oh okay mine has two on the right, none on the left, okay so right now we have, nine differences, you need twelve right


ya same okay the cafe the floor it's a like, beige, no black and white, ya, okay the shed


there are like three holes on it, you mean like


ya ya ya there is there is, uh the, dog is facing the the boys playing soccer right, okay the steering wheel of the car


is it, at, the toddler's side or, the other side, okay the the the cafe the signboard does it have a chain on it, at the bottom


no chain at all, okay then that's a chain on mine, so that's ten right, so we need two more, uh okay the sandcastle, that the boy's building, does it have a door


ya, ya that shape of a door so it has right and it has like four , like where the flags are, on, it has, like like kind of like the the castle thingy


okay the spade, for the red spade, it's like, dug into the sand


okay uh the chairs, it's , north, and west


ya like like along there, the kid, who is falling down in the, he is


like facing, not to the beach ya facing the waves, ah okay oh


nothing, on the machine uh on the vending machine it says push once, oh okay, so that's eleven


ya they are, facing each other as well


the colour of uh, tell what's


the ball's on the floor, oh okay that's last one, okay we're done yay, okay okay now ask me the cards, so you ask me right or or do I or do we split into half, ya okay


okay put put put in uh put in ya put in then I won't hear, wait we might need to speak louder, oh ya okay


what motto do I live by, okay to be honest, with myself and


the people around me and to never , ya to to to basically never hurt anyone, if I can do good, to do good all the time, yes okay my turn


who or what irritates you


ya but what what specifically do they do, laundry


uh what about, that that's who right, so what irritates you like like your pet peeve let's say at school or at work


ya I hate it when old people do that cause like you can't say anything cause they're old, but at the same time they're also really annoying, ya same, am I supposed to say my pet peeve


oh okay my pet peeve for, would be, people who, put things, like, who who who try to delay things, so, uh for example like my sister


like she'll be lah I'll do this later I'll do this later and later is always like, at night, you know, when when I can't take in I need to eat already, ya


ya ya, ya and another of my pet peeve is when people interrupt me, or when people chew with their mouths open, I hate it so much okay people interrupt me is cause like okay like when I'm not done yet


and you know clearly that I'm not done yet, and you just cut in, it's so annoying like what makes you think what you have to say is more important than what I have to say, and then when people chew with their mouths open it's just like, the sound is gross


ya, ya only babies like two years old and below can do that, my niece did that today it was cute


it's, when, he pisses me off when you piss me off so much, but, in at the very end, the thought of losing you still scares me, like a lot


like I can cry I I like sometimes when I get pissed at you and then suddenly imagining that you die from a car crash or something touch wood, and then I start crying in the shower, ya so that's how I know that I love you, and I I don't want to live a life without you


okay so how do you know that you love your partner


you can put that into your wedding vows, okay if you knew you could not fail what would you go accomplish, ya


okay, your passion, (uh huh)


ya, okay, then, why f-one, why f-one car


ya, ya


then then , if let's say your f-one job requires you to go overseas, will you go, and why


okay so lets say you're newly married


what if like, let's say the kids about four or five, ya like new not not new born but just you know smallish still


okay, for the record, I think you should totally go for it, oh ya but we'll see when the time comes, okay so if I knew that I would not fail, I would


I would apply for, a job, at nat-geo, like, to be a nat-geo photojournalist, cause I know I won't fail right and I know that whatever pictures I take it will be great cause I assume that taking great photos is part of the not failing part


ya I I would do that, but, being a nat-geo photojournalist obviously means having to uproot myself I'm assuming lah, so likewise I have to discuss with my partner


uh but, I uh honestly feel like this is a once in a lifetime thing, I believe that, my partner and I will be open, to uprooting ourselves regardless


of uh what


!wow! okay , I, I honestly think it depends on my craves, okay okay I know, for my last meal, I want to eat


Sambal stingray, Sambal Kang-Kong, #La La#, and, I wanna eat it with my family, so my mum my dad my


sister, where I would get it from would be from , East-Coast, you know East-Coast-Lagoon, uh there's this one stall that I always go to


I don't know what's the stall name, but uh, I can direct people there to buy if I'm on my dying bed (ppb), ya see you, I would want to eat that and I wanna drink coconut water, cause like last meal right and for dessert


I think got one, Ben and Jerry, ya, ah I want the one with marshmallows


ya ya ya ya I want that one, ya so, ya uh I want, I want to have a dinner with my family, before I leave, okay your turn


don't lie, everything, but specifically right now what do you think your last meal will would be


ya, oh okay


okay


you just copying what I said but okay, okay, okay, what are you willing, to devote your time and energy to without getting paid, ya so like pro bono


you can do it for free at home, and you can come up to my place and do it


if we start a rhyme when humans are gone the earth will still live on


but we need the earth, ya that's true, uh okay so you would like, devote your time and efforts to uh like like doing sustainable project, right to to help out uh pro bono


okay do you have any plans for that any future plans, you were saying for the up coming summer holidays


so you're not gonna do an internship, but I want you to do any internship, no no let's go back to internships, I really think internships are important because they help you to get a good job


in f-one, yes okay okay how about this you devote, okay you devote maybe the first few weeks, you your overseas voluntary thingy and then after that you know internship


ya okay we're gonna talk about this after after this thing ends, oh what do what I do pro bono, I thought, teaching before right you know a tuition ya so like voluntary tuition


uh it was nice and it was nice to see like the kids uh learn and everything, I I don't know for for me the thing is once the kids graduate, gets a little hard for me to to create the same kind of bond that I had with the very first kids that I taught


it just feels different, and the thing about teaching kids is that, you know or volunteering for people is that uh, you have to commit to it you cannot go for one lesson then they miss out on like three or four you know cause like, when I was doing my internship


my kids were asking me like why didn't I go as often to teach them tuition and I felt really really bad cause, it it it it makes me feel like I neglected the language which I did obviously when I didn't turn up for a couple of lessons


ya so, I think, I will still want to teach tuition pro bono, but I'll have to make sure that I can find the opportunity and I can make sure I can commit to it like I won't flake out halfway


ya, next question, it's your turn, ya it's your turn


the craziest thing, oh okay, uh in, okay the craziest thing is also the stupidest thing okay, in poly, uh my teacher assigned me to do this, Youth Asean Conference


this report, so I was supposed to go cover the event and then write a report afterwards, on the okay so we were, we uh accommodation was provided so the Youth Asean Conference thingy was in Singapore, okay so accommodation at this really nice hotel like


really cool swanky hotel was provided and, so me my and my other two friends, and course mates we stayed in one one room together, on that day my friend, Jeff


he , ask if I wanted to go clubbing, I'm pretty sure I told you this story before, ya okay so like wait so and then I was like okay and then I dragged one of my I asked all my friends along and she went along with me


and, after that we went back to the hotel, and I was, so tired I just knocked out on the bed like I just didn't even remove my make-up or anything, and the and then after when I woke up my stomach felt really bad


and I mean I read that eating greasy stuff will help with hangover right so I ate bacon, ya it's everywhere it's on the internet like greasy stuff is supposedly will help with hangovers so I ate like bacon and what not, and for a minute I felt really well but


afterwards I was like no I I can't do this I can't take it anymore, and then I went home, the minute, I stepped out of the car and entered the lift you know when I reached home I puke into a plastic bag, ya that was the craziest thing


that I have ever done to to actually think that I do not need a good night's rest, before covering an event and then ya that was also one of the most irresponsible thing I've ever done, ya, what about you


what's the craziest thing


I know the Taiwan trip when you guys went drinking, and you all lost the competition, that was well that was crazy, oh, then kl


okay tell you both, ya


ya, ya but you drank the most right, ya


ya, oh-my-god, yay wait was it was that, the wedding that, oh-my-god okay say that I think that's crazier than losing the game


what, that's how you know she's bad news cause they lost the game right afterwards


and that's solely how you guys got together, (uh huh) oh-my-god that's so cool okay, my turn my turn, okay, how do you know when to let go of someone, you have experience in that


(oo) ya how do you know when to let go


ya, ya


but that's a lie cause your mum caught them holding hands I mean her mum caught her hold holding hands with him, okay err, ya but you doing exactly answer question like how do you know when to let go


ya, (uh huh) why, the feeling wasn't there, no so you believe in the one


oh so how do you know that you've met the one I mean like honestly how do you know you've met the one


ya how how do you know when to let go


you didn't want to be alone, ah


did you all argue or anything, never ever, !wow!, how many times did you all text each other, ready on average


(uh huh), ya, (uh huh)


oh god so that means you didn't message everyday, what, what about before army, BA


was the frequency as frequent as ours, okay good that's the right answer okay, okay uh okay so how do I know when to let go of someone okay so first is the relationship part right, when that person cause you more hurt than harm


uh more hurt than love, ya so like when you feel that, the that when <NON/> you're with the person, you are just down in the dumps like ninety percent of the time, and only the ten percent, or the time he makes you happy and that ten percent like when he makes you happy he will make you really really happy but after that you just feel like complete shit


ya, because you treasure that ten percent so much then when it's over, you just kind of, dive down, like it just goes it just it just spiral, ya and


so that's for relationship, so for friendship, it's when, you know that your values no longer align because okay like honestly, in let's say primary school and secondary school that's when we make our friends, and maybe poly cause uni by time you get to uni like nobody really


nobody really, have the same classes anymore, you know you don't you don't really go to like tutorials together cause like it's all based on your own schedules, so uh when the person that you knew in secondary school or in primary school might have changed drastically you know throughout the years


and, by the time you realize it you know you guys are already adults and everything and ya so, I feel like for friendship wise the time, how you know when to let that friendship go, like when to let that friend go it's when, when they do things that you don't agree with that doesn't sit right with you


so so that that's for me, ya


let someone go ya, yes, uh okay so uh its when you have a chance to talk to that person about it okay, cause you usually when you decide to let someone go right it's a very like one sided thing


you know it's not like you decide to talk to that person and be like oh okay let's not be friends anymore that kind of thing you know, ya so, the under, when I would choose to, uh you know, ask someone to come back is after I have that talk with person with that person and then we reconcile our differences


ya cause I mean I have had on what on what more than one occasion that I wanted to end a friendship, but, I'm the kind of person who always thinks you know what if and all that then in the end I always go back and talk to the person, and and I then realise you know sometimes things are not all they seem and ya sure people change


but, you know casual friends, being a casual friend is better than breaking up that friendship I guess so like, friendships are definitely more precious than relationships lah I mean if you if you think about it you know ya, ya so that's it for me


ya like casual casual friendships cause I mean they are the ones whom had seen you in you in your like, you know ugly secondary school stage, ya


a bit of their relationships still exist


!wow!, I don't really have a hero, I mean I know people usually say their moms or their dads and I really admire my parents for bringing like, uh the fam like you know that the kids up and everything and giving sacrificing giving the kids their all


