 In 2013 , the notebook alluded to by Kilmer 's son was uncovered by journalist and Kilmer researcher Alex Michelini in Georgetown University 's Lauinger Library in a collection of family papers donated to the university by Kilmer 's granddaughter , Miriam Kilmer . The " Mrs. Henry Mills Alden " to whom the poem was dedicated was Ada Foster Murray Alden ( 1866 – 1936 ) , the mother of Kilmer 's wife , Aline Murray Kilmer ( 1888 – 1941 ) . Alden , a writer , had married Harper 's Magazine editor Henry Mills Alden in 1900 . 
 In 2013 , the notebook alluded to by Kilmer <a href='null_genetive' title='1'><mark>'s</mark></a>son was uncovered by journalist and Kilmer researcher Alex Michelini in Georgetown University <a href='null_genetive' title='2'><mark>'s</mark></a>Lauinger Library in a collection of family papers donated to the university by Kilmer <a href='null_genetive' title='3'><mark>'s</mark></a>granddaughter , Miriam Kilmer . The " Mrs. Henry Mills Alden " to whom the poem was dedicated was Ada Foster Murray Alden ( 1866 – 1936 ) , the mother of Kilmer <a href='null_genetive' title='4'><mark>'s</mark></a>wife , Aline Murray Kilmer ( 1888 – 1941 ) . Alden , a writer , <a href='been_done' title='5'><mark>had</mark></a> married Harper <a href='null_genetive' title='6'><mark>'s</mark></a>Magazine editor Henry Mills Alden in 1900 . 
In 2013 , da notebook alluded to by Kilmer  son was uncovered by journalist and Kilmer researcher Alex Michelini in Georgetown University  Lauinger Library in a collection of family papers donated to the university by Kilmer  granddaughter , Miriam Kilmer . The " Mrs. Henry Mills Alden " to whom tdapoem was dedicated was Ada Foster Murray Alden ( 1866 – 1936 ) , thdaother of Kilmer  wife , Aline Murray Kilmer ( 1888 – 1941 ) . Alden , a writer , done married Harper  Magazine editor Henry Mills Alden in 1900 .