Man , this is so disorienting . Seeing Terry do hurricane kicks and throw waistlevel fireballs is messing with my head . Love the skin though . <| sep |> The ABC model in psychologythough the fundamental principle itself is much much older . Life is neither fair nor unfair . Its YOUR subjective EXPECTATIONS which compel you to feel the way you do . Things like , its not the traffic jam that is the problem , its your expectation of what should happen which causes you to feel the way you do about that jam , and so on . Looking through an even higher prism of perspective . You are a living organism on a speck of rock , all of which is insignificant in the grand scale of the Universe . What youor anyone else feels , does and expects , is Absolutely and Categorically , IRRELEVANT . Modulate your expectations . That is all you can do to control the higher level artifacts that results from this base level dynamic .