ya sure go ahead, ya so it was conceived because like we were playing basketball, and then they didn't want to like reveal who who they were gonna to pass the ball to, so they were just like oh let's give let's give you some like ambiguous name like no one heard of before, so we play against the opponents right they wouldn't know


and then they came up with Jack, so every time they are like Jack, like Jack when they pass the ball right so you wouldn't know who they are passing with, passing to sorry, ya so I thought it's it's kind of nice, it's quite funny when they when they use it


I think if you call me now I wouldn't lah because, I don't really go by that nickname anymore, takes a while for me to get accustomed to it again, ya it was


ya it was basketball, no it's just me because I don't have a English name, if I could choose my own nickname


actually I I I've no idea, (ppb) I'll just go by JJ ah, uh nicknames are too tough for me, JJ first is not, perfect at all


is it my turn, okay it's titled Hindsight, the question is, if you could turn back time, what is the one thing you would have done differently


okay why, okay so before that you were very harsh on yourself, and you were very serious about studying


I see, okay why not


what do you mean by more true in life so like less serious or less studying


okay, alright so every time you messed up you you blame it on yourself a lot is it


!wah! I bring a lot of value yo, so, actually let me think about it, I think, I think I'm a I'm a in a sense


I'm like a source of joy for, for my close friends lah, like they have seen my wild side, they have seen like, they have seen the true side of me when, I'm not so reserved lah as compared to with people that I'm not so close to, or like strangers that I met for the first time


so basically when I'm with my close friends, I'm really I really have no filter when I speak, uh I have no constraints about doing anything lah so I can act dumb I can act stupid, I can just be, like whoever I wanna be


and, that true self it's, someone that I'll always try to be around my close friends because, it gives me the freedom of, like really really doing what I want to do lah, so deep down I can I know that around them I can


I can just do whatever I want, so in that sense it's kind of funny because, what I do right, I just kind of make those like funny comment, at random times I'll be like oh what's up, I'll be like eh, as in I can't I can't say vulgarities now lah so


ya but but then basically I spout a lot of vulgarity, hokkien, English, it's all jumbled up lah and it's kind of funny, besides that I love to, I love to humor my friends as well


so ya I guess source of joy, this is funny what, I like to humor you also what, even though you're not funny wait what


kidding kidding alright your turn, alright eh you can't even answer this because it's about relationships, you need to have a history of relationship, okay move onto the next one, it's titled, pet peeves, question is


who or what, irritates you


oh ya tell me about it, okay then why were you twenty minutes late today


okay is it only the factor of being uh of thinking that you are, your time is being wasted or do you feel like, the person is not valuing


the time spent with you, if it's if it's a guy that you like


no like but you made me wait for twenty minutes today though, no I'm not, do I sound angry, I didn't know that I'm angry


deal breaker, deal maker, okay basically my partner has to be


(ppb) she has to look good, ya short and simple, okay basically what I learn in psychology is right, oh your first impressions are always formed, !huh! instantaneously by the physical qualities of a person


or in other words physical attractiveness, so in a sense, I'm just being humane lah, no wait not not humane sorry I'm just like, I'm just referring to my, my primitive side that says that oh if she looks good


I feel good when I'm around her, because it's it's a sight for sore eyes lah I I like if I like enjoy like if I enjoy looking at her then I feel happy as well what, so I think, even though looks don't last forever but, they last long they last long enough


and I have to be happy like looking at her lah I I don't want to be, the type of person to look at uh my future partner and think like oh, I could have went for someone that's more attractive, or someone that I feel that's, attractive enough, basically it doesn't have to be someone that those


very amazing because, like they said beauty is in the eye of the beholder what so it's really subjective, for those Instagram models right I don't think they are my my type lah, and they maybe pretty but I don't think they are


they are very pleasing to the eye, so I'm just looking for a girl next door that looks like that just looks, looks good effortlessly, I really appreciate that a lot


that is not part of the question, but the answer is yes but the answer is yes, no no no no the question is my my turn to ask you what okay fine fine carry on


subjective as well because, sorry what's your question again (ppb), as I was saying I think is very subjective because


like I said your first impressions are formed by, physical attractiveness in terms of like the opposite gender, if you look at it and you decide for yourself that like oh she doesn't look good, maybe if she dresses up maybe if you see her from


she may look better, but I don't think that at the end of the day she will look like super amazing, because first impressions are the hardest to change, they are very long lasting as well, so I think if my first impression of


someone that's opposite gender is is pretty poor, then I don't think it will change, drastically, in the sense that like I may I may think that next time she looks better but I won't I won't come to a conclusion that she looks amazing


(ppb) how do I find Chloe, that's moving on to the next question, wait so your your question is titled


if you knew you could not fail, what would you, accomplish, what would you try to accomplish


what's something that you always wanted to do, but is too much risks


you make a confession, oh oh okay okay, okay so, that's the problem


that's the issue right there like are you referring to, your success in, the person accepting you or are you talking about like the delivery of the message, oh okay


all the best


actually, can we skip this question it's very sensitive


save one item it's not a person right, one item, I would save my blanket, because


okay so basically my my blanket has been with me for, a good couple of years since I was a kid lah, more accurately a teenager, it's kind of grown up with me, and it's kind of been there like not I wouldn't say every step of the journey but it's been there when


when I need it lah every night accompany me, to have a good a good a good rest, is a long day after a sad day after a happy day, basically it's, is not something that I would look at everyday but it holds


it has a it has a impactful, meaning in my life ah, even though I don't bring it to halls or like, my blanket, the hall blanket is is just a random blanket I don't really care much about it


alright moving on, alright late bloomer, the question is, how would you react if a close friend expressed his or her romantic feelings for you


yeah so like if I confess to you right now, okay let's say in the event that you don't like the person


and if you like the person


you would play hard to get, explain play hard to get


but the person has already taken the first step to confess to you, so why are you still playing hard to get, I see


so you will tend to tease the person first, I see I see, alright


wait you had a confession, when you were in primary school, okay


I think, not exactly because I feel like, and because I I always want to be taller, like I always want to be a better version of myself lah in terms of many qualities but that's not one of, I wouldn't get I wouldn't really consider it as a flaw


I guess one flaw for me, I'll classify it more of, innate lah it's not really a physical quality but it's like a, inner characteristic, so basically I think, sometimes I try too hard


I don't know when to give up, and when it reaches the breaking point, where where I really have to give it up right, then it feels really bad for me because I tried so hard for it, and like I always wanna push myself and try even harder lah because I feel like


okay this is a psychological term but is actually, uh it's it's called locus of control, so basically when something bad happens right, like if you have an internal locus of control you tend to attribute it to yourself, so basically, uh something bad happens to you then you think like oh it's my fault


if you have an external locus of control, you tend to blame it on external factors such as, let's say you screwed up on a test, then you blame it on, uh the questions were too hard, the examiner set some really tricky questions, so you don't really blame it on yourself in the sense that like


oh is because I didn't study enough, I didn't think that like, I didn't think it through I didn't like really master the topic, so for me right like, when I undertake a a personal project or in a like relationships, when something goes wrong I tend to attribute it to myself first


so I'll think like it's my fault, then I really try my best to like resolve the issue, just try to make everything better lah, so I don't know when to let go I don't know when to like, stop trying, so that's the part about me, and when I really have to let go when it's beyond hope right then everything just crumbles on me


as far as possible I don't want to give up, oh right, spice of life, what do you most like to eat in the whole wide world


your mother's fried rice, really that's your, actually yeah it makes sense, actually that would make sense what, because that's the, yeah last meal really should be the best meal


the one that you like to eat the most right, beef Udon


have you tried making on your own, why, !wow! but you're a girl though, well I'm not insinuating anything but, it's common norms that


no I'm just kidding I'm just kidding, nope no as in, I was really I was really kidding but then I cook better than you though


you don't learn how to cook cup noodles you just pour hot water into it and wait, okay that's your subjective meaning of cooking cooking for me is more of using


like making a dish from basic ingredients so what you have with cup noodles is already, like food that's ready to be eaten all you have to do is pour hot water over it that isn't cooking that's, preparing a meal


yes, get good, where is my true home


so with, I guess when people talk about homes right they think of their residence, and I live in Yishun


but my home is but, sounds a little a little to cringy to say this but like, ya its actually, in the hearts of my family, so I don't really see my house as my home but like, bonds we share


bonds that I share with my family member especially my brother, because I'm, like growing up I'm the closest to my brother and I wasn't really close to my parents, ya he really took good care of me, protected me when, when I was being abused lah


so he it was a very good role model for me and I believe that like, he helped shape the person I am today, so I'm very thankful to him, I feel like, home is where, home is where my brother is


home is where my family, the part to to always try hard, even though, it may backfire on me but I love it lah


because like, he loves to, to challenge himself, he loves to take, like take up like tasking steps, it's a little there's there's a little <unk> at first sight lah but, can be done


and he haven't give up lah, I'm very proud of him for that, kind of internalized it, make it my own attribute as well


ah okay this is about children, okay never mind okay , think of a, okay let's say you have a child right now, and what would be your child's name, what would you name your child, okay one girl one guy


