This is the best answer . Also a great way to get into their hardware at a great discount on refurbished consoles . 1010 quality on Refurbs from them . <| sep |> Sheesh . Talk about outplayed . <| sep |> And the menu settings don ' t stick <| sep |> Antarctica , penguins are prolly pretty aight <| sep |> Yeah , if you don ' t want to appear rapey , then don ' t act like it . I think you have to realize that your boyfriend is a creep . The fact that you multiple times a day need to remind him that nothing sexual will happen is a HUGE RED FLAG . He is trying to wear you down in order to get it wet . His end goal was you giving in , but instead you set your bounderies very clearly . You didn ' t snap or act like a crazy person . You reacted the only way any one would do , if they had asked a creep repeatedly to stop touching them and he just kept igoring you . Now he is trying to shift the blame . He has not adressed why he chose once again to ignore something you had already told him several times THAT VERY DAY . Instead he tries to make you feel like you ' re overreacting and snapping . This stood out to meBecause obviously just asking him nicely has proven to NOT work because he DOES NOT listen . I expressed all this time him and he told me that he would ' t have snapped on me if it were reversed , which pisses me off so bad because now I have to feel guiltyThis right here 1 You asked him what other options you had , since he didn ' t listen when told nicely . 2 He answered by shifting the focus to him being the victim . Boohoo you snapped and me . I would NEVER do that to YOU . He didn ' t answer your question at all . 3 You feel guilt . Stop feeling guilt for doing exactly what we are trying to teach the girls Setting bounderies and saying NO clearly when those bounderies are crossed . He is the guilty one . The fact that he has now successfully manipulated you into feeling guilty for making him feeling rapey is another HUGE RED FLAG . He is a creep and he is acting rapey . He probably doesn ' t see himself as a real rapist . Rapists have some fucked up ideas about entitlement and feels like the victim when they ' re confronted by their rapist behaviour . Dump the asshole and tell him why . He may not understand it and he will blame your irrational craziness for the breakup . But who cares .