it will it'll it'll look good on your resume and you would look good on you lah like your your credential will be higher kind of thing


so <tamil>அதுனால்:athunaal</tamil> , I'm planning that during this PHD of course at the end of the thing you will you will submit your final like thesis and are your state your paper and everything so during that time as well like you also can establish more contacts with like you know professor because you will be working with a closer with a closer level with them so it helps you to really like you know bring you to the scientific community and like an established yourself over there so when you go outside


err I'm actually ah I didn't go talk to professors but as of now I have talked to, err a few of my I I know a few of them like who who are doing their PHD so I I didn't talk to them and then err they are the one who told me that oh that's allowance and all these details


err ya err <tamil>எப்படினு பாக்கனும் அது:eppadinu paakkanum athu</tamil> err ya considering if I should do it directly after my bachelors or give it some time then do, , so it's like so all your modules is online already so you next semester so I'm I'm guessing your modules are all online is it


, is it,


a, [orh] okay okay,


(mmhmm),


this is early, oh one or two, !wow!


, , this this COVID test they do over here is the free boarding COVID test, oh okay, ya and of course they're not gonna trust like cross nation whether you will give properly or something like that


but are you planning to go, , , that is so as of now like they are till then I guess it's gonna be online but say in the situation that you can't go say like oh


I mean like we have not establish or like the letter gets delayed so that semester will still have to start right, then then it'll be online lah


ya, !wah! it's hard lah what to do, (mmhmm) , you just have to sort it out, urgh


as in she said she's actually she's a she's actually she's doing her she's learning <tamil>பரதனாட்டியம்:bharathanaatiyam</tamil> actually so she's learning <tamil>பரதனாட்டியம்:bharathanaatiyam</tamil> in india


ya she she she she did MI actually but ya we use it so after she finish the MI then she wanted to learn classical dance in debt so <tamil>பரதனாட்டியம் கத்துக்கனுனு ஆசபட்டாங்க:bharathanaatiyam kathukanunu aasapattaanga</tamil> then she wanted to learn it properly so she went to india to and told herself in this institution to learn but <tamil>பரதனாட்டியம்:bharathanaatiyam</tamil> so she's learning it now sorry


err ya full time so err I mean because that just is actually like like it's, it's actually like date ya it's something like bachelors in <tamil>பரதனாட்டியம்:bharathanaatiyam</tamil> something like that, ya ya so,


ya, ya ya something like that so she's actually err doing that now but then now again because of COVID you know err india leh <tamil>எந்த:entha</tamil> class <tamil>நடக்கல எல்ல:nadakkala ella</tamil> so as in they suspended ya


so everything's on hold still so right now she no she's back in singapore like back then already when they closed down and everything we've managed to get her back and since she's singaporean right so returning <tamil>பிரச்சன இல்ல:pirachana illa</tamil> err like everything is paid for like COVID testing ah as well as the what is it COVID testing ya call me testing as well as the err accommodation


she could, ya


okay because err his is kind of there were some issues lah like some family issues and stuff then they wanted him they thought that he was going on the wrong track over here


so they thought that you know err might as well just sent him there let him <tamil>வந்த அப்புறம் எப்டினு பாக்கலானு:vantha appuram epdinu paakkalaanu</tamil> so, ah <tamil>இப்ப இப்ப:ippa ippa</tamil> eleventh <tamil>பண்றான்:pandraan</tamil> as in no he was he finish his O levels here err also because he screwed up his O levels here lah but then he could've gone polytechnic or like err say err ya polytechnic ITE or something lah but


then again that were like I said like it seems like he was going on the wrong track so err <tamil>அப்பா:appa</tamil> decided to send him to india to study over there, ya so, sorry


so then <tamil>ஆமா இப்ப படிச்சிட்டு:aamaa ippa padichittu</tamil> but she is beg sorry


he just finished his eleventh standard actually ya so he's doing his twelve his final so after that then he do, ya that's why nowadays did something like online but err ever since online that first started he also not focusing lah he's here back now in singapore


he also came back my sister ever since the lock down there


so then after that then he could travel to singapore then ya now now he's back so <tamil>அக்கா:akkaa</tamil> came first then she stayed in our, even then like when they're here also you will be staying in err different rooms each each person is one room if I'm not wrong, ya


but it's it's pretty good like you know you're paid for everything, and they they they literally go to okay my my sister got to stay in mandarin orchard hotel and then my brother got to stay in some other hotel I forget but all like damn expensive eh like they they had they had a good time there lah like you know normal ah <tamil>போயி நம்ம தங்கனுனா:poyi namma thanganunaa</tamil> like it's damn expensive ya


ya , ah, oh ya ya you how how, , ,


!huh!


, ah ah, wait wait so like you didn't have to do any COVID testing


oh okay lah okay lah make sense, implement that oh ya,


, ya ya, ya ya ya ya


ya ya,


oh shit, ,


to check whether you're around or stuff,


, , err ya ICA ICA the immigration checkpoint authority if you can recall


ah, ah ah, ,


, , Sian lah


, ah ah ah, ah, so mostly you were like chilling out with them in the house lah


ah ya ya ya ya okay okay okay, ya, wait so err how many siblings do you have


oh <tamil>ஒரு அக்கா:oru akkaa</tamil> and yourself lah so two kids lah for your parents, what's your sister doing, oh right right right, external auditor for


she's work she's working as freelance or, ah,


oh okay okay, , not bad not bad how old is your sister, twenty nine oh okay okay


!wow! I didn't know you are actually had an eldest sister I mean, , !wow!


, !wah! not bad I actually have a friend who is actually twenty nine years old as well as but he's err in the sense like he's err he's in university with me now


so err I'm actually per recording <tamil>நடக்கும்மோது நடுவுல:nadakkumothu naduvula</tamil> phone <tamil>வேற அடிச்சான்:vera adichaan</tamil> then I I just cut the call then like to like you know you can adjust the, preset massengers but you can say that oh I'm sorry I'm busy now something like that, ya so I send him that so ya err basically this guy is a


he went through like he was in express O levels but then he screwed up his O levels then err he went to ITE and he went to army then polytechnic and then now he's in university, ya he actually went through a long route but ya it's a in a sense like err


I mean you can tell lah like he didn't give up he eventually made it here on top of that he is also like he play sports very extensively and he's very good at it like he plays for err for clubs like he plays rugby soccer for club, then he is also a swimming coach so weekends he teaches as well


then on top of that err just ya he he plays like guitars err instruments and stuff like that so he's actually like a very talented guy, ya all rounder, ya and he's twenty nine years old is all lie he'll he'll always be saying that all lie


well like you know he he feels like he's old and stuff like !wah! I'm twenty nine and I'm still in university and some more like you know I I'm twenty two so like like you see the age you gap so it's like, at least now and err the thing is because now I I came from army thing about the girls the girls there they are like what two years younger so they are like what twenty


so actually he's like he really can't relate with them he is like oh my god, ya ya, , so generally for now like other than that all your exams finish already right now


so like technically like party mood lah, ,


, , <tamil>ஆமா ஆமா:aamaa aamaa</tamil> eh <tamil>ஆமா எப்டி போயிட்டுடிருக்குது:aamaa epdi poyitturukkuthu</tamil> I do talk to Yokesh once in a while then Yokesh ya


actually he's the one I think he told me at the start as well I I ya


eh <tamil>இல்லடா நா சும்மா:illada naa summa</tamil> tutour ah <tamil>இருக்குறேன்:irukkuraen</tamil> but ya it's both of them they venture into this err ya it's it's it's a it's a good thing lah <tamil>கேள்விப்பட்டேன்:kaelvipattaen</tamil> as in I I am helping out with it as well


and you know guess the best part about it


I didn't take a mathematics at all so ya so I struggled because I didn't take a mathematics so because I screwed up my mathematics in secondary two so after streaming I couldn't take a mathematics so after I finish my O levels when I went to JC right they didn't actually offer me H two mathematics which I need to take to take my physics course right now in university so then I I had to go through a lot of appeals err that was a very torturous time for me then eventually like err it went from mathematics HOD to science HOD to other big people then finally the principal talk to me then he looked at my score overall then he was like okay I will give you a chance we'll let you take it but err anything from here on that you will have to learn it yourself you we won't teach you the syllabus and everything


you get what I mean, so that's how I took H two mathematics then I learn then err ya I manage to get A B for J ah JC lah there's A B C D so B's like the second grade so, for be then ya now in university but back ya it's not like you can't get a for it it's just that <tamil>அப்ப வந்து:appa vanthu</tamil> I was really struggling because I do to learn that cope up with what they're teaching as well and also do other physics modules and I mean other physics err courses geography and other things also


ya but ya eventually <tamil>கிடைச்சிருச்சு பண்ணியாச்சு:kidaichuruchu panniyaachu</tamil> then now I'm teaching right I I think back about the time like oh my god back then I was thinking that this was so hard what ya


ya !wah! some some it's worse you know okay five marks at this not bad some is two marks and they expect two pages of working to marks you know


ya, sad life, what to do, ya actually I can't I can't wait to start working err ya, by the way ah ya ya you know you said about rachel's company right ya ya


you you heard that they set up a branch already now,


eh <tamil>இல்லல்ல:illalla</tamil> as in I previously wasn't using Instagram at all, ya but I just started using this after COVID period, I mean like this is still a COVID period but ya you know, ya nothing better so I was like okay you know what let's just start doing then slowly I started like you know all seeing everything then err <tamil>இப்பதான்:ippathaan</tamil> slow ah <tamil>ஆரம்பிச்சுருக்க:aarambichurukka</tamil> I I never even post the single post yet


!huh!


ah


, (uh huh),


ah, ,


, no lah just be frank as in err because I had the exact same experience but go on


, ya, so I have the exact same scenario in turn like that know


ah <tamil>ஆமா:aamaa</tamil> I gave that he paid me back but everytime he paid me err so he started asking me for all, I I try to stay in touch with him lah because back then in like in all honesty tom was a solid friend lah like he's really one


ya, ,


, , same issue like


err I try to stay in touch with him but I texting like the number of times like april it's the same case as Enro antony daniel lah if you think about it


