damnn shouldnt have recorded any of that stuff OP <| sep |> i don ' t know about this . Hear me out . i am not trying to down play your hurt feelings at all . If it ' s over . it ' s over . So why drag it out ? why talk about what went wrong ? I can ' t tell you how many awesome women i ' ve dated in my life . I was such a idiot for not appreciating them . it ' s only in hind sight do i realize 90 % of the women i dated are marriage material . Now i am with someone who i appreciate that much more . Admittedly i did a lot of this while i was sub 25 years old . Still no excuse . the point i am trying to make is . If he cut you off and you are worth it meaning you are a good honest considerate partner . Then what he is saying is he is not ready for you not that there is anything wrong with you necessarily . Even if you were to sit down and talk to him about it some of the stuff he might say wouldn ' t make sense because you are worth more then he is valuing you . So it ' s over . Be happy . Honestly TLDR if you are great and someone doesn ' t value your greatness and they discard you then they are not ready for how great you are .