I think you ' re conflating several things in your head . <| sep |> Most don ' t have a say in the matter . She just happens to have good genetics aged well , is probably is on hormone therapy to counter the effects of menopause , and had work done . Take away any of those factors and she would look considerably worse . <| sep |> Honestly I ' d do it just for the bracelet as long as it ' s handmade but I ' m already emotionally attached toThis t and It hasn ' t even shipped <| sep |> I deleted my original message because I realised it sounded like an attack on the person I was replying to , which wasn ' t my intention . That makes me a coward ? Whatever you say . However , my original message was directed at people who are surprised by spez ' ability to even edit posts by users . I understand why people think it ' s abuse of his power and all , but I ' ve seen a lot of people genuinely baffled an angry that this was even possible , and my post was aimed specifically at them .