Shooting at Orlando Gay Nightclub Leaves 50 Dead
By Yvonne
feature image by Phelan M. Ebenhack/Associated Press
At least 50 people were killed at Pulse, a gay nightclub, in Orlando around 2 a.m. Sunday morning after a gunman opened fire in the deadliest mass shooting in recent U.S. history. Police say at least 53 more people were injured. Police shot and killed the gunman who was identified as Omar Manteen, a 29-year-old from Fort Pierce, Florida.
Orlando Police Chief John Mina said an off-duty officer working security at the nightclub exchanged gunfire with the shooter, who carried "an assault-type rifle and handgun."
"The officer engaged in a gun battle with that suspect. The suspect at some point went back inside the club and more shots were fired. This did turn into a hostage situation," Mina said.
Manteen was shot dead by officers about three hours later after SWAT team members entered the club. The shooting is being investigated as an act of terrorism.
NBC News spoke to Manteen's father, Mir Seddique and he apologized for Manteen's actions. "We weren't aware of any action he is taking. We are in shock like the whole country," he said. Seddique adds it had nothing to do with religion and that he believes his son got angry when he saw two men kissing in Miami a couple of months ago and thinks it may be related to the shooting, NBC News reports.
Even though authorities haven't named this a hate crime, Florida Rep. Alan Grayson spoke to the media and said: "It's a gay club. It might be that we've seen a commission of an awful hate crime last night."
Right now officials are trying to sort out if Manteen's actions and motives are linked to a wider terrorist organization and are reporting on his nationality and his family's nationality but that doesn't matter. One thing is clear — this was a homophobic attack. Manteen targeted a gay nightclub on Latin Night that was filled with LGBT people during Pride month, a time in which we should be celebrating our triumphs. You can't ignore these facts. These were our friends and family who were killed. Conservative and liberal politicians alike will condemn this act of violence and rightfully so but don't be fooled by Republican lip service. This shooting was fueled by their right-wing, conservative rhetoric that's perpetuated by their anti-LGBT laws and anti-transgender bathroom bills which has created a hostile climate for LGBT people.
In the wake of the aftermath, OneBlood, a blood center in Orlando said it was in an urgent need of donors. However, since we live in an upside down world, queer men and trans women can't help out their injured brothers, sisters and siblings because of FDA's blood donation regulation which pretty much bans them from donating if they've had sex with men in the past year.
Our heart goes out to the Orlando queer community. We mourn the loses of our friends and family. This is devastating news and I hope y'all are taking care of yourselves and each other.
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Yvonne S. Marquez is a lesbian journalist and former Autostraddle senior editor living in Dallas, TX. She writes about social justice, politics, activism and other things dear to her queer Latina heart. Yvonne was born and raised in the Rio Grande Valley. Follow her on Instagram or Twitter. Read more of her work at yvonnesmarquez.com.
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jen_c
"Conservative and liberal politicians alike will condone this act of violence and rightfully so…"
I think maybe you meant "condemn" there?
yes, thank you!
But our shitbag Lt. Governor deleted a tweet this morning that actually could be construed as condoning, and given Dan Patrick's track record, it would be hard to construe it any other way.
http://m.chron.com/news/article/Texas-Lt-Governor-Dan-Patrick-tweets-reap-what-8076147.php
The cynic in me wants to say 'appropriate slip of the tongue'. The cynic in me is pretty strong today.
Yes yes yes, thank you for posting this. One small thing: I think possibly you meant that politicians will *condemn this act of violence, not condone.
yes, sorry! i meant condemn
Mrs blah
This is so sad. And I am worried for the injured who don't have medical insurance or are under-insured. Maybe we should donate money to help.
dtigress
There is a GoFundMe set up for the victims:
https://www.gofundme.com/2942a444
They have temporarily lifted the ban on gay men who have had sex in the last year donating blood. it is so fucked that the ban still exists. but let people in florida know so that they can get the blood needed to save the lives of the 53 still in critical condition. You can call 1-888-9DONATE to find a donation center near you.
that being said, I am so livid that the media is so focused on talking about islamists extremism and totally glossing over this being a hate crime against the LGBTIQA+ community.
Arvan12
Unfortunately, it appears that the report about the ban on MSM blood donations being temporarily lifted was false.
All FDA guidelines remain in effect for blood donation. There are false reports circulating that FDA rules were being lifted. Not true.
