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That Was the Week That Was (#450)
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It is time for democracies to…take [sex workers] seriously – not just because democratic values mandate it, but because sex workers are the experts on the matter. – Sonja Dolinsek
License to Rape
Predators posing as gardai [Irish police] are preying on sex workers…demanding sex and robbing them…Uglymugs…has appealed to new Garda Commissioner Noirin O'Sullivan to direct officers to engage "more sympathetically" with sex workers…organiser…Lucy Smith, said…"many escorts are uncertain if these men are gardai or not…in some cases, these are corrupt gardai"…
Really Cheap Whores
The phrase "incredibly unprofessional" comes to mind:
Kendra Wilkinson hated having sex with Hugh Hefner so much that she turned to drugs and booze…she [also claimed]…that [she] was unaware sex was required of her when she moved into the Playboy mansion as one of Hefner's girlfriends in 2003. At the time she was 18 and he was 78…
Welcome To Our World (February Updates)
Busybodies and the State conspire to punish old people for being sexual:
…Donna Lou Young and Henry V. Rayhons…[were] both in their 70s [when they married]…Today, he's awaiting trial on a felony charge that he raped Donna at a nursing home where she was living…Iowa [prosecutors claim] Rayhons had intercourse with his wife when she lacked the mental capacity to consent because she had Alzheimer's. She died on Aug. 8…One week later…Rayhons…was arrested…Experts in geriatrics say that intimacy…can make dementia sufferers feel less lonely and even prolong their lives…Henry and Donna…were deeply in love…[there is] no evidence…that the couple's love faded, that Donna failed to recognize her husband or that she asked that he not touch her…prosecutors are likely to portray Rayhons as a sex-hungry man who took advantage of a sweet, confused woman…
The main culprits: her daughters and prudish nursing home staff.
Sometimes the flailing attempts at self-justification are a marvel to behold:
Six women were arrested…in a…[sting] in Birmingham [Alabama]…One…was charged with physical harassment after trying to grope an undercover officer…Lt. Ron Sellers [pretends cops had] complaints about prostitution…and [bloviated]…"It could be they are forced in to it, or they are supporting a drug habit. [They sell] themselves for money…chasing sporting events and conventions. A lot of them will be gravitating toward Atlanta for the SEC Championship this weekend…There are a lot of other crimes associated with escorts…They deal in cash. They don't trust police"…
Yes, he actually defined dealing in cash and not trusting pigs as "crimes".
It's not like it's their money, after all:
A night spot with a…rather "voluptuous" architectural design…could be torn down in a matter of months. The building…has seen several strip clubs over the span of 40 years. It's best known to residents as its original name, The Booby Trap, which also described its domed design…the building's owner has…[offered] to sell the structure and the land [at more than the market value] to the city of Winter Park, which in turn plans to demolish the building and re-sell it. No adult-oriented business will be allowed to open at the location…
Forward and Backward
…Hull City Council won a landmark ruling to create Britain's first "prostitution-free zone"…any sex workers or curb crawlers caught around the…Hessle Road area…can be arrested and [dragged to]…court. City Councillor Daren Hale said…the zone was created was to give "a positive view of Hull"…the moves will simply create a red light district in another area…[politicians pretend that] a…harm reduction approach…will [somehow] run alongside the injunction…
Neither Addiction Nor Epidemic
Paging Dr. David Ley:
A sex addict [was] caught taking photos up women's skirts…Peter Hooton…served a prison term when convicted of like crimes in the past [but New Zealand] Judge Grant Fraser said the best hope of protecting the community…was to keep him out of jail this time…Hooton's…attending…twice a week with Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous…
Hark, Hark, the Dogs Do Bark
Yet another study proving that the sky is blue:
Scientists from the Universite de Bretagne-Sud conducted experiments that showed that men behave very differently toward high-heeled women…if a woman drops a glove on the street while wearing heels, she's almost 50 per cent more likely to have a man fetch it for her than if she's wearing flats…a high-heeled woman in a bar waits half the time to get picked up by a man, compared to when her heel is nearer to the ground…
Against Their Will (TW3 #3)
I'm really not sure which to believe, the copy which claims that sex workers in Mumbai welcome and trust Priti Patkar, who apparently runs a kind of daycare center for them; or the headline which trumpets "She works for the welfare of sex workers by first taking the children away from them". I also see too many phrases like "rescued from brothels" and suspicious protests-too-much statements about how much the kids "love" her and her cronies.
The Widening Gyre
And it all happened without anyone noticing!
…it is suspected that dozens of schoolgirls at Minzu Middle School were drugged and forced into prostitution. An insider [claimed]…the students were given to government leaders outside of the county as gifts for their use…the…girls…were coerced by a female…surnamed Xu [who]…has done this multiple times…Xu…first bribes several students while the rest who do not obey her are beaten…One government employee insisting on anonymity [said]…the story of over 80 schoolgirls being forcibly taken to a hotel for prostitution is very common, with some versions of the story saying it involves over 80 and others saying over 40…
The Truth About "The Truth About…"
It only took the Washington Post two years to catch up with me:
…The graphic showed a rape reporting rate of 10 percent, but…2013 criminal victimization rates…estimated 35 percent…are reported…the survey's definitions of rape or "sexual attack" is inconsistent with states' legal definitions or with standard methodology… "Prosecution" and "arrested" are not terms that can be wrapped under "faced trial"…the rate of incarceration among people convicted of rate is much higher than one-third…46 percent of felony rape convictions resulted in guilty pleas…
Skin To Skin
This rather odd story engages in the usual "trafficking" tale tactic by offering a lurid story without names or evidence, but is mainly about how cops are given a checklist of "signs" they can pretend to have observed so as to transform a boring old prostitution case into a sexy "trafficking" one. The low point: "A majority of women experience [sex work] as paid rape." The high point: "We don't have a plague of human trafficking".
