I have a very mischievous side, and I'm someone who, yaks a lot, I guess if I feel comfortable with the person I will tend to just like you know I talk a lot, so


I won't say I'm looking for someone who has that same exact traits you know, like they said, they said opposites attract, as long as he's able to, entertain me


or as long as that person, finds, accepts me just the way I am, ya okay in the end it, in the end it turned out to be a generic answer because I feel that everybody will say that, but as long as


that that person is someone who is able to, accept me and my quirkiness ya, ya no not yet


I think it goes beyond accepting, I mean anybody can accept but whether they actually embrace, your uniqueness you know your quirkiness, because I feel these days there's a lot of standards being set they want someone who is you know I'm definitely not demure


I'm definitely, like not really very, I won't safe, not feminine but you know I'm I'm just not I feel that I am not, or like, most girls out there who are very, sweet and lady like and soft I'm not rough but I'm not soft either so


so the deal breaker for me is someone who not only accept, me for who I am or for the way I am someone who embrace it, understands it, treasures it, and and, it's what probably they love most about me


my turn right, you know I getting most of the relationship questions, how long has it been since your last serious relationship


yes true, it's a really long time, really long


so where are you exactly now in, in life are you are you holding out, for for another relationship or are you looking to pursue something or are you just like, whatever happens happen


just to add on I would, say, I would say it's safe like, it would be safe to say like at this age, we don't mind, if we're like, still single, and our time to like settle down or be in a serious relationship comes you know at a later point in our life


like I feel like we would we would rather choose that over like, already being with someone but they're telling us to like, I need like three years more or I need I need I need you to wait, ya


ya but it's just that, it's no guarantee man


so it's like I rather just meet that, soulmate of mine like at a later age and then he's just like, bam hey like within a few months, of course it'll take few months maybe like okay you know what we got to know each other I like you we've met each other's family you know let's, let's just be, proper adults and do this the right way


it's okay, patience is virtue


me me, I love kids, with that being said though, if you ask me if right now I'm ready to have a kid no I'm not


if you ask me if I were to be married like, if I were to get married and I'm willing to get to have a kid instantly no I'm not because, I know myself well, you know you know once I get married I probably wanna have, a year, I just want to have my husband to myself for a year


before other responsibilities and commitments, start coming in but of course having kids is important to me, doesn't mean that, I'm not looking forward to have, of my own


why do I why is that important to, hey you know anything can happen, you know if I were to grow older and my husband is no longer around, I would need someone to be there to take care of me you know my parents won't probably won't be around, as well by that time that happens


and of course I can't depend on them forever to take care of their daughter you know there's, as they getting older so, definitely I want a junior someone who who who, be there for me, and


also someone there I would be able to, pass down, my life experiences too, you know, their morals good morals good values and help them, just and help nurture them into


good, nature people, just like, hopefully how, I was, or I am , (ppb) but yeah yeah but yeah


just that definitely not err right away after marriage uh I would like, wanna have like abit of a gap year we'll call it, that's not the right term that's for school but doesn't matter I would like to have like, a year or two depending on my age of course


it all boils down on to my age but yeah at least minimum a year and then defiantly I will start err, thinking about having kids and doing a family planning and what not, okay you know I think we need to elaborate more on this question because we still have plenty of time


sweet and salivary how well can you cook or bake, yeah


I mean, for me, like as long as you can execute recipe you can cook you don't have to be like some


chef who can do it from top of your head right or anything ya


yes so you eliminate other pressures you know from like family members and what not , wrongly ya


which one would you say it between both right which would you say you you are more, better


ya I can't I, so sorry but Malay cuisine is not my forte ask me to cook mee-goreng and I look at you and be like, hold up and let me Google that


ya ya and I ask me to do pasta okay I can still you know somehow figure out, definitely some wet spices because you know mee-goreng is something that is wet ya okay whatever see


cannot make it, my cousin told me that usually, for a person they are good at its own so if you, good at baking usually cooking you are like meh if you good at cooking usually baking you are like meh, and I feel that applies to me because, I I won't say I'm excellent at cooking but


it's passable but when it comes to baking I am a, fail like I am a complete failure at that, and my cousin told me that baking is like, a sign, and then cooking is more of like, a talent or something


so it's like two completely very different, aspects ya, they'll probably be like, you know Michelin star chefs


or like Gordan-Ramsey level , or they have been to culinary school, like they they are professionals or, nah definitely not here ya


the only thing I can bake is no bake stuff, then ya ya and then put in the freezer and then just like


what do I value most in a friendship I would say respect, I mean of course, above everything else I mean there's like trust, etc etc but uh I value most definitely respect I am, I am a very particular person when it comes to that


I have broken off friendships, guilty as charge but I have broken off friendships, when we get in into an argument and they just start cussing at me because, as a person I'm not someone who cuss


I I find it very rude and disrespectful, I have never used cuss words even in , you know normal everyday speech, or normal everyday conversations so it's it's not, it's not that I'm not accepting of others I've friends


who use it, as their daily vocabulary I've no problem with that, but what I'm talking if it's directed at you, you know, and it might not even have to be a cuss word it can just be plain, respectful ya, like something that's just plain disrespectful like maybe you get into an argument and they start like


talking about, ya and then start talking about you negatively or bringing you down, ya and they just take everything out of, context just being plain disrespectful lah I think you you everyone should be able to understand, I mean everybody has a different


perception of what disrespectful is, for me if is simply as, taking, my character apart, and just like nitpicking on each and every flaw of mine, and and and, ya that that for me I'm very particular about so definitely in friendship


I value, respect it's important to me, because, I, as a friend, whatever I give to you I expect back in return and I don't mean something materialistic or


like or or kind gestures or anything but, something like respect if I respect you of course I, have that same expectation from you in return


yes, ya, yes true


just because they don't disagree they will put you down, ya ya


ya, ya, and I think , to be, friend, someone it, usually means you will bear your soul to them, and, that usually includes


sharing, a piece of your past with them or sharing your deepest darkest secret, and, if you don't have respect basically what happens is, when you get into a misunderstanding or argument


will tend to use your past against, or bring up your past and say oh because you were like this or like that last time, this is why you know we are not getting along, if you don't have that level of respect for each other that is what will happen


mine eh ya should be mine right, who or what irritates you, is this a who or what first like is this a who or what


yes what's past is past, or they are some, or just some leftover feelings or whatever okay


badly


yes, I I agree wholeheartedly, ya I mean like okay especially, ya especially if, you hurt that person and then it took them a while to move on from you, you should think of them


ya you should consider like how hard it it it was for them, so you can't just pop pop in and, out of their life as and when you like ya


we are spilling out all our secret, let me see which one do I want to talk about


stress or destress, I want to talk about destress, sitting by the beach, you know I've been I've been going to ECP, a a a number of times err especially this year especially recently with my best friend sometimes alone


and we realize, that, it's actually a very, yes and to just it's you know the tranquility of the area just, looking out at the ships or looking out at the sea at night especially of course


ya, you you can find easy distractions around you and , or maybe just sitting there and talking sitting there with someone you trust and just like talking about whatever issues you have you know


and sharing the problem, ya I would say sitting by the beach, definitely my go to to destress, it used to be shopping, it used to be even if it's just window shopping but


you know as you grow older, you've got uh financial commitments and you can't always just splurge, as and when you like so, that's a distressing thing it should be me right I, oh I have to answer stress as well god


okay wait let me see if I can think of one, what stresses me, what stresses me is when, I would say one of the thing that stresses me out most is when things don't go as plan


as planned because I have this bad I would say it's a bad habit about me or a bad thing about me whereby, I like things to, if I plan something I like things to go


as plan I like it to, you know , fold or unravel in that exact, manner that I organise, I am not that impromptu kind of person I'm just I'm just not even if it's impromptu I'll try to plan something


no no no no, even though I have a bit of that but no no no it's not that it's just that, it's just this thing that you have


no all the time of course just a limit, actually but then, on a on on on the other hand when come think oh when I come to think about it, then as I grow older I manage to kind of let let go of that so it it it doesn't, I remember


true like you've been looking forward to it, oh oh I've got another one okay like even better like scratch that


when, you get silence in return from someone, that's stresses the heck out of me like , yes blue tick, oh my god yes, that that ya that


that's definitely my answer, I can't handle that ya, just nope (ppb) like okay if you're busy just say hey I'm busy can I talk, talk to you about this later, or or or


or maybe like if you can't reply at that point of time maybe by the by night time or before you sleep just, you know reply back it's fine I get it we all have responsibilities, we all are busy with our own lives but don't ignore, and just keep quiet


that's a major stressor for me, and like being someone who tends to over think


would be that ya definitely, here getting all the personal questions as well gosh think beneath, the waves, describe the saddest moment of your life


you can you may I have tissues


eh ya because you talk about that a lot ya, oh that's a good one


but, I mean, but is funny when you think about it right like, is usually this case something that used to be really sad for you


later on in life, you realise that, it it's either there was a learning curve, or or, you realise that hey you know looking back, it's not that it doesn't affect you as much I mean, right now look at where you are right now even though you didn't do well for your O-levels


you still went on to like ITE you did well in poly and then now you are doing your degree, and then it's still fine you know, work life still work out somehow


ya you could have take ya, I know like if we, if we could rewind back time we probably would, want to do something about it ya


ya it was not lazy it's not that we would, we will be honest here we were in doubt, we weren't we weren't like, slow at learning or anything, I mean like no offence to anyone else lah but, we we were not stupid we had a few uh subjects that


were our, ya correct, ya but, no not so much of mathematics mathematics was, (ugh) a few a few topics ya


no F and N, F and N was, out of the question, same, I gave up, no


mine was more of history social studies geography I couldn't, ya it was definitely more of lazy and being complacent


what the hell however you pronounce it but ya, complacent lah, ya oh my god ya I feel so like when, can you like but it just it feels like it was just yesterday right but then in three years time we turning thirty so it's like


