<|begin_of_text|><|start_header_id|>system<|end_header_id|>What is the effect of seeming both tough and tender?<|eot_id|><|start_header_id|>user<|end_header_id|><|eot_id|><|start_header_id|>assistant<|end_header_id|>It suggests depth of character and a mix of appealing qualities, making the target want to know more.<|eot_id|>