Regardless, Corinne's plans for approaching future partners is pretty damn smart. "You can never know what it is another person wants, even if they said it outright, when we don't always know ourselves," Marin says. Being on a stage like the Bachelor can obviously skew your perception of what you really want, but still, Marin says you can't go wrong with being yourself. "If you put effort into trying to be a person you think your partner wants, going through that effort will be inauthentic and can be painful to constantly feel like you're acting against, or not in line with, who you are and what you want," she says.