Guidance requested for vector dot product question. Helping my child out with their year 11 exam preparation, specifically vectors and dot products, I think I may have figured out the answer but I'd like to get some confirmation or, more likely, a short sharp shock of education :-)
Keep in mind it's some thirty-plus years since I've had to tackle this stuff. The question is phrased thus:

If vector a is perpendicular to vector b-a, which of the following are necessarily true?
  1) a.(b-a) = 0
  2) a.b = a.a
  3) a = b
  4) a.b = |a|2

The ones they stated as necessarily true were all but 3.
So here is my reasoning. Consider the vectors as follows. If b-a is perpendicular, then the b vector must be like this (although the triangle could of course be oriented in other ways):
      /|
     / |
    /  |
 b /   | b-a
  /    |
 /     |
/______|
   a

Now, obviously, item 1 is true because the dot product is |a||b-a|cosθ, where θ = 90 hence cosθ = 0.
In terms of the other three statements, I used Pythagoras on the magnitudes to work out:
$${b^2} = {a^2} + {(b-a)^2}$$
$${b^2} = {a^2} + {b^2 -2ab + a^2}$$
$${b^2} = {2a^2} + {b^2 -2ab}$$
$${2a^2} = {2ab}$$
$${a} = {b}$$
So it appears the magnitude of a and b is the same. That would, of course, mean the triangle is not so much a triangle as two congruent lines. This would explain why items 2 and 4 were true - b-a becomes a zero-length vector which I suppose could be considered perpendicular to a.
But the only reason why I can think that item 3 could be false is if that zero-length vector may corrupt things. The other three statements deal with magnitudes only but it may be that that a zero-length vector may be rewritten as zero units north or zero units west, and they may be considered different.
Other than that, I'm not sure why item 3 would not be true as well. Of course, it's quite possible that I've made some mistake in the reasoning above, in which case I'd appreciate some guidance so I can once again become a hero to my son :-)

I don't know what your son is supposed to know about the dot product... which is critical for the answer.
However if he knows that dot product is distributive vs. addition then $$a \cdot (b-a) = a \cdot b - a \cdot a=0.$$
Therefore 2. is clear and 4. also as $a \cdot a = \vert a \vert^2$.
