Tag: Political
It all started with window signs. No, wait, it really started with Bill C-51. When the entire liberal caucus (including my MP, Dr. Hedy Fry) voted in favour of it, at least partly out of politics, I started seriously considering switching my vote to another party. It took me a while to decide, because that's how I roll. I'm not really a Liberal supporter—my heart is more progressive than that—but C-51 notwithstanding, Fry had done a good job for Vancouver, right? Plus, she seemed a safe bet and there seemed little point in voting for someone else.
Then one day I ran into Constance Barnes, the NDP candidate, schmoozing with the summer crowds at Nelson Park. And I really, really liked her. She seemed super friendly, full of energy, sharp and on the ball. I told her about my feelings, and apparently I wasn't the only Liberal voter thinking of jumping ship. So hey, maybe voting NDP wouldn't mean throwing away my vote?
The next small step, once I'd made my decision, was to get a couple of orange window signs. The campaign headquarters was just a few minutes' walk away, so I swung by there one night on the way from work. They were happy to give me the signs, and asked if I wanted to volunteer as well. I sort of stammered and said I'd think about it.
The truth is, part of me wanted to get involved, and part of me didn't. On the one hand, partisan political activism was new to me. The most I'd ever done was talk and rant, and repost anti-Harper articles—but who on Facebook hasn't done that? Actively committing to a candidate was a big step, and kind of a scary one. What if she lost? Then I'd be even more disappointed, having put out all that energy for nothing. And what if I backed the wrong candidate?
On the other hand, this was an important election. Priority #1 was to get Harper out, yes, but Vancouver Centre was a safe non-Conservative riding, so I was free to vote with my conscience. And wouldn't it be nice to get an NDP government in, to roll back as much of Harper's crap as we could? As for my other fears, well, sometimes you just have to take a shot. Living in fear of getting hurt or making a mistake is no life at all, and that was a habit I needed to break. If I could make a difference, that was worth a little risk.
So about a month before the election, I signed up to volunteer with Constance's team. At the first orientation meeting, they asked the new blood to fill out a couple forms, including what tasks they were interested in, and on what days. What did I feel up to doing? Data entry was an easy choice. I had a car, so I could run errands and drive people to the polls. Inside scrutineering sounded super interesting too. What about other stuff, like canvassing (going up to voters in their homes) or mainstreeting (ie: setting up shop in a park or other public place, and letting people come to you)? Part of me wanted to dive in and really push my limits, but part of me wanted to play it safe. Introverted as I am—cue horrible flashbacks of lil' me as a cub scout selling candy bars—I didn't feel I'd be much good chatting with voters in person. On the other hand, I have been making a lot of progress in that area, so maybe I should give myself more credit than that? On the other other hand, wouldn't I be more useful doing things I was actually comfortable with?
In the end I decided I just didn't feel up to of canvassing or mainstreeting. But there was lots of stuff I ended up doing. Data entry, for one. Gotta keep our list of voters up to date, so that they're not called twenty times even after they've voted! All campaign offices are provided with voter lists (identifying people but not who they voted for). At one point I did a short shift of calling voters to remind them of advance polling dates—a nice break from data entry, but pretty exhausting. Even with prepared scripts, calling up strangers is really not my jam.
I also drove several elderly NDP supporters to the polls, which was a different kind of challenging. See, I've hardly ever driven in the West End; all those one-way streets, traffic-calmed intersections and resident-only street parking are great for pedestrians and cyclists, but not so great for drivers. Maybe I should have practised a bit beforehand? It all worked out fine in the end, though, and now I have a better idea of how to get around and park as close as possible to my destinations. For King George High School, park either on the street or under the West End Community Centre. For the Stanley Park Golf Club, try to squeeze into the little driveway thing off Beach Avenue and hope that's close enough. Just as importantly, it opened my eyes to whole different ways of perceiving my neighborhood: a single block can be a tedious loop taking five minutes, plus five more minutes looking for a parking spot, Or, then again it could be an intimidatingly long trek especially if you then have to wait in line for an hour.
