Or maybe, *maybe*, it's honestly not as big a deal to men?  I know when you use the word **RAPE** it's hard to think that maybe it's not as bad for many men as it is for many women, but all empirical evidence seems to point that way.

*Why* do most men seem to not think it's that bad?  I don't know.  Should we desire to change this mentality?  I don't know.  But let's not deny that it exists.