go <mandarin>看:kan</mandarin> the property you never <mandarin>看:kan</mandarin> the property then <mandarin>你怎样:ni zen yang</mandarin> put down the money and send the money over your <mandarin>钱:qian</mandarin> not going to fly there right your <mandarin>钱:qian</mandarin> need to you need to <mandarin>看:kan</mandarin> the property and then you need to go down on the ground <mandarin>去走走:qu zou zou</mandarin> see you like the <mandarin>环境:huan jing</mandarin> you like the environment you know you like the surrounding the <mandarin>树:shu</mandarin> the <mandarin>花:hua</mandarin> the tree


your brother


so he in denmark


I see


so what, so what is he just there on a visa, is he not going to <mandarin>回去:hui qu</mandarin> singapore <mandarin>没有:mei you</mandarin> mah or he just want to long term <mandarin>住在:zhu zai</mandarin> berlin


oh and, and, oh <mandarin>明白:ming bai</mandarin> then <mandarin>我的:wo de</mandarin> reward will be what what would my returns be


oh


I see and for you in this kind of job where where you source from <mandarin>你的:ni de</mandarin> contact, come from where how your contact <mandarin>听到:ting dao</mandarin> this kind of job, because this kind of job not very well


publicise <mandarin>不是:bu shi</mandarin> mah


oh, oh so you think this is uh the project for the <mandarin>大学:da xue</mandarin> the final year maybe they use it for the <mandarin>学校:xue xiao</mandarin> the project ah okay but


I see, me and my parents we speak chinese <mandarin>在家里:zai jia li</mandarin> speak chinese but we also code switch we used english and chinese <mandarin>很多很多:hen duo hen duo</mandarin> mix together


my chinese I think is <mandarin>很好:hen hao</mandarin> ah <mandarin>不是会:bu shi hui</mandarin> mah <mandarin>我觉得我:wo jue de wo</mandarin> chinese is excellent, and I think you know using us as the as the your sample for this project I think it's very good because I think we are the border we are the more fun you know the chinese the english all <mandarin>很厉害:hen li hai</mandarin> so you know I think this is excellent


chris


okay, or you want me to tell you a bit more about <mandarin>其他的:qi ta de</mandarin> topic


my my my poker I found a bot yesterday


just from, fighting the bot, but <mandarin>最后:zui hou</mandarin> very <mandarin>伤心:shang xin</mandarin> you know two other three other people <mandarin>来捣乱:lai dao luan</mandarin> my party so I cannot play anymore, so in the end I only <mandarin>赚两百:zhuan liang bai</mandarin> chips <mandarin>两百:liang bai</mandarin> chips <mandarin>唉也就这样:ai ye jiu zhe yang</mandarin> but you hor <mandarin>你应该:ni ying gai</mandarin> go and play this poke this poker very good <mandarin>很容易:hen rong yi</mandarin> find a bot


agree agree


oh like that ah


a lot of money but <mandarin>我不知道要:wo bu zhi dao yao</mandarin> invest where


what do you think


no I am very direct and <mandarin>诚实:cheng shi</mandarin> in this I got one million, I got one million out there but <mandarin>我的一个:wo de yi ge</mandarin> million <mandarin>你可以帮我:ni ke yi bang wo</mandarin> mah


yes, hello


okay, ya then <mandarin>你可以:ni ke yi</mandarin> help me to view the property help me to arrange then <mandarin>我可以:wo ke yi</mandarin> buy the property no issue


then, how, I don't know how to how to do this


your brother very good at this ah, your brother <mandarin>赚:zhuan</mandarin> how much money


it's not bad lah I think, how long has he been doing this for, !wah! last one year <mandarin>很好:hen hao</mandarin> ah <mandarin>很好:hen hao</mandarin> ah, okay lah I think <mandarin>我可以:wo ke yi</mandarin> give him to invest lor


how much will he take, lose money <mandarin>我就去:wo jiu qu</mandarin> your house <mandarin>来:lai</mandarin> chop


your head off lor, I know where you live, what is UFO, what is UFO I don't <mandarin>明白:ming bai</mandarin> what is UFO


USO, oh


oh


but did you know then the can <mandarin>买:mai</mandarin> the oil and


but how you going to buy the oil, the oil is a, physical commodity <mandarin>很大:hen da</mandarin> you know the oil is you one barrel the <mandarin>黑黑的东西:hei hei de dong xi</mandarin> go to your house not very good but oh you <mandarin>买:mai</mandarin> the future the future you buy <mandarin>在哪里:zai na li</mandarin> buy


oh, are you going to <mandarin>买:mai</mandarin> some future now


I think your brother so good, you know


so I think it's a very good choice, ya I think you should tartan, why don't you <mandarin>买两个:mai liang ge</mandarin> everything together


altogether just <mandarin>买:mai</mandarin> everything, oh <mandarin>你要在:ni yao zai</mandarin> berlin by house together with your brother


then you rent out, oh, but <mandarin>新加坡:xin jia po</mandarin> the house, it's very expensive <mandarin>一个:yi ge</mandarin> private you're you are looking at at least <mandarin>一个:yi ge</mandarin> million eh


oh, you


that I have been looking at even though the <mandarin>屋子:wu zi</mandarin> very good but I think <mandarin>不错:bu cuo</mandarin> eh and also you know the <mandarin>屋子:wu zi</mandarin> you can go buy, from online, like you go look at property guru <mandarin>网上面:wang shang mian</mandarin> list a lot of properties very good


I think the quality not bad and also now you see a lot of new launches new developments coming out, all very pretty, and the prices even though quite high but I think quite <mandarin>值得:zhi de</mandarin> you know because


you have of course you have to choose, have to be decent size <mandarin>够大:gou da</mandarin> cannot be <mandarin>太小:tai xiao</mandarin> inside like a shoe box


right and also have to be the at least <mandarin>五百:wu bai</mandarin> square feet <mandarin>对:dui</mandarin> mah I think have to be at least <mandarin>六百七百:liu bai qi bai</mandarin> maybe


I think if it's near the #tanjong pagar# <mandarin>地铁站:di tie zhan</mandarin> !wah!


solid, he recently sell the the property the penthouse <mandarin>在那个:zai na ge</mandarin> #tanjong pagar# MRT <mandarin>在那个:zai na ge</mandarin> penthouses <mandarin>六十二:liu shi er</mandarin> million but he's still made a loss


I think he made a loss of about <mandarin>十个:shi ge</mandarin> million eh, ya he <mandarin>卖掉:mai diao</mandarin> his property and he and he <mandarin>亏了十个:kui le shi ge</mandarin> million leh, you see


ya he bought it and he sold it, and he lost <mandarin>十个:shi ge</mandarin> million, so is not for the faint hearted you know you want to <mandarin>投资:tou zi</mandarin> very good you can make


you know I am calculating his loss, I think he bought it for seventy two then you take the ten loss <mandarin>除以:chu yi</mandarin> the seventy two, get to I think <mandarin>百分十五:bai fen shi wu</mandarin> loss you know is very easy to lose money you see ten million just <mandarin>不见:bu jian</mandarin> already


true, ya I think at the end of the day if you <mandarin>买:mai</mandarin> the property the property <mandarin>应该:ying gai</mandarin> should be something that you stay in right something that a lot of people can afford you buy something like this crazy so <mandarin>价格:jia ge</mandarin> so <mandarin>高:gao</mandarin> one ya very difficult


you know you have to buy you have to find the russian oligarch to come buy from you, just like the <mandarin>圣淘沙:sheng tao sha</mandarin> cove, I think so ya, difficult !wah! I think today we have concluded our very long speech on <mandarin>投资:tou zi</mandarin> on <mandarin>菜刀:cai dao</mandarin> right I think it's very good material


okay, okay I think do we hang out the way, do we, do we clap now to <mandarin>挂掉:gua diao</mandarin> or do we <mandarin>继续讲话:ji xu jiang hua</mandarin> and or <mandarin>要不要拍手:yao bu yao pai shou</mandarin> clap clap I think we need to clap no


no I think we just clap come I put you on speaker we clap one time, okay no need to clap, okay that's it for today goodbye


I ah I , how ah <mandarin>你:ni</mandarin> what what you think <mandarin>你觉得怎么样啊她有进步:ni jue de zen me yang a ta you jin bu</mandarin> or you think


getting better or <mandarin>在退步:zai tui bu</mandarin> ah, a bit what


tan ah, tan,


oh, [orh] <mandarin>她:ta</mandarin> <mandarin>她肿肿:ta zhong zhong</mandarin> is because of the err , the operation ah so they call it what ah, err, water retention ah


so the body cannot get rid of the the water so <mandarin>看起来肿肿:kan qi lai zhong zhong</mandarin> lor then <mandarin>她的脚那个叫做英文叫做什么:ta de jiao na ge jiao zuo ying wen jiao zuo shen me</mandarin> psoriasis ah


because the new medication the the the negative side effect [loh], so, , err she said can be painful lah if the thing crack, err <mandarin>要不然就是有时候痒痒:yao bu ran jiu shi you shi hou yang yang</mandarin> lah <mandarin>痒痒她去抓:yang yang ta qu zhua</mandarin> ah <mandarin>她去:ta qu</mandarin> scratch ah


oh how how how how you know


, , , I don't know lah because err <mandarin>我昨天看:wo zuo tian kan</mandarin> ah very heart pain leh cause she's the


, , really ah <mandarin>我的:wo de</mandarin> <mandarin>我的这个:wo de zhe ge</mandarin> my heart <mandarin>心很痛:xin hen tong</mandarin> leh but, we already doing our best lah so hopefully


she can get better the the


, ya you're the, ah ya okay so,


okay lah so we just hope for the best lah <mandarin>替她祈祷:ti ta qi dao</mandarin> okay so how your your your your auntie your auntie the


, ya but your your your sister is the your sister like jill lah look after my younger sister your sister look after her <mandarin>他最吃力的:ta zui chi li de</mandarin> lor <mandarin>一个:yi ge</mandarin> is twenty four seven leh <mandarin>二二二十四小时每天:er er er shi si xiao shi mei tian</mandarin> leh


, , then cannot take bus she cannot walk,


so, but eh the nephew nieces all, err contributing lah helping lah so so we we also help in our own small way lah so just hope for the best lah hor


, then your sister working at the mum mum the pet shop how ah


ah,


but what what has the <mandarin>刀:dao</mandarin> got to do with her hand


so (uh huh), [orh] cut cut things ah then the the boss don't have like those err machine


no lah she must talk to her boss lah to this is called err <mandarin>深层:shen ceng</mandarin> productivity mah you use people to cut so slow then so dangerous then use machine ah to cut that faster and also long term cheaper because if


if <mandarin>他用这个这个人力:ta yong zhe ge zhe ge ren li</mandarin> wrongly or manpower hor,


, must see the benefit lah but maybe now <mandarin>现在刚刚开始:xian zai gang gang kai shi</mandarin> hor <mandarin>他他没有这个必要还是看不到啦因为:ta ta mei you zhe ge bi yao hai shi kan bu dao la yin wei</mandarin> (oo)


uh


ya ya lah


, err <mandarin>没没话讲的:mei mei hua jiang de</mandarin> lah <mandarin>没:mei</mandarin> people got eyes can see one lah that uh that's why they err


, , , okay,


(oo), hourly ah how much ah


I know I know I know I told you already we all if that side need help ah we try our best lah of course we are,


, , easier for everybody right err err unless you got one very one of us very rich tycoon ah then no issue lah everything Bao Kao Liao you know


