I use Tor for a fair bit of browsing and the performance is generally not that bad for your basic website with images . Add in embedded videos or any type download and it starts to suck , but then that is pretty much expected and not what you should be using it for . <| sep |> Ironically , they failed to make quorum . It ' s almost like a black fly in your chardonnay . <| sep |> I would suggest the same thing . I think if one partner is coming to the other about a problem with their sex life , then it ' s something they should both tackle . I wouldn ' t say it has to be all the time or anything , and if they were having frequent sex then I would say it ' s more her problem to deal with if she wants more , but at twice a week there seems to be room for him to do other stuff a few days a week . I have helped out my SO when I don ' t exactly feel like sex and my SO has done the same for me , I think it ' s just a nice thing to do . Obviously if there is a reason they don ' t want sex other than just feeling meh about it headache , bad day at work , upset about something then other stuff would be off the table too , but he just seems meh about it .