will be that like we are, we like cleanliness, ya but that's because she inculcated that in me because, she's that kind of like you know my house is very clean one so you know, there's okay now you know now you know my house is damn clean is it doesn't have a lot of stuff


ya so very, uh uptight about, about neat, how neat the place is or how clean or whatever lah so it must look very spick and span one, so I in my room right, I I go about I have this rule ah where


you buy two throw three, ya ya ya so if I buy something I must throw away something so I don't okay lah no lah but I, but for example you buy clothes right so you I will sell away the clothes, I will sell before I buy something I I need to sell something like I will try my best to sell something away


to clear so you have more spaces so so it's just it's a whole thing about minimalism, so my room right it has like it has only a bookshelf, my bed, and a table and on a table right, there are just like it's just very clean one there is nothing other than my essentials like tissue box


and then all like the face facial care and then the hairdryer, and that's all so, , I can, care like you know


like it's just not not cluttered like you know actually a lot of my friends right, their house, their room are so crazy messy eh let me show you I can show you a picture but you can go on talking first, you can tell me about your room let me find the picture


is it I see your desk, your desk so many things, oh that's true, ya


is it, which is, okay I I guess, wait wait wait let me okay you go on first, ya sure sure, aiyah need to find the picture though where is it is is damn crazy aye I


I think when you see it, my room ah I can show you my room but wait I need to find the picture cause I've so many pictures, but hers is really another level, I think I've never seen something like it


but ya I like the, uh because she she send it to me, and she was damn proud of herself, oh-my-god I hope I didn't delete it because it's very epic


it's it's very, my God I probably deleted it, but I think we need to keep talking, okay, ya desk ah, okay


I, I cannot find it but, oh-my-god but I should find it leh cause I really want to show you, it was a it's a before and after picture, of her very horrible desk


after it's also not very clean but she she tried lah because the before was damn damn crazy, oh-my-god where is it though, oh I thought I have it maybe I deleted it , okay nevermind


every time you find your dad about what, your dad doesn't like


correct so he just say only, ya, oh wait so your dad doesn't do the housework one, oh okay


my god my dad hor if I can complain about my dad right, my dad hor doesn't even know how to okay, he eh he doesn't even wash his own cups, that is ya he just put in the he doesn't even put it in the sink he drink already he just put it there


is that bad, is as though he has no arms like that no hands like that, it's very bad right, you little shit how could you do that so bad, uh true lah I mean don't need to


ya okay I you know what I cannot find, so I guess it's in my com


your dad can, okay !wah! your dad can, (uh huh), okay


can lah can lah, oh-my-god one break up reason ah


oh-my-god, I have a lot eh, but okay I can give you a list ah, about what most ah, I think I cannot stand those like break up over little little things one, those people who just break up because they


they like oh okay lah then again maybe maybe it's a really bad pet peeve ah, (ppb) but things like oh-my-god okay so like my friend, she didn't break up with this guy lah but she


she just dump him because, he was wearing something that she didn't like, she she was, !huh! she's the same age as me, then she, they didn't break up is it so she was dating, they she was dating this guy then this guy he was wearing so on the first few dates he was still okay wearing very nice because okay this girl friend of mine


she's one of those pretty then very , no no no she's not uh but she's the kind of, she she cares about her appearance a lot so I guess like she cannot take guys who are just unkempt, or just have very bad fashion taste


so for this guy on the fourth date or fifth date, uh he actually wore a brown checkered shirt, ya, ya a brown checkered long sleeve shirt, I have no idea how brown is brown lah but [orh] you have ah


ya you show me first ya and then, and then she you know halfway through the date right, she wasn't even half way I think she just texted, uh my friend and, with what, I guess


that kind of brown like dark brown one it's not it's not that kind of light brown or what ya but it's checked and she hated it so much right, half way she sos my friend, she like eh eh can you pretend to call me so I can leave like pretend that I have a family emergency, so that I can Zao from


from this date, and after that she never, correct, ya but is so is just this one thing that turn her off massively, then I'm just like !wah! shit this is so, and then the way she say it was as though, as


as though it's a big deal ah as though is like !wah! as as though he has no other shirt, that kind of thing but no what that's not the case what it could be he really doesn't, have any idea and and I guess I think she just didn't like him, also lah


but that was one reason that's damn ridiculous, ya I as it it wasn't a break up per se but, but I guess she will break up with someone because of this also lah, ya your turn you can go one by one like that


ya, (uh huh), !huh!, [orh] ya okay, softer


must it be a mutual thing or is just a one sided one sided, like so so it's a one sided thing one person say is okay I don't have anymore, feelings for you and you break up, it doesn't matter as long as it's


actually ya this is a reason that I, ya I agree ah, I I think is very, , very <UNK/>


rainbows and unicorns ah, ya, ya, eh that's true what


(ppb) but anyway but I agree I agree I agree I actually agree, I I, actually ya this is a very annoying, annoying thing lah cause, you think about it right let's say you get into a marriage to this person right you gonna see this person for the rest of your life eh


and then how it's gonna be, how it's gonna be interesting forever then if you need that kind of interest right, you need that kind of spark all the time you better you jolly well do something about it right is not like, if not you had to keep changing partners, right


no feeling already, your friends ah, ya okay, I got hear also like


no feeling then, but the heck feelings, feeling I mean is a choice I believe is a choice, till we, is, you choose to be with your partner what I mean I feel that people who said this right are those people who just, maybe found someone else


that they prefer more or like they have a chance with one, I mean I cannot stereotype lah but and I cannot generalize but, at least in my circle I have those people, who said they have no more feeling right, are those who after that


who ya, they they found someone else, which one which one


yes, yes, yes I think you never tell me ya ya ya okay okay


ya, ya


ya, why, okay


okay, interact


suppress, his parents


like not interested lah ya


ya ya my mum !wah!, yes, okay


never mind never mind I think it's fine


upset, (uh huh), drama, so drama


reconcile


holding on, ya, !huh!


a break a a a, a time out, ya


like to forget him to at at least distance herself from him, correct, oh-my-god


oh shit, but that wait wait but that is so sad eh this guy ya, okay, ya and then ya


okay, ya, and I ya


of course, break up


ya, ya, yes, ya


ya, ya okay that one you told me


ya, ya, oh-my-god, how long already


happily, you don't eat where you shit, most of the time like in the same clique right because, oh-my-god, I'm more shocked about the, actually ya lah Joel is okay lah Joel easily like


I'm ya I'm shocked at them getting together like, three days after he broke up with the ex, like, I will think that the girl is I would think that Wen-Fei is, no girl code okay ya


ya, ya ya, ah lah !huh! funny ah !huh!


can't wait to see my girlfriend leh eh, his friend lah


address <UNK/> !aiya!, but if it were me right okay let's say, let's let's say you don't really know them right if you look at the situation like that he's an asshole leh, I would think that he's not very like imagine we were the ex


how can you get, !wah! is as though is as though he cheated on her way before already and then the Wen-Fei also, sounds like a girl who like didn't have a like girl code is like


is like you know that this guy is attached then you still go so near or, is quite disturbing eh ya it's quite disturbing, but they were together for eight months only is it, okay is not is not, okay lah that's true that's true


!huh!, (ppb) but he's okay right like, (ppb) as in but okay wait did the ah I'm just curious whether the who, been how


told the ex about this issue, the issue about like the cannot hold intellectual conversation, what, then what reason did he give the ex


ya but he doesn't , correct correct I know, ya, ya, how did he even and the parents like oh so does the new parents uh the new parents the parents


does the parents like the new girlfriend, okay ha, but her !huh! I I cannot deal with this kind of thing eh I I I just think that it's so, okay my my my friend is also like okay she <UNK/> lah she


no she she, so she was with her ex her ex was a female like so she they were together for like many minute, Yong-Han Yong-Han <UNK/> the, the one with the guy the lamb chop guy ya ya so she apparently she okay so she cheated


I would say she cheated lah on her ex which is the girl right, then they were together for damn long five six years also and then, jc until now until that time lah until the point where they broke she got to she met this guy right with current boyfriend


at at work, so she was doing some like ad-hoc event and stuff, then she got to know this guy ah and this guy just talk to her and, ya then it was then that, yes, yes, yes so


so, ya then after that they start talk talk talk talk talk and the more they talk the more like she realise that she has, she has no more feeling, for the ex, which is like bullshit lah to me is like bullshit really I just think that , how can you, how can you do that to your ex is it me like


obviously it was you cheating right like you cheated on her and and, and now you say you you just use the excuse like no feelings and all !wah! it was damn sad, then I just think that, I just think that like lah a lot of people don't know how to appreciate relationships you know


I I don't know eh, ya take it for granted lor but then, companionship ah


how did she, she just tell, her that like no feelings lor no more feelings ready and I wanna break up, and she was very nonchalant about it eh the girlfriend so in different that's the that's why I say I feel that people who use this excuse right, they already found the <mandarin>下一春:xia yi chun</mandarin> they already found the next person already so that they don't feel sad what because


they know that there's someone else, waiting for them and she's interested in someone she totally, she you can see she lost interest already because there's someone else that she can displace her interest onto what, so, I thought that that was very, very meh ah my friend and I but but I mean


ya like like Joel like that lah because he's your friend right so you just, you don't agree but you you also don't say much, ya cause she's still your friend or he is your, but then damn annoying, the ex ah, like damn sad lor she even like


she even tried to keep meeting my friend, like uh want to try to patch back because after all it's not a like, it wasn't a mutual break up what it was a one sided one, but the thing is it failed lah she didn't uh


ya it didn't, correct so, it was so sad, I I think it's them, I cannot imagine my boyfriend break up with me actually I can ah I can, like I can imagine because this is such a common excuse


not for another girl he wouldn't break up with me for another girl lah, I I really don't think he will break up with me for another girl but he will I'll I will think that he will break up with me because, but he's that kind of very


insecure a bit uh, then not say he's he's easily pressured I got tell you before, easily pressured lor, uh is it okay so for example right I'm thinking right, that I'm I'm very scared of telling now I'm very scared of telling him how much his aunt is texting me


cause you saw right, you saw how much the aunt is texting me right but, I what no no no uh that's fine that's fine but I don't dare to tell him, because I'm scared he will think that like oh-my-god like, he'll overthink he'll start to


correct, he'll take it seriously everything right oh-my-god so, oh-my-god I really, you know you know you know yesterday right we were, watching the Yan-Xi show right, that was when okay you know we play games right never mind eh we play games


you know when we play ball games right when he go so crazy right like shoot shoot shoot shoot shoot think, think about all the you know when we play Resistance and Avalon right he think far far ahead in front of all of us eh, can you imagine he we played six people what but he was the only one who like went, way ahead he's like okay uh mission fail already like uh the the person this person fucked up


or like the the bad guy fucked up in the first round or uh in the second round never, he should have done this done that uh you know because, and then I was like !huh! nobody can keep up with you because we you are too fast already you think too fast and, and yesterday was when I really really think that