, , ya, but I wonder why though like he he was


ya, , , (mmhmm)


but then err after that I don't know what happen err ya after is when he went to malaysia and stuff like we got packed with our own stuff I guess, then <tamil>அதுக்கு அப்புறம்:athukku appuram</tamil> just lost in like lost in touch then I tried to in contact for tom also the same thing then after that err


ah <tamil>அப்ப வந்து ஏன்னா:appa vanthu yaennaa</tamil> Eeswan lah <tamil>இருக்கனால:irukkanaala</tamil> sometimes so me and russel we'll just go to have like dinner or just have a like a quick drink like you know what the kind of beer or something like that so <tamil>அப்படி இருக்குமோது நா வந்து:appadi irukkumothu naa vanthu</tamil> tom <tamil>வந்து:vanthu</tamil> like <tamil>நா வந்து:naa vanthu</tamil> message in the group where are you and I'm like <tamil>நாங்க இங்க இருக்குறோம்:naanga inga irukkurom</tamil> or something like that or like you know just like I'll try to call him to see if he picks up


then ya <tamil>அப்பல்லாம் இல்ல:appallaam illa</tamil> sometimes he will reply sometimes he won't reply but ah, basically most of the time he won't reply lah so <tamil>அப்படி இருக்கும்மோது:appadi irukkumothu</tamil> then one one day its during I don't know how come but he replied and things that we were actually having a proper conversation and when he told me that his dad had a heart attack or something


ah so, previously he were studying overseas or something before that then he came back something along those lines I really can't recall the details now


then , ,


, , , ya correct, ya correct,


but err


so recent ah <tamil>இப்ப:ippa</tamil> recent ah owe <tamil>பண்றக்க முன்னாடி வந்து ஒரு தடவ வந்து:pandrakka munaadi vanthu oru thadava vanthu</tamil> he got


we ya we had a cougar cohesion ya we went to drink at a sticky fingers, oh after that we went to eat err korean BBQ or something like that I forgot what was it eh hotpot I think


ya hotpot ya, ya so err


so the last time is you told you know is it like you told him you don't have to it, ,


, ya ya, , oh definitely ya


, , , exactly exactly you know I completely agree with you on that it's it's a bit retarded like


like <tamil>இருக்குது செலவு பண்றேன் இல்லேனா வந்து:irukkuthu selavu pandraen illaenaa</tamil> ya like just go and do your own stuff lah like what what you want to I don't know if in this generation they have this thing called FOMO which there too concerned or about like fear of missing out and stuff like that I mean, ya it's good to be there and stuff but then like it's like they're trying too hard to like especially you can see among millennials they're trying too hard to stay in touch I !ee! something about university lah like group ah <tamil>தான் சுத்துவோம் அப்படிதான்:thaan suthuvom appadithaan</tamil> like <tamil>அது எப்படி சொல்றது அது:athu eppadi solrathu athu</tamil> really you can see that they're trying too hard


like they're trying I don't really like you can say that it's not genuine,


, , , ya exactly I I agree with you ya, I think that's how it's supposed to be lah but err, I don't know is it


<tamil>தெரிலடா:therilada</tamil> I I really don't know what's going on also I I I can't,


, then what do you think about that but ya now now that you mention it it's very possible


, he's a nice guy lah but, not permanently, but anyways ya <tamil>அது தவிர்த்து வேற எது:athu thavirthu vera ethu</tamil> army leh <tamil>எதாவது:ethaavathu</tamil> interesting ah <tamil>போயிட்டிருக்குதா உனக்கு:poyittirukkaathaa unakku</tamil> like from your


as in like your your did you meet up with your platoon or section or something, a, ah ah


!wow! you just set up the house with a lift like the house they have a lift inside, okay okay go on, very expensive sia


he damn rich ah,


, , !wow! interesting, clinic in mount alvernia


where where where is this exactly, !wow!, Ashwin <tamil>வேற:vera</tamil> level


, so you are sweeter I like


, exactly exactly, ,


what does she so he doesn't bring any other indians ah, [orh] okay okay, ,


, interesting interesting, !wah! not bad so you are actually many touch with like from your army ushering platoon


!wah! serious ah, oh really so it still happens in our period


now you can guess how got to be a commander but it's not bad lah is a decent guy, ,


, actually ya you're very right you are very right, you are completely right about that I realise that very strongly after I went to university, in my head I'm like you're, ah, ah


, , , ya


ya you are very right, ah,


, , ya


, solid lah solid,


ya ya PS philip so right, , ah,


, nice lah, ah


just to they make sure that everyone comes like do the like, ah <tamil>எப்படி சொல்றது:eppadi solrathu</tamil> the micro management so they watch everyone make sure nobody escapes or anything like that


Keng ya, ya,


, , not bad not bad actually you all manage to do that I mean, mine is like err !aiyo! <tamil>அவங்கள:avangala</tamil> convince <tamil>பண்றதுகுள்ள என் உயிரு போயிரும்:pandrathukulla en uyiru poyirum</tamil> but true pulse ah okay lah actually ours so we had a few commanders who is slack but okay lah most of them pretty much


like because the OC made it hard for if the commanders were to skip and especially when he knows that they don't have a particular reason for skipping or anything of that sort, so in that sense like err that's that's that's why most of them there but you know like people like Eegi you know Eegi right


I skip one like but in actual fact they also don't do check cheap or signals, he doesn't even know shit sia


err it's actually issac isaac <tamil>வந்து:vanthu</tamil> like towards audit period issac isaac <tamil>வந்து:vanthu</tamil> like <tamil>அவன் அப்ப அப்ப செய்வான் செய்ய மாட்டேனு சொல்லமாட்ட:avan appa appa seivaan seiya maataenu sollamaatta</tamil> but if you ask me what are the ones who really thank right is ian and linus


ya this two, , ,


, , , ah


ah, oh ya ya, , ,


, I know that I was there, ya, ya ya,


(mm), (mm), (mm) (mm)


I have you couldn't you couldn't even talk properly that day also who ideas cut unlucky because of the, he went and made us sit in a defensive, ya okay basically the shop right err my mom goes, so for awhile I've been because during a long time you know I mean I I don't really need to cut my hair short or whatever you know so I thought okay just let it grow


you know then maybe you can try err perming, so in the in the critical colour when about two months ago eh so <tamil>நா வந்து:naa vanthu</tamil> err my birthday time I think august is it, ya all good ya august first I went okay so this one okay this one is partially mine basically okay because as a fucking cheapskate okay <tamil>அந்த அளவுக்கு:antha alavukku</tamil> cheapskate another what I did was first I went to do this barber they're always gonna do in #potong pasir# I don't if you know they open up a new indian barber in obviously the bottom or september or have like all the flower shop


they open up so I went to the guy I cut first, then I went to the to the stylist to the bomb because I thought if I cut the where the stylists do ah over there couldn't be more expensive they tried that a good to my own haircut then you come here


so when I came he said oh sorry bro the guy kind of agree too short, at the side on he cut a bit uneven shot, so if I do now you know you can't really do properly so I said okay when I keep asking him I said, I showed him the picture it can do like this right that you can but now your hair cannot lah because you know many short


as in the sides are a bit short so I said, okay can then our legit grow and come, somewhat about three to four weeks later I went again, err, what is oh he said brother just grew a bit longer brother just a bit longer maybe like one two weeks and that so I like okay


so I grew and that when I went which is when you were there also lah, so when I went there I showed I ohh , I showed that idiot the same picture I said like this can or not, then we see oh actually like this to do or we don't really have the the culr iron lah because this one because the one I showed him


err it's like from the root stuff there are a lot of course, so it's very curly lah like it's not just like one curl that type is is quite curly, so you said oh cannot exactly like this because we don't have the specific curling iron to do this but but can curl


and the thing is that I wasn't going to temporary flooding permanent paying like hundred plus dollar obviously I'm not going to like err take the risk club but, you know


then he said oh need to cut hair also, so <tamil>அதுக்கு:athukku</tamil> he <tamil>புடுங்கு:pudunggu</tamil> about below twenty eight dollars from me, then he ask do you want, then he ask me do you want to wash I said I don't want to wash I just needed to in cut and is it over if after wash wash a bit more smooth


so the thing for this one lah I didn't pay lah I I said no it's okay then then he said okay never mind you just go and wash, so okay I went and wash, then he cut a bit then he curl and then that's when you turned out like some oh my god so nasty


I don't know if you notice but literally didn't wanna stand there and say bye to you I I literally stood behind the door lah so okay by then I just left, 'because it was that horrendous, so I went back home nice to I just wash my hair there was just it was just so useless because he made it stand up with all the spray and all I just wanted to give give a lot of curls that obviously


ah as in like on the process all means the style and all lah but the basic is this is very curly he just curled the top of my hair in the bottom all veru straight so wasn't wasn't what I wanted so then I thought okay lah never mind err I think


you know like for me and for perm or you know like like like unlucky lah ya set eh <tamil>ஆகாது:aagaathu</tamil> is and I just left it but now he's growing a bit too long, the main problem my hair like when I go play football and stuff it's it's coming in from ice so and and and it's really quite annoying enough to keep doing news keep going to keep doing this


so ya that was a bit annoying but ya I don't this my mum only lah my mum all if can she will just go sleep in the shop all, !wah! I didn't know


this curl is very expensive, and almost like err even the err you were saying you know, oh I saw


and like I saw like their card they have a I think for women's for haircut have short medium long, the length right


a where you go lah how often, okay so you going to do it


were nasty lah, there's two or decide actually a hair or, even the #potong pasir# power also a big crowd control budget you can develop a he's about twelve thirty northern normal cannot with a buttery liquid qualified you know best


ya, but , that was the that was the luck with the firm so for now I don't think I'm going to do lah if I kind of just, and that's kind of a hand must sites where


ah I've been wanting to go for very long then I keep postponing persuading because it's so bad like my university started uh last week september end of september lah, ya end september so, obviously at that time I thought okay maybe end october or start of november I can go


then call it also very bad at all, so then why I thought was, ya uh they started they're gonna finish they started err first week november they're gonna interest with december but initially I wanted to go and november december


then lah because a lot of them so I thought okay pushback so maybe not january will now nothing is like err because we're gonna move house, so now this is another problem, ya so but the whole movie of singular happened very quickly lah I'm so in the middle of the day we try to look for one in Kovan but tough because over here because because now because now I think everyone realizes how good this area is Kovan


you know you're right dragged in between Hougang it didn't really I actually think it's it's such a good place, the right smack in between Hougang and Serangoon, very good yours and the thing is that over here don't have a lot of some when you have your supermarket, I could a modern a holiday marketing to cover the glow at you long you lah


but okay never mind so but besides that it's a very good place but, next the Dominos all that so right opposite the church just behind like that err in the lane with the churches


ya as in no as you just opposite the road basically just and punggol nasi lemak event just opposite the road, the church is there, the same lane as a just behind is all a terrace houses so there was one there


we went to look we liked it or not but uh you know they just couldn't come to an agreement with the owner the longer though there were no condition due to negotiate or stuff, so and then now ah the house you're moving to is is at Sengkang west, it's it's uh it's actually closer to #yio chu kang#


it's a near because it's it's on their main road to #yio chu kang# which is like a right at the end of Sengkang west, such as Sengkang <tamil>கூட சொல்லலாமானு தெரில:kooda sollalaamanu therila</tamil> but ya Sengkang west on the way to read but it's very close to #yio chu kang#


