Many Dems don ' t know half the countries either . Can ' t we just agree that a lot of people are stupid ? <| sep |> D 1 . can confirm . Mid plat and mid diamond are same thing . You were downvoted by idiots who finally got to diamond and don ' t want to admit it doesn ' t mean shit . <| sep |> So sorry your MIL is so awful . And happy your husband has his priorities straight . Your poor kids . What a terrible thing for her to do to them . <| sep |> This is the answer . my kids come before my husband every time . I love him , but I grew those kids . <| sep |> Having been a Sheffield uni med student though sadly now living in Manchester so unable to help directly consider contacting Medsoc to see if there ' s anyone around . Very friendly med school . Lots of drinking but there ' s always med students that don ' t . Sorry , I graduated 2008 so don ' t directly know any current med students . Do know lots of Sheffield folks , so PM me if you have any specific interests and I ' ll see if anyone I know fits the bill .