I really really felt felt it lah, like usually in games you just play and just don't know what he's thinking right, but yesterday in the show, (ppb) so I will tell you a bit of the show ah you know what happened like apparently in the show so, the the so the lady right she was the <mandarin>女主角:nu zhu jiao</mandarin> right the female lead she was


she was, trying to she was trying to uh, hide how is it hide she was trying to, harm uh not harm lah she was trying to take revenge lah on this girl on this fellow palace mate that was


like who kept, who kept, doing things to harm her and because she want to take revenge, so, my boyfriend, he just said, he just said things like I know what gonna happen already like I think that


uh this, like, this girl she okay so that is A and B right A and B are bad, so C is the good one lah so A and B are bad then, apparently, C went to threaten A right, saying that like uh went to threaten A that


C is the good one ah ya ya C is the C is the the <mandarin>女主角:nu zhu jiao</mandarin> okay so, C right when to like uh, she went to threaten A, uh because A A and B they all want to harm her cause they jealous what correct so, she went to threaten A and then


uh A became very like a bit she looked a bit submissive a bit scare because she threatens her in the in sense that like, she was very aggressive ah like C was very aggressive towards A, so, like force her to eat like the meatballs like really pour it down like <UNK/> you know that kind of thing very very aggressive ah so


I will eat that so A was really scared, and she was a bit she doesn't dare to, fight back any anymore doesn't doesn't dare to help harm her anymore, but B right is the ignorant one, like she still continue to want to do all the, small small thing to ya


and then, so what happen was ah, A, so, apparently B is still trying to harm A, by like trying to insinuate something lah that she is pregnant so you know when you are palace maid you want, you cannot be pregnant right cause you will be you know like kind of stuff then


after that, my boyfriend you know he said he said that, confirm A right , A, is actually helping C, to trick B, into , ya ya he talk exactly he suddenly went like A is helping C


uh like in tricking B right like they all A is the A is the one who got, who Kena, like who became very submissive a bit submissive one, but, I look at the show I was just like oh no B is just gonna like date like is just like gonna be, what already cause what happen in the show right was that


C was gonna lure B into her trap lah like the good one was kena lure her to trap so then she can does, die like treat her like that, and then, and then, my boyfriend just went like, another level eh <UNK/> B was gonna help, A I hope B was gonna help C


in tricking, B, ya B into something ah but the thing is but thing was, I I thought about it I was like, it that that can be true, but but where got, I don't think they will be so it will be so messy I don't think will be so messy but he actually thought of that


and then he he was like I think it gonna to be like that like he it was just very intuitive to him, exactly, I I, I mean if you look at the show like that right you you go along with the flow right it's not that, difficult it's not deep one it it as in


the yes will won't ah, correct it's very obvious the signs are that B is gonna to die lah you know what that but he just, he'll go that ya he will twist it himself eh, then I just, [orh] so so <UNK/> like like why


I wasn't annoyed but, I was just, I I you know halfway through the show I just, started thinking about him instead of my the show because, because


is very scheming this guy is damn scheming like is is I'm I'm getting first hand, experience, (ppb) maybe vicariously lah through like you know, I see him the way he (ppb), (ppb) !wah! but, , he's just damn fast [orh]


and is another level leh I I, I'm like, why you think so far it's just a show and, in the show is very obvious that A wasn't trying to do anything A wasn't trying to help A wasn't trying to


but he say that ya A is just bad then, as in she's trying to cause she's scared so she became very submissive but she still bad but she it doesn't mean that she's trying to help, C, like it doesn't mean she pakat with C and like what, but he will just think ya they're together and like, eh is confirm like trying to bait them what what what bait the B to do what what what


damn scary sia I I, I look at him and I'm just like !walao! what I don't know what you are made of, I really have no idea, ya


damn crazy eh, so he play games like that never mind ah but I think it, it will extend to me also I'm pretty sure it it extends to me or like his own life, (ppb) where he thinks he overthinks about stuff


but he's , [orh] you know there's something about my boyfriend that I need to say also he's also very, ya so this is sensitive lor, so no, he's very sensitive because after he said that right yesterday I just, like I was enjoying the show


(ppb) and then I just like, I just went a bit maybe I went a bit quiet lah but I I try to not show it because, I try to I was still smiling and all that, !huh! ya I was just thinking processing kind of very slow mah so I need to take time to process what the information, but


the moment, like he just suddenly turn to me right, then he say are you okay, I damn scared leh, I was like I still not scared I was like !huh! , I was like this I was like [orh] no ah I'm like the show is enjoying the show ah


you didn't know there's something wrong with you he's damn sensitive you get what I mean is, he knows that he then he he says I know one, I know I know there's something up with you what why you don't want to tell me why you don't want to tell me okay he knows something wrong something's wrong but he doesn't know what it is


correct but I was very I was trying to be very very sure that I wasn't, be normal ya like I I just like smile I thought like there was no change


but to me I think other people like the aunt still continue talking very happily to me and all that and I still reply the same way but, he just say what why you don't wanna tell me what's wrong with you I can tell, uh I can tell from your face like that you are


damn scary in a way right, as in I'm not bitching about my boyfriend ah but but , (ppb) I'm like he's damn sensitive he's damn sensitive, correct but I I would just think that you know most guys they will just watch their show and do their own thing


correct they won't be thinking about you but he'll just suddenly look at me and like what's wrong with you are you okay like not the what's wrong with you it's the, ya are you okay, like are you are you unhappy, but I was just smiling


frustrating hor, as in for me lah I'm like, correct is it I cannot act well or, or is it he too sensitive, but the aunt all these the aunt and uncle they didn't


they just continue watching also what they didn't say anything, which makes it damn


no lah later


because it will vibrate right, [neh] like the you know, no is you remember Celine, is her phone, is her phone that vibrated


oh wait, eh was it yours or what, mine also have mine also have because I remember, I was in the [neh] is the stuttering one lor, ya


ya but, ya so I was damn, can you imagine such a, okay lah I still got other reason back to the question right, other reasons that then other reasons that other the bad ya that you cannot stand


break up reasons like, like what ah I would think, other than the superficial stuff right like too fat too what all those are just, those are just annoying okay those are just freaking annoying


uh like no feelings or like, actually would you accept like if someone broke a promise, depends right, there's some people who are very


very, particular about this kind of, the promise, my boyfriend is eh, ya, as in but he he doesn't like he will just say I promised my friend that I will go over to his place


has ex, has ex I prefer a guy who has ex, compared to, ya I but my idea is that like because he would have something he would know he would know what he wants, and what he doesn't want, hopefully lah hopefully


which one, why


because he's a PRC


ya, trivial, okay, but they are together for six to seven years, what the heck


ya, ya, you cannot say no, ya, and that was the end lah, he never tried to chase her back


oh-my-god


ya, ya joke


they stop ah, ya, ya, joker


but what did she, did the Sherlyn like, like get angry at her or like she ignored, but did she show it to, the did she tell to


[orh] then she left the clique, at least can be as in with you all


from a, oh-my-god, okay, happy ah


tone down ah, talk one, but ya


bubbly, really


eh mcp like that ah, male chauvinistic pig, I can't ya I don't know if he, like <mandarin>大男人:da nan ren</mandarin> very , ya


