Y does not necessarily equal M: On what intersex people can tell us about gender identity
Emily Quinn is an intersex woman with XY chromosomes and (as she says) "balls".
According to the logic of transphobes she should be banned from women's bathrooms.
The current debate about intersex women in sports, is actually weakening the TERFs and the transphobic right's attacks against transgender people. The very existence of XY intersex women, who have been raised as women and who identify as women, makes it very hard to reduce gender identity to chromosomes and genitals.
A few times I have ended up in discussions with "trans exclusionary radical feminists (TERFs) in social media. These women are neither "radical" nor real "feminist", sharing – as they do – the common traditionalist prejudices against transgender women.
On the "positive" side: They have taught me a bit about how prejudices are created and spread, and that might come in handy.
But Science!
TERF activists often pretend to have a discussion with you. In this pretend discussion they may even refer to Science (capital S implied), their most common argument being that trans women cannot be women, because they have Y chromosomes.
When you refer to real science, the one that show that gender dysphoria is a real phenomenon, and tell them that most experts in the medical field believe that the transgender identities are caused by variations in the hormone balance in the womb, combined with environmental and social factors, they simply fail to respond.
Alternatively they argue that the science community has been taken over by "transgender cult". In other words: They are not really interested in science at all. They want to cherry pick findings that seem to confirm their own prejudices.
The Gender Pencil Test
The TERFs are masters at using social control and stigmatization to invalidate and marginalize trans people.
Like the racists of Apartheid and Jim Crow, they know, for instance, that access to public bathrooms serves as a very important symbol of social acceptance and inclusion. So they do their best to ban the people they do not like from these spaces, in order to hurt and humiliate them.
Like the white racists of South Africa they also use sports to put "The Other" in their place.
Labels: alternative theories, intersex, TERF, transphobia
Autoandrophilia Defined
"Autoandrophilia" has been defined as "the paraphilic tendency of a biological female to be sexually aroused by the thought of becoming a male."
A lot of women have fantasies about being a man, but
"autoandrophilia" is not a scientific term, and it does not
capture what this gender-crossing crossdreaming about.
This is in the mirror term of Ray Blanchard's concept of "autogynephilia", where male to female crossdreamers and transgender women who are attracted to women are believed to be suffering from some kind of "erotic target location error". They are, according to this theory, attracted to their "inner woman" as opposed to real women "out there".
So "auto-andro-philia" would translate into "self-man-love".
Autoandrophilia is not a thing
If you are a woman having fantasies of being a man, and who has found this article by searching for "autoandrophilia", there are a few things you should know:
1. Your feelings are real. You are not alone. There are many people assigned female who have such fantasies. Some of them identify as trans. Others identify as qenderqueer or nonbinary. Many identify as cis (non-transgender). Regardless: You are a natural part of the wonderful spectrum of sexuality and gender. This is not a sexual perversion.
2. "Autoandrophilia" is not a thing. It is a made up and misleading pseudo-scientific term, referring to an explanation for crossdreaming for which there is no proof, and which has not been accepted by the broad medical community.
3. Ray Blanchard, the man who proposed top include "autoandrophilia" in the American psychiatric manual, the DSM-5, has stated that this was in order to placate feminists. He does not actually believe that people like you exist.
This diagnosis was not included in the DSM-5 and nothing like it is listed in the new edition of the WHO ICD health manual.
More about FTM crossdreaming and the concept of "autoandrophilia"
This site has several articles that discuss the lives and sexual fantasies of women who (sometimes) dream about being men. Here are a few to get you going:
On women who have sexual fantasies about being men
"I am something that does not exist!" (On queer schwulwomen, girlfags and guydykes)
Girls who will be boys; on F2M crossdreamers, autoandrophiliacs and girlfags
Ray Blanchard lied when including autoandrophilia in the DSM-5 proposal
Ray Blanchard and the Missing Girlfag (The DSM-5)
Autoandrophilia, on women who fantasise about having a man's body
The Rayka & Jack Dialogue on Crossdreaming (my discussion with an Iranian FTM crossdreamer and girlfag)
New web site on girlfags and guydykes (+ the story about the blind men and the elephant)
On crossdreaming lesbians and sexy trans women
The Kama Sutra on Transgender People
Is it true that 1/3 of non-transgender people fantasize about being the other sex?
Photo: Carlos David
EDIT May 6 2019: Adjusted bullet point #2 to clarify that even if female to male crossdreaming is a thing, the "autoandrophilia" presentation and explanation of it is unscientific and misleading.
Labels: autoandrophilia, FTM
It turns out there are a lot of people assigned female at birth who have sexual fantasies about being a man.
Illustration by francescoch.
Last year I wrote a post about what the sexual fantasies of non-transgender people can tell us about crossdreamers and those who are some shade of transgender.
I documented that a lot of the fantasies that are used to invalidate the identity of trans women (and that are also found among many male to female crossdreamers) are actually quite common among non-transgender women.
And if these fantasies are found among cis women, they cannot be explained as a misdirected form of male sexuality when reported by MTF crossdreamers and trans persons.
Do female to male crossdreamers exist?
Another myth of this kind is the one saying that there are no female to male crossdreamers. Women do not get turned on by the idea of being a man or having a man's body, the argument goes.
Post from a female to male crossdreamer from the reddit crossdreaming forum.
Republished with permission.
A relatively new collection of female sexual fantasies tells another story. The book, Garden of Desires, is a follow up to Nancy Friday's influential collections of such fantasies. Emily Dubberley, the editor, is the creator of Cliterati, a British fantasy website for women.
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Labels: alternative theories, autoandrophilia, FTM, sexuality
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