If you've lost too much weight, aren't getting proper sleep, or are suffering other deep and prolonged symptoms of grief, you may need to get outside help. If you want to get over your loss and can't, then it's time to ask for help. At some point they'll no longer want to hear you go over and over the same emotional territory, and even if they want to be there for you, they'll feel bad because they won't know how to help you.Grief counselors can help you come to terms with your loss.He is a lovely man...kind, generous, thoughtful, and I love him dearly.
He is very close to his late wife's family and they celebrate her birthday and death every year.After You – by actress Natascha Mc Elhone All at Sea – by Guardian journalist Decca Aitkenhead All in the End is Harvest: An Anthology for Those Who Grieve from Darton, Longman & Todd Death and how to survive it – by Merry Widow author Kate Boydell Green Widow – written by former WAY chairman Rachel Green to help those widowed while pregnant If there's anything I can do...How to help someone who has been bereaved – written by another former WAY Chairman, Caroline Doughty I'm grieving as fast as I can – How Young Widows and Widowers can cope and heal – by Linda Feinberg It's Not Raining Daddy, It's Happy – by Life as a Widower blogger Benjamin Brooks-Dutton Just Carry on Breathing: A Year Surviving Suicide and Widowhood – by blogger and WAY member Gary Marson Life After You – by writer, Wife After Death blogger and former WAY member Lucie Brownlee Living on the Seabed – A memoir of love, life and survival – by former WAY patron Lindsay Nicholson Song of the Sea – by Jane Dolby, who set up a choir after her husband died at sea The Sad Book – by poet Michael Rosen, who lost his son (excellent for both adults and children) The Year of Magical Thinking – by American writer Joan Didion When Bad Things Happen in Good Bikinis – by the late, great Helen Bailey, who used to blog at Planet Grief and was also a member of WAY Winter Grief, Summer Grace (Returning to Life after a Loved One Dies) – by James Miller Always and forever by Alan Durant Badger's Parting Gifts by Susan Varley Beyond the Rough Rock – this is a Winston's Wish publication for children who have lost a parent to suicide Is Daddy Coming Back in a Minute?Still, even for the motivated widow or widower, there's a good chance that reentering the dating market may feel like infidelity, or even betrayal.A deceased spouse may have even given specific permission and encouragement for her partner to love again after she's gone, and yet doing so still feels wrong to the surviving spouse.