yea yea that's why yea yea yea yea yea correct correct I think that's one thing right if like if there's so many so little people in the house, so how if at at home now so do you cook everyday or alternate, a'ah sure


, , two dishes separate dish right yea, ah it's for you and a'ah, yea yea yea yea ah


a bit ah okay, and we just eat out lah ah yea cause a bit try tiring and what time does you work ends, six so by the time you reach home, seven ish ah


uh he's dia baik a'ah, ah okay, ah, a'ah a'ah, so by the time you come back is already,


yea, yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah, ah, yea yea yea correct correct yes yes yes, already take so long right yea


yea, school yea then work yes, , get this point of thing ah


but do you consider putting her in student care next time, the school student care lah ah, a'ah a'ah, , a'ah


ah, so but uh yea, yeah yeah yes , when is it due anyway, oh May next year May okay K


oh, ya ya ya ya ya is a confinement period , ya ya ya just that a'ah a'ah a'ah, ya


are you prepared for another more more kids, , ya twenty nine, ah, three lah now now she's three right oh she's four


ah ya lah now you twenty one ah ya ya ya for one, ah like thirty one okay okay, ah okay K a'ah


ah, oh one month with uh one more after that ah okay, , ya ya ya, , oh ya ya but


but I'm already twenty nine so by the time I get married it's next year , yeah yeah yeah, we only plan to have I plan to have two, ya I plan to have two, I don't know yet because I have a lot of friends that says I mean I have I I I other people like cause I'm in the teaching line


like so then I have friends who's like oh it's good to have to have two at the I mean like you have more kids at the same time so like, every so like your you'll be tired at one go you know but then they say say like, you you you already tired with one then can you imagine your tiredness times two or times three, yeah


but like and I my own mom like she, my elder sister is already thirty six, and my youngest brother is only sec one this year so there's a big age gap, uh two thirty six minus thirteen ah , twenty three


ah , ya so, forty plus ah forty plus uh but it was also like accident ya so it can I can see her like doing all over again like like, we'll get tired all over again ya uh


but we have five ah five four girls I'm number ten, four girls and one boy uh that one luckily boy ya but they like there is cat is very very fast so I like I know how tiring it is to have like, another kid and then we have to go through all over again ya


, ah ah ah, plan to ah, six, seven months before that ah okay okay, a'ah a'ah a'ah


ah okay okay ah uh ya ya ya ya the baby ya, ah, ah


ah, ah ah ah, ya after another ya ya ya ya, have another one a'ah a'ah regarding, correct correct yes yes yes ya a'ah a'ah


(ppc), , , a'ah yes , ya ya ya ya ya ya then another ya ya ya ya


a'ah a'ah settle down ah, , ah, okay it's okay it's okay, a'ah a'ah a'ah


correct correct correct correct, (ppc), correct ya, ya correct correct ya, your exactly ya ya ya


ya ya ya ya ya, yeah, yes good luck to us, some more our we are getting like the we are getting married and the house is ready also the same month as we got married it's next next January


I I am lah because I I want to have a house on my own lah, I have I have leh I will be collecting next month so it's a like, like we marry first and then we the we because they they say anticipate anticipate is end of January


so about the same time as we got married ya so that after that then Chinese New Year so I think after that then we start renovation lah so that's why we, plan out to have kids straight away but obviously we do not know the that's what we planned ya, but we what what we communicated is like we wait for at least one year and then we


try to have, like finish up the, ya yes it's so scary yes it's so scary ya, four room, uh three hundred and ten


uh cause we take ya we because ours is at Bukit-Batok and it's the thirteen floor, ah, ah, oh ya ya ya ya cheaper ya like even my friend she bought a house at Woodlands


uh but I but the thing Woodlands is not so accessible lah like not near to the MRT station her five room, but hers is I think fourth floor it's so much cheaper than mine it's only two five nine, ah two five nine no I think it's also because it's Bukit-Batok


ah so, ya but anyway he because he wants Bukit-Batok cause his mum stay Bukit-Batok so ya, ya, ya ya ya I wanted to move out inside, cause I thought it will be good to have a fresh new environment elsewhere


ya but he doesn't want so ya I mean it make sense ah cause, Bukit-Batok there is nearest to his house and also nearer to my house cause I stay in ##Jurong#-West, ya so is in the middle,


I his I know his noise is not working, ya, I don't know we don't know yet cause I'm okay to let the kid meet in like infant care or childcare lah, I mean uh for my cause I'm a teacher so I'm okay you know he's going out and then socialising and everything ya


but he is more he's more tradition he say maybe what when the kid is so small, when the baby is so small maybe like the mother take care first but because the mother is already taking care of other cucu the other grandchildren, and he's having a hard time so I don't know want to like, ya ya so whether he want to take care of like the


ah ya ya ya true true true ya I know the, oh ya ya ya ya ya ya


ya ya ya, , ah ya the uh the young living, all the thing right a'ah a'ah, a'ah, you been seeing stuff what a'ah a'ah


a'ah a'ah, ah, faster ah okay that's good that's good, a'ah, oh okay, a'ah ah ya ya the is the on the high high side


oh-my-god in the school ah, , ya a'ah a'ah, ah okay okay ah


a'ah ah okay, ya make sense ya ya ya ya ya ya, ya lah a'ah a'ah a'ah a'ah a'ah ya ya ya itchy, okay, but I mean kids will have to get used to yeah,


ah K K, a'ah a'ah, a'ah a'ah, ya ya ya, make better ah K K K good good good good good


yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah, so you started with us for school when she, how old was she oh three years old, oh when you shifted to Katong and then ya, a'ah


oh that that half day ya ya then the half day fair ah ah ah ah ah, ya ah ah ah ah ah okay okay, two day kind ah ah ah ah ah, mind lah let your mum, ah ah ah ya ya ya true true true I know infant care is there ya ya ya ya ya


uh she started ah she, ah okay and one, oh


ah hey passive ya ya ya ya only one thousand plus one thousand right depending on the, working mum subsidy, ah yeah lah ah correct correct ya


ah okay okay yeah yeah, oh yeah yeah yeah another eight hundred or seven hundred more that's a lot, just for the time being lah right the baby is ya ya lah ya ya ya ya


ah, okay okay but how about like babysit but babysitter also a bit, around ya lah very difficult to find also right ya ya ya ya ya like neighbour ya ya ya ya ya ya


ah, like around Choa-Chu-Kang don't, a'ah, a'ah, both is standing a'ah their upbringing ah ya ya ya that's true that's true that's true that's it's very important ya


they are bringing ah ya ya ya ya ya, a'ah a'ah, ah okay that's good, traditional ah okay okay okay


ah ah ah ah ah mom okay K K K, , she will, a'ah a'ah ah, ah okay okay K K yeah ah okay okay


okay, we confinement , ah, ah


oh-my-god no , ya ya a'ah, big a'ah ah, a'ah okay K K a'ah ah, a'ah, ya I did


ya ya ya ya ya ya ya ya, oh okay K yeah then you go back to work okay K ah, a'ah a'ah the a'ah, a'ah, ah


ah no, okay ah that's the thing yeah you only okay okay okay uh I mean all this the different pantang ah that they, there's a, ah


a'ah a'ah a'ah, ah, yeah you have to like , ya ya ya ya ya ya,


I can't imagine I will be more protective of the child I very protective of the child but ya, ya ya ya true because of this right, you think parenting style also ya right ya, uh we haven't discussed that yet lah


he is, really not uh can be traditional also ah but when it comes to, a'ah a'ah


the but her in laws like very I mean she also doesn't take care of the kids so much so but there's discipline the kids so much, ya discipline the kid ya ya ya so but, ya ya ya ya


ah, ah a'ah, a'ah a'ah a'ah so it's a'ah okay K K, oh K K K K like really like really ah she like the princess lah like literally


(uh huh), ya yes yes, a'ah a'ah, a'ah a'ah a'ah


ah , okay , put it down the baby will cry ah, , yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeha yeah, yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah


yeah yeah yeah yeah yeha okay okay, oh for what eh I mean yeah, uh no because my mum is sick my mum has stroke ah so my mum is on the wheelchair so she can't take care lah ya I also


uh my father is retired retired already yeah, ya we have and also have we have helper ah to take care ah take care of her ya, is is my in laws ya ya if can get so fast ya


ya but but we have to see lah, I don't know I am not sure, , ah


a'ah, oh, that one we have to really the the mum have the mum will have to provide right oh but I don't know about the,


ya ya ya I never knew, really close ya ya ya ya that's why, ya true I mean it's good ya , yeah


, ya we exactly count what when we see how is it next year or next two years lah we see how is it, uh his house is at, his house first yeah he Gombak so after that then, cause my house there's I still have sisters that not married yet and my uh my brother and with a helper and then so many people in the house


ya so, ya Sharul has sister ya so, four, but two one one is her sister's already married and move to Sengkang, so now is just a brother him and the sister family


so the but the sister's family, but they already have a house so they are supposed to move out already so that be that room is supposed to be for us and then the one room for the brother, and then the parents with my room, I don't know, you have to ask, them or him or her I don't know


ya ya exactly ya, move ya she's staying I'm already clearing the things now ya so, oh no lah we don't do cause ours is not at the under the ours is at D-#Pelangi#


ah the wedding's at D-#Pelangi# ya, ah combined wedding ah ya, so yeah, but still I need a room cause to start shifting, !huh! oh-my-god, is it weekend


I think they sleeping already don't know , do we really have to start at two hours, it's only fifty minutes ah, I hungry already you want eat lunch already or brunch, Siew-Mai only two Siew two Siew-Mai cause he had one with my


cause he thought it was at eleven thirty, ah, ten ish ah should be ten plus right, ah left


!huh! so late ah okay, , one plus, yeah, one one one twenty,


I have no idea yet, but more on minimalist lah, yeah, ah modern minimalist ya, but gonna hack the kitchen, so like half, the a'ah a'ah


ah with the counter top, and then the dining table and then the but now we are contemplating whether we want to, hack the room or not to hack the room , !huh! if hack the room then is bigger then we can put the door door panel the sliding door ah but, that will be very expensive lah yea


yea yea so because ours also cause our cause ours sit on balance so we don't have flowering, so the flooring itself already is ten thousand yea so expensive so we see how is it ah when the quotes comes back then we, we will see lah we eliminate which one


, uh around there lah yea yea yea yea yea, the, ah yea yea yea but ours only the but rooms here we not wanna do lah yea cause it's going to be expensive, at least we just put like the the shower screen area so just want put some pass lah just make it modify a bit yea yea yea but but the others no lah


, uh no, ah, ah okay, a'ah a'ah a'ah


okay, ah okay K ah, ah, ah okay okay a'ah a'ah, a'ah a'ah, a'ah, oh okay okay a'ah a'ah


a'ah then we can ah okay okay okay but your air con is in the room as well as the living room, oh okay okay ah yea yea yea yea yea ah okay okay, ah okay okay K K K


