what do you do like every weekend, you work, you work also right, that's not very


for me is more trying to find activities to do with my dog, cause is not, I feel so bad for him every time he is cooped up at home, while I get to go out, so sometime I just bring him to the beach


can't really let him run free, cause he will, create chaos, so, but I do extend the leash like I extend it super long so he can, can run like a certain, radius


ya I can restrain him back, what part of your hobby interest, engages you, like what, what's your hobby first, that's that's that's that's that's really nothing to be engaged about


let's say for or swimming, cause for me like in terms of, if I could, I will be doing canvas painting, cause, I really, the thing that engage me the most is getting to mix the colours


cause like I want this colour but it came out another colour I'm like oh this looks really pretty let me try it and it's really nice, so and I like to, create textures on the canvas, so that's what actually


me I don't, I really don't, I know you gym, ya (ppb), more weight


I I really don't okay, then again what I like to eat and what I prep, like meal prep for myself is considerably healthy, so I guess it's I don't really gain much, but if I were to really exercise it will more it will be more of cardio


like abs exercise, I have considered Zumba but I don't dare to do it, you have to move so much I can't I scare I can't keep up, I mean as a dancer for you is easy to keep up but for me I will probably trip and fall


then what exercises do you enjoy the most, actually ya swimming is the best exercise because you don't jog over all body all at one all at one go plus it, you know it actually helps relieve stress on your knee


and if you're tired you just float, if you're running halfway you can't just stop you have to go back, unless you are right, unless you're running on a treadmill then that's a different thing


cycling uphill isn't fun, especially when you're so tired, then where do you enjoy exercising, I usually do it at home, if not like, I like doing yoga


but how do I put it, no no I finished already like ya, but I don't think, not I'm not willing to invest that kind of money, to renew the membership, it doesn't make sense when I ya I can do it at home but the thing is if uh going to a class it forces you to do it at home you can just


I'm tired then I just like I don't want to do it anymore that kind of thing, so, oh you have to really rely a lot on your balancing, my balancing isn't very good so


and I prefer hot yoga more, you sweat like no tomorrow but you feel really good after that


I am actually reading, but it's a political book (ppb), ya cause my dad like to buy all these kind of, ya but I'm having a bit of troubles because his English is really top notch


taking awhile to understand, I might be giving up, on the book soon, cause it's really a lot to take in


then what kind of genre books do you like


those cheesy kind


for me I prefer those csi crime, crime that involve murder kidnapping that thing I like to read those kind of, but I don't know what you classify it under, cause there's one book that I read a lot of times is call murder under the sun


I can lend you the book, got a bit of romance, what new music artist are you following, I'm not follow any new one I just see as long as these


song is nice but I have two favourite artists though I like one dj and the other one is, like a band


let me listen to it later, then what's on your current playlist, house all house


cause for me I really like mash up, is actually this YouTube, China call central music, never mind I will let I will show it to you later, so, they mash up a lot of different then they've like you know tropical playlist they have summer playlist


they have like different kind of playlists, so other than that I listen two more of, I don't know if it's, but I think is more I, but I, prefer, houses lor


genre, I don't I don't really like edm because sometime it gives me headache, so R and B house


[orh] if, ~'s gyming that kind, if I am doing like intense exercise I like to listen to those kind of, no no no, Italian like Latino kind of, music cause theirs is very hype very pumped up


the only rock I know is like Bon-Jovi, then the rest all heavy metal but


Westlife, One Direction, we the vamps, back back in secondary school there is


all the love song and the emo songs, then have you been to any concert or festivals, ya me too eh remember zouk-out, or what's that what's the other one called


ya Ultra, I will never I won't don't think I will spend that amount kind of money to go to a concert, Sam-Smith just has a just had a concert, Sam-Smith, but eh


just like Halloween Horror Night I, one thing that's preventing me from going is the having to go back, Hitch wouldn't wouldn't take you


you have have you been to any exhibition or like what what's your most memorable exhibition, you don't go to museums, the last one I went to was only the Terracotta after that I cannot remember already


if you deem it to be then it will be an exhibition, then have you been to any place, or are you intending to go, like you know lion-king or, the Phantom-of-the-Opera those kind Phantom-of-the-Opera


actually I wanted to go but I'll wanted to go for the lion-king one more, I've never gone, my sister went she said it was really good, I like the song


what's that movie the one with, no not the Greatest-Showman is another ya ya ya like a lot of people said it was so good I I was I was so bored


I couldn't even last through, one quarter of the movie, I gave up, musical


but the one that I like the most is the-Sound-of-Music it was it's a very very old show, wait the old Disney or the or the new Disney


Fantasia sounds familiar but never hear before, but actually you realise most old Disney movies they have the they're like a bit musical, like Cinderella will sing then


then the little mouse, most of them all musical, I just asked you that


okay, that is, I ya if you want to just drink lah, we should probably continue


where are you going to eh tomorrow are you, tomorrow, oh ya the BSG, what's your group's one, mine quite terrible eh, mine is so shit


mine is so terrible, but I'm surprised that my my group's ranking remain, six, yup mine remain, but I don't know how it remain


with negative cashflow, negative cashflow and my eps and roe is so is, so low it's it's like point something it's one point something, oh that's not as in that isn't as bad as compared to mine


the thing is right because we forgot to add, in how much shipment for our private label, so, it just went downhill from there like because we didn't like we didn't key in the values


because of that, I think we will go up also, probably we might go up to fifth but we won't be at six, cause we we we bought back our share and then we paid early loans so I think that's why that that's what caused the negative cashflow so right now we're trying to raise cash


we we didn't, we didn't buy back we should be, ya we shouldn't have bought back, I mean doesn't really matter, because right now our shares isn't very cheap it's forty something dollars


but I know the A group one is two hundred over bucks, their share very valuable, the A group and the I group right they are totally, polar opposite, and they are dominating both segment you know


it's so it's once you know I think after year forty right it's very hard to catch up with them already, you will probably be quite stagnant if not will drop


like the increase like the increase and the decrease right will be determined in the first two years that we do, then subsequently I think will be quite stagnant


for my for my group I told my group I just want to be in the middle, I I'm okay if, we as long as we're not the first or the last I'm okay, I just don't want to be the last


we for my group is we are exactly right smack in the middle cause we are sixth, I think your group and my group is like around there, but I don't think my group will be able to overtake yours


because of our, condition right now like all state right now isn't very good, but you all are better off than us, like really


ya tomorrow have to see him again


where do you get this Minion bottle bottle from, ah I wanted to ask is it are you


hygiene, oh Totoro is also from


you know KP there right they got this Thai, food there I was thinking of going there to try you want to go with me it's boat noodle


oh you working, Friday, I forgot, I'm so sorry, Monday, Monday we go ah I want to try, boat noodles


cause I saw on Food King I I watched noc then they have Food King then they, they like, introduce so many places


I want to try, oh ya have to continue talking until their time's up, ah okay then we have another two more minutes let's just keep this going then


Mookata, which one Thomson Thomson there got a few Mookata they open until like two am, or the one at Golden-Mile oh did you try the Cheese Story, you should try the <unk> the Mookata lor


there is quite good especially the cheese dip they got Satay dip also, where is that, [orh] is outlets


what sauce is it, fair enough


the what


I miss the, Thai food at my place, but they close down for good already everywhere, over


okay can we start from the bar portion after the picture, okay, what's on the notice board, okay mine is


wine list rose and peach, so that's our first difference, I, I don't think there will be anymore differences there so we move to the couple sitting, together, what colour


are they wearing, what, is he wearing shoes ya he they are drinking wine is he wearing shoes, okay no no differences there is there a seesaw


seesaw okay so that's the second difference, is there a bikini woman with a ball, what colour is the ball


she wearing a hat, bikini pink colour, okay, in front of her is there a chair and an umbrella


what colour, okay, no changes, next to that


there's no sign there's no sign so that's the third difference, I don't have that sign okay, are they old people


ya, what she wearing, (umm) (hmm) is he wearing socks and sandal, oh okay, fourth difference


wait wait wait repeat it, what is he wearing on his feet, but no sock, okay, is there a radio next to him, are they both on blue chairs one blue chair and one orange chair


okay next, is there what what is it mine's called Joe's food shack, okay fifth difference, behind is there a sign that says Paul and Joe's Diving School


sixth difference we win finish, K next, I only see your picture, ya only very slight reader friend


hi, ya okay, okay let's do this, whatever this is you want to take half and then I take half, okay, you want to go first, what is it ah


oh, how do you play this game, this is a terrible game wait how do you even play this


we just, do the question, okay okay, how long has it been since my last serious relationship, uh I would say, December two thousand seventeen eh


ya December two thousand seventeen, okay (ppb), there is interest but not yet


why don't I go next, okay what is your deal maker, deal maker ah in your search for a partner, I can answer for you, someone someone who loves god right okay ya your turn


what other question, ya we're gonna finish way too fast, I think so too okay never mind


myself, I think I'm unreliable, what it's true , okay what about you, that's such a fun game okay


opinionated, opinionated, okay can, okay my turn what do you most like to eat in the whole wide world rice


you, if you had to pick like your last meal or something, what, ya card


hash browns, mash oh ya the one they sell at, Rosti, the one they sell at Marche right , okay your turn


very important, now, not so much when I was younger, okay how important is marriage to you, I want children


I think I think it's like a older thing, how important is marriage to you, really, I think you will be fine on your own though


I think daddy would be, you're very you're more independent than you give yourself credit for, don't say personal things ah


okay , okay <UNK/> name a favourite place that you've been to why is it significance, I would say Thailand is my favourite country


but like place, if not country but just place, ya my picks are very small, but place like place in Singapore


really, what is it significance, you all bible study at the Botanic-Gardens


as in okay first date with daddy or first date ever, ever, so it wasn't with daddy lah, ya ya ya the ball right


