you do this baking method it works right, so it depends on the other party that we meet who is the other party and what kind of interest of topic we're talking about, then you can strike a conversation because this is the first time you meet the person right


right, occasion lah, ya, what to share, yeah, yes, that's right so it depends yup


okay what's your question, made someone else day ah err I think is like helping people


alright that you made someone's day for example you see this err, like because it also make your day if you help people, right and also sometimes people also help me like I was struggling with a load of err heavy


uh groceries up the stairs, so and it was like starting to rain, so I was like trying to pull my trolley and then this, man just came from nowhere from behind and then lift up, my basket, for me or for my basket it's like got a shock lah


ya so the first man actually tried to help me and he did ask me err whether uh I need help, but I also feel Paiseh say no it's okay I can, manage myself so the man okay lah walk away then, the next man who came in hor never even talk to me or say hi hor he just took the basket away from me and then


help me, to put the the basket on on top of the pavement eh then just walk away eh, ya that's why then I was like in total shock and my kids ah the my two boys also turn back and then say !huh!, oh mummy you never ask me ask to help I say no it's okay because it's raining and I'm the one who say you all go because you all carrying heavy bags


but you see that man just help you to lift up you know but that is really a gentleman because he never even wait for me to say thank you, he just lift up he never even ask me whether I need help and then he made my day, and maybe probably it also made his day so with that, instances right I told my boys you all should be gentlemen gentlemen means you see people need help you just go ahead and do it


so next time right when Julian see a old aunty also struggling with her her, trolley right at the same spot you know the parkway where we go to the basement that few steps right, he ask mummy can I go ahead to help I say go ahead so he just offer his help to the aunty


so aunty also very happy ah I mean this is he has to take his initiative and as a gentleman to do it at the right time, so you'll make the day mah people happy you also happy, so I said when you do a good deed you feel good inside and that's the start of your day lor


or you end the day well ya, I do not know him eh he just from behind just moved up my my trolley and then help me to lift up to the pavement eh


the second guy no both are in their like forties fifty eh, but they are strong man ah maybe my husband's age ah, but the second one is got style one ah, because the first man I rejected him right then I still struggling right the second man who just came in say <NEN> just lift up and you know


put on the pavement for me I was I really was in a shock but I still thanks feel thankful lah because I don't have to the drag the basket eh, imagine watermelon eh and a full load of grocers eh and it's raining eh drizzling eh


so he was really a good help, ya we wanted to go to the the sheltered car park at the NTUC so from parkway I have to lug lug my grocer mah, then it's raining and my boys have their own uh school bag to carry heavy mah then I say you all go ahead then I just struggle with the the basket mah


okay because there is a lot of construction so and the delay would be also the rain, so the best he always like to come through the the parkway uh car car park right


then from there we actually go out mah go out to the still road there is easier mah, so he always say wait at the at the NTUC, that side rather than come in through parkway because parkway ah keep on changing the road


very <mandarin>乱:luan</mandarin> ah, very very messy ya that's why he always say cross over and it like started to drizzle, that's why we have to run for shelter, it's a surprise ya


ya he do it's like really, never even speak, just do it he feel right he just do it, maybe like a man like that lah ya, gentleman ya so I always tell my children you all have to do like gentleman


have to teach them, K my last question ah, what was your I'm not even met I'm impressed moment, maybe that is one of my moment I just explain, I'm impressed I'm not even mad


ya you're not angry but you're impressed, by the action


ya, that's why, not impressed at all, not even mad, like people who never ask you for permission they go ahead


you're not mad, you're impressed, maybe the trolley one for me, surprise right ya because he never even say hello can I help you but he just


like snatch your things away from you and then just do the thing he think is right, ya and then he never look back to hear thank you because he think he is he he he don't need that because that is the thing that the man should do


later you finish all your fifteen cards eh


you get paid ah, oh I think okay my boy always use ah uh the phrase


mummy I love you do you love me and how much you love me ah then you must show him the amount of love, then he will kiss you to say show me how you love so you have to kiss him then he'll kiss you back, ya, ya this this he's the only boy ya the younger one then I feel that maybe I should treasure this moment or sometimes they always ask me the same question over and over again eh


but I think it's like now is the moment that I should treasure in the near future he won't be saying such things to me ah, then sometimes he will say I really mean it you know I really mean it that I love you leh although he always make me angry ah, when you're angry with him he'll he will always come and hug you to say do you love me although you are angry with his actions he'll still ask you the same question then the next how much you love me prove to me


he always ask the standard question but my two two elder one won't do that, they will feel it's cringey, ya, you can say maybe at his age he's still childish but, this is people call innocence lor


and a child's innocence, ya, and I'm not sure whether this is a part of his insecurity that's why he want reassurance to say do you love me uh kiss me show me you love me


you know but he'll only do it in private lah he won't dare to do it in public , ah he won't say kiss me now in public he won't, ya sometimes even in public on the bus I talk a bit louder ah he will say don't talk lah don't talk lah your voice is so loud already ah very embarrassing lah


he will say like this, ya at that age eh or sometimes ah he want to buy this food hor then I will say so expensive I can cook myself ah then he'll say don't say in front of people can or not, he feel embarrassed it's like we cannot afford meh why you say that


then I say what if, I tell you, uh no then then you still insist you want to buy leh how then he say then buy for me I say no, there's some things that you know cost that much is not worth it and it doesn't taste good right then why would wanna pay right you might as well cook at home right


I always tell him, I said unless there's a occasion yes like birthday or some celebration then we go, to the extravagant lah if not is anything you just eat at home lor you more, you more <mandarin>料:liao</mandarin> leh I say I cook at home you got more <mandarin>料:liao</mandarin> leh imagine #aglio olio# you eat outside right one plate how much at home you still have mushroom


you still have seafood in the #Aglio Olio# leh correct I told them eat at home and our spaghetti taste better than outside, then now they say okay okay, then they won't they will try not to order spaghetti when they're outside unless there's no choice


five star means what really cook by Michelin lah, #al dente# lah that means the noodle #al dente#


cooking, really she feel is five star


oh, ya


she must describe to you how nice then, she got picture to show you or not, !huh! the elder one ah, oh young one


ya everyday can go out, so had food, I see, not cook by the aunty one ah spaghetti


ask her ya, five star, that means must serve nice nice on the nice plate lah plating lah


my younger one also say the plating must be nice and appetising ah like restaurant ah then I eat


kitchen right ya, my younger one sometimes he say he will come and decorate himself then I say okay lor good lor I put all the ingredient then you just make your own like example the burger right, they will just stack lor


ya or stick ah, ya, ya Chinese is all on the table one whatever you want to eat you just take yourself


oh ya of course ya, ya, correct, correct, don't need lah mashed mashed potato you don't need you just boil it then after that you mash it then you put all the condiments lor it's actually not difficult leh


but fridge is cold not nice already leh, I I do the mashed potato is err more err wet wet one not not the the err like chunks one


[orh] I I don't do that potato salad, ya


[orh] they don't like coriander they don't like


easy food lor sometimes now I cook easy food lah quick cook one, eh no leh I try always one pot eh like one pot clay clay pot chicken err yam yam rice or pumpkin rice, one pot then the Japanese ah rice then you mix with those beans and nuts lor then make it more colourful lor one pot lor


then the side will be like other things lor like salmon or whatever lor, or the Yakitori or the the prawn Ebi so I will always make this kind, if not is the, ah you go and buy it's worth it lah because I I'm also looking for a smaller one


wrong hor ya, that's right we we we watch out for discount lah promotions lah sure have one I waiting for


today is tiger brand, Taka, Isetan or Taka I saw is the tiger brand leh, is it


[orh] your mailbox ah you you you you see whether have rice cooker you you take picture for me, tiger ha, [orh] Isetan ah that means later I can try, ah you you check for me, ya eh now it's eleven thirteen eh


thirteen ah so we should tell her already ah the last free talk, ah okay put on the table can can okay


Roanna, hello, ah eh Roanna ah you want to talk about food


or you want to talk about fitness also can which which one, ya what new food you try to, or you tell me ah since now you are a homemaker ah what are the food you want to explore


which one, oh one pot ha, oh ya because


correct ya cook the chicken in the pot or I, err no rice cooker, good enough already ya my clay pot chicken rice is actually using the rice cooker, then even chicken rice ah you can also use the


rice cooker to cook very easy, because when you cook the, the uh chicken thigh ah you put inside the rice and cook together right the essence of the chicken will also go inside


rice cooker to cook right, tender, [orh] okay the flavour right, taste ah okay, yes I always go for shortcut, you know this brand call #sing long# S I N G L O N G #sing long# is one of the best err premix chicken rice


err apart from Prima chicken rice ah, because that one is quite close to err our local authentic taste because it contains ginger inside already and then the ginger they have ginger oil inside because, the paste ah actually the flavour is also come from the oil don't throw away all the oil the oil you can also scoop like one tablespoon


or two tablespoon depending on the intensity of the flavor you want in the rice ah, so I always use that that #sing long# brand and then I will wash the Pandan leaf and put inside, then you can also cut some


smashed garlic if you like garlic taste I'm not sure what what whether your children like garlic or spring onion taste ah, so you can also put inside and before the chicken thigh is put inside the the rice right you should wrap it with salt


some salt, ya because it's quite tender if you cook together and really the the the brand of the the rice cooker plays a part because when the chicken comes out is still tender it's not those hard and stiff, ah and then you cook the chicken inside the rice together with the rice with all the Pandan


