Bolsa Chica is where I learned . It ' s my local break , very spread out like utheleveler 2600 said , and pretty consistent . If you are serious , send me a message and I can meet you up for a quick few tips . I am far from good , but it ' s my home break and I can impart some knowledge . <| sep |> unotenoughsuspenders has a point . You are just qualifying yourself as a loser instead of trying to take action . I also made this mistake when I was younger . Most men seriously underestimate the attractiveness . I am by no means a very good looking guy and some women just don ' t find me physically attractive , and I could not give less of a fuck . I know that the more I pursue women who don ' t want to be with me the more it will frustrate me . I just move on when they reject me and eventually find that 1 in every 1020 or so women that enjoy my company . Would you rather be with a girl who has 1010 looks but treats you like crap or an average girl who actually is interested in getting along with you . I have actually had met several women who were ' out of my league ' and have never had one just ignored my advances . I think you issue with women is more strongly related to your own issues . This is the reason I advise you to Read Mark Mansons Models . He discusses how to overcome these kind of things very well .