It worked for me , man . Today is the beginning of Day 2 and I ' m already over her . Best thing to do is to find everything you didn ' t like about herhim and think about it all day . Cry and think about what life would be like with them still in your life . Now think about how life would be like with them with all those bad qualities you ' d been thinking about . I know there is a ' love blind ' that allows us to ignore the bad in the person we love but REALLY try to get past that and think about what you hated most about the person . Tldr Day 1 Mope and think about what you did not like about them but mix it up with good thoughts so your body doesn ' t relapse into thinking negative thoughts . Day 2 Try your hardest to mope . Forcing your mind to be upset about something you dislike forces it to think good thoughts about them not what makes them great but rather ur memories .