I take care of you even you married or not married eh even you are working or not working I will care about you until you married, then I will let you go you are not mine already, that's always think that, that's the best way in my in life ya actually


that the best thing, yes exactly, is different


true Vijay true


true Vijay nowadays different, is not the same like last time, is all depend individual actually, special lesson always


always uh, for my parents they said uh Zul always be humble to people, okay, don't always uh, talk to people always be humble, don't lie to people


okay talk softly to people, then I listen from my mum always think, pray to yourself, always remember that, always, always he say she always said lah, be humble


be humble in yourself, be good to people, people will will mingle to you, I always think that, that's it for my mum I will always think about that


exactly Vijay exactly no matter what, ya, ya correct


ya correct, true


correct Vijay, yes, always respect people ya, respect humble ya don't lie to people have trust for other people ya, that's the best part in life actually that's always my mom told me be humble


don't lie to people, it's okay, don't show off Zul don't need you don't have to god knows what you doing, inside you


that's not a good (ppb), yes, how are you yeah please should tell how are you right how are you everything okay yeah that's good question actually don't ask a, that's life lah Vijay that's life


that's life some people would like would like to talk like this hi, about them, some people like to so the best thing just be humble it's okay it's up to them to say whatever they want just be humble it's okay okay okay just be humble, then the best part that's what my mom said be humble yourself


ya don't lie to people that's all, that's it


at that moment but cannot guarantee because why or not still early, not yet end of the year cannot, cannot


at that moment ya at that moment yes you see this is a very good team, but don't be surprised if Chelsea is there, Arsenal is there Liverpool is there, and whenever no these football is very, footballers uh the ball is round


but, whatever is I can see that still see, lose still lose no matter what they cannot, for for me is that the top four is uh I can see that already, is always top ten to top four, City Chelsea Liverpool even Arsenal even Manchester these top four will be there unspurred don't forget


but the rest of the team I don't think so leh they they can cannot fight, fight with them, so good


but for me ah I want to see for this team about this title after Christmas, then I can decide at least seventy five percent I can know who will be champion at the moment City is on very top, top and Chelsea top, and and Liverpool top but Liverpool will never be a champion


that's for sure and I hope spurs will go up above, Liverpool ya, can be top three but never know cos spurs has good team also


ya, same, same goes to Man Man-U same goes to Man-U they cannot above Man-U, beginning they always top, but ending part they always below Man-United, that always happen, ya


yes exact, exactly


yes if they check they check every year you see they always thought Liverpool would be !wow! very good team but in the end, they always below Spurs and Man-U, it always happen and they will never be champion, they will never be champion I'm telling you the truth that's for sure


crazy football is crazy football is very very crazy you don't know


ya, same goes to me, totally different totally different I'm telling you so, totally different not the same, cannot


there's no more players like and Fandi-Ahmad there's no more after them, there's no more already there cannot be even a sea side team they cannot they cannot be like them there's no more


cannot, cannot how long you can stay there two three years one years two years only after that but these two guys take years, with Singapore that's why they become a legend


that's why I said, yes, yes exactly, we'll never be in the national team we'll never be, and also Singapore there's no more players


there's no more players even if Fandi is not there Irfan is not there there's no more players be like them, see the high at least, there's no more Singapore there's no more footballer there's no more at all, a lot, very low very low


yes exactly, in Singapore even you take a high high high coach no matter what, you cannot build a team as good as what they want cannot


!huh! you see, ya, yes, yes your heart is there thick ya


there's no, all this, I just can imagine you know if these two footballer ah right now ah if Fandi and Sundram no more don't have totally don't have ah who gonna build the Singapore team how


there's no more legend there's no you tell me who there's none, ya unlucky still have Fandi and Sundram around they are still lucky, they cannot be like them legend there's no more, crazy, and I've attempt this two this two only footballer obvious follow the full step of the who's this footballer


you see the way they're play they are lucky play with dam also before they gone, ah see they pink their, uh you know bring their skill they bring their skill they bring their knowledge everything to the youngster but they still can not build themselves, because nowadays football you see tangkap handsome why not this hair style that hair style marry early


want to get hey what go Boat-Quay go out and enjoy there it's not like last time not not like Fandi and Sun no totally different, ya, yes, yes


but now I can not see Singapore team ah, I never see the multiracial you know actually ninety percent all Malays I don't know where's the Chinese the Indian I don't where, that one's coming soon seventeen years old is I remember that


you know, it always happen Singapore !wah! this club potential like potential potential but still the same same old story, when this guy I bet you !wah! potential even though !wah! damn quick ya when come to real life play you would see the same


they cannot be like Fandi and Sundram they cannot still cannot be


that's it game over, go over, exactly, that's why


this one lah some friends ah mix around is very important also lah, mix around friends very important you can be a good footballer but when you mix around the wrong wrong people you are gone, that's life you know that's why I say want to be a sport be a sport it's already in front of you Fandi-Ahmad and Sundram example follow like them footstep


follow like them you see them they play for Singapore you know their heart at Singapore they want to beat a somebody in Singapore lazy people remember, they all ah like now can not they are good good good when they are mix around bunch of people drink gone


game over, so what's what's the point, what's what's the talking about you there's no point you thought you are good you must good real life, good football good people see you that play for for the national team that's the way, good example you are good just


down the drain for what, no


no lah you know or not


that's why ah, for me eh when I see Singapore play ah, frankly speaking ah, there's no ball sense and I tell you also right they don't have the committed, in on and off the field like Fandi and Sundram they don't have, until now I never see at all


I don't see the way they play like Fandi and Sundram there's no none I'm telling the truth, good for a while gone, good made it for a while gone, because I remember you, side also cannot you cannot be like them


Fandi and Sundram is committed player, they play play for Singapore, that's it that's how you play football, play for Singapore think about that to be at Singapore, this no Singapore nowadays Singapore football I'm telling you all style they want style they want hair girlfriend married


young gone go Clarke-Quay go show outside show people I'm Singapore player, they are not like Fandi and Sundram, they're not the same no matter what, no matter how good you are that's what said you must as Fandi and Sundram said you must be humble


on and off the field, committed when you come to training, game also hard work, that's the way football, look at Singapore no different, you stand how far you are you what you come back you were, big head already you nose high


cannot, grudges, ya grow, ya


ya that place not very accepting as a team, exactly, if not play as a team


where's the that's no teamwork, where is the uh, difficult, you see uh Fandi how much he can get, a good footballer you tell me how much how many he can get


you tell me, he always try to give all the youngsters a chance, he always trying, of course trying because he Singapore, give the Singaporeans try so when that people they give you chance you play for the country not for him play for the country show them


that you can play you see I never blame him, when he give you opportunity you show to them show to the country go to the supporters that your fans, that you can play for the country nowadays no there's nothing at all like Fandi there's no more


not like them you see, Fandi you see scorer, who the top scorer in Singapore, Fandi who's the best dribbler in Singapore Sundram, who else now who tell me who there's nothing


there's no more I tell you this Singapore is a very we only from behind as a fan we always support them, when we hear !wah! Fandi is our legend coach we must support no matter what we must support, win or lose we must support our country okay want to see build a team there's a good point is that now #Suzuki#-Cup is all Singaporean


we never use all foreigner you see how good then you have to show they have to show something for the Singapore, for the supporter fans all come from all angle, show them, play for the country not play for yourself don't play for like to show off like you're good no


cannot you see last time when Sundram and Fandi play together and with Abbas-Saad they play together you see just imagine they how why they can collect the Malaysian Cup nineteen ninety four, how can they be champion you see they play you see they play how they play, they play together all as a team team spirit


Singaporean all I tell you this Singapore ah want to get call up only !wah! nose are high man I tell you, very hard sombong proud, on and off the field also outside, like see people also like not humble lah ah action uh talk to my friends


all these, crazy man tell you, ya, seriously, even ah, ya I see Fandi and Sundram outside ah when I call them ah eh Zul eh hi


say hi to me you know they come you know they come forward and talk we talk you know see how humble they are, you see how humble they are but these bounce of new players I tell you my goodness sake, they never think ah, people !aiya! !aiya! I don't know how


you are good on the field for what ya off they field they are so proud of yourself for what, for what the heck man all these player, ya, what the heck


now they said !wah! Fandi ah must bring the son okay you tell me bring Irfan and Ikshan who who will play someone you can bring, who else can play, where where can get anymore players


exactly be it they they are still young they can learn they're got few more years to play, try never mind is okay they trying you talk you good enough then you play, talk is easy talk is is easy okay you play


that on the field they're on the field you know they play their like mad dog you watch from far ah what lah you thought easy you play you try you play, the fan behind that their supporter behind you play you how, you cannot condemn


you must support ah they're still young learning ah never mind is okay, you should support you condemn is is not support you condemning for what, is wrong man like this is wrong man I tell you this I don't know what to say man people people some ah not footballer also


but you play, you play on the field, you also cannot kick, you also cannot control the ball he gave it to you, Garang Gabok, it's called talk is easy we must know oh they play football one oh they are trying