, yeah lah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah, yea yea yea yea true true true true true true but because If I don't hack then it looks smaller, yea cause it's like you hack then you look bigger that but that's a yea


, a'ah a'ah ah, okay, a'ah a'ah the kitchen the kitchen punya itu ah


a'ah, ah, oh we also we have mirror for that we going to have mirror oh yea yea yea we will I will ask him to clean, is it what why why you never clean the mirror


!alamak! you want to put all these, need lah but like when you have it like you need to pay so much for him might as well you cab maintain lah, , I don't care I mean we already pay so much we might


I don't know eh I don't know we can ask ask him I, a'ah a'ah


yea yea yea, when ah that one I don't know that one I have to ask cause some some house things I not very sure I will leave it to him, yeah yeah as long as yeah, yeah yeah yeah oh I see


yea yea yea yea yea but that's one thing that's one thing lah cause we'll also be working what so obviously, uh but we see how, , but good life in cleaning the house lah no like


like become a like a part time maid to do like weekend so we just slowly do own time own target, , like how often you clean like thoroughly, or the toilets or, as and when you like


ah okay, , we won't ah yea yea yea yea yea, a'ah, a'ah you tell ah then he will


yea yea yea yea yea that's what my mom does must vacuum at least once a week like your room must sweep everyday that kind right it's already drilled in you yeah


a'ah, yea yea yea yea yea, ah yea yea some more he's a guy I think , , yea yea yea yea yea yea


yeah , you there but no choice lah you cannot be ding by yourself obviously, ah, over time he will or you just leave it lah like


, ah okay, yea yea yea nice smell


a'ah a'ah, ah okay okay, a'ah a'ah ah he's over the the the door a'ah, oh ah


, it will be better I think it will better over time, a'ah a'ah, ah ah yea yea yea five type ah so okay manageable bad as uh


ah okay okay, a'ah a'ah, feel lah ah, a'ah a'ah


a'ah a'ah, ah black, oh okay okay yea, ah okay, oh okay, oh !wow! okay


the, ah sparkles a'ah a'ah but how is it about black


top right marble top right, a'ah a'ah, a'ah a'ah a'ah, ya ya ya ya ya ya, uh, ya but I know now more a lot white also, , ya but white obviously very difficult to


manage lah and also if you don't cook then it's okay lah but in Malay family of course with the Sambal Sambal all will terpercik here and there, a'ah a'ah, to clean ah ya ya ya


a'ah, sure will a'ah a'ah, ah at the back lah okay okay, oh ya ya that one obviously tidak , ya ya ya ya ya ya ya that's why


a'ah, ah ya ya ya ya ya ya can put can just put over there


ah, oh ya ya ya ya, ya ya ya ya ya ya ya true true true exactly like by the time the technique, sure thank you yeah


oh yeah we that's why I don't know maybe eh, seems like it though never mind, are you going somewhere later, oh ya ya chalet chalet where is it, ah okay kay


oh ya ya ya ya ya ya that was, is it three years ago two years ago right ah okay okay okay whose someone's birthday also, ah, oh okay okay okay like overnight ah


oh okay okay, ah yeah lah ah so yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah


ya ya ya ya ya ya ya ya correct correct but are they going to book barbecue or just like oh they barbecue ah !wah! okay okay, or is it for the holidays lah for the school holidays, oh for the father's birthday, ah, okay kay


you a'ah a'ah, oh is it so cute, a'ah a'ah, oh is it so until two years later then you ah okay okay


ah, okay, ah, oh ya ya ya ya ya ah okay okay okay, ah okays good lah okay okay okay, a'ah a'ah, the garden ah that one is cheaper lah okay okay


ah, swim , ya ya ya ya ya ya ya yes is that for her, ah, but she mix around with cousins like the other side


oh three kids, oh many your one is the oldest also right, and then is that the younger cousins, ah okay okay, four fifty fourty ah


ah okay okay okay, , ah okay okay, ah okay


a lot , ya lah a'ah a'ah, ,


a lot of money uh oh okay okay, , ah okay


oh !wah!, okay, ah ah, oh oh okay okay okay okay, a'ah, ah


oh that's quite young ah, ah, a'ah a'ah ya ya ya ya ya ya ya ya ya ya ya a'ah


ah, ah okay okay okay okay yeah, anyway that time also cannot diagnose right yeah, ah okay okay okay ah, ah ah ya ya ya ya ya ya ya ya ya ya


express correct correct ya ya ya ya ya, but he goes to normal school, oh, oh no no that was special school ah okay okay okay


ah, ah okay ya ya ya ya a'ah ah okay okay okay, ya ya ya ya ya ya maybe that that that the that therapy I mean that treatment works ah for him ah, ya ya ya ya ya ya ya ya ya ya but how did they detect say


oh okay okay, yeah, , yeah lah spoilt, ah yeah


yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah maybe , yeah, yeah, like Qayyum send me he has a lot of the the sisters has like two


she already have like one one nephew and like, four nieces, cause the first sister already has two and the third one is, has three already yeah, but his he's like one of the


because a lot of his cousins are already married with kids, so is like very kecoh like you go for yea family gathering yea, he's considered the last few to get married lah yea yea the cousin, I could consider he's already thirty this year, uh that's maternal maternal is bigger his paternal side is


lesser ah less lesser and then also only few of them I think like father only have like four or five around there yea, and my own family only my younger sister is married the fourth one cause I'm third right the fourth one and only has one kid and only married last year so one kid


and then my other two two sisters are not married yet and my brother still not married yet so very small but my other cousins they are like slowly, all kahwin like last year two years back ah now lah then all one kid two kid ah yea, yea


!wow!, five kids okay never mind, , five kids and how old are they


K and the eldest, oh okay okay !wow! !wow! okay, yea, like I have a I teach tuition so they my all have this one I teach this madrasah girl she stays in a three room flat dekat bukit Boon-Lay and she has like five


five sibling, and she's only primary two, so primary two primary one and then I think K-one K-two then and the last one is baby, so when I go and teach her tuition you can see all the noises like !wow!


, ah, a'ah a'ah, I think maybe raining that's why a bit cold is it


, nine kid, how do you manage nine kids, !wow! okay K, uh but nine kids, ya ya ya ya ya oh-my-god but they say in landed ah is it or they quite well off ah


oh, around there or maybe more or no oh ya maybe more but nine kids oh-my-god, oh-my-goodness ya


ya ya ya that's why, pregnant ah, is it oh-my-god that means and then maternity leave like the person the company who oh-my-god her partner will throw her off [seh]


a'ah yeah yeah, ah ya ya ya ya but actually maternity leave four months right now the, oh ya ya ya that's why ah


and take the money a'ah a'ah, yeah, oh ya , , but now my bonus is all the way until, for, how does how does it go down I I don't know cause now I'll be I a lot of my friends stop at two so they everybody also get baby bonus


I think four ah ah okay okay okay, ah okay okay ah, ah okay cause they encouraging more Singaporeans to have babies right ya, yeah, but financially also like we have


ya that's why I see the school fees already so and see the milk and the diapers already so expensive, the , oh is it oh-my-god I, okay never mind


I don't know , ya ya I also cannot like because I'm so used to working but also because to help you financially also ah like if one income single income how say


I don't know lah but, ah ya lah but ya, of course ya ya that's why, but cannot lah I cannot imagine , ya ya that's why ya ya you cannot my exactly ya ya ya ya


ah ya lah because ah correct correct ya


ya lah of course ah yeah yeah but if have no, but he he ever told like you cannot you cannot not work , , work at least at least for now lah like with the house and everything of course lah


me later but I won't ever say lah if next time the kid needs us any of us like go I will can consider like working part time at least have some, contribution right ya but not like not go off lah, I also can't imagine myself staying at home twenty four hours with the baby


ya ya because of like the whole, your world is just in at home right, ya lah ah


ya ya ya ya ya ya ya ya ya that why ya exactly ya ya ya ya ya, ya correct correct correct ya, but do you have friend other friend that is like, stay at home ah after they give get, give birth


, but five kids but five kids like ya uh, ah okay ah


ah okay ah, a'ah, ah okay okay, ah okay okay same ah that some ah yeah correct correct correct that's why


, ah, maybe they make do, ya lah correct correct ya ya ya ya, ya yes yes that's why


ya no holiday at the end of at the end of the year, yeah, but but I think its like Singapore already you see the education in Singapore is so expensive even childcare already so expensive, look at them if they don't


if wife don't work then, right, ya it's hard, (hmm), ah exactly that the thing that the thing that why, you need to have, I don't know, plan you shouldn't plan because it is so expensive


yeah, then obviously we want our kid to go to the uni right because we want them to succeed then, true, , ah okay okay ah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah


yeah yeah, I I think generally just Singapore that the expenses is very high, yeah tend to survive on a single income then I mean !wah!, yeah, ya very hard


ya, yeah correct correct, that's why, ah no I don't have, ya but I don't know maybe next time when he have car I might could consider him to let me drive


even though everyone has car then if like he's not driving then oh you don't like ah,


ah, okay okay, okay, I , but you never but you never tried before, ah, ah okay okay, I mean okay lah then it's okay ya ya no because like sometimes like we I'm thinking like maybe if he doesn't drive then at least I can I mean you go around and then maybe send the kids or whatever lah but that's future plan


uh but I don't think he wants cause he say like I very clumsy like my directions are very bad so like you know me fighting with other, male driver out there right ya, ,


ya halfway then halfway you just you just stop and then you sleep is it , a'ah a'ah, sleep maybe cause you not driving maybe that's why you get sleepy a'ah a'ah a'ah


ah ya lah ya ya ya no need lah, ah ya ya ya ya ya ya ya, ya ya ya ya ya


correct correct ya correct correct like I have a colleague she she's really a like daddy's girl, so she has driving she she has driving so she go through that whole you know the usual uh go after secondary school go JC blah blah blah blah blah then I I think once she eighteen she get get uh driving license, then she then I told her eh how come eh how come you not driving cause the dad has a car then she say oh I don't like to drive then I say then you take for what then she say oh cause my dad ask me to take


oh but she's like that one I mean she just like that one whatever daddy say I do whatever daddy say I do then I okay lah ya but it's then I say but uh can you drive now then he say, cannot lah cause I got no confidence what because I she long time never drive already I think she drive once or twice in her life and she's like twenty six this year


then what's the point ya ya but ya lah but I mean it's a good life skill lah according to the father you must you must you must have a driving license, ah, ah that's the point right that's why that's why ya


, don't know uh but she's the type that like uh like even now like even the father fetches her from work like send her to work and then fetches her from work, ah yeah, so she is like ya so we can say that she's really the the family ya ya ya very sheltered ya ya so ya lah


no don't have ya yeah, , don't know lah but that one I don't I never ask her lah ya, after that every time we see her there the father send then say eh where where is this Mindy say oh there the father send fetch her already then after that she's off already say !wah! this one ah


okay lah both parents are working, oh no no no no no no nah that that


HDB, eh how long already ah oh-my-god so less than forty minutes right eh one sixteen, not bad not bad , oh yeah yeah yeah


yeah where is he, ya ya ya ya ya it just much like what I do like like they experiment something, right,


