hat you trust your child’s independence when it comes to their capabilities. Whether it be their math homework, their household chores, or just being able to beat a level of their video game, show faith that your child is capable enough to handle it on their own by giving them space to try and accomplish it themselves.
Of course, there may be plenty of times where they do need a hand with their homework, but start with the assumption that they’re capable of handling it themselves and offer to help if they need it, but don’t assume they will.
5. Give them responsibility
As your child is trying to assert themselves as being grown and capable, show them your confidence by assigning them responsibility. This tactic has several benefits; firstly, your child has a chance to feel capable and independent. It’s also a chance to have them direct some of their energy into something constructive, rather than adding more fuel to the chaos and destruction. It’s also a great way to teach work ethic and accountability!
What kind of responsibility you assign to your 6-11 years old child may vary widely based upon your child’s age, temperament, and the needs of your family.
Some great options may be to have your child walk the dog each day when they get home from school, or helping care for their younger siblings in the morning. For older children, you can even have them contribute to the household by preparing a dinner for the whole family. Make this decision with your child.
Last Updated on September 24, 2021