!wah! why ah oh ya they trying like is okay lah never mind we have to support no matter what, there's no more footballer I tell you where, some footballer good mix around, !huh! go training don't want go Clarke-Quay go Boat-Quay then tomorrow can't go training see what's the problem


you see lah you want to enjoy, it's not easy man I tell you be be a good footballer be like that is not easy man, till your entire life from young until you old ah to be a legend it's not easy brother, it's non easy


it's non easy, Fandi and Sundram always thinking when they are retire they want to be a coach for the country see they're see they're men, see their thinkings see how they aim see how good they want to train all the youngster you see like us what


win national player !wah! enough already !wah! when old ah I'm national player what last time last time but not legend for what, we want people know about you ah Quah-Kim-Song like Dollah-Kassim people know, oh last time they all very uh training with Uncle-#Choo# they know like you all what


the best, the youngest player play for Singapore who Sundram Irfandi, but they they perform, but this nowadays different man tell you I tell you all this ego man I tell you


once been call up already !wah!, !wah! Yaya, come up after training football after game all !wah! people call so !wah!, !aiyo! I tell you my goodness sake what the heck man all these people


you got to be humble on and off the field then you can go forward, learn, what the coach say you learn, think and these people are fan also ah don't know anything about football also just curse and swear about them, they all sometime right you think easy ah play


you try play lah you try play, you try play, even I don't know you can be substitute or not, you think you are good enough


then I told them ah, Singapore team is not like other country team other country is professional different, their foundation is strong different we Singaporean just leave it as Singaporean lah that's why Asian mah


you see, see, ya


different different class already, even


we check, Singapore you see, our support ah from the management ah from the government where got, different that's why you all lah, hope for too high too much


they just can't do anything, even coach can't do anything this is what they have the money this is what we go, only this we cannot go too far, cannot we are small country you think about World-Cup, you crazy mental people you all you are crazy you know the best past Singapore players you come how good at least at least something


the atmosphere good fan come and join the football then don't think about World Cup, they just, want to the premier round you can go through want to get through it's too bad cannot totally cannot, the build of their Asian is different already Singaporean


cannot, even S-League is just imagine how many athletes we have, so small six hundred four hundred three hundred two hundred how, there's nothing to say, that's why we hope lah this #Suzuki#-Cup or Malaysia-Cup that's we can see all the


ah Singapore footballer that that's why we have a fan that's why we give them support to them, don't curse them you curse them what can they learn you curse them what can they do, cannot and this joker also the footballer also don't be humble don't like show off


all and off be humble that this joker will say like a clown, with we are already fan for you support all the way come then outside we call you you like so pissed off like show off, then what


ya you just normal show off, for what, if you are like Sundram Fandi I don't mind, I don't mind I respect you because you're star player


you're just normal player you've to show off your nose high, please that's why you're flop, if you don't go, normal footballer but you humble outside people still respect you


I'm telling the truth even though, humble ah just humble, you just normal player go out of field ah proud of yourself, who want to care about you, ya stupid nonsense all these footballer not easy I tell you !aiyo! stupid


something that's this is life lah but people know about football lah, I always watch football lah I never curse you know, I never watch lousy lousy that's it, If I we, their part ah you think I can play like them ah the worst still I tell you people curse at me


you think about yourself, we watch because we want to support we are fan of Singaporean, support, guys that's it, win or lose in material mah, how to win we support lose also we support that's how it goes


supporter they call supporter, win you happy lose you condemn, that mean what, they are trying


ya, yes, yes exactly sometime ah they, Fandi call the senior players ah the oldies ah that's because normal players just a standby no more youngster player that he want to call


this bunch of oldies don't want standby, explain that's all Fandi is like that I know his style, where else some more can get I get new players you give me, you you all cannot name it, see like mad dog you know thinking


keep looking ah, give position you think easy ah, is not easy you know be a coach lah I tell you think coach easy, you play easy you know coach ah play in mind you know, not easy


people talk is always easy very easy, talk very easy ya cause you talk mah, talk people thinking you know cannot sleep, tomorrow play against one okay how to put put this fellow how to how to play, we got uh what kind of game what kind of


not easy, we footballer two waiting okay coach play where play, play where right okay play left just play only what, at first I when I was young place is forward


forward then after that when I aging ah I play midfield, midfield then I play uh defend cannot run anymore ah play defend ah, in the end substitute lah, now I like to play defend know why not I get the ball just push get the ball just push


then sometime midfield also because I got cover mah midfield give me I push give me I push, easy, I know myself mah right, not easy, yes, yes


I tell you ah, when you're like our age ah don't try ever play ah tournament ah I'm telling the truth, don't ever play with the youngster ah I tell you, scary marry man I tell you, now that's why I told we call a bunch of friends that are fifties


don't forty plus still young you know like fifties ah fifties and above ah we play make it sweat, make lah I join you seriously I join you, we make lah, not only one part you just maybe some other places we join maybe some


yes yes the best thing ah fifties above, cannot I tell you, cannot because they play with their ego with their, I special no, we play just for fun what eh laugh we can laugh we can they all play what to win play to win


crazy, ya, ya


I don't like lah, I don't like, I won't play one ah, I won't play, even you say I'm fit I can Play I won't play because different different ball game because on the field ah anything can happen you know


when you give dribble fast ball run how, and also ah we cannot play eleven against eleven anymore we just play in the cage only small we just play for fun


don't play ah don't try lah don't try to play eleven against eleven don't on the field better don't don't try, don't try you just have to get swag you enjoy happy okay see you again next week, good what, right, exactly have fun


ah meet friends okay, that's it, no, cannot lah better don't don't find fault lah I tell you, that's crazy


ya, body one thing, ya body one thing ah, family another thing, cannot, my friend always tell me Zul you can be


not say I cannot play I can play but I cannot be like last time I won't play tournament I won't play eleven eleven against them no cannot I don't want even though I fit I don't want I don't want to take a risk, I fifty five you know I tell you I'm fifty five is not twenty five like last time you know, cannot


you're crazy you know, I only play in a cage, five five seven seven okay, I can play, for fun, but not seriously play you know no no no no, for fun only laugh can play ah tick tock tick tock


sweating good what, ah no rough play we just for fun what, okay you all play play to win, exactly


this people, ya ya correct, that's why ah If I got no football ah I don't mind because why I still can go for my jogging exercise I still can go for my swimming just keep myself fit that's all I said


that's all I never think about anything that's all, I just want to keep fit that's all, finish ah, good for your life even your wife said !wah! good lah never play football mah, jogging at least you play for fun also okay never mind not tournament


ya If I have to play seriously I think I have to buy my boot I have to buy my shin pad everything must standby my ankle guard, I don't play a fool you know one, tackle that's it game over


ah, really ah


cannot ah what's this, ya, is it friendly game or tournament


ya exactly, I give up better


of course definitely


ya, run to where, for what, you mad ah you


not fun lah like the way


never use brain, no brain


no, is that a tournament or just play for fun, in the first place you know right, in the first place, we play for fun you know already what play for fun don't have to all out, you have to think play for means you have fun


that means we have some fun that's all football don't have to show off you're wrong already, we call because is for fun, that's it simple as that in the mind for fun okay for fun just play play, ya why take the ball all the way the up, for what, you run there for what that's not fun you are play doing


strong ready what when people say play for fun leh !huh! enjoy, that's it, then your mind here ready, you don't have to, wreck there wreck here run there run for what what to run, you want have fun


and then fun that means is here ready your mind ya pretty fun, some more see like senior player okay okay, why you have to show off why to show off go to club you play in the club lah, oh these people ah !aiyo!


shook, enjoy really really, ya, we got both mah, play fun ah I tell you to enjoy you know, fun


you got enjoy, show color


nonsense lah these people ah play I don't like lah, people before start before fun, ya when people see ah eh we we play for fun only ah, I mean in your mind already for fun okay enjoy you don't have to dribble even though your are good just play of fun just tick tock tick tock


then I don't need, that people lah get whack properly you know the ball for what, if get injured for the people how, you know just too wreck really wreck like very wreck like work out cannot


what to make me slowly a view for fun lah to rent or everything was so hard, injury how we cannot lah I telling you this people I tell you you scary know


ya, ya, no enjoy, no we talk such talk about you


you see


no mood lah you got ya ya ya


nonsense


ya football lah I think ah, people ah, right kaki we are same our like like the it's like good thing to Play I'm tell


that's why when they call me at SIA man they call me ah I want to come the timing is not right for me, finish five o-clock rush know rush there rush here for what I play football cannot be rush mah, by the time I reach there what time already far know what time, not fan then when I come there's sekali these people also excuse me play ownself lagi no fun !alamak! imagine how


how you play like that, don't they feel you see nearby, you see


ya nearby ya correct that's why I say, enjoy, I want to enjoy then you all you see this how you all I feel so disappointed


I'm looking forward to play football on natural occassion you know but I don't have any, you see I don't have #kaki#s seriously, I don't have #kaki#s seriously I don't have #kaki#s, I have also all young I don't want to play with the youngster I don't want not fun I don't have fun because youngster play like so fast run there run here bang there bang here I don't have fun


