canteen lah like, poly or secondary, I mean [orh] eh, secondary oh-my-god I love like this, Malay food stall, always like almost, almost everyday I go to queue this is this Malay stall right


I remember the stall name is called Bagus Bagus eh no no no #Bagus#-Village ya ya ya it's called #Bagus#-Village okay ya ya so, so I will always queue cause it's damn long queue then like the aunty very slow also, then right, I always order rice with


freaking fat, ya, and I'll order their, and long beans it's so good oh-my-god I really want to eat


oh-my-god ya


curry is the best, ya oh-my-god it's so good, Bo Jio the best, place to chillax in Singapore is


chillax eh that's not for chillax that's for party, but it's so crowded it's not a good place to chill at leh, ya garden is the best place to chill


actually I think, I guess void deck, ya void deck ya void deck is the best, oh ya


read the title (ppb) on the ball


is super I don't know man put here lah, oh we ending already then we still got


not very well, before that I got talk to the old auntie but the old auntie passed away, ya then then after we I will just [orh] say hi to like, cause they are they he have she she have three sons


one very useless one that always smokes outside the door so I fuck, hate freaking hate, him, it's so smelly and I think he smoke weed like it's not the normal, cigarette is the smell is is damn strong one is not the normal cigarette smell


it's illegal and then you see his roll right is the small roll, is not is ownself roll one, ownself roll one, that's not weed meh, [orh] I don't know but it's so smelly, so I every time hate him right it's so damn smelly we complain to NEA one so he stop for a week and then he continue


every time I smell I bang then wooden door damn hard then close one, ya and it damn smelly but I I have no issues with the other two guy, ya I complain to NEA eh then like they go and tell him already right, and then he continue again and like


rude okay, Kallang Wave, Singapore will win the World Cup in never , they don't even let the what what his name, ya exactly what the hell they are so stupid


ya really eh never


oh it's about, design industry also so he ask me like, what I studied, in poly lah, eh what was I studying cause I was still studying at that point of time then, I say oh I'm studying design so like you know basically normally when people ask I don't really like to like


I will say design but I don't say fashion in, exact cause I think it's quite people would, like no future so I don't want to say much lah but then after that he was like oh so what design then I just


[orh] fashion then he oh that's nice my daughter, uh has interest in that then like oh-my-god he's damn supportive eh like, very rare to find like and he's a old uncle, like very rare to find a old uncle English speaking and like


cause you know English speaking are more educated so you think more ahead like, you want like uh uh your daughter to earn more money study the correct things and like, correct things as in like those stereotypical what banking finance engineering stuff lah then


ya so he is like ya that's very good you should follow your passion then I like, after that chat I am like oh-my-god like, you feel very like comforting cause like you know like ya uh old people leh like ya, ya lor like that


last second one, Kaypoh what's the most busybody thing you have ever done everything (ppb), but what's the most


ya, ya, yup, oh-my-god I know what we can talk after this, about Audrey's boyfriend


!huh!, faye I guess , Max I guess (ppb), ya Max ya I think Max is the most famous, that that's the most famous I can get already, ya I think Max is the most famous I can get


ya, ya, oh ya okay so so that time you told you you are the one who told me like, which funeral oh like why is Audrey at the funeral lah, so I texted then I went over mah, is damn last minute lah cause like ya


then I I mean funeral don't drag what like, ya if you know already then just straight away go down, so I was there then after that Audrey you know she told me like uh you see even you as a friend right, like once you know you also ask then you straight away come down right, then


Dylan Dylan never go down even on the third day, they talk, and you know Dylan attitude is so bad like


uh uh today not free lah but if you want me to go down I will go down, is not whether she want you to go down or not you had (ppb), ya so so like she (ppb)


is your part of your family already eh, ya and the thing is okay so, she told me then I just like !huh! what the hell, yesterday he never come down yesterday because I went on the second day, even the second day right the #Jian Hao# which is, her close guy friend the one on the story


straight away drive down at one AM because, I don't understand like why as a boyfriend he cannot then I feel damn like, angry about it then I just


okay so what else happened so he uh she said, [orh] so the first day he said cannot mah like uh, not free lah after school very tired then need to go what what right the second day I went right, before I came they were talking they were texting already lah then, uh he say he cannot go down but if he want if you


if you want me to go down I can go down at ten plus but tomorrow I have lesson so I will be very tired, eh you drive okay you drive, what tired I don't understand just come now, pay your last respect, and then go home lah I mean don't have to stay long what just


pay your last respect to the grandma lah I I was damn angry then after that he said, then uh Audrey of of course cannot say anything what I mean, you do what I want you said until like that already then after audio can only say never mind you don't come lor because tomorrow you have school right, ya then after that uh


end up he went to watch the Nun with his camp mates, you can watch the Nun you can don't sleep, but you have a next day morning early class but you cannot, not camp mates actually is friends


but you cannot go and visit, he tell like he got no common sense I swear, okay ya I, I I damn, I damn triggered by that eh I like !wow!, so now he is watching the Nun ya he is watching the Nun


and tomorrow he has early class but he cannot come, and he tries oh-my-god <unk> he's damn selfish, no he is he is he reach the limit that he don't care because he really like, like


no is too too too helpless already like he cannot anything is, is how his brain work I guess like he brought up is damn spoiled but actually this kind not about spoiled is about


ya he he is damn selfish okay so, normally you know like your friend boyfriend then you meet, so normally we got go out with dinner one right, then like, according to audio okay so the name is that Audrey texted me, she say like uh


uh I told Dylan what you told him lah tell what I told Audrey like he is damn like selfish and like, he don't even care and blah blah blah lah like what I said I forgot what I said but it was quite like, I was like quite frank lah


then I like oh-my-god you told him, I am not gonna be your like a I am not gonna break your, relationship because of this but, he was like no you don't have to scare because like Dylan actually really like, likes you among all of my other friends lah


ya I mean if he don't like he won't even say yes to meet me and all be together mah, ya then he say, unlike my two other friend he don't really like so like, ya so I told him Lynette he purposely he always purposely type the Leanette like my Instagram Lynette you know, Lynette I uh


Lynette you know say you're very horrible person blah blah blah something like that then I just oh-my-god but like, ya then after that, so after he they, Audrey told what I say, then dylan replied, am I really such a bad person question mark


excuse me ya of course oh-my-god I was so triggered, and then Audrey don't even want to explain already then he, the next day he just type a new, new new convo with morning like that only he just ignore that question


!aiya! I don't know ya ya I oh okay so right, I told no no I told I told Audrey say, if I'm you my grandma pass away my my boyfriend don't believe me I will break up already


she told the exact same thing to dylan, ya then I just but I mean it's my opinion lah it's not, it's not what Audrey said mah so, and like I think he also know I very frank one lah like ya, that's why lah okay lah whatever lor


but I mean, ya I haven't actually ask if he went to visit already but he was, you know what he say can I come down on Saturday which is the last day of the funeral, I swear like the convo just keep getting worse and worse leh


oh-my-goodness like then I say Saturday then I, isn't today only, we met on Tuesday right, ya isn't only Tuesday why got so many days he cannot come, [orh] Wednesday, ya Wednesday to Saturday I mean


confirm can at least find what half an hour to come down right and you drive leh I don't understand, ya but, or although he never see the grandmother before because, he hates to visit Audrey, side for


he's just weird then, ya so he they so long already so he have never visited the family for like #bai nian#, so he never see the grandma before


I think so, ya although he never see Audrey's grandma before, but it also is, also blood related like, he can get like, MC and not like off, to show like you show the death cert of the grandma can get MC one you know that kind like can take leave one


if yours like blood related lah, but he just don't care even though like, he never see before, I don't know man, no he's like that from the start you know


he's like that from the start, and like, he always like, trigger Audrey over small things like, okay for example that day that day, she told me this happen lah in real life like when they met


so they were queuing for the Man-Man, Unagi, yeah the Man-Man ya it's damn good eh eat before, it's damn expensive, damn it's damn long queue but it's damn freaking good oh-my-god


can we go there for my birthday, thirty plus dollars, for one bowl, but is is damn freaking good okay okay okay anyway okay so they were queuing lah, then beside it got like this gin place they were queuing then after that Dylan wanted go over the gin place and


then after that you know cause they all all play games one like phone game, then after that Dylan was like eh eh you go and download this game I I go there see something first, then after that she got her farm to feed and like the stuff lah the game, so she was like oh okay then Dylan went off then come back less than five seconds so she still feeding her thing


after that Dylan was like, is this how you gonna cheat on me like at jokingly jokingly lah say like like ya, then after that, ya then after that later at night at night when uh (ppb), later when at at night right the


uh when Audrey went back to Dylan's house that time, ya then, what happen I forgot but like they had like this conversation, this conversation so, so Audrey


