he's he's holding ah he's holding the saw ah, [orh] mine no no change then correct already lah the man lor okay we are done don't hang up ah don't hang up , okay I put the phone on the table bye


yes, we start with the pink card , ya I'm I ask question first, K, in what small meaningless way have you rebelled


have you rebelled, ah R E B E L L E D, in what small meaningless ways have you rebelled


actually same for me similar when I was in teenage time err used to rebel, in a small way lah like err, sometimes parents ask me not to uh come home late you know you can only play until what time maybe eight o-clock


ya then I will just okay but I still you know until nine o-clock then I come back ya and then


yes, I think err our time is still not too rebellious lah I think compared to the teenage now, yes right


yup (ppb) okay you have question


my personality ah, well err probably in term of my patience, when I was younger I'm tend to be very impatient ah, ya so err a lot of things like my mum ask me to do I can I tend to get very impatient with her


but, when I grown as times goes by when we started working we get to meet people, bosses also tend to be impatient to us, so we learn along the way and also as when


we have children, err we also learn how to be patient of them so I would say my personality in a way err changes lah, slightly more patient compared to when I was younger


right


yes quite true because sometimes we tend to you know, keep talking without listening to the other especially nowadays the youngster, you need to lend them a listening ear, ya that's very important


ya we learn we learn their jargon also, I also don't know


yes my girl always tell me, ya my girls always tell me be chill man be chill , ya be chill chill chill beans, ya, so always tell me


cool down yes chill beans, no shit , ya


you have to learn


yes, that's why sometimes can have, miscommunication ya, okay come we come to the next question


err what is the hardest, thing that you have ever had to explain to your parents, that you have ever had to explain to your parents


for me, oh yes when during the younger young days ah err sometimes friends will invite you go on, barbecue stay overnight


sometimes you want to err convince your parents, to let you go but sometimes quite difficult because they are very, err old minded they don't allow you to you know stay at people's place overnight


so you must try to convince them lor you've think of a way how to tell them, tell them that uh it's safe one you know no worry uh I'll be safe it's just a barbecue we won't do anything wrong, so this is a I find quite difficult to explain


my dad quite stern my mom still not too bad but of course she will say where she will want to find out where's the place, who you are going with but of course back then they do not have err you know mobile phone it's difficult for them to keep track of us


so, no lah of course she will just say uh okay lah you go but must make sure err know how to protect yourself then she wants to know lor, who you are going with lor if those friends that she know of then she's quite okay with it


but back then we we don't understand how they feel, we'll think !aiya! we are going out only what !aiya! just stay only barbecue what's wrong now then I know


when my girl telling me if she's going barbecue I also tend to get worried who is going with her ya, especially when she say she's going for project at friends' place I also think !huh! parents at home or not, !huh! the daddy at home ah how how the daddy like you know I'll ask a lot of questions


come to my place yes, or you go library and do it you know you feel the insecure that kind of feeling ah, especially when you are your it's your girl then you will feel like so unsafe like that ya


so, my childhood ah


innocent lor, very innocent very carefree then uh


no need to think a lot and then can do anything without any worry, you know not like now I want to do anything I must think about , any consequences, like for them


work stress ya


yes worry about their results ah more, yes


quite true


correct, ya I think in the, our day our time lah our time is much, carefree, and then err not like nowadays ah even I see my girls, when she buy things with her friend they go shopping


they, no need no need to like they don't think whether is it necessary, ya they are more of like whether you need it or you want it, they never think so you just buy, then sometimes when they by the time they bought it home then you when you ask her eh why you buy this


very cute lor, uh look at it very nice, then she just put it on the table, you know maybe the first few days she'll play with it then after that, one week later the thing is just you know in the drawer, ya


our time I think we don't have that kind of freedom to go shopping ah, you after school come back, after CCA come back, you know, there's no, luxury of going shopping, go and buy whatever you want even our clothes are hand-me-downs


shoes also , I remember all I get it from, ya I got it from my aunties, their shoes their dress yes, ya ya ya, because no need to pay


purple card okay, silly me too , so yes sure, in a food, fight, to the death, what is your consumable weapon of choice (ppb)


of choice yup, in a food fight, they say in a food fight, to the death, what is your consumable


weapon of choice, just snatch ah don't care


as long as can snatch as many as you can


whoever wins get the food, Lom-Chiam-Pas


okay, what's the, I don't think so , your question next question


well


for me I will I will hybrid more the cute one ah, like, maybe uh rabbit and kitten they look so cute ya, small small one lor


rabbit, !wah! scary, me too


our, our Singapore merlion is hybrid what , lion head and and fish body


ya lor, that's why, guinea pig


eat and sleep ah no need to do work , I don't think it's they are stupid lah but it's


it's like people always give them the title they are very, but actually they are not, actually they are quite cute what


but, but does your children, ever, take care of all these kind of animals like hamster, terrapin


[orh] the one at the Bugis ah, [orh] is it good ah but I think quite expensive right, their dog cute


small one lah, ya, cause I I, I'm quite scared of big one small one I still don't mind


cause I don't like dogs to lick, ya lor, that's why, cause my girl that time ask me to bring her there then it was fully booked, then adult must go in with them right one adult to bring


yes adult must accompany, so in the end we didn't go in but we tried the one the cat cafe at Bugis, it's just err somewhere near the Burger King


there's a cat cafe also quite full house that one, uh that one no need adult to company, that one quite interesting , ah cute cute one all the tame cat


dog more fun ah, ya but they can be quite fierce ah at times if you agitate them, but the, the dog cafe I've not tried lah but Noelle she likes, she likes dog


I was thinking lor maybe one of these days just bring her there, before school open, ya, okay


what is the most useless superpower that is still beneficial in some way, useless, superpower , that is still beneficial in some way


okay what you no need to exercise ah just use your eye to move things around, I find that one is quite good


it's not useless ah ha


but I find uh if you can make yourself invisible, quite interesting ah


you become invisible , yes


yes you can escape, but, if, if you really can be invisible it can be quite sad because, you you tend to find out you know what other people talk about you behind you, then when you really know about it you feel like ah you might as well you know I don't want it ah what don't want to know about it


ya just live as you ya live as you, as you are rather than, know what will happen, you know your future something good is okay but, if something bad you feel you know


worse, correct


then you try to change it ya


quite true yes, oh humans are now pets ah what will be our treat ah


!wow! nowadays ah pets are even live better than human ah, yes uh they everyday go ya they can every day go pedicure manicure, you know tidy up their their fur


then they can wear a lot of nice, jewellery, spa, ya they even have spa for dogs, so ya lor, they really have it, especially those really rich people spend tons of money on their pet


that's the reason why you don't want to have, pets in your home ah


correct, manicure everything have, ya lor


that's why, that's why


that's why they are they have the luxury to have all those, not like us ah we have to work so hard then we can get it, likely


okay next question, a genie gives you the address of your true love, but they are on the other side of the world, what do you do, very silly ah these questions


ya lor, but the other side of the world ah it depends on, what world is that leh heaven or hell hell then I can say don't want


I don't want that true love forget about it heaven I still don't mind, ya, true love


that one ah not not keen to go, is it


oh is it which eh oh, is it, on news ah today's news ah


that means she didn't even inform her dad, so silly


but they are happily married ah, but where would brave ah, and the mother really supportive ah


must be very daring to do it


actually I I saw it on, the TV programme also about, uh the, the T C S, uh they have celebrity who cook for those, people, who works overseas ah that means they left their


their families, then they go to another country to work, and then this celebrity will cook some special food that this person will miss, from her mother or her father (ppb) ya then they will bring that food over to that country


and then just, you know tell her that how their parent love her and this are the food that they cook, she cook there lah she'll cook there then let her taste it, uh let her think of you know how how she miss the home cooked food


and then one of the lady, she's very brave she she's a PhD holder I think she, she graduated and she work in Singapore but she's not very happy the working style here so she decided to go on mission I think I think she should be a


a some a certain religion lah either Christian or Catholic so she go to this country, I can't remember it's not India it's, Kazakhstan ah I think, I can't remember is it Kazakhstan, ya so Eastern Europe so she she travelled there


then she she she liked that place so much, because it's helping giving helping hand to the, the woman there those single mother, then she stay she decided to stay there, then her parent was very angry say that !wah! you know you we we


err we let you ya brought you up then we let you study until PhD now, you just because you want to help people there, and you are leaving us, !wah! that one very sad leh she also feel very sad, but, lucky she has a brother in Singapore ah


who is very supportive ya the brother is very supportive, he understand what she really like and she wants, so he say never mind you can stay there I'll take care of parents here, so occasionally she will come back


once a year but the distance is a bit far lah, yes yes, correct then she, she just


she was crying ah when she eat the food that they cook for her she she say she really miss, ya they they I think they make the triangular, shape that the the one with the glutinous rice one the Malay then we they put a bit of the


I don't know what is that kuih called, is it something like that , they they #kuih kosui# or what ah, they make that one for her, they also make some Peranakan thing


like curry or something like that for her, ah she miss her mum's cooking, ya ya correct I also think if my children like that hor don't know eh how I feel


just wondering


resign from my job lor I already done it, ya yes, ya after twenty years, quarrel, it's the right choice ah


it's the right choice because I I feel happier of course do miss, the time when you know when you are too free ah sometimes you think !aiya! actually got work is better you have money you know you have, regular ya income


you can buy anything you want but now it's like, you rely on your savings, but the kind of bonding with, my kids, and the bonding err like err you're closer with friends


like the group of friends that I have like you #Li Choo# they all, it's it's really fun lah and I get to explore, err more new things that I have never explore before in the past, then, which ya which in the past I I just work then daily I just work work come back then I have to take leave to do things that I want to do


but now I need not worry about taking leave I need not worry about after take leave go back I must do a lot of you know the the the work, so there are pros and cons, but I find, at my age


