Selena Gomez is no longer keeping her feelings to herself, both in the lyrics that appear on her new album Rare , and her explanation of those lyrics, which she gave when sitting down with Apple Music and Genius for a video. The first singles from the Rare era, " Lose You To Love Me " and "Look At Her Now" were surprise windows into the end of her relationship with Justin Bieber, dropping after a long break from music. The title track "Rare," however, is much more about self-love, which is something Gomez admitted to Apple Music and Genius is hard for her to champion. In fact, she often worries about being "alone forever."