, but, we everybody contribute or <mandarin>每个人一点点一点点呢就就加起来可以可以帮到给我们两边勒:mei ge ren yi dian dian yi dian dian ne jiu jiu jia qi lai ke yi ke yi bang dao gei wo men liang bian lei</mandarin> hor <mandarin>我那边我小:wo na bian wo xiao</mandarin> my little sister leh meaning <mandarin>这边:zhe bian</mandarin> ah, , err <mandarin>那个:na ge</mandarin> old auntie eh then your mother house your mother long time never see her already


eh very lucky lah your mother very healthy leh <mandarin>他真真的很健康:ta zhen zhen de hen jian kang</mandarin> leh very good


no no no no,


, , no but she she she she she work good


because ah if she can work means she is healthy, , ha <mandarin>如果退休在家里好像我退休在家里:ru guo tui xiu zai jia li hao xiang wo tui xiu zai jia li</mandarin> ah I tell you ah the brain ah starts to die you know <mandarin>那个:na ge</mandarin> the brain die ah <mandarin>就跟着:jiu gen zhe</mandarin> ah <mandarin>身体跟着一起去啊我跟你讲给做一辈子的工:shen ti gen zhe yi qi qu a wo gen ni jiang gei zuo yi bei zi de gong</mandarin> ah whole life ah slog ah no issue one


, leh,


okay lah <mandarin>我我:wo wo</mandarin> maybe today is what


, , , ya but now


, I think <mandarin>这个圣诞:zhe ge sheng dan</mandarin> new year <mandarin>跟这个:gen zhe ge</mandarin> chinese new year I think can forget it cannot be like, , previous years ah mass gathering already because, err I they opening up phase three I think


in january ah but the crowd control is still still there for mass when I wedding ah, , , err I think this is for the management to monitor lah maybe the server cannot cross over this so cross over ah that one is another no one gets ah forget about getting married we talk later our our son delayed already so we thought of this christmas new year or I think chinese new year ah also going to be very quiet leh


, , so I think this year must, , must own own family celebrate own family lah ah, own self enjoy own self lah PAP style lah own self check own self <mandarin>啦这个是:la zhe ge shi</mandarin> own self enjoy own self lah see lah see see


see the when they release, , , , , ah the ah the <mandarin>红包包给包给那个那个那个那个:hong bao bao gei bao gei na ge na ge na ge na ge</mandarin> government


okay,


!walao!, I think more more important is the the what you call that ah err border ah border can go holiday lah because err ah holiday ah go holiday very very very healthy for the mind like like like my sister she supposed go to this err


, err with with some brothers and friends supposed go to this this err china for holiday then came the the <mandarin>武汉:wu han</mandarin> the thing so they cancel, , luckily I asked them to cancel,


where they wanted to go I forgot but it's one thousand KM away so, , china ah <mandarin>很很多:hen hen duo</mandarin> cross borders that's why I I felt not safe I told him cancel lucky they cancel they got back all the money <mandarin>是:shi</mandarin> but delayed until now because the best


, the best for her now ah is, go holiday, , everyday locked at home ah


, then she keep thinking of the of the her her condition lah so that's why lah the other sister jill ah,


, <mandarin>就这个最好不:jiu zhe ge zui hao bu</mandarin> but I think very difficult leh, the


different ah <mandarin>在新加坡:zai xin jia po</mandarin> in singapore and then go holiday


, I mean of course better than nothing lah but if can go holiday ah is is different lah we also we also, when was your last holiday, last october lah <mandarin>今现在是:jin xian zai shi</mandarin> october lah


, !aiya! locked <mandarin>在家里:zai jia li</mandarin> ah <mandarin>跟你讲:gen ni jiang</mandarin> ah


ya ya, err <mandarin>一个礼拜:yi ge li bai</mandarin> two times ah <mandarin>去那边:qu na bian</mandarin> yoga <mandarin>跟那个:gen na ge</mandarin> err <mandarin>我的的这个三姐跟她的女儿:wo de de zhe ge san jie gen ta de nv er</mandarin> organise <mandarin>的:de</mandarin> yoga


err <mandarin>好像是:hao xiang shi</mandarin> every monday <mandarin>跟每个星期四这样:gen mei ge xing qi si zhe yang</mandarin> ah, a'ah <mandarin>一样吗没有:yi yang ma mei you</mandarin> change hor <mandarin>没有:mei you</mandarin> change hor,


ya lah his main job is err err what exercise his is what ah pilate or don't know what exercise that's main job, , cooking baking is just hobby different he only bake and cook for good friends but you ask him to cook and bake for to to sell <mandarin>做生意:zuo sheng yi</mandarin> err not now lah maybe one day when he retires ah <mandarin>她她不能再:ta ta bu neng zai</mandarin> exercise <mandarin>她也是要老了:ta ye shi yao lao le</mandarin> leh then he can think of <mandarin>去:qu</mandarin> bake cake <mandarin>做做生意:zuo zuo sheng yi</mandarin> lah <mandarin>现在要:xian zai yao</mandarin> I think he concentrate more on the the the the <mandarin>那个运动那边那个:na ge yun dong na bian na ge</mandarin> gym <mandarin>那边:na bian</mandarin> ah


, ya lah <mandarin>有她也是好啦真真的有是她她:you ta ye shi hao la zhen zhen de you shi ta ta</mandarin> !hey! <mandarin>她:ta</mandarin> (uh huh) <mandarin>昨天就跟我说他我妹妹的是:zuo tian jiu gen wo shuo ta wo mei mei de shi</mandarin> birthday [orh] err <mandarin>下个礼下个周末:xia ge li xia ge zhou mo</mandarin> ah <mandarin>她:ta</mandarin> changed <mandarin>跟她的这个:gen ta de zhe ge</mandarin> old old colleagues <mandarin>他们:ta men</mandarin> ah <mandarin>好像有:hao xiang you</mandarin> organise some surprise for her lah but don't don't let her know lah


, so (oo), ,


err you,


a'ah, err


, !wah! then avoid <mandarin>那个:na ge</mandarin> lunch crowd


after one lah one thirty like that lah <mandarin>一点半:yi dian ban</mandarin> lah ah


okay so tomorrow see how if no rain we go then after that leh maybe


waterloo street <mandarin>那个:na ge</mandarin> the <mandarin>观音观音:guan yin guan yin</mandarin> temple that one ah, [orh], then


the things there <mandarin>便宜:pian yi</mandarin> meh, then <mandarin>在:zai</mandarin> waste waste your effort only lah


[ho] <mandarin>还浪费时间:hai lang fei shi jian</mandarin> ah


, no I was I was thinking we tomorrow, , go and eat err Amoy street <mandarin>那边吃吃:na bian chi chi</mandarin> right then <mandarin>看我们查:kan wo men cha</mandarin> any any nice show because err


err we have this err senior citizen mah, err I heard <mandarin>这个:zhe ge</mandarin> #paya lebar# quarter ah, #paya lebar# quarter <mandarin>那边有这个:na bian you zhe ge</mandarin> shaw, shaw senior citizen before before <mandarin>六点:liu dian</mandarin> before <mandarin>六点超过六点:liu dian chao guo liu dian</mandarin> err <mandarin>没有:mei you</mandarin> err shaw <mandarin>好像比那个:hao xiang bi na ge</mandarin> golden village still cheaper ah golden village I think is <mandarin>五块:wu kuai</mandarin> shaw <mandarin>好像是:hao xiang shi</mandarin> four dollars ah so


, , err buy your whatever then if still got time ah before six ah <mandarin>我们可以:wo men ke yi</mandarin> rush down to this err #paya lebar# quarter there


err watch movie but must be before before six lah after six no more senior citizen


, , oh ya oh one more thing hor the <mandarin>那个:na ge</mandarin> ha err <mandarin>那个叫什么:na ge jiao shen me</mandarin> ah err <mandarin>那个叫:na ge jiao</mandarin> disposable mask ah err <mandarin>要完了:yao wan le</mandarin> leh


err the government give one lah the the cloth one I don't like the cloth one lah even though lah can wash ah but always stuck in my nose ah can cannot <mandarin>不可以呼吸的:bu ke yi hu xi de</mandarin> cannot breathe one


, but the the disposable one ah if everyday go out two three time throw away two three ah very very very, very expensive leh ah <mandarin>用很多:yong hen duo</mandarin> leh <mandarin>所以我们要:suo yi wo men yao</mandarin> like change change about lor some days we use the err cloth one some days we use the err <mandarin>那个纸的:na ge zhi de</mandarin> but the the <mandarin>那个纸的要完了所以:na ge zhi de yao wan le suo yi</mandarin> if tomorrow we go to the <mandarin>观音庙那边:guan yin miao na bian</mandarin> hor


if can find the err mask hor disposal mask hor, then I think we better buy but must must also check where made from lah cause some make in some country ah <mandarin>好像:hao xiang</mandarin> I think so called <mandarin>印印度跟印尼的:yin yin du gen yin ni de</mandarin> ah err err <mandarin>它的它的:ta de ta de</mandarin> quality ah


, err may it's it's not good,


(ugh), ah there are


no the <mandarin>黑色的:hei se de</mandarin> black one hor is not only the after wash already ah <mandarin>它:ta</mandarin> shrink like <mandarin>不:bu</mandarin> it's not only that leh, , , so everytime I breathe ha, it gets stuck in my nose I cannot breathe <mandarin>这个白色的:zhe ge bai se de</mandarin> hor <mandarin>它的这个布:ta de zhe ge bu</mandarin> oh <mandarin>比较好比较好像怎么讲啊比较:bi jiao hao bi jiao hao xiang zen me jiang a bi jiao</mandarin> harder lah so it doesn't when I breathe it doesn't it doesn't get stuck in my nose the nostril


, so <mandarin>比较容易呼吸那个白色的:bi jiao rong yi hu xi na ge bai se de</mandarin> ah the <mandarin>黑色的:hei se de</mandarin> ah very soft, so when I breathe ah the whole thing goes into my nose so cannot breathe then you're right after a few wash hor, I realise I cannot wear anymore like like like like like <mandarin>缩小:suo xiao</mandarin> ah


, if if you <mandarin>每天出去两三次:mei tian chu qu liang san ci</mandarin> ah


is very expenses as very expensive leh a'ah you not suppose you suppose not supposed to reuse like <mandarin>你回到家:ni hui dao jia</mandarin> ah <mandarin>你有出去的时候:ni you chu qu de shi hou</mandarin> you don't know whether got got got any virus stuck ah on the outside oh then you keep ah you reuse ah,


, that's why it's called disposable mah,


so this one ah cannot save the few cents ah wait Kena the Kena the virus ah, ah


ya ya err (ugh) chinese new year coming you say I think when ah, next year when ah (ugh) ya ya ha


february twelve ah, february twelve now is october october november december !wah! <mandarin>还有三个月:hai you san ge yue</mandarin> leh you want to


you want to (oo) redo the curtain you want to do the curtain for the the toilet door right you said must block up right what what the <mandarin>风水:feng shui</mandarin> say must use a curtain block out right


, I think ah john,


, so I think this year have to give it a miss lor to change your curtain, next year then change [orh] then good lor save save money <mandarin>省钱吗对不对省钱吗:sheng qian ma dui bu dui sheng qian ma</mandarin> this year <mandarin>都:dou</mandarin> <mandarin>我的七个月都没有工作的这这省钱:wo de qi ge yue dou mei you gong zuo de zhe zhe sheng qian</mandarin> save money lah


, a'ah, or I can fix myself lah self self do but must customise lah good good good, , take measurement then the difficult part ah <mandarin>那个难难度就是那个呃那个叫什么:na ge nan nan du jiu shi na ge e na ge jiao shen me</mandarin> curtain curtain curtain rack <mandarin>他的:ta de</mandarin> rack ah rail rail ah <mandarin>他的他的:ta de ta de</mandarin> curtain rail ah


err <mandarin>只有那个:zhi you na ge</mandarin> rack <mandarin>跟这个:gen zhe ge</mandarin> drilling ah <mandarin>我就比比我就觉得比较麻烦一点啊:wo jiu bi bi wo jiu jue de bi jiao ma fan yi dian a</mandarin> never mind we see how lah if if we're if if john can come out then you are changing the whole set of curtain,


then <mandarin>这个:zhe ge</mandarin> toilet <mandarin>这边的我我们再想办法:zhe bian de wo wo men zai xiang ban fa</mandarin> lah see how lah okay take measurement customise see anybody can where can where can what ah cut curtain sew curtain for us lah (ugh)


which one the road or the the the the the the fruit juice that one


[orh], err because <mandarin>那个:na ge</mandarin> err, , ,


, avoid sugar lah you know, err avoid sugar but the but the the berry the antioxidant vitamin A ah, it's very potent ah, but this one must even if she wants to try ah I think must wait for the the promotion ah <mandarin>买一送一啦买一送一就比较比较可以可以吃:mai yi song yi la mai yi song yi jiu bi jiao bi jiao ke yi ke yi chi</mandarin> lah