I would now, now we have a different type of crisis, real problems at that point of time we thought studies was a huge ya


now it's like, other, worse issues


horrible, okay what's with that look


this is such this is like the wrong person, this is like the wrong person to us because I have always, I haven't been in a lot of relationships but, the people that I do get very emotionally involved with or attached to I have all these struggle with letting go eh you know that


but, ya I have it's a huge huge ass struggle for me, but of course experiences , help teach you


so based on my experiences, you know, it's time to let go someone when, they've just been they've become detrimental and toxic to your well being, would be, physically like your health and emotionally


you know like, I'm sure we all, at least once in our life we will actually go through that when where where, yes either that or someone, that


who will just, push all of our buttons, and make us act in a very irrational manner, you know especially when we're very highly emotional, so, the signs that you can look out for is basically when, you feel like you can't function


without them, or you can't go on with in life, without hearing from them or talking to them or being around them, not to the point of depression where you tend to the to do something stupid of course that would require a different


kind of help but I mean like you just so sad that, you you you don't see a purpose in life anymore, you know that's one of the signs , and where this person, where you whenever you keep reaching out to them


you know even even just because she want to be nice so they just keep, not only do they, turn down the offer not only do they turn you away, they just, put you down, you know, they will just


criticise you, every ya every single way and every single part of you, yes and the the conversations with them basically or your meetings with them just don't leave you feeling good


you are a horrible person you are a terrible person yes


it's either that or, sometimes they just don't reciprocate at all, no matter how nice you are no matter how good or clear your intentions are, if if they just, keep on ignoring you or giving you the silent treatment and I'm talking like long term


and you are always the one that is chasing and, different situations calls for different different perspectives, but this is general, in terms of like, where they really don't reply at all


you know where where where they don't, even bother to acknowledge your efforts or anything they don't apologise


crap in return, or silence


ya basically again, ya you know and basically it just brings back to the topic of respect again, you know it's time to let go when that person does not even have


respect for you like even the slightest respect to you to actually reply or to actually, ask hey how are you or to show concern or to return back, whatever that that that you've shown them


but again this depends on how, close your relationship is, you know of course you can't expect them from someone you, ya or someone that you are not that that uh close to ya but if it's someone that you, you've maybe spent your life with or build a relationship with or


you know someone you live in the same house, in the same house with, you will those are the size that ya, you'll need to let go, alright


if if this person, if being around this person is just, making you stagnant in life, it whatever ya


that's that's that a clear sign, people who, who who care about or who who who are meant to be in your life or


who genuinely have concern for you, even though they might not, be there all the time they might have their own, you know if they busy even though they might not ask eh how are you all the time, you will just know, that that


they're still precious to you in your life because, once in a while you know they will still reply once in a while they will try to talk to you, but people who just don't, want to be in your life at all, they will really make themselves scarce, they won't reply to you ever


they won't even try to talk to you or have a a proper conversation with you, and that's when you know you need to let go, when they themselves show that they don't want to be in your life


ya it's a very clear cut thing, it's a clear cut sign, is it my turn to ask you, out dent


did you enjoy doing chores, which is your most and least, favourite chore


are you serious, oh !wow!, I hate it


oh yes


okay that's interesting, this is I don't like it, I mean it's easy yes but I do not like it at all, especially when it comes I mean like just dumping it into the washing machine that's fine but when it comes to


ya drying like hanging up to dry just like, what, oh my god what


ya because I always like pluck in my headphone and start dancing while I vacuum I will be in my own world, like a lot of times


I'm fine I'm fine with whatever type of vacuum cause I feel like I can be in my own world but my least favourite, least favourite


oh no ironing, I mean if it's my own clothes I'm okay, ya the, okay lah least favourite there's too many to list out cause in general chores are just not my kind of thing but I'm fine with vacuuming you can ask me to vacuum everyday I could


as long as I have my handphone like and my, earplugs or my earphone, it's your turn to ask me right


!wow! what do I miss most from my childhood, when I was a child I feel like, life is just problem free stress free, it was just, you know


just just just just what's important is just pleasing your parents, true I don't, I've never there's no love, problems


to deal with, you know because you were too young to even, ya, ya you know or or, you don't have to think about money, you don't have to think about, getting a job


I mean ya you still have to do well in your exams and everything but it was still at that point of time in your life where you just like, pass pass fail fail


and you always had your parents, at that age you always have your parents to kinda like push you and like, send you for tuition and whatnot, when you are older it's different lah


so ya that's what I would say I miss, eh as a child I miss I miss what I miss from my childhood is the innocence and just, a stress the stress free period


of life, okay


what personal trait do you like most about yourself, I mean there has to be something, don't look at me like that


honey you have a lot don't don't don't, don't be like that


a very relaxed calm


yes it could go either way, okay that's a very unique answer I wasn't expecting that, like a drama comes with like bye bye


it's funny, well you know it's funny because I'm the opposite of him


I mean I it's not that I like trouble but I'm someone who has this aura that, tend to attract drama very easily, that's what I feel, ya my life is like always twenty four seven drama it's not from me it's from other people and then it just somehow you know, splatter on to me


ya and then I get involved ya exactly, oh my gosh I feel like I okay I think I hurt my cousin


my cousin went for this session and then it was one of the questions that she failed, that that that that that pop up and, I swear to god that I was at home thinking all day long what is my ideal kind of bed


so I'm just going to base base this on, you know okay at first I thought that, because I'm an organized person I like dates that are that that that, that you know, that's already been planned out beforehand


like the guy has has everything planned out and I don't have to think about it, you know of course that is ideal and I think every every girl would love that but then at the same time, based on my experiences of or or good memories of what good dates that I have had, impromptu is fine with me as well I think most importantly


it's just having a good time with that person, you're able to like connect with that person you know, even if that person is someone that, doesn't talk as much as you but you know they're listening to you, and you know that they're enjoying your company and vice versa


so that that that will be, he talks you listen or you could be the only one talking and he's just there smiling to himself and looking at you like, oh this girl can talk


I would like that, I get that, it depends ya but it depends I as much as I like there's sometimes I like people to just


be a listener, and there are sometime, oh of course if you are talking about first date that that wouldn't be ideal at all, ya I mean it's important bottom line is being comfortable in each other's presence


where I can just be myself yes that's it where I can just be myself you know without, knowing that the person doesn't judge me or has any like negative thoughts about me or negative outlook of me ya, so it can be anywhere


it can be something as simple as just , I'll be honest with you, I don't like spending too much time eating on a date because I feel like the conversation will be more restricted, because you are surrounded by


other people at a certain, limited ya, exactly


it's true ya especially when it comes to like certain sensitive topics or what not, but, oh ya bringing me to a good oh but bringing me to a good place to eat, is , is is is okay as well I enjoy eating I love food if it's a place that


the person, one of their favourite places if they bring me to their favourite places and things I feel like they are making they they are, welcoming me to be a part of their life and what not so


ya true and then they recommend you what dishes ya I love it, ya I love it, true, then you learn something about them, so ya another ideal, thing for a date would be is when you are able to learn things about each other


you know, like you find discovered something new about one another, oh yes is like, is just like I know right yes yes I agree, oh my god yes


yeah oh gosh, I mean they didn't say first date they just say ideal perfect date what, it could be like your thirtieth date, ya, it could be your thirtieth date and then he finally gets on the knee and be like


hey babe, gosh, ya like you you thought it was your ya, nice


ya that is, that is like the most, ya that is the most perfect, most perfect ever, I'm sorry we're all getting old so that's why we always talk about marriage okay it's important to us, okay whose turn my turn


little tyke, what are your top three children's, you haven't really thought about it though


but why three kids, a bit too ya, yes, we we haven't even gone to the point where we are in a stable serious relationship


how many kids would you like to have though, is it a girl and a boy, I I actually have a more


a stronger preference for boys, because


too much trouble, stress stress through the top, I am procrastinating in


not just one of them my mum my mum just spoke about it, the most something important ah let's say on a on a very big scale, wide scale I would say my career, it's a bit, okay lah


won't say procrastinating, yes, I was just still trying to figure out what I want to do in life I took I took a different route right now, I'm not really at the stage of, procrastination in fact I'm at the stage of Kanchiong spider


ya , ya , I'm at the stage where I'm just like, rushing right now cause of my age, okay lah not rushing but , trying to push myself, at that at at at at, certain point yes I was procrastinating that


ya chasing after work you I do, now that I'm twenty seven it kind of just like hit me, like bam in your face


hard uh, life is hard, as you grow older, it it just never got easier


oh no


there is so many regrets in my life that, oh my lord uh, I have so many regrets in life , I think one we spoke about was O-level, ya if I could turn back time


I would have studied really well I would have gone to my dream school, which was Temasek JC, it's either that or I wanted to do psychology in a Temasek Poly, or vet or veterinary science that was also that


ya, so that that was, and I probably would have like studied so hard in poly and probably gone on to NUS NTU, ya that was that was the dream at some point of time, it's an unrealistic dream but that was a dream, but


