along the way do we need to like, keep, looking at the screen making sure everything is okay, okay, then start


okay on my picture I, I, see there's a man with a hat, yellow colour hat and wearing a brown colour shirt, trying to do fishing


and, there's happy shark, jumping out from the sea


or, mine is uh brown, with the light brown pants, so that's the one different we spotted right


you don't like black, and what what do you see on, ya, smiling shark, can see two fins, showing up


the small rocks on the left, ah !huh!, ya same here, ya that I also have the same, but there is one


bird, standing on top of the big rock there what do you see, oh your rock, ya the have one bird here, and, nearby the rock there is one sign signage


written north beach, the arrow point to the right, oh okay


oh, so I have the rubbish dump, standing upright not falling down, oh okay, and this, my my rubbish bin also full and not fully covered


and especially, see the the rubbish inside can you see that, okay, okay, yes same, to the left that the center of


sand there's a one cap sandcastle, with four flags, at the corner two blue, or on the east and the west, and two, red on the north, and the south


yellow, and nearby to the sandcastle there is one yellow, red pail, and one, spade, yellow spade, the pail is upright


yes Hokkien ya ya


(uh huh) okay, what is canopy, the shelter, oh, ya okay


like purple, yes is the same


oh, so I this a difference, I only have, two and it is blue


or there is no tennis ball, I think seashell have


my one looks like, seashell, a chain a chain of seashell, two on the left, two on the left and one on the right


ya necklaces, so there are two differences


oh yes, four legs, ya only can see three rings, yes, okay, ya the lady is in, a medium, hair, long okay okay


alright, so moving down there is one, a, small cart, with the title smoothie smoothies, is green colour at the side, and the on the top is purple


smoothie sign is, red so, ya kiosk cart ya, or dark grey, mine looks like, purple, same or not


oh okay, oh is a dark grey okay, and then, on the kiosk there is one blender, on the table white colour


and, more sign are white and grey more signage at the bottom, saying pictures, in red colour, and yellow in the center, yellow seat there there are two pictures


on the on the pictures, ya yes, that's right same, so behind the blender, there are four, squares, I don't know, four squares black colour


and the background, light green, the below is dark green, the plum the peaches I don't had


no there is nothing only peaches, oh okay, so the position of the peaches also different mine is position at the center of the signage so, your peach is


at the side is it, okay so actually there are, maybe consider two differences ya, then the location


okay, ya, yes same, oh the different mine is one night only, all capital letters, love shake exclamation mark with capital letter also


ya one night only, ya light green light blue and, with four stands


ya ya ya, ya same, then go on to the taxi, there is one on the bottom left, white colour mix with brown taxi


the colour of the taxi is, white top, white top, and, there is a, brown colour in the, at at the boot, at the bonnet yes, part of the bonnet and


colour of the door is black, I can see two doors, and the signs, signage of the taxi at the top of the taxi is, brown colour with white, word wording


and the, wheel is in grey in colour, like grey and black, and looking inside, the the couch the seats are, the side, no wording


oh okay, oh okay, and then the handle, the opener of the door is, one line, white line


okay, and two side mirrors, yes two side, left and right, the wiper is one, in the center black colour


black, then the steering wheel is, black, so far the seats are light brown, okay and the number plate, labelled tax one


ya T A X one, two headlights back yellow and one, uh small, below the, the bed, the large headlights


without colour ya ya, that's all is it, yes dark green, polka dot


a bit of dots, or solid, solid, green, yes, yes brown hair


carrying a boy, float of float, ya, like the opener ya like, where we we put pumping in the the air ya


she is like, wearing at, have a lipstick, alright, ya, hair food is the same


ya that's her hair, and then near to, the swimsuit lady


there is one car, red in colour, open top, two men pushing the car from the front, and there is wording, saying push and exclamation mark


oh okay, okay, colour, the two men the, the left, on the left wearing the white long sleeve shirt


and the blue, pants, and a red, shoe, covered shoe and the one on the right, wearing a cap, light brown colour, green shirt short sleeve


shirt and a black pants, wearing, white shoe, and the the man on wear whose wearing the white long sleeve like, see he is wearing a, watch, like a like a watch ya ya


ya ya ya I also can see one hand only ya, and the car is red like have I mentioned red colour the wheels, are a puncture


can can see the two wheels are puncture, sunken ya sinking into the sand, there is a dog, sitting on the driver seat, or no seat belt


or is it, and he's sitting on the, blue colour, pink seat oh that is, I have on top of the pink seat there is one additional blue colour seat


ah blue cushion the blue cushion yes, and then, uh is, light brown yes


and, ya looks like but there's a high, it it is it not like a pet seat is not main for passenger seat looks like, ya is a two seats two seater car


pink bag, pink cushion ya ya ya, okay I think that's all


ya oh ya ya ya there is a spare tyre, black colour, and like that's a string coming out


yes it same, slippers right, black hair ya correct, and he shouting hey Paul, oh okay


yes a hey Paul here, white in colour, one


the first one that nearest to the car, his the head its head pointing towards the, the lady in bikini, and then the next feature is opposite direction, and the third one


ya all three all them has warm, look looks like, okay ya ya then the same is the same


oh ya ya ya ya same same same


okay any anything else, how how many we have spotted one two three four, five six seven eight, nine ten eleven twelve thirteen fourteen, more than twelve eh, okay, we are done with this


just draw one card and start


when did you last cried


okay, my uh


meaningful conversations with someone, so the one that I really can remember well, and, is a conversation talking about, my life, and future of my life


what I really want to, to have in my life, how could I have a, completely fulfill, and truly happy, life, that conversation really lifted me up, and really have created a very


that possibilities for me, and making me know that, in my life I can create anything I want, anything I, I wish for, and everything is possible for me, that was just a maybe about


six years ago, ya when I, really needed that and been looking for, that kind of a inspirational, someone just happen, to share that turn have that, great conversation with me


thank you, okay, how would you react if a close friend express, his or her romantic feeling for you


too over warm is it, okay, so what happens after that


as in


like that because it was unexpected, ya , it's fun a great one , how I do know


when I truly, how do I know, then I will , cause miss miss him, and I will care about his feeling


care about, his well being, his everything, and, care about each other uh, feeling how we take care of each other feeling and, their his future


I think to to me in love is not just about that kind of emotions about the angers kind of feelings but, love is about, ya can be based on friendship the caring, and it take about this


weird love my (eh) son just came back yesterday, after his school, and he ask me, uh Mr Alvin which is his teacher, ask me to ask you what is love all about, it's his he


he is twelve years old right he already ask me this and I ask him what do you think, so he started to give me his opinion then, so from a twelve years old boy right his answer was


uh the feelings between the boy and the girl like you will like each other ya that's also part of love, then I ask him uh, do you think I, I love you, yes, you think


Baba love you you know those so that love right, ya love is not just about boys and girls, but it can be a family, love that it truly care for each other, and will take care of each other, and


always together and be, create happiness, and with that happen if I truly care about this person or the partners can be, my , my spouse can be my children can be my friends can be my family my siblings my father my mother or


colleagues and anyone, ya, ya


ya uh that's a good one I think that is also uh weak, can tolerate with each other have passion ya and accept, his ya I said his or him uh him or her, who they are and who they are not


ya without any expectations they you are who you are, I am who I am, yes, exactly


and pack up all the good things, about the person, and ya


ya, so, everyone has their own opinion, I no hard feeling [loh] I just I'm just expressing my opinion you can accept you can, don't accept you can agree you can don't agree, you did, but because we know each other well because there is love between us


so after that, it's not it's not about personal, is about the topics and, the things that we discuss


ya, ya I I I ever share with someone about, uh husband and wife relationship, partners relationship friends relationship, is a long years if you want to be a good, friend for a very long year, it bounce to have a lot of conflicts


sure, who, in the twenty thirty over years of marriage there's no conflicts and, no argument sure have, but the question is how we deal with it, ya at the end of the day is this, that allow us to tolerate


ya ya, yes, ya


good conversation ya okay, the question is how do you want to be remembered


oh that's sad, that's bad


ya me too, so you would like to be positive, right, ya


ya what what's that for, no nope, and you you are the one who create, that kind of positive environment you you you are doing that


!wow! that's good, the world needs more people like you, I see, that's good


how frequent you do team building


oh, oh is it, I see, oh you are outdoor person is it, oh, good good good


ya I I like to, ah like in Singapore I like to like go to a park, beach or park, ya, yes, ya I love that too, then I do some, whatever activity I like I like to go picnic ya sometimes I do picnic


oh is it, oh, oh, now cannot do already, too old, I see


that's quite long already ya, okay I see alright I guess thank you


if I only have one more year to live, what what's the question again how, okay, oh what would I change about


when if I know that I only have one more year to live, then I wouldn't even bother that to think about I only have one, I would think, every year everyday, is, the moment every hour is the moment, and really enjoy


the moment and do anything I like, very positive positive and, to me family is the most important to me in my life, my especially my children, my husband, my parents


so, now I would spend all the highest quality life with them, and that's one, next is make an impact to the world, ya, I someone who like to make a difference in other people's life


to me living in this world is not just about me, it's not just about my children my immediate family, but it's also, it's also about the people around me my community, and the people around the world, I'm a positive person too, and I ya I don't like


