uh jb lor !wah! jb is damn fun leh honestly that time we go lah, but J there's no club in jb anymore already, is is there is there club, but you go jb a lot of time right is there is there club or not


oh I see, honestly I thought eh eh wait Chris, honestly I thought you are you are Malaysian leh you are not [right], there's cause there's a lot of Malaysian in NTU I think, by but but no one but there's no difference lah you see the way they act


and and what is like there's no difference, !wah! my my Hokkien also not good is your Hokkien good


Taiwan Taiwan for life oh Thailand Thailand Thailand I want to go Thailand


but why why why why why cause, cause not like if you if you if you say that you go there for the food right right now, to go and see the, the scenery as in the really the scenery or is it like people faces the plastic faces


really meh oh Japan the scenery is damn good eh they they care for their environment, they care for their environment a lot, ya really I think, back then I back back to the place where I go right uh I was attached to a host family then this host family I think it was like like a village


ya they bring around and every month right they will come up with a initiative to, they will sell stuff, they will go and make bread they will make stuff or stuff or other stuff lah I don't know, then they sell to earn money to go and help, save their environment, ya like every one month one time


is just their village lor, ya they really they they really environmentally, environmental fanatic lah ya lor they care a lot, so if you want !wah! but their


their water damn nice, I think I went Tokyo actually I don't know the place I went eh I went a lot place eh cause everyday I went I go to different places, damn Shiok but but I don't know which one which one I go which places I go


cause I everyday got different place, !wah! then got Pokemon center also eh, ya there got a lot of KitKat also , [orh] then the Uniqlo is, cause it's like, is like four storeys of Uniqlo


but is like the employees is like damn little, like probably like, six employees that's all that's all I can find the person can fold the cloth then suddenly you you want cashier right, ya you want you want cashier then he's he very fast Sumimasen (ppb) then you go there


ya sia, usually we quite bastard to the to our coordinator the Japan Japanese person, no we go Hai Hai Hai Hai Hai Hai, we damn bastard tell you


!wah! I like the Onsen there sia, !wah! and I don't mind drinking green tea there the no sugar one, there's a lot of fried food there leh, in Japan


cause you know Japan people they all live until very long right, so if that's what they do right they can eat fried food right and they drink green tea right and they live until very long right so green tea is the way mah, ya not sure, what what last time I in some Onsen right you know in hotel there's Onsen as well


then there's this guy right this old man he just, okay cause cause me and my friends right we just put our legs inside there then we like, !wah! no no no we we want to go in, but is damn hot, then we just we, he just, sit down !wah!


no no no no some skinny guy skinny old guy, but we !wah! we very hard sia we put our we put one foot inside we already !wah! Buay Tahan leh, very hot very hot, but what uh, I not sure but it was quite cool I think it's not very very cool though it's like


but you go and see the temperature of the water right is, thirty plus degrees leh, is not, ya it's thirty plus degrees and it's like, it feels like seventy degrees or something, it's so hot, okay


okay so now uh crystal we'll, ~cribe the picture, uh do you want to start first or I start first, okay uh so on we start from top left, then followed by we'll move towards the right side but we will go down in


in this fashion lah, on the top left uh I see a cloud, do you see a cloud (ppb), then next will be uh the sun


uh the sun is yellow in colour, ten dots, are there ten dots around the sun


ten dots okay we will move on, on the right side of the, the sun, can we go to the right side of the picture there's a, there's a bird, that's standing on top of a lamppost, the bird is yellow in colour


eh uh we will move on to the buildings, uh we have a city pharmacy, uh with two pills on it, the signboard ah


how many did you have, okay so difference for, is it for me or for you


okay next we move on to the red cross sign there's a red cross and then a white cross, okay uh, next we move on to the


continue the on this building ah, there's a white door, with a handle on it, then there's this uh there's this


I think it looks like a vase or what it was blue in colour, do you have that, okay and then next is a, signpost that says uh super shine, with uh lips


with lips on it, so uh super shine uh picture


with uh lips on it, ya that, how about you describe next the, uh you describe your city pharmacy because I'm not too sure if


I have anything that you might not have, okay


okay how many bricks do you have there, you can can't just count by the, by the sides, don't know if you're missing any, ya four


forty four okay can, the more to the butchers' one, uh perhaps I go first, okay so uh, the butchers' uh shop is triangular roof


uh all blue, there's a butchers' sign, which is in blue and white in colour, uh the butchers BUTCHERS, at the window


you can see uh a tray of pies, small pies ah there are one two three four five six seven, seven pies, on the tray, beside the tray of ah tray of pies uh


is one big pie, which one, ah there's no big pie, so big pie is number two


okay right beside there is this uh butcher, I just realised is a meat pie, the butcher, is wearing a white hat, with green, with a green uh strap on it


he's dressed in green, with a green bow tie, he has an apron the apron's full of blood, and he's holding onto a knife, that's covered in blood as well


we move on to the toy shop, so there's this uh, there's this ark signboard right above the


right above the toy shop, uh with two stars on it, okay then there's the word toy shop, TOYSHOP, uh with an underscore on it


and it's green in colour, there's a door, the door has three dots on it, uh one small dot at the top, top right lor, uh one big dot in the middle left, and then one small dot on the bottom right of the door


K then there's the in the window you can see, a Teddy Bear, that's yellow in colour and wearing a red vest


K uh we will move on to the books, uh perhaps you wanna go ahead, uh the it's on the right or left of the bear


I think that one's your one already, ya I think I think you circle yours you circle, it was because we each have six differences


K we move on to the book store, so, at the book store there's a, yours uh at the books there's a blue colour word


that says books ah BOOKS, it's a blue book, then we move on to the left window, there's a pink colour poster and a green colour poster


then on the right side there's a signboard, above the door it's empty, it has a gold border, then at the door which is gold in colour as well, then on the right side window there's is book that's white in colour


and the book has a, cover with two rectangles on it, do you have that, okay


uh then we move down ah, to the bottom left, this a sign that says leisure park, it's pointing towards the right, and it's lime green in colour


mine says leisure park, your says, just park right so there's a difference, I will circle mine, okay next we have the Science fair on the right side


it says Science fair ah then there's a few, orange colour cubicles


some orange colour signs ah like like below the word Science fair, isn't like that so the whole entire orange thing ah, next we have a sorry uh we go back to the leisure park ah


beside the leisure park there's this lady this lady is uh she has a bun, ya bun tie her hair she's wearing a pink colour shirt, outside she's wearing yellow jacket


yours is a black jacket, what colour is her skirt, she's wearing black pants, !wah! the entire outfit is, okay perhaps uh I circle this one lah, she's carrying a brown colour


ah what do you call that a handbag ya it's a handbag, and then she has uh pink shoes, okay uh beside her


there's a dog, that's currently sniffing on the road, you have that right, the dog's tail is uh pointing up, and only three legs of the dogs can the three legs of the dog can be seen


perhaps you describe to me the car, that you see in the picture


sorry sorry could you say it again


okay that's the head lights ah, ya okay


okay


sorry you said something about orange right, [orh] flats okay uh I my my one isn't wearing any, you say blue bike right what colours the chair


uh she has both hands on the bike, blonde right, blonde hair alright K can we can move on


okay mine says see you later Bill, uh you circle yours because I have six on mine ready


okay mines my sign says next left for pet centre, sorry uh which store again


no I do not have that, you can circle that one, before you deviate off can can describe the, the Bill guy, the guy who shouts Bill


green pants grey top, uh blondie mine is mine is kind of like golden, is he waving, okay


do you have any other uh things that might, stand out or I did not mention, okay uh perhaps you can talk about the


we'll talk about the car because I notice that the car doesn't have any uh, have any differences, uh perhaps I describe my car to you, so there's a yellow uh logo at the front, a yellow circle ah with the headlights and the black colour uh bumper at the front


there's two grey uh tires, the you can see through the the, insides of the car is red in colour, there's a door handle that's grey in colour is your door handle grey in colour


uh then there's there's this uh line, squiggly kind of line below the door handle, then we move on to the, the rear of the car there's this uh, the place, where you open to pump the petrol inside


ya and then the behind you can see another small circle at the hood of the car, small circle at the hood of the car


it's like at the back, right beside the, the guy who's waving and saying bill, how many how many circles do you have


one circle, okay uh perhaps you you you now describe your shop ah


uh we start with the city pharmacy one, okay, so we we got that one we got no pills right


it doesn't have the pills there the first aid sign, uh there's a white door, the blue vase with nothing on it ah, super shine with the lips, pink colour lips, I don't have any other uh details on it if you have any other details you can sound out


what do you have, oh I have I have the white colour lines, on the lips right, is that what you talking


[orh] yours say shine lip gloss mine says super shine okay, okay nice nice, K next one I'll be move on to the butcher shop, the it just says butchers, K there's a tray of pies, and then the sign on it says pies PIES


nothing more, there's total of one two three four fix six, seven pies, small pies uh the orientation is, three two two, then there's a large pie, right beside it


vertically ya, from left to right, vertically from left to right ah, three two two, okay can, uh next we move on to the the the toy shop, uh there's this arch that's old


you have how many now, you have six, we move on to the next, eh pass me the marker


and you didn't sleep well last night , I don't think this is a card game I think this is just a, a social kind


K we take turns to pick up, each card, uh do you wanna go first or I go first, K I shall go first


know no fear, if you knew you could not fail, what would you, go accomplish, if I knew I had no fear


or that I if I could not fail, uh I will definitely try out uh, investing uh, ya because, one reason why how come I'm not investing now, not uh so one one reason cause no money ah but then the other thing is cause I I'm


I fear like I lose money instead of, earning money through investment ah, ya so just my fear my fear of losing only


of course I think we read each others, I think we just go one by one like, or you want I read the question to you, or do you want to read it yourself