Victoria, Victoria Secret, Victoria's secrets, no no no


okay, but one expect of it is that it's your child's name it's not your name


so what if the child feels much pressure from it, when you reveal the true intention, of the name itself, to to to always win, I mean victory is winning


you don't derive, strength from victory, you need to have strength to win, you don't win to have strength


okay, and what what do you need to have before you can, triumph over yourself, you have strength, so just call your daughter strength okay moving on you boy's name


no one, I only want one, okay, cheaper, three son


so it's basically all like Christian names, Elliot is a christian name, but uh I think Elliot appears, the Bible as well no


alright good to know


that's that's really easy lah basically a perfect date for me, it's, it's about, food hunting, like trying out different food places new food places, yes because I'm a foodie I love to eat


so, eating is very important for me especially like, nice great tasting food, so if that, if my my date has the same interests in that aspect right I would love it a lot, so just


then that would be not that would not be the perfect date lah, you asked me for my perfect date what, I mean I can go on a date with myself lah so


archetypes, oh this this is I think this this would be your favorite question, by far, ah the question is which literature character do you most identify with


ya but you do it what, I would I would I have general knowledge please, you know what's general knowledge


a philosopher is a literature character also what, then what's your literature background, oh okay I didn't know its fictional


it's Greek what, it was in a literature book, Zeus Poseidon


okay then answer on your own


yes, in Harry-Potter or what, okay, why Hermione


cause she's Chio


so so you're strong competent and have good friends, alright good job


I'm a high sensation seeker I need a lot of this, peaks in a sense and all of this like very stimulating stimulus, yeah like maybe like bungee jumping stuff like that, and I love amusement parks because it gives me it gives me a lot of thrill lah a lot of joy


but basically I have a fear of height very very strong fear of heights but I don't miss out on, any of the, most like, most daunting rides, for example like USS I've tried everything


during the Prudential one do you remember the Prudential at the Marina-Bay, there's the three sixty one I tried it as well, I'm a big baller yo, yeah I am a big baller, so so basically my motto is like, just do it because


when I think that right, if I didn't try it I would definitely regret it, even if I think back like right now like five years later or twenty years down the road, like I would still remember that I didn't do it, I didn't try it, so in a sense it's like


it's a wasted opportunity lah because, opportunities don't come knocking on your door twice, for a lot of, it's either you take it or you don't you just like how like you, ya the rice is right in front of you then the queue's empty but then you decide that I want to come back another day


but then another day it won't be there anymore, sorry ah you just really have to, take the plunge be, be spontaneous about it and just tell yourself let's go for it just do it


K basically for me I'm not I'm not very scared of this kind of stuff, too, while you guys will like, pissing your pants I'm just like I'm just laughing at you all lah, ya it's it's quite amusing, it scares you a little bit but not as much as you guys


because I know it's all fake, and like I'm been through quite a few of those stuff before, like those kind of scary stuff it's always the same, like blueprint eh, just pops out of nowhere or just grabs you out of nowhere or loud noises out of nowhere, so whenever I go for this kind of stuff like


subconsciously, I am already preparing myself to face this kind of stimulus already, so in a sense you can say that I am prepared for it, ya, in a sense yes, I know what's coming lah even though I don't know when it's coming


because you're, you're just scaredy cat I guess, it's your turn that means I read, K it's titled Moral of the Story


the question being, describe one important life lesson you have learned from the books you have read


street car


why, it's a part that will hurt them but in a sense that's their weakness so by doing it it will be, strengthening them, making them, ready for their next life someone else will do it even worse to them


have you thought about it that way


that's nice to do


a favourite place I've been to, oh I've been to Everland in Korea, so while the rides there was, unlike any other, so how it begins is right you sit


big balls, yeah so I went I went ahead with my friend like I was just like bro let's go for the first or second row, the first was already taken so you know how like, you have to wait for this for this


for the rows one so there were a lot of people waiting for the first row, then we were like uh let's go together as a group of friends lah let's not separate, so we decided to, I decided that [orh] second row will suffice, so we were waiting for our turn right and we sat on it


and the we we we were given green light to go so we went, and so basically it just creeps us along, ya they are slow very very slowly, very very slowly, and then right beside right you can see what's going on you can see the path that you're going to take, they goes it takes the right turn


just plunges, it's straight plunge, like almost like a a just a downward, a almost downward plunge, ya it was very exciting, then before that I was telling like my my friend lah I was like bro


big balls lah we let go of our hands, let's just do it and he was like you sure or not and I was like yeah you game I game, he was like okay let's do it we got this, so I went down and I was just like, hands up high, big balls


ya that's that's, that's it, do you like guys with big balls, this question is


tingling in your toes, question being, how do you know that you truly love your partner


here okay I elaborate on it, oh okay


will you give an example


okay, I see, so, if it's your boyfriend you will do it for your boyfriend


I think, I think project work stresses me out a lot, because, I feel like, due to the different dynamics of the group members, there's bound to be like conflicts


disagreements, but because you, most of us wanna conform to, the groups views lah so you won't really like, like speak up or voice out your opinion, even though you may think that it's not the best


uh thesis no it's not the best like summary of of everything, I never say presentation wise lah or content wise, so maybe you have a better idea you have a good idea but I feel like, for me I'm able to voice it out lah, not all the time, but I feel like, if I have members they are more introverted


they will keep to themselves, so in a sense it's not good for, our project what, because we want all the best ideas, then we want to develop it the best way, so that's the flaw about, group projects, especially when, it's a group formed out of nowhere like you have no


uh like relationship with anyone in the group, so everyone just wants to, form like, this group identity that is like in common, their their views their opinions, so when I say something everyone will be like okay okay


ya generally project just stresses me out even you have a close group of friends doing a project together right, your disagreements or your conflicts, between the boundaries of the project itself may be extendable, to your own personal relationship lah, so you may realise that oh that is actually this person's


like point of view is not, like it's it's not even like good at all, so you may think of it as like, this is kind of like his his real life point of view as well, so it may it may just subconsciously disagree with it, and in a sense like


okay lah just fall apart lah gradually, because how close friends form is you have to have, like common basis what, common interest like, common practices, so group projects are


destresses me, makes me happy, oh ya so what destresses me is going to the gym, cause gym it's like, because I used to I used to, have the fear of going to gyms


because I was really small really like weak, then I always want a partner to go to the gym with, like nowadays recently, uh I guess I'm I'm very used to gymming alone, like just exercising working out alone at gym


I feel like it's a, it's a good way for me destress and just to escape, it's just as a temporary escape, from everything in life, get some game


destress time, okay I don't know how to read this word at all but the question is, is there someone at this table you would like to know better wait what


okay do you want to know me better, okay what interests you about me


naturally considerate, how do you define considerate


what do what do you mean by that so I'm a sexist


thank you, I agree as well, because I know girls are, it's it's it's not a, a sexist statement but I feel like girls, are a little bit more, softer, a bit more sensitive


which is, I wouldn't say it's a bad thing, because, they can pick up emotions of other people very quickly what they know like what's, what to say and what not to say at different situations, which I feel like a lot of people lack, the knowledge of, so I I feel like sensitivity in certain aspects


play to your advantage which, uh it's kind of like innate in girls lah, so so I appreciate that, so I feel like , I'm with girls right I just try to, I wouldn't say pamper them I will just try to look out for them more


because I know like when you make jokes, among guys right we don't really take it to heart, but if you make jokes about this particular girl like, it may feel like you just targeting her, just making her like putting her on the spot making her feel bad, so I do these kind of stuff lah because


I just have a lot of experience [loh], and big balls, ya basically


like who, you don't think <unk> will look out for anybody


ya he does he carries it very well


as an extrovert he won't like it, so you think he's a, I see, correct, I shall not speak on that


okay, your team is, no wait your your title it's sink, beneath the waves, describe the saddest moment of your life


there's bound to be moments when you're very sad right


alright


you and who, what's your best friend's name, it wasn't your roomie right, was it Des


so it happens in primary school is it, or JC, you don't know, oh oh okay


so so your best friend and the guy got together, but did you tell your best friend that you will like the guy


that's kind of sad, but , okay you will find a better guy


I guess I had it, I had it uh two nights ago [loh], with the pageant people, we were talking about, (ppc) how I broke up


mutant power, if you could wake up tomorrow morning with a special ability, what, would you desire to have


wait but special ability you know, you consider as a special ability because you can train that what that's that's a that's a that's a skill you can hone, but let's say like I wanna have, the ability to control fire you can't you can't train that what you can't learn that


give me a better answer, okay okay, it is it is I feel it's very special


!wow!, worst day I have been on, actually I don't remember lah I don't really go on dates so, sorry please move on to the next question, (ppb) I can't remember the last date I was on


ya but I can't remember, ya I tend to repress bad memories


what would I change ah, actually I guess I would quit school lah one more year to if I had one more year left I wouldn't I wouldn't be studying, (ppb) just be travelling around the world just trying every Theme Park there is


meeting new people like trying new food, experiencing different cultures, ya just to just to see the world for, for for a last time, before I go


what would you do if you won ten million dollars tomorrow


to do what, okay


wait you wouldn't spend on yourself, ya <unk> your kids ah


to be honest I can talk to anyone so, I guess my closer friends lah really one that's closer to me, this is just a conversation what it's not like really like insightful


like talking, like a discussion so like just talking it's okay what, so really anyone's fine, describe the most embarrassing moments of your life


it's when you are late for twenty minutes is it


confess to a guy but the guy rejected you, you may confess now, wait what, the answer is no, sorry I'm just kidding I'm just kidding I'm just kidding, I'm just kidding (ppb)


when Pearlie took the video of you dancing it was embarrassing right, I think it was pretty embarrassing, no it was really (ppb) embarrassing, you look a little terrible


you looked like you couldn't dance, it looked like I could dance better


is okay what is just pulling on on a shirt what, what's wrong is not like you you were holding my hands, really meh


no lah because because I was concentrating on the movie, ya so I was just like go go <unk> instead let me watch my movie but ya, how well


cook or bake, I can't bake at all like I have no knowledge of baking, we're cooking like because, I I guess I can cook relatively okay, because my dad knows how to cook lah basically is


he cooks every dinner for us, when we were younger, so most of the time I will help him like, chop out, some vegetables prepare the ingredients


ya basically I would I would stand beside him and just ask him like, uh hey what's this what's this ingredient like how do I do this like what is this what is the method of cooking, so really is like steaming, frying or just like, you know stir frying


basically the basics lah, I will ask him how he does it, and he will explain to it explain it to me very patiently, so while he does it right he actually encourages me to try it out on my own, so he'll be like here take it, like try doing on your own


