Dale Carnegie literally wrote a book on the subject . It ' s really highly regarded too , you should check it out . <| sep |> Ok , apparently as you can guess , I don ' t do this very oftenOnce in a lifetime . What ' s the worst thing that can happen that I should be prepared for ? If I ask for the number and she doesn ' t want to go out with me , will she say No , thanks I am good or Not in a thousand years ? <| sep |> Glad to hear you were able to get it ! How is Coup by the way ? I ' ve never heard of it . <| sep |> You guys sound fine ! <| sep |> You don ' t really seem like a type that we ' ll miss that much tbh . Coming to a community and asking if they can recommend another community that isn ' t as shit as theirs prolly isn ' t a good way to ask for help either . It ' s like going up to someone random and asking if they know where you can buy clothes that aren ' t as ugly as the ones they ' re wearing .