I I really do but, I mean I know the pc answer is parent, honestly but, when I think hero I think like, someone that I wanna be like okay okay so for my mum


she uh okay so if I were to say that my mum's a hero cause I think I can't think of anybody else, it would be for her patience like her dedication to the family, like a family is the most important thing to her and she can sacrifice everything to support the family


ya and she was, she stuck through with my dad when he lost his job during like the early two thousands, and ya for some reason or another they really manage to bring us up, uh okay then for my dad like why would he be my hero is cause of uh the love he has for my mum


I mean he can be really bad tempered and all that but you know that he really loves her mum cause like he always give in to her, and I hope to be that, as compassionate he is, as my mum is and and and as loving as, my dad is to my mum and my mum is to the fame


ya but if you're talking about like, you know like uh, political figures or celebrities whom I really admire, cannot think of anyone


so your turn


you haven't even end then you want to okay never mind sorry continue


just like my mum


okay so like, the quality, that you admire in your dad would be , ya caring towards the family and for your mum is like how strong she is


what do you miss most, from your childhood, you don't even ya


okay the thing that, I miss most from my childhood is not knowing how important it is, to have money, because when you're a kid you know everything is paid for okay the the concept of money, does not exist, you know, you you don't have to uh


like everything is paid for all you all you actually need honestly, inside, couple of tv uh just just you know tv time, boat, that's it, uh ya so right now you know you're so busy trying to earn money that you don't really have time for your family


but apart from that what else I miss most from my childhood okay, after I do well for my exams like, my dad would asked me K cause last time high five was really popular right, high five the the show ya ya, so my dad would ask me if I want


you know to get cds high five cds eh yes I would so we all get them from like uh the local cd shop, uh and then my mum like she really believes okay cause my family's like Chinese speaking right, so we we don't , we don't converse in English at all


but my mum believes that uh we we have to do well for English lah, so she will go and you know buy like bring us to popular and like, buy you know Enid-Blyton books for us, ya and, the the feeling of you know going to popular happily


and you know being so excited and like choosing the different kind of books that you want, ya that that's one thing that I'll miss that that I miss most you know for from my childhood, ya the the, the excitement, doing something even though you've done it a thousand times


the novelty of it, ya I haven't been to a popular with my mum for a really long while, ya, I should right ya I I think I'm gonna do that, okay your turn


okay I want to know your answer for this but I have one sibling younger sister


uh okay I wasn't very close to her okay I mean, obviously when we were like uh you know twelve and below we obviously really close lah like we'll get up to all the mischief together have, play around and all that like she was practically my shadow kind of thing, I remember when I use to uh I I have a Hello Kitty blanket


okay like my childhood blanket that I still have now so I will use to wrap myself up in the blanket like you know like queen style, ya like a kid, ya I forgot it would but yes I'll wrap myself up cape style and then make her , make her be my servant


and she has to trail behind me and like carry hold the cape up and, ya and every single time uh we, every single time she will ask can is it my turn is it my turn yet I told her no you're the younger one you you can't


you can't be the queen, okay and then another memory that I have like of my sister and I would be okay so, every Monday my mum's home, so when she after lunch she will drink coffee and when she is drinking coffee my sister and I would go to a corner of our living room and play


and pretend that we are hawkers, in the hawker centre, I think my mum must be feeling like really sad when she saw that like !wow! other kids wanna be teachers become doctors and then we wanna be hawkers, but ya I mean hawkers are great too okay, so anyway


ya so I only want okay so like during, you know puberty growing up years, ya uh we weren't close to each other at all like I hated her she hated me that kind of thing you know like, like, I think cause hormones had a part to play


so by that time I outgrew my like crazy puberty years it was her turn, ya but right now we're pretty tight, uh she's still annoying but we are closer I mean I can tell her stuff and she can tell me stuff as well


ya so your turn which sibling are you closer to


I knew it, okay okay wait, who is your favorite sister


who is your favourite, so the middle child then so your middle sister the middle sister is the one is your favourite, okay


you've had more years together


do you tell do you tell your sister about, our stuff, why, okay fine I tell my sister a lot of stuff and then she always tell me that I'm crazy, like hundred percent of the time


that's so sweet


she need you anymore, okay, describe an experience when you were match made or went on a blind date, isn't it ask


okay okay technically we didn't, we we won't match mate, neither was it a blind date it wasn't even a date


I guess but okay so, what happened was he needed a date, he he basically needed a date for an event and then he ask his friends, and his friend at about half of time must saying my friend, and my friend asked me if I was free and I actually have something on that day


but I felt really bad for him cause like uh there will be punishment if uh you know he didn't bring anybody, I think he tricked me, but anyway, uh so I I agreed to help out lah


the first few the first okay, the first time that we met it wasn't like a blind date lah it was someone like to get to know each other so that like the event won't be awkward kind of thing right, ya so the first the the first one that we met each other was really really awkward, ya like I just wanted to go home we didn't have anything to talk about if only we have this deck of cards it'll be so much more helpful


no I did not what what answer you at all, I didn't I did not


oh I I can't answer that question about the favourite band thing cause at that point of time I don't really have any favourite bands, ya and a k-pop you would judge the heck out if it because you do not watch K-dramas you do not listen to k-pop


ya so it's self preservation, super, ya correct


ya ya, ya, ask me out ya ya you you ask me and at that that day I didn't have anything on, and like I finish my work already and I was in hall so I thought like you know what I just meet you [loh]


and I was missing you and, like I remember when you when I saw you in your white like army shirt, and you know long sleeve and a pants then how said !wow!, he hot


no it was really what I watch in my head, ya ya, K I mean it help that in between we were texting, like we we we didn't stop texting actually we we haven't stoped texting since today that we


they were oh ya I mean if you don't count that because you you can't possibly count that lah but ya imagine I'll still text you anyway, uh but during the event was awkward, ya


ya ya ya definitely, ya no no I don't need I know know I I get what you mean cause that my cousin was that event as well and I would find myself like


finding her cause, you know right it's a big event and and you just want be people that you you know you know cause that event is not about it's not about, ya it's about, celebrating the achievements of uh the the the guys in the army ya so I totally understand that


after that ya, because, that wasn't enough


I, I thought we will need to took the photo once, ya I only have one, like one set, ya, ya, we decided to eat right


ya, yes


ya but okay the food was good, no no that was I had chicken, I I don't eat mutton I can't stand the smell but I


I I had chicken, [orh] ya you you give me chicken I think, ya ya ya, ya, I knew you like me then okay but anyway


you ended up thinking, and you told me, ya sure, okay if you say so


ya at Pasir-Ris at the park, and then he dropped, eye drop more on my nuggets, on the floor a very dusty floor of the car and then no the car was not clean


okay the part that the nugget dropped in was not clean, and then he was like oh-my-god don't waste food and then he maybe get out of the car and then he lean over to pick out, uh you know the piece of nugget that drop and then he chompped it down and I was like staring him in horror, I was like horrified I was like oh my god this is the guy that eats food off the floor but ya


ya he didn't die so here we are today, is it my turn, it is your turn okay


what value is in, like, how I am helpful to them, uh okay at so at work, I my my supervisor said that I value add !yay!, uh cause like I would try to solve problems first and if I really can't solve them then I reach out to them


so I think that is one thing that I uh, valid add value too, and also uh I think that I am a pretty good listening ear from what my friends have told me, ya so I think being a good listening ear is also something that I


like is a is a like a the thing that I value add to in people's life I guess, ya


you didn't tell me, it slipped your mind you know I will never like, like miss the chance to brag about myself


Hui Chu what did they praise you about, what what would your designing again, the U shape plate no right, not the U shape plate right, okay


oh-my-god


proud of you, I very proud of you, K uh, what's top three on your bucket list, top three, okay how about we change it a little bit


what's the top three on your bucket list and what's the top three countries on your bucket list, okay


can last one not be like adrenaline staff


okay, okay, the top three thing okay what about top three country, ya that you want to go through on your bucket list


no, it's a continent, okay, on your bucket list


six legs, will you can only go skydiving US no right, oh but as in what as well oh oh ya ya okay okay, okay skip


but but you don't know what country ya, okay never mind I will answer that one then, okay uh top three things on my bucket list, uh it okay the first one, skydiving although I am scared but I want to do it before I die like way before I die cause I don't want the you know skydive half way and then


pass out when I'm eighty and like have heart attack that kind of thing, ya uh okay so that's one, what is the other two thing okay, uh I, also want, to go diving


ya but the thing is, I think to do that I need to learn how to swim, ya so I guess the third one would be okay wait I also want to go on the road trip so can I have four things on my bucket list, okay I want to learn how to swim properly cause like you always said that I looked like I am drowning when I swim


exactly that's traumatising enough, so top three places that I want to go okay the first one will be to see the northern lights, Iceland, second one would be US


third one would be, uh the place that starts with M, yes I also want to go Santorini though, ya, Mauritius and Greece kinda near right


