Matt intangibles Barnes . 0 pts 04 fgs 17 in 29 mins . <| sep |> Why on earth do people always get Rosso corsa wrong with these mockups . Even when they changed the color during the Schumacher era , it was never this shade . <| sep |> Thanks for the advice . I have been playing him in a 4321 , and I don ' t feel like he gets enough space . I am going to play around a bit with switching from the 4321 to a 41212 or a 4312 in game to see if that helps . If that doesn ' t work , I will try the 4334 . <| sep |> Thank you ! I ' ll definitely try that out <| sep |> A lot of the time it ' s about ' fitting in '. Most people to a greater or lesser extent want to fit in with prevailing orthodoxies of behaviour . That ' s another reason why dating comes more naturally to women because a they ' re naturally more social creatures and tend to have more social intelligence anyway , b more pressure is put on women to conform , so they ' re probably more inclined to want to ' fit in '. For example , if there is some big event happening , I will only go if I ' m interested in it . I can ' t be cajoled into taking an interest in something just because it ' s culturally prominent . I think what you will find with many people who struggle with dating myself included is that they have no desire to ' fit in ', and thus consequently don ' t understand social customs and or find them ridiculous . I ' ve got better at it over time because I ' m intelligent and selfaware enough to recognise these things and push through them . I have to push through my introversion pretty much every time I go out , my brain would much prefer me to never go out . I think with guys who appear to be social but are unsuccessful , it is probably often the case that they are comfortable in their particular social circle , but struggle to step outside of it . But I ' m sure you ' re also right that they ' re not told how to flirt with women , etc , because I certainly wasn ' t . But if you ' re ' correctly ' socialised I don ' t actually like to describe it that way because I don ' t think there ' s anything wrong with thinking that many things that occur societally are ridiculous indeed , I still believe this then even if you don ' t know how to flirt , you might end up just attracting someone anyway . That ' s why , on reflection , you often get BPers and the general public would probably think the same stating that you just have to be normal to attract someone . Because that has been their experience .