The really interesting job, though, was inside scrutineering. As I said, it was totally new to me, but it makes perfect sense it invites participation to the election process (both voting and counting). Just like scientific inquiry, the more eyes you have the better; everyone has the opportunity to learn and help make the whole thing go as smoothly and fairly as possible. I am proud to live in a country that allows this, and I intend to keep giving back in future elections.
Sadly Constance Barnes did not win, as Hedy Fry handily kept her seat with about 50% of the votes. And yes, I was disappointed. But you know what? This isn't the end. I still believe in the NDP, I still believe in Constance, and I'll do my best to help her if and when she runs again. This won't be new territory for me; I have new skills, new confidence, and I'll be able to do a lot more next time.
On that topic, I had the most amazing revelation at the post-election party. I'd been feeling vaguely guilty about the volunteering I'd done, wondering if maybe I should have pushed my envelope a bit more. If I had, if I'd committed more, maybe that would have put Constance over the top? There's no satisfying answer to that question, but here's the thing: when I spoke to some other volunteers at the party, they all felt the same way! It just goes to show: we're not alone in our fears. And that makes me feel a whole lot better about mine.
This post has been a long time percolating, and I considered abandoning it a few times, thinking it Old News. But no, it's never too late. And with the new year coming, it seems like a good time to post it. Though I'm still digesting the lessons it taught me, I feel this volunteering gig was the first step towards something new. I'm eager to see what 2016 will bring me, and what I will bring to it.
Author Nicolas DemersPosted on 24 December 2015 Categories PersonalTags Political
#GlobalKissInProtest
Last Friday was a first for me: I participated in a kiss-in, in front of the Russian Consulate in downtown Vancouver protesting the homophobic neanderthal shit-show developing in Russia.
Last Friday was a first for me: I participated in a kiss-in, in front of the Russian Consulate in downtown Vancouver protesting the homophobic neanderthal shit-show developing in Russia. I'd considered going even though I didn't have a kissing buddy (::sadface::), but what really clinched it was a Facebook conversation the day before, with the protest's organiser. My contribution was—in response to people shocked that a gay person in Russia would support Putin's new laws and be generally right-wing and paranoid about Western culture—that the rising paranoia and fascism in Eastern Europe wasn't too surprising to me, given that I'd already seen something of it in Beyond Gay: The Politics of Pride. In hindsight, it felt both (a) overly didactic and (b) kind of negative. Which, fair enough, there's a lot to be negative about. And also fair enough, it was informative. But I do have this tendency to spout off interesting fact(oid)s at the drop of a hat, and sometimes I need to tone it down. This, I think, was one of those times. And I could and should do more than sit on the sidelines of this particular conflict and be like the Kids in the Hall's It's a fact girl.
So I went to the kiss-in. And kissed a few guys, which was fun. There were quite a few news cameras present, which made me very self-conscious. Seriously, I hadn't felt like that since my very first Pride parade, waaay back in '93. Man, those were the days, when gays and lesbians were still kind of exotic and mainstream media weren't even talking about bi or trans folks.
But I stayed. And though I didn't think I'd end up on camera, seeing as I wasn't in the front row and didn't do that much kissing, a couple friends mentioned seeing me on the news the next day. It was a bit of a shock, but only a bit. It really was not a big deal. My fears had made mountains out of molehills.
What did this protest accomplish? Maybe nothing tangible, in the short run. But then protests rarely do. And in this era of global politics and social media, who can say where things will go in the next six months? Whatever happens, I want to be a part of it.
Author Nicolas DemersPosted on 5 August 2013 6 August 2013 Categories PersonalTags Facing Fears, Political, Queer1 Comment on #GlobalKissInProtest
You don't appreciate what you have when you've had it all your life
Last Friday I went to a friend of mine's Oath of Citizenship ceremony. He's originally from the States, has been living here in Vancouver with his husband for years, and made the choice to become an official Canuck. That means a lot. I was born here, so were my parents, and their parents, and their parents; never lived anywhere else except for 6 months in Belgium when I was 8. I don't really think much about Canadianness except when listening to The Arrogant Worms' heart-stirring national anthem, Canada's Really Big, or bitching about our dead-eyed Bush-wannabe PM.
