Ngake ngasho ekuqaleni ngathi indoda iyakushiya noma umnandi , ngasho futhi ukuthi uthando lwakhiwa amagatsha amaningi ahlukahlukene , ayikho into eqinisa uthando ukudlula isimilo inhlonipho , ukuxhumana nokuzwana komoya negazi futhi nifane nabangani .