Lol , that ' s pretty good <| sep |> Titleso you mean basically any sub that isn ' t rthedonald ? <| sep |> I stopped using them after they wouldn ' t let me withdraw my $ 200 balance . After 3 weeks of phone calls and emails it never happened . I ended up spending it on something instead and haven ' t used them since . You cannot trust them at all . <| sep |> I think our idea of love is so convoluted by all the imagesvideosmoviesetc that we see . Have you ever had a pet that you loved ? Did you love it all the time ? How often did you tell it you loved it ? I think sometimes loving yourself is just being able to be happy and laugh at something , anything . Sometimes hating yourself is the motivation you need to get up and change things . I guess I just mean that hate doesn ' t mean the absence of love . In response to the people pleasing thing , I ' ve had a lot of success in making more conscious decisions to be by myself and to make the longtermminded actions that I know I ' ve needed to take . I still feel myself justifying my actions to others even when I am alone , I catch myself having hypothetical conversations where I am being interrogated almost and in a hurtful way . But then I know I have been doing the things that I need to be doing . And then , after that , I realize that I shouldn ' t have even been imagining those awful interrogations anyway . And then I remember to breathe and get back to listening to the song I was listening to or whatever . Love is acceptance . Even acceptance of negative emotions such as selfhate .