it's not about opinions. it's about realities. 

he's not into masc dudes.  he's a self-hating gay man with no balls.

you're clearly aspiring to be just like him. just remember, won't make your dad any less ashamed of you.

calling me a "femtard" won't mend your family relationships.  and now you can pretend that your family accepts you.  keep lying to yourself. won't fix your life. :D