Residents of…[a] Pretoria [neighborhood] have made it clear they won't tolerate prostitution openly taking place near their homes. At the weekend they burnt makeshift beds allegedly used by prostitutes…and forced women they accuse…to walk down the street carrying banners…Resident Paul Masina said they were tired of police [requiring]…evidence to support their complaints…"It's disgusting and filthy here because of them so we're destroying their businesses so they won't come back again"…
Hollow Claims (TW3 #338)
Despite its recent support for "sex trafficking" hysteria, Al Jazeera published an editorial from our strong ally Sonja Dolinsek arguing against imposition of the Swedish model in various countries. One must wonder if, like the UK's Guardian or the US's Washington Post, the network isn't straddling the fence until it figures out which way the wind is blowing.
…Gil Elvgren was the greatest [pinup artist]. The massive book, Elvgren: His Life & Art, has the artist's best paintings…His work was familiar to millions of Americans in the mid-20th Century, thanks to calendar publishers who printed his cheesecake paintings for decades…[they] were [often] copied onto fighter planes by paintbrush-wielding World War II soldiers…
Marching Up Their Own Arses (TW3 #349)
About as revolting an idea as I've ever heard of:
A&E has greenlit a…new reality series in which a man tries to convince prostitutes to quit their jobs…the network has ordered eight episodes of 8 Minutes (working title), a series featuring cop-turned-pastor Kevin Brown surprising escorts in hotel rooms and offering to rescue them…Brown has eight minutes to make his case…the show was inspired by a 2013 LA Times article about Brown…[who pretends] he can [magically] decode an ad…on the Internet…[to] notice…that this is obviously someone being held against their will…
Despite his Super Savior powers, he claims only a 50% success rate (probably about 10x his true rate) and sets an 8-minute limit because that's how long it takes demonic pimps to materialize in the room and murder him in front of a whole TV crew. I am not making this up. Please sign this petition for A&E to rethink this abomination; Brown will no doubt continue his nonconsensual kinky roleplay anyway, but it doesn't have to be televised.
Legal Is As Legal Does (TW3 #401)
A law that would have allowed Auckland local bodies to ban prostitution in specified places has been scrapped by a parliamentary select committee…councils have been urged to look at other ways to control street prostitutes…"Many complaints…relate to noise, littering, slow-moving motor vehicles (kerb-crawling) and disorderly behaviour. These kinds of behaviour can be dealt with by bylaws already in existence"…
Gorged With Meaning (TW3 #422)
I am not a vindictive sort, but this man had better hope I never catch him alone anywhere:
A model jumped seven floors to her death…after a spurned lover told her family about her…life as an escort. Laura Pahomova, 23, scrawled notes in lipstick and eyeliner over the walls, mirrors and furniture of a…13th floor apartment…claiming former client Martin Riley had driven her to suicide…Laura, who described Mr Riley as a "stalker", had threatened suicide if her family found out what she was doing but…Riley [pretends that] he informed her loved ones to help her…Riley had a previous conviction for the harassment of another escort…In that case…he threatened to tell her family about her work and she threatened to harm herself if he did…
The Law of Averages (Traffic Updates)
Another example of That Age as cultic totem:
A Horsham charity, which helps women out of escorting and prostitution, has secured funding to produce an education pack for schoolchildren…the Averageage12 [sic] pack [is so] named… "because 12 is average age of trafficked victims…and entry into prostitution…we want to get [this propaganda] into the hands of every 12 year old…to help protect them and their friends from potentially being trafficked or groomed into the sex industry"…
I Saw My Brain (TW3 #433)
They're "helping" them into cells and coercive "therapy":
Grady Judd, sheriff of Polk County, announced the arrests of 61 people…to help women who are victims of being exploited as sex workers…they are offering counseling to help the women…
The Public Eye (TW3 #439)
Around 500 people [descended] on Westminster and [pretended] to have sex…in a…protest against…censorship…#PornProtest plans to…attempt to break the Guinness World Record for…face-sitting…over new restrictions on what pornography can be made and sold in the UK…Charlotte Rose…the woman behind the protest…first became involved in the adult industry as a bondage model…and now works as a sex therapist…she is also a seasoned political campaigner…and was an independent candidate in the recent…by-election…
Think of the Children! (TW3 #445)
El Paso Children's Hospital is backing away from its participation in a local fundraiser after learning…that…special guest DJ [Jessie Andrews]…also happens to be an adult film star…One hundred percent of the ticket proceeds were to go to the Children's Hospital, along with toys collected at the event…
Prudesville (TW3 #448)
This is so over-the-top absurd, I'm beginning to suspect it's some incredibly elaborate hoax:
…The city of Everett tore down the pink and purple walls of two brothel-esque coffee stands, known notoriously as Java Juggs and Twin Peaks, after its former owner, Carmela Panico, pleaded guilty to soliciting prostitution and money laundering. Construction crews [hauled] out junk from the "dilapidated and disgusting" stands into a nearby dump truck…the city [stole] the rundown stands and decided to destroy them as a message that illegal activity would not be tolerated…
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Law enforcement stings designed to shame men who pay for sex are nothing more than the state blowing its own morality horn. – Jim Norton
A convicted rapist…has been jailed for 11 years…Jason Oates…approached [a sex worker]…and agreed to pay £20…but…produced a large-bladed hunting knife…and demanded that she submit…to sex without charge…Oates…[previously served] three…years [for another rape]…
Do As I Say, Not As I Do
I just can't imagine how it got there:
Gardai are investigating after a laptop and documents belonging to a garda were discovered in a brothel in Amsterdam…The high-level investigation will probe how the individual's bag was found in the brothel…
Check Your Premises
Cops in a country preparing to criminalize the purchase of sex insist men won't be arrested if they confess to attempting to buy sex:
…PACT-Ottawa [reported that] more than half of…sex buyers they surveyed…said they…would call police if they suspected coercion. That jibes with research…by sociologist Chris Atchison…Sextrade101 founder Natasha Falle, who [claims] she [was] trafficked…[in] her teens…[pretends that] "They never questioned our bruises, our broken bones…I used to see between one and five guys a night and I was in it for 12 years"…Det.-Const. Chris Lavergne has yet to field a call from a client…"Is there a way to make Johns understand, you're not going to get in trouble for calling the police and giving us the information"…
1) Falle is full of shit; I bruise easily and was quizzed every time I had an unusually large one. I daresay nearly every sex worker has had that experience. I do, however, think it's interesting that she reports a realistic number of clients; I'm sure it will grow later.