, err <mandarin>要不然:yao bu ran</mandarin> ah a one sachet ah <mandarin>四块多:si kuai duo</mandarin> leh


oh <mandarin>你是说:ni shi shuo</mandarin> a jill ah <mandarin>他自己要吃啊他没有说:ta zi ji yao chi a ta mei you shuo</mandarin> leh <mandarin>我我教他:wo wo jiao ta</mandarin> I recommend her eat the err pomegranate because pomegranate very good for ladies the ladies tend to get this what, , these are what UTI ah tract in in in tract infection ah you you <mandarin>你去看医生他他们也是叫你吃这个:ni qu kan yi sheng ta ta men ye shi jiao ni chi zhe ge</mandarin> ah pomegranate ah supplement so I told her already so she says she will consider lah but must wait for this <mandarin>买一送一:mai yi song yi</mandarin> lah


, , eh <mandarin>真的很贵:zhen de hen gui</mandarin> leh <mandarin>一个一个:yi ge yi ge</mandarin> sachet ah <mandarin>四块四块多一个:si kuai si kuai duo yi ge</mandarin> sachet ah !wah! <mandarin>才:cai</mandarin> thirty ML only leh, , ah so


but that one is like, err pure, pure fruit, , fruit extract lor, , err <mandarin>有参那个:you can na ge</mandarin> pear <mandarin>有参那个:you can na ge</mandarin> err pineapple <mandarin>有还有参那个什么:you hai you can na ge shen me</mandarin> ah,


, must go and ask the doctor lah because this pear she must avoid, , , agave is a plant extract natural sugar natural so I think it's is is is is is the healthier version of <mandarin>这个这个糖:zhe ge zhe ge tang</mandarin> lah but the the other one is


, they never put agave so I think it's a raw sugar, ,


, err then she's taking vitamin C so she already has vitamin C, so , err see how lah see how lah err but she told me lah <mandarin>如果有这个:ru guo you zhe ge</mandarin> promotion hor err she told me to alert her lor <mandarin>跟她讲跟她讲她才决定要不要买试一下:gen ta jiang gen ta jiang ta cai jue ding yao bu yao mai shi yi xia</mandarin> lah ah


, err eh then err this weekend we,


, you know they they they come out hor the the the box trip ah they arranged like a volcano that one ah that one,


can lah can lah


can can lah, ah we can go for the the volcano that one then after that go to (oo) one cafe sit down and then err


, , (ugh) <mandarin>如果五个人可以啦:ru guo wu ge ren ke yi la</mandarin> two table lah


ah


work saturday sunday leh, I alternate lah or alternate lah ya sub was sure one saturday and then the other one sunday lah alternate lah so very hard


err okay lah let let err let her call us lah, uh if she call us then we arrange lor if <mandarin>她没有打电话给我们就:ta mei you da dian hua gei wo men jiu</mandarin> we don't disturb them lah I think cause she also work monday to friday she always run outside


, , but I better go and look for a job also lah because you know why yesterday the insurance, medishield lah !wahpiang! !whoa! the the the premium this year the subsidy sub the government subsidy expired ah <mandarin>没有了:mei you le</mandarin> ah


!wah!


, it cause, , I


, !wah! then you better talk to err #che shen# ah, err about the whether they are thinking of err getting married next year because err lucky lucky they cancel this year


the lucky they cancel this year otherwise ah we last year if if you if if if if he book last year, , then we didn't know got this COVID mah so everything now cancelled so luckily he couldn't get, you couldn't get any reservation


ah <mandarin>这妳:zhe ni</mandarin> you you ask him lah you ask him whether he seriously want to consider next year then, , Sekali explosion again everything cancel again Jialat again so !wah! very hard to plan but anyway


his err <mandarin>他的:ta de</mandarin> HDB <mandarin>还要他的:hai yao ta de</mandarin> HDB <mandarin>也是:ye shi</mandarin> delay leh, now all the projects delay leh, , so her his HDB ah minimum ah must wait another, three four years now with the delay ah maybe three three four to five years (ugh) <mandarin>要要要要要要等四五年所以:yao yao yao yao yao yao deng si wu nian suo yi</mandarin> also <mandarin>没有:mei you</mandarin> hurry lah


, get married but important thing is, make sure lah, , make sure <mandarin>这个:zhe ge</mandarin> COVID ah err blow over


, ah <mandarin>至于这个最重要:zhi yu zhe ge zui zhong yao</mandarin> lah <mandarin>他他他他的女朋友的的的:ta ta ta ta de nv peng you de de de</mandarin> family <mandarin>也是很很迷信的啦也是:ye shi hen hen mi xin de la ye shi</mandarin> very superstitious ah,


, if he if he wants to really plan for next year ha, , next month <mandarin>要:yao</mandarin> ah err the the this month <mandarin>才去订:cai qu ding</mandarin> leh <mandarin>没有位的:mei you wei de</mandarin> leh


ha


so ya his ah got two, two problem leh even if singapore ah, ah okay you know, , the, ,


, because cannot be like, , singapore hold the wedding, , then


oh ya ya ya, ya ya ya ya ya ya the the in laws cannot fly over mah, bright if if if if if the our government don't allow, , indonesia, to come over they also cannot come here to attend the wedding mah then we also cannot go there to to to <mandarin>请他边那边的亲戚:qing ta bian na bian de qin qi</mandarin> !wah!


this one very tough to plan leh, , ah never mind lah when the we see the situation lah, the because singapore is well controlled


they <mandarin>你:ni</mandarin> you know lah that side the two more people the population so big, , two hundred and fifty how many ah, two hundred over million people leh


, ha, today thursday <mandarin>星期四:xing qi si</mandarin> ah eh


, , a'ah I also not so hungry mah, also nowadays I don't eat much also


where <mandarin>猪脚:zhu jiao</mandarin> where, (oo), (oo) <mandarin>那边啊:na bian a</mandarin>


, see how lah we plan lah because now very convenient mah direct line to direct line to chinatown mah <mandarin>对不对不用换不用换车吗直接直接:dui bu dui bu yong huan bu yong huan che ma zhi jie zhi jie</mandarin> one line to chinatown so very easy mah just that,


, err <mandarin>那边还有什么吃:na bian hai you shen me chi</mandarin> ah, , where where where #zi char#


[orh] the fish fish <mandarin>那个鱼片:na ge yu pian</mandarin> fish fish soup that one ah, or you can fish soup that one lah, err


see how [lah] see how [lah] wait [lah] wait [lah] see how


K, err, err, eh Ling what you doing ah, err,


(mmhmm), I see her, okay lah a bit tan then err, , a bit very tan ah that means dark dark ah maybe exercise or or what I don't know


what in what what you call that ah TCM ha something like that, err skin a bit dry up already lah


[orh], (oo)


(hmm) (hmm), err <mandarin>太裂的时候真的:tai lie de shi hou zhen de</mandarin> hor very very painful you know, , [orh], ah sometime we also got err like eczema rashes what then you scratch too much then it will spread mah then <mandarin>你去抓它它会:ni qu zhua ta ta hui</mandarin> <mandarin>越痒越痒:yue yang yue yang</mandarin> then <mandarin>痒痒的他就红红红红的:yang yang de ta jiu hong hong hong hong de</mandarin> then after you turn like inflammation like that lor so it's painful what is is some people body reaction some people <mandarin>一点点:yi dian dian</mandarin> somebody like ya some people can be very serious very hard to say right


ya lor


ya about that time doctor also very funny hor, , what you all say err, doctor said again actually the plant is


ya maybe <mandarin>是:shi</mandarin> slowly slowly, body reaction come out then become dry cracked all this, hopefully <mandarin>没事:mei shi</mandarin> lor,


, then, , I got message her also lah sometimes


ya, my aunt


my auntie ah so far she is okay lah, , err , after use like what you call that go to the GH there wash blood one <mandarin>会比较:hui bi jiao</mandarin> err better lor


, err last time at home wash water one, , err like a lot of, , a lot of err side effect lah also body, , err suddenly turn, , turn what you call that red red dark dark we also worried


, , then like that lor <mandarin>我们也是:wo men ye shi</mandarin> what this is what all we can do for her lah you know


ya ya, ya lor


(mmhmm) so far I think she quite enjoy lah but, , err sometimes hands I think err <mandarin>那那个:na na ge</mandarin> what you call that <mandarin>刀:dao</mandarin> ah


I think she enjoy lah but holding


, too much of the knife <mandarin>变成他的:bian cheng ta de</mandarin> right hand,


err <mandarin>因为:yin wei</mandarin> suddenly you change job right you hold too long also then because we <mandarin>我们也是老的吗:wo men ye shi lao de ma</mandarin> then they call like itching lor, so sometimes <mandarin>也是要:ye shi yao</mandarin> err, what you call that ah <mandarin>自己:zi ji</mandarin> massage ah


, won't work for long or what don't know lah up to her lah we also don't know about her,


, then suddenly she change this job you know then you got to use the knife


, hold for so many hours cut vegetable cut meat, then if you don't hold tight how you're going to cut meat


[orh] I think I think blender <mandarin>好像是有:hao xiang shi you</mandarin> certain thing need to blend but, , using to cut err <mandarin>真的我我不知道:zhen de wo wo bu zhi dao</mandarin> leh, (oo) but I think most of the time <mandarin>是:shi</mandarin> use, chop chop chop lor


, right lah but the ya lah just starting lah but the maybe further then see how the boss do lor because err <mandarin>我的姐姐你就知道:wo de jie jie ni jiu zhi dao</mandarin> lah <mandarin>他他是那种乖乖的:ta ta shi na zhong guai guai de</mandarin> lor then


, err <mandarin>不敢讲太多:bu gan jiang tai duo</mandarin> a lot of things lor you get what I mean or not, uh because <mandarin>她不像我:ta bu xiang wo</mandarin> mah


ah <mandarin>我是可以我就讲:wo shi ke yi wo jiu jiang</mandarin> hor right or not, , a'ah <mandarin>也是很感恩他:ye shi hen gan en ta</mandarin> lah because without her


, , err somemore <mandarin>他是一个:ta shi yi ge</mandarin> grand daughter leh Tiok mah


, so <mandarin>我也是:wo ye shi</mandarin> hope that she, ya lah


ya even she used her own salary sometime, half also contribute to the family she also never say anything ya lah this is err,


err before say hourly lah but now I also not sure I think still hourly lah you know singapore, how much ah, [orh] <mandarin>这个:zhe ge</mandarin> really <mandarin>我真的没有去问他:wo zhen de mei you qu wen ta</mandarin> leh because


ha ha, I mean,


got lah sometimes if err if I if I comfortable I also got help a bit lor, , do what we can lor


ya lah


got lah


my mother ah my mother, ya god bless lah, I always err ya always pray for her god bless lor although,


then you want her to work wait people <mandarin>看了以为我们不孝順:kan le yi wei wo men bu xiao shun</mandarin> so,


, then ya lah I mean got lah sometime I see her I got give her, , hundred dollar depends on my comfortable lah sometime I can,


then (mmhmm), , , she she give birth to me you know because I'm a mother now I'm at sixty then I realised how old people suffer sometime


, she may be very lonely since my father passed away early at the age of,


, ah <mandarin>帶她去出国:dai ta qu chu guo</mandarin> (oo) <mandarin>讲到来她也是蛮幸运了她讲她虽然是:jiang dao lai ta ye shi man xing yun le ta jiang ta sui ran shi</mandarin> <mandarin>做工做工我我看到我的朋友的身边他们的我的:zuo gong zuo gong wo wo kan dao wo de peng you de shen bian ta men de wo de</mandarin> friend all quite rich but I think they are hardly bring their mum go out like


holiday then I think back my mom still not so bad leh <mandarin>虽然他我们不是很有钱:sui ran ta wo men bu shi hen you qian</mandarin> not very rich but, , err my sister bring her quite a lot like go japan, australia china but I I give a bit <mandarin>红包:hong bao</mandarin> lah you know


