Many ways I would like to have you ! Yet they start w teasing and spanking . I suppose you have that look . <| sep |> I think you guys are confusing pedophilia with ephebophilia . Big difference between finding small children attractive and finding a fully developed 16 or 17 year old girl attractive . At least 16 and 17 year olds can consent in many states . <| sep |> lol im new too . just figured it out <| sep |> Here you go <| sep |> Uh . I ' m going to have to say that this behavior is , at best , an extremely misguided way for him to go about telling you that he has sexual andor romantic feelings for you or , at worst , a very disturbing social disorder . If his behavior makes you uncomfortable , and it sounds like it does , you really should tell him that and attempt to establish boundaries . His behavior is obviously troubling you . My best advice is to try and talk about it . Ask him what ' s going on and tell him how his behavior is negatively affecting you . Don ' t put yourself in a situation that makes you uncomfortable . If he doesn ' t respect that , he ' s not really your friend .