2) Lavergne can't conceive that the reason he "has yet to field a call" is that overt coercion in the sex industry is actually pretty rare.
What is it with New York state DAs and their sophomoric attempts at "humor"? "Albany County DA David Soares rolled out a new initiative…to combat sex trafficking…Frontpage…will post a photo of every person convicted of paying for sex in the county…" And this op-ed commenting on the "strategy" is so over-the-top it almost has to be a joke:
Some people say that prostitution is a victimless crime…but…there are victims. A lot of them. Children are often forced or compelled into prostitution at an early age…drug addicts sell their bodies to support their habits…prostitutes are often beaten and raped in order to keep bringing in the money for their pimps. Families are harmed by the "johns" patronizing prostitutes. Full neighborhoods fall victim to the plague. Diseases are spread. Human trafficking — a $32 billion-a-year business in New York alone — is now an international crisis…
Saving Them From Themselves
If it had been pictures of himself, I'm sure the cops would've taken action:
A mother in South Carolina called sheriff's deputies on her [15-year-old] son…after finding porn playing on her living room TV…the [woman] "immediately turned off the TV" and ushered her 2-year-old daughter out of the room…before calling the police on her son…the sheriff's office did not make an arrest or issue a citation…
A federal judge has sentenced a 40-year-old suburban Chicago doctor to nearly six years in prison for using a classified-ad site to trade prescription pills for sex. Joshua D. Baron…blamed what he called "demons" of sexual addiction…the pediatric neurologist placed ads on Craig's List [sic] offering pills for sex and requesting photos of respondents. He later e-mailed hospital website links to prove he was a physician…
An Example To the West
Patoo Abraham has led protests…to ensure that prostitution is legalized in Nigeria and that sex workers be protected and respected…"We are tired of dying in silence; we want to be able to practice our profession with pride like every other person…Sex work is normal work and there are sex workers everywhere under one form of disguise or the other"…
Stand-Up Guys
Comedian Jim Norton's article in Time is definitely flawed, but I applaud any client who comes out and has the balls to write about it:
I'm not ashamed to pay for sex—and other men shouldn't be either…The illegal aspect of prostitution has never deterred me, nor would legalizing it cause me to engage in it more…in a free society, people must be allowed to make choices for themselves that are incomprehensible to others. By keeping prostitution illegal and demonizing all of its parties, we (you) are empowering pimps and human traffickers and anyone else who wants to victimize sex workers…
This farrago of racism, xenophobia and "sex trafficking" nonsense is even over the top by Daily Mail standards:
…London has become the hub, the epicentre for a global trafficking enterprise involving thousands of children for exploitation, sexual abuse and even…ritual voodoo killing…Hundreds of children have been abducted from their families in Africa and trafficked to the UK…Many are raped and sexually abused…there is a vast reservoir of lost children…anonymously shuffled from flat to shabby flat – a dark pool feeding child exploitation and misery across the planet…Britain's generous child benefits system has become an international magnet for fraudsters who…traffick…thousands of children into this country every year to take advantage of payments and these young victims are prey for other vices, too – a ready made market for sexploitation…
I love the way it grows from hundreds to thousands in just a few paragraphs; in his next article I'm sure it will be millions.
First They Came for the Hookers…
These "complaints" are always from cops:
An Oshkosh [Wisconsin] strip club is closed [after]…the…District Attorney's office filed a civil suit against the owner…in response to several prostitution complaints…The assistant district attorney says Naughty Girls is a nuisance to the community. He is asking a judge to close the business for a year and that all moveable property be sold…
Bars and clubs = "hub for underage prostitution" because travel agents say so:
Indian men are flocking to Kazakhstan in droves, if travel and tour operators are to be believed…Reason? The thriving sex industry. Thailand, Singapore and Dubai have been the traditional destinations; but that is changing…Kazakhstan…has become a hub for underage prostitution over the past few years…bars, cafes and club [sic]…are used as pick-up joints…
Are you slipping, Toledo? In the original "King of the Hill" entry you were #3, but according to WKYC you've dropped to fourth place. Maybe if you give grants to "pimps" to build more hair salons you can reclaim your lost glory from Miami or Tampa Bay.
What the Hell Were You Thinking? (TW3 #135)
The term "rescue" used in this context is utterly tone-deaf:
…[South African] University students…[designed] a device intended to…help sex workers' organisations keep an eye on the safety of their members…[it] has eight Wi-Fi transmitters linked to armbands that will be worn by the sex workers in the vicinity…the armband…[has] four buttons…on-line, off-line, jump [check in to a call] or panic…Should a sex worker send a distress call, the control room will forward her…precise location…to sex worker organisations who will alert the emergency services…
I Saw My Brain
Polk County, Florida…Sheriff Grady Judd assembled a press conference…[to brag about a huge sting operation, but] either didn't realize – or didn't care – that a number of the 132 men whose faces appeared on his mugshot "big board" had already been cleared of committing crimes…"It's fair…Because…when we arrest them as 'sexual perverts on children,' I'm going to call them [that]…we have a very liberal…criminal justice system, sometimes it's more difficult to prove 'beyond…every reasonable doubt'…"
Given that our "liberal" incarceration machine imprisons five times as many people as civilized nations do, imagine the nightmare that would result if maniacs like Judd got their way.