I'll take it I'll stir fry a little bit, then I'll be like !wow! it's actually pretty fun, honestly I wouldn't because I don't have a lot of, opportunities to cook


ya also because I'm too busy with the hall to do so, like it really takes up a lot of time, because of the washing as well, I mean I enjoy cooking but I wouldn't say I'm good at it, he's ashamed because like


algorithm, would you sign up, with a dating agency wait, I think you would no lah (ppb), would you would you I'm kidding I don't know


K that's the point of dating what that's happens when you date a person


okay so, okay but how how, dating agencies work right is basically like, it conforms a lot to working adults, like people who work and then is like very hard for them to go out and and, interact with other people, other than


then is very viable to turn to a, a dating agency, where you are able to find someone that, matches your interest, and matches like uh, and has attributes that you are like looking out for


so, in that case let's say you are working, and then like there's there's no one that you are actually like, think, is suitable for you to be your partner, would you turn to, a dating agency


okay, alright, but you can know someone from the agency, oh wait through the agency and then become good friends what


so would you say you're you're a genuine person


actually I don't really want to think about these question so, I miss


doing things without facing the consequences, so basically like, when I was a kid in primary school right I could just skip, doing homework, and then like basically what what we will get is just a scolding from my teachers not my parents


like I wouldn't have to face like uh having bad results, having I wouldn't face the consequences the dire consequences of bad results, so I could just run away from it, like I was just like do whatever I want, ya but right now I can't do that lah


so it sucks lah, uh I'm just I just wanna I'm just curious to see


no I'm not, no I'm I was waiting what I was waiting waiting waiting you like (ugh), you're the one who initiated, did you enjoy doing chores


which is your most and least favourite chore, no you don't, really meh, okay, then can you vacuum our room, but you love chores what, but you love chores


then can help us out what, alright then


brush teeth, so halfway while revising for work, oh and take a break, that's a very weird habit of yours


so you just like is not just maintaining cleanliness of of your surroundings it's, your own personal hygiene as well, oh you're a weird child


put some oil on what your your hair, what does that do, and feel the smoothness


no it's not smooth at all, good try, valiant effort but is not smooth, but doesn't doesn't seem to be smooth though


it's suppose to be long lasting right, if he only last for, for a few minutes then what's the point


yeah but I didn't perm my hair, so it it didn't get like, rough and and crumbly what, the price of beauty


the craziest thing I've ever done is, yeah is related to theme parks also it's just really trying that, that three sixty one, like I really didn't have it in me but then like I have no reason not to


(ppb) because the queue was was empty, like the price was reasonable like it was like sixteen dollars only, yeah but I didn't do that, you know when you flip over right then you'll be on top what, when you on top they make you stay there for like a good two minutes, I didn't know that were that was the case


so I went for it I I was there for two minutes I was just like shaking, I was shaking so hard, but it was still worth every every, every second, every every dollar it was worth it


as in like how how it work for me is right I was I was as scared as you as well, like you have to start doing it like not not that one lah not that specific ride for your first, dangerous ride but you just have to go, try it once like just one of the rides that


scary, not super scary, you try it you enjoy it, then that's when you get accustomed to it, you cried at the mummy alright


I was enjoying myself I was just like, I was like yes yes yes let's go, but you cried, you were a baby


bucket list what's top three on your bucket list


that's one two three right, play the musical, what do you mean play your musical, oh, QP were was looking for, candidates what why didn't you interview for it


but you can't you can't start from there what you have to go through the the smaller ones what, then QP was was giving you the chance to what


eh you know Elliot right, he's very into, ya he is very into it, K you can ask him, I can ask him for you lah


get a boyfriend (ppb), so what is it


you make it sound like you've never done something crazy in your life, is that true, not even once


there's a risk of dying every in everything you do, but why is it that you do not wish to take risk


was it a habit that was inculcated into you since you were a kid, so now is like the fear of failure


but what could go wrong though like, I don't know what's one scenario where where you have decided to to not do it


oh, but what could go wrong though, what could go wrong, think about it


that's a that's the thrill of it, but you actually hundred percent safe, I mean, they need to ensure that you are you are you are hundred percent, that's why they have, height limits, the heigh limits they have


periodic checks on the equipment as well, to make sure it's hundred percent safe, if not they they can't operate, they just like the same, as, an airplane lah, like you need to make sure it's safe before it flies off what


but we can't guarantee that whatever happens externally will, will make you safe what, like such as like, thunder strikes and stuff like that, but in a rollercoaster there's there are less of these external factors


so it's more internal fear, because it just looks dangerous right


what if it wasn't as what, RIGHT, wrong about


ya that's the fear of failure, okay okay, cool cool cool cool cool


family, I enjoy, when I was a kid I really used to enjoy, going to the beaches, like because, and we'll play with uh we'll play in the sand we'll play with, we we will have some ball games, and we will like


just, chill by, Chill by the Sea, just enjoying the sea breeze, like enjoying the scenery, then basically my brother and I we go out and like hunt for crabs, ya just to catch them just to play with them a little bit


ya it's it's really, it was really good part of my childhood lah, ya that's what that's what I really miss about it, even though like nowadays we don't we don't even do that anymore, ever since secondary school started


now everyone's very busy my brother's interning, yeah and I stay in hall, no no


how am I rushing through the cards I'm not, thick as thieves, name one of your closest friends, how is he or she special to you


but your Ruby is not a best friend, when I ask you you said you she wasn't, okay, so how is your Ruby special to you


that's very mature of you, I appreciate a good listener


so if your Ruby was a guy will you date him, cause Ruby doesn't look great enough, no one I feel like is it is a reason, then why would you not date


a male version of your roomie


this one your sister, eh no wait <unk> like what oh okay


then what do you see them as, a sister see see the guy as a sister


loyalty


loyalty, in relationships as well, like we can like we can just stray, fall apart we can quarrel we can fight, but at the end of the day we must patch up because like


the friendship is obviously worth more than like, some small bicker lah, like just a day's fight, ya we can disagree on stuff but we know that like it's not worth like, discarding our friendship for it, ya and you have need you need that level of trust that level of loyalty to each other to be able to do that


so loyalty it's very important, ya if you backstab me as a friend right, like I I will not only like, end the friendship, like I will remember it for life, I won't end your life


I'll be thankful that you did it to me because I don't need a friend, but I'll remember it for life, why you rushing through


but you're the one that reach for it, no you're the one that reach for it all the time, that doesn't even make sense


you think about it I'm chilling on my own I'm looking at you then you are the one that reach for the card first even though it's not even your your turn, to speak, I listen what I how am I not listening


dude that's how I listen, that's how I listen, oh you like body language it's okay I'll face you, I'll face you, okay so, make haste, what are you procrastinating about right now


so what career do you want, no I just ask you what is it


so so you did knowledge of policies, in a sense, so that's like what PPGA already what, oh like different measures and stuff lah


(ppb) that sounds like a a soci mod to me


doesn't sound like something a philosopher would be doing


it is, so philosophy, is it scientific, but is


is it actually scientific, okay, but it's not okay how do you conduct these experiments


and what do they do, oh okay so it so you study responses to that those kind of questions


and you justify it as a characteristic of the person, because, I give you a response I choose let's say it's the the that question lah I choose A over B option A


did it kind of like tells you what kind of a person I am what doesn't it, if not what are you what are you trying to find out then


yeah but it's your idea what, you conceive the idea what based on, who you are as a person what, it's your stand what correct


I see what if it's a what, also the question isn't a moral question is it, I was thinking is those questions that I ask you like if you cook, if you could pull the lever that says three people


okay but, you think about it if I choose, okay let's say the question is if I pull a lever I can save three people, then the the train will crash into another person, then I pull it, so, that that that speaks


about how what what kind of person I am what right I would choose the greater good over a single person, so, ya that that's the characteristic of myself what


so yeah you're you're trying to find solutions you're not trying to figure out, uh you're not trying to figure out what kind of person


