving to another town and I ' d moved three years ago , but I ' d tried to maintain a friendship with her , despite the distance , but after that , I cut off all contact with her . I haven ' t seen or spoken to her in twenty years .