Being an adult isn ' t putting up with itgetting over it , its not being afraid to stand for what you believe in and sticking to your guns . You don ' t have to do anything , and if you don ' t like something , you can change it . Never settle . <| sep |> Only a fool would think that several 80 k donations in a row aren ' t something caused by a bug or a troll . A single 4 digits donation sounds believable depending on the streamer , but anything more than that and there ' s something highly suspicious about it . <| sep |> my dead freighter sends its regards <| sep |> so while I very much understand and generally agree with this point of view , i would also point out that your daughters ' clothing choices don ' t exist in a vacuum . they ' re influenced by a society that sexualizes girls at a young age because of the idea that women , even those approaching puberty , exist for the sexual titillation of men . the companies that make and sell these clothes are also selling to young women the idea that it ' s important to be attractive at all times , no matter what the activity . i dunno . im a guy , so my perspective isn ' t the most important when it comes to the clothing choices women want to make , but I just feel like it ' s hard to separate a preteen insisting she wants booty shorts because she says she likes them from the social pressures she feels to say that . obviously this is all based on the individual kid , but in general at that age I think it ' s more important for any kid girl or boy to focus on internal values and ideas than external appearances . which , as a HS teacher , I know is really , really hard