Botanic-Gardens, oh yes yay, in Singapore


I don't know I'm not a very place person, I think, I would say, [huh] I don't have a favourite, place, Clementine's jogging track okay


Pete oh we are supposed to write down the word, oh I think so okay, jetset spice of life ticking boxes


I think someone who has like, I think this is like a card game for like small group people


what that I would like to get to know better then I just get to know them lah


about people, what in what piques my interest in with people


I think where they've come from and where they are going like I like to know, about people's families because I realised that people have very different family background, and I think in some way it determines


like where you are going like where you come from, no just like ya I'm making friends ya, you what piques your interest about people ya


ya ya


canon James-#Wong# was a teacher, oh I didn't know that, so before he was a canon he was a teacher


tete-a-tete is my word how do you how would you pronounce this


it's like small talk in French okay, when did you last have a truly meaningful conversation with someone, I think now is pretty meaningful


okay please, ya it's fun, and then now I have a meaningful conversations all the time, yesterday <UNK/> told me she's getting uh ROM


he's not excited like he doesn't see as the big marriage thing, he just see it as like the legal things ya, so I was like it's okay I'll be excited for you and then he she said, but I'm now getting married to you ya


okay do you wanna say something meaningful


okay ya then


your pronunciation has gotten a bit weird


nothing, would you see anything, maybe my phone, nothing, everything is the sensible


your phone, I will be last, ya ya ya ya ya ya, ya okay, page turn a, what is the most inspiring book you have ever read oh okay


so I read this book is called Cold Tangerines is by this woman called, Shona nice quake, it's so good I read it three times, and, at at the end of the book it has this like the dot exercise kind of thing


and I think like you have to read books at, specific times in your life if not they don't, they their not, they don't do what their suppose to ya like I think I had read the book when I was younger I don't think it would had been like changing


[orh] if I was older as well, is really good Core Tangerines she just tucks, ya I I read it three time, and I've made note about it in my own book, every, everytime I read it


I feel like I gain something new I think she's just like, very casually honest about the Christian work and how, it wasn't what she thought it was gonna be at all and she was a, like she was uh, Christian kid, but her journey wasn't necessarily nice or pleasant


but she was a church worker her whole life, and she just thought it would be you know all these fulfilling thing but sometimes she was tired, sometimes she had to learn to, forgive church workers and she's just every honest about it like just very painfully


like forgiveness is a daily thing I had to forgive this coworker everyday, it wasn't like a one time thing and then we were done with it, and I think she because she was so honest it was easy to take what she was saying


what's the you're gonna say the bible right, oh ya


what do you mean, oh, right


what's ballot card oh ballot cards


where is it based in is it all over the world


okay so it's like short stories lah, nice okay your turn, eating


but it's nice I like, sharing meals with people, I think it's like a simple pleasure ya


oh okay okay okay, is the same just daddy will take photos, cannot like that ya okay fine okay next, no no fear if you knew you could not fail what would you go accomplish


if you knew you could not fail what would you go accomplish, think I will write a book if I knew I wouldn't fail I will just write it, I know I know I know I know I know but it's the card


so I did that, glider a parry glider with Richard, because I was scared and I knew he was scared too so we just decided to do it


it it's not as scary as I was freaking out five minutes, before the entire dime, I was like we're just gonna die also cause he's heavy, so it's even scarier ya it's a two person thing


it's so it was it was really scary they kept asking him what's his weight eh, and I was like we're just gonna die like this is how I'm gonna die, and then we didn't die we were slide in, ya ya ya we landed properly it isn't that scary as you think I think


ya so many you can die you can die paragliding can buy sky, can die skydiving can die jetskiing I think if you were meant to die you will just die so might as well just do the things, I'm more afraid of the water though then


temp, I also don't know what it means


but I enjoy washing plate, sometime, because I feel bad, when I know you're gonna come home to a


so sometimes even when that's not mine I will wash, but only because I know then you don't have to watch it the actual activity of of course not lah, okay do not take casual making things clean


no joy about keeping things alive, really, what was that rose bush, you kill the money plant


but money plant survive anything, you have to buy another money plant, no wait we we have a lot of time we have two hour, see total conversation two hours seventeen minute


epitaph, you know what this is right, how do you want to be remembered, so morbid


a good, friend I guess now cause that's my only role in life, I don't know I I haven't thought about this at all it's not where I'm at at like


ya I know that's why I said what do you wanna be that's why I said a good friend


cause I think, ya I I don't think about that yet, what I bet you think about it, oh really that's not how I remember you at all


I would say warm and kind, you're very warm person, you're very warm person like warm personality


sweeping I think I don't know how to sweep, no even when I use the magic mop I just don't understand like, I don't think


there will always be dirt left behind no matter, how much you sweep there will now you're getting softer, the lower one is your, no you see, the lower one is your


ya ya ya so maybe you move it closer to your mouth


you must love aunty Kim then, nobody irons you know, nobody iron, okay mini me, do you wanna readjust, can take the time


do you mind me to help you, okay now you're good okay can, mini me how important is having children to you, important but scary


I think I think you will fail, I think that something that you just have to, you cannot control the outcome of it, there is only so much you can do and I think you will make mistakes and I think you need to be okay with that


you wanted to have kids at a very young age is it, was it always like a, definite thing that was going to happen to you


like you always knew, by why only two ah, why only two


really, don't think you're inefficient at all


okay okay, okay, nothing


not (ppb) yet I don't think I'm at, what did you do


oh okay that's very good, okay sing to the mountain, this, describe the happiest moment of your life


ya you seemed happy, ya


I love how mummy talk to me, talk to me eh, like this is a conversation right, like I feel like you're talking cause you know someone else is listening, ya no just talk to me this is a conversation okay


happiest moment of my life ya I would say graduating, was something I didn't think I would be able to do, ya I don't think I would have, been able to if daddy doesn't force


uh Hedwig, like the Harry Potter character, really I thought you watched all the movies oh no that's Lord of the Ring


ya she really she really looked out for me eh she was my friend, she will bring me in for lunch, and nobody like , she has a reputation for being a harsh critic


but she was very nice to me always, no I don't think so I think she's just like, okay faux pas, describe the most embarrassing moment of your life I think about this


often, ya, so when I was thirteen years old and that that time all the Chinese girls in school, they would wear, they would wear shorts under their uniform and I didn't


I didn't wear shorts under my uniform, so we are having a debate and I fell down and the entire row, of boys in front of me one two, Ismail Wen-Song, one more guy Akash Phillip they all saw my underwear


and it's something we still talk about to this day, like I'm not extremely embarrassed by it but pretty embarrassed, ya you


ya, oh dear


maybe you just don't hold on to your mistakes as much, as when you were younger like you see the last time I remember was when I was thirteen


but I bet I did things after that but I just don't


can I have some time to think, ya can can can, that's the ACS motto


can I don't mind I don't mind okay yours go on


tear will happen


nine is be kind , I think is very easy to forget very very very very easy to forget, uh especially when you are talking to people and you are thinking about of being efficient or


thinking about being quick, or anything is just so easy to forget, so is not necessary something that I do everyday but is something that I always try to remind myself, specially with old people cause I think sometimes I can be very impatient with


either spectrum either kids or old people, but we will all be old one day and we all work it, so we should, uh to people I like in that moment yes but if


I don't have a relationship with you is hard for me to think about, like a an empathetic only if I can relate to you in a way, specially with man I just find myself, easier to be unkind especially man in authority


had a big problem with that, (ppb) okay Keith what do you value most in a friendship, loyalty


ya, as in that's, definitely like all my friends are always very honest to me, but I think


I think especially the older you get it's so easy to they have their own family or whatever and then, if you're the single friend it's it's very easy to not stay friends with them, but I stay friends with all my Commonwealth friends


and I intend to for like, Commonwealth is really the place where I meet friends for life, ya, ya


what, !aiyo! so sad, Facebook, didn't Facebook recommend you, maybe they are not on Facebook


now everyone is on Facebook what, maybe maybe maybe ya, lie


but you're always making friends, ya ya ya, ya


it's a cycle ya, for me there will be concerns, always like Geraldine Srijah, concerns I


I need it and they are those kind of people to so I don't mind, either way ya, like Geraldine and I Geraldine knows she's gonna move eventually, they think Singapore is a sinking ship, Ze-Yan always said


so eventually they will move migrate somewhere and she knows that we will still be friends and I know we will still be friends, like Vibo I'm still friends with him, and we talk


so I think it takes effort on both sides you need to, prioritise that person as well, your turn, I would take you for a vacation


but, ya, I would, because you like to travel and you're a, easy traveller, ya, then I would buy a house, that's all


ya and then maybe buy, ya if I have ten million dollar, right


okay what would you do, oh ya all the, all the children that you guys


I'm brother Susie, ya


ya I'm actually, she travelled once remember, she did that trip


isn't Alvin mama bringing her to KL, in December, twenty first right, course correction, if you only had one more year to live what would you change about your life now


he think away think


course correction, I don't know this is such a hard thing to think about, because then I wouldn't be able to get married I wouldn't be able to have kids I wouldn't, wouldn't want to do any of those things as well


no, no I don't want, to know when I'm going, because you are older now


ya I wouldn't think about, tell daddy and everything, where the things are in the house as well, think you need to make a map for him, if you're looking for this pail go to this


ya, I think I think you need to do that, okay your turn


everything, (ppb) eh just end it as there , just everything okay, I don't know okay next, you what are you, procrastinating


it was just nice I really like listening to all their stories, because like I found, ya and like this is where this is the line of women I have come from in a way


and that is nice to <UNK/> cause I never used to care, about that kind of things when I'm younger and I think when you are older you really, see like similarities in the people that are older ya you do


tingling in your toes, how do you know that you truly love your partner, I don't have a partner so I cannot answer this question, what about you


really, he bought you flowers for this thing right, August twenty second I saw


ya he did, he did Roses, twenty second I saw


no they were red, it was an ugly bouquet so I knew that he had bought it, ya ya ya, so she bought for your wedding anniversary that's so odd I don't want


home cooked meal you cooked for her, she was daddy's friend first right


not all that glitters is gold eh no it's you it's you it's you it's you


I don't think I'm good at, uh letting go of people, I think because, like my my family life is very stable, you know no one's been divorced or anything, I'm so fans with Eunice and Audrey which are the two people that I was closest to in COR anyway


so I don't, I don't drop people from my life, like I don't do that, so I think, I think relationships are tricky though, I think if you <UNK/> like you said the best is yet to be


