The Red Pill addresses this adnausem though . I see those couples too . Women ride the CC until a certain point , and then when she wants a life like what you ' re describing i . e . real commitment , since she can ' t find it with the guys she ' s been having sex with at that point , she ' s forced to date a more average guy for that . THIS is what I see . I see girls who are late 20 ish or early 30 ish who are with their boyfriends . Normal guys . Not Chad . The same guys the early 20 s version of themselves would be calling a loser or a fake nice guy or a doormat while she blew five Chads in a row in one week . That ' s what drives guys to The Red Pill . You Blue Pill guys will say but but I see couples everyday . Red Pill guys say yea , when the girl is like 29 or something . Most of those guys were ignored by girls for most of their 20 s and once those girls were pressing really close to 30 , suddenly they relaxed their impossible standards and found a guy . But who wants to be that guy ? The tenth or twentieth choice for a chick hitting the wall ? You can verify this by just observing women who are 22 , 23 , 24 . They ' re some of the most vapid and narcissistic people you ' ll ever meet . And then by 28 , all of the guys she would have horrifically rejected back then are supposed to be happy that she ' s finally ready to choose them and be the other half of a couple . The Red Pill isn ' t crazy . This is a well documented trend in the western world right now .