but you were really wasn't right for him though, actually for you I won't even talk to them eh why why why you still contacting them why you still talking to them, ya dude like this kind of thing you must must have boundaries you know like once the person cross the boundaries [right] okay maybe you should let them know


okay maybe the first step is to let them know what they did lah and then if they still do it or they continue to do it but it's still up to you it's your choice whether you want to be friends with them a not, cause it's not fair for you to like you know, certain way about a certain thing because of what they did


this one no goal lah but the person


damn rude, but dear apologize, they apologize


!aiya! but is it it's through tax right, not powerful enough, you should recorded your voice, silence after that


yea it's okay lah, yea it shouldn't lah it's okay, the uh survey nice that way (ppb) what do you value most in your friendship


honesty really, oh say trust, cause it's from the person if for be like it's quite, tough to trust people


having my chance broken, by people, cause after that incident right, I am just like !wah! shit people are just, but then I again I tend to like you know, yea some people are shitty lah yea


but why honesty tough


no idea, it's just for make it look Chim ah I think the title, if your house caught fire and you only had time to save one item what would you save, mine laptop


actually no eh


actually I might save my uh I have this stuffed toy that I had, memories ah, ah marine nevermind lah, that one for fun only


ah my phone quite important eh I mean my laptop, but I save on Dropbox


how ah, no ah it's quite good I don't know eh ya I don't know what to choose, oh no describe the saddest moment of your life, oh-my-god


no dude this is stressful the saddest moment of my life ah, okay, issue to friendships okay I can I can do friendships, okay so basically (ppb) !wah! this is really like digging up


but it's on record though this a bit uncomfortable, but they don't know who I am right do they no okay whatever, (ppb) as in basically this certain person [right] like okay so when when (ppb), I think you know who lah, ya so I I I didn't tell anybody this ah because cause we had common friends what right


and then the thing about me is that I don't want to bitch about other people, when you're friends with that person because I don't think it's fair what right, and I don't care what other person does if the person bitches about me I don't give a shit but as long as I don't do it I'm okay, so then what happened was that I heard from another one of my friend was that this person was like going around


like telling people shit about me lah about how like I'm very sensitive all the time, etcetera etcetera etcetera, and then like to the point where, okay issue to friendships ah to the point where I was like, so done with it right that I went to the toilet


and close the door and then I started to cry, cause I was overwhelmed, ya because at the point in time like, obviously, ya nobody knew nobody I didn't tell anybody, ya I didn't tell anybody, ya so like because this person was going around like talking shit about me right


and then like even to my friends, and not doing and not, addressing it to my face lah you know, and maybe because I didn't give her the opportunity to, (ppb) but the thing is I didn't I just didn't want to deal with her anymore, and then like even if I choose not to deal with it right she still talking shit about me to other people


so at the point in time I knew lah that I did the right choice I did the right thing at least ya, and I don't know what she say about me as in I know, to what extent like what things she say about me but it wasn't very nice lah I would imagine, ya right, ya so that's why like it affected me lah of course because I mean


the people who she talked about were my friends what, right so then they have this certain idea of me (ppb) and the thing is I didn't get to justify myself also, and I didn't feel the need to lah so for me right, ya ya so for me like, the thing is obviously all my friends also quite curious right cause they don't know what happen


and you only heard Grace's side oh shit what's your name, you only heard her side of the story right you don't know mine so obviously people might side with her instead of me, and I had to fully understand it lah so that's why I like really appreciate those who like


still sit by me now, and I think cause it's, a lot of time mixed past like I'm really over it, but then like, at the point in time lah like it affected me quite a lot lah, so in terms of friendships right, that this is one of the saddest part of my life but ya


knowing they purposely bitch and talked about me, even though I didn't do anything directly to her, that's how I knew that some people are just, shitty people, no offence to her but she's probably a better person now hopefully lah she is she is


and I guess circumstances probably like moulded her to be a certain way, but, you know life goes on


but that's good, no but you're bouncing now what, ya you're bouncing, ya man, who cares about other people it's fine


if you could turn back time what is the one thing that you would have done differently


but I think that high side that why got high side, no but I think that life experiences are good though, as in good and bad


no it's good as in you say the positive mah, of course lah you guy


ya lah, (ppb) as in honestly I don't think you should cut them out, but then for me like because it was it was a the circumstances ah because, we were friends with and we had a same group of friends and then like we're in the same group for like, I mean post PW lah


and also like, like a lot of things ah just weird because all the same space all the time so that I have to that but then for yours because you don't see him what, so I think you should talk to him, and tell him what he did, because I think, after you talk to him right he be willing to


okay there are two outcomes so either he's willing to change and he apologizes and admit his mistakes then that's good lah can continue being friends, but if he sees no fault in what he did right then, ya exactly so it's a win win lah


for me I think I would, oh I won't I won't be so last minute, in everything that I do ya, because I missed a few important deadlines eh ya in my life, very bad


we stop to you yet


I think he doesn't know what he was wrong, because I think he thinks it's a joke, and then maybe in his mind if he apologises that means he is making something then he actually was you know


no you should talk to him meet him face to face, that's the best because texting sucks, is there someone at this table oh no there's no table that you would like to know better what intricts or interests you about this person


none existent, !aw! thanks you too, there's one, what's the craziest thing that you have ever done


oh dude that's so scary, !wow!, craziest crazy ah


craziest thing that I've done ah, oh dude actually yea it's quite


shit never done, yea it's okay Terisa, but I think people do it often one, it's quite expensive eh freaking subway in New-York, it's like two dollars yea exactly, for like any amount, damn expensive


what nicknames do you go by which is your favorite !wah! I don't want answer I don't want to share, very thing, my family sitting for me it's a very safe, yea what do you most like to eat in the whole wide world


really, how how, oh Mala is good too dude, eh what's your favorite type of tofu then like how is it prepared in what way, how (ppb) or like the the, I never try before leh


it's nice ah but it's nice right, I want try I heard it a lot heard heard a lot this about it right, what do I did


oh I actually I used to be a huge fan I think even now lah of Swensen's spaghetti bolognese, nice, yea yea yea, last time I was obsessed with it I will eat it once a week, burst top three of my bucket list on your bucket list


I can't answer this kind of questions eh I don't know, really, it's kind at being


(ppb) you actually want ah, it's scary though


I don't have any as in I have lah but I don't know, it's one more eh I didn't see two, canoe sky diving, true sicker, yea it's the same actually I was


oh I know I know I know I know I know, I know I know I know I know that one that one okay, yea yea I understand


what did you miss most from my childhood, oh innocence ah I would say, yea yea I'm innocent


like ignorance I would say, as in when was a child like I had no problem as a child, cause I don't know anything, like food everything prepared for then like life is just like beautiful like great


ya, ya, (ppb) no that one is a


describe the happiest moment


really


oh I have, happiest, when I was in the US, ya then when I look at this particular scenery in the US lake-tenaya ya, opposite Yosemite it's at


I was the happiest because I felt the most at peace, no because you already put his life into perspective you know what I mean, ya that's why I felt most happy lah ya


you leh then what's the happiest moment of my life, one of the happiest ah let's not say happiest cause happy, one of your happiest


now


oh really


ya it's inspirational dude, this really very inspirational


!wow! ya that's very inspirational, that I I should, but he they're not inspirational inspirational though


but he not my hero, ya then my professor lah the one that wrote the book, she's gracious


inspired all of her, inspired all of her successors, inspirational okay


if you could have an hour long conversation with anyone at all who will you talk to, if you can have a hour long conversation with anybody, who will you talk to, what no lah but as in mystery guess


actually for me I think it might be that, uh that girl, !huh! with Hitler, oh okay cool


only can choose one only, so you choose who psychopath serial killer okay, that's interesting


actually I might talk to, the person who I cut off, (ppb) but the thing is when they have a conversation [right] it cannot be defensive and it cannot be (ppb) offensive (ppb) like just like a civil conversation, ya I think it's good for both of us ah to have closure


as in for, I'm already like more or less like okay but it's just that, I don't know I feel like, some, ya because it's quite as in quite big for her also because you know in our group chat and stuff, I mean obviously she's also in the group chat what right and then to act like as if she doesn't exist is quite rude


ya but the thing is like this are how things are now lah it's just very awkward, but I'm just like okay, ya, yesterday it'll be nice, character flaw what personal trait do you dislike most about myself oh I know


procrastination, and I think I'm too neurotic also, really


oh same same I'm not gonna take additional tour, I think more assertive lah, assertive assertive, but I hate confrontations though


(ppb) no but you have to be eh or not people will just like freaking, freaking rude sia that guy girl both


name a favorite place that you've been to what is it's significance, significance


really, !wah! eh never share, then, (uh huh)


four hours ah, dude then after that you won, nice, congratulations, nice what, !wow!


