I do not understand why anyone like the boppy for nursing . I be a pretty small woman -lrb- about a size 8 -rrb- and I find that the donut-hole in the middle be so small it buckle in the front when I try to put it around my waist . not only that , but it really need to sit around the hip in order to be low enough to rest the baby on -- and that never work , it just keep ride up to my waist . and because it be so round and puffy , I have to use just as much muscle to keep my baby from roll away from I as I would have to hold he up ! I toss it in the closet and use regular bed and couch pillow instead . also , I could not use it in any chair with arm -lrb- like a rocker or a dining-table chair because the big fat arm of the Boppy get in the way of the arm of the chair .