I don't I don't know uh uh okay doesn't matter, I will have four things on the the countries that I want to go my bucket list then, ya, I want I want to go road trip actually we should go after you after you grad


New York to LA or should we save that for after we have money, but then it will take quite a long time right then we need to take leave, see how no cannot this kind of thing you need to plan ahead


we probably won't have money next year right, okay then Taiwan it is, okay your turn


you are my closer friend, okay, okay this is a really tough question to answer


I don't have a lot of friends, cause I don't really like big groups, and all my friend that specially but if I have to choose honestly, it would be Adele, she okay I met her when I was


working in this company doing uh telemarketing, you know the annoying people who call you on the phone and ask you whether you want to buy insurance ya, uh so I knew wait got know her then our age difference I think were two years, ya but I hit off with her really really well


and, uh we are good friends, so she special to me because, she, can relate, to the things that I go through, she was there for me at you know the worse points in my life


and, she was always a good friend, ya is just that now like I think our friendship dynamics is changing like every time we want to meet up then she always cancels, like okay honestly I think her reasons are legit, but


I don't know sometimes it seems a bit fake but there's no reason why she will lie right eh, right, ya I should drop her a text soon, okay your turn who's your closest friend and why


like what


ya, (uh huh), (uh huh), ya


and !wah! isn't that really far, oh-my-god that's longer than your twenty four KM march, you all cycle eighty


oh my god , wait what time did you all set out, what time did you all reach back home, oh my god did you all take breaks in between, oh-my-god, horrible


(uh huh), ya


(uh huh)


that's good enough, broing


what personal trait do you dislike most about yourself


like your E learning, eh you have to finish it like soon you know that right like way before term ends, okay good good


okay, uh the one thing that the one character flaw that I do not like about myself would be my temper, have a bad temper that I believe I inherited from my dad


K (ppb) but uh I don't I have the tendency to lash out, like if I'm in a bad temper everyone around me will suffer, ya and I you know how some people can be like very pissy even though they are mad at someone they just don't show it, I find that a bit like


is or like if they don't like someone lah they just don't show it I find it a bit two face lah but I mean I guess it works for them you know in the office and everything, uh but, ya I I want to work on my temper honestly like, I keep telling myself that I will be better but sometimes I still catch myself


most of the time slipping up and it's one thing that I want change, also do we have to continue with this one, oh he cause there's this one topic that I want to talk about over here after that we can continue over, it's this one


which school do you want to enrol your child in, I want to enrol my child into the primary school that I was in, do you have opinions on that


okay like I said, if we have a bto in Pasir-Ris please have a bto in Pasir-Ris government, then it takes like, the the bus right is like, forty five minutes, it's not it will train them


they are you can't we can't have them, be be wusses you know they they have to grow up


if the bus is fast and we don't have to wait, the bus ride is thirty minute, okay I don't care we are sending the kids to that school, uh exams, do you want them to score well, I mean obviously I want them to score well lah no no parents want their kids to be


you know uh bad at studies, okay the thing is, I know that studies isn't everything, so you remember the kid I was tutoring right, the one in Tampines, she is not good at her studies at all


but she goes for like, music classes, art classes and everything and I think it's great that her mum wants her to develop these uh you know aspects, but I'm not sure if it's cause, I'm me or whether I'm her tuition teacher and want her to perform well, that, I get


uh worried when she doesn't perform, like that that she doesn't do well, ya but, I think if I have kid, I will try and support my kids, is even if uh you know in in whatever that they want to explore lah whatever ways they want to explore


ya, ya


and be doctors, ya, ya


but how do you know, whether or not the kid has put in his hundred percent effort


but do you know that every single time that I study my mum doesn't pop into the room and every single time that I do not study that, I put down my books and I pick my phone up my mum magically appears


ya I I I guess I I guess I know what you mean, it's for their own good, ah ya ya ya I get what you mean like in the past my parents would you know in the past when you primary school secondary school your parents would always push you to study but I realise like


the minute I entered poly, like they just, didn't really push me as much or they didn't push me at all actually, like now when I study they are like go to sleep, but I can't cause I got work to do right, ya


show off


(uh huh) you still remember those terms, you are really a nerd


ya, oh ya I I think I get what you mean, ya but but as in like your parents can see the effort right


ya is like my sec-three exams, uh uh Math exam I hate Math and I still don't like it, but, uh before the paper I was studying really really hard, and during the paper I blanked out, cause I I freaked out you know I didn't know what I was answering I don't know what the question was


and then after that I learn two things, that I'm not good at Math and to never study the night before the exam, because I will just put too much pressure on myself, so that's what I learned


you just resigned your fate, eat it up to fed, ya


okay, next CCAs for kids, like what CCAs do you want the kids to join, or like whatever


that's too much a child can't commit to it, gross


like like I just club right


oh the same thing


oh !wow! oh I think I knew that actually


oh was that where you first learn cpr


that means you failed, you failed, oh okay


okay but the thing is in Singapore you only can have one and we are not moving to Malaysia, but it just says CCA there, like literally a bullet point CCA, ya ya


same but what if our kid like doesn't like sports, I'm okay, okay we are going to send our kids to enrichment classes right, like enrichment as in like


musical music and like sports that kind that's what I mean, we are right so I think from there then we can, see what the kid is interested in lah ya then, then I think that at the point, I mean after having to go after having gone for enrichment classes for like two years plus, they would have probably known what they are interested in right


okay , tuition enrichment classes, okay so let's start with enrichment classes first, we are sitting your kids there right, okay like to me tuition is tuition


ya ya ya correct correct correct, okay enrichment classes I guess there are two two kinds, like , the one that you learn you know like music and uh uh uh Taekwondo


[orh] and then the other one would be where you learn, like science stuff, or like uh things that are beyond your school syllabus, like something like Kumon, Kumon is an enrichment class, ya like the the things that they teach you are completely not in line with the school syllabus ya


ya okay so the enrichment class I'm talking about would be, the, art and sports based one, I wanna send all our kids to swimming and Taekwondo


ya and I also want to join, I won't join the kids lah I will join the aunties group lah I'm sure there's a second one right, ya


I think the worry uh okay okay you you know the article that you saw just now right the one we moving the the like the result, not really moving the results but like not letting no ya correct correct placing everything I think that will be useful but, I guess what every parents what every parent


fear is that, their kids will lose out because, everyone is going for tuition and if you don't you're gonna lose out but ya you have a point kids should be kids, if they do what they doing then they know what they're doing, if we they don't know what they're doing then we send them for tuition lah


ya okay cool let's go back to the cards, my turn, what's a deal maker in your search for a partner I know if she smokes right, ya and also on the deal maker sorry, uh did what I said was a deal breaker


so your ex wasn't caring, pit pit Mac, okay what do you look for


ya I'm fun, okay K what about looks does the person have to be like pleasing to your eye


oh-my-god you're saying that I'm ugly, okay okay continue


don't bother with being pissy


continue, so, that's why you like me because I look good, ya


you know I'm talking about looks


okay so if everyday I wear like ratty shirts and, shorts and slippers would you have liked me then, okay good point then what if like I just wasn't aesthetically pleasing be honest


okay ya okay but you think is you know, there are pretty people there are average people and there are ugly people I'm average right


ha ha you liar okay anyway so what if I'm ugly, would you have gone out with me, be honest here because if you are ugly I wouldn't have gone out with you


not pleasing to the eye, I wouldn't really want to know that person more


like it's not a deal maker


oh ya, okay, okay, what's a deal maker, okay honestly he can't be ugly, and uh that doesn't mean that you are cute, but any way he can't be ugly and he has to


be, what, what you want to fight okay and he has to be like , he has to have a good relationship with his, family, cause I value that a lot like family ya I I I I I don't want to be with someone who disrespects his parents or


uh doesn't treat his mum, well, ya cause I I think like, since, you know parents are the one giving your all, ya it is something important, okay your turn


uh that he's shorter than me cause I'm quite short already, I'm short so I cannot date anyone shorter than me, ya even okay even if he is like, really nice really good looking


really rich, I, don't think I can, because it's just I'm already so short, anyone shorter than me would can't to be a tall off, ya so that is the deal breaker for me the height issue


and , oh is it only one, okay now just say at my name at one and okay someone who is, uh who talks down, on females like who who disrespect female especially


ya you know like you know those those people who make degrading comment about female and ya like that's one of the deal breakers as well, uh another deal breaker would, actually I think that's about it lah because everything else should be okay


like, I, I don't really mind if he's smoke, just not in front of me, and not in front of the kids but I will eventually like for him to quit, ya, uh okay your deal breaker


if he's smokes, turn off, oh-my-god


but then you are being like what's that word called uh you're being elitist


ya okay but the thing is but if the girl really funny, pretty nice, not still a deal breaker


every time she opens her mouth we're like oh-my-god shut up, ya I I I guess, so I got lucky [huh], with kumon


but that who cares, that's because your family speaks in English what, oh oh ya ya ya okay okay make sense


but why they are rude to me first, can I be rude to them oh ya ya


ya ya


totes get that, there's someone at this table you like to get to know better okay there's no one here that's creepy, what is the most inspiring book you have ever read


can I start first cause I think you gonna need a long time to think of your book, okay so, the most inspiring book that I've ever read, it's all the lights that we cannot see, it's about this, girl who was involved in World War Two


I okay I can't exactly remember the details, I think, she was blind, she ya she was either blind or her parents were blind, and