I think you need to believe that, you'll get married and have a husband and I think, If you think about that then you cannot hold on to something else, because if not you are doing that future partner a disservice


so I think, I think you have to believe that ya there is something better, out there and if I keep holding on to this then I can never, look for it what, so I think that hope, is why is important to let something go you


but isn't marriage tiresome and difficult


I think I don't have friends like that, Geraldine and I the way we talk is very like what's going on in your life what's going on in life what you're gonna do okay fine finish, you know we're very we're both very that kind of people so we don't


ya I I don't have a personality that is conducive for people like that, people don't look at me and be like oh I will tell her all my trouble, they know I will lose interest quickly


it is true, I think so you are tried, certain people, okay what is your most valued possession, how did you come to have it I would say my phone


that's really the only thing I really care about, because, ya because I, it is my connection to the world


not just information but people just everything, and also no and also because, when my phone get cut off I feel it, so now I know that I really cannot live without my phone


that's why I have to find a different plan, if not, sixty dollars a month eh is just, sixty dollars a month, now I pay now I pay twenty eight dollars eh


because they owe, remember there was this fifty dollars that we pay extra, and then I said that they will give it back, so they still owe the fifty dollars I have to do this GIRO form to get it I will do it soon lah


so they owe us forty five dollars essentially, I'm done with M one I'm no longer an M one subscriber, I'm a Circles eh auto deduct, it doesn't even like I don't even have


from my POSB account so as long as, from the first to the fifteen of every month as long as have thirty dollars in my account they will just take it away, ya so its its very I don't even think about it ya, and I'm, okay until


January, so I don't even have to think about it I don't even have to, like the thing with M one, then it's fine lah stay on corporate


circles they use M one satellite, so there is no difference to your network connection number one, number two <UNK/> circles is for data, so my data I get nine Gig worth of data


but I only get hundred minutes talk time, so my M one uh, bill was three hundred minutes talk time, four gig data


your turn right, is he still alive Moses Lim


we still have one hour to go by the way, life lesson, I think, perspective is very important, ya I think optimism gets people through a lot of things


I think wisdom from, elders is also a tool that you should take, she always like, listen to your parents [orh], as in it sounds


not daily no but I listen to your more than, I used to ever in my whole life


red herring, describe an experience where you were match made or you went on a blind date, I have never been on a blind date, don't think I would ever trust anyone to


ya because they have better friends than I do I don't know, uh I I went on a date with someone from BSF, which was a terrible experience


it was just painful and boring and, ya just boring, so boring, I think, and I think I friend zoned him very quickly and I think


he was keen to go out on another date and then, I just said no then, I don't I'm not, I'm not tactful when it comes to boys that I turn down


I don't think there's a need to be tactful, I rather be to the point than, ya I just I I don't have patience, I, was kind


I was, ya and then apparently he was very upset then he changed, BSS group, grow up lah he's so old already okay, you have you been on a blind date


heirloom, heirloom, you don't pronounce the H, air


I think what love looks like and how to forgive, ya I don't think, I don't think other parent, I think I'm a forgiving person because I have, been forgiven


ya so I think it's very important what, your parents, instill in you at a young age ya, cause it's it will stay


high taste, ya, ya I know that all


ya ya ya ya ya ya, I think Amachi, the fact that she watches YouTube is quite, ya ya like Tata didn't know how to WhatsApp as in


but not really, oh okay, radio oh walkman, I do it I'll do it I'll do it


dude okay okay take recorder I had been telling this story for years, but do you know that, I didn't understand CD


and a concept of recording, and television and then you bought me the voice recorder and that's how I learnt it, how old was I ah that I still didn't, I was quite old right


like I just did I remember not understanding it, are you not comfortable do you want to put your bag down, yes, yes, yes I always thought everything was just real


like it didn't make, sense, to me that, things could not be real, no I always tell people that, my mum, it was a great teacher and I always


used this example, as the thing, to explain what I am ya, okay archetypes, archetypes like, archetype, of people


you are an archetype, I don't know how to, describe it, architects, the question explains, which literary character do you most identify with, do you get what archetype is now ya


oh and the bible, cannot leh , I cannot sing


i dunno eh, enough about, I cannot this thing


ya, do I have to answer this question, okay


surgeon, surgeon, I think the emphasis is on ~geon, surgeon, surgeon, surgeon, no okay


where is my true home, I guess, the correct answer should be, haven't but I don't, I don't think about that end up


ya my room but I don't really care about places, so I would say, Ipoh, like where the people are if you guys didn't live in Singapore I don't, Singapore would feel like my true home


I know


okay okay


I think because you grew up post war, or post independent, so you have that perspective I don't I think there is an archetype of what being Singaporean is, ya because I, nineteen ninety one kid so I think it's different


algorithm would you sign up with a dating agency


did you oh okay, people (hmm) interesting


uh I am on Bumble which is it's an app, that, girls have to talk to guys first, so the guy can't talk to you so you swipe and then you match, and then if you wanna to talk to them then you talk to them


if not it expires within twenty four hours so you cannot talk to them anymore, ya so I think that is useful because it gives me control, number one number two, it's a higher quality than other app


so not no it's free


wait I'm sorry, Ardy Audrey has a boyfriend now, ya I would never join an app that pays money, why would I do that


they've people everywhere, cheat to cheap, ya


ya, pronunciation it's a bit lazy, don't know age maybe, there's no such thing, I think, chemistry and comfort level as long as it's there you can be doing anything


can be watching a movie you can be golfing you can be, not doing anything just sitting, and talking over a drink I think it's fine as well


Japan, ya, ya ya ya ya ya ya, ya, ya


ya, [orh] that's nice, oh okay


okay, okay okay, oh nice, okay that's great so you like tours lah


interesting, no as in so you like tours, like you don't like free and easy


push your button, what stresses or de stresses you


(uh huh), what stresses me daddy, I just I can think how he thinks now because I spent so much time trying to understand him


so I know already I see the warning sign, and I know what's gonna happen and I know what he's gonna try to do and I already it just, stresses me I don't like it I don't like thinking about his head space


your turn, why so many this kind of questions


uh I don't have a lot of hard one, why why do I want a partner is it is that the question, children


no, no I want, married, I want to be someone's wife


okay, pro bono what was the word, oh okay, pro bono, ya that words I haven't thought about for a long time, what are you willing to devote your time and energy to without getting paid


people lah, I will only spend time with people that I care about, that's the only I wouldn't, I'm not a very big like cause person like oh women's rights or, human rights like I'm I'm just not that kind of person


but I would invest in people's life that's the only thing


oh really lah oh ya cause you do like nature


uh I don't care, have you seen the otter, wah I seen them so many time


like they're at MacRitchie they're always just like crossing, something to go to a body of water, and it's unreal, because, in Singapore you just


I don't remember this I okay I don't remember seeing animals just in the wild in Singapore, so when I, no but then like okay if you go camping in America there will be bears


like they will just be there and like squirrels I'm just like oh my goodness there's a squirrel because there are squirrels everywhere, but for me it is still unreal to see an animal in, ya, like okay I was at Sungei-Buloh and I saw a toucan


just walking and it was insane, Balmoral blood what, see that's insane and also I don't pay attention unless I'm walking for the sake of walking


so, ya I don't I don't pay attention to nature, monkeys, the monkeys in Bukit-Panjang have you seen them I've seen them, ah Bukit-Timah also


(ugh) I hate monkeys okay, they just look, menacing, okay, what were you, it's lazy it's lazy speech cause you say words that you're used to saying


so when there there's an extra syllable in the word you tend to miss it out, ya, ya it's a thing, just, think when you pronounce your words, over pronounce over pronounce, ya


what did Grace <UNK/> see, in her house, !aiyo! what did she do


(ppb) that's terrifying, owls where are they coming from, what at night or


okay we're one hour, fifteen minutes in, okay, what I, once I, what are your top three children's name


I love my name you know, I really like it, ya Prisydora it's a very nice name, ya, if


ya you all picked good names, really


Athena is my really good friend who has the two little kid, but Athena means, God of War right, no no no that's Mars, Athena is the Roman goddess of love ya why would you name someone


at that time oh interesting


Athena her younger daughter is called Mars, the Roman god of war


why what's the story behind Jolene, as in the name the name, as in why you don't like it now, I love that song


your turn, I think I not bad not, I think I'm not bad I think I'm worried about seasoning number one think I use too much oil


no I think I started using too much oil I think I use much less oil now, ya because I realise hash browns don't need that much oil, I was using way too much oil and then now I use much, less oil for the hash browns and it tastes crispier and it's nicer


so I think I'm just learning the very basic things like oil and seasoning, I think I've watched enough cooking shows to cobble something together, it's pretty easy you just, use ya


I think you're a good cook, ya I think, ya I think also because you have a refined palate, you are a, better cook


I still think about the dessert it was an experience it really was and I, I've never had anything, like I don't like spending a lot of money on food, just for me is just not, something that I value but that was the only time when I was like this make sense


because and especially even when Malcom just served, when he comes and serves you there is there is a like I understand that this is his thing, you know this is what he put on earth to do essentially


ya and even when he serves you there is there's love in his serving, K mutant power would this is exciting you could wake up tomorrow morning with a special ability what will you have


