 not be fooled..do not come forward. The state wants women to know their place.Oh Lord Yes. Go home and obey him, this is a catholic country and marriage is for life. The judge has no power according to social services as they tell him what to do. they are extremely good at perjury too. I, for some reason was declared too powerful for a woman and had to be taught my place.I was ordered by social worker/male to jump every time he clicked his fingers.To repeat 3 times how he had the power.If I refused he was going to stitch me up in court. He did, bless him. Why???? because the system was forcing us back into violence and we idd not want it.The children were told they would be dragged by the hair to see him or I would go to prison and they would go to a care home/prison too. All in our lovely secret courts of course.!!!!! I just spoke to Ian Josephs and he explained the amount of money the agencies make from our misery.How lawyers only care about their fee.How evidence suddenly disappears etc, etc. I am in the middle of a book and also writing a play to illustrate this truth to all. I am gagged of course, having been dragged into the judges chambers and having my fingers rapped for taking notes in court.I mean how dare we step out of our box and reclaim our power. Now we could opt for the new safe box= a prison within a prison. The whole experience taught me a lot and I declare 2007 YEAR OF TRUTH to shed light on these gestapo courts that Hitler would be proud of. As a nation we keep copying the British instead of thinking anew when we have the chance. The Government even brought over some British social workers to teach these torture tactics to the irish gobshites and now if you check carefully you will discover that they are in high positione in the various depts. I was told go home or go homeless and we steal your children.I chose homeless/violence free and now my children are grown up with their own jobs and above all freedom and strength of their own at no expence to the state as it even took my childrens allowence away.I was refused maintainance because I refused to go home and obey. This is why abused women do not go all the way in the legal process.It is all a secret though.shhhhhh What message is the system sending out?? VIOLENCE IS REWARDED.!!!!!!!!!!!! Oh, never mind Johnny, we know he bet the shit out of your mum, we know he beat you too. We know he pointed a gun at you but you must now shut up and get into that room and obey us. That gives you all a glimmer of what to expect. Happy new year. I plan to change all that with your help in speaking out and ignoring the gagging order.No one has the right to shut out Truth.!!!!|
|Mixie Posted: 29/12/2006 04:36|
|I don't for the life of me know why women put up with abuse from their partners. Why can't they just get out. What their children see, is more deeply routed in their psyche than any words. Women are not helpless. If a man raised his hand to me or my kids, I would be gone tomorrow. We ban cigerettes but we still have a huge problem with homelessness and alcohol. Isn't it time we took our own destinies into our own hands, if for nothing else but for the mental health of our children?|
|Alice Posted: 02/01/2007 10:03|
|NO Lillith, that is not acceptable treatment for any human being. You do not have to put up with violence. You are entitled to maintenance for your children and a safe home to grow up in and you are not legally (or indeed morally) obliged to obey anyone exept the law of the land and that law prohbits violence to any adult in any circumstances except self defence. Also, no child will be dragged to see a prent they don't want to see - I have personal experience of this. A court will not compel a child to see a violent parent. In fact, judges will prevent a violent father from having access to their child|
|Lillith Posted: 18/01/2007 21:18|
|I also note that social worker asked me to lie and mention the ex good points.I asked what good points and he could find none either, so he said \"well lie about him and tell them he is really ok deep down\" This