, ya so that is gonna probably happened in mid january because, this current house now we have to book it in about two weeks or december we have to work it


but, ya it I said it had all happened very fast with only sold about a month ago only so I think you can kind of estimate how fast it between very fast very fast,


and I also have a HDB at Kovan just where we used to stay but that one also be so lah because, now with the rural if you want to buy a landed, so what we did was sold that also


ya, set of Disney house probably january like that movie, but to move in january now that innovation really has to start lah, you know, so it's the display skull a begonia road I don't know have you heard of it


it's a five minutes from #jalan kayu# garvinus the most famous thing there lor, #jalan kayu# near Seletar model <tamil>அந்த பக்கம்லா:antha pakkamlaa</tamil> lah that's the closest smaller I think I think Seletar mall is a process more, you know convenience wise honestly it's the convenient it's


the nearest ya nearest LRT or #yio chu kang# MRT, ah that day I I took a bus from next to go past the levels was going somewhere else but others other when pass it about exactly twenty minutes bus ride which is


not the not the nearest but not the worst lah it's okay I mean at least there's a direct bus to Serangoon or no


err you know there's a route from bowen that connects to Hougang, bowen secondary <tamil>இருக்குல அதே:irukkulae athae</tamil> road leh <tamil>அப்டே நேரா போய்கிட்டே இருக்கணும் போய்கிட்டே இருந்தா:apdae neraa poikittae irukkanum poikittae irunthaa</tamil> it will come ya


ya so actually, correct it's all ya so that day I drove from from a house there, actually distance wise is very short it's just that <tamil>அந்த:antha</tamil> main road leh <tamil>அத்தன:aththana</tamil> traffic lights <tamil>இருக்கு:irukku</tamil> actually distance wise very fast


well I was to go ya so ya so this institutions about vietnam parking nothing that could, you know they're going like, ya


so so he he's reason is because he feels a it's more of like a financial thing lah he saying that the value of this house is has been constant for very long time or it's slowly dropping because, I I don't know if you seen my area but now there's a lot of houses like mine around me


initially this was the only one that was like that, so <tamil>அதனால வேலயும் குறைச்சிருச்சி:athanaale velayum kurainjiruchi</tamil> and plus a apparently system nicoll extra thailand or some and so it's it's not really your own land is the government's one


focusing their value doesn't really go so, ya ya correct correct <tamil>அந்த மாரி தான் இப்ப வாங்குறது வந்து:antha maari thaan ippa vaanggurathu vanthu</tamil> freehold lah so, so that's a good thing but there there isn't the thing that's because, when we were going to buy this house that enable us we were looking at another house are also in Kovan only lah err Kovan multiple <tamil>அந்த:antha</tamil> side leh


or whatever price it was now the guys are sold it for more times two times three, just the price just goes up there because


freehold so <tamil>அதுக்கு:athukku</tamil> land <tamil>ஓட:oda</tamil> value in the world of because in singapore lah that's the one thing that keeps you give me a prize correct, and in singapore that is was very valuable here land because there isn't much of it, so ya if you have your own linden this the business so I think that's the reason why he wants to he wanted to move


so I remember isn't only after lockdown as in during lockdown, after they finish already then, a lot of people came to see you came to see the current house lah, then ya then finally did as they sold it lah someone


'because around here, my second semester starts in, january like second week january so like uh ideally ideally I would want to go right before that


but, it's very bad there's to go institution very bad but like now is locked down all right during the long drawn out there they are hitting new records for like that's the number of cases all, and the reason why they even had this lockdown is because uh for christmas they want to relax some of the measures


which I don't think is making any difference because even in lockdown on already they are they are a very relax these legal because I've few friends who are there and they're saying that the an economically and they just go out and also then rewarded so if anything christmas after christmas is just going to get even worse it's already very vietnam


christmas time <tamil>ஏனா எவனும் ஒரு மயிரும் புடுங்க மாட்டான்:yaenaa evanum oru mayirum pudungga maataan</tamil> he will just they'll just going to go and do them shit, it's ya so there's a feeling is just gonna be very bad lah


uh, currently you're almost or like okay like once in two weeks one of the module has a on campus seminar


so about ninety percent ninety five percent editing is online just this one class every two weeks but even then they just post like online seminar on err different timing to kind of make up for it, but as in I personally I don't really like online lessons lah


I don't know actually uh at I think some people do I think some people actually like it because they can just do anything from home you know like they don't want to because, but people are different I guess I mean for me like I didn't like the the whole idea of going outside of the glass


you know meeting meeting new people, got a ya no no no fan of ya actually me too may maybe of us in singapore I lived for placing these people are really was the user interface more


so I I think that's you actually think this will maybe maybe once I go to UK maybe when I'm there then maybe I will be like item philip Chia and new ideas for like to be room I don't know maybe


and, and for accommodation, I'm paying also although I'm not staying, ya, you know this is okay if you want you just cancel, the thing is that tend to be we can't really give


we can't me give you a money plus then if I decide to go down then you have to find another house, have to find another accommodation, but currently I chose this university accommodation lah, university leh <tamil>உள்ளது:ullathu</tamil> choose <tamil>பண்ண:panna</tamil> ya so just being but I'm not there lah


but at least so, the worst part of all this is when I went in january I went for foundation sourcing and additional competition different err like you new coalition wasn't the same as this


so <tamil>மீதி எல்லாதியும்:meethi ellaathiyum</tamil> like literally everything else is over that no food utensils everything is over there


ya so everything was there so what happened was I got lucky like one of my there's usually duncan go there her she had some family friend who was being a storage business in in UK, we've just very convenient, so err through him he had been up but lucky there were two of my friends were still single comes into hadn't gone back to their home country so the harmony park


then you get him and collect


(uh huh), but there are and they also said that all my are all my exams for semester two also is going to be online so, ya basically online


but like the whole university experience and all doesn't mean doesn't own a honestly now doesn't mean you don't want to go for the accidents I mean ya I I'm not gonna gonna quit going to university every week but like just like meeting new people and, feeling good lah ya


how were your exams or lenient you just head of going to finish


oh damn okay okay, oh okay, arising


correct, I really like everything, !wah! actually okay ya so I guess maybe not ah you all bit annoyed lah maybe you all prefer home environment for me if I would like it face to face


oh is it, oh, seminar leh <tamil>வந்து:vanthu</tamil> you have to you have to physically be there lah


but I guess the advantage that I feel, that I have when I go face to face lesson is I'm forced to pay attention during that time


but I also don't do okay so obviously part of me is I really don't check my phone <tamil>அப்பே அப்பே:appe appe</tamil> phone check <tamil>பண்றது:pandrathu</tamil> but besides that, , you have the you have the liberty to pause the you write down


so you know so that's the annoying thing, and okay another reason why don't want online is because I have to follow UK timing lessons to medicines I night, okay but night means you not like three for them but like what I have I like I just ate the lesson yesterday tend to eleven then I have some lectures I'm supposed towards at like one to two thirty but I don't so I was the next okay uh okay or or you know like at least I plan to us the next day or half that I'm I don't but like there is essentially that's what religion too long we have to follow the UK time


and I would say the I would say like the good thing we did this at least, the you can watch at your convenience but the bad thing is also that you can watch it or convenience which means that if you will get lazy


so sometimes, sometimes going to the class and you know doing the is a much better lah I feel because them in that one hour lecture you have depression after the is known come


really, okay, ya it's it's nasty it's just in, (uh huh), okay, the second wedded okay err the thing that made me realise how bad singapore university is and I realise they had this thing called bidding concept for modules


ya so the one I've heard that would bidding, the moment I heard bidding I don't know what's going to happen singaporeans they'll probably be they'll promoting a cup of coffee in the morning at six AM waiting for the reading for the portal Dublin they're repeating I I can't really pictures singaporeans there are like that


singaporeans are just very Kiasu they just not see the the thing about them is they just wanna refers to get it whether it's a shit or whether it's a good thing also they don't really care just they want to be the first I want to be the first, ya and the thing is that it's starting slot the moment you the moment you introduced the concept of bidding in it


then then like you know you're doing you're already creating a mindset that some let that like some modules are better than others or you know the some some some subjects are better isn't really gonna help lah because then you gonna see some lesson to overwork whether someone have like one that one teach them they'll be like ones through the oliver you know that kind of thing so


it's very stupid like okay I I think it's awesome thing first come first serve is okay but having the concept of giving credit and asking to beat or you put how much you want for this lesson if you really wanted to I think they are adjusting they are ridiculous lah err I just read you should be ridiculous you know


okay okay okay wait like okay like you don't understand like what do you mean but you have to bid with your friends ah honestly if you meet your friends as in


okay, err okay


okay okay okay okay


!wah! should this associating so basically so basically the cut off point for the for for for the lesson is set by the people who are bidding is not even present,


!wow!, well ya and the worst thing is err okay I don't know is a group of betting but he said that as they don't release all sorts of one correct their first window second reloaded window, and the thing is that the prices so long as you grow up lah it's the windows go down


depending on the because, okay so uh like I'm guessing, , we also we had one optional where we could choose optional module but there was no it was just first first serve so if you've got a london apartment first you'll get it that's also I I just like the like there was a lot better the fact that you don't have this bidding concert


then ya then she will turn out like what modules already, psychology to concern


you know, you know just a closing the WhatsApp from my from my my laptop, ya, Safra and eleanor


oh boy I see a solid because I remember I saw the you were doing err was it last year you did a lot of programmes mature with the indian thing in your university or something, you all did on programmes and all that


a production saudi started production, oh, so it was more of like a like a like a drama kind of thing lah