— OneBlood (@my1blood) June 12, 2016
The information out there right now is super confusing. OneBlood doesnt clarify which claims they mean (I think the report was they are taking blood from "all donors, including gay men" so it's possible they meant they still have rules, like age, travel, and illness restrictions). Meanwhile their "Can I Donate?" page does NOT reference sexual history or sexual orientation, which implies LGBTQ people CAN donate.
https://www.oneblood.org/about-donating/blood-donor-basics/can-i-donate/
OneBood has now tweeted that "all FDA guidelines remain in effect for blood donation." So they are still turning away gay/bi men and anyone who has had sex with a gay/bi man in the last year. This ban applies to trans women who have sex with men as well, because the FDA is bullshit.
http://www.theverge.com/2016/6/12/11912020/oneblood-blood-donation-orlando
http://gawker.com/reports-orlando-blood-center-lifts-ban-on-blood-donati-1781837902
KVal
Having donated with one blood before, there is a question on their screening sheet about whether (if male) you have had sex with a man in the last 12 months
YES but they ALSO tweeted to check their website for restrictions on who can and cannot donate. And their site says nothing about sexual history preventing someone from donating.
I've always felt this is one instance where flouting the law is absolutely the right thing to do. Changing the FDA's stupidass rule is the long-term solution; in the meantime, my stance is if you are a healthy donor, and free of STIs and other legit reasons to defer donation, then lie if you have to. Saving someone's life is worth it.
For an individual donor, absolutely, lie freely. For the donation org, it would be a terrible idea, since the FDA would at best require them to throw out all the blood collected, and may even pull their licence.
Good point! Hadn't thought of it from the organization's position.
Sarah R.
Trans Women who have sex with men can't donate either, because the FDA goes by what we were assigned at birth
you're right, i updated the post
thank you yvonne for writing this. sending love to everyone <3
hihello
Thank you for writing this, Yvonne. There will be a lot to read and say about this in coming days, but I needed to hear this because it's not coming through in the mainstream media. None of us paused to question whether this was a hate crime. It couldn't be more clear. My heart is broken.
Lurkinglate
I am so terribly sad right now
Priscila T
Thank you for reporting on this. I don't trust the mainstream media to report this well. I am saddened to feel so much anger at a time we should be celebrating our selves.
Paper0Flowers
After all the fuckery surrounding the Stanford rapist, now this…I just feel like crawling under my bed and hiding there for a few days. There isn't anywhere in the world where we can expect to be safe. I'm so exhausted by grief.
"I'm so exhausted by grief."
Yes. Me too.
When I hear of the rape and injustice at Stanford, the senseless murder of Christina Grimmie, and now the mass hate murder in Orlando, my heart feels sad and empty to think I belong to the same species of animal that can produce such tragic horror on others.
My mind reels in disbelief of how they can commit such acts.
Add on to that for me that my great grandma died, and on that day my gf dumped me over text and also my cat died. And I'm not gonna see my best friend for a year.
I swear it's like we're the same person. My grandma died this week also and I found out recently that my best friend is moving away for college (which means I also won't see him for a year, if not longer if he decides to stay down there for summers/holidays too, which a strong possibility being that he hates his family). Add that to the fact, that my cousin (another person I'm close with) is moving away too because his parents are getting a divorce, and that divorce is throwing my whole family into disarray, and I'm also competing in the Misery Olympics right now. Then of course, this.
God what a shitty week. Can't wait until it's over.
Rachel W.
so much love to both of you. I'm so sorry for your losses.
It's so incredibly draining
Thank you for writing this, Yvonne. I needed this from Autostraddle today, not from the mainstream news sites who won't even acknowledge that Pulse is a gay nightclub, or who are only focusing on the shooter's name and perceived religion.
A friend of my was watching Fox News (she was just "curious to see the comparison") and she kept relaying to me what they were saying, and I just could not handle that. It is baffling to me how anyone could think this is anything OTHER than a hate crime.
I am baffled by all of the people saying the guy has ties to ISIS and that this attack has nothing to do with homophobia. Do they think he picked a busy gay club during pride week randomly?
Well, I'm now reading that apparently the shooter called 911 and swore allegiance to ISIS before the shooting. But that doesn't change the fact that this was still a homophobia-motivated hate crime. ISIS hates gays, that is new information.
http://www.nytimes.com/2016/06/13/us/orlando-nightclub-shooting.html
"That is NOT new information" whoops, kind of forgot an important word there.
