"Often they have been either threatened into silence, or silenced because of shame about what happened to them. There's a belief that they should’ve taken care of themselves, shouldn’t have been a victim — which is particularly true of men, because men are socialized to believe they're not victims, and are not supposed to be victims. So, it's an acknowledgment of some kind of de-masculinization if they say they're a sexual assault survivor. Often they say, 'Well I was in charge of it.' If the predator is a woman, they’ll say, 'It was no big deal, I wouldn’t have done it if I didn’t want to.'