tbh , PoE is the first game where you really havent had to get a backup skill . That was the norm in D 2 for example . expect if you was cold speced as they had insane penetration <| sep |> If you ' re on PSN add me , barbeqdbrwniez . I ' m patient and helpful . <| sep |> Yeah , we know . <| sep |> That ' s because cats are just a window to your own soul . <| sep |> Don ' t try to break the Spoon . It is impossible . Instead , focus only on the truth . What truth ? There is no spoon . dzm 8 kTIj 0 M <| sep |> You ' re focusing on the absolute wrong thing . It ' s like you ' re saying yeah , sure , this building is about to collapse whatever . But this door knob is jiggly ! She dated someone else . You knew that . And now you ' re acting all wounded because you found out she liked the guy she was dating ? Most people like the people they date . She chose you and it does not sound like this is something worth thinking about . You and your wife need to work on this marriage in a lot of other ways communication intimacy , quality time , but focusing on this thing from over a decade ago is not on that list .