Because that ' s so much worse than diaper ? And this from the country that uses the infantile burglarized instead of burgled ? <| sep |> I mean . There are only two sides to the changer though . <| sep |> Don ' t be a dick man <| sep |> I think Nibani Maesa has the truth of it . I ' d trust her more than most other sources in this case , since she has no particular axe to grind in the Vehk vs . Dagoth conflict . disturbing dreams These dreams are the black lies of the Sharmat Dagoth Ur . Dagoth Ur himself is mad . He is dead , but he dreams he lives . He hears laughter and love , but he makes monsters and ghouls . He woos as a lover , but he reeks with fear and disgust . Do not listen . Do not go to him . What I take from that is that Dagoth Ur is a classic psychotic . He genuinely believes that he offers a higher form of existence , even as he damns his followers to living like animals in a cave and surviving through magically enabled cannibalism . I think he looks upon the misery and squalor of his followers and genuinely sees happiness and luxury . His self delusion just runs that deep . I ' m happy to think less of Vivec , but I don ' t think I ' ll ever accept Dagoth Ur as the hero of the piece , except in his own head . I can ' t spell Nibani Maesa apparently .