I don't like that's why I want to have kaki really play uh enjoy the game and let I I don't have anymore I don't have anymore that's why, when you call me !alamak! too far, that's why, wasted that's why I just do go jogging swimming


that's it I do myself, I cannot do anything else, it's good enough already that one for me, just keep myself fit that's all, I don't want to put on weight so big size I don't want I don't like, not me


oh


families yeah sibling ah, sibling, actually ah when you get married ah, the best thing ah not sibling ah the best thing, of course friend but the best thing better take care of your own family the best thing ya then come to friends


even you include the siblings all this corrupted or not, seriously, that's why for me the best thing I take care of my family make sure I make it, path right, my sibling If I urgent I call important I call I meet them if not important I will never because why, gossip will be around all the corner see I prefer to meet friend friends so I will choose what kind of friends


this fellow talk about this matter I don't like I see this kind of friends if the friend talk like same like, my character attitude okay fine good ah talk what okay I don't mind, sometime with friends ah you also have to choose friends also we can allow a lot friends but what kind of friends


you must know a bit you must know all this ya, you cannot just friend friend friend friend you must know what kind of friends, friend for you can treasure, friend that can treasure is good, friend just for fun for laughing for what, it's problem man I tell you


always there sibling is not, ya, sometime


exactly, you know, sometime sibling, our brothers own brother sister ah nothing happen you know but there's in law


problem, you see, so the best part when you're married already better take care your first choice family, I told my wife already, if important they call we go if not important I don't want to go there for fun talk [Sia] I don't like, same goes to them ah don't we don't call them every time every week and come over what no no


no, I prefer to spend time with and our own family unless really like, what something uh something what why have a invitation whatever it's different, if not I will rather spend with my family that's it I told them


all these gossip a lot I don't like even friend I look friends I see friends what kind of friends, friends for laugh, friends can I be treasure, so ya I can have many friends I don't mind having friends but what kind of friends, friend that I treasure with me, that's one I like


we have same character, same attitude say our thinking uh good that kind of friend is good can treasure, friends ah must also care mentally not easy, not easy brother not easy, I tell you even if our siblings also not easy


exactly, true


ya, even they're also think about us also, we think about them they also think about us, if they think we're good they'll make friends with the he treasure with me, same to same to everybody same to the sibling


same, if you think I'm not good okay fine he think you're they think about like us also the same same they think about them they think about us, say the best thing is to take care of your family that's the most important and the best part father mother come first of course definitely wherever they go


that come first, even they stay at you your place okay anything I will come first


correct correct, we already, ya, true, yes, yes, ya


no, unless, unless if you're show good example, right pathway, I'll respect you if you're still left and right


please lah, don't tell me anything, If I good you're not good how to follow you no no no no I always think that way, if you take care your family in a good way, I respect you


that's why ya, ya wrong how to follow you exactly, ya wrong, true


ya, cannot, ya follow, even friends ah, or you can talk all good all this that


but your own self family you cannot talk to them for what, you yourself at home you don't have to take care your family, even your kids don't wanna listen to you how to follow your this one, how to be how to be a good friend cannot


unless you show me, you take care of family, proper correct, I've done something wrong and you also okay I respect you, but you're not, for what, you're talking to yourself man, out you go


ya exactly


yeah for what, exactly, true


uh working place I know your lifestyle how, you alway play truant some more you have to lecture about, uh family about what family, please lah change yourself first then you change your family first a good way then you tell me lah then I can follow you please lah it's better that you come to uh


uh working place talk rubbish better, don't talk about to change eh must be like this you yourself show first that's I always admire ah people ah, when you show something ah, your life and your family is already good way then you tell me okay I respect you


please lah that's why ah friend ah must choose friend is not easy you can have a lot of friends but kind of friends, !aiyo! you same goes to the


I ah actually ah I always treasure I always treasure friends, I always treasure friend I no matter how long it is ah, I treasure because why, I know I can have I can believe in you because you are friend I can treasure, friends like like


Humpty-Dumpty ah, just for laugh only lah, for me, exactly


!huh! you can do yeah for what, friends, gone, for what


ya lah that's life lah treasure, don't steal friends ah I eat, don't steal friends even our sibling family also !aiyo! I'm telling you my goodness sake


sibling also sibling also another clown lah sometime because one ah they always look down on people that really ah down ah they really look down curse and swear !wah! you ah they never help know


I don't like, I don't like that way, if you're as a big brother you cannot condemn your younger brother you must support him no matter what it's your own blood mah, I don't like, I'll never respect you


I'll never respect you, how bad he is younger brother he's still your younger brother your own blood no matter what you've to support him, you curse and swear condemn him then how he going to be changed, that's why I don't like, this what I brother sister ah I don't like


I don't like, then how you want to tell me, how go to follow your style cannot lah no way, that's why I teach my family like that I tell them don't look down on people, even though they're bad down no matter what they're this don't


you'll never know ending part, he can change a lot, you'll never never know, gods will know I say I told them, never know we just human, must see the ending part of his life


it's not good who are we to condemn people who are we, but remember that we are we're still our fat kids you know without working can be good, you don't know, they know about their lives outside you don't know then you condemn your own brother for what


all these people that's why I don't like I don't like this kind of people even friends also like that, when you talk about yeah this fella ah don't condemn people like that you condemn people like that you you as though you're so good, right


then have people sometime like that know I I don't like, I don't like condemn people like that, you last time like that K never mind don't friend me friend don't don't talk bad about him if you are good I don't mind if you are good and your family is good listen a bit I don't mind


you yourself talk about people but you yourself don't know how to take care your family for what you tell people, who are who he's with you, just friend what it's not your blood what, you like not helping you know you you are condemning people you know it's good know


something in front of people something you talk like this, there got gold


ya, exactly, don't like it, oh younger you tell who talk to me, then I better quiet, uh ya, alright alright all follow my style all follow me listen to me nonsense man you


ya take it or leave it then that's it you are nonsense man to listen to you


yes exactly, ya, exactly


ah this people I don't know what to say man, very hard to say


oh thanks god lah, but we still we we are still ya like to improve ourselves also lah don't say good we always like to improve and improve and improve, there's always a challenge mah no matter what in life always want to be, better and better and better and better to be a good father is not easy


is not easy you have to show a good very good example to them even to your kids to your he, listen from you have to you show a good example, father mother to show them good example that's why I never hide from my kids, to be a good a father mother you have a to showed a good example open talk with them


I always talk to them always humble people respect people, respect people as in, when you are working work hard, and try, and do don't lie, be trustful, work straight don't like to lie people work is work


I said, follow also, I told them like that I always enjoy my life lah actually because I we always, four of us go together no matter what, where go go go to wedding or dinner whatever always four of us we like to be together, I told them unless unless


unless unless unless you got married okay my own I finish already with you because it's my my duty is to take care of you until you get married, then married take care of your husband or maybe or your wife, that's it finish, then I can spend time with my wife, with your mother


now I want to spend time with the second one, I tell the truth ah I never go enjoy my life ah together you know, never you know never never before until my kids right now until now never I was just waiting, but still I go out enjoy still with the kids


you can go you can go one cannot go that mean all cannot go, that's why that's my life, I always care always care I have to take care of them, you may now you have uh you are uh you give tuition to people you go study whatever study outside I always send them


taxi, send and fetch send and fetch make sure they are safe fine, you got somewhere to go I send also, you see I always care, not say I'm not say a good father that's my duty mah, that's my duty I told you all my duty is take care of you until you married


that's it, I'm game over then I can spend time the rest of my life with my wife, I told them, then they listen ah, see, that's kind that's kind father you have to then I told them you can have friends remember that choose friends, choose a good friend you can be good


you choose a bad friend you can be like them, so think, whatever you want to do think about your mother father first, I told them, when grown up when you want to have girlfriend boyfriend let us know, just share with us don't worry


just share don't worry don't hide hide don't need to hide just tell them you are grown up already, uh mom dad I got friend girlfriend I have to know, just tell them, twenty three twenty three and uh twenty two


no my daughter twenty three, ya one is NS, they grown up, one is uh studying uh one is working in NTU already, ya now is taking master lah part time, grown up already but they still were, like to be with us ah I cannot go myself then they will say you cannot go with us


I want to go already two person with my wife you cannot go without us, we want to follow, especially the girl, because we are close I like that, you see know breakfast lunch dinner we always together, that's why I like I like so much


especially the my wife, lunch dinner, supper we all together, you see when they want to go out with friend we are going friends, which of friends can I have the number we want we want to know


ya okay okay then give, Saver, please save, uh, to be sorry yourself one day, that's life not easy lah to build a, good family ya is not easy you know easy my friends not easy I'm telling you there's hustle bustle


you have to have to go through, you are safe ready, connection is strong your kiss no ready you are safe ready not said safe you'll feel better, if they are still yourself ah your brother your sister yourself the mother father haywire don't want to know ah that's a problem


that's a problem would come lah, phone number come, what kind of friend you don't know what kind of friend your daughter what kind of friend you don't know they answer problem already, then be busy our owns, half our our husband wife we don't talk about them ah die


that one finished already, you must know man you must know you must know all these what's been in trouble, ya


actually, because uh, some my family also lah my sibling also my, ya can be my side my wife side can be my side you see, uh not all of them I'm very very close but sometime are pity them also when I see their family my family you see


we always trying to be a, don't have to tell them, you just show, show a good example, let them know by themself that's why I never should tell them, they know by itself oh Zul and Rozita family, we never show them don't I told my wife don't show them don't need show them let them know by themself


very some more, I never share it went to my friend also I never show them but they know by them self it up to them, uh idea we can yeah, for me I