I took it as sarcasm!
In Germany the Tagesschau (THE news at 20h) had a Brennpunkt (special after the news if serious matter) and an expert speaking, they don't deny it at all and they focuse on the hate-crime aspect, too.
You might want to follow http://www.tagesschau.de/ They have a 100sec-edition in English, too http://www.tagesschau.de/100s/englisch/
I saw it on the news and I JUST figured out it was a gay bar when I looked it up a couple minutes after..smh media will do ANYTHING to demonize Islam
"This shooting was fueled by their right-wing, conservative rhetoric that's perpetuated by their anti-LGBT laws and anti-transgender bathroom bills which has created a hostile climate for LGBT people."
This. :(
I have been waiting for this story, I knew Autostraddle would get to the heart of this, which is that it's a hate crime. I have been devastated all morning, such a senseless loss of life. Thank you so much for reporting, and always being a dependable place for information when the mainstream media is not.
My heart is absolutely broken by this news. Thank you for reporting on this in such a thoughtful way.
plus a man was apprehended in LA on his way to their Pride parade bc he was going to hurt people there
i feel like i'm going to have a breakdwon weith everything thats going on. im supposed to go to a freiends birthday party today & even though i feel like going might be good for me overall, part of me feels like how? part of me feels like isnt that wrong? part of me feels like just crying in bed all day. im so scared. i feel sick.
It isn't wrong. If you feel like you can't go because you need to stay home and take care of yourself, that's one thing. But it isn't at all wrong for you to go and continue to live your life if you feel that it would be good for you to be with your friends today. People that do these things want to take that away from us – to take away our joy, and disrupt our ability to go about our daily, normal lives. So it is not wrong at all to defy their attempts by standing up and carrying on with our lives.
This is heartbreaking, I'm half a world away and I just woke up to this and I don't have any words. This is devastating. Heartbreak and devastation are all I've got right now, and shock.
This is devastating. I don't even have words.
My prayers are with those who lost their lives and the families and friends who will have to continue theirs without them. My thoughts are also with those survivors who witnessed evil and have to find a way to imagine life's goodness again.
And God help this country who allows this to keep happening. Their blood is on our hands.
So heartbroken. Trying to remember: "look for the helpers."
I had never heard this phrase (look for the helpers) before, so I looked it up and I want to thank you for bringing it to my attention. It really is helpful to have a conscious process to remind myself of the good, so the other stuff doesn't drown me.
Here's one of the helpers: https://www.facebook.com/joshua.mcgill1990/posts/1220433711309944
I'm avoiding social media today for obvious self-care reasons, but I saw this linked elsewhere earlier with the caption "look for the helpers" and it helped lessen the sorrow slightly.
This is also the first time that I hear this "look for the helpers" phrase and I want to thank you for bringing this into my life
This had to have been the work of a self absorbed egoist with an absolute inability to view others as anything other than objects with an existence he felt entitled to take if they didn't experience the world the way he did. Complete lack of empathy for victims, their families and their friends.
It's more than just the hate.
We live in a world that generates bullies by not strongly condemning all violence; even condoning it, in far too many circumstances. This is all the confirmation some need to give them that push over the edge toward an insane act .
The guy called 911 and declared his allegiance to Isis.
Thank you for the article. I have so many thoughts but no words.
Same. My heart hurts for all of those innocent lives lost and for our community.
I can't help but want to believe it was random (not that that's better… the violence is still the same), but that it wasn't a direct attack on our community. That it was some horrible person with access to violent weapons and he chose a busy nightclub, not knowing it was a gay club. Is that too naive… ?
Yes; it's naive. Come on. That asshole targeted a gay nightclub: it's about young people who live their sexuality freely in the West. Everything Islamic terrorists hate. And Autostraddle can't even acknowledge that the guy was Muslim. PCness at its finest.
@barbican, you know what, no. We're not doing this. Take the Islamophobia somewhere else. Better yet, educate yourself and just stop. What you're implying that readers should have been able to take away from "acknowledge[ment] that the guy was Muslim" is wrongheaded and deeply, deeply offensive. Talk to some actual Muslims. The shooter was no more representative of Muslims than Robert Dear is of Christians.
The Islamic State does NOT represent all Muslims, and Islamophobia has no place at Autostraddle.