I'm busy fan hostages typical indian so there's a lot of drama and all fights


oh


then the budget comes from where your own self ah


the receipt rather coming air will refund the like the like that lah


ya that's why it's a really scared level if you after the whole thing finish their like go actually now we change our mind lah we are not too keen on a funding ya lah no Madame hatred their problem, the silent their gift lah so as in like to give like a certain percentage or they or they paid everything like they give you a kind of thing


oh !wow! okay okay, then that's you okay then okay lah then I then inner circle, because of the fact that you're having to pay for year


pamphlet on the mother okay, it was a mirror tiring ah, then what other CCAs, are you in


dance spotlight indian dance, why it just didn't want to


the airline also that's why I say maybe you got tired or something lah


and you know , okay lah okay lah


I ya ya lah if you if you keep doing the same thing especially it's very tiring isn't it it's not like it's you don't have to put in that much effort you have to put in so much of effort, practice, know


then now during lockdown deal like does the CCA they are learning online stuff or or lah nothing much


oh !wow!, oh my god I'm talking about tuition so can last a month as usual I was I was kind of a desperate for money, is there a singer they can wear the country's tuition ah the problem us all finish exam already


so initially I thought you know like who will want tuition after finished but you know Telegram have all this tuition assignments what long as you really had a lot, but, they have two criteria and one is women and one is chinese which I don't fit in any of those categories


it also I mean like okay as much as you know like the fact that you know that like women get discriminated in certain jobs and you know I feel that tuition is one area that they're that they are their superior ones, because for some reason everyone thinks that if I go to the child I'll go and rape the child like I don't know why people think that lah


a couple effect that maybe like I'm indian maybe people are a bit more scared you know maybe because I've bearded or maybe I'll go and kill them I I don't know there are a bit scared, so I time I I used to look at at the unscrew through chinese err prefer female trip ah leng wharf fuck fucking annoying


so I realised I couldn't end but I did apply obviously there were some that were okay there are some that didn't have any requirements and all I applied but I didn't really get, then I went through of my friend, and I found this person and they were living in Hougang only also very me the boy was this year P two


next year going P three so the mom said all I want to err wanted to teaching english and maths lah like okay can then she ask you teach hindi I said then sorry I entrance fee can teach err obviously I'm so okay excellent for english and wrestle


first lesson avoidantly doesn't much either okay first lesson the boy as he doesn't really want to army who divorced tuition would be too you know the you even when I was P two I didn't want, so it's very quiet, you didn't really apply only if I like asking about political question about like one teachings you will answer but if asked why and all no reply he'll just vacantly no reply


so second lesson I went also same second lesson he got a bit worse, because he's really wasn't like no involvement no reply why I keep asking him you know like oh is it because you don't like tuition or you know like are you scared are you tired if you because or is it because life appeared I I usually ask him that you guys are a bit are you scared of that it is and and and he was it yesterday he will just like this


life is our, so the first of all what I the only difference I notice was he was a bit more involved when teaching english math he I think he really couldn't stand it he just doesn't like me, english he was a bit more inclined to ask questions she was a bit more inclined to kind of like wanting to know stuff


so after the one hour method give me five minutes break she came back then english is seem a be better but still learn it wasn't that good lah she replied so I asked him I found ask him easy because you don't like tuition then he yes, then I said do you tell your mum then he's like no then I said you know like you want to live long is it yes I said <tamil>அப்டிலாம் என்னால கிளம்ப முடியாது:apdilaam ennaalae kilambae mudiyaathu</tamil> because your mom is paying me


oh there's a lead taught him, then after the second lesson gonna go to the third lesson amount of me sit oh err, since you cannot commit err beyond december because I said I'm not sure whether I'm in singapore after december I said I might go up might not be here so I said


at least till end december confirm I can come at it and december confirm I'm here january only I might go I said november to december for lucrative nowadays but from their point of view your probably understand they also don't want to just have tuition for two months after that didn't you find some owners where like it's much easier if they have one fixed one and go through with it


so after suggested moms you know after these donate you can just come for the one last lesson third lesson, then after that , I don't need but <tamil>இதுல:ithula</tamil> to collect the money from the twelfth person you can because her english firstly wasn't very good lah okay her english her command of english like it wasn't very good


and for us you know like a hindi in he so so so in that communication also is not really going to occur, so what happened was first started Mumbai asked I just after the first us and I asked her of simple question as it would you prefer to give cash or PayNow she said I will ask my husband and get back to you so you either as if asking her to Laguardia me or something I don't know why she had asked her husband promotional


I see then a few days no reply so I told my mom my mom said oh before you go for the next isn't mixtures you get an answer, 'because I don't wanna go and keep getting then lion asked where the money suddenly english he hindi only then I cannot reply all, so so so uh immediately I asked the I said hi madam or any updates started going back to you


then next one I asked again any of this is it or she said oh no you know lah budget a bit tight so can I give you had like at like the end of the month, but


like, then you know like you ask okay can but of course after their only she said oh third lesson also after third lesson also don't need ready no need to teach, so I so I asked if after that that doesn't if I don't get from her our never give them money from them, so I don't listen to us okay then cannot get the money to a dental okay can then she give cash


so okay but there there's there's only jewish experience and it was so short lived yours is like three lessons only, another point the good conduct us dollar he genuinely genuine need to like, like usually it's really really won't reply and he really will you will just stay into the blank space you


but there lah but he's a kid lah he's a kid she was already going for Kum on he had err to go because and because you know I'm a last okay remember for our school hindhede they thought they are like err like near the carcass the proven whiteboard in front of the toilet some schools some school they didn't have the carcass was indeed


so they have to go every saturday they have to go to hindi school, which is very annoying so asos and so this boy had to do that also says you wanna so he already have risk and it's a it's a half dating you know they start saturday, idiom they finished like a twelve PM so like half your day is gone and using this school so it's anything is it in school during that time you don't have any listen lah but yesterday in school or you can't even go home so it dear dear spending more time


so here already has there than here school mourn so I think he's a sort of elephant mode one so I think that's part of the reason, ya I remember, saint andrew's when I joined, that it was the first year that they were teaching higher tamil in school


because uh because I don't you remember like I remember I had a few cousins in rosyth, one year or the two years or so the guy one year older than me he went to saint andrew's also so for that whole first year because when he went one day before me right they didn't have hired them ah so he had to travel to like Walmart boulevard thrice a week


so she will like I understand ya it's it's really frustrating so ask we're lucky lah the when I entered the school, we already had, allowing the chance you were lucky, so latest ah <tamil>படம்லா என்ன பாத்தியா ஏதாவது:padamlaa enna paathiyaa ethaavathu</tamil> any movies


superb I must say as a brilliant brilliant movie I really liked it


really good, albeit, I okay I was actually going to say, err the fact I'm err okay what I was thinking was the the biggest success of the movie was


they made a topic that doesn't relate to all of us relate either with the movie because okay how how many of us would I sit at home or shit I don't have one rupee do fly in a plane ticket that's in no one is really thinking of their new or another I honestly don't anything people in india now while sitting and thinking of them as a problem


but the fact that it's a problem that, a lot of us cannot relate to the amid us connected the story and intense because I remember then like it it but I've no idea what I actually I don't really where like when I saw the mom come up with the aeroplane or allow us like oh shit, ya but the funny thing is when Arsenal #duan wu# says he went to her no as in like I'm not really like as it isn't it's not a big thing in my life you know whether like whether discipline for one rupiah one dollar like I'm actually not it's not a problem I'm thinking of


started to an okay the other thing which I thought hearts of was I really love the actress like I thought she was amazing, because firstly she had a role which is very light which is very uncommon in you know like in tamil movies


but her role I thought was excellent really good brilliant, ya like I just thought it was really good


you didn't are luckier than watch, #mookuthi amman# #mookuthi amman#, okay that that that was okay there's a universe that one was more of as in not really say story with honors more of like for like our entertainment it was good


I think it's very common in in I I think in india it's it's a massive thing about the way like the added, honestly the way, indians your religion I just think it's really like unhealthy obsession I just feel


I just, again and maybe you will disagree with decent suffered but for me it's it's very simple I just feel that I, okay not think that salaries but I just feel that I don't have to do specifically something for god for god to you know to kind of listen to my prayers isn't really for me


uh you know as in I going to temple because I believe there's I play to him, is it which is why for me right I I mean I follow it but I but I don't really understand I don't understand the concept of you know on in on saturday cannot you cannot even non-vegetarian on monday must fast okay as in


let's see it's err it's like err your personal opinion right like you actually wanted to do it like okay go ahead, I just don't see why I need to stop eating chicken, for like got to do listen to me okay this is another thing so you tell me all of seven days you can eat it six days you chicken one day you don't eat chicken suddenly god will love you !wah! shit does such a big sacrifice


I I don't know as in I I ya I just don't really understand it lah that much, silly ya so I guess ya


correct exactly exactly my point, so so for me, ya, what I like I said again it's a personal opinion lah what I feel is for me what I do is I go to the temple and I pray to him like, and that's also because I want to I believe I wanted to I don't feel like I'm force but of course besides that there's all like this swami like the Swami like Nithyanantha he's all <tamil>வேற:vera</tamil> level <tamil>அவெல்லாம்:avellaam</tamil> is


the fact that he still hasn't been arrested is ah I think it's the biggest achievement in this the fact he's too gets away with with the shit he does, he's a brand he he #swami nithyanantha# is a brand essentially


you know it's really close and some of the things he said the okay I think the most because we don't he was he and some <tamil>கேப்மாரி:kepmaari</tamil> they come up with the way that uh if I give if I give my wealth now to him


settle the girl so, well that's what I've heard of people investing so that they can you know different I've never heard of people investing so that after they die they can literally the is next level


where he will say he say you wherever you are born I will come and find you and I'll give you back that money, no did you just see that group of people who who go and go and like you know like listen him me speak life or all the time they all believe him they think that he really is god


you know they they will him so much, it's a fact sadly though it's it's it's scary but, well that's the truth, oh so another movie that came they put up them the day or the


the Anushka Madhavan movie, okay do you watch it, !wah! you are damn lucky you damn lucky you damn lucky you damn lucky it's the one right just not really like


long it's I really like to kill mother lah basically, okay do you want to know the story did you want to know the story as in I mean if you are if you are never gonna what's the movie again I can tell you it's like if you're going to watch then okay never mind


okay okay so other movie okay, !wah! because okay as reason why I'm so pleased is because I I think the move as a two hour movie of till one hour forty five minutes I actually thought it was a decent movie <tamil>அந்த:antha</tamil> end leh <tamil>ஒரு:oru</tamil> reason <tamil>தந்தான்:thanthaan</tamil> for whatever the reason for whatever happens tonight is the one that I okay so basically movie goes like this err back in like the nineties or it is two people died in that house lah so people only because of where there's a haunted house so coming to present a modern and Anushka they come to the house because like our undergoes a deaf and mute person but she likes to paint are different she likes to paint


and there's this painting in that house in the the haunted house, which and Madhavan his his his her husband he he said okay come let's go and take the painting, which is where he gets killed but like a Anushka as keeps the house so the stories trying to find out what happens