Last Friday I went to a friend of mine's Oath of Citizenship ceremony. He's originally from the States, has been living here in Vancouver with his husband for years, and made the choice to become an official Canuck. That means a lot. I was born here, so were my parents, and their parents, and their parents; never lived anywhere else except for 6 months in Belgium when I was 8. Canada is always around me, and I don't really think much about Canadianness except when listening to The Arrogant Worms' heart-stirring national anthem, Canada's Really Big, or bitching about our dead-eyed Bush-wannabe PM.
And I'd never been to this kind of ceremony, so hey, new experiences all around! I was a bit disappointed that my friend was only one of 70-odd new Canadians, but I guess if they went one at a time we'd be there all day. The judge started out with a silly, rambly speech about how this was like these people's alternate birthday, and on every July 22nd from now on, they might want to bake a cake with red and/or white frosting. And the frosting had to contain maple syrup, so we'd taste the Canadianness. I don't know, it was like the Food Network or something.
His more formal remarks, about how Canada has a long history of both democracy and embracing diversity, were a lot better. He mentioned several cultural festivals that are widely celebrated at least in Vancouver, like Chinese New Year and Persian New Year, and for a second I totally waited for him to mention Pride… but it never came. Bummer.
There wasn't a whole lot of ritual, but what there was was all right: a quick oath of allegiance to the Queen (holy book optional; my friend had a copy of Dawkins' The God Delusion), and a promise to obey Canadian laws, then singing the national anthem. It's been a while, and I'm glad I remembered the words. Being the only one singing in French probably didn't help because I had to tune out all the other singers around me.
The only sticking point was swearing allegiance to a monarch. Now don't get me wrong, Liz is a classy lady, and I know she's a package deal with Canadian citizenship, but I have personally no use for royalty or aristocracy. No, I didn't stay up all night to watch two overprivileged youngsters get married or make fun of Princess Beatrice's crazy hat.
But whatever, this is a joyous occasion! This is a good country to live in, and I'm happy that someone chose Canada, Queen and all!
Author Nicolas DemersPosted on 25 July 2011 20 June 2013 Categories PersonalTags Life, Political, Pondering
Wave of Pink
On June 14, the Burnaby school board voted on an anti-homophobia and anti-heterosexism policy, and a rally in support was planned. Now, there had already been pro-homophobia rallies, so would we have to face a counter-rally? In a way I kind of wanted one: let's be honest, part of me likes a clear-cut, good-vs-evil confrontation every now and then.
Back in 1997 I joined the SFU queer group to protest the blatantly ideological and oppressive banning of gay children's books by the mostly right-wing Surrey school board. It was a frustrating and infuriating experience because the board ignored us, ignored all protestors, and just went on with their censorship. (Though there is a happy ending: a few years later (and a round in Canada's Supreme Court), the ban was overturned)
This is not 1997, and this was not Surrey. On June 14, the Burnaby school board voted on an anti-homophobia and anti-heterosexism policy, and a rally in support was planned. Now, there had already been pro-homophobia rallies, so would we have to face a counter-rally? In a way I kind of wanted one: let's be honest, part of me likes a clear-cut, good-vs-evil confrontation every now and then.
No homophobes showed up that day, though, except that one guy from the Mormon church across the street, probably looking to see what all the noise was about. Instead there was dancing and singing and beautiful inspirational speeches, by David C Jones, Spencer & Romi Chandra Herbert, and parents or kids from Burnaby gay-straight alliances. The weather was overcast and cool-ish, but the rain held out. Still by 7 (when the board actually met to vote), the entertainment was over and I was ready to go. I (and the 150–200 others) had done all we could, now it was up to the trustees to do the right thing.
Which they did, unanimously. Now bigotry has lost a battle, and queer/trans kids will be a bit safer, at least in Burnaby.
Author Nicolas DemersPosted on 18 June 2011 20 June 2013 Categories PersonalTags Fun, Political, Queer
Lock Up Your Sons and Daughters
Bill Taylor put together a collection of old anti-gay propaganda to educate and entertain. easy to laugh, and in fact that's part of the point. Laughter is the best medicine, and celebrating how far we've come is part of Gay Pride. But it's also important to learn how our enemies think, and what they tell people about us.