I really need to go back and reread the book but it's inspiring because like, it was like she just never gave up and no matter how bad her circumstances were , and ya it's those kind of book that you read and you're like !wow! she's amazing I want to be like her even though it's fiction, your turn


you don't read book so you don't need to answer, okay come on talk about the white gold chase book, that you've read, is not, it inspires you to not write those book


okay why is it inspiring


which school did you stop at, Narnia was kinda boring


(uh huh), ya, (uh huh)


you hated the ending, so which book was the most inspiring


(uh huh), ya


okay none, for me honestly I like like I mean I know they are fiction lah okay, I read a lot I haven't read in a really long while I need to go back to the library, but ya okay next what are you procrastinating now oh-my-god


ya I know you have to finish it like, a lot like like like next week, ya you you need to finish it next week, cause if you leave it for two weeks later you are never gonna touch it and you gonna fail and you have to do it next sem


okay so what am I procrastinating on right now, my proposal my fyp, ya but but I'm gonna go home and do it, ya cause I'm kinda halfway done already, yes Skype


okay, oh !wow!, having a dinner, like my family we rarely do that, uh because my dad comes home at six plus


my mum by the time has already eaten on Mondays, cause she eats at five like if she doesn't eat at five she gets gastric and then , on weekdays when she's working, she comes home at like she reaches home at like eight plus, so we don't get to eat dinner together my sisters you know school hours are also like pretty erratic


and ya so, uh the one thing that I would, want that I would most enjoy doing with my family would be have dinner together, like have a proper meal you know actually like sit down and talk not just like a quick gobble your food up and then everybody disappears kinda meal


then to show off your vocab game, ya, ya ya, and you get the points, okay


is it my turn or your turn


!wow! I, poly days can we not talk about the poly days poly days is too young, let's talk about like uni like now lah okay assuming that we are not attached okay, dating agency or dating app


there are no there's still a lot of dating agencies though, ya uh like go #Gai Gai# or something, I okay dating agency I will not cause I feel it's weird


at least, dating app you you get to text someone first, ya dating agency I just feel like it's like a blind date kinda thing, ya uh dating app ya sure but the thing about those apps is after a while you get kinda jaded


you know like you text and text but then eventually nothing comes out of it or like all the guys, okay cause the thing about apps is, you know let's talk about Tinder right you swipe, you have a certain you you you're attracted to a certain to certain people


you know the people who and then like, ya like the qualifications everything is about the same, so the people you swipe left to, I think their characteristics are mostly the same as her, ya so eventually you get bored like really really bored


ya that that's how I felt, what about you, ya


that's true, the person reply you, that's true


that's true, ya I, I I think I get what you mean and you make sense actually


ya stop you smug face, describe the happiest moment of your life, the happiest moment what, but it hasn't even oh to be a your girlfriend oh


really that's the happiest moment of your life


the the happiest moment of my life, it would, coming home after school, or work


after bathing, you know my parents will be in their room doing their stuff, like uh uh checking their accounts and everything, and then my sister and I, will just pop in sit on their bed and talk to them


ya ya cause as in like cause you know I only, if I go to work the entire day then I only get to see my parents for that thirty minutes or so at night, because like you know sometimes I go out for dinner or or stuff like that and then my sister will be home late as well ya so


those moments I mean we do it maybe like once every like two weeks or something but those are the happiest, moments I have because that's where we talk like about everything and anything under the sun and then like, ya it it's it's like, really nice family bonding time


and of course when you ask me, when you ask me to be your uh girlfriend uh but ya that very second okay your turn


the the worst date that I've been on, !wow! okay I know I know I know, when, okay so so I was I was friends with this guy, I, I I I didn't know that we were dating


okay, I I just had a gut feeling that the time every time single time he ask me out like we on dates but he never ask he never say anything or whatever what, then he also never hold my hands so how I know right then I didn't want to do much cause like it will mean that I'll I'll lose a friend, cause if I ask him like eh are we dating and then he says like !huh! you thinking too much then


it, would, ya exactly so I just you know like oh okay every single time he ask me out then I'm like okay we are friends, so the most awkward date that I've been on, was when, throughout the entire date he was quiet, really jumpy and nervous


and then, after the date ended as we were walking he asked he confessed to me, that was the most awkward date, and the worst date that I've been on, because, I didn't even realise that it was a date , and I didn't know that all the times that we went out that he liked me


and it made me feel bad like I was leading him on, for really long while, like six months, ya, ya


ya, oh-my-god you never told me about it, continue, what's her name, I'm gonna stalk her Instagram, wait is it in


in Singapore or Malaysia, oh okay, you still remember her name, jackass


(uh huh), oh-my-god, oh-my-god


(uh huh) (uh huh), she ask Michelle, oh-my-god then what did you say


did you continue talking to her afterwards, oh okay, oh-my-god, !wow! oh-my-god do you still are you following her on Instagram


which one I want to see, oh-my-god can't we do it now, it's a meaningful conversation, okay okay fine


I think that actually counts, okay but let's talk about date date then


oh ya ya the Tinder one right, the one where like a bad laugh or something


(uh huh), (uh huh)


like short tongue


you're horrible it's not like she wants it, dude


(uh huh), oh after that you were like I had enough of your lisp, please go away


oh you traitor you double, double boater, oh distancing herself


right right, ya, (uh huh) (uh huh), ya, wait and then you said you you texted her right you were like okay this not working out bye bye


the the Tinder girl, ya and then she replied saying that oh sorry we really busy with my exams, oh she replied right, but she replied


no but she said no I remembered that time you told me something along the line of she said that she would, uh actually wanted to ask you out after she, (uh huh)


ya, ya, ya ya


ya, oh okay, okay okay, okay I get it, okay, what nicknames do you go by which is your favourite, I I don't


okay okay apart from that, ya I, Chiam


okay, I I I don't have any nicknames, ya, I want I want again, what's okay never mind you have this is boring


oh sorry I did I only see his I only see what's the most important lesson, uh okay, from my mum it would be, not give up, ya, because


okay so like my dad got retrenched in like two thousand and three two thousand and four while I was in primary two or primary three, and at that point of time I didn't know but things got really really bad, uh, ya and and I think the Asian financial crisis was in the two thousands right


ya so it it didn't help lah that things were only getting better at that point of time and then suddenly like my dad got retrenched again, I mean not retrenched again sorry my dad got retrenched, ya


it was only, actually two three weeks ago that my mum told me that uh, even though it was tough they eventually made it, they eventually got got passed it like there were a lot of times that uh, you know she she she like they they were wondering how they were gonna cope lah


ya so from my parents ya from my mum especially I learn not to give up, and then from my dad I learn to, uh give in, to like my partner (ppb), okay okay actually that's not really fair cause I always see my dad give in to my mum so I always have this conception like that


my partner should give in to me, and it doesn't help that my dad also says that, ya and my mum also, okay ya it doesn't help alright, but ah hey I'm trying


ya ya so the most important lessons I learnt from my parents would be to not give up, okay your turn


but when exactly will you finish it, I will just continue, cute


okay, my turn, how important is having children to you this is the government


okay, I I only want kids when they are like between one to ten zero to three, when they're cute you know after that they has get a bit obnoxious and then you have them in their like raging hormones puberty years and they are just horrible, I want them after


ya I think I will send them to boarding schools, okay okay but okay okay I want I want kids okay I it's important cause


I feel like a person's life needs to always have constant milestones, you get married, get a house, you get a car, after that what are the other most milestones you have


ya like apart from work milestones I guess, and like having kids they will kids will teach you lessons, they will teach you how to be a better person, to be more compassionate to be more understanding to realise that


bad kids, and is not the parent's fault, ya uh, that's ya I I I want kids and they're cute you know babies are cute, your turn


why don't you live your legacy behind, oh okay sorry, true


make the world a better place, ya, make sense, okay, your turn


ya let's skip this, okay ya I enjoy doing chores, uh some chores okay, I like cleaning rooms, is so therapeutic and then you get to relief like memories


okay so like my partner will be filthy, okay is not filthy lah is just really dusty cause like it doesn't wipe down, and I like like sweeping his floors and everything sometimes I just cannot take it cause is dusty right then I go inside then I start sneezing, but ya I like cleaning stuff I like washing bowls and plates


the squeaky feeling is really nice, my least favourite washing the toilet, thank god I don't have to do that, uh but I did it a couple of times to help my mum and I do not like it at all, ya uh I also like


ya actually that's about it I don't mind ironing but I don't particularly like it, ya, your turn, you gonna to help to wash the toilet


when we moving together you know that right, you know during doing laundry also includes keeping the clothes after they are dry and then folding them


and ironing, ironing it, I will iron it, you fold, okay then you mop and sweep the floor, you don't like mopping and sweeping, then who is going to do it for us


iRobot but it's not gonna be clean enough okay okay how about this, we get a Dyson and a robot okay, on the weekends we will sweep and mop, better Dyson, how about that deal or no deal, okay deal good


my turn, how well can you cook or bake, we start first


and you learn not to mix sugar with salt


oh ya ya, it's really hard, ya ya, ya it's not easy you are correct I rather one pot thing, like pasta you know