so a little bit you know honest guys she grew up in some orphanage and she has this like a friend with her okay so this friend has a bit of like or obsessive region that in the sense that she doesn't like she doesn't like anyone else becoming friends with Anushka she's the only one who will best friends Anushka like if anyone comes and talks on because she doesn't like


the if if if let's say someone wants you will bring bring honest garden a date she doesn't like I believe that actually went and cut the guy's finger off the rare blot holidays he or she went and cut the guy's hands of all,


then one day what happens is she gets a she gets this letter to say okay you come to I think it will set in US or US or UK I can't remember, okay never mind let's just say US lah so it will set in us and she gets a letter to say that oh she gets a job in this in this like a art museum


no no like Anushka so you see the friend yesterday at the friend is very uh upset that Anushka is leaving along but <tamil>சரி:sari</tamil> okay <tamil>போய் தொலனு விட்டுட்டா:poi tholenu vittuttaa</tamil> so Anushka come, uh she works at US she meets Madhavan and so Madhavan is just err he's a musician


very rich musician he comes to the gallery he ya he sees a painting he falls in love with the same bullshit standard standard shit, so they fall in love, uh after awhile once she has her own house and all she asks her friend from the orphanage to come instead


stay with her in US, but of course the more the friend doesn't like Madhavan, because because because he and Anushka together what so she doesn't like if anyone gets close to Anushka, I'm in that time lah or together with Anushka there's a guy working in the gallery also okay he's just another indian guy working


they're all become close this guy working in the gallery and like the Anushka friend they fall in love so basically it's just two couples lah Anushka and Madhavan Anushka friend and like the guy working with Anushka eh they get together, so <tamil>இப்டி எல்லாம் நடக்கும்போது:pdi ellaam nadakumbothu</tamil> what happens is


then there's a third correct oh shit there's there's this policewoman asked what's the name ah, is it like a Anjali you know if it's fucking like a very like a annoying voice, she comes in err


so err, so the two couples are together and one day I'm this like this like ah Anushka friend, the girl who is obsessed with her tells her oh Madhavan is not a good guy okay Madhavan is not a good guy he's a flirt


I wonder he's going around with like other woman, because of course why should he believes, so so basically this girl she's okay <tamil>நா உனக்கு::naa unakku</tamil> prove <tamil>பண்ணி காட்டுறேன்னு:panni kaatturaenu</tamil> that he is a flirt he is a <tamil>பொம்பல பொருக்கினு:pombala porukkinu</tamil> I'll prove and show so


she starts messaging like Madhavan like really like sexually and stuff and she and she she, she wants to flirt with Madhavan so the Madhavan will flirt back that she can prove to the prove to Anushka that he's a flirt, so then Madhavan will keep saying no I'm I'm not interested in talking to you <tamil>அப்டி அப்டியெல்லாம்:apdi apdiyellaam</tamil> than one final day Madhavan says okay fine I'll meet you and let's talk


so Madhavan brings her to like do some to some old abandoned a guesthouse he has, then you ask and then like uh what happens is like weapons is like uh Anushka follows them to go see what happens, see speaking from outside the abandoned house and first thing he sees this the Madhavan takes a hammer and knocks this girl and kills her


so then like uh Anushka is very she is what the hell what the !huh!, and at this point of time one of the police pool works miller Anjali is the senior police like a white guy lah


so err so you see like Anushka and like Anushka colleague to get very angry lah as in Anushka colleague is own who's who's dating like that dating that friend what, so <tamil>அவங்கலாம்:avanggalaam</tamil> they get very angry they're like oh why the did Madhavan one you know kill her <tamil>அவங்களுக்கு ஒன்னும் புரியல:avanggalukku onnum puriyala</tamil> they very confused


so sketch <tamil>என்னனா:ennanaa</tamil> they're going to bring Madhavan to that haunted house and, the friend this and then err like like the Anushka colleague is going to kill Madhavan then they're going to blame it on the ghost because the house is suddenly hunted


so now so now we forward back to current times, and Anushka and Madhavan come to the house actually the ghost is this Madhavan, it is like Anushka and #anushka#'s colleague who kill Madhavan, basically, no because because of Madhavan killed the friend but they still don't know why mother and kill the friend so <tamil>இப்பதான் பெரிய:ippathaan periya</tamil> twist <tamil>வருது ஒலக மகா:varuthu olaga magaa</tamil> twist uh


so when they go to the house they tie Madhavan and all a bit before they kill him they're asking you know why did you kill her no lah what did she do wrong


she will say oh you know she uh she actually was flirting with you just to prove to me that you are a flirt, apparently he's been killing ten to fifteen other girls


the reason is last time Madhavan was married to this woman like this white woman okay


the white woman was cheating on Madhavan apparently, so one day Madhavan went to the listen Madhavan went to the hotel room, and uh he's and he saw like his ex wife or with like another man, so they were cheating out of his face lah


so <tamil>இவன் ஆத்துரத்துல:ivan aathurathule</tamil> he killed he kill the ex wife okay, and I remember I told you there was another policeman who is working with Madhavan, that policeman happens to be that hotel where Madhavan kills and then he and then and then like he hear someone crying lah like shouting for help


so he comes up when he sees Madhavan going to kill the woman and then the policemen says you are just kill her, it's just given a policeman so at this point I'm I'm you know I'm like why is the policeman okay with the killing, so after Madhavan kills he goes to meet the policemen who sitting in the car he ask the policeman you know why are you okay with me killing


you know what's the policeman's to reply, oh actually err I also had a wife she also cheated on me so I think so I think women who cheat should be killed, the reason, so you know what's the best thing, immediately from the moment they both talk this right Madhavan and the policeman go to meet the policeman's ex wife and after that to kill herself


straight to the revenge lah, so so err so after this incident whenever Madhavan goes to black attorneys or musician drives their concert right apparently during the concert all a lot of women who are attract to someone they will try to flirt with Madhavan so apparently Madhavan well you know act as if he's so interested bring her to the old abandoned house he and the policemen will kill them <tamil>இதான்:ithaan</tamil> this is the reason


his other use or not, I was like !wah! and aside you'll feel like that's ah as in I feel like kiling myself when I saw that I saw there was a reason, so <tamil>இதுக்கெல்லாம் காரணம்:ithukkellaam kaaranam</tamil> was because #madhavan#'s ex wife cheated on him he goes around by killing all the women who cheated on their partners


and so the thing he said he thought that like the Anushka friend was also trying to cheat


but really when I watched you should see the if they had given a solid reason for why Madhavan kills the girl a !wah! I would have accepted it you know


!wah! I cannot I just cannot lah I don't know, she always a bit crazy


you you do at all, I I really really couldn't accept it lah to watch there's like no way you are actually kidding me


kind of, terrible very bad


you know I could be doing something else you know so to you, and these are my parents already once you move or so when they saw that movie like shit movie but I didn't understand why because initially was being very like it was going okay I don't know you why do you keep saying she is okay or nice what


err don't know lah actually Deepavali, okay didn't really feel like very like a lot of like vibes when Deepavali and I don't know I didn't really like like nothing really like uh just okay lah Deepavali morning take the oil a bit


wasn't ya lah wasn't err a lot of I mean I went to my grandparents' house err at night, next day went to the temple long or base ya did nothing else or they just <tamil>சும்மா பேருக்கு தான்:summa perukku thaan</tamil> Deepavali nothing much lah I don't know


never mind we have another one hour recording right we we have a lot of time to talk about her I have a lot of times


there's a lot of time, (uh huh), never mind <tamil>அத பத்தி:atha pathhti</tamil> we can talk later


now ya now you're not a now your sister is in my polytechnic is it or what, oh oh okay okay, 'because my sister's going set three next year so only one year difference lah


in the school, #tanjong katong#, so they were, they only one year apart lah, we when I was in when I was P six was my they'll ever see my sister


hello my sister is one year younger, job, when you were a sec one she was P one is it, a then obviously then that means only when I was sec two months you thought I wanna be one ah


only my brother my brother was in school my our brother okay that one because <tamil>அவன்:avan</tamil> three years difference only lah, now he's in polytechnic, now he's in polytechnic second year polytechnic is doing


he's doing the business and like uh engineering, and , there are no car adolescent nowadays actually the polytechnic course is very interesting like they biodiverse fusion which I think is quite good lah as in I feel this is not so narrow we have a choice, he's at TP diplomatically


hello it's super near the uh because because because because recently when new lockdown he go school once a week I'll drive and drop him very close


bus bus <tamil>எடுத்தா இன்னும் கொஞ்ச நேரம்:edutha innum konja neram</tamil> but actually it's okay but now the I loved there are a lot of Tampines north too salty know you don't the Tampines east started lah ya ya the downtown by unless it what's stopped in Tampines something, west west ah ya ya correct correct


so even though isn't too but


ya now now what he's written, now I know she looking for internships or all


plaza Singapura you, ya I've notice I'm gonna to say the thing about SMU is that like if you walk across I feel like walking from one MRT don't wanna MRT like every one school one school has won one MRT exit


oh ya oh my god I remember there was once I was at, I was at Cathay kind of a catch it with my friend, and then I saw this other friend of mine and they said that oh we are going to be hanging around nearby so once you finish you come over, they said they were looking at they were at this bar at SMU


okay I, because okay here's the reason they said it was at a bar, at SMU for me I didn't actually I was confused because I thought they meant barn you as me I was thinking how can read about in the school last fity congress idea I didn't answer what the held at me


so <tamil>நானும் சுத்தி சுத்தி நடந்துட்டு இருக்கேன் எங்கேடா இருக்கு:naanum suthi suthi nadanthuttu irukkaen enggadaa irukku</tamil> tried asking people whereas this bar the I'm not sure <tamil>கடைசில:kadaisila</tamil> only when I I okay maybe sunday school campus then when I got when I finally got the was the, well ya


the place is third it's a very it's a very spread out a campus, so this product, oh of course ya as in effect in city area like this you know the auntie you like this a separate island or the only I I don't think is part of singapore's just one tiny island or


okay can, so


ya because the navy shifting he didn't have hair


oh, and you know, (mmhmm)


ah ya ya, oh okay


oh okay okay


or JJ,


ah


right, set <tamil>ஆகாது:aagaathu</tamil>


and or like, right, okay


ya like, like <tamil>எனக்கு:enakku</tamil> no actually like hair length <tamil>வந்து எப்டி தெரிமா பாப்பாங்க இதுதான்:vanthu epdi therimaa paappaangga ithuthaan</tamil> short <tamil>இங்க:inga</tamil> as long as it's like here in below right the charger fifty you know no matter how short you want to like


ya ya ya ya, ya, I was just like oh okay ya <tamil>ஏதோ வெட்டுங்க வேற வலி:etho vettungga vera vali</tamil> there then expensive every time I go yet at least minimum <tamil>ஒரு:oru</tamil> two hundred dollars <tamil>செலவு பண்ண வெச்சிருவாங்க:selavu panna vechiruvaanga</tamil> ya


