哪些看起来不起眼的生活习惯会大大影响婚后生活质量，应该如何在婚前达成共识？
Thank you for your question! There are several unattractive habits that will affect the quality of marriage life. Today I would like to show you in detail and how to reach a consensus before the marriage. First of all, drinking too much alcohol will lead to negative impacts of marriage life obviously! Although I am a non-drinker, it is essential to have a frank communication with my wife. Here is what I am saying, "I can guarantee that I don't like drinking alcohol, that was your first criteria for choosing a partner several years ago. However, if we have the department meal activities or any other special occasions that I have to drink, I will get just a little to express my feeling that I am not good at it"! My wife agree with my opinion and this problem has been solved before our marriage. In addition, exaggerating too much promise is also set a bad example in our marriage life! If you have too much commitment to your partner and do nothing at all, as long as the time goes by, he or she will think that you are a liar and the untrustworthy will appear in a long period of time! Because of this, I only make a commitment to my wife in marriage proposal that I want to seek more income so that we can travel around the world one day, as long as the global pandemic ending completely! This is a practical approach for her and it is not difficult to do it within a few years. What is more, the financial status and family balance sheet should be open and transparency in our marriage life! If you want to conceal your money and never let him or her know in detail, it is inevitable that we have a slight suspicions and increased the insecurity in our life! Due to this situation, we had an agreement before the marriage that both of us know our income and other sources of money information! Finally, I would like to say that no matter what kind of question you have to face before or after the marriage, try to communicate with your partner in a rational way and think of the final solutions commonly and have a mutual respect from each other! @知乎情感君 @沈奕斐 @霜溪不冷 @李松蔚