There is no such thing as a free market tho <| sep |> LPT If you don ' t like to share with someone else , then don ' t get married . If you do get married it ' ll likely fail anyway , because you don ' t play well with others . <| sep |> We were both 19 when we started dating . We dated for 5 years . And she left me for another man when she left town for graduate school . I didn ' t put up a fight . I felt betrayed . She said she was not my best friend anymore . I had no one . I was depressed for many years afterwards . I hated her . I stopped hating her . I no longer hate her . I can only hope she found happiness one daythey didn ' t end up working out after another 5 years . I never stopped loving her . A while ago we met up at a reunion . She said to me she hope she didn ' t cause any permanent damage to me . I said no . I lied .