I think it should be the right thing, the right choice lah no regrets, yup, ya ya ya much healthier and slim down also , and I eat healthy also, I eat more healthy also


of course I still need to brush up my cooking ah, I'm a bit


yes, ya very important lah I feel


yup and most most important thing is that you yourself have to make the first move, the first initiative, then you have friends lor if if you don't make the first first move first initiative then


it's difficult because you will tend to be very, just by yourself which is not very healthy ya then if you have, make a first move to reach out for friends, then organise certain activities initiate certain activities which is quite


good


yes, yes correct, !aiya! working we can't possibly work till we, yes lah can work till we retire lah but, is is err depends on what you want lor


if you want to have more family bonding then, the right choice is like if you can work part time of course, why not lah but if cannot then just do other thing, that can help ah to improve yourself lor


actually the kids also feel like, mummy ah you are more, not so, bad tempered nowadays, in the past ah after work come back ha


get very temperamental ya, they ask question ah then you will , what what do you want you know that kind of, not very healthy ah


ya mummy always offer to send them to school always offer to bring back home , ya lah last time they don't , ya no time ah no time to send them


but but they will of course ah they will feel like now you too free hor, they also don't want me to be too free for them they say eh mummy I have my own time can or not , sometimes lah, ya lor then I find activities ah okay ah mummy find my own activity


go and exercise, never mind I go exercise also take a lot of my time already , ya lor


go for it, yup okay, blue colour okay


thought provoking okay, what is a good argument for the other side of an issue that you feel strongly about, what is a good argument for the other side of an issue


that you feel strongly about, difficult to talk hor


or you want to skip we skip ah, what, what, what uncommon characteristics do you really appreciate in your friends, characteristics do you really appreciate in your friends


characteristic do you really appreciate in your friends


they have the leadership quality


follow her, she still working ah


very, strong character


okay


indecisive ah


quite true, okay, you have other questions your side blue ah


society ah, mother nature


okay the power to seal up the ozone layer


correct, we can alter the weather


ya, K now I have a question ah, K what labels do you think you have been given by society


and how are you different from them, what labels do you think you have been given by society and how, you different from them, I thought of one leh


people always think hor those who are not working one right is very aunty, very aunty right aunty #Li Choo# she always right we all very aunty, but actually we are not you know


we are the resourceful one not aunty, very fast they reply


cause people always label them


she's very good, correct, she she always go online where online can do can buy what can buy


where can buy cheaper ya she's very resourceful, then she's so helpful always go and buy for us, if she if she can do eh I can go there and buy for you I'll pass by there you know so helpful


yes, these are the thing that I can think, thought of, we still have err orange and green cards ah, go by the green lah


destined career ah, I will change ah, ya lor, I have a choice what


yes, I also I think my preference will be the, destined career, I don't like it I change lor


actually quite true, my, a few of my colleagues actually , their, close their age is about fifty fifty plus, so it's like, you want them to change career is a bit difficult


then they will say !aiya! I will just, stay on lor, day in day out do the same thing, but, their effort not recognised by bosses because, bosses tend to think, when you reach, this age ah difficult to contribute already


so they have to give, opportunity to the young, younger ya younger staff lah, then all this old stuff in a way is like, redundant ah they just do the redundant job no need to use brain use your brain job


then they so they they accept it and then they will just do that kind of work no need to check, so sometimes you work with them ah you get very frustrated one, especially when, recall when I (ppb), at my time ah sometimes certain thing I want them to check for me I say okay err if you want something to be done


you have to do your part to the initiative to do the checking like an invoice itself you generate invoice, then you must check value check quantity check the description and check, make sure all these are check before you send to me to do processing of


uh to apply for a certain permit but, problem is, they don't they like messenger, oh urgent urgent then they just send you the invoice oh the invoice is here then when you look at the information all cannot tally then you ask them (ppb), !huh! cannot tally how how you going to do


then say [orh] is it cannot tally ha ah why cannot tally ah they will ask you, then you have to check for them and tell them how to alter how to amend (ppb) I mean what kind of you know it's like, just to, day in day out do a messenger job lor err


you know <mandarin>赖赖死不走啊：lai lai si bu zou a</mandarin> just, a retiree job lah like trying to retire in this company but don't no contribution anyway any err their thinking is like, I contribute so much I also like that what err my pay is also like that I also cannot go far


you know that kind of mentality lor, all are like that lor, then nothing to do that time play handphone nothing to do that time play game online, ya so sometimes you work with it also, very #pek cek#


you know that kind of #pek cek-ness#, then, you contribute a lot but the rest don't contribute !wah! you really get frustrated ah, there's a reason why sometimes when you reach home ah my girls can say mummy you look very


angry ah then I say of course ah in office I meet all these, can't stand those people , yes a what a relief


morning ah


I will usually I'm very early person so, maybe about seven


seven or eight O-clock, yes, then I'll think on plan on what I want to do, I will usually prefer to do it early and end early more free time later


that's how I, my preference ah, I should lah but sometimes I'm quite lazy to do a to do list my I usually


to do list in my brain lah, I'm quite lazy person to write it down but I should write it down lah that's a better way because sometimes ah as you age ha you tend to forget ya, especially if I think of what I want to cook


and what to buy to prepare for the food then I'll have to it's better to have a to write down, what to buy then based on that list, I do see a lot of people do that at the supermarket, some some ya they have one long list leh ya


no wonder I see a have such a long list


ya I heard from my friend also, she also wanted to quit her job then she ever try to call honestbee, then they say, she still, thinking ah whether want or don't want, because she wants a flexible job ya pay not very good


then some more you have to pay first then honestbee pay you later, and then they delay payment ah that's what I heard


[orh] ya quite true


the night before, the weather forecast


opposite (ppb), maybe their equipment is more advanced ah


quite true, okay, K I'm going on the green one, tell orange ah have have have still have orange ah, I got left with green and orange lor you want start with orange ah ya sure


if you had three wishes what would you wish for, what would you wish for


in general I think most people wish for this ah


got a lot of money also no use


yes quite true quite true


like dawn ah dawn always, now can travel better travel if not later ah cannot move can't travel


just go lor that's why I was thinking the other time I talked to you about the JB trip right, then we still not sure who can bring us then I ask ah I ask Elaine eh you can bring us or not, then she say can can can then I say okay lah on ah I just set ah then I just message you all who want to go


never mind lah we just see how, whichever place I'm fine, just explore no many years never been there already, ya but for you all I think you all more familiar you all still travel there you all drove in right your father-in-law


eh I thought your father-in-law drove in there was once, so you all take public transport


okay, should be lor


[orh] oh ya hor #Seok Hui# also another person who's very familiar, but her car can drive how many of us I mean four ah


five lah, four ah, that time you went you went with


old car, to scrap, [orh] only both of you ah


not safe ah


but you all went to KSL ah


can ah look forward to , okay


my baking ah actually I, I tend to, take shortcut leh, cause, ya I tend to take shortcut lah, my baking ah sometimes, I should follow step by steps right but sometimes I'll take shortcut lor


and then but in the end ah the shortcut ah really make a twist eh it, it tastes good , that time I make err, the what is that call ah, the banana cake, ya actually the steps you must go step by step like first


do the mash the banana then after that you must put the egg, with the butter then you have to whisk it, so I I took shortcut like I put everything in then the sugar I forgotten eh


I forgotten to put sugar so ah in the end hor, I mix the sugar with the flour, then I just pour in and then I do a and then the result quite interesting eh, the banana cake be the crust quite crispy eh


and then the I think because of the sugar caramelised, ah it it become, make the crust very crispy and quite nice, ya, you know sometime quite I take shortcut take take take until I forgotten that I must add sugar


I skip ah I skip skip and then oh ya forgotten about sugar but okay lah I just put the the, the sugar last on the on the, flour itself, ya lor I just mix it in lor then I just put into that egg and the butter


the fine one ah ah not the, coarse one not the coarse one the fine sugar then in the end the crust quite crispy, and, cause if I make eh if I put the step by step one ah it's just normal banana cake lor the crust is not that crispy ya


then it's quite nice , I think so lah I guess it's, because of the sugar, I miss the step


turn out it's different ya I also there was once also I, don't know I measure wrongly, ah oh ya I got the wrong flour or I measure wrongly I can't remember then in the end hor it looks taste like #huat kueh# instead of cake


ah ya lah then I said eh how come it taste like #huat kueh# , so it's


still edible lah but, ya it's not, like sponge cake that kind of taste lor it's more like ah then also another time was I I was baking, then I bake halfway my whole the oven


uh burn, ya cannot work down, then I was thinking !aiyo! so poor then how the dough I mean the the batter, so I go and switch it to steam it lah I use I go and err get a pot


then put water then steam all the cake inside and okay eh it taste good leh , so ya I make creative idea I just change it lor, ah cannot cannot bake lah I just go and steam it but still okay


still nice, ya correct, so I just try that way lor see cannot bake ah just steam it ah eh still works


ya lor correct lor, those uh actually those new, rice cooker the modern one the one the electronic one ah ya they can use it to bake cake, you tried you you are using the app is it


but the the rice cooker, cook the rice nice or not, but they have instruction to you like how much water to put is it


[orh] okay, but nice lah, [orh] it's nice lah


but you have to soak for how long your brown rice, a few hours


there's another brand tiger brand, the rice cooker, there's one tiger also don't know nice or not, also nice ah


[orh] she she bought it lah, yes yes


my, my mother-in-law she's, she don't believe in this she's using those normal one ah those like, what is it called panasonic ah I don't know what national ah ah, yes, so every time her husband always complain the rice taste horrible


not nice, she say, what kind of [orh] if not too soft, like Nua Nua that kind then he say !aiya! taste horrible your rice so, in the end I'm thinking of buying one for her


so I'm still thinking of, the the the elephant or the tiger one, both are expensive


