To add me to offer me something I did not ask for is not cool . <| sep |> We were just trying to figure that out . <| sep |> This is really well done ! <| sep |> There aren ' t that many posts about ditto <| sep |> Cudi had been talking shit to each repeatedly for a while nowDid u forget Poop Fiasco <| sep |> Damn I want these but I don ' t like looking like a martian . I ' ll stick with my earsonics . <| sep |> It ' s not even a double standard at this point . Trump simple isn ' t held to any standard . <| sep |> I am struggling with the same problem . It really sucks and makes me feel stifled and that he doesn ' t really understand me . And since I always feel worse after I try to open up to him , I feel myself not turning to him anymore when I should be . I also don ' t agree that it ' s a matter of differences in boys and girls because I have dated guys that made me feel completely comfortable and validated when I opened up . They talked me through my problems and thoughts and didn ' t just give a generic response like my current bf . I have recently decided that I need to end the relationship . He ' s a great guy and we have fun but in the long run I know I need someone that I can mentally connect with as well , or else I will end up feeling lonely and resentful more than I sometime do already . You deserve to have that openness and comfort . I suggest talking to him about this but if nothing changes , even though it can be hard and not what you want to hear , it might be time to move on .