Pandan leaf and the the you took maybe two two spoons of that #sing long# paste ah together then you just cook together with the rice lor, so when the rice is cooked ha you just take out the chicken and eat with the rice the flavour is already immersed inside the rice


no no it's too much very salty so for a start let's say you're cooking for four pax right, maybe you just put one and a half lor your how how much rice you cook one cup or two cup


!huh! are you all a big eater, oh small eater, half a bowl, okay


one bowl, then maybe you try, two cup, or one and a half cup lah, of rice lah


ah because my children eat quite a lot lah because boys also growing teenage eh, so I cook let's say whole family five of us at home right I cook three cup of rice, if let's say only four of us and sometimes I don't really eat a lot of rice I eat like last night I cook two cup only then just nice


two cup of rice, ah because I exercise I don't eat rice I would eat err yogurt, after workout cause too late already by the time I go home nine nine nine o-clock already, so then you can have two big chicken thigh


to cook so but you must rub with salt lah so that it's actually quite tender, ah whether you want to remove the skin err you try lah because sometimes with the skin right, inside is more tender ah not so Siap ah


uh and chicken thigh would taste better than chicken breast ah because chicken breast will be hard, unless you tenderise the the meat that means you marinate with fruit fresh fruit juices


I found it ya because I I I cook the uh Korean, err Bulgogi is it Bulgogi or what ah so you must tenderise with uh fruit juices real fruit juices that means I blend the juice, then the the it's really difference you know it's more tender the <mandarin>肥猪肉:fei zhu rou</mandarin> more tender


ya then once I didn't tenderise is not, no it's really pure fruit I blend it until juice, ah because I have blender mah I have blender


if I want to do a quick one right, okay uh if you use pineapple it must be marinated within two hours before you cook cannot be overnight because too acidic you see, but if you want overnight you can actually use like pear or apple


but normally I I marinate in the morning so I can actually cook it, for dinner or lunch, but it depends lah if I use pineapple normally if it's a dinner I will marinate err lunch lunch time


so it depends, err ya any kind of meat and I find that pineapple is quite nice because it give a flavour to the meat, and you see some of the Satay stores right they have pineapple sauce right I think pineapple is also part of the marination


but if you do chicken right err especially when you air fry chicken or you barbecue or you grill chicken right, I feel that you use ginger, plus garlic it taste nicer especially when you barbecue


then <mandarin>花雕酒:hua diao jiu</mandarin> you know those like oyster sauce lah, and I I make the mashed potato right I found that I use onion powder right it really taste very nice with butter melted butter


really taste really fantastic and the children can eat a lot of mashed potato, eh onion powder hor and butter is really have a kind of flavour you know, to the mashed potato ya it will not make the potato so bland I haven't try but


I found onion powder really nice and sometimes I put garlic pepper, it's quite ex leh like one bottle is about seven eighty and not all NTUC have you know those finest finest <mandarin>才有:cai you</mandarin> eh


for sides ah for onion powder ah, err marinate meats, sometimes they used it, ya you can also use it, then, salads probably you can put some


so I always like agak agak lah, it it comes with like trial and error, sometimes I don't follow the recipe I just whatever I have right I trial and error and I find that some marinates they use rice wine which I do not know what's the reason for rice wine


and there are different kind of rice wine and different brand, yield different result, for dinner I always cook one pot and lunch sometimes a quick lunch is also like two of us I also cook simple


like everything into one pan, like err pasta, I cook everything in one pan and pasta you have you can actually have variation leh, like one one stir fried pasta right I can transform half of it right into baked pasta I just put


err mozzarella cheese on top and put into the oven right it become baked pasta which the kids like, then they can also choose to have a plain Aglio pasta, or even like cream, or tomato sauce, so one family sometimes my kitchen is always open busy everybody got different flavour


that means I cook one plate by plate leh oh you want tomato okay wait tomato sauce for you you want uh, correct different type of sauce on hand ya I have like the white sauce, on hand the Aglio is you know so different children have different variation so I make myself busy eh then after that I say I don't care already I'm the last to eat eh I have to wash eh


it's very tiring so my friend say why you one one plate one plate you cook like that, say I crazy ah, different, ya, okay pasta sauce ah sometimes I make myself or I I mix


mix my own plus the the brand right, I buy this uh #San Remo# or this brand err call the organic brand, the man err riding a horse that one also not bad, #San Remo# or what ah that that one NTUC have ah


uh next time I show you that brand but only when they have sales then buy it's better, then different brand ah of pasta also make a different I find this Bari~ Bari~ Barilla ha this brand is nicer than other brand


Ba~ Barilla ha is it B R I, R I L L A, ah this brand pasta is really nice because this err Collin's restaurant right they only use this brand and the texture of that pasta really different


in the past I always buy from Saint Michael but very expensive ah the Marks and Spencer ah so now I buy this brand is really taste even better than, that that that what #San Remo# ah all those brand, this brand really taste good


that's why you can have the authentic, authentic , taste and then the the number of minutes that they say ah it matters, plus and minus lor but I will always test the texture, don't overcook it the right texture because when you pan fry you can also stir a bit mah


uh if I cook seafood I will add err Martin like the white wine ah, or those liquor hard liquor it give it a different taste, so I trial and error


those, #Remy Martin# ah, hard liquor hard liquor, ah if I have seafood lah normally I cook that, yes and if you cook mushroom you take the fresh butter mushrooms uh all this is nicer than the


canned white colour, ya I don't like Shiitake, correct the fresh one ah, for fresh one ah, ya


if if you are really like err more cooking for family like even lunch right, if you invest in something like a air fryer is also good, because I use air fryer for like err pizza, I buy the wraps


base right I make into like pizza lor, so I just put topping and then air fry it, #Phoon Huat# ah


#jiam tao roti# ah, oh focaccia focaccia, focaccia, four slice it


ya, ya, yes, but not nice not not enough to eat eh so extra is the wraps


your girl small eater hor mine not enough so I have to topple up, correct #jiak buay pa# eh, they still hungry, I must give them meat


yup, precisely ya, ya it's fast


oh hunter is not bad hunter is good ya, ya hunter is good


paste ah is actually for pizza dough you know pizza dough they use paste, ya, ya correct is too thick ya ya


yup, cheese ah, that's right, nice right and tasty quick cook lah we always look for quick cook, toast it


ya, time consuming, kneading


you need to proof it ah, tired ah and then you have to wash up clean up, yes


ya, yes unless got more time ah then can actually experiment the different type of kneading ah, course


ya, oh I also won't won't think of opening a shop eh I don't think I think this is more for my leisure I cannot open shop very stressful


ya sometimes it turn out to be good, oh I'm interested but as long as not too expensive ah, I want hands on I don't want to just see only demo is like not fun


ya ya ya, don't tell me they use Thermomix ah


but is it just demo, demo, the new #Geylang Serai#, that that one, the new new CC ah


but which dates ah, not wasted


ya and usually it's weekday, Teochew, Chinese style lah, [orh] ya ya


yes dishes ya that one is demo is confirm demo, is a guy, uh whether the the instructor is a guy that that same guy


you you only sit there and see how ya watch only and then ask him questions and taste what, he actually cook, no I we ask before so they said ya it's just demo


then I seen before mah he cooks in front and then, those err aunty they were asking question then take a notebook lah, he'll give recipe, yes if not hundred over I don't think you you can actually try to cook and they have limited number of cook err err stove leh


Shatec, but sometimes you you go to their kitchen is really those commercial kitchen I don't think you will cook the the same taste as what we'll cook at home ah


correct is industrial equipment is not home home type of stove ah so you won't cook the the same #wok hei# ah


update ya ya correct then they will tell you [orh] you press this button press that button like maybe let you try ah, but must always remember ah this button that button, ah not difficult lah, they also cook until so good already #Li Choo#


ah #Li Choo# and Cheryl, her maid ya but that time when her helper went back for home leave she cooks, she'll cook, okay lah


ah but like because she like she don't use it everyday ah so she say kelam-kabut a bit ah, cause, it's all in one you can chop you can mix you can cook you can steam


steps ya yes, don't need the measuring is within the the the cooker itself so all in one, can you just tie it lor can


okay we are we are done, ya we're done already, okay bye bye


hello, hi Gill, alright are you ready, okay, oh just on the paper the plastic okay


okay got it thank you, okay I have a beach scene what do you have, good okay let's start from the top left


I I have a tent with a woman standing, with a few items, okay there are three garlands, okay so that's one of the differences are your two columns on the left or on the right


okay so I have the extra one on the right okay, and on the table there is one pair of socks and two rackets, and underneath there is a box


any what, no no tennis balls, okay (ppb) so eh the tennis balls are on the left of the racket, okay, can you remember how many differences there will be


twelve okay alright, does the woman, sorry there's one pair and one extra I only have one pair


ah okay, and that actual difference is on the the other pair is it the other socks, is it the same size as the two socks or different


oh okay I have an empty space on the right of the sock or and then my the left most sock is smaller than the right one, so I assume the left most one is the extra pair that you are talking about


no, okay it's not really in front it's in the front but on her left a bit, oh okay, so that's the third difference


okay does the woman have curly hair, well it could be that the hair is different, not just missing items


we don't know that okay, so let's move up a little bit there is a man fishing and there is a shark, okay, black top and like a brownish pants but I don't think the color will matter because your color is different than mine


