This looks like something that could be in a horror movie . <| sep |> A girl will know if you ' re inexperienced without you having to actually tell them you ' re inexperienced . They will judge it by your body language and how you appear to be nervous when things escalate . She will know this even if you ' ve talked once . Sure , if you ' re 19 . If you ' re 35 , she ' s going to just be confused . Nobody actually imagines that the guy they ' re talking to is a 35 yearold who has never had sex . She senses that something is off about you , but most peopleeven super awkward peoplehave had sex by the time they get to my age . It ' s only a red flag if she has already decided that she doesn ' t like you . If she likes you she will actively make excuses for you . Let ' s say she ' s not sure . What then ? True , but what are you going to do ? Honestly , I probably won ' t go back .