“For a long time, I was really angry for being blindsided,” Bushnell told the magazine. “I was heartbroken. And that resentment and anger affected our relationship much longer than it should have.”Indeed, the engaged pair recently revealed that they are going through couples counselling "I look back at the day we got engaged, and there is a cloud over it, because I really did hurt Lauren," Higgins explained. "Instead of being able to jump into a really happy time, the first few months of our relationship consisted of difficulty and strain.”Bushnell added that, despite the difficulty, she holds no resentment about Higgins' past feelings for Fletcher. Her fiancé insisted that she has nothing to worry about."Even before I proposed to Lauren, my heart was already hers,” he said. “From that moment forward, JoJo didn’t really have a place in my mind. But it was a helpless situation in a world where you are never going to do it right.”Welcome to The Bachelor, guys.