Couldn ' t agree more . This is by far one of the worst rDIY posts I ' ve seen for a while . Perhaps I ' m an asshole for saying so , but I wouldn ' t recommend this approach to anyone ever . <| sep |> Mild , but quite , quite nice Reminded me of the gal in ' Scott Pilgrim vs The World '<| sep |> He ' s coding mentally <| sep |> add up all e x p e n dituresrentcarfuelfoodetc outputadd up all income input overtime if possibleInput Output what is left you save on the side Pay the debt with higher interest first ? Downgrade the car if possible Buy cheap foods ? don ' t eat out , Cook your own food . goodluck to u brother <| sep |> Yeah , but what is the dichotomy here ? Being an alpha male like Roosh V or Devon Tracey ? Internet logic You ' re either a selfhating male feminist , or a rapey , obnoxious douchbro . Also , why does every single one of these guys have a closecropped beard and thick framed glasses ? Is that the uniform or something ?