Yes , we chose Hollyn for out daughter because we liked it , the fact that it was unique but not too different was a plus . <| sep |> Something along those lines iirc . I wouldn ' t say it to his face myself to be fair ! <| sep |> Probably have to remove the apple from their ass first . <| sep |> Cognitive dissonance can be one hell of a drug . Valuing someone for looks in the first place is superficial . Being superficial is bad . I am not a bad person . I am not superficial . It ' s impossible that I value someone for looks in the first place . I value someone for a plethora of positive traits , with looks being just one among many and not an extremely , if not the most important one . Looks don ' t matter that much . I mean , we ' re seeing it right in this very sub , where women en masse are denying that looks are supremely important . Sure , they don ' t say looks don ' t matter anymore that ship has sailed , though I have read and heart that more than a few times back in the day , but they ' re constantly trying to put it in a perspective .