I thought you you do bakery class, bakery classes


pet peeves who or what irritates you, or screen faced down, ya because I I find the the table surface like quite dirty so whenever you place your phone your screen should always be face up instead of face down


ya so whenever I see people's phone face down I will I will take it and I will face it upwards, ya that's one thing that I just see ah why would people want to put their screen face down, it'll scratch the screen some people say is to protect the camera but then, I just like will flip it lah


okay okay


no I think it's the topic I think it's the topic one in uh one person means it's individual on yourself, if like that means it's about your siblings this one is about like, love and, ya your in feelings ah ya


teleporting, okay, I think now we change now now I I will read you the question, or you read me my question


I think that will be better right, so uh I I have two siblings currently


uh one elder sister, uh who's two years older than me and one, younger brother who's one year younger than me, what's the second part of the question, I'm not close to any of them to be honest, uh if more closer I'll be more closer to my brother because we're guys lah but then uh I'm not really that close to my family members lah


closer to friends than family, moving on, next question, is would you sign up, for


sorry would you sign up with a dating agency


subjective question I've seen


[orh] now now those uh those apps do you know some of them like they, they have like some subscription and all that like Tinder plus, uh coffee meets bagel I think you can you can buy some, some currency inside also


so you don't like the idea


okay, I'll move on to next topic, why do I pick such a question uh embarrassing moment


!wah! this one this one's quite


oh okay I remember, I think one most embarrassing moment, was when are, I think I was I was I was quite young then I think was in secondary school, I I I actually had like a stomachache ah that was so bad I couldn't control it, ya and then it I think it went out like


ya it went out, then everyone was like was like what's the smell and all that kind of stuff, ya it was very bad ya but I can't remember how young was I, I I think it was, ya we won't go further into it


ya, K uh next topic uh, hey how about you why not you share your, no we going talk about same topic also, I just realise you don't have to


okay, oh so you find that embarrassing, they scolded you in public or


okay we move on, tingling in your toes ah, how do you know that you are true, how do you know that, you truly love your partner


!huh! it could be anything it could be like you you


who say that sia, who said that


okay for me uh, how do I know that I truly love my partner is if, uh I've I don't feel myself trying, the moment I'm not trying to to love someone means I I do love that person lah, eh you know when you


sorry when you try to, to like you know chase after someone and all that then if that person, you know you feel you actually feel like you you're making an effort to to chase


like then it's, how to say you you you haven't really truly love the person yet you're still trying to achieve it lah, the moment you stop, like trying or that's when you really love the person lah, actually I don't know it's a very weird way to put it lah


okay we're moving on, if you had one more year to live, what would you change about your life now


you sound very excited , one thing I will change now, about my life ah


for me uh one thing I will change is just my relationship with my family now uh especially my with my siblings ah, just now


ya if I only had one more year to live that's what I would change lah, like talk to my brother and all that haven't talk to him for a few weeks already , no it's not that it's over it's over an argument and all that then my brother just


okay we move on uh, okay next is uh what do you value most in a friendship


so just loyalty only


uh what I value most in the friendship is uh integrity, for me I make my friends based on, how true they are, the more truer they are than themselves the the more I think they will be, like very good friends ah because uh you see them at as who they are


rather then who they try to be ah, ya so uh most of my friends you see they're usually the kind that uh


that they will be like how to say more down to earth ah that that's the term right, ya you can relate to them one day they will just be true about anything ah, ah they don't wanna go to this place because they no money they don't want to go to, to there ah then that one


you know you can talk to them ah and be, uh moving on this one uh I'll start first lah, uh do you enjoy doing chores, which is your favourite, sorry, which is your


most and least favourite chore, okay so uh firstly is do I enjoy doing chores, obviously there's other things that you can do ah but if, I were to do do chores right, uh last time I like to vacuum the floor, just find the vacuum cleaner then then it's damn good to


it feels good to you know like, you run the thing through the dirt then the all the dirt just vanish lah, ya so last time I used to I used to vacuum the house lah, then uh least favourite chore would be, hanging my laundry


but I still I hang it now lah because now I now no choice ah no ones, ya but that's my least favourite chore ah, !wow!, so you hardly do chores, but when did you enjoy doing it no


I mean surely you must have done some chore what, wash the dishes or what


pick up hair, ah ya, !wah! you have that you, you have the lint roller


ya but scotch tape so tedious I I did it before but I use it on the carpet like you know


what materials your clothing made of


ah wait why do you iron your jacket, which jacket do you mean the, oh-my-gosh


!wah! this one this one must must learn lah, I I'm not that good at it also lah but then, ah I I do watch videos online like how to iron and all, ya just to get the rough idea, and how to not damage the clothes


okay so that's your least favourite lah, okay moving on uh mystery guest, if you could have an hour long conversation with anyone at all who would you talk to, ya anyone at all


in the world who who you, your idol your what, I mean you have two hours with me ah


okay, so your answer will be, anyone lah, people they miss, I see, an hour long conversation ah


ya I'm also basically fine with this sia actually I also would, I don't have anyone preferred to, to like have a convo ya I wanna have convo with everyone ah, cause I love conversations, uh like serious ah


you won't talk to as in why because of, bad experience or


uh we move on to the next question, okay next is a, oh-my-gosh inner fibre, what personal trait do you like most about yourself, uh I start first ah, so uh one personal trait I like about myself is that uh


I feel like I'm very hardworking, ya uh, sometimes to the point where where I uh some people tell me it's unnecessary to work so hard lah, ya but then I tell them like


like don't have this kind of, happy go lucky attitude ah, ya so that's why some of them they might not agree with me some of them might even be angry at me eh just because, uh I work, I go that extra mile while they don't lah


then they tell me it's unnecessary but then for me I I think it's necessary because uh usually my mindset is uh if I don't do it who will, okay so what about you


has to be one trait, just say you pretty ah then done already


okay, okay next questions next questions for you man, how important is having children to you


argue with your children, okay


oh so because of that you think raising children will, you're still young now lah don't have to consider it


if uh for me uh it is important to have children ah, as for how many then that's another topic ah altogether ah but yes I think it's important, we'll move on, name one of your closest friend


how is he or she special to you


do I see her on your Instagram, sorry hike, HIKE oh okay hike together okay


okay, oh I saw I saw that on your Insta Story


how long how long have you known her already


seven years


ah you guys have each other's back ya


okay uh for me uh I had this friend called uh Xavier I think Xavier is one of my closer friends, uh he's been with me since uh I knew him since secondary school, uh last last time we won't we're just acquaintances only because we just see each other in school I'm like hey this guy you know he goes into gym very often he


ya then then just that's all only but uh I forgot how we actually met ah but then somehow uh , like I said he was a he was a very uh he's a very down to earth kind of guy if he he, he's very honest lah he's just very direct he just he won't hide anything he just eh eh I think you I think you <unk> he just voice out his own opinions then


uh quite cool lah, every time he know whenever I I say I got any difficulties or what he will just eh no problem, I help you you know so he , it's a really a true friend lah, uh but then he when he's too nice he let uh others step over him ah


which is one thing that I, I'm like pretty concerned about ah because sometimes he's too nice ah, then uh, ya so it will just be him even now he's in uh ya now he's in NTU also so I still see see him around


moving on, describe the happiest moment in your life, uh because this one ya you can either just say something, far off or, or recent


is there one recent, what event made you happy when you ate green tea mooncake, ya the happiest moment of your life is just in five minutes


oh okay, ya it's just a moment ah it's just, oh oh ya that's true that's true when you're young, oh ya then you're right eh


happiest moment in my life ah, I can only think of the most recent one when that the, the girl that I that I actually have a crush on, you know when she lean on my, on my shoulder !wah!


that was the happiest moment of my life, yes yes yes, okay we move on uh, hindsight, if you could turn back time, what is the one thing you would


have done differently, perhaps I go first ah if I can turn back time, one thing I would have done differently is I would have definitely tried and learn swimming ah


ya I I'm I'm my medal my swimming is currently uh like silver only, so there's like group bronze silver gold showing the standard of your swimming then I'm only at silver, I'm not really like hundred percent proficient in


uh it has affected me ah few times whenever there's like water games and and, ya in army it also affected, if I if I actually


done swimming it will train my my stamina and all that lah then, uh I won't have asthma ya, i think swimming is quite important lah that I should have learnt when I was young ah, cause I feel like it's uh it's better to learn when young then at least when your body grow up you


your body is accustomed to that kind of uh, uh pressure and swimming in the water and all that, ya but then uh now I don't know if still late too late or what, how what about you, you could turn back time


like how, I mean you you have to do something different, smarter and wiser than all your choices, do you have one example


did you request for them to put you into dance, how then your sister got it, and that that preferential treatment


oh


ah I see, ya, ya one one one million studios ya, ya <unk> just like playing piano or that kind of guitar even though they say it's a learnable skill but


okay moving on, how do you want to be remembered, I think this is more of a


ya ya ya but but do I


okay uh I'm not sure if I know, okay so for me how do I want to be remembered uh, for me it doesn't necessarily, have to be, positive or negative ah, I mean positive would be better but for me


how do I want to be remembered is it's, is just basically the impact that I have on them ah, as long as I have made an impact in their life right, okay fine fine make it positive, as long as that <unk> but as long as it's an impact hor it's good enough for me I I could be I could be very annoying


I could be very annoying hor but then at least the person remember me hor, that's my goal, so whenever they they say eh do you know who's this, okay ya annoying in a positive way then I guess ya then then is this then is that lah


cause I value I value like, uh what I value what people think of me ah so, ya I'm very sensitive to that


ya it's it's okay is okay, we'll just move on from here, uh what do you miss most from your childhood, so you're what Hello Kitty and and watching TV


