Come to my house . There is a strict no politics rule . Follow the rule or you ' re thrown out of the house . Some exceptions apply . <| sep |> I followed this raspberrymoussecake but reduced the honey to 3 tbsps instead of 4 and used 70 % dark chocolate instead of semisweet for the chocolate mousse . <| sep |> You ' re too wrapped up on what other people say and your own mind . Max him and see for yourself if you like him better . Red kenpachi puts out the most damage as a red but is boring a hell . Dangai isn ' t boring but try some diversity . <| sep |> Oh man , there is no good way of saying this . You need to back away from this relationship . I am not suggesting that you dump him right now . However , it is clear that although you are invested in the relationship , he isn ' t . Having your relationship dictated by his condition on a particular day isn ' t healthy . While he is going through whatever therapy or treatment he is receiving for PTSD , you should reduce your expectations of the relationship and your availability . Remain very casual until such times as he is in a better place . However , if this is a new relationship below 3 months , it may be better for everyone especially you to cut your losses now . It is hard but it will hurt less than what is happening now .