He had invited me to a pub with some work friends before we were together , as a way to get to know me better . It was November so it was cold out . and he waited outside for me to arrive . That ' s when I knew . <| sep |> Mods power abuse <| sep |> Dude straight up admits that he wants a relationship where being white is his selling point . Doesn ' t get much more transparent than that <| sep |> Modern IUDs do not cause PID . Most side effects are very minor stuff like temporarily increased menstruation or discomfort for the first few weeks before your body adjusts . The major stuff like expulsion are extremely rare . A small percentage of people have reported depression that went away after removal of the IUD . But non hormonal is an option