I told this to Clayman, and what came next can only be described as a catharsis. To be able to unload some of my biggest financial stressors and insecurities to a trained psychotherapist who also is a financial expert was insightful. Clayman was able to tend to the emotions that came up while also offering me tools for how to start to address the problems. "It's a lot of emotional work," she said, as we discussed the fact that financial anxieties don’t just disappear the moment you have some money in a savings account. "The tough thing when it comes to money is that we can always find something to worry about. Because our money is never perfect."