you know uh, depending on who we are dealing with you know like if let's say they are of a certain era, then then maybe if the conversation is only about uh Taiwan drama you know, ya example, which is my mum's kind of era right


then we have to relate, at that level with them you know to build a bond, predict, okay


another word which I do not know how to pronounce P I C Q U E D okay, is there someone at this table, you would like to know, better, what intrigues, or interest you about this person


this table only me right there're no choice or you can imagine a scenario


no no a particular person ah


vibration ah same


behind your comprehension is that why you, that's a good one


unfaithfulness, the other one right I've been thinking very hard, is financial security really that important and I still


I thought I have the answer but recently I do not have the answer, the ability to connect and relate, you know being comfortable is important if it's not being


comfortable right with each other that is a non negotiable, so I've said right uh the the trust and faithfulness the ability to relate, the third one I've been thinking very hard, because this is something that


I'm still thinking okay can I put it back, put this question across to you as a, as a guy point of view okay so that I can find my answer


would the guy feel pressurized okay, uh about, dollar sign, like because a guy usually is the protector is the provider I mean since caveman, age days right you know uh even though uh lady


nowadays, to work you know is equally independent, but I think as a guy uh the traditional guy still hold that, close their to their heart, is this something that, a guy will say hey you know I would want that, and is important


to be the provider and if let's say the guy cannot be the provider or the protector, in a way will feel that uh perhaps, ya would would would bother


view, society view


capacity (hmm)


so dollar sign can is always a deal breaker is it, wait I'm not saying that uh sorry to interrupt ha let me phrase it so that you can understand the question, because is always pressurizing right society view ah but even if let's say uh the, guy okay society view is like okay the guy provide but provide doesn't mean


the guy has to earn more than the girl right unless is so way apart, okay but the provide is like even uh the means to provide is even, challenging, then would that be a issue


(hmm) so dollar and sign is a deal breaker in Singapore or in everywhere, okay


ya that's what they're saying right, thank you


very deep ha , how do you know when to let go, catch and release how come ah today's card is like this the other day not like this one know but is very deep also but not not this kind of topic


what do you mean by freedom crying ah you will I didn't really get that part, about letting go


all the Chim English


if my house caught fire and you only had time to save one item, what would you save A L A R U M


you know what, I've two answer for this, one is a very ridiculous answer okay, okay the logic one is I will save my hand phone, because that can lead


hand phone is like very important but if you were to ask me honestly in my heart the first thought that come in my mind is photo, I am someone who, who who value a lot, so so like photo ah


holds a lot and very dear to me but that is senseless lah I should, either grab some cash or you know hand phone at least I have other means


okay let me read out your two point question, to have and to hold, how important is marriage to you, that's very interesting ah today our topic how important is marriage to you


well just a yes and no answer, it no right or wrong right is like do you think is essential to have a marriage, for two person to be together or cohabit is fine anyway now is what twenty first century


oh so like getting someone is getting the family whether is is that what you mean by package


drama in real world, real life, so you have experience or you have like friends lah that you have witness something like that lah


very deep leh , (ppb) very deep


what is the most inspiring book, !woah! I haven't really, fully, but I like personal development books


I like books that talk about uh, life skills, because in school we learn a lot on uh, academic skills, when we graduate out into the society


not everything we learn in school is applicable right, so we've to face with uh life circumstances, whether in professional or in personal aspect, nobody teach you how to be a good parents right you have to do your


what research, you have to probably ask your friend you know, so, these are skills that can really, you know , what do you call that, you know break you apart


so this is just one example but I think in life there are a lot of circumstances just so you have uh thank you for sharing, about retrenchment right that is also a life circumstances, about what , B G R you know marriage, all these which is so critical but we're not taught in school


so I think life experience, life skills, is something that I I like, that inspire me, thank you okay that's for you two point mystery guess


if you could have an hour long conversation, with anyone okay, who would you, that's a good one


you mean he charge like this, oh this person you have in mind, you're not talking about like having a one hour conversation with, Joe-Bowler that cost you that much right, how much


sixty three, five digit four digit, big numbers ah


by per minute ah


let me just flip that up, okay late bloomer, how would you react if a close friend, express romantic feelings, for you


close friend ah so meaning that is not someone I like lah, caught by surprise is it , okay assuming is caught by surprise ah, caught by surprise and then happen to be a close friend


ah that kind like, romantic, buddy buddy


I will I will probably just tell him that, ya thanks for sharing, since we're so comfortable being in this Friendzone then that's better to continue, if it's someone that


you know you never talk about , the romantic aspect right, cause if it has been a Friendzone unless you also carry a torch, then both parties shy right wah throughout the years also never say, then I probably think ya, if it's there's a mutual liking then fine right after all this year if it's not


I think marriage or being, or together is a very important, is not just about, chemistry okay I think there's, there must be some chemistry if not the only


but then as you go along there are a lot of uh, day to day, thing that okay, I think if it's like friend right, that hasn't develop in, to a romantic aspect, mostly likely it couldn't be


unless some changes right that, that actually, then maybe possible because people grow right, maybe last time you don't feel that oh it's anything special


but maybe because of certain circumstances or incident the person, but I'll probably if it's like still the same then I will just say thank you for sharing


what is shaking head , because it's all stretching very deep ah, okay, this is three point, this is really deep ah all or nothing at all


what risks have you taken for someone you love


how about we think it this way, before the thing happen, or maybe something has happen, it allows us to think deeply with a neutral party so that if it does happen, we know how to handle


what what's the question ah what risks have you taken ha, for what ah


dependable, I guess there are quite a few but I'll just use the word dependable because I think whether, is it for a, the B G R kind of question that we have been like were


discussing or even a general friendship, or even kinship, being dependable, I mean I'm, like being being the anchor okay being dependable meaning people can rely on you


fully trust on you, ya in at all circumstances, where's the Chinese


speaking the truth okay anyway we use the word dependable lah, let me help you, mini me M I N I, me how important is having having children to you


assuming lor


offspring


taking process what is the deal breaker in your search for a partner, deal maker just a deal breaker right, deal maker


to be comfortable that is a deal maker right that means must be comfortable, uh like you know can talk anything under the sun, able to even


you know we all have our plus and minuses point, so you know the not so good aspect and you are still comfortable in front of the person


financial security, uh that was long time ago those days, okay for me values number two


I mean okay the first point is like being comfortable right that's because the good and bad aspect of uh ourselves, the second point is , uh values, because we all evolve over time I think the values might evolve also I think that's important


third lah, well that's a tricky one again just now I was thinking right whether is it a deal breaker that one that one is financial security, again, if let's say I am financially secured myself is it still important or not then I do not know


it's a question that I've been thinking all this, is it as important, okay the first point is uh, we have to be comfortable with this, partner right


meaning to say that you know I'm not saying that we wear, a cover or we have uh put a front in front of others but no matter what in our professional, work and life and all that right not every aspect has been, is we are <UNK not necessarily we can bear every


I think with a partner it's best that this person, can can can accept you in all, that's why the comfortable is very important, comfortable also involve quite wide topic like values conversation


relax or not right, okay let me is it three point or not, two point okay lah mine tougher three point you know, okay two points for you moral of the story


describe one important life lesson you have learnt from the book you read


sorry ah what was your question again ah, oh so you're talking about like uh leadership and


is not B G R lah just close friends is it, oh this is a very tricky question eh, I think it, it links back to just now I was saying right I have like, close friend but really who is really the closest actually over time ah it's


diluted, like at one point, very very close with this friend, at other point this friend, so I have come to accept that uh I evolve, people are busy


it's not the same, ya they are still nice people it's just not the same, definitely lah they are all good in their own way, to me special their own


okay course correction, if you only had one more year to live, what would you change about your life now


reality right I think, it's still good you know even though we may not enjoy because it's so


my last meal, who would you eat with, my special partner, what would I eat, I would eat


the things that I like and order the things that he like, right, we all have our, our what do you call that, our wish fulfilled, this person


has quite, a bit of different taste , you know this person I would like to enjoy the dinner with uh last meal, has quite different taste, so


it's good that we all enjoy our last meal, which I know that uh what to order for him right and I know what I like so that will be, or maybe we will have a food marathon


so as in like uh, rather than a Hungry Ghost, well fed ghost , okay algorithm or even like a nice place I don't know, algorithm one point only ah would you sign up with a dating agency


okay it's one point


oh that's for you [huh], what are important lessons you learn from parents


they always say don't waste food right, so I have a bit of a thrifty aspect in, that food part, okay push your button what what stress you what destress you


uh at least you can now think ah do all the thing that destress you, after this, it's not easy you know the one I did with Vivian also


but this one is is very deep as well


that stresses or destresses


what is the craziest thing you have ever done, craziest thing, how many point ah okay lah


okay uh change a new course [orh] of life, below one point so, so I think that should be good enough one point for you cheek to cheek C H E E K ah


uh probably you may not enjoy but still please answer one point, please describe the perfect date


red herring H E R R I N, describe an experience when you were match made or went on a blind date, I won't I don't think I have been like uh went on I I haven't been on a blind date


but I would have like incidents whereby uh aunty, show me, a picture you like or not [huh] this guy like or not [huh] ah, he's a good boy lah


kind of but then you haven't, meet the person right it's just like suggesting to you, okay lah like this lah this kind of scenario


okay A L I A S alias, what nickname do you go by which is your favourite one point for you


X Men the X


well, I will divide into different aspect, the contribution aspect, right money there's, that I won is not like through hard work right so