(eh) ya ya kind of frequency right, I don't like to, be thinking negative is sad lah ya, ah ya


ya I don't like to complain, ya ya so it draw all your energy, then it will make you feel down depressed, and then maybe that's why ah what, the one of the most selling drugs in the world anti depressive drugs


ya one of the best selling I think top, top three or top five selling drugs best selling drugs in the world, so I want to create that kind of positive environment, and I I want to be the one that, had can be the influence to other's people to be positive to be happy


believe in themselves, in the past I was someone who always think I'm not good enough, but I've have changed and I feel that that's so much happier, so much more possibilities in the life, so


ya, or is it, ya tell tell me more about that that's uhinteresting


ya, ya, ya exactly


ya, exactly, down down down down there ya


yup, ya what do you do, should usually, ah K, okay


ya, true, ya what I would do, few base, I will go and mix around with people who are high energy positive person, and I like to read, ya I think read reading reading ya reading is


ya, ya, reading give me a new perspective of life, sometimes we are just normal human being the way we think is just one fixed paradigm, so


ah ya ya ya yes, is it, [orh] NLP


oh I see, for me I like to read uh, leadership books, because I believe, leadership is not just in the corporate


ya that is important in the corporate, exactly ya we are a leader in the whole society in any situation, and I learn that from the book where, share what the other


the successful people, I also like to read bibliography, how did he start, McDonald, like that we see a McDonald everywhere everyday


ya ya I, ya I read his book, ten years back ya I I like that and many other


exactly ya


ya, ya yes and, ya me too me too, ya make me feel that


that is very normal to go through challenges and, like when we, have a clear goals in your, what you want to achieve then, overcome and find solutions along the, and that's how


so many successful people they able to make an impact, to the world


and I love what I love about Singapore, the library is super, I really love to go to the library, (ppb) ya


ya so many, but but at the end, lately what I would do is, I will, yes what topic, and like now


what will I need what do I need, there's some area that I like to improve, so I'll look for that, there's so many


I've won the two, my my husband is a person who like to, so he taught me, read books no need to read from page one to page


you can just look at the agenda I mean the index, uh what are the topics and then you can start from there, [orh] ya hor because I am someone like to read books page one and then until the end ah he said, to be there's


the way to read effective, we look at the topic, and then you pick the one that most interest you, you read that one first


[orh] is it, ya miss out, but the you you too shallow right


you need to know the content, oh is it, oh I I I would still like to read because I find we discover a lot of


ya, ya then what's the point, ya, okay, so all grab by me, okay the question is how importance


is having children to you


oh, seventy percent of your time


you still need to travel, now now your job oh where do you usually travel to


oh which part of US, Colorado, Denver, last time I worked for HP, I was an engineer there, ya it's nice


been to US, cute places, the the one the department that I work, with uh the HQ is in


quite, not the big in the big city, ya so, we call Corvallis nobody knows, the the Corvallis only has one taxi, in the whole town the whole town is Hewlett-Packard ya so ya


so it's the whole town is Hewlett-Packard, because, HP is big there big that's the place where they invented and manufacturing and R-and-D, the inject, the the cartridge, ya I got seen the ink base, ink business division that time ya


to HP, no, I was there ten years, working there as an engineer ya it's a long


almost, cannot be exactly the same but uh the I'm was in I was in the operation, not not, no need to travel but occasionally, so


actually I am a very Science person, I like Science since I was young, I I love to invent actually, I love to do research, that's why my first


ya I I already research, part of the two research and development, but then sad to say, Singapore research is still not the core, thing is still in the US, so after that


they reorganise the whole, whole team and I was in operation, so very true many different faces, I I like to really, I like Science as I said I am a I was a engineer


but that kinds of, ya I like technical stuff I very technical really ya ya so, kinds of light I don't like, don't like is, they are majority of my both have to is just do


for the sick of doing because, manufacturing solving problem less day to day things politics, but HP is still quite, by good in the sense the foundation is quite good, ya but still there lah there still still have those those kind of politic


and the don't like because very keep me very busy, and I had the point when, I almost want to give up to have children, she set the question right, when I was age


thirty four, or thirty three like that, that that was the time after I got married five years, already five years, I got married when I was twenty nine, then, and my husband and I didn't want to have children the first five years


until the point I told him, think I think will be better, start to my family planning, and why he asked me why, I said if I don't have children I I'm afraid, I will I will regret


ya I now thirty three that time I think thirty four ya, now I I think I still can right, still can give birth, I really scare I, latest stage of my life and I'm old I I will regret


that why keep us five years and didn't want to start, my family planning, financial, because only me I I come from Malaysia, ya I am a Malaysian so, uh no one take care of my kids so we who is going to take care of my kids


ya I don't want to hired a maid and, pass my baby to a maid I I don't want, ya, so I couldn't figure out, after how to do also five years, ya ya ya


ya, I ya that's why I don't want I don't want to leave my baby to someone I don't know


exactly, exactly, ya what's the point that that's why, we delayed, until the point I said, eh better have then we then how figure out that later so that's how I had my first child


I give birth when I I was thirty five that time, my second one, ya ya ya it's stuff and right, we had, like conceive and, and then the second one, three years later


so second one was, one boy one girl ya, thirty eight years old, so how was it, like I think ya better to have one more so that they can have fun together, after one you will have another one ya of course


so I, I uh find a good, home nanny, ya Singaporean ya, so, I visit her talk to her


so I think that that point of time is the, the best choice at that point of time I also register to a infant care, because that time I work in Hewlett-Packard just opposite my office there's one infant care, just opposite only so I thought oh that's perfect so I registered


ya, Depot Road, Depot Road ya, then oh that's perfect I registered but then when I visited the, the the the the doctor, the regular check up for baby, the doctor discourage


he keep telling me don't, don't sent your baby to infant care, because, he had many experience saying the infant care, the baby their immune system is so low causing them to fall sick and, that's you really don't want


so after first visit I don't, I don't bother second third he keep telling me that, so just before, the two three weeks before I, go back to work, so I decided to listen to him, so I, I find a nanny


so waste, good ah I find the nanny ya home nanny, you only take care of him, day time, ya evening I bring back, quite tough


ya midnight, ya yes, what okay manageable, ya to to me, I enjoyed, ya I take it as, after this, you want to have that experience also don't have already ya so


to me I'm really enjoyed the whole process even during confinement, I took care of my baby myself of course I have first month I have a a a confinement lady to help me, after that, no maid no no in law no one only me and baby


ya, I said no need ya so, ya yes, ya they also cannot get used to stay in Singapore , ya ya ya, yes he is a Malaysian


met in Malaysia, ya, he work in KL, before, ya then we decided hey let's expose, ourselves explore Singapore, he is an engineer


ya he look for the job, here in Singapore he got a job then okay so I so I also follow, nineteen years, ya nineteen ninety nine we came


so so long uh I I like, ya ya maybe


you drive, oh how long it did it take, !wah! on the East Coast


lots of uh, oh I see I see, how was it I never try that before , oh ya ya ya


that's good, ya please, Miss Teoh actually we welcome you okay ya we welcome you


all city, uh we like to have a self drive, Negeri Sembilan Seremban


where near to KL, my husband uh from is from Muar Johor, yes Muar oh-my-god shit Muar Otak


some holiday, like, now my, daughter is preparing her SA two the final exam, so after that, do you go for Hong-Kong for your holiday, next, next month first week


you not yet (ppb), not yet ah but we will go early because, the moment the school holiday starts PSLE result will release, so ya I say we cannot, my son, ya the the eldest of


the the my first one who had PSLE ya ya, they want to go Ocean Park, now I ask them okay you all big enough you go and plan


the the trip what do you want to see what do you want to do, then we can discuss, right about about the time that we have, how we can, do together, ya ya


ya we just swallow right yes, ya we love to have self drive holiday, like uh you that's why I say we are very, very alike , fun right


two years ago we went to Perth, uh western Australia we rented a caravan, at the caravan, uh the the most, the class our class driving license can rent a caravan, and it's very fun the kids love it


you can sleep inside there's two four bedded, there are two two beds ah, so can sleep four person, rent two adult two children, ya there's a mini kitchen inside, my husband will drive and we


ya ya we can you can cook, but we don't usually cook in the car the caravan, uh there in Australia there're many places where, the park yes the caravan park, yes


you can do that or you can use their kitchen, there all the facilities is good they will have bathroom you that's why you don't need to, stay in the hotel, you stay in the car the caravan, and then the shower the bath, and the kitchen are all there


and you pay the rent, where you park your car to stay overnight, so it's very fun, ya, it's fun, ya ya ya, yes there there you also can stay in their, the some the like


like individual house chalet chalet, ya if not you just park there you pay for the parking, plus the facility they count by head like that, then, and then, just, uh dry lor, okay


okay, so, ya that was fun, so we drove from Perth all the way to the northern part, on the western Australia, so is


is nice, the the kids love it the kids love it , ya they remember it very well, the rented car is like a, to pay for a normal rental Sedan Sedan car


ya, and then because you safe in the hotel, you don't need to stay in the hotel, you stay in the they call caravan park, ya the car the caravan and then, when you park overnight you pay for the rental for the parking overnight


so it's cheaper than you, rent a hotel, ya yes cheaper hotel is more expensive, I think per parking maybe fifty dollars or thirty


I can't remember uh, my trip that time five days I think I pay, ya ya ya it's like a, the the cost of a Sedan car, no no no is cheap


ya, I think the whole trip I spent about two three thousand only, cheaper cheaper, ya


ah ya lah, because hotel mah, ya, over there petrol also not, uh experience is nice so you save all these then you, safe safe, got, very safe one


!huh!, no lah, you don't uh, very sorry and they very gentlemen you know, then then now now no speed, ya very easy driving over there, ya Perth I we we drove in


uh Sydney in Melbourne before also, Australia we drove in New-Zealand before also, ya so far, I think the I


not expensive lah I remember the whole trip, ya, two years ago, ya ya and then fly here to Perth only four hours


ya I flew, fly Scoot, price Scoot quite okay, ya quite like, ya is budget right, but the plane is big, uh like it's a three three three plane three seater three seater three seater ya


so service is, is good okay ah I mean in terms of budget airlines that is much better than, some others ya, that is one


self drive ya, so far uh me and my husband drove in Australia in New Zealand in the U US, I I I don't like to drive then you


ya then I'm I'm I'm someone don't like to drive okay he say he will take care of, he he sure he take care, and usually because it's a holiday if we are self driving free and easy so we are, ya no pressure


have to plan properly lah, so that always arrive, now everything GPS ah, last time no GPS map also can, ya I I can use map, ya lah