Japan, yours is made Japan one ah


then #Li Choo# eh #Li Choo# she bought which one she make, made in Japan ah, K


[orh] okay


but if let's say for family of four I think one one litre should be okay ah, think for my mother-in-law one point five


educate them, professional spot S P O T ah


sports ah, make it more interesting ah


the maybe make the basketball more interesting lor, instead of just you know five by five you play shooting, competition ya lor


can dribble can do a lot of funny funny, sports ah, can't really think of any eh


we we don't really play a lot of sports, [orh] ya


Pillarboxing, eh you thought of going for belly dance ah


oh because at the the sunrise and the city ah they have free, want to try we can go and try it's at Raffles Place, timing I think the timing is about don't know is ten to don't know is twelve to one twelve thirty to one thirty


Raffles Place, never mind I mean when you are free lah then one day go and try, free no harm trying


ya lor belly dance because I don't thinking I'll sign up for, the course on belly dance but I just don't mind go and try, it's at Raffles Place not very far also, then after that we can eat there


we can eat at the Amoy Street, if he if he got enrichment or or any ah then we go, I go and find out I go and find out which day then I let you know


ask #Li Choo# they all also, K I I got question ah, you can take anything from modern day with you on a one way trip into the past


what do you take, and, to when do you go, but for me I will take handphone eh if let's say ah I go into past hor


I'll take handphone and go and take picture , take pic, ya lah, take take camera there I don't take handphone lah maybe I'll take picture go and video them, what actually really happen


in the past, and then ah can can go especially I'm very curious about the Egypt, in the past how how they built the pyramid, ya very curious eh


eerie lor that part okay mah go and see, ya but of course I have to be invisible lah they cannot see me lah


ya ya go and see, then can go and err take a look at the, eh err recently they (ppl） they keep talking about the, China, err there's one show very famous ah about the <mandarin>宫廷:gong ting</mandarin> fighting one the what


I have not seen it lah but a lot of people watching, on, on the train, don't know what, they say very famous right, ya so let's say can go into the past also go and see really how


the people back then ah what they are doing, ya go and take picture take video see eh how is it really, you know something like that


time machine ah go back and also the Victorian, time also quite interesting, they how they wear those big big gown , how they stay in the castle, then with no lights, always just put candles just curious also very eerie lah


but, should be quite interesting ah


Thermomix , ya lor that time back then don't have leh


are we talking about the <mandarin>祖先保佑:zu xian bao you</mandarin> that show


then after that bring back to the modern days like oh last time is like that one


new fashion ah


next new thing ah, eat insects lor, protein nowadays very fashion ah deep fried, not in Singapore but I think in other country it started already, so in future ah no food right


eat insect lor , should be the in thing next round leh, I think so ah


but actually they put a lot of colouring, actually it's not very healthy, breathe out the thing


eh they they were talking about like to save the earth right, nowadays they instead of drink water from cups or, plastic, bottles right they make a kind of like capsule, capsule ah then they put water inside they just pop into your mouth then you can drink it already


and then you can consume that thing ah ah it's a kind of, plant based, material, so in future ya in future you drink, ah no you can eat it


so it's like eating like you you take medication right in a capsule form you just, swallow it right so that one is, they put the water inside that capsule form of it's like a ball, then you just bite it then got water so in future it's doing that !huh!


then we have depend on how many ball you want , so, actually they started already I think if I'm not wrong it's the U, UK


invented by a group of, can't remember it's a scientist I'm not sure but they invented that so it's like pop into your mouth water , so instead of you bring water bottle you bring a bag of balls ya so if you thirsty you just pop into your mouth ah


then you can just, drink the water at the same time consume that plant based, made material it's not harmful to your body, so it's to save the earth, cause nowadays people use too many bottles already


plastic bottles, maybe ah but, especially for those they because they started this is for those marathon runner


they run right so always got they have to prepare a lot of bottles for them, so yes so instead of giving them plastic bottle they give them the ball ah, so they just pop into their mouth then they run they no need to carry the bottle


this is how they are doing, actually I don't mind lah I find this quite good good uh invention ah, yup


what is the funniest thing you have ever seen your parents do, yes, ya


maybe I can tell you one actually it's it's very bad that I say funny lah but, there was once ah you know my our it was raining very heavily, so the the wind was so strong so the the rain will come into the balcony right


and even into our hall so, so I close the sliding door, so the next morning because next morning woke up right then I I I go and work right, then evening when I came back then I saw eh how come my father-in-law his head got one big bump


(ppb) and then hor then he #<NEN> orh bak kak# also you know ya then I ask my mother-in-law, what happened to him then she say, he woke up blur blur then he just walk straight to the door the slide you know and knock his head onto it leh


she say it was so funny like bang very loudly leh and then he got the then I say oh my bad because I didn't know, I also forgotten to open the sliding door so he didn't see it, ya ya lor that's why so ya uh very bad lah but it's quite funny lor


my mother was my mother-in-law was telling me it was so funny eh so loudly eh really blue black leh his, head he's he's got big bump and then after that the eye that part got blue black, bruise ya lor so funny


but very bad lah ya lor so like next time then from then onwards I tell him next time you want to go to the balcony in case night time we , like close the sliding door you must check lor don't just walk walk walk bump


!aiyo!, at home ah


but ours still not so bad ah that one, is thick enough ya but too hard for him ah


I talk before already the most frustrated is the group of, colleagues lor, to you know


yes that one also, but sometimes they don't do it nicely for you one they will just anyhow do it


you also get more frustrated in the end


yes, ya some people are just like that lah being lazy want to get free credit


unless your boss, your boss can see lah if your boss cannot see


correct, is she still working in your company


still survive ah she is a survivor, some people tend to be, have the kind of luck


I got one more, but actually I got two lah but I think our time also coming up already, don't know ah just now we come in nine o-clock now is already


eleven ah we still got half an hour


tell a story that is funny but it may not be funny in retrospect, okay I have a question ah what story do you love to tell people that you meet for the first time


don't know leh they didn't say is it about you but what story would you love to tell, that you meet for the first time


yes, correct


depend on the occasion ah that you are involved in, then you can decide what kind of story to, to share with that person that you have first time met, same for me


then, another one is a tell a story about a time, when you make someone's else day


so nice


he can't bear to see you suffer


quite true, but that guy [orh] you you met him at the parkway ah


it's like young gentleman


you are waiting for your husband to drive


but how come you have to go all the way there you the parkway also have, have the sheltered, area


quite jam lah sometimes, K, but it's a surprise ah that guy the way he do


so nice, ya lor very gentleman


this one ah, impressed, need time to think eh


I'm not even mad but impressed


ya for you the one ya lor it's a surprise lah, ya ya ya and very nice of him to do that


quite true , for me ah I think for now I have not thought of any


other than that , wait ah, oh there's one creative one you get paid every time a phrase is said


the longer the phrase the more you get what phrase do you choose, this one very, ya lor you get paid every time a phrase is said the longer the phrase the more you get what phrase do you choose ah


cute


so cute , the younger one is it


quite true


[orh] only the younger one do that lah, but I think the young one young, err usually lah the young one would do


a lot of cute cute things to, to you one I feel lah that's how I feel


[orh] ya lah of course, ya ya they very scared


to being embarrassed right


ya lor correct lor


my girl , elder one like spaghetti but the younger one don't really like then yesterday she went to her friend's place, then she she came back evening talking to her daddy lah they are lying on the bed then, when I came out after bath ah because after the exercise so I reach home late


then I saw them talking, then I heard she telling her daddy, oh ya err cause her daddy asking her what did you eat at Samuel's place then she say oh we had the, five star Michelin, spaghetti pasta then I say


!whoa! five star Michelin they buy ya lor I ask her her !whoa! buy from, they they order from somewhere five star Michelin then she say no because to me hor the standard is so nice, is five star !whoa!


ah then like my husband was saying then, okay tell mummy go and learn her, cooking, ya make sure she cook the five star, that's what she say ah I don't how I didn't taste it


cause usually when we go out she don't eat spaghetti one she always say not nice she doesn't like, then last night she told me oh the Samuel they they, they have this very nice five star Michelin


pasta something like that ah, ya then I say !wah!, nice ah how nice say very nice ah I eat two serving, ya tonight I gonna ask her again


no lah she she hardly take picture, young one ah the small one ah , elder one is last yesterday got, school, CCA dance, then the young one ah the young one free ah yesterday


so went to her friend's place , the the friend invited a few of them lah, to the house they stay in a landed, house at Bedok south area, I don't know leh don't know cook who don't know they order or they cook I'm not sure tonight I ask her again lah


some more she can taste five star Michelin one


but sometimes when you cook ah it's a bit difficult to make it so nice eh sometimes you cook cook cook ah, then so tired already ah then so warm some more the kitchen, then you cook already just put on the plate and then ask them to eat it, still got to decorate hor


ah burger ah still not too bad lah that one still quite easy, but if you ask me to cook ah a bit difficult to


Western food still easier to manage, ah the Chinese food a bit, the Western food still okay ah I find that Western food still not too bad


but a lot of uh those side dishes, like, mashed potato all this must do in advance, ya cannot last minute like cook your, your your burger then still do the got no time to do it


so always must prepare one day in advance put in the fridge, ya, then I will just put it inside the fridge, cold cold


[orh] is it, warm one ah, [orh] I do the chunk one, for me is I do the like the Japanese style one


then I put carrot, the mashed mashed potato and mash a bit of the carrot, then I put some mayonnaise, the Japanese mayonnaise, then I put the, coriander, leaf


[orh] I just, buy the dry one lor, then I just sprinkle on it then I put some of the herbs, the those dry herbs ah, then I just mix and put a bit of salt, black pepper, then eat you know eat then eat with the burger


is your Chinese food a bit, time consuming ah, [orh] you try one pot


[orh] okay


I must go and buy the rice cooker, because I I don't have a rice cooker I use I always steam the rice, so sometimes my estimation of the water from so the rice not nice