I, your what color is your sand, oh okay so the man is wearing a brown cap uh reddish brown pants and a black, uh like coat or something


is that his tent, smoothie, wait wait hang on let's go back to the shark


does your shark have two fins one on top one below that looks like a, paddle, okay, uh is there is only one shark right, is he smiling, okay uh


is there like splash marks coming out of the shark, okay is it just half of the shark that you have


yes, okay same, oh I don't have plums I only have peaches


yes, no, the blender doesn't have a cover, okay, okay


same, where, no mine doesn't say anything the black area is on the door is it, no it's mine is just clean there's nothing on the door


yeah, is it which door is it is it both the doors or one door, okay, alright so that


uh one two three, four five, okay and then the taxi has the normal number of wheels, like we can only see two, okay can see a steering wheel and one windscreen wiper


okay and then on top it says taxi, okay taxi is white with brown seats and brown, highlights, okay


one night only love shack, okay, so, live tonight is where on top or below


below okay so would that make two differences, I'm gonna put two first, one night only and then that's missing, from you and what's missing from me is live what


okay so that's missing because it's below it's not the same place, golden


uh she's wearing a bikini green color, red


I have a small little mark on the the, float, just around where her right hand is just at the bottom part that that


yeah correct that's it, okay that's all there's nothing else there, uh just above shoulder, that's it, no


okay, okay, yeah I have three, one facing left one facing right then one facing left again


okay, wait come back to the float, so there are wavy lines on the float, there are three wavy lines one below her hand, one where her hand is holding and one just above the


the blow up thing, okay good, alright, uh on the left the guy is shouting push


exclamation mark, yeah, okay so that's a difference, there is a dog in my car there are two men pushing from the front


and there is a man behind saying hey Paul, what does he say, oh okay so that's it, hey Paul waving his arms so there are two man pushing the car one wearing white one wearing green


and then the green man is wearing black pants and white shoes, okay then the dog in the car is sitting on the chair that is a has a blue seat, okay he is not doing anything he's


the dog, no the main seat is pink, but then he is on a extra like a extra blue seat


so there is no blue seat for you, okay so there is for me it looks like it could be just a cover or something like that but nothing right it was just pink, okay then that's one of the differences, okay then uh


okay so the wheels of the car are stuck in the sand, that's half half of the wheel there's a wheel at the back of the car, the extra wheel the jeep, okay the seats are pink except for that little blue part where the dog is sitting could looks like a massager or something


and then uh the top, yeah I circled, okay I circled everything know including the things that you say you have but I don't have, okay, and then uh so that is the steering wheel and nothing else I don't see any pedals or and there is no one else in the car


in the jeep and it's a jeep and it's open on top, okay that's it I think, to the left of the sandcastle


okay, red, and then east is red uh sorry blue and then south is red and then west is blue again


correct, both the red and the blue on the right are facing the right, and then the one on the left is facing the left


shovel, yes, bucket is red and then shovel is, brown same color as man's hat


no, is your sandcastle square, is there anything below the sandcastle, on the left on the right on the top, okay


okay yeah, nothing, yeah there is a box of rackets yeah, is the top uh blue


okay, and are there four uh four stands plus a, three like lines holding down the tent, okay good, okay let's go to the stones and the bird


yes, ah okay so the bird is extra for me, the bird is just on the top of the rocks, uh the biggest rock so the background of the bird is the seed


so we have the big rock and two small rocks two smaller rocks in front on the left of the big rock is three small rocks, much smaller than the two in front, and on the right we have uh one like medium sized rock smaller than the two in front and one smaller one in front of that rock


okay, and then uh we have the dustbin, blue and it's full of rubbish it's open, no


you mean rubbish has fallen over, oh okay mine is standing up, okay, are there two wheels on your fallen over rubbish bin, okay so mine is the same


and then uh on the right of the rubbish bin is a sign that says north beach with an arrow pointing north


I put that as two different uh things, is your sign standing in the ground and is it white, okay so we have one two three four five six, seven, eight nine ten eleven twelve thirteen fourteen


okay so you made the sign as one is it, okay then that's probably it so we got twelve already, okay, so let's go


yup, okay


hello, hi so shall I ask my first question and then you ask a question, okay so I'll ask the first question that is in my hands right now the question is, what music could you play to drastically to change the vibe of any situation


could you play to drastically change the vibe of any situation, so maybe I could give you a


situation then you could think of a music to play, okay uh let's say uh two of your best friends started talking about something, and they became, heated in their argument and they started to shout at each other in public


and you have a whole list of music that you have on your phone what would you play, well it says silly on the top


I see, okay and let's say you walk into a room, and it's supposed to be a party but everyone is really serious, and you want to bring the mood up a little bit, what sort of music would you play


the speaker yeah, what sort of even if you can think of the music


okay, okay, and let's say if it was a funeral, but people are playing loud rock music, and this was a friend of yours and you know she doesn't like rock


that is a very good answer, okay so you want to ask me a question now, okay


okay so first of all I'm forty six, how long can my message be sorry, oh it's a five minute message okay from five years ago alright


so five years ago I was forty one years old and that was in twenty, thirteen, oh it was a very remarkable age so what message would I give to myself five years ago and if it was a five minute message


I would say exactly this, dear Isha, do not, right okay, so here we are okay, do not uh take life too seriously


delegate as much responsibilities as you can and hold people accountable for what they do, do not be afraid of , being seen as someone who is able to control a situation because a situation will go out of hand


if you don't control it if there isn't a director to control it, and also rest as much as possible, take time out to rest deeply and, in a private space and say no to engagements that will eat into your rest time


also say no to many things, that are unnecessary learn how to be discerning to not, say yes, to things that you think you need to do just because someone else wants you to do it


but uh also since I have five minutes and that's quite a long time, I would also say don't forget to exercise it's very very important and there must not be any skip days at all, even if it's a ten minute run or maybe a five minute swim it's better than doing nothing


so that's what I would say to myself five years ago, over five minutes, thank you, so is it my turn then


actually I'm wondering about something can we both answer the question it doesn't have to be like I just, okay, so, what


do you think you would do, five years ago, maybe you could just name two or three things that you would tell yourself if you could go back to yourself five years ago


that is very good advice, but how can you stop spending money you can't really stop spending money right you need to spend money for things that you need


but then you don't get life experiences, okay, but you just stay home you don't get life experiences, do you think is actually stop spending money or do you think is more like spend wisely


I think that was more like it, okay, yeah, alright so of course I can ask my next question then, okay, uh what kind of jobs would you


do if you shrunk to the size of a quarter, wait hang on I don't understand this, what kind of jobs would you do if you were shrunk to the size of a quarter, I think a quarter is like a US quarter


okay what kind of jobs would you do if you were shrunk to a size of a quarter


okay what if you get stuck in that hole, okay so you got to go into holes that are a little bit bigger than a quarter actually


okay, that's interesting, and then


no I asked you a question you have to be imaginative, if you are that small you are a size of a quarter what kind of jobs would you do, I know a superhero who's around that size, okay, I see a quarter is still quite big


superheroes a bit smaller than that


really I have some very interesting, creative ideas, okay you tell me one more first then I'll tell you mine


okay, so what I would do is the first thing I would do is of course to be a spy, yes, yeah I would , be a real life spy I would hide behind laptops and


phones and such or underneath tables, or just like pretend to be a miniature soldier or something, and then listen to conversations while I'm wearing a micro mini microphone, yeah that's kind of ordinary but the more creative thing that I thought about was that


I could actually be inside a cage and then have someone wear me as a earring, like a live earring, it is a job I get paid by the hour for people to have me as a live earring


yeah I think that is a very creative job and it's not many people are a size of a quarter so I can charge how much I want, right, well it doesn't have to be earrings can be live jewelries anywhere else but then I need to take like insurance for my life cause like I'm so small and might just fall off and get crushed


yeah, yes right so I would also milk my size for performances, like for example I could be like an a singer or something with like just very very tiny so you have to like get a magnetic like


camera to, zoom in on me, but people can see me on a camera but of course they can't see me in real life they can only hear my beautiful voice, yes, so this are three things that I think I could do if I were shrunk to the size of a quarter


nothing you have no more creative ideas about this, okay


the what, it was actually I think the questions that I start with are pretty strange my purple cards what color are your cards, oh okay I start with the purple cards because I thought those were strange


alright, stories, the blue cards the blue cards are the stories no it's not provoking for me, ah okay


then I have creative and then I have personal, !wow! maybe should do the personal first, okay so are ready to ask me a question now, okay


it wasn't food cause I never say no to food, uh the hardest thing that I have ever, said no to, ever right not never, it's so hard to answer this question because I hardly ever said no that was what I said earlier need to know how to say no more often


but the hardest thing that I think I said no to, I think it would have to be to study overseas when I was very young, that was one of the things I said no to it was difficult


because I really wanted to be overseas but then at that time I thought it was necessary, yes and I think that's why my mind is so stuck on having to go away I want to do it myself I want to go away


yes, so the hardest thing to say no to was to go away to study, in the US, I know yeah you never knew this but was gonna send me to, the US they


and then go into university there but at that time I just, firstly I didn't really like the US, and then secondly I they kept saying that oh we're poor we have no money and all that kind of stuff so I thought this was a very big deal for them


but much later they revealed that they had actually saved up and there was enough money but I didn't take it, so I feel a little bit cheated in that sense too, I know that's true, okay so do you wanna answer this question


can you move away from the phone when you're yawning


wait you don't have to answer the question if you don't have an answer already, okay good then I'll go on to my next question, okay think of an everyday object


yes yeah, okay what extra feature could you add to an everyday object to make it more interesting, you don't have to but then since I realize that you're not being very creative right now I asked you to think of an object first


now uh what extra feature could you add to an everyday object to make it more interesting


that's clever, that's clever, that's very clever okay now think of another everyday object


so that you can look directly into the screen when you are doing your blogging makeup


oh that's clever so the mirror is sort of interactive with the internet, that's very clever, yeah if somebody picks this up and like makes this we have the recording to show that you were the one that thought of this first


okay that's clever okay third item, just think of an object, what which one, right well just think of any one item


a whisk


okay, ah okay, alright that's good, no I don't thank you


right, ya I think that almost everything that I think I want to think about has already been thought of, okay


a crazy coincidence let me see, I have had story about the fourth dimension but I don't think that's quite a coincidence, oh it doesn't okay it doesn't have to be my story right can be somebody else's isn't it


okay, so this is something that I actually I actually heard uh two days ago, when I went to the APSS meeting, and I was talking to a friend a a person who who


