夫妻之间发生矛盾时，很多时候会选择「分开一段时间冷静冷静」，这真的有用吗？
Thank you for your question! It is hard to avoid the contradictions between husband and wife, no matter what the opinions are different, the attitude towards doing things and etc… That happens in almost every single family! However, I don't believe that spend time apart is the best option for solving this problem. If this situation is getting worse and out of control, it can cause serious result like divorce! So how should we figure out this problem properly? It is vital to have instant communication with your partner effectively. There are a numerous of couples arise the arguments and contradictions due to the lack of communication and misunderstand each other. As long as you keep in touch with your partner regularly and handle the problems instantly, the contradictions will not be accumulated and keep peaceful coexistence in your marriage life. More importantly, don't blame to your partner frequently and give him or her an out! At least both of us need to be respected and understood, so that we can get more free space to keep relaxation and relieve the stress. @知乎情感君 @沈奕斐 @李松蔚