, to err let her buy something like that lor, , a'ah I mean but


(hmm), , ya lah ya lah


right ah, , that's why [loh]


I think so


can ah see maybe like sunday <mandarin>还是:hai shi</mandarin> I think because think, , they off monday ah now ya <mandarin>拜一好像是对拜一:bai yi hao xiang shi dui bai yi</mandarin> lah see lah sunday or or


, then see lah see when the times come


the right time then can click <mandarin>就:jiu</mandarin> click lor because sometime <mandarin>你:ni</mandarin> make, early, can <mandarin>就喝茶喝咖啡:jiu he cha he ka fei</mandarin> lor like that lor


, , still can make a mix mix the next time lor <mandarin>对吗:dui ma</mandarin> right or not, ah <mandarin>不是说住在:bu shi shuo zhu zai</mandarin> JB <mandarin>还是什么:hai shi shen me</mandarin> <mandarin>新加坡:xin jia po</mandarin> only what


ya lor, ya lah <mandarin>八个:ba ge</mandarin> err not so bad already lor because err


, another two months err what you call that christmas new year coming, err <mandarin>每次有庆祝:mei ci you qing zhu</mandarin> then <mandarin>如果:ru guo</mandarin> one day


, you know like, very, , very what you call that ya, , err uneasy lor but ya lah now can <mandarin>八:ba</mandarin> which is better lah but I don't know chinese new year


, can fetch more or not we don't know hor


(mmhmm)


ya but, , ya


ya of course lah play safe more important lah if everybody play their part, err ya then the economic can open mah so everybody got jobs mah but because of like that, , new year ah crowd are more then


, err, , err it's okay what we can cook lah mean just for this year what then


, ya then sometime people don't take for granted mah go to one people's house then <mandarin>有的人就是吃吃:you de ren jiu shi chi chi</mandarin> #pai pai# I think now is also giving you let you know, this COVID hor err <mandarin>也是要教训我们呐做人呢:ye shi yao jiao xun wo men na zuo ren ne</mandarin> [orh] don't take for granted <mandarin>不然你看你你:bu ran ni kan ni ni</mandarin> you also know what some people eat eat go already


ah <mandarin>要感恩:yao gan en</mandarin> mah so ya lah, oh ya hor order oh


ya, ya but the, , again <mandarin>呐如果他去:na ru guo ta qu</mandarin> holiday <mandarin>对:dui</mandarin> lor <mandarin>如果:ru guo</mandarin> the last time <mandarin>如果去我们也是担心:ru guo qu wo men ye shi dan xin</mandarin> luckily, , err ya you stopped her you know in because if you go china a lot of thing


err not like singapore you know ah can immediate like that then, I mean china got china the law


but I think I think <mandarin>他:ta</mandarin> enjoy with <mandarin>他的那个一般的朋友:ta de na ge yi ban de peng you</mandarin> lor I see <mandarin>他:ta</mandarin> enjoy with <mandarin>他的朋友:ta de peng you</mandarin> more mah sister sister sister


a'ah I think so eh


(hmm),


ya ya, I think ya ya ya


a'ah <mandarin>那天他有给我吃那个:na tian ta you gei wo chi na ge</mandarin> cake ah jean <mandarin>做的那个:zuo de na ge</mandarin> cake [orh] really really very good [orh] not bad you know no such a nice guys can do make cake, , still can do a lot of err I mean I mean he's a coach lah but amazing lor she he can handle quite a lot of thing then


, I ask your sister why not err, he can sell cake then he say cannot, , err <mandarin>教人呐人是这样呐啦虽然是会做:jiao ren na ren shi zhe yang na la sui ran shi hui zuo</mandarin> but <mandarin>他还是:ta hai shi</mandarin> prefer


, err as a coach mah you know have more friends ah some people like to, , like to what you call that, , err <mandarin>接接触跟人家:jie jie chu gen ren jia</mandarin> (ugh) (ugh) enjoy with friends lah like that lah cakes this is like occasion like that only lor ya but


, ya lah then that's why


ya lah ya lah ya lah, oh ya hor <mandarin>那个:na ge</mandarin> Amoy street <mandarin>那边:na bian</mandarin> I forget hor err <mandarin>那边有一个那个:na bian you yi ge na ge</mandarin> err <mandarin>鱼汤啊那个叫:yu tang a na ge jiao</mandarin> Batang eh <mandarin>不错:bu cuo</mandarin> leh not bad leh


eh cheap and cheap and good, but if you want to go there I think err lunchtime <mandarin>蛮多人:man duo ren</mandarin> leh, , err <mandarin>最好是:zui hao shi</mandarin> err <mandarin>一点半两点到那边:yi dian ban liang dian dao na bian</mandarin> hor the crowd is not so bad


, a'ah okay lah they serve quite fast ah although <mandarin>是那个:shi na ge</mandarin> what you call that long queue, , err there's still got other stall lor err like what you call that dessert also very nice I heard from julie, , julie and her husband a'ah,


always go there I think one week once for fish, (uh huh) ya very nice lah mean nice ah cheap lah, I think <mandarin>是两点半:shi liang dian ban</mandarin> ah <mandarin>两点半:liang dian ban</mandarin> ah I think <mandarin>两点半半:liang dian ban ban</mandarin> ah but last people come I think they can serve up to two forty five like that lah


ya lah, ya ya, after that maybe I can go to this err waterloo street there I might want to buy,


, I need to buy something lah you know something that, I like lor you know I like one lah so


, , a'ah because there a lot, amy ah


but neighbourhood


, I mean ya lah <mandarin>一分钱一分货:yi fen qian yi fen huo</mandarin> lor <mandarin>我我我:wo wo wo</mandarin> I still prefer to go there and buy lah you know then like new year I always err meet ann julie go there and buy they also go there and buy,


I mean, (hmm)


can lah then err see lah see how tomorrow err what time, I wake up early then if I do housework already, , everything settle you know you know me lah must do housework do do do finish first before go out mah then we can reach there earlier then one place to another


if not if go like around one two o'clock then by the time you reach quarter there, , you know lah <mandarin>我我很累:wo wo hen lei</mandarin> lah then then, , see how tomorrow lor then ya lah but of course tomorrow if we can go to the waterloo to there


, then <mandarin>看看:kan kan</mandarin> lor <mandarin>也是要拜拜吗要年要来了:ye shi yao bai bai ma yao nian yao lai le</mandarin> mah then, err even, sometime you not around I also one year don't know


ah, ya


[orh]


ah, ah


ah, ya ya


, , err <mandarin>他那个:ta na ge</mandarin> latest they they give the the white colour the cloth I find that the white one is better than the <mandarin>那个黑色的那个那黑色的:na ge hei se de na ge na hei se de</mandarin> <mandarin>越洗:yue xi</mandarin> hor <mandarin>不懂:bu dong</mandarin> uh <mandarin>好像会缩缩水啊:hao xiang hui suo suo shui a</mandarin> err err err string ah ya string then


ya, ya ya that's why I trying to err throw away all those err the the black one after using


, err almost got ten over to twenty times the white one really really very good <mandarin>因为:yin wei</mandarin> the white one, ,


, ah


ya of course


ya ya, ya, of course lah certain thing cannot save mah like now got COVID try to play safe keep ourselves clean, , you know err you know we we we we can still alive I think we have to thanks god you know so many people die because of COVID so ya I also find that after this half year of COVID things also don't take for granted so don't because save a few cents ah you know so ya lor I mean I mean the few cents still can earn back right or not


, I think february, february


ya ya


ya actually I was thinking quite some time already actually I don't want to me but


okay lah I mean all these fear <mandarin>我给:wo gei</mandarin> ah john <mandarin>做我很满意:zuo wo hen man yi</mandarin> so <mandarin>如果在那个:ru guo zai na ge</mandarin> err toilet <mandarin>那边:na bian</mandarin> if I make don't know what colour should I choose lor


(hmm)


then okay lah we maybe either do or don't do or get a cheaper one ah then,


, jill <mandarin>那个会比较麻烦:na ge hui bi jiao ma fan</mandarin> if not then, , curtain I can settle myself lah it I can use old one and then if if not I can go, Kallang there cut lor then see how never mind never mind that one see another one and a half month then see how oh ya hor your sister got buy the


korean ginseng or not ha because err I think you recommend right you Kaypoh lah then, I think <mandarin>是那个那个:shi na ge na ge</mandarin> fruit juice lor,


(oo)


, your your <mandarin>你对有钱:ni dui you qian</mandarin> sister lor ,


no, UTI


no lah christmas I think definitely <mandarin>他们有:ta men you</mandarin> err offer promotion <mandarin>一定有的:yi ding you de</mandarin> because err,


!wow!


ya lah


ya, ya lah ya lah I mean I mean


ya ya ya, I mean for #ah jill# okay but I think err <mandarin>最好你的:zui hao ni de</mandarin> sister don't recommend <mandarin>他这个:ta zhe ge</mandarin> korean korean juice <mandarin>因为坦白讲里面是蛮甜:yin wei tan bai jiang li mian shi man tian</mandarin> but <mandarin>甜是那个:tian shi na ge</mandarin> err natural <mandarin>的甜:de tian</mandarin> but for her case we also worried don't anyhow recommend so long <mandarin>他有吃:ta you chi</mandarin> err <mandarin>青苹果:qing ping guo</mandarin> lah (uh huh) that fruits that are not too sweet <mandarin>因为你刚才讲那个维他命蛮维他命里面也是:yin wei ni gang cai jiang na ge wei ta ming man wei ta ming li mian ye shi</mandarin> natural sweet but for my children to eat the vitamin C they said very sweet you know


so I don't know what sweet the direction <mandarin>是讲:shi jiang</mandarin> natural but who knows <mandarin>真的是:zhen de shi</mandarin> natural <mandarin>所以最好他是会吃一点酸甜不要太甜:suo yi zui hao ta shi hui chi yi dian suan tian bu yao tai tian</mandarin> <mandarin>啊因为:a yin wei</mandarin> body <mandarin>现在有这样那不要等下吃了怪这个怪那个:xian zai you zhe yang na bu yao deng xia chi le guai zhe ge guai na ge</mandarin> <mandarin>麻烦:ma fan</mandarin> ah right right <mandarin>哈:ha</mandarin> sometime we are <mandarin>好心:hao xin</mandarin> then


ya like that lor,


ah singapore is like that what eat, ,


[orh] see how lah, oh ya hor, (hmm)


ya because I don't call amy <mandarin>因为现在他的先生也是做工:yin wei xian zai ta de xian sheng ye shi zuo gong</mandarin> so it's very hard for me, , to err plan <mandarin>那个时间:na ge shi jian</mandarin> but err I think now is amy,


, I try not to disturb them lah because work is work weekend is their rest day, , so <mandarin>有时间是现在他们打给我以前是我打给他因为现:you shi jian shi xian zai ta men da gei wo yi qian shi wo da gei ta yin wei xian</mandarin> now her husband need to work saturday and sunday so don't know which and saturday <mandarin>有做还是:you zuo hai shi</mandarin> sunday uh <mandarin>有休息:you xiu xi</mandarin> I really don't know I try not to disturb her


, then for my son, , alternate mah, ya so I don't want to keep asking mah


I mean


I mean, of course hopefully the COVID err


vanish soon then, , , , get rid you know also


err ya lah times have to wait lor ya, hopefully the economic err, , can open soon so a'ah so a lot of people won't be suffering lor you know, , ya


ah, ya oh


ya quite lucky also lah


ya, ya


ya because ah also ya lah like what you say <mandarin>也是蛮:ye shi man</mandarin> lucky <mandarin>的:de</mandarin> lor, , err <mandarin>他也是有一点头痛:ta ye shi you yi dian tou tong</mandarin> lah because,