Bill Taylor put together this collection of old anti-gay propaganda to educate and entertain. It's easy to laugh, and in fact that's part of the point: laughter is the best medicine, and celebrating how far we've come is part of Gay Pride. But it's also important to learn how our enemies think, and what they tell people about us. David C Jones (in one of the many, many introductory speeches) pointed out that Evil wins too often because Good is dumb. Sorry, no, I meant because Evil is organised; Evil hates and fears and is authority-driven, while Good is just out to do good and have fun. Proposition 8 passed in California because of big money and lies propagated in part by the Mormon Church and NOM and a lot of people weren't worried because, hey, it's California! Likewise, few expected the Conservatives to get a majority, and now look at us.
Plus, we need to remember that these movies are still being made today. The lines have probably shifted a bit—I haven't seen any recent anti-gay movie, but I bet they go on against same-sex marriage more than the evils of homo sex per se—but the message hasn't changed.
Boys Beware
Apparently all homosexuals in the 50's/60's wear suits and have little creepy thin mustaches. This infomercial lays out the horrifying truth about how homos prey on good wholesome sports-playing American boys, and they (the boys) need to beware: don't get in strangers' cars, don't accept gifts, don't spend time with creepy guys without your parents' permission, etc… It's as deadly-earnest as you'd expect from a short of that era.
And hey, Boys Beware is available on YouTube!
Soapy The Germ Fighter
Equally old, this one features a boy who's worried that excessive washing-up will make him a sissy. A talking bar of soap appears to him in a dream telling him that washing up isn't sissy, cowboys totally do it, and goes on a bit about germs and why it's important to fight them. This cutesy film is in the same vein as the old educational shorts shown on MST3K, like A Case Of Spring Fever. It's not anti-gay, though, except insofar as sissiness is perceived as a valid fear.
Highlight 1: the soundtrack from The Nutcracker.
Highlight 2: Soapy recommends that women wash their hair at least every two weeks. But that part is (IIRC) because shampoos were very harsh and damaged the hair. Hence the need for perms.
Watch it for yourself!
William's Doll
Fast-forward to 1981, and the touching tale (adapted from a book) of a boy who wants a doll for his birthday. Amidst the horrible acting and clunky writing, there's actually a nice message here: dolls aren't just girls' toys, it's okay for boys to express affection too, and the final scene shows that doll-playing isn't turning William into a "sissy," because he's just as happy playing football and digging up dirt with his Tonka™ truck.
Which makes me wonder why this movie was included, since it's not anti-gay at all. Mind you, I wouldn't call it pro-gay, but it's definitely pro-flexible-gender-roles.
Highlight: The toy train scene, where I'm pretty sure I saw some old Star Wars action figures (Greedo, especially, caught my eye). Ah, that brought me back, I totally played with them back in the day.
Perversion For Profit
Back to the 60's now, with a deadly serious short going on (with pictures!) about how pornography is ruining the moral fiber of our country. And by "our country" I mean of course "America". To be fair, this film features equal-opportunity fearmongering, giving equal time to girlie, S/M and physique mags.
Highlight 1: those hilarious little taped bars, blotting out eyes, nipples, asses and crotches of the models.
Highlight 2: the porn industry is controlled by Communism.
Watch it on YouTube: Part 1, Part 2
The Gay Agenda
This film was done in 1992 by some anti-gay group in California (I think), and so can't be dismissed so easily. It features a couple of talking heads discussing oh so calmly why sexual orientation shouldn't be a protected status under the law, because it's a choice and gays are a health hazard, the latter backed up with all sorts of statistics: 95% of homosexuals have enjoyed fellatio, 92% anal sex, 35% have done fisting… Honestly, I forget the exact numbers, I'm making it up as I go along. Just like them.
Also, just to shock those decent church-going viewers, shots from Pride parades. You know the drill: half-naked men humping each other, topless women, leather doms dragging their slaves on a leash, dildo-wearing drag nuns, juxtaposed with pictures of kids at those parades. One little girl looked cranky and crying; Gawd knows what the audience was thinking when they saw her.
In addition we get to hear from a couple of "ex-gays": what's interesting is that both these guys are young, pretty and a little flaming, though obviously toning it down, while the stats-spouting talking heads look like regular straight guys. I didn't realize it at first, but just like the parade scenes, this is designed to visually push buttons with the audience: at best, the producers wanted guys who looked stereotypically gay enough so that the audience would buy their story. At worst, it implies that ex-gays are still not really straight, and no matter what they do or say they can't be considered normal.