I think give back to society that's one aspect, then of course I would also look into , maybe on my career business aspect you know setting a sum of of it or


in that area, setting a small sum, setting a certain sum for, the family, setting a sum for myself, setting a sum for uh, the future, setting a sum for


holiday, because uh I love holiday, it's not just about fun, right to me it's about like, having a extended stay in those country to really know deeper into


the place the people the culture immersing, so that probably will take quite a sum of money so, ya have to categorise it, okay two points for you, character flaw F L A W, what personal trait do you dislike most about yourself


shy away lah, avoider ah


not all that glitters is gold what is the most valued possession how did you come to have it, most valued possession ah


okay I really cannot think of anything that is the most valuable because to me right, valuable is no longer about something, need not be something tangible now, anyway I do not have like, the


the ending that is extremely, extravagant or you know that costly, but to me something that is valuable, close to the heart right, so probably I just use the word knowledge something intangible because that one is


it's not something that's, able to be measured, that is priceless, with knowledge uh, if applied, and if shared is wisdom


okay, uh one point ah, sweet and, savoury how well can you cook or bake, you can eat


out damn, sport, no I do not enjoy doing chores, least favourite chores housework, least favourite because it's important because they clutter right


least favourite because it's not value adding, most favourite chore, which I have not done it for longest time


I used to like to organise my clothes but it hasn't been done for a long time, because there in become effective right in terms of uh, uh for instance, like preparing to go out and all that it become very productive


hindsight H I N D S I G H T okay three points, if you could turn back time what is the one thing you would have done differently


a bit similar hor, but you can't remember but look quite similar three points eh this one


know no fear, if you knew you could not fail what would you go


my , my business venture, I won't say business, it's something that I wanted to do right, setting up my community


in time ya it's just like what turning some passion into, but I won't say it's totally passion, it all the dots all connected as I walk along the journey, I think her, it started off from you know I finding solutions for my personal situation


as I as I dig deeper you know got to be a bit more familiar, more, ya become you know deeper into a certain subject then you, then then I feel that it's a bit of a waste not sharing, to bless others


who may need the same answer, so that is something close to my heart at this moment, okay one point for you, crash and burn crash and burn, describe the worst date you have ever been on


worst


(oh) three point ah for this, S O J O U R N is this a French, word, I cannot even remember how many English word I learnt man


sojourn, okay I'm gonna be a bit philosophical here ah where is your true home, I think a true home is whereby I am true to myself


can I say that, that's why I said a bit philosophical, you see true home is uh, I mean on a superficial surface level you you know you always like oh things that are nice


you know like oh you always go to like the when when when I travel I always like to, you know enjoy the facilities you know if it's a nice hotel that's, you know I don't have home sick generally, but I think


since this is a three point questions, that's why I make it a bit more philosophical wherever I am I'm comfortable, I am true, that's true home, okay, mutant power M U T A N T power


if you could wake up tomorrow morning with a special ability what would you have, special power


three point ha that one


oh like that's interesting ah I never thought about this, minus plus times divide equal which, okay multiply, because multiply is by multiple


I mean I I, to me I always look at the positive that's why I don't look at uh I mean I would want to strive towards positive, so I would not uh take minus minus is always minus off the bat


then between, divide is also getting smaller right equal is just, status quo so to me is, it just don't make sense, so if I were to choose between plus and, multiply of course it's multiply because it, more leaps and bound


so hopefully two points justify, oh it's mine hor thank you, three points two to two to tango


why are you looking for a partner three point


beneath the wave, saddest moment of my life, at different stage uh there are different saddest moment of my life, I think a lot of the times what triggers me


it's , uh okay not is is uh the two biggest trigger


personal career achievement as well as, either, rise, further or


okay, instead of S I N K ah mine is sink this one is sing, S I N G, sing to the mountain, describe the happiest moment of your life three point


larger than life, okay I really do not have like a hero, okay uh, I always wanted to be my own hero but in any case, idol can or not because it's not, hero so I will change it to idol


I won't say he is, really my idol because there are so many people I would want, look up to and model after, but what, interest me is uh Richard-Branson, uh I want to know because on my on my journey of diversification and I am aware that Richard-Branson


has that ability to diversify, okay, and how does he do it I haven't really read his biography, and another example is Bruce-#Lee# right he's he's also able to diversify


from a Kung-Fu fighter to a movie, Kung-Fu fighter you know something along that, so this is something that I wanted to learn, queue that's for you catalyst C A T A L Y S T and it's a three point question


what value do you bring to other people's life, oh that's a good one since you are also on a journey of, value adding


E P I T A P H, Again I do not know this word, how do I want to be remembered that I've touched their life that's what I want, then to remember me


well, being able to be there like a guiding light, a beacon, like, it could be just a smile it could be, uh I'm able to share with them, an answer


or maybe gets them, to think, it could be anything right it can be small way doesn't have to be a big way, you want to have to have a break have a drink or that's fine


okay because I think I want to have a sip, okay we shall talk on holiday how about that, okay where have you traveled to


so that is what you do over there then, what would do eat over there, like all these places


I have not been there I though it's spicy so it's sweet okay


what food is that from sour fish


in Thailand


oh weak tummy cannot take crocodile meh


okay, yes


middle bottom, it was actually is actually in, on a table, uh carrots is on


the far right end, three carrots, and there's I guess is strawberry, strawberries in the middle there's about, six of it, ya six on the okay


then okay, this this this what, blue tentage where this uh fresh fruit and veg carriage, uh fresh fruit and vegetables, on, it's right I mean when I'm facing it on it's right actually have a table whereby


there are two person one of them is actually, seems to be cutting fruits, which looks like a pear and a banana, looks like a


pear ya it looks like a pear but uh within, is like he cutting a pear right now, looks like a pear shape ah can't really make up is lettuce or what and on, the left there's a banana


there's a banana over at my end, ya okay, ya banana is between the blue


it is a brown shoe, she's wearing white, no is actually all reds


it's empty empty bowl


okay there is a, ya there's this uh so called child playing goal what he's in red pants, grey shoe covered shoe, then on her left is a white canvas sheet


on her right on her back is actually one young, looks like a girl, in yellow top blue pants, is a blue pants ya ya, there's actually, that's why I said is behind


behind mah, standing behind then there's a, ya it's actually that's why I said there's a white cover sheet and there's another young girl


uh in, on the right of this, girl, actually is she there's only one ghost character, no I'm talking the one that says as I said it's in yellow


and blue pen, standing in front of this uh, man with a saw, but the saw he's not sawing anything the saw is just on the, ironing board, to me is a ironing board lah, so I don't know why he it seems like he's supposed to be sawing something but the saw is there


that is consider, dark, brown pants, black shoes, uh cap is actually uh, brownish red cap, front has some white on it


he's actually standing in front of a barnyard which is actually closed, on the, in the front of the I mean, front of this barnyard is two kids playing basketball


nah, uh okay so, no it's just the two of them one boy one girl that's all


there's a I mean there's a basketball that's what I said he's actually dabbling the basketball


just stationary, not really moving, behind the boy, the one who is in green with a, blue, shorts, but the back of the pocket actually tuck out, his left


then behind him, family of sheep's, and goats, uh two adult one, what you call that, one calf or sheeplings or what you call it


no two, two adults one baby, ya so it's two, I have two goats inside meat shield and


seventy, except for the two goats


two yellow duckling ah, one two three four five six seven correct


there's a guy driving a tractor shock, his motioning is with hands up shouting but I don't know he's trying to warn anybody because over my hand is just


tractor moving, is a green colour tractor


ya yellow covered he's in light blue tops, hands in the air


is open, uh is design hat pins and


colour


uh empty, white, the wall is blue


colour, but the door with a open sign actually has a


it's a green colour with a wording buy me, so the boy who is having uh two cup of ice cream on the cone, cone or ice cream


has a I think it's a fly or a bee as a big one, on it's face, no it's actually one cone with two cups of ice cream two scoops of ice cream, not on top it's actually on his face ah


I noted there's a sack of empty potato and one, there two sack mah one is empty ah


[orh] okay the tentage is actually, shaped towards facing the how is it call, towards the left, it's actually


ya but it's facing towards the left, the angle difference


that's why I say there's a signage that say meet Sue and [orh], ya two four five six seven eight nine, six bottom, six top yup done


you want proceed, up to you up to you


when did I last cry, I cannot remember honestly , which we cannot remember lah last


I guess is probably, I wouldn't really say cry tearing probably somewhere in the Batam trip when it actually does feel, certain things that the speaker and the trainer said or even, fellow classmates shared, hit the court in your


in your court in your heart, I guess a bit okay uh it resonates, if you ask me for details I legally can't say much, is more it was an emotional and emotional times will be


the episode actually blend or, just coincide with what you actually happen and encounter that's what I experience, so, ya that's how I look at, for your term of cloud burst