I will do myself lah, so, you is okay I told my son daughter, if want to tell choose yourself you go ahead I said no problem I want to blame when I choose myself you blame me I don't want also


is all up to you just like us know ya I have friends there why not so you know each other see how, important thing one I know you really seriously with that feeler, I want to know the family first, I want to know the family the background whatever first family I want to know the guy or what the girl


the family I want to know if you are seriously that person, want to know the family that's me that's me, not because of their their that person I want to know the family we have to know how the family, they have some many ah, family how many kids ah I want to know


that's me lah, but other people don't know you know each other you two only uh but but you don't know about the family, if for what, you also don't about him he also don't know about your family, then how how to work out cannot cannot okay


no like that cannot I must know I must know, that's why ah I want to be, no no no, no no no no no


for me when you like it all depend on them, especially when they see you like you see the family, if family


no no no no never never never never never, never never never, never, never never never, yes yes, the families we meet each other, we like each other basic okay that's it, the rest love up to them after that married


better, uh that is one it's match maker lah if you're yourself, you have to know each other first ah that's love lah not easy lah, now also want to tell them ah in front of me good I don't know when married also different we also don't know all become god lah


then I said you choose also good because you blame yourself, If I choose you blame me your father mother


but still but this one ah married ah nowadays nowadays lah nowadays all youngster lah, problem you know, youngster lah those days ah I ask ah always patience you know, but don't nowadays ah youngster married ah, married then six month one year all divorce


all difficult I don't know how, very difficult


they never think, they never think, they married also follow emotion !wah! I want today one problem ah not easy not easy, that's the, worst part lah


you love only then get married then after six month sour already start like, or fight each other !aiyo! I say, not easy lah, that's why I always talk to my my, everyday know morning and night


morning talk lunch time talk dinner talk we talk we talk we talk we talk, always we talk, about life, anyway I talk about last time I always share last time I know your mother how gini I always share and let them know, and how I take care of your mother how I take care


how I help her I always share, let them know, I am not a I'm not the like your you are NTU I know, your father is not NTU you know, I'm just a primary, only I do hard work, but you


clever, but no lah don't be like father I'm stupid nevermind not you, but don't use don't use your smart ah to be a what somebody no better don't be humble, get more knowledge, in life, learn from your parents


choose friend I told them, smart don't make use of your smart, clever so better, cause you are smart know you are clever, sometime people use their smart clever ah become haywire already, cause they are nose up


can talk, that's a problem, different, different different


lah like brothers like sister like friends, ya a friends !wah!, sometimes ah not because the kids know, sometimes the parent itselft the parents itself you know all these ah come from the parents ya upbringing ya ya upbringing parents should


teach them from beginning, upbringing you know cannot blame the kids actually cannot be blame them when they were like that because you never teach them like that, never talk to me like like that never teach like that they blame you back they blame you the parents, definitely they blame you cannot blame them


they blame you, cause you never talk to me ah you never teach me what you send me the fish already never talk to me what, that's why we need that always like breakfast and dinner talk, always talk to them make some sense they keep inside, cause you never talk your ownself breakfast your ownself ini all haywire you youself how


you blame who you cannot blame them for this one, you cannot blame the kid balme yourself lah parents, play a part in life, in family they play a part, that's why I say not easy to build up uh this kids ah to be a really people lah it's not easy


right values ya, ya


when you you not you're not proper you're not correct correct then you teach me I become like this the problem is you only you yourself never show good example what


the words ah sometimes the words that they talk ah !wah!


sometimes it's like I mix around lah, simple as that they mix around, mix round, mix round ah friends ah talk rubbish I tell you ah all the bugger they follow you know I tell you that's why mix around, you mix around the good friend you become good you mix around with bad friend become bad that's simple as that


and if foundation is not strong and some more at uh home you also never talk short of father mother, never talk that's why when mixed with friend they listen to friends, because I see everyday see my friends what that's why that's what happen, that's what happen


then they have by the time I want to scold you cannot scold because they big already they can fight with you they can scold you back, there's the problem come, when you grown up uh small you can take care when grown up you can take care when they secondary big already that time very critical


how you going to talk to them, you must have knowledge talk to them you must have skill talk to them, if you don't have how, and you must show your example to them how you don't have you tell me how, how to be a good father


cannot, blame who now, see fight I don't I don't come back I don't mind cause I working already I can't work part time ke what they can do a lot of things cause they're clever, you also never look for me what, you also never come back come back early back home


then both the parents, that's why kids ah I tell you ah their minds ah friends ah I tell you ah they pull you ah they brainwash you I tell you, good friends is good bad friends that's it game over


serious, ya, to be a good lah is very difficult, to be a bad uh simple eh very fast


to be ugly worse still, all this, that's why we parents ah we don't have the knowledge skill ah to talk to them ah, be must have knowledge, we must show with that top


you need, you never show love to them, how tell me how


never show love to them never caring, never this never, send them never fetch them they go by themselves how you tell me blame who, they can talk back now you never send me or !wow! !wow! you want to make voice with me, my friends always help me you know ah friends come first see


not easy life life not life, much easy I tell you, you must know when the bedtime you must have skill to talk to them


good time, have a might have no disturb them the only time you have, you must have that you know you must have that, you don't have as a parents ah, game over man my friend tell you, game over, really when they go far already that's it game over want to pull back them ah !aiya! tell you


not easy my friend, not easy especially you have a a a you have a girl, more important girl you see, you must take care girl hundred and ten percent how, if you lose them I tell you that's game over where they go


uh not easy my friend, that's why I'm always waiting when they married that's over I'll take care my wife to go holiday, always think that, always think that


especially my wife, hard to go, I want to kiss a wrong we go there help how they food how their take care their, sure, when we talk we share ya lah okay lah we save that's it game over, then they agree


both part must be agree mah, both party, you must have that, matured no matter what they are still kids


no matter how what, ya still, still, must skip them must you know have have guide, how much knowledge they have, then not about school only what study !wah! friends oh yes


but in life, they left for it, different my friend, I thought they are married I think married that's it game over, simple like that


ya your own, cannot, if like to call girlfriend can let me know what what's your friend's name, no, no never fix when it comes it comes, ya when it come it comes I said can be early can be later I don't mind


ya when it come it comes, that's my style I don't ever force them I never never force them I always flexible with you, I don't want to this this age must marry no no, when it come it comes, that's it lah


no no fix time ya never, whatever want to do you do now, that's it, I only can really make sure after married that's it I wash hand already, game over, that's it so left one more that's it everything


that's why that's life lah my friend, not easy, to me a good life family is not easy, tough men, very tough, ya that's why


nothing expenses that's why we know how to limit you must to adjust our, all about money how to take care must keep money for this for that we must all this all this in mind our mind is our parents, do, keep money don't just spend money


ya I told them how to make money do yourself be a uh do something that benefit you I said, do something that benefit you whatever what it is, ya don't just throw yourself do nothing for what you wasting the time for what, nothing


do something benefit you you get it back in future, as I thought my daughter when you're finish do something Saturday free give tuition you get some money extra money


no depend I is all depend individual mah, ya individual ya in depend ya, ya yes correct


twenty three twenty two lah ya, okay lah from day one from from day one ah they take care from baby know I get no maid know, until now you know, because hustle bustle but I'm okay for me I'm happy for that with my hand you know from baby until now you know


got no maid we do our our own self, what everything I work self, until now that's why we are very close, our bonding very very close


no that's life mah, If I give way ah lose ah that's it game over I'm telling you, ah we have to, guide to guide guide guide guide guide, if you lose that they see game over, fun when friends guide them ah that it lah


have good friend okay, that's such a friends, life is not easy like us now, want money no it is the thirty dollars have to come here, what is it favourite all the way come here it is survey


think easy, at least benefit us correct right we just come in not for fun at least benefit us even though, see, we happy


correct, exactly, I want to find prime now, don't cry in the end a little after hill, sorry sorry now don't sorry later just problem


exactly, when things happen ah done cannot be undone already, then whose fault, ya exactly, when what to do do it from small maybe


don't until you have a mistake critical already ah finish already I don't know how ah I don't know how ah go to your friend friend also haywire I want to go which friend you want to go, tell me, it's you, so should I start first you


disappearance, what the friends, can give you answer and your friends also a hardwire guest talk to you walk lah then he is also a problem, for what, not easy my friend


ya that's true lah that's why when they married ah they are on the way ah you happy you know, ya to them, when you are maybe DSA, can now up to you so have to cut your kiss as one eye, care what you've seen remember them I told them


know my daughter or my son remember them always have each other in your marriage I always tell them before they go I will tell them, remember then, care about him or her care, give them love, give them caring


show example to them or shuttle lane same as what I did to you, always back take them only date night breakfast and then try your best, don't miss it talk to them everyday morning day and night always tell them, remember that


friend to friend world ya okay okay, okay lah now my bit they know already what I want, and I know what they want uh suppose to want uh, my father or my mother like like this oh okay so at least they now lah they know, they know they want to do wrong also they think my father mother never do this ah


they think twice, father I see my friends ah like your age ah but different leh what kind of different, even though they see more very small


what's she do is they still go to pub they still go to karaoke but you no that's why they ask me no no no, I see I see a different totally different from you, that is why I say, friends see like my age still want to hang out with you but you how would then you want


your friend fifty five and me fifty see that difficult how, that's why I do something meeting first ya ya, important parents


have a good survey and now, okay, ya


he haven't I know my my wife will call me or text me why you never answer the call why you never text me I know, I know I can fit in sense of them, because we are close at they know, my friends uh my my wife not I know I can feel that she will, text me and never never call each other she call me also okay mine


she worth it, no half hour like one one two hours you know eh how are you work ah they want to we want to know each other I also text them how are you hows your work I always chit-chat, rather I take chat with my friends rather chat my my my family


because we have group mah that's why you make groups chit-chat, eh where are you where you ah so they really knows mah they never hide, what you doing they know it's so is, texting each other, that's life, suppose to what to chit-chat family also don't want to make a group


