I never feel comfortable nursing my baby ... physically comfortable . I always feel like he be sit too high or too low to be comfortable . I think there be just no happy medium and that maybe I be do something wrong . after visit my lactation specialist she have a nursing wedge that I use and suddenly it feel so much more relaxing . I be not strain to hold he head in position like I do with the boppy . it be firm and not pillowey where he would sink into it . but I do not want to ditch the boppy so quickly after just buy it so I stick it out for a few more month then eventually just start prop he up with pillow until it feel comfortable . next baby I be get the nursing wedge !