, oh no okay, forty more minutes yes


, one more hour, oh oh oh, ah


a little bit buffer a bit lah, a'ah, ah okay, so Eva is with your in law or your mom's, in law's ah, where's your in law's place


oh Yew-Tee quite near lah, ah okay okay, (mmhmm), oh ya ya ya ya


ah late a'ah ah so they will fetch lah ah okay okay, this kind of thing ah, mine I just our new house is like two hundred meters away from his house


current house so is it very near, I don't don't know but my school like the one I'm teaching is two bus stop away from my house, yeah I can walk so I can either go each way ya


ya I mean it's so accessible lah ya that's why he doesn't want to shift out of Jurong, I mean he has a point lah ya ya ya Bukit-Batok but his friend a lot of his friend are staying around the area, I think more than ten ah because Bukit-Batok there's a lot of estate a lot of projects right I think


the next the one that wears rich there's like two of them, and then the one in front near Shell there's like one or two of them so is like like his own ya ya ya ya ya, yeah, but they are all in Bukit-Batok I mean they all stay at Gombak or Bukit-Batok so


uh January they want to buy a house near parents lah so they are all there, so I think the next time I tell I tell him like uh next time I think we go supermarket also can bump into your friend , yeah, yeah


yeah, BTO, ah okay okay


ah, ah, a'ah a'ah, the when a'ah a'ah the BTO yang which one near your mom is it up already or haven't, oh upgrade oh okay okay, ah yes yes yes Admiralty there


ah okay okay okay a'ah a'ah, ah okay okay okay the one in front there's triple eight there's one in front also right the one just next to triple eight, because my friend was telling me if she didn't get the one that the the the five room the one that's in Woodland right she say she will buy the resale but the five years the one near triple eight


so ah, ah okay okay ah, oh a'ah a'ah a'ah, a'ah a'ah


ah yeah yeah yeah yeah ah, a'ah, a'ah a'ah, ah okay, a'ah a'ah, ah, a'ah a'ah


ah okay okay ah, very near his parents' house also lah but you don't the priority right, cause not near technically it's not near is it near no right no not, all kind of priorities oh that's cool that's cool


the priority, yeah, then there's, oh no ours not like that ours is, just that our number is nearer because I out of six hundred ours in the


middle like all, nearer to ya so I think that's the priority but oh no ah but HDB keep changing so I don't know I also confused ya their policy ya, ah


ah, a'ah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah, a'ah a'ah yeah yeah yeah a'ah a'ah a'ah


ah, a'ah a'ah, ah ah ah the ah ah ah, ah, a'ah, ah


ah ah ah noisy, ya ya very noisy ah ah ah, ah, facing the playground, ah ah ah


ah okay okay a'ah but but later they will move the the Tengah will be there right is that the one, ah okay okay a'ah, ah, a'ah a'ah a'ah ya ya ya big land word ya


(mmhmm) land a'ah, oh okay okay ah, a'ah a'ah, ya ya ya a'ah


a'ah, ah ah yes yes, a'ah a'ah a'ah, ya lah a'ah a'ah a'ah ya ya ya ya ya ya ya ya correct correct correct correct ya ya, ya ya ya ya ya ya !aiya!


ah ya ya ya ya ya ya ya okay cause like my sister she just got her house at Tampines at resale lah then she say, everytime she goes to the the new house right she brought the baby then everytime the baby will cry and is screaming kind, ya same ya so then after that then she she call for ustad and all lah she


ya but is new but is I mean like they also don't know what it is ya so ya, a while ya ya ya ya ya ya ya so we don't know what really the old owner did right I mean ya ya we don't know yet so that's why


yeah, after awhile lah she, okay, ah, ah, ah, oh-my-god


ah last year, oh, ah a'ah a'ah a'ah a'ah, she just say uncle [loh], which she really follow ya ya ya ya ya ya ya ya oh-my-goodness and they all or what they didn't


, but kids they are like they they they they they see all these right ya that's the, yeah,


ah, ah, , ah, oh okay a'ah ah, oh is it oh-my-goodness


a'ah a'ah, a'ah a'ah, , a'ah ah, , a'ah, you already know lah but a'ah a'ah a'ah


ah ya lah ya lah ya lah this type of thing, yeah, , a'ah,


, ah okay a'ah, a'ah we a'ah a'ah, yeah yeah, ah


ya ya, oh-my-goodness okay okay okay okay a'ah ya ya ya a'ah somewhat ah, ah


ah a'ah ah, a'ah a'ah a'ah, no she like talking to someone


ah, some ah a'ah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah, yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah, a'ah a'ah ah, a'ah a'ah, ya lah ya cautious ya ya ya ya ya


the part time ya ya correct correct ya ya very scary right ah, a'ah a'ah a'ah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah, a'ah a'ah, and ya ya and I and I ya,


ya but now so far okay lah she a'ah ya ah, a'ah a'ah a'ah, ah, you don't know how ya ya ya ya ya like like Qayyum says he he he can feel


so everytime he he be the one that dragging me then I will be like !huh! then he say next time you just don't ask when I move you just follow me , ah yeah, ah, so maybe a'ah a'ah a'ah


ya ya ya ya ya, ya ya ya ya ya, , yeah, ya lah a'ah a'ah a'ah


yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah, beggar but if he ya ya ya ya ya ya ya ya ya, correct lah ya ya ya especially when she's older [seh] yeah


, uh no no, oh okay okay a'ah a'ah, oh okay oh oh okay okay a'ah a'ah a'ah


oh the that a'ah a'ah a'ah, ah, a'ah a'ah a'ah a'ah


oh-my-god, ah, a'ah ah, a'ah K a'ah K K so he knows already lah, ah


oh-my-god some more at East-Coast, , ya ya, oh is it oh-my-goodness, a'ah ah, ah okay okay oh-my-god


(uh huh), ah, a'ah ah, oh ya ya ya a'ah, ah ah


ah a'ah, ya ya ya ya ya ya ya ya ya there there's a story behind it lah, oh-my-god ya ya ya ya ya some more you also go and play some more at night


ya ya ya so really after you guys like drive what's he was driving is it or, ah ya lah a'ah a'ah ya ya ya ya that's why , ya ya ya ya ya ya oh-my-god


ya that's why you , ya lah ya ya ya ya ya ya ya you just want to make it alive alive


ya ya ya ya you better say you don't know let eh why here [seh] , yeah, , !huh! but it's quite ya ya ya ya ya ya ya


, but it was quite famous is it like like back then like that that era lah that era that that, ah, ah okay okay, ah, ah ya ya they coming here find I heard I heard ya


ya ya ya ya ya ya ya ya they even have <malay<kuda kepang at the wedding, like how is it even possible , is it, oh-my-god


oh-my-goodness ah oh-my-goodness, , then we move we shan't give them or just leave it just leave it and ready is it, ah oh-my-god ya


ya scary it's scary, ah now nowadays uh no more already, ya ya that's ya ya ya ya, oh is it


oh, is it how long more, thirty minutes , , ya cause edition ten more minutes right


if they really quite leh, uh we going to eat, and then we go and, , of course we going to eat yes we going to eat and then we going to uh go shop uh window shop first lah, cause we we going to my friends Christmas party


eh we not Christmas party like this we ended thing lah ya so he ordered some you know the Konditori the bakery, and Arab Street so apparently he ordered some ginger bread cookies at Arab Street, ya to give out lah so because we exchange, presents among them ya ya but it's eh ya it's just a yearly thing


cause my friend uh my my poly friend at most of them Chinese, ya and then like we they they they they prefer celebrating Christmas actually the year, so it's just like a a excuse for us to meet up every every every time Temasek ah #Temasek#-Poly ah so it's just


ah okay okay, ah, , ah okay okay ya


a'ah a'ah, ah okay, ah, a'ah, ah K K


ah, okay so how you guys get to eat pork try to, oh firefly maria of course lah its a small plain what , oh your your it's it's smaller than Air-Asia eh oh-my-goodness okay


ah the hand carry, a'ah the bag a'ah a'ah the a'ah, and then below still got no space right, ya lah oh-my-goodness it my that's a direct is it


ah, ah, ya lah of course lah ya lah ya lah ya lah ya lah cause just remind,


ah then like bit wasted lah your day a'ah, ya lah ya lah ya lah ya lah ya lah at least in the afternoon


ah, , is this a small, small town right as compared to others right, ah, ah yes


ya lah ah ah ah, oh is it, ah, oh-my-goodness that bad ah, a'ah ah


(mmhmm) (mmhmm) (mmhmm), is it but they are they staying together, or they stay home, okay , ah I laugh at them ya a'ah a'ah, !wah!


but that is if is paid off lah like if you want to married , right, ya lah, ah okay, ah ah okay


ah, ah oh so for now, anytime , uh before ah


ya ya ya ya ya ya, oh that's so sad yeah, a'ah here a'ah, ya lah that's why not to see your father


yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah, oh okay, a'ah ah, old school a'ah a'ah ah, a'ah ah


a'ah ah, they will stay yeah a'ah, a'ah ah yeah, oh !wah!, ya ya ya ya ya ya ya ya ya ya correct correct ya ya ya ya ya ya ya


oh !wah! yeah yeah yeah yeah, no support leh, ya lah ya lah ah ya lah, the mother busy socializing lah is it all the have plans