!wow! that's so fun, ya dude that some fun okay, that's good lah


mine is the Brooklyn-Bridge in New-York, why ya significance, just to think I had ah when I was there, it's beautiful man, ya I highly recommend it, a hundred percent I love it so much leh


I really love it, ya I know but, don't care about them just think of myself, myself and little bitch, what are why are you looking for a partner oh (ppb), why, I know why


yes and the connection lah, you eh, warm fire (ppb) no because the thing is right


eh can hit me up lor honestly if I want talk to anybody ya ya can can, ya but ya basically just to, ya lah just to know who I am as a person I don't know lah whoever lah companionship lah can lah okay


oh we're done it's the last one, ya probably


did you watch any, oh-my-god that's so funny I heard about it but I didn't watch, okay, eh that's so lucky


dude that's damn cheap, ya that's damn cheap, eh seriously though that's damn cheap, that's damn cheap, good la good at least you can learn full experience you know


seriously, no dude that's damn isn't it good, ya, exactly, worth it lah I think it's worth it


describe the worst date ever been on, you say yours lah I guess hang outs are considered as dates also


wait when was this last time, okay then


but it wasn't that bad what, this the worst eh, well for my


as in is not really considered one but then like this guy wanted to go out with, but then I didn't want to so I ask my friend to come actually I ask Ernest to come along, ya so the three of us went out, to eat Chicken Rice, Clementi


ya but as in is not is not a date ah but then we just went, is not over, eh I I think, like he was like eh then we hang out one day lah oh no it was so funny it was quite bad because, we went to eat dinner right but then Ernest is actually supposed to


ya so he wanted to hang out after but then, Ernest had to interview me so for like two two hours, so throughout the entire two hours he just sat there, while she interviewed me ya, and then after that he he thought that we we wanted to hang out and stuff but then I was uh it's a bit late cause by then it was like eleven o-clock already


so then he went home , ya then after that like we're still friends ah so like, he just like ask me now and then like hey do you wanna hang out then I was like uh not really, I don't say it lah uh


oh okay, no but that was nice though, I think will be good at this eh


marker to find the difference circle ya, okay are you ready to do you want


uh okay you go, wait is his


left arm or right arm, uh as in, his left or our left, okay, okay the there is shack right below him, is it locked


does it say shack to rent, oh okay, the sign below, oh like do you know like there's a, white color shelf right ya then below it


okay then after that the this the part that's different


black it mean, oh yea okay correct yea, no (ppb), push once


yea man have you did it correctly yea, okay


it's that a dog, and they're two boys, the one on the right got, blue got green cat and red short, then the boy, wear short ya then the boy kicking ball soccer ball


oh to hell twelve twelve


don't have oh yea yea oh yea yea yea yea in the middle can yea yea, no to


three four four rocks, uh as in got three big one and then wait I actually I don't know ah but whatever lah don't care ah , they isn't like a a spade and a, and a pail


yea, red colour ah, and then we doesn't assign there says beach volleyball lessons, oh got sign leh, it's next to the net, on the left to the net, below the fisher


beach volleyball lessons, to the left of the net


oh yes, Carousell , (ppb) the host, no is good not it have to be


wait the blue white is on the right side right, is there a sign below it


yea show forecast sun no rain, oh actually you see I think maybe like one person just suppose to talk is it, and another person just circle, cause like this very easy leh


what you think, communicate ah okay, okay, yes


!wah! very specific eh very good, correct, what colour shirt blue, correct


(ppb) so sad it's his face he can't control, got tired mark, red colour car, pink colour seats


and a steering wheel, wait then above it got sign, no eh, how you know, yea, oh mine doesn't got no sign


it's just a drink got drink right, yea but got no peach juice


twelve for one two three four, freaking weird but yea, because damn ugly wait is that entire door right


entire one door, you're right entire one side door


brown, is it the same color as the shack


wait the blue one is the most stripe right, the sandcastle yellow ah, is it a garbage can, ya green color one


ya the dog the dog, ya grey, got two leg and one tail (ppb)


brown she she got pink pajamas, is is it a soccer ball the boy kicking, ya four black dot


wait is the shack locked, got three holes, ya


is there anything strange about your beach is there anything else on the beach, then what you just told me, wait your shack got grass or not


what else ah, net what net


(ppb) oh ya ya got four got four, it's like two two on the left side and two like, ya okay


is there trail is there a line trail, I should has twelve, yea, yea completely like blur


the parasol is two third to the right or left, same same (ppb) what if like it's a tilt lah that is different, the the flag blowing which direction ah


wait the flag are they all they are they are blowing they're blowing in different direction right your flag, the sand castle, the, and only right once blue right


yea the top and bottom, the buttons are pink, the hole also pink right


okay correct, yea but I only have two you got three right


yea need have to, (ppb) I need the microscope


blonde, wait what colors yea, wait what colour is the seahorse is it yellow


it's not as pink as his grandmothers, pajamas (ppb) it's like, it's like more beige than pink, wait like something else wait, yea that's the car tool wait it is it is it lights on the car


one big square smaller square below, the boy is sitting on beside passenger or


no, oh dude, I thought it was soccer it confirm soccer dog or umbrella


(ppb) but the dog were nothing already, wait is the dog tails up or down


oh wait wait it so with the the the left foot, no eh, the boss not flying


and that was so fun


oh no wonder when you ask whether he's kicking with his right leg, it's a yes lah because this one is kicking with his right leg then yours also, ya exactly that's why I was confused when you were doing the action, ya I was like !huh!


oh as in can rotate the other way ah the paper, ya it was


you can bet it's like a, it's damn fun


you sure knew one, food class holiday shopping, don't have [eh] all along is normal, [oh] go already okay


okay, eh Aisyah, !wah! are we supposed to choose the card, okay I'll choose the card, I'll just choose the top one thick as thieves, name one of your closest friends, how is he or she special to you name me


you just name me, how is he or she special to you, how am I special to you Isha


unhappy


you're supposed to pick now, ya odd one so, without getting paid


volunteering with, Minds, volunteer I guess, floorball, without getting paid I'm not paid anyway


ya I am, I guess anything you that you are interested in, you won't mind not getting paid for it (ppb), oh we're live, that's so weird, that's so weird


oh-my-gosh I love these convo cards eh, it's says Smol-Tok, like what is Smol-Tok, no this is not Swedish though, push your, what stresses stresses or destresses you


I do that also


I do that also, ya, but then I cannot bring myself to do anything about it, right then you're just lying there, and you consciously know that you're procrastinating, but then you also don't want to do anything about it


ya I'm just stuck in that I don't want to do anything mode, I get it now, page turner what's the most inspiring book you have read, (ppb) recommend me , oh that book that you told me about last week


no the one about Singapore poverty eh, I want to buy it though


ya ya good, oh your professor also nice, you are very close to your professors ah I'm not very like


okie, how well can I cook, not very, not very the only thing I can cook is like


kimchi fried rice, actually fried rice Mala I can cook Mala, no cause the sauce is from NTU C, and you just buy that sauce then you just add vinegar


and soya sauce I don't think it's Halal cause it's from China, usually it won't be lah ya you can I can go home I can go home and check, ya I have the sauce, I keep introducing this sauce to everybody


ya it's so good I brought it to I brought it to Sweden, ya ya, no who oh you mean my the my Swedish friends no they didn't try it, cause they cannot take spicy food, ya for myself I cook it I cooked it for myself


for my own enjoyment, it's so easy you just like, boil all the vegetables, then you just throw them into the pot, then you just pour the sauce in


the sauce that you buy the ya the sauce then, then you just add vinegar and, uh what's that called soya sauce, I mean if you want to but, usually it's not really necessary


okay next we should, is it your turn, ya but mine is lol, how long has it been since your last serious relationship


(ppb) twenty two years, who, no was not at all, was not at all


since birth, since birth he has a girlfriend now, from NUS like that meaning


!woah! archetypes which literary character do you most identify with this is very Chim, this is very, do you realize it's the


a man out of four, I guess you can change it to movie character, you can change to movie character or like a series character, like modern family or something


good idea, movie character, I would think about modern family or


very unique characters that, but I feel I can feel that you're like the, like Claire, I feel like, sometimes, cause she's she's like a


and she's like also very, ya she's like a very, caring mother ah and I very straightforward also, and she doesn't let her emotions show and she's also sometimes very awkward, like she laughs when she talks about death, right, she laughs when she talk she laughs when she talks about death


thanks, ya Karen cause Karen sometimes very crazy also


as in like Karen is not here, crazy


think should we take another love, card, a hard card, I don't think oh there's this oh, this has to stop, red herring, describe an experience when you were match made or went on a blind date


tingling in your toes , how did you know that you truly love you partner, this is actually a very but this is a quite a good question like how would you, no when you have, found, the right person


but you just know, you just know right, it's how I ya, ya


ya that's why we rejected


I think you have to be opposites to where it matters but similar in your interest, right like you need to have mix of everything, if you're so similar then I don't think it would work that well also eh, I feel


you just feel like your living with yourself then that's no novelty, yea that's no that like nothing to, be surprised, about


yea that's actually someone to, debate with an internationally stimulate you know


not needed late bloomer


I already have this situation, I mean the first thing that I thought was like, how it was very, is very stressful for me


like it was very, it was like kind of burdensome, also, because I now, I have to, kindly, reject him, and also stay as close friends, which is very difficult


and then like how would prevent, leading him on, again because you have been close friend for so long and then if he debate the face on you it mean like, you have done I I don't know like, you can not longer be close, I don't know whether you can


can you still have platonic relationship that's what I concern about


that's why like I don't know whether, it would be best for both of us if we stop being friends but that was, yea it's really sad, yea it's really


tell me story time, that enthusiasm


uh okay, okay okay, (uh huh), but he wasn't awkward lah oh you but you don't oh you all don't hang out anymore do you feel awkward


he feels awkward, ya ya, it it changes it's not it won't be the same lah, I think, like between me and, Gerald right


I think it was a, I think it's nice cause like we could still stay as very very good friends like now we are just very very good friends, but it's, it's very rare though oh it ya it might be, that he like suddenly realize that you know


this ya I mean like it couldn't be lah, it may be ya, it harder right, to for just to forget about it and to just, especially if it's very long cause for Gerald that was two years


(ppb) that was maybe only one year, you can laugh, a little bit, a little bit ya, as long as it doesn't go, so like out of the range


can, just say Ben ah


ya, ya, ya, that's why, ya cause I was, ya cause I thought because I bought it and then and then Kai was like maybe you should just, hurt him so badly


so that he will never ever think, about you know, but then I was like that's just mean then it was not that's not necessary ya Kai is a very, Kai is the worst uh uh not listening to anybody else from him I just wanted to tell him


but he's very he's he's he's a close friend of mine lah, like he doesn't, he doesn't judge (ppb), no lah it's fine, I think we'll all just start, you know talking at this volume is fine


ya, !ha! we have so many or are these all done (ppb) !oo!, another Lauren


what's the deal maker, oh you ah, humour, humour intellect


ya we are cause we're the same person, so stupid we just stop this guessing from enchanting, because we are essentially the we're essentially, carbon copies, we eat though that's why I ya


but also humour on the same wavelength, this is why I don't see myself in


(ppb) ya but actually it's not funny why I laugh cause I'm kind, like patronise people , (ppb) no I'm kidding I'm just you know


ya I I guess patronising is like (ppb), a white lie, you know cause they think that they are funny, and then they think that they're, they're getting into your good books but actually no


they will get the wrong signal if this is like a this is like a, small kind of, ya this is like a, the minimal level of leading him on


