 that when they cry, someone comes to give them what they need. This might be a nappy change, a feed or a cuddle. If that happens, baby will learn that the world is a pretty OK place.
When you respond quickly to comfort your crying newborn, your baby might cry less often overall. It’s absolutely fine to pick up your newborn baby when they cry. It helps your baby feel safe and know that you’re nearby.
You can’t spoil a newborn. If your newborn is crying, it’s because they need you to comfort them. If you respond calmly and consistently, it helps your baby learn that the world is a safe and predictable place.
Managing newborn crying: tips
If your baby cries a lot, it can be frustrating, upsetting and overwhelming. It’s OK to take some time out until you feel calmer. Put your baby in a safe place like a cot, or ask someone else to hold your baby for a while.
These ideas might help you and your baby:
Reduce the stimulation around your baby – for example, try sitting with baby in a quiet, dimmed room.
Swaddle or wrap your baby. This can help your baby feel secure.
Hum a gentle, calming tune. Your baby knows your voice and prefers it to other sounds.
Lay your baby on their side in the cot and rhythmically pat their back. Gently turn baby onto their back if they fall asleep.
Try putting in some imaginary earplugs. Let the sound of the crying pass through you, and remind yourself that everything is OK. You’re doing all you can to help your baby.
Take your baby for a walk in the pram or a sling. Movement can sometimes be soothing.
Try playing ‘white noise’ like a fan or the radio tuned to the static between stations. This can help to settle your baby.
See the raisingchildren.net.au illustrated, step-by-step guide to soothing a crying baby.
Colic is when babies cry for no obvious reason and are almost impossible to settle. If you think your baby has colic, it’s a good idea to get a check-up with your GP or paediatrician to rule out medical causes for crying.
When to seek help for newborn behaviour
Dealing with crying gets easier as your newborn learns more about the world and gets better at letting you know what they need. Also, it gets easier to understand your baby’s cues and body language.
No one knows your baby better than you, so if you’re worried about your baby’s crying, talk things through with your GP or child and family health nurse. All children have the right to be safe and protected. Seek help if you feel that you can’t cope or you might hurt your child.
If you have any questions or need advice, we have registered nurses available 24/7 to help you.
Article originally published by raisingchildren.net.au
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