Clearly we all have many feelings about this-heartbreak, anger, fear. When tragedies like this happen, as they do so often, I personally tend to sink into despair. If you're located in Seattle and don't want to be alone there is a candle light vigil tonight at 8 (https://www.facebook.com/events/1554769858165873/)
I would guess/hope that other cities are doing something similar….I'm thankful for community tonight.
There will be a vigil along Old Comptom Street tomorrow (Monday) eve, for any Londoners who want to attend.
MC Git Bizzy
Houston will have two vigils this week: One tonight at 8:00 pm in Hermann Park (meet near the zoo) and Wednesday at 8:00 pm at South Beach.
http://m.chron.com/houston/article/Houston-s-GLBT-community-responds-to-shooting-8082558.php
This shook me deeply in the middle of an otherwise calm day. I wondered whether I should fear for my safety of i end up going to big Pride events for the first time ever this month, even though I'm halfway across the world. I wondered what I can even do about it, for the dead, the injured, and those whose (already precarious) sense of safety and acceptance has been shaken. Mine has.
Then I remembered that after the Paris and Beirut attacks, a friend held a novena to pray for those affected, nine days in a row. Anyone and everyone who wants to, please join. I'm praying a rosary and the novena for peace that my friend suggested, but feel free to use prayers from your own faith traditions. The more the… well, not merrier, but stronger.
Here's the novena for peace, for those interested:
http://www.totus2us.com/podcasts/novenas/novena-for-peace/#.V12k4sWHmug.mailto
Just sending love out to everyone and want you to know I'm holding you all in my heart.
Thank you for writing this, Yvonne, and saying what needs to be said.
Does anyone know of any way we can help, eg. with survivors' medical bills?
There is a GoFundMe, but in situations like this it's probably better to wait a few days until people have a chance to get things organized, so there's actually a mechanism in place for the money to get where it needs to go.
The GLBT Community Center of Central Florida is raising money to help victims & families and to run an emergency crisis hotline and offer grief counseling.
Equality Florida set up this GoFundMe page for donations to help victims and their families. From the latest update: "Funds raised on this page will be going directly to the victims and families affected by the horrific shooting at Orlando's Pulse Nightclub. Equality Florida is working with local organizations – who are also helping to raise funds – to ensure the money is distributed properly. Thank you for the support! "
https://www.gofundme.com/PulseVictimsFund
I'm broke af but I donated $10 because it felt like doing *something* when I otherwise just feel so devastatingly helpless.
Im watching the news coverage now and it seems like they are relishing the fact that they get to mention this guy being muslim and isis but will barely acknowledge the fact that the victims were targeted for being LGBT. One of my former co-workers even tweeted me in response to this tragedy that he "didnt get how this shooting became about gay people". SMH.
Of course. By end of day it was be a neutral "Nightclub shooting" because the last thing anyone wants to to feel complicit after a year of massive anti-lgbt laws, rhetoric, and media fueled bigotry.
Will be.. ugh.
look how quickly black/brown ppl are being used by white straight conservatives to fuel islamophobia to minimize the effect of this hate crime and take away any responsibility from the lack of gun control laws and continue their hatred of muslims. ugh fuck all of this
I woke up this morning feeling excited and optimistic because of this:'Nonbinary' is now a legal gender, Oregon court rules
http://www.dailydot.com/lifestyle/oregon-court-rules-non-binary-gender-legal/
Then I heard about the shooting.
At least President Obama acknowledges that this was directed against us, specifically, and he continues to say it's not okay:
https://www.whitehouse.gov/blog/2016/06/12/president-obama-tragic-shooting-orlando
Avawn Alvear
For a moment I thought I was the only one who felt the same way about how the media was handling it. I wish the world could be a better place.
M callie
I woke up to read this story and I was in shock. I feel like this… monster waited until pride month for a reason. Our clubs are always at peek attendance all the month of June. This is just horrible. The one place I feel safe is at gay and lesbian bars buy now…
Articles about Muslim groups strongly condemning the shootings, and calling for Muslims to donate blood and support the LGBTQ community:
http://www.freep.com/story/news/local/michigan/2016/06/12/area-muslims-strongly-condemn-orlando-shooting/85792084/
http://www.cair.com/press-center/press-releases/13584-dc-cair-national-muslim-leaders-to-hold-news-conference-to-condemn-orlando-shooting-urge-muslims-to-donate-blood-for-victims.html
Thank you. Giving blood during Ramadan, no less. Muslims are just as horrified and heartbroken about this as anybody else.
