no eh she is going with Angie ah the Amazing Race, ya but I cannot join say need to sign up so, so what I want to ask her what time, what time does


ah what time does, wait ah waiting for her reply


I thought she will sleep until very late, oh you haven't go to her ramen shop before right


ya eleven plus is when they, haven't open yet ah still preparing for the, to open yet, ya I think you need to go around twelve one plus ya


eleven thirty is preparation I think preparation they start start to open uh at twelve plus, uh it's quite nice ah the ramen


yup, the all her, staff ah all know me already because I frequently go down, including the boss ah, because the boss is a brothers, brothers are family


ya is run by a, brothers ah, that's why is called brothers' ramen, they got, they got, a recently new menu like Mee-Pok Mee-Pok, dry one but but it's quite nice ah I feel like


eating it tomorrow, no the spread like it's quite nice ah I mean because now I'm maybe I'm hungry that's why , that's why I feel ah, so, have you taken your lunch no right


maybe we after this survey we can go and eat something ah because


the we go back to mrt and decide or, don't know where to do or we chat meet up


yup because very cold that's why lah I feel hungry, ya ya ya, so uh also see what what event, clock widget


oh okay, no eh no eh, let me see what meetup got what app uh got what events, let's explore the unknown side of Labrador-Park


sing and mingle to have fun, !wah! this one you can join if you want sing mingle and have, Bras-Basah this one SY love to go every every I think every Sunday


uh but need to pay ten dollars okay, K then let me see what kind of event do they, they have


uh which one the for how many hours Christabella oh, oh ten dollar club ah, oh then I think, because two to !wah!, five hours, this one free flow of drinks one know


no because I head like this this one


half an hour more uh


then, okay then you can try like not meet up at mrt you go to her house instead, get to see what what is she doing at home


can meet at the, below void deck


because is most of the time I late , it's the other way, so is every time I late then, uh you you mean she'll she mind sometime but err


you mean my ex ah, is it not not SY right, both ah ya, for sy I make it into a habit like try to turn on try to make it punctual lor


but I I last I I I I, try ya I did meet meet on punctual meet on punctual, for my last, she will be angry ah but she will still wait ya she will be angry but she will still wait for me ah


so, ya, that's why got lah last last week only


we talked it out lor that time uh Joyce sy, ya ya then they just talked it out actually after before that, uh they quarrel right after that I go to her ramen shop


ya then, feel abit awkward lah, then after meeting up with each other, after that she feel like I feel she can feel like I feel I'm feeling sad, she also feel sad la she tell me


she lor she open up the conversation, say ah eh !wah! long time never see you something like that , ya then ya then because don't know what topic to say ya just say like


what are you having today uh ya something like that, then I want to talk to her about, some other stuff, she say I'm working okay uh low profile low profile, keep it low ya something like that ah


she don't, uh I just have my lunch there after that, uh then I just, then I just go off from there because, she will be free during two thirty but I cannot wait because my lunch time are until two only so


ya unless I am on leave ah, we have a heart to heart talk lor, then


yup lor ya that day ya, ya we already have a heart to heart talk, but I don't know why that day we takes, group photo right, she


no group photo uh one is on her phone don't have in or her phone he do like, ya ya, don't know lah I think that time we go where ah that time we go cycling is it ah cycling


ya is it ah I forgot already , ya he's he's John John is around lah no no heart to heart talk ah means uh with, normal talk only, but we, talk it out lah why we quarrel something like that


and then at last okay already lor, ya but


really I don't think so but, if she I if I feel it I will know like she will keep texting me


then ya lor but the things is, when, when we are together I want to keep, looking out for her I want to keep meeting her, then she


don't feel like meeting me and I I I don't I don't know why ah maybe ah, but I enjoy I enjoy going out with her lah, I don't know that one is love or what, uh like I just enjoy going out with her lor like


then that day we go cycling okay


three person go cycling Joyce go back first, then, Joyce go back first then uh, we cycle from, City-Hall


to, her house, then we, have a heart to heart talk again , then at last she told me uh we


stay as companionship ah, ya ya so yup, so at last she ask me I I wanna send her back


uh let's say if I send you back I got no train eh to go back already, from Tiong-Bahru Plaza to her house, because uh we are at the McDonald's at Tiong-Bahru Plaza then we


uh eleven, ya eleven then I say if, we talk, to have a heart to heart talk ah until eleven thirty, then if I send her back I got no train I will, I've to take night rider ah confirm


she say never mind lor it's okay lor, then we talk some more lah she say like, err companionship also can send us send me back as well


maybe she still, that's why I never rush into things first, ya take, one time and a step, I'm still hungry sia (ppb) so hungry (ppb)


maybe Briyani, feel eh, don't know, don't know but I think, mrt side, there's a shopping mall, which is uh the


eighteen at Tai-Seng, okay we are at here, there eighteen Tai-Seng there's a NTUC you see, uh which is link to mrt, maybe we can go there and eat something ah later


so hungry , don't know what to eat ah, oh hawker Chan, still got how long more you see uh


twenty more minutes twenty seven minutes okay, twenty seven minutes, [orh] okay, uh twenty seven minutes what can we talk about


do not talk about topics politics sexuality race religion , do ya uh let me see, maybe we can plan do you like camping a not


I see, actually, so actually ah, Angie had a plan, to camp with a lot of people do camping with a lot of people


sy me uh Joyce is also keen also, uh maybe you then we can like, see what we can do there, East-Coast-Park, uh !aiya! because it's free what camping


uh up to Angie lah like maybe, two nights also can like Friday go there, stay until Sunday, but don't know what to do there the thing is uh like if nothing ah


will be very boring, ya unless we got activity, yup


okay I see


are you hungry, nearby your house, we I got eleven coffee shops


eleven (ppb), a lot of coffee shop really my house that side, try try ya I I try all already, ya I I I try until Sian already try until tired already


uh coffee shop hor I ah ya coffee shop, actually my house there got Pasar-Malam, ah near the Tampines West station, uh then I think Simei have Pasar-Malam as well uh some more where ah


Pasir-Ris also have, watch movie lor because I download, a few movies yea


on this, unicycle otherwise uh hang out with families lor see what they gonna do, ya lor the mostly they go shopping


ya then because shopping take, a long time to I can uh spend a long day out, like uh and going NTUC then we can shop there really long


that's why is quite, actually, shopping with family okay ah for me, like I like to buy things ah, buy like Cold Storage


ya the feeling is, oh Vitality


Vitality app ah, oh ya ya can download through Playstore is it


but no need to sign up anything with uh, AIA right, or need to sign up, or need to sign policy


oh okay, oh is oh I think is something like the healthy three six five is it the app, oh got Cold Storage voucher ah, like need to run for how long ah


oh I see


make me feel like want to sleep leh, this <UNK/> keep talking and talking and


two hour maybe we read all the things


avoid, at at first feels


the aircon is very cooling, now is felling very, cold, staying here for a long, do you want to try E-Scooter later


the shop there's a nearby shop here what, no no rent try try can try


because of dangerous, but if you write slowly, but rent need to pay


thirty nine dollar, is like say the O, Ofo last time used to need last time need to, ya thirty


ya thirty nine, thirty ah no forty nine, ya ya that time my Ofo need to pay deposit for forty nine, now no need already just deduct from your, so ya


I was supposed to use up my free credits, I still got four dollars because sy that time, she try to use my free credits to ride from


uh ride from a Bencoolen station, to her house, ya so, that time I'm still not so familiar with uh Tiong-Bahru area so we go a big round


so now I very familiar with her area so, oh can try ah later later we can try the E-Scooter, ya so, actually [orh]


next year need to ride ten kilometer per hour, so I don't know my one need to register a not, are you a PM Lee PMD lover


PMD lover, ya I don't know


here don't know, today don't know got what, event uh


no eh because I look inside the meet up app, not much event here, not much event here so, today maybe a boring day because like


Monday will be are you going to Kelly's event Monday, ya the ya, I'm not too sure, with who ah you're going


oh I see I, she never invite me at all, then I think Joyce


Joyce Joyce I don't know if she's going because, Joyce is going, then Kelly scold her until like that


endure, okay because what time is the event ah, oh


her mum along


[orh] it's uh [orh], is sy glowing, oh I see


!walao! if I feel like I if I go, I meet Kelly I'll feel awkward, don't know eh like, because she never invite me if I go like this


oh I see


or I consider first be I let you know later lah, ya ya I let you know okay ah


oh okay, she will, be very nice in front of you, after that she will back mouth you from the back and then compare


ya I have her photo actually, actually she's a friend, under my FaceBook there


this is Kelly ah, but, ya that's why that's, ya that's why, single lah still single lah and I still


forty, that's why, like that time uh


sy told her something, sy say don't tell me, but she tell me, ya like


actually she also don't click well with, Angie as well, so ya, Joyce that day also she scold, Joyce ya you remember the group chat


ya then she only clicks well with, sy lor, sy won't ah ya, sy, everyone she, ya because


asking for going event that's why, ya ya, that's why


still got how long more


you


I see, ya, she will


don't know because I never, I delete her contact already but she's a friend of me, at FaceBook lah, don't know eh he, she never sometimes like last time we still haven't quarrel one


we she still will message me, uh recently only ah


because I don't have her number already


this about work, work is it, let me see, is it from FaceBook because sometimes FaceBook ah


no no FaceBook will put like, uh event tomorrow, I see is it from FaceBook


!huh! really ah, okay, ya okay, okay


family lor that's the only ya fly with family, actually last time I got a friend ah then be quarrel ah is a


twenty years friendship sia, because of (ppb) uh uh because of, after we quarrel then never contact anymore, then ya, then when I happen to met up


met up with, him, then I saw him, then I pass my number to him, but she he never contact me the thing is I want to continue, is like your old friend like something like that


that time you happen to long lost friend right, ah then, that's why he's not, like we don't, want to continue isn't, they don't want to continue


okay okay okay, okay finally oh ya man, which one


FaceBook ah, Joyce sent you is it, oh it's through Chinatown ah


I I don't mind like, hanging out with you and Joyce


ya maybe I just keep a distance lor then if, ya ya ya


for sy I don't know why ah she like to stay late one like, like to Chiong late, ya lah but the thing is like uh