!huh! he has the he has the, what the heck, ya


they got together until uni is it, army oh-my-god okay, controlling eh


ya, ya


it's about the trust ah it's about the trust and security, mature, more mature, then how did you all get in the same clique oh cause he from China


but he has a Singaporean, he just Singaporean basically ya ya ya, !wah! I, so but so you're not in touch with Sherilyn any


friends who are girls


no right it's mine also what, the only close girlfriend is you lor, the only close girl friend, who is a legit girlfriend is you already my boyfriend also eh


good good don't don't try to get anyone


okay, okay, oh-my-god but ya this a very, funny thing I don't know, whether like my boyfriend is, scared that because like you know he think so much right I'm thinking if he's actually scared that he is


that he doesn't get he doesn't , dare to get close to female friends or what, ya, but I I don't know lah maybe that's not uh you know, like, but that's just me just me maybe it's just me overthinking also


ya, don't have that's the thing, don't have ya, so I also I'm not very sure, I'm not sure how, no


ya so why doesn't he have ah, ya then, ya you tell me tell me, ya ya ya ya


ya why ah why they break up, ya


in Singapore, oh, relationship, ya


ah so smart, hello okay can, or in the airplane, okay so I ask him about


uh eh where did I stop, Jason Jason ya then after that like I just ask him lah then, then he just say oh like


what ah, shit I can't remember what he say but he, he was, on his story yes easier to see, so okay later then I tell you about Joel so, (ppb) uh ya so he #jun sheng# was together with, #Jun Sheng# was together with his, girlfriend for seven years


then the girlfriend, okay uh #jun sheng# story also quite interesting, ya then I tell Joel eh is it the the year that people always break up, okay ya then after that like, okay you want me to tell Joel story cause that one a bit awkward


okay so I ask him about Joel lah okay so he started this story I don't know how it, go to that story but he say Joel twenty first party cause Joel twenty first party, very <mandarin>隆重:long zhong</mandarin> like, I mean very grand lah he held it in a hotel and stuff cause the mum working in hotel mah then he book the entire


not sea room, he Bao the buffet, so people come in he pay for each person, fifty plus ah one person, ya per person then obviously got room lah room is ya ya then he ya the buffet


crazy lah then was like, so, uh I don't know lah he just don't know how to spend money wisely lah not rich lah , so okay very side track a bit so I you know was planning my twenty first birthday, then you know I don't have any ideas so I ask him eh so how ah my twenty first birthday, like I don't want it to be so expensive but I also want you know people to gather around like celebrate together


then he said eh why not you just book this cafe that cafe, then to him cafe is like you know not that expensive already cause you know, ya he book the hotel, then after asking awhile I just gave up lah I don't want ask him already like giving me nonsense idea I mean not nonsense idea lah but to me is not practical


ya anyway so back to here then he was texting, like cause, during Joel's twenty first birthday party he and the girlfriend actually broke up already, ya like Joel and the girlfriend, but the mum Joel's mum actually invited the girlfriend over to Joel's birthday


ya then the worst thing is like even made them took a photo together like standing side by side, ya then like okay lah but okay they were, they broke up already but the mum will like but still can be friends mah ya the mum ready know they break up but still call her lah


ya then just take photo together then you can see the photo awkward awkward one I saw before, ya but not that awkward lah but you can see there is, not the close close the boyfriend girlfriend that kind ya, then after that, so I don't know why <UNK/> but this then after okay so you know twenty first right then


after that they went to the drink they went to drink lah, then after cause Joel the alcohol tolerance not very high one, so he was a bit drunk then #jun sheng# had to carry him to his room, (ppb) then #jun sheng# was like !wah! that night <ah Joel say so much stuff


so I actually ask !huh! so what he say then #jun sheng# say no lah that one cannot tell you then all the more you want to know right, I say what then I say, so don't worry I won't tell Joel one I will keep it to myself, then he say cannot lah cannot then I ask eh keep asking him then after that he say


actually ah that night he keep like okay the I forgot what is Joel's ex girlfriend name, uh CHUC, Chu lah we say Chu okay, then after that uh #jun sheng# say !wah! that night Joel keep uh calling the girlfriend's name like Chu then like want to see her that kind lah


like like miss her that kind, then #jun sheng# just like, uh like tell him like [orh] she's not around that kind of thing then like like Joel I think in his dreams he keep, I mean not dream when he's drunk he keep saying, then #jun sheng# say after the like the day after, then #jun sheng# ask


Joel eh you know last night what you say or not, then Joel drunk mah he says !huh! what I cannot remember, #Jun sheng# say eh you keep calling your ex girlfriend's name then after that Joel like !huh! really meh, ya lor then I think like okay I think what #jun sheng# is trying to say is that


like after that incident after even after they broke up then, Joel was like <mandarin>对她:dui ta</mandarin> I mean, ya still got feeling, ya residual feeling then I was like asking #jun sheng# so why did they break up, then I think I also don't know eh until now I also don't have exact reason but


ya I think because, when Joel was oh okay from what okay I remember Joel say from what Joel say is that when he was in army, this Chu, was very close to another guy, ya then Joel was like, I think that time Joel I think got tell her lah like ya like very close to this guy is it got something on


then someone he's in ns you know, then like you know insecure, so so he went to ask her then, she say oh don't have lah like is just, normal friend, like lecture buddy, that kind of stuff then Jarl was like okay lor like then, okay Joel is like how to say


did I tell you the the love language she's the act one, the you know, acts of service so he's really acts of services like because the girl is, because FASS then he's involve she's involved in the rec you know rec, that this done performance every year


for before the, before the term start, eh you never see before meh your NUS friend, like they will just in costumes and dances then behind got the props one, all your friends from NTU is it


no it's not Chingay but it's along that concept so you have to design, ya you have to come out with the props then using cardboard and paint, properly and dance also so is like Chingay like that


(ppb) ya okay wait, okay, cannot tell, ya just scare my parent


so okay so acts of service right so that this girl is involved in this, not my one so soft, oh ya so this girl is involve in this weird thing, then he ask Joel lah eh you want to eh not you want like


like want to come help me do the props, the what props head, then Joel say like everytime ns after ns very tired already but still have to go down to school and help her, ya stuff like that lah help her prepare the prompt I don't know whether he showing off or what lah


then ya [loh] then this kind of stuff then like I think is somehow also say that, like he still, I don't know <UNK/> comfort or something to to like the girl she feels that I think, sense of insecurity lah basically that this girl is very


ya then they somehow just broke off lah like, the girl wise you got say before but I can't remember what is it, I think the girl also fake fake like the girl also say there's nothing wrong, there's nothing with, like after they broke then like I think shortly after not shortly after lah but maybe after a few months


the ex and the guy got together, ya but I don't think from what Joel say I don't think it's like, there's something on lah, ya, I think ah I don't know ya


really got together and then I think still together now lah, ya then #jun sheng# like I think #jun sheng# is just trying to be a very good friend he's trying to say how good is Joel, that kind of thing then say what Joel won't leave you to the you know, if you got any problem he will confirm help you


cause okay cause everytime, okay never mind you can say yours say yours I don't know ya we are moving on to the another one cause okay, so #jun sheng# okay so Joel claims that he only has one ex, but I think during JC early jc, like he's I think he


together with another girl for a few months only, then like I I think I heard this from Joel or #jun sheng# lah, cause I got ask Joel again eh you really got one ex meh ya really then he say actually got two lah but the first one is like more


how to say she got depression one, ya then every time, in a depressive mood lah then Joel will every time try to, comfort her lift her moods up then but she every time try to distance herself away from Joel, then #jun sheng# like, trying to bring up a point again say see this is when Joel will will <UNK/> like stay like your side won't leave you lah


then he say until like Joel how good how good then I'm like okay can, ya I get your point note, ya noted noted then after that, ya then I think somehow just cannot work out lah like the girl is too how to say, too emotional and ya not needy she just want to distance her ya emotions


distance herself but Joel, keep wanting to you know get close to her pull her back that kind but just cannot lah like ya so eventually, didn't work out maybe like one two months or something ya, ya that's about it I think


!wah! #jun sheng# #jun sheng# #jun sheng# is also very interesting, so you know #Jia Wei# is the China okay #jun sheng# is also from from China so since young he's also, residing in Singapore lah like the both of the both of his parents are from China, so not so wealthy lah okay


the but the girlfriend is super wealthy like, staying Yishun okay but this girlfriend okay Sherilyn is, is wealthy but, #jun sheng#'s girlfriend is another level ya super wealthy then, eh not not that extent lah but you know very rich ah then the I think the the dad do business one then the girl


the girl also super high flyer one okay she's, she's in #Hwa Chong# then she's the pageant winner, pretty lah then I ask you all eh she pretty or not then Joel say no , ya !aiya! Joel like to, (ppb) no I ask him before I got show you right


then I ask him eh you show me which one you think is the prettiest in your school confirm have one what, then he showed me I never show you meh then I took a screenshot of this like FaceBook account, ya then, then no picture then I was like okay lor okay anyway ya then I think he


for Joel the beauty right is not the, not the common kind lah I mean he's the neighbourhood kind you know the, next door girl next door that kind of pretty not the pageant kind, and I see the picture okay lah also not my kind also not my kind of pretty


so I kind of understand ya, he rarely say lah, uh maybe a bit lah but he rarely say, that's good that's good


but everytime tell him eh that guy like handsome , ya ya ya can can can


other girls are pretty, some more she's quite sensitive right


ya somehow get affected lah I mean, don't know, I think also the way that maybe they say also


that's good, ya ya, I think will leh, unless, unless our, like I see a pretty girl then I like eh that girl quite pretty right then he will like, [orh] like not bad lah that kind of thing then I was like [orh] okay lor


ya I asked like he never, ya he won't say he won't, ya never ever eh not that I recall, right, confirm got say a lot of time ah


but they I don't know whether they are affected leh do you think he's affected, oh ya hor, I think some, somehow lah I think Joel also, ya you also handsome lah


oh ya okay so the girl very rich, and very smart very pretty apparently cause she go pageant and win the pageant, so she go Oxford and study law, very smart, and she how to say the, when she talk to people


his first ex his, his first ex and this #jun sheng# girlfriend are good friend, they very buddy, ya study law, ya they they very good friend so they, the conversation that they talk is very intellectual one like very high level lah


will talk about politics that kind lor that kind ya, ya something like that lah ya, then it's just another level lah, but ya lor then, #jun sheng# okay #jun sheng# we still talk about okay because #jun sheng# and Joel when they meet right they still talk about this kind of politics


ya so okay wait what was my point okay so this guy is very intellectual very smart, then okay so #jun sheng# that time he is still in his ns mah then he feel very pressured lah like, like the parents don't like him and like you know the family background so different they are so rich then he's so


average or even below average lah because their both parents are from, China and like they they do those like, ya lor the <mandarin>杂工:za gong</mandarin> that kind lah in Singapore, after that I think, second year on eh first year


first year end of ns or second year end of ns, then #jun sheng#, had the thought of breaking up with the girlfriend lah, ya then he actually talk to his very good friend Joel, about this then Joel just like, hi you must


