only time I ' ll EVER buy something of fuckin ' Black Friday <| sep |> It was definitely a joke , dude . <| sep |> There ' s one I have for android called pokemap . The website is pokemap . xyz . Works fine for me , you have to complete the recapchas every now and then . It only scans your current area tho . <| sep |> Don ' t act like everything is ok . And also try not to pry too much if they feel uncomfortable talking about it . Maybe don ' t say sorry too much . I know a lot of people that get bombarded with that and get almost annoyed by it . But be real and be there for him . Maybe start by asking him what ' s on his mind in a reassuring way . Let him know that he isn ' t alone . Tell him that you love him . Don ' t be energetic about anything . Be as mellow as possible but also be real with your emotions . Everybody reacts differently to things like this and there isn ' t a definitive step by step book on how to deal with this stuff but those are some very general guidelines . I am speaking from a personal bias with all of this as this was my experience so take it all with a grain of salt . But i digress . just be respectful of the deceased not saying that you would be disrespectful , but people can get very defensive about the smallest things they wouldn ' t think twice about normally . Maybe you could throw in an example like how even if a perfect saint loving mother who did everything she could to make her child happy lost their child to suicide , she would still feel guilty about things that she thinks she should have done differently . Even though no matter what she would have done , the outcome would be the same because suicide is not a reflection of how the deceased feel about their loved ones and those close to them . Honestly in a lot of cases , suicidal people hold on longer just to be with the ones they love and try to stay to avoid hurting them . You could tell him guilt is normal if he says he feels it . If you are curious as to where his mind is at then ask . Just be there for him and dont be afraid to talk about some pretty deep and heavy stuff . People can get kinda weird and distant because they don ' t know how to approach this . But having a calm , comforting , confident , and loving person to talk to helped me out in my darkest of times . Just try to be there for him as much as you can , and as much as he lets you . And make sure he knows that you are there too . Again , everybody is different so how you actually talk to him and comfort him will have to be through your own words . And this stuff might not work for everybody , but it is what worked for me and is my experience with the grieving process . I hope some of this can help and my heart goes out to you and your brother . If you have any more questions feel free to ask if you think i can be of any help !