Tldr probably stupid anyway <| sep |> It ' s the uppercase 1 that ' s why . <| sep |> yes , they are going to split as soon as the next event pops up <| sep |> Why would it be obvious ? You can ' t see light . s <| sep |> Was expecting an infinity of dickbutts . <| sep |> What about the stuffing , Granny ? Granny ? OK , charging . everyone , stand clear . The stuffing , dammit , Granny , the stuffing ! <| sep |> Well , they ' re just being dicks right there and right now . Not judging them as friends or anything , but you can spot a shitty move when it ' s a shitty move . I think what ' s tough is that they might also on some level realize that they take the flimsiest of excuses to drink , just like you say , every day is a great occasion . And they might not be comfortable with you doing something about it in your life , while they want to keep enjoying drinking . You ' re sort of a traitor to their cause . They don ' t feel like giving much love to a perceived traitor . At least enjoy the food today and remix the leftovers into a million tasty things over the weekend it ' s their loss , not yours .