When my partner and I fight, the first words out of her mouth are always “wouldn’t it have been better if you married…?” and then she mentions the name of any Salt-born man. 
Mimi na mchumba tulipofuatilia zaidi, mara kwa mara maneno yaliyokuwa yanatoka kinywani mwa mama yangu yalikuwa “ingekuwa vizuri kama ungeolewa na….?” na kisha alitamka jina la kijana yeyote aliyezaliwa Salt.