Then who should join the conversation but her new husband with perhaps one of the best ways to respond to someone attempting to shame your partner. “I don’t usually respond because Maren can handle herself,” he responds already off to a good start. “But I had a whole response to this based on the fact that usually only dudes leave that shit on here but you’re a woman! Wow!” While shaming people is not gender-specific, it is particularly unfortunate when a woman doesn’t support another woman. He finished his response by hoping that this type of criticism isn’t being perpetuated. “Maybe even a mum, I didn’t check, but I would hope no one ever said something like that to you or maybe your poor, poor daughter, who will probably grow up in a house that tells her that her own body is a bad thing ,” Hurd wrote.