Umhlume njengoba wenza nakubantu besilisa uyakwazi ukuqhubeka uhlume nakwezinye izindawo , lapha imbangela isikhathi esiningi kusuke sewukungafikeleli ngokwanele kwegazi kulezo zindawo njengasezinyaweni , imilenze , amadolo , amanyonga neqolo .