I love that show


ya I think I think studies ah I think studies, no studies is what I miss from


what I miss most from my childhood, I think definitely my childhood friends ah, I think I I've made quite a few good friends that uh, but once we hit until now right, uh we we're no longer talking you know we're just like


ya we we just see each other some say we see each other hor then we don't even say hi eh, ya that's how bad some some of the, friends go, I just don't know why how come we just stopped talking and then, but we used to be best buddies for like a few years that kind of thing you know then


then are you meeting up with her, okay nevermind after this, okay, what risk have you taken for someone you love, (ppb) this love, don't necessarily have to be for relationships kind could be for your family or


but what risk have you taken


ah so like what uh, covering him up


ya that's definite lah uh but for me I'm closer to to them than my brother mah


ya but they say there are there are times when because there are times when my brother ah he he's not the kind of like, he's not the kind of a, a willing to help you kind of guy, so the that times where you know my sister was like in a life and death situation eh, and did you know he just he just ignore her and he just went to play his


that time she she was, ya something was she was going through something lah then then she was on the, ya she was she was just she was just going through a very bad time then my brother just just ignore her leh


just let her say if you wanna if you wanna, what just you know just go ahead no one's stopping you that kind of thing, so I think that's quite bad lah, so that's why I say uh for me uh friends and


relationships all these value I mean I value more lah, uh what risk have I taken for someone I love ah, I think it is just uh investing too much lor, ya


ya so sometimes when we invest too much and then when the person, but but the thing is when we invest right, one thing I learnt is to be we should not should not uh, expect anything lah, we should not expect anything when we invest


so, ya, uh reciprocation [loh], so uh, that's one thing of that the risk I've taken ah


okay, so which of these symbols best describe you so there's a minus sign, plus sign multiplication sign division sign and a equal sign


you're the multiple sign !wow!, such a <unk> okay


uh for me uh, describe me I think I think is the equal sign lah for me I see myself as equal as as everyone else lah, ya I see everyone else as equal so for me is the equal sign


okay next one is, how what is a deal breaker in your search for a partner


no patience, no patience for you but actually patience, can be it can be, ya it can be nurtured in a way so let's say example if you're going you you you, you have interest in the guy and you found out that he has, he's a guy who's uh not very he's quite impatient lah


then would you like I don't want, it's he's too impatient, not really , rude to others


have you met someone like that before


that that you just like no I I don't want this guy because is is very rude


her for me my deal breaker simple is just people who smoke , for me I I just don't ya, as long as as long as the the my the partner smoke right, uh its a no for me already not saying that that the person can, that mean can quit smoking and and all that ah but for me uh once you


when you smoke are you just like, uh ya is just a deal breaker I don't know why, but I guess have to overcome ah if but lah is a deal breaker for me now, as of now ah as of now, okay uh, ties that bind


what activity do you most enjoy, doing together with your family, nothing normally how do your family like spend time together you guys go out shopping and all that


that one your parents, but I thought I thought one of them only one of them is working right, oh they are not working


so you continue on uh what activity do I enjoy most together with my family, (ppb) uh so last time my family every, from young lah everytime during the December holidays


uh we would, we would go to Genting together, ya and I think that like every year without fail my my dad will, will say come guys let's go Genting then we spend like like three, three days ya so that was the period of time when Genting was still cold leh Genting was still cold !woah! then


they they even though they they leave us at the arcade there lah but then !wah! they go the the casino but then, uh I really had fun there ah, ya and some more it's a it's quite a bonding time with me and my siblings as well


uh then we'll go to the Theme Park we'll we'll play there we'll enjoy, uh is a really a holiday that I look forward to ah then, uh but the number of times it happens slowly start to decrease ah, from like two times to just one time and then all that


okay you move on uh next question, so question for you is, uh you read it out


oh dear, okay so, so uh I was that close friend who, who express my romantic feelings for someone else ah


okay but I'll I'll just answer to this question ah so if, a close friend express his or her romantic feelings for me right, I would for me I would first explore the option first, I won't just straight up shoot her down lah I'll explore first I'll see is she really


uh someone whom I can, connect with ah the fact that she's a close friend right means, uh there is some sort of connection ah I can connect with her, but whether I want to take it romantically then uh I will need to see


get to know her more, uh and any deal breakers or not things like does she smoke you know that kind of thing, ya so, ya I won't I won't I won't reject, her directly ah


as for whether it has happened before uh no ah, none of my close friends has really, there are girls who express their feelings for me but but not not like a close friend kind, so what about you


because why you you don't you don't


oh-my-gosh, so so in the end you and the guy no lah there's there's there's nothing going on lah, I mean did he did he stop or, oh so is still a thing now


what are your top three children's, that means names for your future children, or just any children lah in general


Giselle, Giselle Giselle isn't that our


no her name is Jezreel ya, Giselle ya, Jezreel is her name but then Giselle, Giselle with the GISELLE or [orh] okay okay okay okay


ya ya, that's quite a nice name


uh for me uh top three names, ya I like I like the more unique names ah, have I seen any before


right and now now at the top of my head I can't think of any names , the favorite name don't have a favorite name, no eh I don't have a I don't have like a favourite name I think names are just, are just names only


K return to, okay what personal trait do you dislike most about yourself


so procrastination ah, do you want to be like like Tony who's more, more like, driven a not, I think he he's quite uh , he he doesn't procrastinate that much ah he will he will still like


when there's a task to be done he will get it done, procrastination


okay for me uh one trait I dislike about myself is uh, eh wait this personal trait can be


uh sometimes uh for me is a I think too much ah sometimes, ya sometimes I I, I think too much ah, then sometimes when we just need to you know just uh be direct to the point, uh don't consider so much you know just do it


but then there're times where I I stop, and I start thinking, and then it kinds of like it kinds of become overthinking and then, uh I ended up I end up not doing something ah, which I which I should lah, ya so I think usually when I hold back myself then that is something that I dislike ah


because I usually think that's better to just do it, move on, describe the saddest moment of your life, saddest moment of your life


say so, uh perhaps I go first, inspiration no lah uh, saddest moment in my life is just is just the times when I when I have


we're just a how to say have a heartbreak eh, ya lah is just is just don't say for me like you see you see is nothing about my my family let's say my my parents when they're divorced, uh as much as I'm upset but I'm not that upset, but uh, because it it didn't really affect me on the personal level but but heartbreaks [orh]


through relationships all that they they they hurt me the most lah, ah in fact most of my most most of most toughest periods is when, you know when uh, when I have a heart my heart broken lah


so uh, sometimes there're times where you know I I inflict pain on myself you know I go into that that state where, where I just start punching the walls you know that kind of stuff so it it's a , but the thing is I hide I hide all these to to myself ah I don't


uh I don't want others to to get involved then all that kind of stuff, so uh for me uh that's my saddest moment lor


okay we'll move on to the next question, who is your hero how does he or she inspire you


then now who who's that you, who's your hero, no no no I just


don't have anyone don't have anyone who who inspire you, like someone that you is like a role model to you, could be your friend could be your best friend could be your


I think is normal for every student like that


sure you find it ah, no is just takes time only, I think is just adjustment lah now is just the first semester only, for me who is my hero will be my dad, uh how does he inspire me because, he is very knowledgeable ah


in this uh knowledgeable not in the sense of uh , uh not in the sense of like you know like academically wise he's he's not he didn't study until that far but when it comes to, to life's life skills ah things like a I mean


it could be like maybe fixing a cupboard you know a chair all those all those kind of like, uh more hands on stuff lah he, he knows he knows how to do all those stuff


he's a think he's currently a, driving, instructor ah but then he, he went to help out with this eh it, ya lah ya lah so he just mainly just teaches driving ah, then then he's he's so he's very good you know with roads you know with vehicles and all that kind of stuff so


uh when I when I you know when I learn driving right then he'll be the one that's like scolding me all the time like !oi! this is not the way you, you know you should drive you know that kind of stuff so, uh he knows a lot of stuff ah then I think he's he's he's very knowledgeable ah even though uh


uh he he'll tell me that his education level you know is not that good lah but I'm like !wah!, but you know so much more in life than, so it's something that I respect him for, is what inspires me ah, and he's always willing to, he's always willing to uh , learn more stuff ah


so lifelong learning, make haste, what are you procrastinating now


so your modules leh, do you better study do you have do you have any test after uh during this after this recess week


you better start soon right, no lah as in terms, don't the then like that you have to retake the whole module whether, i don't as in no normally as in ya you take MC then there might be a retake but there might not mah but on the


is worser I think if split into two is always better because at least if it is cause each test you can at least guarantee uh uh a passing, there there will be a passing fifty you threw all into fifty percent is it