Audrey use the same , sentence on him, ya ya ya so so he was texting, another, another girl, something like that (ppb), eh no no no no no [orh] I remember already okay okay no no no it's not a girl is a guy okay okay is a guy


okay so no no no no no okay okay okay so, so uh Audrey found out that a guy stay over at his house which is okay but like, uh staying over at my house but he didn't lah so Audrey not angry she want to like


tease him back lah with the same words then he's like, [orh] so that time, the who go over your house and stay you never tell me, then like is this how you gonna cheat on me like I mean is is obviously a joke right cause he's a guy right, then after he say, what the hell why you so angry then suddenly very intense


then, uh he say, [orh] no then Audrey say, uh I'm not angry what I'm just like saying what you say to me I mean I'm reusing the same words, do you have to be so revengeful every time I say you have to say it back blah blah blah then after that


uh Audrey just replied saying like uh, so you feel hurtful, then you never thought whether the words will hurt me or not I mean, although it's not hurtful lah like, but like it makes sense that like, you use the words then you get offended by the words you say then I use it back on you ya you know it doesn't make sense


like, I don't know eh, I feel like his mentality also he's old


oh then then like she really don't know how to tell her family like, why her boyfriend still haven't come, visit, you know, like do you like eh then your boyfriend never come, eh your friends all come already your boyfriend never come you know, oh that day I went I forget give <mandarin>白金:bai jin</mandarin> damn funny then after that Audrey texted me


eh wait, did you give <mandarin>白金:bai jin</mandarin> cause I think she she forgot who give who never then, oh-my-god I forgot can you help me to give then I transfer her straightaway !huh! so fast then cause I say transferred liao, ah then !huh! so fast, I'm not rushing you I'm just like [orh], confirm I will forget later so I need to do it now


I I don't know how much so I ask her fifty then say no lah twenty to thirty can already you also not working yet then I oh then I just pass her thirty lor


but I mean not all lah but most, ya we need to find that ten percent, ya anyway anyway this this Audrey's funeral


pain right, damn sad right I don't know, I was taking bus there


then I like oh-my-god, I swear like oh shit it hit me that oh people are gonna leave then I like shit can I be the one to leave first, is damn sad


you'll get over that period, but it's hard lah it's hard I mean until now I also never fully like not, but like I mean, that's why I long ago over already over eh and he dating this girl


he got post lah, he got post on his stories then got like heart heart, for quite long already, no he never even post anything, because they are dating lah


that time he was playing only, is the wrong person lah I guess but actually now I think back Heng, like I feel damn Heng, why is just the wrong person lah


it it maybe it's not the wrong person is the wrong time I don't know, but I feel it's the wrong person lah, but you alone so I feel it's the wrong time, I I I wish to believe you know I wish to, be in denial


that right !aiya! it's okay, no I tell you he is he sure will send later and, what take so long already leh


but he was like the baby that kind, okay but that's true, okay that's great


ya, ya, ya, ya, I know


ya I I ours is the exact same, thing we go through because the time spend is the same also, ya, and and the context is the same like the way they text and the way they, ya


ya, the sis quote eh, can say again I send faster


say, say, okay I send


hate you eh, !aiya! just do your thesis do well can already


don't know leh no timing eh, I don't want to take Grab home, ya


we still got how long, thirteen, okay, don't know I don't know how to go back sia from the


!wah! shit lah, then now if you go (ppb), gonna drink hor I tell you we have hard time finding our way home eh oh-my-goodness


ya that's what I'm trying to say, can't wait to buy my new shoes


no money, ya lor


then how no timing, I don't know, nine plus eh I forgot actually, actually I think Bishan don't have


I forgot, gv


ya I check already, the aircon cold hor


don't want issue


then too bad, ya nine fifty damn late eh watch <mandarin>到来:dao lai</mandarin> already twelve eh


I don't know


I need to pee soon (ppb), pee, just leave it tomorrow then we stick it back


no, no for what, she got work or not you text her, no that's if we going to go there to watch what, but if we not eating then


then go there for what, ah nah then, but if you want we can go next


okay (ppb), we still got seven minutes, ya


by then it's like damn long queue, yes, Din-Tai-Fung is the best


I also but then like, I don't think so, but then normally they younger than us, for you, already okay


oh ya I forgot, I forgot, cannot eh unless, the person younger than me in uni and, not but as in if I'm in uni


he is what year now, ya I cannot, I feel like the guy has to be more established and more successful already, if he's gonna be at year one then you're and your on your last year already right


then you will graduate and you start saving money first eh (ppb), if then, the guy is damn useless like that, I mean <unk> I'm not saying he is, it is but in the long run like, who comes out to work first mean


ya and the guy has, not really <mandarin>养你:yang ni</mandarin> but he has to <mandarin>养:yang</mandarin> himself what, so it's, you cannot, he can the thing is he can but the thing is, but he has to start saving for like you know marriage and like


ya I think your your, you never put twenty one, ya, but actually to be honest twenty one, you put twenty one right got more, better looking, cause at first I put twenty two


but then it's either they too good looking or too <mandarin>小弟弟:xiao di di</mandarin> looking, then I cannot, but anyway it won't work, although there are like success rates but then like


I think it won't work, you only try once like a legit, proper one, okay ya very hard to find, ya as I was saying, there are like ten people you swipe right on


there are only two people that talks to you, and out of the two people either zero or no percent that you can actually continue the convo, ah so like, nah don't waste my time


maybe you try others, I think you it's the same lah, but I think, ya I heard got this app called Paktor


is it good, I also never try before, okay but whatever, if it comes it comes lor, eh but I deleted already then he talked to me one what


it's not like I, ya it's like I already, don't care already I don't want already, then like can talk then, never mind lor whatever lor just go lor free then okay lah, ya


ya really younger guys really cannot, you see all those that Line me right from the camp


eighteen eighteen eighteen twenty I like, oh-my-god these <mandarin>小弟弟:xiao di di</mandarin> need me to take, but I swear like oh-my-god I really cannot deal like with all these


like why do you have to spoil a friendship, you know, other people say you never try you never know but, like I really bro zone leh like, obviously I make myself clear so you should you know like okay don't need to try already this one cannot


they stupid they just wanna, make things worse but anyway right the, my private account right, Shafiq never realise, I think, maybe even he did he also don't know how tell me, anyway right you know I bought, Meric's present for his twentieth lah cause we got uh party like he got ya so we going then


everyone pay already but Shafiq haven't pay but I refuse to ask him like, I say on the group already twenty eight, ya I paid for like everyone, eight eight people you know, I pay for everyone then, so I just say in the group but all quite auto one leh


like they they will DM and then eh I send you already, then I tick tick tick then after that Farhan yesterday also send me already like I never remind lah but like he remembers then, Shafiq just never, then I also, I don't want to talk to him like


I I was thinking but then I think, but like I don't know like it's damn weird if Farhan ask what right, like means I got tell, Farhan like who haven't pay ya like I'm bitching about it lah


I think I only can take back when the party is on, I will ask lah, as in I will ask in real life I think it's more


ya like, eh who haven't pay ah, Shafiq haven't pay right, like that lor I mean I always, I quite straightforward so, I think people won't take it, like people that know me will know that I'm like that so, it's not that bad


I will not ask from people that, I don't really know lah but obviously if I don't really know I won't say I will pay, I will just oh I not enough money, uh can someone pay first I will transfer you, make someone <mandarin>扛:kang</mandarin> the thing, so if if people never <mandarin>还:huan</mandarin> not my problem ya


oh we are ending, there's nothing to talk already


okay so we are supposed to, use that, yes we gonna spot the difference, okay we will try our best not to touch the thing, okay come Terry let's solve


ya let's, top left, okay top left, we will try out our best we will, top left clockwise anticlockwise, clockwise clockwise okay, so, top left what do you see


two clocks uh no I don't have two clocks I saw I'm seeing two bears, yes my top left, in the sky oh clouds yes I am I am seeing two clouds


ya a silhouette, it it it is white that it looks like industrial building, ya okay, then you look at the toy store , what's inside your window


uh a bit softer, okay, okay I think we have different because, my two bears are both having bow ties, both yellow both red bow ties


ya which is the bow tie the one with red shirt, the one on the left or the right, your right, that means is my right, so that is that that that is the first difference, let's circle it, okay


ya we can slowly go through all the like mini details, no, mine says toys


oh yes yes no laughing, yes is toys, then the toys, I I I don't know what what is the background of the, what what is the thing be, what's the banner, the design the design


!aiya! ya but they're like most probably the same, can, so pharmacy what's the color of the pharmacy head, mine is okay I think, ya mine looks very angry then besides there is a plus, okay


yes same is your door one open one close, okay, shine all day with pearl toothpaste


mine is extra shine with pearl toothpaste, so on the on the door to the left, is it peal boxes on sale, do you have, apparently you don't have


so most probably that's the third third difference, your your , your door is it blue dark blue, yes my is on the left too


side of the pharmacy is it brown, so between the pharmacy and the green colour is it is yours green, the green colour shop is there like a aeroplane flying in the sky, oh okay then, flying leftwards


is it red wings , then, if you look downwards is there like is the three pigeons on the floor, do you hair, ya, facing, ya one facing the right


okay I think they are not that particular about details, okay most probably is already different I didn't I didn't even have that word where did you even see that word for, as in from where


dark green, okay I, okay I don't even have a banner just saying, so, ya the top top of the green store there is two birds flying


you have three windows, ya I have a gentleman in the middle, yes, oh my is black suit, yes that's one more, I believe the card should be the same right


my look like it's hearts, ya so, no mine is place your bets, oh I guess the differences are quite easy to find, I mean


I think I think you are allowed to just cough, so, on the right of the bed, that window, is it a door, on top of the door is another window, yes the door has two handles


downward, okay I believe that's totally different mine is sell your second hand goods, so that's blue right


yes yes, yes, brown brown brown ya most probably is the same, is your this like pop up store like uh, is the design like


lines that is downward, ya is it orange, okay is it sleeping, below the cat there's another bench, is it like uh long bench that is green and yellow


okay then what's it's always the same what, die I don't really have a poster, your poster is which part of the lamp post


eye level okay, yes I know where is it, okay, so moving on from the lamp the is the lamp post brown eh no no no no no not brown grey, okay, moving on from the lamp post there is a lady walking in the middle of the road


