UManatha uthi ixhoba belihleli neetshomi zalo lisela kule thaveni ngorhatya , iitshomi zexhoba zagoduka , umrhanelwa wacela kwiitshomi ezo ukuba mabayishiye le nkosikazi nesele ilixhoba ngoku kuba esithi uza kuligodusa kanti utsho ukuba eza kulidlwengula .