I watched speedruns before but holy shit on fire . That was insane . <| sep |> About four times , No sex . just hanging out . I have been busy the last month and haven ' t seen him , then he brought up helping me out , so I can take time off of work . and then nothing has been said since about it <| sep |> Kelley feels safest <| sep |> OK . step back for a second and think about this . There ' s really only two options for humanbeings to socially interact 1 . You separate things out into groups different subs . Yes . this does risk creating echo chambers . but it also surrounds you with likeminded people who most likely agree with your views . and your ability to more civilly discuss with them is increased . or 2 . You DON ' T separate things into groups . and just toss everyone all together into 1 big huge public room . and all the disagreement and shouting and confrontation means you get nothing done . Both approaches have ProsCons . Neither is perfect . Basically you ' re complaining . No one will accept me in a public forum . but I don ' t like being pushed into a specific forum either ! !! Well . if you don ' t want to be in either place . then what other choices do you have ?