I know what I want, really, mine is teleport


so is just and I'm there, ya but I don't want to actually travel I just wanna, and be there, ya teleporting no interest in trying to fly


I just have a picture like Google, image and then you just


if I cannot have your cooking okay if it's your cooking it will be fish curry and <UNK/> with rice, just I already know, with must have <UNK/> I don't know why you don't buy <UNK/> anymore


I don't know but like it it expires really fast ya it's not, I just don't want so much carbs in my body all the time makes you full really fast, the sweet and sour pork


bitter gourd and steam egg, really


pasta, angel hair ya I like angel hair now never used to last time now I feel like it's lighter


really ah, I never knew this I don't like seafood at all, expensive and difficult, ya ya ah


alias, what nicknames do you go by which is your favourite


ya, I think daddy's name for you so nice, and I think your name for him is so nice because it's really different, like I don't wanna hear people ya it's nice


what nicknames do you go by everyone in my life calls me bear, cause I call them bear, that's it, Altia till this day she calls me Subby, which is Subhaschandran but short ah


so SUBBY, she'll come then she'll be like Subby, and there


there's no one that irritates me like Aneda, just nothing in the world that irritates me like Aneda


okay don't want go into detail


K larger than life who is your hero, Milia that's nice, how does he or she inspire you


he wasn't man in every aspect, they using a man to behave ya


cannot feel it, ya


but do you think you also put him on a pedestal cause he was your father, but then later on you will like ya ya ya ya ya, ya


ya ya ya ya, you are a parent yourself, ya


hero ah I don't really have you know, maybe Geraldine sometimes to be honest, I wouldn't say hero but she's an inspiring person, and she has a contagious, energy


that when you are around her, you'll feel inspired, of course she's my favourite, actually, ya she has a good head on her shoulders and I admire that


about her, and I've seen her I think, for me the most important thing is I, seen her grow as a person, I know what she was like in secondary school she didn't have many friends, because she was extremely blunt and tag less and


ignorant and racist and she was all these things but I know who she is now, and I think the arch, is so much more important to me than your starting point


I don't (ppb), have very sad moment, the saddest moment of my life, I I wouldn't


I don't think I've lived enough, this is the saddest moment of your life


not even people dying, do you really think, do you think really Tata went to heaven


ya ya ya ya ya ya ya, do you think, no I'm not I'm genuinely


because I don't think about these things, don't think I have to live enough of a life, to pinpoint, seem break up are said but they are not


the saddest moment of, no life, I think I I would say when I found out, that, all the husbands went very nice to the wife


it did, take me a back a little bit, ya, because


!aiya! I don't know I just sad lah okay, what do you miss most from your childhood


the mango tree


is it like Flame of the Forest, yes is Flame of the Forest, yes, is Flame of the Forest I know exactly what you talking about


oh it's not, no no, is it Ixora


forty five minutes left, no no no no no no eh childhood favourite, point of your childhood, childhood something childhood


did I lose a, what do you miss most about your childhood, it was there


I was too late


okay, what do I miss most about my childhood, I don't really remember much, I think, I miss


more nine year, but I don't think I miss that either so ya nothing nothing, but it was simple, your perspective is just very


short term, like everything just means, the most to you if you don't have that cape, is like your world is, gone, if if daddy says something and he doesn't do it your life shattered


like everything just mean so much to you but they're such small, insignificant thing, how many siblings do you have who are you closest to, this is interesting I think you're closest to Stanley mama


my favourite is Alvin mama


really ah


okay, I think also because, you are at a certain age where you can appreciate it, really


okay your turn, I think people always say I have a big heart


I don't really see it because, I think I don't exercise that at home, so I think I'm reminded, but I think I think because I invest, time and effort with my friends a lot


so they see it more than anybody else, ya


!huh! I wouldn't say that, say warm, you are caring lah, I think warm is, is like daddy doesn't have a warm personality, like <UNK/> doesn't have an overly warm personality to me


Crazy Chitty is bubbly but she isn't warm I think warm is comfort but maybe is cause you're my mother so maybe that's why, but like I think warmth is comforting and safe


who is uncle Yong, is he the one who's married to the Thai lady, oh I always thought the person who was buying food was Brian


okay so once he bought the cold noodles then, cold noodles it was like a, salad dish dish it was really nice, what is that


it's so good and there's a


in hindsight if you could turn back time, what is the one thing, you would have done differently I think, I don't think you would say anything right


you will go to school is it, have more children, one more just one more one more, so small one


have a pet, buy a pet, what would you do


you can't because if not then your life wouldn't be going where is going, you can't change other people's life


non negotiables


doesn't care about faith, isn't close to their mum, I think man who are close to their mom are very different man who are


so I learnt that that, he was definitely, cloudburst when did you last cry, there was this Netflix documentary it's called City of Joy


it's about oh I watched it it was amazing I love it, it wasn't sad or depressing at all, it wasn't that's like oh drone drone this is the rape situation it wasn't that at all, it was extremely uplifting it taught me so much about


woman ya, City of Joy, it's about how people use rape as a tool of war in the Congo, and how they do it because they saw their mothers and


sister get raped growing up so they don't know anymore, and then that is very powerful point when the women who is the director one of the co founders of City of Joy, and she's this New York Jewish lady who wrote the Vagina Monologues in New York


and she described her experience because she was raped and abused by her father growing up, and then the the the Congolese woman just looked at her and said I didn't know such terrible things, happened in the West as well, and it was just this you know this shared experience of like you are not any worse


because you live in a country with visible wall I am not any better because I live in the land of the free, and ya like this happened every where I know, oh for me I think it is in portion in this kind in my life


to be aware of the situation like this, when did you last cry


black and white thing, are you so predictable


K we have half an hour, we didn't do this, ya okay go


close friend ah, though, no thank you (ppb), because I know who my close guy friends are I don't want marry any of them I'm not a person who have


then we see if I'm looking for you also lah, what do you mean


as in okay I think it is a very brave thing to do knowing me and knowing, the kind of person I am if you still, but I don't have close guy friends that I think, would make good husband or father


describe the worst date you've ever been on, no apparently not, crash and burn


obviously


ya, visit America


visit America , think I want, taught three number two, I think I want the cliff diver


like you jump off a cliff I can done it for small ones but I never done like a really proper, big one ya in the ocean, I want to do that, number three


ya I say this but I don't know if I were to ever do it learn how to drive, no get a pet


I used this one of pet


what, which part, the island is it, north island or south island, south island are better


no is reachable, okay okay what what what, I can see when your brain is shutting down, okay you want to quit


you have to say two more


ya I know, knitting, knitting, grandchildren, I can feel one two three maybe three okay


influenza, how to how would you pronounce this word, influenza, which of this symbols best describe, which of these symbols best describe you


then they give me a bunch of, math symbol, is the worst question ever I refuse to answer this question, what is this suppose to mean, I don't like it reminds me of like an Indian word


because they always have dot, Tamil word sorry not and, I don't like it makes me think about math I don't like thinking about math


inner fiber, no we did what do you most not like about yourself


I don't know I think I'm very optimistic, I never ever think anything's the end of the world, ever, I don't I don't have an apocalyptic sense, and I think because I had that so much when I was young, so I'm so glad that it didn't


carry, forward, no because like you were always very end time oriented, ya, I really felt it, always thought every day is going be be the last, of the world


do you remember in two thousand, when the world was suppose to end then you had this little kit, that we had and I thought, I thought for sure we're dying


what is your best trait, (uh huh) okay, you


oh my turn, what's your


oh ya, was quite some time ago I saw on, ya I didn't realise it was so long ago, but you loved Croatia you still talk about it


in Croatia the tunic, and my favourite thing about you is that every time you go to another country, you will think about the cuisine there and you'll come back and you'll try, different thing, like this is how they make the hummus


you were there for like, five seconds, but it, it's endearing, but it was on that trip right no, oh what did you come back with after Croatia


yes, olive oil it was very clean tasting thing, name, okay, fake SP


name one of your closest friends how is he or she special to you


so cute that's adorable


every time I see him outside he always buys, a bottle of wine for the table or a, meat platter for the table, always and I always bump into them, they're pretty like, cool


hip like they know where to go, my closest friends, is much closer like I'm very very close to Geraldine but <UNK/> is my other, also very close friend


he is one of those people that when I talk to him, I just feel instantly like all my burdens are lifted, ya he's a very special person his dad passed away, this year, three months ago


no in Canada, they all migrated, was a very sudden cardiac arrest, was very sudden, and then, and then all and then his mother his mother is like a sarcastic


smart witty lady who can handle anything she's extremely strong, and then all the women came and !aiyo! are you okay she's like I'm fine I will be fine and it's a sad thing it has happened, we will move on with life


ya, ya, ya, she's like I'm fine


I think his situation was different though, the cardiac it was sudden but she accepted it, and she


big art from India, so he runs, ya ya ya he came to Singapore when he was seven years old, but he's from India so all the relatives are all like


mystery guest if you could have an hour long conversation, with anyone at all who would you talk to, Arnold Schwarzenegger, he's gonna die like I know, if it wasn't Arnold it would have been Glen Campbell but he


he's already there, ya so sad, Colin Ryan doesn't have as nice, a story at, these two (ppb) fans


he he came to America not speaking a league of English you know, he acted in Conan the Barbarian the only role he didn't need to, and he became the governor of California, and he rode so many boat, but he was a terrible husband lah


they all, they all were terrible husband, I don't know but he must have done something


on the role as well, but his last wife really look after him, really looked after him even his children from the previous marriage, but like ya she


Glen-Campbell, but his music, really, till this day when I hear


what would she talk to you about


didn't <UNK/> see world war two as well, should rule the family, why what is this obsession with, Britain ah can I just ask, I have no like


no wah I think, I think the accent is terrible I think, they are varied classes, and I don't, get that til this day so #Hua-Ni#'s husband is from Sunderland


