two models of ZFC such that there is a isomorphism between their ordinals if two models of ZFC have  their ordinals isomorphic then there is a isomorphism between their constructibles?

The answer is no.
It's not hard to show - similarly to the situation with respect to PA - that if $M$ is a countable model of ZFC such that $\omega^M$ is non-well-founded, then $ON^M$ has ordertype $(\omega+\zeta\cdot\eta)\cdot(1+\eta)$, where $\zeta$ and $\eta$ represent the ordertypes of $\mathbb{Z}$ and $\mathbb{Q}$ respectively.
In particular, this means:

If $M, N$ are countable models of ZFC with illfounded natural numbers, then $ON^M$ and $ON^N$ are isomorphic.

So now let $p$ be any sentence independent of ZFC+V=L (which exists by Goedel), and let $M, N$ be countable models of ZFC+V=L with illfounded natural numbers such that $M\models p$ and $N\models\neg p$ (which exist by Compactness + Lowenheim-Skolem). Then $ON^M\cong ON^N$ but $L^M=M\not\cong N=L^N$.

Even if we restrict attention to $\omega$-models the answer is no, as long as we allow ill-founded $\omega$-models. This is a bit more complicated - there are lots of ordertypes of ordinals in countable $\omega$-models of ZFC - but can still be handled similarly to the above.
Namely, any theory extending $ZFC$ has a model whose ordinals have ordertype $$\omega_1^{CK}+\omega_1^{CK}\cdot\eta,$$ where $\omega_1^{CK}$ is the first nonrecursive ordinal; the ordertype above is called the Harrison order and is a standard counterexample in computable structure theory. So, again, pick a sentence $p$ which is true in some $\omega$-models of ZFC+V=L and false in others (e.g. "There is an inaccessible cardinal"), and let $M, N$ be countable models of $ZFC+V=L$ whose ordinals each have ordertype the Harrison order, and $M\models p$ but $N\models\neg p$.

Finally, if we restrict attention to well-founded models, the answer is yes - if $M, N$ are transitive models with $ON^M=ON^N$, then by induction on $\alpha$ we have $L_\alpha^{M}=L_\alpha^N$ for every $\alpha\in ON^M$.
