" Ukuba umuntu omusha esikhungweni sezemfundo ephezulu kunzima ngoba usuke uqala ukuzimela , uqala ukungahlali nabazali , usuke uqala ukuthi kungabikhona umzali okukhumbuza ukuthi ngosuku lokuyohlolwa , usuke sewehlukene nezinye izintombi obujwayele ukuhamba nazo .