The conversation with your landlord will likely involve some back and forth, but you should offer the opening volley and give them an idea of what works for you. Do you specifically need an abatement on your rent, or could a deferral work too? Your landlord will probably be much more open to a deferral, but keep in mind that if you defer for 3 months, for example, you could be on the hook to pay back all those delayed payments at once. Don’t just suggest what you think your landlord will agree to; be honest about what you can really afford right now.