I'm pretty sure I, that's why , cause, there's never one, thing you do there's never one thing that you you do that lead someone on it's always multiple


things, that comes together, so ya it's all like these small things that we do lah I guess when we're kind, that gives people the wrong signs, but it's not also not our fault we're just being nice


it's not that bad lah, I think you should bring the mic closer to you, ya ya then uh ya the sound will be louder


oh-my-gosh, I feel like I feel like operators at call centres, deejays don't even have this they just have a central mic, in front


(ppb) oh ya true true I guess this is how, (ppb) I actually thought about being a DJ, like if I'm good at talking, but I feel like I will sway on air like just, and just lip it and just lip out


and I cannot, I cannot do it unless there's a Singlish channel and I I will gladly be on it, uh Chinese maybe, Chinese maybe but I would, be very good in the Singlish


non negotiables I love how they title all these things, and like always, uh iteration, what is the deal breaker in your search for a partner oh wait what we already have this, oh oh deal breaker sorry (ppb)


if he's, unkind to other people, let's think of more, ya, yes if he's so stubborn and I cannot change and I cannot argue with him then


that one is a, that one is a must, that one is, basic basic ya being a good person in general


like what, throw food at them (ppb), oh no manner


it might be, but it is lah (ppb)


if he has a hot temper like my coach, oh-my-gosh, !ah! !ah! yes, if he's like, he is I mean ya he's


what why are there so many heart shapes one


have not yet, they gonna oh you mean like oh if like for a siblings or for my parents, hasn't really leh, didn't really take any risk, like what kind of risk


like how like what, example, go back on stage, that's not a risk


ya but okay you sacrifice for yourself, right right right, I have not but I've made compromises, like in terms of getting tattoos, cause my father seriously doesn't like it


uh and he's a very stubborn person, basically the deal breaker, time, seriously he he is a, but and he's, cause there's no there's no argument about it like when I try to talk tell him, I try to tell him about how it doesn't have any like health effects or whatever


is not bad for you is only like is only, ya there's nothing basically no cons to it, except, have people stare at you, if you treat it as a con or like if you cannot get a government job or something


ya so I I mean I tried reasoning with him but, he never ever wants to, listen to me, ya, but I make compromises lah so I was like okay fine like, I wouldn't do like those like full, I wasn't planning on getting full sleeves anyway


so I was just telling him like I'll just get, small ones that can be hidden, if I want to, ya, I mean ya in every relationship whether is, family relationships or


friends I do compromise as well but then, if they don't ever compromise for me, I'll question uh I'll question the friendship, and I'll, and I will start, like straying away from them


like I wouldn't be I wouldn't be so nice, the next time, ya because if they don't make any sacrifices for me and if it if it's always me, giving in then what's the point in this, friendship like I'm the only person who is


contributing to this, friendship, right, what will bring them up


it is there, it is


ya ya, but yes compromises more lah risk, maybe when I go when I borrow money from a loan shark


then that is high risk oh are we I still want to do love questions cheek to cheek, (ppb) CT CTC describe the perfect date none, sorry I don't have oh we are just to oh describe the uh uh, like in our oh K K in our mind so alright


oh !wow! this is not bad, cooking, together, my perfect date is at home actually, like in a in a in an environment where I feel very comfortable in


and I don't have to like panicked about what, what we can or cannot do, like if we cook together, cook together then we, then we eat then we watch Netflix together


Vietnamese food oh Mala also Mala is fine too, yes I know I love Vietnamese food


is it too much this description is very detailed, a bit too much , but ya I love Pho, watch the scary movie or something


oh I've I've added it onto my Netflix, list, yea I I heard too


watch it at three PM, outside, okay


#Hong-Lim#-Park, do we have, I'm sure we do


Labrador-Park, is not bad, !aiyo! there so many millipedes what's wrong with you, there are so many millipedes there, there's nothing to see there, oh is


what are you made like a picnic basket you have a picnic is it, you have a picnic at the park


picnic in the park, Gardens-by-the-Bay !wah! should I, you watch the light show at Gardens-by-the-Bay at eight forty five PM


(ppb) you watch what, what is that at Gardens-by-the-Bay


Vivo, what it's been so long since I've been to Night-Safari I don't remember anymore but I go to the zoo every year, eh yes yes I remember I remember, I like the Night-Safari though


I'm very lame, oh yes


(ppb) so water body, okay make sense make sense, what about your perfect house, cause recently you know I wanted to repaint my room


I wanted like decorate like re re furnish my room basically cause it makes me feel like, makes me feel more motivated lah if I want if I refurnish my room, I want to have a cabin in the woods eh


even though people won't probably won't know if I die, I want to live in a cabin by the lake, with Northern Lights and


for a few days like for a few for a few days of retreat I guess, but I guess I would still miss the city the city life, I want both, ya


I'm just, just sit by the lake (ppb) and watch the mountains, cause when I went to Poland, I went to this like I I climbed the mountain I spent, two three hours climbing up the mountain


and it was during winter, so the mountains were all like frozen, and there was was supposed to be a lake, at the top of the mountain, ya it's called #Morskie Oko#, ya and it was completely frozen and was so beautiful like so pretty, everything was just white


like very white, and you could walk on the lake cause it was so frozen, ya ya then everyone was just walking on the lake, it is eh, I appreciate I already appreciate it


you weirdo, catch and release


how do you know when do let go of someone oh this is a very good question actually, it's a good question, anything (ppb) it's a hut so, any uh family even family also


toxicity (ppb)


ya which is already what you did, but I respect that you know


ya I mean there are always a lot of options to, to choose from but I guess from what I told you just now like my my floorball, team I think it's best for me to just cut myself out, and just let them be


cause it's tough on yourself also, I've I I've I have had good times with them, but just let them let those stay as good memories lor and just leave when it's


but before it turns worse, ya which is why I want to leave, the team even though I have had good memories with them lah I've


I really took part in so many competitions, I join so many things with them, but I guess, I don't know whether it was fake, that's the thing I don't know whether it was genuine so


ah ya so I will just you know, cut myself la, mini me, is is this questionnaire ya is this stack designed for you


all the questions are, uh to me ah, I feel like


I feel like having children gives you, a new found, meaning in life, when people, don't know what to do, anymore, with their life


it is though cause it's to make yourself happy, as in make yourself fulfilled, so I, ya like I always, I always felt that altruism doesn't truly exist, like true altruism, you always help people because you feel happy helping other


people like is there really selflessness, ya unless is of detriment to you and you, ya, then that that is


ya unless there's nothing to gain, I guess you gain reputation , after you die, (ppb) ya, uh ya, (ppb) but I was, referring more about to like volunteering


even though I volunteer, uh with people myself, but I do feel, the benefits from volunteering, so I feel that, I'm also partially doing it for myself volunteering, when I volunteer


so for me uh volunteering is not true altruism, unless you really give your life, ya so coming back to the children part, I just feel that


it's not in it's not important to, ya it's not, it's not very important to me I would want to have children with someone I love


it's your responsibility ya


ya you always, the parents is always to blame, uh is


is okay I love these things


ya ya, yo after, but seeing the world like this, it's not a good deal, I always have this kind of


I always have I always have this kind of debates with my friends like, would you wanna have a child of your own or would you adopt cause I would always choose to adopt, I always I always choose to adopt cause why would you do you watch Lion the movie, ya it was about this uh ya about this Bengali boy ya


eh is it Nicole-Kim Angelina-Jolie, Nicole-Kidman, it's about this Bengali boy who got lost, ya ya ya then uh he went to a orphanage so then they, they sent him to Australia cause an Australian family wanted to adopt him


ya then after like twenty years he's like oh, after ya after ten years he tried to find, (ppb) his like real parents and then his adoptive parents, said something, like that was so that was so meaningful and I really feel I really felt very strongly for it cause she's what did she say why bring


another life into this world if you could just, uh like better, ya better the chances of a an existing life or something like that


ah my parents say, uh you will always, love your, child more than your adopted child, and I disagree with them, yes but I also agree I also agree with her when she said and like when you're a mother you will know


only when you are when you have gone through that nine months, and then you have gone through the the the birthing then you will know you know , ya that's right that's right, that's why I'm at the three not zero


ya I said ya, I would lah I would with someone I love, ya if I love that person so much I I would bear a child for him, I guess


two adult turn, but anyway this world is depressing, to have and to hold, how important is marriage to you, not important at all zero, marriage is a is a, social construct what it's a constitution what


ah ya ya of course, yes because Singapore wants to you know


and paint the, ideal family you need (ppb), for next time, no but I wouldn't (ppb), I just feel that


marriage is not, it's only important if you take it to account the benefits that you don't get to have, correct so if you, disregard all that, and ignore everything


ya that's nice I mean I would get married I I ya I but it's not important to me, ya, ya of course, but of ya still on the basis of, if I find a


really someone that I truly love, I would get married, I just don't think that's important, I don't think it's a choice eh, I don't think it's a choice I could have chosen (ppb)


to get together with so many people but, but I didn't (ppb), no so it's not a choice cause it's a feeling, cause I don't get I don't get the, but do you think you can get together with you can love someone after spending


oh you can


that's true, butterflies


but there definitely more than one people who have made you have butterflies in your stomach right in your life, I just think it's a feeling lor, it's like an attraction


oh that that person is, that person is not a good match it's kind of based on my feelings also (ppb)