see they will uh personal one, you see, that's problem, right, at least group family group right, one time is it, okay why you are there as for that's one so, easy


ya ya


they call


ya, ya


ya man that's true man, exactly


move on ya I have to move on move on, good or bad have to move on ah ya, correct exactly


that's about life lah ah unless you know about my life I know about your life you say we share each other life situations good ah actually it's good sometimes, !wah! we been talk we been text together then we meet each other we talk a lot ah that's good


that's good lah, that's better we share everything, it's very good, we can have friends a lot we can have a lot of friend no problem, we can uh ya must have the right one correct one that's it game over


ya that type of friend the quality friends you need you that ya, learn ya


uh ya, yes correct


ya, that's tough ah my friend, no only my boy I always jogging with him, ya, always you are doing with my my my weekend sometime we do cycling together


ya, that's it ya we always meet together ya try to meet together no matter what ya, whatever week we do we'll always try to meet together for a while, see how ya we always try to meet together, we like it so much ya in that way, ya


really, we like it so much, I love my family so a lot, assistant police ya, no are seem I don't to force you so I up to you


whether you sign on not sign on I respect your decision ya okay in the head I think he never sign on lah, because he knows what's the working life over there ah say tiring he said, long hours, my places Yishun Yishun South ya Yishun South


even at Yishun just uh five minutes walk a walk a way, nearby only five minutes walk, okay, up to him I I never stop you I don't to, is up to you, ya


no no no, up to him, he's so lucky you know he got license from there then they uh, station nearby my place five ah all so lucky ah he


he damn lucky, don't have, get from your police ya, !huh!, you don't have to take transport you know just walking distance eh five minute !wah! so happy, ya #Yishun#-South just go there neighbourhood


so lucky, don't have to rush, so lucky ah he, lucky guy, next year finish already uh February, February finish


two years, actually should be uh less than three years lah that's why I cannot go holiday because my boy is NS, ya, that's why, ya after Feb maybe April March then I can think about their holiday


cause you cannot just study


thank you so much ya, that's me that's me ya, ya that's me thank you


okay, okay testing testing okay, okay we need to spot, to spot the difference here


okay, how about who who what is that differences which you can see the pictures, then after that you can just circle it, but the picture is rather small lah


okay uh, no you can you you have to look and see whether there's any changes here or not, and the some pictures is also, okay okay the boy the boy who is sitting down


wearing socks but he uh uh next to him actually slipper, no no but the normally wear suit like, so shall we just circle the uh this one slipper there


the boy, ah, uh, tiring lah but, correct, and uh, the other one looking around


uh, okay, but the golf seems to be you don't actually see the golf


the golf ball the ball at all lah, you know, the rest of the picture looks, looks almost the same ah


oh okay, short pavilion not, not shore, shore pavilion, tribute to McCartney, Paul


okay we we decide circle the, shore shore uh some pavilion, tribute to Paul , McCartey, not shore, okay then uh


the lady is pushing where, oh eh, that one, that one you know or my lipstick


ya different, yours yours is yours if there is any difference then you can uh this one circle lah


okay so now looking at the lady in the bikini, mine there is a she's actually wearing something, are you all just bikini so, okay, K mine actually have the beach the beach queen thing with a


okay then the guy with the some pictures ah the guy with the pictures uh yours is actually dropping, mine is just uh this one holding it up, no pictures the pictures is uh this one dropping, so uh


okay your guy playing the golf ah the guys playing the golf yours is uh uh this one scooping down, mine is uh this one doing a hit so you can actually circle that also, okay then uh, what else we have uh


you have the lady in the plame mine is a just a normal lady walking lah, okay so so so you can also uh circle that, and uh, or else we have here


okay then the lady is uh, okay uh okay mine is also is a also have having a a beach lunch, okay yours is snack uh snack open mine is uh


mine shows it is actually fishing fishing snack snack open, okay then uh the the not the not shore thing is a something which you actually don't have lah, which I actually have is a is a some sign it's a sign itself lah


okay then uh (ppb), okay, yours ya yours you need to circle here for your for your not short and, okay


a sign a sign there right okay okay mine is mine is uh mine is without the sign, okay so you can actually circle there, and uh, while's a guy, then the spin and uh


okay your this different that's mean I think mine and yours is the different wording lah, okay yours the second one ya this one, different sign you can actually circle, and uh your, seashore there is a fish there I think mine is mine is without without without it


okay uh the golf one, oh say basically I think uh, this this this this this guy the thing, okay only thing is I think mine I think there's a small I don't know whether this guy having a tattoo or whatever yours I think there's isn't any lah


uh there's a small there's a small one thing you can just circle that also over there, and uh other than that the the fishing, uh one two okay the fishing thing I think you have one two three on the floor mine is mine is only two lah


mine also yours is free one two three so you can settle it also, and , basically I think we got all I think the man and the lady who is standing, uh the man and lady ya, ya mine is with specs yours yours is specs too okay then I think there's not much uh


uh that one is not much of a difference there, I think basically we got we got everything except lah except the dessert time couple standing, yeah, okay then uh


so what we have left is only the couple lah, okay, so basically, okay so uh we can just check uh, amount of south okay there is another one behind so we can we can actually continue


uh, okay this one is the house I actually have some fruits some fruits outside, uh so you can uh yours can just put, then the mine is hats and pins yours is something else yours is John oh John Pin oh that one you can also circle that


the vehicle I think yours I think there's four lah mine is only three wheels ah, mine is only three sins so can just maybe just, there's one B N for for ya lah okay, all correct same ah okay then this lady yours is trying to hold something mine is the tree lah she's actually cutting the tree


so basically is there the dog for your side uh, eh you got the, uh your your dog poo mine is mine is nothing at all, okay then the the


fruits ah that's a, I think they sell fruits is it oh the same okay never mind the swing is this one different colour, is it uh bring down up and down mine mine is white yours is green ah


mine is white in colour yours is uh uh the colour itself and uh this guy who is standing up uh, king basically I think it's almost the same, uh I'm going shoot okay what yours is a different wording lah


mine is yeah, are your going to shoot mine mine mine just says that !aiya! he is going to shoot, basically is that uh, okay the food is uh actually different, it's just the the different kind of food ya mine is mine is only carrots yours I think there is uh Macam spinach there


okay and uh I think basically a chicken is there, uh, what else, !aiyo! you uh you the lamp the lamp I think you you have an extra one lah


so basically uh that looks, all the same, , okay the pig I think there's not much of a difference they lah, except I think the floor your your your this floor uh the the drops there


mine there is nothing there at all, so basically it's the, uh this one no the words buy the perfect gift for Mother's Day, buy the perfect gift for Mother's Day uh but yours is different one uh different wording ah


so can just circle that uh, okay, okay


okay as in basically that's that lah, okay uh, most of the circling and everything is done, so uh


okay so uh basically we, we've uh done most of it itself so uh we can just uh, uh uh lets share lets go and share the store the story itself lah the only thing different I think the the this one couple part of it


there is also nothing there there are there are just only just some pointing there, uh the pointing so there is like nothing to show also, so I think we can just uh leave that uh, leave that as it is lah nothing much to throw away ah


other than that uh, the some pictures actually basically the guy playing golf, at the way at the what at the what beach itself, ah correct uh bikini with the thing is a different kind


as you may clear it's that, correct correct, K basically it's that think the other ones the other one is more more in terms of uh I think how's the


ya family kind of kind of thing house uh by the playing uh that uh you're playing in the playground uh gathering, with chickens and all that, correct the chicken they have some pizza yeah


oh it's nice to basically uh, correct, so looks like we have uh this one spotted almost this one everything that uh that is been look by the picture itself


so there's uh there yeah, ya, ya yours is correct , yeah


mine is mine is basically just having they just some are just having carrots ah, ya correct yours is just ya mine mine he chose the whole, the whole bush there's a she's there's a she's gonna cut lah


so (ppb), correct correct busy correct it's quite nice


okay basically it's it's quite nice pictures, family couple beach, ya correct different different style


ya mine is just uh mine is just the lady just standing there without without the pram the pram itself


correct


very nice pictures like, the beach beach life the Kampung life, walking round and round so, it's quite it's quite nice


okay so uh basically as I said uh, we we have gone through this thing so it looks really nice and chic uh, spotting, spotting the difference eh