Sunderland is quite a not great part of the UK, but his family came from money and always had money and still has money, and the way he views the world is different because he came from money


don't respect that okay free talk, we have like fifteen minute, but that game is so much better than this is damn boring


can we go to makeup and shopping, okay latest make-up skincare products do you still use Clarins, Khiel's's's now you only use Khiel's's


what else do you use moisturiser


I'm, at a place in my life right I am very interested about taking care of my skin and my hair, and I have been going for all these like, free trials where they do the skin analysis and they give you a free facial, and I learn that my skin is dry and I don't have collagen


like my collagen isn't producing as much as it should I don't know if it's a Chinese thing though and that's why they say it, but my skin age is good my skin age is twenty three, because I think my diet is decent, and I think I at the end of the day now I think the last thing you should do


is just remove your make-up as long as you remove your make-up and slap on some moisturizer you will be okay, ya but I've only understood the value of it now now I am also concerned about my hair, because I think that that coconut oil thing is really really good


and when I don't use it I see the dropping, so now I am worried because you have thinning hair and daddy has thinning hair I think it will be, and I think the set four is Biotin, I think I should take biotin capsule or


because I saw Rachel's hair get thicker from biotin, it's everywhere right it will become that's why that's what she said as well


and okay okay okay so I wanted to ask you this so I've noticed some hair on my face, poly ovarian, cystic


polycystic, I'm I'm notice, some which I didn't notice last time I don't know if it's cause I am noticing it now or I have always had it


but my peach fuzz is quite a bit, as in I don't have a beard lah but, threading is the way forward threading they pull from the root right


as in I would never shave lah but I don't think Veet is, is in I'm just conscious about it lah


I pluck, long hair I do pluck and peer


I cannot I cannot I cannot I cannot I'm too young to have a clump of white hair, I'm okay with it (ppb), holy grail makeup skincare


I and I think your skin is good because you have taken care of it not be as in, some is genes but I think the two of you all are we done, is it is it time yet, how long more do we have


okay, ya, I I I have adopted it since two thousand, sixteen seventeen sixteen my interest peak seventeen was when I started getting more consistent


now I'm very consistent


K I didn't like that growing up and so I think that's why I, swung to the opposite I didn't like that you look so preoccupied with your look, for me it felt that way because you were taking too much care of your


skin I didn't understand it as you just self care, I just saw it as vain eh and I didn't like it I didn't like that you were so preoccupied, I don't now I don't care now is great that you because I understand it


growing up I just thought you are so vain <UNK/> is so vain I never want to be like that, and that's why I don't want to wash my face and I don't want to put any skincare it sounds like you spent so much money on just keeping young, what is this keeping young thing I don't get it and it was just something I didn't understand and then


when you talked about <UNK/> and how she looks so young I don't understand why a woman's value is she looks young, and that's great oh we should all look, twelve years old that's amazing and growing up I just didn't understand it and I didn't value it


I didn't I didn't want, to be valued because I was fair and young, so I did all the things that were opposite, and go outside as much don't carry umbrella because, ya I just didn't want to be a girl girl


but then now I understand that it's just taking care of what you are given, which is you have a starting point and you just ya, but I I didn't understand it when I was younger


travel you like travel right, holidays where have you traveled to, one top continent, you've been to the Middle-East, you've been to Asia


you've been to Australia, you didn't do the America, not even Canada


calendar okay [ya] where have I been I've been quite a few places, been to Asia I've been to Australia I've been New Zealand, I've been I haven't I haven't done much of Europe, only Amsterdam


and that train right to some Belgium city oh whatever


but I really want to go to America, really I think, at this point in my life I think I will appreciate it


I think, if, things happen the way I think it will I think I would end up marrying an American you know mummy, then you'll never visit me is it, it'll just be like my daughter is gone goodbye


what if I have kids you expect me to travel with the newborn is it


okay very good, but then you will hate it the entire time, very good


okay, what did you enjoy the most, in your travels, oh is it


is that why you didn't like Hong Kong cause the people weren't nice, but you just like the train, crowded crowded and people push


oh ya ya ya ya ya, is just a rough language, what new restaurants are you planning uh


oh ya you were discovering, seafood-ism or something, I thought you would hate Hong-Kong but you didn't at all


I think I think because my palate is very Chinese, and I appreciate light food, so eh, ya the cuisine is nice and the weather was perfect


oh I didn't think it was too hot at all, I cannot too cold uh, hate, Amsterdam was the worst is so deceiving, the sun will be shining mummy the sun


will be shinning you'll think okay I'm wearing this jacket and jeans I'll be fine, you'll, freeze you'll just freeze and because they were all Americans so they're like oh so let's take a boat ride, and this like steel boat where you're sitting down


and the entire time I was just so cold, I was, freezing and everyone was like oh such a lovely day I'm like, all of you all crazy


all this I would, I don't know why always end up going to all these cold cold country, I hate all the, I I didn't go


we went to Kyoto we went to, oh ya oh ya, it was too cold also the wind, the wind, even Seoul was too, too cold


Seoul was very very cold at night, at like cause we are all girl so we like wear, cute dress and a coat and we think we're okay, we were not, and you have to walk, fifteen minutes and we are all just holding onto each other


no one giving anyone any warm because we are all as cold, and it's terrible it's the kind of wind that, will ya I fell, so badly, because of the wind


eh to what people do white people are weird, I shop online, Zalora Asos, blog shops are now catering


to women of my size, it's amazing I love it, tried on this dress


very nice and it's from a blog shop, it's a it's a dress from a blog shop, and it's very nice, but I didn't buy it, it's nice right


and it's a, blog shop dress and it's not even the biggest size, it's L, and they cater to XL, tinsel rack cause jar was shopping for her, ROM dress, so this is #Srijah#'s ROM dress


so I went shopping with her so I brought her to tinsel rack, Orchard Gateway I think, you want to go today, okay, why, but, you buy online


you can buy, you can buy there but okay, I know what I would show you if you want to buy online, I I would, uh show you what you call that what is this shop that you would like


Super-Girl (ppb), because they okay now the trend is the shapeless look that's like, sleeveless high cut and then is just shapeless, and is like slightly shift but it go slightly longer


never, I don't think so I think the proportions of your body is nice sleeveless, I like you in sleeveless the most sleeveless high cut


shift tight but like slightly airline toward the end I think that's your best like cutting, and behinds that, that's a very trendy uh shape now, what happen, ya ya ya


forty three, seventy or something, the all like very affordable, what happen to the woman who was supposed to buy a wedding dress


so what did she buy, ya


but where would she go and buy in Singapore I don't understand, oh I faint I faint I faint I faint


one thousand more than one thousand uh, ya, Jeraldine bought her dress for four hundred, but that was like a home, it was a proper wedding dress so I it was a gown what


it was this lady it was oh it was such a great find, because she is so small but you said the lady was skinny what, the hardest one I found


was there and I really saw her struggle and I felt so sad for her and I look at her I was like this is gonna be, my life because she isn't even as in she is big but she is not huge, you know she's like a size, ten twelve


but ya I saw her, and also she is so harsh, on her body herself so I saw her go from shop to shop like, looking at the dress not even trying, cause she know she can't and she was skinnier than as well and then she went to the UK


she bought a dress one from the UK as well and she had, such, a better time shopping there, the the moment she enter the shop, she was at the you know and she like that as well


she was like oh I'm a size eight here oh that's great, then she was like let me try on like they go down you know, ya so she really really liked it, her her mum lost so much weight you know


aunty Gina she was a size, fourteen sixteen, now she's a size, ten twelve, she lost so much weight, because


mother, suppose to be her mother but it's not lah har is just some family thing, the body started shutting down and then she started getting worried because she is, always like almost diabetic but not quite there but


at risk at risk at risk, and she loves her sweet thing, so she will come back and then there's no one to eat anymore so she will just eat everything by herself, so she got very scared and then she just started walking everywhere, she'll walk walk walk walk walk and then she lost a lot of weight lah and she just stop eating


you always look at, from when from what time from the time you were fifty six is it


your body slowing down lah, just exercise lah, do like small things like this


going for another, ya can we can walk home, can we not get bedsheet


okay just one, but it's so far I don't want, no let's, see what bedsheet they have there if it's nice, the sizing is weird also


super single, we still have ten minutes


food what do you want to eat eh, what do you wanna eat, !ow! I was gonna say ya, but then okay so we can't we can't do such a round thing, why don't we just head towards town


or we can buy online okay ya, can we go to Holland-V, do you want to eat at park, have you eaten at park, it's like the one that's


here next to the Starbucks, on the, on the slope upwards, what do you eat at Holland V


are you okay with bun through it, ya I'm there into breakfast food lately, you know the the bread that daddy bought, the fresh bread it was really fresh not the bread that you bought there has raisins and stuff in it


just the normal bread that he bought, for cashier, no it had uh cranberries and stuff


no no but anyway anyway daddy bought fresh bread just slice fresh bread, it was very fresh I mean french toast, and then I made the sausage and then I put the maple syrup on it and it was delicious


so I wanted to eat that today but then I realise there was no more bread, so I made eggs and sausage, why you buying so much papaya


(ugh) I don't want to know anymore, really


so I have to put papaya on my face papaya with milk, ya ya so since I've eating it I should put it on my face, oh that will be great eh


but I have daddy's skin, I have daddy's skin, so apparently the the evening out of the pigmentation


comes from just being in the sun, so if I don't go in the sun I won't get any uneven pigmentation the pigmentation come because, the sun is hitting my face and then the melanin is coming far, ya


I can never be that girl, but I will say this I like


me with a little bit of colour, like I like I like this color ya I do, the bit on the dark side but I don't mind it, like it's a rich colour (ppb)


do you not think so ya, so you have dry skin also


but do you see I use coconut oil as a, no as in as in I use coconut oil on uh as a moisturiser