Highlight: one of the "ex-gays" getting just a bit too excited when talking about bathhouses. You can bet that got a laugh from the audience.
Out of these five movies, three are gold, exactly what I signed up for. Two are not. They're funny and cheesy as all hell, yes, but they're not anti-gay by any stretch of the imagination. And while googling this show, I found references to a couple of other anti-gay shorts that for some reason were not shown tonight: Neurotic Behavior—A Psychodynamic View (via Hummingbird604), and Red Light, Green Light: Meeting Strangers (mentioned on the event's Facebook page, and viewable online here). I wish we'd gotten the chance to see those.
Author Nicolas DemersPosted on 9 June 2011 20 June 2013 Categories CultureTags Fun, Movies, Political, Queer
A bunch of photos: Northern Voice, Slutwalk, walking in the West End
Last week I attended Northern Voice 2011. Much fun was had by all.
Also last week, I attended Slutwalk Vancouver.
And in the last week, I've been able to organise my morning routine so that I can walk to/from the North Van bus, instead of connecting twice. I tell you, there's nothing like a morning walk in the West End, in the warm sunlight, surrounded by joggers and the smell of fresh cut grass. Likewise, walking from the Skytrain along the Seawall.
Author Nicolas DemersPosted on 23 May 2011 20 June 2013 Categories PhotographyTags Northern Voice, Political, West End
Vancouver International Fringe Festival
I don't think I'd ever gone to a Fringe show before, and this year I went to two! It should have been three, but I'd double-booked myself on Friday and missed Morgan Brayton's Raccoonery. I thought about rescheduling (which would have meant buying another ticket, since Fringe policy clearly states there are no refunds or exchanges), but I'd just come down with a cold, so that plan was kaput. Still, I got to enjoy two really excellent shows:
Dr. Horrible's Sing-Along Blog
Dr. Horrible, live on stage, in front of an audience! And it was awesome. All the scenes, all the songs, plus a few extra surprise ones from Commentary: The Musical, which I've never watched so they were brand new ("Ninja Ropes," "Nobody's Asian In The Movies", and "Nobody Wants To Be Moist"). All the classic lines were there, eagerly awaited ("The hammer is my penis." "The thoroughbred of sin?"), along with a brand new one that got a big laugh from the crowd: when Billy and Moist were discussing truly evil deeds to impress Bad Horse, Moist suggested "slashing funds to the BC arts community."
(Ooo, politics! See, it's funny because the Campbell government is evil.)
They did a great job of adapting the action for a small stage with very few actors (for example, in the heist scene the truck was first a tiny remote-controlled one, then left completely offstage.) The actors were fine; the actress playing Penny was a little weaker, and I thought her voice was too soft, but aside from that, no complaints. I absolutely loved the show.
Fucking Stephen Harper
I wasn't really sure what to expect with Fucking Stephen Harper: How I Sexually Assaulted the 22nd Prime Minister of Canada and Saved Democracy. I sort of thought we'd get a humorous retelling of the incident where he accidentally touched Stephen Harper's junk and was charged with sexual assault (though that charge was eventually dismissed). What it turned into was a blistering rant on Canadian Conservative politics, the explicit homophobia of lots of Conservative neanderthals past and present, including the dead-eyed Bush Lite currently running our country, and the apathy of many gay Canadians who think we've got it pretty good here. And we do, no question, but there are people in power right now doing their best to turn back the clock and impose their version of Christianity on the country. Whether or not they succeed is up to us.
I really should start on Marci McDonald's The Armageddon Factor, shouldn't I?
Author Nicolas DemersPosted on 23 September 2010 20 June 2013 Categories CultureTags Awesome, Political, Queer, Theatre
Vancouver Queer Film Festival Review: The Butch Factor
Hm. Okay. This documentary is going to be a tough one to review. From what I'm hearing it was extremely polarising, with people saying they hated it, it made them angry, they almost walked out. I didn't almost walk out, and it didn't make me angry; I agreed with the basic thesis, but had definite problems with some of the actual interviews and scenes.
