account sharing is against the rules and child labour is just wrong kappa <| sep |> Ring of coins is f 2 p ? !?! Time to tease da noobs <| sep |> Sure , hate speech isn ' t as harmful to a given person as some people say , depending on who that person is . It is more harmful for some than others . <| sep |> Original post by uPunchingSharks in rnewzealandnbspThis crosspost was performed automatically as a part of the ImagesOfNetwork . Learn more about the ImagesOfNetwork , how you can help , and other Frequently Asked Questions , or visit us on Discord ! Remove my post ! The bot got this one wrong ! Stop Crossposting My Stuff ! # whitelist newzealand <| sep |> If you want to make your boyfriend feel secure , the best way to do that would be by going no contact with this girl . You ' ve already prevented irreparable harm being done by going to him and telling him instead of him finding out and now you need time to build that trust again . He is probably extremely insecure and rightly so so see if you can get him to talk to you about his insecurities as that would help him a lot . After all , I ' d rather a partner talked to me about their insecurities to cope with them , rather than cope with them by doing something worse than talking , like becoming more paranoid , invasive , controlling , etc . Remind him that no matter what your feelings are for others he is still your number one , she did not knock him of his ' highest pedastal ' in your heart and that he shouldn ' t worry that you ever loved her or wanted her more . Of course if you did and do wantlove her more then that changes things . You may need to break up with him for his sake if that ' s the case . If you want to stick with him even through that though , go no contact permanently with her so that the two of you ' s feelings will fade and he can get back to being that # 1 . If you don ' t know how you feel then take some serious time to figure out your feelings but beware that taking time away from him to ' figure things out ' will very , very probably make him even more insecure . Talking to a third party who you trust to be discreet a councillor maybe ? should help you figure things out .