Abahlali bakuNombanjana baxelele I'solezwe lesiXhosa ukuba le nkosikazi ibhubhileyo kwakunye nodade wayo , onamashumi amane anesihlanu ( 45 ) , ikhe yaxabana nodade wayo emini ngeCawe , kodwa yaphela lo ngxabano emva kokuba benqandiwe .