You know , if I wanted a easy way to keep tabs on all the stupidest , low energy racists , bigots and potential domesticterrorists in my country I ' d probably create a website like voat . <| sep |> Totally . The reality of the situation , at least in the west , is that women have hotlines , counsellors , shelters a whole support structure in place for the event of an unhealthy relationship . Men don ' t . These organizations and the courts also tend to err on the side of caution and remove children from fathers based on nothing but allegations . It ' s frightingly easy to destroy the life of a former partner as a woman if said former partner is a man . If I were to speculate , that is part of the explanation to the sky high suicide rate for men after the end of longterm relationships .