Well, we're glad you asked, because we tapped our Refinery29 fam to give us the inside scoop on their favorite products and gadgets that helped them through their first few years of motherhood — from a red, gummy-bear-shaped nightlight that helped one mom get back to sleep after midnight breast feedings to Baby Dove Sensitive Moisture Wipes that came in handy in more ways than one. Read on, and tell us your (or your fellow moms') life-changing baby buys in the comments section below.