I thought I knew from somewhere and he thought I looked familiar too as we went through our friends list and all that, we realized that we had met at a party three years ago, his wife is actually an old friend of mine


from uh twenty years ago, so we started talking a little bit more and I asked him I said what was , uh how did they meet, and here is the story that he told me and I thought it was very very interesting so he was just out of


uh secondary school, and I think he was in his first year of JC, and he was at at the interchange I can't remember which one I think it was Hougang or maybe Bedok, he went onto a bus, and he saw


yes it is, okay, ah right my turn to ask the question, okay, so this is a personal question now, uh I'm trying to understand it also cause I'm looking at it but I just we can try and understand it together the question is this


if you dropped everything to follow your dreams, what would you risk actually no its quite easy to understand I'll say it again, if you dropped everything to follow your dream, what would


it uh what would you risk


so you would still follow this dream without doing school or do you think your risk would be having wasted time in school


okay, what's the concept of your bar, as in like what I mean is it just a place that people go to or do you have a theme or a, a type of music, what would you set you apart there's so many out bars out there so what would set you apart


okay, sounds like every other bar to me nothing interesting, so you have to think that further through because if I win TOTO or four D tomorrow, then you have to like be ready with your plan already so you need to have in your mind clearly, like what would set you apart, and I think the one thing if you ask from a customer point of view what would set a bar apart from others is


fabulous customer service, yeah but it's not, so you have to say it


okay then so I will bear this in mind because I will make sure you go through university and don't have this dream if I win four D I will give it to you after you finish your degree so that you can fall back on it, yes I am indeed okay we're actually at the half uh half hour mark so I will carry on with the next question


oh no it's your turn, twenty minutes what are you talking about


we finished the first half at twelve thirty and then we started this one at twelve thirty five on my watch, it's now one almost o five


yeah we didn't take half an hour for the first task we did it in twenty minutes, yeah so it's like twenty five minutes now so it's almost half an hour so anyway the point is I have a lot of cards, so let's move on, okay your turn to ask me


what animal would be the most terrifying with the addition of human arms, I think I have two animals that come to mind


one would be a snake and the other would be an elephant, okay for the snake of course because if it slithers up to you that's already scary enough, but if it slithers up to you and starts to run its fingers around your eyes and your hair and whatever not


and then that would be doubly terrifying, okay elephant because it's so large and I always imagined that if an elephant would be to come charging at me I would be able to like run and jump behind a tree, but if the elephant that human arms he could reach out behind that tree and pull me out


so that's it, because they just don't the trunks they don't want to damage the trunk whereas the arms like get scratched on the tree trunk it's not so bad because they still have their trunks


okay alright my turn to ask you a question now, same thinking about whether I should do the stories one, okay I have I have an interesting story that I will ask about but I will ask you later so we'll go with the personal one first okay what is the most interesting thing that you have seen on the internet


yes the most interesting thing that you have seen on the internet doesn't have to be a meme doesn't have to be something short it could be something that you watched, that interests you


okay but then interesting is a positive word so I think something maybe when you look at it, right so maybe something that you watched and you go like (hmm) that's really interesting and clever I could take this idea or that made me think a little bit further


I don't remember this video what was it about, I remember this one yeah that was very clever I think I will go revisit it later


yeah, okay, yeah, I've thought about it I on that point I think the Internet used to be more interesting


people used to take like greater effort to make something on the internet now people are lazy they just like, shoot a short video with lots of sensationalism, and then just throw it out, exactly it's true


yeah, yeah you are right about that, okay


oh god it it's gonna be taken away, okay in that case I guess I would spend money, and if I could do anything the whole day I would just attend lots of musicals


musicals and plays exactly, right, I would also buy a teleportation machine because you know it would be taken away at the end of the day but in the meantime while I have that teleportation machine


I can go to musicals at different times all over the world and fill my day up with it instead of just having to like go for the matinee and then evening one, yeah it's kind of clever isn't it yes


listen they also don't have like money that I can spend the whole day, and then have everything taken away from me, so there this is all hypothetical and I could I could say that, actually the thing is at first I was thinking about teleportation machine then I was thinking about going to different countries and seeing different things so I was like


no that would be too tiring I want to just sit down somewhere , and that's why I thought of musicals yes, so that was actually the reverse thought process, ya okay mine turn then, okay so now this one you have to imagine that you have a child


okay, uh no sorry not imagine that you have a child I'm so sorry I read this wrongly, okay this is about your child self, okay imagine how you were as a child so maybe I would say maybe about seven or eight years old


this is the time that we start to lose our memory and actually but just trying to remember yourself this time or maybe even nine years old, so what is true about yourself today, about you today that will make your child self disappointed


very deep questions you have here, that you never became though, I didn't get that never became a sad


oh veterinarian, oh dear, alright I mean as a parent I was hoping to hear things like oh that I wish I never had so many tattoos but okay anyway


yes that you never became a vet, right


she finally what, I wonder why, that that's for another time, which is true and then I probably forced you to like her so like that is


okay so your turn


oh my most interesting classroom experience, I think this is something that actually caused a lot of shock and trauma to a lot of people, and I think it's the first time that I actually saw, human beings and how they they they behave and I think this is what actually one of the first few things


that made me become very interested oh my god so glad you asked me this question, in in human behaviour, and it was this, so we have a lot of uh you know forty kids in class and I think this was in primary two, and the


so kids all rowdy and all that and I'm always moody in my own little world and sometimes I talking to other people and when I talk I'm overly chatty and all that, so I think we were waiting for the teacher to come in between periods, and the two kids started fighting with their rulers


like pretending to you know do the whole like fencing things, yes these are the large metal rulers the long ones, that are like one foot long, and then I can't remember what exactly happened


but I remember someone screamed, and then at that moment the teacher came in, and then uh the thing is then there was the realization of what happened because I looked at the boy, who got injured and his thumb had a deep gash


a deep gash down his arm and it was bleeding it was just dripping away, but what I cannot get out of my mind was the look on the boy's face, he was just looking around at everyone and smiling, he it was like an embarrassed smile like he was embarrassed to get caught in this situation instead of like being in pain


and uh he was a little uh a a little Malay boy and I had this, he is very sweet he is always like taking care of other people and all that so I I suddenly had a whole lot of emotions that came out, one was shock at how it painful it must have been for him


two was admiration for the teacher who remained very very calm, she was just like reaching out into her bag for like something to stop the bleeding, she still managed to control the class everyone sit down in your seats and don't move and be quiet right and then everyone is like just following instructions


and she was asking him questions and she was extremely calm so I was very impressed with that, and then uh at the same time wondering what was going on in his mind and why he wasn't like screaming in pain, and then realizing that people can actually go into shock and control their pain in that sense


and then uh, also there was that part of me that's always the part that wants to help other people that offered what can I do, can I help can I do something do you need to carry him to the sick bay but of course I wouldn't have been able to carry him if I if I had to


but it was just I think it was just just that one time I didn't get traumatized from it I'm sure other kids did but I think for me it was just a gist of like, you know so many things that came to mind that was just, so I could analyse all of my thoughts so clearly not actually feel them


so there was my most class most interesting classroom experience, other than the other normal things like explosions in the chemistry lab and all that, yeah, okay


my turn okay, so this is another personal question, but it's , it it's very interesting I think you might take your time some time for you to think about it though, what useless subject, ended up being useful to you later in life


perhaps I suppose because the subjects are about school right, well like it could even be something else that you learnt like you know spirituality witchery something, but it's probably school what useful useless subject


ended up being useful to you later in life, but the subject is basically something you've studied, could be extra curricular


what is it, yeah


yeah


okay, !wow! I would never have seen religious studies this way, oh I, seriously just still think its useless but anyway


okay, well done, that's true so would you, yeah I suppose, so does this mean that you would advocate religious studies in other countries too


so do you think this is why there is less


secularism in, in England than in the US, yeah that's true okay


sure, yes


we would make hay, right so if humans no longer needed to work to survive, I think one of the key human needs is to have conversations with other people to be with other people


so I think work kind of also allows people to do that and then we act out all the drama that we want to in work like, you know being happy being sad being angry and all that, so I think if you replace the word work with something else humans would still find themselves in that sort of situations


like that would be organizations to you know do something to watch things to have coffee and talk about things, but I think basically humans would not advance, like in


big ways I think we people would still just sit around and talk


yup, but that's it I think people would just chill would sit around would create organizations, like NGOs whatever and so do things but it just won't be work we don't have to worry about


uh designations and subordination people would all just get along better, but at the same time because it's human nature to fight with each other we'll still find ways to fight


nothing would change we would just, exchange the word work with uh meet for coffee, or something like that, why not there could be school like for a long term goal in like


like look back from the greek era of Plato and things like that, people worked minimally to do what they needed to like to be in the fields or whatever, but at the same time a lot of time was spent philosophizing in school that's what the first school was


but that's what I'm saying as it will come back exactly to that era when we didn't actually have work but humans will still want to sit around and think and talk


thank you you have no choice you have to accept it it's my answer, okay so now I have a story to ask you, yes


think of this following moment and share your story with me, the moment that you have is your I have to get out of here as soon as possible moment, so the actual question is what was your I have to get out of here as soon as possible moment


