It also goes over to cali in the other direction , right ? <| sep |> I can do it <| sep |> I remember blankets <| sep |> I ' m curious about where and what setting in happens in . I am a woman who doesn ' t get it too much , but still probably at least once or twice a month . For me , it ' s never happened in the workplace or classroom . It has happened on the sidewalk , public transit , common areas on my college campus , grocery stores , the mall , gas stations restaurants , and for me the most common is definitely parking lots . I guess any place I routinely come in to contact with strangers . Any place someone might just smile and say hello , someone else might chirp up with how you doin or whatever . It ' s not the words so much as the tone , the expectation of a response , and the frightening switch to aggression when they find said response lacking .