More crucially, it’s important to remember that we don’t have to talk to people that we aren’t attracted to. Stop announcing your prejudice in your bio – nobody is forcing you to fuck anyone. We all need to think about how we talk to one another, because queer people worldwide are more marginalised than ever; the last thing we need is in-fighting within the community to make matters worse. Furthermore, it’s worth remembering that the rights afforded to us in privileged Western countries were fought for by the same communities that the gay community at large still seems so reluctant to embrace. “That’s what these people fail to realise,” explains Young. “The fags and the femmes that came before us, they were the ones that paved the way for us to live with enough freedom to have these apps in the first place.”