But at no point were we discussing scrapping our armed forces . No wonder you were so reticent to talk about your concerns . <| sep |> This is really shocking . Coaches like these should be given the worst possible punishment . They are sick in their hearts . <| sep |> I find it odd that you wrote this as a cautionary tale . The deep web isn ' t anymore dangerous than the actual internet , further more it doesn ' t exist outside of the normal internet , I downloaded and opened the Tor Browser , Tor is a lot like internet explorer , chrome or Firefox , Tor browser is usually a modified variant of Firefox , TOR is more of a routing protocol and not really a way to access the hidden part of the internet , the reason people use it for criminal activity is due to the decentralized mostly anonymous nature of the network . That being said , sucks that your wife turned out to be linked to the murder Deep web dudes , I would have taken her laptop and run some forensics on it , see what you could pull . I mean , from what I ' ve been able to gather you just need to practice better OpSec , overconfidence in one ' s ability can lead to issues like the one you ' ve found yourself in and it sounds like you may have run into some folks that surpass you when it comes to hackingtech prowess . Start brainstorming ways to turn the tables , go on the offensive , use your hacking skillsbecome better at it . Don ' t give up .