Even though the marriage is not exactly taboo, it can range –depending on the area and family—from being normal, to frowned upon, to being utterly forbidden. 
Hata kama ndoa sio mwiko kabisa, zinaweza kutofautiana kutegemea eneo na familia — kuna familia zinaona ndoa kama kawaida, nyingine zinichukia na nyingine zinaiona kama haramu. .