I use map, I use map everywhere I I studied in UK, I, went to Scotland with my friends that time, that time where got GPS that was, nineteen ninety six you know, nineteen ninety five nineteen ninety six so long I'm so old ya so map


uh just map I I I'm good in reading map so, ya do navigation but now so easy ya ya, lah I I'm quite good, in terms of map so give me a map, I ya, but now lazy lah now GPS


ya ya now GPS, so like Google Map like you saw you saw I said give me the address then, I'm I'm I'm good so, like in Singapore you just give me address and I can reach there


ya, I just need the address, Google train bus easy, okay, is yours I I, okay you ask ah, I think just now I ask about the children is it


what is blind date


I never had that kind experience, use Grab experience, !woah! my heroes ah


ya I think first, is my brother, ya my eldest brother, what he inspire me is he's


someone who always take care of the, he's the eldest in the family, we have five siblings, I'm number four


so, to me he's really my hero because, he is the eldest son the family and the eldest brother, care of my parents when, most of us, like even, I can go to UK to study


it's not because my parents are wealthy, and I come from an ordinary family, but he supported me, part of it ya together with, second brother, so I that I very very appreciate, ya he himself has four kids


don't forget he has a big family to take care his immediate, uh that time he hasn't started, family yet ya but, like not only me he also, (ppb) take care of my elder brother


like there are one two three four right, yes, and also take care of my, my, parents he stays in KL, so you see, I'm staying in Singapore, he's a bit far, from my parents, so, I really appreciate how much he love us


take care of us, that's really inspire me to be really someone who, care for, my family ya, so that's my, hero, ya he is very nice


with you, and he will remember all, the birthday for my parents, and every year he will have, a dinner, like ask everyone, ya he will arrange, ya he will every year no never miss ah, never miss ah my father birthday and my mother birthday these two


sure, Chinese New Year all these will you are you are you coming back are you free, ya, so every year never miss, for so long so, that's, that's how, I, he's my hero you get what I mean it's fine


he's eight years older ya, he's fifty five lor, four kids


ya, yes there's nothing, two months ago they just came to Singapore, so we met, the whole family came oh he's eldest


eldest son is, the two eldest the eldest daughter and the son now studying, one in Ireland one in London


ya he himself is a, so big family, ya not easy, okay uh then we ask


what is the most important lesson you have learnt from your parents


okay ya


so can see the importance of communication, ya


exactly totally agree, yes, exactly, yes yes agree, ya


true, I actually agree communication is so important, and have you read a book call the Seven Habits of Highly Effective People by Stephen-Covey


this is like very classic book is can keep reading like I also read once but I don't remember all the thing, there's one of a habit call habit five, seek to understand before to be understood


ya so it's to it it's part of the communication (ppb), ya uh ya, but most people like people to understand them why you don't understand me, but the problem is


if you understood others have you given chance for others to, to share, theirs their their opinion what's in in in them so the topic, that habit five talks about uh listening, listen to others


and then some other books I can't remember which book that talk about uh, how to I think how to win friends and influence people ya Dale-Carnegie right ya, and, and I think one of the example they quoted is this


if you want people to like you instantly as a friend, all you need to do is just listen to them, and some someone experience this they don't know each know they don't know each other, but they just give a hearing a ear to


let someone to express them self and, and then some then and then the person make a very good impressions of the other person, ya something like that so to me it's part of communication, in this


ya ya, most people like to talk, ya I believe because not many chances they can talk lah, because most people like to talk more than listen


the that communication is good, one a big topic, for us to explore and develop develop ourself, K good I I love that, okay so


okay uh I ask, okay you ask okay now your turn, don't know


what is, value possession I don't understand, [orh] [orh] my value lah you mean, the value that I have


[orh] okay, okay I I think that, cause value is not just asset, but uh a person, so like, the the value that I have and, I believe is all from my growing up


is uh, very care for others, I'm I'm someone who, like just now you you shared your life to, create the fun, and, be friendly and jovial


I'm also someone who like, to, be friendly to others, and, and the value that I see myself, that I possess and I can, pass on to others is, care for others, and


help others, ya, so I got that, actually since, many many years ago I would always have one dream, it's, I want to be somebody, and somebody that that, someone


how what I want people to remember me, that I want people to remember remember me as someone that I have inspire them, to, to their life in their life doing something good in their life and, has someone that have


contributed, to others and, because I see my family, it, like like brother I shared with you right can see he's not just living within himself, but he, ya love for himself right ya so


his siblings and and the, friends that I'm associated with, which I love to associated with I like to, to, mix with people who who has positive and, have the energy, they also, taught me and my mentor taught me to


to, help others, ya, so, that's how that's the value that I, see for myself lah ya, so make, a, difference to society, ya, yup


ya yes that's right pass it on, ya Seletar


ya that Marine Marine Park, Bugis ah


or Orchard, Bugis


oh-my-god, ya ya, ya


oh my, not nice, ya, ya


exactly, bad role model, ya, uh oh value of the children start at home


start from home, (ppb) ya lor, we also need to know


exactly, exactly, ya, that that's why I, want to, take care of my own children


even at home, I I told my son uh just before the, uh he went for his first paper PSLE paper, I I told him, go and do your best


ya you you just do at your best I believe in you, right, just do your best and, you have whatever result you have if you achieve great result that's great, if you don't doesn't matter, because this not the end of your education the journey


so I want him to know that, your value is not just the marks on the paper, sometimes you know kids right in the school they compare each other you know my friend ah, ya my friend said father said mother said if they if he got a


high score high high grade they will get one thousand dollar and then buy him one laptop one handphone like that, so so in a way he come back to me and tell me that take kind of rewards, I I told him


not everything talks about money, we need to see the to me most important is not your mark, my to me most important I want to see your attitude, your, ya, how you you behave


right because if your attitude your behaviour your character are all good, whatever marks and whatever achievement you want to have in your life will come, and it's not just about, so no need to talk about money I'm not talking about that


so that is their parents so, not here okay ya so, the value of the child come from, this is what I believe lah come from the family from the from the parents


ya there are many kids are like that, okay, no my turn okay


what are your top three children's names


oh so cute


uh you know a lot of dogs ah, what makes you, started to have, pets no I mean dogs as a, a friend


oh I see, so who take care, he feed her shower her


craziest thing I've ever done I'm not a, I'm not someone, I mean if you talk about, have fun uh I'm not someone who like to play


I I'm I I'm I'm a very timid girl, yes, I very timid, make quiet I don't do, funny thing I don't do crazy things even my friend, likes to sometime, even they invited me to go


ya ya I'm I'm those kind, those type ya ya ya I'm those type, ya uh, nothing very special to talk about I can't even recall what was the craziest thing, ya


my drive, ya I'll make, oh oh, I think the the there was once, drive ah we drove from, Vegas


to, Grand Canyon, ya I think that's the crazy, it can be a wrong planning and it become a crazy drive, yes Mojave desert it the one is good, but it's just quiet, and I we underestimated


the distance, so we drove from Vegas to Grand Canyon day trip ah, two ways day trip, Vegas to, Grand Canyon, !wah! took us, long hours, so tired because also


no no no that one that time only me and my husband, ya so, it's very crazy ya to me uh a day trip from Vegas to Grand Canyon and then Grand Canyon come back, we, I remember I we arrived that about


three four o-clock almost sunset already, so get to see a bit lah, but didn't really get to enjoy the whole, Grand Canyon ya ya because it's going dark ya, so that drive was very I remember very well because very dry ah


the desert very dry, ya and then we I remember I have keep having coffee cause very tiring, ya very sleepy, that got quite crazy, oh I said


uh uh ya


ya Vegas, !wah! that's even further, very far, no, is better to stay a night, ya


ya there actually there's a hotel, somewhere around lah, Vegas, ya from L A to Vegas uh another one and a half hours drive I think


!wah! that's very crazy, was very magnificent view Grand Canyon very nice


ya uh with a helicopter view then you can see the whole, ya ya yes


very very nice, you can go back again ah don't rush [loh], uh the ya but, the the route is, safe, nice nice highway, is just dry and nothing to see right one straight


I think fives, seven hours quite, quite far, no from Lavas Las Vegas, that time we we, drove from Las Vegas, to, Grand Canyon


ya, but it's very dry you know because there's no, nothing like stop over sightseeing nothing it was just, wishing quickly reach there you know that kind of uh uh feelings


ya, ya, dessert, ya, ya Mojave Desert, that could be one of the, probably, to me that's the craziest


(ppb) like my husband, that time when went we went to New Zealand, we were at Auckland right Auckland Tower, you can do a jump


not bungee jump tower, uh something like that, ya not not not bungee jumping, just some, with uh wearing some suit, jump from the tower lah, to not eleven seconds


he tried not me , uh he he say he, he heard someone, talk about that and ya okay let's, Auckland, ya it's right


he, since good experience ya conquer your fear not as, that's not as, uh fearful as it thought lah, ya but is, it's quite tall you know , eleven sec I think is eleven seconds


ya eleven seconds, ya ya ya at at the top of the building managed by professionals lah, ya so all safety, net or safety things, uh is it you know New-Zealand very famous for bungee jumping right ah that one we didn't try lah


!aiya! to me too, too risky uh, ya I, I I uh young girl I also don't do that's why I say craziest thing I also don't


not me lah do go do crazy thing uh, even I was younger teenage I I find that I would tell my friend, this is crazy lah not me lah, you want you go ahead but not me no need to involve me I'm those type , I don't like


I don't like, is it, but I I went to uh Abu-Dhabi right there's this uh Ferrari, Theme Park, they have this uh


the fastest roller coaster in the world, Abu-Dhabi near Dubai, so my friend we went that that trip I went with my friend lah, my friend eh go go go, not me then my husband said you want to join, then okay okay then okay he will join


but I think, from zero to ten seconds, ram up to three hundred fifty kilometres but something like that lah, !wah! they keep asking me eh come join have fun together, not me it's you no not me I don't like even the small roller coaster I also cannot take it


like you scared ah ya uh I scared, no they're more brave I cannot


I don't like but once a while I'll try it ah, oh is it , too adventurous one I don't go


ah ya, like uh this, Adventure Cove, Singapore Sentosa, uh it's a water park, some Adventure Cove, wave pool


maybe go through the tunnel which is completely dark, there there like


my husband, no no like or don't like lah ya he don't mind ah ya, he's not like maybe your husband is a fan have like like, oh, my husband's not that type