I mean is a trip whereby, there's this uh I mean went to Batam for, for this training uh


uh it's very subjective because you won't know until you really see result because there are having said that I do see classmate having result and, ya very fast and instantaneous in fact they have results uh within, days or


just after the training next day or next few days I do see quite a number actually gotten, speaker engagement assignment and, got book publish uh, ya


told them, no definitive answer because uh I do met one who said she actually came her just to clear her mind, uh clear her own baggage and next thing I know she got, speaking engagement


ya so kind of quite, oh okay, archetypes, A R C H E T Y P E S


archetypes, or archetypes or whatever they call it so which literary characters do you most, identify with, this is actually like a two point cards, literary character


archetypes uh, because actually my understanding of uses of archetype is actually


people they talk to me they spoke of !woah! Michael-Angelo, uh angel Michaelangelo uh signifies or symbolises healing, and he actually draw a card as in uh Michaelangelo as in in, uh tarot cards reading


it signifies that uh you will be getting help, from the divine or you will blessed with healing energy, uh indirectly towards the Chinese it's actually archetypes is uh more like oh okay there's this, medicine Buddha uh people pray to medicine Buddha for healing recovery from sickness


and looking for more of the skillful means, uh or to address uh, your needs your it it could be emotional needs it could be, your needs in terms of medicine for the body and mind as well as spirits uh


what have you and what you actually need, by means of prayer, uh likewise for archetypes it could be also in a sense that, take for example #guan yi#, she actually signifies uh compassion, loving uh I mean more towards compassion meaning having empathy having a great uh empathy that actually


can, uh there's this saying that when you actually need help just cry out for her, she will come, in the form that will actually help you the most it could be in the form of your parents, form of king, or even


someone you actually, have emotional connection with, so that is my understanding of archetype, but having said that I noted that somebody did mention it could be even in the form ya you're right cartoon characters, something that actually can relate to


some probably you looking to uh Spider Woman superwoman, what have you the Hulk, the Flash, so I don't know so which one you identify with


that is a case whereby applies for the Chinese when, kids have sickness or they really in need of protection, okay, uh it's like creating a bond a connection with a deity


so that you will be blessed and protect with protections, but you are being guarded and, so call, protected lah, under certain, maybe boundaries or you just conduct yourself according in accordance to the guidelines set and so on


personally I don't really recall the only thing I can remember or so call miss most is probably, just that, seemingly


there or inherently not there friendship because I actually transfer school very fast, I transfer within, two years or three years so there's not much of uh, something that I miss most but if you really insist uh it will be probably


the, one to two episode of trying to connect with the, and building up that friendship, through means of there's one episode of, consider playing Trump


ya once playing Trump, true ya just uh I can't remember what trigger the episode, but anyway there was once in primary school another was uh, it will kind of like


excursion, other than that there's one more will be, a friends or also called classmate who actually bothered to have a, after school activities, getting a few of us together to bond over a game of badminton ya


that was really quite sometime back, I guess this is more of something that I miss most, other than that I can't really remember much, that one, I think I just recall something I think uh what I literally miss most from childhood is more of the


comfort food, uh yes and no but for for me is more still still the porridge, you you literally crave for the porridge the Cantonese porridge that is cooked by the old uncle


cook pot by pot you you actually literally just, look over there when he's cooking next thing you actually when you actually eat, the different porridges ah from the different dialect group, Cantonese uh no is actually, child I mean is really childhood so at one stage you actually have a


a different, the porridge whereby you have sweet potato porridge and then you have this uh, century egg porridge or so call pork porridge whereby you add a egg or


and is make it so nice or even fish porridge you would crack a egg inside, so different style of, porridges is very different and Teochew is basically fish porridge whereby you have, the version of cooked rice, add soup over it or you actually have it boil over soup the light soup paste uh


I still prefer the, uh sliced fish clear soup porridge star, some will add #gao di# some will add add the bitter gourd, so again is varies ah so, I kind of miss those foods uh


or should I said the games that you actually played, you can't really play zero point, after a certain you should can't really play five stone or you can't even play the horoscope, you hit certain age, because you literally can't jump that far


ya or the what you call that, Chinese call it I can't remember the Malay and the English ya, I'm not sure whether call is there's a, there's a there's another phrase for it, just like


the other game that uh people play, from the shuttlecock the version of, volleyball but it's not volleyball it's three against three, and that's really a true test of your skills and guts, what have you


right word to use no it's not really, team spirit ya, it's not really Malays it's more like most Malay, something like a shuttlecock but it's actually a ball uh


ya a bit like but, basically one ball they, the one either on the left or right will kick to the center, player and then center player will actually flip and


the balls towards the other parties over the net, and that's where you actually will see, things happen it's basically in a format of volleyball but, different very very


bitter types I guess uh, I honestly do not what is this what are your top three, top three what, sorry not married


not applicable


how long has it been, can't really give you that answer, more than ten years, it's a topic I do not quite like to dwell into


because relationship is also uh tricky stuff, ya if if


uh ya I guess it's more like pronounce as Lao, more of uh, it could be could be just like what you call it lullaby


actually L U L L mah lullaby songs, or lah or even loo


no but kin could also mean like, it could be external family it could be also, ya it's really depend on how you define it, kin I guess it's a Chinese word as in


subjective


fox hall, okay, this most embarrassing moment of your life ah, I guess it's more like


or I was in a accident, then the nurses actually, require to


because he is supposed to ask, because painful because actually I got knocked down by a motorcycle is a cyclist uh, accident that happen


how long back, (oh) almost twenty years back, it's kind of like embarrassing because uh you literally, while you're half awake and painful state the nurses said eh I need to, what should I say is it lower your pants or what it's not really strip but I need to change you like in a way as in


I so painful I still literally have to, so ya kind of quite embarrassing, the next closest was uh, ya literally, that was one of the most embarrassing I guess


cause you, half awake but there are you know that there's medical teams around you is nurses and so on, almost I guess eighteen or nineteen already, the nurse I know later on


or even the doctors are quite, young also, and quite pretty as well so quite embarrassing, uh of course I do encounter some other embarrassing moment if sometime you just


have the, you have your flyers open, or you literally sometime, your urge to, too hard to contain, in the sense that


it's not you wet your pant it just that you happen to soil your pants, those are something that you it's kind of like quite embarrassing, ya why am I getting all these stuff which is kind of quite quite personal


I thought is nothing person with, I don't know your spice of life, what do you most like to eat in the whole wide world, spice of your life


bucket list, top three on your bucket list, I guess probably is to visit, potala palace, is it this uh


so it's one two three so the third is, Bhutan is actually in Bhutan, Potala is actually Tibet


or more, I guess I will love to go back to Switzerland again to visit, both uh Mount-Titlis and Mount-Pilatus, I visited that one is actually


I guess, might ya, okay this one is one point


who or what irritates you


I guess, you will have to, honestly there are only these things that comes to mind, car but no, actually it's more a


can't remember any right now, it's somebody his relative mentioning that, it it's a bit liken to, to reap what you sow but the Chinese one is actually, what you gotten from the society you need to contribute


it's more like what you gotten from, it's like pay back paying it forward, but there's a hard cry of paying it forward


after the movie we leave, so surprisingly, this paying it forward motion is still, in action locally, I happen to


attend one, few weeks to a month back, bring it forward, so this is one point for you


topic is jet set, name a favorite place that you have been to and what is it's significance


am I procrastinating now, is more like , decluttering of my thoughts, decluttering my space, ya I guess that's the thing that actually comes to my mind ah


ya decluttering space uh physical and mental space, one point


is still kind of related to kin but is with a T H, is a hit kits, what do you value most in a friendship


I'm like getting all the sensitive question, this is something that I don't think every, there will be a right or wrong answer for this, how do you know


the closest I can come across is more like, you, literally, lose your sleep over it don't, doesn't matter, that is more like when you are actually young, but at least you can take it


as we go along with time, you still very bother, you find that, you just couldn't get the person off your mind, or or, or more than off your mind, you literally feel that you want to do something more for


the partner, more for let's say for her, in the sense that, I make sure that, she's truly happy, he's taken care of, he's protected, and she's guarded


ya provided for and so on, but then, how do you truly know that you truly love is more like, it is like the action actually speak, throughout, kind of like congruent in a line in the sense that


can't live without, or you should have said that, you find that uh, she's just the only one, but I don't have the answer as in how do you really know


more like, in your mind you need need to give a call and, you need to make a call you need to, you know that you need to be there you need to be there, that's all I know


no conclusive evidence on that, okay one point, ties that bind, what activities do you most enjoy doing together, with your family


I guess it's more like, ya vacation trip, that involve , maybe, you have uh, team right or, or it could be a heritage ride


ya there's one, go on a mahjong trip ah


to me this is basically volunteering, uh I did that before but if you talk about pro bono right now it's more of like, well doing some sort of coaching, ya of course uh need to go and get my


accreditation too, no because uh pro bono is uh basically when you say pro bono what are you willing to devote your time and energy to getting, to without getting paid but pro bono is like as is most people know is like


legal advice, it could be for most school kids and, family is like parental support group, or or maybe in a form of marketing for the schools or even, uh watching out for


the traffic, for young school, children, for my case is more like uh, as I was saying it really depends if, it really depends also whether will continue to, assist after


this month, and, because is a platform whereby, the public can learn about coaching, whereby, it's a two way meaning the coach can have a chance to have uh to clock their coaching hours


and coaching meaning the public can experience coaching, meaning that in the topics that you want to coach it could be following up, a particular coaching session, it could be also, something that's close to your heart or it could be, relationship or it could be performance uh


like executive performance or, in the sense that anger management conflict management, misunderstanding, so uh, you it's actually call but as I was saying they also trying to survive


actually it's consider pro bono for, the locals, currently it's actually, in a way funded and subsidised heavily by Young NTUC, Young NTUC but apparently


they are, having a hard time that's why the deciding factor will be, from the next two events uh which is this Thursday and the next Thursday, to make a decision to truly


continue or, put a halt, this event which actually have run for two years, uh growth, and beans


