Abusers target children who can be soft targets, knowing everything about their background and psyche, winning their trust and providing that comfort zone which sometimes a child lacks. 
Hao wanaotesa huwalenga watoto ambao ni shabaha rahisi, huku wakijua kila kitu kuhusu wanapotokea na namna wwanavyofikiri, na kukonga imani ya watoto hao na kuwapa mazingira ya kuwafariji ambayo mara nyingine watoto hao hawanayo.