I think today, if I'm not wrong ah today I think, uh ya Isetan Isetan having sale also Isetan I saw the


ya ya I saw it, uh they send to my mailbox ah, I think it's today ah, I have to go and check, tiger tiger one, I have to go and check I check for you


it's at home ah later I go back I go and check, eleven thirty ha so fast , ya, ya don't put down the phone ah just put on the table first okay bye


yup, hello, ya what are the question what was the best among them, fitness also okay for me


the food ah that I want to cook ah, eh like the one hor just now you were talking the, one pot one, ah must learn from you ah, like usually you say what when I use the chick cook the chicken in a pot ah


so you must buy a clay pot ah, [orh] rice cooker also can ah, eh then


[orh] that means you use your that that, rice cooker then then how about those, because if let's say for example lah you're cooking chicken rice right, how you use the how you make the chicken rice


flavour ah the flavour of the chicken like really taste like chicken rice you must buy the paste ah


rub the chicken thigh with salt, [orh] okay


how about the packet of the #sing long# paste ah is, one packet for one, pot of rice ah, [orh] you must


I never try I also not sure one cup or two cup usually one cup is how many, uh for me is no err just a very less than a bowl, half a bowl my husband he's also trying to cut down so maybe, uh one bowl lah then my two girl


one bowl each, so about three and a half bowl lor , [orh] okay


ya because got three ya ya lor


tastier, [orh] okay


[orh] is it, if


the the juice, you buy the the fresh juice or, [orh] okay you blend it lah, [orh] okay okay


but what kind of, what kind of fruits you put inside


oh okay


for any kind of meat ah


oh okay, ginger plus garlic ah


!wow!, is it , I have not try leh mashed potato


and then powder just buy from NTUC, but they beside making mashed potato what else they can use for this


this this uh onion powder, [orh] marinate meat, that's very interesting


okay


quite true


then you must have different type of sauce ah all the sauce ready


ya quite tiring hor after that, because got different requirement ah different order, then you always buy from which brand the pasta sauce


riding horse okay, cheaper


I think I seen it before ya


#San Remo#, you follow lah


[orh] okay, any white wine lah, #Remy Martin#, [orh] okay


tastier, the white colour one right, I like that one that one go with the, the what is that called ah, pizza also very nice


I like to use that one


[orh] pizza ah I always buy the, you know the, no no the bread ah what is the bread ah err no the one, err the olive oil one what's that called ah suddenly I cannot remember what's the name of the


focaccia ah focaccia bread then I'll just cut, into four, slice, then I half it, then I put the sauce tomato puree ah, then uh I put a lot of mozzarella cheese


then I put the mushroom put onions, then it's very nice already I find that that one, oh my girl okay ah my girl still not too bad lah, theirs is more like tea break they eat lah not for lunch or dinner ah that one #jiak buay pa#


so usually I would you do that one for them, then or night time suddenly my husband say eh uh have some snack ah then I'll use that one to make lor, easier ah very easy no need to go and make the dough


ya lor so I just make that one for them lor, then I just standby all the mushroom onions which I have then the sauce ah then I'll buy the, tomato sauce I buy the hunter brand ah


ah I find that one quite nice so I use that hunter, not uh the sauce ah not the paste paste a bit too thick there was once my husband bought wrongly for me, he go look at the paste !wah! so thick leh


ha that one you must mix with water if not !wah! too salty ah, and too thick very difficult to spread so I then I always tell him must buy sauce, so I buy sauce then I just put on it lor then put must standby the mozzarella cheese


then sprinkle all over the thing taste very nice already, ah that one I just use oven to bake it lor uh toast it lor, uh no I'm very lazy to go make and make the dough ah that one a lot of time eh that one if I make dough then I have to use the bread maker


the what to to what ah, to knead the bread and proof it !huh! by time ah you finish I very tired already don't want, then you have to wash the bread bread maker then you still have to wash the to the oven clean the oven tray


so !aiya! forget about it lah I just buy the focaccia bread and do, ah I I don't think I will go and take up this, bread making course lah because too time consuming ah I don't think they I have the patience


unless I'm going to open a shop ah, then maybe I'll do it , so eh, but have you tried go for cooking courses ah like


cook dishes like those CC one, ya but I don't know nice or not don't know whether they got hands on or not or they just do a demo ah, that's why I don't know don't know which one is good


I saw one, looks good is at #Geylang Serai# but the timing I cannot because I already travel, err in Bangkok, they they make the Teochew, the Teochew dishes then they got the #orh nee# eh the #orh nee# is my favourite leh


then looks good lor the the, they have twelve uh different dishes, then there are fourth session ah it's not very expensive about hundred thirty dollar


then you have to go four times lah then every time three dishes that's why I'm not sure I'm not sure is it just demo only, I think it's just demo #Geylang Serai#


then their dishes they give not bad you can go to one PA and check, under #Geylang Serai#, then they got list down the different dishes, November


I remember the day I will miss one lesson so I, decided not to go for it, maybe next round lor if they have again can go and see, cause the dishes looks good the Teochew all the Teochew <mandarin>菜:cai</mandarin>


then Kembangan CC also have, Kembas~ Kembangan one is Chinese new year, dishes, you saw ha, I'm not sure is it


same demo one, because I see, at this price hundred plus cook so many dishes I don't think is, they let you hands on I think should be demo only


what he cook, [orh] you try before ah


give a recipe ah, don't yes I also think I don't think so, but if you want to go for really cooking one, actually there are some places they have


but very expensive eh, few hundred dollar, the equipment they have ah we don't have also no use


like the the Thermomix ah you go also see them demo only right, you don't get to cook right


same lor, #Li Choo# eh she cook but I think it's her, helper cook right


she she cook ah, okay ah she she comfortable with the


that that one is just a mixer right, so you just buy ingredient, follow what they tell you, the amount you must measure yourself lor


but you put in how they measure, [orh] is it, okay done already ah okay


bye bye bye bye


**, **, ya, err err wait wait err not yet start, uh start now but how how do I circle it


using this, oh use this marker, ah okay, okay, ya okay can ya okay Roanna I'm ready , ya


okay this picture, two okay this is a picture like a farm right, correct okay you you are referring to the bird is on the left or right corner, left right on the top left err I see a yellow I saw one yellow bird


okay can, on top, of the bushes ya then we move clockwise how about we move clockwise, okay on the, two white goat yes but the one of the white goat the left side


I think there's something below the neck, ya and then on on the right sorry on the left goat there is like, something below the neck but on the right the goat is have a beard


oh sorry it's not I think it's more not part of the, ah ya ya ya ya ya correct correct correct, that's correct, ya


err no I only have one mother sheep and one baby sheep, so you have two right, okay, okay that's the difference, ya okay, I saw a tractor ah


left bottom okay wait wait ah okay shall we go after the sheep right on the sheep right, the left side you see two hays, stack of hays correct right then there's this shop, okay then the shop right it says decorative err hat pins for sale


for sale ah, hat pin is it, okay then for sale is the difference, okay, can, then there is the on the shop there, correct wait wait haven't the rabbit ah that the shop right have one window am I right


okay then, correct open correct, then flowers you have err how many flower one two three four five, five correct then one rabbit in the cage


one right, oh I don't have buy me on the cage, so it's on the cage ah, the word okay I don't have the buy me, K then there's this man ah, okay holding a ice cream, the blue blue cone


the blue ice cream, oh your yellow okay blue ice cream, yellow cone ah correct lah black blue ice cream right the cone, then, correct on top of it, ya then the boy is wearing a brown T shirt and a blue short


okay then green green shoes with socks ha, okay K then we move on to the fresh fruit and vegetable booth, what do you see on the booth the top of the booth


don't know tomato or strawberry ah, is it strawberry, ya how many you have ah one two three four five six correct six, K then carrot three correct it's on a basket lah, okay alright then we move on to the mother and err


a boy ah, correct, no V E G correct ya it's a blue tentage ah, one only one potato sack, I have one


okay I have one only, oh no I only have one, that's right ya okay then err the mother is cutting green what the what is it, pear ah


okay big pear ah she's holding, two one is on the table and one is on the chopping board, the knife she's using, I don't have banana where where is your banana, oh in between the pear and the the bowl ah


in between the two pair ah, err don't have so I will circle it, okay the mother is wearing a pink apron, the mother has err like brown hair, and a blue blue shirt


blue pant the shoe the shoe is what colour, black ah brown or black ah Jialat I cannot see, brown !huh! black ha ah, black ha okay then the boy


correct, brick bowl but inside is veg ah is it salad no veg I have veg inside, okay ah so that's another difference then the boy is wearing a white long sleeve, his hair is, black curly hair


**, okay ya okay can then the behind the mother got two white ghost ah


uh okay mine is not okay mine is uh two white cloth over the the two boys, okay which one is over the red pants, over then he got two two two eyes ah, two eyes right


then the blue blue boy ah also have one white cloth you don't have I have, okay that means you circle that blue boy, okay then next is err, sawing


yes long sleeve grey ah this is grey meh brown leh, dirty green ya khaki colour ah #lup sup# colour ah then the black shoe ah, he wear a red cap correct and a beard he's having a beard


then on the saw the the wooden plank right, he saw half ah nails, nails ah you call it nail ha, where got nail, I thought it's normal plank leh


err how how many legs they have one triangle two three four four triangle leg four right, okay same four ya no change ah okay then uh the shoot ah, the two children playing ball


the girl, one ball where is the ball, is call a ball meh don't look like a ball to me eh, eh it look like a square a red and white


oh basketball ah, oh okay to me it's not round as round as ball leh, maybe the angle, round ha oh okay, she's having black hair ah, back facing us back facing us right


then she's wearing pink shoe, and even her striped shirt is yellow and pink stripe ah, the dress, is the boy err blonde hair, green T shirt and blue pants


blue shoes, then he shouting shoot ah, ya, ya okay under the the basketball net is the word shoot S H O O T okay then then you circle under the net


ya, then the basketball post is err, square, uh red inner square, then there's net, grey correct there's a net right


okay then behind this basketball err board right is a tractor, a green tractor, with a man waving two hands, two hands right okay then how about the the bun ah the the shack ah it's closed


ah and then it's khaki door, don't have, don't have eh where where is it behind the goat ah that means


goat ah, err in the open it's between next to the goat that means the tractor, between the tractor, what what what what do you have