Dysphemisms Galore
Even by the low standards of the modern American press, this article is hilariously yellow:
…Domestic sex trafficking…is an increasingly common and highly lucrative underground business …involving American girls and young women (but sometimes boys) forced into sex slavery by sick pimps…in places as unassuming as a mall or a train station. Pimps can earn $150,000 to $200,000 a year on each victim they force into prostitution…experts say Philly's location creates a particularly attractive opportunity for the brokers of enslaved women. "We are sort of in a unique hub area because we're between New York, Atlantic City, Washington, D.C., Harrisburg – all of which have child-prostitution problems," said Michelle Morgan, an assistant U.S. attorney…"There are a lot of places for pimps to go from here to make more money, to buy new girls, to trade girls, so it's a lucrative area"…Tiffany…[was] swept into the dark underbelly of sex trafficking…she [was forced]…to sell her young body to dozens of men…she would have sex with them or do whatever else popped into their twisted minds…
One can barely help picturing "journalist" Morgan Zalot masturbating furiously as he writes those last few lines. The mall occupies the place in modern "white slavery" hysteria that the ice cream parlor did in the first cycle a century ago.
A Procrustean Bed (TW3 #339)
Because "rehab" to "get us off the streets" is a perfect "solution" for the 90% or more of sex workers who are neither "on the streets" nor addicted to any drug:
Members of the Zanesville City Council attended a neighborhood barbecue…to discuss…prostitution…Sandy Gentry…said…the…ideal response…would be to create some kind of rehabilitation facility where prostitutes could go to get help and get off the streets…helping reform their lives would be the best solution…
Buried under all the monstrous male-demonizing and female-infantilizing rhetoric is the unstated fact that the "National Day of Johns Arrests" ballyhooed in this article is the brainchild of one sad, sick woman acting out her twisted psychodrama on thousands of strangers who never did anything to hurt her:
Law enforcement agencies across the country collaborated in a recent series of sex stings that netted the arrests of almost 500 men seeking to buy sex and 14 pimps and traffickers…[as] part of an annual "National Day of Johns Arrests"…Officials said 111 prostitutes were recovered during the operation, including 13 juveniles…
"Recovered" means "arrested and caged". Note that this big "rescue" found only 13 underage girls in 14 states; so much for the "epidemic of child prostitution". Phoenix can always be counted on to put an extra-stupid spin on a story like this; a cop with the Dickensian name Trent Crump blathered, "We want people to understand this is not because of Super Bowl, but with the Super Bowl coming, this may be a venue in which people believe and people believe they can come here." Trent, Maggie McNeill believes and Maggie McNeill believes that you are an idiot.
Remembrance (TW3 #410)
A sequence of a dozen images…taken by [an English] Lieutenant…are believed to be the only photographs ever to surface of British officers from the 1914-1918 war inside a "blue lamp" – the refined category of brothel reserved by secret edict of the British army for the officer classes…Other ranks…were restricted to crude "red-lamp" brothels…
Traffic Jam (TW3 #415)
This is mostly a lot of asinine and self-contradictory political "sex trafficking" bullshit; for example, the mayor belches out "The program saves women's lives," but two short paragraphs later the women morph into teens (all of whom are said to be "12 to 14 years old"), and four paragraphs later they're vomiting out "the needs of the child". The really interesting thing is the continued harping on "gangs" and the obvious grooming of "sex trafficking" to be the new excuse for the police state once the drug war inevitably dies: "Gangs and other criminal organizations prefer humans [to drugs] because they're a reusable resource; they can be resold…"
Facts in the Case of Monica Jones
…Emmy-nominated actress Laverne Cox of the hit series Orange is the New Black is lending her support to [Monica] Jones [during Jones' appeal of her conviction for "manifesting prostitution"]…Cox, like Jones, is a transgender woman of color. She has some serious concerns about the Phoenix law, which some call "walking while trans"…
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If anyone is perpetuating prostitution-related violence, it is prohibitionists like Kristof, who insist on maintaining a black market. – Jacob Sullum
Out of Control (The Camel's Nose)
A Canadian anesthesiologist convicted of sexually assaulting 21 sedated women during surgeries was sentenced…to 10 years in prison…Dr. George Doodnaught…relied on his three decades of operating room experience to avoid detection…the…victims…gave generally similar accounts of being kissed and fondled by him, and of having his penis placed in their mouths or hands…they were conscious enough to be aware of what was happening, but were not able to move their limbs…
A cop is a cop, even when she's a sex worker:
For years, Philadelphia Police Officer Terra Barrow had a side job running a handful of [sex] websites and phone lines…Barrow said she got into the…industry…to…make [extra] money…Competitor Donna Burns…claims Barrow ripped off her site designs, stole her client database and bullied competitors by telling them she was a cop…Burns also…gave…investigators advertisements that Barrow allegedly placed…as an escort named "Black Barbie." Barrow acknowledged she used that nickname in email but [claims she] has never worked as an escort…
Neofeminists claim decriminalization has "failed [to protect sex workers] everywhere it's been tried". This is what that "failure" looks like:
A prostitute has won a landmark sexual harassment case against a Wellington brothel owner…the Human Rights Review Tribunal awarded the young woman $25,000 in damages for emotional harm as a result of sexual harassment. Aaron Montgomery, who no longer owns The Kensington Inn…was described as a bully who enjoyed controlling and humiliating women and tried to pressure workers into having sex with him…
Imaginary Crises
After two decades as one of the few women who dared to challenge the hysteria, it's nice to have so much more company lately:
…if the risk of sexual assault on campus were truly one in five…no parent in their right mind would send their daughter to coed universities…Chad Hermann…[examined] the reported sexual assault offenses over three years at…the University of Pittsburgh (UP), Carnegie Mellon University (CMU) and Duquesne University (DU). In 2009: At UP, with 14,800 female students, four sexual assaults were reported. At CMU, with about 3,900 female students, six sexual assaults were reported (a three-year high). At DU, with 5,700 females, three were reported. But wait: We "know" (we don't really) that 90% of rapes go unreported! Okay, Hermann adjusts the numbers to reflect that, giving UP 40 assaults, CMU 60 and DU 30. Are we at one-in-four yet? Hardly. We're at one-in-185 (average of the three)…
It Looks Good On Paper
…a BBC investigation into the policing of prostitution in Medway, Kent showed harm reduction was dangerously disrupted by their aggressive "cleaning up the streets" approach. In 2009, Kent Police began a scheme…called Safe Exit, supposedly to help women leave the sex trade by offering treatment for drug and alcohol addiction, training and education, and housing…But…instead…the women received a criminal record…Kent Police claimed to have reduced the number of women working on-street by over 90, but…two public servants associated with the scheme…say originally there were only 40-50 women working on-street. Our sources also told us…that the scheme was a "political PR stunt"…[some of the women were burdened with] ASBOs…and a few ended up in prison…
Law of the Instrument
"What at first seems like an arrest mission on a busy Orange County street is actually a rescue mission, as police go undercover to save girls who have become victims of sex trafficking…" No, actually, it's an arrest mission. And if you can handle reading that first one, try this one about nearby Santa Barbara County, in which the agency of female university students and Chinese immigrants is totally denied using the excuse of "Stockholm Syndrome".
