结婚了你觉得是为家庭活，还是为自己活？
Thank you for your question! First of all, I will give you the direct answer in this question: I want to get married and live for myself, not for the other people obviously! The reason is that if you get married and feel unhappy by yourself as a prerequisite, then the whole marriage life will not be happy as well. Although we can not denying that marriage is the combination of two original families, the future marriage life should be organized and operated by the couples cause only husband and wife who really spend their eternal life together, not for both parents! More importantly, as long as the husband and wife love each other with mutual respect and tolerance, it is beneficial to our both personal growth and family harmony! @知乎情感君 @沈奕斐 @李松蔚