, ah ah ah the high tea ah ya ya ya ya ya , of course lah ya ya ya ya ya


, but she's not working there like working, oh still flying a'ah, oh okay okay, ah


oh is it , ah, ah ya lah okay okay okay, ya ya for very long right, oh oh oh K K ah


yea lah yea lah ah, is it


ah, !huh!, oh-my-goodness, how do you even many yea exactly, a'ah, just call and just ask her where she is that kind and then


where do you a'ah, okay never mind now can get now get now got now got WhatsApp what you can just WhatsApp there ah, call lah, yea yea yea yea yea yea if not you wouldn't be uh yea yea yea yea yea she wouldn't be with but but but does she go out with other friends also like


is she just lah ah, same ah, okay she can Tahan ah , yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah


ah a'ah a'ah okay, yea yea yea yea yea she have a someone that uh


a'ah a'ah ah, ah I am sure a'ah correct correct yea yea yea yea yea yea, ah so this is the yeah better than that that one that one


a'ah a'ah yea yea yea yea, yeah, , yea yea yea yea, yea yea yea yea exactly yea yea yea yea correct correct correct but their how's your off day then then is


ah okay okay yea yea yea almost the same lah okay okay if not so difficult [seh] how to, yeah


a'ah, ah, a'ah a'ah, ah yea lah a'ah a'ah yes yes yes, yea yea correct correct yea


a'ah, hours a'ah a'ah in the training hours a'ah, ah, !wow! just for that, but is bonded right usually all this oh this not bonded ah


oh okay okay ah, oh by the S Q lah ah ya ya ya ya SQ ah okay, oh ya ya ya ya okay okay and it says uh, (mmhmm)


a'ah a'ah, ah ya lah a'ah, faster ah okay okay


ah okay, !wah! for a she, she, oh I thought they have the five years bond thing, I don't know or maybe she yeah okay


a'ah a'ah , oh is it okay I thought it was five years okay yeah, ah, a'ah a'ah a'ah yeah yeah yeah yeah


a'ah a'ah , and ya ya ya yes yes exactly to pay debts ah okay, ah yeah I can, ah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah


ya ya ya correct correct ya ya ya ya ya, ya ya ya ya ya ya, ah then at least got some income lah ah


ya lah ya ya ya exactly, ah ya ya ya ya ya ya, is it yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah


a'ah a'ah a'ah yeah yeah yeah, ya ya ya I mean if you look into ya ya ya exactly I mean their logistic and everything and then the support


ah yeah yeah yeah, of course lah of course they,


ah okay, ah, , , ah


ah okay ah ah okay okay ya ya ya a'ah a'ah, oh yeah


a'ah a'ah, a'ah a'ah, yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah a'ah a'ah a'ah, a'ah, yeah lah have to a'ah a'ah, yeah yeah yeah


oh-my-god , very drama you know , right, yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah that's why, yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah


some more no support [seh] kesian [seh] ah, yeah , yeah, but this is children they already kesian eh to take care by the, maid ah, a'ah a'ah


oh I don't know, ah, !huh! so expensive


so expensive oh Malaysia but maybe their policies a'ah a'ah different policies yeah, ah, ah, a'ah


a'ah a'ah, new is it, a'ah a'ah a'ah, a'ah a'ah a'ah, a'ah a'ah


a'ah a'ah ah, ah, oh, oh-my-goodness ringgit ah, bust still expensive alot of money also what yeah


yeah lah she already eh but don't have father in law ah oh oh have ah ah, ah yeah lah a'ah a'ah they typical like really sinetron ah like some Chinese Taiwan drama you know yeah yeah


a'ah, oh , but the oh-my-god, a'ah ah, ah


a'ah ah, a'ah a'ah a'ah ah, okay already oh my goodness, , but no marriage, oh not married ah just uh


ya lah exactly ya ya ya money depleting then we talk, , ya this is strategy is it, , yeah very drama that's why like oh-my-goodness


ya marrying a rich family, exactly, yeah, so come together a'ah a'ah


, a'ah a'ah ya lah ya lah a'ah, a'ah, a'ah that house a'ah a'ah, a'ah a'ah a'ah a'ah a'ah, exactly exactly that's the thing but how old is he like quite old lah like forty fifty that kind lah like uncle


around fifties ah, !aiyo,


ah so mean that time then you stay at their house or no, , too much drama is it you cannot take it , ah hotel room ah, but how's heat hotel at Ipoh ah


ah okay okay ah, ah so can eat lah ah, ah, a'ah a'ah, ya ya ya ya ya I mean that city that that town already so not so many people right


ya ya ya ya ya ya ya ya ya, a'ah a'ah, okay, a'ah a'ah, to drive you around ah okay okay


a'ah a'ah, ah that's good, ah okay she Chinese ah, oh Malay oh Malaysian ah ah okay okay, is it


ah ya ya ya ya ya ya got it right, but that one is for for the just oh whole family ah okay okay, ah okay okay, ah ya ya ya ya ya that's why that's why


yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah, ah okay, but interesting eh if you marry into a different, environment right I mean if you, I mean if you what we see in the movies,


owner, a'ah a'ah our a'ah a'ah, , ah, yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah


yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah, yeah yeah yeah yeah yeha, ya ya ya ya correct correct will we ya ya ya ya ya, ya, is it oh-my-goodness


ah so everybody like, oh-my-goodness, ya ya ya ya ya ya ya


oh no, then how, ya ya ya ya ya ya, but it's bigger or, nice, oh condo oh okay okay okay, ah okay okay ya ya a'ah ya ya ya


ya ya ya that's why ya correct correct ya ya ya ya correct correct ah that means the renovation and all, oh eh, ya that's why her whole life drama


but how she oh but she get through the husband through flying lah, ah, ah, ah, oh okay a'ah yeah


, , ah, to to a'ah a'ah ah okay okay okay


ah okay yeah, , yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah, ah, okay, interesting, yeah


ya lah ya ya that's why, correct correct ya, , correct correct ya ya ya ya


, yeah, the sister a'ah yeah, is it


oh-my-god, oh-my-goodness, ya lah ya lah ya lah a'ah ah, ya lah that's a'ah a'ah ya ya ya correct correct ya, yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah


oh-my-goodness, ya ya ya correct correct she's flying right,


, , ah ya ya that attachment a'ah a'ah a'ah


ah, ah, ah, ah, match, ah


a'ah a'ah a'ah a'ah, a'ah oh-my-goodness why must go to, all these wallet, go through all these


ah but is there anything that she can other than, she, what now lah, the mother in law wants to like control everybody in one house ah like the ya ya ya ya ya


yeah, twenty minute, ya, yeah but really, ya lah that uh ya ya ya correct correct


yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah, correct correct ya ya ya ya ya ya ya ya ya ya, ya ya ya correct correct, ya ya exactly ya that's why


I, , yeah, cause I have a colleague that stays at Ipoh I think Ipoh or Penang I don't know around there


uh no lah no lah no the usual ah normal normal family yeah, ya ya she always she always go back lah like during the weekend or Chinese New Year weekend ya, that's why I know it's like quite a small town like how do you


ah, to go out, oh okay okay, ah , safety is it, ah, ya ya ya that's why you never know what the others are up to say


ya that's why kesian [seh], , ah yeah lah but Singapore where has it where is her house, oh East side ah a'ah but uh landed also ah


oh to the a'ah okay okay, oh okay okay, oh okay okay, ya that's why no but if you go like you look forward to go to Ipoh to see you children but then at the same time you


you welcome your all these drama to your life like hello, I, ya ya lah correct lah correct lah ya that's why, it's fine a'ah a'ah ya that's why


ya ya that's why that's why ya ya ya, exactly, ya this one, ah ya lah ah, correct lah ya ya ya


a'ah a'ah, a'ah, is it


exactly that ya ya ya ya ya just like that lah , ah, ah, ya lah ya lah ya lah, ya ya ya ya ya ya ya ya oh-my-god


but the mother also like don't take care of her ya lah ya ya ya that's why, yeah oh, yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah


yeah lah correct lah yeah, that's why, ya that's why I think that everywhere even worse you know, some more it's like Singapore and Malaysia , so the distance


but she's your age lah, ah she , ah, yeah, ah ya ya ya, ah okay then this one think ah ya ya ya that's why


ah, correct correct ya, correct ya ya ya


ya ya ya ya they will think ah, correct lah that one I, ya ya yes yes, ya yes correct correct that's why, ya


ya ya ya ya correct but that one she's youngest eh ya that's why ya that's why ya ya ya, exactly that's why, the second one already escape they escaped already then the third a one also escape not further away


oh is it, very hard leh is it, ah


, a'ah a'ah a'ah, a'ah


she say like that my goodness the fact ya they said that oh-my-god so bad, ya ya ya ya ya is it they got nothing better to do ya ya ya ya right all these datin datin ya ya ya ya ya ya ya ya that's why, oh-my-god


, a'ah, yeah I mean just a'ah a'ah a'ah


, ya ya ya ya ya ya ya ya ya ya, , keep up to the tradition new culture is it, ah ya lah a'ah must give face lah to a bit yeah


!aiyah!, ah ya lah ya ya that's why, ya lah that's the thing ya


okay lah then ya correct correct, correct ya that's why, ya ya that's why wait some more expensive so big like that what, I mean not that they cannot afford lah but ya , additional ya exactly ya


yeah yeah yeah yeah, but to find the father's doing what business is he doing, ah okay okay, , like must be some property or whatever lah investment in the usual,


ya ya ya ya that's why ah, ah ya ya ya ya that's good lah, yeah, ya ya ya sad of a life cannot just keep dwell on the negative part right


yeah, ah, ya ya that's why that I think cannot get rid ah that even tried to get rid of right, is it two already, yea


eight more minute okay, , but they gonna publish it in the afternoon or later at night only


ah okay okay yeah yeah yeah yeah, a'ah a'ah, oh what thing is the net, oh you mean the typical childcare timing is it a'ah


ah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah ah, oh ya ya actually ah, oh then all the way then cannot see at night, midnight ah


must must ask her to sleep yeah correct correct, but we aim we usually can how like weekday you lead is chart then weekends leh, must lah must ah, I was a'ah a'ah ya lah ya a'ah to nap right ah


ya ya ya ya that's why, a'ah, for a nap ah for awhile lah at least to if not, of course lah ya


ya ya ya ya ya ya ya, ya ya ya ya ya ya ya


but that time we went to Downtown East on, in November it was during the , that there's this the carnival I think Makan-Makan-Jalan-Jalan is it it was so packed Downtown-East, ah ya I think one of the I cannot remember, ah ya ya Downtown-East a'ah ya it was so packed for for the first time why is it so packed


and also because it was the their anniversary I think Downtown East anniversary or what, yeah, ah ya ya ya ya ya I think is ah Kassim-Baba Kassim-Baba don't know which one ya it was so packed I think


ya ya ah but we didn't really go lah we just like buy food and all cause we went to with his IT friends, ya so we just went to eat and then we went walk around like that why he is so packed


but is it effect ya I got, Fruities ya ya more food right, but west side what is the like twenty four hours only Al-Azhar , ah right, oh ya ya ya ya ya now also have right Shangri-la park


oh, oh Teh-Tarik oh okay okay, ya ya lah the seafood lah, which one the Woodlands one, oh oh the the near the oh jetty there a'ah a'ah


east lah ah that's why ya very far that's why, but here also not much food options ah, yeah yeah yeah yeah right


stuck to the west side, yeah, ya ya ya ya ya ya ya, ayam, ya ya ya ya ya ya correct correct correct ya, but how often you go to your mum's place


a'ah a'ah, oh almost K K weekends ah, weekend ah ah, ah okay then for his side eh the in law side


every Friday ah, ah okay anyway the card right just throw ah okay, ah, oh ya ya a'ah ya ya ya ya oh true true true ya


ya ya ya a'ah ah ya lah ya lah, one of the weekends ah, cause weekday already what by the time you reach home already what time [seh], ah, yeah yeah yeah


oh we going to Bali in March first, ya then December haven't decide ah March the March holiday ya, ya then after that, ah the school holiday ah ya ya then, ya ya ya so ours is


we can only ya in usually during the school holiday we can take ya we can just ah ya June tetapi June is Hari-Raya, June next year is Hari-Raya ah the early start lah ya ya ya, then just December lah then he say why do I marry a why I even marry a teacher say too bad lah some more the pricing is so much expensive right


ya then I say you too bad lah you choose one what I didn't force you to ya, we met him on Facebook, ya Facebook then he he added me but then he say there's a story lah he say he didn't, intention to he has no intention to add me but I think that time he say his phone stuck


so macam teradd lah teradd, ya that's why I don't buy it nobody, don't have that time don't have that's why bedek right that's why, yeah, ya that that a'ah ya ya the people you may know right don't have then I say ya maybe sudah jodoh lah I don't know ya then from there lah but we


we contacted each other I mean like on messenger for quite some time we only, went out on a date like after two years, of course each other on Facebook ya very late ya ya that's very late, ya but macam the text can be not macam not everyday lah maybe like


uh this month then if he like uh then If I don't reply then we quiet then we can quiet for one month two month then after that can contact back , but he say he didn't rush thing lah like sure up to you lah ya then after that only even number also I was the one who give, cause I was the one who say eh I don't check my


