Here ' s a better theory people date whoever they want , be it black , white , yellow , blue , red , it doesn ' t matter as you can ' t force them to like what they don ' t . <| sep |> This is making me angry . Why do women think that playing hard to get filters the non serious guys out ? I ' m willing to bet it does the exact opposite . There is no link between insisting with a girl and wanting a serious relationship . It makes no sense . If I ' m looking for a relationship , I ' m looking for a girl who is enthusiastic about meeting me again . Disinterest pushes me away in no time . <| sep |> Why isn ' t EU stoping this ? I mean UK is still with us for more than 2 years . <| sep |> One did this to me , presumably he guessed my email address . So I looked up his company ' s Managing Director and guessed his email address and CC ' d him into a reply telling him I was pissed off he risked my job and made sure I ' ll never touch their recruitment agency .