sorry , Peter , but I grow up . actually , it be more than that . wendy be not exactly a feminist , after all , and the Indians be not in any sense native Americans . the joke about they be not the sort that would be acceptable today . and it be too late for the dream of a boy who never grow up . we have hear about `` the Peter Pan syndrome , '' and I even marry one . that be Husband Number three , actually . there be also the fact that it be very much a boy ' story , and for more reason than the unrealistic depiction of female : wendy , Tinkerbell and Tiger Lily . even as a child , I do not see the point to the fake combat against the Indians and the pirate . and I consider Peter impossibly arrogant ; I still do . I would not recommend this to you child and grandchild , unless you be prepare to do a good bit of explain the difference between 1953 and 2012 .