So you live in a different US ? <| sep |> Honest question Is it weird for you guys that the entire rest of the world is laughing at andor terrified of you ? <| sep |> Ah ! We did it the My bun , her oven way . We debated a long time about whether that was needlessly complicated . But a couple of straight couples we know had great experiences with a certain IVF clinic , and it swayed us . When my wife was pregnant , people would ask , Whose baby is it ? It was funny seeing the look on their faces when I said Mine . We hope to adopt next . It ' s a shame it ' s such a hard process . Of course I know why they do it , but all the lesbian couples I know just went to the sperm bank because it ' s so cheap and easy . Especially because people are already telling us that two women have no business raising a little boy . We were afraid of that too . But we ended up with a girl . We ' ve already had someone accuse us of being man haters , because our whole household is girls including two female cats . Yeah cus we obviously we killed all the sons my wife gave birth to until we had a girl .