<|begin_of_text|><|start_header_id|>system<|end_header_id|>What is the advantage of appearing to be an object of desire?<|eot_id|><|start_header_id|>user<|end_header_id|><|eot_id|><|start_header_id|>assistant<|end_header_id|>It triggers the target's competitive instincts and makes them work harder to gain your attention and affection.<|eot_id|>