Could you maybe move to a bigger city ? Out of sight out of mind <| sep |> But I am he as you are he as you are me <| sep |> I ' m not sure what you ' re trying to say here ? If the Ford took a left without indicating , they ' re still at fault . I ' m not saying that ' s the case , I ' m saying we don ' t know . And we shouldn ' t put blame onto people or put them outside of blame without knowing the full story which we don ' t . <| sep |> Re . listening to other tubists , don ' t only listen to Oystein Baadsvik . He ' s obviously amazing , but he has a very unique sound . Its a much brighter sound than most tubists , due partially to the rep he plays as well as his horn . By all means listen to and enjoy his playing but keep in mind that his isn ' t the standard tuba sound , and trying to emulate his sound won ' t be beneficial for developing a more orchestral sound . Basically listen to a wide range of players .