Folk, let us be speaking up against those who would use this tragedy to sow more hate. Don't just quietly scroll by or unfollow. Use your voice to speak truth and love.
Lots of people are speaking out and I'm so relieved we have the internet, or I'd lose my mind. A few minutes websearching reveals there are actually a lot of supportive counter-voices to the erasive narrative, and they're easy to find– the hardest part is deciding which few to pass along.
Here are a few more articles/quotes:
http://aboutislam.net/muslim-issues/america/us-muslims-condemn-orlando-shooting/
— it specifically sends love to us here:
"Linda Sarsour, another American Muslim activist, has also expressed sadness over the attack….Woke up to horrible news. Sending love to LGBTQI communities everywhere. 'Please pray for the victims and their families,' she wrote on Facebook."
–and this article from Al Jazeera:
http://www.aljazeera.com/news/2016/06/world-leaders-condemn-orlando-shooting-160612174312326.html
includes these 2 items:
"Canadian Prime Minister Justin Trudeau called the attack an act of domestic terror….He said that while authorities were still investigating, it was 'appalling that as many as 50 lives may have been lost to this domestic terror attack targeting the LGBTQ2 community' "
from @MayorofLondon (Sadiq Khan)
"I stand with the city of Orlando against hate and bigotry. My thoughts are with all the victims of this horrific attack. #lovewins "(the tweet includes a rainbow heart after the hashtag)
i always assume that queer peeps have progressive politics, but that's not always the case. everyone keep an ear to the ground for anti-muslim sentiment in the queer community and talk people out of it where you can. sucks pretty hard for muslims in our community right now.
randuois
I really needed this, today has been an absolute shit of a day and since I heard the news I lost all since of time, being gay being raised and living in a Muslim family and country, this whole thing just hits too close to home, this is a homophobic hate crime committed by a piece of shit who does not deserve to be talked about, I hope everyone who was injured recovers and I can't imagine what the families of all those who lost their lives must feel right now, Just fuck it and Fuck everything, thanks again for the support though
Lapetitemerce
Hey! I just want to send all my love to all of you tonight. You don't know me. I live half a world away from most of you. I grew up in a different country and in a different language. And I thank from the bottom of my heart Autostraddle to give me a place to say this. I LOVE YOU ALL. Stay safe.
Your media wants to blame it on terrorism linked to a religious ideology because it's distracting from the fact that its essentially about gun crime and the ridiculous problem your country has with the accessibility of weapons that can do this kind of damage.
Headlines that say terrorism are friendlier to the gun lobby than headlines that say shooting.
Hey, using the broad brush of "your media" and "your country" paint everyone in the United States as complicit and isolates us from the rest of the world when there are many media organizations and politicians (Autostraddle and Obama included), who aren't ignoring the fact that this is a hate crime and focusing on the need for gun control.
It's absolutely terrorism, though linked to queerphobia, not religion. It's violence aimed at scaring people for political purpose (in this case, making us stop existing), which is the definition of terrorism.
In the UK, most reports are stating 'gay club' (even the Daily Fail), but still with heavy emphasis on it being a terrorist attack, not a hate crime. :(
Decided to move this post out of the "replies" section where I posted it before (my apologies for the duplication) and make it a stand-along comment. I think we all need to feel supported right now, and often I think the replies don't get seen as much as the independent comments.
More love and respect coming our way:
stand alone, not stand along!
i proofread everything several times and still miss this stuff.
I love all you guys and I wish I could give everyone a hug. I need one myself for sure. Just hug each other for me okay?
Ashley (too lazy to log in)
My heart hearts for everyone. Just when I thought that maybe -just maybe- we were making some real progress in acceptance. Of course you'll always have your assholes but this is too horrible for words.
My heart hurts for any victims that weren't out to their loved ones and will have this info spread without their permission.
I also thought about victims who weren't out—what a horrific way to find out that your loved one is LGBT+. And, God forbid that some of the families aren't accepting, but I hope that partners are allowed at the funerals.
Just got off the phone with my mom, and as I was trying to express how upset this was making me, I heard myself saying that the reason this feels different than all the other mass shootings is because it was targeted at us–at me. In the deadliest shooting in American history, the guns were aimed at queer people. That fact hadn't sunk in until I heard myself saying it out loud. I don't know how to process that.
I think this is exactly how a lot of us are feeling, and what I don't think straight people around us may get.