I wasn't talking about judging others what I was talking about, how did I how their choices reflect them


her analysis, this is objective based okay, alright moving on alright moving on


I guess, I'm willing to learn like musical instrument, ya because I'm always interested in it since young, though I was kind of deprived of the chance to lah, because, my parents didn't really see the need to, I I wanted to learn the violin


ya but my parents didn't see a need, it's to save costs also save time, just to focus on studies and stuff like that, so ya, oh violin just seemed pretty cool at that time, I was just like , pretty cool stuff


ya and then, I learned a bit of the guitar last time, so I guess, improving on my musical talent


and also I have been quite, but do you know a musical instrument, alright uh moving on (ppb)


page turner, what is the most inspiring book you've ever read, !wow! all the questions seem to deviate towards, toward towards what you have been through, I don't really read books lah so


no but you can tell me about the book what it's like you giving me a synopsis of it, and like saying like telling me why it's, inspires, I don't have to know the book right


the devil and what


what's his title, oh no you forgot, remains of today, okay tell me about it


Batman is all butler what


so you felt bad is it or


it sounds a bit sad when you when you say that say it when you say it like that, it is very, yup I agree, I think literature is very interesting, especially the


no I do not, because I think it's too time-consuming, oh like what, ya you can talk to Junyi all day about it


no lah I I don't think it's a very I don't think, when I'm asked this question I will think of physical quality is, ya I, think of more


what's the question again, I need to i need to (ppb), trait that I like most about myself is, being able to


to give myself up for the greater good (ppb), so can I say we have like, disputes and, as a as a as a clique ah you know or within the clique, and like I wouldn't want to like, make it any make it any worse lah I'll try my best to


mitigate the problems you know like, just, just, play a role of a peacemaker, ya because I don't want to see like people falling apart lah, feels kind of sad when it happens so if I can, chip in to help to prevent it from happening right then all the better


okay, would you would you say that you're a short tempered person or


so besides your PW period was there another, point of time in life that you've had that, that moment, so why do you cry do you when you're angry


so you you release it in the form of crying, you guess people give in to you because you're crying not because you made a valid point


how do I wanna be remembered I wanna be remembered as the guy that, was happy all the time, like brought joy to people's lives, ya try it just, remembered as the guy that tried his hardest


to make things right, honestly I don't lah, like , growing up I have this tendency to to not really reveal, my vulnerable side, because


the thing is like, growing up right I've always been teased for who I am, like I was very like small sized very skinny, uh so I was made fun of


no I don't, like these kinds of harmless comments I uh, so I was very sensitive to these kind of comments cause I was just a kid what, then my friends were just throwing them and like hurling them in my face


then it it really meant a lot, ya so they kind of struck me on a very deep level, so I don't I don't tend to, reveal my vulnerable side, so that other people won't use it against me ah, unless


unless you are like super close to me, ya I I know that you won't use it against me, next time


I would say, yes and no yes in the sense that like if you want to build a very, deep level of trust, because, the basic of level of trust you can just achieve it by revealing like, just telling people about yourself, like what do you as a person like what have you done like your experiences


that's what I feel lah for for basic level of trust, but for deep level of trust when you know like, oh you can count on this person, to be there for you when you need him or when you are in like times of trouble, that's when like you have to reveal who you are as a person


so I think it's very important when, you want to get someone to trust you on that kind of level


influencer which of these symbols best describe you, minus sign plus sign multiplication division


you know what it always means right, I mean you can interpret it on your own lah, just explain it, okay


then you say minus, but it's not in the bad sense that like you undervalue it, but just that like minusing all the


ya but I may not end up as a, psychologist lah, uh I more inclined on the path of clinical psychologist lah but like, I need to further my studies, for two more years, is two more years too long


ya I like it but I said, exams happen, to make you dislike it, that, violence doesn't solve anything


I would elaborate on this but uh, it's like it's it's kind of a controversial topic


to have and to hold how important is marriage to you, ya I didn't think about it no, how important is marriage to you so first you think about what marriage means to you


and then thinking about what marriage does for you, marriage first and then like how important it is, you can you can step in the shoes


you can step in the shoes of your mom also what, that's not true I have a very important message to reply


okay


so is, its kind of like trusting the person to have your back when you need it lah, just to be there for you, someone that's always going to run to you when you in trouble


protection in what sense like, you feel secured or, like physical protection, for example


but why is it you can't get out of these situations on your own


competent in the sense, is able to bring a lot of, money into the house, but may not be enough what


as in, situational but like it depends on, what you need the money for lah


ya I didn't say the girl can't what


oh that's kind of sad, I mean, make it sound like marriage is a is a is a phase you know it's not like a, like a experience, you the way you you make it sound like is like oh I'm I it's it's like a thing to do because it's part of life


it's not a thing to do because like I love this person a lot, maybe because like, uh currently you are not in a relationship, but how it should be is because like, as in okay I'm not trying to define how it should be but how you should feel it


in a better way is at like, ya to in a sense that like to, marriage to me is about finding a someone that enjoys food as much as I do


that is, that is morally wrong, and I don't think is possible so, ya but, I want to have my own family


I can't make human pigs my children, like that ah just about food, marriage is all about food, cause I don't love my friends on that level


ya but I can't make babies with my friends what, ya but friends with benefits are not to, not to not to curate babies with


they are to satisfy your primitive desires, yes, we can survive without sex by the way, ya sex is a want


ya you know about Maslow's hierarchy, ya but under that that hierarchy of needs right sex is not included, no is physiological needs


safety, love esteem self-actualization, belonging is under love


love is more like affection, like connections, sex is purely, I would say I wouldn't say purely a a physical thing it has a lot of mental processes, ya a happening all of chemicals in your brains, (ppb) just interacting with each other but


sex is not necessary we can live without sex, but you can't live without, water you can't live without warmth you can't live without


it may suck lah but


you're doing it what, yes I saw, cause your boys got, got skills free to


all ready to meet someone through dating agency, oh-my-god then find myself one, no i'm just playing i'm just playing but like, I guess I relate to you, in a sense I like


the idea to to find a potential partner is not to is not really like to make friends first, I feel like I don't really want to start off, things like that, see i was listening


no (ppb) K let me let me just, why are you looking for a partner, are you looking for a partner, don't like


okay you wouldn't say that you are desperately looking for a partner but like you are looking for, you are looking out for someone right to come along, so why, uh the question is why, is not yes or no is why


k fall fall very quickly in the sense that like fall in love is it


yeah it's basically a part of you, yeah you see you you through this conversation, (ppb) you realise that it's a fear of failure, that's that's your


self-realisation, what what talk about what, what else were you gonna say


your hormones are raging, are holding someone else someone else's hands


!woah! so so is an experiment for you


like like why is love so, so valued upon right like you want to feel it for yourself, you want ya should find out for yourself, I think Jun-Yi is a good start, Jun-Yi is a man with, with with good qualities is high calibre person


because he's single as well, I do I follow my close single friends as well, got this guy called Daniel in business, so basically, because you you haven't seen Daniel before


he's he's not in the same hall he doesn't stay in hall, ya so is quite weird to tell you someone that you don't, uh just to just to spring it out, so ya but I think Jun-Yi is a very nice guy, ya but doesn't mean like he's he (ppb) matches you lah so


so what what would you say is the most important quality, in a potential partner, physical attractiveness


why, why broad back, why single eyelid, I thought I thought double eyelid is nicer, I always want double eh


no I have I have I am single here, I'm single here I'm double here, so I have both, I think double is nicer though


how is that related to single eyelid or wide backs or, oh is the okay okay, oh alright, Jun-Yi'S back is pretty wide by the way, just saying, just saying just saying


I see it's not really about masculinity but you can is, it is co-related I guess you can link it lah definitely, but the thing is like for guys, like who actually went through army, with the mindset to, to to to experience and learn from it


like we learn that like, sometimes, uh we have to suck it up, the situation we're in right doesn't allow us to do something different, uh it's it's actually like a phenomenon, psychology as well it's it's called


cognitive dissonance, so it's basically when, your attitude and your behaviour, uh in conflict, so, our attitude when we're getting, like destroyed in army is, I hate this place I wanna get out, but then what we're doing is we're still doing the punishments


we're still doing what has to be done, like our workload lah, the thing is we can't change our our, our tenure in army because two years is set already, so what we do is we change our attitude, so we change our attitude in a sense like oh it's okay like


this is what has to be done this is army, I have to go through it, after I go through it I will become a better person I will be more disciplined, I'll be able to take whatever comes my way, that way your behaviour and your, attitude, are in sync, there's no dissonance


so you're not in conflict with your own self, that's the that's the basis, so after that right we translate that into real life [loh], after army then we just think that like, our problems, we should be able to solve them by ourselves first and foremost


for us leaders in the army right like we need to be able to think on the spot, able to like come up with solutions, and then whenever our men, like our, the group of people we lead, they mess up right it's not their fault


it's our fault it's definitely our fault that's the way we're trained, to think, so in a sense, we really know how to deal with need to learn how to deal with shit lah, yeah and in army we cannot ah openly express


our our our (ppb), unhappiness also that's something that doesn't happen lah, that's something that can't happen, that's when you show when you show it, then your man will think like [orh], this person is not ready he doesn't have the emotional capabilities, first and foremost


so ya, so that's really lessons that we learn in army, I wouldn't say it's bad I would say it's useful, but, the way you use let's say you are looking for a partner that is able to, very openly and very readily express their emotions


then maybe like guys that, are very rooted in their beliefs and rooted from their trainings in army right, may not be able to live up to that standard, so it's something that that is trained also lah I would say, like


as human beings I think, like we all need to open up sometimes to people that we can trust, so, for for Jun-Yi also lah (ppb) like


all of us we have to, the guys in our unit we have to suck a lot of suck it up a lot, figures, we were in the middle what, like we were stuck between the higher ups and our men (ppb) we just had to do what's best for for them, ya and just suck it up for the higher ups


so ya lor that's that's in a sense like working as well, so if we can't change our attitude then we we can't change, our behaviour which is to do good, and to act good in army then we have to change our attitude what


you can't always be in conflict it it doesn't help you at all, so we change our attitude we we change it to just suck it up, cause we are all doing it together, there's no point if someone is just like, it's better if all of us just like do it together do it do it well


then none of us will get into trouble that kind of mentality, then your behaviour will also translate [loh], that's why you see like there's a lot of guys that like that don't really like to talk about stuffs


not because they don't want to but also, they don't know how, I think being able to open up to people it's a skill as well, ya it's not it's not, cause first of all it's ya, cause, in army we don't have we don't have time


but we don't have like the capabilities to like have this kind of, like the army doesn't really encourage, this kind of talks, it's really maybe between like small breaks stuffs like that that you can talk to your friends about it your close friends, so I guess that's one one part which


it's quite lacking lah, during our two years in army, so you girls are very fortunate that, you have not been through army


but you said ah that's what you said about Jun-Yi what


so do you like, do you have a good impression of him


I won't tell him what, I'm not a snitch, right you can trust me


I am who I am because of my experiences, people who are late, for, more than ten minute, more than fifteen minutes


who told me that day, ya but I wasn't late for like what twenty minutes (ppb), we didn't have anything to do


ya you broke you broke my trust, now I have a bad impression of you I cannot trust you also


honestly I don't know sia I just recall, give me some cool English name, because I always wanted a English name ah even now I still do, aye it wasn't a name that I like that's why I didn't that's why I didn't remember it


why, you gave me a name but then like, I remember JJ first lah but I only remember the English name, ya but don't want to look like a Alexander


