And that's when I cringe. Yes, people of any gender are capable of cheating, but let's not forget that cheating kind of sucks. It's also why most of America was so mad at James in 2010. James deserves to move on from his past relationship mistakes — especially now that he's decided to take a step back from the spotlight to "be a better dad" to his kids — but maybe it's better if he just stops talking about the Bullock thing. Can't put your foot in your mouth if you never open it.