I have to get out of here as soon as possible


something you just couldn't wait to leave you have to get out of there you had to get out of it, some of these questions are very deep like sometimes you can like touch on like traumatic events but never mind let's skip them


okay could be maybe a party or maybe could be a performance you had to do maybe somewhere you had a big panic attack so you needed to leave that situation


what exactly happened then uh you were in a train


oh and then we went out of the train and then we sat down on the chairs just outside right, and then you felt better and then we went back into the train, what do you think happened in that time


do you think it might have been a supernatural thing or do you think it was maybe like you know something in your gut like, there was a stagnation of energy in your gut or something so everything just sort of started to shut down like how it would when you're sleeping


I think I've had moments like that actually mine is pretty very much linked to low blood pressure, on the external surface but if I dig deeper it's actually my, the flow of my energy just stopped, and then everything started to shut down so I I kind of like I have an empathy for this but I don't know if it's the same thing though


and then I feel like throwing up because, that's where your energy is stuck at it's in your stomach, and at the same time you are short of breath because your, your nervous system is not giving the correct signal to your lungs and to your heart


and then like your eyes can't see properly things either go hazy or like, dark, and you feel like actually you're going to die


right, that's true actually, uh yeah it should have the same number, two can count it now but then it'll create a noise, okay so I just asked you a question right okay so that means it's your question now


so now we have seven cards, that's right


oh my god I think about bad dreams, dreams from childhood that I have achieved, I think one of the dreams from childhood was to, be, such a person that people will listen to me I didn't know how I was gonna achieve it in childhood


but I always knew that my voice would be heard, and I think I have achieved it in being a teacher and a trainer, that's it sorry it was very quick answer to a question


yeah, okay uh what is the strangest thing, you have ever seen or experienced, the strangest so no matter how many strange things you have experienced


happening to you it this has to be the strangest, thing, oh is it, what's your question


yeah, okay never mind you answer the question first what is the strangest thing you have ever seen or experienced, you could have seen it in someone else or you could have experienced it yourself


okay so what's the strangest


yeah, was it a selfie or did I take a picture of you, I think I made you pose on your bike and I took a picture of you


ah okay, right


no I remember I was looking at you because the darkness was behind you, can you remember the face


I can, I know I can see her so clearly it's so clear, I never forgot it, I know partially also because and


what, yeah, partially also because Andy asked us to delete the picture, Andy and Chris and so I was like looking at it one more time to take a picture in my mind and I did, it's an imprint


yeah, I forgot about the story too, ah right, okay but then you can't remember what she looked like but you have to give the description to your listeners


okay so I'll remind you what the face looked like then I will tell you later yes right, of course yes okay, okay that's interesting


yeah


I would teach English, okay so how I would make an impact , on my local community is to give free English lessons, to people who think they can't communicate that in English and just teach them simple like like how to


improve their vocabulary yeah yeah their grammar when they're speaking, and how to expand from simple sentences and that's all I will do, and then okay the third thing would of course be to incorporate positivity into their speech instead of negativity


so that's what I would do I think it would have a twofold effect the first effect would be, uh of course the most obvious effect would be that they speak better English, and communicate better because that's you know you learn how to like put simple thoughts across


and then the second thing, would be that because they are being trained in positive words they would change their way of thinking, and not be such negative people so it would not affect them so badly like a lot of negativity makes people sick, and it will also help the whole country to


rise in vibration because people will start thinking more positive


okay, yes we do, so I have six more, okay so let me ask you the creative ones first because I think that one takes a little bit more time actually


okay in if life had an achievement system, what would be some of the interesting achievements to get, I think life kind of already does have, yes I think life already does kind of have an achievement system but this is a very hypothetical if it had


so I think you have to look at it from a viewpoint of life already has an achievement system but then if we could clarify, what creative, yellow, okay so now I'm leading you into how to think about this question first right because the questions


wait listen okay so if is, life okay life to me when I read out this question I feel that it is confusing because life actually already does have an achievement system, so the question is this


if life had an achievement system what would be some of the interesting achievements to get


so what you are saying is that you don't have one particular achievement for all humans to achieve but that that it will be specific to our, yeah our own uh what's the word when the opposite of achievements like things that you can't achieve


setbacks, or bad habits something like that so when you achieve something to overcome that okay alright


yes that's true, unless they meant like you know evolution kind of life, I don't know, okay your turn to ask the question


you are right actually yes that's true, did you say prize


oh surprise, the best surprise I have ever given or received


the best surprise I have ever given or received, this is not a good question for someone who's lost their memory, okay I think the best surprise that was actually effective like effectively executed yes


was a very elaborate party that I had for the ex boyfriend, and it, uh the French one, and it was, yeah


yeah, so it was so elaborate that I had a whole menu I had the whole, like friends coming over kind of thing and it even went as far as that's the day that I was supposed to have French class


so I got him to drop me at the #alliance francaise# to make sure like it looks this way and all that, and then he was supposed to go home so I gave home a task to do before he went home so that I could rush back home before him, yes, so that was a good surprise because when he came he was genuine shock it was like he was about to throw knives at people kind of shocked


so yeah, that was good, yeah, okay that's it oh is it my turn, okay, okay this is very thought provoking question so I'm going to ask you the difficult one first okay so that the easier one you can just breeze through them


so this is thought provoking, and the I I have trouble answering this question so it's up to you how you going to answer it but you seem to answer them very quickly anyway, what question would you ask, if you were guaranteed an answer


oh wait no I should I think I actually I have the answer for myself but anyway you you first


yes, yeah exactly


deep, if only god could speak, yes that's true


well that's the thing right it could be that they just wired that way to show humans they have been human have created the story that they have been, but the tail wagging could mean something else, right


it okay, well I okay I'm going to answer this question also because I think I think I know the an answer directly completely now, so I'm going to wait for like the biggest euro millions, it comes like every once every once every ten years and was like


yes and then I will ask what are the winning numbers , I know right exactly, that's true, okay that's what I would ask at first I was like how


yes of course that's right, okay alright, exactly who cares we will never have knowledge we have this whole going on so


we'll have all the knowledge when we die so there, can


now need to go to the loo again so like, okay let's yes, what incidence could have been avoided if I had followed directions


what incidence could have been avoided, if I had just followed directions okay it could be very deep or it could be very shallow right so I am going with the deep one


the deep one was with Chris, don't get yourself involved with that man that was the direction, and I was like ah whatever, yes exactly so that that was a simple question


do you have an answer for this one, it's hard I know because there were so many directions I gave you that you just avoided anyway


right, okay, okay you've got four more cards, sure okay, uh ask you a simple one what is one thing that you wish was free


what is one thing that you wish was free, okay


okay, alright, that's true I don't know I eat vegetables very cheap so


that's true, that's true but actually some food right now is like being overcharged and being made into crap because of this, uh what's the word


yeah exactly, then everybody will eat good food alright that's a good one, okay your turn


the best experience I've had after trying something new, after trying something new not learning something new, the best experience I've had after trying something new


okay I think I think I would go into experience also because what I tried that was new was a new way of thinking, and that was to uh actually engage uh your higher self


and so I used to go overseas and then like you have to look at the map but then try and get my way all that, and someone told me try this like just, be guided to go wherever you wanted to and so that amazing experience that I had


the first time and then it repeated many times after that and it was just such a sense of !wow!, was when I went to LA, and I had no clue about the city looks like around me, but I told myself I wanted to have a day out and I wanted to come back safely and I wanted to have an amazing day so I stood at the front of my hotel


and I just asked the universe which way and I was told left or right and then I would just follow follow follow my directions all the way I went into some, park not park and some areas that was very Bohemian, I found a lot of nice things to buy there and a lot of uh I made friends there I made I I took numbers of people who were in shops shops and


kept in contact with them for a little while I had a very magical day, and when it was time to go home I just asked which way and then I was led through like roads and all that kinds of stuff and I found myself at the front of the hotel, I know it was a very magical day


so I tried something new that day I tried to let go of, being totally in control and just allowed and it worked, good reminder for today actually thank you, okay your turn


okay take a character from fiction and change one major aspect of their personality, how would the story have changed


