I ' m personally ok with the stripnever have I ever as I have done plenty of strip poker . I can see some people having a problem with it and that ' s cool . What is not cool is instead of apologizing , getting over it and having a boundary clarified she shifted the goal posts and tried to blame shift . Her comparing stripwhatever to going to a bar with a mixed friend group then throwing the you are controlling card because you didn ' t feel comfortable with that is bullshit . That is apples and oranges . If that is a personality trait she shows more often get the fuck out of dodge . <| sep |> Gotta get my keyboard in the shot so people know I make music <| sep |> Yep , you are well and truly screwed <| sep |> Because swimming lessons cost time and money that many working class families aren ' t about to spend . You can ' t exactly teach your kid if you neither know how to swim yourself nor have a body of water nearby accessible by the public for free .