I don't have the word leh, signboard ha okay I don't have it okay count how many ah one two three four five six, seven eight nine ten only leh, twelve ah there's a supposed to be twelve ah


okay then we have to see, the goat has two horn, vegetable, new thing ah it's actually a blue tent right, outside outside is dark blue then inner is painted light blue


white colour correct, then the carrots three carrot has err vegetable on the carrot, correct ah then nothing else is on, ya the carrot is in the


rectangle rectangle correct, okay how about the anything that okay the hay right is tied together right, two two two strip


where's the potato, potato sack, the one that is filled up ah, ah correct then it write, with the S, P O T A T O E S ya and then it's filled up


fill up ya, fill eh fill up leh with, [orh] okay then uh potato, on top, correct ah correct ah fill up lor it's to the brim ah, fill F I L L fill up


ya filled up right, ya, okay let's see ah the mother okay back to the ice cream boy ah is he a blonde hair, golden hair, golden hair no spectacle ah, no ah he's holding the ice cream on the right hand


to his his right hand on his right hand right, but he's moving to the left, then cross right, ya correct, your right side, ya then his


bee on the left my bee is on the right side to me I'm facing the boy it's on the right side your bee is left side, no okay wait ha we are talking about we are looking at the boy now so the bee is on my right your bee is on your left


okay then that's the difference, mine is on the right side, I'm looking at the my right lah, I'm looking at the picture so that's one of the difference short of one uh the, the


the word is on top of the shop, yes, on the door ya on top of the door then it's all in capital capital, and blue


facing me left, it have a cross, and it's a open window because I can see through it's a blue wall, then on the the doorway of the shop right there is a brown colour floor mat ah


correct, ah and then it says open, okay the cage of, rabbit is green colour but the bottom is yellow, uh the rabbit is a white rabbit


correct, ya, err one line okay the line is hor slanting


that means, from, right to left, wait wait what what do you mean right to left, slant okay the slant should say slash


no mine is the other way, mine is like you know a tick hor you know a tick right, tick hor mine is tick up one, tick up yours is your is, slash ha


wait wait this is call, yours is back slash, mine is normal slash is it, normal slash


that means tick is like tick up lah, correct so it's no no different ah, no difference, the the, which man, the saw ah okay he he he has his right feet is


forty five, is it forty five angle, when he's sawing, forty five and then his saw the saw is use using a right hand to saw, left hand touch the wood, he's he's sawing halfway already


okay lah then okay correct that's the difference ya lah can one two three four five, don't hang up okay, okay <mandarin>好:hao</mandarin> okay table okay


okay Roanna ya, the pink ah okay, okay can, small meaningless way to rebel ah


R E B E L rebel, oh rebelled ah oh okay, okay uh I think it is not to listen to parents that means going against them


and uh just because that is during teenage years, for example mum says uh to stay at home to help her but I would rather go out and play, so I will secretly, uh when she's not err noticing like she's in the kitchen or busy in the kitchen I will run away from home and play with our neighbours until


when I feel like coming home I'll come home, ya


curfew ah, ya because meaningless as in we do not think that err it matters to them, all we want is to have fun but for as a parent right now we are parent being a parent


we feel worried for the child and who they are with the company of friends so I think that is what, the question means meaningless but to a parent it means more than that


ya, now it's social media which is a killer you do not know who they are with and the people that they talk over social media, are they genuine or they are just a wolf behind the skin, ya okay next question


(ppb) the question I'm not sure about what is your biggest pet peeves because I do not know what's the meaning of pet peeves so I skip that, so what parts of your personality do you think have changed over time, which part of your personality


ya, ya, I think that comes with maturity and whether we, uh face the real world


ya, I think that is part of growing up which it also happens to me, but besides err being that patient I think the part that change over time is, learn to listen to the other party, err rather than, of course everyone want to express what we want to say


but sometimes if we take a step back and be objective about, the issues especially in work or now dealing with children as like have family, we tend to want to listen on how they feel the other party, and uh let them have err like two or three minutes to talk and express what they feel their views then


we take a broader view and we talk to them about how we view, so I I learn this err actually helps in communication, because err when fights err happens it's always about communication break down, so I think being a listening ear could also help them being the vocal so it


it takes two hands to clap that's why one to listen and the other to talk, so I think this also change for me, and as you said it also err patience also comes, part of this lah if you are patient enough to just give that other party


a minute to talk I think it solve a lot of communication breakdowns, listening, ya


yes, ya and also they use a lot of jargons that we do not understand, like, like, L M A O what does that mean lmao, what what does it means do you know it means


uh laugh my ass out, that is what I learn from them laugh my ass out laugh, my ass out L M A O lmao, ya so this are the new jargon


be chew be be chew, [orh] chill lah C H I L chill ya I mean that is one way that they want to say cool down, like chill chill right or there's one word that I learn leh no shit, sometimes you ask them a question yes or no you tell me right their answer is no shit so no shit means a no or a yes


no shit means yes, it's totally opposite of what we think so this is generation gap, ya you you try out you you try out today you tell, if if your your kids were to ask you that question yes or no you say no shit, and you look at the expression


no shit means no or yes, ya just like Indian right they shake their head actually it mean yes but you thought is shaking your head is actually no, that's the new generation, ya especially when you texting


ya, ya, what is the hardest thing that I have to explain to my parents ah


I think I can't recall hardest thing to explain ah, how to say, I can't think of any now, how about you


err but does it help, err they are the type of stern parents that say no means no


ya, but do they actually do a spot check on you, ya


ya that's right I think also the trust lah if we promise to be back by eleven PM and then we make sure that we'll be back, to show face lah, right


yes, yes and who they are with, ya it's ya


right, right and I'd rather sometimes invite them to come to our place instead, right right


yeah, that's right, that's right, okay can okay let me ask you err what do you wish still existed, from your childhood that means what are the things that you still miss


err during your childhood, still existed from your childhood which means that you still find it now, does it mean what do you wish still existed from your childhood


carefree-ness, ya


think we think too much ah, but I think it's like, for them I think it's the freedom, as well as no stress or less stress because these days everything is stress, even within the family you also feel stress


because everybody is, no the the working working ones will be you know have to work hard, work stress err and then to make sure that err we still stay on our job, and for kids of course we want all of them to do well in their studies and we loaded them with like


tuitions after tuitions so where is their own childhood, and even, ya it's very result orientated, and during my childhood I think it's like anything on the table anything you can see you can actually make it in a to a toy


but now everything that you need you just buy it off the shelf, ya I think it's the innocence like I I still miss the time that, okay after school I don't have to think of homework I just leave my bag I had lunch and then out


we go go to the neighbourhood and play seesaw with err neighbours, we can even use something like you know rubbish truck to push and, you know a friend is on top of the, the trolley and then you can push them around


so we can just play anything, seesaw or or even err B B hide and seek you hide and I seek you out, and within the flat right you can actually say okay you will hide but we only, limit ourselves to level one to level ten


so you just chase each other screaming around up and down the stairs, and that is really carefree but you won't find it now, you don't even play hide and seek these days right, they only play iPad or handphones or YouTube


so scary right, in the past


think how much, that's right


yes, shelf it ya, probably they do not know err hardship


and in our days is we are only given pocket money like few cents so we really treasured that, and uh we we really have to save to buy and think, is is it necessary so it's again err what you need and what you want


so they do not know how to differentiate the two, ya


hand-me-downs ya hand-me-down , we we don't dress up and ya, yes our sisters, ya and we don't mind, because we know that oh new shoes correct and our idea was like


new shoes new clothes is only for Chinese New Year CNY, but now it's any other day if they see whether sales or no sales they like it they want it, so, times have changed ah, and because we have gone through that childhood err and if we can afford our children now


of course what they want we just provide them, unlike those days when we really see our parents have to work hard for it every ten cent counts, ya that's what I remember from my childhood, so we are done with the pink cards so now we go to the purple one


ya purple is about silly my topic is about silly lah, ya okay you ask first


consumable weapon ah, that means like I'm fighting over, food ah with my siblings ah, weapon


of choice ah, I think if I want to fight, for food, I just snatch lah, ya we don't care and then


yes and then those days was like if you can quickly put in your mouth, and chew it and that piece of meat belongs to you ah, ya, or we fight is we quarrel, we punch each other


ya, and then we will nag lah, ya then we will nag but if if if let's say we are on good times ah we will Lom-Chiam-Pas lah, Lom-Chiam-Pas ah scissors paper stone see who wins will get it lah, then it's up to that person whether they want to share with you


ya that's that's what happens then ah, if not is you won't throw things at each other you won't use a fork to poke each other right, ya


my question okay, if you could hybridize two animals together hybrid what would they be and what would you call the animal that means hybrid two animals, ninja turtle ah


mutant ah, rabbit and kitten they are quite big eh


they are quite big eh, rabbit okay you mean what rabbit head ah, then err kitten body ah, that's very funny eh mutant eh, oh mutant is scary, actually I don't like hybrid ah I find that it's not nature it's like you are taking different genes together


very scary eh seen a lot of err hybrid mutant movies so scary, oh ya well I hate, ya but it becomes a icon ah


unless ah we talking about hybrid of the skills ah, that means this animal like err mouse ah guinea pig ah, okay they are supposed to be very smart, so who's the smartest animal in the world


pig ah, but people say you got pig brain ah <mandarin>猪脑:zhu nao</mandarin> ah, pig is supposed to be lazy


maybe they they are not ah, pig right piglet, ya piglet


err very smart that's why they're always been used for guinea pig laboratory test, ya hamsters, they always put food


err I don't allow pets at home, ya if they want to see pets I'll bring them to pets place ya, like I've ever brought them to the dog cafe so they just play with the different dogs


ya the Bugis ya, I think they go by hour I probably I paid twenty over dollars for one person more than half with a drink something like that, cute cute some are cute, small ones some are okay quite medium but different breed ah and these are really those pets that they take care not those wild dogs


not the big dogs, ya then some are lazy, medium ah, same here I don't like the saliva I saliva conscious ya so dirty


yes, err if you're under, ten or under a certain age an adult must accompany ya, that's right


cat cafe, I see, but cats are nice cats like Persian Persian cats, but I think dogs are cuter than cats leh


although cats ah you know they lick themselves is that they supposed to be, dog cafe not bad, she likes right then you can bring them there lah you just cuddle


one of the days ya now you can bring, off peak before the school the school holidays start, ya okay your turn to ask , okay


supernatural power ah the most useless ah, in some ways ah, I think is you are, useless, can move things is it considered useless


ya to move things right, ya for certain things lah for certain times lah but for, for like quite it can be quite scary ah if the person who seen it


will have a very hard then they will thought that you know something is moving some spirits is moving, ya, oh ya oh ya ya, I think last time ah when I listen to radio ah