even less brave is already not very brave


okay eh did one of the twins die, oh okay, okay, no I mean in real life right


no in real life I think wait was it from this movie, there's a movie with some famous twins and one of the twins died because they got into a fight or something, no I think in real life they died too go try this out later


okay, so that card is gone, okay, alright your question please


what food probably has an interesting story behind the discovery that it was edible, okay I'm going to compile them into


one, species of food what do you call it when it's a species, type okay, yes it would probably be root vegetable, who first had the idea to pull out a root vegetable


nibble on it, cook it and say !hey! I didn't die


right, exactly, okay I'm down to my last two question, I shall ask you the less interesting one first and I will keep the last the last one is the most interesting one if you could stop ageing


how old would you look like forever, yeah I think so too that's a good age, okay for me it will be like the peak of my yoga experience which was like thirty, by thirty eight thirty eight yeah


was it thirty five thirty eight somewhere around there, well anytime I want to work hard again I can always bring myself back there so that's a good question to remind myself, starting today okay your turn then my turn


okay, relive a moment of my life


relive yeah relive a moment of my life, I think it would be that day that I was first able to meditate deeply


and just lose my body in going to oneness, because when I came back from that, everything around me was different and I was a different person and all of my, issues and stuffs sort of just melted away


if I could relive that it was just so magical, you did


no last question I ask you was if you stop if you could stop ageing how old would you look like, so it's my turn now right, alright so this is my last question if you can have any super any unusual superpower what would it be


actually a superpower is already unusual


what, how, what, like, how is it gonna serve you or anybody else


like, and why you like someone and then you're in love and you hold your breath because you're in love and then that person just floats away , right, okay


alright then so that was your last question and that was, uh to add to yours no but if I had one unusual superpower it would be to read thought or at least to manipulate thought


oh that's a usual superpower like who has that name one super person who has that power, charles xavier can only read other people's thoughts he cannot manipulate, yes he can manipulate in the sense that he can bring it to an emotion that they know


but if I could manipulate thought I could just make like you know, Richard Branson give me twelve million dollars, okay you think so I think you can only read but will check this out too


okay what is your last question, this is so interesting so


a statue is being erected in my order what, what what, okay, I think my statue would be in the superman pose looking out, with chest out, arms on the hips


smiling widely, yes, yeah no I think it is the whole positivity thing like looking out and saying yes we can


that sort of thing, okay we are done, okay don't hang up the phone but just put it aside, okay go to go to the loo, okay


hello, hey we never talk so much before so amazing, glad we came for this project, okay, so you wanna choose the first topic, okay let's talk about food


okay, uh let's talk about our it doesn't have to be one person asking another person question but let's talk about our , most memorable meal or the best meal that we had


or even just about the experience of the food same, okay I talk about my most memorable food experience because, I don't think it's the food itself that made such a


a big, yeah a a big, what's the word I'm looking for, impact on me yes okay so it wasn't really the food, but I think it was the experience of being in a restaurant as an adult myself


yeah and the restaurant was actually the I I remember it was in the Marriott I think, it was either the grand Hyatt or the Marriott, no I think it could have been the grand hyatt, no it was Marriott sorry it was for sure the Marriott and I remember it was not a very big restaurant it was just a


normal Italianish kind of restaurant, but the thing is I've been the restaurants by myself as an adult before, but this was a date it was a first date, and I remember being, very aware of my uh myself


my environment my everything else, and then having to think about what I remember what I learnt about in cutlery using class, and like how to eat and enjoy my food the the thing is the food was actually very good


and the experience was also very good because it was a very comfortable restaurant, it's not nothing like the kind of restaurants we walked into now you just eat and go away the whole experience was such a, was was such a memorable experience also because


I think the staff were really really excellent, so there was like the whole uh you know like let me recommend this and this is the wine I would recommend and all that


was just, so, personal, he he really made us feel like you know a friend like we were friends instead of just like you know a customer who came in, and what was even more amazing to me was that


was starting to feel cold, so I think my teeth were chattering or I I held my arms or something like that can't remember what it was to me it was a very small it was a small thing that people normally don't see, but he actually came over with a scarf


and it was a thick scarf and he was like are you cold can I offer you this scarf, then I was like oh my god like yes I would love to have this scarf but, I was just so touched that you know someone was actually looking out for my comfort, so that was the most memorable meal experience I still remember I had pasta


and it was it was a good pasta although I can't remember the remember the remarkable food, yeah, so do you have a meal experience that you remember


and was it like a creamy kind of melted cheese or like a mozzarella kind of like where it could, so it was creamy all the way, it never got thick enough to cut


I think of all the cheeses for taste wise I really like the sharp cheeses, but for texture wise I like the melted mozzarella kind that I can cut like even like, the buffalo wet buffalo wet


I think so I think it's mozzarella but there's another Burrata, so you can cut Burrata and it's quite tasteless but I I tend to like this texture, I mean compared to like the sharp the like Parmigiana and all that


yeah, so I think that's the thing I will try and analyse why I like cake the other day and I think it's not so much the taste but the texture, so I asked Seb I asked him if there was anything in the world that reminded him or like that cake the texture of cake could be like


and we both thought about it and it was nothing but now I've come to think of it I think some of the softer cheeses that you can cut, the texture is not very different !huh!, so maybe that's why I like cake and I used to like cheese a lot but


cannot take it so much ah, well I'm not really vegan because I eat cheese but, try not to take so much of it yeah, so what new food are you planning to try next


right I think that's what I did in my twenties I tried everything, sure, that's good and not all of these meats can we eat it with our molars


because sometimes when you try a new meat and then you kind of know what it is have you seen people do that chewing quickly with their front teeth motion because they don't want it to touch their tongue, that's so funny I'm sure I've done that too like ah okay I've tried alligator I'm done I've tried it


okay so funny, yeah, okay, I don't know but I think I actually really really would love to be in Greece


and just eat a whole lot of tomatoes or even Italy, I don't know if there's new food I mean there's, yeah I think I like to try all types of tomatoes, I don't get your friend I know this is off topic a little bit but the other time I said


something about vegetarian vegetarianism he ask me what do you eat, and I said uh well mainly vegetables but everything else like pastas pizzas I can have that too, then he's like oh I don't eat tomatoes uh no is more like , I don't think I've never eaten tomatoes and I was like what


and he was like I don't know I don't know how you can eat tomatoes all the time, then I was like I don't eat tomatoes all the time I eat other vegetables too, then he's like eh just went on and he kept saying I don't eat tomatoes then I'm like, no he says he never had it


but he said something to the effect like I don't think I ever had tomatoes, I know that is really actually very weird


so that was like very weird, okay but Greece yes so I really like to go to Greece or Italy where the food are really fresh the vegetables are like, super fresh where like you just don't eat as much as you do here coming back to the time when we were in India where we eat


very little but the food is so organic that you, feel it going into your system you don't need to eat too much of it, which is I think it's the issue here the issue that, we have, too much nonsense food so it never really satiates us


and then we need to cover it up with fat to feel satiated and then we get sick because of that, yeah so what is your favorite food oh it's cheese is it


okay, so interesting I think mine would still lean towards the , Italian or Mediterranean, and I think my absolute favorite food would be pizza, my favorite food


absolute favorite yes, but then again now I'm having so much bad pizza that it's starting to like you know, get a bit scary like this is my favorite food and then you eat it and then you're like (ugh) this is terrible


like the pizza hut kind, yeah, I know exactly, that's right, okay what's your comfort go to meal


okay, cake, right, okay


that's funny alright so actually this is something like the thing is what is our our neighbourhood, most famous for in terms of food, if someone says holland village what do what do we think about


when it comes to food, it was popular but you know people don't say like oh you know that place at holland village I steak


okay, that's alright I have my brow pen in my bag, yeah


yeah, but you know living with the older people they will think of places like Michelangelo so like oh ya holland village I remember this restaurant, uh it's, it's the restaurant that used to be owned by the other guy by the guy who owns uh original sin


there was another restaurant called Michelangelo, and these restaurants below were not like cafes they were like proper restaurants like with full service and all that, so I think that was also okay they have apartments above because they were uh


quiet, and they ended at a certain time, and people who went there were adults and all that I don't know how the lead cook is, is surviving, yeah I don't know why they don't get complaints


it's really strange I think with our neighbourhood the people complain about all sorts of silly things like your neighbours making a lot of noise, but they don't mind coming to daily scoop and making a lot of noise, and not thinking about the neighbours


that's true, okay let's talk about cars and motorcycles, so I know I want to get a Vespa and I know it has definitely got something to do with the imprints of my memory when I was like a little girl in the seven


cause I think I am sure there was advertisement somewhere about women riding Vespas and I was like yes I will do that when I grow up, so what about you you could get a car a bike or some sort of vehicle what do you think where do you what do you see yourself


in like like small one two seater, but let's say like you could be independent cause like I mean it's so it's so uh, freeing actually you just have your own car maybe you don't think about the money you know those kind of stuff


it's just hop in go anywhere you want you don't have to worry about what time you're coming back whether there's transport back from there whatever, go to JB you can continue driving to Thailand if you want to, ya to India if you want to cause it connects from there


if you could see yourself driving in any kind of car what kind of car would it be, okay don't worry about the car but what kind of car, like if you could see yourself in a car could it would it be in like in a sedan car like the what the taxis and the normal cars are


would it be like in a like jeep you know like rough because you'll be going off road very often, or would it be like you know a two seater because you like speed and you like showing off


would it be a van because you want to carry your friends everywhere, like scooby doo, okay


would it always be clean inside or would it not, I won't no not allowed you slap them and tell them to go and dig their hands inside and pull out all those M and Ms and clean it up


would you allow drinks in your car, no you plan properly for your road trip just like that man who insisted that he was breaking fast for his two year old


and allowed the two year old to eat chips that fell everywhere I'm like look dude the longest journey you could probably have on the train is forty minutes, why don't you just eat before you got onto the train


