GIFV linkI am a bot . bot <| sep |> Ohhh definitely watching this next ! <| sep |> Hehe well there doing the cyber Monday stuff now anyway . So just stay safe and if you really want just go online . <| sep |> I ' d be much more suspicious of the gentleman not pulling a batch in a porn theater <| sep |> I would have to agree with the correctness of that statement <| sep |> Ok . Guys here a bit too pessimistic about women ' s nature . AWALT . But some stuff regarding HER deserve attention . She left a Facebook thing out a few weeks ago saying how she wishes she was single to her best friend . Was it public ? Or did you sniff saw it by chance ? If it was public , it fits plain disrespect , and it should have been energetically confronted . If it wasn ' t , brush it off . Women will say that sort of crap also , I HAD to put out , god , he ' s so needy to their friends to offer sympathy , agreement , get validation , whatever . AWALT . So I told her I ' m moving out a few days ago , my heart was fully set on this but she begged me to stay . Absolutely bawled her eyes out , told her I was the love of her life etc , etc . Hamster ? Perhaps . You lost a lot of attraction here . Hopefully you said something on the lines listen , we ' re not working out , it ' s obvious and she prompted to change . Not that she will , but at least you won ' t have stepped back for no reason . but she keeps bringing up things like I just got a yeast infection , I ' m about to go on my period , blala . This means she is not attracted . You can solve a LOT of stuff by talking . Sometimes you ' ll lose a bit of attraction on the process , sometimes you will not . Lack of sex IS NOT something in that LOT . It means she is not attracted and talking won ' t make her any more attracted . To fix this , you RAISE YOUR SMV . She probably will not notice it . Then you resort to DREAD . First you withdraw affection take a look at five languages of love , spot which one she ' s sensitive towards and STOP and respond to her requests by initiating sex . If that doesn ' t work , bring other women to the talk . . Well , that put aside , most women are just like yours . Most is just me being nerdy because it can ' t be proven that ALL women are effectively like yours . Relationships are a hassle , they ' re hard , they ' re NOT the easier way to get sex , they ' re inherently anguishing . The woman has to be fucking AMAZING to make up for that or you need strong external motivation besides scarcity mentality . What is it that you want to do ? Fix it ? Nor hard really , bring up the dread and in a month ' s time you ' ll be fucking like rabbits . Quit ? No fucking shame at it . Leading a relationships properly is hardly worth it . The girl has to make it easier to balance it . Fair trade , you ' re negating your all guys are jerks drive , she should negate some of her all women are like that . Your girl isn ' t making it any easier . As for all the she will cheat on you talk . I wouldn ' t even deem that line a red flag for it . There are red flags for cheating . She ' s getting tidy , getting in a gym , asking about your schedule , secretive about hers , non committal , fabricating fights . That ' s not a funny line to hear but you ' ll hear it all too much from women whenever they feel the need to tell someone they ' re sexual beings , validation . You ' ll get the one about have to put out when they want to be validated about having the power in the relationship too . If she doesn ' t want me to go , why would she want me to stay especially if we ain ' t banging ? MILLIONS of reasons . You might be providing the sort of affection she wants five languages , again . You might be her emotional crutches , or tampon , as we say here . She might really dread the idea of being alone . It might be a strong blow to her ego being dumped by the man she feels she owns .