i don't want to argue with you. Don't fucking use the t-word. It's a fucking slur. I don't care if you totally meant it well. 

You don't get to use it. I don't care what trans person says it's ok. It's ok for them to say it because they're trans. 

If you're trans? Then don't fucking call me it. Use it for yourself if you want, i don't care. 