I don ' t think it breaks down at all . Regardless of your sizeweightstrength wearing a seatbelt during a head on collision with an 18 wheeler going full speed only marginally improves your survival rates . But that marginal improvement is better than nothing . BJJ is the seatbelt in this analogy . Yeah it ' s no guarantee and something with more forcepower behind it can likely overwhelm you regardless of the precautions you ' ve taken but is it better to have a 0 . 00 % chance of survival or a 3 . 00 % chance of survival in a car accident ? Pretty sure if you ' re forced to choose between the two people will take the 3 . 00 % chance every time . <| sep |> Yeah . There should be no divide on this unless you hate reason <| sep |> I don ' t have any help for you in regards to the gay scene , but I can assure you that every bar in America is open tonight it ' s one of the busiest bar nights of the year .