I don't want to be an Alexander, no (ppb), I wanna be, I wanna be a red herring


I don't know, I thought of Aloysius ah, but like nah, but I don't think Aloysius <unk> (ppb)


ya I don't know lah I don't know how to give childrens, Elizabeth is too common


I heard before lah I think maybe like, Florence is nice name, Florence


Alexander, (ppb) no no hell no, that's a no from me guy's name I think maybe like, there's no English name that starts with J what who, Joshua oh Joshua is too common


Jezebel, I don't know, Jamaica, I don't know lah I wouldn't have


I think Jensen is not bad, James uh not so much, it's my turn


if Chloe confess to me, I will just straight up tell her that it's a no from me uh, because, like I don't I don't really like to, okay let's say you confess to me right I don't want to lead you on, ya if I don't like you then it it's plain and simple lah like maybe next time I'll like you but I will make it known to you


I don't want to make it seem like oh maybe I like you, then you just hold on to your feelings for me, uh no ah I'm not that type of person, I think, I think


I think she's not very pretty, I think she's okay but I think what makes her pretty is her, ya her friendliness ah, like because she's friendly then I guess she's pretty, ya but I I'm talking about the inner side it's not the the the outer side


would you say that Jun-Yi is good looking, oh you always wanted to be in pageant


(ppb) your deep dark secret, oh no lah


you you would have been my partner


it's okay lah pageant is nothing one lah, just for fun one, !aiya! small thing small thing (ppb)


how well can you cook or bake no wait i know


when did you last cry


I told you I as in you can infer what, it's very important, how do you know when to let go of someone, yeah I I don't know


oh wait but that question is, yeah what do you what do you hear, uh I I [orh] I was thinking in the context of you're you're already in a relationship


or in a friendship already but okay okay carry on, I know I know what you're you're talking about, so you you make sure he likes you back lah then you go and drop hints is it


so if he don't like you then you won't drop hints, no you see the thing about, liking, that's the first stage what after that you need to chase the person what, yeah that's that's bad


that's that's bad, that that's a very old and outdated mentality, so you think about it ah you really like this person a lot, then he, okay okay wait you listen first you like this person a lot, then he has at like a lot of qualities that you look out for


then you are able to talk to him he is able to talk to you on a deep level as well, and able to open up to each other, then you feel like oh he's he's a he's the person I really like, enjoy being with then like, I wish he was my boyfriend, then he single also, then like you know other girls are chasing him


but then like, that's the part what like you have to make it known that like you are interested in him, like to to really kind of chase after him


ya but you don't just like Ben wanna be together together no lah there has to be a bit of the chasing what right, but what if the guy the guy is just like very neutral


so you must have a person that likes you, the question was was based on you what, you you making a confession, no now you talking about the confession thing what


ya ya ya


I see I see, ya ya ya


so do you think Jun-Yi likes you back, but do you think Jun-Yi likes you back, so you like Jun-Yi, so you like Jun-Yi ah


why, why why do you not like Jun-Yi, why is a question what you know


so you know (ppb), so you don't know if you like Jun-Yi or not


why, so you you scared Jun-Yi will reject you ah, no just say yes or no only what


I mean when you say don't tell you means, I would eat (ppb) a huge ass like twenty dollars plate of Hokkien-Mee, and I will eat it with my brother


as in you can't tell how Jun-Yi is feeling is it


you when you don't want to tell me answers, I would start a business


any business, can't fail what, the time is running out


so is it Jun-Yi or not, ya eh you answer me first lah, you have to ask me first then he has to answer my question first cause I ask him, but I have to ask you first cause I ask you first


then you ask me what what meal I wanted to have what so is my turn to ask you what, do you remember you ask me what meal I wanted to have at home, I didn't ask you what why did I ask you, after that I ask you how is it Jun-Yi, you have to answer me what then I'm not answering you also


we're supposed to be talking though


but Jun-Yi is cute what, is Jun-Yi cute, who is your hero how does he or she inspire you


then like what


where was that Wanton-Mee how far was it, he went to Redhill to buy it for you, wait how far is Redhill, ya but twenty twenty minutes there twenty minutes back buying time fifteen minutes


!wah! you are spoilt leh, no lah you are spoilt with love from your dad which is nice, that's what that's what I would do for for my daughter as well


okay, did you say that, yes, uh <unk> do you have a dustbin


uh do you have, what's on your wine list, mine is rose and


!ooh! okay I don't have, uh now how many bottles do you have beside the wine list


or your special order list, anything else beside, then in front, do you see a seesaw


oh you are finding a seesaw, which is a, she's a what, oh your seat is white


oh I thought of something okay, then what else uh


K, then uh, there is a chair, oh I don't have the sign


this old couple then there's a lady, oh there's a lady who is, where is the magazine, and then the guy is an old guy, and then there is there is a radio beside


ya, mine has red socks, ya, then after that behind the Joe's food shack


do you see a sign, the locker shelf, ya I got local oh


local shellfish, uh there are two signs


Paul and Joe's Diving School and an arrow


oh okay, uh white hat, ya


there's a shark, then, there are some birds and then there's, oh our birds are doing different thing, no their position is different is it, ya I think so


ya it's different it's different


oh ya ya ya same I thought they were leaves, oh ya same okay, four five


I got eight, but the things, but but the things that you, things yeah okay okay, there's seventeen right, oh


oh uh for mine like one, the guy one leg he got


lady she's wearing blue, that guy is wearing green, ya I think it's the same red red white red white then


ya umbrella is the same


uh nine, uh the board


green uh, the seesaw is there anything


thank you


oh so I read to you, no you should read, so sad only one person


I think for my last meal I will eat, mother's fried rice, and salmon and then I will eat it with


eat it with my brother, louder okay, err yeah I will eat it with my brother


cause I can't choose between, one of them between two of them so, I will eat with my brother, describe my last meal, because I like the taste of fried rice and no it has to be fried rice and salmon


cause right the fried rice is slightly sweet then the salmon is salty so it's like, but then the fried rice is, there's it's also slightly salty so it goes together very well, no, if you get it from like those


you know the Kopitiam (ppb) yeah, okay, wait I can shift this up right


cause it's healthy it's healthy option, who would do that would you do that, legit


I guess it was just the taste


I read I read, what nicknames do you go by which is your favourite


but Jack, hey Jack okay, and I give it on you


so if I called you Jack would you respond, wait is not like wasn't because of the basketball that's why I give you Jack all because


so is from basketball, then did they give like the other players like english name also, okay but if you could choose your own name


no, JJ first was perfect, no okay, then


because like uh I had an idea of like, uh what a JC student should, be so I was doing my best to


yeah but I think I looking back I don't think there's a way to live life lor, cause I think, cause you can afford to be a lot more chill in life, and then I also think


what value do you bring to other people's life


where to humor your friends, oh excuse me


oh-my-god so sad, oh-my-gosh


who or what ah, oh I cannot stand it when I have to wait for, but always (ppc) everyone ends up waiting for me, yeah I I I just find it


eh wait no when I have to wait for people I'm just like, right, I just get very angry cause I feel like they're wasting my time, yeah I know that's why that's why I say like, I I kind of like unknowingly make people wait


if it's like somebody I don't really care about then, I'll just, then I'll actually get irritated that you're late lah


I I think there was like only once that I was like fifteen minutes early then it's like still had to wait, for half an hour, oh no it's, are you angry


really, oh no, what is a deal maker in your search for a, deal maker


okay


you're just being human, you're just being a guy


okay, no but don't you believe that like the longer you look the more you like, no anything if you stared it long enough right


you will like it, you will like anything, now you stare long enough, oh is it is that what you learn inside, the longer you look at anything


oh ya ya


so how do you find Chloe


I will go and make a confession, if what do I mean if I wouldn't fail then I will go and do it lah


yeah like most of the times yeah


the delivery, yeah, like if I can be sure that I won't like, do awkward things or just die halfway


uh how many siblings do you have and who are you, K cloudburst, when did you last cry


is okay, if your house caught fire and you only have time to save one item what would you save


how about your hall blanket


I think it depends on whether you like your person what, oh if I don't like the person, then I will just say like sorry we can't be friend


I think it, depends on like, how the confession was being carried out, but I think eventually I mean if I like the person then I will be very happy and then I say yes lah ya


no but, oh did I tell you


last last time in primary school like I got confessed to then I like, it it was on Facebook then I like wrote an essay, then then I wrote like this Facebook message essay on why relationships are bad at P-six


ya actually, so character flaw, what personal trait do you dislike most about yourself, is it your height


okay, that's good okay


with seven yes, no actually actually, why, because the last meal that want to eat right, no but, no actually it's not true


I think the, I I I think my favorite meal is, beef Udon, ya Udon eh , you like uh Sakae-Sushi use to sell good Udon until they change the menu because they try to be innovative


