AND THEY GAVE US KD <| sep |> Clarification She doesn ' t really let me just do my own loads , like my brother and father do . Sure , they have work uniforms . But me ? I say I want to do a few loads of laundry , she starts mixing my clothes with bits and pieces of everyone else ' s and then lets them sit around for a week or so , maybe getting one or two done in that time . I love her , but I ' d like to be able to do my own laundry . I ' m doing it because I need socks and shirts , not because I have enough shirts stockpiled for a week . But I ' ll be damned if I ' m not the one she has load the stuff into the washer and dryer and put in basketson hangers . She ' s got issues , she ' s in her seventies , but c ' mon ! I could do my own , Dad could do his own , my brother could do his own , and she could do her own . My little brother could easily learn how to do a load , but he ' s only here once every couple of weekslives with his mother , and My little cousin doesn ' t have that much laundry that needs to be doneShe ' s here most weekdays because her mother and father work long and crazy hours and have super ambitious kids who are doing all sorts of extracurriculars so why is there a problem ?