Frankie just for future reference haha . Thanks man , you as well ! <| sep |> I mean , to me personally , wanting it in your heart is adultery as it is . You have heard that it was said , ' Do not commit adultery . ' But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart . NIV , Matthew 52728 Sorry to bring more unhappy things into this . However , that temptation was shut down completely and denied because of your love for your girlfriend . That ' s absolutely amazing , dude . Everyone is gonna feel guilt and shame for anything even temptation without giving into it . It sucks , but hey , God ' s already forgiven you . You ' re cool with Him through Christ and it sounds like your relationship revolves around Him , you ' ll be okay . I ' d say to talk to her about it and be honest . Don ' t go too in depth with the why and stuff as other comments say , it leads to comparison , envy , and selfdoubt but if she asks , again , be honest . You ' ll get it off your chest to her and telling her these things actually opens up more room for trust and makes more space for God to step in though He ' s already there . I ' ll be praying for you two . God ' s gotcha !