I cannot cook, excuse me what's that supposed to mean


I don't think you're kidding I think you're trying to, save your, do damage control, I just learn how to cook cup noodle this year before coming to home


instead not cooking despite cooking, cooking is when the food becomes edible


so I only care about preparing cup noodles, okay fine, fine, okay never mind


so droll, okay, what where is your true home, is it in Yishun, is it in timid heart


what wait wait which aspect did he shape


girl or guy, girl or guy, okay if it's a girl I'll name her Victoria, cause I've always liked the name Victoria Victoria


(ppb) I think Victoria because, if you notice Victoria stands for the name victory, ya so so so so I like it when, the name has power, like when the name has power and has strength


uh that I want my child to have strength


oh I never say that I, I I never say that no no but I say victory, uh hints at strength, you do don't you, no , victory could be like victory


against another person right or could be victory over yourself so if you just, if you just improved, from, your previous state I guess that's victory also, yes precisely strength and courage


only him, I'll name him, okay I have changed, K I'm gonna name three, I'm gonna be


Jun-San, uh Elijah Joshua or Elliot


is it, I thought elliot is like , like very lit name, literature-ish, no it doesn't, it doesn't doesn't oh William is a nice name William-Shakespeare, nope


okay good to know, okay describe an experience when you were matchmade or went on a blind, have you gotten on a


oh okay then then , Tinder date, Tinder date, describe the perfect date


but what if she wants to go on a diet, that's right, ya ya , that's good that's good


but you don't even do lit, even if I, but even if I to say you wouldn't understand, K uh


Socrates is a philosopher, not a, it's not, fictional character is a fictional character Socrates existed


this is a, have have you heard of the book uh, Lord-of-the-Flies, do you know the storyline


okay I I I just maybe like Hermione, yeah cause it's a book that you know yeah yeah yeah, because she's uh, cause she's strong, and she's good at what she does she's very competent


and , and uh, and she has good friend


I I'm I'm just naming a book that we both, two to tango why are you looking for a part, why are you looking for a partner is that applicable


rallying cry what motto do you live by


so was the was the was the horror night stimulating enough


you were amused okay, oh, oh okay


oh so so if you expected it then you won't be afraid of it, how come I knew what's coming but I was still scared


eh wait is this is this


it's from a literature book, the name of it is, I think one quote that struck me is that deliberate cruelty is never forgivable


it's unforgivable, so , yeah I guess the moral of the story is, that I took away is, if you know that you are doing harm to somebody else


whether explicitly or implicitly then just don't and then you, yeah even if it's a joke, even if it's a joke I don't think it, forgivable if you are poking on somebody's weak spots


because it, a part that will hurt them


but I think if the if the wound is raw you shouldn't go touch it, and also sometimes you don't know what are people's boundaries, you don't know the lines that you can cross or you cannot cross


unless I think unless you have a thorough understanding of the person and you are sure that, that action will be able to help the person grow you shouldn't do it, how important is having children to you okay I don't want I already know


name a favourite place that you've been to what's its significance


shouldn't you go for the first row, oh okay so they just allocate right, okay ah okay okay


okay


oh okay then, okay, okay, it's your turn, no like <unk> of course


oh I think when


when you are definitely okay with them at the uh benefiting at the expense of, your disadvantage, when you just, place them before you and just


think of their interest even if it's at the cost of harming you, ya be at your disinterest ya


okay okay, let's say right like there's a last piece of salmon on the plate, and I scoop for my brother to eat, even though I really wanna eat it


push your button, what stresses or destresses you, really


so so so this stresses you out when you are not close with the group members


oh


what destresses you, yeah cause they say stress yeah, uh no I help you deistress


some muscles, nope


that's funny (ppb), if I am not wrong I think I'm naturally considerate person


okay no uh, considerate like , you look out for the welfare of other in the group, I think, yeah uh I don't think you are somebody who


who is only like, who will only be so fascinated on the energy of the group or like the height of the group, and then and you are also able to like like look out for people who are not blending in well, and especially and i also think you have a


like you have better consideration for girls, do you, I think so, no no no no no is like, uh okay most guys right, they they don't really look out for girls one they they are just like, and I just


they are just like I think they are still like boys, so you look out from their own interest than look out for yeah, but but I feel like you are kind a like you know the things, to like take note of and I think like


really


that's why I wanted to go into the haunted house, no there's a sign I knew you were reliable in the haunted room, if like some other guys ah like, I I I I I don't think Jun-Yi will look out for anybody because, okay no not not not anybody like


like he won't really look out for girls because he will be like he will be (ppb), I think Jun-Yi is the person who like rides on the hype of the group the energy of the group, like he will carry the energy of the group, so so so if you are asking him to like look after like a like look out for a specific person right


it's like dampening his own energy, I think as an extrovert right like you just won't like it, yeah because because you rather like ride ride on the energy of the group than to like care for another person


my god I don't have a saddest moment leh


okay K, I tell you, I think it was last time uh, okay so apart from my roomie right I have like three other best friend, so last time right me and my like one of my best friends we all liked the we both liked the same person


and my best friend, I don't tell you, okay but it's my best friend so , no no no no Tess is not one of my best friends, oh my other best friends like came from


like secondary school, yeah so it's like we, okay so, so uh yeah it's like, no actually it's like I like the guy first


uh but I always could see the two of them coming together, I knew it I could see it happening, and it happened, and but I was just, yeah I think that was like the saddest period I wouldn't say a moment


uh yeah I I told her like at the very start but after that I told her, no because I felt like they were meant to come together so I just said like like I just lost interest


oh it's my turn, like that's legit the name uh when did you last have a truly meaningful conversation with someone what did you talk about


no actually height is never an issue, special ability, I think I want a


have the courage, oh special ability, actually no ah, yeah yeah yeah


special ability ah, I want to be a genuine friend to everybody, like if I were to die, is that not special ability it's very special what, yeah if like if I were to like die the following day right then I want people to write on my memoir that Elizabeth was a genuine friend


larger than life who is your hero how does he or she inspire you, guess the answer is quite clear


describe the worst date you've been on, wait wait just no just say


no but ah I asking you for the worst, okay, gonna repress my memory of knowing you, okay, if you only had one more year to live what would you change about your life now


for what it is, okay


ah excuse me I will


give half to my parent, give the other half, various organisation


my could be charity or could be just like, uh something like you know those YouTube channels, okay maybe I will keep like some


ya I got to keep some, okay mystery guest if you could have an hour long, conversation with anyone at all who would you talk to


really, okay, but you have to choose one, everyone is the same


okay


most embarrassing moment, you clearly mind it right, (ppb) oh-my-god i'm sorry okay


most embarrassing moments, when


don't have I have never confessed


I have never actually I I don't really have an embarrassing moment, oh-my-god, it wasn't like, terribly embarrassing like, like after I look at it then I'm like, fine, it didn't look like


oh no maybe pulling your shirt, was a bit embarrassing because you asked me to hold you, sorry


but you were like don't hold me go hold Jun-Yi (ppb)


sweet and savoury how well can you cook or bake, how well can you cook or bake, cook or bake


so it's from there you learn how to


!wow!, so would you consider yourself a good cook


when I no I won't because I like to, I believe in, natural flourishment, so is like, uh if I have to if I have to sign up a dating agency then I have to, keep making the effort to


uh like ask you out like go on a date then we have to like keep on planning dates together, but right is not something, no but there should be like a developmental phase up to it, just like you naturally like spend time a lot like a lot time with the person like let say both of you happen to be like in the


uh I don't know like same CCA or something, then there's like a natural catalyst, yeah, like there must be a build-up


yeah I think given if I were in that situation then yes, but as of now no, because uh yeah it it will be good if, like we were good friends first


no but you see if you really gone into the mindset of them being a potential partner you might not, see them as a friend first, so so so you'll be very careful in your action, yeah you are not displaying the most genuine version of you and I think being genuine is very important


not all that glitters is gold, what is your most valued possession and how did you come to have it if your answer is a blanket I am going to skip it


age-of-innocence do you know that's the name of a literature book, uh what do you miss most from your childhood


eh by the way you know like we can like have a conversation one you don't have to like rush through the cards, okay I feel like you are dying to like rush through everything


you no, no it's because because I can feel it from you, okay I love chores, I do, really you don't know how much I vacuum my room eh


no oh-my-gosh you give me fifty dollars, give me fifty dollars I do for you, I love to do it for myself did I say I love to do it for your room, okay uh okay I tell you the thing is right


uh I destress by vacuuming and cleaning the room, so I also ya, I destress by cleaning thing I guess so last time during A-level period right whenever I study at home are you listening, okay last time then I will like brush teeth to release stress


ya I really like cleaning, no when when I take a break then I will just be like oh very stressful let's go toilet and brush teeth


or like ya, ya like I also make sure like my curls are on place, put some oil


there's there there's like a specific hair oil that like makes your hair like more, it's to replace the natural hair oil, like ya especially if your hair becomes very long, you cannot feel the oil one but it's just, oh it's it's like it's just no it's you can't you can't feel anything


no it's damn smooth you you don't know you don't know anything, no it's a very good hair oil, never mind next time I can lend you, no because like you have to touch it at the point of application


ya no but but you have to understand that like when they perm the hair right it's like they made it very dry, so so you have to compare to it's like previous state to determine the smoothness of this, you should understand what you dyed your hair right


excessively dry, sing to the mountains, describe the happiest moment of your life


calculated risk what is the craziest thing I've ever done


!wow!


