Where are you from in Europe ? In Scandinavian countries , having a southeast Asian wife is the ultimate loser status symbol , so having Asian fetishes there is rampant among the socially deviant , not so progressive men . When I was in Oslo , the ratio of Asian women to men was probably 101 . Mostly southeast Asian . Must be shitty for them , being viewed as a submissive waifu but at the same time NOT respectable and trashy even . I ' m a really Westernized and ethnically ambiguous American with a Swedish boyfriend . If I were to go to Sweden , I ' ll be trying to seem as progressive and liberated of a woman as possible because if someone mistakes me for southeast Asian then I ' ll be terrified they ' ll see me as sexually willing trash . American stereotypes are shitty enough but for that I just watch by not being excessively loud and saying anything bigoted , but that something everyone should watch for anywhere . Asian stereotypes in a country where most Asian women are wives to the shittiest of men make for far more disgusting , degrading dangerous stereotypes with no positives . At least the other traits described here such as being blonde or big boobed make someone more attractive , being SE Asian typically makes you less attractive except to fetishists . That ' s another reason for me to take inspiration from women who are bold and outspoken , but at the same time classy . Not the type of girl to date trash because they are culturally inferior .