I wouldn't ah I won't try to change the person, I'll just, not not pursue it


I'm just give it a chance, okay maybe, I I might because I will probably admire some sights


eventually admiration won't


what about you


is, okay we are differing few points on, something finally


what they're feeling might not be love, is what I will is what I will say, is what I will say , I will say is kind of dependence, but dependency is not love


oh for who they are, uh uh (eh) you'll appreciate their existence (ppb), how does that work , oh you like appreciate them being beside you, ya I guess that's companionship


ya, it should keep you on edge you, that's why I say is a, is not a choice whether you, is not a choice whether you get the tingles a not


ya of course, after that you'll be dependent, companionship , (ppb) it won't be love anymore , for me lah okay I've a very negative outlook about it


remove remove put at, put it at the bottom, oh we have so many cards to go through let's go, (ppb) keen, one, and my sister


no no closer, can't choose, that's nice (ppb), at least you don't have those like you know Siblings Rivalry kind of, ties that buy, what activity do you most enjoy doing together with your family


(ppb) like eating fried chicken together eating Zi-Char together, I enjoy eating dinner with them la, like having a meal together I think that it's the most, enjoyable activity


it is though, !aiyo! how many times did you go to the Botanic-Gardens, oh are you serious oh, last time, why the Botanic-Gardens I'm so confused there's nothing to do there


you exercise what do you do there, that's very nice, my mum


uh my parents do that, like every, Sunday morning, they just walk like there's this they just take one hour to walk the they start walking at eight AM I don't wake up, anyway every Sunday I have to go for matches so I can't join


good question though


same, I was about to say that, I was about to say that, my parents do that, it is a life lesson though


it's just fiber (ppb), why fiber (ppb), what personal trait, did you like most about yourself


uh okay, personal trait ah, not don't need don't have to be personality trait


anything like kindness you know that kind of thing, I guess we can do that, your eyes smile


oh you already you already talk about mine


I have to do that thing, what does exuberant even mean actually


I guess it's, like enthusiasm as a trait (ppb), like being active and, wait what


oh ya I was I was explaining about (ppb) I was explaining about exuberant, you no now I have to think about for now I have to think about yours


I guess the same thing positivity, but sometimes I also have, like I'm I have a very, like real outlook about life


I guess that I am, ya realism, affected by other people, I won't get very affected by other people, cause I would just be like oh


(ppb) like you live your life I live mine (ppb)


but I think that's your good trait also eh


nice in general your humour and intellect, you are very smart, you just don't know, what's happening


you are very smart though, you is ya you is what (ppb), how is this how is that, oh yes you are witty as well


you know only smart people have humor, that's how smart you are, because your brain works, at extra time to create humor, I had to understand humor, and to understand sarcasm and irony and everything


you are smart, yay claps, high five, that was very who someone like it


I think empathy is important


time travel, but I wouldn't change anything


I'll just observe, it does though, I wouldn't change anything but I would want to reminisce, and I want to see


if I can choose another one then I guess teleportation, I wouldn't fly lah I would just teleport, uh wind, just go parasailing bro


have your own wings okay okay sorry, you want to choose be bird man okay sure, that was so weird, seen some girls flying, some girl flying in the sky (ppb)


so ya, out damn spot what does that mean, do you enjoy doing chores, which your most spiritual, I date wiping the doors


after I wash them, I just, I just leave them there, I don't mind the washing though, I don't mind the washing, I don't like wiping, chore


shipping (ppb), sweeping is quite therapeutic actually, when you gather all the particle, what is that I don't think that's what the I don't think that's the sound the dustpan makes but okay


it is quite therapeutic, and you like you can make it into shapes , oh ironing yes, iron ironing I don't mind


hate cleaning hate wiping table, hate wiping down the cupboards, like who cares who even touches the cupboard why do we have to wipe it


why , I have a friend who really hates like


wet hair, like hair in the bathroom, like he she will she she she will freak out, she hates it, she thinks it's very gross, ya maybe it reminds her of some horror movie (ppb) big break


what would you do if you won ten million dollars tomorrow (ppb)


that's good, ten million is not even enough to buy own apple, ya I'll buy property


!wow! so practical I like it, I like this answer, invest in government bonds, next, pet peeve who who or what irritates you


who eh, who, who or what, what would be (ppb), people who push me on the trains


and people who don't wipe the toilet seat, hate it, so much, it's really my pet peeve, oh you squat ah !wow!, ya ya I know, that's that's amazing eh


or like people who don't flush like what's your problem, basically people who don't use the toilet, how they use it at home, then I give it to them that's just disgusting in general , ya at least they are consistent


I award that, okay appreciate their consistency , ya but if, I don't know, there's just, uh ya


people who, ya basically people who are unnecessarily rude, like my coach , he's really very unnecessarily, and people who had to unnecessarily, how to say


win an argument like feel feel superior, ya, it's like I'm not trying to (ppb), do anything to you but why are you doing that to me


ya, ya ya ya, it's just very infuriating you know it it's very irritating I'll just leave, I'll just like oh nice talk bye , good talk (ppb)


ya right, as in just drain my soul sometimes, do you have a full , okay how about in general like, a group of people who are this way (ppb)


okay like like what we say, people who wanna be feel superior, people who push when MRT, people who stare at me


I agree (ppb) sadly, sadly I agree, they just ya lor (ppb), ya you just don't, ya you just don't feel a don't feel it ah (ppb), their face just doesn't


(ppb) cannot ya you you cannot explain it you just the, and of course they're not bad people, no no here, !wow!


I'll start a company ah, oh, !wow! (ppb), I'll solve all the world's mysteries (ppb)


cause I wouldn't fail (ppb), realistically ya ya ya, I'll start a company (ppb), I will be a DJ (ppb)


it'll be my full time job because I won't fail, actually I'll learn a lot of things eh, I'll just I'll learn a lot of a lot of languages, and I'll learn how to play instruments because I won't fail


in doing it and I will be a polyglot holy yeah, that is my dream eh (ppb), that is my dream (ppb), I'll just learn a lot of skills lor I'll take up a lot of skills, like maybe learn python learn computing


how to build a system, cause it can be everything right, ya right now lah what's something that you really really want


apply for (ppb), okay sorry I don't answer that question, uh I'm procrastinating on everything in my life in general


a lot of things cause I've been there myself I want to learn to play the guitar, I want to pick up a new language but I've been procrastinating on everything, what the hell is this word, what's that even mean


oh what, where is your true home, I feel like singing


!huh! what, as in I feel like singing the lyrics to this to this question (ppb), ya cause there was lyrics


by Troye-Sivan that says home is just full of place uh uh home is a just place full of your safest sounds, like a place where you feel safe


family, going through all these, went through these steps is very therapeutic, it's like counselling me (ppb)


it is eh like sometimes it's good to just, it relieves your burden, moral of the story, describe one important life lesson you have learnt from the books you have read


maybe not books more of movies I watch more movies than book, basically what I said just now the movie lion, Lion, I think that was the


what are the most impactful, movies I've, ya it, gave me, the idea, I mean it didn't give me the idea but like


validated, do you have any


oh short film, ya ya ya


inferior human


you were disgusted also lah


ya, of course, (ppb) but I don't think you should feel bad about it because it's (ppb) the feeling that you get, you don't have to feel guilty about it because how you feel is, you can't control it but how you act on how you feel


you can control, so, ya, ya you can always that's what I always tell my friends like you can feel angry, and it's normal to feel angry but how you act on your anger is what defines you and it's not, so the fact that you felt guilty and you felt bad about it and you wanted to like


ya because, you can't change your feeling but you can change how you you can control how you act


actually I cannot really, let me think, here's a time when I fainted, right in front of you oh ya it was you, you made me laugh then I choke on my wind choke on my milk tea


so you saw it happen, cause the moment I choke and then I just lie fell inside range right, (ppb) cause you're like oh-my-god does Dion have a heart attack or something, it's fine I just have a very small like a wind pipe


uh both both my esophagus and my windpipe, both were, ya but I can ya, I guess that was one of the most embarrassing moment of my life


ya lah it's normal lah now I think it's funny (ppb), I'm sorry that I choked


oh-my-gosh yes, that was very embarrassing, I am just gonna tell you that, even if you feel embarrassed, I'm gonna tell you that it's very embarrassing, ya the worst, that was the worst, not all that glitter is good


what is my most valued possession, my honesty


how do I come to admit, I just have since young (ppb) what's my most valued possession


I guess like, cards that people write me, like birthday cards that people write me over the years


I I kept everything, ya so I have like, ten years worth of card, as in value valuable in it's meaning


sorry I'm not a romantic, really you just like drink Mala sauce over it


okay, I think all my material stuff, my iPad, my phone


out of non material things, iPad iPad, oh maybe phone got all my games my Sim City, phone phone phone, it has all of my game progress I cannot I cannot give up on that ya


I cannot give up on my online games, I'll lose my lung


my most valued possession, the lung I bought in during in the black market, later what the hell is a tyke, what are your top three children's names oh Jay Sam


like Sam for a girl, Jay Sam, Jay like JAY, I like mono syllabic names, Jay Sam, what's the last one


no I hate Ann, I don't want to have a name Ann, I'm sorry no no Tom, no no weird names, (ppb) Joy, Joy is very like K-Pop K-Pop star


it's like so pretentious, Kit sounds very white girl, maybe like Kit KIT, okay Kit


I don't care, Adam, oh Adam


Adam is nice, ah but with the A eh Jana, oh so cool


Zahirah (ppb), !wow!


