As I like to say , goodnice <| sep |> I have 3 members of the same guild in my top 50 now . Its a TrapRedI think your lack of duplicates is coincidence rather than intended and probably the result of smaller arena shards the lowest prize is 500 rather than 10000 in the actual arena <| sep |> Damn man . That sucks . I know it ' s harrddd no pun intended hah , but respect yourself and don ' t cave to these girls . If you want to date and ideally have a relationship then if you see a girl coming on to you strong pivot it to asking her on a date rather then going straight to bed . Gay dynamics aren ' t that different . I used to cave a lot cause I just thought that ' oh maybe something would grow out of it '. Now with a few years under my belt and being 24 I know that never happens . It ' s not like the movies . Sex from the get go tends to never evolve into much more . So now I brush off advances and say I ' m open to a date and most of them move on . I get frustrated . Haven ' t been in a relationship in 4 years . I ' m a good looking guy too so it ' s not that . But you got to have your values , your line and stick to it . You ' ll find a cool girl soon ! ! As for social confidence , best advice I ' ve ever been givenFake it till you make it . Small talk , networking , meeting new people etc for most of us that doesn ' t come super natural . I pretend I ' m putting on my acting hat , smile and just go for it . It ' s tough as hell at first willing the nerve but oh get there . And eventually you don ' t have to fake it because you ' ve practiced it enough . Haha totally could see guys buying you drinks . If you went to a gay bar you ' d be ridiculously popular haha . But fuck . You ' re drunk . Screw this deep talk lol . You should watch Archer ! Super fun to watch drunk .