Yes my hubs and I are openly poly . Most of my playmates are men who are secretly adulterating . And hubs and I knew when we entered this lifestyle that we would possibly run across vanilla friends . Thus the birth of rule number one in our book . No . Fuckery . With . Vanilla . Friends . Ever . <| sep |> Shame how much you have given to Sainsburys over the years to accrue those Nectar points though , they always win ! <| sep |> Also the side effects are humorous as well . ' this drug for erectile dysfunction can cause Mild nausea , headache , heart attacks , cancer , erectile dysfunction and can make you sterile ' Here ' s me thinking they were trying to sell the drug , not put people off it . I get its a legal disclaimer but its pretty funny to see them put stuff like that in there