Facebook at that time because that time macam dah tidak dah tidak Facebook macam dah tidak active then I say nevermind lah I just give you my number then after that baru we just text lah, ya then it was the, ah, correct correct


that was two years ago is it, uh this, wait ah let me count back, I think, maybe we go out together lah I think haven't tunang cause we tunang last year ya a'ah, so last year ah


ah, , actually all now have lah just that he didn't say right then, a'ah a'ah yeah, ah K K like like evening


March oh we go out, March two thousand six, I think got together in got November one of the November, but ya ya ya lah quite recent lah ya ya ya ya ya ya correct correct ya


oh ya ya that one uh I didn't I didn't go eh done already, no no, why they take shorter


why they take shorter time, oh they start early, so how long more, ten more minutes more is it, how long more, five more minutes okay okay


oh but ya that time we went uh ya ya when they went to Batam and KL all like we were together lah uh haven't tunang yet , ya cause we next month exactly two years we tunang so we married exactly almost two years, ah two years we tunang ya, actually suppose to marry earlier like like in September or this year then after that his aunty calculate apa apa then say not good month ah suka hati kau lah


, ya ya ya ya then I then I say then I say I don't want to marry like in November or December lah cause that's the peak period kan then like nak cari vendor pun susah then okay nevermind lah then jsut push to January, postpone to January ya so exactly two two years ah like we tunang on the twenty seven getting eh we tunang on the twenty nine we getting married on the twenty seven


ah so almost two years lah ya then I have friends who say eh why you why you tunang like very long ah I say I also don't know , few months is it, ah, a'ah


ten November two thousand twelve, a'ah, oh that's very fast uh ya, ah then you push the seven months before that right ah


, a'ah a'ah a'ah, a'ah a'ah a'ah, a'ah a'ah a'ah oh yeah yeah yeah oh tag


some more lagi lama ah ya ya ya ya, ya ya ya ya ya ya ya ya, tag a'ah account, ah there a'ah a'ah


(mmhmm) and like yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah correct correct yeah, a'ah


ah a'ah yeah yeah yeah yeah, ya seriously lah, a'ah a'ah a'ah, ah ah


yeah is it , a'ah a'ah, a'ah, is that that one but it's in Chinese is it


oh then you drop him ah tag, ah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah , oh means young lah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah a'ah a'ah


yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah, ah, uh ya ya not too bad not too bad not too bad ya ya ya


ya ya then he's young, is it battery low or finish already, oh finish already, oh, one more minute okay, yeah a'ah a'ah


yeah, ya but for twenty three to get together and then he settle down it's a bit young, a'ah marry a'ah


a'ah a'ah, a'ah a'ah a'ah, a'ah a'ah, state a'ah


a'ah a'ah yeah yeah yeah, yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah correct correct yeah yeah yeah, yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yaeh unless you want to settle down later lah , yeah , Arab that's why


eight more seconds, eight more seconds [lah] there, finish


hello, is it okay, the mic working, like this, okay, okay, so we spot the difference is it


okay, this one lah, the farm ah, so uh shall we start on the top right, top right what do you see


ya is it green colour, okay then uh is there two bees, okay uh is there only one window, one window, with four planes


ah okay nice those same then in front of the, uh honey shop there is uh four sacks of potatoes, oh


oh, so actually have the, four sacks of potatoes ya , , moving down


it's call clothes, the the shop is call clothes is it, oh so mine is different so mine is hats and pins, uh three clothes one blue


green and orange, same, uh then there's a some some sales wording buy the perfect gift for Mother's Day, , is the door open


then there's like some, crack or something, at that door, okay , ah, oh I only got one shape


one brown shape, , okay, then ya in front of that shape I got three hands, chicken, ya


ya, then there's a bench where there is a couple, looking very angry at their carrot , yeah


oh so mine both have carrots, no green beans, okay, so, proceed


yes, it's like some, it's not scissors it's uh maybe sear don't know what is that called, , she's wearing a green long sleeve green top, and blue skirt


boots, and there's like five roses and a bush, oh mine got five rose in a bush


, , oh mine is just I'm going to shit, is he wearing hat


with some four, four wooden I don't know, studs at the hat, shorts ya, yeah, yes two hays


and , the boy, , the one can can you see his belly button, , uh red short, uh, no ya lah


, no socks shoe, ya, the boy on the left is going down


ya, , , correct


seen, then (ppb), I see a pig, and a dog, in front of the pig there is a wheelbarrow with I don't know what is that pear, is it pear


there's no food in front of him though, no I mean on the ground


oh, mine doesn't, then there's a, dog, oh no, my dog just bark at the, pole


then there's two towels one is sue in pink and white stripe, and a dam yellow, ah, okay we spot all the difference


let's move on to the next picture, , what is this looks like some beach golf resort, okay, (ppb)


, alright okay, , is there a guy uh shouting, uh


ya then he really uh, take a shot on the ball the ball is already in the putt right, in the golf course, oh, okay, oh so mine already he already shouted


yes, then there's some beach queen parading in some red bikini, and, red sandal


stripe, green or the stripe is it stripe, stripe, oh same


yeah, there's a radio, behind them there's a heart, call fishing shack open, okay


on yes likewise, is the roof grey colour, , then uh what's this, there's there's this the small tent with a sad looking girl in sitting there


ya, and there is like I don't know two box in front of her, doesn't look like first aid I don't know what is it


oh no mine doesn't, but there's a board further up front says South Pavilion Tribute to Paul-McCartney, oh so there are two board there lah


oh, further in front of, is there a couple uh pointing to the uh uh Paul's board


, same, then the man, the hand at the back, , yea with green socks


and the shoes out, ah, , the, then behind him there's this uh some vendor trying to sell some peaches


in a ring some straw hat, white shirt, yea and sandal, uh she's selling peaches same


no he's just holding a tray of, peaches that is hanging from his, uh neck yeah (ppb), uh


no I don't have any lady, oh so I think the lady is only standing in my picture wearing a pink shirt curly hair


blue shorts or skirt right, , is recycling bin, ah, oh no mine is both recycling


behind him ah, yea there are two kinds of fish I think


, I got two sea shell, yeah, there's a board called North Shore, oh I got a board


so beside the board there's this uh there's this , I don't know what is this called the tree, a picture of sea horse, uh, it's not it's not even poster I don't know what is this


yea, oh, so mine is all sea horse then on the left part got two stones, yea then behind the is just the sea


okay, finished the picture, (ppb), , choose a very


topic that is, ah ini lah neighbors neighbors, , Kampung Spirit, how well do you know your neighbors next door uh I don't know them very well


ya, I think because uh is a new BTO so it's like all the young couples are doing their own business in the, like this can I sit this close


cause , it's very short yeah , yeah so the couple uh staying next to me so mine is a


Malay lady and a Chinese, uh husband with married a Chinese husband then they have a small kid that is like maybe one or two years younger than Eva, then uh I think the kid just starting school so that's all I know about them


cause we only meet them in the morning when they both come out to work and send the kids to school, yeah yeah yeha, never, so basically that's the only thing our conversation is just hi bye in the morning


okay the same level across, us is an Indian family, but we never talk to them also then there's beside them there's this Chinese family whose, I know that he ever talk to my husband he's working in some air con


, some air con company ya, then uh the other side of the landing, uh, the same level I only there's this uh very friendly Chinese Ah-Pek, we always only see him in the morning because he always go down buy breakfast


and take newspaper, then in front of him there is Indian I think they are like, PRs, I'm not sure they don't seem local (ppb) then the other side beside them so a bit that means there are eight , there are eight doors


so four doors is on my side four doors the other side right so the other side there's one more Chinese family, so we only see them never even say hi bye, then there's Malay family also that one is like basically my balcony my service yard is really facing them


but uh I find it very troublesome so I put a bamboo, , a bamboo thing so that they cannot see into my house but we never even talk to them so ya, so that's about it but the thing is uh


a lot of my because last time I stay in no no my school is in #Pandan#-Primary-School it is at #Teban#-Gardens, a lot of my primary school friends actually , bought their house around Keat-Hong area, so I have I have like around


one two three, !woah! almost about ten, people staying around the area, ya but so but you know lah as we grow older we are very busy, we only bump them when they are in the bus or


, or going to the supermarket ya , (ppb), (ppb), no, mind your own business, of course lah right


oh of course lah cause it's like your childhood place lah since, since birth since young, (ppb)


so all the way all the all your life only west area , oh, oh those across each other, oh-my-god


did you play block catching when you are, small , oh yes, those were the time we play monkey bars


how young were you then


last time when uh when from young I actually stayed at #Teban#-Gardens, so #Teban#-Gardens is also, also like, our playground lah because I stay at first floor so it's like, because my grandma stays with us so or or so called we stay with her


so it's like, the whole like that point of time like there were like my grandma my grandfather, my auntie and uncle who were not married then, and me and my family stay in one room so they were four of us in one room so it's like, can you imagine then


around our area all our relative are same area, so almost every evening they will come over to eat then, , yes very crowded then sometimes it's too crowded then we will go outside and there is like


and there is like a place where you can actually sit, really it's like Kampung lah because like everyone they will take out their uh Kopi all and Keropok all eat outside , it was very fun


oh, then last time uh my mum was still working so only my uh my aunties and my grandma is taking care of uh my grandparents ah were taking care of us


so , you know when the cat, is away the mouse come out to play so my house is very near the playground, so whenever my mum call my auntie will call out from the window Julie emak kau call , means your mother call


then I have to run all the way then my mum say kau kau pergi playground right means you going to playground right so I know it's like then why you take so long oh in toilet , !aiyah! but she knows that we are, out lah


no now is flat ground already all, but , way before they got en bloc we actually shifted out so my uncle got married so he uh and okay my grandfather also passed away


but when he we split right so I shifted to Queenstown with my own family then my uncle uh who got married, uh took my auntie and my grandma, uh into the house lah, so they stay at Taman-Jurong now, you know where the #Taman-Jurong#-Shopping-Centre the one near the Masjid-Assyakirin ah


