One Less Drop of Pain: You Can Make a Difference
By: Lisa Topete | June 2, 2020
"Not to alarm anyone, but there are thousands of people dying annually, and most of us will not change our lives to reduce that number. I wonder why these deaths aren't threatening to us, why they don't cause us to drastically change our lives, to love our neighbor as ourselves?"
This was written by a man who has a serious love for God and people. His name is Rick. When I read this on his Facebook page, I realized I was subconsciously thinking that it was written for "other" people. People who are not that involved in church, people who are not in full-time ministry already, people who are only focused on themselves — selfish people. Then it hit me: That's the problem. I am the part of this problem. That line of thinking is precisely the problem. When we live according to the Bystander Effect, that surely someone is bound to do something, no one does anything.
According to data from the National Child Abuse and Neglect Data System , 50 States reported a total of 1,688 [child] fatalities, in one year. This translates to an average of nearly five children dying every day from abuse or neglect in the United States alone. Dear reader, are you telling me not one person noticed even one of these children in trouble before they died? I suppose what Stalin said is true: "One death is a tragedy, one million deaths is a statistic."
According to the CDC, "cigarette smoking is the leading cause of preventable disease and death in the United States, accounting for more than 480,000 deaths every year, or about 1 in 5 deaths." Additionally, 67,000 people died from drug overdoses in 2018, making it a leading cause of injury-related death in the United States, and of those deaths, almost 70% involved a prescription or illicit opioid. That is an average of 130 Americans dying every day from an opioid overdose.
According to the National Institute on Alcohol Abuse and Alcoholism, in 2018, "14.4 million adults ages 18 and older were diagnosed with Alcohol Use Disorder (AUD), with only 7.9% of those with AUD receiving some sort of help and treatment. An estimated 88,000 people die from alcohol-related causes annually, making alcohol the third leading preventable cause of death in the United States. The first is tobacco, and the second is poor diet and physical inactivity"—a whole different topic for discussion.
According to UN statistics, "820 million people globally are considered undernourished, with 22 percent of children younger than 5 classified as 'stunted' as a consequence of malnutrition." That is not just the United States; that is globally. Matthew 25:42-45 says, "'For I was hungry and you gave me nothing to eat, I was thirsty and you gave me nothing to drink, I was a stranger and you did not invite me in, I needed clothes and you did not clothe me, I was sick and in prison and you did not look after me.' "They also will answer, 'Lord, when did we see you hungry or thirsty or a stranger or needing clothes or sick or in prison, and did not help you?' "He will reply, 'Truly I tell you, whatever you did not do for one of the least of these, you did not do for me.'" The interesting thing about these verses is that Jesus emphasizes the one, and I have to ask myself when is the last time I intentionally helped just one?
When we look at the big picture of the amount of trauma inflicting the world, it is easy to be overwhelmed. Take heart. Mother Teresa once said, "We ourselves feel that what we are doing is just a drop in the ocean. But the ocean would be less because of that missing drop…[and] if you can't feed a hundred people, then feed just one." She also said, "I want you to be concerned about your next-door neighbor. Do you know your next-door neighbor?"
What Rick wrote on his Facebook page is like removing one drop of water from the ocean because it is giving a louder voice to these types of tragedies. They need a louder voice because that leads to action. It may not seem big but if each person reading this did one thing to help, it would be one less drop of pain in this world. Be overwhelmed, be burdened, be something…but please, don't just do nothing.
What is God calling you to do today? The Bible tells us that "the love of many has grown cold" (Matthew 24:12). It is time we warm up by loving someone like Christ has loved you — even if it is just one.