If you can choose , will you marry a foreigner or a Chinese ?
neutral
user
Why ? Did tom pop the question ?
surprise
assistant
Not yet . But I wonder if I can get my parents ’ consent .
neutral
user
Let me guess , your parents want you to marry a Chinese man , right ?
neutral
assistant
You are right . It is giving me a real headache . I feel like I ’ m between a rock and a hard place .
neutral
user
I used to have the same problem when I was with my ex .
neutral
assistant
Oh , how did you deal with it ?
neutral
user
I just let it go and continued dating with my Korean boyfriend . But finally we broke up .
neutral
assistant
Oh , it ’ s a pity . What was the matter ?
neutral
user
Simple . We had personality clashes and there were too many cultural differences .
neutral
assistant
Like what ?
neutral
user
He hoped to live in the Korean way and asked me to give up working and stay at home to take care of the family .
neutral
assistant
Oh , I see . In their culture women should put family first .
neutral
user
Yes , he said it would be better for me and for the whole family . But I simply can not quit working .
neutral
assistant
So that's why it ’ s hard to have a happy marriage with a foreigner .
neutral
user
Not really . There are many successful mixed marriage around us .
neutral
assistant