so they are staying there, no because I have a friend who, uh, bought a house at Teban the BTO , you know the one that's near the masjid right, the the


the house is facing the golf course, and a lot of insects, so you know what they have to do they have to get like those netting at the window, and even the lighting you know that the one that kills the the zap zap thingy ya it was so bad


because of the golf course, ya so the, don't buy a house there , (mmhmm) (mmhmm) no lah, but of course whenever there is like a lot of wedding invitation there ya ya we go there and bump into everyone there


uh one of my aunty is still staying there the only aunty left, ya, the rest all shift out already, but it was fun good fun


yeah correct, ya ya ya, but ya ya ya it was fun then sometime we go up to the reservoir, yeah, trying to run but !wah! damn far regrets


but the reservoir they have renovated I think some of the area, so there was, ya so it's not too bad lah


ya that time, Jintai is Jintai is their side is more to West-Coast side lah, ah West-Coast, yeah


like that point of time I think it was my time it was River-Valley, sec uh high school was right next to them, so I think recently ah last year because they are planning to demolish uh #Pandan#-Primary so, uh they actually call all the alumni there is actually a Facebook


group for #Pandan#-Primary alumni yeah so it's like, because my auntie house is right next to the the school, so I can tell the school is, it had the no one has, enter the school for so long


so is like that time when they actually get the group to , I think they get permission from MP to open the gate and all lah but they didn't ventured into the, the school they just venture near the, uh the Pandan area and the canteen area just there's this small road that like only leads to the front office and


but they never venture inside lah I mean I didn't go but I I saw the footage of the video then I was like ah seram because I seen, how dark it was and ya so but it was I think nostalgic for them ah so that was the last and


only then I think they going to demolish the place, cause is very old estate already very mature, yeah


so that time my house right that block right it's like uh two blocks and there's one block behind me then behind that block is where all the, uh, I I wouldn't say is like mini jungle or like some, semak or what is it called like yeah


that point of time right when I was staying there there was still uh railway track, ya the train was still uh running but I think uh a few years later they before I uh, moved out they already actually stopped already so you know the road that leads to


is it Jalan-Ibrahim right at the top, that's why, so right I couldn't believe last time we actually walked through there's actually a pavement that walks through uh the mini jungle to go all the way up there


ya because uh a lot of like I'm sure there's a lot of like animals and reptiles and all that and a lot of uh, banana trees so but so far I've not encountered any uh


spooky thing there lah but I've heard a lot of stories in in that area, like cause there's a lot of banana trees there and nowadays saw that they actually tie the the the tree with, uh red thread


we pass by we can see mah yeah yeah yeah, I don't know maybe some superstitious people don't want any disturbance or what right, yeah


alright lah, actually I prefer that way I don't know personally I prefer that way rather than Kaypo, neighbour


, I don't know maybe last time ya lah is like the neighbours will look out for each other eh like you know eh I'm away for one week if you got newspaper can you put away the newspaper for me, !aiyah! but nowadays who buy newspaper right , so I think If I they never send me for one week also they don't know that I won't ya


, not too bad lah, uh after I shifted out from Teban right we stay at Queenstown Queenstown considered a new estate also it's like a BTO right


but the workmanship is not good because the wall crack so even though when we , complain to the board the the HDB right they say they cannot do anything, what the heck, yeah, ya very near


uh, #Mei-Ling#-Street I don't know whether you know #Mei-Ling#-Street, it's like okay if you, no masjid is further down right that means mine is you know the Stadium, ah beside the stadium, that means it's nearer more nearer to the yeah


uh it's near the Queens lah you know the Queens-Condo right, ah it's yeah but uh, then again that area also is consider a mature estate, uh Sterling-Road and all yeah


but very hard to get food there lah because, cause it's mostly like macam what do you call that more Chinese community yeah, unless if you want to get food you have to walk all the way to Queenstown you know Queensway then have to buy all the way to Brickwork


yeah, that's far so, there is one market but the there's only one Malay shop but close only uh in the morning, yeah, it's very bad then there's only one Indian shop that is opposite the other side of the MRT


but that one also like cannot make it lah there's only one Indian shop like that the food also not that fantastic, so it's like kalau macam time fasting month right so we my mum cause both my mum is working also so sometimes we have to buy the food all the way to Brickwork ah, , either that


(ppb), still have to walk all the way to the, Queens way road there to take a bus down, ya then


but website so good to like easy to get food also right cause ya, of course, it is it is that is the most convenient thing


but in terms of food so because of that then I decide how to learn how to cook, because at that point of time I was primary five my sister was, three years younger than me she's primary what ah, two three yeah


so about there lor so no choice since she's working so if, if she never cook then I have to start to cook lor, so ya that's how I pick up my culinary skills, do you cook at home


okay you need to learn soon , but he does he eat Malay food, oh-my-god


that's easy you just grill the fish, so you have to cook two dishes then


ah, , oh-my-god oh


then you must ask, his mum already what dishes he like to cook because, uh, like, I was it was quite challenging for me because #Iwan#'s mum is a very good cook, so is like, so she like really set the high bar for him you see


so uh but, uh, okay lah I I I I managed to adapt lah and of course Google is my, best friend, so uh, we try lor but the good thing is at the point of time right I save my mum, so


uh, if there is like four or five of us lah so If I cook at least somebody will eat like you know so at least, tak not wasteful , then we try out lor so uh if he I will ask him what he like to eat for the day then he will


uh say then okay lor we try to figure that out lor, ya, cause my mom is not a good cook, so I somehow, after I married then I somehow take over the kitchen so she like hands off now ya


no lah we shifted already ya, she not okay after Queenstown they shifted to Woodland, so yes they lived in west uh south, then now north


uh Woodlands with my sis, ya so just two of them lah so now like uh what do you call that, yes, ya lah because my sister also most of the time will go out with her boyfriend so


she also she will just cook like one portion for herself or, or one cook one dish he will eat two three days then until Sian, yeah, no lah okay


it's different because we are, , cause, , I have, a three years old kid


so it's either I've to cook one dish that all three of us can eat, or I've to cook two dish, which is for her solely for her and then uh for us lah, so uh, it's very tiring as a working mum, so I will try to cook maybe


two or three times on a weekday only, then once our time, you have to buy lah ya, six, and, almost seven seven ish, ya so for him because


he stay nearby I mean his school is nearby right so he'll fetch Shiva then they'll reach home by six plus and, he will like you know before and all by then, ya but, but the thing is now you see eh now she is, only K-one but once you're in primary school right


then comes the homework and all so !wah! I don't know how he going to cook, with like me or us coming home at seven plus, and to prepare dinner because prepare dinner itself can be, (ppc), and by the time it will eight plus then you must like


uh prep her for her school her homework, and uh, try to sleep at least by nine plus because you have to wake up at least five plus, because so !wah! I don't know how because


probably, ya because no choice what my parents are, my mom is very far away at Woodlands then both my parents in law are working, got no choice no matter what I still have to find school that has student care


then with this one coming up , May, yeah and it's end of May uh mid of fasting month, yeah so it's like I think Hari-Raya I won't be going unless


unless I just go out to my in law yeah lah, first day maybe lah, then go to his granny house sure will Kena, no, very tiring you know how old are you


(ppb) I have my first when I am thirty with Eva eh thirty eh correct lah now she, no no no thirty thirty one eh, she's four years old this year so thirty one eh


so I got married when I am thirty I got her when I am thirty one yea, K lah not really bunting pelamin because is like one month then ah, yea, so, yea so is very tiring so that you can tell the difference


so I advise you to straightaway try to (ppb) have one when you are young (ppb) cause, when I (ppb), , thirty like me lah right, so, how many kids do you plan to have


(ppb) two, is it gonna gap big gap or like,


yeah, , , how many year ah


!wah! , that means your mom had her him when, forty plus, very tiring eh, so how many siblings you have three


oh five so you want number, oh okay, yeah, so but for me is because I want to take a break uh


because at that point of time right, okay my father uh got very sick so he passed away uh, the reason why I got married earlier than expected is because my father was sick so instead of marrying the year the next year that we uh anticipate right so we


push to six months no almost seven seven months down ah, so but he got saw me got married and all, and he passed away when I was three months pregnant, ya so he didn't get to see the baby lah so


, to us it was very fast because after, got married already terus have baby then after that uh one two years we have to prepare for the house already, then it's like you know one thing after another so at that point of time we thought like I don't think we can afford to


uh have another one cause I cannot imagine the chaotic we having a baby, and moving and all so after Eva was three years old then we decide that uh, K lah after we settle in and, uh clear most of the debt cause once you go in I mean go inside the house right you have a lot of things to buy


so uh we took at least a a year lah to settle down, so we try again lah uh this year Alhamdulillah lah ah, but it wasn't but people thought it's like !aiyah! we don't want to have one but of course


we have our own planning lah so moral of story is don't hear people too much I mean like, you should uh really communicate and what you two can afford ya I mean like if, you want he don't want then what's the point of having one right when he resent or you resent the baby so


(ppb) good luck, , but are you in a rush to move here


but is the renovation oh you mean you haven't even collect key, so where,


yeah, yes you need a lot of money to for the house, I already feels stress for you,


your house is what four or five, four room how much ah, !wah! quite expensive leh, uh because mine uh five room right because it's mid floor right so I paid three seventy


so it's, relatively cheaper, oh, trigger


!huh!, (ppb), (ppb), , okay lah at least both West side for you lah near to your


oh, actually right I was very lucky because I got very good support so


is, his mom going to be very I mean is his mom okay, so if you are have kid is she willing to take care of you


