if you think chromosomal differences are nonsense and fiction , we are at an impasse . <| sep |> Use your aggressive feelings ! Let the hate flow through you ! <| sep |> Oh yeah being played out by Ed Sheeran , good game <| sep |> Yeah I know what you ' re saying , I can say that my trust issues have honestly been fixed , I learned unfortunately through doing how bad that made me and I regret it immensely , so I ' m doing better with it , honestly if I can ' t trust the person I ' m with then I ' m not going to be with them . I had to figure that out the hard way , but now I ' ve learned to give trust until proven it ' s undeserved . Yeah I understand , it ' s easier to see that passiveness when you get to know someone so I can kinda spot it now , and that ' s something I ' ve gotten better with , I ' m not being pushy and I ' m making sure what I ' m doing is ok to do you know ? Used to ask repeatedly if it was ok , I don ' t as much now , but honestly I don ' t flirt that much still lol , but mostly because of not currently talking to someone on that levelYeah I definitely took some things too personally but I started realizing that a lot of times maybe I ' m not the problem maybe sometimes I am but honestly if someone isn ' t into then that ' s that , I can ' t make them be . a while back I was flirting with a girl who was really hocked up on her ex , can ' t move past him so I just accepted that me and her won ' t happen and moved on . But I understand what you ' re saying , sometimes things just can ' t be and I get that . If this conversation happened a few years ago I ' d be pretty different haha . I ' ve just matured more I suppose , tldr I got over my trust issues and can trust again , I ' m not fully confident in myself but I ' m definitely better off than I used to be and I ' m only getting better , and I ' ve learned to not linger on my failures . I ' m not perfect . Never will be but I ' m trying to be better .