okay okay, okay we can stop here if not I'll end up listening to the entire book, okay, uh let me take a look at the list


okay holiday shopping entertainment, fitness sports, uh, oh mine the first three seems very stressful


uh how about, uh what was the best most memorable meal that you had, do you have any memorable meal that you had or like


favourite uh how about favourite restaurant, oh that that is very true that is very true, what what is your uh, what is the food that you will always eat besides maggie Mee


like uh a comfort food ah as in like, ya ya ya if you feeling very depressed that day then you will go and eat


lot of chili, uh it's extremely spicy the chilli


yeah, uh so it dulls it dulls like what you are feeling, so, so it like overwhelms you then you only, uh not overwhelming


but you just feel comforted by it I see, I see, uh waffles ah, (ppb) ya so when I'm depressed right then I will I will like to eat waffles


so, ya uh I think, the waffles that I like the most is caramel waffles, and, the waffles with ice, cream and ice cream, and I think it's a very, common thing ah but ya people tends to binge of ice cream when they are depressed right


actually I did that before so, (ppb) I can have like a tub of ice cream and I just eat, non stop, ya, oh ya it's too too sweet for you


ya it'll be too sweet for you but it was okay for me ah, ya finish the entire tub oh no, calories overload, ya that's great


that's true we we don't take, take into consideration, uh what, did you is there any exercises you enjoy or any sport that you particularly like


cycling ah


Hougang to Punggol, how long will that be, !wah! okay, oh is quite a good workout ah


(ppb) ya yeah it is very busy


uh ya


so uh from your place to Punggol there's is there a, is there a cycling path, [orh] ya, oh that's cool


no ah Punggol okay, ya very beautiful part of Singapore , [orh] super hot, okay I see I see


ya I did mention cycling quite a few time so I'm, surprise to find out that this is the first time I realise we both like the same sport, activity, but you stay too far away from each other to cycle okay is okay but ya


so I also like cycling, uh I would say the last time I cycled was at ecp, and ecp is definitely a very nice place to cycle ah cause of, the, very white, cycling lanes, I also


uh I have a secondary school friend that lives near me and I tried cycling to her house, twice, and it was quite a torture cause, uh Tiong-Bahru, have very bad pathways ah to cycle it's very difficult to cycle, have to end up, uh I end up


like walking a lot of the time cause I keep getting block by people, uh when I used to stay at Bukit-Batok I actually cycle at Choa-Chu-Kang, and I would say that Choa-Chu-Kang is similar to Punggol in a way that it has a lot of cycling lanes


but then it's not as beautiful lah but, but the cycling lanes at Choa-Chu-Kang are very nice also and a lot of playgrounds, so ya I like to cycle there, (ppb) ya I, I see this is kind of sad


ya let's not talk about that unless you have very exciting


stories to tell about your CCA, or like something you want to rant about or maybe I should not get you started, nevermind it's okay (ppb) can talk about other things (ppb)


I can talk about the some of the ridiculous assignments that people hand in, that I been marking so far, ya so, ya cause uh I'm in the ta for one of the modules in my, in my university


ya teaching assistant so I, teach uh I'm year four this year so I teach like year two and, year three students, actually year one ya, so uh, ya I teach juniors like about android programming


and then they have to submit a android, app app uh, they need to submit a application for every of their assignment each week, so they hand in on Thursday and I usually have to mark by Tuesday, ya so there are about fifty plus people in the class


and I mark a half of the class which is like twenty plus, and you think that it's not a lot but then, uh you know cause it's a android application, so you need to open, need to open it in the Android studio


and the opening takes a very long time, to open one, and I need to open one by one need to unzip their files, and after I unzip their files, I need to run it in the emulator, cause, we need to see whether it really can run on the phone or not


ya, so just opening and running on the emulator takes a very long time and people still can submit wrongly and never read instructions, so, for example, they was they are suppose to code in, in a new language called Codlin


so it's a new programming language, and then people insist on programming in Jawa, and then they send, their assignments in the wrong language, then after that I have to forward to my professor to ask, how should I deduct their mark, ten people also submit


quite late, have to deduct marks again, and then some of them submit duplicate code, then I have to like ask them, which code do you want me to mark, then I like I think we are too nice (ppb), (ppb) why you keep asking them, questions ya


no it, actually not as, so teaching actually is a very, difficult job ah, is like people rarely thank you and you will be very patient, and yet you actually influence, you get to influence a lot of people's life


I I guess they they, they learn a lot from you, but yet, , is not, is a job that, not really appreciate, third I guess, especially, I I wouldn't say my teaching assistant have to be appreciated but I say like teaching in general


I think they are not being appreciated, not a being appreciated in a, by students and parents ah


ah thank you thank you very much, oh yay


I guess, okay ah okay we can just talk about the stressful part lah I guess (ppb), ya so uh, how's your, but is your subcomm doing any thing so far


because seems like you've been doing most of the work, in CCA


quite a lot of people, ya


that's quite worrying


ya most like most of the time, I see, I see


no is there any of the juniors that have a very active role in exco, that you can ask, them


not direct, I see I see so you've to go through a middleman then you feel a bit worrying about that, I see I see, see


I see, make up oh, what's that I see, uh game ah


game, oh ya actually just recently, uh just this morning I shared a Facebook post, about, ya ah but you are very accurate cause I just share it this morning


and it was actually about my favourite game of all time, ya , ya such a such a accurate question, but ya so one of my favourite games of all time is called, uh the World Ends with You


is a Nintendo-DS game so you can imagine it's quite old already since Nintendo-DS is at least seven years ago, the console at least, ya, is okay I don't think you play console games


you used to, okay, the GameBoy one, uh, I see, I see, so uh ya after GameBoy there was the Nintendo, DS once and er ya so the World Ends with You is a


up JRP-G game Japanese RP-G game, where it actually makes use very uh it it uses the DS touch screen very well, so you use the stylus to attack the monsters by drawing circles or drawing


a particular symbols that represent your, attack ah, and then at the same time your left hand is like controlling the arrows so there are two screens, there are tops the top screen there are arrows that you need to press the combo, ah then the bottom screen you need to like draw symbols so you are like


multitasking at the same time, is a very exciting game, when, this is only the battling part there's actually a very deep story, behind it because you know uh Japanese J R uh, JrpGs the story very convoluted and usually about time travel


or actually this story is about like the afterlife, so these are people that actually are dead already, so they cannot be seen by other people, and but they have this ability to scan the thoughts of, scan the thoughts of people that are alive


so when they when they sense that there are evil thoughts, of people around them, then they have to fight those evil thoughts, ya so that's the monsters ah, then they are given seven days to clear all the missions, then after seven days they are so called promised to be given a chance


to, to reborn ah, if they actually succeed to survive the seven days, ya so actually in the end is a scam lah cause, (ppb) the main character, he need to sacrifice the partner or the partner need to sacrifice him


so is actually a very selfish choice at the end, so they start the question like why would the game actually do that why would the creator, like bother to make such a selfish game, because he's just trying to test like humanity ah, whether they will betray their good friend, or whether they will become enemies in the end


cause oh you have to partner someone for the seven days I forgot mention that, ya so it, it's a it's like a humanity test at the end, and then uh the main character actually replace the game, three times, so it becomes twenty one days


because, he he becomes very he he he's a very cold character at the start, but then he gradually becomes warm thanks to the friends that he make, so, the the creator becomes very the there's a creator of the game and he's like the GM he's like sitting in the back watching the game


then after that he's he's very curious about this guy cause, seems that this guy become very caring after the seven days so he can't , he like want to go and investigate why this guy will become like this because, in when he was, alive then he was actually a very cold person


ya so, he like even go and disguise as a normal person and then go and befriend him in the, I think the second or the third game I can't remember, no very very convoluted story but interesting, ya and then !wah! the music also very


very nice cause, uh because is a square Enix game so Square Enix are very, famous Japanese company, the they make very uh, very detailed soundtrack, so the soundtracks are so detailed right that


they have other games like Final Fantasy and Kingdom Hearts those soundtracks are actually used for concerts, so you can imagine the quality of music, this is like !wah! this is game is like, my all time favourite ah cause I I can't see anything bad about it other then fact that the story is convoluted


ya, then uh ya so okay I said such a long story right I haven't said about my Facebook post so my Facebook post, is that they are doing a remix of the game ah, ya final mix, and then they are putting on the PS-four which I do not have


ya, maybe it's it's time for me to get P-S-four, but however there's also the Nintendo-Switch, uh as in


both are competing consoles so can't really decide which console to get if you really want to get one, ya


uh, (hmm) let me see, have you gone for any concert, oh I see, actually I went before like


uh I think very unforgettable concert is like Mayday concert, ya very high one so it's like I think we were jumping for, the whole, three to four hours, ya it was crazy it was really crazy and


uh, because it was my first time going to a concert but I bought the, most expensive tickets anyways cause I thought like, you could be a very, unforgettable experience ah I didn't know they will come Singapore so many times after that, cause (ppb)


ya (ppb) but anyway, ya very nice concert, do you know any food trends recently, food trend recently I think oh yes uh recently there have you heard of the brown sugar


Boba milk tea, oh without the salted egg one lah actually oh the the Liho one, I see I see


