I just think ' little to no effort ' goes a bit far . As an unattractive girl , it took me huge efforts to actually get guys to consider me worth looking at . And it involved failure 95 % of the time . <| sep |> You ' re logging her into your phone ? <| sep |> If you ' re over the age of 18 , set your sights on 18 year olds . Don ' t think it works like that , buddy . Your argument will never be of any help to anyone if you don ' t even understand the basics of the topic you ' re arguing about . Sorry , but none of us get to choose our sexuality . It ' s the luck of the draw , and some of us get dealt a bad hand . Imagine , hypothetically , if you were asked to change your sexuality today . Because it ' s the right thing to do . How do you think that would go ? Go on , put your brain to use and think about it . I promise , it won ' t hurt . Its nice that yall dont go out and touch kids , but I dont see any of you seeking help for how messed up each and every one of you are . Because we often can ' t . There are no safe channels for us to go through because the stigma against pedophilia is so strong . Psychiatrists are notoriously poorly trained on how to deal with us . Not even they want to touch this issue because of all the hatred and anger it tends to provoke . Because of morons like you that don ' t even understand the first thing about us . And dont oggle my family , because I ' ll beat your ass . Look at someone elses younger siblings sons and daughters . Dont do it at allOh my , how scary ! Mr . Big Bad Man is threatening us ! Man , I wish I was as big and bad as him ! Sorry , but it ' s hard to have an adult discussion about something when you ' re trying to act like a teenage hard ass over the internet .