Or sponsored a girlfriend's trip abroad, away from his community, so she can bear him kids, and when he takes his vacation or study leave, he's welcome abroad by 'his wife' and 'children'? 
Au anayedhamini safari ya rafiki huyo wa kike nje ya nchi, mbali na jamii, ili aweze kumzalia watoto, na pale anapochukua likizo au likizo ya masomo, anakaribishwa huko nje ya nchi na "mke" pamoja na "wanawe"?