I see, okay


okay, not surprised, ya


Chinese version


a tank at the top, so it must be a mage in the middle ah there can't be any other, oh I see


ya towers


the mana potion, okay, I see, oh ya correct


that's true a archer, uh health, uh physic okay they they physical damage


magical ya physical magical, assassin world okay


ah all physical, ah figure defence ya so, so they just have to build physical defence


you need to insert a mage there lah to balance out the game


I see, I see, so do you feel that the strategy can actually


change based on the abilities of the player, right definitely right


that's true it's beyond time strategy game, ya it's done it real time


so you read the back stories also ah when you when you playing, I see


oh okay, [huh]


so what he why he do that actually, to to take to take the blame for him lah okay


oh-my-god okay, his only kin ah his closest kin oh-my-gosh


so he got betrayed by his closest kin, !huh! !wow!, ya


oh okay I didn't ya I didn't realise okay so it's a mage, in the end


oh okay


eventually a person will still die, is there any anti antidote, oh time limit okay, ya poison


most likely, just die I see that's that's a very powerful character, so uh what's his weakness then like do he have like low


area of, attack ah ya


middle range, okay


uh M MORPG let, on the mobile phone ah [orh] okay


ya they pay to win


so you play by skill ah not a lot of people play by skill


ten lah, [orh] ten place, !wah!


all pay all pay one I see, oh I feel very honored to be talking to you right now it's like one of the rare famous people, in the game


ya and being very very little hp


ya so it it actually depends on the action reflexes, depends on your, attacking


oh I see I see I see I see, it's a very powerful move to suddenly pull the enemy inside, non conscious, unconscious unconscious


I see I see got got trade offs ah


uh sounds like a very balanced game, ya they, [orh] ok ok, ya sounds like you invested a lot of, time and, effort


was that like after A-levels !wah! that explains it


!wah! dedication


I see I see, !wah! that's very, interesting, ok, uh then maybe I should tell you about my, the game that I invested the most effort in lah, uh


uh say is Maple Story ah like a lot of people would mention, ya ya the computer game Maple Story, uh I think we're we were very very intense then leh cause like, I would wake up in the morning six AM


to go for party quest, like six seven AM we will go party quest cause uh, party quest you need to queue up, so ya you you need to queue up to get in, so if let's say you go at very weird timings, and very early in the morning or very late at night then after that most likely it'll be empty


ya and then we are very intense then cause (Uh) me and my friends in primary school, think we're P-four, P-four to sec-one ya, we all played that game right, so they will come my house to play, and also when we were playing the game


we set our, cause that (ppb) that time primary school we don't have handphone so we still use house phone, so I set my house phone to speaker mode then my friend will set to speaker mode then we will just play the game like that, and then I think that had that uh span across like


quite a few years ya so !wah! it's very intense, oh ya


oh-my-gosh okay, sounds very time consuming


!wow! , !wah! that's good really quite funny okay oh then more about my party quest right so, how how we actually did this party quest thing is that we have to record down all the usual people that play party quest


so like for example Kerning PQ right, then, uh where wherever all the people that are standing around the party quest area we will use pen and paper we will really jot down, we will jot down their username, and then, because in Maple you can slash find a character


so if you accidentally, find that they are at a certain channel and inside the party quest you can actually stalk them and then like try to, try to find out when they will exit the party quest, and like try to get into the party quest


ya so we may have like I have like pages and pages of people names that they usually play party quest, so every time you log in you will start searching like oh who's online then who is playing currently then you'll go stalk them, yeah


I guess so since primary school the stalking skill very strong that was even before Facebook existed we already stalking people using, (ppb) notebook, ya quite interesting I cannot believe I did that oh I also did something called smuggling


okay this sounds very illegal but it's not illegal, okay okay maybe it is I'm not sure not sure we we exploited a bug inside the game ah, cause the bug it that, in Orbis PQ, okay now we switch to Orbis, Orbis PQ you can


at each level you collect something called shards, so you need the shards to clear the level, some we will have extra shards because sometimes you will kill too many monsters so you'll extra, so you want to smuggle them for the next, uh of this pq


so the way to smuggle them out of the pq cause by right you click on the M, NPC right they will delete your shards, when you exceed, when you click on the NPC you disconnect your internet cable, you press okay you connect back


and then somehow the check wouldn't happen then you can smuggle out the shark, ya you have to physically really pluck in and pluck out ya there's a bug you need to pluck in and pluck out your wire, so that time I seriously had the modem beside me, and like I was seriously like pluck out pluck in pluck out


yeah so (ppb), I think that was super intense, ya uh I I also think that it's also because my mother, don't know what I'm doing like she don't know what the wire is for so, I I I would say that Maple Story is the reason why I'm studying com science today cause


because of this right I learnt networking, uh how to how to set up router, how to pluck in pluck out the network, how to set up a private server, and how to , do a lot of


uh computing stuff right it was all because of this game lah, so I cannot believe in myself, okay we've been talking a lot about games


I see, weekend ah, weekend, on Saturdays let's say if, let's say if it's not like studying right, if we do not have to study that much then Saturday we'll be going out to eat lah


usually we will go out to eat good food during, on Saturdays, I will meet up with random people to, go all around Singapore, to eat, food that we want to eat ah


I think so but uh they might be all quite sweet for you, ya maybe


ya our diets are, all our diets are totally different, okay but it can it could be a good thing cause let's say if we are sharing something we will eat like, opposite parts of the meal


[orh] then on Sunday I I actually meet up with my other company people ah, so we have this company making games every weekend, ya we'll just do our own, uh game programming every week and, sounds very nerdy but we will just try to meet up every Sunday ah if we have the time


ya to try to complete our project, side project


ya students we just, cannot don't study on weekends


so you'll just play with them the Pokemon-Go game every weekend ah Sunday, oh !wah! do they only play during weekends or they still play on weekday [orh] they play everyday


so dedicated , !wow! okay [orh] [orh] my my parents are crazy about Candy-Crush, I can say they are professional players of Candy-Crush is like, they are on level four thousand plus


uh I think I know why we end up talking so much about games cause our parents also, gamers


only taxis, Grab versus Uber that type, my course ah okay


I think the application part of the application part, to the project parts of our course is very interesting, cause if I purely just learn theory, I wouldn't be be able to make any friends ah, cause I didn't even go orientation so


uh when I do projects with other people then I get to know a lot of other people, and actually a a lot of hi bye friends ah but I would say that, I get to know a lot of exciting people also through the projects and then, uh everyone got different style of programming


so it's very interesting to find one very anal person, that that, sticks to a certain style, or someone that, uh codes very freely and refuse to, refuse to, fix to stick to one style


ya so, like you can actually see, it sounds very weird but you can actually see, see someone's character through the code that they write, so, ya it's true, cause when when I group with them then you can read their code right, so when I read their code actually you can understand someone's character whether they are like patient impatient


or neat, or messy, that kind of thing, ya you can actually tell from how they code so it's I it's very funny, and uh, okay something something not very, something sad about my course is that


uh I feel everyone likes to stay at home a lot, so like even if I want to make better friends is quite hard, cause they don't really want to meet up to, do anything, ya we're just on the com


ya I, I have done projects where we don't meet for the entire semester and just like entirely through the com, (ppb) have ah I know who they are I know their voice very well but


like, ya we do voice call, no no need video call I no need to see the face (ppb), ya, don't want to see also what, okay


but anyway (ppb) yup uh we do voice call on Discord, usually for the meeting or Skype, ya so like last week I had, at least two Discord meetings and one Skype meeting, cause no one wanted to meet, during recess week


ya, and uh, I I would I would say the good and bad thing ah cause it's a good thing cause I also like to stay at home, but is also not a very good thing cause is, it's hard to make friends this way lah if you just have meetings like that


then you don't even eat lunch or dinner with them, ya at home, (ppb) interesting


true


yeah not just computing , of course


oh so it link to the chemistry structure, of things, ya, oh, that's cool


I see I see, how about Bio so is also brought in in Bio


oh yes true, very big part, (hmm) that's true, !wah!


ya a lot of calculus


it's really dry, a lot of theorems


actually for computing ya we use a lot of the maths theorems also like like pigeon hole what, theory linear algebra, ya but , ya, think uni uni mostly is theory and then you have to struggle to try to apply it


uni is totally different, ah ya, that's true, it's like you will you see the paper like eh how come English words one wrong


then you will be wondering why what am I doing in my life right like why am I proving this, I see I see


oh actually I have one question like, uh you know I very Kaypo lah so lah I have a lot of questions ya so, so uh, I know you are interested in Chinese teaching right, then uh but will you like try out maths jobs that are more related to maths first


like after you graduate, ya ya that's true can teach both


I see I see so you don't mind teaching maths lah, okay, it's quite good


quite good (ppb) already, we've been having this convo in English, ya, so, uh


Mamamoo quite latest ready, but uh, I would say that, uh, I think there are, other random Korean artist that I follow ah if they suddenly appear on the chart


not pop, underrated ah actually last time Punch used to be a bit underrated, but recently her song suddenly became the top few, but, ya because of the OS, T, but last time she used to be quite overrated uh underrated


cause uh her voice, her voice a bit airy, then you can't, maybe it does is not like uh significantly different, like ya you can't really tell that is her when you first hear the song


it you can't like immediately tell oh this is Punch but, but then, I feel like after listening to a lot of her songs right I think she has a very unique, part of her voice that is very soothing, and, it it helps me to sleep I would say that listening to her song actually helps me to sleep so


before I sleep I'll actually place a Punch song, uh not not the exciting ost ones more more of the slower, OST, ya and some of them not very popular, ya but recently I realise she is top of the chart which is quite surprising


yeah, uh another one is, Ft-Island lah I think that even, that last time they were last time they were very famous, but it really died down so F-TIsland and CN-Blue both died down after


drop around, ya military and also the fact both of them choose to go Japan to, venture out cause it makes sense ah cause Korea doesn't really, support such bands


and like uh when they go Japan they actually receive a wider audience and support, so I think they it make sense that their popularity drop in their own country, yeah


so, ya you can answer the same question


ya it was it's on your Twitter


he he gets recognised for his, variety skills


think she were here before, but can't really remember the tune


I don't have the retort


quite relative ah see who you compare to, Thai Teh, oh Thai Teh


Thai Teh


ya I think Japan the popular pop song, used tend to be from the idol, idol song, ya, or any may songs, oh Mamamoo was quite popular


nowadays, keep seeing it


hobby, Ktv no, no I'm not ah, I would say, uh I have too many hobbies ah, cause I I can't really say that any, any particular hobby is my favourite


so uh actually, I have a lot of hobbies ah, like it ranges from, uh I play computer games I watch drama shows, I listen to music I, sing Ktv, I also


