Spencer goes on to talk about being teased by boys when she was younger and then, when she reached middle school, finding that the media took over where the boys left off. She writes, "Why was a 13 year old worried about cellulite ??? Because the media told her it was bad. That SHE was bad and needed to change." She says she realized that the problem was not her and she went on a journey of self-love. "The process wasn't quick. I'm still working on it," she says, but, "I had to find a way to be happy."