Amabile, fondly known as Joe The Grocer, was only on Becca Kufrin's season of The Bachelorette for one night before getting sent home , but his good heart and bright smile earned him a place in fans' hearts , which took him all the way to Paradise. There, he got close with Long, who at one point actually said she wasn't sure if she was really in love with him, causing him to leave the show. But by the time the reunion came around, they had made things work, and the rest was history AKA Instagram selfies. But their last picture together was posted earlier this month before they dropped this bombshell: