just some beers , maybe a pizza <| sep |> Imagine if it ended up being Ditto . <| sep |> Would ' ve been perfect if the car exploded as well . <| sep |> I ' m right with you . I went from dating my husband to married with 3 kids in less than 6 months quick engagement , adoption , and having preemie twins . When the boys were born , they were very early and very sick , so sick that the doctors said that there was no way they would make it . My grandmother tells me that me losing my children was punishment because I don ' t go to church enough . Now , as I am in the middle of a divorce , she asks when I ' m going to find a new man so that my life can be complete and I can have a proper family again . If it wouldn ' t kill my dad to do it , I would tell her off once and for all , but my dad is too important to me to do that . Edit my boys are fine , they just had to spend their first 6 months in NICU . sorry , as I was rereading the post , it made it sound like they didn ' t make it .