I ever ask, like sy, why you like to stay late she say that, if she go back early then not much thing to do because she, she is the only child


I still have uh siblings can someone to talk to, maybe, she, ya there's another thing why uh need to consider sy like


because like, she's working part time then when


ya that's why, the future things, fear in my


got second date


they have another one it's the sdn do you know sdn, ya is like something like, matching making then


okay, okay K


but


I see, so any expiry date of five guarantee, no expiry date, oh I see


oh oh oh is not based on your, time ah, is they plan for you ah


mostly is dinner is it, oh, oh okay, no don't have activity things oh


oh, but I feel very weird leh like when you met someone


which you don't know yet, then, the the, the like don't know what topic to start with, is like, unless you like


you start to talk to her, for quite sometime after that then go and meet her at least not so awkward, okay, uh okay, err okay uh


okay so where should we start, down the list okay, !wow!


tbh I'm not exactly too sure, as in because , I feel like education is, the, it's a building blocks to a better person, in the future so I think that like a good school is very very important


so I guess I'll have to start all the way from kindergarten ya I mean, I mean I guess that one would be very close to where we stay and where we, where we work I mean that'll be the most ideal and also uh one that, of course instills proper principals that like I want my child to believe in in the future and everything


so I guess it all begins with , research and like how and how, uh whether these good schools you know like they're teaching the right things or not and, I I can't really exactly answer the question right now as to which school I I want to enroll my child in, cause I mean I don't even have a kid ya I'm not even thinking about children yet so


still a very far fetched idea, so ya so I think it's really a matter of research and like how how well these schools will fare in the future and how, far it will bring my child in terms of holistic education, what about you


yup so a single gender school, usually instills a lot of proper , proper values and morals and, uh I definitely do not I don't, uh regret my experience in chij as well being there for about ten years, so from the primary school and secondary school like


I've had similar friends throughout the years and everything we've seen each other grow, we are still close till these days so I think that's something that, maybe mixed school might not be able to provide for me, ya


!wow! okay so like from my friend's experience and uh the people around me I definitely like realize that they're super rowdy they do, the craziest things they throw, like tables at teachers they you know uh play with fire hydrants and things like that I mean


I think it's overall the experience and what they take from it and not much of the, of the, fun and like I think ya I mean they have their own fun but like ultimately it's how they, you know portray themselves after school and how they, do well in their further education and all so ya


!wow! okay that that is such a difficult question man I mean like obviously as parents like, I would think because I'm not a parent myself obviously as parents like I believe that


they will want the best for their kids and obviously, I would want my kid to go to a better school in I mean a better school in terms of like, the teachers the you know like how, how well they will like progress in school and everything


so, maybe ya like I would have that certain expectation but I wouldn't enforce it on them because ultimately it's what they want, and if lets say they are interested in business and if they want to go to a polytechnic and, that provides business courses mean that will be great, but then if they wanted to you know


go towards a more , academic, academic based school like a jc for example then you know let them let them be like let them just choose their paths but, I mean I would love to advise them I wouldn't just be like okay you know run free child but I want, I will just be like okay so what do you wanna do do you think you wanna do this next time in like a couple of years


and yes okay then what's your options that kind of thing like I would want to discuss options I always want to have options in that sense so ya what about you


yeap, okay


okay, ya, ya


ya that's true, so what do you think about the current education systems and how you know they actually, cherry pick subjects for schools and they do streamline testing for it, like let's start from my maybe primary school


okay, uh that's ridiculous


oh okay


ya that's true that's true I mean like ultimately what if you know they don't perform well in their other aspects of school like you know let's say if they have, CCAs you know they take up piano lessons or they take up like extra curricular activities and then, afterwards you just like seeing them so tired at end of the day and I think it's


I don't know I mean ultimately mental health is very important at such a young age especially, because they're just , developing, and they're just and still very young so they, don't really have a sense of what's going on exactly in the real world yet and yet they're like forced to beat the odds and like


and to you know, exceed expectations at such a young age I mean, I I think it's not wrong having expectations of kids as well I mean depends on their capabilities and everything, but then like to really expect the world out of them is just too much so ya


think that's one of the more extreme cases


yup, oh !wow! okay ya, ya


ya that's true, let's move to the next topic , oh still okay we're still on students and education, exams, how do what do you mean by how the exams are applied I mean they're just


in what in what tier like talking about primary school secondary school or like tertiary, okay, so, I think for secondary they don't really introduce much of group work right as in


no not much of project work at least, so it's mostly on academics, so they have it like every two three times a year, well one there's a there's a mid year exam there's a end of end year exam so two times a a year, I think , with the gce n-levels and o-levels I think it's


okay it's pretty reasonable because I think two times a year is just enough to test your knowledge on, what you're learning in school and how well you know you're applying all these concepts to the answers and everything but then , of course like I believe that


ultimately there is more to school than just, like, like academics itself so you you really have to test them you know from from young like, of their interests and then things like, that will matter in in a few years like you know things like oh balancing cheques you know like


keeping track of your finances thing I mean I mean I'm just being real , I don't I didn't think math really taught me much , that I applied to in real life I mean I don't use like algebraic, equations to you know figure out where to go here where to go there and everything like it didn't help me much so


ya I think ultimately the the two times a year for those subjects ya it helps because of the whole, gce o-levels and N-levels being at the end of you know four years and all but, I I mean it's not exactly the best ya, what what what do you think


ya, yup


so real I love it , okay, ya, and really decently well , ya


yup, oh ya there was no way


ya but I think what polytechnic , versus JC I think what's really interesting is that there's, so many more aspects that goes beyond just academics and just uh beyond, testing in like exams, which is like peer assessments you know you have your class participation you have things like projects you have side projects you have actual kind of projects so these


a multitude of uh ways where you can actually access someone's, capability in that sense of in the diploma in course so you can be like oh okay this student you know like ya he's an A student everything but then like oh, he doesn't have CCAs he doesn't have you know anything


anything else that you know shows a holistic side of him, there's nothing that shows empathy there's nothing that shows this there's nothing that shows that and then you compare yourself to another student who is like maybe a B, C student and then this person has like oh multi you know like many volunteering programmes


has entrepreneur projects coming along so I mean like who's the better student you know like there's no, way of like really saying like oh you know the A students are better students I mean ya maybe that's that was the case in secondary and JC but then when you come to poly it's different like, it's a different uh playing ground and ya it just it's a whole different area and level so I think that's really interesting on the whole system


of education in Singapore


ya, uh okay, ya


that's true okay but then I'll actually stand to differ because the current program that I'm in right now at a, at a bank it actually invited diploma students so, how it worked is that it's an apprenticeship program where they will only accept diploma students


and uh in that sense, when we were given the interview when we went through the self assessment, when we went through the final, group, assessment so the first interview already, it was nothing on academics so


it was really just like oh you know you went for this in your resume you went for that in your resume like can you tell me more what did you learn ya they ask me intrinsic, questions that were, that really touch on my holistic, on my holistic, environment in school and how I grew from it


so they were actually asking me things like oh you know like what feedback do you often receive and how have you acted on it, so I believe that, ya there are employers out there it's just that they really don't, they don't come by often, they really don't come by often in Singapore


they were really just looking for people who were willing to learn you know have, that certain aptitude and attitude to be able to, you know show it in a work force that hey you know like I have no I have zero to, I have little to zero knowledge about this industry you know I wanna learn like you know let's let's make something great out of this you know


so, I think, ya ultimately, for most parts for most institutions and , in Singapore and most of the multi-national, companies they are looking for just you know this and that like okay you have a degree yes you have a you a high gpa yes


and that's about it but, I think is quite short sighted in the sense where you know what kind of, what kind of Singapore are we becoming what kind of a what kind of employers and what kind of employees are we coming why are we just you know going for the paper chase why are we just, garnering for As and