, , then I think you need you need to sit down and talk to the mother [loh] at this point of time


because of course lah infant care is on get sick every now and then, Eva when she first start childcare first year !wah! I think we gone to he doctor for more than ten times lah, in a year more than ten times so it was so bad that earlier this year I tried essential oil on her


so, no I tried Doterra ah so miraculously I don't know whether, is it her immune system built over time or because of the essential oil also her recovery level is uh faster


so her her fetus instead of like one week right so maybe three four days, and recently dia she got HDMF because there were like, how many kids ah, more than ten kids I forgotten how many kids in uh Kena infected in the school so


her spots is not very bad no not not blisters just like red dots and but her ulcer was very pain for her lah, but her rashes she got no fever, so I don't know whether, really it helps or not so I but maybe it does help in some way so


ya, but uh ever since I start that her she doesn't have much flu already, we sleep in aircon lah so uh, I don't know whether is because of the aircon or what her flu is always recurring


so macam macam better lah seems like it's better so, uh I will just try to continue ah and see, ya, three, when I shifted lah


ya because at that time I was still with my mum what, and and that point of time also the infant care tidak ada half day no half day so I want to try out for like you know those, half day or three four hours kind right around her area doesn't have


it's all full day kind of child care so at that point of time it's like !aiya! then never mind lah just, just let it be save money also cause we are shifting to a new house, so uh once we shifted then she started lah


ah so she was N-one, when she start, (hmm), but I was thinking I don't know whether with this one, uh, I don't know whether we can afford to send her to infant cause infant care's very expensive,


even even with subsidy it can be, it can be seven eight hundred you know, ya, Eva sending her to child care child care is about child care is four hundred plus, so (ppb) ya as in


yeah, so I don't know I'm trying to convince my mum to stay with me , until the kid is eighteen months so I don't know whether she is willing or not but we are trying to psycho her ah


yeah, it's not like last time you know if your old estate right ya, now it's like !wah! really unless you willing to send to your own relatives who are staying around the area also


but, have lah I have few relatives who are like not working but I'm not comfortable with their with their parenting style also , ya then you cannot say much because ya ya so my mum know my style right so at least uh she


my mum unfortunately my mum is more uh modern time, his mum is more traditional ya so his mum got more pantang than my mum so uh my mum listens to me, so If I tell her I should do this this this this this uh even kind of food and all right she will follow


so (ppb) thank god because you know like, sometimes, cause you know sometimes like when uh old, , traditional people they, want you for example, (ppb), no no no for example baby eh they give milk


then they say why don't you put Nestum inside so the baby is more filling, ya so it's like uh that's why then I say to my in law I was like no lah mummy never mind lah I just give that point of time I give her breast milk for nine months


ya so then after that I start her formula because I need to uh to start working cause I was I did I quit for a year, to take care, yeah, so (ppb), she because so so sometime once a week we still go over to let them see the baby lah so


ah so she ask this kind of thing then want to feed Nestum at three four months, then is like ya lah then say you know so, so that's why I say you must understand


his, his style I mean his mum style so whether is it really going to be the modern mother type or tradition mother but sometimes again if you want her if she have to take care of your kids then, , sometimes might need close one eyes ya then obviously talk nicely or what lah


, correct but it might strain your relationship so, , correct so I don't know whether his mum will be open


I mean you you can see what from whether the mum is more traditional or modern, you can see what like okay maybe you should judge because the mum already taking care of the then you ask your in law or what [loh]


like the sister or what, oh, discipline ah, uh but it's not it's common, because I last time my mum also like


like that, like, maybe because , my baby is the first child from my from my side and his side you see so it's like they really uh what's that peribahasa eh, uh menatang minyak yang penuh eh


ya, correct it's like last time you imagine ah when the baby small right baby like to be carried, so, at the point in time my mom I ask my mom take care of the baby then we go out for a while lah I think I can't remember we run some errands


so you know what she did she just held the baby for three four hours like that, because she scared that if she put down the baby will ah will wake up and cry, then is like why is she torture herself but is like ya I mean


you can feel her love lah one thing but I don't want her to like you know exhaust herself also, but will you be sending to your mom instead


oh, your your father, work, so he took care of you all, to help her out lah, so I think the your only option at this point of time is your in law or infant care


or baby sitter if you have any, I don't know what's the rate for baby sitter, these days, ah, cause I remember that , my sister's ex the mom baby sit


the neighbour but, just the fee itself lah around three four hundred, excluding food and pampers and all lah, , yaeh, but there's a fee three four hundred, yeah so


but I don't know lah babysitter unless you are really close, infant care then again also may not be very clean, yeah !wah!, so you really have to weigh your pros and cons


never mind lah you say lah what comes, come what me, , so where you going stay after you get married


oh, oh you're sharing rooms with your sister so that's why, four


ah, oh, oh, so when are they moving out


I, but your wedding is like next month right, and you have to start like, ya, and you have to do up the bilik pengantin also


oh so it's just a combined wedding eh, oh, still got one more hour I wonder what the boys are doing where's the guy


I think so you know, ya it's only fifteen minutes, , what did you eat just now, Siew-Mai


so just now is start at what time ah, uh one thing eleven thirty [loh] because now is like twelve almost twelve seventeen, so is I think after setup already about eleven thirty, so we only been done by


one more hour ya, I don't mind okay let's talk about your house what what concept you planning to do for your house


more modern minimalist, oh, oh with the counter top ah


why, , very expensive


oh, correct lah, cause my house uh also no flooring, almost thirty K, ya but don't forget ah never do I never do up bathroom


yeah, , then my house also when you actually enter oh kirakan you have not been to my house ah


okay lor so when we actually enter the door there was supposed to be you can see the opening our kitchen, so it was a headache so we covered it up and put shoe rack, then the other side we uh hack the door open ya then uh I decide because I wanna have air con in the room right and


If I cook and all that I decide not to have a counter top so we have a sliding door, there so if like we on air con or what we just uh close the door, we have lah so if like we got family over and all that so we can events and all that we on the air con lah


and I would because I also like to cook right so I think If I have counter tops I have lesser place too, put it I I must like my kitchen must be neater


oh yeah lah, not necessary you know cause my my best friend she staying the other cluster of my Keat-Hong also he, his house is four room so dia punya that means she never he never hack the wall lah so immediately


right after that is his dining table but to make it bigger he put mirror, ya, good luck in claiming it, but red, but really ah you put mirror ah I see my friend ah I think they never clean the mirror eh


I think over I think I think semangat lima minit sahaja then, okay we'll see okay, , how long you can maintain


is it clear, or like coloured the mirror, he (ppb) cause my friend he his one is slightly coloured macam a bit brownish, so it's like, so maybe if we it's tainted also people won't recognize but if it's white ah all the uh


K lah you you wait okay when you got two kids ah how often you will clean the mirror


ya, okay good luck , ya eh cannot especially when I'm pregnant right (ugh), no, no


(ppb) yes my kitchen ah berhabuk I think, yeah, no lah as and when lor so toilet is always he his duty, so I tell him to do it every fortnight also become once a month but because If I nag then he


then uh okay lah as long he knows lah when it's really Jialat then he do lah, ya but because last time when I was young my mum drill us to clean at least once a week,


ya so, so for him is is different you see because he was the eldest, he got three other siblings then his mum basically do everything for them, yes, and he got a sister also so it's like


uh, lemak lah at that point of time but uh K lah now better already he uh I shape him up already , yeah correct, last time uh last time oh-my-god I was so naggy, so I think it okay lah overtime manage to


but, but one thing , when I'm pregnant right this round right he's more initiative so it's like, uh he knows I cannot step into the kitchen because my kitchen right kan macam the service yard is open, so everyone cook right you can literally smell right so he knows that I can't step into the kitchen [orh] so he will do all the dishes and all that lah


so even If I were to cook right I have to wear mask kind of thing then I have to close all the service yard window it was very bad so, K lah so is, I, ya now better already is now the second trimester so but the but I mean at that point of time the


sense ah was like multiplied by ten times now maybe five times, still very bad but not as bad as yeah the first tri lor, so what we are trying to achieve ya our house was more of macam modern


more more modern more chic kind of like New-York chic you know, so we have a lot of like grey black, and silver, so uh, our, kitchen the top cabinet was silver


then the bottom is black then my grenade also black with like , , the sparkles lah, but one thing, one thing about black is uh it's nice but you need to you can see the dust


correct so, nowadays I think more people are more in they choose marble kind of, you know macam more, marble top like more light grey with some dash of dark grey, ah so now I think that's a in thing now for more modern look


yeah, yeah, , yeah correct, so I actually have a macam backing


at the back so is easy to clean also so initially I don't want I didn't have so is just normal tar so I think think again, sure will be very difficult right so we have a simple black, yeah, but of course if you want nicer ones you see I see some people use those


white tiling, whatever you cook ah, some, but I but what you could use is because even though I got the backing right I will I don't know whether you know or not there's there's macam


very rectangle aluminium, uh you can put, so I change every three four months, because no matter how careful you are right and how you think you will clean up after you cook you won't,


so yes that's a tip for you you should buy that, yeah, I but are you gonna have backing, is it raining macam rain, !aiyo!, yeah, we are going chalet


yeah tempat Aloha, and exactly that one that you went lah that time Eva's birthday, at Aloha that was like uh three years ago ah eh two years two years ago, , ya


uh his cousin I mean his uncle lah his his paternal uncle, ah because, I think they did two nights you know, ya but, they got like nine siblings they have


seven or eight eh, ya so they all share that's why they can afford two nights, one night is three hundred plus you know so two nights six hundred plus uh then imagine with all the food and all that sure thousand plus right, then you barbecue


ya, so, for the father's birthday, ya and one of the in law birthday I think they combined it lah because the father that time when he he came to uh Eva's birthday he liked it so much so he, he like uh megecek like we where want to chalet and all that


yeah , but because one of the kid is working , I can't remember police ah oh one of the in laws the son in law uh he's a police so that's why they manage to get the the civil servant


yea so is fifty percent of [loh], yeah, they got the pool terrace the pool terrace is the most expensive one lah if not you take the garden and all slightly cheaper, yea so Eva cannot wait to swim and then I also like it there because there is also an indoor playground yea so is good for her


so even if it's raining right so okay lah she might be disappointed but at least got playground, there's only three kids, uh one of the uh then the only one of her his cousin


yea, no lah her his cousins all older than him, like all, uh, no no not all lah like half of them are older than him half are younger than him lah


yea so only one girl got three kids, yea, so is only those three kids lah who always play with Eva, yeah


three married so one with the three kids, then the other two, then uh quite kesian one of the youngest brother, recently got cancer, uh he got tumor in his


no no some somewhere behind the eyes or something or like the head, but likt, miracly miraculously right uh the tumor shrunk, yea so it was at the point of time they even they don't even measure what stage was it but she the


the the size was quite big eh like around ten eleven CM kind, yea so he undergo chemo radio then his skin all peeling and all that right, but after that like, and the one thing about him I don't know he's like


, he uh low IQ so he's like a bit, uh I don't know whether he's autistic or not lah I I don't know, so, yeah so, he's in his early twenties ah now


so, macam kesian [seh] yea see him like that, yea he want to say sakit also it's like don't know he don't know how to express it yea, but, no not normal school those special school lah


yea then uh after the her his radio then I heard better but, I don't know how's the check up after that lor, so is like almost like a miracle for him because we when we heard


maybe but it was very very scared you know is like in the shades and like ten CM some more, I don't know, that one is the last one


the the last but I think because the auntie also at that point of time was forty plus eh, ya so I don't know, no entertainment I think yeah


, , oh big family, that means the


uh last year, uh, maternal or paternal,


I think at this point of time not many ah but but I got, uh, two two secondary school friend who got five kids, yeah, yeah, the, youngest okay one of


one of them the youngest is, , maybe two three years old, ya like primary school already, yeah, uh five kids eh


six ah ah


excuse me, excuse me, yeah , so there's this two high ranking couple, , do you know many kids they have, nine kids, nine kids so it's like


uh they got two maids I think but I think they are both high flyers but can you imagine it's like everytime when you see her she's always pregnant , like one year after another, I I don't know I don't know, even if you high flyer


how much can you have like maybe four five K, maybe more, right, I think they must buy jumbo house or what , nine kids eh then they said every time see her is like every other year also


like never see her not pregnant , but because TP mah so government so I'm not sure whether, how I don't know how much you entitled to your maternity


no I mean like up to how many kids and all that maybe K maternity leave they still let you take leave lah, but okay lah no more baby bonus ah you stop at four or five right


can't remember, about four I think four or five ah four ah, now they increase already that time when Eva it was six K, ya now is like eight K, yeah