sounds religious, my family, Zi-Char


Keat-Hong, Keat-Hong is this place near my house , it's good uh not the nicest but, it's good enough ya cause they are my house, and we always eat there


so it has, uh prawn paste chicken, hotplate tofu, are some fish hip, that kind of things that I always want


so good okay


oh that is a good, that's also a good, ya okay, can I change my answer


ya I guess my mother's cooking would also be, my #ah ma's# cook, rather than my uh mum's cook, #ah ma's# cooking the !wah! braised


how I can cry, is so good, curry #bee hoon# (ppb), (ppb) wait what specifically, your mum's


chicken something, oh that sounds


course correction, oh if you only had one more year to live what would you change about your life now


very dark also (ppb), one year, what can I do in one year, what would I change about my life, I'll quit school and go travel


cause I've one year left right I've exactly one year of savings left, I mean I guess I can spend all my savings in that one year, around the world like places that I've never been and and I will never, choose to go to but


like maybe (ppb), Iraq or something (ppb), since I'm going to die anyway


but it'll it'll it will still be a risk, better person in the next life


what law for, I would eh I would do a lot of things that wouldn't be afraid to, that I would that I would be afraid do oh


that's like all those movies plot


it's very annoying though for people outside to see this happen, like always like the guy, it's going to die, and it's like okay I don't love you anymore I just gonna leave, then it makes the, makes the girl sadder


if he love you this is, because you truely love the person you would stay, oh yea same


but you can't be always be proactive, and I waiting then you do then I will be very, leave life but I guess I will leave life without inhibition, influence so


that's mean, which are this symbol that's quite with !wow!, this is like a psychological test


I would say, because is quite, is like more positive, plus I guess


because you multiple zero by something is still zero, but if you plus, if you can just add on even just a little bit yea still yea still an add on


Jason-#Lee# really should be proud of us, I can't believe I'm looking at math symbols what we choose, oh nice, it does tho


connotation, equals has no value equals maybe might stand for equal, at corridor


with a dating agency, ah probably not, I, I already said marriage is not important to me


like finding a companion is not that important to me also


someone to bitch about life with lah, cause when I see my parents they're like very cute (ppb), then sometimes I'll be like I might want that


oh well but would you sign up a dating agency as in, it's a dating agency though (ppb), as I will take things, uh as it as it comes


agencies, are ya, ya there's nothing wrong with it, I can use like apps, don't know how to pronounce that, when did you last have a truly meaningful conversation with someone


I guess our conversation on last week, I would find it meaningful, like you gave me some insights about (ppb)


decision making life life in general K relationships in, talk about how we should solve the problem


Wednesday last week, ya last week, last week I remember telling you see you next week, we met last week this this thing was not very very long (ppb)


it felt very long oh, cloud burst, when did you last cry, not counted (ppb) that was tearing (ppb)


oh I also cried this morning, in my dreams, what's the dream about why did I cry


I don't remember anymore (ppb) I don't remmeber anymore but I cried, okay how about last time we consciously correct, I mean like him


talk about mine first, actually quite like, a few weeks ago, are they few years ago or last month, no no no I don't care about people being mean to me cause I'm just like


I am detached, I don't let people negatively affect me, although sometimes he will do negatively affect me, like this time like the time right side, so I wrote wrote


I asked like, Elwin, do write me a testimonial for, NOC application, and he was like he was like okay like you can write it and I can sign it for you, then I was like ya fine, like everyone does that right


so I wrote the testimonial, and because, he was right, he was right, he was signing it for me in the capacity of like uh exit chairman right, so it's not formal and he is he is not representing an organization like Google anything


so I wrote it in a, like a less formal way, like not not like, those people who are like oh I am writing to personally recommend don't know know what for these these these these things for because of his, of her altruism whatever thing I didn't write it like that


I wrote it in a like a a more fun way, but also still nice, cause it was like, I mean it, exhibits my quality lah basically, like international, and then he


like refuse to sign it, (ppb) then he was like, he was like uh and he said uh, what did he say, he said he was like why did you like why did you write it in a, like if you write it this way like it's it would like you know tarnish my reputation


like so hidden he didn't want to sign it ya is like fine you can tell me, which part you want to, edit or you can edit yourself and you can like, sign it and give it to me, then he was like fine, but then the next week then uh he, meet he met up with


uh Jian-You and Sharlene, uh for lunch, then he showed them, the testimonial that I wrote, then (ppb) uh I think she, then both of them were like saying like talking about my testimonial like on the group chat


so I was like I was like so like I, oh uh Elwin said I would send you divine help in the form of Sharlene, like to edit your testimonial I was like oh thanks, ya I was just like oh I was I was just like oh great


it's like when are you gonna send me the the damn testimonial you know it's like then, then he then Sharlene was like, she was like uh (ppb) what did Sharlene say, she only said you should be ashamed yourself, if she ashamed of herself as a linguistic student like


ya in the chain, so I said, ah thanks but I don't need your testimonial anymore I'm gonna get it from someone else, ya so like the moment I read it I actually quite cause I was like this is not uh


cause I was like


ya so at that moment in time at that moment in time, so ya I was very angry so I just said I don't need your testimonial anymore that I'm gonna get it from someone else so I got it from Patrina, ya submit the testimonial also


but I couldn't stop myself from, not getting emotional you know


ya it's quite ya it's very rude lah actually, erm of course, ya but I couldn't stop myself from getting, negatively affected , I I told uh I told who did I tell ah I tell I told Wen-Ting


I didn't I don't think she said much lah she's in the chat also, she didn't say need to check lah cause she she doesn't know any she doesn't know anything about my testimonial or anything


like regardless of how bad my testimonial was right, like you shouldn't you shouldn't ever say at someone right, like even if, if my testimonial was damn bad, I mean I will show you but I have deleted it cause I was like I don't wanna see this anymore


but I'm giving a lot of real data to this


still on talking terms because I forget very easily, it's just this one thing that I find it very hard to forget, like usually I don't, uh bear any, grievances or whatever I don't get


angry for very long, ya but for but this thing I don't think I can forget lah but I will forgive them, I'll forgive but I won't forget okay that's sounds very like


it's not nice at all, it is lah


I mean like at least you, feel bad for me no


what you gonna tell him though, it is though it is lah


tell you, ya he'll probably tell you he'll probably justify himself and tell you how bad my testimonial, but it doesn't justify his


and her actions, that's ya, number two he's not the CEO of Google


if he's the CEO of Google he would personally write the recommendation for me, (ppb) and not me writing the recommendation and him just signing, if the only effort they're going to put in is just to sign my testimonial then you shouldn't expect so much from the other person, in the first place


ya and I already previously I already said I sent, I sent him the draft and I said, if there's anything you want me to, edit you want to make it you want me to make it more formal you can just tell me


or you can just edit it yourself, but no he sends me demand help in the form Sharlene like what, and he just like mock me together like okay thanks, needed that


and it's ya it's not a nice joke, it's not at all there're


so I guess they are the people that I won't introduce, someone to date to, sounds like date with, can lah next time I tell you


what about you, hope it's not as heavy as mine, who ever make you actually cry


what is that, doctor house, oh no I don't know that


it is a series oh okay it is series, interesting, oh


it sounds like end of the, fucking world, ya ya ya ya like he's a psychopath


I feel like everytime our parents walk in we are always doing stupid shit, always always getting caught doing stupid shit, ya my parents probably think I'm crazy also, okay lah but I think like they probably know they know I'm angry lah


who, oh I told my mum, I don't know lah I was just being very angry


she didn't say much lah, ya she was just asking about the story but she didn't say she didn't comment much, I know right I don't know leh I'm too nice


ya I mean I'm still in good track but that time when they Jio to go gym ya I didn't go lah, I was like I have school, even though last night I would have just skip school to go


they know lah cause immediately after, like she said that (ppb) I was like I don't need the testimonial anymore, so they probably know, if if if they're not stupid they probably know, uh no lah they were just like


Sherlyn was just like sure or not I can help, haha or something like that, and I was like ya I don't need it, I was like it's okay I got it, in the group chat


quite powerful though, cause it was just like


I mean (ppb) whatever lah, they need to make the first move, they need to make the first move to, reconsult me if they want to


honesty, honesty


oh (ppb), some people correction


why honesty, like, I would honesty, is genuine (ppb) and I'm not interested in fake friendships, like the ones that I had have , the floorball team


so if they're not honestly with me (ppb), (ppb) uh not not honest with me then, ya lor genuine, oh then I guess genuine genuineness, the noun form, they have so many like


Chim words in this stack, my phone


my mum , one item, my phone ah, save what, my wallet


my phone lah my phone, oh you'll save that soft toy, what about it your game, what about your game progress


but laptop I have all my documents, but sometimes uh mac lah mac mac storage sucks


!uh huh! I have a few documents that are not saved, okay this is not a meaning, okay choose


think beneath the ways, (ppb) why are they so poetic, it's so poetic think beneath the ways, what was the saddest moment of my life


okay


I didn't know about this, because you didn't you didn't tell anyone about this


cause I'm friends with both of you all, ya, nah it's fine, they won't know


I don't actually have a, apart from the one that I talked about I don't actually have a very sad moment, of my life yet, which is good, ya I don't ya I can't think of one


where I've where I couldn't bounce back from, I am, I'm bouncing I'm bouncing like a, like a red cooper


tough question, I won't have asked him for the testimonial


ya in on hindsight lah, now I know what to what to do when I, like end up in this kind of


again, like I don't know what to


like a dilemma because, we are just we are quite good friends, ya like previously you know we had a lot of, like we went to JB last time


a lot of good memories, so I don't know whether (ppb)


I've ya


I should just, ya okay I think that's a good, solution


tough, but I think that, but until now, he hasn't


ya tried to approach as communicating do you think like he just wants to, ignore ignore ya so


okay I'll just ask him whether if it was a joke and I'm like if it is a joke it's like, ya lah ya lah (ppb) next time, when I feel like it


you interest me, oh it was a hard card


sprinting up the, it's a calculated risk oh oh sliding down from the, like without anything like on my on my butt


but it's not the craziest thing I have done lah, refilling my, cook more than two times (ppb), rebel


I'm a bad ass, not paying for NYC subway, oh-my-god I just ran through the gate (ppb) I went through the gate


okay I didn't run I walk through the gate confident, and I didn't pay for the subway okay that's bad, but it's a calculated risk, ah ya it's like two seventy


USD for any ya for any trip any trip, (ppb) I can't I can't deal


what do people even call me D [orh], (ppb) tofu, I love tofu


or like Mala, like smelly tofu, the fermented tofu like fried, so good so smelly


so good, but so smelly love it, it's like durian, acquired taste


very specific, Swensen's spaghetti bolognese


jump out the helicopter, what's that thing called, skydiving ya, skydiving bungee jumping, I wanna canoe in, Canada