#jun sheng# will think lah like when he come out and work, then will he earn enough, as compared to the or more than the girlfriend or on par at least, ya, ya cause the girl is also studying law, then he's like all all these factors lah then he very insecure


then #jun sheng# went to talk to Joel then Joel will like, hi must think carefully leh cannot like somehow, I don't know whether Joel said this lah but somehow hinting that don't regret, last time he, cause Joel also been in that state before like he, initiate the break up then somehow like you know cry cry cry (ppb) I think he cried that night ya so he was


the drunk night or something lah ya then, okay then tell #jun sheng# to think carefully before you went, said #jun sheng# also very pressured then, he really think damn carefully then, end of December or something then, he actually told the girlfriend that okay so there are various factors so when he went to Europe to find her then he feels that the girlfriend is very demanding very dominating cos #jun sheng# also don't watch those


play and, theatre shows, or those like museum or something lah, musicals or something, ya, and #jun sheng# ya, ya correct and #jun sheng# is like flying all the way there just to find the girlfriend and, but the girlfriend wants to


take the train or take the flight to another place just to do the activity lah then #jun sheng# was like !huh!, but I also don't like, like can't you just do this, like another time or with another friend like who would also enjoy, and not when I'm here lah like we can do something else that kind of thing but


#jun sheng# also very okay #jun sheng# is also very <mandarin>照顾女生:zhao gu nu sheng</mandarin> one I mean very caring for the girl, then he will just like give in lah he will just okay lah but in his heart like, !huh! like don't want lah that kind but he just accompany the girl, so this is one thing lah I think the girl very dominating one


I mean understandable lah this kind of character family background ya, then #jun sheng# ya lor so somehow at the end of December and then, like he she didn't even know that there's something that was coming there's something wrong in their relationship lah like she thought it was


okay, ya he didn't express I think he got express that he doesn't want to go but maybe not in


ya then after that the girl like !huh! like very shocked, then okay so they broke up eventually okay the girl initially don't want to break up lah obviously like so long already then she already thought that they could work out, seven years, already some more ya, but in the end they broke up then but during the Chinese New Year okay then the girl say can we break up after Chinese New Year then #jun sheng# was like !huh!


the girl like want to, still spend the Chinese New Year together lah ya like together then #jun sheng#, don't get it lah like !huh! if want to break then just break why need to wait until after Chinese New, but I don't know what happened after that ya then they just broke off then


okay then on the flight with #jun sheng# right, they broke off already then I ask #jun sheng#, so now how like are you regretting your decision lah, he say now that he think about it like he, really he shouldn't have suggested to break up lah cause now he's like


he's working in Bangkok now like cause he study engineering he's working in Bangkok then he say, if it's a salary issue right there isn't any problem now cause he works overseas then, like he's now earning like six K plus


okay then ya then he's, he feels that he shouldn't initiate the, he shouldn't initiate the break up lah


ya then after that what ah, what happen ya then he then salary wise he can, you know on par already then he just, regretted lah but no chance already then I say, Melbourne you mean when I was in the same flight as him


I think he just graduated that time cause it's the grad trip of, #jun sheng# and Joel I'm just a holiday June holiday ya so they just graduated and


six months after they broke up I think, then he say he regretted then I was like then he like want to cry already then I also I like !huh!, ya but he say what did he say, ya he's like ya lor he's regret then after that I say, !huh! then I say will your girlfriend ask you you know some girls


cause he say initially the girl don't want to break up then I ask him, did the girl, do you know the girlfriend will ask you back for a patch up, or something then he say, he's hundred percent won't cause the girl very how to say if you say you want to break up she won't


ya won't go after you and a bit of like you know the face issue, ego ego issues ego and pride and the and her character lah #jun sheng# know that, he she won't turn back for him, then I ask #jun sheng# !huh! then you don't want to, try, then I think from #jun sheng# point of view even if he try like she also


won't lah wouldn't, ya, so depressing leh think about this, ya the CMB, ya


wait ah you can continue talking


ya, ya, but very sad lah very sad


ya then I ask Joel eh seven years like a dangerous year ah six seven years, then he say no lah his friend say two years, after two years can already then after !huh! okay is it


cause Joel really just, keep doing one then I'm like, ya ya ya doing things, sometime, like ya get stuff then will just


do what I want lah like, sometime you know I was editing my personal statement then I was like I was asking him to edit for me, then he even though he got a lot assignments he will just, help me and stuff like that


I think it's a good friend issue he say that's why Joel really treasure


this relationship lah he won't really , I think when he was young he didn't really think much ah then he just, you know easily say breakup, that kind of stuff like even though ya, they gel which is to say, can really tell that he really treasure you (ppb)


(ppb) then after that that kind of stuff then [orh] [orh] [orh], ya lah true, ya, !huh! why you should, go find his best friend where's he's best friend


ya lah true it's like it's like you won't purposely say lah it's like on the flight then I just, you know, ya say it together, ya, ya lah true, but Joel don't know my best friend I mean he knows my best friend but they never


talk before never talk before, cause she's in US, ya lah true


ya lah true see how it goes lah <UNK/> ya, just somehow know that, like quite secure lor like you know at least is ya for me lah, okay lah maybe not


I don't know, like , ya true, determine


ya true


okay, okay I will start first, okay so I have a nice picture, how about okay so on the


on the top, left, corner, okay I see a farm, shop, and uh in the farm shop it says, PEA shoots


half price, and then right at the entrance of the door, oh okay so that's one of the difference, okay so now at the entrance of the door I see a cat


and then uh so the opening door has a picture frame, alright and then as you enter, and as you enter the shop, you see a black blue bag


then next to the blue bag there is a I think is a picture or a painting of a, uh I think it's a magenta like purplish magenta colour, and K and then sorry but before that right, uh at the entrance like a window I see a picture of an apple and a pear


okay so that's the second difference that we have, now, what else do you see


is it just Sue or, Anna Sue where are you, okay so I don't have that, yes because mine says Anna Sue where are you, and then the girl


says nothing and she just point, that's the difference, is that two


there's a girl, three ducks, purple and green you call that purple lah


oh okay, okay so okay sorry ah moving back to the farm farm shop ah, just at the side of the shop right there is a picture of a green pea


there's a picture of a green pea, right at the side of the shop, no, okay so mine is just the green pea, alright, okay, so uh alright then just right in front of the shop I have a man sitting down


okay he is wearing he's sitting on a on a like mustard colour, tool and he's wearing a blue pants, and a striped, uh T-shirt which is brown and white with a red cap


and he's painting, okay then behind his paint uh painting canvas he has sheets of paper, sheets of paper, okay


right top corner okay, you mean like a stick okay ya


okay , okay, yes I have that


correct, and do you have a beehive, in the picture, which says nature trail there's bee and butterfly then, on the same line as the butterfly there's a beehive do you have the beehive picture


okay so that's another difference that we have because I have a beehive picture, alright, okay so you mentioned about the bush right does your bush has flowers on it, okay I have flowers on it I have, pretty pretty red flowers on it


okay, so that's another difference alright so what about the other, left


bottom left okay, okay, okay


ya, okay, correct


okay, okay, okay


and the okay, but then for the guy right who is he is he holding up his sack or his sack is down, is he holding up his sack or his sack is down, okay for the blue one his sack is down, sack is down okay fine


so uh along the side of the, of the, sand sacks that they are they are running on the sand right or sack, uh next to them there is a like a bowling pin


do you have the bowling pin, do you have a bowling pin uh like, two standing bowling pin and one bowling pin with the ball, nope okay so that's one of the difference right, okay


no I don't have that board, no I don't, we have ten difference ah


one two three four, five six seven eight nine only, how come you have ten


ya so is one, one two three four five, six seven eight nine, I think you need to count again your difference


oh so okay the difference is the board I don't have the board here, okay so there is another difference here, okay, so what other difference can you spot


I have two, you have a cat right you mentioned, there are, what does the shop says my shop says farm shop


oh okay, so the guy's hand is up or down, went up and the lady's hand, down, oh okay, are your ducks how is the ducks looking


are they looking in the same, three ducks they are looking at the same direction, okay, so, next, describe some more what else is the difference


have to crack my head now, let's crack our head, this is interesting


I am like lost


he is in green pant, oh you can't see the green pant, no I I can't see the pant


ya her hair is flying, flying I apparently feel that it's actually a boy but you may just made the male into a female, okay so you have edit


ya it's like reddish pink lah okay, green yeah, there children, and the boy is in blue shoes


uh you mean purple and yellow, uh striped right, ya striped okay and the guy is in red shorts and uh like a lightish blue, okay so that leaves that with one more different


and uh let's just, look you okay the sheep right one of them is having, eating grass its yours yours is not eating the grass, okay mine one of them is eating the grass


alright so, twelve difference you have spotted it, ya actually ya let's check, !huh! okay so yes tick tick tick yes fantastic wonderful


good job, okay so we can let's play the game now, so the cards, play the cards where is the card


we can't, uh uh how about we put it here


okay so let me shuffle the card, so how did he say that we are supposed to play this game we you, so you will take pick one card is it, (uh-huh)


you mean the answer is not up to mark ah, you will not give me the points you mean, okay cool, so how about you start ya how about


how, I know you want to start first to ask me question, what is the question


!huh! okay so, okay so the last I cried was I went for a personal development course, and, uh there was a segment where I was supposed to


forgive myself about uh some, basically it's a it it was an exercise where I had to forgive myself, and forgive everyone else who have wronged me, so that was pretty emotional for me and ya so