I mean is there is that just it to life you know is there that is that it ya I think that's just, like a little, side side thought, should we talk about the jobs and career okay since you're on jobs


gap what are you working as how is it, ya you go first, employed by the government, and uh the


ya yes


okay


yeah


yeap, yeah


oh ya because, I like I'm mention just now I was doing I'm still doing, an apprenticeship program in a bank, so what I do at work is generally I work in the post trip


development side for a certain system that we use at work, so basically if the system goes down we are there to, help you know figure out tinker with it and like feel like generally, go to the codes and everything and find out what went wrong and whether you know things


need to be debugged or like to be found out and everything, so asides from that I'm actually in a learning position right now at work so all my experiences are, actually attributed to just learning and not and I'm not really a contributing role right now so


generally my work to work basis is just, to learn the most that I can and then help, few ways to try and, you know contribute to the team like in terms of coding or like, in terms of admin things as well


we are I have that going on and how is it well I mean the people there are really really nice and they're so, they're so chill about most things and they're very encouraging so when I when I actually uh talk to my mentors and managers like


oh you know I'm considering uni how, what is what is your take on it what is your advice, uh do you think it's a good idea or not and then they'll tell me from their perspective in a industry industry perspective sorry, like they'll mention that oh okay no a degree yes it's very important right now but you gotta love what you learn and love what you do as well


so these people actually come from backgrounds in degrees in computer science so, they've been thinking with this for most of their university life and they've been, living and breathing it most of the time so they're very used to the system, and there's a lot on comms as well that I've learnt so a lot of communication skills uh amongst my managers and my mentors


whereby uh communicating with my managers was actually one of the most important things I had to do, so learning to liaise with him learning to you know talk to him like get catch ups here and there just to you know make sure that he knows my progress and, like he knows where I'm at right now with my learning process so thing's been really fulfilling so far and I mean I just can't wait to see what


what's the rest of it, so ya, what what do you think drives you in this, part time career of yours


oh nice , I sort of did that


yup, okay


per hour


the suck it up let's do it


ya that's true, ya but I think that because I started my part time jobs at, about sixteen straight after N-levels so, I was doing retail for about two years before I went to, the poly foundation program so I think really it was just to get out there you know get some


experience get some money no matter what experience it was like I wanted something that, you know could teach me , beyond what the job scope is so you know things like, just folding clothes and like talking to customers I mean that's was easy, but then, what wasn't easy was getting into the customer's head like oh you know hey


you know we have this product we have this promotion you know like what do you think, and oh how is how is the materials and everything do you like the blend of our, of our cotton or, you know thing like that really got to me because it taught me a lot on consumer psychology and also communication with


communication and marketing as well, because it was a really it was a hands on experience so I could, really talk to the customers and like realize what's the trend and, people like at this age you know when I I mean when I was sixteen maybe the customer for about


the mid twenties to thirties so they will all, more or less working adults and also certain youngster I mean I don't really talk to the youngsters much because, ya it was a bit hard to get answer out of them the older ones will be easier to talk to so, they will always be very Kiasu in that sense where they will like oh you know what promotion is there today or do you have this and this colour and like


it was very interesting to see how they would go about choosing that cloth and how, it wasn't just the matter of price and colour it was a matter of like how how well they felt, or how good they felt wearing it, so, in that in that sense I could share my experience and like hey you know you actually look really good wearing that


so, ya like it was very interesting to make people happy and like you know figure out what what goes on in their mind when they buy something and what, what makes people spend in general so that's was like my introduction to, a little bit of econs as well before I even knew it before I was even aware of it


supply and demand and all that yup so when I went to school when I went to school it was just , ya I stayed in retail for quite awhile because I still very interested with the whole thing, until I realize that okay you know what there's nothing else to learn anymore let's try something new so I threw myself into F-and-B environment and uh like


what my uh what she's just mention about the whole uh high pay and everything that was exactly what I went for, okay so I will be real I couldn't meet up to the expectations it was too much of Saikang it was too much on hands on work, and it was just too much for me I think I I couldn't open the bottle of wine and I was always my


coworkers to help me do that so, ya like I think in that sense maybe I could have learn to be, a better person to adapt to in that kind of situation, ya I learn the I learn that about myself as well lah I can't just throw myself into something I have to really prep myself before that maybe


and ya, so I think that's one more, interesting night, drivers of like why we don't we chose to go out, at sixteen to you know work and everything, it really just goes beyond just like money for me but ya


honestly uh I think is, I think it could be just the one that I'm doing right now it's a totally new, sectors in a tech industry and, things are always changing there are like honestly there's no way I can be like okay you know today is a boring day at work


it no it's never that it's just like okay while I learn, I learn how to use this operating system today, !huh! what's unix what's linux then you all are like go crazy then I will go on the, websites that I could find


just to find out more information about it and then when I try it's just like, oh-my-god what's happening why do they use this all the time you know like is this even efficient and things like that, but ya it just go through my mind like I've never had a job so , accelerating in the sense where it just like okay you know today I'm gonna learn something new


I never just like okay today it's just about the same customers you know basically about we're just gonna to deal with the same people again, it's never the same so I think it's really interesting, ya but however if I had a chance I think I would try maybe events event jobs, like , helping out you know see the backbones of events and


ya okay sounds like a lot of Saikang, but I think it's really interesting like you get to experience different sectors I mean it could be arts it could be, it could be you know leisure it could be family activities it could be like even films films and things like that so, ya I think it's really interesting to, be able to expose myself out there and you know be part of something bigger than just


being with my friends and having fun and that's it but I think that's never been a motivator for me as well when I find jobs, so ya, should we move on to the next, topic, okay so we're gonna play with the cards, the small talk cards okay, you you start first and then I'll take one from mine


oh for real, okay, okay okay wait let me just shuffle this, okay I don't know how to shuffle


okay okay, you take you take one first, ah can can can , you I want talk to you okay no no no Jesus


didn't really think that much of yourself , ya okay no oh-my-god this is such a interesting question eh, okay I I don't have a answer right now so you go first


okay dude okay I thought we went through this I mean as in I thought there the mini the mini one


ya, you already had, yup


no milkshake night, ya, oh-my-god ya like I mean you just can't be like hey you know like that's stop and then you can't expect her to say yes like immediately cause


ya ya dude, nice, okay so I think okay I think it's


I think it this would sound really dumb because I mean I see her every single day but like I really want to talk to my mum more, I mean like we do talk it's just that, she she's always just zipping around and flying around like I mean the other day she was just in North Korea and now she's in Kukup or what I don't even know where where is this Kukup


it's apparently in like some, Malaysia part I don't know I don't even know despite she's doing it's zipping around and I think that like as, I grow older she's way too busy for me, sorry okay I and I and I you know don't give her I don't I don't give her like, shit for that but like honestly


she's so busy for her own good and I think it's really good because, you should really getting yourself out there she's trying new businesses she's in new track right now and everything, so I really love, the fact that I can have, like endless conversation with her and I think one hour is honestly just not enough just talk to her about everything there's so much to talk about


uh everytime I see her is just, you know I want to tell her about everything like I wish I could tell like, like how I tell my friends as well because I would think my friends are more , you know easier to talk to because you are mostly about the same you know we uh maybe some went to uni and others started jobs but we always make time for each other it's just that


my mum's just like, when she's at home she just like no don't talk to me about anything serious then I am like okay so now what then I don't, and and I think her time is really precious that's why I mean I don't know how much she gets paid per hour but I think it's pretty alot so, is pretty cool like and quite sad I mean like I wish I could I could talk to her but I mean it's a bit tough so cause


about lifestyle and how different it is right now, so ya, I think it's really interesting, they will already know ya, it's not like oh like Alan


like honestly I think one of us just not enough, okay, alright so tete-a-tete


when did you last have a truly meaningful conversation with someone what did you talk about


oh okay ya ya ya ya


okay


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ya, ya


okay, ya, ya


that's true, I mean it's like if you don't fight it means like it shows that there's nothing to fight for you know what I mean in that sense


okay I think uh one of the more, meaningful uh conversation wasn't for me but was for someone is for the person that I had the conversation with I think she needed to, uh reveal that truth about herself, ya so this was a colleague who actually went through something very traumatic


in July and she only could ever bring it to admit it to herself, to me just like last week, just I mean ya just the week that pass actually I was on a Friday or a Thursday, she was telling me that like you know I think I'm too nice then I I'm thinking yes ya you are you could have said no


so things okay it is it is a very controversial topic so I will avoid the details but, I will just share the, the feelings that we share in that little short conversation so, it was just a lunch time topic and it just came out of nowhere really just hit me like a wave and I was just


taken aback by it because , Hannah uh my friend she's actually a very strong individual she, braved through her, her tough times as a child growing up in a in the in a multiracial


family and she was the oldest sibling so a lot of the responsibility went to her, so being the strongest woman in a family was very important in her culture, so, when, she does strike me as a very strong person she juggles uni and she does everything on the sidelines and she's a very busy person


so when she told me this it just really hit me and like, it made me it got me thinking like ya okay these girls you know they can show they are very strong but are they really strong against, you know, like men who are trash and I mean okay it's true ya so


I think I think what really mattered is that she needed to talk to me because I, I told her straight up like you know this is wrong and like you know we should, you know let's do something about this you know we can't just keep quiet and we can't just you know , we can't just let this slide so


and you were like I perhaps this meaningful conversation, like, it it could have like shocked something in her you know like okay let's make up hannah let's let's do this you know like I hope I hope that was the case, but ya then I mean, I think I think that's the best I could do as a friend as well


so I wouldn't really think that it was a meaningful conversation for me but I did feel that like okay you know, like there are girls out there who are still very quiet behind closed doors and, you know there's something that we should do you know to empower these women you know, like through daily activities like I mean if she could come to me and talk to me about it like it means I must be doing something right


I mean I could be saying something right or I could be providing you know support that she needed at that point in time, so ya I think that was just, pick another card, what's catch and release


!wow!, honestly ah, uh when do you know when to let go of someone, !wow! I think when you realize that


that you can do better lah and like you know whether, like your life right now do you really need them and like how you two have been, how different you guys are now at, at a certain point in time I mean like this person could mean the world to you could be the bestest could be one of the bester better friends better


could be one of the better friends to you last time and then like, you know sometimes things change our values change and, our, ambitions don't align up anymore, so I think, in that sense like that, I think that's when I really know when to let go ah, I mean it's hard to let go of friends in general and


hard let go of lovers but then when you realize that you guys don't want the same thing anymore I think that's when you know like, okay so this was it, this is an episode like let's move on what about you


that was a great run by


about the same thing, ya, that's true


!wah! it means like how do you even detach yourself emotionally like that's my question you know


