I did not think of this . Very good point . This whole our . wikileaks thing is just surreal , it feels lazy , sloppy and poorly thrown together . I mean , a bare mediawiki under the Wikileaks banner ? I could see how from the outside in that seems normal but to anyhow who follows them closely this is yet another red flag . What happens when people start spamming it ? What happens when calls for moderation start ? How are majority and minority interpretations of events reconciled ? There is no plan here . No strategy for organizing people . It ' s just here we made a spotlight , please kindly all interact within it . <| sep |> Do you think what you need is time away from your partner ? I don ' t know how long you ' ve been together and it sounds like you ' re happy with him , but I know that even in my now ended happy relationship , I lost a lot of myself in it . It does kind of suck having to take other people , other responsibilities into account instead of just doing your own thing would it help to spend some time alone , figuring out what you want to do ? You mentioned enjoying solo trips before could you do one of those , or schedule some solo soul searching during a vacation with your partnerfamily ?