When people think I must, I have to, I should, he should, or people have to it can become a problem.It's studied by Cognitive Behavioural Therapy but I don't know the name for this kind of problem.This is the explanation in another language (translated in english): link
What is the word for: I have to do in CBT?
clinical psychology
I've found out that the name given by Albert Ellis is must-urbationhttp://albertellis.org/musturbation-stop-rubbing-wrong-way/ https://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/musturbationThe compulsive insistence that things ought to be a particular way.