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They will be reorganizing life to cope without the dead parent;
returning to their normal round of activities and relationships.
Partnerships have different
stages of happiness. Be careful not to over-glorify or run down your partner. Children need good, realistic memories on which
to build their future.
Your needs are as great as those of your children. Yet, along
with your deep sorrow you must cope with the grief of your children. You are the most important person in their life. To help
cope with the added responsibility, don't be afraid to take up offers of help from family and friends. Exercise and eat well.
Maintain contact with family, friends and support groups who understand your needs. These people can help both you and your
children through the grieving period.
If religion is an important part of your life, share your beliefs
with your children. This may provide them with answers which may help now in the future.