I don't know how how it works lah but then, okay for me uh procrastinating now uh besides my work, uh it's definitely my interest in investing ah I I keep telling myself I want to to learn


to learn extra skills when I'm in university ah, ya but then I I still, ya I'm I'm not I'm not taking any action yet on it lah because I'm still too I have too much on my plate now


ya so fitness is another, good try last supper for your last meal, what would you eat, and who would you eat it with so this is for your last meal that means


sinful to eat ah so now now you don't eat that meh, now you you don't eat any sinful food, I mean you still you do right


five scoops then you might as well just eat one whole tub, I never seen I


[orh] nice , okay uh for me, uh for my last meal uh again uh it's with my family even though I'm not very close to them but ya I still eat with them ah


what would we eat, I guess just a just a buffet lor, ya we don't have any like favourite things to eat, I think just buffet will be nice, of unhealthy food okay ah I I like I like I like uh I like salmon a lot


okay ah no you see you you ya ya raw, I don't think it's unhealthy


[orh] hor, then it's just uh I mean but I eat just raw I mean though, [orh] ya it's cause you add the, is just like a Subway then you add the the sauce then it becomes unhealthy already


oh you in a rush okay, you should have just grab a slice before you, oh, just spill ah just


never mind later later we go and eat there's this, okay you have this question describe the perfect date


so I believe guys and girls have different, different standards and all that ah, chill date, so what is your date like a full twenty four hours or, or is it like, there is there like a time limit for it like you cannot take it


sleeping, so it's just as long it's chill can already


for me the, the perfect date uh is usually those that we we we learn something together ah, it doesn't have to be something new I mean you we can just is as long as we doing something in common together, like there's uh time spent together and then


uh for me I think that's quite perfect already ah so it could be anything it could be like, uh just a visit to the zoo for example I've never let's say I said eh I've never visited the zoo, never she said I also never visit the zoo before then we go there and we go and see the zoo, as as how no matter how bad it


no matter how bad it will be or what right we at least you know still do something together ah, then if the person don't mind I don't mind then uh it's good lah, so that one that's what we find perfect


is there someone at this table you would like to know better, what intrigues, what intrigues or interests you about this person so in this case is me ah, ya so is there someone so anything you would like to know better more about me a


describe the worst date you have ever been on


(ppb) you would say no how many how many days did you go away, okay nope it's only considered a date when when both parties consider it a date


so when is it like the


did you tell him anything


but no he just, kept it there, uh no I actually did that to myself I mean as in not not the arm thing but I I bought I I bought comfort seats


uh like on our movie outing ah I won't even call it a date right, no but but the reason why I took it just cause the separate seats one we wanted the centre seats then the separate ones are all taken up already


I mean the intention the intentions were obvious lah, !huh! and then that's your oh ya ya no there is dividers what which which theater is that, Cineleisure eh Cineleisure is Cathay what Cathay have


I the one I went have, is is is is hidden is a red color one so you have to pull it down also


you should join the couple so that's the worst date you've been on, in that's that's the worst date you've been on is actually just


okay so, describe the worst date you've been on, uh for me my worst date, I never really go out on, the only dates I go out with was


is with my partner already ya you know what I mean, ya so none of it is actually bad ah, I value every every date ah, like I I I don't I won't find any date bad, bad is only if the girl don't want ah


ya so ya okay so I'm guessing then that that that's my worst date lah, I asked her out for movie


is my treat ah the whole day is my treat ah so, so I was like uh you can you want you want we can go and, dine at uh this Supply and Demand, at there but she kept saying like, no we we uh don't need to eat expensive food lah as in just like


you know Ichiban then I'm like how often do I get to eat with you that kind of thing so I'm like, it's ok I'm I'm fine with, we go there then, I believe like before I went I went down to her house to fetch her right


uh once she came down, but before that then she told me she say eh I don't want to eat so much, uh I eat, I ate like breakfast a lot, then I'm like !huh!, you you knew we're gonna eat together but you you went to eat breakfast, so I was like ah you seriously has no intentions to eat with me that kind of thing


so in the end when we went there uh she ate oh I think she ordered, oh two slices ah but there are a lot of things that she she can't eat, surprise she can't eat truffle, ya she can't eat a lot of stuff so so a lot of things I'm like okay fine uh we will avoid that uh, we'll avoid those food choices ah


we'll just, uh order what we can, dish she ordered salmon plus smoked salmon pizza, but then she, don't like salmon , so she ended up not even not even touching the pizza we had to scrape off all the entire ingredients then she just eat


ya then then I was like, I'm like oh man I I I felt I felt like so bad you know what I mean then I was like eh shit I'm doing it wrong because we ordered the two flavour pizza lah, then she tell me like don't order large but I still go and order large ah but because I I scared she say


you know like not she she feel hungry and all that lah because is just is just pizza only lah, but okay lah then after that once we uh she just we just ate, then after that we went to catch a movie !wah! during the movie ya it it like you say we we say sat couple seat lah ah this time I didn't I didn't like


then she just like you know folded her arms and she just watch the whole show, like there's no there's no connection no nothing she, ya I trust you I


ya then she was just like, then when she watched then she will like, like you know do a her laughter you know her laughter quite prominent one right, after that


sorry what's this, this is not this is not my phone eh, just pause it


okay so uh, ya that was when Melissa you know she's, she she said she's meeting her friend to buy like a birthday, ah birthday gift so, uh I brought her I accompanied her to this Suntec lor, then she is just there eagerly waiting for


her friend ah to come ah, so I was like okay ah there then I just offer like do you want a do you want a I get you a drink or something, and she was like uh no ah you go and get yourself ah you know that kind of thing uh, then then I think when she saw the she saw her friend downstair


then when I saw the friend hor, !wah! that was the worst date because the friend's a guy lah, and it's her her taekwondo one and the it's the guy that always you know appear on her, her Instagram stories, claims she don't like the guy I'm like ya she bros the guy ah you know she will bro bro bro the guy


then <unk> for for me !wah! when I see it it still just like stings ah it's just like, you don't like eh she's she's looking, she's, she looks forward to seeing him more than, than you know her seeing you because she's she's she gave me the cold attitude throughout the whole entire


even though I I choose to attribute it to just her you know it's it's her mah that's the way she behaves mah, but I seen her on a happier side one lah and she's not like that, but okay lah, okay describe an experience when you were match made or went on a blind date


and did you like the date, ah you mean so there's a second and third


and then what happen, I mean it's so but overall it went well, for me I've not, been match made before, most of my dates are


is is I choose my own self one lah, ya uh went on a blind date, not really ah in fact I don't go dating, much so often, if your house caught fire and you only had time to save one item


what would you save, your bank cards, photographs, ya photographs


uh in the time of a fire, eh but bank card technically your your money is still in the bank, no as in you can always go to the bank directly and do a withdrawal without the bank


you just your IC and all that, handphone or your wallet, how about your handphone


so uh for me uh I'll just, I'll just save the most valuable item lah, ya it could be a photograph but I don't normally have photographs lying around, so it'll be of a monetary value, ya I would I would choose the thing that I'll think


and the period of time when I see it [orh] which one has the most monetary value I'll just grab it, uh moving on, ha what is a deal maker in the search for a partner


uh perhaps I go first ah, so a deal maker, for me is as long as the girl see something in me ah for me uh is good enough already, that was that was how I how I got together with my


with my ex last time was because she she saw something in me ah that, that I am like you Siao ah you know that kind of thing like why would you like someone like me ah but then when, when someone likes me hor eh, it feels good lah you know what I mean you you you see someone sees you for


you might mean the world, to someone else then that feeling is very good


pampers you well


so does it have to be like money or


how obligation then don't do uh


!huh! when did you last cry, was it is it


is it is it very recent, ya anytime type of cry be it uh, happy sad


uh so yesterday you cry was because of


when did I last cry ah, ya ya, ya ya this one was this one was was because of Melissa lah we just we just


[orh] that's like eight ten, uh we move on, do you like to eat, in the whole wide world, so name one food, waffles ah, which are the the kind


Earl Grey but then you only get to choose one, so is uh no I would, desserts okay, any any


[roh] the the one that you eh then no then what's the , any desserts that you you don't like to, !huh! durian


I I nearly bought durian mooncakes for you guys ah I'm like, Mao-Shan-Wang durian, your sixty dollars ya, for me uh I like I like to eat pizza


ya I think pizza's like a, why why so late, oh my because is is is you avoid it because it's unhealthy eh and know that lah


oh okay okay okay I I get I get my mean, ya cheese sometime can smell very weird leh, try Domino's uh classified chicken, that one that one is really good, uh unless ya


okay then I'm late, is it very big I I thought this is that big oh it's just, soya pandan


what is your most valued possession, and how did you come to have it, most valued possession so just


okay which is, what thousand four, seven hundred, which one you buy the pre, premake one or customized one, ah okay okay, the same ya correct


ya you better not lose it, but but did you you choose it as like a how did you how did you get it it's a gift or it is like a


oh but is all you got it all in one day, I get over the years oh


over a month , oh but but oh so okay okay, ya I I saw that one


I like I like those with thirty month like they got the hobbies then you know they then they put like traveling lah then they will put like the Eiffel-Tower all that kind of charms


ya it's it's quite nice, uh most valued possession ah, uh I don't I don't have a most valued possession lah to to me


uh my items are just my items lah if if I had any, oh so you just be my photos oh, but I also don't have much photos lah actually the only photos I have are like are like like, class photo and all that kind of stuff, ya and then most of it is just through photo taking lor


ya sometime I wish I take more photos eh with people, at least ah I have more memories to keep ah, okay we have a


we have what's the craziest thing you have ever done, uh we we won't measure how crazy is, crazy is crazy ah you just give give me one crazy thing that you did


I perhaps I go first ah, I just thought of one, uh that time was during the craze of Pokemon-Go, so, me and my me and my friends we all all said there was a, forget what Pokemon eh what's about eh so water Pokemon lah then we were we were at around Punggol


uh water way, so, uh ah I think was Gyarados ya or something like that, then then we saw one that was like a few like a few few kilometers away ah, and we decided to just run for it lah I think we only had like like two minutes or three minutes to to run to it


and we I ran barefoot thought eh, I just took out my slippers because I was in slippers ah then I just took out and we just ran barefooted across the road, we cut across the construction site we just, we just just kept running as a as a whole group lah think about five of us


ya when we by the time we got there [orh] we notice some people you know some people they drove there they stop by the road side they, they cycled there some of them really run also and they were like it is there it is there it is there and then, two cyclists that were there they said you guys just missed it


it's gone already, ya so we we went there we ran, !wah! and then it then we didn't get it ah, so uh that's that's one of the craziest things we done lah it's over a, a Pokemon leh ya


oh UOC is there, wait this UOC is which UOC your, [orh] poly one ah


oh this one ah [orh] [orh] you went to Vietnam, I I went there I went there for a geography trip mah so but ya the food is good


ya that's why, we got like here and there you know we like we got play time at there lah but mostly is study ah, !huh! you don't want continue your trip


so you just you just you just dance in front of the receptionist what are you supposed to dance, oh-my-gosh, then then then then what's what's the reaction of the receptionist


you still remember the steps, eh who played music you got people play music ah ah


oh-my-gosh


we dance inside the restaurant, but dance inside for as in, [orh] [orh] but you weren't alone lah you were with your, [orh] !wow!


