I don ' t even want to look at this after missing the Crucial one . <| sep |> This is exactly what ' s happening , it ' s like the bad memories are disappearing and only good ones remain <| sep |> On what grounds does one prefer the happiness of people born on one side of a line to the happiness of people born on the other ? One can simply prefer to live with people that are like oneself . You can have a house , and share it with likeminded friends , and avoid otherwise good but kinda incompatible people . When you say ' I don ' t want X in my house ', maybe you are not saying ' I hope they die the coming winter ', just ' I don ' t like the kind of music they like , and would live happier if they lived elsewhere '.<| sep |> How do Gloverall duffle coats fit ? If I ' m a 41 Would it be worth sizing up to a 44 if the most I ' d be wearing under it would be a thick sweater or should I get a 40 or 42 ?