"We talked a lot about the hairpin — a lot. It was a beautiful hair pin, but the reality is that it had ridges on it, so it was actually really hard to get in her hair. We had one made where it was just the top, so that we could push that in and you’d think the whole thing was in the bun. She had to twist it up and push it in, and then we’d just be like, 'Please stay in.' I'd love to never think of that process again."