La magqabaza aquka : ukwazi inguquko ngokwesini yomntu nendlela azikhethela ukuphila ngayo ngokwesini ; thetha nesikolo okanye iziko ngemeko neemfuno zomntwana wakho , kodwa imvume iphume emntwaneni ; hlonipha ubomi babucala bomntwana wakho ; sukunyanzelisa umntwana ukuba enze izinto ngendlela ethile okanye anxibe ngendlela ethile ;