Shifting the Blame (The Beat Goes On)
[James Brown]…was convicted of killing four women in his basement and stuffing their bodies in car trunks after he met them through online escort ads…just days apart, at his home in December 2011…Two were burned beyond recognition when a car was set on fire. Brown…faces life in prison with no chance for parole…The women who were killed were Renisha Landers, Demesha Hunt, Natasha Curtis and Vernithea McCrary, all in their 20s…
Three more brave heroes protecting and serving, in Oklahoma: "…Muskogee police officer…Mark Ridley…was arrested…after allegedly forcing…the woman's car…off the road, then…[forcing] her to perform oral sex at gunpoint…" and in California: "Sheriff's deputy [Damian Marquez repeatedly]…arrested a woman on felony probation 'for the sole purpose of raping and sexually assaulting' her at the [City of Industry] sheriff's station…" and in Wisconsin:
[In the early stages of her pregnancy] and twice more after she had her baby, a [female prisoner] was placed in shackles…and raped over and over again, according to reports…Xavier D. Thicklen's "abuse of his authority went wholly unchecked" by co-defendant Sheriff David A. Clarke, even though at least one of the assaults was caught on camera…Thicklen is charged with five counts of second-degree sexual assault…[and] could be sent to prison for 40 years on each…
…[New York City] has been…targeting…strip clubs by going after their liquor licenses…[after] trumping up charges…some clubs have continued to operate sans alcohol—which does, as a result of other bizarre strip club regulations, have the advantage of allowing dancers to be fully nude…But [alcohol-free clubs are much less popular and]…prohibition also zaps a major source of revenue for both clubs and dancers…
The Course of a Disease (TW3 #30)
Finland has rejected the efforts of its neofeminist "justice" minister to impose the Swedish model, but what they gave her is bad enough: "…the Ministry of Justice has proposed a tightening of the law, so sex-buyers who should have suspected pimping or trafficking can be sentenced…Justice Minister Anna- Maja Henriksson…[says she is] disappointed and…her goal is still a total ban…" They are lowering the burden of proof to only one step short of strict liability, but obviously that isn't enough to satisfy Henriksson's anti-sex bloodlust.
Buried beneath the Profession of Faith, agency denial, masturbatory fantasy, and penis-size bragging is the only worthwhile sentence in this crap: "the FBI [named]…Detroit…as the second largest area for human trafficking in the U.S., with only San Francisco larger…"
All the Difference
The Phnom Penh Municipal Court has charged an Australian filmmaker with hindering the work of a…["rescue"] organization…James Ricketson…accuses the Brisbane-based Citipointe Church of retaliating against him for his years-long efforts to help a Cambodian family retrieve two daughters from the organization's She Rescue Home…
The same old Labour Party busybodies (with help from like-minded prudes in other parties) are once again trying to impose the Swedish model on the UK, but this time they're pretending to be a new group inspired by last week's reprehensible EU vote. If these people were any more transparent they'd be completely invisible. Here's what Tim Worstall had to say about it:
…the "slavery" in prostitution…doesn't, in this country at least, actually exist. For we had a plan whereby every single police force in the country went out looking for people who were indeed sex slaves…and…could…not…come up with sufficient evidence to charge anyone at all…What we…have is consenting adults…deciding what to do with their own bodies…
Japanese Prostitution (TW3 #131)
While Japanese politicians work to deny, downplay or excuse their country's enslavement of tens of thousands of women in wartime brothels…
…Japanese-American plaintiffs, served by American megafirm Mayer Brown, are pursuing the agenda of reactionary Japanese politicians through despicable litigation…In 2013 the City of Glendale [California] erected a modest memorial to the comfort women…in a public park…Japanese politicians were enraged and have repeatedly demanded that the memorial be removed. The…lawsuit…seeks to [accomplish this]…by force of law…
Flush Criminalization
I love it when Jacob Sullum tears into Nick Kristof:
…how should we view armed agents of the state who invite people to engage in peaceful exchange, only to pounce on them with guns and handcuffs?…Nicholas Kristof thinks they're heroes. Consider…his latest column equating prostitution with "human trafficking"…Kristof…insists "that isn't prudishness or sanctimony but a strategy to dampen demand." This strategy—cops posing as prostitutes—has been a joke and a cliché for as long as I've been alive, but Kristof considers it the cutting edge of innovative policing. If targeting customers is all it takes to eradicate black markets, why do they still exist?…Kristof…calls sting operations "marvels of efficiency"—which they are, assuming you want to produce futile arrests and gratuitous humiliation…
As I reported in December, the "marvel of efficiency" sophomorically entitled "Operation Flush the Johns" hasn't had much luck convicting any of the accused who didn't just plead out; they finally got their first one this week.
