I ' m on my data collection trip and it ' s been a really difficult week but I found a translator willing to work on translating the necessary documents and have them to me by early next week managed to convince a really difficult gatekeeper to cooperate think I ' ve found an RA she ' ll confirm early next week have access to a number of data collection sites thanks to a really kind civil servantNow , to binge watch Gilmore Girls whilst scribbling ' field ' notes . <| sep |> Hathematics 1390 ELO 1 . 15 KD in trials . <| sep |> Yeah men are more often the victims of assault . by other men . Women are the victims of assault . again by men . I wish this could be reframed as who commits crimes , instead of who the victims are . Cause then maybe we could talk more about the toxic masculinity that makes men so violent . But ha , we live in a society that ' d rather make excuses for violent male offenders as long as they ' re white . So we ' re never going to reframe the conversation around them . It ' s always going to be about the victims and questioning what they did to bring it on themselves . Much like weather , male violence is just a force of nature we can ' t control . You have to be willfully obtuse to not understand this shit . And fine . They can take the $ 8 . 50 hr nanny jobs and we ' ll all take the $ 100 k tech jobs . BTW is building a website as important or difficult as keeping a baby alive ? Ha , that ' s rhetorical as I know the answer because I ' m a dev . It ' s not as difficult or important .