that seem somewhat similar: To exist and to be real. Is there a difference between them?
By definition, nothing exists per se if not present in the present moment.
Its antonym is immaterial, virtual.
This distinction is very important and should help somewhat in the following second step.
Let us use 2 practical examples to differentiate the 2 words
If I pinch my skin I am aware of it because my skin does exist in the current moment and is real because my skin is material with a proven concrete reality. In fact, by using our 5 senses one can confirm that something exists – that is now- and is real or not.
2) B exists; does it mean that B is real? The answer is NO in the following example.
You have a thought. Does this thought exist? Yes of course, because this thought is present in the current moment. But your thought, whatever true or not, is not real because it does not have any material reality.
The distinction between ”what is existing” and “what is real,” sounds purely academic and useless. However its importance is crucial because, by definition, our mind’s world does exist but are immaterial. Our perception, thought, emotion, belief, desire, expectations, memory do exist and maybe true or not but they are not real since lacking concrete reality. So, everything created by our mind 1) does exist if perceived in the current moment, 2) maybe true or not, 3) but is not real per se since being immaterial.
Zen says: “Don’t believe in all your thoughts, just observe them since, despite existing, they are not real”.
In summary and using a very pragmatic and simple approach:
Something exists only in the current moment. It may or may not be real that is with a concrete reality.
Something that is real - material - must exist because of the verb to be is in its present form “IS real” that is now.
An existing state can be real or virtual. A real state always exists
Being aware of what is real and of what is not such as our perceptions, thoughts, beliefs, and emotions is a giant step in discovering your dormant awakening.