Ferrari ride, they go with Ferrari park I think ya is a Ferrari Theme Park and then, so is not one person is not a car but is a coaster, ya


ya roller coaster, fit many people, no it's a few person, uh got maybe ten ya like a track, but is fast, super fast


very fast one very fast one, this one for adult only, I'm not those kind of people like to


how important is marriage to you


no judgement, I also like to, sometime I very frustrated, so I just, find someone to talk to like my husband


ya, ya, going, difference, that similar stage of life ah, ya, sure


so, good, so now you'll ask, okay let's next next questions


you ask lah okay, ya okay skip


ya that's for, one of it, the happiest moment, ya I I think my first child, he like first born


and in fact that was not a easy delivery, I it's a seventeen hours, seventeen hours of laboring, !wow! that was very very strong, in my memory, I did I did everything but


uh some, some complication uh baby cannot, deliver natural, so ya, no time to scared ah ya painful, and after seventeen hours I delivered


and because I, emergency uh, cesarean it's a emergency cesarean so I had a, general anesthesia full body, so I was not, aware what's happening so when the time when I had the time I awake my of course my baby was born


ya looking at him is, very happy, ya my first, born child, you know I I shared with you earlier I never thought I want to have baby but then funny I I, ya so happy


ya, unbelievable, and that was also not a easy pregnancy, I, I had the spotting at during the first trimester, so that means I have high risk of miscarriage


ya so I stayed at home, for, two, months plus under hospitalization leave, I have to bed raised, bed rest my doctor ask me to, until, everything stable


so that time uh, two months two and a half months I think, so no choice ah, allows lah sick leave yes, hospitalization yes that time my boss very understandable person


that's why I can work there for ten years I need I need someone to understand, ya, and he understand, so that never give me pressures, so then, ya I quite lucky I'm I'm good


uh that particular one left already he retired, ya he he was a Chinese citizen, but he migrated to Singapore so now he go back, ya he live in Shenzhen now


ya I just, got, back his contact, last year I think, uh his his, daughter already he has only one daughter live in Chicago now, no all grown up so he


has his own life which is uh, wife , ya my baby I was very happy that's why I share with you I I never felt there was the chore and the difficulty, taking care of a baby, uh I know before I give birth some people uh told me


!ha! after you have baby you cannot go there you cannot do this you cannot go shopping you, that I never felt that (eh), at all you know I never felt that my baby like make me become a burden now I cannot do this now I cannot go shopping


I still go why why cannot go I cannot understand why you all say cannot go, ah ya, the unreal


ya, ah ya lah


so affected, ya exactly, exactly ya


actually it is, who who actually uh motivated you


and encourages, encourage you uh that time right ya so is it you need someone to, with the positive to encourage you, ya, exactly


oh that's good, see if it's someone, to ya, ya like my husband also last time I don't like to read, in the past I didn't like to, read, but my husband


love to, read he, this kind of habit was developed, since he was young, his father is a teacher, ya, and he has four siblings, he's the second one, and he's the one who always like to follow his father to go bookshop, ya in Muar don't have library ah but have have bookshop


ya they, his father likes to read, he's a teacher and, he encouraged all his sons four boys in his, I hope, to read, like he's the one who really follows the father, the when I knew him, he started to share with me all about


good things about reading and you read this book quite good, oh okay so, a lot of books took up by him, oh oh okay you say good I will read, ah then I started to like, like to read, more and more, so the person who close to you who can support you encourage you is very important


in life we need, someone like this right, exactly, ya, oh is it


!wow! good ah


interest ya ya, oh is it, oh what kind of exercise you do you do, oh I see


on treadmill


!huh! really ah


!wah!, that's a good, strong mind ah, ya, very good


though is good to have someone like, like your husband that always supported you, ya, I uh


happiest moment, okay, oh, ah okay , for your last meal what would you eat


and who would you eat with, last supper , oh


so sweet, you like chicken rice ah , uh I I like all all kind of food


ya can be, can be my friend, my closest friend, uh how is he or she special, oh, so my this particular friend


why, uh he's she's she's so special to me because, she's like my sister, I she's my friend she is, more, thirteen years older than me, but


I I like about her because she, uh come from very ordinary family no not highly educated, but then she has very strong mindset ya very positive, and also she's someone very caring


ya very care for other people, his friend, I got to know her when I attended one of the, seminar I mean the class I attended one class call the landmark forum, is a three day no not class course


is a three days courses three day course, ya so she was my classmate, ya okay landmark forum landmark forum, is like this okay this very interesting course, right ya I


it was recommended by my my boss, I I have another another boss this boss also I work with him for many many years, long time ago, uh about seven, years ago, ya about seven years ago six or seven years ya


so, okay then maybe I ask you, you know what you, you know right, like you know how to speak English you know how to speak Chinese uh you know how to cook you know what you know, and you also know what you don't know for example you know


that you don't know how to fly an airplane, so you know what you know and you know what you don't know, there's another big, chuck in our life is


you don't know that you don't know, you don't even know about it, you know in our life we know what we know we know what we don't know but there's a big chunk in our life that, we don't even know we don't know know about it


ah do you know what you don't know, you do not know what you do not know know right ya we call it don't know and don't know , so the landmark forum is to help you to discover you, discover you of what you don't know and you don't not even know


you do not know about it, you're hidden potential, ya, like for example, like for example, there are there's some kind of characteristics, a character that you have, today as of you


that why you are like this, although is nothing wrong with that, but it come from something has happen in the past, like you do not know one, but this, particular thing has been hinder you or you maybe you don't even realise it


that has been making you to be the person like like like this, like for example like like for me, I always, think I'm not good enough, I'm I'm a graduate I'm master degree graduate, I graduate with distinction


good right I'm top student right ya, and I always do my best in my studies, and I I graduate with the highest honours in my class, and when I was working, I'm an engineer I'm a senior engineer and many engineer and many bosses like me


but I still think I'm not good enough, I was a manager after that I become a manager, I still think I'm not good enough I manage fourteen engineers, in in my team ya doing product development, but why I like that


and through the landmark forum I discover, and when I got that reason why eh why why I'm like that, it is like something eh ting, like you lightbulb oh, ya light bulb


that's something had happened in the past that make me have this kind of, thinking, and make me I'm not good enough and not lack of confidence person ah you have that ya, why


ya ya ya, so, if you go landmark forum you'll discover you, and then not, the discover the reason, and not only that, you will leave that, and then you start a, new life, so landmark forum is


living the life you love, live it powerful, that's the theme of, the course, no no no no, very, ya it's not motivation, no, this is a really about discovering you


ya, I I recommend you to go, well thousand, three I think, ya three days course it's worth your life, ya I really got a lot, I really got a lot in these three days, course and


I'm who I'm today partly because of the, the course, I really discover, myself, it's not motivating so it's not Tony-Robbins it's not ya no not it's totally not that kind, ya it so


ya ya not not not that kind it's really about a, discovering so that, you can go to their website and know how much they, describe like I'm, landmark forum, uh once awhile they will have a


like a, introduction sessions, so you can call up, the centre landmark educations to find out when is it, it and now it's, ~tober I think this month there's one, sessions in Singapore


maybe once every two or three month, once they will have ya landmark forum and, usually it's a Friday Saturday Sunday, full day, and then on a, Tuesday evening it'll be a completion night and on that night, everyone can bring their guest


and then, you can go there and find out, more also ya, so that's, how I started, my boss, ya uh he, he attended the landmark forum, and he's, know that it's so good, so he shared that with me


and, I'm someone who always like to, improve myself, so I trusted him a lot because I know him more than ten years, evening sessions, so when I was stay down there I was listening


I really really got me interested, that's why I sign up to the course, very life challenging to me, so maybe I can find out more when is the next session I I let you know


ya is, is, landmark education is quite a, global event ya, obvious okay I know her through this is landmark forum she is a quiet girl


ya classmate my classmate yes, she was my classmate I know her, and then from, someone we don't know each other now we are close friends, we share dreams with each other we share good things with each other, and


and she is very caring very authentic, ya that's why I, love about her, last, last month was my birthday, on last Tuesday he organised a party


ya she organized a party invited all my, friend or friends lah common friends, and she organized everything and, so lovely, ya and she love my child my children you know the everyone, and she is like a mother


to all of us, ya, ya we we very close, with each other often, ya


okay, next question, what would you do if you won ten million dollars tomorrow


ten million dollars, oh, !wah! really, say like Toto only, oh, which kinds of charity old folks


!wow! that's nice where would you want to go


ah that's nice ah nice, nice one, chalet chalet, ah ya ya ya oh ya, ah yes


that's good one, anything else, why would you like to retire, why why


ya what do you like, oh


you want to do, because you love to, ya, the one that you're passionate


true true, okay good, next, your your your your turn ya, what is deal


okay, must have the feeling, first must feel feel, have that, have the feeling, and, can click lah ya can click ya


then very hard to explain one hor this kind of feeling ya can click, and you start to talk then, ya, exactly, no like the totally different world like, but this like same world like can click


(uh huh)


ya ya yes, cool true true, very hard to explain


cannot click lah it doesn't mean they are not good it's just not, my type, right ya if it's my type it's, can feel that he he really care for me and no expectation, ya will concern me, ya and


maybe I'm a woman I also like to talk talk talk right although I'm a quiet woman, what what what I like about my husband is, maybe he knows my character, ya when I very angry he knows I am angry


I I know my type if you, you want to react worse, I will be quiet, uh next nope no no no okay


oh ya, very hard to explain like the clique, okay


the question is, if you could turn back time, what is the one thing you would have done differently


(uh huh) ah, yes


!wow! it's very good ya very rare got got boss like this [orh]


!wow! so good


!wow!, so nice


I must say


oh I see


part time, so very good mentor ah, not just another boss, manager but a good mentor


must try Facebook, try you can search try to search sometimes you don't know somebody they did you when you use Facebook you, you can uh put down your profile all


ya ya yes yes that one good good about that so no need to worry about, put people in, know what you are doing !aiya! no need to worry lah, anyway you're not exposing yourself too much about


your life or privacy, but it's good for connection, your getting back, or linkedIn, ah LinkedIn you can search, that's how I found my, I think LinkedIn LinkedIn something like one of the


ya a lot of my old friends, from Facebook, from one to one to one then you can find sometime they would pop up you may know this person eh really ah, they will know, ya after awhile they know you the system know you, they will pop up someone you may know this person


ah ya ya, and you discover something, ah would if you could turn back time


what is the one thing ah


I understand, who cares


cold ah you want some you want uh scarf, okay , exactly yes


ya uh last time I was also like that, ya don't need to bother ah, important, they know what we don't


so now can try to, okay ya you your turn to ask


equal, ya, I am a equal opportunity, or whatever equal things, yes I am a fair balance I am a fair person, yes very fair you know you can tell ah