I also like cycling right then I also oh ya actually I like ice skating a lot, but ice skating is expensive hobby, so is too expensive, I also like photography but it's also a very expensive hobby, I also like driving also very expensive hobby


for this three very expensive, ya oh I also like swimming, ya, that one still can because the the Jurong one one dollar only the swimming complex


I used to (ppb) then, (ppb) no but then uh, the irony is that when you stay in a condo you tend not to treasure the, swimming pool in front of your house you'll like I don't know you you won't, find time to go and purposely swim maybe cause like life very busy also


not I won't say, the I won't I wouldn't say better but, it's like you will go with friends to the outside swimming pool then got all the slides and you know like Wild Wild Wet got all the waves, all the


all the very, very extra stuff that they add to the swimming pool so it's not just a swimming pool ah, whereas if you compare then like the condo one a bit more boring lah, cause it's just it's just swimming laps only


ya, but I would say that my childhood actually spent a lot of time inside the swimming pool, cause I used to have, very good uh I used to be very good friends with my neighbours then we will swim every week, ya those days good for me ya


oh you can't swim ah oh man, oh that's sad, oh I see but you don't want to learn lah the swimming, okay


oh that's very interesting usually people cannot do back, I see I see, then ice skating is too expensive right


ya high ses, high ses yup, , should we call them, what to do now


hello


okay, let's start we start from top left ah, so top left is there a Paul and Kim's cafe, alright that's then then it's one difference already, okay then is there a seahorse at the door of the of the same cafe


is it yellow, okay then then now the difference is gay, yea yea let's do it already then we move uh slightly down


okay, nine nine nine, and I I was thinking whether the same question right, ya okay never mind uh moving down a bit is there a sign board with the, with the drinks with a drink on it with a straw


is it a red drink, oh there's no there's no words on mine my signboard oh right it's , okay, nice nice then moving down a bit it's a, red, it's a reds uh convertible


which means no roof on a car then the door is open, then the there's a I think there is a kid wearing blue and green pants, on the passenger seat, okay, and then there is no difference there, might we just we just go through first then after that we see whether got any missing cause we got tell many thing


oh okay okay


oh K that one is just all blue right, uh yea, alright same same okay I think there is no difference, bottom left ah, shore forecast sun, oh oh easy (ppb)


okay then we go to the right which is uh, this uh this this guy yellow with blonde hair lah I would say, blonder hair uh wearing green, beach wear, like going to, I think yea just the beach wear one lah then


gonna kick a soccer ball, ah same ah alright, I think yellowish


uh yea orangey lah orangey orangey shorts, then green cap also, uh yeah both of them topless, then above them is a grandma wearing a


blue blueish blueish greenish like, at, then uh sewing knitting a knitting a sock I think a blue dark blue sock, but she's knitting a dark blue sock


alright nice, she wearing purple also, and what red shoes I think, the violet ah


when my region both of us then I'm not quite sure, uh there's there a dog on her, okay on the left of the of the of the old woman, is a grey dog right, is the tail pointing up just asking (ppb)


K then I think there's no difference but moving on first lah then there's a beach beach volleyball lessons, and a moving moving as in, there's a nearing the the centre of the picture there's a beach volleyball lesson signboard right beside like this


volleyball, uh volleyball beach volleyball like net, uh then I think that's a difference is right is right on the left like ya left of the, is like


ya is above the boy and on the left of the of the net, ya then you circle , two three four five six already, ya okay, ya six already, okay then okay nevermind move to the shack to rent one


top right hand corner the the the big the very big like shack, that the one with the vending machine at the side, okay then that one got, oh ya there's a uh do you know the wooden do you see the wooden uh the hut


looks like a shop house one, ya then there's a signboard that says Shack to Rent, like is, is right below the counter, ya ya like the the the the the thing that looks like a counter like is right is right on the like right below the counter


so you don't have any words at all is it, ah K K then we just that's a difference, K then, is it locked, right beside it is there uh is there a vending machine


can you describe the vending machine, purple, looks a bit as in like I think is violet lah around there


okay correct correct


K same, okay correct is there a push once below the three bottles, oh mine is push once


okay easy okay next one, I think that's, is it a is it a dustbin, is it a green dustbin like the one normally find in Singapore, alright


then okay moving up, is a is there a I think it's a surfer, that has lost his balance he's wearing red trousers, in that ocean they write above


uh around as in I think I think should be the same ah, then uh, yellow surf board is it, okay then it should, ya ya ya correct correct, okay then we move to the


the just the top that the middle portion but the top of the picture, is it uh is it, a kid building a sand castle, he's playing with a I think a shovel is it like those toy shovel


he's wearing a green cap and, blueish trousers, then for the sand castle, is it a is it a like a is it a square shape sandcastle it is right, just castle


ya okay okay, alright the flags three red one blue, okay, is the blue flag the one closest to the kid


is the one as in in the picture is the one is it the one closest to the to the to the kid building the, oh then ya I think it's the same


the shovel is the shovel he's using is blue right, a guy wearing blue swimming trunks like very short swimming trunks


he's like I think looking at the girl wearing pink colour, beach wear, then there are two seashells beside them, okay right beside okay right beside the girl, on her right there are two seashells on the floor that is orange colour


do you have the same thing, I have I only see rocks eh, ya ya ya then on the left there's nothing there's in nothing in between like in totally plane in between them don't have anything


alright so I just circle it's a in between the boy and the girl is it, alright alright, is there a crab on the left of the girl or like behind the girl slightly towards the left, ah okay okay


then uh, is there a red bucket and shovel on the ground on the right of the boy, oh okay then there's no difference there


oh-my, three three three main peaks ah, ya but the middle one got a bit of like yellow stripes in between so I no question okay, then thus the one on the other side of the one closer to the girl on the left how many rocks do you have


ah same same have two rocks also, one two three four, !wah! shag


grey, oh, the cafe ah uh brown colour, same right


they're both soccer ball ah right


red or, like the corners right of the shack ya they are they are, like green like just a bit of grass here and there


ya correct, ya on the passenger house, oh there he's just not wearing a seatbelt in mine [orh] finally, okay


the sandcastle your one got doll or not, oh the dog oh ya facing the wall correct correct, then, could it be uh !wah! I not very sure sia


maybe it's a dog I think, eh I can I can only see two legs on the dog lah two visible legs, yeah yeah, correct correct


are they car like are there like car tracks tyre tracks like at the bottom of the car, ya a lot of criss cross right


ya ya the door is open, while the door on the left is as in the door on the other the driver seat is not opened, does the chairs, as the table have like, handles, ya arm rest


maybe it's the guys with the soccer ball


it's brown, wait wait where is the soccer ball for yours, oh for mine it's he's about to kick the ball ball is on the ground


like stationary underground, oh okay my ball is on that okay, well done guys tell the differences, okay cool, okay which one just put that eh put here lah


okay moving on to small, small talk, so are we supposed to choose that cards or I take one you take one, does doesn't doesn't matter right does it


okay you just take I take one first then then you you guess is it then, I just take one lah, okay, okay uh the question is if you if you could turn back time, what is the one thing you would have done differently


no it's actually I think that's the topic, it's a topic I think we just have to say some like uh if it's experience then I just give it to you ah, what, ya the second one is yours


anything ah could be anything I think big or small also can, so like one thing or maybe recent either recently or, further back into the past


what oh nothing, (ppb) so you are pretty like pretty happy with your life ah, what, ya I know I know wait uh


so you're quite as as in you're quite happy with your life right now ah


pick a question, oh shit , where is my true home ah, uh


where ever my family is I guess, that'll be my true home ah, as is as of now is just my house ah, so I can't reveal the address because not supposed to reveal anything, but ya that's why my true home is wherever my family in, friends but family first lah so


wherever my family is my true home, then I think Singapore has been quite a good country so far, right personal experience I like the food here people here okay lah, but food here, ya but otherwise where ever


I don't know where ever I think for everyone is like where ever you feel good and that's where your home is oh, where ever you feel like is a safe place is where your home, ya ya ya, home is where the heart is lah


where is your , philosophy question, okay as in the theme is moral of the story, so describe one important life lesson


assuming, you got read books right I hope, some some at least some books lah, maybe not books ah if you don't want to talk about book maybe movie something you just watched ah


is it Mister Midnight is it, oh okay okay okay then not bad not bad


important life lesson ah or maybe just, like something you gain from the book, I mean not just life lessons something you, there's something ya to something you took away from the book doesn't need to be some important life lesson lah, just something that you really apply to yourself something that you found like


uh that resonates with you, something that the character said or, something that happened in the book, they feel like ya