B E A N S, anyway having said that uh, it's more like, you pro bono because you really look at your profession to be qualified to really give pro bono services, so for my case is


a bit tricky, I did have accreditation but my accreditation is seems like always not, counted, but it doesn't mean that I will be able to do anything pro bono along that line because uh you need to have my own audience


so it's not about okay, pro bono as in legal advice but I'm not paralegal I'm not even a, lawyer so cannot also it doesn't count, the next closest is actually is about coaching mentoring, uh again it's best to get the right accreditation


uh or even from this uh I F or should I say, comes in a form with a association or companies like C C I, and or even could be from I L


even, but uh ultimately, Singapore is all about survival competition slash throat competition and so and so, you have to go beyond pro bono pro bono is something is actually


when it's time to give back, it's in alignment with what I shared earlier on, it's pay back time, more than pay back time actually, I actually did volunteer work before


but uh pro bono as I shared it has to be really more towards your profession, I haven't been in a profession that is actually, outweigh my days, so, since my retrenchment in two zero zero eight I haven't been able to have a proper


follow up or proper, professional path that actually can helps me to, consider being a so call, pro bono, so okay moving forward uh three point for you tic a


when did you last have a truly, meaningful conversation with someone what did you talk about, tic tac


it is like tic for tock or it's it's all there it's just that uh


uh the word is pick, does someone at this table you would like to know whether what intrigues or interests you about this person


I mean something that pick my interest or intrigues, is usually more of the values more of the characters or more towards the how a person reacts to a situation, uh again it's also kind of subjective I mean I do recall uh


there are some I actually kind of interested to know more of the person, uh it's not really particular about the person's outlook but it's more of the outlook in life, how certain things project and how you actually feels


uh it's of course the, the part that actually pick or intrigue or interest me more of like uh the values, somebody who actually bothers to look into, uh the needs of, families or it could be the sense that okay I need to really be there for


uh parents, being filial, in in the forms that the you talk about, repaying of the kindness, and also for, how you're being brought up it's kind of like paying back, actually paying back


in actually you talk about, what you would like to know better is more like, uh how a person, move forward how a person develop in how a person actually, looks at, what's thing at hand and what's thing that actually


from moving forward how will she help, the person to move forward and from there how does she contribute back, uh I, ya the the, the same type of question in the cards is actually, getting me


to think deep as well also to try to address, questions I have of uh, number of people, including myself including some, interest


in certain people, uh I don't have a answer right now but I do know that, things actually intrigues me more of like, the person's experience, is more like uh the person's life


because uh people's experience is sometime, it can actually, bonds with you right, somehow is uh this thing call affinity and is sometime is something that okay you know, as though you know the person's way way back


without even, without even, having a conversation what I mean like just now like you say oh okay your energy and energy okay just like, right away you know there's a respect there's a certain


rapport, down the road it doesn't mean that you can actually hold it and sustain because it also kind of quite, in life a lot of things is, just, in is, always very


fur and, with disruption and, in this world things are happening, much more faster, in, beyond your, compress, is like in


incomprehensive, okay this is a three point, non negotiables, what is deal breaker in your search for a partner


okay the society, is in a sense that uh, you have the guy have to be a provider, no matter what, but having said that uh, some women is actually really strong


power earner, or should I say they actually, when I say power earner, they literally they are earning, capability and, their salary is actually, five to ten times or even fifteen time more than the male


so, in such a scenario, I will guess the guy better to back off, than to continue the relationship, other than that unless he has a skills


and he knows that he can actually still provide in, through other means, not through just the financial means, to provide for this relationship to move forward and develop or even sustain and, moving forward


to a very, feel with uh still in love and then still, blissful relationship all the way, to the last day, uh of the life, yes if not I will really say that, it's a no go uh


it's really a non deal, this financial part


to be honest with disruption in this world, it's actually, honestly sometimes feel better to be single rather than in a relationship with a, better than getting in one that


somebody don't understand, because why I say that, Singapore everything spoils down to dollar and cents, car coming out transport is one cost, you have P C you call about P C E reviews whatever talk about transport review


uh you can't beat inflation, you can't beat inflation unless your pays, scale is rising exponentially, at a rate that's way faster than the rate of consumption, is faster than the rate of inflation


and also or should I say that you have a skill set that actually allows you to make money, minutes, as in by the minute, as in tonnes as well as in metrics, or should I say


uh in millions and billions yes, good go ahead, if not uh it is a, deal breaker in life for the masses, and I say is actually is a deal breaker for


uh local context uh I I mean I stick to local context first I don't want to go regional or global because uh, you see the credit crunch and, uh quite a number stuff, uh that's why there's a saying that he


especially in relationship if, you do not have money or the means, there's nothing to talk about, or or the more crude sense is no money no honey, the cold hard reality in


so I guess this is uh falling back to me, uh catch and release how do you know when to let go of someone


oh really all the personal stuff, I don't know I don't know because uh


I guess, one party, have tears, and you know there's uh you need to really let go in the sense that, uh freedom is being cried out loud


you pick up the message is very clear to you evidently, and partly is the fact that, is clear evidence that you actually fail to meet the expectation, or should I say that uh, is best in the interest of both party


to totally let go and move forward, uh even in a sense that you may be in a lost, we are the losing end, by releasing is the more towards


or should I say by liking girl, it it's better rather to lose your mind, or do we end up, having plug on your hand, to cause grievances, hurts or harm, uh try to


to break away, and to me of course it's still better than getting people to fool around, uh commit adultery, or in the sense that okay


it's way better lah because uh, certain, better to, be experienced in another


when, you just sense that, there's a cry of, true freedom meaning that, it's kind of quite painful even though you may not be in a relationship or you may be in relationship in the sense that


you just happen to by chance know that the people really is crying out for freedom for, uh our, to be let go asking you to free her, in the sense that, it's really uh necessary ya so you just have to move forward


it could also in the form that, you know that the, you cannot talk to the person anymore, each time when you when you want to talk to you will actually, the person is too good in agitating you, so


there's no way you can talk about it calm, into the stand even if you involve the third party, the neutral party professionally or really a friends or, somebody who is willing to be, neutral towards both side, you will probably find that you're being provoked to the extent that you lose your cool and calmness


and, you even to the stand you'll you'll be losing out your own self dignity, uh self respect so it's better to let go, rather than hold on, because uh


it gets no where, damn pain, super pain, !wow! okay, uh I guess this is a two point for you, my guess is, pronounced as


okay, it's I guess it's a bit uh towards the, test of pronunciation today, if your house caught fire and you only had time to save one item, what would you save (ppc)


how important is marriage to me is to, like how important is financial, how important is financial freedom or how important is partnership to me, currently I really have no answer to that because uh


sort of question all kind of quite, cute and very directed towards


how important is marriage to me ya is important if it is a so long is, healthy you actually can develop each other fully and as a family nucleus it is, but having said that uh to have and to hold it also depend whether there is condition for it


if there's no condition and no means to it or even no, then is no point to even dwell about it, cause uh, how important is marriage to you is also how important is marriage to your family


cause I've seen enough cases whereby, is a package is really a package, is not really one is to one is really a package, ya and is very scary


cause uh, haven't really see very positive family and in the family, I wouldn't say totally none but the, is very very few and very rare, you can have a lot of things that she's very dramatized in life in your TV shows but is even more


trauma in real life, in real world, happy for my sibling friend now


because it is a important, uh for them in terms of marriage, ya and they're actually conducting real , or the hard question, hai this type of cards all throw out hard question


okay your next question a two point card, page turner, what's the most inspiring book you would, have ever read


mystery guest, honestly it's really a mystery to me myself, one hour long conversation, who would like to talk to


it's uh really depends on, definition of this mystery guest and definition of this long conversation, ya I mean I will love to have, ya you're you're right the severity dinner romance and so on but honestly I


have no one in mind to date right now, I would love to say it's but yet, he actually make it clear it has to be a intelligence question, if not you will be grilled and you have to be really, meaningful conversation


more relating to, uh either businesses, or ya more like concepts or something transformational or even educational or, or something that's actually going to involve a, inspirational break through and so on if it's really


no it's actually out of the way and, ya conversation with him it's going to be very very costly, heftily costly, it's going by the millions, millions, uh unless you're actually you have the money for those coaching sessions


yup it's actually considered coaching course, but the if he actually, I have the figure it was actually disclosed to us during Batam but it's really


nothing about, big numbers, don't get remember but it's really big numbers, of course the next one I have in mind is uh somebody, in mind, but apparently you can says


it is somebody I actually I would love to have a, hour long conversation not the other one I actually I know that I, wouldn't like be able to have a proper conversation, other than that nothing can come to my mind right now


if this another person not he's actually by the name of uh I only can give initial he's actually, and the surname has a Y ending with


that's all, okay moving forwards, three point to you it's from late, have not says, how would you react if a close friend express his or


her romantic feelings for you


I really don't like this card, all this question is getting a bit too much for me, !hai! it's like interrogation, session for me, grilling session as well, so all or nothing at all what risk have taken for someone you love uh


is is actually


for someone you love, the part that you actually risk uh, not say declaring, the part you literally bare your soul, uh to the extent that


you know jolly well, you will be taken a ride for, life, financially emotionally, financially emotionally uh I wouldn't say physically uh but anyway it's there, in the sense that uh


you literally actually it's like also, introduce, her, your contact, your valuable connection, in life you actually build up


to extent that, you actually lose your worth, lose your connection, lose your own, position, placement, your even your self self respect


so it's really all or nothing at all and apparently, it matters that you you literally do enough research and, make sure that you literally do enough of your due diligence check, the financial terms uh used by insurance industry


due diligence also called by, the legal profession, matters of the heart is no joking matter at all, okay moving forward


okay, two point for you, is term inner fibre, what personal trait do you like most about yourself


I don't know because uh it is like different if you actually phrase it to the Chinese character it's more meaningful, if the Chinese character is more like, but uh it's more like it's more than inner fibre it's towards the traits of uh something along the line of


uh your characters your values uh something more towards uh, uh congruency something more towards uh I don't know, uh !wow!