I I I can't really cook I can't I I I can't really bake I mean I can I think bake, thinking is like everybody can do lah you just chunk things in and then turn on the oven right, I did that couple of times, I did that couple of times it was okay, I can bake, cook, I only started cooking a few


one two years back, wasn't very good, but it's improving now, uh, like to try to cook, and sometimes the things I cook like , my parents will say it's nice but I think that's cause they kinda pity me


ya ya ya they are obligated to say that it's nice right uh, the one thing that I like to cook the most will be pasta cause it's easy, just dump it in and then you just pour the sauce over or like add oil if you're cooking aglio olio right, uh ya


okay next one, uh that's that's how uh okay okay my reaction was, I told him can we not talk about this here


ya , it was quite bad


okay so we need to describe the differences, on on the spot the difference thing, ya but I I they got to see your I got to see your picture too, ya cause it's, I'm not supposed to look at, oh okay sorry my bad


okay, okay, yep, oh mine is Tom and Paul's Cafe


mine is a bluish purplish seahorse, yes it's green, the roof is brown yes


on the panel nine nine window panels yup yup, alright, yep


(mmhmm), okay okay, oh uh the my sign says tells me peach juice, okay, alright uh so moving on to the


right side, of the cafe, there's a sandcastle, kind of built like a fort, uh four walls uh each, each like corner having a flag, and there are, three red flags and one blue flag


okay and right next to it there's a kid, playing in the sand, holding a, oh sorry uh wearing, blue light blue shorts, uh green cap, blonde hair, and holding a blue spade


okay, yup, yup


(uh huh), he looks like ya he's he's kinda scared, okay then uh moving a little down there's this little like shack, uh with the like a, zinc hut I guess a zinc roof


uh padlocked it's closed, , there are what's the the counter that's kinda like greyish silverish, uh, and there there's no indication there is what shop it is there's no signboard or anything


uh and on the left side there's a blue trash bin, okay, alright and then there is a vending machine right next to it


uh, they only sell like, three drinks, uh, two bottle drinks and a canned drink, uh, ya alright, uh blue okay the first one is the top one is


blue with a black label, then there's a green can, and then after that there is a black bottle with a blue label, red, just ya with red and pink ya


no there's no there's no there's no sign, okay, bottom of the table alright


(mmhmm), yup, uh ya looks looks like a sock, oh mine is red


the yarn is red as well, and green caviar, uh ya okay oh she's wearing a pink dress and a, light pink dress and uh ya reddish purplish shoes


okay uh so, next to the dog grey dog right, okay next to the grey dog there's this like net, uh, I guess it's beach volleyball net, uh it's grey, uh nothing


spectacular about it I guess, alright then uh, like in that area as well there are these two kids playing football, no no signboard, okay no beach volleyball alright


uh anyway ya so the these two kids playing football, K uh the kid, kicking the ball is, or has blond hair wearing green shorts, and, he is kicking the ball to


uh another kid wearing a green cap and kinda like, orangey reddish brownish shorts


okay, I just rain, yup and then there is okay what about the colour of the umbrella, blue and white, okay same


let's see what else uh okay so there's a, there's a convertible a red convertible park outside the the cafe, and there is a kid, siting at the front seat, uh wearing a blue shirt, green pants


, ya the car is red, uh yellow lights, uh kind of pinkish interior, uh ya, ya there are track marks on the floor, (mmhmm)


yup, (mmhmm), yup, (mmhmm), spade


yup, uh ya ya puddle of water, yup rock rocks until the end ya, ah ya there is a crab


oh uh there are three shells on mine uh, two on the left oh on the right of the girl and one on the left, okay, alright okay


yes we got nine differences, uh ya, uh I describe pretty much everything much on mine, okay, yup


yeah same uh, what about the football is there any like special colour or is it just a, black and white football, , (mmhmm), oh ya


still three horse, is there like a stream of water kind of leading towards the the sea, it's like like, black lines from the from the little lake


(hmm), ya, , (mmhmm)


no it's away, yes, chain, no no chain, no


okay, yes a stand that's two more, , yup, yup, it's, there's the shape of a door but it's not open or anything


ya it does, yes, ya ya ya, oh uh it's three red flags and one blue flag the blue flag is the, like the right most flag


(mmhmm), oh ya ya, same,


uh, ya close enough, ya there are only two chairs , let's see what else is there


yes, facing the wave, ya, uh what about the, the the the zinc roof is there anything on it, !huh! nothing here either


what about the cafe's roof, push here


that should be one more, uh are the two boys facing each other, uh okay what about the the two kids uh the, (hmm)


let's see what are you missing


what about the football is it is the ball in the air or, is oh okay so mine is the ball the ball is in the middle of the air, okay twelve alright, okay now the card game okay, uh we we take turns we just


put them in the middle and, okay, so I start, I, okay I'll start, alright first card


uh, what motto do you live by, uh yup


!wow!, very philosophical, okay, who or what irritates me, , I guess my


uh (ppb) !wow! okay uh, my sisters could be irritating sometimes, it's, kind of like, like sometimes they they just do things that


uh annoy me I guess, uh it it, kinda gets, on the nerves, uh, specifically, (ppb)


uh, ya ya okay ya laundry that's a that's a good example, so, uh like every couple of days you need to do laundry but, most of the time they kinda forget, and


like sometimes I need the shirt the next day or or I need this pair of pants the next day, but it's just not ready yet, so it it kinda gets annoying and then I gotta rush the laundry then, like a night before, and gotta make sure it's clean before I sleep, and that that kinda wastes


away on some like precious sleep time, that's ya that's who


(hmm), I guess one of the biggest, uh pet peeves would probably be, people cutting queue, uh ya like, it's really annoying and like you been waiting in queue


for hours and just all of a sudden they just like cut it and and have like no, and and like disregard, other people's feelings and all that


ya ya, that's that's, quite ao, okay, uh up to you


(ppb) ya ya, I I get it I get it sometimes you just want it to be done, but they just want to like push it away and oh no I I, I don't want do it now I don't want do it now


and and ya it's it's kind of disgusting to, (ppb) the sea as well ah, okay, alright uh next


, how do you know, that you truly love your partner


!aww!, I love you too, yeah (ppb), how do I know I love my partner, it's just knowing them, I want to be with her all the time


no matter what happens through thick and thin, uh ya I just I just want to be there for her be there with her, and, , just get to life


with you, if I knew I could oh could not fail


if I knew I could not fail, , on top my head I guess I would say, build the fastest F-one car, I don't know just engineering to me is still


it's, I don't know whether passion is the right word I just I just like a lot and it's, it is uh, quite, uh uh fascinating it's very interesting, topic and then the


and ya so I just is kind a I just want a kind of excelled, edit, like right now, uh, okay so like I've, like, car


for like since I was young, cars in general like it it's it's a guy thing I guess, and, and now like, after, getting a diploma in in engineering, I just thinking to myself oh K so like


where should I go from here, and I was thinking oh alright if if, I like cars, I'm into engineering, uh, I and and oh uh f-one is is, like so ya I want to work with cars and and f-one is like kinda like the


on their website they stated that it's the Pinnacle of motor racing, and ya so, what's, like a greater level of, motor sports and and and, automobiles than than like there's no like no higher level than f-one


well of course, I I mean wah I would, love to go, I guess it depends on which stage of life I'm at at the moment


newly married I, would obviously have to discuss it with with, my new wife, if she's up for it, then ya of course but


if she's against it, I would try to convince her a bit, I guess if if, and and try to work out something, but, if she's like really against it I I wouldn't


four or five, ya ya so, four or five I


still think it's acceptable I mean if if both, parents are are are for it are are willing to, to travel and and kind of start a, start a life in the new country, I think four or five is still acceptable given that


the kids haven't really, rooted, haven't haven't been like like ya rooted down in a, in school and all that, and ya they they still, easy ish I guess to


to make friends that age and and, ya kinda, grow up, at that age


you will see


that's that's true and if you do get, it is and it is a a once in a, life fam opportunity, uh to to work for Nat Geo and, and just travel around with them


and ya so if you do get the chance I shall go for it, alright my turn right, okay uh, for your last meal, what would you like to eat and who would you eat it with


any particular flavour, the one in oh the small something


I, don't really know what, my last meal would, be, if that's an option ya I mean, like, I, eat, everything


so, specifically right now uh, I guess it's the last meal I, think a simple, pasta


from my mum, ya that and and, ya so like she cooks, okay I still remember the first time she made pasta, uh, I don't know what, chew I I I can't remember when it was uh it's like


I don't know like, ten years fifteen years ago, and she, one day suddenly decided to make pasta and this wasn't the, pre made sauce, type of thing


she actually bought tomatoes, put them in a blender to make puree, and made the sauce from scratch, uh ya that uh some minced beef,


I can't remember what else there was in, there was was in in it but, uh there was, ya so like just pasta uh spaghetti with, uh like bolognese, and some


Parmesan cheese on top, I ate like, four like three servings that night, and remember I was a kid so, I don't know it it it was just it was it was nice and and that's when I kind of started really liking pasta


and and, ya just started enjoying pasta then, so, that would be I think, what, my last meal like ideal last meal would be, and who to eat it with


oh ya my family and, my partner, I didn't copy what you say


without getting paid, , right off my head I would like to say, the environment


or like uh some any any environmental cause kinda like uh, clearing trash or, or recycling type of thing, I do do it for free at home kinda, uh ya I just think like


the environment like like we need to take care of the environment, because, the, when humans are gone, the earth will still, survive, (ppc) actually the, the earth will do way better without human on it


okay fine, when humans are gone the earth could still live on, uh, ya so, I think that


we as humans, it's it's part of our responsibility to, take care of the environment, and ya because like, when, oh ya the the human doesn't uh I mean sorry the the the earth doesn't need us


to survive, ya but we do need the earth


(mmhmm) ya I I think I would, no not, I do not actually I was, ya uh uh ya so for the summer holidays I was thinking of uh


doing some, oversea volunteer work, just to see if I mean uh to see if there is any uh, uh uh environmental projects


that they may have and and I may sign up for it, ya thinking of signing up for it, still will happens, okay your turn to answer the question


that's that's true but


alright your turn, ya tuition ya


ya that's true ah commitment in this kind of situations are are, very important, yeah, okay yeah next question I think so, okay, what is the craziest thing


you have ever done


you told me this one before


okay alright uh, I don't know , what, what is the craziest thing I have, ever done, uh


can't really think of anything eh now but I guess if you are talking about irresponsible, that wasn't Taiwan


no, lost a competition no okay so, I I think I know which one you are talking about uh, okay so I will tell that one instead uh so, I, you uh anyway, so uh


