Counting to 21 game - strategy? In a game players take turns saying up to 3 numbers (starting at 1 and working their way up) and who every says 21 is eliminated. So we may have a situation like the following for 3 players:

Player 1: 1,2
Player 2: 3,4,5
Player 3: 6
Player 1: 7,8,9
Player 2:10,11
Player 3:13,14,15
Player 1: 16,17,18
Player 2: 19,20

In which case Player $3$ would have to say $21$ and thus would be eliminated from the game. Player $1$ and $2$ would then face each other.
In the case of a two player game, the person who goes second can always win by ensuring the last number they say is a multiple of $4$.
Let us say we are in an $N$ player game, and that I am the $i^{\text{th}}$ player to take my turn. Is there any strategy that I can take to make sure I will stay in the game? For example in the simple case of a $2$ player game the strategy would be 'try to end on a multiple of $4$ and then stay on multiples of $4$'.

You can use a strategy but only by the means on where you stand in the order of people, there is complex maths involved in probabilities but if numbers chosen ($1$-$3$) by each player are randomised then certain positions have a much lower chance of being forced into saying “$20+1$”
This was figured out using a simulation with that all players do not want to be landed on $21$ and therefore I used the assumption of if a player finishes on $17$, the next player will always bust the succeeding player by saying $18$, $19$, $20$ 
Let $1^{st}$ person=$A$,  $2^{nd}$=$B$,  $3^{rd}$=$C$,  $4^{th}$=...
Let first letter be most likely to say $21$ and last be least likely (preferable position)
Number Of Total Players
2=B,A
3=B,A,C
4=C,D,B,A
5=A,B,E,C,D
6=E,F,D,A,C,B
7=D,E,C,F,B,G,A
8=C,D,B,E,A,F,G,H
9=B,C,A,D,I,E,F,H,G
10=A,B,J,C,I,D,E,H,F,G
The more people there are, the more significant the benefits are of choosing a good starting position I.e. with $10$ people if you stand in position G (7th place) you have a $0.01\%$ chance of being chosen in comparison to the worst position A (1st place) with a chance of $31.88\%$
I don’t believe there is much of a pattern other than positions G and H are consistently good places to stand.
[Edit]: After more research as a basic strategy let n be number of people, c be current number before you, and b be the number you go bust/lose (I.e. 21)
Then  if c+2(n-1)>b-3 then choose 3 numbers to say as this will likely cause a bust before it returns to you