we don't like this question it doesn't really applies, first of all it's really how important how are you able to find your right partner in life first


then you talk about how important is having children too, Chinese saying and Chinese belief is actually very important to have, children, yes offspring, and in a national perspective it's also very important because uh


they talk about national productivity rate, and if you do not take care of it the nation probably can, vanish or so call, extinct, from the surface of the earth, if you do not have proper planning or so call


what have you so call parenthood planning, uh what's the thing they call it national productivity board, but it's a joke lah national productivity actually oh productivity index meaning that, you need to be very productive


in terms of performance, but here you have, mini me how important is having children to you so it's more oh how important is, you leaving a legacy leaving a heritage to, the world behind, uh it's like leaving a name leaving uh


maybe somebody ya having a image that actually so call, can let the world remember you about, and image sometime is actually, could be still in a form of spirits or it could be a still a form of statues


or like for example just now I mentioned about Li Ka Shing the, uh as in Tan-Kah-Kee or all these people they live, through legacy through heritage, by means of education


values uh communities, shaping the world shaping a transformation doing what they can for the Chinese community, ya, so, they have children and their children is direct family children and also


in terms of uh, through, the small children's uh the, the school has groomed the different children have groomed, so again it's really depends and I remember having, look at one Facebook inspiring and captivating stories about one man


being a father of over five hundred childrens, and the joke was he was videotaped, and he do not know that he is actually sitting a miss, his children that he actually, bother to sponsor and bother to care about, throughout their lives


it's all distant birth and he literally don't know about, never really meet them but he's actually fathering them, and they are all very successful, children to him, and he was actually invited, and when each one of them surrounding him actually thank him


with deepest gratitude, and he's actually standing or for him whereby he know that, time on planet earth is truly valued and truly appreciated, in return for what he has done for, all


all these five hundred children, okay uh three point cards for you ticking boxes


what is a deal maker in your search for a partner, uh hello all these type is is literally is


ya this is a deal maker


starting to wonder is this really a Chinese recording about those type of, uh reality show, movie or those uh programs that are is by or what have you like them


those uh those uh


so you are saying actually first is what again second is what and third again


moral of the story person learn from the books you read, first have to what books I've read, trying to remember the last round I truly read a book is when


ya in a way the learning circle force you to look at one book, the Art of War, so remembering there's this thing call


so actually it's like you need to really look at, yourself, to determine whether you have the leadership capability, to assess the situation, to employ, strategies you need in life, be it in a better or in real life uh competition


of course uh, ya it's more like you need to assess is it really right move for you to go in a partnership or go into, taking a or moving forward to take your next employment


moral of the story what life lesson you have learnt from the books you have read, more like you need to know, yourself enough to know which strategy to apply in life


okay two points thick as thieves, name one of your closest friend, how is he or she special to you


I really don't know why I'm getting all this type of questions which is, kind of quite tricky forcing me to face


what will I change, if I only had one year to live, what will you change about your life like now


I don't know honestly, my associates, my contacts, the way I deal with them, or should I said, ya lah the life but it's very widely used by number of trainers


live vicariously by the means of others, experience, sense that, taking chances, more adventurously


with a pinch of salt being able to laugh it off myself, yours is also neither, three pointer card last supper


for your last meal, who would you eat, uh no what would you eat and who would you eat with


what would you eat and who would you eat with


I don't want to subject myself to be, part of the data collection, okay one point as well this is heirlooms, heirloom as in or should I say it's that somebody, pass down from parents or from uh lineage uh so what is


the most important lesson you have learnt from your parents


yes uh we're actually being pushed, basically by all the questions that we actually, gone through so far, in this recording, kinda stresses me, so, ya I'm just really don't know okay never mind so what destresses me


being a right partner uh I mean having a right conversation with the right partner at the right juncture, to help you, face your issues apparently


uh it actually destresses when you actually with the right, context and right situation and right, okay this is also one point the card, the topic is on calculated risk, what is a craziest thing you have ever done


I guess uh it boils down to, your, five years so that is more than, eighteen years ago, I guess around there, uh ya it's actually a volunteering experience where


I can't remember is it really a date anyway, anyway it's just a volunteering and then actually, met somebody, uh also the same year, she's also there to volunteer


really a volunteering experience and actually along the way, kind of click, and, ya but you could really so call dates uh, the fact is


to me it was the fact because just that oh you are actually just having, you are there to volunteer then you actually just happen to meet somebody it actually clicks in terms of uh that juncture it clicks, values click uh like two souls or spirits actually merge


it's actually you meet uh, you know that it's actually there are certain vibration in, two hearts can be merged as one and apparently, and some more you actually have a so called durian buffet than


there are certain things that she just strike in a chord that my, one fine day so that fine day turned out to be a perfect date, ya I don't have to delve too deep, okay question for you a one point card uh still relating to heart affairs uh topic is red herrings


describe an experience when you match make or went on a blind date


it is a blind date, it is considered a blind date, it is a blind date, you like it or not that's considered a blind date, ya and it's a match make some more, so your question actually valid


but it's a match-make uh that's why it's called a match-make mah match-making uh


nicknames I go by, I will say that nicknames given to me was actually, take for example Dragonball's uh, take for example, Desperado uh take for example X guys


what else can I remember what's the other nickname, oh okay by the name of Eric uh, they give me before the next uh, oh when he, ya quite


one as well, so favourite I guess is uh, there was this time, it's that that was before X Men actually launch and, is actually in nineteen eighty, seven nineteen ninety eight there is this uh


series of booklet, one guy very casual and then actually the label is called, and this thing is came about before you have the X Factor show and so on, so ya one of the alias I like to is uh, guy not the Desperado Desperado was actually kind of


quite popular in the, teenage teens uh magazine, okay one point, big break, what would you do if you won ten million dollars tomorrow


what personal trait do you dislike most about yourself, I guess it's the same thing that I just wanna say somebody evasive I can be evasive myself, in terms that uh I actually


when I actually just do not like to face the music of


to some you say uh how come is like, no balls uh so call gutless or or in the sense that uh, it's like as though you done something wrong but you just don't like to face it, head on, ya you just don't really


hate it you don't like to face it head on uh, it is in a way is a character flaw, it is also in a way that's uh, minimise conflict, and should I say that is actually my way of uh


don't want to get too heated up, so call escape the issues or worsen it


okay three point, not all that glitters is gold what is your most valued possession how did you come to have it


I'm not sure whether, so it's not about sweet and savoury uh, savoury, I really don't bake at all cook uh very subjective, I hardly cook to be honest


but I'm okay with cooking up, the for, something like, a paste a mixture for, as in steams, uh fish or steam, prawns you want to go with


is like, take for example I'll, have my own of uh, sesame oil, chilli, with uh, vinegar, apple cider vinegar or even to the sense that I probably certain


soya sauce, but it's really like, it's not garnish it's just that uh, for the meats or the fish or even the prawn to goes with, simple one


so that, adding flavours to it, that's why I said I'm no cook nor baker, three one point out damn sport, do you enjoy doing your doing chores


which is your most and least favourite chore


I thought this is just like just now that one question like I did just now, high side if you could turn back time if I could turn back time what is the one time one thing I could done differently


oh high side uh if I could turn back time what is one thing I could, done differently probably, not even bothered to go into war career, just probably just


focus on cooperate life or even Forcus on, getting my accreditation, quoting certification or even, classification certification and not going the, Watten to be assessed for


pre development land called a Southern Rope, but that is on high side of course the other high side some of the beats cannot be, messed up many of some people really, need to make sure that you can really take call so is means like call but not call people so that is the other high side


okay, three points card no more fear, if you knew you could not would not could not failed what would you go uh accomplish


what I said, if your really meet somebody and down the rate you didn't do enough, proper check, and is a ways of pain you got after that, you literally know that, it's a no go


it actually did happen it actually it was a, just a gathering, it's also a date, and apparently, didn't know the mentality of, their purpose of a simple


tea catching up is minimum a cafe drink, need to say that you need to spend at least uh, simple, but there and then it was actually not at the, of your life you are actually in your dull


so that's why I said, you literally have to find out enough about the person before you agree to it and, follow up calls, soju, where is your true home


there's a lot of, the day session is more like, combination of, different terms, maybe


uh it's very, very vague very ambiguous


if I'm a mutant, but this is not a Mutant Ninja Turtle, if you talk about X Men uh if it's X Men it will interest, three point if I wake could wake up tomorrow morning with a special ability what would you have


actually it's more like Jean in the X Men or it could be this guy Mel-Gibson, if one fine day when you wake up after being in coma due to accident, he literally can read people's mind


and if you remember X Men Jean has the ability, to read people mind and more than that, he has the power to awaken somebody's uh, inner potential or even connect with the higher forces, to foresee


uh not say predict to foresee what is the becoming or, demise of, mankind, likewise in Mel-Gibson, he has uh, ability to read people minds, uh to the extend that actually it brings uh havoc to his life but


he learn to manage it ultimately, so is important to, I mean is nice is a plus, to have that special ability but it is also important to, means that you need to have uh, the wisdom and the responsibility to exercise it properly


not like, what's the guy Jim-Carrey in, uh also he having a so call God power one fine day, but if we liquid off the movie title he really wake, up and he actually turn the whole world upside down because he has God's power


to change, his desire of how, he wanted his relationship with his bosses, neighbors superiors and subordinate, to the extend that he literally, have to build Noah's Ark by himself


to save the world to experience what it mean by having power, so I mean, I wouldn't want to go far, I just want to make sure that, their ability you have is truly to ship to, to help, at best


