Characterization of the isomorphic semidirect products Let $A$ and $G$ be two finite abelian groups and let $\alpha$, $\beta:G\rightarrow{\rm Aut}(A)$. Suppose that $\alpha (G)$ and $\beta (G)$ are conjugate subgroups of ${\rm Aut}(A)$. Are the semidirect products $A\rtimes _{\alpha }G$ and $A\rtimes _{\beta }G$ isomorphic?
I know that this is true for a finite cyclic group $G$ but I don't what to do if $G$ is a finite non-cyclic Abelian group. I think the answer is usually no, so I will be thankful if someone provides me a counterexample.
Thank you in advance.

If we assume only that the images of $\alpha$ and $\beta$ are conjugate in $\mathrm{Aut}(A)$, then the answer is no.  Let $A = C_3$ and $G = C_4 \times C_2$, and consider two surjective homomorphisms $\alpha, \beta:  G \to \mathrm{Aut}(A) \cong C_2$ with kernels isomorphic to $C_4$ and $C_2 \times C_2$ respectively.  Then each of the two resulting semidirect products has a unique Sylow 3-subgroup $A$, whose centralizer is $A \times \ker \alpha$ or $A \times \ker \beta$ respectively.  These subgroups are non-isomorphic, so the semidirect products are as well.  Concretely:
$$A \rtimes_{\alpha} G \cong C_4 \times (C_3 \rtimes C_2) \cong C_4 \times S_3, \text{ while} $$
$$A \rtimes_{\beta} G \cong C_2 \times (C_3 \rtimes C_4) \cong C_2 \times \mathrm{Dic}_{12},$$
where both semidirect products above are given by the unique nontrivial actions.