I it was like competition period, and so it, the games were oh and and and just so happen there was a wedding, that we were all invited to, on, on the Saturday night


so, uh we went for the wedding after our games our uh after the games in the day, and there were more games on, Sunday Sunday morning, so, Saturday night we went


and we, well I had a bit too much to drink and oh most of us, drank quite a bit, I didn't drink the most I drank, a bit quite a bit, and so everybody was a bit tipsy the next morning


so we like ya so we had to, play, the matches the next day, kinda oh, kind of in a hangover, kind of, and, ya it, uh we, were supposed to score


we we needed uh like an eight goal lead, which was doable against the team that, we were up against, but, we screwed it up because of, our like how bad our condition was I guess


and we ended up only winning by like a seven goal lead, and we were kicked out of the competition after that because of that game


one (ppb), so ya I guess it's it's also the same place, I met my, ex girlfriend and, and, and ya that that's like kinda like how we got, together or sort of I guess that that that's kind of what started things


that's how it started, !wow! okay, when how do I know when to let go of someone


, okay so I guess drawing from experience, uh, it's just after I, started, okay so uh we got together towards the end of poly


like the last last few months, and, uh after, after that was supposed to be army after after poly is army, so, uh that few months we were together uh we never really talked about it I guess


cause it was just ya every guys will go to army it's normal, and, uh, ya I mean we we had a bit of distance as in as in we had a like a, long distance relationship I guess so to speak like she was in Taiwan for


about five weeks I was in Europe for four, so we, had some experience with, distance relationship I guess, uh but when, army started, I


didn't really use my phone much, and, we just kind of drifted apart I guess, and uh, ya we we just like, distance ourselves like like emotionally, from each other and and


after awhile she oh ya uh, a little while after that she she ya couple month into army, ya she broke up with me, uh, saying that she wanted to focus on studying


ya I don't know what the reason was I never, pursue it but ya that that was the reason I got, oh when to let go , I don't know like so so


after we got together, uh just a couple of months in, I, already, kinda knew that, it wasn't going to work out, it wasn't going to work out like uh long term


I I don't know just we just, it just I don't know it just it just wasn't a, it just ya it just wasn't there she I just knew she wasn't the one, I do believe in the one


how do I know , I don't know it just, you just want to be with the person all the time, and ya it just, it just can't, live without her


and ya so you are the the the question is when do you let go, how how do you know when to let go I guess I guess is just like, uh


do you just know it's not gonna happen it's not gonna work, and, oh I I didn't do anything about it, I just kinda let it, I don't know I was a, I was afraid to


to end things I guess I just I just kinda let it, no not I didn't want to be alone I didn't want a, I didn't want to be the one to say okay let's let's it's not working I'll send it I just, I just kind of let it ride out and, uh it it wasn't very bad as in as in the end of the the towards the end of the relationship it wasn't really bad


it's just, no we didn't argue there were there were no fights no no uh, it's just, it's just distance that's it that that kinda ended it, a day uh, not many cause in like in the army my my phone is always kept away


and, uh ya I don't use my phone much so at night when I get the chance I, I drop a couple of text, but it's not even all the time it's not even it's not even everyday, it's, like every couple of days I will take my phone out


ya, I don't know no I didn't message her everyday or even if I did was like, couple of text a day that's it, before army we were


before army we were, texting, everyday ya pretty much everyday, it it's only when army started, okay your turn


alright


okay alright uh, ya I did, then what about, uh, would you like like after you kind of like what's the term like what uh, let go, would, there be any circumstance that you want to bring them back or


ya ya, !woah!, you but uh you are talking about how your values, misalign, , I just well I just get I guess I just just want to talk about how uh


I have a friend like !wow! we we grow up pretty differently I guess, so, in primary school we were, pretty close, ya we pretty close, like every weekend I had to go to his place to play X-box


uh, you come over to my place once a while, uh there was nothing really fun at home but ya like we'll we'll take turns hanging over hang out at each other's place, playing video games, uh and just like spending time with each other and and used to be like


every weekend we play basketball like every, Saturday Sunday I can't remember, good, grab a basketball, walk, twenty minutes cross this huge high way, just for that just to to get to the basketball court


it weren't even very good we just like ah just play for the sake of playing for the fun of it, and, ya so like we grew up we kind of grow up together, and then secondary school we went to different schools I mean oh even primary school uh


we kinda mix with different crowds, no just because we live nearby and and we're kind of neighbours, that's why we were that's why we so close that's why kinda knew each other, and ya so we kinda mix with different crowds in in, primary school and and secondary school we went to different schools


uh (ppc), and ya after that I didn't really see you for a long time, uh, uh like once in awhile when I go back I do


I do I do see him uh, and I think that we grow up really totally different, like, I guess I'm more studious, he is, a bit more on the wild side party side, uh


what uh, he would come down a couple times he came over to Singapore for, for, uh Zouk-Out, and all that, and ya uh it's it's like I mean even though we


we are so different like he's, more wild more party he's currently studying, music production or something like that, ya and, but but when we


see each other we, meet up it's, it's just, good I guess to sit around and talk to each other and and catch up, each time we meet up ya


ya being I mean, mean we are not best friends anymore but ya we are we are still, okay I guess


oh alright who is your hero, how does he or she inspire you


oh !wow! okay I, don't, have a hero, but I guess since you are talking about how great parents can be, uh, ya I guess I will talk about that instead, so like my mum she is


!wow! how do I, she well my parents basically uh, raised, us, on their own, kinda like, like so I'm staying with my mum


oh so so right like I stayed with my dad, for a period of time like, uh what two three years, and he practically raised us on our own or on his own, uh all three of us, and, uh


ya it's it's, that just like he, I don't know how to say like he would give in to us a lot of times so like, before my mum left, for, for Singapore, she would


she signed us up for all these classes, uh Taekwondo, music, gymnastics I mean my sisters joined gymnastics, and, wait I think it was oh swimming ya swimming


swimming ya and, so, she would make us do all that she she wants to, teach us the value of like sticking to your sticking to to what you are


given and and like like starting what you end I mean ah ending what you start sorry, ending what you start, and, it's uh ya so like when my, my mum left for Singapore


my dad kinda give in to us and and like let us not, go for ya kinda something like that, something like oh, uh you don't have to go for swimming lesson today but you must go downstairs to the pool and swim


whatever number of laps, I mean it's definitely not I don't think it's a really good thing, but, I guess he, braces, okay still like he has his own qualities that, that are good like


I guess he's he's pretty sociable like, he can talk, strangers, he kind of make conversation with them


he cares for us a lot, really does like, even though we don't see him, often these days, everytime he comes over, oh no not every time he comes like every night, when he text, us on like the WhatsApp the the the group chat


he always tells us he loves us and and, and all that and, whenever we finish like a milestone in our life or, oh like exam or something or a test or something, he never fails to tell us how proud, of us


and ya and that, that, he's he's always there to encourage us, whereas my mum, she, well the word to describe I guess would be strong


like, she raised us, for like she raised us by herself, for about what, five six years, I mean not not counting recently like now she has she has to travel back to Malaysia often, but ya it's like she raised us


almost herself practically herself, , like, what she used to do was weekends she would cook, four days worth of food, put them in the fridge, just so that, we have food throughout the week


and and she doesn't have to like, rush home, every night to cook, so she would cook, like dishes lots of dishes, throughout the week put them in the fridge put them in a container ya in the fridge and and we heat up, accordingly


cook on rice and ya heat up the food, and, after that uh, , eventually evolved to ordering Tingkat food, catered like kinda catered food, and


and making sure that, like the idea is that, she doesn't want us to, go out and eat, too often, uh mainly because, she believes home cooked food is still the best


ya so we supposed to eat more home cooked food it it's supposed to be better for you, as compared to, uh ya hawker food or fast food restaurants, and , ya so so that's


that's mainly, like ya she she's strong and then after that she, she, oh I don't know I'm I'm kinda spiralling now but ya uh even now she she, doesn't, she will cancel the Tingkat food cause


we skip out on the food, a little too often, , ya but all she she still tries to make it a point to, have dinner together like like she wants us to eat together


so like it's kinda like bonding to make sure that we are together ya so, I guess that adds to the quality like of a like family family orientated, (ppb) yeah


how how caring he is, ya ya, !wow!


ah yes the carefree, lifestyle, like all you got to do is oh study for, usually study you just do your homework at night, and your weekends are couple of lessons and then just kind of free and then sometimes like


if you end school early end your homework early, go to friend's house the the watch tv your or play games or go downstairs to playground with your friends, or or now I go swimming, ya is the carefree kind of lifestyle compare to now


waking up, every morning, coming home, and you're just like so tired you just just want to rest you don't really want to do anything you just keep on sitting in front of the tv for a little while, eat a bit of dinner and then it's kinda sleep that's it


yeah


(mmhmm) ya ya the the British


I get it I I I miss that too, should bring her bring just bring her for the fun of it, alright, uh ya okay so next