I was so stupid they say <mandarin>隐形眼镜:yin xing yan jing</mandarin> ah, I thought it's invisible leh you put this on you can you are you are, you can people cannot see you eh but actually it's not the meaning is actually you can, see without your spectacles, so I really very silly because if you only listen ah radio means you listen and then you interpret in your own mind ah what it is ah


the show we see invisible is you make yourself invisible when you are in trouble, ah you hide, escape from the ropes


betray ah, ya just like those like have a fortunetelling skills, they can see of it the future, but it's quite sad if the person that they love and they know what's the future to be like


so but in a way is that if they can prevent go against the heavens or go against that right, then in a way it's good, but if not, I feel not good to know too much you rather <mandarin>一天过一天:yi tian guo yi tian</mandarin> ah


ya, ya, ya lor, ya, worse ah then it gonna affect you


like in those days ah they they go <mandarin>算命算命:suan ming suan ming</mandarin> ah, or they go the see the crystal ball ah, you want you you because human being is always have the anxiousness to know what is, in future like predict but once you know you feel very scared eh !huh! you mean my future will be like this ah


!aiyo! I don't want to be like this you know if it's something that is, ya you'll try to change if it's, bad but something is good of course you think that I do not need to know do anything now right I will have, the the fruits of labour so, you just wait lor so it can be good and it can be bad


right, ya, okay if ah in another dimension humans are now pets ah, what would be our treats, in another dimension ya what would be our treats ah


ya, ya humans ah look at the dogs, yeah grooming


yes, clothes and even you have, what dog dogs, boots ah, boots ah, oh spa


ya, pets and then uh when they poo right they no need to clean themselves one, the people would clean the shit for them, and the walk the dog, that's why I don't want to clean shit I already clean for babies is more than enough already don't ask me to clean shit


correct, ya I think pets now the treats will be being pampered, and as you said lah what spa pedicure, ya and then their dentists


and they eat vitamins also, certain vitamins, ya, it's can be costly ah and then they go grooming grooming is not cheap eh, depending on the size of the pet, ya, we don't we have to earn to pay to go grooming they are being paid ah to be groomed ah


correct, that's right or maybe in other countries it's not so stress as in in local one , maybe, ya


yup, what do you do ah your true love ah how will you know it's true love then ask the genie to fly you to the world with carpet lah


to meet this person , but there is this err, what which part of the world ya, ya, correct


that's right and then where whether it's hardship or, whether it's, paradise, right so ask the genie first ah, you give me my true love so where is that place


ya but there's this this lady who fly to this country, forgot what's the country Angmoh country to find, her what pen pal what ah then he she flew with the mother and the father reported them as missing person and then they got married


ya ya, Singaporean ya just fly to that country forgot what country, err it was some time already that news it was I think it's last year's news ya but then the father found out err after she wrote on her Facebook and said oh


she is actually safe with the mother in that country I think that country is, we we won't go one ah, that country, she didn't ya and the thing is because she left her savings in, local but that she just flew off with her mother and then they thought something happened to the two of them going to you know some country that you hardly go and then she married this


this Angmoh Caucasian, then after that then tell the father that they are safe and sound, ya it was in the news, ya true love ah that's a true love


eh ya in a way lor ya and then she pursue her her career there lah, I think she's like some kind of maybe designer or what ah, ya, brave ah, the mother is supportive of her ya then the father is not I think the father is a taxi driver I think so


that kind of story, okay, daring lor that means give up whatever that you have here and then just fly


oh ya ya ya, yes, ya, yes


yes, that's right


ya, India, to help the woman


ya, brought you up


of course, to take care, wants, ya


too far ya some kind of Timbuktu, place that we'll never think of ah, and also of like safety, whether it's safe to be there


ya thinking of home, home


#kuih kosui# like that ah, #kuih kosui# Bengawan solo sells ah, !wow! nostalgic ah so she thinks of home


of course, ya when you eat then you think of home, right, correct, ya same thing ah ya that's why, okay


the next question ah, you you can do a single thing without worrying about the consequences ah what would you think what would you do ah, if you do a single thing you don't have to worry about, the consequences what would you do, !wah! eh that that one it takes a lot of courage you know


am I right after twenty over years !wah! you take a lot of courage to think is it the right thing, but now leh do you think it's the right thing to do, you feel happier


financial, that's right, yes, kids


yes, yes yup, ya, the trade-off ya


yes, ya that's right


ya, and then you'll feel healthier because err you can do workout


ya ya ya and then err more sane ya eat healthy, ya and your kids will also get to eat err more home cooked food, oh that one no problem it's like trial and error then look at YouTube then err


sharing a recipe and how err err friends cook and get some tips from them, ya, because it's the same it take me a while to think what, I wanted to do and uh as you said lucky we have a group of good supporters friends ah


so ya it is very important, and then doing things together the common interest, and then we spaced out our time


moved ya, that's right


aloof, ya, ya ya you get to know uh more different friends along the way


ya and sometimes when you are in a situation right if you share this with a friends ah you'll find that you are not alone, uh people who have actually gone through the stage then they will be able to share the experiences with you, that's why


so it's good, ya


that's the best ya, correct, ya and most important is family support lah I mean if your husband supports you financially then your kids also support you I think we had the back, that means the family backing you then you just do what you want and be happier lor and take charge lor


that's what I think more important, you you will not so <NEN> eh


ya, agitated, ya because you bring your load back, ya, reaction to them, yes ya so now they feel like better lah mummy is like listening uh more


more calm, more holy, !wah! then they enjoy lah they don't have to walk home , ya, then now they say mummy I want to go you know watch movie then you'll just bring them along


uh !huh! then mummy have to find your own own activities ah


find lah you go and find cake making or bread making right it takes a lot of your time ah, oh yes half day gone already , !whoa! that's good ya I think is single thing without worrying consequences is if you think it's right you just do it


okay I finish with the purple now we are into the blue ah, ya, okay you ask


provoking ya, what what is the the what


about ah, provoking what in the other side feel strongly about ah, ya because we cannot talk about politics we cannot talk about issues ah so in general


the topic ah, that you think, we skip first ah ya because it's limited choice ya


uncommon ah, characteristics that I appreciate, appreciate the uncommon character ah


sometimes I depend on situations ah because personality is something that you cannot change that person, but you just have to accept the person but sometimes you feel that that personalities is, for example I have a friend that is


if they think they don't want means they don't want they stay firm on their feet ah, which is something that you will respect and admire, like I have friends who they are born in


when when we are in school days ah, but this friend is ah you for example we'll try all sorts of means ah to influence her to say eh, uh let's skip lesson ah let's go here and here play ah like, play truant or not but for them is law by law ah, ah if teacher say no means no ah must come to school means come to school ah so they will not play truant ah


so those law by law sometimes is you also take the, the you'll like after much convincing you just leave them alone because they they are, the kind of person that, is the charisma I call it lah, they are such a person that


things that of course they are they can be flexible at times lah but they just had the leadership quality that, no means no or yes means go ahead lah, that kind of personality that you look up to ah as a leader because you know that


you you just have the feel that, they are very Zai ah, that they would have thought the pros and cons and consequences before they make a decision


leadership yes like we say eh, four of us right so if we suggested a place to eat, like nobody can come to a conclusion right then just ask her lor, then she say go A means go A don't go B means don't go B so we just


listen to her lor, ah follow her lor <mandarin>准没有错:zhun mei you cuo</mandarin> lor, she still working, ya and she has the kind of air it's like you know, you she cannot be easily be shaken one, or be swayed one because for example like fashion style right her style is like this you know her style is like this one


you will not say eh wear a dress lah because she she's she looks good in a pantsuit and if you ask her to wear a dress it's, something that she don't feel comfortable to carry herself ah that that kind of feeling you see, that, pantsuit really look nice on you, than a dress lah example lah that that kind of personality that you look up to her lor you won't want to change her


her personality because that is she, ya, ya ya ya you're right she's she has a very strong character ya since school days until now, strong ya that's that should be the word strong but strong in the way that is good not those very negative like strong until hor hit the wall hor also


