thanks for the insight ! She ' s out of town traveling for the thanksgiving break to see her family , so we ' ve been out of contact for the past week or so which I think has been good for both of us . Kind of a forced ' soft next ' I guess . Anyways , her being gone is a good excuse to just not text or talk to her , so I ' m hoping when she gets back rested and more relaxed things will pick right up where we left off . But yea , next time I see her I think I ' ll make sure we have the conversation of where our relationship is going or what she wants expects . It ' ll be better to just get that out in the open rather than guessing , and you ' re right I don ' t need unnecessary drama in my life . <| sep |> Are you forgetting about the part where she mentioned that she will commit suicide if he reports it ? ?!