I think that straight people don't have the same level of understanding that something like a gay nightclub is often the ONLY place some of us feel relatively safe. So for us to be hit there, compounds that idea that there's really no haven anywhere.
I've met a lot of very nice straight people who are supportive in a general way, but who have really no concept of the level of trauma and unsafety many of us already have experienced, thus how very personal this particular event is to us and how it's like it took away the one single safety some of us thought we had.
I'm lucky enough to have spent most of my life for the past 34 of my 50 years in places where I was out and didn't feel like it was all that dangerous most of the time. But even in the most liberal of environments, I have never felt the complete un-self-consciousness about my sexuality and relationships, as EVERY SINGLE straight person I've ever spent time with has felt when it came to those issues.
I think people CAN learn to empathize and understand another's experience in a way that makes them really get it. But most of the time people will stop at getting the general concept, and not delve all the way into the depths of it. So when something hits that level, they only partly get what it's about.
Just want to tell you all how much you, this space, this queer community mean. Love you all. Stay safe.
rhymeriver
Same. Thank you
Charmingle
My heart goes out to all the people.
It's hard to say anything that doesn't sound trite, I guess, but I also think it's okay that we speak a common language after tragedies like this. Sending strength and comfort and love and prayers is a good thing. My heart breaks for Orlando.
I've seen a couple of fundraisers online collecting donations for the Orlando LGBTQ community and specifically for the victims of last night's attacks, and their loved ones. The Orlando GLBT Community Center has set up a Go Fund Me: http://www.thecenterorlando.org/; https://www.gofundme.com/29bubytq and I've seen another page put together by Equality Florida where they've raised nearly $1M so far: https://www.gofundme.com/PulseVictimsFund
I have this irrational fantasy that Congress will strike the second amendment and special brigades will go door-to-door and confiscate every single firearm in the nation and destroy them. Is it plausible? No. Is it even the best option to end gun violence? I mean maybe/probably not but I still fantasize about the possibility of there being a safe(r) space in this country again.
The only sense of comfort I am clinging to right now is how incredibly strong and supportive our communities (and allies) are. I want to believe that being unwavering in our celebration of queerness is a form of justice for the living and the dead. I love and appreciate my 'tribe', as it were, more and more every single day, which also intensifies the grief and pain felt when any member of our community is harmed.
Lastly, I just want to co-sign the comments noting that this was Latin night at Pulse and that this tragedy cuts across multiple communities and identities. My condolences and deepest love to those in Orlando and my solidarity and support and appreciation for my LGBTQ loved ones everywhere.
Angry Unicorn
I'm so sorry for everyone in the US right now? it's so terrible what happened. I hate how it's being reported as an 'evil Muslim terror attack', when tbh the values that drove the attack can be found in both eastern and western cultures. The guy was a Muslim, but he was living in a western country that still enforces some pretty archaic values about LGBTs. People can't just say his homophobia was motivated by his religion without acknowledging the country he actually lives in, like what the helllllll?? And all these people trying to pin it on Islam just reek of the same people who harass us in bathrooms and call inanimate objects gay.
I think I reached peak levels of pissed when my own prime minister, Malcolm Turnbull, made a statement about how sorry he is for the Orlando terror attack and completely neglected to mention anything about the LGBT community. According to him we should be 'united against this attack on us all', but it's a bit rich coming from the guy who is single handedly stalling any progress on LGBT rights in this country. I JUST CANNOT OVERSTATE HOW PISSED I AM RN.
K A
I hope at least Shorten mentioned the LGBT in his response
There isn't a whole lot to say other than this fucking sucks
It fucking sucks that it was LGBTQ kids dancing
It's fucking too much that it was during Pride
It cut a way these things haven't in the past, and it also fucking sucks that I was surprised by that, by the fact that it cut
It fucking sucks that this type of mass shooting bullshit has happened so often that I'm surprised that all of us aren't numb to it by now
It fucking sucks that Pride isn't safe, that no place is safe, that fifty families are mourning fifty people dead and fifty three more were injured just because they went out dancing and were Gay and weren't ashamed
It just fucking sucks
Creatrix Tiara
as if there weren't already enough reasons for the queer community to be disdainful about muslims and those who look like them, even if they happen to be queer themselves
hell there are also "pro-lgbt" lefty types attacking muslims on social media – including queer muslims!! – for being ISIS supporters
and yet between governments going all "gay rights are anti-islam!!" and prominent lgbt activists being murdered while the gov does nothing I don't think anyone in my background would care :(
Girl Scout Motto
I don't know you, but I care. <3
A Kat
I respond to things like this by being angry. I just do. I'm pissed. I wanted to lash out on social media today. I probably would have hurt some people by doing so, which made me refrain. But damn, I wanted to.
