The other big fundamental problem on here is that if a white man goes for an Asian woman he is a loser yet if a white woman goes for an Asian guy she is a winner . As the vast majority of white women find Asian men unattractive then the logic would be the white women with less options would date Asian men as people would ' date down ' until they found someone . So both white men and women with Asians would be losers . That is how it would work if you believe that Asian women are second best to white women and that sort of shit . It ' s basically a coping mechanism used by alot of Asian and Hapa guys to deal with the number of WMAF couples they see . When you are on rhapas you have to keep in mind there are alot of mentally damaged people on here so it isn ' t always logical or consistent .