Modern Hollywood seems to think that hair is disgusting . Everyone ' s gotta be spotless , or they ' re out of a job . <| sep |> At least another hour to go . Theoretically the build is 100 % complete , but we cannot deploy until something else checks out , which is cooking atm that has an hour on it . If it checks out , we ' ll deploy right after . <| sep |> Is this an actual quote from her ? Cause if so I ' m rock hard right now <| sep |> He doesn ' t get to ' refuse ' couples counselling if he ' s the problem . Make the ultimatum that he attend or you leave , and follow through . Or just leave and tell him why . It looks like you ' ve already tried to get across why this is a problem . He already knows this and just doesn ' t give enough of a shit about your happiness to contribute . He can ' t even cope parenting his own kids ? He ' s a deadbeat . Cut him loose and get child support .