Red shoes, Grey skirt short above knee, she's not wearing her shoe, oh mine is not, my is, ya mine mine is wearing her shoes, yes so is it two differences


as in like because my is wearing the shoes so, if you look at it the leg is one different the hand is one difference but never mind, ya never mind we, true


sure a not, uh ya it's one <unk> sadly, why not more, uh ya it's a grey bird flying leftwards, dream on


the lady who is wearing, okay that seems good, okay let let let's move on to the, bottom left


okay so it's lamp post, that is uh similar to the one that we saw just now, but it's facing the right, then at the eye level there is a sign that says doctor, on the lamp post, okay then it's also, similar I think it's around eye level or slightly lower


ya, so next to this lamp post there's a shop called Pete's pet shop, okay so most probably that is another difference, I don't think the from just now till now I don't think the sign what color got issue right


is like, Light Brown with Green words, ya so the window there's one window and one door, the window is red, with like one, in one of the top left hand, square of that window or rectangle window there's a piece of paper


at the bottom, square of that window there's a birdcage, the one on the bottom right, I have no idea what is that looks like a butterfly, I think so, ya that's what it says mine is open too is a Red sign


yes I have a girl that's pointing to the store wait, does your door have a like a animal that, like open it for animal to go in, it does does it have a sign that says open also


oh yes I have a cafe store, do you like have a, pine next to the wood cafe, is the <unk> at all


one slice away eh gone okay, ya mine is cafe too capital C right, okay, then down to the I have no idea what is that called stripe, white red


overhead, they're all blue, on the table there is like one menu there write is menu, okay then next to the menu there is like


what is this those those condiment salt pepper, I I have tree too, eh we are are we missing something, the door, yes my door is brown


yes my door is brown so the next to the door there is like windows, one paint I I think is the entire paint together, okay I think is another paint entire paint together [loh], I think there should be like sixteen, sixteen squares in the window


four eight twelve, oh as in some is covered by the top, okay so most probably I I understand why is twelve


oh okay yeah I understand why why why it is twelve, oh I think we have to like look lower down and talk so it can register, wait ah one two three four five six seven eight nine ten eleven eleven


can't be the should be something else, along the road is your entire road all pink, are they like, the rock the road I think, I I don't think is a rock but, like on no no no not the road on the side walk pavement pavement


the lines and stuff, can't be what do we like miss our stuff okay ya, wait we haven't really talked in in depth of that the small girl over there


is she wearing like green stripe shirt, ya, oh the the the small one that is pointing towards the pet shop, so is wearing like grey shoes, dark dark brown or red hair


brownish, short or long, the girl in the middle does she have short or long hair, shoulder length


I mean looking at how weirdly it's distributed most of it should be at the cafe, the door like, the design of the walls of the shop is it like, uh brown and white, downward stripe


I've nothing I I only see like, three boxes eh three rectangles, two downwards one sideways, okay actually I think it's four it's just cause of the chair makes it looks like like horizontal rectangle, what else are we missing I I don't believe it or is it on purpose that tell us there's actually


twelve but actually there's eleven, the bench the bench, what else is there for the bench I mean it's a long bench, green seats then it it looks wooden right, ya


two armrest the wooden, I wouldn't call it plank but then it will be like sideways, like, what else are we missing, the cat is facing left okay I think it's facing left


can't be the bird, south betting oh we talk about that just now I think, the two birds I mean like they just a few two lines right


what other things, I mean between the pharmacy and the the betting shop, the silhouette, other silhouette at the back, ya three, is just is just like three roof lah


ya one one looks like it's to the right, don't believe it, your pie on the next to the cafe, is there like, are there like steam coming up from it, is it like the the the filling is it raspberry


is red colour mine mine looks purplish red I think so, I I I I don't believe that, it can't be found


no but how how can we not, two, like the so it was the second hand good store there, that's something special about it, the right right side all the way to the right


the small, uh pop up store, the sign is it tied by strings, I can't find anything else that, ya most probably will be these two difference


okay should we like put it down and, have a look, like what is actually really, different, what is missing, are we really missing stuff


oh, yes is the pie, ya, ya so just now I was asking like whether is it like a slice gone


oh okay, no wonder no wonder, okay mystery solve so is the pie, we shouldn't have jump to conclusion, we will we will have to come back to this later anyway, this thing have to take one hour, no I know you it it it might be


fast if you wanted it fast we will have like just rush through everything, you will still get like eleven out of twelve, wait ah let me, let me, be safe and at the same time reach out for the card, is a bit hard for me to reach out, for the card


so let's look look at this card this card has like, uh heart shape on top is blue, is called small thought card, whoever that made it, yes whoever that made it confirm is Singaporean, with the use of Singlish and like their mastery of Singlish


I think mine is a bit louder so maybe I need to go softer, then okay so let's start, I will start, so (ppc), first card, it's alright it's okay I think one by one


all or nothing at all, what risk have you taken for someone you love, okay first I think you must you must say who, ya who is the person that you love, ya it was, ya then then what have you done for the person that you love


!wah! risk ah risk is a bit hard ah, risk is such a, I can help you slowly filter through people, I mean like you can first you can talk about


your family, or your girlfriend a friend I mean love can be for friend, love can be for anyone, okay lah you can give it to your girlfriend, is that the one I am is it is that the person I am think


oh yes yes, most of it can't lah the thing is, it being, uh I think, I think maybe it was too loud that's why is beeping is like telling us that, we should be softer


ya it looks okay, okay yes, so


jc oh okay


who would they do that (ppb), Nanyang opens up everywhere


!aiya! I understand understand


okay understood, !aiya! I sort of can picture it, oh my god


is it motion sensored


yes yes yes of course he deserve the card yes, !aiya! as I ask you then after you vote then you will get the card, uh yes of course of course I think the, yes , !wah! the risk that you take is really quite a lot I think


I don't know no is like life reason I can't imagine climbing out, then getting caught then is like, ya is not like after army then we get a lot fitter, ya ya yes yes let's take turn


uh what, how do I know that I truly love my partner I think this a extremely apt question, how do I know that I truly love my partner, let me think let me think, how would I know that I truly love my partner


ya I don't think it's a easy question, to think about how I, how do I know that I actually love my partner


I think, I mean of course I have a few criteria the things that I've always been listing out like what being nice and, what else, but I don't think those are the main thing because, a lot people share those, ya I think a lot people share


those criteria I have stated although it might be like minorities but they are still more than one, so I don't think, just by going by criteria you will know that you truly love the person I think, I think we talk about this before what true truly love the person I think


first thing is more like you all went through stuff together, ya you all totally went through a lot of stuff together, and most probably there will be conflicts and stuff you all resolve it, well you all move on together, hopefully you're on the, same wavelength and everything and after going through a lot of stuff


how would I truly love her would be, no matter like even during harsh time even when bad mood and stuff, no matter what like things you went through like, even if I I see my parents even when we argue quarrel and something like that right, never will the thought that


we should break up ever appear, ya even like even that we maybe if we are really angst at each other, or like when we I don't know meaning I don't think the happy times really matters that much, to know ya


that's why, I think if I truly love someone, I would, give up on like what pride give up on a lot of stuff, do me best to resolve stuff, and hopefully I mean if she truly love me right then she will do the same lah


I mean like resolve like work towards and solve the problem, cause after like after being with Van I realise also one main thing that, what what we both discovered was, any problem in the relationship right, won't be a problem of a a person, it won't be one person's problem even if with one person's personality


it still, like I I also, then they have like religion issue, ya so one is a christian the other one is not, then but the way they, ah no no no no no is not you is not you


the one that they are resolve the way they see is still one person's issue, they see as the issue of the, the person that believes in is believes in religion because, like she can't change to accommodate other but, from what I see I think is from both side because


if you really truly love someone, the guy needs to accept her for who she is, the girl also needs to accept the guy for who she is, so the issue is now currently they are seeing as one person's problem, ya then what they are doing now basically is like waiting for


one person to decide no no it's even which, I wouldn't say !aiya! maybe it's compromise, but more like they are leaving to one person to solve it like, until one person is willing to give in or something like that, ya but they are not working to solve it together


I would think so because I won't say transcend religion because, the issue is with religion now, oh ya we shouldn't talk about, oh yes but okay we haven't go in depth yet so it's okay, ya this is just surface talk, so it's just mainly just just mainly problems that


people are like, meeting and talking about then I realised a lot of couples always see it as another person's problem, like shouldn't really see it because once you are together, ya you solve it together even if the person like lack something and stuff, is not really a problem you just try to like bring up stop like


for people like me right I mean if you know me really well you know that I wouldn't really care if if someone make a error usually I don't really care ah because not really my, I won't even bother to explain or anything, I'll just leave it lah but if you are in a relationship then, have to put in effort lah


and if you truly love someone then you won't give in then I mean you won't give up, then you you you also won't give in okay you will give in if it's this other person is worth it, but if the person love you also they won't force you to give in, so I think it's still like both


try to solve it together lah, regardless of what conclusion they come up with, ya, so I think truly love someone one way is this, so if you truly love someone you won't you won't you won't have the thought of like just break or like, not resolve it or push it aside but, bring it up really tell them what the person feel


and like respect them for that lah then, if the person truly loves you back the same way they will also like understand that you are a bit open to them about that then, solve it together, that is one thing second thing will be like more emotional ones I think like, you will feel a lot when you're with the person, like you won't be like