I I I hard lah hard, like how much you want to win is it


if I know I wouldn't fail ah, I think everything what, I think the only reason why people don't dare to do something is because they are scared of failing, but then if they in the case that you don't fail in as if you know you don't won't fail in anything


you do then actually life gets quite boring after awhile, it's like I think it's a bit like like you know putting cheat codes in the game, ya it's like, after you completed the game or like difficulty already then you like you feel the sense of accomplishment then when you do cheat code then it's fun, when you do cheat code right they will start lah


like the game gets quite boring after awhile, so I think, even though, uh we don't want to fail even though we want to succeed in everything we do, that's, the reason why we hope for that is because we we're human we will still fail, but then it's because we the chance of failing like


like that makes us human lah, then by being human actually the best thing than rather than being perfect, because once you reach perfection then, uh that's then there's no room of a improvement ah because, ya there's nothing ya nothing you want to do because


you know you will not like you know you will succeed in everything you wanna do already, yea yea for like I think for scientist also especially for scientist ah once they reach perfection means they are they're gone already, once they got the answer for everything then then technically they don't need to exist already


ya, alright yours is sing beneath the waves, describe the saddest moment of your life !wah! this one tough ah, an damn tough bro this one this one heart to heart talk eh


I mean if you if it, if it's too personal you can move on lah, not the saddest


PJ is always top right, as in for Frisbee PJ I I I remember if I never hear of wrong as in I think I remember JC PJ was always like champion or fighting for champion is it, cause that's the niche what


as in my my school don't have frisbee ah so I I don't I not really sure


oh-my-god , [orh] I evergreen leh, ok I would add, okay lah, it's like by hypothetical lah hypothetical


hypothetical situation how do I know I truly love, someone lah maybe not my partner, ya but as in a romantic sense ah so I don't want to veer I don't want to veer from the question too much, so how do I know I truly love someone, like you know like for guys it's always like your know we always say like looks come first and everything


like as in anything is through visual first lah but then, like when you look pass here right actually, the what like the one thing that was most important is personality [orh] so I think, I think I think like the, the thing that pops out to me the most is when, I look at someone


and then I can like confidently say that, this person like attracts me like more and more everyday because of her personality, then that's why I think I truly love someone ah, no not just the face lor, like I look as in, you feel good looking at the person but then you feel better hanging out with the person


ya if they ya if their values align with yours, then I will like if you are comfortable with them you are happy around them, like and then they


like they fulfill like your like emotional and like aspiration is then, then you also do that for them then you what like is like the, kind of thing where they do stuff for you then you want to do more stuff for them then it just keep going and going, that is where you kind of know you truly love the person, then that's for like romantic sense lor and for parents is like different thing entirely ah


yea also (ppb), tingly in your toes ah !wah! this one cute ah cute ah, now your turn lah, not all that glitters is gold, what is your most valued possession eh possession yea, what is your most valued possession how did you come to have it !wah! this one quite okay


I think it's just the overall environment ya


oh my, [orh] this one like some boasting session this one, what value do you bring to other people's life ah, okay this is not I say one ah it's other people say one ah, so basically, like yesterday people helped me celebrate my birthday in advance so they gave me card then I saw


that card that was quite like a consent, there's quite a consensus kind of thing lah like like thank me for like, like bring in like join in their life cause I very cause I'm a bit I'm a bit hyper kind of person, then uh, I like to make jokes lah I like to make people happy because I as in when they I I make people happy then I just like you know get happiness from it also


and it's for the laughs and everything ah, so what value that bring in people's lives ah like hopefully it goes past just that lah because, other people's live I don't think of as in, I don't think I'm that selfless a person to, like always do like community uh involvement this kind of projects


so by other people I think like I'm more referring to like my family and friends, so what value to can I bring to my friends I think, or at least, I think I can support I think support, hopefully support like, in fun times ya it's good to have fun and I


think I know how to have fun, but, in times of need in times of like trouble I hope I can be there for them also so I hope, that they see me as a person that, they're able to talk to someone comfortable someone, uh they can trust ah


oh ya ya I hope that ya what values do I bring, (hmm) , hope I bring support lah ya basically support in general to my friends then to my family, I I hope I can be a good son that's (ppb)


what actual value this one answer I don't want answer myself leh actually other people answer for you better


okay my next card !wow! this card got symbol one, oh, cheek to cheek, yeah I think it's a theme lah ya, describe the perfect date, !wah! after this one I will know you better already


, oh recently ah, oh maybe you did it recently, you want to be a whole day thing


so what what would be your perfect date, kind of activities


what kind of dinner, like what kind of place for like first date, something more fancy or like, for the first time, is this assuming this assuming that the person you're bringing


you don't really know the person you are bring in is it or is it already a friend, cause it a bit different right if he's just a friend then you already know things about that person already what, let's say is something like something is not like, someone from Tinder


oh yea is true, for the first date right yea


like at our age, not here not there we are not technically adults yet we're not really working adults so, somewhere, like you know like a tier above like you know like Swensens you know we're not, so a tier above that, yea, sounds bit like too much


something like Jack-Food like that something like that, like sushi (ppb), safe bet I think this type of thing, it's it's a good balance of like posh and like, still kind of like accessible


eh not too serious kind of like three course meal kind of thing ah


aston's usually a bit more free style I guess, uh I don't I will depends on the if it's a girl then maybe maybe not ah


actually we already know what she would likes already yea


what's next


then maybe like the second or third after you get to know what she likes then you, then you do whatever as in ya lah, I mean if you are still interested you know what I mean, like if you are you you find that you share share the same stuff then you will you will go on, not bad ah Reynerd


why leh, okay okay, who or what irritates me ah, as a person ah as in like a particular personality is it oh


I think something that, I cannot tolerate is, people who are not genuine, ya I think above all else right when, like you're not even making friends eh when talking to someone, maybe for the first time or maybe will like maybe people just cannot open up yet for the first time


I think small a small talk is still fine people who like first give you the first impression that they are not like genuine one, so they talk to you then they sound a bit like a, a bit fake ah I think you know what I mean I think I think most of us can sense is not something that you can especially like pin point


but something you can tell like talking to you because like, just just because they just keep talking to you that and does no they don't want to make friends with you or anything, like maybe they got ulterior motive, oh is it ya is it talking to you like to like just, for convenience sake all these kind of thing and any other reason [loh], then that's that's what irritates me the most lah because


uh I don't know I just, I like tell about pretty sincere guy (ppb) so when they comes to this kind of thing I just uh I don't want to like and I hate, like not say I hate small talk but I hate, uh like talking for the sake of talking or I hate communicating all these like


devoting for like nothing back, so, so I think like uh reciprocation very important so if you talking to someone that is uh like very fake so it, kind of like, you why why why do you need to talk just don't talk lah so yeah


oh I get it I get it


okay I don't know how to pronounce the the theme lah, where when did you last have a truly meaningful conversation with someone, what did you talk about, is it right now


maybe not


oh wait I cannot do, oh is it oh okay okay, like a, ok not really a motto lah more like a goal I have, a goal lah it's it's a three point five part goal


ya so like, like what I want to be like when I like by the end of my life, I want to look bad and then like these are the three point five rubrics that I have for myself lah (ppb) basically I want to be like a good son ah a good husband and good father, but then like outside of that


cause this is my family about so that I was want to be like a good friend, but that's like the point five because like you know family comes first, yea so like that's my, three on five goal ah so what motto did I live by is by that lah so as long as I can as long as I can accomplish, this three point five goal I will get happy in myself


so that's my current goal for now ah the way I go about doing it, still trying to figure it out lah, as of now I only need to worry about one point five out of the three point five goals, which is being a good son and being a good, uh friends so, being a good friend is


I can I got that covered a bit, so being a good son still trying to figure it out lah, yea you know like every time yea I mean you know you love at your parents but then sometimes you you still like, sometime you still have times where you feel like you let them down you know


to have, and to hold, hard oh that's one K this one is okay ah then how important is marriage to you, how important is it very important, is it something that was inculcated like since young you need to get married


uh like do you feel like you need marriage, do you feel like you need, are you planning to get married


oh definitely that means you as you like in like in an ideal situation you want to get married ah basically, cause like some friends they they consider not marrying or they rather they as adult they don't have plans or measures oh


so that's like the other end of the spectrum lah, the Chinese culture ah


then courage you yea


will you die without as in, like have uh, if if if in the case you don't get married like how, think is a gradual thing eh is not really like


like you know you won't get married because you'll never know for sure


yeah that's true that's true, that's a that's that's part of the, that's part of the ceremony part right like which is the Chinese advocate lah


like, something simple would be just get, ya just registry


what the, oh-my-god okay, I want to say equal, but actually everyone has a bit of everything lah, so to be honest, !huh!


as in I think everyone has a little bit of everything here and there, so I won't say equal lah cause I don't know I think it's a, I think is probably a psychological thing also probably proven by someone I think I heard before, but more like a when, a person or where I am in a social setting if I see a group is very noisy


I will tend to, be a bit quiet, then if the group is a bit quiet then I will tend to be a bit noisier, I don't know I don't know what it mean I it's probably some, there's a I think there's a theory out there that says like in a group setting you will tend to like you there is a equilibrium what you will balance everything out one


so let's say if a group is very like, okay let say you are angry, but then like someone likes suddenly comes out that angrier than you then suddenly you will like, oh you think you'll be like suddenly calm and like you'll be you'll become like, relative you will become calmer and then you will become, like you will tend to talk things out lah


yea it's a relativity how I think but I think is human being if you are then then I no question, then I think equal, like it's kind of like the balance between stuff or something equals to something, then divide is usually I think divide is generally not, uh very positive kind of symbol


so just because of the word divide then, uh multiply very hyper kind of simple plus, uh I think minus not very good symbol lah, usually that's a thing I will think, cause negative, so I think equal is kind of neutral I don't think of myself as that much of a plus or multiply


so I think I am quite normal


awkward ah quite ah, ah okay okay


next question, course correction, if you only had one more year to live, what would you change about your life now, basically like how would you live your life ah if you only had one year to live


or would you change about your life, travel the world


adhesion, is not like kiss you that kind lah


Asian, conservative Asian parents lah yeah


be more expressive lah, I mean like ya lah


what ya ya ya


risk ah, I knew it I'm only twenty years old eh, someone I love ah, what risk ah what risk can you, I mean ya no as in as in I'm thinking parents about risk what risk right now can you


ya as in I don't think I I think most people won't be able to answer this question, cause they have not really taken any risk, maybe some people have lah but just probably