I think it takes a lot of someone you know to be able to just let go of someone just like that, influencer, which of these symbols best describe you, minus plus times divide, and equals, what what does


so okay, which of these symbols best describe you, I would like to say plus lah, because I mean I always want to be that value added you know


like I want to always value at a person's like, someone that I meet or someone that I care about you know, at least add something positive in their life, I mean it's never like a minus I can't be like oh I want to minus myself away from you, can't be like I want to minus myself from this family


what what about you, okay, always


oh-my-gosh !wow! okay I love this topic, local food honestly it's could Bak-Chor-Mee it could be #mee pok# it could be Laksa it could be chicken wings it could be


ya it could be anything you can find in like a local hawker center, I think I really !wow! like they were just talking to this Grab driver the other day so this Grab driver and I like he mention that, how he always just drives Grab uh recreationally because he wants to find food


so his point is that he will pick up someone from, lets say Jurong and then after he will end at maybe #Toa Payoh# and then when he's at #Toa Payoh# he will like, scour for food and he will look for good food so I think like, in Singapore it's very important like food is so important to us like I think that's one of our trademarks as well to have good proper food at very cheap prices so


I think ya like similar to me like, I I don't think I'll ever trade , another culture's another culture's food for Singaporean food because this is the food that I grew up with and, uh I really like I mean I can't I can't imagine like you know, going growing up and like not having the


like toast and bread with my dad like things like that like you know simple things like that and also, you know having #mee pok# with my my uh my boyfriend and things like like it just doesn't seem right like if can you imagine I replace that with pasta, cause that will be weird you know it will be the super weird


situation you be like oh pasta that no you know you're in Singapore Singapore like Singapore's food is just on point so ya, what about you


ya, oh-my-god


the hell oh-my-god help, would be spices


and salt, ya


what's top three on your bucket list, ya need to think a bit leh top three on a bucket list, ya


tough eh, I mean I draw inspiration from a lot of things in life but then, if I if I were to say my mum again right I'm pretty sure you will be too tired of listening to it already


about to say my mum okay but you can talk about your mum first then we'll go back to my mum, I think we should just skip this , ya <unk>


cloud burst when did you last cry


okay, okay, (uh huh)


yeap


okay okay this, that's so cheesy that's so cheesy, okay and then and then, and I hear the moment


(uh huh), okay you sound like a mess , you didn't catch okay so !wah! I think the last time I cried


really like really cried right okay I mean I have those little cries lah you know those little cries they just come out of nowhere just like, oh-my-god my life sucks then you little cry a bit then that's it I think , last time I little I really really cried was because of my leg, ya I think that was the worst


it was the most the most emotionally torturing experience that I could ever go through, meaning like I couldn't like move I couldn't really move a lot and I couldn't uh, get out of the hospital bed and I couldn't you know like be as free as I really wanted to be like , like mobility wise I couldn't go places without having trouble with my crutches things like


oh I need to plan extra need to bring extra clothes bring extra this bring extra that, and then it just felt that I was such a baby you know like I was like, reborn again as a baby, and then it was just really emotionally tiring because I had to really depend on other people as well like for advice for comfort you know


things like this and it was a, I think it was one of the most it was one of the worst things that happened to me I think that's why I cried really bad but asides from that like, don't know when was the last time <unk> all those little cries, describe the most embarrassing moment of your life


sorry we're on the next card what's the most embarrassing moment of your life, eh there's a lot of embarrassing moments eh it's like how can I ever pinpoint to one


okay okay another one, oh okay okay okay ya ya ya ya ya that's not embarrassing though, okay you got another one


yes, don't tell me you pee on yourself, I don't know man


look what you did, okay, it's a iPad lie


!wah! okay uh embarrassing moment, (ppc) I mean I used to work at Abercrombie and Fitch so I think the stairs are very scary eh, and I used to fall on it very often, but asides from that like no eh, I'm a pretty prim and proper person so I don't think I ever


you know embarrass myself in a situation okay I had a nip slip but the other day, but it was up it was up nowhere but it just like, I wasn't like work else in somewhere else, ya it's a weekend like I can't remember what I wore but it's a nip slip and then that day


like !oop!, oh ya I flashed someone when I was in Bali I acidentally flashed someone because my bra like the thing, ya the buckle like unbuckled by itself, then it was in the beach what so then like I think he was just like, okay then he look away so it was nothing lah


matt lor


cloud, oh ya ya ya you are a cockroach, you are a cockroach


hi I think I'm a cockroach


I hundred percent back this up, oh-my-gosh I can't


mine mine goes against , politics law , toilet bowl anyway, next


what's that can I see, [orh] there's only two of us, okay we should take pictures we we take pictures of the card, okay


okay, oh-my-gosh okay ya I think uh, the story of how I'm together with my boyfriend is well it's been three years since we've been friends


and I think like things like that just don't, come out of nowhere, I think you know it's been sparked by something else before that, so, I don't know I don't know like, I think, ya I mean like how I felt at that point was just like oh for real ah


like you wanna try for real lah like is this serious you wanna try this then like I mean, ya I mean I wouldn't be, very like like I was shocked lah but then, okay let's just say okay that situation didn't happen right like if another person came up to me I think I will react like, crazily I'll be like what the hell are you serious


so I think like it's a bit, tough like I don't know how the friendship and everything will work out because, ya I'm I'm thinking that they will want more than just a friendship now right so I think


ya depends on where we are right now in our lives ah like see if you know, whatever whatever will line up then will line up lah so I don't think there's any way like, I could reject this person because this person is my friend so I don't know what about you


oh ya you won't know right, you would know because you've if you would ya


we are bros right bro, sister shaming sister slapping


I mean, if like, then what if you hurt their feeling, it's like I mean confirm someone's feelings will get hurt you know what I mean like someone's feeling will get hurt it's just a matter of whose


ya, ya ya ya ya ya


change that ya, I'm not into you , ya it will be ya better


okay let's move on to the next question, to have and to hold, how important is marriage to you


okay oh you mean like housing and stuff


get married ya, ya


yeap


ya I mean it's not a necessity like you feel that marriage is not a necessity for you right, hashtag, blessed okay anyway ya I think my take on marriage is that


ya it's not it's not very important, per se I mean my mum did just get remarried as well I mean a couple of years back so I think that, marriage isn't the most solid thing in the entire world I think what's important is maybe kids you know I think that will be the more, uh meaningful like you can't have a ex son but you can have a ex wife you know what I mean so I think like for marriage you've to


I think for me it's just like , that benefits on like, a housing and and whatever else I mean I don't really care about the benefits to be honest, like I would I would just rather be able to marry someone that I love, out of love and, to see like oh I can build my life with this person you know like we can have kids together we can


do this together we can you know look after my parents together and like look after his parents together so, ya I don't I don't think like a, marriage is so important in terms of age but okay might I mean like, if I wanna have a kid then of course like by thirty that will be great lah I mean I I will think that


with a marriage comes with kids you know usually like just comes with that so then, uh even if I don't have to get marriage now like I could have the kid by thirty so then at least like, when you know we are both ready for marriage and like the kid will be like okay by then you know you know what I mean it's just like oh like I value the kid more than the marriage you know kind of stuff


ya I think I will always value the kid more than the marriage because I think, think that ultimately marriage marriages don't always work out, and I would have to accept that sooner or later as well so, ya think, ya it's just it's just paper again


and also it's like a show like weddings are a show I feel, the the those exuberant, those exuberant weddings are just a show like I was recently having a conversation with, Jennifer one of my colleagues as well she has a lot of pressure on her right now to have a wedding and a banquet


like it's a very traditional family so they are always like oh when are you getting married then she just like I'm already married, she already rom so it's like she's technically already married but you know like, society sees it as like you're not married yet until you have a banquet you know that kind of thing, so I think ya lah it's just like a matter of how you want to see your life and how you wanna live your life as well like for her maybe she has to


conform to this society expectation because of her family and everything, even though she hates it stuff but then like I will never want to like just settle down for the sake of it you know, so ya, should we move onto the next small talk, it's barely small talk eh this is like life issues man


breadtalk, oh damn, my god, you go first, very tough eh this question


course correction, for real


ah ya true lah, you already have glowing skin what


okay, you were choosing an open casket


change in one year well actually honestly one year is too short to change anything like, ya substantial but, I think ya I would travel [loh] travel a lot and then you know


get whatever experiences I can get out of it first, try things that I never, really tried yet, you know get out there [loh] and really live my life lah I have and like spend a lot of time with friends and family of course, I mean that's very important but then like honestly I wouldn't want anyone to see me die eh it's so sad eh it's so tragic


that's like okay bye bye now then it's like okay bye, then it's like okay bye then it's like okay bye you know you like, bye take care of yourself


I mean would you be okay I mean, ya I mean I don't know leh like I never really I don't think I'm scared of, dying per se but I just think I don't want to you know like, have any regrets before that I think that will be the worst ah, it's like oh no I I no I regret not saying this to this person not saying that to that person like I don't want to live I don't want to die with that ya


okay next next card, so rallying cry what motto do you live by, (uh huh) okay


okay


oh, then go home , it's never like a go big or go home because like you shouldn't have that choice is it like do you feel that okay, okay


ya, ya I think for me it's to, uh came from a Disney movie keep moving forward I think it's from Meet the Robinson, ya so I think it's really cute because


