What am I suppose to say to him? He wont change his mind. I mean, he has no power over us as we are finacially independent etc. But I still fear him, he is so overpowering, and I dont wanna fracture relationships with the rest of my family. 


The mindset pisses me off, yet unless we cut him.out of our lives arent I letting him win everytime my wife goes go see them with me? 