I have, on on my tray I have, pure coconut oil would come out, I bought from JB when Geraldine and I went to JB and it was really really cheap, uh what you call that


ya you come out of the shower you're a little bit wet you just pour it all over your body, and it soaks it dries up with the water and I my skin all these, moisturisers they are only good for like applying for a little bit


but that one really nourishes my body through the night, oh you smell it is it, because I realise oil is the thing


that you want, because I don't get, spots or clogged pores like that's not, I did the skin analysis from two different people they both said, your pores will would, can take in more oil and moisture


ya they don't get clogged I don't have like, T zone issue, ya so they said just keep putting moisture into, but you must so I've learnt so many things I learn that if you don't exfoliate, then whatever you're putting will just stay on the surface and it won't go in


so you need to that's why I have the clay mask, ya endure, are we done, oh my goodness, this is so long I've never had


such a long conversation, I don't even know what we're talking about anymore


okay, okay right okay, notice board it's a special offer peach and wine


okay right, okay, right, uh one is light green one is olive green and the other one is turquoise


they are drinking wine, yes blue shoes and she's with uh flip flop, no there isn't a sea salt so that's your different


no, ya, ya so, uh she's, oh the ball the ball is uh, lime green and dark green I think ya


ya she's wearing a straw hat looks like a straw hat, ya, ya ya ya stripe


striped uh the chair is striped white with uh, red and the umbrella is blue and white, what about the sign at the beach


(ppc) next to the lady in in the the the lady with the hat, what does your sign you have no sign I have a sign, it's beach combing eleven AM


yes two, a gentleman and woman, and she is reading a magazine, she's wearing pink uh swimwear with red flowers on it


no he's just using sock uh sandals, and he's using a blue uh shorts, blue shorts, sandal


no sock, ya, that's a radio, ya, [orh] mine is just food shack


no it says learn to dive wave fall


is slightly different lah, okay, even this sign has it's different it's crayfish shellfish and lobster this one is local, shellfish


okay you have to speak you'll have to speak louder, okay okay


yes, LULL what on earth is that, what's a lull, I've no idea, how long has it been since your last serious relationship, oh this is good


okay nevermind, what do you mean, ya ya ya


anything serious now, okay alright okay shall we go to the next one, okay


oh gosh I thought it, yes that's right, but aren't you suppose to ask other questions as well, when you are <UNK/> anyway that one that one is fine, no he said add questions to it


ya exactly, okay alright, character flaw, what personal trait, do you dislike most about yourself


okay, what's my personal, okay wait what's my personal trait, uh what do I dislike most about myself is that, what exactly ah do I


I think I'm not opinionated enough, opinionated enough, yes enough I think


what do I like to eat in the whole wide world, potato, ya potato is, I've and liked potato in every form fried, mashed, uh what else ah


no that ah ya ya you know that <UNK/> that oh what do you say that that one, rosti rosti, rosti rosti yes, ya ya ya so in any form I love potato


to have and to hold how important is marriage to you, why is it important to you, [orh] that's nice


you didn't say that before you say they were very cumbersome, and troublesome, very important, ya I think it's


that's why everybody keep saying that I will be, I think I am independent that's why I tend, but still marriage, ya, still marriage is important


I love Israel because of the way, that I could, see a desert bloom, and the technology was there


the variety of things they had old and they had new, and then they also didn't forget where they came from, so and they, seem to have, all the, citizens of the world in that one small spot of theirs, so I think that is diverse


ya you have to speak louder than that


place in Singapore Botanic-Gardens, ya, because, I had my first date there, we no first date


first date, I did bible study there then I also, first date, ever, okay no personal listing but anyway


uh then I brought my children there, ya and I brought all my good friends there, we had picnic, and we had all kinds of uh things there, you know so that was, what's your


favorite place


nevermind, you never, okay never mind, me, I don't even know how to pronounce this word


I don't know ya I suppose so, okay what's this, pique, oh pique your interest okay okay okay K K K K


right, is there someone at this, table who, you would like to know better, what intrigues, right I think so I think so


but okay let's not talk about this table I think what about, in your life right now is there anyone who pique your interest, ya true lah


what intrigues, you, ya generally I suppose, let's not talk about this person let's talk generally, intrigues, ah ya, ya ya


okay I suppose you are talking in terms of your future more than anything else, no just making friendship lah ya making friends, in about people, ya they are stories, I'm very interested to hear their stories


not necessarily, where they have come from and where they are going or whatever but then generally their story maybe, they met someone and then they will talk, it's amazing how people are actually connected in Singapore, I just met eh Uncle Leong who always buys your food


uh he was taught by canon James-#Wong# geography in school, ya I was helping him to go, ya in , in uh Saint-Andrews


yes yes yes yes, ya he was a teacher


I have no idea what that word means even


no I hate many meaningful conversation with other people, but this is good though I mean it's like a card game and then


why, [orh] so it's just scissor as the paper


when did you last have a meaningful conversation with someone, and what did you talk about, meaningful conversation, but I think I'm having meaningful conversation with people all the time so, uh generally I spoke to this uh new colleague of mine


about a something that a, she got something wrong so I was just trying to help her see, how it can be wrong and she seem to agree with me at the end of the talk so, allowance


I don't know maybe, if your house got fire and you only have time


to save one item what would you save, really


ya that's true everything is dispensable, now what would I take, no, no maybe maybe, I think my handbag this huge handbag I think I will take that


oh I saw the book on your bed


they don't speak to you they don't speak to you, what really life changing that scold tangerine, have you finished reading the book


oh you write it three times


[orh] okay, oh I see, no no that's one book of course the bible but then we are not suppose to discuss about that right


so there's this one book that I'm reading it is, written in sorry it was, the last produced book was in nineteen sixty two, and it's uh called uh stories, uh and it's uh written in


way back in nineteen forty five and fifty five and, they have dates on when the stories were written, so and it's very old stories where uh they used bullock carts and maybe horses


bullock carts ya and horses you know for transportation and stuff like that, and it's really interesting to read about their era now, all over I think because there was one story from England there was one story from America there was one story from Sweden


uh and then there was another story where they all met in France, so it's all over the world and uh it's very interesting and and it's very tiny tiny stories, oh uh one story may be only a couple of pages uh long


but I can't wait to uh read the end of that particular story, ya it's short stories, ties that bind, what activity do you most enjoy doing together with your family


that's the only activity we seem to be doing quite a lot


I like to go uh holidays also once in a while, I'm not talking about immediate family extended family as well, ya I don't mind


!huh! what's that again, but you can still write the book what you don't have to fear whether you fail


no fear okay I would like to do paragliding or something I don't hides and stuff like that, you did, glided


oh you did it together, then will be lopsided how did you manage


so did you all land properly, no but my friend's <UNK/> uh brother died paragliding


oh I'll probably drown when I just step in it so what's the big deal, since you know I can't swim still, out them sport I don't know what that means, ya I know out them sport


do you enjoy doing


I enjoy planting, why, but I killed my first plant but, ya I always did I killed


no it was a money plant, yes I did, ya I killed it so I have to buy (ppc), ya okay we have to go on, alright next


really, oh, I see okay, right ya I killed my money plant, yes of course I do


okay the problem with epitaph is this, it's not how would you write about yourself on your own tombstone, tomb uh stone it's probably what others would see in you so


ya ya right ya, ah well someone who has who, isn't wasn't afraid to live life


why, okay you see, see see that's what you would write and so it's very different from what I would


oh oh what is your least favourite chore, that's true what you need is a magic mop where


no you just swirl things together and then they come together what, oh am I, no no no it's here and there


yes yes yes I know I know I know ya ya okay ya, ya okay right, right, so uh what's my least uh favorite oh ironing that's for sure


I hate ironing, ya that's why she's still with us, ya I know no no helper irons ya I know that


uh ya I think I will have to I think that's why I'm getting softer, okay right, no no no no I'm good I'm good I'm good


(hm) that's true that's true, for me it's very important


uh yes, I think we, actually your father and I always spoke, anyway that's what we wanted to do so, that was why we, we


I couldn't manage more than that, ya I wouldn't have been able to, so I think it's most probably it's because of my inefficiency not any other thing, that's because I only have two


I don't have more than two so that's why ya, all or nothing at all, that's an interesting topic, what risks have you taken for someone you love


not yet ya ya, actually honestly ah when it says about what risk have you take for someone, you love, no I have I have, I've uh learnt to trust again even though the trust was broken


ya, I shall say no further, the happiest moment of my life


actually it was when you all graduated, when both my children graduated, it was, yes, because I have never gone, for higher education, purely because of finance


so and I think I could have done better in life if I did, but I'm still happy though where I am, so in general I think it was, the graduation I mean they graduated to be a graduate I think it's


a biggest, achievement, why, ya ya ya ya ya, oh ya I


right right right that's the problem with, well you almost didn't, no, you know something, uh just a couple of uh hours ago


uh sorry couple of uh days ago I was just thinking about your teacher, and I don't know why I had this picture in my mind, that she was smiling all the way you know, when you were you were going up the stage and receiving, ya what what's her name again


ah ya, I I I have never read uh Harry-Potter


no no no I did Harry-Potter I did watch but I don't know the characters so much, I don't know why you know strangely I was thinking about that few days ago


maybe she saw herself in you


can I see the word is it what I think it is ah, they would wear


ya, oh, !aiyo!