I went back flashback and there were some uh, incidents, that, came to my mind, and yes so that was when I cried but ya so that was the last I cried


so it was about last week exactly last week like about a week ago, mellow cry


alright, okay so thanks for the points, okay so my turn now, how well can you cook or bake, ya


oh man you can't, oh seriously you can cook, (uh-huh), oh that's so simple anyone can do that


did you bake for your boyfriend, oh, oh okay, birthday but the was the baking at home, okay


so uh sweet and savory, very sweet, uh is this your opinion or the opinion of a, the people that you have baked for


you mean too floury, good okay I'll just give you that one point, okay next your turn (ppb)


no there's no time just gonna think, important lesson, I would say uh, actually there's not one I they have given me a lot of lesson


okay from, mother, uh is better she's a fighter, but when I define fighter means not someone who goes out fighting, but fighter in terms of uh never give up attitude


uh with all the, difficult circumstances that life puts her through, always ready to fight and tackle every problems in her life, and face life with a lot of courage


so this is something that I really admire about my mother, sometimes when I am faced with a difficulty then I tend to wanting to give up, but then I try to, ~trength


by just seeing her and, uh telling myself that if mum was in this, uh situation what would she do, the never give up and always keep fighting


uh my father I would, he's very practical in his life


he's someone with very great vision and he can, foresee certain thing, so the important lessons that I learnt from him is, actually basically, X one but


he's always talking about, being prepared for rainy days, you should always so that's the so the importance of, having you know enough for yourself


so ya I guess that would be, thank you, okay, the question is, what is a dealbreaker


in your search for a partner, what is a dealbreaker in your search for a partner, dealbreaker means what is something


non-negotiable, what is something that is non-negotiable in the search of your partner


this is fun


no no no what is a dealbreaker in search for your partner, what is something that is non-negotiable when you are searching when you are searching for a partner


so you are talking


okay cool


so nah, three points lah


okay, chores doesn't needs to be household chores right it can be chores during ya, so , do I enjoy doing chores, uh it really depends on the kind of chore, if you make me do housework then it's a big no


I don't enjoy doing housework, ya so ya, and if, given a choice to do a household chore, then I would say


uh I wouldn't mind folding the clothes, so ya I'm just saying, okay so I wouldn't want to do uh household chores but, ya if I have to run errands outside then


I wouldn't mind doing, wouldn't mind running, uh errands for, family or friends, so like maybe


collecting something on uh, for them, ya I don't mind, uh maybe looking after my children my friend's children


but then if you if I it's


uh okay I shall change that , okay ya you're being funny here well then, if that's the case then okay the least favourite would be to uh vacuum the house


and then the, the chore that I will, most happy to do will be folding clothes [loh] that's it, ya, so come on give it to me


uh alright, next, now, how important is marriage to you, okay so extremely important and then go on explain why is it important


Netflix


!wow!, I'm shit I'm I'm like so


bullshit, okay, how come you have four cards and I only oh okay


my mother is my hero, she always inspires me in every way in everything she does, so , just the fact that she is a very, uh highly spirited woman


woman, okay who has never give up attitude, right always, always very courageous to face, anything that life brings her to, so ya I if there's anyone that I want to be like will be like her


I know I'm nowhere close to her, that's why I aspire to be like her, cause when you have a hero you aspire to be like the person because you know that you can never be like the hero right, so you aspire to reach


to be like the hero so, she is the, hero in my life uh or rather she's the heroine in my life, ya, oh !wow! for mother


ya, alright, what personal trait do you like most about yourself, yes, what is the


what personal trait do you like most about yourself, oh really


you don't have potential or you're not potential


is what you are from the inside, cold just, I never knew about that


!what-the-hell!, my saddest moment ah


I can ah, saddest moment to


okay the fact that uh I I will I will I will, there are many I have many sad moments but I will just, but uh I will just uh say something, uh so one of them that really made me sad was the fact that


uh I didn't get into NUS, uh for Law, because I really wanted


uh may not be I knew that I was not gonna be able to afford it, so so that was not the point, that that was not something that I could consider, so then I had to just give up the idea of doing a, Law study


no I mean Australia also had legal stuff I mean Australia also had Law school


(ppb) but uh of course, something that is on par with London, on par with London I I mean on par with Singapore, oh I wanted to go to London to study I wanted to I want I wanted to go to London to study, ya


but then London was expensive, so then I wanted to go Australia also cannot go to Australia, right because of finances wise, so in that way (ppb), I just decided to study in Singapore


and do an alternative course, ya, okay, next (ppb)


what are you procrastinating now (ppb), what are you procrastinating now (ppb)


oh, so, (uh-huh) okay are you overweight, okay cool


okay, so that's why you procrastinating ah exercising ah, okay I hope you'll get, moving to it and start losing some weight


oh !wow! thanks I'm waiting for the day


okay (ppb), the perfect day would be uh sitting by the beach, okay (ppb) and a meal prepared by my partner, uh and, so basically it'll be by the beach a meal prepared by the my partner


and then I have candles all around the area where I'm sitting, and uh, and a bottle of champagne, and it should be just me and him on the beach, I mean, like on the beach that means like


let's not get and you ask me it could be anywhere in the world right, so I could go to some ulu island and just sit by the beach and, and just be me and my partner ya, so that would be a perfect date for me nothing so fancy it can just be (ppb) simple cheese toast made by my partner or


something very simple like a burger or anything it's just that he has to prepare the meal for me with all his love, and a glass of I mean a bottle of champagne, and just me and him, the sound of the waves


moon, candles around, thanks, maybe you can just enlighten my uh prospective date about my ideal date ya


thanks, okay so would you sign up with a dating agency, would you sign up with a dating agency, why not


why not


ya that means you sign up lah not not uh Tinder ya lah basically sign up lah register, why


okay, then there you go, okay next


what's top three on my bucket list, oh !wow! travel around the world, okay, travel around the world


do something, top three ah, okay so basically I want to travel around the world right and in that travelling around the world


I want to do uh uh something, something very dangerous and wild, I don't know something that I've never done before and something I might be


probably like a like can give me the adrenaline rush kind of a thing maybe bungee jumping, that will be something that I'll be scared to do, that's one, okay and then uh, top three bucket list right so travel around the world and that will be one of it


to do something that gives me the adrenaline rush like uh bungee jumping, uh the other one let me think what would I want to do what will I desire to do


uh maybe, sit in a private island, and all I do in the private island is just read a book relax yoga, and just connect with the nature


one will be, getting out of my comfort zone ya


ya that's why I say then in that traveling to the world, that's the main thing so in that bucket list I have this one thing that I want to do this is the second, and the third would be, ya the so the traveling is the main thing


so the second one is the like you know in a private island, the third one I would want to have in the bucket list would be


to actually go, a very super third world country, uh live with them and really help


so either like, to build a school for them, or you know do something to, go there to see how I can improve their lives be it in any


what nickname do you go by and which is your favourite, what nicknames do you go by, so what are the nicknames that people call you and of all the nicknames which is your favourite one


okay petty BB, petty ya the


no, you must tell me what nicknames do you go by that mean you have to list down all the nicknames that have


Incredible Hulk


just just three, who calls you who calls you baby dinosaur


I've never heard your dad calling you baby dinosaur, baby elephant, by who, oh baby elephant okay


we know Dawn means, like you know, gangster leader how about Cheeketah


oh okay so you only like Fatty Baby, uh but I kind of think Cheeketah suits you very well, !huh! Cheeketah here you go , my favourite


okay, okay


actually ah, I have actually two mottos first is to be slowly and surely, uh because I'm a late bloomer, so I know that I'll definitely get to my destination, however long it takes, so uh


I believe that if I go slow and steady I will win the race, so I used to always tell myself slowly but surely, then uh of late I have also started with this, love the life you live and live the life you love


ya, so, slowly and surely is something that I've I I I I I console myself when I go through it but


but uh love the life you live and live the life you love, I have been trying to embrace that motto because I have to, uh I want to appreciate everything that comes in my life, good or bad


so what is the good again, !wow!, I think I shall put that in my , why I can put anything if I want


ya give me my point, hello, if you had one more year to live if you only had


if you only had one more year to live, what would you change about your life now, ya, ya, in your life right now


no okay so, is this what you are not doing now because you have to change something about your life now, that means something that you are not doing, and you would like to do it so that's the change that you wanna bring so it has to be a change , or something that you are not doing now or doing


that you want to change, so giving spending time with your family member would be something you will be do you do you do when do


okay so that is is that something that you would like to change, it has to be a change in your life now


okay very good I'm proud of you, my turn my turn my turn my turn, so mean


come let me see uh, no I want to see the question again


anyways so ya I would be of course shy, but I will be, I will be definitely be surprised and I may be dumbfounded, uh I may be speechless


not knowing what to, or do, if I also have mutual feelings if the feelings are mutual, then I would probably also express my feelings to that person romantically


however if the feeling, the feelings are not mutual, then I might need to think of a very nice way, to tell him


that I, I mean explain to him that, I really appreciate his feelings for me, but I don't see him in that way, romantically, however I'll be glad to be his very good friend


isn't that, okay, describe one important life lesson you have learn, from the books you have, like can have you read any books, I gave you one book and it's still sitting in your shelf


bookworm, oh !wow! I bet


is specifically says book, I knew that was coming because that's the only book I've seen


describe one important life lesson you have learned from the books, you have read apparently for you the question with from the book, not books


really, oh okay, and I think it's true that you've only read that book because that's the only book on your, that's the only book on your shelf


you didn't even read the whole series, anyways, anyways, uh oh your turn okay take the card


!huh!, okay, okay, my second relationship, and probably, ya lah, so going back to the time when I was in relationship with my second relationship


and probably I would have wished that I, uh battle, ~ter handled the situation properly, ya, well uh


actually both, because I felt that maybe I was not


very matured enough I was very clouded by a lot of, so I myself was some I myself got surprised that I I actually reacted that way, I would ya I think would be that because


cause I also didn't know why I reacted in that way, uh maybe, ya I I I I just don't know how to, put it in words but ya I would have probably had handled the relationship and the break up


in a, different way, ya okay my turn, if you knew you could not fail what would you go accomplish, so if you knew you could not fail in something


what would it be that you will go for it to accomplish it, so now you don't accomplish something cause you have this fear of failure right, but if there was no such thing as failure, and you know that you can accomplish it what would it be, oh and that is


so that will be something that you would accomplish, okay, cool so you get your three point, your turn, to pick the card


ah holiday destresses me so when I go for a holiday especially with my little petty baby, so, ya but, but then uh, and the photos are ugly, ya because the photos have to go up on Facebook and then we end up fighting


and then I get stressed like shit oh no I have the whole, journey to go through with this girl so, so uh, holidays, so my year end holidays are the holidays that I look forward to because I know