I think one thing that a lot of people get stuck it's like oh okay you know like I hit a low okay I'm just gonna stop and I'm just gonna degen myself a bit more, and everything but no like I think we should always, pick our baggage up bring it along with us and you know deal with it along the way so I think keep moving forward is just something like


oh I, ya I think that's it leh like I don't really think much into ya it's just like oh okay when something when something goes wrong it's like okay, ya okay this is wrong ya but you know there's so many people that you can talk to about it so like, get moving forward like don't just stop ya think there's no place in time


for this world to stop for you anyway so it's just like a matter of like you pick yourself and go home or like go home or like just, ya move on [loh], next ah, character flaw what personal trait do you dislike most about yourself


ya, say it, it's true, ya you are


oh ya ya ya okay but this is ya, ya


ya, ya, ya that's true


!wah! a lot of calculated recently let me think ya I think for me is impatience like I I'm too, impatient like I want to get better I broke my leg so I need to get better like now now now now now you know that kind of thing like now now now okay is like I need to go to this movie right I, be there like now now now now now like I don't I think I don't like life just like take


okay take it by its course ah honestly but I think, I rush too many things I, I tend to put pressure on people sometimes, because of that like I'll be like oh you know we have to be here by now and then like now why are you here not here now


now , ya the thing it's just like I'm impatient with myself and I'm impatient with, of like I think it's just really like a period thing as well like it's more intense friend I'm almost getting getting my period, soon lah so I think like, ya maybe maybe something, maybe like you know it would help in the future what if I have know like blood pressure issues next time I mean I'm scared I don't think I'll have this kind of thing ya like


ya so I think, I'm in that sense I'm just really <unk> imposes into people sometimes so ya, next card, wait what is it


oh-my-god dude okay I'm gonna say out out front my favourite chore right is Magic Clean, Magic Clean like just just the floor man like that's my favourite like if you give me a Magic Clean right, I would wipe until the whole place right is squeaky clean leh


really eh seriously like I don't even, !wah! is beautiful eh I love how Magic Clean works it's just easy, and okay uh least favourite, combing Rory's hair, Philip it gets into my nose, that's cute but it's like it's like not for the nose ya just not for the nose but he's really like ah


you and, okay


it should make a terrarium, oh ya, the sensation


get it ya, ya, why


ya ya I can imagine, OCD


clean ya ya ya ya, okay how about you just get to, sponges, ya


!aiya! true true true, ya, until you are get a this kind of pan that's an non stick, that kind right but it still stick ya that's why, can't really trust technology !hais!, okay non negotiables


what is a deal breaker in your search for your partner, you just take this question do you this is your question I I mean, this is your question, I also haven't <unk> suffers


ya that's worse


ya, ya because you're crazy , ya, the thing caught it, ya


okay, ya, ya, your previous partner


ya, ya


okay oh which is what, oh okay ya that's true, ya


ya, dude it's real


ya just crack, ya, that should


it just a lot on character as well like how you treat your parents how you gonna treat your, partner you know like how next time in the future how you gonna treat your kids as well, so I think, my for me my my <unk> right ya okay sorry so like my deal breaker will just be readiness


it's like okay, you know are you work, demanding to ask for but it's like, are you work enough you know to like, take care of yourself you know be able to, responsible for your own action, are you grown are you mature enough mature mature enough


are you mature enough like, whether this person you know will take responsibility responsibility for their actions and their words ah, it take a lot like, it's like not even like a ego thing it's just like a, person thing like whether whether you can take hits and like whether you can like be responsible for the things that you are


suppose to do so I think that, a deal breaker like if you're not gonna be woke and if you're not gonna be grown and if you not going to be mature then is like nope, so then that one's and then another things is the family one, ya I have to be like on close terms with the mom like I I told you before I think


like I have to be like close to the mom I think it matters because, like it's not that I am finding another family but I am seeking a family like you know, I I I want a family with your with your family so like, it kind of suck lah you know if our parents don't work out and like is


like you know he he is very gel gelled up with my family, but I'm not with his I think should be weird lah that so congruence there, and then the last would be them, and the little white lies also I hate little white lies, like I can't do it like come on like really small thing you also want to lie


like why you know <unk> it's not it's not for the benefit for both of us just like what you want to, satisfy I don't know like is it an excuse or like what what is it you know I mean, so I think there's a lot of deal breakers, in a sense but then like, ya I mean I don't know like


okay


that's true, this is fact


ya that's true lah, ya okay next card, !wah!


so many eh , !wah! cannot think sia let me think, then I can apply to everyday lah maybe , to never have <unk> to never have expectations of people, to never set like expectations of anyone except for yourself


because you can't expect anything out of anyone unless like you know, I mean I don't know lah I mean unless, I don't know I think I just think that it doesn't work that way eh like you can never have expectations of people because if you have expectations you will get disappointed, so, I think like


whenever like I go anywhere honestly like even for friends I have very low expectations I'll be like oh okay, you know you want to meet then ya let's meet but if you don't want to then okay it's fine like okay, like you Pangseh me like it's fine, ya but then I think, like it also boils to down bigger things in life it's like oh I didn't get this promotion


but it's like you know I I wasn't expecting it anyway so it's fine like you know that kind of thing, like it saves a lot of time and it saves a lot of like energy and it saves a lot of like anger anguish and everything, if you don't have expectations you just remove it out of the, of the way ya another thing would be


to learn that there's love there's always love around the corner, yeap like I think, for I think this was for my mum because like what she went through with my dad it was quite traumatic like I could I could tell lah honestly, if as a woman I'll be like okay nope I'm getting my kid out of here I'm leaving bye so I think like


for her to be able to find love in someone else again and to find love in someone who is, very different from her and like you know she could like see it in him ah so I think there really is such a thing as love again, but it's just ya matter of like you know, waiting or you know like not even waiting but actually just like


maybe the person just I don't know just plopped into a universe out of nowhere I don't know lah honestly, the world works in mysterious ways and I think that there is a reason for everything lah so, ya it's that those are the two I guess you


ya, ya


think those are very importance that important uh lessons that you know, we can't really find anywhere else like in school like for friends, okay next card ah, not all that glitters is gold, what is your most valued possession how did you come to have it


don't tell me your freaking speaker eh, seriously eh, I'm already thinking about it I'm like oh-my-gosh she's gonna say, means like tangible things lah right


okay so like I have this little, rose , that never wilts, so it's like a it's kept in a little glass


casing like a cylindrical casing and then it's just a rose that is, has never wilted lah and this was given to me from my dad, very long time ago like on Valentines Day like he gave me and my mum like one of each, and then like, uh I've seen it


in every house that I've lived in even though like my parents are divorced and everything like I've always brought it around I don't why also I think just anyhow pack one, don't you just anyhow pack it in but then like, I think it's like every time I see in my toilet it's just like oh it's there you know it's like a present like it's a


presence presence like of my dad it's like oh okay you know he will always like, love me in that sense so, like I don't know I just bring it around to just I bring it's like bringing his love around that kind of thing so, I mean I never read, talked about it as well because like I also forgot I have it sometimes honestly because that it's been traveling around with my family for so long right


you're bound to forget it sooner or later lah so I just happen to see it lorh then another one would be this little , you can hang it on your wall one it's not like a frame or anything but it's like a, it just says if you love something let it go okay if it comes back to you and then it's yours if it doesn't


then it never was so like I always bring that around because like it just shows that I should learn how to let go of things ah, honestly this kind of things right I don't know where it comes from but maybe we picked it up in the backyard like you know this kind of garage kind of thing but, it's just ya lor is like funnier like how it just falls into place and like you know it just grounded like grounded-ness ah is just like


can remember it you know, so ya I think those are the, valued possessions I mean I really don't have much valued possessions I can't say clothes cause that's just stupid but like ya


oh you are handicapped without your phone, okay okay


ya ya, ya, is your phone


it's like connectivity would that would that be, sentiment, sentiment sentimentality


okay next question, jet set name a favourite place that you've been to what is its significance, the food the food the fashion


okay, no I think uh, it was in Venice or Italy, wait let me think, which one was it it's like the same trip lah but then think it was Venice like it was, a sinking city, and okay I it was basically just the entire tour that was just like damn Shiok like okay not damn Shiok okay it was just very shocking it was like


four hundred, bridges that connect the entire, island itself and it's a sinking island so this island won't be around maybe like about twenty to thirty years about there because , global warming and everything it's ya so it's it's so full of life like I've never seen


life like it before like there were people just happily feeding the pigeons lah then there were, uh thieves around uh ya so there were thieves around and everything, and then like it was just a city of life [loh] like you couldn't really I couldn't really


pinpoint what exactly it was it was just like music it was, the beautiful sight it was just like people loving what they do even like pushing the gondola and like you know the the, people who sang they really do sing you know on those gondolas it's not just like a Macau spin off kinda thing


it's a legit thing like they do sing on it and, they are just so happy with their lives and, whenever they the the food as well like when they cooked us food like just the, normal pasta like could be just normal pasta and they and they serve it to you and they just like oh you know like have have a great meal you know it was so genuine like I just


never felt okay ya it's a very touristy area I would I would say but then, ultimately the place architecture everything like trumps the entire experience and, !wow! like that's such a beautiful city, ya I would go back again but then it's crazy expensive so maybe next time


ya so sweet and savoury, how well can you cook, or bake, dude I want to try cook and cook uh cook, bake cookies, cook cook cookies ya


ya but I I can't cook lah I can only cook egg , I can cook egg , ya ya


ya, ya


ya that's true that's true, ya that's true that's true, no eh no never the the Burmese food lah or something ya the noodles eh you take


okay so we're at the next card now , I'm jealous, okay, oh-my-god never, blind date I mean like who would match make okay like the only matchmaking was with my first ex uh DJ


but then that was it wasn't it was barely matchmaking like it was just like a oh this is my friend then this is my other friend like you know meet, I think ya like match made ah like never really like oh my parents are eh you know meet this guy like you know that kind


you eh no right never, we mostly went out on our own ah I think, oh ya the I mean the algorithm lah the, okay but okay but I would think Tinder was fun because you could just play around with people's feelings and emotions


