Pain and anxiety about one ' s gender not being congruent with physical sex . I mean , if you want to be pedantic and point out that gender dysphoria specifically refers to the suffering caused by the incongruity , and not the incongruity itself you ' re welcome to but I think that ' s splitting hairs . <| sep |> They never ask in good faith . Every time someone asks why I quit it ' s only so they can argue with me and try to bring me back to the light . <| sep |> a what pie ? ?<| sep |> Yes , but the collective attention to current events is pulled away towards something that is ultimately trivial and is just the scapegoat . By the time the dust clears , those things where were once a deep interest and got coverage will have been mostly forgotten .