I have, fun moments, ya and uh my sister has just declared that uh I'm her best friend, so ya so that is something that makes me destress and stress


push your buttons, okay, ya, how do you want to be remembered


yeah, so, oh okay !wow!, puja, ah okay happy


!woohoo!


okay


one item, and what would it be, oh !wow! I don't same to be having anything, very price


that I would want to save, uh probably my CP my certificates, they are they are very dear to me because it's my education


and I really work hard for it, like what what what would you what are you thinking in my in your mind that you think I should I I


I have something that you think I could, no no tell me if there's something that you feel that I have something that is very pricey


oh I never thought of that why you so intelligent, but because I don't have anything that is very priceless to me at the moment besides my family member so if you say item I can't really make them an item right, if that was person then definitely I can tell you who are the persons lah that I want to


the people that I want to save, but if you are telling me item then there is nothing that I have that is, priceless for me, so at this point in time my only thing that I'm proud of for, that is priceless to me are my


so if I can save them from being burnt, into ashes, then I would want to save that, if not, oh could be my camera


I love my camera that's that's something that I really love, ya I know I can buy another camera but ya, whatever


how many siblings do you have, I love this, and who are you close to (ppb), !woohoo! I would let it's like, uh if I am not satisfied with the answer you are not gonna get the point


thank (ppb) ya be the genuine you


is that unfortunate for you


you say you are same gender and, because you share clothes that that's why you uh close to me, like I mean


it's your turn ya


just chilling, watching some, uh good old Hindi song, or a good movie, I apparently did that on, and me and mum and papa were watching


basically the whole family sitting down and watching TV in the house, or getting food from outside you know


there have been times where, uh we have actually all of five of us have sat together and, spoke till the wee hours of the morning and then we all went out for breakfast together and then we came back, so these are the kind of things that I really enjoy doing


ya, I feel happy when I do that, okay, what do you miss most from your childhood


okay lah, very innocence with you


special abilities ah, the ability to fly, so that I could just, fly to somewhere, unknown and be by myself, and then, when I'm done and then fly back again


so I don't have to buy air ticket and you know have all that thing, so ya the ability to, fly and, spread my wings and reach out for the sky, okay my turn


what do you value most in a friendship


so your friends being there for you always


can I see again is it, best describes me is it


oh best describes me !wah! this is a tough one, I would love to be a times, so that I can wherever I go I multiply, so multiply money multiply love multiply


abundance so uh, I would say multiply, because I would like to spread as much love as I can to the world, and sometimes when I do meditation also I spread, sometimes the days when I started doing meditation


I always spread the love there is a part where I say spread the love, uh as many people out there, ya so I would consider myself a multiplication, I was uh once a beauty pageant let's say


yes ya how it comes to that so oh, ah right thanks ya, thanks oh, (ppb) what is the craziest thing you have ever done, like you if ever you have one


ya, I know you don't have anything but ya just say something, is going to swimming pool


hiking in Iceland, going for a hot swimming in the hot uh the blue pool, getting drunk drinking and getting drunk, and vomiting


I think you have done that so you're laughing, so ya I mean I don't think so you have anything


did you, oh oh okay, that's the crazy thing that you have done, okay so running away from English school that's one of the craziest thing you've done


so okay you ran off and then what did you do, that's it, he call back


oh okay


!wow! sounds so fun !woohoo!, jumping off the plane


oh whenever I go for, it's okay, the happiest moment of my life


ya that was my happiest actually I was very happy because, I know I struggled a lot, to get my CPA qualification, so that was one of my happiest moment


and then uh, another happiest moment is uh, when I went to Australia with my best friend and I celebrated my birthday there with her


trip with my best friends and it never happen so we managed to make it happen, so that was also one of my happiest moment


okay then the, others other happiest moment was uh


my boyfriend ex-boyfriend, ya who decorated my entire room with balloons and, I never thought, I was not even expecting it, like when I came home and open the door and I saw the entire room filled with balloons and


now is there someone at this table you know would like to know better


is there someone at this table you would like to know better, what intrigues or interest you about this person, assuming that


is there someone, so is there someone in your life you would like to know better, and what intrigues or interest you about this person, ya so is there someone in your life that you would like to know better


and what is it that interest you to wanting to know about this person


okay


hello Dey, not I give one know


so maybe you would want to know how uh Cleopatra lived her life, do you mean Alexander the Great , oh two he's two ah


how rude, I think I bring a lot of value in people's life okay


I will explain the value, can you repeat the question , what value ah


okay, what value do I bring in people's life ah


I think I give pretty good advices to people, and in that way I add a lot of value, of course sometimes it's easier to advise people and then when it comes to your own application in your life then


it's not very good, so three values that I bring to people in people's life uh I mean or values that I bring is that, I give pretty good advices to people in in their life, in uh they can count on me


when they want a listening ear, or they need the help so this is the value that I actually add, I'm always there for people whenever they need me, be it in a good, or bad situation


so in sorrow or in joy I'm always there, for the people that I, love and for the people that, also just know me, ya, so that is the value that I feel that I I I know I bring in people's life


ya, thanks, so next, why are you looking for a partner


that's why I have to give it to you lah since it's you, but no seriously why are you looking for a partner, oh okay tell me something about your partner then, no but because now you why are you looking you are not looking so you have a partner


so what is it that you like about, what are you looking for in a partner, ya, ya


!wah! first thing first ya, he has to be ambitious, okay he ya okay


responsible


and not total lah, a family man and he has to be ambitious


but are you worried of him being too of him being ambitious and, he might just, you know when you are ambitious then there's certain things we have to let go like you know spending quality time with you because, he so ambitious in getting his dreams done


so he needs to be a well-balanced ambitious man, so he has to be a well-balanced ambitious family man, !aiya! I've been it's such a waste giving you three points, okay hello your turn


because I'm currently having a conversation with her for two hours


so yes with my sister, and, ya because she ask me right, if you've could have an hour long conversation with anyone at all who would it who would I like to talk to


uh no okay anyways but I would like, to actually to be very honest right uh I would like to speak to the late Mister Lee-Kuan-Yew, I'm serious, I would want to know where that where did he get all this uh vision


and what, drive him, you know, what what drove him actually, to make Singapore what it is today, it intrigues me, what was running in his mind


and you know what vision did he actually, what vision did he actually have, and what inspired him, to have such a vision, I would really would really really want to go, into a long deep conversation


with this, fine gentleman, it's a regret that I never got the chance to see him, while when he was around, so if there was something that I could, turn back like in the uh other question you ask me


I would turn back the time where he was still alive and, personally meet him, and have this conversation with him, maybe I could take away some very important lessons of life, and be as ambitious and driven


like him, to the late Mister Lee-Kuan-Yew I love you, okay hello who's turn is it, (uh-huh) so can you have focus please you are like off focus


when did you last have a truly meaningful conversation, with someone and what did you talk about, when did you last have a truly meaningful conversation


with someone and what did you talk about


with me, are you talking about last night


where you said you were very, you you are very proud of me, uh despite, are you referring to him


full you, I guess when, you put in a lot of effort, in that person and the person doesn't reciprocates back


in the same way, uh then I guess it will be time for you to let go of the person, ya, so ya that will be the time where I would let go


okay, is it my turn, to pick the card okay describe the worst date you have ever been on, ya


okay so of all the dates you have gone what was the worst date you have gone for, if you don't tell me I'll call !Kalil! now


ya but a date that didn't turn out right, is supposed to do A and B happened


last year, you mean you out with Kalil the the, the whole day, and you're ended up fight, why what was the argument about


okay, the but I mean okay lah I'll I'll let's not we won't get into details now, but what were like what, caused that fight to happen, on


oh, okay, cool, we'll have this discussion in private, okay, ya


I'm thinking, valued possession ah


I actually don't have anything that is very valuable except for my certificates lor, value possession ah


uh the diamond locket that my father bought for me, for my twenty first birthday, and, I only wore it in on when I was, the my twenty first year birthday year, after I took it because the locket was a key


ya so I still have the locket with me so it's a diamond locket, and uh so I still keep it and then uh, uh mama's uh diamond bracelet, ya, diamonds are girls' best friend


so I think this is my pricy possession, because I know how hard mum and dad work for it, to give it to me on my twenty first birthday, and knowing the circumstances that, they got it for me


okay (ppb), for your last meal what would you eat and who would you eat with, so if you have a last meal


what would you eat and who would you eat with, I know what your last meal be


I was thinking you will say mum, cooking or something like that you are, exactly


sale chicken, I'm sure it does


I mean like serious, !oh-my-goodness! how could you


okay hello it's your turn you don't shoo shoo me here, okay my personal trait ah, my anger


pass already I already pick up the card too bad too long okay the name of favourite place that you have been to and what


so nail a favourite place that you have been to and what


and what would it significant be


you have been to so many places right, named one of it ah


we ain't have whole day here , you have only been to a couple of places, no we have been to only couple of places


take all day you want, no, no no no no no you start, you you you tell me I won't tell you mine cause the question is directed to you


okay start up with the places that you have been to tell me the places that you have been to, just tell me a name of the places you have been to, right I can prompt you something, okay