, so, okay lor this one, no lah cannot afford lah, oh I heard uh Evan say Riso the the wife say if got baby she want to quit


ya cakap perangai Ain sia , then I was like, how why why would they then it's like, I don't know I cannot lah, yeah


ya lah, and depends on your lifestyle lor, of course you want the best for your kids what right or not, (ppb), no lah and one thing is like macam ) you always dependent on your husband then you want to spent


money also you must ask permission, then, uh touchwood if anything happen to you then you want to leave also very hard because you are not financially independent


ya lah I mean no matter how much saving you have also like, , right or not, no lah I I rather have,


ya lah, income


cannot you'll be very uh lazy then you'll be very grumpy, and, you, correct and you will resent your husband because it's like, when he come back then he want to relax then you is like eh you think


(ppb), I also work you know whole day then you know, then feeling of resentment is still is there if you, unless you, have ah, the one with the five kids ah


, okay like one of them so but the other girl was I think she only stop recently when uh she, cause even that time with the fifth child, she was still working dia kerja tempat police


uh, she's not a police officer but those office lah, but I think when the child was two or three years old recently sahaja she just quit, ya but then again she have a backup because she is a homemaker, so at least there's stream of income lah


but the husband is not work, she not high flyer the husband is just taxi driver leh, ya so, like that's why I say is still lifestyle [loh], you have to choose lifestyle no car and all, then


ya lah no splurging lah, no holiday, yeah


correct lor, hard lah, then if you want send your kid to U how, if you want send your kids to the U


no, but uh for me, I was okay I consider most lucky lah because I paid half my dad paid half


so K lah I still come out my own pocket money then so, not too bad, ya, no deficit very hard lah


that's why I say uh you have to choose your lifestyle [loh], you don't want certain things but unless but if you want quality things then, very hard, never mind , do you have driving licence


do you, I didn't have any driving licence and I don't think I intend will intend to take any, I don't like


I just don't like I think I'll be very verbal I will verbal abuse the drivers on the road and I don't have patience and, ya, yeah , you if I also say cannot ya I'll be very


no lah I don't intend to, have people drive me one lah,


, then I get tired easily then most of the time I sleep in the car, , cause is like most of the time is like okay lah before Eva come comes semua time I I in the car I'm like halfway in the journey


I will just sleep , maybe lah, , so I think I don't know there is no , there's no pushing for me to get a licence, some people is like uh !wah! turn eighteen already oh die die I want must get a licence then but then again once you get a licence you have the urge to get a car


then it's like then you'll be in debt, right, yeah yeah yeah yeah


ya lah ya lah, ya lah so what's the point right ya lah


uh, even like that okay lah but if you don't practice also no use what, I think the father maybe scared ah, let her drive


twenty six years old, [sial] ah, is a very sheltered, nice stuff, got boyfriend or not, ah very hard to have boyfriend


, ya lah I think this kind of family maybe end up in an arranged marriage, okay


Chinese ah, uh well to do, I mean not those like, well to do live in landed property bungalow,


okay means half an hour just passed, !aiyah! how come he never entertain us one, what is this this like a macam a workshop hor


there's yeah lor, maybe, ah there you are we were looking for you I was like how come you only entertain them you never entertain us, is it raining outside


alright we have uh how many more minutes forty more minutes, you sleeping ah, , okay where were we just now, oh I know because they say uh they will need to omit our laughter our what what what


if there's any vulgarities they need to edit out ya so they they say sometimes must be like, ya like ten fifteen minutes extra, (ppb), never mind , uh at my in law


, Yew-Tee, , my childcare is actually near their area in Yew-Tee also, so the good thing is like if both of us were working because at that point time Iwan was schooling mah so


uh, sometimes when I need to work late at night so my in law will fetch lah, so yeah lah yeah, in that sense I'm kind of


ah, so you going to just eat at his house, save money lah, , can walk lah, yeah lah yeah lah !wah!, so good


ya, uh Bukit Bukit-Batok ah, ah


no like like my situation lah, where all our friends are staying around the cluster


likely, cannot do nonsense stuff , at that point of time actually when I apply for the house right we got two option at that point of time because , it was either sales or balance or, uh BTO at Woodlands which is near my mum


so uh we, end up right because the sales of balance we want it to be fast so we opt for sales of balance instead of the BTO that is near my mum, so, and it's up already, you know where is uh triple eight plaza


so it was the BTO behind triple eight plaza, the tree treetop or something like that lor yeah,


, , they are they are new two cluster, so I'm not sure which to cluster she is referring, so, uh ya the sales of balance flat we, yeah, I saw it's like got a few lah but so they actually tell which area and uh and all right and which floor and all that right


so uh we recce the place, but, not to our liking, so we drop out ah, so the next uh round of BTO then come out yang this Choa-Chu-Kang, so we decide to just take Chua-Chu-Kang lah which is near


, no no I think we got the priority, yeah I mean it's just not priority is the increase ballot in the ballot lah


you know they when there is like at the point of time if like you're, staying near your parents there is one more ballot that means there's instead of one chance two chance


oh, yeah lor yeah, so at that point of time, uh we tried get this Chua-Chu-Kang one then , you know like in the website right there's this like the they Fengshui there's this Fengshui then they will tell you


which uh block is has the better wind and all that, so at that point of time right uh we got two options is whether ya my cause my house the living room facing the playground


so there's a block beisde the multi story so we decide not to take the block beside multi story because we know that there's a coffee shop and supermarket, so we know that coffeeshop can be very noisy, so we take a block that is next to it so, is whether we want to have the living room window facing


playground or the other side but the other side right it's , plain land and, can see jungle, so , K so my house uh, the the tengah is on the right side


ya where all the current jungles are yang dekat Brickland-Road right, so but in front of the our that that that plain , land right might be some few houses that coming up also, so, we decide that maybe we don't know what's there right and it's facing


stuffs, and uh one thing about our kid is she's very sensitive, so she can see stuff so at that point of time we decide not to, have things that is facing, , the nothing you know


so we decide to get the one that is facing the civilisation , ah, ah yeah


because still, still new ah, cause consider that place was vacant for a while ya, so


but okay lah after , after she grow up she never see already, ya because got one point of time right his siblings was at home


so one of his siblings was uh sitting next to him then she say uncle look, that was like when she's three plus lah last year lah when she was uh, ya at that time her speech is not really clear is just like a one word one word kind of thing


so she say uncle look ya, that's why she like that point that means that thing is like, yeah lah , then my uh and my uh brother in law was like ya what's that ah,


yeah lor, but so far Alhamdulillah got, got nothing lah cuma sometime disturbance , sometimes only ah, and, our bedroom right behind the wall


is nothing you know means is empty you know, sometime got like yeah, but some time I very oblivious lah so it's even who, will hear this kind of thing, some time I will be like so engross in watching TV


then he, he look at me eh look, then then sometimes when he like that right then I like okay lah something is up tetapi tidak tegur lah yeah, but Eva she's a very special kid know last time when she was staying with mum


uh, got a, kid also want to play with her, so, uh, my mum dia punya living room right dia punya dinning table is round, so, she like to run around, so sometime when my mum take care of her it's only my mum cause my sis out for so we all out for work it's only when she


so sometime she run around the table right you run around for nothing is fine but she run around she look behind, yeah so you know that she's playing with something what yeah


one side eh got one platform tau so where all her toys are at that point of time, so I think she like play and talk to people uh talk but then again she


like yeah, so that's how we found out that actually there is a, some, child that is very uh attracted to her lah, so, ya so as a child right she attracts this kind of thing a lot so that's why we


were we very worried lah correct correct so it's like want to go to like, the, see also very, scary want go to Changi and all that area also very scary, so we try to avoid that kind of place lah especially at night


very scary, so far okay lah let's say when she grow older I think she cannot see this kind of thing already lah, but so far in my life I've never seen one so uh uh I cannot


yeah, ah, even when he was young he can see


so I think, so imagine you can as a four five years old kid ah he see all this thing like, the nice and the ugly one, then the father also like


uh, start to try to defend his family lah from all this kind of thing ask for help, yeah, so ya I think she got, from the father yeah poor girl


but I hope it won't continue lah, you know last time , when I was dating Iwan ah there is this CD call rasuk have you heard about this CD called rasuk it was some uh Gamelan kind of music


I think maybe ten years ago ah in the uh Geylang-Besar they always play this Gamelan Gamelan kind of song right, so uh stupid me go and buy the CD because I like the sound the Gamelan sound and all that


then my then Iwan was like eh come let's go then is like why we just reach here what uh then he say nevermind just let's go, then , ya so apparently that CD call the thing the spirits


ya basically he say like the whole Kampung come ya, then they start to chase a bit lah then after that I think because is will be all their territory already so they stopped chasing


I was like what the heck so, I know because that time when I bought the CD right you know at that point of time ah maybe ten years ten fifteen years ago there's a lot of like , so that CD is actually is one of their


one of their group lah, who create all these stuff I mean like all these Gamelan song is very nice right but then again I didn't know that there's a, ya so don't anyhow go and buy all these CDs ah


it's so funny, I of course I never see never feel I'm very oblivious, so is like okay lah we drive off , so funny now when you think back it's like why the heck why do they sell this kind of music


ya, so I I I don't know where's the CD now I think I throw it away already,


funny, uh next time I I I try to find the rasuk it's call rasuk ah, !walao! the CD name also called Rusell, what the heck


it was very famous in the nineties it was nineties mid, ya then almost every Saturday they have all these


(uh huh), my uncle Kena uh Kena chased before you know because he was wearing red shirt, ya that was when he was in his, a lit, no late twenties ah


he was tempat Teban ya , then he run then he have to remove his shirt, no no just run while open the shirt and then dia sudah stop kejar already what the heck


scary you know this kind of thing, but luckily not so not not so common nowadays ah, but still I think there's still one or two groups ah, and a lot of them trans


, no lah, , let's give it another, twenty forty minutes lah hor, ya (ppb)


where you going after this, , yes eat


, , no no, oh, so fun


, which poly were you from


oh, I'm from Nanyang, I also got uh my from poly I got two good friends ah Chinese good friends ah so, the last trip we had right because one of them married a Malaysian


uh but well to do lah so we in April so that time so, I think quite recently lah few months back only so in April so me and my friend my other girl friend, we go Ipoh visit her because that time she just gave birth second child


yeah, fly firefly don't ever take firefly damn scary okay, ya I didn't know that it's a small jet I thought it's at least like Air Asia you know, ya