In short, The Butch Factor asks the question: what is masculinity? How do you live it? How do you define it? Through a series of interviews with butch gay men, a couple of more effeminate men, and one FTM transsexual, all relating their experiences, as well some academics discussing the theory and wider issues, it reaches the conclusion that what's called "masculinity" has changed over the years, is expressed very differently in different cultures, so when you get right down to it—especially in the gay community—masculinity is whatever you define it to be.
This stance is to me a major cop-out. It ignores the politics of gender and sex
None of this was really new to me; I'd already picked up a lot of the theory from reading various articles and books on queer history and gender theory. But what I found problematic was some of the statements—and unspoken assumptions—from the butch interviewees. One pattern I noticed was a desire to distance themselves from a gay identity. For example, one started talking about his "sexual orientation," then caught himself and corrected it to "sexual preference." Another (possibly the same, I'm not sure) brought up how his sexuality was only a small part of his life, only one of many labels he wore, so he didn't see why he should emphasise it.
Which… yes, is technically true, as far as it goes. The thing is, this stance is to me a major cop-out. It ignores the politics of gender and sex, and ignores the reality that all of these labels—gay, straight, bi, queer, etc—are already loaded with cultural baggage; I have a hard time seeing how you can easily separate your sex life from your life in general. It sounds more like something out of the Log Cabin Republican songbook than anything else.
The other worrying viewpoint shared by many of these men is a seemingly clear idea of what "masculinity" really is. One said that it was about integrity; another, about protection (ie: protecting your partner or other people); another, about discipline. But all of these fine virtues are either linked to masculinity in some specific cultures (like mainstream white North American) or could be applied to all people everywhere, men or women! Do women not get to have integrity? Are women not allowed to be protective?
The impression I'm getting from these interviews is that these "masculine" men have internalised quite a lot of mainstream (heterosexual) culture's criteria of masculinity: namely, that masculinity is an ideal that must be striven for, and that it means discipline, control, competition, and something to prove—maybe competition with other men, certainly competition with yourself.
And above all, "masculinity" means "non-femininity." Several times the interviewees told about being uncomfortable in mainstream gay culture, with its obsession with pop culture, fashion and shallow beauty, and preferring manly pursuits like rugby and drinking with the lads. Hey, fair enough: I don't like the club scene much, am mostly indifferent to Lady Gaga, might be described as "fashion-impaired," and absolutely love playing volleyball with the VGVA. I think it's great that there are spaces in the gay community for sports and related activities. But that doesn't mean I'll agree with guys like Jack Malebranche, author of Androphilia: Rejecting the Gay Identity, Reclaiming Masculinity. He was interviewed in the movie, and his position is… well, the title pretty much says it all. The gay community has placed too much emphasis on the feminine, and that needs to change. Just how we should change, and what our alternatives are, he didn't make clear in the interview, and I'm not buying the book just to find out.
I see The Butch Factor as an homage to the wide variety of gay men who define and redefine masculinity every day.
But in spite of the title, the movie does give a voice to non-butch men; those who could never pass for straight, who were taunted and abused in school, and who came out the other side with a perspective and empathy that their manlier brothers seem to lack. And a certain toughness, too. The masculine men mentioned a few times that masculinity does not equal toughness, and that a drag queen can be just as tough as the most straight-acting bodybuilder.
I see The Butch Factor as an homage not to masculinity, but to the wide variety of gay men who define and redefine masculinity every day, though it took a pretty odd path to get there. And maybe as a critique of the gay community as a whole: as disjointed as the documentary was, with academic gays vs. blue-collar gays, butch vs. nellie, you might see it as a reflection of our community itself. It's true that we split ourselves off in sub-communities (though I question whether we have it worse now than a generation ago); it's true that there are gay men who are uncomfortable with drag queens or any amount of gender bending; it's probably true that the current mainstream porn look (big muscles, hairless bodies, more youthful appearance) is a reaction to the AIDS epidemic.
What's the bottom line? Maybe there isn't one, apart from the aforementioned "don't worry too much about labels, just live your life as best you can." If so, you could question whether the whole documentary was really useful, if all these interviews and talking heads were just leading up to this. I think it was, if only to highlight just how many strong opinions there are out there. That alone makes it a worthy entry in the Queer Film Fest.