I think apart from that, if I could turn back time, I wish I had been a more, patient, person in handling others, and I wish I had handled myself better especially when I'm very highly emotional


I've had I've, have had, moments in life where I'm not very proud of, because I was in a state of just


in a in a complete , state of emotion emotion I was a emotional wreck lah, so , I wasn't able to think straight and I portrayed myself in such a way that, I wouldn't blame the other party for for having a negative outlook or negative view of me


and ya if I could turn back time, I would have, like to be the one to just walk away in silence, because they say, being silent, doesn't mean that you're weak, or you're giving up or anything


sometimes it takes a strong person to just remain silent, during a heated argument err during a heated argument or when someone is putting you down, and I think at this point of time in my life I wouldn't say it's something that I've managed to, get a hold of or cope with


sometimes when someone pushes my buttons I still very find it really hard to just walk away, and keep quiet, I will tend to, you know reply back and then things just spiral, out of hand even further


but ya that's definitely, I regret portraying myself, a bad like


we shall go and, two to tango, why are you, I thought it was what, why are you looking for a partner


and everyone and everyone else is, and everyone else is just like you know married, still ya


okay it's my turn okay I think from here, ya is I mean as in it's your turn to ask, I think from here all we have to keep our answers like direct and short cause we're running out of time , like oh what half an hour, or fifteen minutes


okay, a bit more religious, ya for sure I mean, it depends on the person because this is on this is testing someone's spiritual level but


you know I I I have a religion I believe in a religion I believe in a god, so for me yes I will definitely be more religious in a in in a sense that I'll be I will pay more attention to it, I'll be more immerse in it, and I probably wouldn't, worry about petty stuff such as love or what not I mean I have a year to live like the heck you know like


not so much worrying about a job anymore, or studying or finance, but just maybe probably spending more time with my loved ones, ya, definitely that, okay crash and burn describe the worst date you've ever been on in


you should tell about the time that you came down all the way to someone's work place, their school event, and then


ya she came all the way down, with him not talking to us, ya


just because it was convenient


oh yes it was


special ability, first then I would save myself from, a lot of heartache a lot of overthinking a lot of just


bad vibes I mean ya sometimes you when you know when you, find out what the person is thinking it could hurt but ya at least you know at that point in time, instead of later on you know, so ya definitely, and you can avoid like a lot of conflicts and what not


also you can turn back time


yes, moral of the story describe one important life lesson you've learnt from the books you've read


last meal, last meal last meal, I mean if you're talking last meal in terms before, before death of course, who I would I eat with of course with my family and probably my close friends, cause you know I won't be seeing them anymore


so it's probably you, okay lah that's true in my cousins as well my three cousins ya, my three close cousins you and my family my parents which is my parents and my two brothers and my sister in law of course


oh let's throw in my two grandmothers also, I mean like how can I not oh my god cannot okay, ya I mean like but I'm not close to (ugh) (ugh)


okay lah let's say I already have a partner in life so my partner okay, the love of my life, ya, the love of my life okay and then what would it be


something that we'll both, ya something we'll both enjoy, something we both can agree on, but we'll both enjoy and something we agree on and we like, or something memorable for us like maybe something we had on our first date


or you know, it's sad also what ya, okay I get to ask, tingling in your toes, how do you know that you truly love your partner


I was about to sing and then I saw they said do not sing


bloom bloom here flowers here and there violins in the background


it's okay if I don't live in that house it can be an investment I can rent it out or what not okay but first of all I will buy a house, I'm sorry lah I'm not I'm not I won't say I'm not charitable I will of course donate some money, I mean most importantly I will give to to my parents first


buy a house, get my license both bike and car license then buy a car and a bike


then no it's okay and then ten million oh !wow! girl pay for my degree, yes exactly with that money and of course I did mention that I'll give it to my parents probably pay for my younger brother's school as well


then save some for marriage uh and honeymoon of course, whenever it happens lah, I'll travel it's part of it ah girl it's ten million you can stretch it


you can stretch it as far as you want, okay my turn right know no fear if you knew, you could not fail what would you go accomplish, you could not fail what would you go accomplish, that means


if you know that failure is never gonna happen to you what would you, what what how would you take advantage of the, what would you accomplish, knowing that you can never fail


on top of the world, that would be a me


or maybe you could be like one of those like top finance person, and the department, or an auditor or something I got four cards left man, okay let's do this we can do this


K can't sing , I am my own hero man, I know because I don't I I think it's really hard for me to kind of like


narrow it down to just one person, ya I would just say I am my own hero, how I inspire myself is because I feel like I have went through a lot of hardships in life, I mean different, people have different tolerance of err, pain and and and


stress and hardships and what not but for me, personally for myself I feel like I have been tested in, in ways that that that, I never imagine, or never saw myself, being in in such a, horrible or terrible situations


and I would say that I am an inspiration to myself because I feel that, I managed to overcome all of that, and emerged a much stronger person than before, after each experience, so ya I am my own hero


ties that bind, what activity do you enjoy most doing together with your family


that's nice right ya it's nice for a change


what value, I would like to think that


I add value in people's life, because


how do I talk without being arrogant something like that , I like to think that I add values in people's life, by


maybe encouraging, them to be good or to bring out goodness in them, ya like maybe, let's say if I have, friend or I know someone who's very


negative, about whatever they're going through, so I would say I would add value in their life by being someone who's the opposite by being positive and telling them hey you know, to forward in life to look up do not give up and what not or if I have someone


if if I know someone who has anger management problems maybe, I add value in their life by, telling them to, be more patient, be more calm, somebody just, spreading positive vibes to people


even if I can't do that for myself but I am able to do that for others, okay your turn, what motto do you live by, life motto


really you gonna give that motto


alright we have fifteen minutes left haha, !huh! embarrassing moment, okay lah I won't say it's the most but I'm just gonna give an example of a embarrassing moment


there's this, either used to be this pair of pink Crocs that I wear to work, cause I was working at laboratory and my friends have always told me eh it's so ugly can you just, throw it away but at that point of time err for sentimental purposes I did not


and I felt that it was very convenient for me to wear, cause as I mention I work in a lab, so, you know whatever when it comes to shoes, so I was so stubborn then there was one time it was raining heavily at my house area and I was, as I was my bus stop has, uh some stairs going downwards so as I was like


going down the stairs, I slipped and there was these these, two boys, two young chaps in front of me who was walking and I slipped and I fell like a superman like literally like, fell face, fell down, forward


sliding across the floor, and there was very a embarrassing and the boys literally just stopped talking and turned back to look at me, it took them a moment but, I I guess they were shocked but then, they they they they held out their hands to me to


to to help me up, ya but I I at the point of time I remember feeling like, I wish the ground will just open up and swallow me because it was so embarrassing, and painful, your turn what is the craziest thing you have ever done


you know I know sorry can't really talk about that


I don't think if never, okay so shall we skip, you wanna ask me, let's just say maybe if you not yet okay let me change the question, what would be a crazy thing you would like to do in your life if you had the chance


for you because you have a fear level of


mine would be like bungee jumping or skydiving, ya so, okay, oh ya you never know right


K my turn I mean you have to ask me I guess, I've never no I'm not saying that I've tried out before but I've came close to I mean there was like I tried dating apps like Tinder and it was just like


you know the thing and it's nots just dating apps the thing about getting to know someone on social media or dating apps right, whatever they say to you, they probably saying it to ten thousand other girls


and whatever pictures they liking of you, they probably doing doing it to ten thousand other girls also so it's like, uh uh I'm not old fashioned, you know so this those kind of thing don't don't feel very special, and through going through a dating agency is pretty much more or less the same


you know you they will show the guy a few pictures and if he he's attracted to you in your picture then he's like okay eh let's let's, hook up with this one okay turns out that this person has certain things that we share in common, but you know when they don't like what they see in real life, then things might not progress forward so


whatever I will just meet someone in my own time, someday, okay last question for you if your house caught fire and you only had time, to save one item what would you save


because , but they can't run, K let me see what's the time now, oh okay we I think we have like, a couple more of minutes for just like a particular topic and I'm just gonna choose okay


I'm just gonna choose one question for you, from here and then you can choose one for me as well lah


what are your career goals and aspiration


what are your career goals and aspiration, are you serious okay, but you know more or less you know what are you studying then, more or less you know that's the direction you wanna go right


okay okay, okay fine answer another question, I'm trying to find something easy for


ha holy grail makeup, or latest makeup, put up, like what's your favourite brand maybe


obsession, really I didn't I didn't really uh


honey, we all load that, as in playlist like Spotify playlist right ya we all load that I listen hard rail , it's my go to for exercising, it's my go to


no I mean I don't listen to it everyday it it's my go to for exercising, I in general I don't really listen to music, it's my go to for exercising like it it's just, gives me the stamina the energy


and and okay Turkish Turkish Turkish I'm into Turkish songs as well, pop songs pop music Turkish pop music yes, even though I don't understand


is that like, oh maybe is not yet time, ya okay, so next


what food is your neighborhood most famous for, this I know the answer is the, what what food is your neighborhood most famous for