no I'm kidding in a in a light hearted way lah in a in a very light hearted way ya, ya that's it right, you want , oh-my-god is was a you want


you want, ah ya okay okay okay I think


hi, ya but I think that's like in a club situation like ya okay of course ah you know you have a wingman and everything, that is like eh


we would like go on dates ourselves and everything lah we don't really need like another person to push us in that sense, ya so, not really in this day and age ah, for real for real like a blind date like


okay, okay, okay


ya it is quite ya with the cards and everything, that's true eh, true, could be a potential date could be a friend I mean ya


ya lah ya lah ya lah, that's true, like I wouldn't be surprised I'll be surprised oh honestly right I would think that like all the Grab rides that we have also


like honestly they are very interesting what they are I wouldn't think of it as dating lah but then I will just think of it oh like a, two strangers ya two strangers in the in the car you know like, ya I think I think that's why it's a really good idea okay last supper, for your last meal what would you what would you eat and what would you and who will you eat it with


always oh ya because your <unk> the times right like your Sunday, okay


well I think I will choose fried chicken, like any types of fried chicken could be uh boneless fried chicken Jollibee kfc, everything everything in the whole demo lah and uh with the same people that I invited with to my birthday, I will minus my step dad


so it must be my mum only ya like you know how my mum came at the end right ya you were there ya so


but it still don't have one, I mean this show like a lot they have left impact lah, it's nothing on like nothing on like a like a the most inspiring like you know whether is like oh I want to drop anything I going to do and like it change my life I know


we threw that into the bucket list ah I think it was interesting, top three right, it could be anything right like it would be like a, oh I want to backpack Europe


ya for sure backpack Europe, really like on the ghettos and like maybe even take up like a waitressing job or something like along the way to make money, think that will be very cool, in the switzerland to the whole route


oh true


Chinese New Year in China, ya I think there was one


asides ya like I don't really like, this kind of things I don't write it down if I ah ya you do this and you do that, mean it will be cool lah you know to do, oh ya ya ya true true true


it doesn't ya, no right, I I get the food one because I also have a list of like like supermarkets lah something or like hawker centers I need to go to, things like that ya but, I get I get where you coming from, this's about love right


having <unk> you know is like they have the heart, so I think is like about human stuff right, how important is having children ah, !wah! honestly


I'm damn scare of kids eh, like they're so scary like they're very unpredictable and I think that like, you can never really think like okay your child's gonna sleep peacefully tonight no no no like sometimes will just, mess up your entire, schedule and be like nope we are not sleeping tonight you know you're going to be up all night with me I'm gonna be crying so weird


I think ya like if like I I thought I thought I think I thought before lah I would like to have a kid that is five years old onwards like I don't want to deal with the whole baby, like I know that is when they the cutest lah but I want to deal with the five and above one, but I think it's quite important to to me because it's like like I want to see how I fare as a mum


like see how see whatever they can learn they can get of, you know whatever they they do in your life they want to see how like they inspired the people around them as well, I it's scary lah a lot of pressure and I don't think I'm ready yet [loh], ya it's just like a matter of time kinda thing


but you are short


ya that's true that's true


okay but what if I tell that like now there's new technology that you can alter your genetics for your kid, no isn't like your your your kid's genetics


ya lah ya lah, it's your height, a bit more ya, that's true for for the face


embryonics one, what your top three children name okay I know already, okay, okay you don't steal eh , don't steal okay first is Asia, I know I love it


it's nice, oh really !huh!, okay but then !huh! and okay lah I like I like the name kai as well, like I never told #kai xiang# but it's like #kai xiang# is not nice Kai is just nice Kai by itself is nice


but not the KHAI but KAI ya follow that spelling and then, the last one , I used to think Zara was a nice name ya okay, that's it all very short names cause I if I if you go anything more than three syllables right you can't really make anything out of it there's no cheer for it


it's like ya it's like there's no it doesn't really gel nicely it's too long, you leh, never right


like what , dyson , Nike oh Nike is a cool name Nike is a cool name ya ya, ya


that's it that's it right ya, Nike


ya that's true that's true but I think it's very it's a very like it's a good it's a good thing eh cause like you know, you already have that name so like it gives you a reason to like, Rachel and Nicole


that's why, oh water what oh you know that name that guy's name phone, ya that kind of name like it stands out you know what I mean ya, ya ya ya that's why okay next


okay, what risk have you taken on someone you love, I don't take risks leh as in like what kind of risks like is there okay I don't I don't know what about you


okay ya, oh ya, so far lah right, ya ya, ya going okay for me going friendship friendship to friendship to relationship that would


still working things out you know, still in working progress lah so I ya, okay next ah next, how do oh tingling in your toes, how do you know that you truly love your partner


okay ya I know okay you you go first, ya that's that's another taking risk


uh I think for me is like uh a matter of, like if I do this right I know will peace him off so I won't do it, that kind of thing right it's like okay like I'm thinking of the greater good I'm thinking about okay you know, I can't keep running away I can't I can't just


slide back into like delusion and like you know just keep pulling back and running away that kind of thing like, I think is a matter of like okay he's he's there you know he never he never giving up, there's something about it lah it just like a, like okay you know he's not giving up on ask what should I do it


sometimes sometimes like, ya it's just it's just that kind of thing [loh] like, ya I don't know I just like me not pulling over yet think that, it is another risk as well, and that shows that like I mean I will willing to try


all the love questions ah, how long he isn't been since your last, serious relationship, no but the last one is it !huh!


chick to chick describe the perfect date this keyword, how about I, perfect date very hard leh, oh-my-god ya in okay when in Singapore so it's like freaking hard


it can't be raining it can't be like monsoon, ya good lighting is very important perfect weather okay


okay the weather I feel like it's just in Singapore dude if we were somewhere else right it'll be so easy eh, yeah it'll be so easy


what's the point what's the point, okay


ya lah ya lah, oh ya alfresco is nice


ice cold fruity Jesus , ya I think is the company that matters lah TBH like I don't really think it's much of the, the fireworks the electric the magic and whatever lah it was more of like the


the time spent like quality over quantity in a sense, I mean like if I were going to be very like materialistic I'll be like okay fly me to Italy like that would be the perfect date lah I mean like, Venice who don't want to go who don't want to go to like you know Italy or nowhere like that will be like crazy


but ya ya I mean like, are you kidding me it's beautiful okay no I think even you will like it, you don't even try okay anyway you know but ya you get what I mean right it's like it's just really a matter of, simplicity and how you can make simple beautiful even though it's like


that simple ya okay next, hindsight, if you could turn back time what is the one thing you have done different, eh so many eh


for real, okay okay ya ya ya yup, honestly right that only came like after so long after you have been on Tinder leh, right it wasn't like okay the beginning part was just all funny games right like you remember


right right right right right, ya ya ya ya


but i mean you did grow from


ya, ya there are


ya just that part lah then even though the whole experience in general it was like fun and games and everything but then the last, ah if i could turn back time what would I have done differently I think I would have study harder in uh secondary school I think I wouldn't have gone through PFE, ya but I then again is like I think about it like I wouldn't be the same person as I am right now you know what I mean can you imagine I went to


I did o-levels I did quite well I mean I did okay then I went to jc then I went to like uni can you imagine I went through that, like it would be so different lor I think I wouldn't have met the people I met today, but then, ya lah changed to be I would have study harder from the beginning just to accept now in Secondary school already


and maybe I back then I would have chosen poly still, it's just that ya, it could have been easier lah I mean with education, to anywhere, moral of the story describe one important life lesson you've learned from the books you've read


I'm trying to think back what books eh


ya I think for that, for the moment like when everything yes ah, but then I won't really, ya I won't really like, think too much about I wouldn't dwell on it too much, I mean after all like most of them are actually fiction and some non fiction so


ya it doesn't really, apply I mean I can't be like oh you know Life-of-Pi like I love that book honestly I love that book, but I can't be like okay I wish I was you know stranded in a, island and in a boat with a a, tiger and a giraffe and a rhinoceros like I can't I can't wish for things like that what so like


maybe the essence is like the morals and everything, it's it's like a, like a okay lah I wish that didn't happen to me I would never get into that kind of situation and like okay preparedness things like that so like, ya lor like in that sense, where like I don't really notice like what's the moral of the story lah in that sense


I mean I mean like you don't really bring it to real life you know


it's a tourist's one


uh okay, really


next, archetypes


I don't even know what's the guy's, I don't even know what's the character's name anymore eh, ya no it was uh I read this #Haruki Murakami#, Norwegian Wood so the main character and, he always he loved this girl called Naoko, so I think


I think with him, always, like you know because okay so she had , think depression or something so she went she checked herself into like a like a IMH of that sense in Japan ah, so, for him like he never gave up on her, and I think that like, not that I relate to him but I like see like I see like oh like you know he doesn't really want to give up on her even though like she's already like let herself go and everything


and I think like, I would I would, think that if my friends ever went through something like that I would never want to give up on them and I wouldn't like want them to like okay no lah go lah go, you know you go go go your imh ah it's fine lah just, you know get well soon ah that kind of thing like he really cared about her and he was like


a friend to her at the beginning, but then I felt that like, for him to never give up on someone like that's really hard to find like and, ya I think it's just, ya [loh] it was just very touching lah honestly, and like


it goes beyond just like friendship and it goes beyond just love life and everything it's just like okay you know what like I'm here for you, like I want to be here for you then let me you know guide you through this kind of thing, so that was one of the characters


okay


ya, okay, base things off looks is it


ya, oh ya, ya ya, !huh!