I mean of course there are up ups and downs there will be that times where you may not feel much when you are with the person, but, then, I believe that there will be times that you really feel that, she's the right one I mean this kind of thing you really can't put put to words


ya like you feel attracted to a person like I told you I'm just attracted to people that is nice, so, ya, so ya lor, mainly those two I think, I think life is short


third one is about what, oh no no no no no I have a I have a lot of criterias but this this these two is not criteria, these two is really not criteria it's like even if the third one will be what maturity and stuff but I don't think those things, ya like what I said I don't think criteria really matters a lot


even ya for me but for me till now I think cause I'm inborn that way being nice still matters sort of or, even if it's not mature I can tank everything lah, even if the person can't, contribute or work for everything right, I mean I don't know whether I will really find I mean till now I can't


figure that out if the person, is not, smart or if the person is not capable I don't know whether, will it affect my feelings for the person till now I really don't know, is something that I'm trying to solve, figure out, because I think it might, I always told myself that it's okay if I really love someone then


I don't mind giving my all and like even like if I, the person don't have to work I just take care of everything, I realise I can easily do that, I don't know whether will I appreciate a person like that, cause if a person don't even have the, (ppc) I mean like mental capabilities to


improve themselves, or like to, to okay if they don't have the mental capability to like do work, or like handle stress and stuff it's hard for me to expect them to be like mature, or like be able to solve problem or be able to like, like like talk about like


uh really talk talk openly with each other, resolve problems together like it it seems to come hand in hand, like I don't really want to put intelligence as one of the criteria, but it seems to come hand in hand like, you need to at least be a certain of


ya to know that it's important to do this, like I always didn't want to put intelligence or like capabilities, everything but, after awhile I realise that, it seems to affect


but it really seems to affect, education also affects, it's only a two two point, so come let's let's move on I think this thing will take us a long time


yes oh eh I think you're you're born to win lah you have all the three pointers card most of it is harder also, a what this is totally not for us is there someone at this table you would like to know better I mean there is only two of us


ya ya let's skip that card I mean like there's only two of us it doesn't really apply, this this card doesn't make sense how long has it been since your last serious relationship I mean, I mean it's still there


(ppb) this not applicable this this this is also not applicable to me I mean you want to just now, but it's not it's not working out well also, ya no wonder not able to discuss a lot not applicable we need a big group, I think we need to buy this card small talk so we'll a bit eh red herring


!wah! I don't think this thing don't apply to you also, describe an experience when you were match made or went on a blind date, this is, burning cards for , I think this one maybe will have will work for you describe the worst date you've been ever been on


!huh! you only had one date


no I don't mean I don't no no I don't mean it's a person I I think we meant going out, like events, ya ya ya like like going going theme park going movie and stuff


(ppb) a memories of a few years back anything like is it the first one is the second one is like the fifth hundred one, I realized I if you give me this card I don't even know how to


I mean like at least you have someone, for me the worst date actually I have, ah you go ahead you go ahead


yes yes, yes yes, no no no is still just nice


okay that's that's that's good okay okay, (hmm) okay, oh okay


okay, oh wait I just realised we can't talk about politics


yes, oh ya is just election yes yes, uh okay


okay, ya ya, ya ya ya


okay


cause of muddy shoes okay true


are you serious, oh my god


K lah actually doesn't seem that, how is her, eh true lah to be honest I think a lot you also a bit Sian either I mean if my shoes dirty I will get Sian also


ya ya, uncomfortable uncomfortable, true, !wah! my, I haven't been on much dates to be honest this is like what one month


no lah there are previous dates that has never been worse cause, I think the worst is this one because, the previous dates, not really lah actually some some is just going out, so okay from this week what is the worst, I think the worst would be


I wouldn't spot pinpoint the one okay ya actually can't really remember one occasion but I think the worst would be mood swing, ya like, ya ya ya this is Van, yours yours is also


it's all recorded, no I I mean like, ya but I mean like, because, I told you the stories that we have been through so our


things like I mean our relationship is not that stable, we do bring out a lot of our although we we do talk about stuff a lot so we bring out all our problems right from the start, so everything is on the table like things we care about things we like try to watch out for each other, stuff


oh okay ya things that we try to watch out for each other and stuff, so, so you you should know that our, this relationship is not that, stable from start, ya so there's a lot of issue so it leads to a problem of hers because, sometimes there is that mood swing thing because


uh she might not be that, like have that much assurance that this thing will work out, so some actions of mine or some actions of, her sometimes or maybe the way she thinks about stuff, will like, I mean made her not feel that good because she like is not that


confident is will work out, so this will usually sometimes pop out during our dates, halfways then it will affect, everything because like she will suddenly not talk or suddenly feel unhappy ya she will suddenly moody, especially when it was that day of the month or that week of the month so


ya so I don't know what to, I mean, and ya lah main mainly your result to her not mean that mature and stuff also lah


I think so lah, ya let's take straight away from this topic next card, yes no I think you deserve it, no idea, okay


okay lah K lah K lah at least we will be equal lah, we will be three we will be three come next next, okay so which one ah, I I I I don't really <unk> to be honest


!huh! but you have no idea who they are, I don't think I, no okay is damn familiar


no no no no


oh okay, oh okay, true


okay


quite interesting to be honest, !wah! but I am I am I am just curious what if the kid don't get it, that's the thing no right


no ah because I I no matter how I read right, because I I read the <mandarin>小说:xiao shuo</mandarin> and the Chinese novel I realize one main thing, like, when we write right when people write, they assume the characters to have the same capabilities as them, like


sometimes, it's like, they assume that what like the maybe the hint that they write, the other person will get it, maybe like this sign that they will do somehow another person will get it, then like, they and they make it like it's a common sense thing, so then there's that limitation because


if you somehow lack like have a different wavelength from the author right, and if you step yourself into the story right you will no idea what is happening, ya, ya like for a lot of my story I realise that I can't really pinpoint the one exact, K so then ya like I mean like yours what if the daughter don't get it or maybe because he is dumb


is like what the why why why is my dad doing this, ya ya ya ya I know I know, that's why the author use to really write it in such a way that


ya, you know, in real life it might not be, it goes to a thing that sometimes like your intended effort, the result might not


that's quite sad life is always as such , sad, mine I don't really have I I can't really think of like the only person that came to my, mine was this, main character his name is in Chinese I can't remember English so him


lets call him John <unk> don't don't call him, or maybe we should just talk about John, we shouldn't put a we will put a name that no one, that we know uh, Ash, yes yes yes Ash Ash Ketchum, ah this guy is just


I think he's quite similar to me because I, think that we are, I think okay mainly I shouldn't he has similar to me more like I should say that the author is similar to, cause I think, I read a lot of books of the author, ya I I I read a lot of books of the author then I realise that


the way that the author write right he mature as he writes, from the first book to the last book right, his values change his the views change like everything that he, does with regards to the character development changes, then that's what I like because when I I read progressively as he write I realise that


I say I say that I agree with the okay main character because I mainly agree with the author's value, like I think the author is, putting all whatever his own value believe right into the main character, like every single time that, okay ya, and every single time that he writes a new character he's use to do that


like, and the one that I, prefer the most would be the the one person that usually the style of him would be like someone that overcame all odds, then, find like their family that they the things that they care about usually from the author point of view will be family friends


so he will try their best to find people that, the friends that they care about usually and to be honest it's quite, interesting because, the person will be like some amazing person but in the end there will be only be one friend, or two friends is like is like really quite limited because he missed out with a lot of people, a lot of people contribute a lot to his life a lot of people help him with his stuff he help a lot of people with stuff but at the end


is usually only one or two like really a small group of friends that really, they will really give all out for each other, ya then, it will also be family that he will you see all the effort that the the main character puts to protect his family and stuff


like the thoughts he give in then I realize that, I think is quite similar to me because I think a lot about stuff like that also like friends family, like who is worth it who is not then like, how to be the do the best for my family and stuff, so ya lor he is just someone that


appeals to basically with a similar values and stuff, I won't assume is <unk> is the author, no he is really open minded if you really read the story I think I told you one time before, is like, a lot of main a lot of characters with like, I think the number of character can hit like thirty forty


really unique personalities, then all their personality crash like clash, in the setting the, the marshal art world setting, that the author came out with imaginary, so and after all their like values clash you see how things work out


so somethings won't work out somethings work out, you know sometimes the author is wrong then this correct then you can see how the main character mature as it goes, so is quite interesting, so, I think ya just quite similar in that sense lor


uh but it's gonna be a really hard story to read it's a few you know how many word words, how many words is that I think like two million, ya like the number of chapters is like a few thousand, one one one chapter I think is that time I count counted


no eh is quite new, ya is, is this guy is still writing, like I I I read until his reason why but is is like, you sure you want to read ah it's gonna be a really hard story to read, ya that's why


I think is, I have no idea


ya is just leave it there lah leave it there lah, next, !aiya! we set a good time on it lah, yes, uh !wah! this one, I don't know how to put it lah, describe the saddest moment in your life


this is gonna be a hard thing like really really hard thing, uh saddest moment in your life, do you have like the saddest moment in your life, uh ya I think it's not really good to go that


