Ahh ok thanks ! <| sep |> Oh so you started out in the US ? I ' m in Melbourne . In the ' Zone 1 ' bubble nobody harasses me , and so far nobody has said or done anything awful when I ' m out in the country either . I also work for a progressive bunch of people all women in fact . And I live walking distance to the office too , so I ' m my neighbourhood I think everyone is used to seeing me potter about looking eccentric . I get weird looks on the tram but I think people are torn between the fact that I ' m a large white male , and my gender transgressions . Occasionally I see someone with the look on their face like they really want to say something . But I think their white patriarchy obedience conditioning must kick in or something because they never do . It ' s funny when it ' s me and some conservative Muslim women and a homeless man in the same carriage for example , because the normies feel outnumbered by the freaks ! haha