oh dear, oh gosh oh gosh, uh embarrass is it what is the most embarrassing situation is it


most embarrassing situation, I can't remember because I'm old so I don't think I cannot remember , is just that uh


uh and I seem to be making a lot more mistakes now than before so it doesn't, ya, perhaps


rallying cry, what motto do you live by, can


can I say mine first, ya the best is yet to be, I don't care about ACS, or any other school for that matter it's just that it's my motto and I always feel okay


this is okay let me explain why I think that this is a what, ya so I what I'm what I what I mean is this uh what do you call that , you see every time uh I think it is the worst kind of situations that are happening


something around the corner makes it better, and it's always in the future which I cannot foresee, so and and every time I think it is a bad situation even, uh whatever lah whatever happened even recent passing away


uh and yet, I thought is going to be really bad and everything but it didn't turn out to be that way, and also there was forgiveness from my mother and my father, so something good came out to it and I used to dream you know


in my dreams ya, and the when I actually saw it happen it was like !wow! this is, the best yet to be so there's always, we think that we are heading for disaster lah you know on all kind of things and the world is going to end and whatever and all that


we can always have this view point, but actually there's something after it, that's what I feel, so that's why mine is the best is yet to be


is it in your nature to be kind


ya I think a friend has to be loyal, but then I think also honestly matters, a friend has to be honest


not I ya ya I do miss, all my school friends, I've been trying so hard to reach out uh <UNK/> I don't even know their names anymore, ya I can't remember, ya I tried searching for them in Facebook ya


but I just for the life of me cannot remember, no, how can that be they were all, they are from my era so if I'm on facebook they should be on facebook too isn't it


ya but I couldn't I couldn't trace them and so I've lost that whole chunk of my, my life ya so I feel that, ya that's the thing you see, I have friends that are very good friends until now


but then you know they either they they they they gets busy with something else and then they move away and someone else takes, so <UNK/> always having, ya so I can't keep in touch with my old friends for long


you see that's what I'm talking about I don't have, move where


oh gosh, right I know


right uh big break, what would you do if you won ten million dollars tomorrow, take me, !wow! that's so nice


ya I am I am, okay alright


you would be that generous, well I'll give some to the people that I know who are living in other countries


some people that are really ya that really really ya, yes yes I would no not only that just people that we know who are struggling, and I would I would I would ya and uh ya and and and a few others that we know


ya so we will really give some to them, and then of course travel, maybe bring my mother, ya, because now that she is all alone she she really wants to travel


ya but after a fall she has not travelled at all so I don't know she may not be able to, ya ya ya ya ya ya ya ya ya


stop wasting it, sometimes I think I do unnecessary things you know, so I would think I would a, I would I would be brutally honest with everyone to begin with


when you have one year to live ah, no would wouldn't that be better in a sense because you know


that you are going, no, oh okay uh for me okay, generally, ya, generally I think I would like to know if I knew then I would put things in order


like I will definitely tell how much of my money or what are my stuff and all that to be given, ya


yes yes, yes, make haste, what are you procrastinate, uh procrastinating now, why are you procrastinating


oh no no no no why why are you procrastinating, ya but why, what am I procrastinating


I would really had liked to have uh extended family uh dinner or uh, you know dinners lunches, but I seem to be too busy and then at the end of work I am very tired, ya so I tend not to have


so that's one thing I shouldn't because if anything that taught me in the reason time is this that a, when family gets together and like you said, food always brings us together so that's nice


ya, ah ya that's because my family has a lot of uh good story tellers


wah that's nice, right


uh tingling in my toes well it started that way now it's becoming a persistent pain sometimes , but he is still a very nice man so it's easy to live with your dad, it's really easy ya ya ya it is it is


come to think of it because he surprises me he buys me jewels, like the ring and earring they are all from Nepal


he bought roses, twenty second, no that's probably because we went to our wedding or something, we went to a wedding white roses


oh the small bouquet, she can't afford big ones, that's why I was wondering


yes, no no no no no she bought because I cooked and so she bought, ya it's a nothing to do with the wedding anniversary, ya ya ya ya, and she's always pleased to come to our house for home cooked meal


the first time I saw her was also, ya for the first time before I even uh married your daddy, very old


is it me or you, catch and release, how do you know when to let go of someone


ah this is what you went through so how did you know when


for me is when it becomes too tiresome, or difficult, and then I'm like ah forget it I'm not going to put any, worth in it I mean I'm not gonna put any work in it and so I'm just gonna walk away from it so


it's different because you are committed in many levels, but whereas friendships is different, if there is one person who keeps coming and complaining and complaining and complaining, and all that person does is talk non stop without letting you talk to the person


then it's too tiresome I mean it's one way, so I rather let go of that friendship than continue or carry on, oh gosh you're so blessed


you see that the problem is because I'm too patient, so I let the person go on and on and on and on and on


so maybe ya maybe it's the personality and the kind of people that we tend to attract


right now ah, you can download anything and watch from it or you can download anything that you need you know


that's because you are still living in that particular room


we were paying sixty dollars a month, that's so expensive, so how is it they keep sending you bills which is minus forty five minus forty five every month what does that mean


(uh huh), (uh huh), but what about your phone bill are you paying it a not


I know but this settle, how does it auto deduct


so its only thirty dollars a month, its only thirty dollars a month, so do you think I should change my, plan but right now I'm on a corporate uh plan so


ya maybe two years later down the road, I don't oh I heard, this Circle is, from who and who, [orh] okay


oh, !wow!, right


moral of the story, reminds me of Tan-Ah-Teck, great, oh this of course he's alive of course, uh describe one important life lesson you have learnt from the books you have read


one important life


okay okay can I ask a question, it's , you say listen to your parents but, are you doing it


well that's nice too, right okay, well, what books have I read I have uh read widely, uh but


I think what, the books have taught me to be is, to really how to laugh, and how to be accepting of people, uh that are difficult, ya I think that's one thing that the


books have taught me, and then also sometimes it shapes the way I think, uh because as a reader you will see a story, as uh something that you know, you know and then there may be details to some of the characters


in the book that do not know what is going to happen, or about to happen, but you as a reader you seem to know, so its like, you know there's these things that uh happens uh with people uh which


you seem to know but you still can't warn them because you know, but they have to discover it themselves so sometimes patience do helps, and so ya


no but the, Harry and Megan that's how they met on a blind date


so bad, no but you should not uh


ya then lead the month choice choice choice, but you could have done it kindly, if you say so


!aiyo! see see see people do get hurt, no eh have I no, no no no no people normally see me and then ask whether they would like to go


so no no no and I never trust a a blind date anyway, the blind word is already bad to begin with, hello, hello, hello


ya ya, hello, heirloom heirloom okay, what it's the most important lesson you have learnt from your parents


right, mine is , hardworking, uh you know and uh my my dad was hardworking so I'm hardworking


uh and then my mother is generous, so that's where I learn to be generous as well, uh she was generous with time with money with everything, there's another thing that my dad actually taught me the finer things in life


uh he had a eye for, things that were ya very high taste uh beautiful things uh, fast things you know uh ya cars, ya cars


even technology and uh, I think technology is so it's my mum, she's very versatile, ya no the fact that she can WhatsApp and do everything is uh ya amazing


no, ya ya ya ya ya, but his technology is like uh new things like audio, ah his is uh he was the first one to bring uh Walkman into the house, ya ya Walkman


and then he was the one that the what it that called got us a tape recorder, and uh we would uh tape songs and all that you know


I know, I know, I know I know, I know, I don't know you were very naive, no you were always very naive in many ways


ya ya ya, no I'm I'm okay I'm okay I'm okay, ya you were very naive you always thought there were people behind the scenes trying to change whatever and you would ask me this weird questions, which, no


ya ya I I was trying to very hard to explain it to you, but somehow if you didn't get it you never could get it


really, what is that


okay nevermind what's the question, oh oh ya ya ya ya ya, literally


mine is Debra, ah I always think I'm like Debra


but I will never let anyone in war lah but that's for sure lah, but I think I've I've I've I've uh, done uh brave things that men would otherwise uh be afraid to do ya


not even the mouse in the nutcracker


surgeon surgeon surgeon, surgeon, surgeon, where is your true, ya surgeon, yes surgeon, surgeon


I'm saying the same thing surgeon, where is your true home, where is your true home, your room


what about your room, ah I see I love Singapore I love


everything about Singapore I love, the fact that we have freedom in every sense and then, we have so many different melting uh uh, pots uh here and then uh and not only that we


we don't really know our identity which is what I like, ya because if we, if we had a identity then we would expect everyone to behave in the same manner, but because we don't have we are I mean this is my view lah


ah what did we called that I feel that we are more uh, welcoming


yes, because I know a lot of friends, STU, ya and she matched make, make made uh ya


ya so I do I do believe in that uh thing and a lot of people think, waiting by chance to come and, I think well I don't know it's just an avenue you can explore


what is Bumble


do you have to pay for it, there are lots of dating listing nowadays you have to pay a certain amount aunty uh what do you call that aunty who ah


Audrey was one in one that's how she met uh, in America, before before long ago she was on this app and then she would she had to pay money and it was a lot


ya algorithm okay, cheek to cheek, did I say chick ya sorry cheek to cheek


ya you're right something is wrong with the way I pronounce, why ah, describe the perfect


for me was the holiday uh, in uh, daddy uh, surprised me, to uh bring me to Hokkaido, I think that was, the, the perfect date


ya it was fantastic, uh my first snow I experience, my first culture with the Japan, and then uh it was a holiday, that, every night we slept in a


different hotel, ya and the tour group was very small, uh there was only uh I think uh less than ten of us, uh no no no no, uh less than twelve, ya, and uh uh and the best


part was, it was done in all English, and the guy was very humorous, I generally like to visit other countries just to see how uh other people live, but that I would never want to live there


no no no no no, no I do I do as long as I'm in a different country, ya ya, as long as it's been you know planned uh and we are going and doing stuff, uh ya I don't mind or even lazing around I mean I'm still okay with it


if it is just a couple of day, what stresses me is deadlines what stresses me is


also , concern about others, ya that stresses me a lot


two to ten go, why are you looking for a partner, that's why lah I also don't know oh it's got to do with the heart, the hearts are all to do with uh, with with partners and whatever and all that


