They spend more money on the overall production and they pay to get the top talent , both in front of and behind the scenes . <| sep |> So stuff happened 23 years ago that you don ' t remember but that might be the reason your wife refuses to be anywhere near your family . Coincidentally you also have a 3 year old son . Yeah , either your wife is insane and has some form of mental disorder . OR your family did something fucked up or shitty to her when she was pregnant with your son , and this entire situation has only gotten worse because you cared so little that you can ' t remember what it was . I mean , can ' t really tell what it is , your report is sort of filled with holes like why your wife might be this angry with your family , why she ' s gotten to this stage , why you don ' t remember any of this . Either way , you might want to take a look at rjustnomil in case they can help you work out what ' s going on . Edit having read your update , might I suggest you also check out rbpdlovedones just in case your wife falls into that category