, the Kampung life lah, uh the simple the simple beach life or the Kampung life ah


okay uh now I think we are we are gonna switch over to this cards game, uh okay cheek to cheek uh, okay I think I have to ask you a question also what's your, describe your perfect date


perfect date means we can ask question to each other, okay uh yeah this one is there this one is there a question there which uh you wanna ask me


okay I will I will ask you something okay what's your okay do you uh this one do you enjoy doing uh choice, your chores uh means doing your housework what uh which which is your most and least, favorite, chore which you like to do yes I mean let's say your home your home


okay what is your top three on your bucket list, what is your top three on your bucket list, what's your top three things which you you have that you want to do, of course now now now the year is coming to an end so I think we can look we can look forward to next year lah


but what's the what's the top three things which you which you are actually planning to do, okay, okay


so uh any other things uh, okay uh is there any other question you wanna ask me or you wanna uh this one go chit-chat about this one anything


what's the uh this one what's my best day off, uh this one what's the best thing which I like to do is it, uh normally as I said off day I would uh I would just uh just like to relax at home


and right uh I uh either go to the gym or maybe go to the pool or maybe have a game of soccer lah but normally when it comes to weekend is just to, relax and watch soccer on this certain TV lah, so basically off day is just to


relax and and this this one unwind lah, because uh if you work, daily every day then you tend to get bored and uh, you actually tend to feel a bit down so when you when you come to your off day you actually need to re, free uh some charge on your own until this uh either going


going for a swim or going to the gym or just uh playing soccer lah, well older as you grow older I think I've you tend to you tend to mellow down ah


so I will I will just like to uh have the simple things in life and the main thing is being actually healthy, and I just want to take care of yourself and uh to lead a simple life lah, don't know whether you can actually grow old to to the age of seventy or eighty


so just go and enjoy the certain every day as in, as in as it comes lah, my my target as I said uh to grow old is to actually lead to lead a simple life lah, not to ask for much and not to aim for the moon but


just to be healthy and to this one enjoy uh some simple life lah, fruit is it, food is well, rambutan, rambutan I like rambutan I like uh the mangosteen


so it's pretty uh, food food, food means okay I used to like uh chicken mutton prawn and all that stuff but uh now I have actually mellowed down to uh some simple food just bread, and uh some maybe having a simple meal lah


so food I used to be a food this uh this one lover lah I can actually eat this uh this one anything, okay so now uh let me just uh


okay okay, okay describe the happiest moment of your life


so if you could like turn back time uh, what is the one thing you would, you would have done, differently, your you or your past so if you if you uh I mean if you have a chance


you have a chance


okay what is the most uh what is the most this important lesson you have learnt from your some parents


okay for your last meal ah that is for your last uh supper uh what, what would you eat and who would you eat with


how how do you know when to let go of someone


so what, the what uh this one do you miss most from your childhood


what's the big break I gonna have in my life, break as in break in your life ah, okay is like this uh this one travelling around the world lah, given a chance to travel around the world to go to Europe of course to this doesn't go back to


my uh this one soccer club in London Spurs, to actually watch a few games there and to travel the world go to Middle-East go to Europe, and to this one enjoy life, your your this final moments in life lah


a hero I would look up to my these ex parents lah my dad and my mum, but uh I was closer more to my mum so as it is like


to always to always uh lead to always lead a simple life and to always be uh this one grateful for the things that you have lah


how well can I, cook and bake with family I cannot bake, cook if you talk about maybe French toast uh normal bread and all that but a meal no lah, actually my favourite thing was this uh this one Bombay toast the French toast


why am I looking a partner actually to frank you I I am already


no, , no actually frankly no okay some as the partner in life ah okay actually in as the partner in life you you have to find, for someone who also have the same as in character as your as your ownself so I wouldn't like somebody to be proud or snobbish or


to this one look up up to them so if they are a simple down to earth person then, and we can blend together then uh this one why not


you talk about like to eat actually to frank you I I have a few things which I like which I like only, uh actually to to put it down to one thing is is quite difficult lah I I mean I'm I'm, the I'm a food I'm a food lover so I would like to eat


almost this uh this certain everything lah, so uh basically, food, whether is Indian Chinese or is a Malay food I I would always love it lah it is it is just the type of food that I would like to eat only lah but I cannot say to one


okay so uh, like bread so uh this uh food wise as I said it it uh it can be Indian food, in terms of Chapati Naan or you you can eat Malay food any kind of food lah but but any food uh but


in in my life is this uh this one Indian food lah, ya in different whether whether is not it is uh whether is not uh this certain Indian or South Indian, basically the food taste is there and I love curry, uh this one normally this one there's a Little-India where either I drop by the hawker centre or I drop by a


the this certain restaurant to have my meal lah but basically I'll go more in uh terms of vegetarian food lah, and uh uh cutting back more on chicken and mutton and all that


stresses me is in uh terms it can be in terms of your friends or in terms of your work lah, I would say work lah sometimes sometimes at home and sometimes at at work but uh sometimes I also look forward the time where I can actually de


this one stress itself lah that is by either whereby by going for swimming or going gym or going or going to play soccer so, uh juggle itself so you will uh correct so when when it's time to work you go to work lah, when when when it's when it's time to relax then you just take it easy lah


I would say important but uh basically I believe uh sometimes in god, in god fate lah so you have a child then it's okay but if it doesn't then


uh as long as you have a loving partner then life life still goes on, but uh in actual in uh so between that if you manage to have a child then might as well why not


there is a question called when did you last cry, you are hugging your wife okay okay that's good, oh okay


you patch up ah, okay how many siblings do you have and who are you close to


okay what is the son raised have you taken for someone that you love, what are the risks that you have taken for someone you love, ya means this what have you done, uh some extra ordinary or some some something special to someone that you love


okay if you could wake up in the morning tomorrow what's special, this uh ability what would you like to be or what would you have, if tomorrow you wake and you have a special power or you have a special ability


what would you like like would you like to fly up to the moon or would you like to do something or what ah


so you are pretty good cook ah, oh okay


okay that's good, so she will wash the clothes and you will hang the clothes, but for my case I will wash the clothes then I will hang the clothes


, because my wife will never touch the clothes so so for for me is is uh uh is the other way me she will be in charge of the food the food wise I mean, comes to this this kind laundry when it comes to the the laundry part I mean I will wash the clothes and I will hang the clothes and I will take out the clothes also


and for for the, ya same here same here, correct, correct, correct, oh this certain ironing which you which you do lah


!wah! not bad ah you can I can iron


that is good, when when was the last time you had a truly, meaning talk with someone what


did you talk about, no it the can be anybody your closed friend uh your wife or office colleague


ya some, okay you correct some, no sometimes like a I mean this some both of us uh in this some marriage life sometimes it is good to have a close friend


where where you where where there is a sense you can talk you can talk to him, correct but if a friend which you know for so long ah I uh, sometimes both of us talk about anything talk about family talk about uh life talk about problem it is good because


brothers can actually give advice to each other when there is an issue, someone because I uh do have a really closed friend outside which I actually know him from from young so, sometimes we meet up for lunch sometimes we talk but we can talk about anything ah


ya lah, ya lah, ya lah, correct


correct


good leh, but sometimes I mean I thought this is what I I truly believe ah sometimes, I mean family is family lah if you if you actually have your your own brothers or sisters why but but sometimes


your your this friend will be your the some listening ear if you if you if you have things which sometimes you cannot talk with your with your family because of, certain kind of issues but you talk to your close friends about it and all that lah it will be something which you can actually really solve lah so it's uh ah


ya lah, ya lah


ya correct, you'd better be open ah open ah


correct, correct (ppb), correct, okay how is marriage in this uh this one important to you


yours is a love marriage or fixed uh fixed marriage, dating ah oh so what you you, oh you knew knew oh you oh you you knew her


oh so you dated her before you married her lah


for how long how long a year or two


so you, you knew her when she was schooling is it, oh okay, okay, okay, okay, oh


that's a nice one, okay what is your favorite thing you like to do


together with your family, what what the kind of activity that you like to enjoy the family, oh that's good, oh, okay


K, together that's good, that's good


family time (ppb), family time lah this is good good ah (ppb), that's why kids kids these nowadays to actually spend to to actually spend spend time family, yeah most most most uh the most so most of them are on


social media all this going out with their friends and all that correct, correct correct, correct, because when our days when we grew up is more is more in terms of the Kampung days


family, family comes first but now but nowadays I look at my nephew nieces like they are spending their own life they are going on their own they on they on social media, correct finish that's it finish ah, correct


ya correct, correct, correct, ya


correct, correct, family time is the best lah (ppb) but these kind of youngsters nowadays they they always like to, go out with their friends and all that even once in a week when when when my


parent my mom used she call the son send everybody uh send everybody over to the house for lunch dinner and all that so, even your own bothers and sisters would say oh I got this lah I got that lah so the point is for that once a week just to drop by for lunch lunch or dinner


it is also so so hard, so the I mean the Kampung days are gone lah now nowadays is this uh everybody is living their own life lah


okay there's one question that I ask you what uh, what is the most important lesson which you have learned from your parents


it is true lah, correct, correct, correct, ya, my my this parent also taught me that wherever you are whatever you do whether


whether you stay in a condominium or you stay in a uh in a flat, whether you drive a car or you ride a bicycle always going treat everybody alike don't don't look in terms of, status like where you stay what what you do and all that, so when my dears when when I grow up in my that place at


Siglap in the private north so when it comes to friends you meet or whether you work and all it they will tell you where you stay if you mention, Bedok they say oh you stay in a flat the moment you mention, Siglap they say oh, private house ah oh private home ah your dad blah blah blah so


people judge you ah of where you stay what you do what uh some what what you drive which is wrong, if you want to know a person as a this one as a person in terms of character wise it is okay but then don't look at what where he stay what he do how much he earn, which is which is wrong but but the but the sad fact is


the current lifestyle is people always look at, what you do and how much you earn and what and where you stay and all that, it's like so it is uh always good to be simple down to earth, and be humble ah


ya always happen whether you are poor or rich, poor rich or what some what so ever all the all the same, correct, correct that is true, ya


