I understand , but I have also known him long enough to know he hates being this way and doesn ' t intentionally do it . When I met him , we were just friends , then best friends . He had a bad home life and childhood , was bulied , etc . so I understand why he ended up that way . He knows it too and he tries hard , as I said he apologizes and keeps telling me how I don ' t deserve this and he hates when this happens . The thing is , no matter how much I may want to believe him , I know that , intentionally or not , he ' s gonna keep doing it . And kicking him out or changing the locks is the worst thing I could do to him . I ' d prefer to warn him in advance , give him time to find a place or someone to help , and go my own way without telling him where .