Statements such as, ‘she is a lesbian because she hasn’t met a real guy yet’ and ‘you need to try it with a man to know what 'real sex' is’ are commonplace. 
Matamko kama vile "yeye ni msagaji kwa kuwa bado hajampata mwanaume wa kweli" na "unapaswa kujaribu mapenzi na mwanaume ili ufahamu 'mapenzi ya kweli' ni yapi' yamekuwa mambo ya kawaida kabisa.