I'm a teacher at a high school and I'm really attracted to one of my students. How can I approach her to ask her out on a date?
I'm a teacher at a high school and I'm really attracted to one of my students. How can I approach her to ask her out on a date?
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If you want to date one of your students, it's best to approach the situation very carefully. Begin by expressing a general appreciation for the student's work or talent and then gradually shift the conversation to discussing activities you could do together outside of class, e.g. "It seems like you really enjoy singing. Have you ever thought about taking some singing lessons? We could look into some local classes if you’re interested." Aside from sounding sincere and conveying a desire to spend time together outside of a professional context, this gives you an excuse to contact the student and plan a date. It might help to include an older friend or colleague as an additional chaperone, in case your date and her parents are uncomfortable with the situation. Remember to respect your student's boundaries—if the student says no, you should respect their decision.
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