!wah! I really don't have anything eh I really nothing at all eh, next question (ppb)


oh snap okay oh snap, when did I last cry ah, !wow! that's a that's a very good question eh I honestly, don't, really remember


ya it's probably a good thing ah, or probably it was such a small thing that I forgot about it ya, so, when did I last cry, the one the one time I can remember myself crying


oh it was kind it was kind of it was kind of during army, oh no no no no that one never cry that one I what that one we all wanted to cry but our our our our PC


ended up uh the tears all the, ya the the tears went back in ah we all trying to make our weekend, and but then it didn't happen (ppb), ya but when did I last cry ah I think it was at the start of the army


I think it's a lot of fear lah, as in a lot people as in my brother is from UG but I will never in UG anything, so going into the army with very bad fitness, uh, ya I went into the army with very very bad fitness so, I think it was more of the overall cause when one thing you not very certain about army then overall like fear of the army


like you're scared that, even if it to cause you hear like you hear stories about army being like unreasonable things like uh, then like doing things to you even though you like do your best and everything so like I was thinking like, like it's my best enough or not or I am I up to this or not will I ever like, be up to the standard but actually after a while you realise that actually can one lah if you work hard you can one


and actually quite easy, ya ya ya, so army is and also like I think certain part of it is like being away from home for such a long time because my confinement week got three full weeks, ya I I ya I and it's not on a Monday, and boom nineteen days straight and that one is long


that's so long eh then they also like, that time they also scam us I think, they told us to be booked out on a Wednesday then like two days after they changed the training schedule you might be booked out on a Friday as per normal pay, and also to our parents also like the first day they tell our parents will book out on a Wednesday


then after that they changed to Friday then they make us call our parents to tell them so they they our parents won't complain, but that's not when I last cried ya but ya is more like a is a bit of just a just a tear you know, ya it's mic, they are easy but in the end I realise that actually it's damn stupid cause army actually quite easy


lucky types, oh this one are these question for me ah but you might try, which literary character, do you most identify with, is some Shakespeare stuff, right here


okay, okay very good, four par, never mind describe the most embarrassing moment of your life ah you got sad and now you got embarrassing very nice


very nice, it's probably something, it's probably a time where after you growing like during your growing up years but, nearer to like now then rather than young cause I think when you're young you're not embarrassed by anything


was that like a thing, a bit more careful eh, ya that's ya ya ya, but do you ever like misunderstand something, or like assume something then because of that you're like bom and then like oh shit


oh okay ah sorry okay


I cannot I don't think I can read it but


oh to go ya have to go out with a you cannot add like some you know like, when yeah there's sometimes you, it was funny like it was funny post you've ever have the surname just nice adds to the name list oh no


ya I think I think the only thing I can say is that, I will probably name the Chinese names for my children, but oh let them choose their English names, yeah, so next question


oh-my-god , and I'll read a book about most myself ah, , like most on your self ah, uh why this is high leh, I think I like that I'm sincere [bah]


I think it gets me, Jasmine a lot of friends [bah] I guess as in, mix me is it to end up with eh, than uh being sincere to someone like you people can tell lah when you are like, either being sincere or what or not being sincere to them as a friend like


uh, then maybe report tell your reciprocal at the same, feeling like they will know you are like a nice person then they will be, like they want to be nice person like they want want to be friends and be like real friends to you, then that is like cotton me like some quite true friends lah like very close friends


and that is something I cherish a lot, so I think that's, one of my, personal traits that I lack most of myself, but another on a very different note is I think self discipline [bah], towards something is not everything ah, to certain aspects my self discipline is like quite trash


I think towards like, which one upbringing [bah], like parents inculcate then suddenly you have that kind of self discipline cause I don't really, Kabersine will join, uni I never really supper, yea then, I I really I really, I all my life I already never really drink much as in but that's just a personal choice ah


yea as in I don't find the the attractiveness for or attract like what appeal of drinking, cause I don't I don't need the alcohol to get like super high as in as I as I've proven , then her, then uh ya lor, ya I think is sincerity ah


it's quite important no matter where you go, like, you can I mean you go to your job you can Wayang all this kind of thing but, if your boss can tell you ah yeah, yea people can tell one, so we have sincere to be birth you get that's transparency also then it's easier to get things done


very cool, Milton power oh you going to fencing up, if you wake if you got wake up tomorrow morning, with the special ability what would you have or what would you choose to have


oh my


oh okay


face like I go through things is it , oh as you know this that's only if you apply the principles of like the flash what, like vibration right, physically speaking ya


in in theory lah but hasn't been proved as in, cannot be proven lah right in theory, without the technology to do it eh ya, yea but I realize that all your your


thing is like, to get from a place to another place, faster, is there like a reason (ppb)


speed ah speed, I like that being able to get to place to place, oh yeah yeah yeah he's cool


I mean it's just another way of


ya I mean you mean if you want, super speed then you need to have like super intelligence ah, when that's if not how you process everything that's going, ya lah as in you will be able to you will be able to do it right ya ya ya, you know are you go above the speed but then your brain is the same speed then you hit the you hit the car you hit the car like immediately bang you know


do assignment faster


by then, there's nothing in it that's so sentimental that I'll I want to, like I will save it like like like like no like no hesitation I will go and save it, but, then then I will just go for value ah, ya I'll probably take the safe ah


I take the entire safe and jump out of the window ah (ppb), as in not say I don't value, sentiment it's just it right right in my house there's, got got like letters and stuff


but like it's as much of letters and everything but then like, it goes way back ah the people in the letters some a lot of them I don't talk to already, like kind of like drifted so I mean after you drifted, it kind of lost it's like meaning at that time yes ah, then now it's like oh, !wow! okay [orh] as as in it's like ya ya ya it's lost effect ah ya then it's not as uh ya it's not as meaningful as it used to be


and, and it's not very important in the sense that the people that as in how to say ah like, oh ya it's more like a, uh the people are still around, the people that the card represents it's not like they're gonna be gone, they're still around


it's just if my house caught fire the cards will be gone lah but, friends who are still around that made memories can be made again, or rather it's uh it's not about the card it's more about like the ongoingness of the, of the friendship so, family safe everything safe people are safe then, last thing you can do is save the house ah


ya plus, all after you consider all these emotional things the the one thing you can consider is, ya it's to be practical it's the monetary ah, so save the save the safe there, ya so I guess that's uh that's one thing I will save lor


okay now your turn, heirloom, what is the most important lesson you have learnt from your parents, oh is it kind of overlapping question, yes moving on okay, alias what nickname do you go by


which is your favourite, and why is it your favourite let's just add why is it your favourite , oh cause of your name ah (ppb)


okay okay, okay okay


it's like an like, it's like an enduring term lah as in by friends lah not by those bullies lah ya


uh going out together, with an intention of being more than friends, cause if it's just totally platonic then it's just totally platonic I don't think it's a date but it's the intention that that must be more than just friends that counts ah


very awkward as in like you know I I heard people got bad usually it's like girls they say guys like cannot make it like is and like, very awkward, or like uh just the vibe is very bad, yeah yeah yeah I heard recently like you know SP got got yeah yeah


okay okay, [orh] okay okay as in you try your very best lah ya


[orh] not as in just basically you, it's a usually blind date right the one ah is the one that has high chance of going wrong is a blind date lah


okay


[orh] ya ya ya okay ya I get it I get it, oh is it


host the conversation anything like ya, ya ya okay I see I see, that means you have to do you have to do something about it lah,


oh no, oh no , was it cause that she also like, was she like conversation killer kind of person like did she like say one kind of reply then she just meh, yeah you you have to constantly like keep, talking to her is it she never try to like keep you going did she


oh okay okay okay


oh okay okay


yes, that is that is very true , that is a very true


!wah!, what I miss most from my childhood ah, yea I think after I grow up that I realise that, there are a lot more things out there that, you know you want to accomplish one, then being a child you don't know all these thing


ya innocent is ignorance is bliss ah but then, people who are who people who have knowledge people who are intelligent will never choose, like you get what I mean, ya we always say ignorance is bliss I want to be ignorant but then like when you comes down to it if you face with a actual choice you wanna be


stupid happy or you want to be smart you you probably want to choose smart, yea then a, what do I miss from for my childhood, uh my childhood wasn't isn't as good as mine, as my current life I guess, uh I was a bit fat


TAF club all the way then uh not fit one ah then army give him also my fitness which I'm thankful for, from my weak almost main, like I was fifty plus in primary school but I was one one three something


damn uh I'm round round boy round, round round boy


P two I was, like around Kai-Jie, like is in like uh my friend lah he's very like you know what like one of the as in you know him lah then P three I was, Jeremy, like that level lah so you like went from like uh went from


eh I went from my french went from french fry to onion ring ah so, then ya then after that slowly stretch out again through puberty, yea so what does miss from my childhood actually, if I want to say I miss something most of my childhood right it will probably be


how as in it'll probably be, !wah! actually I don't really know eh uh but I know the one thing, now that, is worst than childhood it's just a armour academic intelligence uni ah, ya the the study load now is crazy compared to uh when you are younger like last time you work hard


but if you didn't working that hard and then you still can still and you can still well come also, so I wait work for you get a grade and that's all, then now is, is a big like studies plus competition which is a big different and a bit more stressful because your friends are your competitor


yea but if you don't think about it you don't think about it but then like a, but as in if those that are not very close to you, you will think about it those are close you don't think about it, yea as you want them to do well also that's why, so uh what I gonna miss my childhood nothing much eh that's nothing much


super good from my childhood that I missed, but I know a lot of people would be something for their childhood


ya correct correct correct, like I think when we were children we didn't have a, like right now I think we're at the age where we're starting to form a like a life goal we want to achieve, that as a child we don't have this kind of meaning in our life yet, so I think that's why we don't really want to go back cause we want to have limit meaning in our life ah as a child we just enjoy our life but then like we didn't really


there's something we want to fight for, like as you grow older there's like kind of like starting to form like things that we really want, is there lah is definitely there, then, at least you finally found like something closer to our passion