I'm going to Pride for the very first time this weekend, just because of this, and I swear if any religious people, I don't care what religion, show up and try to cause a problem, I will freight train a mofo.
Article discussing the need to address all facets of who is targeted, and calling for solidarity that addresses the racism coming from multiple directions as the story is reported and people react:
http://remezcla.com/culture/pulse-mass-shooting-latin-night/
"….[T]he media has failed to report that this attack targeted LGBTQ communities of color. A 2012 report on hate violence against the gay community found that LGBTQ people of color were 1.82 times more likely to experience physical violence. In 2012, 73.1 percent of anti-LGBTQ homicide victims were people of color – with black/African Americans accounting for 54 percent and Latinos for 15 percent, according to Colorlines."
[I love Colorlines– for anyone unfamiliar, check them out at colorlines.com ]
"Many in the Latino community are speaking out about the lack of attention being given to violence against LGBTQ communities of color, and at the same time, they are striking down Islamophobia." [the article then quotes a series of examples of intersectional solidarity statements and other responses to the massacre]
It brings hope and gods do I want to feel hope for humanity.
Thank you for writing this, Yvonne
I have no words
Y'all I had to walk away from my mother today because she was being a brain washed dipshit.
Somehow James Corden's little speech at the beginning of the Tony's was "cowtowing to terrorists".
She couldn't tell me how the fuck support of Sandyhook was any fucking different from support of the Orlando shooting and the queer community.
Most of my sharp tongue, my ability to wear people down by pointing out faults in their logic comes from her. I think if I hadn't walked away I would have lost it and just started to wordlessly scream after arguing with her using the word she hates.
We are equally hard headed and good at finding weakpoints and going in for the kill.
I am used to cognitive dissonance, to willful ignorance of people, I am used to knowing about mass killings and so many awful things I learned about so young.
But to have such a logical person like my mother say something so fucking stupid….I can't even.
How are really different are mass shooters from suicide bombers and other "soldiers" of terror?
Is what I would have said to anyone else because I would have been calmer and expectant of the stupid.
But instead I had to give up and walk away or lose my cool and have her "win" the argument
Fellow Straddlers in the coming days when faced with Islamphobia ask:
A person disillusioned and disaffected by their live or their self deciding to seek glory, seek something and it turns out to be violence. How easy is it to take disillusioned people and give them terrible purpose? Hitler did it perfectly.
Be an ally.
Our queer and straight Muslim fellow humans need it.
Don't just question Islamphobic comment and statement from people, amplify Muslim voices speaking out against atrocity and the warlords who claim themselves a nation state.
En palabras de Celia Cruz: Juntos nosotrxs viviremos, nosotrxs viviremos y sobreviviremos
In the adapted words of Celia Cruz: Together we will live and survive
Thank you for the article. The media i more focused on making all Muslims seem evil and avoid pointing out that this was an LGBQ club.Too many comments under the posts are filled with racism and homophobia. I think it's ridiculous that some fools want all Muslims to apologize for the killer's actions.We don't demand all white people to apologize for the white male serial killers.Any religion can be twisted and used for violence. Even Atheism can be used to justify violence. Portland,Or is having pride next week and I'm not sure if I'll go. After what almost happened to L.A. Pride, it makes me nervous tbh
Aparna Vengakkad
His own Muslim upbringing (if it was that; does Afghan automatically mean Muslim?) may have had something to do with it. But, it could as easily have been a Christian, or a Hindu (look at the way LGBT is treated here in India or even pub going women), or even an atheist in communist China. No religion/ideology has a monopoly on people who commit hate crimes. Only ignorance (or closed mindedness and a non-willingness to look at the world from another's point of view) has.
May people look for connection rather than division and exclusion in whatever teaching/ideology they choose to follow! May they find love and friendship rather than hatred and fear!
My wife and I took our 9 month old daughter to the vigil in Seattle. My baby girl attended a vigil for victims of a hate crime before she even got to attend her first Pride celebration. Let that sink in a minute.
That sort cruel dissonance of life sunk into my bones when I was five years old. I don't tell you this to sorrow you further but to let you know how brave I think any parent is who chooses to nurture, love and raise a child and how much I honestly mean that.
