I mean , a lot of people certainly want it to be true , but I haven ' t seen anything that amounts to more than confirmation bias <| sep |> Thanks . It is the oft forgot reverse of the coin . Men are for good reason described and feared as sexual predators , as many of us are given to behave in those ways large and small . The commodification of womens bodies , the sexual aggression of rape culture , and so on , all things worthy of scorn . There are men , though , who are sensitive and keenly aware of the way they have effected others , and riddled with guilt because of it . Just as it is impolitic to mention the women who have made false rape accusations , it is impolitic to mention the men who are terrified of their fellow man , terrified not just of what they represent , but that he may become them . I ' m a restless sort . This does not weigh easy on me .