I remember once I met one of my old colleague ah at uh this I was at Raffles-Place he came up to me, uh maybe just shake hands but first thing he uh he asked me, what're you doing, this uh some so where are you staying, so I ask him first instead of saying


how are you how is things never see you for so long since school day lah first thing you want to know, what you working as where you staying whether you are married whether you are driving a car this and that that's why I told him could you ask ask a simple question and say, how is things all his life I haevn't seen you for long so people wants to know is the job you doing where you staying what you driving


but I see I see but this some people tend to look at in terms of, uh the job the job which you then life lah the job, correct, correct ya correct


correct, correct that is true


okay man (ppb) let us talk let's uh go and change the the some topic uh to soccer lah, so since uh it is something which uh some both of like lah, so we can just so I presume you think that City will win the title lah


no I actually no actually by this this one Christmas timing ah, by Christmas you can add in their top four, top five but actually decide the the title by the way City is going now the thing is, somebody, is City correct correct


correct correct, ya, but the thing I think one of the lower clubs need to stop uh City because, city drew against wolves there was one game I think they paid home ah where they draw wolves is a good team ah


correct


what uh this the the new team which is in the list now wolves I have I mean I have this seen them play, there is seems to be a really good uh good team ah, but looking at uh because this weekend game is a big game Spurs playing at home with Chelsea


this is it Saturday night so I am hoping because Spurs is playing at Wembley-Stadium I'm actually hoping for Spurs to win that means Spurs playing now Spurs can win, but the O but the only question is is the Chelsea also playing well, so there is another question mark lah but the top five is as as you said Man-U will be there City will be there uh uh this uh Chelsea Spurs


okay this uh this one Arsenal will be there, but the uh but I don't exactly see Liverpool winning it lah, Liverpool seems a bit closer to B M City but I don't see them that that that good besides for me being a best friend I just hope we are we are top four


and ya uh this one if not we'll just get a cup in terms of an FA-Cup or no Atlantic cup that's it so I just want to leave it at that as long, I am not aiming for Spurs to go for title because the current players which which they actually have ah I don't actually see, them uh this one winning the title their some title there this one


ya correct lah


correct, and and do you know those uh guys in uh, London the sky the sky force sports they are always anti towards Spurs they will praise Liverpool and say they are the best team but you look at last few seasons ah


Spurs the last two three seasons Spurs is always been above Liverpool and they are always third second third second but when it comes to new season they say, Liverpool they always pick Liverpool Liverpool if they change it tell you they can't change it many correct correct correct correct correct correct correct


no correct correct below correct lah but but uh in the end they are always, praise like Liverpool will be the closest title so a lot of them saying you look in terms of two three seasons, Spurs Man-U has always been above them but when it comes to a new season they said !wah!


Liverpool is the best team that will win the title of above City you know that because there is certain people in the media, is uh there are a a bit anti towards whether is it is actually towards Man-U or Spurs and or all that so they like, Liverpool they say !wah! Liverpool is the best team that win but look in term of last few years Liverpool have always been fourth fifth sixth you know thing correct


correct correct, correct, I think, below correct that's true lah, correct, that's that's what true lah


even if you look at our you look at you look at our this one local soccer, uh this uh itself I mean, I actually grow up uh this one doing the #Kallang#-Rawr days ah Dollah-Kassim and Hassan Raja-Gopal and all that


but you look at this this uh style of uh soccer now is really, really really different ah but I look at the youngster now ah, they can't hold they can't dribble they can't do anything but they want latest boots, latest jersey latest hairstyle everything but to control the ball play passing all cannot


uh correct Fandi-Ahmad ya skillful ya, don't have no school ya, uh cannot lah yeah sigh correct correct, you cannot single, you can't single out one player in Singapore team so what this fellow is gold got potential can dribble all of them all really troll really troll


correct correct, correct correct, ya, ya, correct, Fandi is lucky because boat is sounds like there, one is pink defense and one is pink striker so for him he can he can depend on this one to turn to turn the game


if is normal player if okay let's say the players don't like the coach or the players have one gang ah, correct there won't be something so Fandis playing smart he bought his son same, correct correct, correct


ya correct correct correct correct, but the standard is low very very low lah very very very low really, and and they both of us do play soccer ah when see them play you sometime want to vomit blood know


because they got no standard can't hold can't dribble can't pass get a ball pump get a ball pump, ya cannot ya basic not there lah, correct, you know, know uh uh those days of Dollah-Kassim and Kin-Song one of my friend one of my friend told me that this uh that the Uncle-Chew last time ah one leg ah


he said before and after training ah you stand in front of national flag ah you say your pledge, then you start your training after training you stand there and you pledge


correct correct, correct correct correct, correct, correct ya


correct, correct, ya correct correct that's true, correct correct correct


that's true, correct, ya correct lah, ya correct, correct correct


okay correct, okay correct, but this that one Fandi is trying to bring in the youngsters lah, so which is good in the sense for Singapore soccer but I I always believe in a multiracial team, you have a Malay Chinese Indian Eurasian like those days you have


Kim Song Rajagopal you got Eric-Paine and all that ah, you got this uh uh, #Dollah Kassim# so you have a multiracial team is easier if not is difficult and players who can play, who can hold ball who can dribble who can pass not, have latest boots latest shorts latest jersey latest hairstyle but cannot


but cannot play this this one at all, ya they don't have, correct, there there is one there is one current uh player, this certain Adrian Kwek which is in the team now that guy is good


ah correct ah correct then uh this this one, that time Fandi brought in another, another Grago kind to the team young player, correct correct correct end of story ah


correct, correct, you know last they had this YOG a few years ago ah the Youth uh Olympic ah, Kadir Yahaya was the coach right there was this bunch of youngsters I went down to Jalan-Besar to watch two games


that team was good that was a multiracial they've Chinese Eurasian Malay, but the boy there was one boy on the right wing know, they said he got uh a young Malay boy very left foot skilful, he after YOG join club and all that mix with wrong group, uh went drinking then drugs gone


and now and now after he went to jail a few months he came back now at the moment he join another club, to start over again they said again he started taking drugs, that guy was skilful young fellow and that and that actual YOG team I thought ah from from that level will go, into under sixteen under eighteen twenty nothing team gone


you mix around, ya you mix around with the wrong group


but now I look at all these uh youngster there there is no, basic skill there's no basic ball skills lah, and uh on that day I think one two months ago ah when this what, you see them play soccer ah tick tock tick tock lah from defense right up till mid field right no high ball know


from defense I pass you you pass me mid field all ball on the feet you know, Singapore soccer I say get from defense pump, and Madrid I think it's uh this one this one Madrid


from defense ah it's all tick tock tick tock tick tock passing know you watch you watch that kind of soccer ah you actually enjoy you know because they are actually playing soccer know, correct correct


call me when they're off the field ya, ya correct ya, ya correct, ya correct, correct correct


correct


ya current, ya current current, ya current you know, current


and now I heard also they all uh players the players got their own gang, if uh this one let's say me and you friend ah no no if let okay let's say me and you are friend then there's another guy I don't like, so when when when it comes to the group when it comes to the game when you pass me the ball and I let's say I think one I do not like you I don't pass you


even you're open I don't want bye bye I will pass to you because even you're far ah I'll pass you because we're both uh Kaki, so that that guy's open to score for them but he won't pass he will he will go and pass him own Kaki, crazy lah other people like uh correct correct


Singapore not bad ah, but Fandi I just said I mean good in that sense you know he's trying to bring in youngster but I feel it will change the whole thing, I rather, correct lah, correct correct


correct, correct, correct, correct


correct, correct, correct, ya, correct, correct


correct, correct, ya correct, uh correct, ya correct


the step, standard is Paul lah, standard is Paul, because so ah he support lah he support lah yeah correct that, correct correct, correct


correct that's true, ya, correct, correct, correct correct, (ppb) ya that's true lah (ppb)


ya, ya ya, correct, okay lah


ya correct, so bomb lah ya proud ya very proud of ya, very proud ya correct correct correct, ya and correct, ya ya lah, correct ya ya ya, they they are thinking that once you get uh this one get called out for national team your this one status very high ah


like uh as if you are a great uh some World-Cup player you know, hello very high, ya correct, ya, ya correct


ya one to one lah, ya, hurry change ah


ya correct, no you got to as I said hire I rather see eleven new players young players you you never even heard before I rather, see this people into the team you you depend on the same old player every year ah, cannot lah


ya lah, yeah correct, yeah, but it's good to blend in the the young the young players ah


ya, correct correct restaurant ya, ya, ya correct lah, ya


correct, correct, correct correct


correct that's true, ya correct correct ya, ya, ya


correct, ya that's true lah, ya, correct


correct (ppb) correct correct ya, correct lah ya, that's thething lah


ya, ya lah, ya aim lah


ya, ya, ya ya correct correct, correct, correct


correct that's true (ppb) I think seventies was the best time fun correct I mean from #Kallang#-Roar and other place lah, ya correct correct correct correct


ya ya really lah ya correct, , I thought this this uh it's like as you say lah you got to be you got to be humble lah


uh you gonna be down uh down to earth humble ya


no that's why I say this I say we all have play some soccer so when you see other people play ah, and you you know one look whether the guy got ball skills or he can stop the ball he can control or he is skillful or what, but I look at this this team cannot lah


okay let's say you want in terms of uh play ya some maker tend to, distribute the ball to left right middle what what you need to do ah Singapore at the moment doesn't have, no no don't be, correct correct, correct


you you know that day uh I think a year ago two years ago the, Southeast-Asia against ah no it's now they they said must be under, twenty three ah, the Myanmar team ah that took part with Singapore ah


under twenty three, Southeast-Asia right the Myanmar under twenty one ah went for the under twenty one World-Cup know, and play in Uruguay you know Myanmar under twenty one qualify for World-Cup under twenty one, and now they are same bunch of fellas is playing under twenty three Southeast Asia


they standard is there Southeast-Asia Southeast-Asia now you your team got team got World-Cup standard, so they are a different class already seriously we are looking at Asia Asia-Cup we are looking at the Southeast-Asia thing all, this Myanmar even Laos okay not won't won't say much in terms of Laos lah this Cambodia Philippines Philippines next year January ah


