Not having to stick up for yourself in confrontational situations , I loathe going out drinking and being involved or around arguments with other men and 910 if someone starts a fight with you or gets aggressive you ' re told to stick up for yourself , and sometimes even forced to fightbe aggressive back . In the same instance be competitive over everything , I hate being out with other guys and having to compete over every little thing , it can be anything as well , grades , girls , who can defeat the most ninjas . Sometimes it ' s nice to go out and relax and not have to worry about how your going to be belittled all the time . <| sep |> Which state ya in ? In some states you could have it knocked down to disorderly conduct with a lawyer or DA