Pia the hit the wall that kind no it's not, if hit the wall hard already she knows she will know when to Gostan or before she hit the wall she already Gostan already that that kind of personality, ah not that kind of too stubborn ah, ah that's the kind of personality that I admire lor it won't go wrong one


ya but the opposite is I don't like is those people who, you know #buay gia chia# I don't like that kind of personality, like <mandarin>婆婆妈妈:po po ma ma</mandarin> they call it


ah indecisive I don't like ah ya, mean #gia chia# means #gia chia# you fix, fix your target it means go already ah that kind of person I prefer especially in decision making, because we take calculated risk before we make the decision right that should be the way ah


ya, that's how I feel, is that the question you ask ah, no okay have have one blue one ah okay, in a world with powers what superpower would you be most useful for society ah


superpower for the society, I know, no calamities no natural calamities, correct mother nature, nowadays you see earthquake here typhoon there goodness me and this time of the


the the the the year is always a lot of, ya that's right because this cause, a lot of damage and take over taken away a lot of lives


and it also cause a lot of like economic downtime, ya, so I think supernatural power is if you have the mother nature's supernatural you can actually prevent a lot of things, like sudden surge of the weather too cold


or too hot until forest fires, ya that kind, forecast ah, that would be good, ya


label ah


ah that's what I think also that's right, yes, ya, we're educated leh, correct


that's right, ya and then she is very resourceful actually among the group right she and Cheryl very resourceful because, anything that I need right I ask in the group chat she will provide the answer, very fast eh their fingertips and these are really (ppb) okay it's not aunty but it's educated homemakers ah


really and then very resourceful like whenever I say, correct and even I said I do not know how to get to the other place I'm here right then I just ask #Pei Ling#, she's my road navigator, fingertip leh whatever you need is you ask in the group chat people will give you a lot of err suggestions and answer already


and Lobang right, ya very amazing, check, ya, yes all, cheaper stuff ya like for example you need for party things you just ask ah she's like yellow pages ah


oh ya, yes, correct, ya, that's why but that's why uh people stereotype aunties is those you know uh


always got bargain ah, err Lelong Lelong then they know but it's not nowadays is, knowing where's the best buy, resourcefulness so that's the stereotype should change right


ya, green eh okay can right move on ah, ya okay would you want to change your destined career or your destined demise demise


destined career or destined demise I don't know what is demise D E M I S E what's the meaning ah, something not good right, destined, destined career it will change right because that is something that will change right


ya, ya correct like I've learnt if you cannot change the environment you have to change yourself, that means you have to move on to a place that you think you fit in that environment, right, correct


yes and and you, correct but then in the past is like <mandarin>铁饭碗:tie fan wan</mandarin> one ah is like if you if you lost this err, this job right you will be hard to get


that's why some people is very miserable if they are not happy in their current job right, they will stick to this kind of thinking right then, everyday is dragging their own feet to work ah, rather than you see, if you think


mid life ah, yup


yup, yup, they are dead wood, ya, opportunities to younger


younger breed ah, ya, redundant ah, brain ya they do the repetitive one ya


project , yes, yes, ya


yes, correct, yeah


ya, you're doing the job, ya


they don't process it ya


ya, ya, oh dear that's why how the company can progress


#pek cek# right ya can understand that, ya there are people that that are like that, ya leeches lor they call it, frustrated right


ya, ya, sorts of people, that's why, but now is you don't have to see and face this kind of


people which is you feel comfortable you are more sane ya which is good, K next one ah, every morning you can take a twenty minutes sneak, peek at the upcoming day what time do you look at


yup, twenty minutes sneak peek at the coming upcoming day that means err, uh what time would you look at, how to start your day


then you look at your what to do your planning for the whole day, right, yes


ya so you, you do a to do list or like if your shopping list you do a to do list


!wah! that's good , forgot, ya that's right too many things on your head you can get to forget, ya


write down rather than, ya then you don't have, oh ya some some of the people do that right, okay those ah, they could be err honestbee buyer shoppers that means they shop for honestbee


then there's a list that they have to get for the customers, and then they will, ya there there are such jobs eh honestbee shoppers


wait list, uh the pay is not good eh, not very good, that's right, ah the system is not good, so better not try , ya that's why so <mandarin>还是不要:hai shi bu yao</mandarin> lah


try not to, and I think to start a fresh day because err for morning person is to start early in the morning or even before you sleep, so that you have a list of what to do in the morning, that's what I did like before I I tuck in bed


I'll think the next morning err what food what breakfast to prepare and what are the things to do, so I tend to like uh plan ahead especially if I have like err exercise, in the morning so I have to plan about afternoon and even at night so I have to do it the night before


ya, yes and then like before the morning marketing is one night before I already have to plan the, the food that I need and what I need to buy and check on the fridge and what ingredients I I need to top up


so normally I do before, ya, a night before, correct and now I don't have a car so I'm on err two wheels, so I have to plan my trip well where to buy the stuff and look at the weather forecast, ya but NEA is not a trusted err forecast ah sad to see


they give opposite opposite forecast ah unlike like Japan Taiwan and Korea they very sharp one eh, what time will rain ah, updated ya so I guess is this NEA or no uh forecast err


agency should do something about it, correct, okay so your turn ah, I left no blue already, orange leh


eh orange is behind ah, ah okay so you starting at orange creative ah okay, three wishes ah


what would I wish ah, I think is the health that comes first, ya uh wish healthy for my close families ah, and also friends lah because health is the most important thing if you are not healthy you cannot do anything


right, then uh if you're healthy then you can look at uh, wealth how to generate wealth, for your future or immediate needs, right then third of course you get happiness lor


because you have healthy and your wealth lah so is happiness ah so these are the three, things that I hope for lor, because now we are aging ah so you see a lot of problems already


like my knee cap, so if I cannot walk properly I cannot do a lot of exercise I get #pek cek# again ah , ya money also no use and the the time spent to look for doctors, right, and then you cannot do a lot of things if you can't walk and you can't see


ya eyesight also very important you can't see, when you are young you never think of these things but as you age you think this is, ~portant especially our age right when we see our parents like uh breaking down ah the body system ah you feel sad eh


and then the kind of pain ah you cannot understand because you are not them ah, only when you you are in it ah the kind of pain then you can really appreciate, right like you used to be mobile then now you're immobile


right you see people can do a lot of thing but you aren't you see people travelling like now you have money but you don't have err, uh the health to travel, or you you don't have people to have time to bring you to places I think it's kind of very sad lah, so now if it's like we have the time ah uh and little bit money ah can go go first ah


don't wait, correct , yes, no no chance ya like for for sometimes like we go on like outings or what right whoever


can make it on the day right then just go majority just go the minority cannot then next trip lor, like like this coming err even JB trip right whoever can go go first, ya


ya, I can bring also I, ya because JB is is not difficult to go because you can take actually take a bus direct from Bugis


to right through the the the custom, then it city plaza city square itself you can already do a lot of shopping then after that can come back from there, but if you want to go KSL you have to take a a bus, from the terminal or take a Grab if four person is easier can just Grab but you must have data lah


ya so I'm I'm not sure how how Elaine is gonna bring us that's why I keep asking but she never reply, [orh] you you have been there before


oh I see, ya, I don't drive in because my husband doesn't drive in one so we always go by public transport, no no we don't drive in not at all


not at all we always take bus, take bus from Bugis the causeway bus then from there we, take bus in and take and bus out that's why is always have to look at the time and then before they come back ah, !wah! the three three thirty or four you have to leave the custom already if not you Kena jam ah


that's why I was wondering Elaine how how, or she always go there that means she must know the places well lah, like all those morning market I never go is that time that #Seok Hui# drive me there


then she's familiar with the second link so she drove me around near her house, ya ya she has a house there so it's easier lah, then put the thing in her house then she can also see see look look her house before go


so easier, ya, err saloon car lor saloon car, four lah, with together we are one two three four five lah total five lor


but then because hers is a new car leh so she might not want to drive, because that time I went with her is her her car is going, to be end of life already ya that's why that time when, both of us only suddenly we forgot where we park we thought we lost the car !walao! we panic my heart drop you know where is your car


where where where where then say okay okay okay think think think <NEN> because when we park the car ha we never see surrounding we just walk already, now we say we park the car make sure you remember where you park your car because Malaysia is not a safe place ah, so with her new car I think also haven't drive in yet


not safe ah, it's true eh, [orh] then she say don't worry mine is a old car one who would want to see a old car, then we slowly walk further oh there she her car is actually, like blocked by an a Malaysia taxi


at first my heart really drop where is your car you know (ppb) couldn't be we just, go go eat Makan Makan already come back ah the car is gone, no no no we only go Aeon the Daiso area which is a second link that most Singaporean go one


but this trip if you going via Woodlands is actually old causeway old causeway uh err city square and KSL is nearer, the other side, that's right, can ah can plan ah, yes right ya


okay creative ah imagine something you take for granted and give it a twist to make it more interesting, more take for granted and give it a twist to make it more interesting


cooking lor, you can actually do different cooking, !huh! shortcut ah


yes, !wah! like what what kind of shortcut


!wah! something I learn eh , sugar


then flour you just mix it in ah, oh but the sugar must be the fine one ah if not the <NEN> one is


not the rough one ah, oh next time I should try


ah so your kids love it, [orh] caramelise it, next time I try the last step put maybe half the flour, ya but cake making is is really interesting eh, sometimes you do a different steps the turn out is different or even you change the ingredient also different


ya, #huat kueh#


sometimes right that's that's why I say baking is really, I guess it's still edible is most important you don't waste the ingredients


steamer, !wah! lucky ah !wah! !whoa! you think on your toe


steam lor ya it is steam, ya it gives a different texture in the end, clever , yup


it still works ya, in in fact last time people bake cake is through a rice cooker, alright ya, good


they can, ya I tried before, bake cake ya, I tried, err ya my err err can bake cake I tried but I don't like it because, it kinds of like it doesn't really rise properly and the taste is err not as nice


so I I don't like to use rice cooker to bake, I still prefer oven, or steamer, that brand very nice the Japanese


rice cooker is very nice even like brown rice right they will cook it till soft than normal cooker, and then they don't stick, err don't need because err for them ah the Japanese one ah, they have this marking is for brown rice marking or or Japanese rice marking


then they have err functions that you press to brown rice or Japanese rice, ya so I find it's very good lor you just err key in the function, what kind of rice, then it turn out to be different like for brown rice they tend to actually err cook longer time


then the amount of water is slightly higher than the normal rice, so yesterday I cooked brown rice lah !huh!, nice I will mix the brown rice with white rice then brown rice I will actually soak first, then I'll mix with like half half lah one cup of brown rice one cup of white rice


so overall taste is still quite nice, a few hours lor, but because I know my rice cooker have brown rice function, so I not so worry because it will cook slightly longer, ah then different brown rice different texture eh


different brand, tiger or the elephant or tiger also ah ah ya ya Japan one ya, also nice I think as long as the elephant or the tiger is not bad