ya, it is quite lah, very superficial [loh]


ya, okay, ya


okay next card, pro bono, what are you willing to devote your time and energy to without getting paid, okay so


!wow!, donate your time devote your time sorry, are we talking about like charity work, it will fall under the ya


ya, then it's fine


ya, I think I think that's, a a nice way as well but I think volunteer work lor because I mean, that's not much we can do in our time because we are still very young, so like I can't really be like okay you know let's conduct a class on computer science for free ya I mean sure sure I wish I could but like


ya I mean I'd probably work towards that or something but it's never, ya I never really thought too much about it but I think ya education is so important, if I could even give vocal lessons I mean that would be cool, coming from choir and everything I think that would be cool ya, but aside from that like


ya lah I think education is would be a better things to give for free, cat oh ya the cats around around the house


ya, ya, stupid cats


like air water and sleep food ya, next card, okay, oh when my code doesn't work and they tell me I should debug and I'm then like !huh! you serious then I have to go through line by line


no, it makes you feel even more stressed, ya but I think, what stresses or destress, oh what stresses me as well is like when I want to call the hotline for the bank right and they tell me like I need to enter don't know how many, (ppb) how many uh sets of data like like nric lah then phone number lah then after that the the one time


or when uh my bank account doesn't tally, destresses me out, ya what destresses, used to be fitness, I mean I would do fitness right now if my leg wasn't broken, but ya I think ya fitness definitely


I would want to say like I want take up more things are recreation activities like fishing, that will be cool I mean I wouldn't try like prawning, ya simple things like that , arts and craft


disrespecting the materials anything a bit, a bit hard to ya hard to get by and, is not something that they can just pick up on the road and like okay Leo let's create up with this, ya you eh


okay


okay it's like cycling ya cycling ya ya ya, you have to meet people


ya, that's true, that's so true my god, like certain times also when I get uh emotion sickness like on the grab right I want to talk to the grab driver because it gets my mind off it


but then like sometimes they don't want to talk so I am just like okay you are stressing me out even more now what am I supposed to do I don't want to puke in your car, ya but then, how do you want to be remembered


I never even thought, I didn't even know how to like answer this eh tbh


okay, ya ya ya, that's true, she went through this and also went through that


ya ya


ya, ya ya ya, ya I think


ultimately is that what I can give back to the communities also, like I think it's a bit short sighted to see it now because I don't really think that I've accomplished that much yet, so then I can't really put like a certain quality to it or a certain memory to it but then of cause the people that are around me are like good times ah


good times chill great memories, and I think, ya lor like that's just it like I honestly I don't really expect much in that sense, shall I move on to the next card, so the next card is


ticking boxes, !huh! what is your deal maker in your search for a partner, I thought we, ya like as long as they are not the deal breaker then it's the deal maker what right , okay do we just skip ah


the people age of innocence what do you miss most about from your childhood


ya, you are one of a kind man, ya


uh that's true that's true that's true okay, think what I miss is , I think !wah! those kind of, how do I say it's like you know you always have those block buddies then you'll meet them downstairs at like six thirty pm okay you're never that kind of child okay


spider ya so I had like a scooter and all of them could ride bikes and my vehicle my choice of vehicle was a scooter, I will be looked down upon because like they all have a scooter and I don't know how to ride a bike right, so then they were like all the big boys were just like you know rush pass me and everything but it's fine like you know I made my own fun


and I think back then also when, I got hurt and stuff like physically like it wasn't as bad as now, like you wouldn't be as uh difficult recovering itself I would just bounce back to next day you know just go continue running around I think is just that like, that carefree uh that carefree


attitude that I brought around everywhere and like I would try different things like ah growing a own plant my own plant lah I would put my own, orange seeds and then I will like let it grow and everything then it will get destroyed by my dog lah, ya it's like really simple [loh] this kind of times like I think it was the age before technology tbh like is was just before like handphones and everything got


too complicated everything was online and blah blah blah it was just still the date that it was still the date and age of Nokia and Motorola, so ya the Sony Ericsson everything man, so is it just so simple back then [loh] and I wish like I could go back to like my friend house you know, end up and on her parents water bed lah watch show listening to her walkman lah this kind of thing


and we are talking about everything under the sun, like things like that it was just too simple back then lah and think I just think that, nowadays everything is just too calculated everything just too complicated, your friends are also calculated and complicated so it's like, ya


okay next card, my cockroach of a friend JK, uh what pet peeves ah eh you go first leh


grammar, misuse of words also


ya, uh okay on social media or like real life


okay, ya, ya ya, okay, okay which is true ya


like this not even your like joke you know this is not even your joke to like say alright, ya


ya ya ya, but they have seen this situation before, okay, like who are you ya


another one mine would be spatial awareness, when people don't have that spatial awareness like okay no it's not eh dude it goes beyond just this broken leg lor honestly even things like, like really just not minding your awareness like your the area around you lah like personal space and everything


so when people get too close just like nope you know we are not too close stop it, that kind of thing like and even strangers like okay what what are you doing, why are you walking so slowly like okay I think it plays along with the part of impatience as well, like I am impatient for people to just you know get themselves together, but then I realize after this and everything like okay lah


fine lah like honestly people really just are blind sometimes let them be let them live their lives and stuff, but then, another pet peeve would be , I think people not, mindful okay I think it is the same is it the same I don't know like mindful and


like mindful is that you have a choice in that you know that kind of thing spatial awareness is like some people really don't have spatial awareness but I think mindful is like, you don't care about people around you like you don't like oh like simple thing like giving up seat you know they don't give up seat, so they don't give up seat then I am just like !wah! really like seriously ah


then I have one crutch already is like not enough meh that kind of thing, but I think it's just like, what what is up with like the people around [loh] like, I think it's just really people around me that trigger me lah is nothing is nothing much on like, ya like friend and stuff, okay maybe on social media like oh those people that just tag you for no reason


and they act like close, but I don't really think too much eh like, easier for me to shut out I guess, right


for reals, oh that's so creepy though that's so creepy


didn't you just follow me, oh my , !wah! that's so tilting eh honestly it's like what are you doing what are you trying to do, why are you doing this like so many questions asked


alright next one, oh-my-gosh, you go first here


well I don't really think too much about happiest moment of my life because like, they come by as and when you know like it's just, ya I don't think that I've ever led a very tragic life lah a very like sad filled, life like I think, I've had I've had a good share of both happy and sad, so


general generally I wouldn't like glorify any of these moments because it's just like okay you know like, it's a part of my life like I do have to make deal with it and like, ya I can happy for one day but the next maybe I won't be happy but like I don't really, like think [loh] like oh what's the happiest happiest part


there's really no there's so many good memories lah like you know me one I have too many good memories with my friends and all like, there's no way I can just pinpoint one of it lah, you see the next one, thick as thieves


name one of your closest friend, how is he or she special to you, jesus, I don't even need to can I just move on to the next question, ya lah we both know, if your house caught fire and you only had time to save one item what would you save


don't tell me your chilli bro, seriously


oh ya ya ya, I using my memory book, I got two memory boxes, one is photos the other one is the memory memory like other stuff


better than those stupid memorabilia things ya photos I think harder you can't really retake the same photos you know, ya, next what next one, what do you value most in a friendship


I think (uh) transparency transparency is very important


what are the thought, do I read the question yes, what are the you what are your top three children's names, okay Chew-Yi-Ting


Chew-Chan-Yu Chew-Chun-Ting, what's, top three on your bucket list, okay uh but I still think it will change as time goes by


okay, oh I see, uh okay just to do nothing and just do


all the things that I want to do , no there's not, uh ya no to do uh, do not do anything for anybody except for myself


oh is it but I haven't think of it yet maybe I should think it next time, another one or two more years, to start thinking, oh the happiest moment of my life how about you


what is yours, okay


what stresses me is when there are too too much work to be done, no time to complete


no I'll think about it next time I haven't thought of it what's yours


describe your experience when you were matchmade or went on a blind date have you even


not many lah China China, two times, what do I do in China, the first trip is is whereby we walk, we we walk around sightseeing ya I really climb up the Great-Wall-of-China


sightseeing, and also , and then uh sightseeing but then unfortunately just uh, don't like the toilet, stinks, and there


no I can't remember because it's really very very long ago, ya ya family uh relatives, lots of ya it's actually, yes yes relatives, there are a few few yes yes yes grandparents aunt aunty uncles


ya its a big group, its a very big group, even the last time we went to Taiwan also its a very big group the whole company also, ya also come back, ya no that one Taiwan is different that's company trip


uh the other one uh ya is a family family trip, Australia also went two times, Australia also, ya no Australia also uh we went with our our families went with uh


uh friends, friends actually we uh all these trips are, we we organise ourselves in a big group yes, and then, then Indonesia also a few times I can't remember lah only lately don't travel anymore


don't travel anymore it was long long ago


ya but before we go to that how about you telling me the your trip your latest trip, to Philippines, Hong-Kong, (ppb) China yes


what time


isn't it very tiring


isn't it boring to be to stay there


okay it's not for me , it's not for me, ya too tiring, too tiring I'll be always looking for food


any what you call, ya big wind, strong wind ya


oh, oh really, you can just walk on it oh dear


what is it, oh


so does it mean that the even if your bookcap size is okay because it's very shallow


oh, then they must be wearing shoes also lah you all are you all wearing shoes, rubble shoe, oh okay


oh dear, isn't, not wearing she not wearing shoe a pierce through


oh-my-god, oh dear


then she cannot, can she canoe again, but then the wound would not heal would not


so quiet, ten over people


still with the open air


but your is very thin know it's not the thicker type, oh warm, but sleeping at night, no need to cover yourself, oh that's really hot