I wanna canoe in their national park


but actually if I do skydiving then I don't need to do bungee jumping, okay lah I I'll do something else, oh on the you know the, what's that thing called


monster truck thing, in my youth, (ppb) your your innocence


ignorance, we want to be ignorant though, oh ya cause


that's that's true, okay ya, not having worries, is what I miss from childhood, ya ya not having (ppb) to think about, stuff, deep stuff, like the repeal of three seven seven A


Sing to the Hortons


like a peace moment of my life, when I got my PSLE result, but it's not really the happiest moment of my life it I was happy but


it it's like the saddest moment of my life also don't have, I don't have


oh well it's at Grand-Canyon, it was just like !wah!, that grandeur, I just felt so small


ya it does put like into perspective, like look at all these, towering mountains, ya lor


I guess the PSLE thing, and when I finish A-levels, I guess I'm happiest when I am burden free, when I am karaokeing (ppb)


oh-my-gosh, just want to be (ppb)


remembered as a kind, as a kind person who kind and selfless person, who would, sacrifice, herself for other people, and who lived her life with meaning


that kind of thing, ya (ppb), someone with no regrets


someone who did someone who did everything, someone who try her best lah, I guess


my grandfather, had no education, like and he had no skills, but he, and his mum died young


so he basically brought himself up, uh ya his father also died young, and then he, he worked hard lah to provide for his family, think he's a very admirable person, he's like someone who doesn't have anything but


gave every made something for someone and gave everything to his family, very good, he is eh, like he's the kind of person where I look at and I'm like I shouldn't complain about


what I don't have now because he didn't have any anything, and he gave himself everything, so I think he made a life for himself


I don't have any of my profs, any of the lecturers or something, ya I definitely have to be so intense, you need someone who inspires you


sorry, you , oh my mystery guess oh whoops, I want some conversation


Kim-Jong-Un, I want to know what he's thinking


Hitler, I would talk to Hitler also, I want to know what he, a lot of people want to know what they are, I guess I would talk to someone, who has killed somebody a serial killer maybe


ya I want to see uh ya I just want to know their psyche though what what were they thinking how did they feel what was, how are they, different, uh like are they deviant


if they are not deviant then like, okay next serial killer


for closure lah ya


I get it, myself ah


I'm not brave enough I guess, not confrontational enough, but I would want to be, more more confront


maybe not ya, assertive not confrontational assertive and honest, to other people think it will make my life easier, ya I don't too okay assertiveness


roll over me, Sweden


place where I, won okay I didn't win, I won a silver medal, in a floorball competition, I just join a random team in, another city, like we had to travel me and my senior had to travel up like four hours


to go play, like to to go play in a two days one night competition, ya we had to travel up four hours lah take the take the train, uh we won silver, in like team


that was fun, significance also cause I met my, the team in Loon they are all very very nice


ya very nice ya, very down to earth and nice people


oh okay, Brooklyn-Bridge, I was I was there also, so many tourists there though


why, companionship (ppb)


ya, for human connections, for the warmth, just like someone to talk, do lor, whenever you are


down


oh actually I like the that New York, like the favourite place that I've been to I like, musical, (ppb) the musical places also we have Broadway Broadway oh I love , I watched


I love it, it's so funny you should watch it, so good, it's so good, I got cheap tickets cause I went to ballot, I went to physically ballot so I paid like thirty three USD, it's damn cheap cause their cheapest ticket was ninety nine


and I was like , ninety nine no go (ppb), thirty three years one third the price, but first one is fine, it's okay though


ya it's good, I I think is good leh, like I could see all their facial expression so clearly and no one will block me in front


ya lah when me and him just went to, Lot One to eat and I was like I don't I don't really want to eat cause I'm not hungry then, uh ya like six years ago, uh it was just so boring because we had uh we had no topics in common


we had no common topics as well so, so it was just like awkward, silences, all the time which you hate and I really hate as well (ppb), (ppb) I mean other than that it was the other one where


last week lah when I went out with, it wasn't bad it was just like the, it was too it was too close, my comfort, if I feel uncomfortable then it's not


oh-my-god, did he say anything about it


did he say anything about it


oh this is so weird, he just sat there, oh-my-god that's so weird


(ppb) that was so weird, that's not really yay we have continue


you should buy one stack, shall we play the find the difference , oh what's this oh there's a free talk topic prompt, what's that, oh are we supposed to circle


oh okay


you know in this, (ppb) it's flailing, he's wearing orange shorts, with a yellow surfboard, okay so there's no difference there


left both left arm and like left leg are up


no, okay, no there's no sign, there's the white thing ya, no the station for it


beside there's a vending machine, there's a blue pet pet bottle it's a pet bottle, then green can, then blue pet bottle again, as in like black blue black


and it says push here, we are good at this (ppb), I think we are we probably are okay there's this grandma knitting


a red sock, okay, wearing pink, she's wearing pink, well it looks flat


with a like mildly green cap, and she's wearing specs, okay great , it's grey


yes, orange orange shorts lah, blonde hair, how many differences are there


okay, okay they are building are they building sandcastles on the beach, okay I don't know what they doing but there's, teenage couple , in the middle of the


with three seashells, oh right, and one crab, looking very annoyed, that they destroyed, his home, he's just crabbing away


and then there are like, brown rock, the how to count


impossible, spade and bucket, no, what the where


(ppb) don't have, don't have mine don't have, do you have a, oh left of the sign okay okay does the sign say anything


oh to the right of it, oh the the, oh that's a net oksy, does the rock have like yellow stripes, guy wearing blue trunks and the girl is wearing like white uh pink


uh what is there even (ppb), okay to the bottom, bottom left, there is a umbrella thing, what is that thing called again


the parasol yes, the blue and white parasol, with three flaps


(ppb) okay we're being very detailed I don't know, I don't know how detailed there are two chairs and one of it is blue white and one of it is just blue


it says shore forecast rain, sun, no have, oh, mine says rain


no I think we are we should do, does table have four legs, does the parasol go through a table such that the bottom of it sticks out


okay then there's a red sports car, with a toddler sitting inside, a toddler with three strands of hair, blue and green pants, and then the toddler it looks very stupid


the car door is open, oh this is very difficult oh twelve how many did we find one two three four five six, ya red car car


yes, peach juice, peach juice, the sign above it, mine says peach juice


oh okay, ah there's a drink and, mine says peach juice, how you know it's peach juice, I just know okay


okay then, Tom and Paul's Cafe, okay, they have like a seahorse on their door, on the right side of that, no mine is on the right mine is on the right side of one door


right side of the door sorry, (ppb) okay the window has nine pane nine nine panes, nine cubes whatever, the roof is mustard yellow, mustard brown (ppb)


okay the, how the cafe is green, okay never mind look at the boy


the boy has green cap, and a blue spade, and there are, four flags right, three red one blue, yeap, !huh!


near the shack, beside the shack, mine is blue, how many did we find one two three four five, nine three more


there's definitely something with the dogs the dog, is the dog grey, this is very sad dude


this is very sad okay what is the grandma sitting on, brown lounge chair, ya pink pajamas, ya


with four black, there's definitely only one the, okay is the boy kicking with the right leg, his right leg, ya it's lock


that is very detail, does the shack have a roof, uh what about the


have, two each at the each at the sides of the, does your net have like four holes in it, the volleyball net


the volleyball net, the beach volleyball net , that was the most meaningless, conversation ever


the net one that times four, the net one that, the volleyball net what net, one in the middle and then one at the right, okay like beside the rocks there is a there's there's water right


ya there is, it's very difficult, wait your lounge chair, the one on the left is


light blue right, okay then the one on the right is, my right tilted to my right


the angle is about , fifteen degrees (ppb), okay what was my what, oh maybe ah, three three on the right most are pointing right then the one on the left is pointing left


is your vending machine red


the hole is pink and red, the she seashell (ppb) the seashells right, that's like one bigger one right, one medium more than one oh yes yes yes okay okay let me circle that


does the boy with blue trunks have nipples, what's the color of his hair


again, green cap, oh you talking about the sandcastle boy, no is purple, yes, one of the thing that the the the shop is on is it pink


the stand the I mean the platform, is redder than the pink the grandmother's pajamas, ya beige beige okay okay we we got it, is always something about the car


yellow lights, passenger


does the boy has seat belt on, one more one more, last one last one


ya as the, confirm soccer dog umbrella, the dog has a nose right


is the boy a gay, nothing, (ppb) the boy is like doing this right, okay are there like flying are there flying lines


on the ball , like when the ball flies there like three lines indicating the ball is flying, your ball is not flying, my ball fly, ya


this is amazing, tried to ran yes (ppb), push here was once, short forecast, seat belt (ppb) fish juice


sea horse, we are so good at this, oh does the B why the ball not flying so annoyed I'm so annoyed (ppb), oh so his leg is, swinging backwards


mine already kick mine has already kicked, my one he already kick [liao], ya but I didn't ask like, it was true though when I ask him he will kick


confirm it will like confirm the soccer door parasol umbrella, that was very funny, oh-my-god


oh no I circle it, now the next person will know where are the differences, isn't it obvious look at the circle, eh good idea (ppb)


this was fun eh, I should do this, I should do this for party games, then everyone has to, enter as a couple and then after that (ppb) as in not as a couple but as a pair


and then the person who can do it the fastest, (ppb) you'll be surprised, win seaweed seaweed chicken (ppb), the best reward


circle it so hard, okay let's try their conversation prompts, the most controversial one


art and culture


okay for the name of the cafe, uh the thing the difference for mine is Tom and Paul's Cafe, okay that's the first difference, and then uh, okay then beside the cafe there's, uh on the other side that means opposite the


the boy there's a, there there's a standee (ppb) uh with the sign peach juice, and then in front of the standee, there's a red car, uh with, uh I (ppb)