Chinese cuisine right, things that you can find at err East Coast Lagoon actually ya but at a more convenient area


quite good right


come on I love, ya we are both are food I mean I'm food junkie man how can I just, okay lah I will just say, what's that ramen place


ya the ramen stall it was a memorable one because, it happen at a point where I haven't really gone out and, at the point at I was it was a period in my life where I haven't been going out and really like enjoying, or trying or tasting new food and then someone brought me there it was just like bam


like food haven, bam, yes, ramen stall you guys should try it like, is good you should have the gyoza is really nice and affordable


is there any question that you want that you like to answer


okay, what are your worry tell me


quite sometime ya, takes a while to get a hang of it


oh two more minutes, ask me this this cause I think I can finish that in two minutes, it's two minutes, if I had the money


and if I had the guts to take the license I will go for a freaking Jaguar, there that car is so sleek so nice, or a Volkswagen Beetle you know the new one, and when it come in like pink colour and all that just cute one ya that's really cute


ya Audi is like, nice as well, motorcycle anything for me that is just like, oh ya I don't like that kind of


I was so confident, okay, so if motorcycles I like sport bikes but nothing too noisy, no (ppb), wait uh oh you mean


oh oh ya, uh that one that one that one too big for a small size girl like me ya, oh but the ya ya there's one the Yamaha the new one which is really nice the, it's a sports version so ya, and Hayabusa is nice but it's too big for someone small like me so ya


if I was a pillion then maybe ya, oh that's nice, if you could, if you could


okay for mine , I have a food shack, and it's called crayfish at, shellfish lobster, and behind it there's, person a guy, who's fishing and I see there's a shark


fin, and beside it there's seagulls, trying to catch some fishes, and, near the beach there's a bar and it says special offer peach wine


they're serving peach wine for for, special offer, and , beside the bar there's two, garbage bins, and opposite the bar there's a couple


being together, opposite the couple there's an old couple, who's just, chilling


there's a beach umbrella, beach chair, and also there's a girl on top of a beach ball, which err with a beach hat and ya opposite there there's a see saw and


it says, beach combing, eleven AM, I have no idea what it is, but yes, yes


ya there's no driving, a different wine eh ya menu yes, ya mine is, listening to the radio and also


the grandma is, reading a book, yes and is a green err like it's stripe and it's green in colour


sign you for arrow yes it says North Shore Golf Club, okay, err crayfish


shellfish lobster, your's is Joe's if I'm not mistaken right, uh okay, okay I guess we found all six of it, ya ya yours is way different [seh]


uh no uh it's, twenty eight, okay


I got twenty nine


which of these symbol, which of these symbols best describe you


I feel that marriage is something, important to me, I would say, extremely important but it's important because I feel that everyone needs a life partner


eventually eventually everyone needs a life partner, to avoid feeling lonely, I would give it , an eight


what is the most important lesson you have learnt from your parents


I agree


I would say my best friend I feel like we can, we can talk about anything we literally talk about everything, that uh we can think of, ya under the sun


about a lot of stuff, together and I feel like, she's someone who I can talk for hours and hours, oh this is a good question how do you want to be remembered


okay that's that's a good answer that's very good, I would say volunteering work I I believe that, helping people is like something


I want to do eventually if I have the time in the future it's something like, it makes me feel good about it like you know helping others without, getting anything in return without receiving anything in return knowing that you help others it makes you feel good don't you think so


yes community service, character flaw, what personal trait do you dislike most about yourself


sensitive, I go by a few nicknames


I, I think the most that I like is, A I S, a lot of my friends back in , poly


they, call me Ais, because I feel like, I don't like, or okay Sha is still okay Sha-Sha no, but, Sha-Sha no I mean


Ais yes I think that most of my friends call me Ais , I believe that, that name is something very, simple like, nothing to it's not hard to say Ais


the girls call me Ais yes the girls call me Ais, it's okay it's okay to be unique you're the only one who call me Sha, yes


okay, all or nothing at all, what risk, have you taken for someone you love


that's interesting I mean, I guess it's a risk cause you never know, what would happen to you and what if you, what if like your manager or your accountant saw what you did you know like they're be like, why you doing like someone else job you know


oh this is a good question I last cried yesterday, I'm just being honest here


we're girls


I feel like I'm someone who's, uh when I'm down or when I'm feeling down or when I'm really really sad I would just cry, after I cry I feel better


that's normally, how it is I feel


don't help like even if someone is trying to comfort you, bucket list


what's top three on your bucket list


that's one of them two more, (oo) that's a good one yes, we all want to get married


still a good top three I feel


I have two siblings one older brother, and one younger sister, and I would say I'm more closer to my younger sister, because she's


one thing I'm sorry but sometimes a year, a year of difference, makes a lot of difference, like it's not easy to communicate with, especially err eh, the opposite sex sometimes especially if that person is just a year


uh older than you so I focus more on my younger sister, I feel that , as a as an older sister towards her, I have to set a good example by, talking to her


time with her when she's not working, ya I mean I do talk to my brother of course but, brothers are brothers, brothers are brothers I feel like they have their own world they have their own world


bubble yes planet like, understand you know each other and stuff yes, late bloomer


how would you react if, a close friend express his or her romantic feelings


romantic feelings with them right like


very awkward, I have the same mindset as you I feel like, one if you're a friend you are a friend like, I would I would prefer it to just stay that way


I was, match matchmake, like err a few months ago, I met from one, through my auntie, I would say it's a very very very very


ya it was my first time and I feel like it was, very , different in a way that, I'm someone who, I'm just never never


match matchmake I feel like it's, just an old fashion thingy, eventually I got matchmake and I think the guy is nice, and we're still in contact now still


I hope we're still on good terms and yes, my perspective of matchmaking is different now I feel that


I should like, look at it as something like, like those dating apps that, are out there nowadays, uh but this is more of an old fashion thingie


okay, sing to the mountain, describe the happiest moment of your life


yes yes yes it's unexpected like you you'll just, like you know like going moving on with your life just day by day you're just like, you know like, yes


like it's just not gonna happen anymore like he's


he or she is not gonna talk to me anymore you know


I'm sorry to say but I've read a lot of books, ya reclaim your heart, by Yasmin, is something, is a book that I would say, that helped me


terms of, to stand up, you know to stand up on my own two feet again because I was, emotionally


stress, handle, that I was emotionally, distressed, and when I read that book that was recommended by


my best friend, it helped me in a way I would say, like it, it helped me look at my life, perspective, that doesn't mean that you're single you


you will be single all your life and, even if things don't go your way, that doesn't mean that, we'll be unhappy, the day you die


spice of life, what do you most like to eat in the whole wide world


food is life


what's going on in in her life I'm, I'm I would, consider myself a busybody, I would ask her sometimes like what's happening in your life, actually, that's what we always talk about everyday, what happen in your life oh today she


she did this she did that, uh and even when she like I feel like I'm literally am her like, visual boyfriend in terms of texting, yes we talk everyday


yes we will like just talk, just randomly that topic will just come out you know and I feel like that's something that, that intrigue me that interest me because I feel that you don't, normally open yourself up


to just anyone but she's someone that I will just like, show my naked self


yes remember remember terminal Terminal Four , the restroom, when it was something different it was just like


yes I agree okay , your turn right


I feel like I just answered that like the previous question, like one of my closest friend is of course my best friend like, like she's the one that I met when, I would I would, literally say since we were thirteen because


we were both in the same CCA you know and also, I feel like we, we got to know each other, deeper when, we left secondary school I feel because during secondary school she she had a guy best friend I


no but your guy best friend was someone you, I feel like you were really close to besides, you know me and the other girls, and I I believe that after we left secondary school that's when that's


ya quite a few years actually, like really loudly


I met her, during my birthday, incredible, it was, I still remember that day I was I turn twenty three


like lovers, but no romantic, feelings towards each other, not all that glitters is gold, what is your most valued possession


how did you come to have it, valued


oh latte


both different


okay I would say, Seoul I've been to Seoul before and I love that place, I feel like, it's just something okay I mean I won't I won't say it's


like extremely different from Singapore because most of the, places I've I went to was, in the city area I would say, but they still have their culture you know like


their houses that built I guess years ago and when I saw all that I feel like, they, they embrace their culture their


where they done it like I would say, err besides that I feel like the, citizens there are very polite


they don't, they don't really, give the vibe of some of people that are, you know, unfriendly I feel, the others, they are nice and I feel like I feel really welcome there


the impact I had when I went there, was when I went, to either one and when I


err the most delicious, Korean food, which is err, grilled lamb, I would never forget that, I miss that lamb, I miss that lamb


yes, I'm hungry, I don't really understand these question but I'm just gonna like, ask, which, literary character


do you most identify with


I remember you watch


I heard that


meaningful !huh!, I would say my colleague my ex, colleague he's the, living, he's living, to travel, venture out to just


find himself, I would say I will miss him as a friend he's someone who has been there through thick and thin


after I quit, my job after I resign uh he was, always asking how am I and, how's life and how's, school and


he left a really really, good impact in my life and, I would say the meaningful conversation we had was, when he returned to Singapore will he still remember me


kind of err, sentimental moment


the both of us kind of had, but ya he's he's a really good friend, really really good friend I would say yes, he was always standing up for me


ya I mean I feel like throughout our life, we don't really err meet, a lot of, people that will leave a good impression yes that's what I feel


and, I met him when I was in my twenties so, amazing right like in your twenties and you, meet someone who's, ya Jackson I was twenty four I think


like he's not someone who I met during, my secondary school days or err polytechnic, I it's my turn right


ticking boxes, what is a deal maker in your search for a partner


I would say a year ago, ya a year ago, err I was together with someone for since I was nineteen so, almost seven years


that was the I guess, serious relationship I would say that I had, things happen and sometimes, you and your partner just fall apart and


you you the both of you just don't have the same understanding, compromise anymore and, it just went, downhill from there, so yes, last year it was


it was tough but you got to move on with life


ya whatever happens happens right I mean, eventually you will get tired of having this feeling that, you overthink and you tend to, left you or you left that person


your fault, blame for everything, eventually, that thing, tend to always, make, that's all make someone give up when things go wrong and


they just stop fighting for you and, I feel like, I'm kinda tired of all that I'm someone who, if I want to be in a relationship I want it to be, err hundred percent no like


you know like, no such thing as oh you know let's think about marriage, time I'm not getting any younger, I am about to reach thirty in three years time, thirty and thirty is not


ya to some people they are they still think thirty is young but to some people thirty is, I feel like, at the age of, twenty seven right now I feel like I went through a lot


already at the age of twenty seven I feel like the others who are twenty seven twenty eight thirties, in their thirties they are still, okay you know they are happy with their life I mean I'm not saying I'm not happy with my life but


sometimes stuff happen, longer then you used to be even even though, in the beginning it was rough for me, you know getting out of that serious relationship but


