Relevant post from a year ago . <| sep |> Did that it doesn ' t do anything , ran the update again , didn ' t fix anything . <| sep |> The sad reality is that very very few directors in the movies these days has any instinct to ever try and do anything like that . <| sep |> here is the link my friend gave me , but it wouldn ' t really help since its a Korean website . unless you speak Korean . <| sep |> We ' re so sorry . It ' s normal to be completely overwhelmed with grief when something like this happens . Having tried our best to help someone and then losing them anyway can make it even worse because a sense of failure and selfblame gets tangled up with our pain and loss . We tend to think that when we love someone , and value them , and cherish their uniqueness that our feelings for them ought to be enough to keep thm going . It seems crazy that we can feel so deeply connected to someone that the relationship changes the shape of the universe for us , but for them it ' s not enough to keep them connected to life . It makes no sense . How could they not know how important they were to us ? I ' ve lost two of the most important people in my life to suicide , and I ' ve struggled with these questions . I don ' t have simple answers . I think that it takes a perfect storm of circumstances going wrong , usually for many years , to push someone to the point of suicide . Sometimes everything any one person can do is not enough it would be like one person trying to hold up their hand and stop a hurricane . You might want so share your friend ' s story over at rSuicideBereavement , and check out the curated list of bereavement resources we share with them in the sidebarcommunity info of both subs . Hugs .