uh with no, shelter, okay and then there's a boy strapped to the, car he's wearing a long sleeved blue shirt, and a green long pants dark green long pants, and ya, the boy with three strand of hair on his


and the car door is the door of the car is open


oh for mine the shore forecast today is, is rain


okay so on my picture it looks the same uh the, blond hair boy is, kicking the, the soccer ball, towards the, boy with, the green cap, and then uh just uh just


uh in front of them above them is a granny who is knitting a, a red sock sitting on a uh, beach chair, so the granny is wearing like a pale pink, uh night dress with


dark pink shoes, and she's wearing a blue pale blue bonnet and with a pair of glasses, then beside her is a, grey dog, which who which is sitting on the ground


torn and tattered, uh for my besides the, the net there's no sign, so is just a empty net, torn and tattered empty net


ya and in in the middle of the picture, there is like a shallow, pond, a shallow pool of water, ya and there's a red crab, beside the pool of water


and uh there's two, people sit standing there, there's a boy in a, in a blue, trousers is that no the blue, swimwear a blue swimwear


and the lady is in the pink swimwear, ya so they're looking at each other they're standing uh opposite each other, and like besides the lady there's two shells, underground, while besides the man there's one shell


on the ground, and then, on the man's right hand there's a, red pail and a red shovel


uh for mine if uh there's a the same similar shack, but there's no uh, there's no sign, and uh, the doors or or rather the windows of the shack is pad lock, and ya, and besides the shack there's a


blue, uh I would say rubbish bin, yes and on the other end there's a, vending machine, uh so the there are three drinks, so the first drink is a blue bottle, the second is a


uh the first drink is a blue bottle with black label, the second drink is a green color can drink, and the third is a black water with a blue label, and then beneath the three bottles there's a push here sign


yes similar that's similar, okay shall we consolidate the twelve difference so I think the first difference, is the, Paul's, Paul's and Tom and Paul's Cafe, then the, peach


uh it's not yellow it's blue, and then the rain shore forecast, and then how about the carousel is it blue and white, and open right, and then, two beach chairs are they the same in colour


similar, alright, then to the, okay you said that there was no, seashells right


uh besides the man but besides the girl there is, the sock of the granny, and then there's


the sign in front of the shack, the garbage bin colour and the push, once, how about the boy kicking the ball


ya is mine is the same with yellow hair, kicking the ball towards the, oh mine is he's the boy is mid air


how about the boy building the sandcastle, yes so the castle is uh looks like a square, okay with a door


is, yes and he's okay is the seat belt on, okay, alright that's twelve, okay we move on to the card game then let me shuffle


I have three younger siblings


and I'm, and I'm uh closer to the second one, yes, ya because we, uh we are closer in age, and we, uh spend most of the time together


okay uh, how important is marriage to you


so you have no plans to get married


I won't say that it's very important, as in uh, I feel that uh it's fine to not have children, because of course uh with children come responsibility, and at this stage of my life I don't see myself


uh having that kind of, uh ability and, uh, time and social, to to have kids


uh as this stage of my life I don't see the need, to get marriage I think is more of a societal pressure to get married, okay so this is catch and release so how do you know when, when to let go of someone


I see


oh a perfect date, I would guess maybe a nice dinner, I think the date is more important than, than like the actual, itself


I don't think there's any specific one as long as like both the person, enjoys food that is served, I mean if you're, uh close to the person enough


ya then I think I think that eating crab is a, is something good ah, so what risk have you taken for someone you love


oh so can I say that you're a low risk taker


I think it would be someone who is, not generous, with money, so for example like you know spending a little more on


uh, uh once in a while and then that person would be like, oh so expensive so expensive and then, I think that turns me off a lot


not say on me like rather to be more generous at times, and like, and spend when it's needed, uh and don't focus so much on the, money, so for yours it's


what is a deal maker, in your search for a partner, so mine was a deal breaker your is a deal, maker


I see, uh my closest friend


uh, or my closest friend is like my mum, ya and, eh I mean she has been with me since I was born so


she's like the closest friend to me, and what's the second part of the question, oh, because uh, she knows me the best and she will like give advice to me when I need it the most


ya, yes, okay next question late boomer


how would you relate if a close friend express his or her romantic feelings for you


then I see that you have very clear zones like friend zones means friend zone


, perhaps uh like volunteer like volunteering work, and work that uh, contribute to the good of society, yes


oh uh yes I have done like volunteering tuition, with hardware, so I went out to this primary school, like, like, like uh once every week


for about two hours lesson, yes


so for yours uh, tingling in your toes okay how do you know that you truly know your partner


so have you experience the feeling before


uh I have not been match make or, attended any blind dates because I'm still young, yes


uh, I mean you have to look at circumstances and like who ask me to go like if my perhaps like my mum, or like my closet friends, and then they ask me to go and they go along with me, then uh I will be more willing to attend such sessions


okay, I like so, what value do you bring to other people's lives


actually so besides happiness what else do you think you can bring to other people's life, well I do get that when I'm with you okay


well I think maybe he uh Winnie-the-Pooh because I I look like Winnie-the-Pooh and then uh, and I think Winnie , is a very nice character it brings joy to other people and it, uh is very compassionate


and very encouraging towards his friends and like, is like someone that I will like, it's a, characteristic that I would like to bring to my friends as well


so, how long has it been since your last, serious relationship


do you look forward to having, one, I am I think I can cook and bake quite well


like, , uh I think better than most of my friends like I can cook, a table of dinner, of like you know the simplest the simple the simple fare like you know


homecooked food and then, uh yes, yes all this, yes, uh so it's uh so it's easier like you just have to dump into the pot and boil the water


I make uh desserts as well like red bean soups, and green bean soup and jelly Agar Agar, and bake, ya bake I used to bake more when I was younger, now there's simply no time


for that luxury, ya but I used to bake more like last time, I used to bake like uh apple crumble like muffins


cookies, yes


well I see chilli crab okay uh, your question is uh what is the most inspiring book you have ever read


I see so you have read all the seven, books of Harry Potter, yes I am also a very very avid friend fan sorry fan of uh


Harry Potter and I have like rewatched, the movies like for about, for the fifth time I suppose like, every time I watch it was like uh Harry Porter movie marathon


uh, motto, uh I live, by the motto of


doing things that make, myself happy, and the people around me happy, like bringing happiness to them, and, and to


to not harm others lah and to do good, to, to do good whatever I can


alright, okay so for your question, what stresses or distresses you


I see then how do you not let the stress get to you


then how often do you meditate


!wow! I see then you have a very very good routine to distress, so besides medication, is there any other form of, uh activities that you take out to distress


uh I see but personally I would prefer to like listen to music, and exercise, to to destress


ya in classical music helps you to sleep better as well at night


one important life lesson, I think like uh let's go back to the Harry-Potter book, I will say that it had taught me, to, preserve in life, die


and to always have hope, yes so that's the two life lesson that I have learn, from Harry Potter, ya


uh, I think it'll be Harry, Harry Potter, I think all of us like uh everybody will meet with challenges and obstacles and then, (ppb) I think if we have his out his out outlook on life which is like to have always have to always to always have hope


and to preserve no matter what happen, and to believe in what, uh to believe in what you should do, and should not do, I think everyone will become, will be able to overcome their challenges and difficulties just like


what Harry did, K for yours, where is your true home


so your house would be the one that you are currently staying in now, how long have you stayed there for


I see


I see, what am I procrastinating now


and I think I'm procrastinating now on my work, like there are so many assignments due after recess week which is next week, and a lot of it is like uh there's a mix of uh team work, and individual assignment


and ya so after recess week there's like two assignment due almost every week, and, I'm just like procrastinating whether, should I get started


well I have I have started making the list, but I just need to change the list into actions, ya


well I hope so too, for yours, if you knew you could not fail, what would you go accomplish


well so which part of the world would you like to explore


I see, personally I would like to go to China, because of the dynasties uh legacies and also, uh, experience the cultural, and customaries there have been like


left behind by our, uh by the the ancestors, and forth fathers of China


uh a tie a an untidy environment, well irritates me off especially like, when I am at, when I am in a very stress, uh, uh I'm under stress, and when I say that the environment around me is


very very untidy very very messy, I would be (ppb) I would be very very, piss off


ya and then another another pet peeve would be there, then uh people uses vulgarities, all the time like I mean like it's okay if you use vulgarities in when you are in a, very angry state


of piss off state but, when if you use it as a common language not a common, if you use it, as , pub what do you call that kind, ya it's part of the everyday when there cooler


then it will be something that irritates me off as well and I find it very unrespectful, disrespectful the person that you are speaking to


yes, I agree, yes, alright so for your question next, what would you do if you won ten million dollars tomorrow


how long do you think ten million dollar can last you like how many days or like, plus how many countries would it be able to last you


I see alright, can you ask me the next question then, uh well when I was young I don't like doing chores


because I mean like all of us are young before like if something is really a chore, to do house chores, yes but I think as I age I'm, I I I think that I enjoy doing chores more, and I feel that as I do the chore it's a time for me to like


blank out my mind, to relax my mind and just like, focus on this like, mindless task, that I've been doing


I would say that my favourite chore would be, cooking, like cooking my cooking for my family, life uh like wiping up, uh a feast for them, well I also enjoy perhaps like sweeping the floor or like


and and hanging the clothes, my least favorite chore, would be to wash the toilet, I think that is something that, most of us, would never enjoy doing it


yeap, alright okay, so for your question if you could wake up tomorrow morning with a special ability, what would you have


uh interesting point of view, I see but what do you think is there do you think there is any disadvantage to, like having the ability to teleport, for example a lot of people like to spend the commute time


uh relaxing doing something else or even like catching up with their friends and the social media, what do you think about it


what personal trait I like most about myself, I think it would be my, unwavering spirit, to like, to take on every challenge that comes my way


and to preserve on, to never give up, and, ya think that is something that I I'm glad that I have, and that's something that I like the most about myself