I got over it, you know with the help of like, friends, talking to your parents everyday, out spending time alone it helps spending time alone I feel that it helps


in a different light, when you are alone, there's no one, to constantly like talk to you and stuff so yep


ya that's tiring I mean it's not like we all don't want to wait but, ya especially at the age okay what okay right now we are twenty seven okay I mean, if you give it a year


most probably you get married at the age of twenty eight twenty nine it's still okay I mean, but if you give each other like two three year, you will be thirty and, what if, at that point of time the guy just, decided to just like, say, oh I see, I still think I'm not ready to settle down


you'll be thirty by then


the settle down ya, ya ya I agree, nowadays I feel like, it takes time, that's what I fear


okay , this question is like, I mean both of us are not married but, I feel like this is a good question, knowing what you're gonna pursue


for your career, so, mini me, how it, how important is having children


okay in terms of cooking I am, not that great, but you can learn, I mean I feel like, cooking is something you can learn nowadays easily, the internet


I mean there's YouTube you can just watch someone cooking and you follow them I feel that way, ya I mean last time I was kind of like eh I feel like


I'm I'm I'm someone who can't cook, I just can never be in the kitchen but, like after a while after I saw some YouTube videos and, Internet and everything, I don't think it's


that difficult to cook, as long as you have that kitchen to yourself of course, you need to have the kitchen to yourself


pressures yes, like especially when they tell you oh you're doing that this wrong you are doing that wrongly and it just, it's pressurizing, baking is something I love so even though it's not easy either cooking and baking


I would say baking, I spent, when I have the free time I I, tend to go


to uh I tend to bake instead of cook I don't think cooking is something I, always think of it's always like oh when I have free time I want to bake, ya cooking is not that hard I guess if it's


something like, Malay cuisine or something I guess that would take some time to learn


it's long, girly, and everything


!wow! I mean like if someone can cook and bake I, yes, I mean, like they have that talent I feel like they have that talent that


that's just like dump dump dump everything and then you just, okay , what do you value most, in a friendship


being rude to you and, yes just bring you down yes


that's bad yes, feel like not worth this people lah, open minded yes you can be open minded and


and everything you can talk about everything with that person but, sometimes there's deviate you know like, like for example he don't agree or she don't agree with what we say, and then they start to just, pinpoint it at you instead of in general


that's not something, , with friends, what should you, nowadays I feel like, they when we say something our opinion which is our opinion


when they disagree, yes when they disagree they just like, oh are you seeing this, you are like that, is it because you said this because you don't agree with this


you are someone is who narrow minded who is close minded I heard, most of the time like they just like, oh ya just so narrow minded like, everything I say you don't agree with


I mean come on like, we all have our own opinions we all have our own perspective we all have our own, how would say like, regions in life we all have our own


opinions and everything so why would like go around say, I don't, whatever you said like the other other party have to agree with, ya lah nowadays I feel like, people have to like


when you say something they get mad so easily, they get and they start to be rude to you because they think you are disrespecting them in a way so I don't know


why are you saying this about me why are you saying that about me why are you being all so negative about it, when in when when in the first place you were never negative you're just, voicing out, your opinion you're just voicing out you just say okay, you think what they're doing is right or not


they asked for your opinion so, and in the end you argue because, you argue because, you cannot, because they don't, agree with what you say but then they asked for your opinion in the first place, and that's how


sometimes things just, go haywire from there, who or what irritates me uh I would say


okay I would say, uh who, uh when your past, your past, your past lover, comes to


to just, comes to you out of nowhere like just suddenly randomly text you, like why what's passed is passed, don't you think so like what's passed is passed, unless you guys end it on good terms


you know the relationship or even friendship, ya it's okay but then when you guys end it in, I would say like not, not on good terms like you guys are just like, fire and fire together


(ppb) I would say like why like why do you want to reach out knowing that you hurt the other person, or vice versa I don't know but, it annoys me, to be honest like what's done is done


move on with your life, think of the other person by contacting them how would they feel, don't you think so, don't you think like, like sometimes I feel like you should think of the other person instead of yourself, not all situation but this kind of situation I feel


and then suddenly


ya like and then you text so casually like, nothing happened, your button


what stresses or destresses


nice place to unwind, and even just looking at people just


know among their friends just


the stresses part, yes


so that's this, okay then how about, stress, I guess if you don't want to answer the stress part it's fine


when things don't go, go


people sometime mistake that as, perfectionist, I mean who who I mean okay I'm not I don't think I'm a perfectionist I mean I'm okay with people


canceling out out on me the last minute, not all the time, there's a limit ya but


ya but I mean if you plan it out since okay if you plan it since, two three weeks or a month or even a week before that and then, everything falls apart don't you think that's just, like


blue tick, uh like I'm going through that I understand what you're feeling


it's not east


very stressful, thing of even I think that's, think that stresses me out


am I supposed to get emotional right now


that the impact right that I had right I mean put aside like, romantic feelings kind of like sadness yes but, like when I because my names starts with A


and I was the first to receive it, my results and it was, nerve wrecking and when I saw my result it was just like, my mind went blank I was like


do with, my life now I mean ya I was seventeen going on eight, of course you have to think of your life like, are you supposed to just I mean, what other alternative can I go from here


ya but, I feel like I mean yes I agree I, like I am at a better place now


I mean if you I mean I pretty sure, why our seventeen going on eighteen and they put on my love I was like, not all all I think all I think of is like I wanted to go, to Polytechnic and the and my result couldn't even make it to any of the Polytechnic


it was just like, okay back like I was kind a lazy, yes we won't down


not uh, we we Excel you I feel that we like I feel like for you is, your mother tongue English mathematics


no but I think you still did okay with it, I mean like oh my god science was never my forte, like I'm sorry, yes F and N was like just out !wow! F and N I failed badly


so humanity was not my, cup of tea so my interest wasn't there, ya Geography was kind of like eh like why you learning about Geography, but okay never mind


I mean okay other than that like, like that was


literally ten years ago, literally lane ten years ago, yesterday yes, you past that like


that mid crisis, it's you know I feel like during O-levels were was my mid crisis, everything like it's like in place uh you


like it's like a huge part of your life I you know, but now it's like that, other responsibilities you have to think of, it's like, day to day you tend to think of this you tend to think of that that's how life


goes, catch and release


how do you know when to let go of some, don't get emotional


yes uh I've known her for a long time and yes


you go girl


we will meet someone that is toxic I believe so too


every single day every single day, every time you converse with that person they always have something negative to say about you


yes, it it makes you think like okay, am I a yes a horrible person am I terrible until, like it, like every single time you meet this person, they never have any, good things to say about you


yes and when you put so much efforts on them, and all they give you is just, and even like like you know you know you , like they know you're you need


someone to be there for you like for example like you're going through some, something, like for example oh eh you know like, your day at work was like very suckish, and you just need like someone to talk to, they know, how it feels like not to have someone


be there for them but they still like, I don't have time for you, like just, it they just keep on like you know, like, whatever with you you know you you you and your life, is none of my business


we just met, goes with or your know


ya that's not like, that's not like something you should hold on to knowing, you know they're like bringing you down, there're certain points I feel like there are certain things also I feel that if that person is


like you know, very negative towards you, you will like you will just know because you'll like you'll be so close off, with other things in your life, cause whatever they say


such a huge impact on


and they slowly, they will it I feel like, there will be signs, is like you don't need to wait you just like if you see anything that is, is a red flag, just let go


just let go, okay it's your turn ya, most favourite and least favourite okay


I mean, okay I would say my most favourite is, washing the dishes, but it's something, therapeutic for me you know like something that is just like you can listen


to music and just watch, and the least favourite I would say, mopping the floor, I mean, just imagine


living in, a two storey, your parents are, nah uh no vacuum no nothing no, just nah uh just, sweep, and mop


it's the kind of thing they like, and all the best, even vacuuming, is hard, but ya washing the, dishes is something I like to do


I mean okay I feel like washing the clothes, I don't like


yes but it hanging the clothes I know, it's like, I mean other than that oh my


it can take me days, I'm someone who's like nah ah


so yes I don't know about you but ya I guess what's your most favourite then, if I have vacuum me me


it's okay I mean if you have the vacuum that is like


oh ironing is till okay for me, ya but if it's the whole family it's like, when is this gonna end


what do you miss most from your childhood


and all I do is just, hang out with my schoolmates and just like, play around, you go to school for the sake of just going to school and you come back, from school you still feel happy you don't feel you don't feel anything


ya you don't why would ya you just like, whatever


yes I agree man in primary school, my result wasn't that great, but I don't really


that's a different story I am


I would say


I try to think of of of something positive like, I guess I'm someone who stay out of trouble


okay I don't go around like meeting my friends and finding trouble, you know like I, in like I like, ya like I don't like


you know like wake up and just like, get mad random, I don't I'm not that kind of person, I guess I'm just like, relax