I would never ever keep this drinking in a car unless it's water then it's fine, but meals should be had sitting down anyway


okay if you insist, so the big SUV kind where you have sort of a presence on the road, and then other people have to give way to you and you know you, you feel safe in your car is that the kind of car you would have


okay, so I think that's a thing that I want to have too the the motorbike is like just you know to to zip around here and there, if I have a car you know I would have this kind of car also the SUV kind and I think this is


a feeling that I get once in a while that always gives me butterflies in my tummy, the feeling of safety, hello, you're there, okay, so the feeling of safety so I get this feeling once in a while it's quite strange because when it rains


I get this butterflies in my tummy that I'm home, that I'm protected, the what, SUV also like bigger ones you know SUV stands for a sub urban vehicle


please articulate what, why six seaters are so uncomfortable actually


okay I guess the good ones the ones that we had were quite bad that I sat on always squeeze right at the back, right okay, so I think if I could have like a big car that have some sort of a presence it would be a Porsche the big one cause that's very nice


I think it's called the Cayenne, yeah not really the small Porsche is interesting but it's not really what I want, a woman's car so cute though but it's not what I want the one I want is the Miyata


MX five that one is so cute it's so cute and it's so like , commanding cause I think when I'm growing up the kind of people who drive these kinda cars are eccentric people, like doctors who have a hobby of painting you know that sort of thing and all that


people who are a bit more eccentric so the car kind of like tells who you are, and I think I want to go fully into my eccentricity, and I for some reason I think eccentricity is more accepted in men than in women they feel


we have very few eccentric women, okay, really, like who


uh yeah but I'm talking like about who made it really big like CEOs who just go on eccentricity like they, risk takers and then they do great stuff, yeah, see


all the what, great people, what you mean by great people


right so famous, okay, yeah okay that's true all right so that's it about cars and motorcycles and types, okay , so what else you wanna talk about


sleep, what do I like to do when I relax sleep, what do I do every weekend sleep, which part of your hobby interests or engages you when I sleep what sports do I play see who can sleep the longest


indoor activities definitely sleep, yes what are your recommended activities for individuals groups and families nap time


that's right, okay, but actually one of my hobbies is actually collecting things from around the world because I started travelling when I was so young, and I think you know what really inspired me was I don't were you did you go to house last uh Diwali


no you didn't you went somewhere else okay, so we went to her house and , interestingly she actually collects things around the world and she had stories to tell and when she told about this lamp, that she collected from this country you know that so it's like you know it engages people in conversation and then they ask questions like


oh when did you go there like what was it like did you go there for work what what who went with you and things like that and then she can tell the story about the country, and her experiences there, so I think I should start collecting again it's just that I I felt so jaded after a little while because like when you go for work or like if you go for a holiday so it's on a budget


but I think when I was flying you know travelling myself you, go somewhere and you take in the full experience, can you speak up a little bit you sound a bit tired and unarticulative now


a bookshelf of jar of jars of sand


okay, and then she labels them


did you ever see that picture of sand magnified, what okay I will show you this later also it's interesting what sand actually is, yeah but very colourful very interesting


so there, that's the hobby collecting things is a hobby and I I kind of never understood the whole like stamp collection of collection things, but the Nana used to collect stamps and I remember I used to go through his book like his stamp book


and it was just so intriguing as a child you don't have the internet and so you just like read books that the people the adults had and you go through their, things that you can go through which is like the stamp collection you know but, and I would see, stamps from different countries with different chops like the date all that


and uh yeah I never really understood it but then when I'm a bit older and I realize that, people don't just put things on stamps they actually think very hard about what should go on stamps on a certain year, to represent what the country is going through


that's it, yeah


yeah, but you know I realize there's a big difference between a hobby and free time what do you do during your free time, a hobby is something that you nurture and it grows


but a free time is just free time and I realize the difference, about this when I started to ask you know in every English book they ask what are your hobbies, this question needs to be eradicated because no everybody has hobbies anymore but people do things during their free time


like a long time ago almost everybody had a hobby like it was gardening petunias, and then like crossing their breeds and then discovering something new, or it could be doing Bonsai something that takes many years for a result to come


that is a hobby, yeah, so important eh actually because it kinda gives you a timeline of your life also


yeah it's true, ya like Seb's hobby of collecting synthesizers, restoring that, I suppose so but that's the thing I think everyone needs that one thing that you start doing you just


like get a little bit better and all that and there's no like, tangible like monetary value but in the end, it gives you a lot of value because it teaches you so many things like discipline like focus, resourcefulness


and it could start anywhere actually like my first Punjabi boyfriend that Raj guy, his hobby like on Sundays he used to, go to garage sales and buy uh hi fi sets


that didn't work very well, he would come back he would tear it apart, and then try to figure it out what was the the issue with it, and by doing that I think he learnt how things work, and then as it moved into digital and this kind of things were not like applicable anymore he saw the change from the inside


not just as a user, okay I am dominating the conversation you need you need to talk more now, yes but they say don't talk but, dominate


so let's talk about something else that you can talk about or you want to continue talking about hobbies then


okay you can tell me the new trends and music and what you think about it, sometimes that's what we think right but then like up to date is what we are up to date with


yeah I'm sure it is even if it's a bottle of water in front of you that you that's yours, okay, you know what I just realised


the phone is a dud, the phone is probably just to help us think we talking to somebody it's the mike that is picking up stuff, that's true okay


no, okay, was going to sing but I remember she said don't sing okay carry on


that's true, I agree, yeah


yeah that's true, I just realised something that, music of different generation is genius of different generation not this generation though, but like the kind of electronic music that Seb likes which is like from a little bit older it's from like seventies and eighties


it's musical genius he even like play some things for me to listen from the sixties, and he says listen to the beats I never paid attention to it before because I think I just like sang along with the lyrics, but the beat the the how they mix the song together is actually really genius


so that song from uh Donald Summer I can't remember what it's called now but Seb helped me to I mean he played a video that day about this, it was, was it was it this one, [orh] I I think so ya and then there's a video of someone now


putting the beat together so there's just one beat at the back first, you're right there oh my god okay so the thing is it I never looked at this song this way before I always just focus on the, on the, music and then ya and then when it came to like you know the seventies and the eighties and even the nineties there were actually geniuses in lyrics


because like the the song that's the meme now the one that goes like hello my old friend, ya, this song is musical genius because it's actually poetry but it's sung


ya, and the thing is maybe it's also the issues of the world because I think maybe people don't feel too strongly about greater issues, whereas during that time the the beginning of the age of the they call it, was a time when people felt like they could change things


so they spoke about it and they sang about it but now people aren't not concerned with change they're just concerned with how they look


that's possible


exactly, so this, right, so what we will say earlier the end result that people are chasing instead of doing the work


that's true okay so I really want to know now actually is about makeup trends


yeah but you still know much more than I do like you help me buy the light, setting mist then the, the the the setting, cream and all that, primer and I very sure that I bought a lip primer from my last I herb order but I haven't I didn't I don't remember receiving it


oh maybe I bought a face primer instead yeah, about what about makeup, yes why are there no blog sites for older women who look good


I didn't say that I'm sure I'm sure there are a lot I said there are no vegan travel sites


well she just started now, no she just started making videos about it now


they're not famous


yeah that's true, so on makeup I think it's nice that people use makeup and all that but I think I'm seeing a downward trend now I think maybe about two three years ago, uh like maybe even up til last year people were doing the full on like contour thing you know that


like I think I'm seeing less of that now


yeah, let's hope they realize how much it costs also, that's true, that is true


but I think I still really admire like because like I'm looking at women my age women who are a lot younger and use a lot of makeup, I think when they go out and all that it's fine but if they're going to work and, they use a lot of makeup I probably have this idea that they have a lot of time to do that if they have a lot of time to do that they're not in very in important positions


so here, yup, no I was just going to say that I think when I do my activism or like when I go do training you know that kind of stuff


I meet a lot of young people who are like the core you know like cream of the cream of like uh, groups and then they come out into uh like, what kind of companies do you call these like LinkedIn Grab all that these new, uh startups that became very big


so there, they're very good at their job they're not like you know a long time ago the people that you meet who are very young are like, they don't have any autonomy any say about things they don't have any direction they just like, carry out orders kind of thing that was what I was used to when I was younger


but I think now we have a lot of people who are already like managers or like VP and they're only in their twenties, and only because you know because they just push their way through they're like okay I've joined this company I'm going to do this I'm going to do that I'm going to do it well and then they get promoted, and I think