how much was it, I know right


oh I I tried though at USS you know the uh mummy ride, I cried


okay I was young I was it was just like two years ago, eh wait, is it you or me


!huh!, oh top three on my bucket list, I want to go and, explore


world of my own, and then I will like to participate in a play, then I will like to, play or musical, play or musical


in a play or a musical like participate, preferably musical, no no I want it to be like, theatre level like, esplanade level


ya I know I know but, I know but, I think it's like not, kind of seeking now, but I think it's one day what I will like to


then err, ah ya


I wanted to say like passionate one but I guess like doesn't have to be on your bucket, so I guess, doing something crazy


ya that's quite true, cause always, I don't even take calculated risk, I don't even take risk, unless you consider going on the mummy ride a risk


I mean technically you could lah cause I mean I could risk dying right, ya, why I don't risk


no I think when I was younger I was a lot more brave, ya I was braver, no I I don't think it was the fear of failure uh, lacking courage


oh no I I I I think it's just fear, okay you have to give me a scenario


I guess like the roller coaster one, like when whenever I go to USS with my friends then I will be just like, uh when they want to take the roller coaster ride, then I was just, I'll just be like okay I wait for you at the end


I mean you could fly off, no no is is is is is just like when you when you plunge down right like the like something like leaps in your heart


it's scary


but I think it's also partly that uh, no no wait actually I think like not specific to rides uh, oh okay I think I know what it's like


just the I'm just afraid that I think, like, what if it, what if it wasn't as right as I thought it, it was (ppb), right, ya said said actually I was wrong


ya ya ya so so what if I was wrong like, like uh knowing the outcome, but I misread the possible outcome


so psychologist what is this, term, is there a term, ties that bind what activity do you most enjoy doing together with your family


who will go and initiate the crap date with him


by the way are you still trying to rush through the cards, then I can let you look at all the topics first, don't know I I keep feeling like you're trying to rush through the cards, ya this desire to look at everything, okay


okay I think it's my roomie, she's my best friend, I have many best friends, I got four so she's one of them ah


actually I think my roomie taught me, one of, one of my key qualities now


which is like the ability to listen cause I think that my roomie is a, she's a very good listener, and I think that actually, listening is one of the greatest gift that you can give to someone, because


because when people talk about themselves right they feel like this sense of, self importance, and then, and and in a world where nobody like really validates your importance, it's it's good to have somebody like to be able to just genuinely listen to your issues and help you out


so uh ya I think, from my roomie that I learnt this, and therefore I've adopted it to be one of


the, one of my defining traits, oh-my-gosh, (ppb) that's just very funny, no


oh-my-gosh my roomie's very, pretty (ppb) no (ppb), okay the thing is right I don't get attracted to, okay my my


okay if I can have like this kind of conversation, then I would already like classify you as like a sister, I don't really classify you as a guy anymore because I've had, no no no no no like like the interaction between me and my roomie is like very sisterly


I've met guys that, have that have like that give me, similar vibes when I'm having the interaction, so I I don't cannot see them as a guy (ppb)


ya I I I I'm not saying like, like everybody whom I remember to have deep conversation with, are sisters, but the kind of conversation that I share with my roomie is very like, sisters specific it it's just a different vibe ya


ya, ya, it's like what right, what do you value most in a friendship, loyalty


losing the friendship


you'll end my life, like that


K, I'm not because I keep feeling like you're rushing through I I, no it's because I get that vibe from you, I I, no it's because I get the vibe from you so I'm like doing it you know, I the the I treat others the way they treat me


no I don't know I, I feel like when you listen you don't you don't you don't really listen ya like


then look at your shoe then look other places, no you know body language is like must face here like like that, look at your shoe, yes yes like that, see like you can't be bothered


what am I procrastinating oh I've to, interview my parents for my GERPE, to ask them like, okay cause my GERPE is about applying career theories


so I have to apply it to my parent's life, and like to see whether like this theory works like, are these theories true, like are they motivational factors in, helping my parents choose their current career, ya I have to do that, by today, working the twenty-first century


cause the aim of it is to help us identify like what career we want next time, I don't know eh


but I suspect might be something like in a think tank, think tank, have you heard of think tank it's like like those kind of like, ah but I asked you have you heard, (ppb) have you uh okay it's like


so it's like basically they do a lot thinking like drafting policies uh, uh no no actually they don't draft policies they they play an advisory role stop trying to poke me, ya okay they they play an advisory role, uh in a lot of matters so it can be like


uh like the state can consult them, or like policy drafting, or like I don't know in like writing, I guess


no uh is not policy specific, !huh! it could be like corporations asking you, like what's wrong with their business and then I think I suspect is like that, ya have do you know School-of-Thought


oh no but you see in philosophy right you get to the bottom of things, it's only after you get to the bottom can you solve problem on the outside


I ya , I believe sociology is about like understanding dynamics of a society right, but ya but philosophy is more of like understanding like how to get to the bottom of everything I think it's not society specific it's problem specific, on issues


I would think so actually I think philosophy ah no it's under humanities right, ya , actually I consider it like, mental R-and-D, like you conduct a lot of like mental experiments experiment in thoughts


experiment in, uh have you heard of like thought experiments, like like you, you you know like the train issue, uh like like if there's a train then you have to pull a lever five people on one side one person is on the other side


you don't study study responses, but you, think of, the solution, no no you you think of, what each outcome entails


oh no no no


no it just tells, no it it just it just tells me what you believe in like maximizing outcome, I I guess like what you believe in is also part of you


but I see, okay I think right, like when you argue about ideas, when you argue about certain outcomes it shouldn't be, defining of you as a person it's merely


your idea it's merely an idea you're discussing like what is the best, conclusion to that idea, yeah it it's your stand but, I don't think that like people should take a like very personal uh


stance against it like like it shouldn't like shouldn't see it as like, a marker of your identity if you really want to grow your ability to think right your idea is just a thought, you're just experimenting what's the best outcome of, yeah what what are the best, best conclusions that you can come


what's the best reasoning that you have, oh that that's a moral question that's a moral question, but it could be just it could be just about what which ideology you believe is best able to help you achieve the most moral outcome


but, but it doesn't matter why why does it matter what you think, understand what gives me the, what's like the best thought, best idea, yeah yeah what kind of


yeah I mean like if you work in a think tank you can't possibly be bothered about what every person will act but you have to know like what the majority would do, wait wait wait we are talking as about philosophy as a discipline what if we have to judge


if we have to, impose like a moral, your moral judgement on every person that you meet just because you studied philosophy right, I would just say like who are you to do that lor you are not like a god, your idea of


uh morality isn't the best, yeah uh, no but when you impose like moral judgement right


wait <unk> okay let's define judging I feel people always like misuse the word judging judge like people use it negatively right, but but I'm saying like, like a judgement like making a judgement conducting, like uh


like putting, yeah analysis like commenting on the person yeah yeah yeah, yeah so if you were to impose like your moral judgement on others, then like, eh wait wait what was your question, oh oh define defining the person no I must finish this I want to finish this okay


so basically who are you to impose your moral judgements on others [loh], and who are you to like, classify them as a, specific person, identify them in certain way sia


reach for the cards, pro-bono what are you willing to devote your time and energy to without getting paid


why violin


I can teach you I can teach you to sing, your voice, is the best instrument there is, okay oh you ask me


towards what literature, so you won't know what I am talking about


this book is called the-devil-and-Miss-Prym, Mrs-Prym, Mrs-Prym, yeah, K so the story right, oh okay wait I tell you what inspired me first


oh wait actually I don't think it really inspire me it just like gave me a question that I could never solve, it's about humanity, but but but it's not a book that inspired me


are you getting bored, I can tell eh I can tell, I can read


is a literature book, it is just story of a butler, no I study about literature, Remains-of-the-Day


okay so so so so is a story of this butler so basically he dedicated his entire life to working for this, uh working for this one employer, whom he realized wasn't a


k so so so so this butler , he believed, he wholeheartedly trusted this lord that he was working for, uh only to realized that the lord actually like furthered a cause


uh you know the Nazi the Germany thing ya like like like he played a very huge part in like killing a lot of people lah, so so so is like he didn't work, he uh, he like he didn't, work for morally right employer which was an integral part of him but he just believed it was right


no he sort of like he wasted his life also like, oh oh oh oh also like he missed out on a lot of things, like he missed out on love because he dedicated his entire life to to perfecting, a butler


ya how to be a butler the whole book literally on how how to be a butler and he also talk a lot about his father lah, ya and I I feel like that book really spoke to me in JC lah because it was me then, ya like I just spend too much time studying, and then I spend, uh like I dedicated myself to one


thing, too excessively, when I should have experienced a lot of other things actually it was that book made me realise I'm missing out on life ah, I know but it is but I guess but that is the beauty of literature lah it helps you realize things that you don't realize


but you don't study today, like, like like what do you do you discuss lit with Jun-Yi


lol ya and you wait, you look like that, you don't talk about literature books, I love talking about literature, what personal trait do you like most about yourself


is it your bright smile, oh-my-gosh you know I always tell my roomie about your bright smile okay, I know I know uh I'm just I'm just


!wow! noble


that's good, I'm not the, type that will do that in a group you know, on the, argument starter, then then I I I then cause I feel like, when discussing ideas it's not like specific to, I'm I'm not targeting you