Iceland, India


so of all these places which you had, which you really like


just tell me what is your favourite country of all places that you have been to, ya but you need to have one favourite country right that you don't mind going back the second time or the third time, Turkey, why


why why why


I have actually forgotten how the key looks like


ya very confused


I guess just the beginning, of us actually being sisters, as in like closeness, as in in close , so that is what it means by significance


so the fact that you had so it was being Turkey it because , you got close to your sister, and that trip, it's our significance, that's it


seriously, it's there, (ppb) are you kidding me nah


she irritates she used to irritate me young time when she used to take my, and then, and then when she breaks them and then I get all so worked up, so ya that was the, time when I used to have irritation from her


ya, of of that lah of what are you borrowing my stuff, and then breaking them and giving it back to me putting it back


how do you know that you truly love your partner, I love all this love questions that are being directed at you


how do you know that you truly love your partner, how do you know that you truly love your partner lah how is it that you will know that he is the one for you lah, you can't say you don't know right (ppb)


yaa exactly so what is it, how do you know that you truly love your partner so uh why can't you say like you know, if you say that okay [loh] for example if like you know


you would love this partner because he knows you in and out, so without you having saying anything he just does things for you without you having to say, that's when you realise that ya this is the man I really love, so it's not about just feelings it's about you know him doing something for you


so what could it be , would no, no that is my answer I want your answer you don't be a, uh pencuri here ah stealer book can taking other people's answer


okay so if he if he is a best friend, if if you are comfortable on a best friend level then you think that he is the one for you


be someone else you mean


!my god! such a disappointing answer, okay finish it


charity, bullshit no I love doing charity, ya (ppb), hello we have another set of cards dude, so let's start, my turn


now, I think I shall reshuffle the cards, you won't be able to answer that question, generation gap


what's the one thing about Singapore that should be preserved for the next generation, we are Singapore, what's the one thing about Singapore that you that should be preserved for the


generation, ah what do you think should be preserved, for the next generation also


for the next generation more houses, okay


okay what do you want to preserve of Singapore I would say the heritage, is is different history and heritage is different, heritage is the fact that, we are becoming too modernised and our buildings are too futuristic, that we are losing the very


old version of what Singapore used to be like so maybe some parts of, Singapore can be preserved to maintain, ya I think I need this card then I think , any race here


that is cheating you know by the way you know, because if I don't like the answer I should not give you the card in the first place, anyway, Singapore should become the next hub for


so Singapore should be the next hub for, ya it should be the next hub for, we are already known as the financial hub, we are already known for sports hub


slowly, and getting there, so what other hub can we be known for, ah that's what I was thinking, a hub for art


I have never eaten durian because I hate durian so this is an invalid question for me, but yes move on, my turn to ask you right


now, describe your Singapore dream, ya what do you, and vision to, see Singapore in the next hundred years, SG hundred, okay now we have completed SG, fifty right so the next fifty years


it's not populated, crowded population


for your record Singapore cannot have many beaches because we are an island, so I don't know


okay, more trees there there there are a lot of trees


this is not fair you making me answer all the question


I like , what was your one bimbo-est, bimbo moment I think you have a lot of bimbo moment


if you could teach, Singaporean students one lesson, what would it be, ya if there's one lesson that you could teach them, ya


success for me if I have a balance of being, well this was, well my


well when I went for the person development course and they ask me what was my dream and I mention that my dream, so I went for the person development course and they ask me what was my dream and I said that my dream was to be, uh my dream is uh to


to be successful in every aspects of my life, and the every aspect uh encompasses financially spiritually mentally and emotionally, I want to be financially free, so that I can spend, uh much of my time with my loved ones


and not having to worry about the money that I have to make so I'm financially free I know I I have the liberty, emotionally strong, (ppb) is to be in a state of mind uh in a state of heart, where I'm able to better control my emotions


and in that way I'm able to foster better relationships with everyone, that are in my life, and mentally is, to be strong, so that whatever challenges life puts me through I am able to fight


it out, without having to give up, and spiritually is I would also want to have build in a strong faith, in the divinity, and in that way I am all


I I cover all rounds of life, and that I would define as someone successful, so that is success for me, ya


card, and you have to take another card, you have to ask me the question or I have to ask you a question or I have to ask you, which place in Singapore made the biggest impression on you as a


I love your Singapore question, made the biggest impression on you as a


in Singapore, is it the zoo the #Jurong#-Bird-Park #Haw-Par#-Villa


Sentosa Little-India, as a kid right you went to all theses places right, ya when you sound like !wow! you know that kind of


so what was the biggest, !wow! moment for you let me me, ya let me make it simpler for you


for the record you never settle the thing , you were a baby, oh you did, you sitting inside there


for me ya, as a kid, I was very impressed of the Underwater-World


just because you know I have a better answers than you nah, okay I would rather have kids, because I am not an animal lover


so I rather have kids, ya I rather have children, what's the usual coffee shop order for Kopi or Teh


aspects of old Singapore


too bad we don't have the, too bad we don't have the lense for it but ya I would love convey this


I don't understand why you are trying to tell me


okay, is like that lor, so is like that lor means, it is just the way it is


I like I, what's your most like, what is your most liked or hated acronym


okay why, is that your like or your hated


okay like, lol just laugh out loud


canteen ah, school canteen


uh it used to be the Hokkien-Mee from Serangoon Junior-College, it is to die for Hokkien-Mee and me and my friends will, literally die for this Hokkien-Mee, too bad that Hokkien-Mee lady is no longer at Serangoon Junior-College, when I went back and I was so sad because when I went back


me and my friend wanted to reminisce the, good old days time when we had that Hokkien-Mee, and that's how I got the love for Hokkien-Mee Hokkien-Mee, was only by eating her Hokkien-Mee, yes


what, what do you complain about always, what do you always complain about, about me, why about me what did I do


ya, what about there, ya lor ya lor with this overpopulated thing


okay (ppb), next your turn, Lobang


best Lobang ah, I've never received any best Lobang, but if there is one that I have to mention then it's probably, the tickets to the tourist attraction where we get from this uh


travel agents where they charge us slightly lesser, than the original price from the, from the attraction, so that was something that I never knew about it, ya so that's one, or the Fave coupon


buying all these uh, coupons to get your, you know massages and mani and pedicure so, that is also considered as like a Lobang right


ya so Fave Lobang, okay, the teacher who made a biggest difference in your life


your turn, so I need to find out and have this conversation with you ya, I just need to know I kind of forgot I know your PSLE moments but, I don't know your O-level and N-level moment


okay this interesting conversation that I had with the taxi driver was about , how most Singaporean are ungrateful for the things that we have in the country


as opposed to, you know uh people living in other countries so basically was telling this uncle uh this cab uncle, you know that a lot of Singaporeans they complain about you know cars being very expensive in Singapore


however they fail to realize that if car's permit is cheap in Singapore, then we will would be facing the problems of you know uh bad traffic and these are some of the, major problem in the countries like uh Thailand Indonesia and


in Malaysia especially in Kuala-Lumpur the traffic is really really bad, and this is because, cars there are super cheap so everyone seem to have about four five cars, so I was having this conversation with the cab uncle and telling him that you know we should be grateful because


uh with, tend to have the tendency of complaining for every smallest thing, so can you imagine that if we had, too many cars on the road and if cars was cheap in Singapore then how bad would our roads be, having to know the fact that we do not have actually much land space


and it's not that they have a very bad public transport that we can't use the public transport, so ya, so this was the kind of the conversation where I was telling uncle that you know how we should actually especially the young generations of today


should actually value and appreciate what our leaders have done for us in the country, so that everything run smoothly in Singapore, so it was a very long and intense conversation with the uncle


what are you most Kia about, Kia means scared, so what are you most scared about, oh I have a losing as my one what


and who are your loved ones


okay, what would you queue, for in Singapore, what would you queue for in Singapore, Hello-Kitty


no it's not about that, you know like how people queue, for long in lines and they stay one day ahead, so this is one it meant, not about buying your hawker food


finally you got the question delivered not referring


picking up your own trays, ya in the coffee-shop I know there will be, I do it I really do it, I'm really do it I don't leave my food plates on the hawker-centre, if I see if I see that there is a tray return I return the tray if I don't see the tray return then if I know the auntie is approaching then I will lift it up for her and


pass it to her so that she can put it inside the thing, but usually when I'm in the food-centre uh food-courts and if I see that there's a, tray return session I return back my own trays, no


!oh-my-god! this was the first question that the card had and I pick, that when I shuffle because I didn't want you to answer this but it came back to you again so I think it's meant for you, what's the biggest similarity or difference between your generation and your parent's generation


or a different, within your generation and your parent's generation


I can't about I can't that traditional ya and you are very modern, so ya what is it lah


what is it


that is got nothing to do with generation gap by the way


please I answer that another my question, ya well uh the generation now women are more liberal


so the fact that, ya see, so parents like I I'm in I am experiencing this myself what, like mum will say that no you are a girl you are a you are you you know when we come home we don't make bed then she scold us, so this is the thing, parents nowadays the parents they don't they don't have this this this this


so that that's why they are saying what is the difference in your generation and your parent's generation, ya, escape the crowd, best place to go is, me at my own house lah


my house is not crowded what, ya, I think all the questions from this card deserves a standing, I think you , I got to know something new about you too


I guess so you need to read a lot anyway what did you collect as a hobby when you were growing up, really


!wow! okay so you are collecting sticker lah, oh okay so that was something that you were collecting, okay cool so this (ppb), something very easy for you , did you know what is mine, oh !wow!