!wah! crazy oh-my-gosh


okay uh we have, we choose nice questions ah, what nicknames do you go by which is your favourite, Ling just Ling not Ah-Ling


Ling ah Ling eh then your sisters call what, uh you you want to be the Mei-Mei ah


my nickname is damn damn weird lah, do I have do I, no no ah no last time ya last time people call me


no they they make fun of Jieyang they they say it's like a fetch, like you know fetch the ship, ya ya so they will, eh ya but that one but that one's very childish lah, ya my my now now my current favorite name is just is just dino lor


people call me Dino something, because uh DI then, ON but is DINO, ya no last time last time when I was young right I used to I used to make my hair like, stand up all the way, then then my my Geography teacher, my Geography teacher was like was like


you look like dinosaur ah then that was like, ya then that's how that's how everything all started out from there lah, ya that's that's how the whole dino things like actually, how long has it been since your last serious relationship


(ppb) okay moving on uh, how do you know when to let go of someone


would you would you try to make someone, love you back, like [orh] you would you say once the person is given up you won't try already


for me is just let go of someone when, when that person does not, does not view you as important as compared to how you view the person ah, so if i if if that person's the world to be then I should be the world to the person also lah


okay uh top three, on your bucket list, ah what would you do if you won ten million dollars tomorrow I mean


book the whole infinity


!wah! how much you spent on your twenty first, !wah! so you gonna have your twenty first, ya ya, !wah! you better invite us


invite us, so what your parents organizing or are you or or you all hoping someone organizing for you all, so you want to you want to throw it on the


I've seen it I seen it before I seen your Instagram before where the guy plan with the girl, then the girl thank the guy for helping to plan because the girl wants to plan her ownself


are most of the guys do it willingly mah, technically is willingly ya or, no lah, sometimes sometimes they want they want to surprise


sometimes they want to surprise the girlfriend or not, is if you had a bad experience, name a favourite place that you have been to what is it's significance


uh for me, I think the the place I remember the most that other than Singapore would be would be


would be to, to Wuhan ah, is is not a very, uh nice place ah there's no beautiful scenery is is developing country in China <unk> country, city in China now ah, a lot of industrial area the the smoke is just like I mean the whole sky always like hazy there's construction everywhere around this kind of stuff


nothing too fancy ah but then, is my favourite place because because I I, it was like out of my comfort zone the kind of thing ah, then uh I met a lot of people that, ya just meet a lot of people ah even you know there when I was working over there then the locals would come up to me


boy uh you, the locals are very friendly ah you know what I mean then they will ask me how often I work out and all that kind of stuff (ppb), ya it's just it's just because of my friend oh that's why I like to play so much


how important is marriage to you, uh no lah I I mean there are girls that are that get married at like twenty one twenty two or


I know a friend that she is she is nineteen then she's married already


any factors that you you want to like like, have have like <mandarin>搞定:gao ding</mandarin> first before getting married, or you don't mind, no but but you can't do that at a early stage mah


technically if it like getting married at twenty one then, like let's set example lah if you can marry at at like, I hope so around around twenty five twenty six


but do you think is really about the the drastic could it be any other factors that, values ah


oh okay okay


okay for me uh how important is marriage uh I mean and we have to do it some, at some point of time lah, uh that's true uh ya girls girls depreciate over time but then guys increase in value over time ya, ya I I I I see


the, ya it's just important lah, ya the only reason is I I must make sure that I'm financially stable first lah before I, cause I don't want to I don't want to


to suddenly then later the girl all of a sudden she just, ah ya that's true, what that I mean their, their attached or they are not attached


so it's happening to you now


okay, next one, uh what motto do you live by, any motto any uh, quote that, that like inspire you, work hard


work hard and live your dreams


my motto is just uh, if you don't do it who will ah, ya I think I think this motto I I stand by it quite true ah


what stresses or destresses you, I mean stress for you would be homework definitely right


uh for me uh it's just working out and also hanging out with people ah, that I that I someone I can talk to do lah ya, why are you looking for a partner


do you get lonely like, like from time to time you know that, then that's why you feel the need for partner


uh well but needy doesn't necessary have to be, like you don't have to look for a a partner to, to satisfy your needs one, it can be it can be just like friends they


companionship you know that kind of thing


I see, okay uh for me why am I looking for a partner, uh it's only because ah, yes correct


uh that's one thing that's one video which I which I read lah which was uh quite, uh I I thought it inspired me ah was was why, why try to find like a, a someone to you know cross path with you and then share the same path when you can go on your on path what and then someone will just join you on your path


you you know like, like don't force it lah I think it will happen naturally, ya, okay so now uh


okay uh for lunch ah eh no later I think I, uh there's that there's near there's this nearby uh the one star Michelin, ya no no no is it's nearby only is at the is at MRT


okay where is where is it ah, #Tai Seng# [orh] how come how come so convenient how come #Tai Seng#


are you planning to watch, Sabrina [orh] that that horror show, Hell Fest, are you going to watch Halloween


is like this uh, is like this guy with the mask or something, uh no no it's not a slasher, some more I think but it's only coming on in October only


with the with the group mah, did you you bought tickets, you bought tickets


then then like that then we hope to see you there , we're going on twenty one, we're going to a new one then that's why you you could have just come with us


no you go with us lah you don't become a ghost over there , oh, ya ya just just just okay lah


oh no lah he hold on to it for you guys lah I also hold on for the the OG, ya okay I


okay uh so you enjoy horror, can but I see, no but we we now, until now there there isn't one like nice relaese yet, you still have to keep


holy session I need to search it later I I never I never seen the trailer for it yet eh, Hell Fest, eh uh so, ours the CCA coming along they have any CCAs


which CCA, the person say that how do it do


to guilt you guys or what, oh she ask you to stay back after ten ah, [orh] then NTU


when when's the AGM, as in when when when is it, this Friday ah


okay uh, so what are your hobbies do you have any hobbies


[orh] you go for yoga classes last time, as you sign up for those classes or, but you but you went you went with like with friends and all that right


ya True Fitness heard of it, no pure yoga I never heard of it before


okay okay I'm sure number will drop oh, good job ah job is a good thing ah no, okay lah but your fifty fifty is still acceptable what I mean you don't have to, too too light also no not that good


ah, see ah my my hobby is just working out ah ya so you as you can see that already, run ah, can lah you will find the time to run lah I thought you run with Javier


you do midnight runs right, ya the I mean the the guy who, the time we a few times what, uh that time we we were we celebrated your birthday that's the one


then the other one was uh other times also what I can't remember he was he was there what, I heard there's one more time I met him before, before that got got another time one time


ya okay then I see your Insta story ya he, uh run with you and all there, okay uh


you still can talk more [ah]


okay okay you can start first


ya I see a club, yes


let me count, yes there are ten dots


(hmm) yes I got that too, city pharmacy with two pills on it


on the signboard there's two pills on it, none I guess that's the difference


I think you just circle


yes I got that too, ya, same


uh sorry can you repeat that, ah ya I have that


next to the signboard just, just this, I think is the first aid sign, so below the first aid sign there's a shine lip, lip gloss poster, and towards the, left of the poster is like a blue vase like what you did previously described and


like a white door, and then there are like, brick, walls design on the City Pharmacy I'm guessing that is, like brick design (ppb)


all the tiles, how many bricks do I have, I have four rows of four


forty four, okay


I didn't get that so, I guess is another difference, the big pie you are talking about next to the tray of small pies


yes


ya I got that too


oh ya I got that too, [orh] that's just a yellow bear is it cause I've a, brown bear sitting beside a yellow bear as well


on, the right


ya I have that


uh ya it's called park, okay then, park, so


okay


orange colour cubicles, uh no I don't have that


ah but (uh huh) yes, mine is the black jacket, black pants


okay, ya I call it


yes I got that, ya same


is a red car, with a yellow, dog in front and a L shape, and there's a black colour thing behind it, in front of the yellow thing


there's a (ppb), yellow colours, dog and a yellow colour


L shape thingy, [orh] ya ah right, then it's a, black, stripe (ppb), also there's, grey wheel grey tyres


ya basically that tyre car is almost red, a grey handle as well, then, in front there's a lady with bike


in front of the car, there's a lady with a bicycle, a blue bike, she's wearing white and, blue skirt, as well as orange flats, yellow hair


she has a hair tied in a ponytail, orange shoes, orange orange flats, ya flats, okay so I guess that's a difference


wait, ya


ya long hair, okay so next to her there's this person yelling hey bill


and, behind the red car there's this pet center one one mile, okay so behind it there's another poster in red called learn how to bat


book store, there's a red poster called, and the words are learn how to bat


he's wearing a grey shirt with green pants, mustard colour shoe, lonely, mustard colour shoes and he's a blondie


oh ya


I don't know


I have one


okay yes, it has just some white colour line, mine say shine lip gloss


ya same same here, yes same, three two three two two three two two okay that's let's that's


oh ya right, oh oh ya ya same same, okay I don't have the R I guess that's the one missing okay I have one two three four five six I guess I'm done


then you can go first


how does this game even work, oh, my topic is sweet and savoury how well can you cook or bake


not at all, all the steps my friend do one I don't really help out cause, I can't bake I can't cook


i'm too scared of the fire I cannot cut this kind cannot cut that , ya, not the perfect wife material cause I cannot cook or bake


oh okay, actually quite similar lah I also, no cannot really similar, actually why is there like a single person and like


a lot of people, is a lot of people <unk> discuss it together or what


okay, if you could wake up with a tomorrow morning special ability, what would you have, I'll have the power oh, teleporting cause I can never be on time


to ensure that I'm never late for anything else, that's something that, I would have lah


okay this kind is, (ppb) how many siblings do you have who are you close to


who are you close to


it's a very subjective question, I prefer not to I I don't want to like spend money just to like find love


