290 electoral votes would disagree with you . <| sep |> It changes nothing . You are perfectly welcome to not use this website if you have a problem with the company . Have a wonderful day . <| sep |> Maxson needs a gigantic hug <| sep |> Hmm . still going to lose though skins <| sep |> I want my SO to have healthy , supportive relationships with people other than me . I don ' t tend to date people who are immature enough to rank people in their lives so I have never been too concerned with being number 2 . The 2 against 1 thing also says a lot more about their maturity level than it does about whether or not it is good for them to have a best friend who isn ' t me . And to answer the final question , I would want them to have someone to confide in who wasn ' t me . I mean , do you just seek out people to date who have no friends ? It just seems creepy and controlling to insist that your SO have no other best friends .