Of course, Ervin’s comment on his wife’s post was equally sentimental: “I love you, babe. (And I love you, baby).” The dad-to-be shared a sweet message of his own over on his Instagram, too. Next to a photo of the couple holding a sonogram, Ervin said: “To my forever love and my daily inspiration. Happy anniversary @ashleygraham These 9 years have played out like a lifetime. I guess it’s because my life really started once you came into it. Now that we’ve made a life together, let’s make a life together. I love you and I love us. All of us…”