Author Nicolas DemersPosted on 16 August 2010 14 August 2015 Categories CultureTags Movies, Political, Queer, Reviews, Vancouver Queer Film Festival
Pride Movie Night
This event, part of Vancouver Pride Week, and taking place on July 29th, featured two excellent—and locally-made!—documentaries.
she's a boy i knew
This film by Gwen Haworth chronicles her transition from male to female over the course of several years. It uses her own narration, as well as interviews with her parents, sisters and ex-wife along with old photos and home movies of her family, to weave a brutally honest and moving story. She takes us through every step of her (complex, often frustrating) transition process and, without judging, lets her loved ones express their feelings and concerns, in their own words.
The movie's message (at least, what I got from it) is that finding and accepting yourself is hard work, but definitely worth it in the end. It looks like Gwen is now closer to her parents and siblings than she had ever been as Steven. And her mother was there with her at the screening. How awesome is that?
Beyond Gay: The Politics of Pride
I love this flag, no matter how many tchotchkes it's been made into
These are the words of Ken Coolen, current President of the Vancouver Pride Society, in this documentary on Pride movements around the world: Vancouver (yay!), Toronto, New York, Sao Paulo, Warsaw and Moscow. It brings home the fact that while we've got it easy in Vancouver (and Toronto, and New York, and…) there are many parts of the world where waving a rainbow flag runs a real risk of getting you beat up, or worse. There are 70 countries where homosexuality is illegal, including a few carrying the death penalty.
Even when it doesn't, things aren't exactly rosy. Warsaw's parade attracts a couple of thousand people (as of 2007), and at least that many police officers, to protect them from some really scary (nationalist/hard-right Catholic) protesters. Moscow has similar anti-gay forces, except that their parades are illegal. Mayor Lushkov has consistently denied Moscow Pride a parade permit, which forces them to sneak about and perform quick public actions (though with lots of media present). Things are changing, though. The police still does arrest marchers, but they're not as rough and don't detain arrestees as long. So that's progress, and it's thanks to a few score incredibly brave, incredibly stubborn individuals.
A couple of segments looked back on our history: Ken interviewed one participant of the Stonewall Riots, as well as Gilbert Baker (creator of the rainbow flag, and one of three Grand Marshalls in our 2008 parade). It's easy to think that the old queer revolutionary spirit is gone, what with the relentless partying around Pride Week, the massive sponsorship and commercialisation. But no, it's not gone: witness the hilarious (and unofficial) New York Drag March, witness InterPride, where Ken initially connected with many of the people we saw in this film; witness efforts in Vancouver events to put our rights and privileges in perspective, with (e.g.) posters on Vancouver/Canadian queer history at the Pride Picnic, as well as a map showing how queers are treated worldwide.
And it's easy to think that these parades are pretty pointless, except as huge parties and billboards for corporations eager to court the queer dollar. But hey, there's more to Pride than this. It's about visibility, and empowerment, and connection. Ken argues that Pride marches/parades are not the end, but a step on the road to true equality and human rights. And that the rainbow flag—overexposed though it is, maybe—has meaning, beyond just a pretty pattern to put on your bath towel.
I'm not as cynical as I used to be, back when I stayed away from the parade altogether. But even when I went back to watch, and later participate, I think I was missing something, and now I know what it is: a sense of perspective. About where Vancouver Pride fits in the grand scheme of things, and how yours truly, with VGVA, fits in Vancouver Pride. Food for thought, definitely. And, a renewed belief in the value of the parade.
Nikolai Alekseev, founder of Moscow Pride, was one of the special guests at the screening, and will be one of this year's parade Grand Marshalls. After the screening I plunked down $5 for a lovely Moscow Pride '06 keychain (which they were selling to raise funds). It's the least I can do; gawd knows it's not like they've got corporate sponsors!
Author Nicolas DemersPosted on 1 August 2010 20 June 2013 Categories CultureTags Movies, Political, Pride, Queer
You Can't Take The Sky From Me
Hey, who'd have thought I'd be back at the planetarium so soon?
