The site also aught up with the couple right before they revealed the sex of their child , which is where Tolbert, again, expressed how much he really wants a boy. "I’m hoping for a boy,” the 30-year-old said, seated next to his wife. “Not that I don’t want a girl, I actually want one of each. It’s just, I’m going to make her keep trying until we have a boy, so I’d like to get it out of the way sooner.”