I don't have, cheek to cheek describe the perfect date, my perfect date, no I don't really have I think just say lah, my perfect date ah, I mean I went on so many but I don't even know whether to call it a date or not a date


ideal date ah, is really very broad


I think what happen that date I didn't think it's a perfect person, what happen on a date that makes it perfect ah


perfect date ah


true, ya what's the perfect date, I don't know eh what what when I saw the thing the only thing that came to my mind will be like two person, that somehow have similar interest


think if they love like, scenery and stuff then both of them just like sit there enjoy the scenery, maybe they don't even have to talk, they like just spend time with each other, like ya lor, like even if they go, perfect date ah oh I know what's the perfect date


two person, not caring about others and in their own world, ya basically enjoying each other's company, two person that can like, ya that's why I I always want that thing that don't care about others


ya ya because I always want someone that don't care about others because cause like, it's quite tiring if the person go there's like they worry about how people judge them how people look at stuff, it's quite tiring


ya that's why till now I've been finding someone that don't care about people's judgement, and Ben's was one of them, just saying, daphne is another one but daphne is too immature okay ben's friend is also immature also so, ya daphne there's so many of them in the world


what personal trait do you dislike the most about yourself what about yourself, !wah! what what, thing that I dislike the most about myself ah, !wah! I know ready


procrastination side


yeah I don't know whether is it a flaw I think human it's just human nature, I mean that there are some that's not but they are all of one out, so if we go by general public right actually that's not a flaw that's just humans , ya okay true true true because if you want to aim for something else you can't procrastinate ah


I mean if you that that that, our dear friend that haven't found a job yet that is ra now , ya she also dying sia, I bet she should procrastinating a lot she won't gotten it even worse eh it she her ra is going to end in like one month or something like that


so ya I mean like procrastination !ah! she's quite worry okay my my personal, ya she is worried then she can't find a job I think everyone trying to ask her about like ask Yi-Wen about marketing pressure, oh no lah Yi-Wai is not hiring okay shouldn't talk about company stuff but they are like


ya they are they are totally not just saying ya ya ya Tom and Jerry, so oh my my personal trait that I dislike on myself, oh actually I don't like being arrogant


I'm not arrogant, sometimes you will if, things go too well all the while, that's why I don't think I've told enough people but I purposely put my gpa though


ya I legit purposely put my goa because my first sem gpa was like all A and A minus, ya then I purposely put everything down because I know that, I will not I will I won't really put a lot in effort if I continue scoring well, so I could


ya I knew that I will like easily get, all A in stuff but, I don't like being arrogant for too long because, so later I will experienced it ah I don't really care much about grades ah so, ya is not mine ya is like is thought that I like to be arrogant but


I don't know I keep reminding myself, to be humble to learn but, I will is like I will nature be humble if everything that the person is worth my time, like if the if I think that the person has enough knowledge I can learn from, or something like but if people like a lot of people around me are not capable


and I if they are not capable is okay I will just ask them for who they are but if I have to work with them, then, that part will come out because, that is a obvious contrast that, ya, I can't control it because ya like I mean if I work I I will forever be humble if like imagine a career where I will be working


I shouldn't measure I realise she's damn capable I will I will always be arrogance though, ya is not really a flaw more like, ya more like just there I think, every every person that it's more like, confidence


and, I don't know, is the over confidence, ya I'm never over confident I won't think that I'm full of everything, ya, more like, Miss Pride, no lah I think yours even


that's procrastination leh, is a character flaw, ya is something that think of I can't solve because that time I tell you before the, best person is someone that, is confident but never arrogant, so there is that fine line over there but is can't be define because


you need to be confident like I that's what I always tell people you need to be confident you can do it, but not, over confident that you, will do it like like not not will do it, but you will be able like you need to be confident that, you need to be confident that, ya you can do it well but not that


you don't need effort but you you over ya, that's why, not like


that's why and and not be over confident and think that your work is always of good quality and check through and stuff, till now I can't, humility is something that, hard hard to be solve for me ah


no if someone is naturally like okay if if you are someone is not smart and, they go through and compare to others they really think they not smart is not an issue for them at all (ppb), ya, this kind of ego uh is really big one for me I I told you I don't even put in effort


for a lot of stuff K, what motto do you live by, I know what motto do I live by, !wah! this this is the best question for me, I know I'm I'm so clear of what motto I live by


I just realise, like every time I speak the thing will blink, like, like that , (ppb) ya can you see that this thing blinks then when you speak that thing will blink, but why would they make the thing blink I mean like is obviously is being recorded over there


okay, ya what what motto do you live by


ya, ya it's true, ya, yes


the motto for me is, as simple just do whatever you want, legit legit like like like like like, like I think I told you before what my my motto is just ya just, think of what you think is best for you and just live life that way


like don't get restricted by, I mean I shouldn't mention religion lah but still don't get restricted by like, cultures rules religion teachings, your parents and stuff, I mean define who you are what you are, is not that hard to define to be honest my friend that time keep asking me how do you define


then I just just tell them think, as long as you have a vivid enough imagination, you can't really replicate what's going to happen but what I told my friend is like imagine you are about to die, then, how do you like what what will be the thing maybe treasure the most or miss most or what do you thing will be the best things that you want to


I don't do the best for what what will you, feel like you haven't done yet, there's a lot of ways to, find out, what, like what you want in life or like what you are born to be like, like a lot of people keep thinking about what is their purpose in life but I think it's not that hard to figure out


as long as you have a vivid enough imagination I think of a lot of stuff because the novels I read I think about war time, like legit war time because and the they are really quite descriptive with it, so as long as you can imagine yourself there, like experiencing everything that they have that the people are experiencing there


then you you can from there you can slowly, figure out who you are, because, you can imagine you are that kind of that person, then you really go all out imagining like being everything I mean, experiencing everything there, then, maybe it's like imagining uh like the once uh


know more about patriotism, so you will be like oh if you are in the position !huh!, ya, like will you like, small talk small talk, ya will you like, do or like go all out for the company uh like country


will you like go for your family first or go for your country first, and stuff like that so there's a lot of ways to figure out who they are, so I think that after people like, through vivid imagination because you wouldn't want to go through all these thing, by the time is you can't regret already what, so I think the best replacement is


vivid imagination, after you figure out what you want then live life that way like don't get constrained by too much stuff I think, ya lor, a lot of


ya so my motto in life is just, figure out what you want and live life that way, think that is, not that hard, motto


motto in life, if you want I can tell you what what is the what is my take on values, as in like oh wait wait wait as in like as a participant or as a


participant right not not a, organise , I mean like if you only organise most probably I might ah it may sounds quite interesting to start a dating agency ah, I mean I can do it too I think cause, no lah but I I I I I believe, my my way of


getting couples together is, better than their criteria now, ah regardless, will I join I mean like participant, dating agency I don't think so ah, I mean, I I leave everything to fate lah to be honest because


ya that's why, no no to be honest I think those are part of fate also, like, fate, like if you are fated, to, so I think all those are part of fate also because like if you really like you really like down or something then you really like comfort or need someone to talk to


ya, yes I mean a lot of people is using it for other reasons lah but still, ya


will I sign up for it personally, ya, I don't think I will lah because, that's why because I told you what I only like I really need to know the person so, okay


I I think all these dating agency right are for people that are not meeting others, or are the for people that like maybe they are introverts or somehow their work environment I mean like maybe if they are a guy, or maybe they are a girl the place that they work are all guys or probably girls then no choice


ya, there is really no choice so I mean if they go for it then go for it I mean like, you can't uh imagine you go uh the uh, I mean hospital they honest honestly all girls, (ppb) I mean there are a few guys lah but it's quite saturated ah, then I go engineering legibly engineering is majority guys


ya if you go childcare teacher my friend tell me like the entire class only got three guys, ya lah all girls that's why like ya lah so I think we go go lah, nothing wrong with getting agency, but not not for work ah, (ppb) I mean can meet a lot of people I don't need


one thing is I cannot, !whoa!, !whoa! closest friend


ya, that's why why why don't have like a spike over there, that's quite amazing actually, actually actually no lah usually we talk also quite long, ya it's just that recently we have been quite busy ya


ya that's why , ya that's why, I didn't know it was about this, not bad lah I mean like there's, I mean at first I thought like if there's nothing like nothing to guide our conversations because we're a bit hard


because like if you then you everything will go personal and like it's gonna be a hard pick like it's hard to come up with topics, especially when like after work you damn tired then you also like, that's why I think I really need to like buy this more thought thing, next time I meet my friend I come back guys


let's have a small talk, I don't know eh closest friends ah, it's a bit hard


oh okay , oh okay


!whoa!, ya


ya, yes yes, ya, okay


ya ya ya ya


why, B ah drop, sorry, okay, true


okay, okay, !wah! entrepreneur (ppb), it's something that I really want to do but I can risk it legit like


I really want to be entrepreneur, ya, if my, ya if, I didn't I I I always think like if my family not there, I will really start and start a business already


okay, okay, that's the thing they are safe, I can't I can't take the risk like them what the


ya like I legit can't, ya


cause, ya, one of my closest friends, no lah it's okay it's okay


one of my closest friend, I really can't pinpoint to one person to be honest, sadly, close friend as in only one person came up, if I might it's not only one person lah but I mean like, he came up when I saw the thing but