R.I.P. Petite Jasmine (TW3 #329)
A video by Carol Leigh on the memorials for Petite Jasmine and Dora Özer.
An excellent article by Molly Crabapple on the vile Project ROSE and its equally-vile founder, Dominique Roe-Sepowitz:
…Project ROSE may seem similar to the many diversion programs in the United States…[but] it doesn't work with the convicted. Rather, its raids funnel hundreds of people into the criminal justice system. Denied access to lawyers, many of these people are coerced into ROSE's program without being convicted of any crime…Roe-Sepowitz …told Al Jazeera: "Once you've prostituted you can never not have prostituted…Having that many body parts in your body parts, having that many body fluids near you and doing things that are freaky and weird really messes up your ideas of what a relationship looks like, and intimacy"…
Too bad the BBC can't be this honest and sympathetic about modern clients:
Visiting prostitutes is a little-known and little-discussed aspect of life on the Western Front, but it was a key part of the British soldiers' war experience…brothel visits [were seen] as a physical necessity – it was an era when sexual abstinence for men was considered harmful to their health…
In other words, a more realistic era.
Traffic Jam (All Traffick, All the Time)
Cuckoo Clock McCain is still at it:
Cindy McCain testified at a [Congressional] hearing…that about 84% of ads for prostitution placed on [New York area] Backpage.com…during the Super Bowl involved women being trafficked…The study was funded by the McCain Institute…and used research from Arizona State University and analysis from Praescient Analytics…
Rich loon McCain hires ethically-bankrupt fanatic Dominique Roe-Sepowitz (that's who "Arizona State" really is) to use an "analysis" method of her own design, and the "study" finds exactly what the two of them want it to find despite the fact that it contains nothing resembling either facts or methodology. What a surprise!
Here's an excerpt from Melissa Gira Grant's new book, Playing the Whore, and two more interviews with her; one is with Caty Simon in Tits and Sass and one with Josh Eidelson in Salon. I'm very pleased to see how much coverage Grant and her book are getting in mainstream publications, especially in this time when most of the media are forehead-deep in prohibitionist lies.
The Duke freshman porn starlet has revealed her photo and stage name: Belle Knox. And I like her more with every article she writes:
…the Duke Chronicle wrote a somewhat patronizing portrait of me, disguising my name…The question I am asked over and over again is this: If I am proud of being an adult performer, then why do I "hide" behind this fake name? Because…my decision to do porn does not somehow mean that the world now "owns" or deserves access to every single thing about me…My birth name is one name…My porn name is another…I can't stop you from calling me any name you want to — including "slut," "whore" or "bitch" — but I can decide what name I use…please dissuade yourself right now of the delusion that you control or own me…I am not your child or your property or your Madonna or your whore…
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If the patriarchy is about men making decisions for women…why do some feminists want to control other women's decisions? – "Lauren"
Gorged With Meaning
The situation described by this article – girl does sex work to pay for university – is so typical as to be a case of "dog bites man", and nowadays doing porn won't stay secret for long. But the article actually says more about its author than about its subject: "Lauren" seems like an intelligent, sensible, pragmatic young woman, while writer Katie Fernelius appears to be a supple-spined airhead who lets other people do her thinking for her. In response to this:
I worked as a waitress…and not only did it interfere with my school …but also I was making $400 a month after taxes…For people to tell me that doing porn and having sex, which I love, is more degrading than being…somebody's servant and…being treated like a lesser, second-class citizen, that…makes no sense…I felt more degraded in a minimum wage…service job than I ever did doing porn…
…Katie crawls into her navel, quotes Gloria Steinem and babbles about "patriarchy", "power dynamics" and words being "problematic". Yet I'm sure she thinks she's better-adjusted than Lauren is.
Where Are the Protests?
There's a word missing here, but I just can't think of what it might be:
African artists hired by a Korean museum have been laboring under conditions "similar to indentured servitude"…The 24 artists came from various countries…to sculpt, perform, and do other tasks at the Africa Museum of Original Art in…Pocheon…They…were promised salaries of…minimum wage — 1,269,154 won ($1,183) per month — and comfortable accommodations; instead, they were paid [only] 500,000 or 650,000 won…and forced to live in cold, mice-ridden rooms. Their salaries barely covered the cost of three meals a day, and the museum gave them only spoiled rice to eat. Their contracts stipulated three performances per day, but they were often forced to do four to six performances…when they complained…their concerns were either ignored [or] dismissed…
Held Together With Lies
The new claim: "The number of British children being trafficked for sexual exploitation has more than doubled over the last year…The figures…are thought to be just the tip of the iceberg…" And the truth:
…these statistics are…drawn from…the National Referral Mechanism…a…process adopted in 2009 to identify…potential victims…the most recent NRM statistical bulletin states…"the number of referrals…is not a measure of human trafficking in the UK"…[but only those suspected by officials]…
The Scarlet Letter (TW3 #19)
Human rights activists in Kyrgyzstan are concerned that…police…[are] forcing sex workers…to undergo testing for sexually transmitted diseases…and…[have] carried out numerous raids since…November…Prostitution by individuals has been decriminalised in Kyrgyzstan, although organised activities like running a brothel are illegal. Sex workers report widespread harassment and extortion by police…
Whorearchy (TW3 #19)
Prostitutes in Spain…[protested] a planned crackdown on streetwalking…Hetaira said it would rally…against plans to fine prostitutes and [clients]…fearing it will force them to work in dangerous conditions….[a new] law would make offering or soliciting sex in prohibited areas punishable by a fine of between 1,000 and 30,000 euros…
Backwards Into the Future (TW3 #41)
Theatre for a Change says there has been tremendous progress…in its efforts to raise awareness on rights of sex workers…[in] Malawi…Eric Saforo…says since 2012 the Malawi Police Service is beginning to recognize that abuse against sex workers is…not acceptable and that the police service is opening up to…[improving] working relationships between the two parties…
Due Consideration