I recommended uh #Li Choo# to buy the elephant brand ah, she say no regret because she tell me any rice cooker would cook I said no #Li Choo#, the local brand ah tell you won't cook like that I always stick the rice stick you know you're wasting your grains you know


then when her local brand ah, uh give away already she bought this ah she say !wah! really very good I say I tell you very fluffy the rice you eat is really very fluffy so she bought and she's no regret ah


ya old fashion one, ya national ah, correct and then it's hard ah the good rice also cook until lousy rice you know


ya, ah you buy the Japanese brand really <mandarin>一分钱一分货:yi fen qian yi fen huo</mandarin> really


okay you buy during their sales, ah you buy during when there's sales like Taka sales or Isetan, err and then the even the elephant brand ah they have made made in, Asia hor and made in the the country of origin ah ah you go for the country of origin is more expensive but it's really there's a difference because the salesperson told me one


uh mine I do not know leh because he tell me there's a code leh, so mine I also half believe half not believe eh because I buy in OG OG one I think is not purely made in, Japan ah but it's good enough leh


ah but in but in Takashimaya right he really tell me the different and I see behind really one is made in MIC one is made in country of origin, #Li Choo# one I think she went Taka maybe is


is made in origin I think so lah, ya so now I very careful even I see Taka sales ah they would say made in Japan or not, ah then buy that one it's slightly more expensive but when they have sales it's really very good that's why that time I was asking I should I go, go there and buy or not because err one litre one is still


hundred over dollar hundred and fifty nine eh that's why I thinking very hard, because I've one that is can cook five five cups ah but I don't need sometimes only me and my boy so I only need maybe zero point five to one litre, so I was thinking should I spend that hundred over dollar buy a small one cooker just for to cook two person is it worthwhile or not


if not my big one ah I have to cook minimum two cup leh one cup cannot, ah so you must see the amount of uh rice that you cook for the family so you decide on the litre zero point five is too small, then one litre one point five or one point eight is the biggest one I bought the one point eight which can cook up up to ten cups


one to one point five okay lah one to one point five can, one point five lor ah last time my mother-in-law have to buy one point eight ah because cook for so many people


then now ah after she use my uh elephant brand ah she know the different ah !whoa! very very different ah, this one <mandarin>不会:bu hui</mandarin> stick to the, to the pot one ah I say of course how much the price different, you want to eat healthy and of long term of course you buy the better one I told her


then when they wash ah ask them to wash the rice in another bowl, then pour the rice into it because old people like to wash the rice inside and then it scratch the surface and then it stick, to the surface, so must tell them the proper way of washing


ya that's right, okay my question ah, if you could change any professional sport ah to make it more interesting ah what would you change, what kind of professional sport


what kind of professional golf, professional, any sport, make it more interesting


ya like golf people play what billiard rugby become football, what kind of other sport like oh a lot of different sport now what Chukka, Chukka Chukka is what what kind of sport, right


or three, contact sport, like like like it become, like basketball evolve into netball, there's no board you need throw into the net


you cannot dribble, sport


ya, cycling, ya you now like maybe like (ppb) they have, mix right like fight do is a combination of Tai Chi it's a combination of Piloxing


as well as Zumba and all this, ya they have it lor that means it's a combination lor, belly dance ah no leh last time #Li Choo# ever ask leh then they ever tried you know she and #Pei Ling# ever tried for belly dance !wah! very difficult because the waist ah


we don't know where to move the waist and the buttock eh, can be quite frustrating because, some people have that kind of flexibility at the waist ah but some cannot leh can !wah! cannot even get it right eh, yes


then you should go for the free one you try ah don't pay first, but it's very early, seven plus


but that time of the the kind of timing is like lunch and then I have to see, the boys' schedule leh, ya, ya because all these free one can go and try


classes not cheap eh then some more you have to buy, correct those, take MRT, ya, but for me is because, ya lor my little boy ah so I must see which day can which day cannot


long ah then I can go, ya because I cannot leave him alone, okay can, ya she tried before lah but can still ask lah


don't take handphone ah , in the olden day they don't have Internet they don't have wi-fi, take picture yes lah but then they don't have Internet leh they don't have world wide web


take camera ah, but then you need charger leh ya lor, oh video cam


you don't find it very eerie meh I I look at those mummy sure very eerie leh, like a lot of curse hor they have a lot of curse that's why they they they sleep in the, sphinx ah


like not Indiana Jones !wah! so many adventures ah scorpions and all that !ee!


doing, !wah! so you want to go to that era ah, seen


in the time machine, oh ya very heavy


candle or oil lamp, ya, the languages that they use the things that they do, I I thought of like take


err anything that they think is can whip out like example Thermomix, you bring your Thermomix there you can whip out a lot of different things ice cream instant ice cream you can even bake you can grind, you can cook a lot of things but they must have electricity ah


no electricity no use ya, that's why, [orh] you want to bring your camera and video there right, so I can bring back actually quite true right


what you can bring, and then show it, oh ya ah, that's why, okay imagine something that could be the next new fad what do you think could be the next new fashion


fad, F A D fad, new things like last time you have, bubble tea, then you have, new fusion food


what would be next new thing, insect ah, I still cannot accept eating it


insect ah, but the, in thing ah, !wah! I I I cannot imagine eh eating all these things eh, like now they eat what I think rainbow colour, then the food the drink can be in a bubble tea then drink


drink, colourings ya, correct or the nitrogen you eating the cookie in the nitrogen, right what else is new, ya what is new now


right, or all the food don't have styrofoam they put in a, or a a paper, bring your own box ah


plant based, it's it's biodegradable ah, eat it


ya, but enough meh, enough ah, oh enough ah, maybe this one they should bring it to the outer space and then test it out


mouth, or vending machine right, mouth


!wah! so high tech, ya, ya that's right , so that would be costly ah maybe for a start, maybe hor


ya, ya, capsule, oh clever hor


maybe ah if it takes off, good idea, idea lor ya, good ya eh eh last already the green one ah, ah okay


funniest thing ah, my parents ah, my parents my parents were the, the funniest thing ah


that they do, ya ya


ya, ya


why he fell, ya


oh glass lah cannot see ah, !aiyo! poor thing


bruise ah like people punch him ah, !wah! but must be careful ah old people, ya


correct ya walk into it, actually dangerous ah my brother ever walk into the this kind of glass door and then he broke everything, he just literally walk through and then got cuts on his knees I so he has to got it stitched


my grandmother's place so after that incident they changed the picture, they have picture for the sliding wall for the kitchen he literally walk through the door, ya scary then the shattered glass, ya


ya lor yours is hard ah , correct, ya, that's why, okay what so yours is funny but my my question is what is the most frustrated, you have ever been with a person


who's the most frustrated, people old locks, ah old locks right, or people who are freeloader lor for example you are in this project


you you lead the project but then those people just gain credit at the end of it without doing anything, then correct ah those people lah so sometimes you think of way how to Tekan these, people die die I must let you do something, and do the something that you have to you know get it done by hook and by crook lor


ya, so sometimes have to do some little tricks leh for example I have this colleague that is same rank as me right, then because our department uh this year was arrowed to do the staff D&D ah


so staff D&D is of course you must have games you must have err prizes lah right, then you must kowtow to people to sponsor right because you have limited budget right so I will arrow my colleague ah my peers ah to do the job


because she has to send out letter she have to call mah, then every now and then you will ask her for update lor and then this update you will CC to the boss lor so the boss will know who is doing what job because I put a timeline, everything must have a timeline, and you must have a reporting, so she have to do her part lor


correct or not because you cannot have a freeloader what, so you if you don't do your job that means it's always on a weekly report, that this person is blank one right you don't have update how can you don't have update when other people have updates you know


is Bo Pian one what, that's, lazy ya free credit lor then when the thing is good right ah they also get the credit lor, but the the people who do the most job you know !wah! <NEN> ah


you still die die have to make it done, he can see that's why he is a very report person so you give him figures you give him facts he can see so this is the way to make the freeloader colleague wake up lor, because you and me equal equal rank right but


you must really do something to proof that you are part of the team ah, it also it will reflect badly on her what and some more we are same age leh, same age eh ya lah, correct same age so must she must also ensure that she's working ah


she still working in that company ya but because my boss also left already so she report to another boss, ya she has her own pattern one ah, she is a survivor because she's very Heng ah luck is always on her side ah but for me is I always have to


you have to do more work one no choice lor, luck, luck ya that's right, okay !oi! I left last last two eh


one more okay then I ask you ah, really ah, sure, eleven, so we got half an hour for that thing never mind we finish these two first ah, so the free talk will be lesser lah


K tell a story that is funny in retrospect ah but may not have been funny at that time, is does that what it mean, tell a story that is funny but is not


don't want ah too dry then don't want ah skip skip my question, that you meet for the first time ah


story about me ah, meet for the first it depend on the situation and who the person we meet eh, then we tell about story right


correct let's say I've been I meet a parent, in the school of course I will tell them stories about the what's happening in the school that will interest them right, correct then if I meet people like, err into the same thing like baking of course I'll tell them about my experiences in my baking just like you tell me your eh