I guess, so, I don't think I I will unless is like desperate measures, actually I will try dating app as dating app are free why (ppb), go to like dating agency


and then I really, explore, this type of like dating options that I always believe that like school's the best way to find but, actually is very hard also so, that's a possibility yet I mean when you're like old and you know you're turning grey


I guess, for now definitely I definitely won't lah but in the future it's hard to say


oh describe the most embarrassing moment of your life


nevermind (ppb), that happens a lot in primary school


embarrassing ah


I don't think there was anything major major, but, perhaps something that, I we we don't like is like


when, parents discipline their kids in public, like I think that, a total embarrassment


like, okay lah personally it kinda happened to me, not really


it's just, embarrassing [loh], !aiya! when your parents just scold you you just embarrassing lah I think


ya then my dad is more of the, physical type lah so, he will just like beat us in public which is, I think is very embarrassing, ya is not


ya it's one of the bigger embarrassing things out of the like so many smaller embarrassing things


how do I know if I true in love my partner, !wah! I don't know eh


I am really not, so sure I always thought that, I always thought that I will be like, someone who is like very capable of like loving another person or whatsoever


but like recently, this friend said that, if, any guy were to date me, (ppb) the person would be very, tired of me after a while


someone that both of us know, I guess that make me like, be very hurt so, honestly lah is quite recent so I don't know how I don't know how to feel about it eh like


cause you know my situation with my, in my past relationship right, so I thought that I give it my all and everything and that person actually knew, but, that's what he said about me and I'm just like


okay so, I thought I, I was able to do it but, apparently, how you think and what other people think of you it's always, different so


ya so I don't know how to answer that question, cause, ya how I feel might not be reflected in what other people see so


one more year to live ah what I change about my life now, I'll definitely, try a lot of thing, I will try things that, I won't ever do


I would try things that I won't ever do, and, I will probably not study anymore cause I don't like to study, ya studying is a very difficult thing so I won't study


!ow! as bad as it sounds, I will drop out, go and party, I'm going travel the world, I'll do whatever I like and, spend on whatever I want


basically I think I will just do things that, never think I will do even though I'll get judged in public cause I am a very self conscious person so, how about you


I feel like the, older we get the more distance


loyalty, ya I think definitely loyalty, if there's a friends not lie to you, he or she can make a lot of promises


basically I think the main idea is, rather than like anything else ah like without loyalty there's no real, friendship lah like the person won't want make time for you


and like won't want keep all the secrets won't even like, be by you if you have any troubles, so there's the underlying idea so with loyalty it comes, with everything else


I hardly do chores, so, (ppb) and you're doing it (ppb)


I try not to, no ah I'm I mean, I hardly do chores but I guess if it's a chore that


I have to say it will be, picking up hair, cause you know I drop a lot of hair then my room was full of hair then I'll use the scotch tape and go around the room and pick up my hair so I, ya so, oh ya right but actually I use scotch tape lah then usually when I phase clean the room right you leave out your scotch tape is like just


other than that my least favourite chore would be ironing my clothes I don't know why eh recently right every, every ten clothes I iron right at least one of them would get burnt eh then there is a hole eh and then I will be like


very frustrated like, what, am I just a bad ironer or, it's the iron at fault or, or the heat isn't there whatsoever I'm not sure but recently I


burn my sixty dollar jacket and I am like heartbroken, cause it's like, so I ironed and next thing I knew right there was this burning smell and I'm like


again and here it goes again , but nobody help me iron my clothes


an hour long conversation with anyone, this is a very tough question


I want to see like my idol or like someone inspirational but given like school is so busy right now and everything I feel like even, an hour with like people that I really talk to right now or like catch up with is just, good enough you know


people like I miss I guess


I like it also but it depend on the person you know there's some people that you cannot, ever talk to or you won't, talk to, not sure if I feel like I cannot clear the person then


I won't really talk to the person I guess


i don't anything I like about myself (ppb), oh this one this one legit I, don't have anything I like about myself


not sure what I like about myself, I wish there's so many people compare against (ppb) and there's always someone to compare against so


ya lor I guess I will pass that question


very difficult, (ppb) I think it was important is important is very hard lah to have kids nowadays, why they


secondly, I don't know what if I grow up to not be as close to my kid, or we argue a lot


you know that kind of things, ya, I don't know personally I argue my parents a lot so, why if I have a kid then I should argue with my kid like so much


definitely everyone won't want to have lah but there's always this kind of, thinking, I think I think that university very stress then, okay I think it's like causing a


on me and my parent, so like we will be fight right then they will go, uh next time you don't have your own kid lah always what you you you you understand how hard is it to bring you guys up


it difficult lah but but I think it's, it's what everyone wants okay okay not what everyone wants what I will want ah but, I have to find a partner and there's so many things to consider !aiyo! now is just


yes not the right age I guess


this girl called Mei, ya ya she is always on my Insta Story when we meet but so busy nowadays you don't even have like, time to meet we are supposed to hike together this week but I'm not sure if I can make it home or not


yes HIKE cause that day she went clubbing and then in the end she couldn't wake up and hike, so we just met for like a very late, meal and then we talked about life and she helped me with, my accounting homework which she's good at while I just disturb her and on and on music and then she said that


she will fail my assignment for for me cause I never I never put in hard work but, she still help me pass , like she just someone who, would just help you !huh! uh how long have I known her


since secondary school so is a good it's been a good seven years, ya with her, so, I guess, what makes her her is just when I've any problems like


if anyone bully me or whatever, I tell her then she will scold the person, ya then, she will say something to make me feel, better so whatever like relationship problems or whatever I will just


tell her, ya then, I guess her words are just, assuring them, she knows, you for you, ya so, wherever I will just go with her like both of us would


which is a lot people is like, uh would think like both of us are crazy like two girls go to a club then we will like yes let's just do it, yolo , (ppb) ya we got each other's back that's why right we will never ever drink, (ppb) when we when as in we won't like


drink so much cause, so I guess she is someone that I'm very close to hey how about you


recently I don't have any happiest moment of my life eh, I think so I barely have time to do whatever that I like, ya definitely, so I can't remember


when was happiest moment of my life, then I was only like five minutes worth of


eating, okay I guess, if is happiest moment of my life it will be something very superficial like


treating myself, when I go out and shop, I can't remember a happy happy day, but ya we'll be like mostly very superficial [orh] now nowadays we'll be like, buying things to make myself happy is that counted or like buying good food or like


ya, it's not really like a whole kind of like day happy, oh but maybe when you are like young then you are like truly happy, you know or you don't know anything ah I feel like


that's a naturally happy


if I could turn back time there's so many things that I would change or do differently if I turn back time


I would be smarter , I will be smarter and wiser in all my choices


I, would be smarter I think I very stupid so I make a lot of like (ppb) dumb decisions that


sometimes, it can be it can be like better, so for example , I


okay maybe I will say something similar to yours cause I honestly don't know what to say (ppb), I would have learnt dance, I think dance is, just very attractive and, it's a very good form of like, workout lah but unfortunately


my parent, were just, they just don't want to enroll me in dance but they enrolled my sister in dance following that so is is unfair, yes I did my mum my my mum thought it's a waste of money so she didn't let me learn I want to learn ballet


like dance ya my sister got it, I guess, it's just because like, she has a condition that's why my parents are more willing to give her things than they're willing to give me things


I guess I don't really blame them for that but it's just, sad lah dance is something that I always wanted to learn since young but, they just, didn't allow it cause they felt that it was a waste of money so everyday after after school I'll just go home


be dressed in the Winnie-the-Pooh shirt and like, pants and just watch TV so that's how I spent my childhood while I actually like, I other friends that tell me like oh I've dance class, after school I've ballet class after school and it just makes me


a little bit, sad that I didn't get to learn cause , I really like to watch people dance ah and those like, you know those Korean uh dance stuff on YouTube like one million they are very nice right have you seen them


!wah! if I learn how to dance maybe like I can dance like them now but, I hear that dance you must like learn it when you're young if not, your bones will will become hard ya ya playing piano or like swimming you know, cause, the older you are the harder your schedule is


and is just hard to join a beginner's class lah everyone is already like, your muscles can do it and you're still like cannot, a lot of factors come into play right


how do I want to be remembered I don't know I want to I want to be remembered as someone good but remember that I told you the certain someone said that , a certain someone said that


what how I remember may not be how people actually remembers me obviously I want to be remembered as someone good, correct eh no okay not someone good but in a positive way