I'm a very quiet person I would say I, don't talk much unless, people that I'm close to, in general I'm someone who just don't talk much, at all, like, it's hard to converse with me cause I'm shy


so, I guess that's a good thing it could be a good thing or a bad thing, usually I stay out of trouble that's all I can say I'm someone who's like, I'm someone who's just like


I stay out of trouble like, bye bye I'm I have got nothing to do with this I don't want all this, like it's just, there's there's there's more things in life that you can think of than just


like you have drama in your life


and then it become a drama already like it's literally a drama , okay chick, two chick, yes this is the question


this, cried the perfect date


I'm like when, when you talk he listens and when he talks you listen and, I kinda like to have a good conversation kind of date like, doing all the talking sometimes make me think (hmm) is he losing interest in me like why is he just smiling and what is


like sometimes I like it to be like you know like I talk and he talk, but everyone is different, uh for me I think if for first date I would not want that


but a perfect date I would say, ya I wouldn't mind lah if I'm the one doing the talking and they just listen


people so the conversation is kind of like you you kind of only can talk about general stuff that won't offend, anyone that is, like near you like who's eating beside you like you know beside the table that you're eating


sometimes you know you sometimes people can look at you weirdly when you are talking with the other


it's interesting right like they tell you like okay this is the their favourite restaurant to eat, and then will recommend you and then they they like order their favourite food from that restaurant and then you're like


don't you think so


no you guys can like he can bring you out you know and like the next thing you know he's like proposing to you, but I mean that that he has to do the planning of course but


I mean I'm single right now so I'm sorry I don't really have any ya I don't I mean, when you're like, like when you're, single like, thinking about children's names is


is a bit too like far fetched I feel, correct , I can't even think of one right now I'm sorry this question


I would say two, two is either, yes actually I don't really mind, yes okay, that's interesting I actually don't really mind but


I would prefer ya I would prefer mix like female and male or, you know, okay this is a good question


what are you, cleaning your room I guess no just, but the most lah right like


but I feel like you are already, you used to I guess


(oo) Kanchiong spider


I feel like we all


even though I'm, student now and I'm, let's I feel like it's not easy at the age of twenty seven it's really not easy you tend to think of like, !huh! like by the time you graduate you will be like twenty


nine thirty and you're like ya I'm jobless at the age of thirty, you know so yup


harder and harder, okay, this is a very good question, very very good question because I feel like


it will hit hard on you, if you could turn back time, what is the one thing you would have done differently


ya I remember that yes, I remember you wanted to do psychology at Tema


I'm sorry I'm very hungry right now to be very honest, so like my mind is


I mean, can I look for a partner , isn't it a nice feeling, to wake up to


being there for you when you need, general as in, you know like, they just random like they can just randomly like call you and, it will like literally make you the happiest person in the world


and you know before you go to sleep you guys talk for a bit, you know I'm sure you, go to sleep smiling, ya I mean who doesn't want to have all that right


like meeting them once, in a while if the both of you guys are busy it's like, so, amazing I feel like it's not easy


really not easy and, your finger and and every, day you face, you face the same thing everyday , married or you know having


kids already okay having kids kids part, okay lah I won't say like, I won't comment on that but, we all do I feel


just someone you can just, you know knowing that you have someone, it's a nice feeling you know


ya I mean we are left with what, if you only had one more year to live, what would you change about your


life, that's a good answer


yes correct just a year three hundred and sixty five days


oh my gosh, and the next thing you know, he rush back, to go home because


and all we did was just walk around the school premises, without even like, that's just not a good date to be honest meeting someone on, for a school event just because it's an open house


you expect the the person, yes and, raining it was raining on that day remember, and then we had to wait for a bit before he came down to meet us


just like uh I was just like, it was just red flag to be honest, okay, if you could wake up tomorrow morning with a special, what would you have


that's a good one I'll, ya I would say for mine I want time travel, I can time travel, yes I want to turn back time so, if I do something, terrible I can just like turn back time okay


yours right, that you should look at life


in a more positive way instead of just thinking negatively all the time, just, wake up, and just tell yourself okay today is a new day, you manage to live


one more day one more precious, time is precious, hey it's a new day, like I can walk I can


you know what I'm trying to say like, instead of being


drag it for too long, because eventually, life goes on, and you have to think positive


that's what I feel if I, if I I take a different route, okay okay your turn right eh no my turn


for your last meal, what would you eat and, who would you eat with


yes okay , but in if it's in general as in


of course you have to throw in your aunties and your uncles, well just take it family, okay that's an easy answer ah


that's the most like easy answer you can think of okay, she's his favourite meal maybe


ya that's nice, that's nice, don't you think you will just know like because


when you look at them you feel, happy, and ya like I mean don't you think that's what love is about when you just


feel happy around that person you don't feel, like a completely, different person when you're with them you're like your your you are yourself with them like you are, happy when, you're with them because


you feel the love, that he has for you and, you feel amazing is there an amazing I feel love is like


I feel like when, he shower me with affection, that's when I know that, he knows like, you guys, you and, your partner is like


in love , okay, okay, what would you do if you won, ten, million, dollars


but ten million, !wow! you want both, maybe you can take like, some other licence in this world you can take


you can even go to masters


that's nice ya ten million, I feel like for me, I would like, buy a house and travel !woo! man


like


I would say I would be in a better job right now, I would, I'd, I mean don't you think so I mean meaning like throughout your life you never face, any failure, who knows I might be on top already, he like in in


in something that I love to do, that will be amazing but, it's not ease, definitely not easy I feel like everyone, competitive, so, ya I would


I would love, yes


larger than life by Backstreet Boys no I'm just kidding, who is your hero, how does he or she inspire you


ya this kind of thing is not easy ya


(ppb) I mean, I guess, I would say eating together cause that doesn't happen often, in my family, so when we have dinner together, it's nice you know like that's that's how we converse


we manage we can and we manage to converse as, the whole family like as a whole family you know, it's not easy but, it it happens rarely but usually you know like when it happen, it's nice you know it's a nice it's


what value, do you bring to other people's life


you only live once isn't that a good one, I feel like, I don't know there's so much that I go by but I don't really like follow either, but I feel that


life is short you know so you got to do what's best for you even though sometimes, it can be selfish, but at the age of twenty seven, sometimes you got to be selfish and you just live life


do we want to even though okay I won't say like, follow every single thing, like, like you follow every single thing that you want to do it's just, go with the flow it's not easy but


at the age of twenty seven I have other things that I have, I have like , trouble, with like to me I feel like you know, at the age of twenty seven and going almost three years later I'm thirty


I just feel like you just, do what's best for you, you, eventually, life is life


just cherish it you know just, if you have to cry today just cry, and tomorrow you wake up telling yourself okay move on just go on smile, okay


okay describe the most embarrassing moment of your life


I mean I would say, craziest thing !huh!, besides that, I would say


I actually don't know actually, to be honest I really don't know because I don't think I have, really out of my comfort zone


this is a hard question cause, I feel like the things we done are all normal


I want to go horseback riding I think that's something crazy, for me uh, ya cause, ya I have a fear of just like, you like literally on a horse and you like galloping away, ya I'm afraid of height


but then it will be something crazy for me also lah because I'm afraid of heights right, sorry okay this is the last question and I feel like we you


would you sign up with a dating agent


someday yes someday, my cats, I mean they're not item but


yes like oh my gosh, thinking about that just make me emotional to be honest


what is what my sorry, okay can you ask me that is something I'm studying so I feel like I'm not like, cause I'm right now I don't want to think too much about my career cause I feel like


eh that is a stressful moment I guess


holy grail make up, I would say my favourite brand !huh!, I would say Maybelline, and


right now my current, favourite product like make up product would be, like currently like I'm, like obsessed with is


eyebrow eyebrow pencils, ya, that's my current current obsession


nah I have a question that I think I might ask from the, the the one behind here okay, what's on your current playlist


current playlist, yes, I mean, don't you think, if you listen to that everyday it's like


the block eighty five market that one the food very famous, yes like they have like, I feel like, people are always like during the weekends it's always crowded there


correct, like I feel like the business there is like quite good ya not bad like, and I heard that the food there is quite, quite on a on a scale of


one to ten they they give it around seven point five, from what I heard from my ex my ex colleague, and people that have eaten there, okay


what was the best, most memorable memorable meal you had where did you have it, is it measure right that's why I was like, cause I can't even cause we both are like food junkie


remember, I would say , the ramen stall


and I remember it's like after that you brought me there and I was like bam, like bam like like, ya


my worries now that I'm a, it's been the I I graduated, when I was twenty four, and now I'm twenty seven so


it's like baby step, not easy to go for classes at night especially, because I feel like that's when my brain


when you choose, it's hard to digest, to be honest it's something that I, I only went for a few classes but


and knowing that it's, it's like, I'm it's not even baby steps, I can't even take baby steps to be honest cause


very very very, hard to digest when you're in class especially when you don't know anything, but you're trying, to learn, so


one of my worries is that I, if any of it because, I talk to two of my classmates and both of them has, diploma in human, that


so they basically know, more or less you know, going into the, degree and, this course that they are taking and, I'm sorry to say


even I was, completely different, cause, I was from, I went from accounting to an IT course, and now I'm in human resource slash finance


not easy at all finance yes that would be my interest, anything to do with numbers, but human resource management is some, kind of making me question


if I'm I will be able, to go through it, you know to, to you know like, because I feel like it's not easy


and, sorry to say when, you are out of school for, three years, it's kind of like, ya, my worries is that I


like lose interest in, in studying, in general, I, scared that it will just, like all I do is just


timer and, study cause I'm someone who, I I it, I would say like it's, slow process for me to


okay, brands, or models of cars of motorcycles that you like


ya the pink one I saw the pink one and it's cute I would say mine would be audi


like that's one of my, something that is two seater is not my


mouse, that's all okay, maintenance is, you cannot answer cause we both, you know we don't have, cars we don't have car license


so yes, I guess like


Yamaha


I would say for motorcycle, if I if if I'm


you go first, really


how could you thought it's a dude


ya ya, like the navy like the the the anchor


no our powers our powers difference, alright but mine is also like two blue socks with anchors on it, and, what's beside it


there ain't no balls, no balls, twelve total, okay I can see I mean ya


ya ya ya ya very good, shuffle


oh my internal verb, no it's like upright, it's a blue dustbin with like rubbish, north beach, north beach


