Lokhu kuchaza ukuthi wena onenkinga yokuthola abantwana , wena oke wakhulelwa kodwa kwavele kwama nse , wangasazi isizathu , bheka ukuthi iziphi ezinye izimpawu ezisemzimbeni ngaphambi kokuthi ulahle ithemba , okanye uthi kwangena isilwane mhlawumbe imimoya yavala isibeletho .