I don't know answer this type of questions I think I feel very a bit hurt like what he said but, is okay, positive can already


positive lah that's also, positive


positive annoying in a positive way, remember you so it has its only positive okay lah also can be negative lah but hopefully like, annoying in the positive way such that


you cheer them up when they are sad, it can be annoying and cheer them up when they are sad, I value that as well !aiya! that's why I am so sensitive I shouldn't be sia


oh my


courage the cowardly dog, I love it, and I miss it when my relationship with my parents are so much better, I feel that when I was younger it was better so that something that I miss as well apart from


don't not having the stress


(ppb) no studies and a better relationship definitely cause everything just starts off, new when you were young you know


understand just recently I told another one of my very good friends lah, I just, I think I am quite straightforward so I just told her, I know that we are, so I feel like


we are not, communicating and often like you are always so busy so, we're not talking, as much as, are like to whatever we talk about is so superficial as in I told her straight lah


she was like okay let's meet up soon


I think for a family, it's always like, standard you know like you won't take any risk cause you know that they will be there to like love you and all so, you won't really take any risk for them lah maybe you just do like small things for them


but eh it's actually the people, who might not your family and you have like a romantic interest in, that you go beyond what you do for your family, spending


ridiculous sum of money on that guy which I never thought I will spend on anyone not even, my own parents cause, kind of like, who will she buys right, so many things for


me only I can't really is only me I'm not only this one occasion leh it's like ah it's actually two ah I spend on !wah!, cannot cannot cannot I I need to, stop this like I won't want treat my family that good so, why am I treating this person overly good !aiya! cause I'm romantic interest cause you know that


this person, okay somehow is like, okay it's true lah you know they always say like blood is thicker than water somehow I think that the matter will happen your family will always with there like, even though you feel like they're not they are always be like, they always be there like a small part of your life lah like in a background


but this person that you have a romantic interest in, just different, so you also will do things out of the blue for that you wouldn't do for your own brother let's say


but let's say like <unk> closer to them you you you won't like, do as much, things during that short period of time, you know


ya definitely investment, we end up getting hurt lah


it's only human nature


I hope, I hope it's the multiple sign because, I want to have more people around me like multiples and multiples of people, where then like subtract people okay maybe subtract out the toxic people in my life


okay to both ya you


a deal breaker, he has no patience, for me, nurtured, okay


okay let's say a real real deal breaker if I'm dating him would be, I find out that he's rude to others, or he says very mean stuff about others or he's overly judgemental


ah cause I feel like, I cannot, I cannot take it if he's rude, is just not in me to be rude you know so, he shouldn't be rude as well to people, like is just not respectful and have I met


such a guy before, some people you can tell one right some, uh before you even date them let's say on like interactions you can feel like


why is she like so rude to others I mean for example


[orh] people


honestly right we don't spend time anymore eh, my best aunt, both of them are not working


but of course I have a sister with a, an issue then, that's why all like, the more I go out the more I think my parents are so focus on her that, that they get burn out easily so, they get when they get burn out easily then


they are just not happy, so when I go home is just, looking at them like they don't even want to go out or whatsoever anymore so, I'll say that things kind of change circumstances kind of change


right now I only, i don't know this feels very mean but, I feel like they only give me money but, they don't actually, spend time with me they don't listen to what I have to say


they always so moody probably cause my sisters give them a lot of stress, you can continue, okay what's the next question


I miss that, yes I miss that, I miss that too it has some of my childhood


okay so the topic is about a late bloomer, how would you react if a close friend (ppb) express his or her romantic feelings for you, can you can you can you start first I will hear your views


have , uh ya have, have but uh


before how did he even confess you can feel it so, I will distance myself away (ppb) it sounds very mean but, I will I will distance myself away first


uh especially if I'm not feeling anything towards the person, no I will still talk to the person as per normal except, perhaps


I won't okay okay I won't I honestly won't be that mean or, because I really really care about how I <unk> how I make someone feel, I don't want make someone feel heartbroken like over me because is not


is just not right, to make someone feel so hurt, but I obviously try to like distance myself away a bit not like the overly exaggerated one, just a little bit but at the same time


I will drop very subtle hints that I'm, not interested like I will start calling him bro more often or friend more often like I'll definitely reply not said I will not reply I will, and stuff I'll not be so cold hearted but maybe the person ask do you wanna go grab a bite


it will either be sure bro or, not today fam I think I've something on I will catch you, next week bro, just just emphasize on the word more


no guys guys don't like being bro-zoned I remember the moment that I bro a guy right !wah! he, !huh! since when we establish that we were bros, when were we ever bros you are not my bro do you do you get it you are not my bro don't ever call me


uh a bro cause you are not one then I then I just act innocent, really I thought all along we were very close bros I never had such a nice bro like you bro


nothing going on but, occasionally he will still, try to ask me out lah, no the the thing is that sometimes people just like text me out of the blue eh


I also don't know how to respond


so hard this one very hard eh have to choose oh but I but I like the name, Giselle it sounds like a princess, ya it sounds like a princess right, we have someone called Giselle that we know


but Giselle sounds like a princess name that's why I like it, but Giselle is nice, Giselle or Jezreel eh ya ya ya


ya ya ya that one that I think that that's a very princessy name that I will actually like if my if my parents named me that I'll be happy, and is very unique like you don't, like, hardly people are called


that's for daughter though, for son I don't know


I have procrastinate a lot when I'm doing work so that something that I don't like, about myself like I can't stop procrastinating that's why work always get dragged and I never ever finish them, ya


how is he driven, I have procrastinate a lot I procrastinate until right, no ah now my recess week recess week is going to be half over you know that


I guess it would be, okay ya share some inspiration


I guess, would be, same heartbreaks as well cause, they really really, suck


I would, use to think, is my parent, but now not so anymore given our strained


now what, you, uh who's my hero now


now, I don't have anyone I look up to, as for now no eh


now not really I'm just trying my best to not quit school, actually I used to be very happy, whether I'll get in uni you know the offer offer acceptance you're like so happy then now that I'm in right I'm not really sure what am I


really really doing, you know like, you're like so happy like oh I can I can I can be in a, good school I am so proud of myself but the minute like, the pressure and the stress comes in is just, too much to handle or is it I don't know how to handle I'm not sure so


suddenly all my inspiration everything just flew out of the window, I don't know why eh I'm still finding it back eh honestly


I'm procrastinating my module, work from my module I'm like lagging behind what I plan for myself this week it shouldn't happening


yes I have, financial management test quiz I don't even study do you know I haven't done a single tutorial question, and my day, don't understand actually I I so I'm taking MC on that day


it's very tough !huh!, no, oh oh oh oh no no no the that's not a retake, they will push the percentage over to the finals


is that worse or is that better, but it's only twenty percent


I know right like always say like I'll go run but in the end also never go run, no I'm going to the the I shall force myself to go and run this, ~ning I'll try


why is all the last last last question so depressing , my last meal who I eat with, eat with my family [orh] eat with all my love ones what will I eat I'll eat, all the food that I think is sinful to eat like all the calories


I really try to cut down eh like you know I really love ice cream something that I can eat like five scoops but I try not to eat five scoops cause there's something wrong with eating five, five scoops you get it


I want also but !aiyo! I scared of the calories so if it's last meal I wouldn't care about calories I'll just eat, I don't care whether my stomach bulge out bulge out bulge out or whatsoever I will just eat, buy all the unhealthy food like no healthy food is allowed on my last meal


a buffet of unhealthy food, salmon I also like it like if not very healthy, is just okay lah okay it's like not healthy but is not


is I think is in the middle range you know it depends on the the sauce that you match with and everything else also right, but I love the teriyaki sauce so that's not healthy itself already, ya oh my


speaking of food I'm so hungry


I just to bought this, Pandan soya cake yesterday and it looks very good it's like round and green and, all the perfect colour but I didn't get to eat it because that day I was in a rush, but it just not so good it was calling for me to take a table but then I was deciding whether running from no I never even cut


I was debating like should I run from the, bus, run for the bus cause the bus was come in five minute, or should I just, sit down and, but then the next bus is come come in twenty minute so if three minutes there's a different of it, I will be here at like nine thirty instead of nine O five


yes, my Pandan, my Pandan soya cake, it's called Pandan soya cake it's so cute leh


definitely it will just be a chill day, no no time, no time no time limits nothing it will just be a very very chill day I'm not stressed about anything


I won't, I won't specially ask the guy, cause you know I like shopping I won't specially ask the guy, oh take me out to take me out to shop cause I believe that, that is my own interest, you you know he doesn't have to, he doesn't have to like


follow me especially when like, guys in general really they say they are okay going, go shopping with girl but then not interested in not that interested in, so, and I think like practically guys like to chill so I don't mind like, staying home watching movie


for those shopping whatsoever, it's okay and just like oh eat good food maybe like order in


(ppb) Shiok hor Shiok right, like that is like a very good life


I guess there's a way to see topic that we should discuss afterward


okay okay, there's so many I won't go for but, eh judgy no no no actually not a lot lah it's just, purely as to hang out as friends okay okay also as had as


okay lah I will just say like I'm friend with I'm friend with this guy for quite sometime but I never thought of like going out with him one on one, so, that time I went out with him one on one cause he keep he really kept bugging me until the extent like I couldn't I cannot really take it


I'm not romantically interested in him but I just, fine just be nice and just go out what's the worst thing can happen is just a movie right, but I was quite wrong lah it was like, ah you know it's like with someone that I don't have like a romantic interest in whatsoever but I prefer that I have separate seat he book the couple seat


so he like, this he had hands around me and stuff but I just felt, I didn't tell him anything but I kept hugging my legs and trying to fold my scarf a lot of times like like like I think I fold like ten times you know just to


I think I fold my scarf, over ten times, just to you know create some motion so that he will, keep his hands to himself, ya until


the last straw was when I just, nudge it off, is it very mean


there were so many separate seats but he choose to book a couple seat, and, then the couple seat had had no


I went to, Cineleisure ones, I didn't see the, and another thing is that he kept invading my personal space


it's apart from the couple seats, but he took up like, more than half of the, and I was at the edge then beside me was a very loving couple, so I kept shifting down there so imagine how awkward it is


ya I should've joined the couple, I guess is because the feelings are not there lah


that sounds so Melissa and she sounds so fierce


I agree, never I never went on a blind date or I was never really matchmake unless you count like my first ex was, my friend intro us one but I guess that wasn't really a blind date or a match a legit match make cause we had the chance to interact before that so


do I like our first date, I guess the first date went pretty well that's why we could progress on


