2005 Talladega . DJS last win . <| sep |> Sink him like the lost continent ! <| sep |> Not me but ive gotta story for ya . A guy I work with , he ' s 54 , great guy , he was married for a number of years , had daughter with her . Turns out his brother was sleeping with her for a few years . His fucking brother . And his brother was married too ! AND to make it worse , where we work , his brother is his boss . Dude is an amazingly big guy for being able to look at his brothers face everyday , but I can tell he had his heart shattered by it . Just shattered . The relevance is he hasn ' t been in a relationship for four years . Hasn ' t even had sex in four years . And he really is a good guy . Lots of women out there looking for someone like him , but he just won ' t get out there again . Moral of the story . Don ' t go years . 6 months is cool , a year ? Still cool but you ' re setting up behaviors that make it harder to jump back in . Possibly resentments towards the opposite sex and other fucked up psychological things . You don ' t have to go out try to be a PUA or anything . But go talk to some girlsguys . Make flirty eyes with some cute chicksdudes from across the room , go stumble over your words with a chick , ask for her number , get a fake one and never see her again . Just get out and do it . It ' s worth it .