On a positive note, Vergara shared the advice that she gave a young relative about avoiding that trap-fall. "My niece Daniella, she’s 22, and I tell her it’s not about competing with anyone; just try to be the best that you can," she said. "Try to be the sexiest that you can, the most beautiful as you can." Actually, we have a better idea: Don't worry about being the "sexiest" or "most beautiful" version of yourself. Just be... yourself, full stop.