This Saturday I went to Can't Stop The Serenity, a fundraiser by the BC Browncoats to benefit Equality Now and the BC Women's Hospital & Health Centre.
This Saturday I went to Can't Stop The Serenity, a fundraiser by the BC Browncoats to benefit Equality Now and the BC Women's Hospital & Health Centre. There was a silent auction, an evil laughs contest, and a whole lot of Whedon- and Firefly-related things to watch. Including a few costumes, though not as many as I expected. There was a fair number of Jayne hats, a group of three people (including at least one girl) dressed as cowboys (i.e.: Bad Horse's chorus), and one woman dressed like a Vulcan in a blue TOS uniform. Huh. Didn't see that coming. But I'll say this for the Firefly/Serenity crowd, they're pretty ecumenical. The auction items ranged all over the sci-fi spectrum, from an awesome foot-high plush Dalek to signed Stargate: Atlantis posters.
First up was Dr. Horrible's Sing-Along Blog. I actually hadn't watched it in its entirety in a long time, which is a shame because it's a damn good story with damn good songs. (Usually I just watch "Brand New Day" because it's catchy and evil Neil Patrick Harris is fucking sexy. Well, sexier.)
Browncoats: Redemption is a fan-made film set shortly after the events of Serenity, and starring the crew of yet another freelance transport. It's got a neat plot, so-so acting, and crappy special effects, but hey, I'm not going to make a big deal about that.
We also watched Whedon's acceptance speech, from when he received an award from Equality Now ("Honoring Men on the Front Line") back in 2006. And… okay, I'm going to be contrary here, but this is what I think:
Whedon isn't all that. There, I said it.
Oh, don't get me wrong, he's done some good TV. I love Buffy (well, mostly the first 3 seasons, though it only started sucking in seasons 6 and 7) and quite liked Angel though I kind of lost interest about halfway through. Firefly is hella fun, though there's a lot more style than substance. And I fucking adore Dr. Horrible. (Never watched Dollhouse.)
But his Equality Now acceptance speech really got my dander up. The way he went on and on about creating strong female characters seemed incredibly smug and self-congratulatory. Buffy is strong, yes, in that she can beat up any living creature and most nonliving ones. But when you get right down to it I don't see how that makes her really special, or even especially feminist. It certainly doesn't make her revolutionary, because William Moulton Marston has Whedon beat by 50 years.
Not to mention that whatever character development Buffy had was absolutely demolished in the later seasons, what with her creepily abusive relationship with Spike, turning into a one-dimensional cold bitch to the Potential Slayers, Brother Caleb's over-the-top (and not in a good way) misogyny, and here's the kicker: discovering that Slayer power really came from primordial male wizards, who created the original Slayer in a weird act of magical borderline rape. Wow, way to crap on seven years' worth of female-centered mythos there, Joss.
The only comparable characters (that I know of) in his other shows are the badass warrior Zoe, and—here's a better match—River, who rather like Buffy is a small, harmless-looking girl that had her powers thrust upon her against her will (in this case, nasty medical experiments). Huh. Never saw that pattern before.
No, I don't think Whedon was trying to make any kind of statement with Buffy, or any of his later characters. I think he just lucked into a character that (with great writing and a fine supporting cast) got picked up as a feminist icon. That said, I'll give him props for:
Being a feminist man, and using his fame to campaign for women's equality. It is a big deal, in real life as well as fiction.
Being brutally honest. In his speech, one of his many answers to "Why do you always write these strong women characters?" was "because it's hot". (Incidentally, Marston's bondage fetish formed a big part of the early Wonder Woman mythos).
Writing at least one series with something close to gender parity. Of Firefly's 9 main characters, 4 are women. Actually, since the two who died in Serenity were men, that brings us to a female majority. A nice variety of characters, too, from the hardened warrior to the sweet wrench-wielding nerd to the crazy psychic dancing timebomb, to the—oh, let's be honest, Inara is 100% fetish fuel.
Well, enough contrariness. Sorry, had to get that off my chest. I really did have a great time Saturday, and I'll be sure to go next year.
Author Nicolas DemersPosted on 29 June 2010 19 June 2013 Categories CultureTags Movies, Political, Science-Fiction, TV1 Comment on You Can't Take The Sky From Me