…Jennifer Whalen…was charged…with felony and misdemeanor counts for ordering…misoprostol and mifepristone online…for her 16-year-old pregnant daughter…She said she couldn't find an abortion clinic nearby, she didn't want to go out of state, and she didn't know she needed a prescription…The felony…is for "medical consultation and judgment"; the misdemeanors are for not being licensed as a pharmacist, endangering the welfare of a child, and "simple assault"…The same thing happened to a mother of three in Idaho in 2012 who took RU-486…[because]…the closest clinic was hours away, would have charged $500, and because of state law, required multiple trips…
A mob armed with wooden clubs and iron bars, screaming that they were going to "cleanse" their neighborhood of gay people, dragged 14 young men from their beds and assaulted them…Four of the victims were marched to a police station, where they…were kicked and punched by…officers who…threatened that [they] would be incarcerated for 14 years…under Nigeria's new Same Sex Marriage (Prohibition) Act…[activist Ifeanyi Orazulike said] "They were told 'If you come back, we will kill you'"…The walls of [their] houses…have been painted with graffiti declaring "Homosexuals, pack and leave"…
Original Sin (TW3 #321)
This mostly-typical "sex trafficking" gobbledygook is only notable for "Michigan is one of the top five states for human trafficking" and for its use of "sex worker" rather than "prostituted woman", "trafficked child", etc. But the picture that came with it, borrowed from one of the numerous Christian sites linking porn to "trafficking", has some interesting math: 6000 total "rapes" (i.e. transactions) over 7 years is only 857 a year…awfully low for "50 per day". Even with weekends off that's just over 3 per day, which is pretty realistic; obviously somebody is deviating from the program.
Unclean Situation (TW3 #330)
Justice for Magdalenes Research has hit out at the "subterfuge" being employed by the Government [against]…victims of the laundries…the department is writing to women offering formal lump sum payments, while stating that all other aspects of the scheme remain subject to legislation or discussions with other Government departments. Despite the fact that the full terms of the scheme are not finalised, women are requested to sign a waiver accepting "all the terms of the scheme" and waiving "any right of action against the State or any public or statutory body or agency" arising out of their time in a Magdalene laundry…
The UK government's futile and ham-fisted attempts to purge the Internet of all of its rough edges and naughty bits are about to see international escalation…David Cameron's government has long-stated they want this filtering to eventually extend to websites deemed "extremist"…and it appears that…[ISPs] will soon [be ordered] to include websites declared to be promoting terrorism…as we've seen with the porn filters, there's probably no limit to the number of entirely legal and legitimate websites UK citizens will find suddenly inaccessible.
UK readers who use Chrome and haven't yet installed "Go Away Cameron" should probably do so immediately.
Lack of Evidence (TW3 #344)
…Nine men [arrested in a November raid]…were convicted of prostitution and sentenced to between three and nine years in prison…[followed by] a three-year…period for rewiring…in…mental institutions…The police report…and the results of anal examinations do not connect the…men to prostitution. But…the arrest and prosecution of men who don't fit acceptable standards of masculinity reassures Egyptians that the ruling military regime is as conservative as any Islamist party…
The moral purification of the Armed Forces continues:
The commander of the Naval Ordnance Test Unit at Port Canaveral has been relieved of duty for allowing two strip clubs to sponsor a military-related golf tournament last year…"Those type of organizations just don't reflect positively on the Navy" [a spokesman]…said…
Number Puzzle (TW3 #349)
Matthias Lehmann has put together a short video of highlights from a symposium about the German Prostitution Act last December.
Where Are the Protests? (TW3 #350)
Miranda Barbour has a delightful conversation with credulous cops:
A Pennsylvania woman charged in the…slaying of a man she and her husband met through Craigslist [claims]…she killed many more victims…A law enforcement source close to the investigation said Miranda Barbour's new claims could be "the real deal"…the 19-year-old Barbour [said] she participated in at least 22 killings in the past six years in Alaska, Texas, North Carolina and California. "When I hit 22, I stopped counting…I can pinpoint on a map where you can find them"…Barbour [said] she had her first experience with killing when she [was] just 13, shortly after she…joined a satanic cult in Alaska…she [says that she] felt no remorse for her victims and…killed only "bad people"…
Whatever They Need To Say (TW3 #350)
No justice for victims of the Soho pogrom:
…at least six sex workers have fought the closures, [saying] they had not been coerced into working and that closing the brothels would make their work more unsafe. In the first of three appeals…two women…lost their battle to have their flats reopened after a judge [claimed] that unknown figures were "controlling" prostitution in the area…However…the Reverend Simon Buckley wrote that trust in the police had been severely undermined by the "seemingly ham-fisted" nature of the operation. "The girls who continue to work in the unclosed flats say that they would not feel confident in turning to the police if they were a victim of crime…[they] previously…had a good rapport with the police"…
Hard Numbers (TW3 #351)
As preparations for the World Cup accelerate, Brazilian authorities are attempting to sanitise the country's image by clamping down on sex-related businesses. More than 2,000 websites have been targeted, and prostitutes are being threatened with prison sentences for…[advertising]…according to Thaddeus Blanchette…media hype…rests on the false assumption that fans will…seek out sex with children…Tatiana Mauro…of Promundo Brazil…points to a report published by the Global Alliance Against Traffic in Women, which finds no evidence that large sporting events cause an increase in trafficking or prostitution. Sensationalist reporting on trafficking and mega-events is not only unfounded, it is also paving the way for a more repressive prostitution policy…
Canadian readers, here's your chance to be heard:
The Conservative government wants to hear from Canadians about how to rewrite the country's prostitution laws [which] were struck down by the Supreme Court…A month-long online consultation period on the Justice Canada website…runs to March 17. The high court gave the government one year to come up with new legislation…the…government has made it clear that simply allowing the laws to lapse…is not an option…
Predictably,