yourself and, the community at stake to truly transform and divert themselves further, become a better place for one another, for the entire human race, okay the question for you influencer which of these


symbols best describe you, the symbol has minus plus, multiply, divide, and equation so


influencer


this three pointer is one of something which is don't know what is, okay why am I looking for a partner ah, ya probably to help, develop the other party, at the same time develop myself better, and to find somebody truly


able to transform, or so call leverage, towards transformation, towards a better bigger cause, okay three pointer for you sink beneath the uh the waves


describe the saddest moment of your life


more like uh to the fact that after leaving school for decades, being back to the school and finally having a, second upper degree, there is where actually (ppb)


ya but I didn't really celebrate much, but that is more inside, more inside of you, of course uh if you really look at the real moment is


is more like, when you actually, on the trip to Switzerland, uh I mean, an route Europe trip after, Wales residency program


the moment up high in Mount-Titlus, uh not really at the peak but it's actually a peak, uh there's a plateau part, so I guess, their attitude got to me got the better of me, some red wine actually got into


so so hard that I actually like, took from, the snow in front of, because it's actually Mount-Titlis is a snow mountain, then I just grab, next thing I just throw into I just clap together into a ball


and literally start to attack my, my mates, my travel, so the the three of them basically [huh], what got into this fella and next thing we actually start a small battle and, indirectly actually it actually and the fact


some, strangers, uh also travellers, I mean like us foreign traveller to, so it's quite fun, ya it's just, I mean it's uh the aftermath of a, altitude sickness sudden sickness I just feel like it I just


ya, my way of singing to the mountains I guess, we actually had a group photo with some, strangers, because the group was actually, I was travelling with uh


ya basically just a few of us, after the so call snow battle we actually get into a group of probably over, nearly ten of us, can't remember where's the face where the photo


so this is a two pointer for you, larger than life who is your hero how does he or she inspire you


last deep question for me what value do you bring to others people's life, actually I don't know I don't have a clear answer for this uh I only know that uh to me it's


trying to help people, see how to help them how to value add them, things to them could be in the forms of, helping them to have more ideas


what to do, how to do, any blind spot, which they can actually look into, to write about their life, write a words


write about industry, or even, to consider how to actually change different angles different mindset and, probably consider a role that they never did before, and apparently


it actually sometime does help people unknowingly and you are actually kind of quite surprised you can, change and mold another person, motivate the other persons towards a


having that change in life, ya and, who knows, you might really be a catalyst in life, shaping the world to a better future, okay last question, okay it's really very hard to pronounce as well so it's


how do you want to be remembered


how do you define touch their life


okay so we done with the cards and, ya free talk topic uh


okay where have I, is Johore Indonesia as in Yogyakarta, Thailand as in, as


could this uh, take for example Indonesia when we actually went with a group who is actually going to this uh, Borobudur, so we say basically the Indonesian food, kind of kind of like it uh I kind of also quite like the fruits over there it's actually everything is sweet


if you have a sweet tooth you will basically love it and, love the food over there, I noted the Chinese restaurant as in the food is kind of also, more towards a sweeter taste, especially Yogyakarta area, even the apple itself is so sweet uh you can't believe it


it's damn sweet as so it's actually dipped in syrups, no it's sweet syrups seriously so it's very different, like ya when you actually go to Bangkok I remember uh was close to


tempting to try on, the fried uh insects, but I didn't, the only thing I remembered was actually uh, when we talk about food, Bangkok I literally love uh, I wouldn't say Pad-Thai but I love more of the pumpkin porridge


that was the first time I encounter pumpkin porridge uh after I was actually , going there to visit a friend and then we ended up in a boat ride after travelling to quite a number, sightseeing, from uh ya it's actually coming down from this uh old ancient city call


and to uh Antuya or what ya it's a old ancient city, after that we actually took a boat ride on a cruise, I was damn hungry and my stomach was literally flipped and I know that it's more like growling, so when I actually first tasted pumpkin porridge


I literally felt, my, body being warmed by the warm from the porridge, and it's so smooth, uh it's literally it won't taste like it's porridge at all it's literally like pumpkin soup


and it actually the moment you actually eat it when you actually a sip goes down, your throat can feel so soothing, and you actually, after you actually when it goes down ya actually your heart is warm and your stomach


yours is when you actually, went too hungry, the first reaction stomach or, taste food or so called the juice, you actually literally will actually, make you turn even more your stomach is like being


uh I love to use a bit of dialect part of me is like, uh it's like Pingsan in the sense that you are literally as it fried literally it's like you know the great, uh what's the starfish


but it's not great in the sense that this, porridge when actually goes in it it actually is like smooth the thing is actually it is coating your, stomach with a layer of protection, so that's why I literally really enjoy the most is this pumpkin porridge the first thing and


I literally, uh ya I literally took more than one serving because uh, it is the right move to have that after you you, I mean you actually skip your lunch or you actually you find that actually too hungry


unexpectedly because you don't know the journey, uh you know Thailand is famous for its jam, any sort of jam but when you actually on a boat it's actually faster than on the roads, uh so, it's a right move to really have that as a base then you actually can eat more other stuff


ya I mean Thailand is really a delicacy but stay away from, crocodile meat, cause if you are not handle properly, you will end yourself in, you're literally search for a restroom the moment you, just landed


no because uh crocodile meat, I guess it's also the water source that actually makes a difference, theirs is uh, crocodile meat as they're right, different parts of the crocodiles, taste different, flavours


one part would taste like chicken one part would taste like a, pork one part would uh taste like fish, it really literally depends on which part you actually, got to be served, but as I shared it also depends on, the handler as well as the the water source


so if you actually just take it or cook it with the wrong, stuff, you literally is like food poisoning and, I your pleasant experience will turn alright so it's something that you would not enjoy and it's best


to avoid, uh other than uh I guess uh, notable experience from, other parts it will be like for example we actually go to Katmandu, in the Kopan monastery, uhit's cold up there, it's actually in a valley


interesting when, you took the, mold they call it, it's something like the here, then because it's monastery it's actually vegetarian or, even if have noodle make


literally will not miss the chilli powder so monastery is famous for not just it's in the sense but it's, chilli powder, and the chilli powder you, literally just pour over anything you eat it's just, flavorful


that's one I, have (ppb) , then, two fins


ya, got the water splashing right, then beside that got a fisherman, fisherman has a hat, yellow hat, red pants


black shirt, fishing rod, ya, there's a woman selling stuff on the beach


does she, is she wearing green top, ya, tennis racket, how many differences are there


okay white racket, ya, there's two bags on top


hanging, okay I have two bags hanging on the roof, those are the necklaces, are they okay okay mine are


mine are mine are two bags, so yours is three necklaces, I have three sock, do they have a sail boat on it


wait do you have more stuff on the table, I have five tennis ball


mine is red and green, one blender


okay I got a plum, okay, there, there's a sign, oh mine it says it's love shared


life tonight, okay, then


it's a taxi, North shore taxi, what's the sign


okay, same then the front the what's that called, number plate ya text one, uh the door for mine has North shore taxi


okay so we got one two three, four five, six, ya


her float is red, with a green tea on it, ya


there's, seagulls, ya eating fries


(ppb) with a dog, is that a jeep, okay, it has a, mine is in a pink seat, with a green seatbelt


oh okay, (uh huh), okay mine has, that white shirt guy saying one two three push


then the guy beside him is wearing a orange hat, black pants, oh mine has red shoe


the red or brown, okay maroon, and then, the guy next, to the car do you see one guy, oh mine doesn't say anything, but he has armpit hair


with a brown pattern, okay, and blue slippers, and, okay he done, now we got a dustbin, is overturned


okay mine's overturned, yes, red trash, okay brown trash, ya


oh mine says to the beach pointing to the right, four flags different colours, two red, flag


two blue flag, ya, ya, with a


is that a scoop okay a shovel, I don't have a bird, no so it's a collection of rock


bunch of rock, you have, so yours has, a bird on the rock, okay


how many rocks are there, ya, in front


yes, five small rock, okay think we are done, wait let's count, one two three, ya


to the beach, oh okay, !yay! let's look, okay never mind oh our socks are different colour also, but we found it


is that all, okay, so I done with this


then the card, I got open the card, are you shuffling them


are you done shuffling, can I take one, grandfather road, describe the most famous person that you are related to


is there nobody, even anyone important


okay that's a bit sad, did you think, a vice principal counts, why not they are known, ya famous


okay fine change card, kiv what's your most like or hated acronym, why


oh, what so bad about that wait did you like that or did you hate that, oh, ya true


I don't like kiv, because because I don't know what is stand for, keep in view, oh, drink stall what's their usual coffee shop order you can read it


I like Teh c Peng, because, the milk is nicer, did you try the Teh C before, you don't like the milk meh


no thinner, thinner you know no that one is condensed milk, then the Teh C evaporated milk, ya I think is nicer


ya, and my mum tells me it's healthier (ppb), it's less, cause it's healthy, evaporated better than condensed what


there's a diff, no Teh C is a different milk it taste different, taste different, no because they add less evaporated milk


we are going to Google, what's the most number of durians you've eaten in one go, seriously three entire durians


I only eaten like, one or two pieces you know the, three part one, I'm not fat like you, okay


your card read it, I didn't, I told you my friend collected, then I tried for awhile but I only collected like


five, that doesn't count, I collected stickers, yes remember I show you my sticker book, I did, I did, I collect stickers when I was young this is my answer