I won't say we are that close but more like we are really really comfortable with each other, ya I think it's someone that I really believe that, anything happen he will be there, how do I !aiyo! okay this this is a really sad thing I keep thinking he's my secondary schoolmate


apparently he's my primary school no no no no no as in like we have the same, secondary school and jc, but I keep thinking that the first time I met him was secondary school, even till like recently then he told me that, then that time during his graduation his parents told me that oh you all same primary school as like what


we are the same primary school, I I can't remember, I don't think so actually, both of us in primary school he knew already, but still ya lah, apparently there's a group of okay that time that time I was really introvert that time I really got not much friends


apparently there was a group of us that went from secondary school primary school, to like and it was like primary school to jc to like uh, ya it's like primary school secondary school jc there was a group of us but I've never remembered, ya like like after that I I start figuring out that oh they were same primary school


primary school that time I don't remember a single person, but back to topic ya this this guy is just someone that, you can't find anyone else in Singapore ah, I really really really like I haven't haven't found a person like him, that often he's someone that


doesn't, like just does what he wants, he's someone that does what he wants, so he like what studying history now he's doing masters in art


that thing is ntu but ntu got art meh, I can't remember that time I I recall seeing ntu but I don't recall ntu having arts, but still ya he's someone that


I don't know why he came up when <unk> more like I'm most comfortable with him, because he doesn't he is, oh really really simple person, he doesn't like like a lot of people from su like a lot of people around us, he didn't chase money doesn't chase


like, like ambitious and stuff more like, he did things slow, he does what he loves, he appreciates thing that a lot people are not seeing, he does history so he appreciates a lot of things that, happened in the past happening now


ya then he studies art, then he is, I don't think so, that time he only told me that he read or like what literature and


like, like painting so what kind of painting people do like what kind of song people write and stuff I don't know why he is so broad, I don't know whether ask him about scope or like, what he specialize in, ya that's why, so he covers a lot of like like he's a university student I mean like he is blessed also I think his family is rich enough to two


I like him does what he wants, so he be that way and, I think we just click really well like we, okay okay because we never really go through a lot of things together, we are just like classmates we, didn't talk for like one year or something like that


we rarely meet we meet like, maybe one year you can say like ten times or less, ya we don't meet that often but it just sounds, okay lah maybe less maybe less as in there are time like we meet maybe once per year


during our uni time but, but after we like met then we just meet more people, ya ya we meet more frequently also, then he's someone that I don't know he's just that like someone that, I, think that, I don't know I can trust then


its values also like match with I also match with my, I will say that is someone that, I don't know I like his values and stuff eh, ya, and he is not someone that is like immature he is really mature, ya, he knows what he wants he does what he wants


I mean he also worries about having no work and go take master lah, but still I don't know, ya is just is just, I won't say to be honest I won't say we are closer I think we are even closer than me and him but more like, we never really go through a lot


but more like we both, I really comfortable with each other, is hard for me is like, ya ya ya ya, that's why that's why to be honest I am comfortable with a lot of people but, we feel the level of comfort right is a


ya, ah, like he would had understand and appreciate then he can also like learn a lot from him because he has his own take on a lot of stuff also


he is quite a unique person that I have not met in the entire, I mean by <unk> life and like I meet a lot of people, that's why I meet so many people right he is like, ya and like, a lot of people go through a lot of stuff like uni competitor then after that people change and stuff he seems to be unaffected by all this stuff


his stays himself, which is like I need I I I don't stay myself for one reason because I improving myself, so, I'm still trying to figure out who I am (ppb) currently now I'm already fix lah but still so at most probably I will stay myself no matter what I do, but he stays himself like


like uh like he's like basically living like his own bubble, is like so he's is someone I respect because like he is not affect by others, I mean maybe a bit on like the work part because he feels like he needs to contribute his family lah, but still, I don't know he feels


is just, good to hang out with him ah, and I haven't found a person like that for, you you can't find, ya


that's why it's quite sad, there's a reason why I didn't date after I figured out what I want because smu people are just not for me, ya they are kids, that are like, influence so easily by, culture so easily by


what the school is saying so easy by the like their, so easily influence then they are no longer themselves but they don't know that they are no longer themselves, ya like the one reason why, my intake currently might not go well also because the person, the other person I think she's quite easily influence also


like she read the what Rags to riches something like that then suddenly she, come up with the crazy idea that, ya uh ya like ya like her money is damn important then she, like for me I just need a simple happy life, but I will have I myself will put effort to earn a lot so people I care about can live a easy life


but I won't splurge, ya


that's the thing for me, as long as I don't deteriorate my health it's okay ah, ya and I'm blessed to be honest like people in job they are deteriorating their health doing what I do but I don't feel anything lah, okay I feel tired lah but that's all lah and not that tired I can even talk


do is now, ya lah my friend they all like burnout, so I'm bless with


I think yours lah I think yours yours yours is so much better, ya he's such a interesting friend we won't I won't say we are really that close just a interesting friend, ya lor and back to the topic on like the, Singapore I don't know eh like like the person that I'm going out also


I don't know why they are like so easily influenced by like they she keep using the word like what rat chase then was like, do you know as long as you don't see it that way, you won't feel it that way, I don't know why they always put the pressure to themselves like oh you need to chase grades you need to chase like money


then in compare themselves to others that you are losing out losing out, (ppb) but as long as you don't see it that way, serious live your own life take take a slow life what Jack-#Ma# say he say that, what he he was doing nothing eh legitly nothing until like what thirty plus then he suddenly start the thing


he say it's okay to not know what you want, just live life the way you want, no can just don't get affected by others you you compare Singapore to China China is worse eh, of course you still need money, so as long as like you are not affected by, what other people are doing like that's why you don't compare yourself to others


look at Jeremiah if he compare himself to other I think he'll be like depressed hor he week, China everyone is going for money eh, and he basically managed to not do anything until that age


!wah! how important is marriage to you ah, I think I know the answer, !huh!, it's important to you ah


ya that time I watched some video life is sad lah find someone happy to be with lah , ya


true


ya, ya


that one I agree, but you can change culture ah to have a lot , (ppb) to a lot of companions, eh we were uh how we, we were supposed to be hardwired to have a lot


ya, ya shouldn't touch ya, but we were hardwired to be to be honest, ya lah that's that's why lah stupid culture if you ask me marriage right when this, when this thing came out I think I totally took it from a different point of view from you


ya ya ya for me how important marriage is still to me, to be honest to me marriage is not important, it's not that marriage, ya because I told you about my point of view that, if not for this stupid culture if not for my parents that are affected by


uh this stupid culture, as long as my wife don't think it's important we can still reproduce and give kids and have do everything together what, doesn't need to have a marriage to like put our status there what, I can use the money to do a lot of better stuff than, hold something to it's just because of our stupid culture that


need something to signify, ya certify that we're together or like, signify that we actually love each other and we are committed to each other actually don't need, ya if if not for this stupid culture, ya, if I really found the


that's the thing, if not for this entire system I would think marriage is not important, ya, that's why that's why I think the culture is a bit


a change right, ya lah, no we we can't change we need to start from scratch, like you go to some island, and is like from now on you all do this then they will just do it lah, they won't even care like really born young they will do it


and they see their parents doing it they just do it, ya, ya to me to be honest marriage oh wait if you if if you go all the way to uh your the way you see it I think it's damn important also, I think I also want to find one companion which I have been trying


I prioritised like relationship over studies, I can don't study for exam one and I think my relationship more important, there are a lot of exam I actually study I don't know how I go inside come out and still got but still I legit got a lot exam I never study like five years never study, like, my ifa I think I never study a lot a lot of my exam all never study


as in got touch a bit but that time I was so affected by a lot of stuff right actually nothing goes in my brain eh, by some miracle it worked out ah, ya


ya without without no lah you should you should you should, what's that, what the, I know I know I I'm I'm


across , I know what, I I know what, the certain religion will choose


actually is interesting lah but still I don't know like the it's too broad, it's too broad


eh wait wait wait wait wait influencer influencer, I think is, use this symbol to choose like how you influence others, ya ya ya, true


oh I don't think this was meant to be like that


but looking at this right, I think I know how I influence others, for people that I put in effort usually I air hug, influence them in the positive way, either multiplication for those that are smart enough to comprehend or plus for those that


at least understand a bit, but for people that I, choose not to explain a lot of stuff right it will be minus, because, ya I'm totally not not only am I not helping them, I'm feeding onto their, biasness or persuade or like their stupid believes that


bit some people are like this some people like that then, it will worsen them the long run because they will keep thinking that they are right, which is a bit of arrogance ah, ya okay nevermind not important so this one (ppb) what nicknames, ya wait what nicknames do you go I I I !huh!


uh my nicknames also panda, what your nickname one meh, him ah Kong, the the the what what is that beancurd biscuit one, Kong-Guan Kong-Guan


have a lot meh, are you serious, oh ya ya


Yafis call you thumb


okay lah I think deserve the card lah, I don't I don't even have a nickname sia funny meh, !huh! Kong-Guan Kong-Guan, I'm uncle uncle we are both uncles, you only had one more year to live what for would you change about your life now


you what what will I change, I will <unk> for one year, if I only can live for one year what will I change ah


most things I wouldn't change to be honest but, I will spend, more time with family because, ya lor, it's not really a good, question to ask what's that, oh hey it's not really a good question to ask because


like a lot of people always use this to like remind people that they are like, making the decisions or like maybe they should reflect their decisions but I think that, that's always a wrong question to ask ask because, having like because we expect ourself to live like thirty forty years


so expecting ourself to live thirty forty years now we can, do things that we don't really enjoy much, for the happiness in the long run, ya because if we go enjoy ourself, for one year we will die, for a longer period of time


oh no no I'm saying like a lot of people always like this kind of questions to, ya, no no it's like they remind people like they are reminding people like they are living life the wrong way, they should not, how to say ah like okay you need somebody to do this, then people will say that


oh I should spend more time with my family, then they will be asking why you never spend time with your family now, but the thing is not that the thing is like, I'm earning money for my family, so the long run my family can be better, ya it's not like


oh if I have one more year to live, last year of life ah, first I have to look at my savings to be honest, I have to look at my savings, then !wah! there's a lot of things to consider eh I need to


most probably I will plan it out, my last one year, I will spend time with my, family at the start maybe for like one month, then, if I have enough savings most probably I will go travelling


or go meet my friends and stuff, then, I will come back I will really go to the world's most amazing places, like really nice scenery and stuff, then experience, do a lot of stuff then come back and meet my parent


ya [loh], I think so ah like, there's a lot of things that I really want to do now but I can't do, cause if I, indulge then the ya lor if I indulge in it then, who to take care of my family in the start, the next few times


so can't ah, (ppb) later they reject the offer then how


same what


I have plan ah, [orh] I know I know I know what if I want you to leave, I sent myself out for all the dating apps, to find the really right person, uh uh no ah I don't think


