When searching for a Mistress decide what you are looking for. This may be a particular fetish, service or the personal style of the Mistress. Be sure to know your slave-self; the costs in life that you are willing to pay in order to offer service may be an individual session fee, you may seek a Lady wishing to have a personal expense covered on a regular basis or you may grow to offer longer-term servitude. By knowing what you want the slave may seek a Mistress that could be interested in the slave's potential to serve.
and put the time in to seek a Mistress that both interests and inspires you. Take care to read the information provided by each Mistress. It is published for good reasons, to assist the Mistress and the slave, it is disrespectful to ignore any communication provided by a Mistress.