I tend to have, why are you looking, why are you looking for a partner


just that, you can't just have uh, at uh, you know a goal and try to look for someone you can't do that, alright, why


right, why are you looking I'm not, I'm really not looking for one so, I think this question doesn't apply to me


mine is fulfilled so, nope I'm not looking for one , uh two to tango, I do like the words though, although some I can't even pronounce


same with me, ya ya same with me same with me ya, ya just people people uh are meaningful uh, I would also think, about


what are you willing to devote your time and energy to without getting paid, people is one thing, and the other would be environment, ya I do I do if I I would be very sad if our


#Changi#-Beach is, to the point that no one can step onto the beach I I will be very very sad really, oh I'll be very sad and then if uh , all our what our birds and


fauna and whatever and everything disappears I think I'll be very very sad, no not in person but I've, wah how how why do you see them


what do you mean, otters are everywhere, even those days when you were very young yes


we're not in the wild we are a garden city, ya I know, ya I know I know, ya ya same same same


oh in Singapore, no there was a toucan outside uh aunty Michelle's uh window


yes, yes they fly there and they nest in the one of the tree, ah see I think that's what it is you're not paying attention


and you know what happen to Gracie Siti's house they she also had, no no no no no she had, nope the the uh <UNK/> ya, monkeys all around in Singapore


ya ya they are quite aggressive when uh, men sing, menacing, yes menacing man sing oh gosh menacing, it's lazy


okay, really, so what should I do, no I have to see it spelt


ah I I I unfortunately I have to see it spell, no she had a owl in a uh in a house a huge one, ya she didn't know how to get rid of it, and she prayed and then went out


there was another owl out just outside , ya, and this was huge one, no in the day time, it was right in one of the at


Saint-Andrew's village and the mynas were trying to chase it, the crows were trying to get rid of it because it was huge and they knew it was a, bird of prey and it was trying very hard to get rid of it, but the it wouldn't go it just kept uh hooting and uh turning it's uh head here and there


five zero, five zero, what top three children names


oh, oh I had funny names lah, really that's nice that's nice, thank god I didn't


uhbut I almost, I used to love this name an a a Athena Jolene


ya thank god I didn't name anybody Athena Jolene, and I was shocked that your Grace <UNK/> named Jolene Jolene


love I think, ya ya love, I don't know I was into Greek mythology back then ya when I was, ya when I was first started school, eh sorry work


so I will go into uh that time I was working in Ministry of Education, I'll go into their libraries and they would have greek mythologies, ah right, ya so I was, into all these and so


I thought you know I would the but thank god I didn't, I I wouldn't want to name anyone Athena and not uh neither Jolene but I don't know how come Grace <UNK/> ah, I don't know I just like the way it sounded


is because it's Dolly-Parton song Jolene Jolene Jolene, don't take my man away from me oh gosh, so that's why I don't like the name anymore


okay, sweet and savoury, how well can you cook or bake, I think you can, yes I think you can when you put the effort in


ya you're beginning to use too much oil, oh is it


no you just need to, exactly


I think I can be good at anything I do


but the food that we ate at uh, what is that called it was fantastic, ya it was an experience right


but it was the whole experience, and when the chef, came and talked to us and entertain us


ya it's like a story, no it's like a story you know he was living out his story, ya Candlenut was the best man


what would I have, maybe fly, ya, cause I like to go places, we both almost the same kind of thing


!wow! ya actually honestly to tell you the honest truth I've always loved teleporting


but I hate the fact that if you don't know how the place looks like and you cannot teleport lah don't know what lah nonsense lah, those kind of things, last supper for your last meal what would you eat and who would you eat with


I can if you want it it big the problem is you stop eating rice


ya ya ya


what would my last meal be, I think mine I would really go for, uh spaghetti, ya I don't know I I think, ya pasta but it must be no no not linguine it must be angel hair


and then a, and also I like the fact that I would like uh, crab with chilli, oh that would be my, to go meal crab with chili chili crab lah basically


I love chili crab, ya I love crab actually, actually I love crab is just that it's, difficult to eat lah basically ya so that's why I I I don't really eat that much


I don't have a nickname, unless, oh ya actually I do my father used to call me mummy


and then your daddy calls me darling and then uh, oh is it


who and what irritates you


who or what irritates me for me is, Jason oh gosh, no it's just that this person always


forever has stomachache forever has this forever has that so, and he's always late so it's very hard to work with him, ya and if he's doing that you can you imagine the degree in which he is doing it


who's my hero actually my parents are you know, ya my parents are, well my dad is because


he was brought up, in a different language and then he came to Singapore and then he settled down here, and the way he took hold of his life, and then uh made


ya he was, should be ya and when he did things he actually, went with an excellence spirit so that's what cause he was the best driver I've ever known, if you were in the car that he drives


you cannot but also the engine lah he drove great cars, but even when he drove an ordinary car, uh he would never have all these jerks and whatever that I had experienced with your father and your brother sometimes


no I think , growing up uh I didn't quite see his talents, later on in life ya ya when I was observing from the far, and then I was also uh in a position where I no longer ya exactly so


that's why I think my father, and my mum my mum too she with very little she managed and took care of us


Geraldine is your hero, ya, actually I of all your friends right I do like Geraldine a lot


ya she I really like her a lot, I think she's got a level head


sink beneath the wave, describe the saddest moment of your life, what was the saddest moment of my life


oh I have, I have, okay let me tell you what is my saddest moment of my life, all the jewellery that my dad and my, mum had bought and made


and given are no longer there, ya really honestly that was only the saddest moment, no, because I know that they are all you know going to a particular place so to me it is not the end it is the beginning of begins


oh yes, because the last moment remember you had this vision and all that stuff and I wrote about it ya, so I do I do I do believe that very strongly, are you trying to <UNK/> change the subject in which I [orh] okay okay okay okay okay


oh oh oh I see what about you you nothing nothing is the saddest moment of your life


ya, no I didn't


ya ya


what do I miss most from my childhood, this tree I don't know why, but, no no no no not the mango tree because you can always buy mangoes and get mangoes everywhere and all that


there was this particular tree which was very, sturdy and hardy, and it had the most fragrant flowers on it, and the flowers were, white with, very short, stem, uh orange deep deep


no, bright orange almost like , uh uh, no no, no no no it's not, no it's not Flame of the Forest I I know this


this tree because this plant, Ammachi brought it all the way from Malaysia to Singapore, and we had a swing under it, and my dad cut it, and then after that, I this tree is very very , uh rare


no it's not it's it's red it and it's got short orange stem, it's very and it and they grow in clusters, and I finally found one, no it's not ixora, no it's not and the flower the white ah


it's like very shimmer you know, the white, of the leaves it there would be a shimmer, and you can see right, through that simmer and I I don't know I just loved that plant a lot, what was that


about ah what was the story that we were talking ah, what is the saddest moment of your life, no not that, ya that


do you miss your cards, ah ya ya that that that plant, I do I really miss it, and once I found it, when I was walking from, uh Potong-Pasir uh MRT station, there was this uh house that had this


plant but it was very scrawny looking, I tried to get the seed to come back and plant it, but, ya I was too late after that, they demolished the house, I so sad, I couldn't even get the seed to come and plant the plant


really you know, ya, okay


uh yes and no, actually I am close to both of them, but there are periods in my life where I'm close, sometimes the youngest one disappoints me a lot, so that's why I tend to, you know get angry with him and then he won't call me and I won't call him and stuff like that


actually I like them both, ya, I I love my brothers I don't know what I will do without them, I think they're the best part of my, ya ya ya I love my brothers


I'm actually very family oriented and I think I I really love the family that I have, with all their quirkiness and whatever and all that, no no even when I was young, ya ya ya only when I was


really like school going age and then you know they would tease me they would call me, uh <UNK/> and pappus and , all sorts of horrible things, that reminded them of Africa, (ppb) cause I was short I was dark


so they will uh they will call me nicknames and all that, ya, catalyst, what value do you bring to other people's life


what value


right, what value do you bring to other people's lives I think people, when they meet me for the first time or whatever or if they if they were to just, they always say that I'm very very caring, they always say that


okay what's the difference between caring and warm


but most people have told me that I am, uh sorry caring, I'm very caring that I remember thing, that I look out and then I render help and then, ya so even recently uh


this man actually uncle Yong he approached me at the restaurant, purely because he saw me helping another old man, so that's how he came along and he said Pearlie what are you doing then I said I'm helping this is my past then I introduced him, so he was saying that


uncle Yong lah the one that works in my office, no, no no no Thai lady oh that's, Bryan you met Bryan what, no uncle Yong is an old man


he is sixty five years old, what cold noodles was that, oh you like that, oh I should buy that for you then


it's just, noodles lah it's a salad thing, okay maybe I should buy couscous and uh salad, you don't like couscous but this couscous was quite nice but wait okay I shall buy that tomorrow


turn back something differently, no no no I don't want I I'm like I'm, no way, no no no no no


it's not a dog or something that you can uh this thing, no, no no no no no, what would I have done differently, okay what would I have done differently


not in my life lah like generally, okay we are not discussing that then, time aside, non negotiable


non negotiable, what is the deal breaker in your search for a partner oh no, oh anyway someone who smokes, or swears


what


ya you're right, your dad wasn't close to your uh his oh was he maybe he was maybe he was, no no his mother was close to him, so that makes a difference


oh ya I didn't want to watch, really


really the city of, again city of children


!aiyo! so sad, !aiyo!


oh you see this is the kind of story I would never watch, alright, so what's the the this thing again, oh cry


probably I watching a movie too lah ya, but I can't really remember which movie it was, but I did cry a lot uh what was it ah, !aiyo! I cannot remember lah, and your dad was there too


what movie was that it was, some uh biography, ya probably ya I'm I'm so into watching all these uh old movies now, and I can't remember what was it all about