(ppb) find another person that has only one year to live ah, (ppb) first thing find another person that want you to live, live together


ya, ya, was it, oh yes I want I want watch the movie, how much that movie


it's a it it's really a ya is a such a nice movie, ya, !wah! that that that that movie is really nice, that's why it's like what I said like really vivid imagination


after that they can reflect on themselves what they really want, ya even imagining that you have the last bit of life you live right you will learn a lot about yourself it's very hard, it's really very hard it even hard for me to understand why people study in certain way, how do I imagine myself having cancer, ya


ya, you can never empathize like I can never feel what a lot people feel, that's right, ya who can understand eczema


that's right, mine is quite bad, that's why, I don't know how to cure it eh


don't know ah I never talk much to people one, ya, oh ya maybe that's why


can't be healed ah serious, I tried my best I did a lot of stuff, ya


ya, no I I seriously believe it can be healed because I realized eczema came out cause of, modernization, urbanization so, there is something causing it, like there's someone that says that living in hdb is bad for health, legit legit because they said that like uh we are charged


like due to like electrons in our body, so touching the ground actually makes it better so you shouldn't live too high up, ya so if you stay up high if you stay up high enough then you get sick, then there a lot people research into a lot them the people research into there is also a disease for sun


if you're not away from sun long enough right, humans will actually like, ya you need sun apparently humans need sun, no no no it's not Vitamin D even if you eat Vitamin D you can't live in the dark, humans are not made to live in the dark but it's something that no one actually explored that


like legit if you like even for us we we keep getting suns we don't really feel it, but I think if you like go to uh if you hide yourself for long enough right you really can't, like function well, I don't know I mean outside of <unk> what if like like like sheltered from sun


like forever, I mean no need underground lah in this room ah, not not not not not not in this room for like okay you can have a big place but you never touch sun, you might have light I think you will still die like, I think there's some disease that


like there's a lot of human function that no one know, ya, a lot of things like even hdb like higher value is it good this kind of thing cannot review you what or not next time want to buy (ppb), not the higher hdb out expensive one, ya there's a lot of


a lot of weird stuff like eczema that time someone also should like people can't cure so they finding trend, or like what kind of <unk> more often then you realise all the cities got more eczema, like, ya, all the city got more eczema


I don't know okay maybe ya because they said that, ya they said that, our we're actually born weak because, we keep staying away from all those things right then we don't have the we're not exposed to it, ya, so our body not used to it so


down the generation our body get worse, so actually it's our parents' fault but uh regardless no really I'm not I'm not joking I'm not joking, I'm not joking this kind of thing got a lot like people researching on like human hereditary, like if you if you believe in the evolution theory right this makes a lot of sense, makes a lot of sense ya


ya but I can't I can't prove it maybe electrons fake maybe there's something else that is actually, maybe okay maybe I shouldn't say electrons is fake maybe there's like, a better term to like classify all these stuff but, they only to see electrons


is a lot of stuff that's, ya there's too many things in science, ya that's why, ya


ya there's a lot of things that, ya


I don't even know how to find, I also want to know you find the richest person you go ask mbs ah, who told you to build that stupid whirlpool thing, recommend to me that master I also want to build one in my house, ya they they are doing well what most probably the water contributed to it


ya you know that that that that water at Suntec it has the same purpose


oh I never, oh is it, oh really ah, oh ya ya that one I know that one I know


it's just better safe than sorry ah, ya and if you to be honest they look at this then they are succeeding, so, even though we don't know why go ahead like like that that that


what what what what is that uh the the that time they realised that, why why keep trying to find, like why keep trying to find like uh causation, it should more it should actually rely on correlation, because right there's too many things we can't explain right, so they they had the ya you don't know


like all variables inside, then they find, whatever variables that is it they just filter by that, they they call it a theory what theory is it call some Bow theory or something like that


they just bomb all the variables right, like maybe to people come your company maybe you tell them eat prawn noodle maybe they will do better, don't even know why maybe the prawn noodle shop nearby you don't even know why but somehow, all these like are showing results, so actually sometimes, don't even need to find causation just find correlation


you never know there's a lot of things that, like somehow interlink like maybe like you go through hundred things to come back to this, ya, like this person that has a weak leg somehow you will do better at job, there's no reason why, ya maybe cause oh the I don't know there's too many reasons going on


so that's why sometime it was like rely on correlation might be better, that's what tcm is doing actually, ya test test can ah actually that's what medicine is doing but medicine, but I mean okay lah they both use correlation mod ah cause need to explain


what's that, what's top three on your bucket list, oh ya true true true, !wow! how much is having children to me ah, hard to say sia, until I find the right person right is really hard to say


ya, !huh! craziest thing I ever done, mine mine nothing special leh mine mine the craziest thing I ever done


!aiya! was that time I also introvert what, I was like I need to change I need to change, then that time when I can't even do anything I think I told you before what, I joined the stupid jc, !wah! the time ya, the one jc one the the army camp


are you serious


okay, what the


!wah! shit they gonna lose like, they gonna lose like, all the, you know all the freedom they ever had


ya lah ya lah ya lah, pray that they haven't passed the birthday once they passed they died, ya but oh quite sad leh


no that's why, do you know there was a, the previous person was much nicer, as in now now there was a advocate, though there was a group of people they came together to tell people not not to focus on grades too much


I just joined that group leh, I give up trying that because, !wow! this is, ya ya I give up trying to, do that because I realized that I tried that as, because


I just after a while I realized that !aiya! if they are smart enough to notice that, no because like a lot of people is angry with the group because, they are saying that, a lot of privilege families, can don't get good grades and still do well in society


because of the connection because even if they can't go Singapore uni they can go other uni, no matter what they will still do one like a lot of poor people ya no choice, but the thing is, as in that the the the issue is theirs their like too


what what what's that word, they're too, they are zooming on the wrong thing, ya it took for me they are too fixed , what the group wanted was actually, right because what the group wanted was like is your choice not born to start


don't use that as a benchmark to, to mark their capable like worth, like, like they what what what what they are promoting is not don't put in effort, or don't but in stuff but work hard at thing that, is suitable for you


not work hard for the sake of working hard, ya like that's what at all smU people are doing what you think copying projects, that has any benefit at all to a person's growth, ya


like, that is purely for gpa, like that that that's totally nothing to do with a person's growth, then you telling me all the effort that they putting in is for personal growth got no purpose, it's for a grades the work for a grade, ya because there's a lot of values issue involve when peoples are pushing for grades so


ya, all is done no lah that's mine lah there is nothing much lah just join the stupid council, then become the camp head, no because it was so contrast to some what what someone like me would do


an introvert that have no friend that talk to no one, won't join the council camp be the camp head, then screw everything up for everyone, and still have to give a speech to the entire school


as in I screw up for everyone because like I'm, quite bad at leadership, so my passing of information was bad, like uh, like I couldn't handle the stress also because it was really bad like they don't even allow you to sleep eh


like you sleep for two hours they wake you up for you to night walk eh, ya they don't allow you to sleep they don't allow you to rest then, my brain couldn't process with a lot of stuff


your body needs


ya, so what's the craziest thing you have done, why, just exchange


okay, even Joyce went there


I think they never !aiya! Singaporeans are too, worry, what what is that word, not noticing, of dangers ah


Singaporeans lah Singaporeans are spoilt lah


why, oh shit


oh true true, ah shit


like when


shit sia I should've went with you eh, no legit I I a bit regret going Korea, I really regret, no I I I I don't mind eh to be honest I don't mind going anywhere, that time !aiya! that time !aiya! my my stupid I just go Korea cause that time I rejected Amsterdam


they took me in for Amsterdam eh, I got no mono I got one thing I want to save money, I will go for it lah


not are you no, I really did not, !aiya! but my fault are they're just lazy lah, I just go back anywhere


I should done that ah


could ah, Joyce, Joyce, I don't know I I can't put my finger on what kind of person she is


ya, ya


oh no no no no is okay I, why, why


ya lor, you take ah you take ah you or, all the more deserve it take it


I I I think I, have ah where I was a kid I shit, it was just it was just I think, I would legitly I think was the most standard right I think was legit the first day of school


on my second year school all of the new years, I think was primary three or primary two like that, !wah! I went, ya then I went to I went to like the , I don't know I went to the, the the the the know the they always gather everyone at the start


they always gather everyone at the start, then, !wah! I went in right then during the thing that time I told I told you what I was like introvert don't dare to go out, I don't dare to raise my hand even I want to like, like want to go toilet so just bear it bear it bear it until like !wah! really cannot


then I raise my hand and tell them I need to go on the way running there and it came out so bad, I I think P two or something, P two P three I I, no as because I don't dare to ask, ya, that's why