It's a leap of faith.
Thank you. I'm constantly terrified over what sort of world we're leaving to her and my 9 year old son. It has to get better,right? Why does it feel like it's getting worse? But then I stop and think that maybe, by raising these two kids with love and strength, I'm making the world better.
It feels like it's getting worse because humans are animals. We collect and focus on Bad Things to protect ourselves.
It's like being in front of an open flame. You can't stop or don't want to stop thinking about that flame and what it could wreak if you don't pay attention to it. But maybe you stop thinking so hard about it, put the flame a little further back in your mind where it's not your prime focus. THEN holy shit flame flame there is fire in front of me how could I not think about it. Danger danger danger so much danger.
There will always be Bad Thing and there will always be Good Things but do the Good Things have a chance of ruining something the way Bad Thing do? Not really thus why the Bad Things emotionally feel like they outweigh the Good Things.
Being concerned about the world and raising 2 humans with love strength does help make the world better.
Raintra
This is beyond sad sad!!
I have so many words but I'm gonna stick with:
My prayers go out to them and their family.
Their deaths will stay within me & maybe some people, and I we'll keep fighting for love to be continue…
ruth.claire.b
It's times like this that it's truly easier to believe in despair over joy. It seems like choosing joy and belief in happiness and the pursuit of equality, hope, respect, dignity, choice, love and freedom is an impossible and reckless act. When the mourning ends, as it will for everyone but the closest friends and family, Who will stand up not in mourning but for the belief in a safe and ultimately loving world? When our leaders could do nothing after the deaths of 20 children, who will do something after the deaths of 50 gay people?
I fucking can't stand this shit. Division and indecision = MORE DEAD PEOPLE. I don't want to have to stand in solidarity with families and a community mourning a heart wrenching loss. I want to stand in solidarity with a community celebrating joy and victory. Celebrating not the end of violence but the fact that we live in a world and with people that will do everything possible to protect us.
Ugh I'm sorry guys, I'm just really depressed today.
This attack has hurt two communities. The innocent peace loving muslims and of course the LGBT community.
You know, when I saw this news yesterday morning (broken to me by my mother who said, some guy shot 50 people in US in some club: she didn't understand or ignored that it is a gay club), the first thought I had was, what would those guys in my country's government, those guys who were the reason our Supreme Court reinstated section 377 and recriminalised gay sex, those guys who tried to block a movie about a gay professor because it brought bad name to their city (apparently, suggesting someone in the city is gay is equivalent to suggesting someone in the city is Satan's child), say to this? Would they say, good, those people got what they deserved? Or, would they ignore the little LGBT thing and say, we are so sorry this happened to good old America, our allies?
Wow! I sound angry and bitter, don't I?
I am, and I was angry and bitter, when I read that our PM sent out condolence message without acknowledging that the violence was also against LGBT people. I am angry that the PM or his people never mentioned that the thing they decry has also a reflection in his own people. I am angry that he and the others are unwilling to say, that "Hey! For the first time, we see how monstrous our thoughts were. We are seeing our reflection and we don't like that. We don't like what we have become in our narrowmindedness. We want to change."
Instead, they (I am not talking about PM Modi here, but general internet Indians) take this opportunity to speak ill about Muslims. As if nobody but a Muslim could have such horrific thoughts about an LGBTQ person. They take this opportunity to spread more violence, more hate.
I am not mad at my friends/family (all straight) who never even mentioned this, who never even considered how painful this could be to me specifically because this experience is beyond their spectrum of experience. Because I know that if they knew, they would feel bad. I am mad at people who, while harboring the same feeling within themselves, act hurt, offer condolences; point fingers at others; and think that somehow, that makes them better. I am mad at those who are blind to their own hypocrisy– the politicians in India and Trump (and other anti-gay folks in US), all cut of the same cloth.
Change comes when we acknowledge our mistakes and decide to do better. If we don't see that, then what hope have we?
PS: Now that I have been able to put my feelings into words (I haven't been able to before), I think I will go and post this in tumblr. At least, I will remember why I am so angry.
I am sorry to sound so angry above. I am so sad for you guys in the US, both for those in Orlando and for those elsewhere. To have your rug pulled out from under you is so horrible. To feel that nowhere is safe is so horrible.
(I am sad for myself too, but that is beside the point.)
May friends and family and love be with you.