I was going to say wait hang on this kind of people though when I look at them, they really have taken care of themselves so you know that it's like, carried over from school or something so they're still sportive, and they probably go to the gym they do kickboxing or something like that


and they take care of their hair so you can see they nourish their hair it's never like oily you know that kind of stuff, but their faces are pretty much like there's nothing on it like it's clean, and moisturised, yeah


and I think that's really important though because, I used to I mean coming from someone in the eighties like from the eighties when women put on a lot of colour, and then men don't, and then you see this big difference in men and women they're so different and I used to ask myself like why do women have to do this and men don't


oh my god you know what I just thought of, I just thought of this the sportiness of people is linked to their skin, so that that acne period people were less sporty so their skin wasn't great


yeah remember I was telling you about the China students, ya, !wow! so sports equals great skin, let's see what time my yoga class is today, I really do have to go back and finish up that proposal though did not think it would take that long but anyway


yes, okay, so keeping fit we must do this one hour a day whether it is day or night or in the middle of the day we have to spend, an hour of our twenty four hour day to keep fit


and we need to do it in such a way that we are actually enjoying the exercise, and not thinking about the end result which is keep fit keep my heart clean keep my whatever you know just exercise and have fun, and I think the best for me was actually yoga because it was, ~ch a way that you had to sit down you had to listen to someone and then go into yourself you introspect so it's always two way thing


and then when you do it yourself there's always this instruction pay attention to this pay attention to that, so your focus is really coming back into like one small area and there were I remember the last time I did yoga not now, but when you're progressing and you go for the higher classes they make you hold a pose


for a long time, and at first it's easy peasy you just like put your hands on the floor or something like that, but then as you start to hold it for much much longer you realize that, certain parts of your body starts moving because they're not used to being in that pose for so long they


sort of let you for a while but then now they're like no they want to go back to comfort and that's exactly where you need to pay attention to, and then start like sending signals to that part to be well, and I realize that was what it was about yoga that was so great it was not just the stretching bit


but when it started to get, like more difficult it was the longer that you had to hold a pose, yeah, which is why you should do yoga too


yeah they said I can input so I did that, okay we can talk about jobs and career, where you see yourself


okay where do you see yourself in, three years after you graduate


what is your strength what is your main strengths that people will come to you for


okay let me rephrase the question, what do you think it sets you apart from other teachers that which is why your clients will come to you, what do they come to you for, your clients are never the kids your clients are the parents


sorry, result of what, what kind of results are you out to achieve, what


okay, yeah I suppose so that could be so you can merge technology with what you are doing, which is something interesting that I'm looking at in APSS now I think a lot of these speakers and trainers like, oh we done


ah okay sure I'll wait till she comes in and lets me know too you know, hang up is it okay it was nice talking to you bye bye


hi, hello


yeah I've the same picture we just have to find the differences, okay


yeah name the items, okay I've only got two columns, left (ppc) left


okay, you have any tennis balls, tennis balls


next to the two rackets on the left I have five tennis balls, twelve


and then for the one pair of socks there's actually one pair and one extra sock, yeah so I'm telling you I have another difference


I mean they're all pretty much the same size


is there an empty space on the right so is there a sock in front of the woman


okay I have a sock in front of the woman, no mine is right in front of her


not me I don't think, I don't think that's very relevant to it, I really doubt it they won't put four differences right in one area


yeah same same what's the what colours are the man wearing, why


he like yellow sand colour, brown or tan his hat, okay so for this smoothie


they have peaches and plum, yeah, okay, yes


yep, yes, yes for me, yes okay so now my turn to ask the question


just below the tent with the lady and the garlands, the you've a smoothie shack right, so there's one bundle and just on top of the bundle I have four black boxes, okay and below that the sign only says peaches and plum


okay, the sign reads smoothie spelt correctly right, is there anybody else on the shack, okay so I move on to the


yeah same, okay let's move on to the taxi, the license plate from mine reads tax one what about yours, okay it says north shore taxis, on the taxi there's a black area


yeah, it's just black, okay so that's another one, uh well one door is open the door that's closed is north shore taxis


yes, yep same for me, yep, so the sign next to the smoothie on top of the taxi what does yours say


mine has no one line oh it says love shack live tonight so that's another one, below


no I don't think so I think we circle the whole thing, live tonight


okay so the lady walking in front of the car, what colour is her hair, okay and what's she wearing


okay, what colour is the float that she's holding, okay


yeah it's like a green, the thing you blow you blow through right, yeah, how long is her hair, okay, yeah that's it is she wearing any shoes


alright, so down the road there's I have three pigeons do you also have three no seagulls, alright


yeah same, okay, yeah, yep


okay so above what are the guys shouting as they push the car


just push, okay mine says one two three push, yep and is there a dog in your car


oh okay mine does not say hey Paul, nothing he's just waving his arms


wait, who has blue feet, the dog's feet are blue, how he's not on the seat for me he's just on the pink seat


no, no he's just sitting on pink


that's why they're pushing, yeah, yep


so did you circle that, okay, yeah of course me too


yeah, okay let's move up and to the left and to the sandcastle, no to the left where the sandcastle is


alright so what colour are your flags in order from north


so two red and two blue across each other, okay, alright and then the, do you have a sand bucket and


shovel, what colour are they, alright, is there any outstanding details on your sandcastle


okay, back to the lady with, yes, but from the angle it looks like, no, no, on top right is the


sand bucket and shovel, let's go back to the lady with the garlands, did you have a box under her table a racket, okay, alright okay


yes, yep


what stones on the bird you have a bird on those stones on the rocks, I do not, where's the bird, which rock


okay, and on the right


okay same, yeah what colour is your dustbin, does has it fallen over, mine's fallen over on the front


no the rubbish bin is fallen over so it's like lying on the ground, yeah guess that's a difference


alright so that's too I have uh to the beach, and it's pointing to the right, so east


yes, I've got twelve, I make both the signs is one yes


yep, that's good, so what's next we we just leave the phone down not put it not hang up and go right, okay


see ya


sure, what music


okay


these are your thought provoking cards right, oh okay, that's a good question


probably play something either, loud and distracting like, rock, or something fun and energetic like pop, because I feel like those would


distract them from each other, so it would change the situation


in the situation, or I mean the same apply to this, the same apply to this because I mean you can't really go wrong with those two genres someone either knows one or the other, so if


in any situation I think those would help, change the vibe


then you change it to pop, yes, you are given chance to send a five minutes message back to yourself from five years ago


what do you say, I don't know just uh, five minutes message, yes trying


you're not supposed to say your name


thirsty well done, okay your turn, yeah your turn, I can yeah they said uh we can put our input


about the question, no comment, five years ago


listen to your mother, stop spending money and, no I could have just stayed at home and been a good girl anyway


and walk the dog more, yeah, it's okay


spend wisely


what kind of jobs, I know I'll speak I know yeah


I could uh, like holes in the wall and help you fill it properly and like, maximise your coverage


well I'm only the size of a quarter, well I mean I'll have if I'm the size of a quarter those holes will seem big to me


so I'll be able to see where how to close it up, I could, also


I don't know what's your take on it, what do you think you could do, I never watched that superhero


I don't know, well then you answer it, but I honestly can't think of anything


of course


that's smart that's smart, so that's not really a job is it


okay okay, that's true


and if you breach the contract anytime


okay


no not really, this particular question was very strange, that particular question very strange


I'm just going to say what I want, uh okay I I gave you I mean the last one that I asked was, the blue card


no thought provoking yeah, personal and stories yeah, okay, yes


what is the hardest thing you have ever said no to


ever ever without the n


I see I see, okay


it's terrible, let me think about it, sorry sorry


the hardest thing that I have ever said no to, hardest thing that I have ever had to say no to


yeah I don't think I have an answer, yeah go for it, me think of an everyday object right now


toothbrush, to the I have to use what I picked the toothbrush


okay, so what was the question again, you could add a flashlight to your toothbrush so that you can brush your teeth and see every single part


of your mouth, or you can even add a camera to it so that you can check where you're brushing if it's completely clean, yeah thank you


a mirror, you can like connect it to your internet so it's like a screen on your mirror


yeah exactly or even like or even just like, do work while you're at your mirror or buy whatever like you forgot that you ran out of makeup so you have to buy it, or you can like online shop and look at how dresses look on you


yeah an interactive mirror, thanks


ya that's a tough one, third item, everyday object, a whisk, but instead yeah so you know we have hand mixers and stand mixers


what about neither of those and you just press the button and that one whisk just whisks, you don't have to have like all those fancy things like it's a just this one button on your whisk


I mean you have a lot of ideas but they're not as creative as my first one, what about you you wanna answer that question, okay


okay here my turn, so stories tell a story about a crazy coincidence, yes


no it's not a concern, yeah just tell a story


if you were to remember


that's pretty cool, yeah and it's, that is a crazy coincidence but it's nice, go on, okay you're done


oh no


so yesterday I was telling you that I do have a goal


and that goal is to open my own bar, so to be able to do that from scratch I have to have the money so, if I were to be able to just follow it someone like hey you can just do it like, you have the resources and everything


I don't think I'll really drop much but like my time, so I mean I'm not doing much with my time now, but, at a at any moment I could have something in that time that I'm supposed to be doing like school


I guess you would say, I think the biggest thing I would risk could be school, well I mean, if it's a full time thing so if someone says


hey I need you to drop everything you're doing and I'll give you all the materials you have to get it done blah blah blah blah blah, so I mean you need to open immediately you can't just be wasting, money and rental space


so yeah school would be the biggest thing I would risk, what do you mean by concept, oh no theme it's just a


place with, music you'll be able to like request and like put it on a queue, so anyone it's like a jukebox but