I can't remember actually, ya so I held it in until I really cannot take it then I raise my hand then way there then I came out for the, how I can't remember to be honest, ya I legit forgot already now now now that we talking about it I'll I knew it happen


but I legit forgot to be honest my entire primary school and secondary school was so bad I can't remember a single thing, that's why I forgot, all my friends that I was with, I forgot everything eh like legitly forgot everything eh, till now I can't remember I think you need to like hypnotise me or something then it will come out, legit I'm not joking I'm I'm I'm not joking I forgot everything all the way until some some jc stuff I forgot


ya like, ya is like, that's why you need to like, like really hypnotise me until come out I tried thinking of it a lot of times to be honest


my , my whole childhood everything right was, I thought I'm like just born, at the age of eighteen, legit legit the the like like you ask think back right


I can only think about a bit of jc my life seem to start when I first step into army, sounds so weird I don't think so


!oh shit!


can can you totally deserve the card, it's different


ya ya why, ya ya ya, what the


I just hope he see now sia


tailor ah, every time I think of tailor I think of girls sia, as in like, what time is it now, I need go toilet, it's like twenty three minutes


how to pause, do we like pause over there, like I doing like press and pause over there, oh don't touch ah, so should we like, leave it


ya ya ya ask I'll continue like talking to myself, you can like ask him to come in then I'll just look at the thing to make sure that, it looks pretty good yes the line looks pretty good, yes, yes the line totally looks pretty good


look look at hindsight what is hindsight, support hand sign if you could turn back time what is the one thing you would have done differently, K, next, catalyst what value do you bring to other peoples life


I believe that fate wants me to pick this card that, I'm just randomly choosing from the stack, you can't find him, uh I just think he needs a break ah, ya lah I mean like that that that's what part time means what


it's okay lah, what do you most , new ideas, ya ya ya hindsight one, I don't think so eh I I scared pause then something happen


that's why that's why is it like pause or stop or something oh my god it's gone, so I think it's safer to let it run, that's true, and I can't really go out and let it in ah if not there is no one here talking to myself


and look in the mirror, if I write lah, you can bear with it I cannot bear with it, shit is he there


I I think most probably he went down for a meal to be honest, like I'm totally looking at what, the wave over there, the spice of life what do you like most like to eat in the whole wide world, what the like to eat the most


!aiya! you want to , oh I keep okay can and sure, okay can can, yes yes then I will slowly read through the different cards , to find out what what card other cards there are, so for another card would be like the catch and release how do you know when


when to let go of someone, can oh my god this is a, (ppb) really deep topic to talk about with myself, and with my friend here, how do know when to let go of


let go of someone, I think, you let go of someone when, let go of someone ah, I think you let go of someone when like the


things aren't things doesn't seem to be going the right direction that you want, not when you face adversities and stuff stuff like that I think when you face adversities and, if the person is, seems to be the right one you will still fix together positively


but I think, how do you know when to let go of someone, let me think let me think, how do you know when to let go of someone, when you think the long run, and you really


and you have put it enough effort and, time to it, how to define enough is a bit subjective but, after putting enough effort and, into it, then


and after all this effort has been place in, at the point of time when you believe that it's time to make a decision, and when you're deciding you think of the long run, so when you think of the long run you believe you will see whether the person


is the person like, worth, any more effort to be place in, by your whatever criteria or by whatever reasons that you think it's important for the long run and if the person doesn't really meet it


I think, ya I think it's time to let go of the person because, if you don't let go of it, with that thought in your mind and, no matter how the


friendships relationship will never work out because, because with a negative thought in your mind it's really hard, for you to, had maintain to believe that you continue working out


so, how do you know when to let go of someone, in summary I think, is time to let go of someone


you no longer believe that, the person, is the right one


next so the next card that I'm looking at is non negotiable, so what is a deal breaker in your search for a partner, oh my god, I think this is like, self reflection for me, what is my deal breaker


my deal breaker is, whether, the person is nice, nice and compass a lot


so in summary whether the person, is able to empathize empathize or something like that we, the, with others, most important feel will be friend, and of course


is my partner, so and, if the person is unable to like, been full of others and, care for others I don't think, thing that's the main thing that I'm look at lah


then, it will always be better if the person can also like spare a thought for like public in general because I believe that, if a person can't, can't like


can't like even give a spare an extra thought for strangers that they have never met, I don't believe that they have the ability, to do that for the people that they care about, because they will lack the, ability to like


to learn ability to like emphasize and show care concern because, this thing, more like habitual or like builds up, or like builds up overtimes, they don't do it most of the time in their life because most of time in their life they handle with stranger


I don't think is that easy for them to like, naturally show care and concern for, people that they are closer to or people that they care about, so next card


this card, would be the best, so next card would be sing to the mountains, describe the happiest moment of your life, the happiest moment of your life now, because I've lived life


however I wanted, hi Terry, our dear time is still nice, so uh, oh no he say, so basically, I oh my god you know right after you go right, basically no it's not but ya no no as in like this looks like the


totally the card that I purposely pick for myself sia, you know like beside this this happiest moment of my life I just pick three cards, first one I anyhow pick was, spice of life what do you most like to eat in the whole wide world I was like okay this is quite a stupid thing


ya then I pick the second card you know what's the second card ya, how do you know when to let go of someone, I was like uh thinking through, ya then you know what's the third one, what is a what is a deal breaker in your search for partner


you know right like like like like like I randomly, randomly pick up three cards right , it's one two three ya, and these three cards came out ah, I mean the fourth card is actually quite important also, describe the happiest moment in your life I think it's quite important to be honest


my happiest moment of my life uh is always currently ah, cause I have lived life however I wanted ah, that's why the happiest moment of my life will last till the day I die


uh whenever I found the right one nah, that will be the happiest moment in my life, it hasn't happened yet, I mean to be honest like happiest moment of my life will be spending time with family and friends and stuff lah but still, ya but oh my god, what do you I saw the second card, oh my god we should totally talk about that


how do you know when to let go of someone, just now I was talking to myself like how do you know when to let go of someone I was like think, no legit how how do I think let go of someone will be like just now I was thinking it's like, I mean not only thinking I am speaking was like


I think was like after you all both really tried like you all put in your very fair share of effort, then no matter what there needs to be a time it's hard, to say when is the time I think that is a fate thing, like somehow or other maybe there's a time that you all think that you all should start considering whether the other person is the right one or not like


because at the start you all don't know each other well so there's always a testing phase, it can't be from the start you all don't know each other then suddenly just this is the right one that can't be right, so , so there will be a testing phase how long or not, up to fate it can be three years it can be one month it could be a few days, then after both of you all really tried your best tried your best to contribute to it


your best I mean it's also subjective lah I mean sometimes you're bad mood maybe you like not that not that, appreciative of the other person or sometimes maybe you got like uh maybe got period something like that then got moody something like that but, considering all these circumstances aside they tried their best subjectively


then a certain time due to fate then, or something then they consider lor, so I believe that, you will know when to let go of someone when, you don't no longer feel like, like anymore effort is really worth


like I mean considering different criteria lah I think the best criteria is consider like maybe long term, I think long term do you actually picture the person like, yourself forever with the, just think of it that way then all the criteria will popped out


ya like, try, after knowing the person enough, then with, I think once you know the person enough, that will be the time to decide, until you know the person enough, or if the person keep


not wanting to be open to you that is also knowing the person enough because you know that this kind of person I mean this kind of people, but not person be because they can't even open themselves up, ya, then what what if next time you are together and she's that person forever like that then


so weird, so I believe that, know the person well, know the person that, at the time where you think that is with enough information to decide, then consider what is most important to you like, just go by feeling I think all these is logic


and to be honest I believe feelings is logic but to be honest ya that's another point but still , consider like the long run whether the person is really someone that you want to be your life partner then criterias will popped out, based on all those criterias, then just think lah


I really don't think, I mean like okay lah I mean like I wouldn't say there's, there is no minimum I mean I I don't believe one day you will know the person enough


no leh I think I think it's really hard because, it's hard to say but I I I don't believe, like, uh one week is enough as in like like I don't believe like, as in, threshold, okay from what I understand of


from what I understand of people, they are the most I mean like most open with each other, like talk about a lot of stuff like really like, click well and stuff


but they so they also need to experience stuff together so it's a bit hard, like maybe they need to like travel together need to live together I mean like if you really want to try out everything out to really confirm you need to have like time living together, need to have time travelling together, ya, you need to like, uh touch each other


I mean it's quite important, ya ya ya need him to like, know what type of person is, worried about concern about their family and stuff so I it's hard to put a timeline because you need time for all these, to go see their family to see your own family to see how they are brought up


to know hope why are they like that, like I I I know why ran, that's why I can't empathize I'm I'm I can't really feel what, because, I was an introvert I go through a lot of bad things so many things that I wanted to go uh remove from memory I can't remember


but it doesn't make me it doesn't stop me from being a nice person, so, I don't think there's any excuse not to be, ya lah and if I am born to treasure it then I mean that's a bit side track lah but still I don't think there's a minimum time but, you confirm need time, but it's hard


it's how much time those people too also have to really go because, it's not just being together, it's also not being together, ya you need to stand not being together because of work or travel like that you need to get over that phase, so it's hard to put a time