I very fair, ya, I, make a promise, to myself, I don't know, equal, equal


and not they very fair to each other also, like you do work I also do okay you play I also play, ya okay fair right fair ya I am a very fair person so that's why I paid, equal three years three years difference


I am also very balance person, so I'm, I'm I was born in September so because horoscope ah, it is Libra, ah Libra, uh ya uh balance ya


ya I don't know anything to do with that but I, but I really that kind of person I really balance, ya, I balance, like, we talk about IQ EQ one, I very IQ person like I'm smart uh


good in study I am engineer you know maths science physics all these I am chemistry I am so I am good in that, then I very technical, but at the same I also can balance in terms of emotion, like how to feel for others


have to care for others because like when I look look at my husband mah my husband also engineer right, he is a man, sometimes I need to remind him hey you, you need to care, listen to others uh care for others people's feelings


but they will remind him lah, (ppb) but for me I, very balance in this sense, it equal, like at home, my husband and I, so, is not like I am a woman so I have to


I have a less say than a man no I I I'm not I am not that kind like you can say I also can say, so like back, equal, okay never mind then


!wah! the talk title know know no fear !wah! risk, if you knew you could not failed, what would you go for accomplish, you could not failed


what would you go accomplish that's mean, what would you always want to like to accomplish you no need worry about you will fail but, at anything that you like to accomplish in your life what would that


ya ya ya what could why why what kind of business and what you want to accomplish with that business, oh


yes that's good, okay good then many people will benefit from you from your uh venture


uh uh ya, uh uh no no


ya, don't stress me because it's it's true, ya like like your, no no problem, I agree with you, so


ya they can stress me, and like like then at the same time right so, and at the same time, I know they are lastly, and, they also understand me and, and and


they understand my uh, my situation ya, ya quite, ya yes ya, so they follow kind of rules I have to set some rules if not


like took over ya it it was ya, so there come a time where there of course they have emotion everyday study, come exam times you what do you all expect I I I ask what this is your PSLE what do you expect


ya it's not a normal exam, no but, good thing is, because the way that I, ya it's easier


right right definitely, ya last time I also had a, uh when I cannot cope with, one baby and, that that that time only two and a half years


sometime when I'm away that time I still have, job I have work right, as if I still working I still work, until the boy three, three years uh four four years like that


okay so, which literally character, do you most identify with, literally


literary, is it, next question ah


how well can you cook or bake, ya me too


ah ah ah, yes yes


ah I also like, airfry, ya I have a Tefal one, oh is it then better ah


my one cannot do that, don't cannot put whole chicken, pieces only, not drawer like like a, pan like that but center is a hole there


you know like those pandan cake, you know pandan cake got center got hole, ah that that shape that kind of shape ya, uh but centre mine one centre has a cone


oh is it, !wah! good ah


oh like like become barbecue roasting oh, oh so you, what else do you cook


ya ya oh


yeah ya, become more moist lah, ya was juicy moist


oh !wow! now you are very good in cooking already lah


you are not, safe, oh is it


done, is it, so now I don't have


so what else do you cook, oh is it, !wah! so good ah I never know microwave oven can do so much last time I had one but I don't know how to use it


I didn't go and learn


uh yes the man uh, uh


if the fishing what, uh most probably, by the way


by the way uh, I can see shark, in front uh not, far away from, from his got, can you notice notice the shark


on the water, okay, how about the, fishes


uh do you spot, a there's about a a group of fishes, three of them, green in colour


uh I have uh no idea, and, there is actually a diving scoot nearby, pour and juice, diving scoot can you see can you spot the signboard


red in colour, okay excellent uh


there's a mini bar, near to the beach, can you see, can you see it


what kind of special offer is uh available because uh, mine, the is, not available, can you explain more


I see, uh the the beach is well kept, cause uh, there is a, two garbage, uh, cans nearby


oh, I see uh, based uh on what you see what you saw, how many, persons are there currently on the beach


I see is similar to mine, uh also opposite the mini mart there's a, Joe's food shack, am I right


I think the main menu is uh local, shellfish, is seems uh, is since it's nearby to the, to the sea, so the


local shellfish is the main, enjoys


okay, uh, the little girl, is uh having a good, a time at the beach, playing with the balls, there's a see saw, there's a, there's a umbrella and a deck chair


is a, ya maybe uh I believe


the old man and the old lady, is, her grandparents maybe


I see, the, the open sea, is uh is very, is very uh big, and blue in color, uh is a good time


to have a swim, I'm wondering why the old man


didn't and, have a a, a small boat, to go fishing, out out in to the sea


the beach is a, is very, sunny is a sunny day at the beach today, uh the, blue the deep blue sea and the, and the white sandy beach is a very excellent day to go for a picnic


I'm wondering uh


why there's no bartender at the bar at the mini bar, uh, maybe, is he working today


ya actually the, beach is not that big, so there's a less crowd, on the beach, there's


ya maybe is a good idea, to have a, light snack, on the beach, enjoying the, sea the beach and the sun, to bring along family members, have a good time


on the beach


I, I think the best is to, keep away from the shark, by uh putting a, safety net, to keep away the shark from, coming, close to the beach


for the safety of all, uh swimmers


the fisherman is uh, seems like, having a good time, he's uh, he seems like, about to get, to catch a fish, seeing from the, fishing rod


there's some uh, activities


uh maybe this today is a is a is a, is a on the weekdays normal days, maybe this beach will be fully occupied when it's uh, Sundays, or public holidays where where all families


can came come to the beach


the two the couples, having uh, uh, I I think, maybe, they're having a, a good conversation


uh sitting, right in the middle of the beach, and uh, uh I think they should, should have a more company, uh joining them, on uh on the beach


ya I think, to uh the entire beach is lacking uh, of, umbrellas, since it's a very hot and sunny day, uh, the beach uh definitely


more umbrellas to be to be to be placed, all over the beach, for users, cover up from the, sun


I am wondering what uh kind of songs, the old, couple are listening to, is it uh, is it uh, all songs from the eighties eighty


I I could not find, the single lady that you have mention earlier


okay ah I see I see, uh, I I could not even see anyone, uh laying around suntanning, on the beach


I think uh, there's a, there's a lot of groups, uh is going over to the other side Paul's, Paul and Joe's diving, diving school


that's right


uh yes I agree with you, because uh, uh, everything have to be, carefully layout safety come first, so that, to protect


the swimmers and to protect the beach girls, from any uh risk, or dangers, while they are, having a picnic on the beach


and uh I notice, there are no lifeguard, on duty, at the beach, so, what do you think should we put lifeguard, on duty at the beach, to safeguard


the life, of the swimmers


and uh, I notice uh there are no, uh life buoy, just in case the swimmers, uh, need to paddle, while while floating on the


on the on the sea, they should put more life buoys


uh yes I agree with you (ppc), and the old old the old man the fisherman (ppb) they he is casting, his rod at a different, angle, whereby there are


there're a group of fishes on his right, hand side, but uh he is uh throwing his rod, out into the further open sea


yes I agree I agree with you, uh, we can see, from this picture, uh a group of uh, a group of people, where they're enjoying their


personal time, some are listening, to radio some are reading books, whereby another couple two eh couple are, sitting down enjoying uh


uh red wine, and the old fisherman, is uh spending his, his personal time, uh, fishing, and the little girl, is uh enjoying her set by herself


uh playing with the beachball, so this is a, typical, uh, day at the beach


yes I agree there is a, lack of uh transparent, they owner of the, both outlet should put a, price, price of the


uh menu, outside, at so that uh, so that, (ppc) those old diners can see, what is uh promotion or special offer, for the respective outlet


I notice, out in the open sea, there is no sight of, a ship, or a yatch, or a big, big uh, (ppc) big


uh boats, since it this is an open sea, like an open ocean, and uh there is not a single, boat, uh being


sighted


okay not uh that is a, common sense and uh, I I think the, beach uh, beach, management should, put a notice


uh of, uh beware of shark, to in to, to warn, beach goers, of the presence of shark, uh in the water


yes uh, other than that, uh because of the safety, issues and because of the, because of the lack of information on the beach, I think this beach


is uh, is similar to other beaches, all over the world, for users to have a, a family time together


yes uh, and the, beach is uh not really white in colour, but uh yellowish in colour, so, uh it is a really


fantastic, that that uh, we have on this picture, so uh, I I'm I I would like to go one day to, uh this kind of uh


beach, that is, that we are seeing on this picture


I think, it is a, it is a available on the beach


yes I will be as a as a parent I will be very concern, to bring uh my, kids, to to the beach, since uh there are, uh sharks


in the water, and uh, and like, we have a discuss, since there are lack of uh information, safety, uh warnings, and uh life jacket


so, I, I will uh I will (ppc) I will uh be very concerned, when I bring my kids, to this beach


yes uh as a fisherman, you have to be very patient, under the hot sun and the, been uh you have to be focused, and be patient


in order to get your catch


ya, ya is a good idea to have a ice cream vendors, uh while on the beach, as uh, I believe, the ice cream will be selling, fast, due to the hot weather


and the, due to the children, on the beach, is uh, will uh be, very, very happy to to, to get an ice cream


uh, surprisingly, uh for a shark to be near to the, beach, this close, is a, really, a very very rare cases


but uh, uh having said that, I believe the, the only way to deter the shark from, being this close to the beach, is to put a safety net, uh somewhere in the middle of the sea


uh, so that the shark, will uh, not, be present, too close, to the beach


there is, not enough rubbish, uh bin, so I I think, this is one way to, consider, for the cleanliness of the


on the beach, to


did you uh, uh notice, what is the menus, on the wine on the mini bar


because I can see there are two, two drinks on offer, uh rose and peach


and uh, I agree with your, uh comment that, on the beach we should have a, live uh music, uh, performance


just to, to lift up the, the mood, on the beach, to be more lively


and uh, and uh I I feel that, uh this beach, is uh too narrow as, the two, food outlets


are near to each other, they can uh strategically place, these two outlets further apart, they should put a, bicycle lot


for the beach goers, to park their bicycles, or, and uh for the, for the users, park their, E scooters