, , can't give me the correct answer you know or not so ya a lot of thing like you know after this COVID hanging there a lot of thing very hard to do so so I will see hers choose a good day have a nice


err break with him lor see how lor like that lor,


that's right, ya, that's why he very hard to plan let's say singapore can maybe open slowly (ugh) up to maybe fifty eighty then <mandarin>现在:xian zai</mandarin> uh Jakarta <mandarin>那边如果:na bian ru guo</mandarin> can cannot open <mandarin>那边也是:na bian ye shi</mandarin> err start cannot come over here so the planning is really really difficult here open there not open so you know my son headache you know


, ya


ya I got


never mind lah see how lah eh how ah the this err dinner later go where ah, ya I need coffee also you know


(hmm)


, the store that the last time when we when we err #pak tor# then we eat from the uncle


the store the <mandarin>苦瓜:ku gua</mandarin> ah <mandarin>苦瓜肉什么:ku gua rou shen me</mandarin> I don't know what you call that, ah, ya


ya [lor]


okay, and, you connected to your earphone already, okay, okay so


, you wanna tell me your day first or do you want me to tell you mine, okay okay so apparently like I think ah it was about three days ago I think lah then afterwards I went out I went out with james okay so the first time I remember like ya <mandarin>我们第一次出去出去:wo men di yi ci chu qu chu qu</mandarin> ah <mandarin>看电影的时候:kan dian ying de shi hou</mandarin> <mandarin>的时候:de shi hou</mandarin> right I I was wearing short shorts then <mandarin>你知道吗:ni zhi dao ma</mandarin> like in a sense that ah I didn't we didn't plan to go in like to watch movie initially but then like when we were like like when we were out halfway through right then I wanted to like surprise him lah because like it is nice what you know like <mandarin>惊喜:jing xi</mandarin> once in a while that kind of thing okay so then ya so I bought ah movie tickets then we ran over then because like <mandarin>我在穿着:wo zai chuan zhe</mandarin> <mandarin>短裤:duan ku</mandarin> so the entire time in the movie theatre right then I was shivering I was I was shivering so afterwards like how do we say err so okay so for first half the movie right then like <mandarin>我一直把他推开:wo yi zhi ba ta tui kai</mandarin> so in a


cause it's like [you know] we have to keep like <mandarin>男女授受不清:nan nv shou shou bu qing</mandarin> like my mom will always say that kind of thing, ya so the, so he was very respectful towards that


ya correct like <mandarin>他没有做什么东西:ta mei you zuo shen me dong xi</mandarin> ah then then afterwards ah so we went back then he told me next time round when we go to watch the movie he will bring blanket for me and then ya he will bring a hoodie for me to make so that I'll be comfortable in the theatre so okay so a few days back when we went to the movie again right then he brought a big backpack


, then


no no no like <mandarin>他没有跟我讲他要牵我的手他只是把他的手拿出来而已:ta mei you gen wo jiang ta yao qian wo de shou ta zhi shi ba ta de shou na chu lai er yi</mandarin> then but so so okay so I thought I I thought that he was going to warm me up and then afterwards I give him my hand then when I gave him my hand then <mandarin>他关他的手:ta guan ta de shou</mandarin> then after that so like like we were holding hands for for one second and then afterwards I pushed him away like pushed his hand away


ya then I also didn't dare to look at him because err I felt bad like I knew I knew that he was like a little bit sad but then like like <mandarin>我不敢开口因为我也是很:wo bu gan kai kou yin wei wo ye shi hen</mandarin> ya <mandarin>我有点尴尬也是对所以我也:wo you dian gan ga ye shi dui suo yi wo ye</mandarin> so is just like okay lor then then I kept quiet so after we came out from the theatre right then <mandarin>他跟我道歉:ta gen wo dao qian</mandarin> sia


then <mandarin>他:ta</mandarin> uh <mandarin>他跟我道歉:ta gen wo dao qian</mandarin> then afterwards he said that he felt embarrassed and then he apologised for it so afterwards I say like apology accepted, then he say like at least now he knows his boundary better


you know


and then the last grab driver it was so pissing because , like he said I like it it showed nine minutes right and then <mandarin>他没有过:ta mei you guo</mandarin> like he didn't even he didn't even drive towards me <mandarin>你知道吗他越越驾越远:ni zhi dao ma ta yue yue jia yue yuan</mandarin> leh


then <mandarin>我看到我很不爽:wo kan dao wo hen bu shuang</mandarin> mah then <mandarin>不用紧:bu yong jin</mandarin> eh <mandarin>我:wo</mandarin> just <mandarin>等:deng</mandarin> just <mandarin>等:deng</mandarin> ya <mandarin>我等了十五分钟你知道吗:wo deng le shi wu fen zhong ni zhi dao ma</mandarin> <mandarin>十五分钟他没有过来然后我:shi wu fen zhong ta mei you guo lai ran hou wo</mandarin> just okay you know what like this is not happening and then after I cancel on the grab and then like my friend went tomy friend went to called another grab driver and then the grab driver just park


after <mandarin>五分钟如果他没有来:wu fen zhong ru guo ta mei you lai</mandarin> right then <mandarin>我:wo</mandarin> just you know what I'm not waiting anymore and then for ten minutes straight he was just park he was just like stationery opposite our block


and then okay so in the end right we waited for <mandarin>准准一个小时你知道吗所以一个小时过后:zhun zhun yi ge xiao shi ni zhi dao ma suo yi yi ge xiao shi guo hou</mandarin> right then like <mandarin>到我家到我家的时候:dao wo jia dao wo jia de shi hou</mandarin> then okay the car parked right in front of my block and as I was coming out of the door he was walking out of my house already like he was leaving


and then his phone was dead and everything so afterwards I felt really bad and then I apologise to him but he wasn't mad at me, ya he was being very understanding and then he he sobered up already, <mandarin>因为他等太久了:yin wei ta deng tai jiu le</mandarin> ya so afterwards like so then after in the end then I felt apologetic right but then in return he came to massage my hand


instead of me trying to, , no he like he he asked me if I want I wanted a massage


uh <mandarin>因为我按我按到一半:yin wei wo an wo an dao yi ban</mandarin> right then <mandarin>他看他睁开眼睛你知道吗然后他瞪着我:ta kan ta zheng kai yan jing ni zhi dao ma ran hou ta deng zhe wo</mandarin> <mandarin>他:ta</mandarin> just


is like you know when is the kind of look that you'll give to another party when, you like them that kind of thing, uh <mandarin>没有他等我一个小时他怎么可能不:mei you ta deng wo yi ge xiao shi ta zen me ke neng bu</mandarin> sober up


then he told me, it's because I'm looking at the person that I really like


ya then he told me that when he was drinking in a bar then there was two there were two ladies and then one of the lady said that he was really cute, and then wanted his number so his friend gave away his number


and the and after the two ladies left right then one then the lady went to text him, there the lady went to text him and say like !hey! it's err erica X so X means like hugs and kisses right so it's is kisses so afterwards then he said he said !hey! then afterward they went to text like for a few minutes straight I guess he didn't really tell me much about it but he told me that the next day right he will


he will text her which is today lah he will text her and then like make it clear that, he's actually like <mandarin>他心目中已经有别人了:ta xin mu zhong yi jing you bie ren le</mandarin> which is me, ya then afterwards then I say I told him but then she didn't even tell you that she likes you so what makes you so sure that you know like she is interested in you and then he told like when he was when they were both in the club then then the atmosphere and everything add up together you could just feel it you know that kind of thing so I was like err


no they didn't do anything but then like so I asked myself like am I jealous then I told him like <mandarin>随你便:sui ni bian</mandarin> like if you're interested just go and talk to her and make friends lah <mandarin>交个朋友:jiao ge peng you</mandarin> what it's not wrong at all you know ya but but afterwards then he said what's the point of talking to her I'm not even interested in her and


and I already like you so like he he didn't want to waste his time so ya then in the end I I don't know I don't know if he still talking to her or what because like when we were like when we were together just now right like he on his phone and then the notifications were were there and he just immediately like he put away his phone you know


cause like suspicious but okay, n~he he he turned away his phone is like if you don't have anything to hide then <mandarin>你不需要你不需要把你的电话放开的:ni bu xu yao ni bu xu yao ba ni de dian hua fang kai de</mandarin> what


you you understand what I mean right so ya, ya correct it was kind of suspicious but then like <mandarin>我没有去看他电话:wo mei you qu kan ta dian hua</mandarin> lor because we're nothing so ya in the end okay I guess it was like that so he send me home just now and then like he's over at his brother's place now to drink and have social night I guess


so ya, all is good, ya I guess you can say so <mandarin>我没有跟他告白:wo mei you gen ta gao bai</mandarin> like I didn't tell him that he asked me if I like him and stuff and then I just told him like no I'm not interested in you so don't think too much into it ah and then and then he just smirked at me but okay all is good


so how was your buddy outing


eh but but Raj <mandarin>那时那时候不是:na shi na shi hou bu shi</mandarin> send <mandarin>在我们的:zai wo men de</mandarin> group <mandarin>里面:li mian</mandarin> that uh night safari is having a fifty percent off for admission, ya didn't you see it [orh] don't know


yes the normal ticket price is I think over thirty over dollar but then right now they are having a fifty per cent off the movie dates movie dates, wait the telegram group is call movie dates or movie ideas I guess


, yes <mandarin>五十巴先折扣:wu shi ba xian zhe kou</mandarin> eh,


okay so basically what happened downstair was that like so I I went to Seven Eleven to get drinks


ya they broke off and they patch back together then they then he say things are going very well between them then I say is too soon to speak like you guys literally just got back together you should wait until like the first time you guys fight and then you will know if things did really get get better or not so ya then afterwards like <mandarin>那女孩子真的是有一点我觉得:na nv hai zi zhen de shi you yi dian wo jue de</mandarin> lah <mandarin>她是有一点:ta shi you yi dian</mandarin> psycho <mandarin>的因为那时候他们他们分手的原因:de yin wei na shi hou ta men ta men fen shou de yuan yin</mandarin> right is because


like, how do I say it <mandarin>那时候她讲:na shi hou ta jiang</mandarin> CB period mah circuit breaker then she was very bored because all her friends are in army like guys so she don't really have a lot of female friends so that's okay you know then after then he was trying to be nice you know <mandarin>烂:lan</mandarin> the <mandarin>烂好人:lan hao ren</mandarin> that he is so afterwards he said he suggested for her to make more new girlfriends and then she just got annoyed at him and then say like


uh you know what I seriously hate talking to you seriously then after that then he got he got mad ah because he was trying to be nice but then in in return right like, she got annoyed and then like even flared at him so he couldn't take it then after he said like I don't even know what I did wrong and stuff and then in the end she asked for a break up you know


like over this small trivial matter then like he didn't want to break up initially but then , he then she kept insisting on breaking up so afterwards he said you know what


let's break up then and then she came back and then begged him to stay


ya because like he was very bored in camp and stuff so I didn't really reply him much lah then one day like one one rainy day he texted me and then he said that okay don't text me because I'm going with her then I was like okay lor like but I'm not even texting you in the first place but okay I'll respect that then one week later he came back and text me and then he told me that they patch back already so I was like !huh! like what like why what what happened like you were the one who didn't you want a relationship then you come back telling me that you guys patch back already so I didn't understand it then so I asked him are you texting me behind her back


and then he said yes just told him like I don't think she would like it if she were to find out lah like when you broke up and stuff and then she looked through your our conversation then <mandarin>如果她看到的话:ru guo ta kan dao de hua</mandarin> then obviously <mandarin>她不会开心:ta bu hui kai xin</mandarin> what <mandarin>如果我是他女朋友的话我也是一定会生气的:ru guo wo shi ta nv peng you de hua wo ye shi yi ding hui sheng qi de</mandarin> so


is because he was bored in camp he lost money in Mahjong


ya exactly <mandarin>我朋友跟我讲然后他没有跟我讲:wo peng you gen wo jiang ran hou ta mei you gen wo jiang</mandarin> mah then when <mandarin>他:ta</mandarin> text <mandarin>我回的时候:wo hui de shi hou</mandarin> right then <mandarin>我:wo</mandarin> just <mandarin>问他你是不是跟她复合:wen ta ni shi bu shi gen ta fu he</mandarin> then <mandarin>他讲:ta jiang</mandarin> [orh] ya <mandarin>我们已经:wo men yi jing</mandarin> like patch back together already so I was like [orh] okay sure uh as long as you are happy then like what if the boat floats you do you you know then afterwards then uh then I told him that I don't think his girlfriend would like it if she were to find out and then he said that's true but the thing is I don't think she will ever find out


and then I got so shock you know I got so mad for a moment then I told him like <mandarin>你哪里可以你做人哪里可以这样子想的如果:ni na li ke yi ni zuo ren na li ke yi zhe yang zi xiang de ru guo</mandarin> like <mandarin>我是女我是你的如果我是你的女朋友的话我一定会不喜欢的:wo shi nv wo shi ni de ru guo wo shi ni de nv peng you de hua wo yi ding hui bu xi huan de</mandarin> what is like <mandarin>你在我背后做这种东西:ni zai wo bei hou zuo zhe zhong dong xi</mandarin> then <mandarin>你在我的前面:ni zai wo de qian mian</mandarin> like <mandarin>你当做你是一个好男朋友这些东西:ni dang zuo ni shi yi ge hao nan peng you zhe xie dong xi</mandarin> so he understood it lah then he said like he apologise lor and then he told me like okay you know what then let's just end it here goodbye


ya then that was it so then we just ended the conversation there, then we then he deleted he deleted the whole conversation you know so I was like !wow! this guy he knows how to hide things really well I wonder if like when he was together with me he got do the same thing or not lah so ya


