Christ I hope you aren ' t European because you have no clue how these things work . <| sep |> Objectively speaking , did you do anything bad enough to get rejected like this ? I ' m pretty sure you didn ' t , so it ' s not really about rejecting you . Maybe you are a disappointment because you just didn ' t do exactly as they told you to . Maybe you refused to tolerate some shit instead of taking it like a good slave . Who cares what the perceived wrong is they can marinate in their twisted thinking , spread rumors if that ' s what is fun for them you don ' t have the obligation of trying to make yourself into something that they would accept . Hope you have a good rest of the day , and I hope you find something really nice to do for yourself . I am alone today as well , so I figured I ' ll just get some extra treats for my cat and give her extra play time to thank for all the cuddles and purrs And in a way , I am thankful that I was not invited to my aunt ' s house . It would be nice to think that we can just patch things up and have a good relationship , but who am I trying to fool ? She won ' t do her share in patching things up , and all the superficial nice things she does would just keep me in a pretty unhealthy dynamic .