Your game plan is that you tell your wife right now , and then together you guys come up with a game plan for telling your daughters . Your wife deserves to know right away frankly , I can ' t believe you didn ' t tell her before you met with the kid , and she also deserves to take part in figuring out how to handle this situation in relation to your daughters . <| sep |> Thank you for your support ! I ' m currently in the process of getting a job here in the Utah Valley in case the worst happens . I currently have a scholarship for BYU for two semesters so I ' ll probably stay out the year , but I plan on transferring to Utah State for Fall of 2017 . I plan on bringing my plan to transfer up to my parents this Christmas so I ' m crossing my fingers that everything goes smoothly .