I I (ppb), I know that I truly love my partner, cause uh, of the, many many years, that I spend, uh time with her with with her


and uh, until the day, we we got married, and having kids, and uh, I'm a, I I'm very thankful for


the sacrifice, that uh, she is, uh willing to sacrifice all these while for me, and the family, and uh, it's something that, I am very very


uh happy, every single day, because uh to have a, a very caring, and uh understanding, partner, uh, uh that is a


uh is a quality, bonding time with me everyday, uh, from the day we met, and till, today she is a, part of my life


and uh, I am uh very, happy, uh and I I am sure, that uh, she is a good partner, so, I really uh


uh, hope that, she also, uh have the same, about me, uh that, she is happy to spend, uh, time with me


together every single day, and uh looking ahead, for for for a more, more uh enjoyable, time together


when did, you last, have, a truly meaningful, conversation, someone, what, did you talk about


excellent excellent, uh basically I will change


uh the way, I manage, my, personal, uh savings, because uh, since uh when I was very, uh young


I did not have a proper, uh savings plan, and uh, did not, have a proper management of my finance, and uh up to up to today


I am uh still, having to struggle, with uh my, finance and uh, this is a burden, at this uh at this


age, as to, still uh having a financial, uh, uh problems and so on, and uh, I believe there are many others outside like me


we uh, trying to give a, good uh uh life for our children, and families, and the we uh, learning a lot


from our, past uh mistakes, so we, uh try to upgrade, ourselves, and uh to, to give, our family, a better life


uh, looking ahead to the future as to, uh improve on our, financial, financial status, and uh to, to not repeat the mistakes that I have made


uh when I was very young, and uh to, plan, ahead and manage, a better, on uh savings, plan, and among other things we can uh


go for a, uh, for a financial uh planing uh seminar, and we can uh go for, a short uh, short courses


to know our, our, our weaknesses and to learn, of the many ways that we can uh, uh improve on our, daily uh


personal savings, as to, keep a guidelines, to uh, to teach our younger, uh generations and children's, of the importance


of, savings, as they will uh, know what are the difference, between uh personal needs, and uh, personals uh


personals uh, uh important and yeah daily uh, expenditure, and uh, I am a very


uh happy uh that uh, I am starting to, uh learn, uh the new, uh ways to, improve, my financial


ya that's all, can you uh describe, an experience, when you were


match made, or went on a blind date


okay


what is her name, I see


did you go to the cinema, what is the what is the, the what is the movie name


and uh, on a scale one to ten uh how what do you rate the first date


I see


uh at that time uh what is your age


oh, that's too bad uh so sorry about that, uh my hero


is uh my grandfather, because of the way, he, raise, his children, ten of them, including my dad, and uh


he teach them the, morale basic, about life, and uh he is the sole breadwinner, in the family, life was very basic


that we, uh my dad and my aunties and uncles, uh the ten of them, get, basic education, food, at home


but uh, they don't have to struggle because, my grand my late grandfather, he he works very hard for the family, uh everyday he will uh, go to work


uh same, time, uh and return back home same time, and uh he will bring food and uh, and pocket money for, all the children, and uh even me as the grandchildren we will get


uh some, something uh when he reach home, like ice cream or chocolate, and uh we, we are very close to him, uh when he was getting, uh older


by the years, and uh and the, he is a he he is a fans of uh football, and a, uh it was the Malaysia Cup


and uh and we went to the stadium together when there is a home, match, at the Kallang Stadium, and uh yes and uh he will uh, he will uh enjoy


the bonding with, the, children and grandson, and granddaughter, and uh, when I when, most of us grandchildren are getting married, he was still around and uh he give


the blessings to us, and uh, he pray for our well being, and uh, uh even all my, my neighborhood friends, they are they are jealous of me because I have


a very very, uh caring grandfather and uh, I am very close to him, and uh when he uh, one day when he get, uh a bit a bit older and he


he get sick, and uh, he he is dying, so, that year was very, uh, very sad, for for me and my cousins


because ya because we know that, our grandfather is uh is leaving us uh soon, yes uh yes it there is a very good memories


I'm a I'm a very pity that uh my children could not see him, thank you thank you, next question is for you


what is your most, valued, possession, how did you come to have it


how many times how many try did you finally get


did, the interviewer, tell you, why they choose you, why they select you


so when you get when you got the job, who is the first person that you share the news


so uh how many years you stay in the first job


is is is okay since the what, the most is the experience that counts


oh all the best for you, uh the the the craziest thing that I I I ever done in my life


is that uh, I miss, my flight, to, to, to a overseas holiday, it was because uh I woke up late


and then uh I miss, uh I could not get the taxi on time, and uh, finally when I reach, the airport, the flight, uh for the passengers


is closed, and uh I was told, uh there is no more there is no more flight, uh so, I, I stay at the airport and


and keep wondering what, to do next, and, I, I stay there for a few hours, uh searching for another flight, but uh finally


there is one more flight leaving, uh at at seven pm, yes is uh almost double the price, but, and but I I insist on going because


I have already apply for my leave, and uh I already, uh, uh get ready send my luggage to the earlier flight


uh no it doesn't affect, it doesn't affect my leave uh because I will be coming, uh following the original uh return ticket, only the, departure ticket I have to buy another


another ticket and uh, it is cost me, uh more uh money, and uh, and uh, many people that I share the news, tell me that


that this is the most craziest thing I ever do, yes because I I wanted to go to the holiday badly


yes after I go to all the terminals, after I go to all the, kind ah over the counter I ask around, and uh I was put under under the standby list


and uh they ask me to uh to hang around in the airport, and after six hours, uh one airline call me, to my phone, because I leave my phone number, as a waiting list and they told me there is a one


add one extra seat if I wanted to, to come on board, and uh, there is so you must there is no this further discount and and in fact, the the


the last minute uh flight is very costly, uh because I only save, enough for this trip and already have to spend additional amount for the extra ticket


why, are you looking for a partner


why don't you share your laughter your sadness to your girl's friends, why must you share it with your partner, okay I see is a understanding is very understandable


not in pain, uh uh, and then uh, because uh, it is uh early in the morning


and, due to the traffic congestion peak hour peak rush hour, I decided to, call for a, a taxi services


it was uh about, uh, less than ten minutes, when the taxi uh was waiting at at our, below our void deck, and we brought the taxi and straight away to kkh


and uh when she when we reach there, my wife uh my wife was uh being pushed, into the delivery suite


uh I just, inform the uncle, uh to drive safely, and uh, to avoid any uh traffic jams, and uh he, he, he really know the way


the shortest way to kkh, and then when uh, we reach kkh at about eight, in the morning and, finally


my newborn was born at, fifteen, pm, at the after six hours of uh waiting, I become a dad, that is the


that is the happiest moment of my life when uh I carry the baby, on my, on my hand, and the, and the I was uh remember that I call all my


family members, to share the good news, and uh, uh at the same time, uh I was also happy, that my wife, uh is okay, and uh uh we we


we finally, uh reach home after three days, yes thank you very much


name one of your closest friend, how is he or she, special to you


I see


uh is uh Ahmad, this Ahmad is uh similar age to you


uh, what is the most uh, uh special about him


straight away


okay I see uh, he is a really uh someone special for you, to how many year has been together, that is a very long time


uh, I really uh look forward, to have a a friend like Ahmad, in my life


uh the dealbreaker, in my search for a partner, that someone have to be, a very uh, uh very, very understanding person


and uh that someone is willing to, uh sacrifice, to the high and low together in my life with me, uh find, uh thankfully I have that someone


which is my wife, uh she's very understanding, she is uh willing to go through, all the difficulties in life, with me, and uh she sacrifice a lot


to uh our marriage, and uh, uh when I first, uh saw her, I can roughly guess, and know that, she's the suitable for me


because uh, of the too uh, too good uh good uh behavior that she have


uh of course we have been uh together, about (ppb), yes we have we have been uh for together for fifteen years, and uh throughout the fifteen years uh, I have a uh


uh go through many uh, high and lows and uh, she encourage me to take my part time studies, she encourage me to to, to work hard at work even though the job is uh sometimes is very


uh difficult, but I she always told me not to give up, uh and to work uh hard every single day


yes she always uh always uh inform me that, the children is uh is uh looking at me, uh for a example, and I I have to show and lead by example


and, uh, definitely I will try and, to manage my kids when my whenever my wife is uh


going for short courses, and, but is not the same as when she is the one, uh managing the kids because, she is very capable, uh homemaker, and she is a very practical


when handling with uh, our kids (ppb), uh yes yes I am very uh very sure about that


okay uh, which of (ppb) which of these symbols


best describe you


so are you are you are trying to say that you are a very positive, person, positive minded


I see, that's very uh good description, of yourself, uh, uh that's about it thank you


uh what stress uh, uh me and is when uh, what, what stress me is when uh, a last minute uh, problem


uh occur or, uh yes at workplace or even uh, uh like like uh my bike, my bike uh is uh, broke down, so this


last minute, things always uh happen and it stress me out, because uh, when uh example that day my bike broke down, I could not get on time to work, and uh I have I was uh by the side of the road


and, uh I why was uh in, in emergency distress, so I call for a, for a tow to tow my bike away, uh


