You are allowed to fire them though . I ' m pretty sure since Bill Clinton fired his Surgeon General . The position also seems to be prone to having really long periods of Acting Surgeon Generals which I found odd . Maybe they ' re hard to get confirmed ? <| sep |> Once again it ' s called Google why should I waste my time on you ? <| sep |> Sounds like the easiest solution would be for you to move somewhere else . He ' s under no obligation to leave , and he probably won ' t unless you force him . <| sep |> Yeah , he definitely did . While it ' s important for couples to talk about boundaries and cheating , there are some things that are assumed to be offlimits unless explicitly discussed and allowed . Doing anything sexual with an ex falls under that .