Adachenjeza mayi kuti pali ziwalo zina pathupi zomwe munthu wina tisamamulole kuzigwira ndipo adanenetsa kuti wina atakugwira modabwitsa - kaya ndi malume , mlongo wako kapena mphuzitsi - ukuwe , uthawe nkuwadziwitsa mayi kapena munthu wina wachikulire .