Sorrow Unto LIFE! (versus sorrow unto death) – HIS Great Love!
Thanks for joining me today! How are you? I pray you are GROWING in your intimacy with KING YESHUA through talking/listening to Him, studying His HOLY SPIRIT'S Word, obeying Him, and resting in GOD'S Presence!
Speaking of GOD'S Presence, this post is about what PAPA Taught me on TUE 1 OCT 2013 (and is continuing to Teach me) about honoring and respecting others. A painful (and not pretty) lesson, but an extremely necessary one. Read on, you'll see!
I blew it relationally with my Adopted Mom last night – ugh!
Thankfully, she expressed her feelings before we parted company, and I apologized and asked for her forgiveness.
But PAPA knew I needed to recognize some SERIOUSLY harmful behavior patterns (in recovery language it's called, "character defects"). He also wanted me to be willing to make some changes; hence, this post.
The second choice I made was to stop and talk with a friend — even though I KNEW I was committed to be elsewhere by a certain time.
After I chose the delay over honoring my Mom, I whined to her on the phone about how important that package was (I told you this wasn't pretty!). So even though she was completely exhausted and needed to go home immediately, I whined some more. (I'm calling it whining, because whining is NOT honorable or respectful.) More attempting to convince Mom through whining.
I cried, but only because I felt bad about my Mom being so tired. That's called sorrow unto death — or ungodly sorrow (a.k.a., being sorry I "got caught").
When we met so she could give me the package, I was still convinced in my self-centered thinking, that if I could just show Mom how SPECIAL the Bible was to me, then surely she wouldn't be upset with me any more.
I had dishonored and disrespected my Mom's time and energy by making a second choice (talking with a friend) — AND — I didn't want to accept the consequences (not having the package that night).
So although I apologized and asked for forgiveness, it wasn't until after Mom left (with no rejoicing about my special Bible), that I sat in my car and bawled my eyes out. But this time I cried because I was beginning to "get it." I had harmed my Mom, which also meant I had harmed our relationship. I was beginning to experience sorrow unto LIFE — HalleluYAH!!!
That's when PAPA reminded me of what my first recovery therapist taught me about two choices. How it's INSANE to make two choices and, in order to be SANE, I would need to choose One Thing. Make One Choice.
So, this blog is the first fruits of repentance. Owning my stuff in a public forum so that my harmful behavior patterns are no longer a secret. Instead, my "two choices" and "refusing to own my responsibility" are out in KING YESHUA'S Light where transformation occurs! HalleluYAH!!!!!!!
Thanks for listening, Precious Readers, and PAPA'S Blessings on you and all of yours!
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