That team also had health issues <| sep |> I accidentally got that with martyrdom and sonic boom on shipment <| sep |> Ahh I thought you were saying that as a general rule , not forgiving someone keeps them in your life . It ' s fine , it isn ' t something that bothers me anymore . <| sep |> I mean I ' m no where near Mr . and Mrs . Capital Investment Portfolio McWankydoodles but I can understand on some level why they stress about it so young . I may be wrong about this of course , but I ' ve always gotten the sense that America has shit of a support system for people who don ' t do well off for themselves . We aren ' t great to our elderly , our homeless , our mentally ill , and other disadvantaged people compared to other countries I ' m told . So if you don ' t get your shit together young to save for the future , your fucked because there isn ' t all that strong of a safety net for those who don ' t . I ' m only 22 and not even out of college yet , but it ' s being constantly drilled into me by my parents , the media , and others that I need to be saving and planning ahead . If I don ' t I could very well end up fucked 40 years down the line when I can ' t retire unless I want to live off rice and beans for the rest of my days sort of thing .