人品、性格、生活习惯、思维方式、三观，哪个才是决定结婚的最重要的软性依据？
Thank you for your question! I believe that all of these factors mentioned above are the most important basis before we get married. Here are the reasons below: When we decide to get married, fine personal character is the first priority we have to take into accounts as an essential part. When someone shows trait like kindness, noble, honesty and transmit the positive energy to this society, they have inner strength to enlighten other people's real heart and full of life! Meanwhile, personal traits will have an effect on their temperament and ways of thinking. Thus, it can lead to our values that we built and life habits we already formed. Ring fastened a ring! Let us use a vivid metaphor as an example, if the personal character and temperament are the main part of the tree trunk, then the personal values and ways of thinking are the essential components of the three branch! These are complement each other and a kind of intergrowth relationship in our human mind. @知乎情感君 @沈奕斐 @李松蔚