(eh) and mine like points to the right


I ain't got no seatbelt dog's gonna die, hey Paul


is he saying hey Paul, mine is saying hey Paul, this is quite funny actually


mine's just saying push, exclamation mark, should I should I start describing, okay, so like, the dog right is he sitting on like a blue


chair kind of thing, no but like like there's like a cloth above the seat, okay then like


there's like three seagulls, below the the car, they're all like pecking on shit, wait wait wait just go back to the boulder right on the top right hand corner, is all of them the same colour


one's the bottom one right, the seagull on top of the boulder, mine has a seagull, one two three four five six seven eight nine ya okay


then in middle ~ish there's like, a stand saying one night only love shack exclamation mark, two more and we still got, stuff to talk about so the shack beside it (er) it says


smoothies it's, uh and then below it there's a blender and then, below the counter there's like a signage saying peaches, ya just peaches


taxi is white, ya I know right I I thought it was a police car too okay taxi is white, one, and then the the headlights are yellow, there's like a is a yellow car oh no it's a white car


but there's like a brown stripe in the middle, and then the doors are black, black steering wheel black err brown seats, what do you see


wait let's keep going what do you see like like, a woman in front of the the taxi she about to get hit, she about to get hit, ya ghost rider ghost, so she's like wearing a green bikini with a red float


like dreadlock kinda hair, she got wait centre parting dread lock going on, okay let's let's let's throw each other oh shit, eh okay okay let's go


ya ya two socks I no see no ball, where got too, turn over, my my seagulls is like sitting on top of the boulder


ya dude, I mean got no seatbelt, like and the seat like, like he's got a green cushion, and has no seatbelt on ya exactly that's why I say he gonna die


ya ya, dude it's just like fifteen minutes that picture man, when you talk louder I mean not louder but like longer


we got lots to talk about, can so, i'm guessing we each take one


is the first one like like a question, or like is it like the answer, okay, so we talk about the title


no but like we gonna take from the the bottom anyway, yours is like damn small mine


your thing is at your nose, ya ya see that's better


ya, alright you didn't see anything, it says, which is apparently salted olives which is a metaphor for miserly person what's a miserly, err ya


cheap, cheap right ya miser, so let's talk about, cheap people, you, cause you got no money


what do you always stinge or splurge on


like where, Saizeriya, (ppb) isn't that Saizeriya, ya that no that, they


ya that's the Italian Japanese place, where where where, like, ptp or like, like is it the one where we walk to the Bukit-Timah plaza the one that Pizza-Hut and shit


we went Pizza-Hut and, stuff , wait like coronation you're the hero, it's Japanese, why is it Japanese oh rice bun I mean rice


bun, I haven't eaten that a long time, we should go, we should go with our sixty dollars, then we go get from this, hello hello Adobe edition audition record S E S, yup


have you had Mookata, I found this like good Mookata place, all you can eat buffet but it's like Thai style, so like it's like you know Seoul-Garden, but like imagine it's more like


you can say Thai but like I don't know what's exactly Thai about it I mean they got pork, they got multiple like versions of pork, basil chicken, or the the sticky mango rice, no they don't they don't have Thai food but like


it's basically like all you can eat buffet that kind of thing ya and apparently it's quite cheap like it's like, seventeen eighty for all you can eat, no time limit, there's like I found this place like apparently it's in reviews the best in Singapore and it's seventeen eighty only usually like Mookata also it's like twenty five


plus, and this one is cheap and it's good, so check it out, so like, splurge, I was about to say something else but like


ya, is it like a monthly membership or what


choose which one you want, and each is like ten, how many games are they in one bundle


since I'm purge on stuff man, but like, in like, let's say the lower tier let's say the middle tier right I spend like let's say ten dollars


like let's say they give me like ten games to pick from, do I get to pick from the list of twenty four


so like there's only like specific games like in the tier lah so you cannot hit like those games even if you pay like the minimum or anything lah, it's not like you can choose from the list, oh so the higher tiers are usually the more popular ones lah


but like, are they like very good games the highest tier, like what games is like good ones that you really like bought


the oh like not absolution, yes but the friends, so for me I think what I like super drawn is food


I always spend on food like I think that, ya I mean when you get money then you can splurge, it's like you need it to survive so why not spend more on it instead of spending more on things that like you don't need


but food is a luxury, but good food is a luxury so it's a oxymoron, ya I mean like I always I I I like to spend on food like that day I went for the


emceeing thing last weekend last weekend right so Friday I have like, working from, eleven, to two thirty then two thirty to no eleven, eleven AM to


PM eleven AM to two PM then from two PM to five PM I have a break, then five o'clock to seven thirty PM I'm working again for the emceeing so I've a, break that they are not paying me for lah so that means it's my break so, I have three hour break, and I was at Jurong East I hosting at Jurong East so like I didn't know what to do


I ate and like was like oh you can eat slow then I'm like, who eats slow, and I'm like I don't I mean I, I don't usually eat slow number one number two, eat for man like it's three hours


I ran like yesterday like I met her at Causeway-Point and she comes back from err her exam and I was just nice come somewhere, so we went to Texas-Chicken, I bought my meal she bought her meal we sat down I finished it, and she was like still not even done with a burger like not even halfway done with her burger


I know right


I don't know I I, why stinge on I don't know why I stinge on I've become, I stinge on like, very expensive things like for example like, a computer, ya


like I don't wanna buy any computer I don't wanna buy, like expensive things like my mum wants to get like something expensive like no, and like ya, okay so let's go on to the next one I I don't think there's even a point of hiding it since we telling each other and I don't think that's how we're playing a game but like


oh like the packet the packet ones, do you like Durians, I don't like Durians


what's really good, so sometimes it taste like sewage, wait, I think maybe we're supposed to be like, telling the title and then like what do you think is the king of fruits


and then like, we talk about the title and then like maybe if we we run out like of questions, ya


ya I mean ya okay so, for me I hate Durians like I last time couldn't stand the smell even so whenever my whole family all eat Durian except for me, so, like everybody eat Durians and I will just be like, in my room hiding cause I don't like the smell or anything but now I can stand the smell


but the taste is still no like I tried I'm like a lot more open and receptive to food nowadays like ever since I came back from Korea right I started eating a lot more like vegetables and all those kind of things, and like I tried Durian the other day, but like no man it's just not my thing like the texture and the taste is not my thing


my entire extended family also right everybody eats Durian except for me and my one more uncle, no we are not, what is a Kaypoh


it's nosy or meddlesome can you read, err what's the most busybody thing you've ever done


I'm not a busybody, uh ya you don't get affected by other people's like thing, ya, ya so for me I think the most busybody thing I've ever done was like


okay I'm not gonna talk I'll talk I'll talk about it like later, ya but no but like I'll talk about like, non, explicit shit like , the most busybody thing I've ever done was


I'm thinking of a lot of stuff that like I don't want to talk about, we'll take this later, so let's go next card, are you doing a video shoot now


this is not that bad you learn math when you're one, what's nine plus ten, ya so for me I'm like


my best subject is also English like, I wasn't really good at the others I didn't have to practise English like it just came naturally, even though, every single composition and like letter writing I wrote


I'll always like, barely pass or fail it, I couldn't I I don't know why I think like my my teacher, she just hates the whole class like everybody got really bad like the most people got was like out of like thirty, the most people can get is like nineteen twenty


rascal, ya like, I I I was like, always, good in English like all my friends would ask me also for my answers and everything, there's a point that I got so bored that I bought this like close passage book from Popular that has just like fifty to hundred close passages


and like, I just like did, close passages again and again and again like in my free time, like you know people do like Sudoku and stuff I just did close passages, I don't know it's just stuff I like to do, my worst subject