I was feeling very uh, very stress and, angry at the same time, because uh I was late for work, and uh, I, I have to come out


for the repair, and the tow and the, and the today and and that day, the my whole uh schedule was in a mess, so


ya, uh to distress myself normally I go for a, uh jogging for a jog, uh for a, for a for a mini run uh at East-Coast


because ah I like to run, uh along the beach, so and I put on my, my walk, put on my iPad, and I listen to the songs that I download


yes uh that is my ya that is my way to destress myself, and sometimes I do I do run and sometimes I cycle, and I put on the ear earpiece uh for my


at the East Coast Park, uh, and uh because is a very uh, A beautiful uh scenery, and long stretch of beach, ya and uh I I can uh listen to the full


full download of songs that I download, yes yes I always always uh destress myself when I am, I feel so stress out I distress myself by the, the same method that I just describe


uh earlier, yes I uh I sometimes I, I distress myself by by going for a, a coffee break with my uh close friend


at the, we enjoy having a good conversation, to destress what level our mind, uh sometimes due to work overload, and sometimes due to the problems uh


uh with with uh colleagues or at home, so we meet up and catch up, over small uh small talk, and a coffee break


when, did you last cry


is that your first time failed, previously you ever failed, next level


so your result is a below average or, you failed with a very badly


okay uh as long as long you must uh keep, trying harder, and don't give up, I believe the Polytechnic will always, open, people like you


ya thank you very much, I wanted to be remembered uh just as the


person, who is who is a very, helpful, the person who is a, a very kind to others, because uh


I believe I'm, I am that kind of person, during my, during my uh early early uh teenagers, uh I always uh try to be helpful as much as I can


towards my, my, uh friends, my (ppb), cousins, uh and, uh yes of course, uh, maybe uh


when uh I'm a, when, when I'm a, during my old age, uh hopefully my kids will uh remember me for the same, uh reason, uh, they remember that uh my their father is a someone who is a


very helpful very caring, and a always be there for, uh whoever is in need, and uh, my friends uh until today, we are still uh remain friends


because uh, I believe, they like me as a person, uh, uh someone who is a helpful and someone who is a caring, and uh, that is why that's what I want some uh


uh people or outsiders or friends, uh to remember me, as a person, uh it's okay I am a uh I


I don't wish uh anything like that, just a, for them to to always remember me in in in their prayers, and uh, and the all the previous uh


uh memories that we have I will share it uh in in in with with me, yup yup, that that's that's what we we want our friend to remember us


uh how would you react, if a close friend express, his uh her romantic feelings or a uh sorry express her romantic feelings for you, the ya is a girl


so basically you will feel very surprise, and uh, very unexpected


that that that is a, that is understandable, uh so far, in your personal life, there anyone uh, uh uh, react to you like this


got she got feelings for you


so uh, until now has she move on (ppb)


did did you share about this to your wife, okay I I I I can understand why you , why you are not sharing with your wife


uh it's important to me because I, as I as we go old, uh we don't want to be spending our time alone, uh, just uh me and my wife for example we want our


our house to be, uh that to be around with a, children, uh, I have a kid, and a, uh the house is


is a very kiosk everyday, uh with a childrens uh, uh playing around and uh making the noise, but, I never uh it's okay we are happy


yes on the on the day weekends I not working, uh on normally I will bring them to, uh a playground and swimming pool or to the beach, uh to let them uh play with the sand and then play with the water


ya to occupy, uh the time, uh the day we spent together uh for bonding as a family, uh normally I will go to the uh to the library


I will going to the, nearby uh, swimming pool, uh or we go to the beach, uh, we have a family a uh picnic


on the beach, most of time due to my, work uh shift, I can uh afford to bring them


uh twice monthly, yes because I pity uh them, as they have to go to school everyday


at the very young age, and uh they don't get to spend time with uh me uh, father and uh and the mother


yes because uh when I was their age, I have a good time with my father and grandfather, and the mother, so I want them to get the same feeling what


ya ya thank you thank you thank you very much, what is the most important lesson, you have learned from your parents


so (ppb), so are you saying uh your parents, uh teaching you the, the moral values about being honest


I see that is a very uh very, uh good thing, to be honest, about


so are are you, are you teaching the same uh thing to your children


uh okay I I understand I am very very, very very proud, to uh that you uh uh showing that to your children, and uh, I am very happy for you to have a


parents that, that uh teaching you the right values


my top three children name are Ryan, Alexandra, and, and uh Harnish


uh, I will support uh whatever uh hobbies that they have, that they like, uh I believe, uh one of them, uh like to, uh outdoor activities


ya whenever, we have a, a family outing, he will uh like to go to the beach, play with the beach uh sand and the, and the water sports


is the eldest, ya and then uh he will uh prefer to, buy, those uh uh snorkeling, and the to buy uh fishing boards, and uh I believe uh he is more into the


sea sport, or outdoor activities uh, like skating, I will support, uh the hobbies, their hobbies, yes I


I enroll him in a swimming class, and uh when he was very very young, and uh, because uh I, I, I know that is, for those uh


fanatic about sea sport, uh number one is they must know and learn how to swim, uh I leave it to, individual, but more


is a on the sea sport, and that I see can see him uh excel, uh such as a, fishing competition, and uh snorkeling, uh there are


and the, sea sport such as a such as a, diving, hope hopefully he can, hopefully he can enter the uh the triathlon


ya, how important is a marriage to you


how long uh have you been married


alright alright, uh, I will uh eat my favorite food


uh my favorite food is uh, uh Rendang, because, uh during the festive, season, I normally eat Rendang


ah yes, because I I have a I have a uh, a very empty stomach, I can eat uh, regardless of the hours timing


whether breakfast lunch dinner or supper, and uh I am a heavy eater, uh depends on my uh on my


uh schedule if uh happens to be, uh at work, I normally take, uh three meals, if I at home my wife cook


uh for supper because it was late at night normally, uh they cook uh my wife prepare, uh the dishes at home, yes uh


what would you do if you won ten million dollars tomorrow


where where is the destination for your holiday, why is uh why is Maldive uh is it because of the


the clear blue water, how about Europe, !aiyo! you not interested to go Europe


okay how about the weather, no wonder you prefer Maldives, uh, how about the other


uh other other other cash, okay how about the rest of the ten million


poor said, old age, okay uh


and then uh


will you buy yourself a present for you


okay good for you, uh


I will uh, I will study hard, at school, so that I, ya I can get a better better result and a, yes I can uh pursue uh upgrade my studies uh in the in the local or overseas


uh university, and uh I can apply for a, better income better prospect job, with my with my uh, with my qualification


because, at that time at school I was uh not able to focus, due to uh, due to uh, ya due to the classmates and environment and the


uh less focus and, less interest in studies, yes I feel very regretful and I I always uh advise to my children, not to repeat, uh this mistake that I make when I was uh in school


uh, yes I always look to come for the next opportunity, to uh improve myself, such as uh taking part time studies


yes uh because uh no matter what is our age as long, we are interested to uh upgrade ourselves, there will always be a, a place where we can upgrade ourselves such as uh


uh part time diploma, and uh you can nowadays we there is uh many courses, uh interesting courses available, that we can upgrade our skills


such as, uh, yes like I told you uh, uh, I would also remember the time


when I was playing with my uh friends close friends uh we have a good time playing uh soccer, so, I will go back that to that time, and enjoy again the


the the very very uh interesting uh soccer match that we uh we, we play in, yes and the, that was uh always uh in my mind after so many years


if you knew, you could not fail, what would you go accomplish


which uh lit, how well can you cook or bake


what toppings uh you put on


ah I see how about the, the one uh with the, uh crust, on the edge, cheesy cheesy crust


uh how often do you prepare pizza at home


okay uh, uh other than pizza what what are you uh good at uh baking or cooking, any local dish


oh I see uh, uh when was the last time you cook


oh very very exciting, uh one day I will I will like to try your, your the dish that you prepare


why why I why didn't you think of, becoming a chef, (ppc)


okay uh, ya is very reasonable reasonable


I have uh I have uh four siblings, and uh I am closest to the second one, because I am the older, and the second one because we are only few years apart


uh we, spend time together, uh as a child, growing up, and, and we, we are very close together because we play together


until now, uh we are still close, even I also uh have a good relationship with my other siblings (ppb), but uh for the second


sibling is uh, extra special, like I said the bonding together, uh since since we are very young, and our parents uh, uh always uh share the same


uh love, they give to us, we feel, uh blessed and to be growing up, in the, uh in the in the in the one family, and then we


always uh share our toys, when we are young, and then we, we will share the food, that our, parents bought for us, we go we go to the same school


yes, sorry, of course uh, we now all of us have our own family, but we whenever we meet up, for occasion, we are as close as before


uh, to we will uh we will meet up, uh, when there is opportunity uh


when we need to discuss about, our parents uh we will meet up outside, uh yes, uh depends on uh, uh which day and uh


which time, yes yes the thank you very much, what nicknames do you go by which is your favourite


who uh, who why why who give you the nickname and uh why why


do you have a nickname at home, uh


any nickname at uh at your workplace, so your initial is a fan


your initial name is a fan F A N, I see I see that is a very interesting name, okay thank you


I value uh among other, uh moral is a honesty, uh, I like to, to have a long uh relationship


with my, uh anyone that who is uh very honest, uh with me about their true self, about, all the things that we we discuss and we share, opinions and we


having a conversation, I would like to be, uh to be positive about, uh the conversation that we have together, and the topic that we discuss, uh all in


with open mindset, uh (ppb), uh yes we, uh only my only my uh, oh ya only my problems like I work place, I will uh share with my close friends


and the same thing, uh about my close friend I will share it with my wife, but I will not share uh my, my uh family matters to any of them


yes, so ya so it depends on who I spoke to uh but, overall I still uh look, for honesty, when I wanted to, uh have a friendship


uh, my friends they are very uh, they are very, uh helpful, when I wanted in need of uh help


uh last minute, they will always be there for me uh when whoever any of them that is uh, is a is available, so, uh yes whenever we


want to catch a football match, so we will uh meet up and hang around throughout the match, cheer cheering for the our favorite uh club, and after that we go for a small uh


small supper like uh Prata, yes, just to catch up on on, old times


what do you miss most from your childhood


are you good in playing marbles, uh other than marbles how about uh kites


I see uh how about


any uh any local games like uh, like uh Chapteh


how about rounders, I see uh


and then uh, how about the, any any, any, uh personal friends that you miss from childhood


estate, until today, I see I see I, okay I see I see


hopefully uh


uh no no house is, uh get got fire including my house, so I, if you to answer your question I only, uh can think of, is to save, uh


to save the, uh wallet, because, uh you know because uh there's a id, on my wallet, so that uh, uh we I can uh I can identify myself