, how many siblings do you have who are you close to


you are the worst


okay so I got two siblings I got two siblings, , both younger, uh one by, two and a half years another one by five years, so [orh] I I'm closer to the middle child


okay but alright that's just the reason for it, okay so I guess it's because we grew up, together I mean I mean well ya I mean all three of us grow together but still


that's not the question, I'm closer to the middle like the the first like the, okay anyway, ya so we


we grew we we are closer together because, like we, I cannot explain eh like you just, I knew her first, ya cause, ya we had more years together


and uh, I, I don't know how to explain it ya because you be, we are together I mean we just known each other longer I guess like I know her longer than, the younger sister


and and uh, I it's also because, when we were, when you first came to Singapore, we both went to the same school, she was in secondary one I was in secondary three, and uh


ya so we we, we went to school together so, because it's like a new environment we had to look out for each other, and, ya so we we hung out to with each other before before we actually meet


friends, uh, ya so we spend time together we would, uh after school we go home together we have lunch together, uh, ya because we were new we didn't know we didn't really know people so we always stuck with each other


and, even now I guess cause she's, a bit more mature so, you can, talk, a bit more, I guess


no, no uh, what why okay anyway, I know, okay uh wait, (ppb) , so


uh okay ya so this is a little story that she told me I don't remember it, but when we were in primary school, uh, by the time I was like P-three, she just started school, and


apparently my parents have told me to look after her is like like take care of her, (ppb) so during recess it's like a like a same recess block timing right, I went to look for her at her class, and would spend recess together with with a couple of my friends


so, what we would bring our food like normally is something bread likes kind of sandwich the other thing, uh we would eat that together and then after, lessons, uh ya then we we would after recess we will part ways, and at the end of


school, uh ya (ppc), end of school, I would kind of wait for her, and we'll meet up together and then we will walk over to, to the the the driver like the pick up location, together, and the thing is I don't remember this, I don't remember this but she told me about it


ya and and, she was like telling me she was kind of thanking me a bit like like, ya but I don't remember, doing that, ya but I mean after that, uh she got her own friends and she hung out with her own friends during


ya she didn't need me anymore, (mmhmm), okay next, sorry, oh !wow!, that is a


ya but I mean it kinda falls into the category I guess vaguely into the category


that's what I heard, don't know how true it is


I remember like asking you some questions and you were like, one word answering me, I remembered us give you some stuff I was like, I was like oh uh what about uh who


who's your favourite band or or what music do you listen to, what movies, ya but as in, (ppb), no no


okay anyway, so after the first time we met it was awkward but, ya but but, uh we went out the second time before the event


uh, it was like ya Lenas I I just, booked out of army, and, uh and you are around the area so, I just, give you a ring


at dinner, ya ya ya, don't know where the what went to your head but


ya I think that was more, enjoyable like we were both a bit more open with each other, uh, oh ya we were texting in between ya, since


oh well there were some breaks in between outfield and all that, ya ya, oh ya during the event a lot okay I guess during the event okay during the event it's awkward I it's understandable I guess cause


I, I hang I I I'm I'm more prone to like, attaching myself to the people I know and, I mean I I feel really bad about it that I left you, ya ya


ya ya it's, socialising, enjoying your time ya ya, ya


but after that, oh wait no we we've talk about why, we went to MacDonald's, because, uh so the event was like catered food, uh


there wasn't ya but at that time okay so there was catered food and the thing is that there was a, picture booth on the outside uh uh outside of the the hall, the the dining hall, so, the, it uh before we went in it was like a long


queue, for, the photos, and, the first time we did it, we didn't do it wasn't a very nice shot I remember I think, we took photos once


oh I think we only took for once, okay leh I think because the line was too long we we didn't manage to get it the first time round, and so we thought oh ya so we thought okay since everybody is queuing up for food why don't we queue up for, for the picture since, chances are there will there will be nobody there


there was a bit of a queue much shorter but still a bit of a queue, so we finally went in we got our photos, awkward photos, (ppb), uh went back in to the dining hall, and got our food, and when we got our food there wasn't much left


uh, the food was good ya uh, but I remember there was a mutton but there was no other no more meat left, was there, ya I know I know you couldn't eat mutton that's why, oh it was not mutton it was lamb but ya same


oh okay, oh I think it's like some spicy chicken or something then then there were like a last few bits and then I, I thought I give it to you since you don't eat lamb, and, ya so, so we didn't have enough to eat, and we


ended and we just like ended up, we, decided, to go to McDonald's drive thru, so ya so we, drove, went went for drive thru


we found little, spot to park at, ya and just and just, enjoy that that little meal, you dropped the nugget


no no the car was pretty clean, I think the car was clean, I believe the car was clean


what value do you bring to other people's life, I guess just your own interpretation of it how, I guess ya that's that's one


, okay so what about me what value do I bring uh, I guess, okay let's if you talk about work right uh uh internship now, so, , so recently I'm I I I haven't been having much to do cause the internship and and


their prices are all over the place and uh, uh uh the project I'm supposed to be assigned on, had uh it was uh it delayed, was delayed, ya so uh I been doing, smaller tasks around the office helping out


all the the, the full timers, and so it came down to, a lot of, redesigning work like recreating, work so there will be, like a, three-D model, is kinda locked like you can't edit it


so they want me to recreate it, the same exact dimensions, in the software that they are using, uh ya so, I did that I've been doing that, quite a bit and, uh just the other day uh


I was praised for, my like skill at that that software, oh ya I it it slipped on my mind uh ya, and, ya so they said oh it's a good work you've been doing so far and I was like oh ya I'm like I guess that's that's one way I value add


it's like it's just good work on on the how I use the software, uh, it's just recreating the certain part so like, like they just give you a block just, hm no no no no no it's it's like it's like just block, and there are holes on it and it's like different shapes and all that


they just they need that, recreate that part, in, the software that the company using, ya so I've I've been doing that and and I guess it's, something that, the full timers don't do often


cause they don't, they don't really work with, the software, like they know how to open it they know how to check it but, they don't really, what's the word they don't really design on it, they don't really change the design on it, so


uh ya so I it's it's it's I guess it's something that, since I I have a bit of experience with it, uh ya so they been asking me to do that and and it's they said it's it's, how ya it's good work so I guess that's how I added value to


to the company, thank you, !wow! top three of my bucket list, uh


okay, top three uh, skydiving, I also wanna go to six flags the Theme Park


and, no no no, I, want to, drive from New York to LA


ya kinda like a road trip, can they can the entire European Union be considered as one country


uh (hmm) let's see top three uh like to go to Germany again, oh bucket list right , I don't, let me think uh, I like to go to US I mean of course it's it's two of the things


ya it's in US, no no no you can go skydiving in a lot of places I don't know like six flags and driving, I, don't know what's, I want to go back to Europe but


that's going back it's not really bucket list, yeah, okay


ya, I've only seen you swim once


alright I do too, Mauritius, oh right ya Greece


I I don't know, think so


when we have money, ya I don't know we we'll see how, I know I know as in we will see how like, we'll search up and and, find out what we need to do and and all that


okay, name one of your closest friends, how is he or she special to you


okay other than me


ya no reason, I wanna say Sean, cause, I mean we went through a lot together uh he was, he was like


first, friend or one of the first friends I made, when I came to Singapore, in in sec three, ya so he was one of the first friends I made and, after that we just had, common interest I I don't know how we ended up


cycling together, it's kinda started from there, ya so we we, always ended up, so will you spend all recess together, cycle together on the weekends like the first time we cycle together


didn't know what we were getting into, so, cause uh like I I, stayed in, Hougang at the time, and him in Pasir-Ris, so we had to travel from, I had to travel from Hougang to Pasir-Ris


and then from Pasir-Ris we made our way along the coastal roads, to East-Coast, and then we came back, ya after I only after that I I went on Google maps to find out it was about


forty km, one way, uh the next day I just I just didn't want to stand up I just like lie down on the bed like most of the day, and and this is this is like


I can't remember morning, like dinner time, ya ya we took, tons of bricks, I just remembered at when we ended, which is like, like uh like I I I just lie down in the on the bed and I didn't want to move like my back was aching and it was just like


the first time, I ever really cycled long distance, and and this bike was new, uh, it was too small for me, so it was really uncomfortable, uh I I think it was too small for me something like that the the the size just wasn't right like


I had to lean forward a bit too much or something like that or hunch over a bit too much, it's really just really uncomfortable vibe, and, ya and and uh, so from there we just kinda, bonded from cycling and


and, we we after that after that we cycled a couple more times together, uh and, ya we just we just just bonded from there and, and he's just he just the closest friend I have


I don't know what specifics, like yeah so, like supper we will just go out supper once in a while, go to the gym every, week, like twice a week and, ya just spending time with each other and and


borrowing ya


what personal trait I, laziness, I would say, uh, I guess I'm I just I'm I'm just really lazy, and


and sometimes just like at the end of the day you just think oh, I could have done so much more, but because I, that's not that's not what, I know I know, I know I know I know, I know I I've got the bad lines written on my phone


ya anyway so just laziness like like, when you end the day you just think to yourself oh, I could have done this I could have done that, why didn't I just do this ah never mind I'm just too lazy ah forget about it


ya that that type of, thoughts at the end of the day I think it's it's, it's it's it's ya it's not uh, good I guess


no I don't think so, okay, alright


no I'm all for it is just my only concern is, distance, distance from


forty five minutes is a long time, uh my k like okay so to for me ideally, , a primary school secondary school


maybe even JC, would be, around the area like, like one bus ride away and and it's no more than a half hour journey


ya I mean, ya ya, but I wouldn't, pressure them too much on it


what I think is, I understand that, not everybody is like academically inclined, , just because one person can score A on like a Math test or English test, doesn't mean that everybody else can like


even if they, do the same homework, it's it's just like, uh how they are brought up and and it's just a lot of factors to it like how they are brought up, how, uh they think how they interpret information, and and it just play the huge role so it's it's really hard to


the the the day did exactly determine pinpoint what exactly, is the reason but ya so, , I would love that my kids score, well like grade


like ya grade grade uh, or like grades on in in academically, but is not everything, what if, if I got the kid that score straight C's but I know he's put in, his hundred percent effort


he's tried his hardest, it's it's I guess it's just that, I don't know just how you, observe how he studies and, and all that is just like I mean if you


pop by while he's studying and he's, playing with his phone or or or (ppb) reading like a comic or something then