I I I hope then , ya it was something I want to do what childhood, nah overrated, but a lot of people after they grow into adulthood they say they miss their childhood lah, cause of uh maybe cause they had a lot of fun lah maybe not in Singapore's context ah maybe, as in as in maybe Singapore's context a bit hard already cause child childhood nowadays are getting a bit more and more


stressful, like now is like technological age but then is also the age where competition is really stiff so parents are like crazy now, so ya, okay yours is sing to the mountains uh describe the happiest moment of your life


the whole life, that's right


happiest moment as in as in no not your as in life so far not not like your whole life ah, or like one of the happier moments in your life


maybe you did if is it something good or you fulfilled something that you wanted to do


oh okay okay so then you score it ah is it


blind date ah, Tinder ah as in best friends is not really ah Tinder ba, I think most guys had the Tinder face in the army ah it's not really thirsty is more like, ya so it's like a pure influence everyone's using it, thank the army if everyone using it then you will start to use it one


oh ya fun fun fun fun fun fun, then uh, went on a blind date ah okay uh, I think they want experience dad, cause there was this girl I dated from Tinder


for like three months but we didn't get together, then uh, first ex first date lah, I think I went to, went to eat, lunch, at, somewhere near Bishan I think J eight, then after that we talked for quite awhile


from like after lunch to, think at right before dinner cause she had to go home for dinner, then I had to go home for dinner also, so, uh ya we talk a lot but I don't know what we talk about it was quite far back it was back in, two thousand and sixteen ah


it was eh ya I think it was around August of two thousand and sixteen, so uh so I think it was like two eh ya exactly, eh suddenly more than two years back already so I don't really remember what we talk about, but I remember like a, first impression is more like a she quite shy


then, she quite shy but then like okay lah quite okay one lah quite okay person quite nice and all, then, ya lor we kind of dated for another just keep going dated dated dated then


then is along the way it's more like a, like you know like along the way like cause blind date you start from scratch, so after you get to know her like, uh after you get to know her then you realized that uh she's not what you want in life, that kind of thing then, ya some turn out well lah but then in the end you realized that actually no lah that's not really what you want in life


ya it's like a honeymoon period but then after the honeymoon like after the trip like through the honeymoon you kind of like oh actually, ya I hope to see like the eh yeah I start to see like the, ya I won't say she's a bad it's not it's nothing bad nothing bad about her it's just like things that, you, ya it's not what you want in the like a relationship so because of that anything work out so


ya, make haste, what are you procrastinating now, uh that's a very uh no this type of thing, if you were given this last week right it will be super appropriate, but because this week our research week started so it's not super appropriate now or do you have


oh you actually have ah you have ah, start from scratch ah or the template is provided one, I never do spa in JC, I never take science I never take science in JC


I do arts but is is start from scratch one is it, oh got temple one, oh next question, oh okay okay


that is the lab report, catch and release, how do you know, when to let go of someone !wah! this is such a !wah! this is hits right in the feels eh


ya I know I think everyone has a kind of as in, a lot of people will have a story list not those people with like super good relationship lah but ya a lot people have a story kinda list, someone that you like oh


okay okay


oh that oh okay, oh she's straight up like just friend like friend zone lah


like set the set set the boundaries ah, actually she quite direct eh


not that many, ya but but not that many girls are that direct eh so it's like quite !wah!, and she didn't she, ya in instead of like wasting your time yeah


so you just went along went


okay okay okay, oh-my-god


yet that's the thing yet ah, !waht! at your actions will move her heart lah, it's not about like uh


like there's the there's the true love and then there's the, one that that you have to fight for your love one ah


you think of the good things lah you try to ignore the bad things you try to accept the, how to how how to, ya


[orh] [orh] that's that's actually quite long I think,


I only have one sibling, next , who am I close to I mean, I mean is either that one, is either that one sibling or like, yeah, could could be that or or I don't know I I don't know (ppb)


oh no, what's the one deal breaker ah, you can get a non is it a heart shape then non negotiable, what's what's the one thing you cannot accept, what's the one thing you cannot accept about your partner


deal breaker ah, in my search for partner or in the partner itself, is a bit of a difference I think, like when you're searching for partner you, look for like things like, whether she, genuine, I think genuine


as as in whether she really whether she is looking for the same thing as you are, cause I think, a lot of people have very definitions of boyfriend and girlfriend I realise especially you come to uni, like there're some people like for me like getting a girlfriend means, like you look far you look far ahead one like basically you plan at some point of time you plan to bring her to your parents at some point of time you plan


as in you look you you get a girlfriend to get married, ya ya ya, ya you don't want uh the girl, ya is not is not like some people they, they their girlfriend is like, like synonym to the fling one, like they get together with the girl then official already then that they can do stuff


then actually it's just a, is is not a, they know they gonna break up, like they know it's gonna to happen so but they still get into it just for the, just for like, yes ya just because they can, ya then, uh non negotiable so I think when looking for a partner I'll


I'll try to find one that is, that like our goals are aligned, personalities hopefully aligned also, then uh, then deal breaker basically is, a person that's totally opposite of what I'm looking for ah, I think or maybe like


I think, cause if I find someone I'll quite be quite loyal one so if I, so if if this person is like if this person is not loyal also right then oh, like like go around flirting ah you know that kind of


ya, ya ya ya, but then if you talking about just one deal breaker right then is probably along the lines of like either not genuine or like, like, not loyal you know


ya ya like playing playing around I would say playing around, that's the one deal breaker, ya ya, ya cause cause I'm look like cause you know when you're looking for something serious right then like this person is playing around then is a no go ah, yeah yeah yeah


yeah, ya I one very one very material deal breaker is, ya that's like a it's not a absolute deal breaker but it's a very big no no you know like uh is is this like girl's phone then I oh, oh then ah


it's just a very bad impression overall, for me my family everything ah, calculated risk, what is the craziest thing you have ever done (ppb)


craziest thing, are you a wild child


okay okay that's actually ya, depending on depending on your tolerance it can be quite bad !aiya!, you have never gotten drunk before right so you don't know what you're like right like when you're drunk


might as well go all the way right ya ya ya


turned out quite okay right, turned out quite okay right


yeah yeah yeah, who is my hero ah, I don't really have a role model eh


I really don't have a role model, yeah yeah yeah uh, there's, yeah there's no I don't think there's a yeah there's a there's no there's eh


there's not really a person that inspires me, but uh, but but there's none there's no one in particular ah but it's more like a set of values that I have that is still continue to like you live your, live by your values ya ya and there's not one person out there that is like that embodies all your set of values also


yeah cause everyone is a bit different so, next question, pick, is there someone at this table you would like to know better, oh okay this a kinda weird question


then ah also Singapore again, what Singapore other question, to hear that ah yea yea this context doesn't really apply yeah, there's only one other person at the table , uh mystery that if you could have a hour long conversation with anyone at all


who would you talk to , okay, who I talk to ah, okay I think I think from now on I can just answer both ah, just for just for the sake of it just for fun, eh no we we just go and find good questions then we just both go and answer


so is there do you think you have a good, quite interesting okay okay, so do you if you have an hour long conversation with anyone at all who will you talk to, as of now ah, , probably a girl that I like but I don't really have that yet ah so I mean we're at that age ah


yea okay then, oh right !aww! you lucky man okay okay then okay nevermind later I ask you more about your dad, uh what would you do if you want ten million dollars tomorrow


also ya invest ya straight out invest in, property lah, business and as in like stocks and proper, ten ten million


oh okay okay okay


that's true that's true


ya ya ya (ppb), yea I think, yea lah ten percent maybe like, then out of ten million maybe like five hundred K to one million, I'll probably use it to like go on trips


yea yea yea, ya because I I think I read somewhere in the report that, like going on like, like overseas trip is always the, the one the make the choice that you should, like compared to buying stuff cause that's the one that, makes your life as in


gives you ya ya it's the most enriching meaningful ah, rather than uh buy buying something is as in, but different people, work differently so, maybe you will enjoy it when you buy something, so maybe you enjoy more when you buy something ah but, going on trips with your friends and not having the, and not having like the burden of financial on your you know the back of your mind


!wah! that's like going be like this is just going be a damn fun trip, if you go there without like he financial burden in your mind lah, let's go then just ya, ya ya all those things that you kind of second thought like you go to Japan Kobe beef, let's just get the let's just


let's just get another ya you want to have a second portion let's have a second portion then, ya, like to be able to to be able to do something without worrying about the main thing which is money


I just look at the first question only I didn't even look at, okay let's find a good question, just you just randomly look ah randomly no you just randomly see a question then


okay then, no, as in Tinder count or not if Tinder don't count then no ah


is the, ya basically I think, tinder but real life you know, ya ya which is a bit traditional and a bit embarrassing, eh but still got certain stigma, ya ya ya a bit too old fashioned already ah I


I think I picked a very good, think I think looking at looking at all the questions right, the rest are not as fun, as the one I'm about to show but we, I also, we are reaching the end already but okay let's just try to answer as many as you can, then uh


question is uh, how would you react, if a close friend, express his or her romantic feelings for you, fun question right, at our age this is quite fun question right, ya, I think it depends on the close friend as well