okay, oh ya, ya ya, more privacy


bite also, her clothes, oh oh-my-god


the ants, oh, so you didn't encounter any ants ah, uh oh-my-god


then it it can be dried very fast, but did you say that it's very hot there ain't you perspiring


you dry, so what I don't like is that that means the whole day your body also can be wet all the time ah


oh okay, ya ya ya, okay, maybe you could tell me what do you all eat, ya what do you all eat


their local fruits, oh is it then the the, ya how about the the


but what to cook, cook on the boats


why must they cook on the boat, then why cook on the boat, oh are are they selling food


the cooking


so where, where did they buy the food from, they catch themselves, oh that's, fresh, oh fresh ah


but I am concerned with where they get the food


oh so is from the sea they fish ah they catch themselves, so can is is there any difference when you eat from from the prawn you eat there and the prawn you eat at home , oh you can feel it


no seasoning just just, BBQ, but is nice, so no vegetable


like what, the green vegetable you don't understand, but okay for you lah


so the way they cook it, how does it cook the vegetable fried, oh pan frying with garlic add oil, they don't boil, oh they always fry


oh


they in the resort, oh I see


a lot of protein lah, ya lor I see so high protein food I won't like it, oh is it


uh so you eat more of, oh maybe you all need high protein food because you use a lot of energy


followed by


so actually they know each other is it or they don't know each other


so is it an enjoyable one will you go again


but would you go to, meet this trip again, oh, ya, oh okay so but then the canoeing will go on ah you will keep will going to other countries for canoeing if possible ah


oh okay, oh okay not


oh okay, ya, okay


okay, it's not dangerous it's just that it's very tiring to go for a trip


okay it's of our different age group


you think you are wasting, that's why, it depends lah it depends because , for certain okay, majority of people will be uh when they're planning for a trip, the happiest moment is actually in


packing and what to do, before the trip, and when you go for the trip then you start to have a lot of uh unhappiness start to complain, uh not up to you your expectation


but it's okay lah trip is just a trip it's a experience, but I okay okay that's for people who love travelling, not I'm very tired I might,


uh because uh with with my workload I'm already very tired already if I still go overseas and then I'll rush to go overseas and come back to clear my backlog, I'll be very very tired, so not now for the time being


not now for the time ya ya too tired to travel, ya, so actually I'll be it'll be fine that where I where I can have some, time to myself to enjoy myself oh that's enough


jb but I don't like I think it's a bit uh what do you call that not safe, ya not safe ya I think you know my friend the son, he was robbed twice in JB, on the same day


no I have another friend, they say but ya lah maybe lah, ya, ya, but then I guess for every country lah maybe we have to watch out lah !huh!, ya it's just don't wear too too many jewelleries lah


look poor no lah, ya quite true ya maybe a lot of ya lah I think a lot of people like to go and shop in jb because it's cheaper there


uh ya but your auntie went the other day ah and then four of them went and four of them came back with uh food poisoning ah


no they ate uh bbq uh Korean bbq, but your brother your brother say never mind, maybe he also they may have gone to the same one he say he will still go unless that one is closed down , ya ya but that said never no I told him that


your aunty has got food poisoning after eating the B uh Korean, bbq, and your brother said oh okay, your brother even is at the same place he don't care unless, is closed down


he would still go, no he no he especially tell me, that if even if it is the same place I will still go unless is closed down, you see he don't he said is okay


well, ya he said he has been eating so often, uh for me maybe lah young ah you can do anything when you old ah you will be very careful


oh is it ya, yes


oh is it in jb, so surprised that you go vegetarian restaurant, really what do you eat, Assam fish what fish is that, what is the fish made of Tau-Kee


oh okay okay uh but it's expensive you know in Singapore, so how how much is that plate, oh that is cheap but in Singapore if you eat this kind of, the the so called fish uh vegetarian fish is expensive you know


but I can tell you something ah if you eat Assam, very high sugar inside because Assam is sour so they add in a lot of sugar, don't think uh is not is quite fattening , ya Assam


oh he likes ah actually I also eh your sister the same know, she don't like Assam know but, Thomas likes Assam, but I love Assam


oh I remember he, Gem Gem-Boon doesn't like curry those only he likes Assam , oh Japanese curry the sweet ah, Chinese curry ah, he got sick of it ah


no he the last time he told me eat too much already he got sick of it, ya, he has been last time he has been eating so much, although I don't like curry upset my stomach


okay, what's that, what is this, what is this spot ah, I cannot spot leh, spot oh the two ah, spot the difference ah


ya this is oral primary six oral ah, fame school, shall we stand up to see I can't I can't see


oh okay never mind I can see already this colour this bean is green this bean is blue okay I I, let's see how many you get and how many I got okay I get I take one ya okay we take turns, it's your turn, uh not not works uh okay and then this thing that this is uh


uh let me see ah oh no I can't oh ya you found already oh this colour this colour is purple, this colour is red, the socks, ah, ya then now your turn


oh this one uh uh the action is different ah so now this one oh okay this one is yours ah, so you have two already ah !wah!, so easy ah no no considered as one because it's together ya ya it's considered together, uh then now is my turn this is


uh come to, ya now is, uh this is the rain this is the sun, rain sun, where, the juice oh okay


okay then now uh there's this this is yellow, and this is purple seahorse, okay anymore and this is quite interesting are you sure are you sure, you very sure no


you can't see ah, are you sure are you sure no more, no more no more I I must, no no I think there is, no, what is this line nothing ah


printing error, no no no I I still think, ya [loh] that's why I say there, uh it's you who say don't have one ah I think let me see


now is it no more, okay have you finished with this


no no no I found, there's a line here, there isn't a line here, are you sure but it's a extra line you know, it's a extra line lah


fan mark ah, but I thought okay uh cause I can't read, properly okay ah so we change another one is it oh no I saw another one already, uh you see this one and this one don't have, uh okay uh it's this


uh okay, okay I think that's about all already lah, okay so we start on another one, no more start another one, oh you said you are we we are going to Nex


I've been there a few times what do you want to eat there, have you been there before, ya so what do you want, is a normal shopping mall, what do you want to eat there, no, no I did not, no I no I I ya I would like to eat my own vegetarian food where I cook my by myself


which is strictly vegetables, uh no not necessary, can can, can but no vegetarian, I think we I I cannot


no lah I mean is okay is anything is okay is just that I do not, (ppc) want any vegetarian food because I really don't like the one you so called the fish, you know I don't I I I do not, ya


yes if he likes you can go with him but I don't like, I think is is not right if I eat fish I would eat the real fish okay I don't want, I don't mind, what kind of polo food !aiya! you know lah I always like the the mix


healthier, but we can eat other things lah, no no no I don't like barbecue is cancerous


eat too much you can cause cancer, no you shouldn't be eating too much, ya you burn the food, but you are likely to to have it somehow to burn a little here and there


no no because no no actually the main thing is upset my stomach, it upset my stomach, got weak stomach, I have a weak stomach I cannot take bbq


I don't eat vegetarian ya Cai Fan, I think, uh no it's okay we can decide later on


you do not, oh my comfort food, oh I like, okay I like uh my comfort food lah oh I like to eat


okay I don't I I try to not to eat meat uh I like nut, and then I eat uh, uh uh brown brown rice or, Basmati rice, that kind with nuts


and I eat uh lots of uh I eat I eat vegetables, and I I like uh all kinds of vegetables lah so I, that's why I like to cook, for myself, yes or I eat oats everyday in the morning


uh that that that is because I'm alone I'm alone it's easier I is is very troublesome to cook, oh the the recipe that you gave me oh is a is a recipe that you you pick


uh on on the internet, ya whereby we put in we we must chop in the garlic, oil tomato, rice as a base, and after that we can add in, whatever what you want, like


uh meat, up to you lah meat or, meat and vegetables, uh the last time I I gave it I cook for you what did I put inside that you like it, oh now I remember, the sausage, I added in the Chinese the sausage from Harbin you know our neighbour


she gave it to us, ya but that but, but that is not healthy ah that is a process food, uh ya I put sausage oh ya I remember I put carrots


no is is the, uh what is a must is garlic oil and tomato, to put into the rice this this is a must then you can add any other thing that you like to add on, so uh it's good to add more a kind of more saltish kind of protein then it will be nice


right, but I don't need that lah I normally I don't, I if I I'm also contented if you just put in an egg would do also, but I like to put in dark sauce, I don't want to put salt I like dark sauce


the one pot cooking cooking in a rice pot, soup Mee-Sua


oh that is when you have diarrhoea, when we have diarrhoea remember I, tummy upset !huh! oh okay, so so is actually, any soup


any vegetable soup or chicken soup, chicken vegetable soup I always like to add chicken and vegetable together in a soup, then put in the Mee-Sua and cut raw garlic to mix with it to eat is it, you mean that, uh that's very good after eating you feel your tomach your stomach will be


uh you will feel good lah, correct, want thing to eat


but I don't you know I seriously don't like to buy, any food around our area you know, no, if I eat ah actually I would just go to I don't mind going to Mister-Bean, Mister-Bean has the porridge


actually Mister Bean's porridge is quite nice, ya the porridge they have the ya the actually their minced meat porridge is also nice [loh], no no they have chicken porridge they have chicken porridge and actually the meatball is very nice you you have not tried before


meat, meatball can made of bean, eh hello you're working you know, uh they add in beans ah but then they also have meat in it's chicken porridge what they add their chicken porridge is actually nice, so I would buy


hello hello uh Mister-Bean is everywhere you can buy and then uh, that one I I would eat that one and then plus a soya you know promotion [loh] if you buy, uh if you buy the porridge you can buy the soya