A-maths I dropped it, ya I took A-maths okay I wasn't bad at it but like, I wasn't scoring well at it either, and like it it, couldn't like, it was , you know the the mid year examinations right


before your O-levels then you can like, ya you mean every every every one of them, so like the mid years one I, decided, to drop out cause everybody is failing that class except for one guy like it was a class of like twenty people


and like only one guy was, passing, the rest of us all failing, and like, I was like quite stressed with like all the other subjects and everything so I was like okay I think I need to drop this they were talking about it like my teacher was like, maybe you guys should drop it if it's not, going well for you and everything, and then


me and two other guys dropped A-maths, and in, no but you know what in the end right all the other people who were failing right, for O-level itself


they got like a pass to B to like, that kind of thing ya, cause apparently like, the, teacher, got fired, the year after cause she was marking too way way too strict and the exams were like, really much easier than her test, ya


so like if I've stayed I would have probably like, don't know right, I think maths is not that hard for me, like okay oh, my worst subject would be, chemistry, chemistry


chemistry, ya chemistry, I could do some of it but like all the calculation part I couldn't do like mole and all these kind of thing, physics is so easy, D M V


distance over mass and then, like the the triangles you know the triangles, there's the like D M V then the, G S T


I'm pretty sure that's my card, what, was your most hated what, most hated


G S T, what's TLDR, I don't understand that so I hate it, ya, like I see it everywhere


then you should be like, TLDNR, why do they have it, they could have just say didn't read, oh no then people will think like [orh] you have left me a read


most favourite acronym, WTF, I use it all the time


I hate it when people say it out loud, like lol, like someone say something funny and then you just like lol, no I feel like lol is like a like now when I read lol right it's err


it's not funny but, you just like it's like a snarky like, ya it's like someone says a joke that like the person you hate and then you're just like uh LOL


that's you know Sonia-#Chew# the nine eight seven DJ, she has this like series called, S S, B D, ya same same but different, so she goes overseas and everything and then like she does like, lots of different thing and everything


ya and then like it got, like it was a nine eight seven like initiative so they send her and like did this kind of thing then they send their own crew to go and film and everything, and then they got so popular that, I think err, production company, bought the the thing out of


err nine seven and their hired so they have to do it and she's doing it, like a second season or something and she won awards for that, ya in Singapore, it's pretty damn good, favourite pastime


uh what kinda games


oh ya you were telling me ya, that was me and like Witcher and Far-Cry, I wanted to get a hundred percent


like I ya I did all the cycles already, I think without DLC lah, ya but like I I went to go and do the like the secret stuff and everything like , you know the the, that hack where like you keep killing cows and like meditating and then


ya I did that, I did that and then it's it's unlimited spawns, uh it was fun, oh I don't play at such a hard difficulty lah


you are insane, I played ya I played with second hardest also then halfway through I couldn't take it cause like I died too easily in the later stage cause like I wasn't my game wasn't, like getting that good and like the monsters got so much tougher


like there was this like one random like, monster and like the you know there's there's one part where you go into like a, a marsh, like a swamp land kinda thing where like there's the, the kind of the forest kinda thing going on, or like witch in the forest ya ya remember that


and like sometimes when you're travelling right there's like these things that come out of the water, no but like because I was under level and everything like I was like, not one shot but like, they took ya they took me out like quite easily like I'm just on my horse and then they just like


no I'm on my horse, roll, what's the horse's name is there a name for the horse


there's a fish called Roach, like a sea cockroach, no


they can't fly, they taste delicious, yes in Thailand fry ones, they're just crunchy like like Murukku


Murukku, there's a question here also like what do you always complain about, it's okay, just keep going


I think we can like we just talk about the topic and then we just go


off topic but come back that kind of thing, a little bit I think, that time she posted about Ezlyn, and then like he, and then Shakira got pissed off, ya Shakira wanted to go and


oh okay sorry, we can't say P, P is a oh okay sorry, so my favourite pastime would be, video games


and eating I realised I really love eating nowadays like, ya I'm gonna become fat but like I really love eating like, I like to, go and find good food, nowadays and like I want to go overseas and try good food


like I I, I I went I'm going Australia at the end of the year, and, I have Googled like good places to go and eat and everything and there's this like super famous, famous famous , it's like a oyster-shack


which is like right at the pier or something, and like, they serve the freshest like oysters and apparently like they taste nothing like the whole world and everything and like it's so good


I heard they taste good though, I heard they taste good with a bit of lime and tabasco sauce, hey man, everything is alive until they cook it, I ate this like


I think they were, worms octopus kind of thing, like , no no you know like you know you buy Takoyaki, you know what's Takoyaki ya and then like there's the Bonito flakes on top of it like the flake things right, no like I think so I think they are like


very thin worms like I went to Korea right and then the Bonito flakes will move, so like I'm pretty sure those were some worms, like I heard, I heard no I I I if I'm if I'm not wrong the stall was selling like this, really thin worms kind of thing like it's check it out later and then


and then create live, octopus so I, they would take the octopus, like baby octopus cut off it's tentacles, like while it's alive and then put it on the plate and then it's still like wiggling and you and you eat it, that's quite a weird feeling when it's in your mouth


hey man maybe I wanna tell people to go and like


live life, stop smoking, can ya, [huh] apparently is Pontianaks


you know she not going for the ride, the halloween horror night's one, no you know we're going this Saturday right


okay there's one that's like , no it's it's all on like there's five haunted houses I think, one is called Killuminati, are you okay, Killuminati where like it's basically about the secret Chinese society where like


it's a Chinese secret society where like the higher tier people are all vampires, so like that's the the haunted house we go in and we will find out what happens lah, then there's another one called the Pagoda evil, so I think it's like some ancient cemetery or something then there's like


undead skeleton or something like that, and then there's another one, call I think the Pontianak house, no but okay I think the Pagoda evil okay I I went like my friend Winston went then he told me reviews lah so I mean or like ratings


so the Pagoda evil not that good, then you know it looks cool then there's one , Pontianak house lah, so it's like a Malay Kampung and there's a Pontianak then, I don't know what's the last one, but there's the fifth one which is more important that we're all going for the stranger things


apparently we live through one of the scenes you know the where the lights, show up the words and everything then the shows up and everything and like will, no but like, living in the experience bro, we're not going there to be scared going there to like experience another life like seeing Pontianak'S but


apparently, like you got did Shakira tell you, like, uh send her like, a video of like like , I think someone was reviewing it, and then uh they said like


uh I very scared to go for the ride and everything because like my past experiences everything then one of the, then, one of the people the scare people in, Pontianak house replied to the that that subthread


and said that , oh if you have past experience or like, you're afraid we recommend you not to go to to this one cause it, it hits home like it's, they they use a lot of local elements and everything lah, I don't know, I don't know but like


then, because this one is very like, localised and everything so people can relate to it so Shakira saw it and Shakira was like, and oh no and then he also said that , no I don't think so


not yet, then err she the the admin guy also said like, we also recommend you not to come also because we feel something, we feel something here as well we feel the presence here as well, I don't know but like they recommending people not to come


why would there be marketing, don't come because like it hits home, I know then Shakira was saying that she scared that she will see like something and she scared she can't tell whether it's a human or an actual thing


that's what you gonna do right, ya, so


why, don't you do that everyday, like stuff, how's your previous boss


the American guy right, no I thought it was the, the British guy ya, oh how's he, you know Joel's boss right like the head of SPH


but I forgot what's his name, ya he's in kiss ninety two, too much hospitals, ya, so like the head of kiss ninety two right he, he's like a damn cool dude apparently and he I know


he's he's a really cool dude and like he he sometimes open his bottles and stuff and like let, his staff drinks after work and everything like they have parties and everything and apparently it's really really cool


like he's a really cool dude and everything, Thai guy


being alone, it's not relationships it's like it's like friendships as well and everything, like alone, I had a girlfriend, I had no friends


and sometimes my girlfriend a bit busy what so I'm alone, no like I'm talking about more than just life at home


alright let's go next one, heartlands, heartlands, where should visitors go in Singapore to get a real sense of the country


north side, if you are in the north you are practically just go to Malaysia, I'm pretty sure Nasi-Lemak is like Malaysian though, dude there's a whole there's a whole controversy about, ya we stole everything that's Malaysian but


apparently it wasn't even a lion it was a tiger, cause there's no lions in this part of like Asia, Bengal tigers, they could have like swam


I have not watched it, if visitors want to get a real sense of the country err


Orchard-Road, Dhoby-Ghaut, but like that's where the parliament house is and everything and like, you can go in, Halimah-Yacob


okay I mean ya let's go, oh oh oh maybe at night Clarke-Quay, Singaporean bars are different, it's next to a river, that's not being


I like how one is in English, if I'm at the coffee shop it's, always either Coke or Milo, iced Milo


or if it's like, like Malay Muslim kind a, which she influence me too much, but it's good it's good stuff it's good stuff


SOP, what's SOP, Standard operating procedure, okay, (er) what single piece of advice would you give a non Singaporean friend, who's moving to Singapore


give me a toy gun right ya, that's the name of my dog, it's Kobe, it's close there's one B


if you're moving to Singapore you're just, basically moving, it's a very expensive place, ya I mean and like, ya it's like a cultural, cultural mix of different people and everything


and like, I don't know if coming here you're coming to like a lot of different countries at once, I would say move here I would say come and like visit and like, see the country and all the different diverse cultures


fishball used to be five cents now it's like thirty cents, last time people doing well in O-levels or like only have O-levels and they can get like high position


my workplace, my colleagues, no it's just system educational, oh okay


now they want you out of the house, are you becoming Americanize, are you becoming Americanize like when like leave the house after a certain age, ya they want us to stay close but at the same time stay away


ya, like last time people used to like need to go out or anything to go and interact with people or anything now we don't that's why we stay at home, but, but I want to live in the older days though like the Kampung days


like, I mean like I'm talking about the fun excitement of like, going into a jungle and killing wild boar and eating it, or like, catching guppies in the river