I mean ya tough a lot of tough situation in life, so perhaps like handling a lot of commitments at once


I see thank you, alright so Halloween, what is the most important, lesson you have learnt from your parents


do you have any like examples or experience to share


I see, uh I enjoy having a good meal with my family


so most of our family activity is spent eating, so I I think that's also the only chance for for all of us together because, like having six members in your family is, it's really uh conflicting schedule


is really having conflicting schedule, so uh, when we can gather, uh it is usually through meal times, all of us loves to have like steamboats together


and you don't need a good like you don't really need to have steamboats only during like, the Chinese festivals like it's easy to prepare, you just have to buy all the ingredients boil a pot of soup, and then just, just eat


yup, alright okay for yours alias what nicknames do you go by and which is your favourite


I can see do you have other any other nicknames


so you embraces the nicknames that you have been given, the craziest thing I have


ever done, I don't think I've ever I've ever done anything that is crazy I feel that, I've always calculated my risk, and have always like deliberated, the advantages and disadvantages of what


I am suppose to do, so


I I think it's I get older, yes definitely I will take I think I will take out more risk, for example, uh taking on a career or job it's also there is always a risk involved in it, like going to a relationship there are risk involved


and people say that like marriage is a gamble right, so when you gamble there's definitely risk, in in it, so I believe that ya I think believe I believes that the study, it's true, in some ways


that as a person gets older, uh the amount of risk, uh it's a higher as well, alright for yours, is there someone at this table you would like to know better, or what intrigues or interests you about this person


well there's two table here there's only the two of us so I think maybe you it can be like, is there someone like in uh, in school or in class or in your social environment that you would like to know better, and what interests you about this person


well why do you find an interest in such person


like you said I see well then you should really find a time to, just speak to William, and


uh I think I would, perhaps, have taken a, a, gap year, before going to uni, to really explore more about my interest, and perhaps really think whether


uh if if the course is really something that I want to, pursue, and whether is really related to my future career I think it's more about like, uh making educational choices again


now I think I'll just go for a job like right you know Singapore education pride itself to be, like provide diverse, uh path for students of different calibre and different interest, so I believe that uh there's no need for everyone to pursue a degree


or certification a a bachelor certification in order to sustain in life but may this a, this is beliefs from the past that we should actually get rid off in the twenty first century, ya


K describe the saddest moment of your life


well I hope uh have then ever since tup-tup, pass away have you gotten yourself a new pet


well then have you forgotten about tup-tup


I think if my house caught fire I would rather save myself and, human beings, than an item, well if, hypothetically, there's really nothing, much that I can save because if it's a raging fire then the


first human instinct is to charge out of the house, and out of this fire, place


I think , I mean uh I think a lot people wants to grab like memories, I mean like it will be items that holds a great value great memories to them


but I think that uh in today's time, a lot of memories, can be stored like in the clouds, so regardless of whether you have like maybe, misplace your phone or your phone is


devound by the, fire you still can, access all these memories and valuable uh stuff, through technology, alright for you it's on Keith


uh what do you value most in a friendship


I see then what what other values do you, uh find in a friendship that you, cherish a lot


I agree with you I mean like, if for example if you are someone who love meat and your if you have a friend who's a vegetarian I think you'll probably, like be a lot of, trouble when you have to find, uh source of places to eat, yes


uh when did I last cry, perhaps like last month when I was watching a movie


oh no no not last month perhaps like last year when I was watching like Train-to-Busan, it was actually uh, you can say that it's a it can it was quite close and far because of the, , zombies


like eating uh and slashing and pile piling on each other but, towards the end it was very very touching and I think I cried a lot, ya so that was the last time I cried, how about you


it's me and my turn right, okay, alright so, when did you last have a truly conversation, or rather a truly meaningful conversation with someone, what did you talk about


how about, uh like do you have have you ever had a meaningful conversation with like, family members then what do you talk about


uh as of now because I am still young, I don't think so I don't think I will want to sign up with a dating, agency, and, I don't see the need to do so


well if I, if if I am really in my perhaps like, forty and I, want to be married and I want to, find a man in my life perhaps, but if not if I am okay if I am fine being


like alone and enjoy and enjoy solitude I don't see the need to sign up, okay, influencer so which of these symbol best describes, you, a minus sign a plus sign


a multiple sign a divide sign or an equal sign


how about the equal sign because the equal sign is too flat, lines as well


if I've only one more, life to live what would I change about my life now, I would say I would, flip down all the stressful time stressful stressful activities in my life such as like studying


and working, and taking care of my, taking care of like people, I would, put all these down and, truly truly enjoy what I like to do for example like drawing, watching movies


singing, watching musicals ya, but that also the assumption that I need not worry of, worry for the finance


I I mean like I feel that, everything is planned out in a way that, uh of course uh I would get to enjoy some of these, activities, but as long of I don't really get to enjoy them because of all the, stressful


and mundane activities that I have to do everyday, so if uh if only have one year left to live, of course the priorities would, be to make myself even happier and to maybe enjoy, my life in the remaining one year


and doing things that I feel that is, beneficial, to my wellbeing and beneficial to the, uh society, so last supper, for your last meal


what would you eat and who would you eat with


so, , how about , what do you think would constitute a, perhaps who do you think will prepare your last meal


I see okay, uh my top three children names, I think I'm quite, uh traditionally I feel that my children would have Chinese names


with like the middle character which is the same, uh for English name because personally I don't have a English name, perhaps they could have more uh unique


perhaps unique spelling of the name, like I've seen some, uh a lot of unique spelling of a children's name for example, uh uh, spelling like, like Giselle instead of the usual way of G I S E


L L E like Giselle was spell as like G E R, C E L L E, oh the adoption of like mystical


characters name for example like, or like Seraphina, so, like or there's some more like I think like unique names that perhaps I will consider for my kids next time


I mean uh, such uh unique names actually, create a strong impression on others


like I can remember their names like till now like Dewdanie, Seraphina, ya so I feel that unique names have have it's own good, ya


I mean like it could be you have to look at the times like uh gone are the days of like Jane and Sarah, so there's now there's Dewdanie, but like what do you say perhaps because trends are always like revolving, so perhaps like


ten or twenty years later like Jane and Sarah would be more popular again, like, to like you know, differentiate your child from the rest of the, people


I think definitely like things that we do are based on the times we are in even the way we dress the food we eat the hair style we have, it's always due to the trends the current fashion, style, the current, fashion norms


ya that's acceptable by society in this phase I mean like you can't be like wearing a Victorian style, like dress now, or you can't be wearing a retro themed, uh I think a few years ago but then like this, this two years retro uh theme is


very very popular you see the pleated, skirts again you see the, curl the curly hairs again the, big and bright red lips, uh now ya


alright so not all that glitters is gold so what is your most valued possession, and how did you come to have it


time for the for Chinese how bout our most valid possession that will always be like, intangible stuff like jewelleries, ya so I have also I also have a, a pair of golden earrings from my great grandmother


but it's under the care of my, mother , now, ya so it's also something that like you will look forward as in I would look forward to passing it on, pass to my sister or my nieces


well there are a lot of embarrassing moments in my life I think that, the most would be like, tripping in front of people, tripping and fall in front of a group of people, on the way to receive a prize


I think that is very very embarrassing, uh especially when I'm just like in a, this is secondary school and then ya , like mean like secondary school kids lah we are all like concern with like, our pride


and our faces, ya I got back on my feet immediately and then I just laugh it off and told people that uh I'm fine, but actually like I'm not really very fine


and I just walk, on stage like stumble on stage to receive my prize and then I just got off the stage like quickly, like ya


yes, okay, crash and burnt, describe the worst date you have, ever been on, but like what you say uh I'm very unfortunately that you did not you do not have a date, so perhaps


uh could you describe the worst , outing you ever been on


then what do you think are the elements that make up a good outing


why or what sorry, why I'm why am I looking for a partner, uh, I'm, not looking for a partner I I


my goal for the future is to be an accomplished, uh, accomplish person in my, field of career, and to be able to , take proper care of my parents and


to keep myself healthy, and to, contribute positively to society to perhaps that, the philanthropist work or, voluntery work, ya, but I'm not exactly looking for a partner I personally I feel the


there's no need to, it's fine being alone it's fine living life like, uh, or solitude, and ya, that's my take on it, for yours Jack said


name a favorite place that you've been to, and what is it's significance


I see did you manage to see the northern night, the previous time


this sound so, amazing like I wanted I want to go there now, (ppb) I hope so


personal trait that I dislike most about my self perhaps maybe my procrastination, something that sometimes I like to procrastinate a lot and then it delays


getting work done and then after that I will go into a panic frenzy mode trying to get my own work, together like ya and it's a vicious cycle, I think procrastination will lead to a vicious cycle, ya so that's something that I dislike uh perhaps dislike about myself but


it's also something that I have to accept because it's a part of me


okay, mystery guess if you could have an hour long conversation, with anyone at all, who would you talk to


would you ask him to cook for you


but I always get amazed when I watch uh his videos like you know on how he like remove uh what's that a lobster, from the shell like this shell a lobster, or like how he cook uh the, Hollandaise sauce the scrambled eggs


well I do watch I I do watch the Hell's Kitchen as well, and I would have to say that he's very very like, harsh, and brutal yet honestly, brutal, ya


my hero, is, my, mum, I guess, like I mean she is a hero for giving birth to me, and my three younger siblings


ya, and then, and then, and, , uh she's a hero lah basically, uh trying to bring us up and


providing us with education feeding our stomachs and, uh making sure that we grow up well, and receive the opportunities that we should, be receiving


sorry, ya yes like she will teach me, uh value such as like it's okay to be, uh at the losing end sometimes it's okay to be taken advantage of


uh but we just have to, be smart about deep intelligent about it the next time and not make the same mistakes ever again, but she encourages me when I, uh make a mistake and I fail my exam and she she will


encourage me to do better the next time and, she and don't put so much stress and pressure on myself, okay how do you want to be remembered


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