To make things clear , I did have a miscarriage a few months ago and my pet was put down . <| sep |> I grew up in the super racist super sexist deep south . If you listen to ari or joe talk about obesity or fat people , they are just as dehumanizing as those racist shits of long ago . The irony being Ari barely escaped the oven , and being such a poor human he doesn ' t think the 2 are similar . It is bizarre that no one here will agree with her general message , but hey you ' ve got 8 pack abs like a jojo . Fat shaming isn ' t that much different from shit like the blue vein or brown paper bag clubs . There are societal constructs at work . It is generally unhealthy to be overweight , but it isn ' t like you ' re having blood pressure competitions with people .