I did I sent you on a WhatsApp picture, you can go and check, so what did you collect, when you were young, what coins


oh you like Hello-Kitty meh, then why did you collect it, where did you collect it from, oh ya how many did you get, can you elaborate on your answers


then what's your most special Hello-Kitty, oh really, do you think if you sold it now you will get a lot of money


five is happy meal is it, it never change price meh, my dad collected stamps


oh I know I know I collected telephone cards, ya, cause they go around walking with I went with dad then we will just, look around everything, then steal all the okay not steal we took all the leftover cards


empty ones, okay you choose, it's quite hobo but it's, nice, but the design the very nice what


some of them so when they had a book of, eh did he have a book no he just collected them in a, ya that's what a collector does


what's your Singapore dream, oh me, cheap housing, where, so, what's a Singapore dream supposed to be


oh I know I just hope we don't get destroyed by, some, weird thing, like a zombie outbreak, you never know or terrorist attack


it's not a <unk> I said hope that it doesn't happen, kind of is that means I'm hoping that Singapore will continue to exist how old will we be, that's two zero six five


oh, okay we will still be alive, okay next, oh ya okay what's your Singapore dream


you've been thinking for awhile, I'm gonna read another card, you want cash, how about the five Cs, why you donate country club


actually you can do most of the stuff inside, for cheaper, you can just go overseas and play golf I guess, ya, golf is not fun


did you try playing golf before, then, where you play, oh, I play the kind that the driving range


is called a driving range, golf driving range, my dad brought me, oh oh you know there are buggy always drives around


below to collect the cars, the cars, balls, collect the, the golf ball, then it's quite cool when you hit the last time my, I hit one ball then it landed on the buggy, but he didn't it's not the guy it's on the roof then it makes a sound


ya, (ppb) what if they gonna die, it will, okay


how well how well do you think, (uh huh), called mocha, who likes dancing naked on the balcony, half mostly naked he only wore underwear


ya then I will go blind, what else, oh do you know how many kids there are, next door to me, really I told you


there's two twins, there's one boy, one older kid, I forgot, somewhere there, but I think they, they come, they run some nightclub business


I don't know but they come back at like three AM, no but, I've heard it was something like that but then cause, they are the owners so they don't have to turn up for the whole night what


so how well do you know your neighbours next door, oh, oh wait do you have neighbours


like how near what is your, house layout like, how near do they live to you, cause your house is, oh, then do you know your directly next door one


okay


oh lol, can I have both, they don't die as fast


kids can talk, kids can grow up, and, kids become functioning, human being


not really did you see YouTube videos they tried, no but they tested it even on like bigger dogs then they didn't do anything, tame, then


no, that's not true then why is a German Shepherd so fierce, it is, German Shepherds are fierce, they are police dog


German Shepherds, really, okay but German Shepherds can, can tear people apart, so would you rather have kids or pets, oh really


what pet, what dog corgi, oh, why corgi why is a corgi better than a kid, really


okay, that's true, like education, but aren't kids cuter, but you don't have to pick up


poop for your, kid forever, then how many pets do you want, two pets


what pet, two corgis, okay, why a terrapin now, is not cute


okay, random stuff, oh but they bite your hand right terrapins, but I will be scared like if you put food they will bite your hand right


oh okay have you had a pet terrapin, then how do you know, oh, but terrapins can live for how long


twenty years, they are not turtles, I guess, but a lot of them get thrown into the canal


so you won't throw yours into a canal, will you let the dogs near the terrapin, you think the dog will eat it , alright


who would you address and what would you say, this is a weird question, you can answer first


small talk, stop that, later they erase that recording, okay


it's expensive, that's true, why kid, okay ya they're not very smart, then I'll tell


I will tell parents not the, actually I don't know, oh I know I know, I'll tell, Singaporeans not to go to


jb, on Saturday, then we can go there when it's less crowded, the queue is too long, the custom queue


elderly poor, pioneering generation, help them to, make some money


give them, I don't know , ya they're a bit old, and poor


ya we will make them, let them do some easy stuff, to earn money


ya that's my idea, ya that's my idea, no I just say kitchen easy stuff to do so they can earn money


ya lah I don't think we can stand up some of them, Cabby what's the most interesting conversation you ever had with a taxi driver


why muttons oh, I don't like mutton, is quite smelly, ya I don't like, I think lamb is okay


lamb is a young mutton, so is less smelly is like it doesn't have BO, like children don't have BO, most of them don't it takes a while


what's FO, but I don't remember much of my conversation


usually they just ask me, not I'm studying, was something, then I just tell them, then that is, ya cause I think girl sit at the back then like the taxi driver won't talk a lot to us


harassment, okay, is not harassment but is, is a bit difficult like at the night they talk to me that I can't hear


because they are facing forwards, not doesn't make a difference


return my trolley, you can help them to, to clear the table a bit


like we drop food then you pick it up by yourself, with what


okay, kind of old


but how come their, they always hire such old people it's a bit sad


the old playgrounds, oh ya, no food was nice, I don't really remember much food though I always eat


primary school food, what, ya I cooked that once


but I'm not very good at cooking, ya fried egg is easy, quite easy as long as it doesn't have to be perfect


but it's too spicy, ya when I eat it my lips become very red, cause it's spicy, it's very spicy then it makes me cry


because it's spicy so you tear, I'm not gonna answer that, so are you gonna ask me about why I miss the old playgrounds


because, cause the old playgrounds are nicer, did you play before, like they have more interesting designs I remember last time I played in a teapot


it's really cool it's like it's a teapot and then there's slide coming out, no


ya oh ya it was cooler last time, yes, it was quite cool, oh ya and they had, last time they weren't so scared of children falling down


now the playgrounds are a bit lame, cause the parents will complain, can you stop asking these stupid questions, but you are supposed to create meaningful convos


ya so, and then the playground, had nicer swings, the swings were, were, taller


cause then you can swing higher, I give up, first come first serve, what would you queue for in Singapore


free stuff, really good deals, that's true, me too, bubble tea


I want bubble tea, maybe it's not too long then I could queue for bubble tea, ya


what else good food like Genki, but you haven't tried Genki, sushi, sushi is good, I had salmon sashimi for lunch


cause my mum bought it, so that I could eat it for lunch, cause I want to eat salmon sashimi


can you stop, so what else would you queue for other than customs, like what food


what's Kiseki oh the buffet, but the time when I went to eat it wasn't that good


how much was it, and then, they scammed us into thinking there was soft shell crab then there wasn't, I don't know why we didn't check


oh but they put it in the, the advertisement, okay, then what do you like eating from there


what chicken, last time I went they had turkey, they had turkey at your one also for Easter, nice I like the cranberry sauce


they wrote their cranberry sauce lingonberry sauce is only at, Ikea, food seat


meatballs, I like the potato, ya cause potato is my favourite food


cause it's nice there's nothing that tastes like potato and there's fries, mashed potato and truffle mashed potato, truffle fries


baked potato, oh you know that day when I ate the very terrible lunch, and then, they had a big potato, you know what's so pathetic, like they put, a bit of butter inside


some, bacon flake, it was bad, like they messed up a baked potato it's just, it was only good because it's a plain potato


but potato is nice, I want, I want butter corn, corn with butter on it


buttered corn, I like the McDonald's buttered, corn, cause it's good and it's buttery, you can put in a lot of butter but I only put like half


I like the texture, okay


cheese is too superior thing, and a better texture, it's like smooth and, cheesy


do you like cheese, okay, wait wait there's another question here how do you define success, really that's shallow


happiness, I guess but you can have, not that much money and you can be happy and if you have a lot of money


yes money is important to have some form of happiness but, better, you don't have to have so much money


I guess, it's like if you had one kid you will, no if you had one kid you will probably be probably be richer but, maybe you'd be happier if you had three kids and you were poorer


ya whatever, but you will be poorer, cause dogs are expensive, I guess, but happiness is important


I just told you I said happiness, I did, I did


why is that, hopscotch no no no catching, cause


it was fun as a kid, did you not play catching, then, it's about the same what you just run around and scream, when you're a kid that's the most fun thing to do


no, I mean ya I guess, did you invent games, like what


what's that, oh ya


that's quite cool, you knock it off of what part of the table, from where like, or inside the pit, that's cool


that's pretty fun, how much did you drink, impressive, I guess


doesn't a, isn't it normal to drink like one cup during recess then if you drank two cups it's just like, extra one cup


no, I don't know I can't remember


my house, describe the place you call home, my house is a condo, it has a swimming pool


it's quite a big swimming pool, I swam there a lot, I played in the playgrounds, and it's near the mrt so it's convenient


and it's not that Ulu, and, I have, my my family stays in my house, I have a brother


and, my parents, okay I'm done, describe the place you call home


!eww!, that's really gross, ya


and then, and then, okay, don't you go back home like home home


did you eat all the chilli, all the Ayam-Penyet chilli did you eat all of it


it's not too bad we used to have Korean, are you done


I like Macs, like McDonald's, french fries, okay good job, worst thing or best


best thing is to get the lottery, (ppb) it would make me happy, it's true, okay fine the best thing that can happen to me in Singapore


their whole life, you have, the lottery, oh ya


so what's the best thing that can happen to you


so you're choosing the same answer, I see, I guess so what's the worst thing that can happen to you in Singapore


okay, I lose, I don't know if something bad happens


and then, if I lose my family, if I lose my job, I guess


worst thing then that would be losing my family, that's sad, ya that's the worst thing, or ya okay


ya of course, so you have a vision for tomorrow


then they are not gonna earn money


okay, I thought you said, hawker food price, that's true, these cards are not very interesting


why did you read it as #giam kana#


I don't know is this hokkien, I don't know, what do I stinge or splurge on


I stinge on, I stinge on, actually I don't really stinge that much do I


I just don't like spending on, very expensive stuff, unless my mum is there, like I wouldn't buy a bike cause it's five hundred bucks


