Tony Hawk ' s underground 2 <| sep |> Beautiful . Do you have any photos that aren ' t so washed out ? <| sep |> oh yeah , absolutely . i don ' t disagree with that . i was just pointing out that homeopathy isn ' t totally useless and does have some value . unlike the whole flat earth thing which is completely laughable . <| sep |> Grats . Now sell them fast and profit D <| sep |> She says something has changed now , she can ' t look at snuggling in bed the same way now that I ' ve revealed that I rarely consider this idea of withholding intimacy from her . Overall , this fits the pattern . When I do muster the courage to bring it up with her , she feels guilt and shame and I just wind up mostly wishing I hadn ' t said anything , but also in part I feel good about not keeping it bottled up completely . Clearly with this new approach I touched a nerve . She says this morning she doesn ' t want to sleep in our bed at all . I think she may be moving her stuff into the guest room even as I type . It is long past time to go all in . She has by her actions . Do not roll over . If you thought 58 x ' syr was insufficient , she just upped the ante by leaving the bed . Its time to get a pair and ante up and raise her . I know your not there yet mentally , but she just put down a marker . IF she went to the spare bedroom I would literally go to the mattresses . You don ' t need to be mean , but it is time for some resolve . Draw a line in the sand and demand couples sex therapy with an accredited sex therapist . You are on the way to death of a thousand cuts . Do not wait another decade . Please stand up for what you need and what is right . Get busy living . q 6 veSNVxec