I guess it was okay


all my bank card, oh all my photographs, my bank cards my photograph and


(hmm) what else other value, okay things that, will remind me of people or like, ya things remind me of people lah usually things that remind me of people no matter how small they are they will have something of value I cannot remember


something at the top of my head right now but if I look around my room then I can spot what I want, bank cards is only because I need money to survive that's a very practical and realistic thinking


ATM card I need money, can meh cannot lah, oh really okay then probably won't be that but something of value to me but I cannot remember right now


K no no there are some things that's more valuable than headphone and wallet, some things that, are like, so unique you know that, handphone and wallet cannot replace them I don't know how to say to you right now but ya


you eh


okay so how about me, if when someone really pampers me well when someone, know how to treat me well, and he does it not cause to make me, not because, it's to like chase me or to like win me over but because he really like means it that I should be treated this particular way


and not as a obligation, no it can just be, actually it can it can just be as simple as, I'll give an example like he knows that I'm stressed


so he would, without me asking for anything he'll just, buy me something that he know that I like and just, bring it to me, it can just something simple as that don't have necessarily have to be like monetary value


oh or like, offer to help me carry my bags cause he scared I tired, that's that I mean that's also quite nice lah right, ya cause he cares, not because of obligation ah , obligation then don't do


ya then don't then then don't do you must be willing to do it, and not treat it like, a burden obligation you know sometimes, we're like obliged to do stuff that actually we don't like one, K moving on


when did I last cry


cry can be any type of cry right, oh this, just uh, just this just this morning cause I was running I was running non non-stop for the bus stop and I thought I was missed it so I just I just cannot take it I just


I like sniff, no it is it is not like very rushed then it just comes out you, but not but not the truly sad type it's just the, it's just the oh no it's so rush ya ya ya ya that word that word the the


the the frantic tears right ya ya ya ya ya


really you cried because of her, actually is very easy to cry over someone most of the time we cry is over someone, except if you are as like stupid as me to cry over missing a bus almost missing a bus, cause my things are so heavy then I was like I was like this


then I just cried I don't why eh it's it's just like really lor it's like frantic tears lor, it's like, it's like sniff sniff, I'm going to cry cause cause it's, too rushed then you feel like oh no then when I woke up right


it was the time Su-Qi left #Pasir Ris# then I was like


I love waffle (ppb), (ppb) really I love ice cream waffles I love love love sweet stuff, I love Earl Grey milk, uh can I just say I love dessert, it's a general cause it's just too many things to me I love cakes I I feel like buying the


Pandan soya cake cause I didn't get to eat, durian related stuff, which is a lot what right there's a lot of like there's durian icy durian cake


guess what this year I ate my first, cause I always thought I didn't like it but it turned out to be okay lor, it's I I won't say I love it but is, and I don't like cheese, oh oh I don't like those, smelly smelly overly thick kind of cheese


it's very gross, okay


I'm so hungry yes speaking of, food I should have just grabbed the whole soya Pandan and just brought, here then just, no it's like it's like it's like this, it really is this big, yes oh-my-gosh if later we are going stopping at Boon-Lay I can buy


but it's very big, okay ah, okay in terms of value it can be monetary so


okay lah cause I read the normal and most valuable possession it can be in terms of memory but let's start off with the monetary one it will be my Pandora bracelet, okay lah


no no no I customize one so I guess, each time I buy there's a different value, right, ya so, and that's one of the most expensive things I ever had it's more expensive than my all my bags eh, it just a bracelet for seven hundred


can you believe it, if not I'll cry lucky I never wear it that day to the club eh it was my cheaper bracelet if not I'll cry you know I'll go back Zouk and then I'll, search every tile no i'm serious eh this one I'll cry eh


started off as a gift from my uncle then my dad added on some pearls then my mum added on some pearls then I added on some pearls then my brother help me choose some pearls so it was a mixture of, everyone's opinion I guess that's also what make make makes it like


[orh] no no no oh, no over over a month, eh ya ya ya ya ya like you just keep going back, so I guess that cause the everyone opinions is there that's why it makes it so, you can tell a story with with with each behind each charm


there's a story behind each charm how it actually came about from like discussing with my cousin over like what what does this remind us of so I guess, the story makes it valuable apart from the fact that it's already valuable


I know I know I know I also collected overseas also that's why is, what makes it valuable okay ya you


oh my okay that's very intense, how about what's the most crazier things craziest things I've done usually I'm I'm not even crazy whatsoever so, I won't venture out and do like crazy things but if it's something crazy


that I've done it would be, it would be, dancing in front of a receptionist


it's for UOC dare, I dance in front of my own hotel receptionist in Vietnam, then he was, student union camp the big four one no no uni NTU


everyone had to ya I went to Ho-Chi-Minh City then I dance in front of the !huh!, nice is it the food is good, why all your trips all got something to do with studies one no why all my trip all so purely for leisure


!hais! okay let's move


I did the Kiyomi song it was so cringey it was like , (ppb) what was the reaction he was just like, stoning at me that's what make it awkward cause behind his staff were all like


my friend she film and play the same time, and then right I, because uh do you know <unk> camp we had to do this Korean song I I I made them, close down the restaurant just for me to dance in it


so that's another crazy thing I've done, and they were very nice to to accede to my request they actually close down the whole restaurant but to be fair it was also off peak hours but they, wasn't obliged to do it so I will say they are very nice people they even said even ya when you're done you can just


off the aircon and stuff so you have the whole restaurant to yourself so I should dance inside the restaurant, and I sent, and I send it to Alex, dance, learn the Korean song and dance at the restaurant, my friend one of my friend but they were still nice enough to you know at least


close the restaurant down for me eh only for me, so I guess that was the crazy thing that I've done the craziest


nicknames, nicknames my parents always call me Ling eh, ya, no like Ling Ah-Ling ah


maybe, they call Wei-Ming !walao! eh , no but it's like Ling ah Ling it's so weird


what's your nickname, Yang ah Yang, !huh! Yang ah


that's so cute


!wow!, two years, two years for me, afterwards, your sis more of like, casual dates, or like, play play one


when the person, choose not to love me anymore cause feelings cannot always be there it will somehow fades ones only the choice to keep loving the person


once the person has really really given up given up I guess it's hard to try already, cause I remember no matter how hard no matter what I did for my ex no matter how hard I tried, in the end he said, that, I'm never enough and that was because it was


didn't want to continue with the choice to like love me, like I'm sure that feelings will always fade throughout the course you cannot always have the strong passionate burning feelings, so definitely fade so it's only the choice to keep loving and continuing with that person


I'll buy all the things I want to buy firstly treat all my friend to a good to a good meal, have have a staycation at luxurious hotel and invite all my friends over the infinity pool, are you not, I have never ever I have never ever like booked a hotel or whatever to celebrate anything before


or or like staycay or or like even like a venue I've none that before all along it's just been like very like, close knitted what's ever maybe for my twenty first but !wah! really a lot money, I haven't even reach twenty first yet


I wanna have lah honestly just for the experience of it and twenty first is where, you know right the hype about twenty one, cause after that I don't think like anything else will, yes yes


will I even have a boyfriend by then, (ppb) no no no as in he don't have to organise it, with me I don't expect him to plan a surprise but, I guess can do it together it will be nicer you know like


I feel like this type of things he don't have to, isn't the very common thing is like, people plan for their girlfriend like plan <mandarin>到完了:dao wan le</mandarin> plan like everything, I feel like I can plan together with the person lah


ya ya like like I think I'll plan my ownself like I feel like it isn't fair for some for it, for you to just damn I expect a surprise from from from you, on this on this date cause my birthday at this timing


or is it cause of the of of the social pressure no no actually a lot of people do that one then you see you know, okay okay never mind get what I mean, this is so convenience, !aiya! uh my ex where got so nice one he


preferred traveling place Japan significance it's just a very nice country


very important cause I cause I want to be married I want to be married by twenty five, is that very early, ya I want eh I I want I I hope to settle down


at like twenty five twenty six, not that early for me lah but uh definitely I wanna settle down I wanna be married I wanna have my own family, ya I don't want to be alone I scared


I really think that he must be sincere and truthful to me like he cannot cheat on me or anything that's a major deal breaker, ya it's, don't want get married so early


ya ya I think that's the ideal age but the thing is that okay they say that if take usually, four to five years to settle down and for a guy to pop that question okay longest seven years to pop that question uh as in, the okay I side with


values, I think values very important also like cannot have overly conflicting values, (ppb) can you can you imagine like, to him it's okay to like to to like not draw the line for boundaries for like guy and girl, but you think is necessary for example


so I think values very important, what else ah, I would also think that, ya but okay based on research paper ah there's this what what I heard it takes a guy


uh on the average the shortest average is four years, longest is around eight years to actually pop the question, so usually let's take k let's take the middle five years, then I want to get married by like twenty five twenty six that means I have to find now


(ppb) that's again that's average lah, but guys have have have time to spare girls cannot


girls cannot too late, I scared I scared I scared


oh ya ya ya, it's very sad if all your friends are like attached and you're not attached then every weekend they go out with their own partners then you cannot even go out with them you get what I mean right cause that's happening to most of my friends right now


attached attached, uh as, oh ya no no no actually it's just it's just me the girl that haven't been meeting me yet cause she's always so preoccupied, occupied with her boyfriend (ppb) but when she and her boyfriend fight then she come and find me


(ppb) so you know this type of problems will sure arise so you, it's best to just get a partner lah


work hard, I guess motto , work hard and to live my dream, you know it's like after you work hard then you get the money then you can live the live your dream