She did, and the duo went public with their relationship in February 2019. At the time, Entertainment Tonight reported that Jessica was 23 , a recent graduate, and had a job selling LED lighting. Everything changed for her when Ben went public with their romance. She suddenly got an influx of followers, and she decided she wanted to do something with her new platform. So she started a blog called Coffee Shop Talks where she shares her story with others and listens to their stories as well. "Coffee Shop Talks is a place for you to be you and to feel loved. So come to this page, know that you are seen and accepted," she wrote on her blog's about page.