The [survey]…is being criticized for…loaded questions and misleading information about available options…It assumes prostitution is dangerous and that all sex workers want to be saved, said Chris Bruckert…[of the] University of Ottawa. She also criticized government for not conducting town-hall style consultations where people have more time to unpack their opinions…She also says the Nordic model could contradict the reasoning for striking down the Canadian laws in the first place…
The Course of a Disease (TW3 #404)
…549 NGOs and civil society organizations…have signed letters to the members of the European Parliament asking them to reject a report by MEP Mary Honeyball, which asks EU Member States to consider the criminalisation of the clients of sex workers. The letter…denounces the conflation of sex work and trafficking, the disregard for sex workers' health and safety and the lack of evidence [in] the report…signatories include…many women's rights groups such as the International Planned Parenthood Federation …Another document drafted and signed by [45] academics and researchers…[analyzes] the lack and misrepresentation of evidence in [the] report…amongst other astounding errors…Honeyball completely misinterpreted a [Dutch] report…by…"mistaking" data on coffee shops for data on brothels…
Uncommon Sense (TW3 #404)
As thousands of cash-strapped Italians take to the streets to protest against their tax bills…[prostitutes] are instead…fighting against a tax code that does not recognise their profession, even though paying for sex is legal, leaving them no chance to…qualify for a pension…What has really irked prostitutes is that…the tax office has now decided to fine them for tax evasion, even though it has given them no way of paying tax…
Another good interview with Melissa Gira Grant about her new book, Playing the Whore; she speaks to Noah Berlatsky of the Atlantic about sex work as work, the range of sex worker experiences, anti-sex feminism and the similarities between the gay and sex worker rights movements.
Because obviously sex work isn't a profession, uses no creativity and nobody earns a living through it:
…Mercy Mushaninga…has taken to social network sites to address her bitterness over the labeling of models as prostitutes…"Modelling is a career…and a profession with some people earning a living through it…Models…use their natural endowment and creativity…"
Posted in History, Perception, tagged archeofeminism, censorship, comics, dirty, East Asia, Europe, fantasy, France, harm reduction, holidays, Hollywood, hysteria, Japan, neo-Victorianism, pathologization of males, psychology, Remembrance, slavery, stripping, United Kingdom, Vietnam on November 11, 2013| 21 Comments »
Four things greater than all things are, —
Women and Horses and Power and War. – Rudyard Kipling, "The King's Jest"
Ninety-five years ago today, at eleven o'clock in the morning, the armistice that ended the First World War went into effect; the anniversary was immediately established as Armistice Day among all the Allied nations. Though it retains that name in France and Belgium, it was changed after the Second World War to Remembrance Day in the Commonwealth and Veterans Day in the United States, and its function was expanded to memorialize those who died in any war.* And because ever since men first marched off to war, whores have followed very close behind, it has been my custom every year on this day to commemorate some aspect of that relationship.
In the last century, however, there has been an unfortunate and growing tendency for officials to pretend that this relationship either does not exist, or that it does exist but is somehow pathological. The Vietnamese and Ouled-Nail prostitutes who served as nurses during the siege of Dien Bien Phu have almost been erased from history, as have the women of Honolulu's tolerated brothels who served the same function after Pearl Harbor and entertained the Navy for the rest of the war. The French like to pretend that women who survived by providing services to the occupying Nazis were somehow different from the others who were forced to deal with them; the Japanese still deny the extent or even the existence of the military brothels in which they enslaved (mostly Korean) women for the "comfort" of their troops. And the American military establishment continues to demand that its men avoid the company of professionals no matter how much this policy angers the host country or how many sexual assaults result from it, thus prioritizing the wishes of prudish fanatics above the health and happiness of the troops of both sexes.
Of course, this sort of pompous idiocy is only possible between serious wars; while they're going on, politics takes a back seat to reality and the necessity of dealing with the sexual energy of fighting men can no longer be subordinated to the bluenosed sensibilities of repressed civilians. The military governor of Hawaii did everything he could to make the hookers of Honolulu happy; Hitler ordered that his troops be issued blow-up sex dolls; the American authorities distributed condoms; and the Japanese resorted to the abominable "comfort women" scheme (which was also used in reverse form, with Japanese whores for American troops, during the first year of the occupation). Women were also a vital part of the entertainment provided by the American USO; not sexual services, obviously, but even the sight of a Hollywood sex symbol like Rita Hayworth or "All-American girl" like Judy Garland, or the opportunity to talk to or dance with a pretty girl, went a long way for those men starved for female affection and company. And while those women could not accompany the men into battle, their pictures certainly could: the iconic pinup of Betty Grable was merely the most famous of the hundreds of photos and illustrations of feminine pulchritude which brightened barracks, bunks, tents and even the noses of bombers. On British planes, those paintings were often of Jane, a shapely Daily Mirror comic-strip character who would always somehow manage to lose her clothes by the last panel, usually in some incredibly unlikely fashion; Christabel Leighton-Porter, the model upon whom she was based, also posed for nude photos which were literally dropped in bundles to the troops to increase morale.
Obviously, none of this could happen today; Western countries in general (and the US and UK in particular) are paralyzed by a neo-Victorian aversion to sex which preaches the ludicrous catechism that young, healthy men can simply be ordered to be asexual. Pinups and sexy art are branded "sexual harassment", and officers are expected to enforce these schoolmarmish decrees. But all things must pass, the bad as well as the good; these hysterical attitudes will eventually vanish as anti-sex culture fades, and warriors of the future will be shocked to learn that their grandfathers were prohibited from enjoying the simple joy of cheesecake art, and punished for seeking a balm for their stress in the arms of willing professionals.
*Technically, in the US this function is served by Memorial Day (at the end of May), while Veterans Day honors all veterans, living and dead.