A possible cause could be Dyspareunia.
A pelvic exam might be needed to duplicate the symptoms you are experiencing.
Elevated Lipase can be a concern for pancreatitis.
If you are having the above symptoms, chestpain, palpitations, its always best to get thoroughly evaluated either by your doctor or through the ER. The above symptoms can very well be related to a Cardiac event.
High stress increases the probability of Heart attacks and strokes.
You made need a different antibiotic if UTI remains.
See urologist or uro-gynecologist if incontinence continues after UTI successfully treated.