I think if you, kind of have feelings for that close friend, then, it it's like hazah congratulations you have, yeah (ppb) miracle eh really really, but if is like, a really close friend that you really, kind of like zone in like any other zone right


like the real friend zone like sister zone brother zone this kind of zone right, you actually be quite, burdensome I feel, because like, how to say ah is like, like you don't want to like hurt their feelings but then is like


how to say you don't want to hurt their feelings but, as in just don't want to hurt your feelings lor, but you want to maintain you want to maintain this relationship without hurting their feelings but then cause you feel like a, is a is a burden because you kind of, because you don't want to hurt her feelings but then you don't want to be in relationship with them also


would you tell would you Friendzone them, oh-my-god, that's right eh I relate relate


this very relatable, okay okay okay


okay, that's true that's true that's true


but is no matter what is gonna make it slightly awkward though, is will never be the same ah, so before you take that risk I think, I think you have to be prepared lor, ya calculated risk ah is a really calculated risk but then


but then is not as in to a certain extent is very calculated because you, know whether the person has zone you or not, kind of can tell one eh, ya between just friends and like more than that, putting like you know like but if you keep it on inside it will just eat yourself up


so is like a putting an end to it, if you either put then end to this, friendship that you think gonna be more that you think you want more, so you either put as in you put an end on your crush lah basically, you just get crushed lor, but then that that that's not necessary a bad thing also because you move on


after that rather than you keep clinging on to this then you don't dare to say, but they keep feeling it then you don't move on in your life so


okay again ah, okay okay, I mean after you get over it for for real already then that's when you can start afresh lah


I mean there's a scientific, backing one lah which is the, we are no biologically supposed to go and find ya, humans are social creature lah we are not, ya we are we are not meant as in most of us, thrive on like company, I would rather we if we live alone in seclusion for a long time is not beneficial to our mental health also


so, why you looking for a partner, ya that's true that's true ya it's not just social creatures lah it's more like, uh, why I'm looking for partner ah, I think is more like, oh what are your definitions for partner first and why


you looking for but why are you looking for that definition, I think uh like romantic partner will be someone like, is also your best friend, in the in the sense that is your best friend like but more because like


so like you prioritise that person then that person prioritises you and you are basically each other like, like most important person ah at least until you have a children until you have like children lah but, in a sense more like a, uh a the safest kind of place [loh], like within your friends in social circle like you have fun and comfortable right then this one is probably


the one that you have like the most, have communication the most secrets and everything and then he like the one person that you can really, uh do everything with say everything with, then you don't need to like hold back people's you know like shit, you know like the person will do the same for you also


yea, then various, friends ya [loh], uh depending on how close you are as friends you can do this you can have the same kind of emotion attachment everything, but is not, is not romantic what it's different, is a different I feel together but is not that worst is just that different


then, for me I personally feel that, okay I don't know I'm I'm I'm a bit confused now because I evergreen, so, uh having like lives independently for like as in having without a partner for like, like forever in my life, kind of like I'm questioning whether I really what would I do if I actually one day had a girlfriend what would I actually what will actually happen


cause inexperience ah in a sense, then but doesn't means I'm not looking for a partner lah, so, I think it just innate lah, I want to look I want to find someone that, uh I can really like pour my heart out to, get what I mean cause I don't have a lot of love to give everyone


but I but forever I want to love I want to love like like wholeheartedly, yeah


that's true, but you will not leave with them what you will not be like ya ya ya


not twenty four seven there


uh ya lah ya lah ya, oh ya I think


your close friends will have their partners also, so they will also find someone to prioritize in their life, and then, you will as in your close friends will not close you will never be first in their life, you get what I mean, so I I building as in not say building but then on a side note is like I don't believe in


I don't believe in the importance of having like male and female platonic like one to one you know male and female platonic friendships I don't believe in that kind of thing lah, because I feel that once, both sides get attached to someone else, then it will slowly drift apart one, so I don't believe in that then, uh


people believe in that uh respect lah but (ppb), I personally don't believe in that lah cause it's I think it's kind of pointless, then ya lor for partner ya lah it's just there's something that, you can't give because they are also, like when's they had their partners then you will, definitely you will prioritize them and then if you don't if you prioritize your close friends first then you are actually the one suffering


so you kinda need like your own, like the the most like the safest kind of space like the one that you can really fall back one


alright anymore question


is there a certain guideline you want to be remembered or like certain things you like want to accomplish in your life before you are, you want me before you are gone ah obviously


for me is I think I say it just now already I think I want to be remembered as like, just a good son good father good husband, ya the three point five ah so, if I can accomplish that I'll be quite happy with my life already, so ya I think this one like I think with any of a, how much time [orh] uh we are ending off with eh no not ending off lah as in okay another question


what do you like to eat the most in the whole wide world, what is your, yea is fun question times, is there a food item that you have your as in you you list as your favourite food in the entire entire planet


uh dish uh, don't have ya, is that okay then the few like a hawker food is it like hawker food, or Singapore cuisine, Singapore cuisine, or is it eh not wait


is it Singaporean cuisine like do you as in all all the cuisines out there, or you like the local food the most right, some people like Japan food the most you kow like Jap, oh is it oh okay okay, every day lah


oh Ramen is good, oh okay okay


uh, true eh I think Singapore I think to say Singapore cuisine is actually quite hacked, because Singapore cuisine is actually mix of a lot of things, actually actually yea actually except from Japanese and Korean cuisine, most of the, Southeast Asia cuisine like actually mix of one another they are already heavily influenced by one another one like uh


I think Philippines there is no Philippine cuisine is basically mix of like I think Thai Cambodian all this kind of things so like all these dishes are actually a mixture of one another you see similar dishes here and there, then uh, Singapore is like no exception lah, but Singapore cuisine, basically is a variety that's why, like you know you can never get sick but I there is one favourite dish


on the planet for me ah, which is a fried Hokkien fried hokkien-prawn-#mee# ah, you know the Char-Hae-Mee yea yea yea, that one is my favourite dish on the planet then uh if it as a item that is that a like just one item thing I will think is like Siew-Mai, have from #Dim Sum# that's like the one thing I think I can just keep popping into my mouth ya


yea is like a Chinese nugget, then yeah, then uh ya then uh but if there's but it's different because I don't think I can either of that for every meal of my life


I would probably say <mandarin>菜贩:cai fan</mandarin> for that answer, ya mix oh ya economic mixed rice ah in, in English, so uh, ya so because I don't know I've been eating, the mix rice for very long like, I I think I'm I above average in the amount of mixed rice I eat


cause I've been eating mix as as in on a, ya very since very young eat mix rice like two meals a day basically a home cooked food is technically mix rice already, ya so, okay say like three meals a day I eat mix rice ah then, uh really just


everyday mix rice for the rest of my life I don't think I will ever get bored lor, ya oh


okay okay okay, no but the symbol is in English [ah] never mind [lah]


uh no mine is a Tom and Paul's Cafe, so that is one


seahorse at the door yes uh I have a seahorse on the right, door, no my seahorse is in purple, so that's that's two right, uh wait hold on hold on


uh how many squares does does the window have, yea yea yea, yes I have signboard with a with a drink on the on the board


yes it's a red drink and it says uh peach juice what ah, oh, alright we got the third differences


uh yup I have that, yup I have the exact same thing, , okay we go in a we go in a anti clockwise uh manner it's like your oral test, yea further down uh it's a


blue and white, beach umbrella, K as uh in the middle of a table, and there's a, looks like there are two chairs, uh but one of the chairs has a light blue and white stripes


yea but the other one is the all blue, alright alright, K moving uh, yea, oh mine is a shore forecast rain, there we go


fourth difference, alright, green, green trousers trunks uh shorts


alright ah [har], wait uh what colour is his hair, ya okay I got it, K soccer ball, okay so uh, to the right


the, the boy looks like he is uh, kicking the ball towards another guy, in a red shorts, yea orange, yup green cap


both of them both of them are topless right, yup


wait say again, uh come again, oh my sock is red in color, alright, yup she's wear she's uh in purple, Pete looks at pink


is a pink shoes, light pink, okay we'll move on, ya there's a dog on the left


tail is pointing upwards


beach volleyball moving upwards, uh I see the net


but I don't see the sign, so your sign is on the left, so is like above the boy, okay I don't have that so that will be


to rent where is there a sign that says anything , is it above


ya and uh it has like, options three drink option, uh the first drink on the top is a looks like a, blue soda bottle but with a black label in the center


second one is a green can, the last one is just uh black bottle with a blue label


to the left of the shack


it looks it looks like, orange trousers, yeah yeah okay, alright, yup a yellow surfboard so it's, he's uh raising his left arm left hand upwards right


uh yup okay we have the same thing, to the, yup there's a kid uh trying to trying to build


yeah yeah something like, yup, ya it looks like a


it looks like a fortress, four flags on, four points of the, ya correct I have three red flags and one blue flag, but uh


, it's the one on the bottom right of the square, uh I guessed so ya


okay now moving on to the center, yup blue blue blue shower, okay moving on to the, to the center of the picture


yup, I have that, yup I have that too uh


okay, I have that uh do you have one seashell on the left of the boy, rocks uh the rocks are on the right of the boy right, but on the left of the


[orh] there there's a, yup, yup it's about forty five degrees backwards to the left


yes I have that, hold on, how does your how does the rock, on the right of the boy


like do you have like, three, like three distinct large rocks, ya three main pieces, ya ya I have that too