Asia games Philippines qualify soccer you know for Asia game they're into baseball, uh they are into basketball but they're Philippines national team qualify for some Asia games, cannot that's what I say


correct cannot, ya, correct, correct


correct, correct, correct


correct is true, ya correct, correct, correct, correct


ya don't do this ya ya papaya lah correct ya ya papaya, ya correct ya uh ya ya papaya lah, correct, correct, ya ya ya


you got the no if your if your ghost you got boss skills skilful I understand, you a bit ya ya papaya you normal you got nothing to throw and all that but is that's just because you are in the national team you will say oh okay I'm a good player, but can you hold the ball a not can you pass a not can you dribble lah


correct correct ya that's true, ya, correct correct, ya you got to be you got to be down to earth and deserve a chance simple


that's that's rival lah want water so what to do, ya, ya correct, ya ya yea


ya, correct


ya, what, but I think uh I mean the, national team is trying their their is trying trying to help them more promise you you need to blend in more


youngster I rather see youngsters ah than the same old player year after year seriously when once your time is up ah I think is not gonna uh correct, ya standby lah ya, correct


correct, correct


is different lah want to tag things and all that this very different ya, ya correct


where did you play ah in the team, the on the defence missile striker, oh you play off run ah, and then, okay okay, I started from left wing half run then I went left mid field but then defense defense I cannot because I went for two knee operation tackles I cannot go in


correct correct now now I like to do you know one two, one two simple correct correct, correct correct correct correct, now is just as you age I mean you grow older it's just a matter of playing simple soccer


passing you sweat you have fun okay if not you dribble five six players score goal, correct correct cannot ya it's not worth it, correct gone ya correct ya


correct just just nice, correct you're right ya, ya lah correct correct, no you must you must play with guys around your age level you you cannot twenties twenties and under like cannot too much


too I tell you youngsters all cannot lah, correct correct correct correct correct, correct correct correct, and some and some of them youngsters got their own this uh type attitude like like this one cannot lose must win


then you must score goal and all that but we all just take it as a game to sweat out and have fun but when when you have the mentality like, I mean last time don't say also when I used to play for my friends' team last time when they used to arrange like hotel team, a company team !wah! the coach before the game warm up you know player running we all relaxing tying our bolster all taking easy I say I tell my friend you know when you get


serious team ah office team ah hotel team I told my friend cannot and the problem is when they are winning ah, ya, because I always tell my friend when, ya different, correct, correct correct then I told my friend if the other team is winning ah the game normal you know


but when we they are losing that's where the tackle started started coming in, correct correct, Kaki only ya someone correct correct, correct correct correct


correct correct correct, the main thing is to sweat and and to have fun ah it it is not to prove, uh it is not to prove to anybody, or you want to win or what whatever the clock cannot lah


really is cannot lah really that's why even when now also as I said as as as you grow older you must still this one take care of your body also you you you know how far you can go, if you if you cannot you can as long as you sweat a bit you sweat a bit just correct


family correct then you kena your aches your your some body ache your knee pain ankle pain all, that's why you must you must you must also take care, correct correct correct, correct correct correct


correct, correct, correct, (ppb) no you mellow down a bit lah as long as I those I mean as in those day ah


correct, correct, correct, correct


now it's now it's just to keep fit and to be healthy that's all is not in terms of winning anything to play for tournament or whatsoever lah, that's why I say just to destress our self ah sometimes whether we go we got jogging or we go gym or we play soccer just to sweat it out only that's all


it is not in terms of winning a cup ah, uh ya jogging or swimming this one, correct, correct correct, correct, correct, correct, better lah I think much more


much more better these days your time is up lah, correct, correct correct, correct, correct


there was one game I think held few years ago I think a a played, Malay team lah I think the what uncle and the nephew play for the same team lah, so playing against us lah, then uh, we scored first know so, the this uh this one nephew not this some happy lah


then the uh the uh the uncle pass the ball to the nephew I think too far then the the nephew scolding the uncle know, as in the cave ah, the uncle went to the nephew one tight slap so the uh this one the nephew also don't know what to do because, same same player all that lah so we all went up and say eh take it easy then the the uncle started scolding the the nephew then we played I think we


lost two we lost two one or one all then after the game I went up to the uncle I said eh take it easy lah he said no lah look at this fella and all that, then I say you know until that time youngster he say ya we are in the same team why you go and scold at me and go and shout at me and on top of it I am your uncle


then you wanna shout and scream at me in the field for what he went down one tight slap at the nephew lah, then the nephew quiet of course he cry ah and all that lah uh I mean but also the nephew cannot shout lah your uncle also right, so even he play the ball too high take it easy just say okay just play to the feet you don't have to play the ball too too high shout


no friendly friend that that that was a friendly game lah but, but the first time I see one team uncle the uncle the uncle and nephew fight funny lah, but the guy only went and one tight slap at the uh the nephew face one tight slap and then the this one referee, I also don't know whether to take out card or scold so the referee and say take it easy and don't fight all that


so I after the game I went up to the uncle lah I say eh take it easy know lah this fella uh sometime open his mouth ah don't know after all true lah if he's your uncle, go and show some respect lah in the field in the field you want to shout and scream for what this is not like this is some World Cup or you you


you displaying for tournament itself, actually sometime I see some of them in the game when they overdo it lah, I I in my mind I thinking uh I I in my mind I thinking I can do it also but in my mind I don't want because you there's no you sorry you can know how much your body can take know, so I say you want to go and do it you yourself go and ahead lah and then even my this


uh this one weekend futsal we might play there there is two three guys which I can't stand but we all part of the team lah, so if they are playing against me I don't mind but they are playing with me ah I can't stand lah they get the ball they run you know, and futsal you know how small or not he run run the other end no run to the other goalpost he want to try to score then cannot score


he will come down and say open up lah open up where where you people style of defense you pass me I pass you look for the opening, he get the ball because he young he's about twenty so he run you know he run know he run to the other end he try and score but when he run, uh when he run the other end then he see about three four players in front of him blocking then he turn around and tell us eh open up lah where where you


me thinking why you take the ball and run with the ball for what you take I pass you you pass me you the other guy we open up but he run you know, we I think came want we call him some Korean player just run up and down the fella got no


no ball uh no this ball sense at all lah and there there is another guy now I think they all, uh when game start from the other side he will whack you know from this side your goalpost, no no just just play for fun okay, he just whack you know


crazy, correct, correct correct, correct


correct correct true, correct, correct, correct


correct except when I come when I when I come during the this weekend I play when I get the right player in the team ah the right the right, Kaki friends you know lah then you enjoy lah when you get the wrong fella in your team, uh the fella just play his own game only that's why you lose you lose lose mate ah


, there's this guy who also book for us the S I sports club lah, and this uh this one Chinese fella I also can't stand him lah so he sometimes comes, sometimes I play against him I don't mind but play with him ah I tell you he play his own game lah


he plays own game when you passing the ball lah okay no when he gets the ball lah he he will just do his own thing, then when he lose the ball lah he tell you lah then when he lose the ball he say that eh how come you never open up, you get the ball you you you just dribble dribble dribble uh show colour so when he gets when when okay let's say I


I have the ball when he's open I'm suppose to pass him but when he get the ball he this one he will not pass, he get the ball he go and do his own thing except when he's in when I'm playing against him I don't mind, when I'm playing the same team against uh same team with him I say !alamak!, but I just come there just run


and just go and finish up the main the main thing is to sweat lah, that's the main thing ah, you you must have the right #kaki#s yeah right #kaki#s, ya right Kaki you enjoy and sometimes you joke here joke there you know then you enjoy


correct correct, my Bangla friend I enjoy correct correct, correct, enjoy lah enjoy lah, correct correct that's true lah, uh got correct uh correct, correct


correct, correct correct, correct


that's why I say when you come when when you play uh those kind of weekend soccer, you get the right #kaki#s you actually enjoy so that's the reason after the game we just go on, few drinks here and there we sit at the shop we talk we talk and joke and the it's nice to actually spend, that uh that kind of time


but the main thing you just want to sweat it out then after that call this uh what call it a day, !wow! you Kena the wrong fellas in your in uh this one your team in the end uh this one you will not enjoy at all lah, correct


actually right this uh actually I was trying to tell you this weekend, we we can have a small game right to self so uh can these guys are gonna come down, there will be two captains going to choose the team so we were just talking lah so week's !alamak!, if we Kena the same team with these with these with these two fellas ah like that gone already lah


so I'm thinking this weekend I just come in for half an hour play half and hour I sweat happy then I go and raise my hand, I say eh okay my leg I think a bit painful I go on, because if if I'm playing the same team with these guys lah, I will make I will thinking just play half an hour sweat sweat it out you feel okay


and raise your hand and say oh your leg pain you go out, cause If I play with this fella I I know I will not enjoy because uh because he gets the ball okay run with the ball, there's no passing know but when he run ah when he see !wah! two three fella in front of him, he block already right the he turn round and say eh help me lah eh your open up


you in the first place you run to the other end for what, so we all are telling you run for what, just play relax just play among ourselves tick tock tick tock tick tock that's all, so this what this two guys I think two or three guys will be, actually coming this uh this one weekend actually we all talking last week just hope