I know I know is just, is just I don't know how to explain is just, gut feeling sometimes I guess, and ya and then when when they are old enough they would understand that


what is not not the other enf they'll they'll understand, what their best effort is


ya same like, ya when I when I in secondary school uh, I did spend weekends like it it was rare but I spend, weekends, studying, no as in as in towards the towards like


before O-levels I did study quite a bit, I remember, I remember the, doing geography, reading to the the reference book, and, uh (ppc) geography certain essays are


quite fixed, is just like step one step two step three step four step five what what happens and then you just kinda describe it, and then ya so you just write it down make sure you know what each stage is about, uh and then like the exam question will tell you oh, uh


this so like like uh let's say rivers right so when a rock, hits the the river bed, it, goes to erosion corrosion and all the different terms, so, I remember terms I don't remember what the definition, so you gotta like define and then tells ask you uh how would


this, a rock, like eventually how would it like become all what what would undergo, what process would, would would the rock undergo or would the river bed undergo, and ya so it's that kind of standard stuff


so I would like rewrite all those and look at some tests papers, and I still didn't do well, ya ya


ya I've I've come to a realisation that, especial in uni, for me at least uh there are like three stages to, like the pre exam study mood, so like, the first stage is when you


kind of think you know what you are doing, but then when you see the paper you are like oh snap I don't know this okay it's okay I just started studying, just look through the reference book or or look through the notes and then I kinda know how to answer, the second stage would be like oh snap then you just start to panic the panic stage


and like I only have like, two two days left to study for this and I still don't know anything, and, eventually reach the third stage, when you realise ah man that's it uh just, uh, if I do well I do well if I don't do well


ya whatever I whatever I can absorb I have already absorbed, whatever I cannot absorb, too bad, ya ya so that's that's like the three stages of studying I have, ya


CCAs for kids yes, , okay so, in Singapore I understand that the system is that, you pick one, or if you want you pick the second one but but it's only like mandatory is only one right


ya so but in Malaysia, systems a bit different, you have to have minimum of three, no wait okay so the three types are, uh one has to be an academic club


either academic club or it can be a non academic club, like like Buddhist fellowship, Christian fellowship, uh, uh let's say like like arts type of stuff like or robotics club type of thing, ya that type that kind of stuff or just like science math Chinese club and all that


the club ya the second one has to be a sport, they when I was in sec, when I was in secondary school, they, put, sports and, your like house house sports


as one, ya so like you know you know like they got coloured houses right like red blue orange, uh ya so, that would be one, or you could join the third, like uh uh uh, another sport like I join basketball


for two years, uh, ya but I was I wasn't very good, and the third one is a uniform group you have to join a uniform group, ya I join,


I join what that call, red cross I join the red cross, ya that's where I first learn cpr uh okay in primary school red cross you didn't really learn much, and they cancelled a lot of ccas cause, like okay so they have


in Malaysia they have the freedom to, have replacement classes on weekends, and all this CCA is on weekends, so like suddenly oh uh next week we got replacement class, uh oh oh or let's say Chinese New Year Chinese New Year is on the let say Tuesday Wednesday


so, what the school will do is like okay we got three replacement classes so you can take Monday, to Friday off, so that means three weekends, would be, for replacement classes, actual school day type of thing


ya so a lot of times like, I didn't learn much in in, red cross there, but secondary school they had the more, like you, do your own, stuff kind of thing like like ya like the each the club would organise their own events and and


all that, ya so the that I learn more I I went for, first aid course, uh, I think I pass I don't know I, never found my, my my cert, I think I pass


because my dad, he saw a letter before, but I don't remember seeing it cause after that I move to Singapore, ya so I think, kids should, be exposed to


this kind of this many, ccas, I know I know is so I sorry to say you say what kind of CCA I would like, so so you I mean your your question was what CCA would


I want, I think, I would want him to join a sport, I guess


oh ya ya ya ya ya ya ya ya ya, kinda guage what their interest ya ya ya


okay okay, define enrichment classes cause I don't really know not familiar with the term, tuition is like, they teach you what you learned in school, or they reteach you when you're in school ya okay


okay so those like are like, okay alright


okay, alright alright, okay, it's ya ya ya it's not it's not the moe syllabus right


okay, they always send their kid to swimming there there's the the basic swimming courses, you really want a, join, [orh]


ya ya, uh okay ya then I'm armed for that and tuition wise, I think, we should only send them if they need tuition I don't wanna


just because like you know like parents are are are, ya, that they keep sending their kids for tuition even though they don't really need it


but the placings, fears


due breaker, caring uh just I don't know like, there's so many they just, they just so many things they just


so many things to look for in a relationship they can't really pinpoint, uh, just like I don't know like okay so, caring and and, uh, making me feel like


wanted, , fun, like yeah you are fun, uh funny that's that's one, what else uh


I I don't know actually it's just, uh looks wise, she doesn't have your model, but, no you're not, you are not ugly


yes, it's just looks okay looks don't looks aren't a big, factor, but, the thing about human, psychology thing


you know the thing of human psychology thing is that, , there's always this like, if it looks good, it probably is good type of, perception that humans have, and our naturally eyed have a bit of that as well I guess


you are, you are, that's one of the reasons I like you, ya so it's like like you look good like okay so look good there're many


woo things I guess uh so like look good like, dress properly, I'll dress appropriately, I know I know but like looks even if just like if you're making an effort, to look good, it counts for something


ya, it would have been a bit of a turn off, cause it it


aesthetically pleasing, it get I it comes kind of hand in hand like you're making an effort and, the effort is attractive


you are above average, it's more like , if


I thinks more like if I get to know, the person enough, it would be okay, no no


ya ya so that's that's the that's the like, what is it call contradiction, it's more like let's say, we work together we go to school together, and, uh we are classmate right, then


at at first glance the first day of school like oh K that that person doesn't look, to like, appealing, and you were just like okay nah maybe I I I'm there's not the like, it's not a, candidate in your like


person you want to date or partner or, something like that right I I don't know what that proper term for it for but, ya so, ya ya so but, after awhile you work together you guys are friends and then, just start to like know the person and and


and you just, in all you just gets better and then uh like I mean your relationship just gets better and just kinda okay ya I, but then you start growing out I think


go on


ah what's a deal breaker you afraid for partner, oh okay, then come the kids right


(ppb)


okay, as many like oh as many as you want


(ppb), (ppb)


my deal breaker what you say just now uh smoking ya it it's it's quite a big, turn off, uh (ppc) another deal breaker would be, uh, like, poor, command of English


like like really bad, like really I'm talking about really bad I'm talking about like, no it's just, you gotta to have like, proper ish grammar, I don't mean like like like English queen's queen's English but


but if you gonna speak like you know the the the recent like S hook, uh, ya I I, how am I it it's just deal breaker for me, I guess all all


every time like, the talks it will be, ya I I don't know I I mean I've never gone to it but, right now I'm thinking it's, is gonna be a deal breaker


especially when you bring it home, bring her home to to to meet, ya like you bring her home to meet the the the family, my mum will be so against it, ya ya the that's why the English thing is a


ya another one would be, disrespectful like disrespectful to like elderly though I just, people in general, it's it's a huge deal breaker, ya is different thing like if they rude to you then ya but, but


uh the way I see respect, like you know people always say you gotta give respect, to to get respect, I always think that, being like that that's I always think that's true, you if you want people to respect you you gotta respect them first


no matter, what, level of like like let's say, authority ya authority you ah, so if let say the person is rude to you, okay ya fine that's, don't be you don't, have to be like


you can disrespect him like like, I mean of course to a certain level, but ya, uh if the guy rude to you then ya just by all mean just


I don't read many books ya I don't , I found inspiring, it's someone inspiring it's just it just, oh I guess oh oh , you're talking about books then I guess


the Hunger Games okay the the few books that I actually read, uh that I can remember, okay wait wait so wait let me think the few books that I actually read that I remember would be, uh a couple of James-Tyson novels, uh it's about detective


uh and and solving a mystery, uh the Hunger Games series, most of the Harry Porter series, half blood prince, okay uh ya these are


the main oh I read Narnia but Narnia wasn't very good, the couple of book was good but, the they are like, couple of fillers in between that, weren't very good like the the second book the original first book, it was the second book


uh that one was good, uh the third one was like a filler in between, uh the forth one was pretty good, the fifth, fifth one was okay the sixth one I remember wasn't too good the seventh one was


was uh was pretty good like the end but I I hated the ending, I hated the ending of the the entire series, and the, the the the first book is like a prelude uh prequel to to everything, that one wasn't very good either, but ya anyway so Narnia wasn't really


would, have to say, , Hunger Games I guess, (ppc) so, it's, the, fact that, the main character Katniss


just, to doesn't give up, I mean is a bit stubborn, but, ya it's just that she doesn't give up, ya so is is kind of inspiring she she eventually fought for what she believed in and and all that


uh which literally character do you most identify with, I I don't I don't read much I don't watch much


E Learing, a couple week uh I got like three weeks


okay I'm gonna to go home and do my E learning as well, okay, uh what activity do you most enjoy doing together with your family


what about me uh I guess board games, ya board games I mean we don't play often but it's always fun when we do, uh, yeah so, like Scrabble or we okay we don't play Monopoly much


we'll play Cluedo once in a while, uh ya just fun to like sit around and especially Scrabble like, my Scrabble is pretty lousy like my vocabs are good, but you just kinda play with the points, uh it's it's more like a strategy than a


then a then a show with vocab thing so you play all the simple words but you get all the big points, you just find a way to use like W and then just so happen it lands on like a triple word, block or something, and then you just get like ya a ton of points, ya so that's that's board games and just that you knows ya board games is kind of like spent time together and bond with each other I think


uh, would you sign up with a dating agency, okay let's let's let's like rewind like poly days would you


oh, okay then, okay okay fine alright, okay let's dating maybe we we talk about dating app then dating agency is not, it's not a common thing anymore for dating app let's say dating app


never heard of it


what okay so so the like okay the difference about, to talking about difference of let me uh you're comparing dating agency to dating apps right, I think uh, (ppc) dating agency seem more legit, cause, and first of all you you got to pay for it your sign up when sign up you got to pay for it


then when you pay for it not everybody will pay for it but like, as opposed to Tinder, you just download, and everybody can download it, and like catfishing happens all the time, no never


anyway uh, ya so I think dating agency if we weren't together and I was desperate, I think dating agency would, be a option, uh depending on how desperate I am, and cause okay so like dating agency like you said is a blind date right


but the things that they, have all these qualifications your interest and all that, and it match it with somebody else so it's it's more legit than swiping left and right and, and hoping that, ya and casting like a huge huge net