Or although yeah yeah or or or or although like sometimes like when I get very angry, cause sometimes like when I get ok I tell you right when I get very angry right when I cannot handle it I'll just cry <unk> that's my breaking down point, I cannot like keep on scolding the person one even though I love to lah but


no I can tolerate for very long time, but but once I hit like my most angriest state ya, the part where it get breaks yeah


no I I guess it's because like I don't cry a lot I don't cry at emotional things but I cry when I'm angry, no it it's just like hit the point, like a breaking point like you cannot like suppress it anymore


yeah which sucks because it's like I'm losing the argument even though I might be winning yeah yeah, yeah precisely


epitaph how do you want to be remembered


so would you say like you don't show your vulnerable sides to others


my-gosh did you feel angry when I call you to to, okay K, that was a joke okay K, eh Toot-Toot is a compliment and Toot-Toot is cute


but don't you think like being vulnerable is a, is how you build trust


because you are, equal oh wait, wait not not not not equal I just I just like say the last one for you


no times times times, cause I want I want want people to see me as some people who is able to value at, if you plus right you is very little but if you times is you amplify it a lot more, it's like times ten you know versus plus ten


you eh you eh


need minus the <unk> of people, I think I think you'll you'll good do a good job in, psychotherapy


but you told me like you like, that day I study, okay, heirloom what is the most important lesson you learnt from your parents


okay, sure, !wow!


but haven't really thought about marriage eh, I don't even have a boyfriend eh how to think of marriage


I mean like sure I mean like I love thinking I love thinking about concepts, K , is it you're not interested that's why you use your phone


okay wait what's the question again, how important is marriage to you, k first what marriage means to me right I think it's


okay I think like, uh I think marriage signifies like partnership for life, uh ya marriage signifies partnership for life


and then, and, it means like fully trusting a person, and being able to, uh have compromise for the rest of your life


being able to compromise for the rest of your life and uh and like entrusting, entrusting I would guess, okay so cliche entrusting half of like the rest of your life to another person, but I guess at the same time like that's the beauty of it because , marriage, gives you company


and uh, I guess sort of like ya also and also like


being able to trust that the person can give you protection, no no like, uh protection in uncomfortable situations


I don't know eh uh, like if you're scared of anything or like if like, people are talking about something that makes you feel like oh this oh situations that you like die die want to get out of, and you know like the partner


the partner is capable of detecting it and won't like, like ride on it, and uh is able to like help you get out of it lah, then, can you can, I believe like you can do things on your own


but but but it's good if like you know that there's somebody, who is able to, help you in that aspect, also I think marriage is, sort of like a partnership for life


I think you must get like, a competent partner oh is your eyes dry, you you want, okay , no no no no uh, able to have your back I I can bring money on my own


donate, so so you think like the guy is capable, of bringing more


ya, but it's not that the girl cannot bring in enough money, okay, it's a also like I think, I think marriage also helps to give like a purpose in your life, like one day when you have no longer you no longer have anything to live for then you can look at your partner and you be like


I'm still living on for you unless your partner also die lah then you can just, die, ya I know right


okay I <unk> I know I know I know, okay, how you might view it, okay <unk> no you say say like what is marriage to you and like how important is it to you


oh you don't know eh in in some countries they let you marry a tree, okay so what what does marriage mean to you


then why can't your friends do that for you, but you you but you still can go food hunting with your friends must you do it


oh you can get friends with benefits (ppb), okay , other needs


eh wait love, wait Maslow's hierarchy of needs, love is at the bottom what, duh I study lit one eh, I study the minds of characters, physical needs is the second one ah


eh it's belonging then physical needs and love, then where is belonging, physiological need


so sex is not under love ah


would you sign up with a dating agency, would you sign up with a dating agency


but you only tune in at certain parts, do I fail looking for a partner


why, no okay actually right I think my best period would be, because I would like it like like a face before that to like to like build something


because I'm not the type hor who like who can fall very quickly one I need to like, take some time to slowly get into it, no like yeah yeah to like be sure that you you like this person already


ya because uh, because I'm like, I'm like afraid that, the person, it might not be the right, person


so I will always like, oh I'm also I'm scared I'm wrong cause I will take one step and then then step back, oh yeah is it is so so


wait do you want to hear this okay, oh yeah okay so I like yeah okay ya k wait what was i saying, ok I take a step back because I'm afraid it's wrong or it's too fast lah


so then, so it's like must slowly build, then okay, then after that like why am I looking for a partner right, it's because I want a, because it's like have the, like the


no, have the experience ah, okay then and and and also like, it's like after you intellectualise something for a very long time right you talk about the concept for very long then it's like you have to have like something to test it out


no some experiment is like, I want to know what it feels like, ya and also to, and and and also to like experience like something selfless lah like just


giving for the person, ya


(ppb) why do you keep promoting Jun-Yi ah, so but you don't promote other single guys, but I've only heard Jun-Yi come out from your mouth


uh although there's like qualities, that I look out for like very specific qualities that I look out for in physical, okay so there's two I like like those type of, single eyelid


ya so like very broad back I like the kind that's like, and then like slightly muscular one not very buff, but but is single eyelid single eyelid is the one


oh single eyelid something since young I I don't know, ya I don't know but, !huh! you're single oh wait ya hor, no no you're <unk> it's kinda double ya ya ya, ya correct no


(ppb) no I I just really like single eyelid, okay but the thing that I value the most is I think I want a, I want the guy to, be able to be vulnerable


sometimes, no it's not I just tell you like the physical thing that I look out for lah, okay but uh


then uh, I think ability to be vulnerable I don't know if it's because, if it's because of like, a societal thing that, like the idea of masculinity is you must be cool you must be composed you must be everything right


but I don't want I want someone who's able to be warm, (ppb) want somebody who is able to be warm and like thoroughly open with me like you trust that I can, I can, I can take it when you are telling me like something bad has happened, I don't want you to like keep it to yourself because you think that


like you don't want me to worry but, I want you to trust that I'm able to handle it with you ah, and I don't know it's just the I don't know it's an idea of masculinity is it like you must like handle all your shit but no lah if you are my partner you better know what I want


but don't don't know you think like okay I think from my point of view right I feel like if the guy, uh if the guy is someone who like, cannot open up to me then I will feel like I also don't know if I can open up to you


stop it lah you stop promoting Jun-Yi lah oh sorry sorry that was hard, keep promoting Jun-Yi in the end I really like Jun-Yi then he don't like me then I die


don't know I don't tell you, what is roomie you think I will tell you meh, I don't, okay moving on, moving on


if you could turn back time what is the one thing you will have done differently


what's your pet peeve who or what irritates, you also you were late also


I'm so sorry, did I break your trust


I give you what, do you remember


you don't remember, I I give you Alexandra I said look like Alexandra, you want be a Jonathan, you want be JJ first


okay what what what what her English, I ask you to think now, my-gosh, out of kind of right I was start with a A


Aloysius, Aloysius okay wait but your children name, I'm asking for <unk> why you why you hesitating for such a long time, think of a good one or


English or Chinese, something like Elizabeth, really have you met other Elizabeths, other than me


florist, Florence, Florence makes me think of something that's orange okay guy eh guy name, nice


I think guys guys name that start with J is quite nice, what is the guy name


Jamaica is a country, Jensen, James


how would you react if a close friend express his or her romantic feeling for you, okay like Chloe


ya ya that's very important, eh do you think do you think Chloe is pretty


like you can tell me honestly ya


ya ya ya I know I know I know


I will always, (ppb) I cannot look at Chloe with a, friendly genuine genuine smile, cause I always feel like she took my place, tell you this is a secret ah don't tell others, I wanted to do the partner dance onstage


I know I know, I wouldn't mind that what ya, it's like the partner doesn't matter I just want to do the dance onstage


you want ask or I ask, is it oh ya


very well, the best cooker


when did I last cry, oh-my-gosh I don't I don't usually cry, I don't know A-levels studying for A-levels, I cry when I'm stressed I cry when I'm angry I don't cry when I'm emotional rarely ah ya


how important is marriage oh okay I already know this, then tell me how important though, oh ya then tell me how important it is to you, okay ya ya ya ya


let go ah, like just friends or, or like special friend


okay last time I I I think like last time I, I I used to like hold on, and I also used to be a bit more confrontational so I'll be like, like, I'll ask like hinting question, like like like when when I'm like when, after like time


like with time right and after like feelings have been built sufficiently then I'll just go and confront, I'll be like, ya probably, wait actually I've never done it lah lol but I got kind of hint but okay


if I like the guy lah, oh let go ah, oh, oh I ask you if it's like romantic or normal friends


oh, okay, when I see all the sign, of no


ya ya, ya I won't, I will I will convince myself to like stop, I don't want to be the one choosing


so so so I should chase, no okay I tell you


but if he really if he were really, but shouldn't the, if he would really have, become interested in you he would have been interested already, no I mean like I'm talking about the case where I know the guy don't like me lah


that means he also don't like me lor, no like, wait wait what's the question


oh let go ah , oh wait wait no no no not confession or like, showing like clear hints, yeah yeah I'll only sure I'll only show if like I know that the guy like me lah because like I don't want to, I also don't want to make, yeah and I also scared it's wrong then I #lao kui#


okay no no it's not about face issue, but it's just like you know if you keep on like going after somebody who doesn't like you right, then they'll just withdraw, and I also think like liking somebody is a very personal decision lah you like can't really make somebody like you also


oh so so so after that incident right after that I I learnt to like let go faster


stop it lah, I gonna tell you I don't know, stop asking these kind of things


stop asking these kind of things, stop asking these kind of thing I gonna tell you I don't know, I don't know, no no it's not it's more like I don't tell you, actually I also


I don't know and I don't tell you, don't tell you, why everything Jun-Yi oh-my-gosh, you cannot handle it


I cannot handle it, already know what, year you know, wait stop it lah I don't


oh I don't know I don't tell you I don't tell you, for your last supper who would you eat and who would, for your last meal who would you eat and who would you, eh what would you eat and who would you eat with


who or what you, who or what irritates you, if you knew you could not fail what would you


start your business, oh-my-gosh I should do that also ya ya ya I change my answer I want to, I want to build a business