, that's true, but okay you, gladys what about gladys,


, ya ya previous drama


ya I was towards the end only, !huh!, are you for real


okay


I don't know eh but, oh I don't know ya I think it's like what Raj said, like she tries really hard to be in the good book of everyone I guess, ya but okay lah <mandarin>不用紧:bu yong jin</mandarin> lah but hor did you see Fen'S Instagram story


okay so okay she posted, that she went like it was just a very short Instagram story she posted that she went out like with her friend and stuff so I was wondering if like you know when she ranted about G three as a whole


ya then


correct correct because if you are her friend you will ask her right, ya exactly so like I think yesterday or something then she went with the entire group of friend to like her own batch of friends ah to eat KBBQ then afterwards then I was thinking (hmm) if her friends were to ask her right then she would definitely spill every single thing


ya if she bothers to then after that I was thinking like !wah! it will really put us in a very bad light and then like I was wondering okay if she's this kind of person right like if only her friends know I don't know lah it's just like


then I don't know, will her friends view her the same way also because it's like <mandarin>她转也很快:ta zhuan ye hen kuai</mandarin> what


(mmhmm)


oh ya what happened what happened with #hui en# ah, she was


(mmhmm), okay Kai ask about me


(uh huh), , but why


with, I think is because like


oh then, then then Nadia Nadia would know what, (uh huh) oh ya honestly I don't I don't know lah okay maybe maybe it's just me or what but I feel that


when you leave the organisation already right then, like you you literally have nothing to do with the organisation anymore okay so just get on with your life and then like don't bother with whatever that's left


#hui en#


[orh] not


[orh], , ya I get it and did you see the like the year twos outing


yes and not only that do you see Norin actually ran, ya, then I okay I have no hard feelings with Norin okay we are we're on very good terms but the thing is just like ya is exactly like what I said just now lah is when you leave the organisation then I don't think like like <mandarin>你走你的路我走我的路:ni zou ni de lu wo zou wo de lu</mandarin> you don't need to have anything to do with the organisation anymore you know that kind of thing so because I heard a whole entire saga with Nadiah and #hui en# also mah as well as like basically <mandarin>他们的:ta men de</mandarin> entire buddy line


like whatever we heard about them right maybe she's a part of it also and then I will just like <mandarin>我心里感到不爽:wo xin li gan dao bu shuang</mandarin> lah but then I also cannot do anything about it <mandarin>因为:yin wei</mandarin> like, I'm in no position also mah and then it's like you can't really help it also I feel it's just how it's like for them it's a norm for them to be talking about people and then like saying things behind other peoples' back so you do you lah but then also because I'm quite close with her then


it's quite sad that she has O be in that buddy line in all honesty, (uh huh)


Norin ya okay the thing is that during the MC-ing thing right like me and adam we got ask her if like she's interested and then she got tell us that okay before she die right she at least want to try one time because you only live once that kind of thing so but she won't she won't get hooked onto it she just wants to try but then like so when we were smoking then of course like you know we try to be more brother with her and then like we like we ask her if you want


oh no <mandarin>我们没有我:wo men mei you wo</mandarin> or err <mandarin>只是我和:zhi shi wo he</mandarin> adam <mandarin>而已他没有他没有抽烟:er yi ta mei you ta mei you chou yan</mandarin> but the thing is like so we just like I just ask her lah if you want to try, ya and then she told me that she didn't she didn't want to try because she wasn't in the mood for it


but then if next time we were to go out and stuff then maybe she'll be she she's feeling more adventurous than she would give it a go ya but then like I didn't know that she smokes


ya I get it but as your as her senior like as Norin senior and stuff right <mandarin>你做人你也是不可以这样子的:ni zuo ren ni ye shi bu ke yi zhe yang zi de</mandarin> what like


exactly puts ambassadors in a very very bad light and it's not just that she also once told me that during their first buddy outing right then I don't know it was Nadiah or what I think because there are group of like alcoholics I guess then you know what Nadiah did like the very first time round the first thing Nadiah did was to offer her a glass of beer and she's muslim


I don't know lah but then like <mandarin>有一次:you yi ci</mandarin> right she told me that she actually ran away from home because her sister wasn't like was mistreating her like wasn't very wasn't very kind to her and stuff so she couldn't take it then afterwards she just ran away from home and then but after a few weeks she went back to our house ah but I don't know what exactly she did and stuff


ya exactly that is the thing she didn't go, <mandarin>她住在她的:ta zhu zai ta de</mandarin> grandma <mandarin>的家:de jia</mandarin> but okay the thing is that she got a lot of family problems like she don't like her relatives is not that she has a family problem is just that have relatives likes to compare a lot because you know like we're living in singapore


okay it's like a norm elderly to compare like the children's together so ya then after that they always like compare her to her siblings and stuff say I don't know if it's in terms of academics or other things so ya then afterwards she couldn't take it anymore and then like her sister was also like every single time when like something was going wrong her sister will always like put her down in a way so after that she couldn't take it because like <mandarin>是做姐妹的:shi zuo jie mei de</mandarin> what <mandarin>你哪里可以这样子:ni na li ke yi zhe yang zi</mandarin> sia like you should be supporting one another have each other's back but in the end you like going against me and stuff so she felt very demoralised


no eh she's the eldest leh in her whole family, ya correct her younger sister, so afterward I like like you're an older sister you should set a line a boundary that your sister should not cross what like why did you let her disrespect you like that and then she just say it's it's just her family lor I guess


ya but but things are going well now for her, which is good


I think it's because like #an hui# and dinny wanted to, ya correct


like you know, ambassadors like we don't stay because of the organisation itself but then we stay because of like the friends that we made throughout the journey is the company ya so I think that's why it works for them lah but then like for Norin she felt that she could do a lot more things outside of ambassador that's why she left alone


ya, but okay but ya that was just very tilting for me and I guess but now is that I don't even know if I can trust her with my things you know


, ya okay lah as long as like


and and ya she's quite pretty religious one you know she always wear very covered clothings whenever she goes out but her recent Instagram stories right she's been wearing more and more revealing like more <mandarin>暴露:bao lu</mandarin> and then I'm not very comfortable with it not because she's a muslim but because like I have the thought that maybe is because of the bad influence that like her buddy have on her then like <mandarin>我看到也是:wo kan dao ye shi</mandarin> like <mandarin>有点不顺眼:you dian bu shun yan</mandarin> lah but <mandarin>我也是:wo ye shi</mandarin> I cannot even do anything about it ya


it's her life right,


ya, , ya


(mmhmm)


oh so he has no idea


you told him, and then he is response


, (uh huh)


, I want to tell Tamya so badly


correct then !wah! the most pissing thing was that like you got see their story


both both Tamya and Shahil took an Instagram story together and then they put a heart shape and oh my god I it took all of my courage to not text her !eww!


no okay like they I I don't think they did a hand heart shape or something but they were just basically practically like very close to one another and then I don't know if she drunk I don't think she drank but then her face was damn red


ya and I, ya ya ya I they they went fat papas but I don't know I don't know her face was just very red okay so I was like oh you better not go and drink with them ya so afterwards I was like !wow! I was so tilted leh like you don't even know the things that are happening behind the scenes like if only you knew then like everything will change lah


err but I don't think though like <mandarin>我不觉得她会知道:wo bu jue de ta hui zhi dao</mandarin> because like, (mmhmm)


no she doesn't,


maybe he's trying to prove a point that year threes cannot do it


(uh huh), oh my god I can't sia okay basically okay you know two days ago right <mandarin>我的朋友:wo de peng you</mandarin> like <mandarin>带:dai</mandarin> she ran away from home, okay so ah after she ran away from home because she had family problem so she came over to my house to stay for the night then okay then I just took her in then that's fine but because like her family tradition is they are pretty strict


okay then so to her like all her life it's a norm for her to be living like with curfews and everything basically just she has to do house chores and then like not being able to go out as much as other people okay then for me is my family is is quite modern in that sense like they weren't really uh they weren't really get pissed off or like they weren't lock me outside the house if I were to come home after like past midnight lah you know like cinderella and stuff okay so then that's fine you know so I went down I went down to smoke the other day like when she was in the


kitchen like she was in the bathroom showering right so as I come like I came out of the house then my mum was chatting with her then that's fine that's pretty normal okay but the thing is like as they were chatting halfway so I came in to the door and ask them like what you guys talking about because my mum speaks chinese and all right so afterwards ya then


err so I ask her like what are you guys chatting about then my friend told me that I told your mum that she should be more strict with you, so I got I got quite annoyed and frustrated and then I ask her like like tiffany <mandarin>你不要这样做:ni bu yao zhe yang zuo</mandarin> like what are you trying to do


no no <mandarin>她不知道抽烟:ta bu zhi dao chou yan</mandarin> that's the thing she doesn't know I smoke the thing is like because I every like I come home quite late around like twelve AM one AM and stuff


okay then afterwards like because to her all her life right she's been living with curfews and stuff so the fact that my mom lets me come home at a later timing right it's not normal for her and then like basically she is just trying to find things with me ah <mandarin>她跟我找茬:ta gen wo zhao cha</mandarin> no but she didn't she didn't have any ill intentions she just casually made a remark so I told her like tiffany <mandarin>你在做什么:ni zai zuo shen me</mandarin> sia like you don't you don't like that so I didn't say any I didn't continue my conversation and then she told me like what trying to sneak on you


then I I just like no you don't create more troubles for me and then okay so after like my parents went to sleep and stuff right then she told me like she like she looked at me and she told me like eh