I go like once in six months and nobody that's not bad bad, usually I do there like scout the detox thing they do and then opera the recommend bandung or either rudely rivals by name and other per other ignore the minority


the directory entered on the before


then you, but your lessons all now like from <tamil>இங்கதானா:inggathaanaa</tamil> like when you <tamil>திருப்பி:thiruppi</tamil> going


, oh ya the minority lay down day


oh, oh okay


, ya I do it's like between Hougang and Serangoon ya


heartland mall, (uh huh)


, or the one nearer to Serangoon side in it , okay okay ya ya


, (uh huh),


oh, oh okay okay okay, right okay


oh !wow! that's so far, unless he could mah


organic Ahmad <tamil>மாமா:mama</tamil> mah


let me, or that side okay okay K ah maybe I have a rough idea eh, , right


or, ya, ya okay ya true


I'm a, (mmhmm) ya, ooh


what like the whole bunch of or your terrace house area either, right


!whoa!, oh my god, right


ya ya ya I remember,


oh ya the nine nine years nine nine nine yesterday, okay lah understand makes more sense


!whoa! so it's a good time to sell a geeky makes sense,


(mmhmm), so when are you going for december end


before that, right


, ya


ya that's why I say another Deepavali ya, !aiyo! but, but didn't like the the university never tell you like oh you must come back because all your other from their online lah


okay, I mean who does, meets convenient yes but


I think that's because yours is the overseas university you know so like you are excited like going out and, ya I like edible art goes


ya, (mmhmm) (mmhmm), ya, why you pretty good


, let's see him, you will pay, oh why, it's a bit, cancel <tamil>பண்ணா திருப்பி கிடைக்காது:pannaa thiruppi kidaikkaathu</tamil> right


other the ya that's, oh okay


(mmhmm)


oh okay


, and ya, !wow!


right, ya ya the different environment different country


sounds fun ya, honestly, err I had I had four papers <tamil>மூணு ரெண்டு முடிஞ்ஜிருச்சி:moonu rendu munjiruchi</tamil> I have two more next week


ya, as but now because like mid terms was all online but like finals they moved it to on campus so you have to go to school and take the exam then, you know


face to face, everything


ya, ya okay that yes ya, isn't it


ya, not, ya, ooh, right


you know no the time difference would either


right, ya, that's hard adjusting to a new either


, which is exactly what happened


I mean, no but like you need is very competitive like I don't know about yours but like I'm saying marked for local U is hell level variety and especially at I mean I know you from this event hate the tickets really got like the attitude I like


it's like, irritating, dude <tamil>அதுல நா செத்துக்கிட்டு இருக்கேன் தெரிமா:athula naa seththukkittu irukkaen therimaa</tamil>


ya ya


Umar and deeper ya, ya ya


ya ya ya, ya because then you're like forced to bid with friends so like you can meet the median media number or like sometimes you miss it by like zero point five zero point one you know it's annoying


and you can't do shit about it like, okay you know like because right about how the system works is number one <tamil>நீ எந்த:nee entha</tamil> time leh <tamil>பண்ரேனு ரெண்டாவது வந்து:pandraenu rendaavathu vanthu</tamil> the the amount that you put so for example I put twenty and like the rest all put thirty five then all the defence would get it because that's the mean


the average so if I bid with like another five people who put the same amount as me the charges of me getting that lowering the mean to whatever that I am bidding for his easier


correct


ya, correct ya


ya, now I'm doing more of psychology and political science modules


further


well ya ya ya, nobody of production last year like you know how NUS about Sanjay then NTU got like with wrath lah the mighty dan avenue for them right, the ati only last year, that's why I was like tiny fabricate gloria


like how sunday authorised lah, what a production <tamil>அது ஒரு கதை:athu oru kathai</tamil> dance uh


honestly like for at least for mine it was more because it was the first time as them was doing a production so was all like very passionate people working on it like if you are very limited people like you know how anyone <tamil>ஒரு:oru</tamil> group eh <tamil>வந்து நிக்கும் தெரிமா அந்த மாரிலாம் எங்களுக்கு கிடயாது:vanthu nikkum therimaa antha maarilaam enggalukku kidayaathu</tamil> and then they do props and an in SMU engineering get it


quite a, but a production costs a lot in all of us are student to every one of us should, so


ya ya, whatever we spend we got back, 'because it was fully sponsored


ya, okay but it was hard to like get there the process of getting mail, 'because like now and everyone was working in every department because initially <tamil>நா மொத:naa motha</tamil> only cast member ah <tamil>தான் போனே:thaan ponae</tamil> then I went into marketing than I did the entire you know that the booklet that you you gaming will for production ya I ya I I descending there fucking booklet and I didn't know sheet over other over navy said sewers


mind boggling, and I think about it you put it, whatever CC, oh I mean they're hosting CCA but <tamil>அது பெருசா ஒண்ணும் இல்ல சும்மா எதா:athu perusaa onnum illa summa ethaa</tamil> school event


bit better, you know like I recollect you see it I've been doing it my entire life


you know and that I want to do it during a day itself like the production then I didn't because I was doing so many other things I just wanted to explore more stuff, and, and I didn't want to do it


, the I mean primary secondary even polytechnic gonna light up so that was like you know what indian dance lah <tamil>வேணாம்:venaam</tamil>


ya, in its damn tiring like I realise and then you as you get older they it's like you just can't give it anymore like particularly in a good idea that either the nine we dance at edith graduate


oh my gosh


I mean ya it's a stereotype


, oh my god okay


keep my ticket there, one person ya


oh oh no okay


ya lah then like okay today ah


okay, we have a gay resolutely keep it or, en


ya correct, if you, three history


I go, oh god and you bow


, right


oh really oh okay, (mmhmm) (mmhmm), ya ya ya


oh shit, they had heard him


dude it was, it was really good like I really wish that it came out in theatres genuinely


that it was very emotional like the whole failures such as various events


it was very relatable to be honest I was like !wow! damn


correct, ya


like it was so personal ya correct ya


ya, correct correct correct, like biggie levy there


ya, ya like equal you know or like she was literally supporting him at one point financially


was really good the to a really good, I watched the, no that one <tamil>அது பாக்குல:athu paakkala</tamil> I watch the the R G Balaji right, ya we melody


ya but they had a valid point though like the whole messenger of god thing


ya and are agreed


, (uh huh)


on one day of the week ya, you know I think it's because like <tamil>கடவுள் நமக்கு அவ்ளோ குடுக்குராரு நம்ம வந்து திருப்பி ஏதாவது செயனும்:kadavul namakku avlo kudukuraaru namma vanthu thiruppi ethaavathu seyanum</tamil> concept <tamil>வச்சி:vachi</tamil> like these kind of things came about because god never ask anyone to do anyone interesting there


it's not for ourselves gratification I guess ya,


ya, the trend, know business may never really already, is mind boggling


here's an island he has his own like company currency for whatever I can ya, ya


fifth, ya


slippers


ya that's scary


oh <tamil>அது:athu</tamil> Deepavali <tamil>க்கு பேய் படம் போட்டாங்கல அதா:kku pei padam pottaanggala atha</tamil> , <tamil>ஆரம்புத்தல பாத்தேன்:aarambuthala paathaen</tamil> then I was like, I like any good mighty like


ya ya I was I was like we we we why what it was is this really weird excited switch channel, it's really, you know my I don't intend to either


what's taking you already weird the,


and so it's haunted, in deaf and dumb


I do it again


that's awesome


the friend, and understand okay,


, ah okay


you guys


, ya ya the <tamil>எங்கேயும் எப்போதும்:enggeyum eppothum</tamil> right, okay think, ya lah I lah


okay, (uh huh)


okay, okay


ya, the friend


because he killed the friend,


why,


(uh huh), (uh huh), ya


ya, in a


oh my goodness, ha


so he


(mmhmm), is dealt with, exactly


if you wanna thingy, wife and, oh my


that's why like Manmadhan but like guy always, ya, ya, jeeze


you know, what the hell


the now suddenly I am so thankful I changed the channel


is it like you know the thing that you watch this movie on Deepavali, for


twisted, !aiyo!, but this year Deepavali programming was quite shit, to be honest


no this year no mood


ya I don't like <tamil>வெளியே:veliyae</tamil> actually <tamil>போ முடியாது அவ்ளோ கும்பலா:po mudiyaathu avlo kumbalaa</tamil> so like, like no field, ya whereas was very simple


ya, no but, okay right, diana was very excited for that her first Deepavali back in singapore after her waver


ah , !huh!, I mean, where do I start where do I am I am though


where there's that lah, ya, five more minutes left, set four next year


secondary four, ya one year difference only what they were in the same you know say ah TKGS, and you got to


ya ya, , ya you your sister was in, it will say when we were P six right you know, because my sister was primary one when I was set one so if your sister is one year older than ya correct


, my sister


P one ya, I feel I only remember seeing your brother in school ya ya I remember seeing you have done, oh, !wah! they so fast


business energy


oh see, okay lah not that far from your house also, you mean, you know driving when did not that bad but like because got TP just want to expressway


ya, uh downtown line, Tampines west


ya so the the one made it so much easier from like, Serangoon too, there is like very fast within twenty minutes, eh !wah! so next year he will graduate oh my god


as for me, oh ya lah because the young man, for me I mean is Dubi it's vast central like SMU is the most central thing ever like I've, like this raffles place right there enjoy city hall


#bras basah# bencoolen, and #dhoby ghaut# that Uber over school would MRT, ya


ya and I can walk to Bugis so it's very convenient, (mmhmm)


oh okay okay ya okay, well you you


oh ya ya have have, ya brick lane


ya, but it's convenient also


how is our how is our chef our australian chef


when she came back


of course lah in COVID because of COVID only, why she came back, as in why why <tamil>எனக்குனு கேட்டடேன்:eathukunnu keattaen</tamil> why as in just asking lah why she came she doesn't come so


uh is it you know wait, never mind err okay so so because of some <tamil>வீனா போனவன்:veena ponavan</tamil> she came okay err who she came with alone


wait so, she came just nice knowing it was COVID or she just happened to come then it was COVID then now she can't go back


then her parents are crying there is it


she came when six months ago, no I'm saying when she came singapore, okay okay don't talk okay okay I won't interupt you talk you talk


did you know about him before as in like have you seen him before and stuff like on photo or whatever, oh you've seen, I'm just asking I'm just asking I don't know I'm just asking


if you wanna have


wait wait so now she not talking to her family, !huh!, wait what okay no okay it's okay here's the thing here's the thing because when you said relative I already thought that no way because I know her relative who stay here you know near Nex over there


