My exdh never noticed that I rarely got more than a gift or two , and that the family gifts for us were actually more stuff for him . One year my only gift was a used dollar store notebook , the family gift was 3 dress shirts for him , and a sibling sent gifts for every family member , spouse and several friends , but I got nothing . He couldn ' t understand why I was crying on the way home . I stopped doing the gift shopping that year . <| sep |> Not a good idea because of the toxic shit from the ink and plastic . Needs to collect cardboard ! It ' s cheap and a lot cleaner . <| sep |> Yeah this is the very obvious solution , I ' m surprised people are arguing over it . <| sep |> While he did the example with cunt for comedic value . I ' d say he has a damn solid point when it comes to saying fudge instead of fuck . Or bleeping words for no reasons .