uh, and then uh, I will uh, also in the wallet there is some cash, uh to, to, buy uh emergency uh items


while while, uh inside the ic, uh there is a my atm card, ya to to, because, uh there is only one item to save I will only save the wallet


uh, depends on the, situation because some time some people they are panic, so they can only, uh get the items nearest


to them, ya handphone possibly handphone also, uh no I think, uh life is,


is okay life is more more valuable than the the most expensive handphone


uh that's why I, always practice uh to transfer all those uh important data, to another portable uh, another portable uh uh


yes, uh folder, ya so that uh we don't, we don't rely too much on our handphone because our handphone is prone to getting lost, or damaged yes


do you enjoy doing uh chores which is your most and least favourite chore


how about the fence


and then uh, uh your least favourite, in the to clean inside the house, is it washing the dish


are you allergic to dust, okay uh, okay uh, who's who is the one sleeping uh the children at night


who washes the dishes


who go to the market, okay uh, uh who uh who


who is the one that uh, uh, clean the, clean the entire house


okay uh I see I see thank you


oh, uh the books, I have read, uh is about, is about, uh strangers, uh, because there is a


in the book, there is about a family, who, are being very, very very, uh relaxed uh, and they invite a stranger into the house


and then the end of the book, ah the stranger, uh lock, the whole family, when they are sleeping at night, uh, the stranger finally was caught by the police


when the, he was trying to leave the house, and, the family members, was finally uh rescue, uh because, stranger, uh uh tie them, uh to their


inside the room, so I learn uh important life lesson is uh, we must not trust a complete stranger, uh because I, I read


when I was in, on the way to work, or coming, back to home, and then uh, uh took me about, two weeks to finish the, the is a is a book


is a very thick book, yes six six hundred pages, uh yes because uh the mrt is uh, always uh full, so we keep ourself occupied


uh because uh my phone, uh due to my uh battery, is a always uh not fully charged, so I prefer to read a book instead of playing with my phone


who, or what irritates you


okay that is the person but uh uh if if not the person what, irritates you


at your work place if uh there's too many complaints uh, uh that you need to attend did that did will that irritates you, double up


uh, and then what did you do to, to to overcome this did you talk to your superior


how many in the team uh to help you uh attend to all these complaints


so the four of you do do did the four of you work work well together as a team


uh okay uh did you also learn from each other, I see okay you very good


the workplace I have been to uh is uh I have been to, to Sentosa, yes because uh, uh is my favourite place because I I have been going there to watch a concert


uh it's a long time ago, uh when I was still a teenager, uh, on every Saturday afternoon the place uh Sentosa there will always be a rock concerts


uh live it's a live performance, uh it's free that's that's why uh, uh everybody is there to watch the free gig, so I I, I remember Sentosa on Saturday


afternoon there will always be a live performance, so I will be going down whenever I have a free time, with my uh neighbourhood friends, so we will uh enjoy uh a solid, uh two hours of uh live concert


uh because Sentosa now you have to pay to enter, so uh, is a too bad I I stopped going to Sentosa already


, uh yes uh my company, they organise a team building last last year, and then uh we went to Sentosa, we, is everything is fully packed


yes we go to the Universal-Studios uh where, my company uh have a team building session, the whole day, so is first time for me, I enjoy uh


going to uss, uh at Sentosa is a new experience for me, uh Sentosa have changed a lot, over the years, yes but uh because uh I am afraid of height


uh there are two rides I excused myself, uh whereby, my other colleagues, they queue uh queue up to take the rides


uh, afternoon it was a little bit uh drizzling, so uh the company, uh have the games to be indoors, uh so we we form uh we have a indoor games in the afternoon


and then uh, we stopped for lunch, uh we continue in the in the late afternoon, with a another uh another another team building session, and uh we finished at five in the evening


ya I will , will uh consider to bring my family this time, to uss


describe the perfect date


other than National Day


so uh, your children uh, also love to celebrate Hari-Raya


uh, what do you remember when you are young celebrate uh National-Day


have you been to the uh, Padang or National Stadium for live, on National Day


so uh what is the gift that you received for the National-Day, torch torchlight


do you remember what colour T shirt that you wear to the National Day


any uh free meals provided, kfc kfc


so uh did you wait until the end of the event, supporting


the main, the main highlight uh is what is the main highlight the fire crackers


okay uh, among all the contingent what is the your favourite, jets


okay uh would you like to go again uh to celebrate National Day, this time


okay you are hopefully one day, the activity I enjoy uh, most uh will is going to the airport


uh because uh nowadays, at the airport there is a lot of uh dining, uh food court, and then uh there's a little playground for small children


and then uh we we go to the, to the viewing gallery, we see the, see the plane, and uh


and, we, we sometimes we go to the, to the fast food, and then uh after spending a few hours at the airport, we will uh go back home


uh sometimes uh, sometime by train and sometimes by direct bus, just so that uh, we get to see the, the scenery on the way to the airport


uh we always go about one month once, just to uh, release our stress ourself


and uh, to enjoy each other company, yes uh, uh whenever my, my kids uh, wanted to go


I will uh, uh very uh happy to bring them, there, uh yes yes, what activity do you most enjoy oh sorry


where is your true home


are you uh are are you have you ever uh, think of uh, uh other country as well


I see, what do you most like about Singapore is it the food


uh, the most uh favorite food in Singapore, you like most, okay uh


that's good that's good


uh willing I'm winning to devote my time to coach uh, uh, junior soccer team, because uh uh, because I feel I still uh have the energy


to go, on the field, and uh to train the small kids, uh I'm willing to do it for free, yes because uh this is call uh


this is call uh, volunteer voluntary work, and then the most important thing is the, children get to enjoy soccer


uh because I have my full time job, so most likely, my answer is no, I will only uh do it volunteer voluntary, uh whenever I am free


uh no soccer is just a, past time hobby is not a, is never going to be a full time job for me, uh no I am I am a


I, I'm not into soccer for money uh soccer is just a, is a sports is just a sports for me, uh the most important thing I like to see children, playing soccer happily


without stress and, uh for them to focus on their studies come first


yes I will I will take the chance uh to coach, uh, the junior team, uh provided, the parents uh giving me the support, uh by uh, keep sending the children for training


uh, and for them to, uh also be there on the field to cheer, cheer up, to give moral support to their to the, to the play to the junior players


yes I am I I I, I am waiting for, the right, about time and the opportunity, yes


how do you know when to let go of someone


have you ever let go of someone, such as


okay I'm so sorry to hear that, uh, uh hopefully you, uh get to, uh know a better friend next time


is under promotion, let's order, okay


I can understand your, your anger, okay thank you


okay, do you see the man on the left


okay, uh, do you think he has an enjoyable time


uh yes he been circling around, I think to see the fish, fishing rods, and


ya I think I saw it, I think it run away from the birds the two birds flying around trying to, maybe eat them, and so, do after fishing do you think they will go to the gulf golf club


the man in the fishing rod


ya maybe after fishing they going to dive with, Mister Paul, and, hopefully he get a fish a lot today


uh yes it have a special offer, I think after, they went fishing, they can go for a drink but, uh also have a special offer maybe they can sit around chit-chat, after that


, maybe the offer uh, happy hours, so after fishing they can, enjoy their drinks, and have a good time


but I think the cleanliness is not, perfect, uh maybe need to, well kept them, but the beach uh combing around eleven am


uh currently I saw, uh three uh three man and, two ladies and a girl but, why not so many today because maybe, uh, working days


uh yes, after that they can go for crayfish uh shellfish and lobster, all of, seafood foods, maybe have a great wonderful time, uh eating there


maybe the guy the fishing rods, uh have a catch have catch a lot handful of fish, maybe he can go to the golf club or to learn dive with Mister Paul


but she seem unhappy because maybe no one to play with her, maybe the children all go to school, then she was alone out there, to enjoy the activities


ya then her grandparents uh have a wonderful time, listening to radio, and the weather also very good, and a hot and sunny day


uh maybe not because the shark around the uh sea, I think is dangerous for them to go swimming at this time, maybe they can stay on the uh on the ground


uh because of the shark uh wandering around the, the area, and so he afraid of, of the boat, maybe, capsize there, and he has no life jacket around, his waist


I see the two couples having great time drinking wine, maybe they could offer the two old couple a drink, maybe have a great time together


I think he go to the toilet for awhile to relieve himself, and I wondering when the child children will come back to play, or, with the girls, so that she can have a good time there


I wonder, with the food shack, could give more offer, lunch offer so that more and more people will come


to have a snacks


ya the weather also have is a great, sunny day, uh and, the birds also flying around maybe a lot of fish coming in, to the ocean, but now the shark how to get rid of the shark uh we wondering maybe can catch them


maybe uh the rest of them they have gone to dive, with Mister Paul, or others also go to the golf club to have some, partying partners, after that maybe they will come back to the beach to have some snacks and wine


and, too bad lah the children is not around, maybe they can have a great time more laughter and enjoy all the, the atmosphere


I think the rubbish should be cleared, around this time because maybe later all the, the pest all will come and smelly the place


maybe they should, call their friends, and more and more people will come so that, they can have enjoyment together, I think they should put a umbrella around the, the table because the weather is too hot at this time


and the ladies also, is quite, happy to, to have a conversation with the man


okay the the old lady having great time reading the, the comics uh thing, she never listen to her her husband husband trying to talk to her but she still


uh, reading the magazine


and, the girl seem uh lonely sitting on the, big bear bean bag, the old ladies and the young the young couple could, call her for, have a wondering have a enjoyment with them but


oh the lady sitting down with the man maybe, she could come to the, the girl, to have a conversation maybe she lonely


so she won't be a lonely guy uh girl there


okay I think, they should come now by then the food is ready, I think amongst most all go to the dive, and golf club, maybe can call them come back, some lunch later


okay I think the man uh will be, want to keep, his rod back, after he caught what some fish, and maybe the shark, still lingering around the sea, and after the shark


uh move away maybe, more and more people will come and have a swim


but I can see the lackness is, the food shack and the bar should put more table for, others to come and have a drink have a, uh eating time together, because seems only one table and chair two chair around