I see that now . My apologies <| sep |> Sources for your claims ? Or do you just go around lying ? <| sep |> i learned from a coworker , if they ' re cussing you and being rude the one thing you can do to get to them . is be polite back . THEY HATE IT ! !!!! i work in food service for the time being and some guy was really pissed st me and my coworkers for some STUPID reason . he came and yelled at me because we forgot to give him a spoon . instead of getting bent and responding negatively , i apologized 3 or 4 times and when he started to walk away without acknowledging me i said Have a nice day sir ! ! and he gave me the best death stare i ' ve ever seen . shit was mentalEDIT didn ' t realize this might ' ve been about family . just ignore them who cares . my family loves arguing over the most petty shit , right down to who ' s friends with who on face book ! they wonder why i don ' t talk much at family events !