Afraid of the fact that I come from a large family, a trait that they think I would use against my husband, they also ironically advised him to find someone ‘closer’ to them. 
Haliogopa ukweli kuwa ninatoka katika familia kubwa kitu ambacho walifikiri ningetumia kwa mme wangu, kwa kejeli walimshauri atafute yeyote kutoka katika ukoo wao.