bikes are five hundred bucks, where did you get it from does it have gear, bikes are expensive if you want a, proper one


they are expensive my friend bought one for seven hundred bucks, good it has gears and you can ride it on the road, if it was oBike oBike left


and took my money, took my, fifty dollars deposit, hundred plus, okay ya total about two hundred but it's still less than a bike


okay so what do you stinge on


food, clothes, bags, okay


is really save it


so you wouldn't buy a new one, but they look really ugly, I guess, I will split John, food, truffle fries


claw machines, and, sometimes cloth of stuff that I think I'm pretty, and I would like to use, as long as I will use it and I don't mind buying it


no, no wasn't mistake, (ppb) so what did you splurge on


how expensive can chicken rice get, okay, where's you favorite chicken rice


I haven't try that, somebody told me, she always splurges on food because the parents told her that you should just splurge on food


because they're like if you want to eat it then just spend, is too they say something like, food is the one things that you should just, spend on because, not say a lot lah but if you want to eat it


and just eat it, is like <mandarin>吃福:chi fu</mandarin> oh I mean, blessed eating, ya, okay


most admire, can we just talk about local talent, actually I don't even know local talent, i just like gentle bones


he is not too bad okay I like cool the other one, the one who sang Take Heart eh, ya ya ya, Sam-Willows, Willows is not bad


okay then what's your idea of, above average, Dee-Kosh, why not, okay


local talent, oh I saw that video, oh


I guess, I mean he's a good guy, he's a good guy, oh right


no but they can earn money, for Singapore


what is this, generation gap, so what is it, and then, so what's his best video what have you learnt from him


uh I'm thinking


I think, they gotta learn to be Kiasu, otherwise they will lose mrt seats


they will lose out, I don't know, they have to be auntie


what is this, think of your favourite Singlish word or phrase, oh, this one is not cool, do the buy one get one free one


oh ya


oh okay, can you make up your mind


oh ya, when can you collect fifty dollars, what's the best Lobang


oh I know I know the, the ten dollars off Grab, from, eh no no no the Milieu app, you know we gotta get money from it, and, the


the ten dollars Grab is that time the one I told you, Cineleisure, no you told me about that after I told you about it then you said your friend got it, really


okay, I remember now, oh maybe we should have spent five dollars more


ya, oh ya, I didn't process it properly, we should have gotten ten dollars off Grab, what's your most favourite canteen dish or snack


you are so loud look at that, chicken rice, I just like watermelon, canteen food


oh last time there was maggi Mee at my canteen, and then, it was really nice, then you can add mashed potato to it


I told you then my friends class added, grape juice to the maggi Mee, cause they were weird, it was still not too bad


(ppb) I miss the grape juice, it was like the kind of like fruit punch kind, then we can drink it, it was like fifty cents, milo was eighty cents


Milo is a scam, what ah animal biscuits, is it just the animal shaped one, they weren't very nice


I kind of remember, I don't like biscuit, they they are very dry, no, you can put sauce


truffle fries, cheese truffle (ppb), what do you always complain about


having no time, I always complain about being bored, right, cause it's boring


I don't know there's nothing to do other than study, occasionally fun


eat here or Dabao, what favourite hawker dish makes you #lao nua#, drool oh, oh-my-gosh, stop it with the chicken rice


the #lao nua# word makes me, reminds me of #orh luak#, Char-Kway-Teow


not really I don't drool over it, no it's too spicy, I don't like hotpot either


yum stuff, no I like Char-Kway-Teow and #hokkien mee#, ya, who doesn't like #hokkien mee#, delicious


I like fat noodles, Mee-Kia also not too bad although it's thin, I don't like #bee hoon# tastes very weird


cause it's like thin then when you eat it it's like, the flavour is weird, exactly that's worse, (ppb) it has no flavour that's the point


no that's why it's really gross, nothing makes it better it's just weird it's like, it falls apart when you eat it, it's average, which place in Singapore make the biggest impression on you as a kid


#Haw-Par#-Villa, why, there was a fish pond in #Dhoby Ghaut#, where, outside Plaza Sing


I have never said the fish pond there, cause you are old


what fish, the what's that called in English, the bump head fish, I don't know, I like Arowana fish


is, like, you know the royal, okay, the place that, oh the old SingPost centre


cause I like walking around there they a lot of fountains, is like fountain fountain, short fountain for this place outside the SingPost centre, then I


I fell in before yes (ppb), my dad would let me walk along the side then one day I just fell in is quite funny and they drag me out


ya, that's not in Singapore, yes, oh ya that was interesting


my shoe strap broke cause they were old, my shoe strap broke because you step on it, but the strap didn't break, until you step on it


you are clumsy, for eastern, Kaypoh, Kaypoh


did you eavesdrop before on, anything important, that's cool, I think I just go up to people randomly and say why what's happening like a lot then I'm trying to


my automatic question is just why, why, ya but, my mum used to just tell me to


to shut up, busybody, Kaypoh


you snoop around somewhere, you, did you Kaypoh other people's grades, busybody


did you Kaypoh other people's problems, okay, what is, okay we have done all these


(ppb) !huh!, will win the World Cup ever, no way, that's rubbish, we will never win the World Cup


maybe like, two hundred years later


what, lottery, why, okay, really ah, but what do they even do with the old tv, they probably can't sell it to other people right


like the metal is it and the glass, but you will have to go around collecting so many they are bulky


ya, that's true how about fridge, old fridge, small fridge


okay true, did I tell you how I got my hall fridge, the guy just delivered it in the same day, oh ya but it was fine it works well, thirty dollars, do you think I can sell it after that after next year


just sell for thirty lah or twenty, it's kind of crappy but okay


what is this supposed to mean, exciting, enriching, boring, the work that I do is boring


it will be tiring I'm gonna be tired everyday, Paya-Lebar


but it's, still less crowded than Orchard, Orchard is damn bad


so where do we go where can we go, no there's nothing at #joo koon#


is the aircon on, okay, where do we normally go that's like quiet, oh I know I know those hdb places


like if you walk around in a hdb town or, that we were in Marine-Parade that was quite nice, it was Ulu, it was quiet not Ulu


that's nice what, it used to be Pokemon, there used to be so many people there now there's no more it's a bit


okay well, oh true last time we ate there before, no I ate with my friends I wasn't referring to you, it's not bad but I don't really remember, just taste like hawker centre food to me


Old-Airport is better, (ppb) we are going to finish the cards, okay, what's the on the ball


the best place to chillax, the wave at Henderson, okay not really, (ppb) and you have to walk a lot to get there


the best place, where can we chillax, cinema , cinema is not bad


ya, Wild-Wild-Wet, you can chillax there, oh ya


oh ya I forgot that was a cow play cow moo also


oh ya let's go, oh the girl there, ya, cow play cow moo is good and you can eat the, the super good pasta, ya, right the do you like the what did you what did you get there the duck is it


oh ya, that was nice, and there's free tissue paper, free no free wet tissue, I don't remember guy laugh that loud, cause we check activity turn and


more talk remind me on Natasha, my primary school teacher


cause they were nice


that's my answer, I told you about that science teacher on my tuition center, she was cool, she brought a lot of plants for us to look at


then there was like casuarina, you know that, it's like a plant, okay and then there's another plant that if you drop it it will turn, like a helicopter ya


she brought all those stuff then like duck weed and water hyacinth, ya then cause of that I like science like bio, no I wasn't in bio


wait do you have a dialect, okay, your parents don't have dialect, what dialect, oh is like Chinese


then not Cantonese all these <unk> dialect, I'm scared of ghosts


!eww!, ya I don't like ghosts, I don't think they will do anything to me, it's a bit scary cause you don't know if they are there, I'm scared of the dark


ya I used to, ya


uh no that's scary ya I hate that, I'm scared of all those, ya


ya, all scary last time I needed my, my maid to wait outside the toilet, while I showered then I will be like are you still there (ppb) then she will have to be like yes I'm still there


sometimes, I used to be like if it's dark then and I'm alone then I have to turn on the light there, hall the lights are always on what so it's better, it's different if it's dark then I can't see if I can see a ghost more clearly it's a bit better


ya at least you can see it, just see lah, not seeing is worse cause you don't know what you are scared of


no it's worse, it's still worse I'm scared of the dark that's why, yes, so what are you scared of what are you most scared of, why, why are you most scared of me


okay, cause I scold you, so, oh


where should visitors go in Singapore to get a real sense of the country, oh yes, eat food, and see people, ya


hdb, you can see people at the void deck


smoking, playing chess, bird watching no one plays chess at void decks anymore right, I want to see that that's cool, I really never see anyone play already at all ever


I never see before, then


what level, you know my best one, you know my worst one, no, my worst one is math


my, ya, three dollars, I'm not that bad at math but it's still quite bad, it's reasonable for certain topics


I was good at probability, (ppb) were you good at probability, (ppb) okay, fine, good for you


you are so gross at math, cause you're like sickeningly good at it, normally I just spend like you know I spend all three hours of my math exams doing what or not like


I finish the stuff that I can do, then at the end all the questions that I cannot do I brute force my way through like if it's, some random counting thing then I just anyhow count a lot of stuff last time I had to do a, a what's that called ah, in primary school they tried to teach us the Nth number what is that called


ya when inverted N plus one that kind then they will ask you to, ya so they, tried to teach us but I never learnt so I spend my exams just writing it out like


ya, like I will across the whole thing ya then I didn't get the answer then they didn't they give me like one mark, simplest, and it is like try