Hmm , unfortunately , I don ' t think so . It ' s a very gradual process that I don ' t think can be tackled headon , really . Your best bet may simply be education books like Tina Fey ' s Bossypants , newsresearch articles about the topic , anything that you can go to her with and say hey , I found this interesting check it out ! Hopefully , she ' ll soon come to the realization all by herself Also , if it happens to be due to cultural reasons like with my parents , I ' m currently reading a book called Breaking the Bamboo Ceiling that addresses a lot of these cultural misconceptions ! <| sep |> I concur . They ' re normally more on the ball than that . But , I guess it is difficult for them to spell anything that isn ' t Peachtree .