<mandarin>你应该:ni ying gai</mandarin> you should change your group of friends then okay the thing is like I don't really tell my parents which group of friends I hang out with, okay so to them right whenever I come home late they would think that, I I am hang out with bad companies


okay but then I've I always hang out with the same usual group of people so and I'm very selective in terms of the friends that I make so I know that for I know for a fact that my friends are not bad companies is just that we spend a lot more time outside talking and stuff that's why we come home late so okay I told her like do you even know the friends that I hang out with apart from you guys then she told me no then I say then <mandarin>你有什么资格讲我在外面交损友你根本都不知道我在这我在跟谁:ni you shen me zi ge jiang wo zai wai mian jiao sun you ni gen ben dou bu zhi dao wo zai zhe wo zai gen shui</mandarin>


like <mandarin>我是我跟谁出去这些东西:wo shi wo gen shui chu qu zhe xie dong xi</mandarin> ah then afterwards then she say ya that's true and I'm just like okay then never mind then the next day which is like yesterday lah okay then I went to my friend's house to do FYP then my mum called me, okay so she asked me where I am and stuff et cetera like the usual check up and then she told me


then after I just I just I shocked you know so I kept quiet for a moment and then like I told her okay


then after when we we ended the call I texted her and say you know what, any more okay lah I I didn't mean it in a rebellious way don't get me wrong but it's just that just because my friend make a remark and then like you want to close you want to lock the door at midnight and then okay so after you close the door then I can't enter then where am I going to go


so I told her <mandarin>如果你要锁大门的话你继续:ru guo ni yao suo da men de hua ni ji xu</mandarin> lor then <mandarin>不用紧:bu yong jin</mandarin> then <mandarin>我:wo</mandarin> just <mandarin>不要回来睡而已我去找我朋友:bu yao hui lai shui er yi wo qu zhao wo peng you</mandarin> then <mandarin>如果你要打电话报警的话:ru guo ni yao da dian hua bao jing de hua</mandarin> then just go ahead you were the one who locked the door and then I cannot come in and then what do you want me to do it's not that I want to stay out I I still come home at end of the day but you were the one who


sorry what, no my mum is my whole my whole family is asleep and then she she knows about it, ya no I, no no no I texted I texted her that's the thing I texted her ya then I said like if you want to lock the door after twelve midnight right and then if you don't want let me come home


you want to call the cops on me it's okay go ahead and it's not because I don't wanna come home but it's because you were the one who who didn't allow me to get into come into the house lah then after she didn't reply then that night I came home after FYP mah so it was around like three AM and then I talked to james also


and then he said okay like <mandarin>以后不要这么迟回:yi hou bu yao zhe me chi hui</mandarin> lah and then I say I I know I know I know I just I was just doing work I wasn't like out playing or drinking or anything partying and then like okay so went back ah and then like like ya okay my parents are okay they're not they don't


they don't have any ill intentions and stuff they're just worried for me and all they worried they worry that I will hang out with bad companies and I'll go astray you know because like education is very important especially in singapore so ya they want the best for me and stuff I get that so today I went to message my friend


that ya of course what <mandarin>如果是你的话你一定会很不爽:ru guo shi ni de hua ni yi ding hui hen bu shuang</mandarin> what so it's just ya so I went the message my friend I told her like you know what we need to talk and then afterward she message me and then I told her I get that you care for me but at the same time like <mandarin>这是我的家的事你不要来插手就因为你家人对你很严格:zhe shi wo de jia de shi ni bu yao lai cha shou jiu yin wei ni jia ren dui ni hen yan ge</mandarin> right <mandarin>不代表我的父母也是要这样子对待我:bu dai biao wo de fu mu ye shi yao zhe yang zi dui dai wo</mandarin> like don't bring your family matter into my like my household you know like you you ran away from home I was kind enough to take you in for the night but then in return this is what you say to my mum and the next day <mandarin>她:ta</mandarin> just <mandarin>把大门锁着你知道吗:ba da men suo zhe ni zhi dao ma</mandarin> this this I didn't I didn't like it the least bit lah I felt that it was very unfair


exactly she was in no place, ya then after I told her like I get that you care for me but then the thing is there are some boundaries that are not meant to be cross and you literally just crossed it okay I maybe you said it casually or whatsoever reason that's fine but you don't know if the other the receiver on the other end right took your word seriously and in this case my mum took it very seriously and that I didn't like it I don't appreciate at all and then she told me J J


you know that I was just joking right, then I say no it doesn't matter if you were joking or not you know the thing is my mum didn't take it as a joke so ya then she apologise so after she apologise then I was just trying like I was acting normal lah because like I wasn't piss anymore I was calm and composed at that point of time then she just ghosted to me


, ya and the thing is like <mandarin>她是我好朋友:ta shi wo hao peng you</mandarin> sia like <mandarin>你是我好朋友你哪里可以这样做对我来说很不公平:ni shi wo hao peng you ni na li ke yi zhe yang zuo dui wo lai shuo hen bu gong ping</mandarin> eh ya


so ya then that's it lor then she just like get on with her life and stuff because like she don't have a lot of true friends around her mah so ya she's quite insensitive in that sense


oh Raj sounds like it, oh actually he I was in the car with him the other time and then he said that, it's quite sad cause he told me


he don't have a lot of, friends in his life, ya it was just the two both of us, !aiya! then he told me that he don't really have a lot of friends in his life so the only two groups of friend he he has right is <mandarin>他的中学朋友还有他的:ta de zhong xue peng you hai you ta de</mandarin> poly friends lah basically it's just us


ya so when it comes to grad trip right, the was it Bali or thailand, ya when it comes to thailand trip right we die die must go because like <mandarin>如果我们没有去的话他根本不用去到:ru guo wo men mei you qu de hua ta gen ben bu yong qu dao</mandarin> grad trip at all


ya lor and I felt like okay pretty sad because I don't know, (mmhmm)


and poly because because by the time you go to university right <mandarin>大学:da xue</mandarin> then is like everyone will have their own groups of friend already so so ya when they have their own group of friends right usually they will fall back on their, err secondary school friends and poly friends so by and and I don't think Raj will be going to <mandarin>大学:da xue</mandarin> lah


, ya and if you think about it if he's not going to university right then he only has us his secondary school friends and who else Nadiah


ya


that's true <mandarin>我觉得他应该是:wo jue de ta ying gai shi</mandarin> is because he very <mandarin>容易相信人:rong yi xiang xin ren</mandarin> you see that's the thing that's the problem with him, it's not a bad thing


correct he told us before temporary gains right, he doesn't even have a girlfriend


you think so, , no I know for a fact that you're going to <mandarin>离婚:li hun</mandarin> already but I'm talking about is it the monk say right was it the monk


the <mandarin>算命:suan ming</mandarin> one ah, both is it, but you really <mandarin>相信:xiang xin</mandarin> meh


, the star co is it is it the app co star co star


, , you know I heard from my boss right that okay basically like there's morning afternoon and night time like birth time ah okay so so if you were to like if you're born during night time right then <mandarin>你会吃苦:ni hui chi ku</mandarin> because ah like <mandarin>没天没夜:mei tian mei ye</mandarin> you know that kind of thing the is is like you'll be you'll be working day and night to earn money for your income ya because ya so okay that's what she said then afterwards if you're born in the day then then you're basically your life will be just like normal average okay so like you won't be very rich very wealthy okay but you you're not very <mandarin>穷:qiong</mandarin> also lah you get what I mean okay then the middle one right which is like born in the afternoon <mandarin>下午:xia wu</mandarin> right okay


you will have a very good life, , ya that's why so if you're born in afternoon right basically like you don't have to worry that much about your future because that is kind of all set and then it's kind of true because one of my bosses she's she was ah she's born in ah in the afternoon and then basically right now she's in her early thirties okay and then she's literally having like the


like the time of her life she's going out every single day and then every month okay every two to three weeks right she would change manicure and she perm her hair and then she don't really need to worry about anything because why, she's I think you


ya correct but I don't know lah maybe Raj will well you know be in hard labour


eleven A_M in the morning, if my mum could squeeze me harder longer for one more hour (ppl), (ppl)


yup connected, yes hello


how how am I I'm doing okay lah ya nothing much what about you


uh uh, okay, okay


[orh] okay okay okay then then what what what he feel leh


okay


[orh] okay okay at least is your arms only lah so still okay lah, (mmhmm), (mmhmm)


(uh huh)


uh,


[orh] so it's just a excuse to <mandarin>牵你的手:qian ni de shou</mandarin> lah, ,


, okay, uh


uh, okay,


okay, okay


[orh]


, , wait how, he just take your hand and massage your hand


, , , (uh huh) okay


wait was <mandarin>其他是:qi ta shi</mandarin> sober Liao right


what,


!wow! so smooth okay , (mmhmm), (mmhmm)


which is you lah okay okay


wait did they do anything, okay


(mmhmm), [orh] okay okay so it was like suspicious lah, okay,


oh okay so I see not bad the guy


oh my oh my buddy outing okay oh we went to marina barrage for picnic it was damn hot lor like we all got like a sunburn ya and then we bought food [orh] okay the funny story is right so I thought right at so marina barrage so you have to go to bayfront MRT right so I thought <mandarin>那边:na bian</mandarin> like can buy food like I thought there was at the Giant supermarket that I can Dabao food then we can go there but then like we realised MBS is super Atas lah then I ask the guy is there any supermarket I can go or not then he say this damn Atas supermarket that is obviously damn expensive so in the end we damn <mandarin>笨:ben</mandarin> so we just went back to suntec city then we go suntec city then we go there and Dabao food then we we went back to marina barrage then we we've we found like the grass patch there lor then we sit down there then we played we didn't really frisbee lah cause we brought but then <mandarin>那个人讲:na ge ren jiang</mandarin> is not allowed so it's quite stupid so my buddy brought for nothing but it's fine we just sat there


then we just talked and then we listened to music then we just chill lah then we went for dinner then [orh] it was like a surprise dinner lah cause we invited jeanette then we never tell them so they were like very shocked ya so but then they all talked really well lah surprisingly cause <mandarin>他们没有:ta men mei you</mandarin> like <mandarin>见过:jian guo</mandarin> each other what so it's quite surprising that we're all bud lah then they they they they they said


you all plan another outing soon to the zoo like <mandarin>他们要去动物园:ta men yao qu dong wu yuan</mandarin> lor to see animals ya that's about it yes, (hmm)


wait legit how much, no wait legit ah


wait movie dates or night safari, okay okay thanks I will <mandarin>去:qu</mandarin> search it up then I'll tell my buddies [orh]


not bad not bad cause we saw <mandarin>的那个:de na ge</mandarin> zoo <mandarin>的:de</mandarin> price is like <mandarin>很贵:hen gui</mandarin> it's like <mandarin>三十多块:san shi duo kuai</mandarin> I think ya


lor okay okay and night safari sounds fun, ah yes , oh ya ya so what happened, uh


(mmhmm), , okay


(uh huh)


wait <mandarin>他有新的:ta you xin de</mandarin> girlfriend, uh, so now he <mandarin>两个星期:liang ge xing qi</mandarin> is a new girlfriend lah


(uh huh), [orh] okay okay so they broke off then <mandarin>他们又再和好:ta men you zai he hao</mandarin> lah


okay


, why, uh


, but but why he text you


but <mandarin>他:ta</mandarin> patch back why he need to inform you leh like why he need to update you about it, oh okay okay


(mmhmm)


I mean but at least now you are not together with him anymore, , gladys what what about gladys


like, like like from the previous drama or what like, [orh] nothing lah like Raj just said that she just feel I mean you were there right


I don't know eh how it I don't even know how Raj knows because I this is my first time hearing about this


ya, I don't know why [orh] maybe because <mandarin>因为他们:yin wei ta men</mandarin> mass dance together what then they're close maybe, Insta story but how how Raj know that he talk she talk to her about that


I mean that's her lor


no why what what did she post, okay


okay, oh as in the one that she was talking about us lah the what family shit and everything is it


okay ah ya ya ya correct correct (uh huh) and then, okay


probably if she bothers to (uh huh)