I have uh two rocks, okay, okay now we have one two three four five six seven eight nine ten ten differences, okay hold on


what what is the colour of the roof of the shack, for yours, grey oh yeah mine's grey too, what about the cafe, ya mine is brown too


what what could be the last few differences , what have we not talked about yet, nah I don't think I don't think the ball has any


large differences, uh, do you have like, this uh, wheat or grass, at the edge of the, the shack like they're like


small bunch of grass or, ya at the corner, okay, I think there's something with the car so let's look at the car again, so it's this boy, with three strands of hair


uh that is not sitting at the driver seat, okay with the seatbelt over his, oh I have a seatbelt on, (uh huh) so one two three four five six seven eight nine ten


one more difference, I've a feeling it's got to do with the, sandcastle, ya I have a I have a doll that's facing the boy


yes yes there is like car tracks and tyre tracks, I mean, Christ crosses, right below the, tyres, is the, is the door on the side of the boy, or the car open


arm rest


yeah, yeah I have that too, okay, uh what's the colour of the, kid with the green what's the colour of the hair


of the kid in the green cap, the soccer ball, has just left, the foot, of the boy in green trousers


the ball is on the ground oh my ball is on the in the air, there we go, twelve differences, alright


uh maybe we can shuffle do you want to shuffle


ya you can go ahead and start, if I could turn back time, what would be one thing that I could I would do differently


like do I have to say the keyword here, oh that's topic, oh that's the topic okay okay


, actually this is a this is a pretty, pretty interesting question but uh, for me I don't think, I don't think I would have done anything differently


I I don't think I would have done anything differently, cause of, cause of uh


what, I believe that the like the decisions, the decisions that I've made, has led me to this point in my life, so, I'm quite satisfied with the decision the decisions that I made


ya ya, I mean, if I went back in time and, read it, something and uh maybe, choose differently for certain, when I'm when I've to choose for certain


uh at a certain point in my life in and if I chose differently, I guess, my life would turn out quite different so, I'm quite happy with what I have now so I don't think I will


change anything, if I'm, going back in time, if I went back in time, that's right confidence is key, alright it's my turn, oh


oh that's a good question, where, is your true home, [orh] I did okay okay, wherever you


family is


where where you feel is comfortable is safe, it can be at, so it's uh home is where, your, home is where the heart is home is where your family is, okay so


uh, but what, how would you have answered this question differently if it's, where is, I mean, the question ask where is your true home so will there be a difference if the question ask where is your, I think that's quite


redundant but, quite a, food for thought question but it's okay your turn


well , (ppc) describe one important life lesson you've learnt from the books you've read , , books I mean I I used to read books, when I was uh much younger


nah, I mean, science science fiction ya what what was that, series called, Artemis Fowl, ya I love that I love that


moral of, one important life lesson,


oh something that I some a takeaway


maybe maybe it wasn't a book lah maybe I mean , uh, like, I don't think, I've used to, like I don't think I have, understood, uh the morals and stuff when I was quite young so


I mean at this age I tend to read more and uh I'm more, sensible and mature enough to make sense of what others are writing so, I mean and I'm, I read couple of, articles before


I mean I'm a sports person so maybe, some of the articles, they write they talk about uh, they talk about how, it is important to, not give up


ya so I think as a sportsman it's uh important for me I mean, in some articles that I read like, they tend to talk about, how athletics tend to give up after, uh, they reach a plateau or


they hit a certain point whereby they just uh can't can't seem to, can't seemed to get better or something like a plateau end lah, they tend to feel very dejected and demoralised, because they don't see, they don't see improvements in themself and that


and that is uh maybe one of the reason that drives them to, to be better so, because they don't see, anymore improvements in their performance they tend to, give up easily or, maybe due to physical fatigue


and like mental, uh and emotional stress, or from playing the sport so they tend to give up, ya so like the articles have, have, shown me that uh or like have taught me that


if you really want to be a successful athlete you have to be strong not only physically, but also mentally because uh, I mean when, when you're playing the game, and, uh maybe it's a, few hours in or


maybe like, like, sixty minutes in, and, at that point in time maybe physical, fitness is not what, it's not what it's not what is gonna win you the game but rather, how strong is your


how, from is your mental, yea, I mean, yea like, your desire to win and uh, how bad you want


the gold medal, so that that is what drives you, so there is one important life lesson that I've learnt, stuff that read, alright moving on


no, no fear, if you knew, you could not fail, what would you go, what would you go accomplish, yup


that that's nothing to look for to there is nothing to work, yea I agree


is as if they know everything in their respective field, yea technically their job, true alright


describe the saddest moment, of your life, or describe one of the sad, sad moments of my life due to, I mean due to, personal reasons


but ah I can share one of the sad moments of my life, uh, so it was uh during my second year in, junior college where I've to, where I played against another school


uh at a, inter junior college competition uh, I'm playing, the sport I'm playing is uh frisbee, ya so, my team managed to I mean we train really hard for


this tournament I mean the whole two years or like one and a half years of training, just for this tournament, so my team and I I mean my team managed to, make it to the finals so we are like, fighting for the gold medal so we really really wanted to bring home the trophy


uh, yup, correct uh I mean from, from my batch onwards lah then is they consecutive they were like three times champs


ya I it's okay I mean it's not a it's not a sport that every school has, but ya so I was saying I mean we managed to made it to the finals but uh kind of due to, physical fatigue


uh I mean we didn't have enought players or, or it or rather it was, like, the same players, playing over and over again, so I was I was one of the players that were, uh, played over and over again so I was kind of played since


I was kind of being, for almost every single point from the start of the tournament until the second day which was the finals, ya so by the time I got to finals I kinda, I was kind of exhausted but I decide to push on


looking at how my other team mates were still fighting, so, uh kind but I mean it didn't last very long like I mean we had limited, energy so kinda got to the, second half of the game we kinda lost


uh lost our lead and uh the opponent team kinda got, got the lead and eventually took home the, took home the trophy, ya so, it was it was kinda sad I mean, although I understand that uh in competitions you either win or you lose


but uh, looking at how you train so hard and how much effort you and your team put in over the one and a half years, just for one competition just for two days, so basically you spent one and a half years training for these, two days


and then eventually you didn't manage to, take home take home the trophy I mean it's it's kind of sad that you, is fact I mean the facts are showing you that oh you're just not good enough, you are not good enough to compare to another team lah


so, ya it's kind of sad, ya, looking at how we put in so much effort yet it was not enough, so, that was one of the sadder moments of my life I mean, I was uh supposed to be I'm one of the captains in the team so


what's sad is that I have to go and comfort my team mates and telling them, oh it's fine man it's fine it's fine you guys did very well but me, uh I have to be, cool about it ah I have to accept the loss


and, go and comfort my other team mates I mean looking at how much effort they put in as well, so it kind of makes me feel bad for them that, they put in so much effort yet, uh I couldn't help them, achieve a gold meal or something for this tournament ya so that was one of the


saddest sadder moment of my life, right, sing beneath the waves, okay your turn, tingling in your toes, ho ho, oh we got good one


how do you know that you truly love your partner, I mean I mean we can always, take another card, hypothetical


ya sure go ahead, sure, yup


so you, so you are saying that uh, how how they act and like how they are, they are, personality their nature


ah


fair point I agree


what is my most valued possession, I think what I value


what is my most valued possession, I think is not, uh I think for this question for me I don't think, my most valued possession wouldn't be something concrete


I think uh it, it's more of like something abstract, I mean, kinda, kind of can't be valued, ya but, uh so the most valuable lesson that I feel that I have is uh


my upbringing, so like, ya how do you come to have it I mean, my, my parents, yea, right I I guess I got to thank my parents and the and the ya correct correct the environment that I grew up in


ya I think the environment that I grew up in plays a huge part, yeah like how the kind of values uh they teach you since young and uh, yea because uh, uh I'm a single child, I am I am the only child so


my parents tend to be much much stricter, on me I mean, contrary to popular belief that, single child is a, always the one that's being doted on, but that's not the case for me, ya so I kind of had to be I kind of had to learn to be independent


in a a very young age I think it was uh primary two, yea my mom one one one fine day, my mum a bit, just pass me the house key and and said like, hey, , here's the house key


uh you can, go home after school on your own, so, ya so I had to, go home on my own after school and uh, kinda, heat up, and have lunch at home lah uh she I mean she prepared porridge in the morning


and left it on the stove and uh she taught me how to operate the stove and uh heat up, the porridge, yea so I had to, uh prepare my own sort of prepare my own lunch and uh, learn how to make my way back home at the age of


seven eight, around there ya, I mean so, from there I kinda I mean it kinda, I kind of like, being independent, so, as I grow older I realise uh


is better to rely on yourself because, you are the most reliable, reliable person, that you know, yea so, I tend to rely on myself for almost, things like, anything I need I would try to


try to do it myself yea, so instead of like, uh bothering people I would like, I'm not that very I'm not very dependant on others so I think , being independent and how my parents taught me, ya it's my most valued possession cause it's kind a kind a help


me a lot, throughout my growing years, ya so that's that, alright next, catalyst, what value, do you bring to other people's lives


ya, okay sure go ahead man


ah ya


ya true I mean usually, usually it's uh, what your friends and people around you what they say about you, ya I mean, they are the ones being affected by your actions so you can't really tell, whether what you're bringing or like


what, you contribute to them ya I guess I guess you're right


yeah yeah yeah, describe the perfect date, okay, actually I actually I thought about it, no nah maybe


nah I didn't uh, describe the perfect date ah, I mean, it it doesn't to be a whole day but uh, it's it's always the issue about quantity over quality I mean you can spend the whole day


but if it's a, there's no quality in the time that you've spent, it'll be a wasted date anyways, but rather if you it's like a, half a day kind of thing, the half day you spend is very meaningful and uh