Sorry to read this . You should consider a divorce , because whatever she did or learned while you were separated has driven a wedge between you . Perhaps you were unfaithful , or perhaps she learned something that made her THINK you were unfaithful , or perhaps SHE was , or something else happened while you were separated . At any rate , SOMETHING has caused her to change her mind about this relationship , and if she doesn ' t want to talk about it or perhaps she simply finds it too painful to talk about it then you ' re not going to be able to fix the problem . If you have no children , then separate immediately . Signed , Retired US Navy officer <| sep |> They don ' t have a death befitting of his crimes . <| sep |> Depends on what kind of shot it is . If it is lead shot then it just kind of flattens out when you bite it . If it is steel shot then you will contemplate suicide after you bite it .