I gone to the block before before in the next correct that's why I was thinking, wait okay okay okay okay wait wait wait okay wait okay wait just just I just a bit startled a bit so


okay so like okay so like like like how does she know him okay firstly the how does she know him, okay that wasn't okay ya okay okay


correct correct correct, super sorry super sorry okay overall


oh it's a club is it, okay okay <tamil>அது அது ஒன்னும் தப்பு இல்ல:athu athu onnum thappu illa</tamil> club is okay lah there's nothing wrong okay


oh really, okay wait but at that time wasn't but at the time she didn't come alone what didn't she come with the sister or something


oh so sister <tamil>இல்ல அந்த எல்லா சீனத்துகுனு:illa antha ella seanathugunu</tamil> don't go baby <tamil>மயிா புடுங்காத அப்பிடின்னு:mayira pudungathaa apidinnu</tamil> okay very good


, oh is it I okay because I I really got no idea like I really don't know that's why I'm asking I I really don't know what other she post with him all


(ppc)


(ppc), oh <tamil>அது தான்:athu thaan</tamil> ah shit shit shit oh that's disgusting, that's disgusting, eh no wait ya I got bigger question bigger question did she have a tattoo of the previous guy Avinash


and then, wait are you kidding me so she just change, you know why I asked because


because when she got the tattoo of the guy I still really said I think it's really dumb I I just told her that I said I think it's very dumb but it's your body's it it's your shit you can do whatever you want I just asked her okay let's say because at the time he was <tamil>சேர்த்தாலும் இவன் கூட தான் சாவான் புடுங்குனாலும் இவன் கூட தான் புடுங்குவான் அப்பிடின்னு சுதினு இருந்த:sethaalum ivan kuda thaan saavaan pudungunaalum ivan kuda thaan pudunguvaan apidinu suthinu iruntha</tamil> so I asked okay but if in case touchwood you all break up then tattoo <tamil>என்ன ஆவுறது:enna aavurathu</tamil> she said oh the guy who comes next he will accept me because he will realise that


you know this tattoo is part of me this is who I am, okay never mind <tamil>அது அது அது அவனோட அந்த:athu athu athu avanoda antha</tamil> Abhineshan problem


okay so the family found out okay family found out then


okay


, correct, they just saw it as help okay ya okay fair enough for how long


!huh!


so the overall


, , sorry okay carry on


no okay but then this part I don't understand as in you said she was staying with the in that person's house so as in so then if that's so then why did she choose to leave the country, she left the house okay but country you have to go to the governor, oh okay okay because I would wonder if he was earning a lot atleast around five six K


correct okay <tamil>அதுக்கு போனாலே:athukku ponaala</tamil> at least


no it's not no you're not it's a very logical because if you are leaving your family and coming to stay with someone that person must have some means to provide for you so it's a very logical thinking I don't think it's wrong okay


, oh my god


okay that okay how okay !wah! !wah! this story is getting better and better, I actually didn't expect there was so much story man okay


I don't know


oh is it, okay this all <tamil>புறம்போக்கு:purambokku</tamil> simple english okay


so bigger <tamil>புறம்போக்கு:purambokku</tamil> it's it's her boyfriend that's all, oh my god I can't believe this it's ridiculous, love sentence for life they will be in love


okay but okay but no listen if he's going to go to jail look how did they just give the job they just gave the job like that


I I I don't quite get it, can you just imagine the interview go for the interview sir I want a job hi err I'll work for a few years after that I'll be in jail so just for a few months please give me a job <tamil>எவன் தருவான் உனக்கு:evan tharuvaan unnakku</tamil> what the hell


a are you okay this okay honest despoiled a lot of like a bull shitting you know exaggerating lah probably some bullshit been already seriously


she's not keen lah, business okay lah I think okay lah as in that one I thought maybe one time she's very bored so she just did lah but that's also I thought


when is he going to jail, (uh huh)


wait as in they sleep together like straight up they sleep together, like like legit, oh my god


I don't know maybe every night the mum comes milk and all lah to them


oh okay, wait what she smokes


okay I mean like as in okay I mean I also have friends who smoke and stuff lah but that's okay but ya okay no


no manners <tamil>அது:athu</tamil> it's basically no manners no decency, so then like how did he reply for that


my girl oh ya sorry


check properly don't know they have they may have they might have in the <tamil>சாக்கு சொல்லிட்டு:saaku solitu</tamil> whether they might have planted some shit in your bag or something that track your location or who knows


okay, ya but this is so teachj him obviously like what can you do about it


it's her house right it's like her husband's house eh so she will do lah, !wah! this so it it's it's not even it's too clean it's just ah I don't know


then that you know you should have told Dakshar you feel uncomfortable can we go downstairs and speak like if I was there if I felt very weird right I will just I will just say I will go down speak if not I will leave it's so weird


no you should have said oh <tamil>அவளுக்கு வந்து இதுக்கு முன்னாடி:avalukku vanthu ithukku munaadi</tamil> five boyfriend <tamil>இருந்த போது தெரியும்:iruntha pothu teriyum</tamil> auntie, <tamil>அப்புறம் நடு தெருல நிக்கிறதுக்கு:appuram nadu thearula nikkirathukku</tamil> ah, then


!wah! that's so weird that's so that's so uncomfortable that's such a weird position to be in


correct ya you ya,


then after that we might tell everyone


!huh!, wait all four, okay that one is just normal pettiness lah that one is that one is what people of this age do but okay that's weird I didn't know she completely stop talking


eh wait just give me one second ah just give me one second


ya sorry sorry


of course I I, did you tell her that or or you you didn't say anything, , okay fair point


fair point fair enough


, so she just did like her <tamil>தல:thala</tamil> Deepavali


as in you just said she and her aunt aren't on talking terms


why his gang and oh maybe both the gangs got problem lah, !huh! wait they are okay like the Keyshen and the girlfriend, Keyshen and his girlfriend are okay right


ya because this is the longest I've ever seen him with one girl ever in my life before, you did,


then Swathi also she also left her house


oh okay okay I thought I recently I saw Deepavali post so I guess he's in the house


okay never mind okay never mind now we change to Keyshen topic this is interesting so what happened there


then


, but then err the like the like the sister the brother their room only lah


oh


, oh my god oh my god, if you like this, ya, oh that's why I saw the father err he was err, at err Dunlop street


I went to this there's this mexican shop over there, so I went with a few of my friends few of my friends plus me we went, they were like they came out to smoke so I came out I was standing there then I just turn to my right lah so the father became he thinks he's something he's talking to someone so I just look then I was like oh shit okay


okay I don't know if you know but one of Dakshar'S err distant relative is my really close friend, it's called uh Dakshar I don't know whether she mentioned dave before but he's my secondary school lah so we were same class so his his relative is Dakshar so so he's actually went Dakshar really then when we seconday school he's like eh you know like oh like you know her is it then I was like ya she's actually my friend


so me and him we all still very close so he was he was actually there with me so I and the thing is and because of that err like he kind of knows before that like Dakshar and Keyshen they were a thing and all lah so so he has heard of Keyshen before, so when I saw I saw him road occassion Keyshen he said what the hell


ya so ya but thing is that I don't think the hall recoginises me out lah as in I just know her because I've seen in a photo as in I've seen in photos before, wait what for the birthday was her father there I think her father was there right, in my birthday ya I think


so <tamil>அப்பிடினா:appidinaa</tamil> okay <tamil>அப்பிடினா:appidinaa</tamil> it's okay, super super <tamil>என்ன ஒரு:enna oru</tamil> explanation


!huh! really ah oh shit !wah! I remember when the father passed away he just enlisted then <tamil>அவன் அப்போ தான்:avan appo thaan</tamil> then he he uh he went to the army at the time, definitely


as in I mean then and then it's okay lor, then <tamil>இந்த:intha</tamil> Swathi <tamil>அவ எப்பிடி பண்ற:ava epidi pandra</tamil> do you still talk to her


wait then she and Dakshar talk or or or like that one is a no no, Swathi okay


It sounds wierd that's why okay firstly I I like I I'm like other student life going on like I have university I have work I have other friends and all but that's why I like with this okay obviously with Dakshar things went badly okay but with others also like I don't want to


maintain too close a friendship because it's, it's too dramatic too much of drama happening see <tamil>ஏதோ அவங்க:etho avanga</tamil> friend <tamil>ஓட:oda</tamil> girlfriend eh <tamil>இவன் தள்ளின்னு போய்ட்டான் இவன் வீட்டை விட்டு ஓடி போய்ட்டா அவன் நாட்டை விட்டே ஓடி போய்ட்டான்:ivan thalinnu poitaan ivan veeta vitu odi poitaan avan naatai vittae odi poitaan</tamil> so like , ya it's a bit


I just think I just feel like if I just feel if I have to constantly be in contact with them talking about this ah I think like I'll get very stressed legit I think I will get very stressed


it is it's a very stressful thing it's a very stressful environment ya, ya


wait what she did with him ah, I don't know lah what she's doing


I try I try, I tried contacting her a few months back and all but she wasn't too keen in replying so I left it as it is after awhile, err, I also must have some level of respect for myself ah I cannot keep as in okay very simple between two people if they want to be in contact both also must want to talk lah


you cannot always you one person wanting to talk after a while the second person will get very tired, so I can tell that she clearly isn't this as in although she said oh ya okay let's forget whatever happened and all err you know like carry on I I realised that she's not particularly too keen


ya as in what whatever happened happen already but ya so so so now I also I I don't really, err try and talk lah err err I just left it


but clearly now she has other things on her plate that are more important like the guy going to jail and shit like that so like ya I don't really expect her to, to talk


what happened to her I don't know why is she like suddenly became very weird ah I don't know, like uh okay as in I mean I'm not someone to talk about her choice in men and all lah but the the guys she always choose all all some seem to have some sort of problem uh don't know


