broken at the time. So Y is stuck with X in an unhappy situation.
6 – 0 has 2 ears and 1 mouth, so 0 listens twice as much as speaks. This gained knowledge helps understand what’s going on, and keeps to themselves so when the time is right, all is exposed, and 0 will be there to watch the fireworks.
What to learn from all this?
If you’re X and/or Y (and be actually honest and truthful), you need to find a way to not bite the hand that helps you. Someone goes out on a limb, risking life and lost time to help in a situation that can benefit everyone; there should be a much better situation so everyone comes out ahead. Behaving like this, only shows your true colors at the end, and makes you the fool because what was good is now bad, and recovery might not ever happen. Can X and/or Y be considered toxic? It’s up for debate.
If you’re Y specifically, remember while you have an obligation under certain circumstances, keep in mind that you have to keep peace at the end of the day. Just because you belong to one person, and the other is someone you’ve known for a long time, doesn’t mean to pick sides either. If there’s conflict between you and your other half, resolve that conflict first before trying to resolve conflict between others. Because what will matter the most is who’s there at the end of the day after everything is said and done.
If you’re person 0, staying quiet, and out of the way is the best option. Ignoring the negative behavior only makes people like X and Y go desperate which then exposes the kind of people they really are. Also if you have goals and dreams in mind, keep them regardless of what anyone says. Those who laugh, ridicule, talk down, etc, are the ones who gave up on theirs because they followed what others said instead of going off what they wanted to do, and/or they put themselves in a situation where what they want in life can’t be accomplished because again they made the wrong decisions.
At the end of the day, regardless of what the situation/issue(s) is/are, the biggest take a way is respect for each other. Karma is a real thing; and what goes around, comes around at the wrong time.