So, where is she? Without friending her Friend My Friends, we can't tell you exactly where the singer is, but she is definitely nowhere near that Grammys red carpet, and she's pretty bummed about it. Grande, ever transparent on Twitter, revealed the swirl of emotions she's feeling. "i know i’m not there tonight (trust, i tried and still truly wished it had worked out tbh) and i know i said i try not to put too much weight into these things .... but fuck ....... this is wild and beautiful. thank you so much." She also specifically thanked her collaborator, Pharrell, and asked him to give her a call