okhalapo komanso ali ndi mphamvu zopanga malamulo oyendetsera dziko okha umenewu ndiye timati mtendere . Inu simungakhale ndi banja nkumayembekezera kuti wina wake abwere nkumakuuzani zoti muchite ndi momwe mungayendetsere banjalo . Umu ndimo zidalili kalero .