Kule nyanga yabantu besifazane kugcizelelwa ukuthi kube nokulingana kwabesifazane nabesilisa , kubalulekile ukubheka ukuthi kubaluleke kangakanani ukuthi uma kuba nenkinga yongakwazi ukuthola abantwana aphathwe ngendlela elinganayo kungakhathaleki ukuthi ungowesilisa noma ungowesifazane , " kusho yena .