too bad mummy threw away the phone card, worst or best is it


okay so my best subject in school, was, actually I I did I had quite a number of good subjects the only worst I'll talk about the worst worst was the Mathematics, I used to fail perpetually until I did very well


fairly well in O-levels but throughout, my entire secondary I used to fail Math, final exams my class test I used to pass but, they used be the final exams I used to fail it, so that was my worst


and my best will be Science, or accounting because I used to be a top student for accounting, Science also I used to be of one of the top student, I'm just saying lah that was my best ya how about you


ya, why you looking at me why, really, okay I will you


what is your worst subject, okay, for obvious reasons


okay, uh if you could make a Karang-Guni man, what would you want to collect if you could be a Karang-Guni man, what would you want to collect


old as well this is, the best answer so for for them, you didn't have to think and it came instantly, !wow! I'm impressed with this answer, you you deserve four points for this lah times two multiply remember multiplier


Chinatown Geylang-Serai, and Little-India, focus here


these three, ya because, Singapore is a multiracial country right, so this signifies the main three races in Singapore, so they should go to Little-India Chinatown and


uh Geylang-Serai to have a feel of the three different, the three main races in Singapore


now which Singaporean dead or alive do you most admire, !oh-my-god!, don't steal my answer ah, but I just say for someone else, oh the lawyer


okay what happen, the question is do you do you most admire and why did, and why do you admire him


okay so is Mister late Lee-Kuan-Yew then, what what is it did you admire about him the most


uh I know


so inspired that you have, come up with, the two most intelligent answers, that is able to


it was hopscotch and zero point but actually more it was, it's a like a, like skipping rope lah but it's made up of rubber, rubber bands that one, then you then you then you start from low then you start from high then you cross over and you say zero point


and as you go higher and higher so used to practise like, jump, ya but it was hopscotch, describe the most famous person that you are related to


describe the most famous person that you're related to, express sarcasm at someone for behaving arrogant


so it's called grandfather road, to describe the most person that you uh the describe the most famous person you are related to, are you related to anyone famous, no, how about yourself are you famous


then describe yourself, call home in Singapore


how is it that how is it called Singapore, describe the place call home, the place you call home


is supposed to signify Singapore, to describe the place you call home, okay lah I give it to you lah your house, doesn't seem


is not asking me everything for my answer, it's okay you please that's that's not for me to, I don't know the neighbour that's, living directly opposite me but I do know the neighbour that lives above me


because my sister used to have a fondest childhood memory with the neighbours above us, so the neighbour opposite us uh the only thing I knew I know about them is that, they had , uh prawn-#mee#, uh stall in #Chong Pang#


[eh] Chomp-Chomp sorry in Chomp-Chomp, #Serangoon#-Garden at, ya we used to go and he used to give us, a good prawn-#mee# to eat


ya you want to start first


wait, mine mine says young pea shoots available here, okay I see a cat too


okay, okay, ya I see a blue bag too


I see a picture only of a pear, okay, now uh at the bottom right corner


I see, a boy, and a girl, the boy is saying Sue where are you, no it's Sue where are you and the girl says I saw you Anna


for both, so there's two differences


because Sue where are you is the guy, and I saw you Anna is the girl, then there's a bush in front of them, and there's someone hiding behind the bush, there's a girl with two ponytails hiding


then there are, ducks, three ducks one is white and two is, purple green, magenta whatever colour you call that


ya but are there carrots with the green pea, K mine has carrots


I'm what, no I don't have sheets of paper, K then at the very right top corner


there is a tractor, in green, and there is someone in the tractor, like a like a stickman, so the tractor is uh yellow, and green with grey wheels


K then there's a there's a fence, in front, which is where there where there is something written, nature trail, with the bee, and a butterfly


nope, no I don't have a beehive picture


no no flowers


then at the, left, bottom left, there are four people, one an old man, with uh not really old man but like in his forties or fifties


wearing a red short, wearing a red short, green shoes and a grey long sleeve, and then he has a lady beside him, who is wearing a green dress


and she's saying go go, in front of her, there are two kid, one, a female one male, they are in a sack, so the female is wearing a maroon


top, and the guy is wearing a blue top, and in that is written fun day


his sack is up, it's also down


nope I don't have a bowling, there is a charity board there charity bring, and buy sale do you have that board


okay so that's another difference, so we have one two three four five six seven eight nine ten we need to spot two more, how many do you have


ya for you so it's ten because you have that, this is considered one have one without, one two three four five


six seven eight nine ten I don't have the bowling pin


how many ships do you have, I have two ships as well, the black is the back in the shop is blue


mine mine says farm shop too, down


there are three duck


no so the difference here, so your boy, the black boy, I mean the guy in the blue T-shirt, is he wearing any pants can you see his pant, okay mine I can't see the green pant


how about the, female is she wearing any pant, K I can't see her pants is her hair like flying


I feel is a female, okay is the the green lady shoes pink, ya and the guy shoes are a bit green, and the other side


she's wearing grey shoes, ya and the dress is, yellow and pink


ya striped


okay so we're done with this we can, so


how do you wanna do this, wanna put it here and we just take one by one, no we take it from here, no I need to, so you put it in the


just take half and then no I mean like, we just take turns to, ask each other question so one by one


so I will pick one card and then I'll ask you the question and then you will answer and if I don't feel that the question, up to mark then I won't give you, ya the uh the uh question the answer is not up to mark then I will not give you the card


that means I won't give you the card which means the points lah, no put it there, so I take the card first okay, !huh! okay so these are


three point, okay the question is, when did you last cry, so emotional !oh-my-god! don't cry here ah


so when was that how how soon was this, so was it like a loud burst, or is it like just like uh very mellow cry


okay three points that was easy ah by the way, how well I can cook or bake


I can't cook, the only thing I can cook is cheese Maggi which is like absolutely, the best, ya so is Maggi-#Mee# with cheese that's the only thing I can cook


ya, no but mine is different, cause I have other ingredients as well, okay then , bake I would say not fantastic, but I've tried baking a couple of times I've baked a lot of cake


for my friends, family, and I think it's pretty good that I'll come comes, yes I have many times almost every year the birthday, so


sometimes at home sometimes not at home, so, ya so I think it's pretty good cause I have good, uh feedback of my, cake, I've tried even baking cupcakes which is pretty good


so I would say it's okay I'm still learning so, not fantastic but still, very sweet


the opinion that I get is like, it's very tasty chocolatey, so it's, that it's very balance, the ingredients are balance it's not too, doughy or not, too uh


is just one point !oh-my-god! just give it to me, okay so, !wow! your uh your questions are very intense why I don't get such intense questions


okay so this is one point, and your question is what is the most important lesson you have learnt from your parent


okay so how about you do one from your father and one from your mother, one very important lesson from your father, and one very important lesson from your mother


okay so you learnt from your mother, to never give up, and what about your father


there you go, one point, my turn


a dealbreaker , I know what's a dealbreaker, I know


I'm just thinking


ya it is, but I need a while


a dealbreaker would be someone, so what is something that I will say no right, ya if the person, if the person doesn't know how to respect, the opposite


partner, respect as in like , when I say respect means like, he needs to know how to, talk to people


he should not , be very uh, how would I put it, egoistic , and he puts his ego


before, anything else, and like putting ego in front, and then uh not respecting the other person, like you know sometimes they


they are very egoistic right and then uh, they don't respect you, because of their ego, they think they are very smart and they think that they are always like, up there, and then because of that they always put you down


so that's a no, if someone who always demotivates me and always puts me down, that that person that would be a dealbreaker for


ya how many point, do you enjoy doing chores


which is your most and least favourite chore, I can answer this for you , didn't specify what


I know


that's like easy job okay, always the easy way out you


but what is your favourite, chore and what is your least favourite and what is your, that is a chore for you, do you think chore is like a negative word


so you think looking after children is a chore, though you may not get this


I just want one point so I'm not losing, now I'm getting all the intense questions


how important extremely important, I think it's very important I mean like even how, how independent you are


you will still need a companion, so to me it is an important cause I don't need I I would, ya you need someone there like you know when you go back home you know you have someone to talk to someone to you know, share your happiness with or your joy with or you know watch TV together watch movies together or Netflix with


or go out on a holiday or just do things together, so it's very important to have a companion a partner, I don't think anybody will want to die alone right, I mean that's my opinion, so for me marriage is extremely important


but no marriage is important but happy marriage is extremely important, I know so wise right, give it to me give it to me how many points two points


I'm leading, so my turn, I have three, not cheater okay, okay haha this is a good one, who is your hero


and how does he or she inspire you, !wow!, so touching, but how did she inspire you


for mother I give you this card, only for mother


personal trait, I like, what do I like about myself, I think I'm a very genuine person


I don't have pretentious if I don't like someone, I'm not pretentious okay this is not a, English class now okay, ya but I'm not pretentious I feel that if, I'm okay I'm not straightforward, but I don't pretend to be someone I'm not if I'm not comfortable means I'm not comfortable


and if I don't really like to talk to someone I won't make an effort to talk to that someone, so what you see me here, ya what I am from inside I'm the same outside


!oh-my-god! yours is so depressing, describe the saddest moment of your life I've heard this story so many time, !oh-my-god!


you can skip ah, I don't know then you don't get the point


ya such a depressing soul


!wow! I didn't, how come I didn't know that I know you wanted law but I didn't, aiming towards NUS, and SMU


so S SMU, and and I mean SMU doesn't have law at that point of time, and you were saying that London was the only school that is near, as in like has the same, legal stuff similar


okay, okay


okay, so ya you go this is not even worth three point


procrastinating now, exercising, always wanted to lose some weight, no I'm acceptable weight


but, I would want to lose some weight, be healthy, but then uh, ya so that is what I'm procrastinating


ya, yes, I will don't worry I'll make you proud, sure okay next


!wow! okay this is fun , describe the perfect date


ya obviously right cause it's a date, in the on the beach, cause it's quite difficult lah Singapore is overpopulated, ya there


okay, ya hope you get a date soon, I put keep that in mind


will I sign up, no, because


I don't know I just don't like the idea of dating someone, when you mean dating agency do you mean apps like Tinder and stuff