, but that's what she says for every guy that's my point


like as in definitely as in before this okay okay lah I I'm sure that she has spoken to him about the army's schedule she was speaking very passionately about it, literally like literally like however you're describing what she's talking about this guy is how she spoke about the previous guy as well


err and of course we know <tamil>அவ என்னமோ:ava ennamo</tamil> when I when we went around she want she err she went to get a chain for him or ring or something like that you know we went together with her and now what happened ya, I mean because of that I'm not saying oh don't be close to anyone or something but like


her her choices always seem to have some some massive problem, ya actually ya some people really have the type of have like have a liking for


ya ya no as in, maybe she's the type who you know ya as in ya like ya maybe, to go and solve them she wants to go into that trouble this no no I will give it to her lah so


it's not even that look at her age lah she's only twenty one come on are you kidding me, so young haven't even start she finished her studies or not, !huh!


wait what are you serious, like when now, then what other, oh that oh wait so she plans to wait for him till he comes out and all ah


how many years is that going to be you you suggested it might be for a few years, ya ya fair enough fair enough I don't think you know exactly


now I like hear whatever you are saying all lah now I actually don't really feel that bad for like for you know not really be in contact with I don't know as in if I keep hearing all this kind of stuff I think in the end I'm the one who get angry like you said, we are the one talking about it like she doesn't seem to be too bothered about it, so I think if I heard all this I think


Ruparthri ah, wait like how does she know oh as in she just know she's your friend lah


wait what she said that, oh okay okay


, ya it's not the best solution, when you are in the house ya of course


what here, because she was doing a part time diploma right when she was in australia, or is it a part time degree because I know she said


it was some six year, some six years thing right so it's a part-time what it's not a full-time what the fact that it's six years already means it's, it's definitely a part-time uh, !huh! oh


okay she didn't do well okay, oh your university or diploma, oh degree, okay so then now okay so then now she's continuing it online how is she doing continuing it online ah


wait is that like a legit full-time thing like actually she's, is she getting a lot of orders or like what is it err I don't know, oh, gang <tamil>குள்ளேயே:kullayae</tamil> business <tamil>வெச்சிக்கிறாங்க:vechikkiraanga</tamil> so they will self support lah very good support


, true there are shit ton of indians there ah, mother so basically the house no one as in she's the one trying to support them lah


probably probably probably like that's why the mom the mother-in-law is very happy to see her come in then she's like okay at least now we have some source of income in the house


so okay wait so so then was the food nice or not, oh so nice okay okay okay okay okay that one also not ah okay fair enough at least that one was the truth


oh you wouldn't really buy lah you can see ah makes sense


oh so she's really just going to be in singapore lah till err, till till she decides to go back, then her wait is she a singaporean not right


I thought she ah I don't know uh


<tamil>ஒரு வெவஸ்த இருக்கனும்:oru vevastha irukkanum</tamil> lah, no as in that's the thing as in I'm just asking


no I'm just asking that's what I'm saying like if you look at him as a prospective groom also like like let's say when you grow older lah as in when you look at our <tamil>அவன் மூஞ்ச பாத்த:avan munja paatha</tamil> do you get any form of like or any form of kind of like any insurance that okay lah I think you know, as in


no I don't know as in, okay the truth is the truth that the truth is that the truth is that like he looks a bit scary I don't know why like he he just gives a, like a weird vibe of I don't know


because ya because this at once like my friend I told you the dave one the guy right he showed me the photo he screenshot and send me he said brother what the fuck is this, so it's like what the hell I said err as in like as obviously when we spoke we spoke a lot more honestly lah like our words weren't weren't very nice also when talking about how how that guy looked but ya


uh , ya, ya, I I was ya


that's the, that's the end of the story already ah there's no further discussion after that


it doesn't seem like a very logical decision lah that's about it


and then she was like she was like okay, sorry


if you if you if you like end up dating someone in from the group !wow! you're finished your life also is finished ya, it's ya it's it's just it's just not ideal isn't it


, , , do you talk to her and all or or it's very on and off


, oh okay okay ya as in, this is like as you progress in life you will meet more friends it's impossible to talk to everyone all the time, you know


(uh huh), it's too big ya it's


, our


okay hold on hold on hold on hold on hold on, I know she when she started her TikTok she say because she wants to get into acting okay that one that one I know that that's why I but but I don't know how how much effort she put into it


she's asking the who directors, what directors, okay, fuck of lie that's a lie no way


eh no, it didn't kick off


is it <tamil>அப்பிடியே:appidiyae</tamil> ah, wait when was this I I I because I haven't watched miss Vasantham like for quite awhile, when was the new one


, like no shit obviously it's tough you're overseas like how


she what, really, like like how famous


I don't know I just as in it's nothing against her but I but for me I just can't stand TikTok I I just absolutely hate TikTok


see when I hear this I don't know I feel like my BP is going up a bit I don't know, that's my point that's why I said I feel it's very tough to to constantly be in contact with these kind of it's very tough because like you said


the police won't listen to her though as well, !wah! I I


I don't know I'm I'm honestly very loss for words I didn't expect the situation to be this bizarre, this extreme this this intense, ya, the most I talked to is, Vakshara because connect everytime of ball and stuff lah err err you know like on her story I reply some of those but even recently also she had some exams so I was telling her because now my submissions are like in coming week next week and next next week


so I told her okay maybe err after december because in between that I've this house moving thing and all also honestly it's it's it's quite quite stressful here, so I don't know maybe mid december or something we can we can catch up or something, ya


no lah just asked lah, , err, err,


err not not really good lah I'll be honest as in it's not that I don't want to tell you anything it's just that the last few weeks I've just been, mentally exhausted like honestly mentally exhausted just thinking about the relationship and stuff it's it's it it it's not been that good lah basically ya


err they say like like you see now, like because I mean it's not only you who know about her like a lot of my friends know her so that when we talked together that's how we say the moment they ask about her ah I I just get very tired I just immediately like oh my because I just I just suddenly my brain like everything that happened just like go through my mind


it's it's it's it's just so overwhelming, so when they ask the question is always ya the answer is always ya it's okay it's okay but I I don't know I don't know whether I can carry on I very tired already, ya


that's why I said it's not about whom I'm telling or what it's just the like it's just thinking about it so far it's tough so maybe maybe in december and stuff, once I'm clearer with what I'm gonna do about it then I can tell because right now I I don't need to focus I told like one or two of my like a lot closer friends from like army and stuff


but then I I just find that like he doesn't do me any help because I'm just stuck in the same place like like I'm not making a decision I'm just telling they're giving me advice but like it's it's just I'm still you have to make my decision so I feel like after this talking about it


surely we have to make a decision lah that's how I feel ya


, oh, oh okay


but never talk okay as in okay because as in I also as in me and my father also we don't really like, like talk about stuff but like the thing is that like when you say that you all don't talk at all means like like, at all or like


okay so okay so like during Deepavali okay like during Deepavali, oh, err okay okay okay okay okay


okay, oh , oh my god, oh no as in no as in <tamil>மாசு:maasu</tamil> as in I think we said but like I don't know it just felt a bit weird like to say it but I don't know it felt weird


but sometimes it's necessary, sometimes it's definitely necessary because if not, he just thinks but but you and your mom okay lah you all talk lah there's so good lah, okay okay ya ya I get it


how often do do you not ask you don't even talk to our parents about stuff, help or you know or or or at least asian parents ya,


really you want to start working


like straight away


, oh ya ya sure no I I know some of my friends who they in JC uh there was this girl her boyfriend she she and her boyfriend they they just apply for BTO


ya, they have a plan they've a at least they have a plan, you know <tamil>அவன் இன்னும்:avan innum</tamil> jail <tamil>கு போலாம் அவன் இன்னும்:ku polaam avan innum</tamil> studying and all so okay so that's quite good


I don't know how the interaction went I don't know it's no lah but I think he's over it lah I think it was such a long how long ago was that


(uh huh), secondary school that was so long lah, I think it's that like they weren't even together what they it was like going to be together they weren't even together were they, ya that was a bit weird


ya ya I mean it it


obviously ya, ya


!aiyo! okay you know [ah]


okay, so, ya herman


australian chef, it's been over six months


, it's it's this this thing called cuddle


ya, no, no no no, she just happened to come ya she just happened to come


ya I mean for her lah, I guess, not crying but like because okay the thing is she's staying in Yishun now with him, okay I don't know how else am I supposed to say this because she's like


it's , okay so she asked me to meet her right so she said on her <tamil>ஒரு:oru</tamil> weekend meet me <tamil>அங்க வா:anga vaa</tamil> then I was like oh okay fine, no no no this one happen, few ya I think easily six months before


so Yishun err Yishun glance one ah so <tamil>வானு சொன்ன நினைச்சேன் ஏதோ ஒரு:vaanu sonna ninaichaen etho oru</tamil> relative <tamil>வீட்டுல தங்கி இருக்கானு சொன்ன:veetula thangi irukkaanu sonna</tamil> then <tamil>ஒரு:oru</tamil> address <tamil>அனுப்பிட்டு இங்க வானு சொன்ன:anupittu inga vaanu sonna</tamil> then <tamil>நானும் போயிட்டு:naanum poyittu</tamil> then I was under the block because I didn't know whose house it was what so I was


under the block then I was like err so you coming down or what then she say no wait let's come up then I was like okay sure then I went up then I found the house fully indian house then I was like okay then I door knock on the door then


err this lady opened the door I think the guy's mother then then Dharshini your friend is here then I was like okay, where this is going then suddenly I saw him, and I was like


, photo <tamil>லதான் பாத்து இருக்கான்:lathaan paathu irukkaan</tamil> like her Instagram is filled with his photo one ah, ya, ya ya she like every time will post what so <tamil>நான் பாத்து இருக்கேன் பாத்தோனே எனக்கு தெரிஞ்சிது இவன்தான் அவனு அவனு:naan paathu irukkaan paathonae ennakku terinjittu ivanthaan avanu avanu</tamil> even though I was like oh okay ya and then I then only slowly he started presented speaking his house then I was like


okay then she was cooking <tamil>நினைக்கிறேன்:ninnaikkiraen</tamil> with ultimate in the kitchen cooking, and that auntie was like Darshini <tamil>ஏதாச்சும்:ethaachum</tamil> help <tamil>வேணுமா:venumaa</tamil> then she was like <tamil>இல்ல:illa</tamil> auntie <tamil>நான் பாத்துக்குறேன்:naan paathukkuraen</tamil> I was just like


what the fuck, I was like, so when I ask her lah so what's up like why you staying here then she said oh no like


brother no


, think think


, okay basically right


okay you know the last time she came to singapore, like she was having like that time when she, found out that, ah ah ah ah correct Abhinesh ya so


yes so I wonder you remember that time she found out that he was cheating on her and then