I mean I will <mandarin>不会觉得:bu hui jue de</mandarin> like she's a bad friend or anything lah she just I think firstly because like her heart is like she's not here already lor then like she just really don't give a damn about G three or us what that's why she's like that


and I noticed that she will even bother to talk about us in front of <mandarin>她朋友:ta peng you</mandarin> lor like I don't think she care about them sia, ya I don't think <mandarin>她:ta</mandarin> or like her <mandarin>人格:ren ge</mandarin> is like <mandarin>坏:huai</mandarin> lah I think it's more of like


she just don't see like the same thing as us lah like her priorities are different what then she won't understand where we are coming from but that's her choice also lah, ya I'm not really concerned about her ah if you ask me more concern I personally be more concerned about #hui en#


ya, no nothing much lah oh okay let me tell a story so I removed her from my private, like I was just being I was being oh she was in my private and right because the thing that day don't know like quite long ago someone ask uh I think it was really a lot of things and then they were talking about following ah they followed ah they say oh I follow gwen private anything then is like eh she was eh gwen <mandarin>你有:ni you</mandarin> private meh then I was like <mandarin>哈哈我有我有:ha ha wo you wo you</mandarin> then she's like why never I never follow then I say oh okay I follow you now so that's how she came to follow me lah


but then my private got nothing much also then after the incident like things I hear also like what she said to the graduated seniors I feel very uneasy lah I like I don't want her to do with my life so I just removed her and then she went to tell Nats then Nats went to tell the graduate seniors then they came and talk to the to me they were asking me to like you know <mandarin>跟她做朋友:gen ta zuo peng you</mandarin> again and everything and at least cause okay I never follow Kai on my private


but but I follow but Kai follows me on my main but I never let her know I got a private I I don't know why lah but I just never then cause of this incident then Kai found I got private then she was like gwen why you got you never tell me but anyway that's a side story but anyways they found out I got a private and then they found out I removed #hui en# then they were making like it was more of Kai lah she just saying like you know you should you know like you should be friends with #hui en# again and everything is wasted cause you all were once close what then it's nice to have a non ex girlfriend you can talk to but at least I was I was telling her I got I got about J J lah and also Raj then she was asking about you also


ya ya ya ya she was like but then J J is not involved not that involved as compared to #hui en# then I was like ah err basically is in a in a group lah then <mandarin>我跟:wo gen</mandarin> #er fan# were like no leh like like J J came back already like legit but ever since she was she broke up with that guy lah and then she's like the one of the most involved like senior in G three like legit like we <mandarin>发誓:fa shi</mandarin> like she legit is the more like one of the most like involve one lah and then she was happy lah cause she is she's glad to know that you're back ya but anyways anyways I just told her like I don't think I would patch back I don't see a need to lah honestly ya with #hui en# so ya no I just find it so stupid like I removed you it's such a small thing why do you have to go and complain to a senior about it you know


really no okay but then I think cause Raj also go and remove her eh see this is damn stupid I remove people right I renamed my my spam then then just coincidentally Raj does the same thing then maybe she think that we planned it together then then she go and complain to the senior that we remove her ya I know she complain about me lah I think she complain about Raj from what I heard also


ya lah obviously cause she <mandarin>她告状:ta gao zhuang</mandarin> to Nadia what that's how she know


exactly exactly and honestly I'm too tired also and oh one thing I said to them was I don't she's not a uh I don't even think she's a friend that I will take away after also so I don't see a need to making an effort to you know, ya #hui en#


ya lah like its used ya okay one thing I'm also very annoyed is like like <mandarin>他们一直叫:ta men yi zhi jiao</mandarin> me like me okay she then okay wait then Kai also keep ask I find to like you know talk to Iyah and then try to make mends with her but the thing is #er fan# also always message Iyah she's the one who is not replying and the whole hijab incident she never ever bother clarifying like she's the one who is not reciprocating what


then like they keep telling us what to do but then the thing is we're all nineteen year old we're like we're not stupid is not that we never think you know like we don't need you all to tell us what to do with our friends or our personal life that's why that point of time I was like I I was damn <mandarin>烦:fan</mandarin> with them


ya like the graduate seniors lah like not all of them lah like those who come and tell us what to do like like we don't need you to come and tells us what to do, ya ya ya they went to to flag a bus according to Raj


ya ya I know <mandarin>我看到:wo kan dao</mandarin> Norin why leh what about it, ya, (mmhmm)


(mmhmm), (mmhmm)


, ya


okay edit in all honesty I legit don't know that she went you know astray thanks to the buddy line only after like that day when we went drinking then #hui en# <mandarin>告诉我们:gao su wo men</mandarin> what you know I didn't even know that that was going on I was damn angry lah as I was like telling myself I damn angry like I totally didn't know like that was happening like I knew about like Shahil smoking and everything but I didn't know but Norin also getting influenced


oh wait <mandarin>你们三个一起:ni men san ge yi qi</mandarin> smoke ah, okay okay, ,


(mmhmm)


and then like Q R they also all <mandarin>抽烟:chou yan</mandarin> what Raj also mandarin>抽烟:chou yan</mandarin> so


exactly, that's why I was so angry cause like I was telling #er fan# <mandarin>如果她的:ru guo ta de</mandarin> parents find out <mandarin>她抽烟:ta chou yan</mandarin> then <mandarin>他问是谁:ta wen shi shui</mandarin> introduce <mandarin>她讲是:ta jiang shi</mandarin> ambassador is like so like, isn't like organisation to help nurture you and go like you know make sure you know <mandarin>你:ni</mandarin> go through experiences then to think that she joined the organisation to learn all this kind of stuff then like that's why <mandarin>我觉得:wo jue de</mandarin> damn angry when I found out lor


[orh] but now apparently she's she drinks lah so I think she change her mind lor


wait after a few weeks then she went back ah, then <mandarin>她住在哪里:ta zhu zai na li</mandarin> sia


is <mandarin>她的:ta de</mandarin> older sister ah


!huh! so her younger younger sister treat her that way


, okay I mean thats good I mean she also happier lah like here in Instagram post she does look genuinely happy and she still on good terms with like her batch mah like <mandarin>她们出去:ta men chu qu</mandarin> then apparently I ask my buddy lah then they say they still talk in group and apparently she was also the glue of her batch like that's what Sakthi said lah


to Zhaos,


I mean I don't know I feel like also cannot cause of this then you know you don't trust her suddenly maybe you should talk to her yourself then <mandarin>你看:ni kan</mandarin> lor like


ya,


, (mmhmm)


ya exactly that's why but I also like too angry but then the thing is also not like I can do anything about it like I'm no longer her AL what you know what can I do about it nothing what and she is not part ya it's her life what and like what you said <mandarin>她都十八岁了:ta dou shi ba sui le</mandarin> she can make her own decisions also there's like nobody that can stop her you know so like so be it lah like for me my concern is just that buddy line just don't continue to influence any more people who are still in the organisation


so like my buddy or their J one buddy like Hasina cause like they keep Jio my buddy out like they keep ask me and Sakthi like Nats to <mandarin>出去:chu qu</mandarin> but then I keep find excuse cause <mandarin>我不要跟她们出去:wo bu yao gen ta men chu qu</mandarin> then I couldn't tell Sakthi why also what cause I don't want him to know but in the end he also <mandarin>出去:chu qu</mandarin> lah but I told him to be careful cause he also know that they smoke I think but he promise me that he wouldn't smoke or drink also


oh I recently <mandarin>才把全部的东西跟:cai ba quan bu de dong xi gen</mandarin> no as in wait I told him everything but not the whole the recent incident


like about Shahil <mandarin>那这些:na zhe xie</mandarin> he don't know but I recently my latest batch outing I told him, I told him everything and he knows he ah he was shocked cause I also told him about <mandarin>那个:na ge</mandarin> ernie <mandarin>的:de</mandarin> you know what happened with the ernie like <mandarin>她:ta</mandarin> like Shahil <mandarin>讲坏话:jiang huai hua</mandarin> about ernie


Raj totally don't know his expression and like I told err <mandarin>我就跟:wo jiu gen</mandarin> Sakthi <mandarin>讲:jiang</mandarin> cause Sakthi very close with ernie so I ask him to like in a sense like look out for Shahil he was shocked lah but then he understand then I tell him dont't cause of <mandarin>这个:zhe ge</mandarin> then you change your impression of Shahil also because he is still your batch mate I'm just telling you so that you can keep a watch and also I don't want you to tell stuff to Shahil like I don't think you should trust him


no but Tamya really I tell you cannot tell her you tell her ah I feel like she'll quit M sia she will really like spoil her whole AL journey


no why,


, but I never wait wait how how like what heart shape they do like hand heart shape ah


wait they went out drinking meh I thought they just go fat papas to eat only


, like is <mandarin>我也是要她知道:wo ye shi yao ta zhi dao</mandarin> but for me is like okay lah like I want her to find out on her own


like I rather <mandarin>她:ta</mandarin> find out on her own if not there's not a need for us to tell her because I don't think she trust him right on a personal level


exactly so there there's not a need to tell her what if she doesn't trust him but cause if once we tell her then the trust the thing is now they can't even they're not even that close you know as compared to for example like me and #er fan# if if <mandarin>我们她讲:wo men ta jiang</mandarin> right I I feel like they can't even work together that is just and then #er fan# will be gone also what like now he's already barely like you know able to face him so if if Tamya <mandarin>也知道:ye zhi dao</mandarin> then <mandarin>他们三个就不用:ta men san ge jiu bu yong</mandarin> say bye bye already lah <mandarin>他们不用一起做工了:ta men bu yong yi qi zuo gong le</mandarin> ya


I I don't know maybe Shahil trying to I don't know <mandarin>我不知道我不知道:wo bu zhi dao wo bu zhi dao</mandarin> maybe I can ask Sakthi, ya correct correct correct cause <mandarin>他是他:ta shi ta</mandarin> he was who also said it takes two hands to clap what to <mandarin>我们的:wo men de</mandarin> L ya so ya


(mmhmm)


wait wait wait <mandarin>她:ta</mandarin> wait who say who to wait <mandarin>她跟你妈妈讲:ta gen ni ma ma jiang</mandarin> ah, wait what cause <mandarin>你抽烟:ni chou yan</mandarin> that's why she said that


then, okay


oh okay, , ,


wait ah wait won't your where your won't your <mandarin>妈妈:ma ma</mandarin> hear all these, aren't you in the living room


you sure, later she she she listen to you ,


, ya ya


, I mean it was wrong lah she she had no <mandarin>资格:zi ge</mandarin> to talk about what her mum should do you know like to parents you ya


wait how how you <mandarin>认识她:ren shi ta</mandarin> like she's from poly ah or what, [orh] okay, [orh]


okay okay, sounds like a person I know like a indian guy start with R sound like Raj right ya insensitive and don't really have a lot of true friend sounds a lot like him ya


but what he told you, wait wait wait it was just two of you


which is <mandarin>我们:wo men</mandarin> lah


okay, uh, thailand thailand is thailand ya


ya I know he said that, why like I don't think honestly I don't think it's sad leh like how do I say it like he's only like we're only nineteen and that's like barely half of our life so just because the friends we make now might not even last forever what and there's still many more years to come where he can make more meaningful friends especially I think it makes more sense when <mandarin>他长大了:ta zhang da le</mandarin> then the people he meet more mature what not like the people he meet now like betray him left right and like you know so I don't think you should be sad for him lah I don't know I in if he's listening I hope he also don't feel sad about himself too


, poly and poly


, I I also think so lah I don't think he'll be going to <mandarin>大学:da xue</mandarin> lah


I don't think he has Nadiah anymore and I don't think he have I mean I don't know lah up to him lah uh honestly I I really doubt his choices when it comes to friends like I genuine don't know like don't know where he are his eyes or ears go when he make friends really I don't know like like look he made friends with gloria leh like what the hell like ya can you imagine like I don't understand but okay but anyways for him I think !aiya! I mean okay what you say is true lah but


he got his secondary school friends what and poly friend he got us lor so technically it's not like he got nothing also, ya he's damn gullible as in he no it is a bad thing like whatever sounds good to him he will just believe it and just you know be blinded by all the surrounding red flags and warning he will just feel like you know whatever feels good right now I'll just believe it and enjoy my la la land you know be on cloud nine


yes yes and then he also said this is how he'll also be cheated on by his girlfriend in the future and I totally <mandarin>相信他:xiang xin ta</mandarin> cause he really look like someone who will get cheated by his own <mandarin>女朋友:nv peng you</mandarin> so yes


I mean ya he don't have a girlfriend now lah but if he have and then cause he always say I'll divorce right I'm pretty sure he will get cheated by his own girlfriend, ya, like which one me divorcing or him getting cheat I think both I think both I think both sounds feasible


fortune teller fortune teller, ya ya <mandarin>算命:suan ming</mandarin> one the chinese and the #ang moh# <mandarin>算命:suan ming</mandarin> also say that


ya ya ya, but like it's both leh my horoscope like you know the one that calculate your astrology like your birth time then you can see like the very detailed one that you go read on your life that they say I will divorce then the chinese one also will say [orh] <mandarin>你的女儿:ni de nv er</mandarin> next time <mandarin>会早婚:hui zao hun</mandarin> and <mandarin>离婚:li hun</mandarin> something like that ya