Heck , maybe some individual frats even engage in cool charitable work and have serious problems going on in other ways . <| sep |> you type like the doge thing much mmm very tard . <| sep |> Camping . the smell of a fire heavy in the morning air and the smell of rotten leaves . <| sep |> Honestly , I don ' t think you ' re wrong . I think the problem is that it ' s often done in a bad way or for bad reasons . You can often tell that the parent is only doing it because they want a grandchild , not because they want you to be happy . That ' s really quite grating for the person being arranged . Right now , there ' s a lot of animosity from young Indians towards their parents I think , because they feel their parents only see them as a ROI . I ' m not sure they ' re wrong , either .