Nah, my comment wasnt rude. Using words like "shit" to describe what SHOULD be one of the most amazing moments of your life is crass and disrespectful to what should be a sacred night. 

ex; I gave birthday to my baby boy, that shit was cray. &lt;- Thats not cool.

I did nothing wrong. I asked a question. I get told to shut up, called an asshole and downvoted into oblivion.